WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Relationship Recipe Fail

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date. Nowadays, most people who are

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook use it to either stalk their exes to

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<v Speaker 1>find out who they're dating now okay, purchase discount Chinese

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<v Speaker 1>made products off the marketplace, or angrily screen their political

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<v Speaker 1>beliefs in all caps while vowing to unfriend anyone who

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<v Speaker 1>disagrees with them. Everything that's happening in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>This all checks out, right, This all checks out, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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<v Speaker 1>find love.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they are the category? Are they're not in a

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<v Speaker 2>senior center?

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<v Speaker 1>It could be because that's what happened to one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Eric, Eric, which extremist chat group? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet your lady?

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<v Speaker 3>We met on the comment sections of a Facebook group

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<v Speaker 3>called gross Food?

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<v Speaker 2>Gross Food? I think that is the only thing left

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<v Speaker 2>that's fun on Facebook are the funny groups. You can

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<v Speaker 2>be part of.

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<v Speaker 1>That and the Brook and Jeffrey Facebook page. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>should go follow if you haven't already. But tell us

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<v Speaker 1>Eric about the girl that you met. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Samantha?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 2>What's funny is that I wanted to ask first about

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<v Speaker 2>the gross food that you both commented on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was thinking that, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was this chili burger and it just looks awful.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, someone's chili is like a weird brownish.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a real photograph friendly food. That is definitely for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, Eric sent us a picture of the so here

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<v Speaker 1>it is. I printed it out. It was exactly. It

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<v Speaker 1>looks like somebody took two buns and then reached into

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<v Speaker 1>a port. Basically, I will.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it lives up to the gross food filter

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<v Speaker 2>that you needed to post. Pretty disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys start talking about it?

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, is it bad that I want to

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<v Speaker 3>put that in my face? And I was like, twenty bucks?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I watch?

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<v Speaker 2>You? Guys were meant for each other because after I

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<v Speaker 2>saw that, oh wow, that's a visual.

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<v Speaker 4>I just looks gross.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you actually like you actually parlayed that into

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<v Speaker 2>a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, sort of. I mean we started dming for

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<v Speaker 3>a while and I really did want to hang out,

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<v Speaker 3>but she told me that she doubted I could actually

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<v Speaker 3>watch her eat it because live like three hundred miles apart.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh right, I was gonna say, like, what are the

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<v Speaker 2>chances you're in the same city?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what video chat dates are for?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is that what you guys did? Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>No? So we stayed friends on Facebook for a few

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<v Speaker 3>weeks and mostly just talk about food and getting to

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<v Speaker 3>know each other and stuff. And I was finally like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>what if I fly you out over my way and

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<v Speaker 3>we try to cook the chili burger together? Nice?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we're going to cook that thing together.

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<v Speaker 2>Fly that's what you're thinking. I think she's going to

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<v Speaker 2>spend a whole weekend with a stranger that she met

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<v Speaker 2>on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 4>Get a hotel or he can get her a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>They also talked for a few weeks, he said before

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<v Speaker 1>he made that offer.

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<v Speaker 2>Rights still like a lot of time with one person.

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<v Speaker 3>But so she was kind of surprised, but she eventually

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<v Speaker 3>said okay, and we showed the weekend to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, so you guys spent a whole weekend together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it like when you picked her up at

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<v Speaker 2>the airport?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I offered, but she didn't want me to.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh she's just trying to get or she just tried

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<v Speaker 2>to get a free weekend vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm ubering into the hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times we don't look our best as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as we get off of an airplane. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she needed some time to collect herself before the actual

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<v Speaker 1>dates Startinah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, when did you guys finally meet up?

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<v Speaker 3>She came over to my place and we have the

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<v Speaker 3>same chemistry that we had online.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Good, that's really important dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but then the disappointment started.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh why who was disappointed? Both of you?

