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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in. It's Monday Funday. The teams

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Speaker 2: all here.

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Speaker 3: It's a Monday Funday and I am in my fillicular phase,

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Speaker 3: which means I am on wago today fillicular Tanya.

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Speaker 2: That's right, hang loose baby, So what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: You're off your What is it? Where is that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: It means I just finished my period. So I am

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Speaker 3: just like thriving and all. Like, I'm just like firing

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Speaker 3: off on all cylinders.

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Speaker 5: Why is it called that? Is it? Is it hair related?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Like no, I don't know. I haven't done much research

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Speaker 3: into the naming of each phase and why it is

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Speaker 3: named each thing.

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Speaker 2: I just that's the next phase of her journey. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I see is going into the whys of the names.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. But I really do feel like just kind of

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Speaker 3: reinvigorated in a way because I just finished Rachel Rogers,

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Speaker 3: who we had on the podcast. While I just finished

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Speaker 3: the book.

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Speaker 2: Do I need to read?

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Speaker 6: I met?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I want to do this new thing where

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Speaker 2: I read for like a specific amount of time A day,

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Speaker 2: and I do that the first like I wake up,

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Speaker 2: don't look at my phone, and just read something that

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Speaker 2: is not like, you know, I love to read fiction books,

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Speaker 2: but something that's good finish.

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Speaker 3: But this book is so good. I find myself, I

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Speaker 3: find it hard for me to just like sit down.

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Speaker 3: I had a little bit of time last week and

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Speaker 3: so I was like, you know what, I really want

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Speaker 3: to just kind of invigorate myself and dive into this book.

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Speaker 3: And like, honestly, she gives such tangible tips in there,

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Speaker 3: and like it's really good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love when when there are books, especially in that

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Speaker 2: kind of talking about because her book is kind of

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Speaker 2: about financial freedom and being a like millionaire woman as

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Speaker 2: a woman. Yeah, And I like when authors and writers

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Speaker 2: give tips that are actually like doable as opposed to

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Speaker 2: being like just set up your four oh one K.

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Speaker 2: And you know, it's like sometimes it's so over the

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Speaker 2: everyday tips that can lead to big success, it's it's nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And she like really talks about kind of like

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Speaker 3: this stig, like this like stigma about women and money

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Speaker 3: and like because I think for me, I always feel

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Speaker 3: like sometimes I like to like give, I like to

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Speaker 3: give gifts, and I like to, you know, get to

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Speaker 3: different charities and do things with my money. And she

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Speaker 3: was like, the more money you make, the more you

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Speaker 3: just like I'm you know, I I don't know, there's

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Speaker 3: this like weird thing about it with me.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like I feel grateful to do what

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Speaker 3: I do. And like she's like, there's this hard thing

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Speaker 3: with women. They don't they don't feel like that deserve

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Speaker 3: to earn as much as they do. So you price

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Speaker 3: yourself lower, you do things for free or you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, like all that kind of stuff. And

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Speaker 3: so she's like, the more you earn, the more you

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Speaker 3: can give back and like give to other people, you know,

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Speaker 3: Like I try. I think I try to, you know, people,

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Speaker 3: there's just like women in my life that are starting

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Speaker 3: them to do things and like help them grow. And

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Speaker 3: so it's like you can kind of keep doing that

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Speaker 3: on a larger scale.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I feel like you do a really

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Speaker 2: good job of even just talking about it on your

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Speaker 2: Instagram and promoting people and like showing people so that

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Speaker 2: then they can get more business from your followers. I

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Speaker 2: feel like you do a really good job about that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: So even if you're not like giving money specifically, which

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Speaker 2: I feel like you do that too, you're at least

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Speaker 2: like promoting people. I want to be better about that too.

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Speaker 2: What have you been doing? I feel like I haven't

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Speaker 2: seen you because we recorded the podcast on a Wednesday

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Speaker 2: or Thursday, and then.

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Speaker 3: Didn't we go to dinner after that?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so, oh oh my god on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Okay, actually, so this is actually very funny. So we

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Speaker 3: went out to dinner. It was Becca, myself and Red

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Speaker 5: That's a great dinner party right there.

