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Speaker 2: This all checks out, right, This all checks out, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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Speaker 2: Are they are the category? Are they're not in a

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Speaker 1: It could be because that's what happened to one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Eric, Eric, which extremist chat group? Did you

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Speaker 3: We met on the comment sections of a Facebook group

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Speaker 2: Gross Food? I think that is the only thing left

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Speaker 1: That and the Brook and Jeffrey Facebook page. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: Samantha?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Samantha.

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Speaker 2: What's funny is that I wanted to ask first about

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was thinking that, Okay.

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Speaker 2: What was it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was this chili burger and it just looks awful.

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Speaker 2: Not a real photograph friendly food. That is definitely for sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it lives up to the gross food filter

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Speaker 1: How did you guys start talking about it?

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Speaker 3: She was like, is it bad that I want to

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Speaker 2: You? Guys were meant for each other because after I

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Speaker 2: So did you actually like you actually parlayed that into

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is that what you guys did? Uh?

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Speaker 3: No? So we stayed friends on Facebook for a few

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Speaker 3: we try to cook the chili burger together? Nice?

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Speaker 1: They also talked for a few weeks, he said before

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the recipe was just awful. So the one that

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Speaker 1: So the horrible food that you plan to make was

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Speaker 2: You have taken her out at that point, shown her around.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to a real restaurant. Yeah, get some good food.

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Speaker 2: That sounds like Facebook, honestly, circle. So did you guys

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Speaker 3: She took it early. Flight home and that was it.

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Speaker 2: Do you like her still?

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Speaker 3: Of course, I mean that's why I reached it out.

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Speaker 4: Well, and you had chemistry the very beginning before you cook,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna help you find it. We're gonna play a song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back, call Samantha for you and get your

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Speaker 3: All right, I think, all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, how do two people hundreds of miles apart have

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you how it sounds deep, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: It's through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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Speaker 2: I mean said, you guys are getting way ahead of yourself.

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Speaker 1: You can focus on all the negative stuff, but I

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Speaker 4: Chili cakes.

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Speaker 1: It might not be that great because they did try

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Speaker 1: Saying, Eric, can you that you're too good for her?

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Speaker 2: Let's slow it down, Eric, have you looked at a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yeah, we'll work

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Speaker 1: Let's just dial her number and see what she has

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Speaker 1: to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Samantha. Yeah, Hey, Samantha.

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Speaker 1: What's up? This is Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: We're a radio show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, and we do a segment here called a

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. We're trying to help one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners get in touch with you after you went. You

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Speaker 3: Eric called you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, he thanks, You're fantastic.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like it sounds like he went long

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Speaker 1: Us we are robots. It's so sary. I loved it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're real.

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Speaker 1: We're real, and we're seriously trying to help out one

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, but like, did Eric tell you the story.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I had to go because he kept asking me

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Speaker 2: Right he said, he mentioned that he told you he

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Speaker 5: But he kept asking me, and I was like, Eric,

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Speaker 5: And he was like pouting. He was like doing the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I'm like, I don't even know you, like

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Speaker 1: We did not know that he made you feel that way.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I don't know if Eric realizes he made

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I I didn't need to make you feel uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to be hospitable.

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Speaker 5: And it's well argue that I wasn't like answering your talk.

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Speaker 5: Staffer should say something, Oh.

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Speaker 1: All right, cool, all right, everybody, it's hard.

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Speaker 2: You're not a man of many words. Maybe you should

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Speaker 1: Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess. I mean, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I said that I didn't want to stay.

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Speaker 5: So I'm actually really glad I got a hole toel

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Speaker 5: because what kind of possession? What did that put me in?

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh, you paid for your own hotel? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, but I mean I had a spare betterom for you.

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Speaker 5: I don't know you. I'm like single going into a

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, well do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: answer for him, Samantha, No, stop, it.

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Speaker 2: Not like that.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to do that over the radio.

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Speaker 2: I don't stop.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that he was purposely trying to make

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Speaker 4: Coming from someone who has offered and flown girls out

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Speaker 1: They have a hotel. No, absolutely not. You do your thing.

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Speaker 1: It's all about communications. Show them that gesture. Take the

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Speaker 2: I mean, Sam, maybe it just didn't cross his mind,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, well, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean I feel like I've just totally screwed the pooch

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Speaker 3: I'd still like to have a second chance.

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Speaker 2: Was that a sorry I heard in there?

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Speaker 1: I heard tell me about pooch screwing. But let's call it.

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Speaker 1: Let's call it.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. No, this is just too weird. I feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it is one of those things you

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Speaker 1: Well, I just don't want this potential relationship to go

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Speaker 2: There's a whole page for it, Jeffrey. It seems like

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Speaker 1: Apparently we wanted it to be one, Okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean I really wanted to try a neat ball

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Speaker 5: No, Eric, I think we're done here.

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Speaker 1: Samantha, because we would offer to pay for that meatball

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Speaker 1: shape on your second day.

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Speaker 5: I think I can afford to make a meatball shake

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we were talking to money bags.

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Speaker 2: Samantha makes her own meatballs. Jeffrey, excuse me, it's broken

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, that may have been the most cringe worthy moment

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Speaker 5: It would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: Well, will do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: Is helicitening right now? I had to live through at once.

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Speaker 1: She's the one who said it. Honestly, Thank god she

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Speaker 2: What happened to you? All? Rooting for love.

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Speaker 1: Over again love? He didn't even sound like he was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a guy who's like

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Speaker 4: I don't know, to be a romantic.

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Speaker 1: For example, not.

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Speaker 2: Pressuring people to stay at his house when they.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to make people feel comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he actually learned that lesson.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, his lessons like, next time ask her to be

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Speaker 4: my girlfriend, Yeah, fly her out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But we can help you learn some important life

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Speaker 2: You just make fun of you afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Sure, you'll do it all. Just email the show. We'll

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Speaker 1: call the person who wasn't calling you back

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and