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<v Speaker 1>Both of us?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the recipe was just awful. So the one that

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<v Speaker 3>we found said that you should bake the burger, like

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<v Speaker 3>the raw meat and the chili and the cheese and

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<v Speaker 3>everything together, all wrapped inside a tinfoil.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it sounds.

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<v Speaker 2>So and disgusting in the picture. I mean you're following

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<v Speaker 2>recipes based on gross food pictures? Like what do you

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<v Speaker 2>expect to get to.

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<v Speaker 4>The hilarious point?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, let's recreate?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you be disappointed?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I get? I mean, how did that turn out?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean after an hour it was a total mess,

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<v Speaker 3>horrible and it just wasn't so I put it back

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<v Speaker 3>in the oven and we tried cooking it some more

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<v Speaker 3>and thought we eat again later, but she said it

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<v Speaker 3>was getting late and she should get back to her hotel. Okay, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was like, you know, you can stay over,

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<v Speaker 3>It's all right if you want.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds romantic. I mean, was there any chemistry between

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<v Speaker 2>you two, like you're watching a show? Nothing happened, There

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<v Speaker 2>was no.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was a good kind of stry at the

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<v Speaker 3>beginning of it. But like as the anticipation for this

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<v Speaker 3>nightmare burger that we've been waiting for and talking about

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<v Speaker 3>for weeks, just rose, I just got nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>Wo.

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<v Speaker 1>So the horrible food that you plan to make was

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<v Speaker 1>so horrible that it actually ruined the day?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Wow, that grows emotionally as well.

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<v Speaker 1>How did doings that night?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I got real nervous, and I was like, you

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<v Speaker 3>want to play a board game? So I started pulling

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<v Speaker 3>some that and stuff, but she wasn't into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I don't want to fly to a

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<v Speaker 2>new city to play board games.

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<v Speaker 1>Inside.

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<v Speaker 2>You have taken her out at that point, shown her around.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to a real restaurant. Yeah, get some good food.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, playing candy Land with a stranger in

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment could be kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like Facebook, honestly, circle. So did you guys

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<v Speaker 2>meet up the next day?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>She took it early. Flight home and that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes she even paid the change for you to make

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<v Speaker 2>it happen. You're desperate to get out.

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<v Speaker 1>When that happens, there's a looking kind of bleak at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, but we've started off with worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like her still?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, I mean that's why I reached it out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I want another chance. That's something that isn't

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go terrible.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and you had chemistry the very beginning before you cook,

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<v Speaker 4>you said you felt the same chemistry. So there's something there,

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<v Speaker 4>but you gotta you gotta find it, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna help you find it. We're gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back, call Samantha for you and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, I think, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, how do two people hundreds of miles apart have

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<v Speaker 1>a common bond?

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you how it sounds deep, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>It's through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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<v Speaker 1>On a Facebook group dedicated to ugly meals. You're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about Eric and Samantha. They both commented on the same

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<v Speaker 1>chili burger and sparks flew from there. It isn't like

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<v Speaker 1>amazing that people can connect that way. Now, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do love that just any.

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<v Speaker 2>Type of food. I will continue to stay off Facebook

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't do it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't belong there. Flash forward to their wedding and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I married this woman because we both commented

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<v Speaker 1>on a burger that looks like it was found in

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<v Speaker 1>an outhouse at Coachell. I love this woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean said, you guys are getting way ahead of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>We couldn't even get through one successful night after he

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<v Speaker 2>paid for a plane ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>You can focus on all the negative stuff, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think life is pretty great. That's good.

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<v Speaker 4>Chili cakes.

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<v Speaker 1>It might not be that great because they did try

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<v Speaker 1>to recreate the recipe that they saw online, which took

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<v Speaker 1>so long that Samantha left and went back to her

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<v Speaker 1>hotel and then rebooked her flight home for the next morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your take on this type of messy love.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she just wasn't as dedicated to gross food as

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<v Speaker 2>you thought. Yeah, I mean, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, Eric, can you that you're too good for her?