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Speaker 3: You're with your best friend and your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: I was just like exploding the entire time, right And

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Speaker 3: it's so funny. I posted a picture of you and

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Speaker 3: Red Star on my Instagram and like this one girl

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Speaker 3: messaged me and was and said, like make sure that

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Speaker 3: you know Becca and him, don't get too closed. You

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Speaker 3: never know, and I was like, I don't know who's

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Speaker 3: about them being closed.

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Speaker 2: Well I remember when you you post like a video

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Speaker 2: or something. His arm was on my chair and someone

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Speaker 2: made a comment, and I'm like, I guess that might

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Speaker 2: if they're best friends, they don't trust. I'm like, we

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Speaker 2: that's so foreign to me to even think that way.

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Speaker 3: Like there's no one I trust more than you, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I was like, I'm gonna post even

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Speaker 3: more pictures of the two of them together. Like, but

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Speaker 3: we had so much fun. So we had dinner and

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Speaker 3: then we went back to Red Star's house and we

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Speaker 3: played this game where we all wrote down questions and

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Speaker 3: we put them in this bowl, right, and you pick

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Speaker 3: out the what's so funny? Mark? Why are you shaking

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Speaker 5: Why can't you just play like Monopoly or something.

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you want to make a TikTok.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did want to make a TikTok. And we

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Speaker 5: Play taboo.

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Speaker 3: Becca just wanted to Becca wanted to make a TikTok,

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Speaker 3: red Star wanted to just like chill and drink, and

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Speaker 3: I wanted to play this game. So we played the

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Speaker 3: with them again, would you take the billion dollars?

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Speaker 2: That was my question.

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Speaker 3: So Red Star answered it and he said no, but.

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Speaker 2: He would not he would stay. He would stay, he

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Speaker 3: Because he's like, I want to He says something about

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Speaker 3: like I don't remember what he said, but he's like

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's very yeah, a good answer.

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Speaker 3: It's a good answer. And then I answered it and

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Speaker 3: I said no, because yeah, obviously I'd rather be how

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Speaker 3: without him, like no chance. Guess what? Becca answered?

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Speaker 2: You know what, though, I've I've also thought about this

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Speaker 2: that is and what you can do with that money. Like,

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Speaker 2: I really don't think like you, hear, mil I would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would never sacrifice my relationship for a

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Speaker 2: But like, I don't even think people can grasp how

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Speaker 2: I believe that there is happy Like there there's so

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Speaker 3: That's going dark.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying I think there's so many people

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Speaker 8: I don't think there's anything wrong with that answer. I

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Speaker 3: Beck was like, yeah, it takes a billion.

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Speaker 3: So now that's actually like so sad because over the

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Speaker 3: Red Star goes I have a twist that we need

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Speaker 3: And I was like, what is it? And he said,

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Speaker 3: if you were given a billion dollars and you had

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Speaker 3: to give phoebe away forever, would you take the billion

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just thinking because wow, no, because like.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of dogs in the world.

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Speaker 9: Dogs.

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Speaker 2: I also it's the same concept of like there are

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Speaker 2: ninety five P and Phoebe. I it's not like it

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Speaker 2: would be an easy decision, like I wouldn't do it

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Speaker 2: and just be like it would be like heartbreak, Like

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Speaker 2: I am aware that I would feel heartbreak for an

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Speaker 2: billion dollars. Think of how many doggies I can say

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Speaker 2: be like, listen, I this I can help. I can

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Speaker 2: help so many people with this. And I hope that

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Speaker 2: as a human being there's an you know, understanding. But

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Speaker 2: I still couldn't believe that both Donia and rent Star

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Speaker 3: Wasn't quite that mine was that his was like I

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Speaker 10: It can get you pretty damn close.

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Speaker 2: and hard for me to explain that to my innocent, precious,

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Speaker 3: I mean, Mark Easton, tear it away in or it's

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Speaker 5: Well it's not, it's not.

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Speaker 5: It's a very different situation.

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Speaker 8: So there's no amount of money that would be worth

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Speaker 5: A half decades.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Mark, So what you're telling me twenty four years

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Speaker 2: You could, you could give them some of the money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't romantically be with your wife again.