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<v Speaker 2>She actually likes attractive food.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean we had a great conversation for like

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<v Speaker 3>multiple weeks about it. So I think we're on the

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<v Speaker 3>same page.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, you guys, just a long way for that

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<v Speaker 2>still to be a thing though, should have ended. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>did you connect over other things?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean we talked about a bunch of stuff

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<v Speaker 3>over the phone and buy a text the stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, broke a bunch of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, stuff off.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Now we're going to ask her a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff when we call Samantha and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update for you. All right, Eric, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely please, And like I know, you guys normally

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<v Speaker 3>do like gift cards or something, but if you could

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<v Speaker 3>get her just a flight out, that would be great.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's slow it down, Eric, have you looked at a

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<v Speaker 2>radio station's budget lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yeah, we'll work

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<v Speaker 1>on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ok.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just dial her number and see what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Samantha. Yeah, Hey, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? This is Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I may not listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we're on in your city. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>We're on in a lot of cities, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 4>We're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, and we do a segment here called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. We're trying to help one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners get in touch with you after you went. You

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<v Speaker 1>went out really far fro him. You flew three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>miles to hang out with him.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric called you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Yes, he thanks, You're fantastic.

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<v Speaker 5>That's so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Like it sounds like he went long

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<v Speaker 2>ways to make sure that you could come visit him.

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<v Speaker 2>He played for all.

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<v Speaker 1>Technically she went a long ways to visit him.

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<v Speaker 2>But you guys had a big connection, Like why would

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<v Speaker 2>you say yes to an entire weekend with somebody if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this is like really awkward to talk

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<v Speaker 5>about this generally, But like, I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 5>you guys are real people like you got.

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<v Speaker 1>Us we are robots. It's so sary. I loved it

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<v Speaker 1>so bad. Only a human could have possibly come up

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<v Speaker 1>with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're real.

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<v Speaker 1>We're real, and we're seriously trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners because he's really confused after your hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>He does not know why you ran back to your

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<v Speaker 1>hotel and then booked a flight home the next morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, but like, did Eric tell you the story.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we heard about your guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>make a chili berger at his apartment and it was

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<v Speaker 1>taking way longer than expected, started to get late. He

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<v Speaker 1>tried pulling out some board games, and you had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we really know.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I had to go because he kept asking me

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<v Speaker 5>to stay the night. And that was the first time

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<v Speaker 5>he met.

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<v Speaker 2>Right he said, he mentioned that he told you he

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<v Speaker 2>could stay.

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<v Speaker 5>But he kept asking me, and I was like, Eric,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know you, like, this has been a nice date.

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<v Speaker 5>And he was like pouting. He was like doing the

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<v Speaker 5>guy thing of like, oh, but like you came out here,

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<v Speaker 5>like I really like hanging out with you all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was making you feel guilty about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And I'm like, I don't even know you, like

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<v Speaker 5>you almost like you invited me here and your false preetenses.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry, that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>We did not know that he made you feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, I don't know if Eric realizes he made

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<v Speaker 1>you feel that way either, But we can ask him

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<v Speaker 1>right now because he's on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, I I didn't need to make you feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just trying to be hospitable.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's well argue that I wasn't like answering your talk.

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<v Speaker 5>Staffer should say something, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, cool, all right, everybody, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not a man of many words. Maybe you should

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<v Speaker 2>have like talked to her more. I mean, maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>why she felt uncomfortable, because the only thing that was

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<v Speaker 2>coming out of your mouth was that question, over and

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<v Speaker 2>over again.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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<v Speaker 1>asked that question.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess. I mean, I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think it's that rude to offer someone to not have

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<v Speaker 3>to go drive their car rental car around a city

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<v Speaker 3>they don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I said that I didn't want to stay.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm actually really glad I got a hole toel

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<v Speaker 5>because what kind of possession? What did that put me in?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Oh, you paid for your own hotel? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but I mean I had a spare betterom for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I like go to the details about everything,

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<v Speaker 3>but probably should have.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, who, I mean, I wouldn't even have done that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know you. I'm like single going into a

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<v Speaker 5>new city that I don't know, and then like it

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<v Speaker 5>would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 5>like officially dating, but we learn't and this was just

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<v Speaker 5>like a first time thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, well do you want to be my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Eric? I don't think that was what she meant. I say,

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<v Speaker 1>although it is a good question, would you have an

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<v Speaker 1>answer for him, Samantha, No, stop, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to do that over the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, the radio move wasn't good. Maybe you should text

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<v Speaker 1>your the question.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that he was purposely trying to make

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<v Speaker 2>you feel uncomfortable. But Eric, I do think if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to invite a woman into your city, you have

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<v Speaker 2>to go the extra mile to make sure she feels

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<v Speaker 2>safe and that she feels comfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Coming from someone who has offered and flown girls out

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<v Speaker 4>to cities, Okay, you as.

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<v Speaker 1>They have a hotel. No, absolutely not. You do your thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about communications. Show them that gesture. Take the

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<v Speaker 1>front door off of the hinge, just so that you

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<v Speaker 1>can get out whenever you want. It is wide open.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Sam, maybe it just didn't cross his mind,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like guys don't have to think about that

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<v Speaker 2>when they go into new cities to meet people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, well, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean I feel like I've just totally screwed the pooch

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<v Speaker 3>on this one and there's no real recovery. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I'd still like to have a second chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that a sorry I heard in there?

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<v Speaker 1>I heard tell me about pooch screwing. But let's call it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's call it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. No, this is just too weird. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like it doesn't make sense to like have strangers i've

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<v Speaker 5>never met speaking for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it is one of those things you

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<v Speaker 2>got to go with your gut on this and that

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<v Speaker 2>that's what your gut's telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I just don't want this potential relationship to go

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<v Speaker 1>down in flames. Because so few people in this world

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<v Speaker 1>actually bond over roast food.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a whole page for it, Jeffrey. It seems like

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<v Speaker 2>there's like hundreds of thousands, how many.

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<v Speaker 1>Of them actually fall in love?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently we wanted it to be one, Okay, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I really wanted to try a neat ball

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<v Speaker 3>shake that I saw with her.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Eric, I think we're done here.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha, because we would offer to pay for that meatball

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<v Speaker 1>shape on your second day.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I can afford to make a meatball shake

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<v Speaker 5>on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were talking to money bags.

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<v Speaker 2>Samantha makes her own meatballs. Jeffrey, excuse me, it's broken

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that may have been the most cringe worthy moment

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<v Speaker 1>of the entire year.

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<v Speaker 5>It would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 5>like officially dating. But we learned and this is just

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<v Speaker 5>like a first time thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, will do you want to be my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Is helicitening right now? I had to live through at once.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the one who said it. Honestly, Thank god she

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<v Speaker 1>said no to that, because if that worked, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have thrown my headphones down and been like, I'm done

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<v Speaker 1>with this job. Isn't really that easy?

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<v Speaker 2>What happened to you? All? Rooting for love.

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<v Speaker 1>Over again love? He didn't even sound like he was

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<v Speaker 1>into there for most of the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a guy who's like

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<v Speaker 2>super passionate maybe about anything, like.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, to be a romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean I feel like he learned a

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<v Speaker 2>lot from this.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, not.

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<v Speaker 2>Pressuring people to stay at his house when they.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want to make people feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he actually learned that lesson.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, his lessons like, next time ask her to be

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<v Speaker 4>my girlfriend, Yeah, fly her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But we can help you learn some important life

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<v Speaker 1>lessons in your dating life.

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<v Speaker 2>You just make fun of you afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, you'll do it all. Just email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who wasn't calling you back

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and