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Speaker 3: No, you can't see the wife again. You can't see

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Speaker 8: No, no chance. There's no amount of money. My love

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Speaker 10: I can't if I cannot see her, like if I

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Speaker 3: Could buy, buy an account that you can hire it

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Speaker 10: Like I'd hire some some nitwith off Instagram and he'd

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Speaker 10: So like, I uh, I think I'd have to say

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Speaker 2: I respect, I respect everybody's answer. I think that you know,

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Speaker 5: That would be weird.

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Speaker 3: Oh by the way, Red Stars like also really sad

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Speaker 8: On, he did not make fun of your He honestly

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Speaker 9: So the best part is that you started the whole thing,

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Speaker 2: Because but you know, towards an innocent person who still

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Speaker 2: Pretty It feels like it's in here for the long haul.

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Speaker 3: Damn.

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Speaker 2: It's nice though. I get to try so many foods

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Speaker 2: Well, So, speaking of that night, we filmed a dance

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Speaker 3: How long was that TikTok? And the minute?

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Speaker 2: Tanya, well, Red Star was like more into learning it.

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Speaker 3: You do these dances the brat all the time, this

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Speaker 3: And we slept in the next day till ten am,

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Speaker 6: Maybe.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I went up out of courage. Bagel and

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Speaker 2: So and then everyone was saying that Red Star looks

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh Daniel Ricardo for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody sent me this DM and they go, why

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Speaker 2: I actually think the merge of Danny Ricardo and Luke

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad that was my mission because this was

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Speaker 2: To August was the most Sanzi. I'm August twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 2: I did. I was drunk, happy and I had a

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Speaker 3: Love to hear it.

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Speaker 2: Today we're talking to Derek Uff, which I'm excited because,

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Speaker 2: and we have Derek Cuff scrubbing in. Today. We were saying,

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Speaker 4: I know it's twenty five years ago and that has

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Speaker 6: Ladies.

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Speaker 4: It's let's to see you. Nice to see it, used

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Speaker 3: Nice to see you too. You're actually like truly one

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Speaker 6: You better stop that with that flattery because I'm shakes.

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Speaker 6: You didn't get all ready, and I'm all, I'm all embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: No, it's true because I think that you. I mean,

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Speaker 3: obviously we're gonna get into all the things that you

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Speaker 3: You're just like a good human. You're humble, you're appreciative

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Speaker 4: That's really nice. Thank you, that's really kind of you.

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Speaker 5: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching on TikTok so I feel like I'm part

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Speaker 2: and that's that's. I'll follow up Tanya's sentiments with.

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Speaker 4: That thank you.

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Speaker 6: Well, I will say that the TikTok world has also

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Speaker 4: I'm a door that I yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's is TikTok easy for you because you're a dancer.

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Speaker 2: It's gotta be you know.

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Speaker 6: Actually, I think because there's so much dancing on TikTok

445
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 6: and that's kind of how it became big.

446
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,439
Speaker 4: Was that like the dance craziest.

447
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 6: If you actually go through my TikTok, I dance very

448
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 6: little on TikTok.

449
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 4: There's very little dancing happening.

450
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 6: It's very much like me doing all like silly things

451
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 6: and dorky things because I feel like it's like the

452
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,159
Speaker 6: place where I can like release those that that stuff,

453
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 6: you know.

454
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,439
Speaker 4: But yeah, the dancing, and to be honest with you,

455
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 4: a lot of the.

456
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 6: Dances, like the really trendy ones, you know, I don't

457
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 6: really do like a lot of.

458
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,439
Speaker 4: Them because they're kind of hard.

459
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 6: They're kind of No, No, it's not because they're hard,

460
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 6: because I'm gonna be honest with you, it's they're not hard.

461
00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 4: It's it's it's because they're therefore a different I'll say this.

462
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: No, no, we know, I know exactly what you're saying.

463
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 2: It's a level what you do.

464
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 6: If I'm doing like, if I'm doing all this stuff whatever,

465
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 6: you know, I'm I look like the creepy uncle in

466
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 6: a nightclub that shouldn't be there. It's like, hey, don't

467
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 6: do that, you know, cringe, bro Okay, But here's the.

468
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 5: St I do.

469
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 6: The dorky stuff, and so it's like, Okay, he's like

470
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 6: a dorky uncle, a dorky or like a dad joke,

471
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 6: you know.

472
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 2: Right right right. I love watching because you dance with

473
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 2: Haley your girlfriend, and y'all are like you make if

474
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 2: y'all do TikTok dances, you elevate them to a level

475
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 2: where I'm like, oh, is that what it's supposed to

476
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 2: look like? When a professional doesn't like.

477
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 6: Well, she she she's just getting into it now, and

478
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 6: she like one day she just blasted out a few

479
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 6: of them and was doing them and I was like.

480
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 4: Babe, these are unbelievable. I was like, you're making me

481
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 4: look bad.

482
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 6: I mean, I've been doing this for over a year now,

483
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 6: and you do it five minutes and you're crushing it.

484
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 4: I love it.

485
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: It's funny because I feel like when there's couples on TikTok,

486
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 2: there's always one who's like super into it, and then

487
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 2: there's one who's like, I'm just doing this because my

488
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 2: significant other wants me too, And I feel like you're

489
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 2: the one who's super into it and she's like, I'm

490
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: just h.

491
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Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure.

492
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Speaker 6: I'd always pulling like, hey man, we do this tik

493
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 6: talk with me.

494
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 4: She's like, okay, okay, do you.

495
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 2: Are you doing? Are you recording like zooming with us

496
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 2: on your phone or a computer?

497
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 5: My phone?

498
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I wanted to. I wanted you to look at

499
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 2: something because Tanye me, Tanya and her boyfriend did a

500
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 2: TikTok dance.

501
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,399
Speaker 3: So I'm not I'm not. Becca's very into TikTok, and

502
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 3: I'm more of a watcher, like I have an account

503
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 3: and I like to watch things. I'm just not a

504
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 3: I'm not a participant in it. You know, I feel you,

505
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 3: I feel you, thank you. And so uh Becca has

506
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 3: been just kind of in a little bit of a

507
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 3: just i'll say.

508
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 2: Funk and all.

509
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 3: She wanted to do this one night we all went

510
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 3: out to dinner. She's like, I really just want to

511
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 3: make this TikTok dance. And so I was like fine,

512
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 3: but I was just like also, like way drunk. I

513
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 3: was five drinks in. It was I don't even know

514
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: eleven pm or like way past my bedtime. And she's like,

515
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 3: I just want to make this TikTok. So I said okay.

516
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 3: And my boyfriend is not a dancer or on TikTok either,

517
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 3: and so just a total disaster train wrap.

518
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 2: I wanted to see what you, as a dancer, thought

519
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 2: would think of our movements.

520
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 6: But here's the great but honestly is that it's it's

521
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 6: all fun, man, it's all good.

522
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 4: We're not there to like be like that's not very good.

523
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 4: You're just like, oh, this is the place.

524
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 6: To have fun and enjoy your stuff and honestly not

525
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 6: taking yourself too seriously, which certainly I don't on that

526
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 6: app Yeah, it's a place for me just to have fun.

527
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 4: But I'm sure it was wonderful ladies.

528
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, just a few people said we

529
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: were all doing different chances. But it's fine.

530
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 3: You know, like you can see it in so one's

531
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 3: eyes that they're just not there. That's what I look like.

532
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 3: I was just in another on another planet, for sure.

533
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 2: I love it so outside of TikTok, which I feel

534
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: like what you've described is almost like your outlet to

535
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: just have fun. You don't even like ticket seriously, just

536
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 2: a creative outlet. What I mean, I feel like you

537
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 2: are working non stop. I don't know how you have

538
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 2: the time to do that stuff for fun because it

539
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: takes me forever. What is going on in your life?

540
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 2: What are you working on right now?

541
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 4: Well, so many things.

542
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 6: Actually, the main thing I'm focusing on right now is

543
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 6: my biggest residency that's coming up, which starts in September.

544
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 6: September twenty second is my first show at the Venetian Hotel.

545
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 6: And I'm excited.

546
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 4: And Haley and I we've.

547
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 6: Been she's doing the show. She's doing the show, and

548
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 6: we're rehearsing every day. We're practicing, we're stretching, like like

549
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 6: we're doing the whole routines, getting our bodies into like this,

550
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,160
Speaker 6: like into show shape.

551
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 4: Because you could work out, you can do yoga, you

552
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,640
Speaker 4: know these things, but.

553
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 6: Nothing will prepare you for dance, like actually dancing, like

554
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 6: as far as your fitness, your cardio, your flexibility, your.

555
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 4: Mobility, all the things you know.

556
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 6: So we're in there, we're dancing, and I get work

557
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 6: on the lighting, the led screen content. I got my

558
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 6: dances coming together, the band working on. I just recorded

559
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 6: a new song which is a cover, but I had

560
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 6: like an orchestra played strings and like big drums and

561
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 6: it's just it's beautiful.

562
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 4: And yeah, I'm really excited to share that. I share

563
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 4: that with everybody.

564
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 6: And I was actually just in Vegas at the Venetians,

565
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 6: going around the hotel, just oping it out, seeing where

566
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 6: my new home is gonna be, and I'm really looking

567
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 6: forward to So it's gona be a lot of fun.

568
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 6: And then I'll be judging Dancing the Stars At the

569
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 6: same time, I.

570
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 3: Was gonna say, so, do you do like your is

571
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 3: your residency Friday, Saturday, Sunda or what days of the week,

572
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 3: and then Dancing Stars this Monday Tuesday? Right?

573
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

574
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 6: So no, just so my show will be Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

575
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 6: and then Dancing Stars will be on Monday, and then

576
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 6: Tuesday I have off, and so I'm like, yeah, I.

577
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 4: Got I got a day off here, so Tuesday is my.

578
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 6: Day off and then back into it. So yeah, so

579
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 6: it's gonna be it's gonna be full out, but honestly,

580
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 6: it's gonna be a breeze compared to what I've already

581
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 6: done in the past. I mean, I did Radio City

582
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 6: Music Hall. I did thirteen shows a week, one three,

583
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 6: which means that I did three shows a day sometimes,

584
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 6: And I was also dancing with Nastia Luken, so I

585
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 6: was teaching her and coaching her in between shows. Catch

586
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 6: the Red Eye from New York to LA and dance

587
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 6: with Nastia that day, and then red eye Monday night

588
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 6: back to New York and then do thirteen shows a

589
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 6: week as well as training her teaching her.

590
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 4: So this is gonna be a breeze. Five shows a week.

591
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 6: You know, judging where you show up and go, hey,

592
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 6: what you get?

593
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: That's not easy because you have to be on, you

594
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like you're on camera. You can't

595
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 3: just like sit back and like pop up in a Bruski.

596
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 4: No, no, no, you're You're definitely on. Like but it's

597
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 4: it's it's I'll be fine.

598
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 5: I got it.

599
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 3: Do you sleep a lot?

600
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm assuming No, Yeah.

601
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 4: I sleep pretty good. Yeah I sleep I said good.

602
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 4: You know, I've honestly like, uh yeah, I still great.

603
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 2: I just don't even think. I mean, because I've traveling.

604
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,199
Speaker 2: I've had times where I was traveling, like back and

605
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: forth to different places, or like I would land and

606
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 2: then pack my bag and go somewhere Neil. Yeah, but

607
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 2: I wasn't doing you know, I was just going to

608
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: that place. And then most of the time I was

609
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: just relaxing. It wasn't like I was doing physical work

610
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 2: or performing for three times and I was exhausted. So

611
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 2: I don't even think people can comprehend like what that's like,

612
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 2: just getting on a plane back and forth and then

613
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: being like so physical with your body and doing what

614
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 2: you're doing an your mind.

615
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 4: Like that was tough.

616
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, that that one was tough. This one will be

617
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 6: fine because it's like a forty five minute flight. Yeah,

618
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 6: it's pretty it's pretty easy. However, with the sleeping what

619
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 6: you're talking about before, I actually found it really hard.

620
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 4: To sleep, honest, like for years and years and years.

621
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 6: But then I found some different apps and different things

622
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 6: and meditations and breathing exercises that help that really put

623
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 6: me to sleep, and so I really just yeah, just

624
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 6: those are those are game changers because I really did

625
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 6: find it hard to sleep before. But also when you

626
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 6: know that you need sleep in order to have the energy,

627
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 6: you know, like it's like I'm like, I have to

628
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 6: go to sleep because I need this energy. I need

629
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 6: to heal my body and everything else. And but yeah,

630
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 6: if there's one thing I could ever suggest anybody out

631
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 6: there besides drinking copious amounts of water, is figure out

632
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 6: your sleep, find different modalities, find ways to get you sleep,

633
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 6: because it would changed my life because it actually gets sleep.

634
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 2: Do you do those things, like, like, do you do

635
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: them consistently every night to where your body's trained to

636
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: do them, like those exercises, or do you find that

637
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 2: you only utilize them when you're struggling.

638
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 6: No, every night, every single night, and especially when I'm

639
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 6: doing shows, because it's it's all about routine.

640
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: It's about rituals and going to bed at the same time.

641
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 6: Uh, when we're going to be doing my shows, for sure,

642
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 6: we'll have that ritual, my breath exercise and then boom out,

643
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 6: you know, go to sleep.

644
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 4: Got I have to do it. I have to do it.

645
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 2: Look into doing some of that stuff, do.

646
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 4: You it's pretty great?

647
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

648
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 2: So you how long have you and Haley been together?

649
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 4: He speak, Yeah, Poppins, I love it.

650
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: Long ago, six years, six years. So I saw. I

651
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 2: feel like I keep referencing TikTok because that's where I

652
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 2: know everything about you right now. But there was this

653
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: this girl that writes songs and plays the piano Jack's

654
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 2: write song? Is that her name? Jack Star song?

655
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 6: Yeah?

656
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: And also and it was kind of like a story

657
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: about how you and Haley met. Was that real?

658
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 6: No? No, no, no, no, no no, so, and also

659
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 6: to set it straight to there there's a brad Everheart.

660
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 6: I think I said there like a guy who like

661
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,719
Speaker 6: boyd me, And there was no such thing as brad Ever.

662
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 6: He doesn't exist, he's that real person. However, it is

663
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Speaker 6: true I was. I was heavily bullied as a kid,

664
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Speaker 6: and it was far worse to get your head put

665
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Speaker 6: it in a toilet. So that was kind of a

666
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 6: skit as far as like just you know, just a

667
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Speaker 6: generalization of like, hey, you know you might have been

668
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 6: picked on when your school, but in the end, you know,

669
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 6: you end up with the girl type of thing.

670
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just some fun.

671
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 6: It was based on There was based on truth, yeah,

672
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 6: because I was very much bullied as a kid, but

673
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 6: because it was a dancer and stuff.

674
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 4: But uh, but as far as the.

675
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 6: Girl that got away and then I ended up being with.

676
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: Her, Okay, Yeah, I've never heard this story anywhere.

677
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 6: I know, right, people people are like googling, like who's

678
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 6: bread Ever.

679
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 2: It's like bred Everheart is such a movie character name

680
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 2: the bully.

681
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 4: It's definitely like a Brad or a Zach.

682
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 7: Yeah.

683
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 3: Wait, because so you guys have been together for six years,

684
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 3: what's like your biggest would you say, is your biggest

685
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 3: Like how do you guys keep your relationship healthy? What's

686
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 3: like your number one rule or do you have anything

687
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 3: like that?

688
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh no, definitely lots of things.

689
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: And some paper. I'm just gonna take some notes.

690
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 6: Well, and this is something, this is something that I

691
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 6: need to work on, honestly. But when you know, if

692
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 6: you ever have a good confrontation or something and you're

693
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 6: just like, hey, I need some space, I just need

694
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 6: to kind of like, you know, if you're the one

695
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 6: that says, hey, I need to take some space for

696
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 6: a moment just to kind of gather my feelings or

697
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 6: my thoughts and things, that it's your responsibility to come

698
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 6: back to and say, Okay, let's let's heal this, let's

699
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 6: talk about this, let's you know, repair this. Because that's

700
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 6: the thing too, is I think sometimes if you feel

701
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 6: like you get into fights, if you feel like you

702
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 6: get into confrontations or arguments or screements, whatever it is.

703
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 4: That's okay, that's really good.

704
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 6: It's it's it's about the repair, right, It's always about

705
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 6: the repair. And then if you realize that and know

706
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 6: that in a relationship, then if there's always that repair,

707
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 6: that happens, then it just strengthens it and you guys

708
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 6: just keep growing and growing and growing instead of thinking like,

709
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 6: oh my gosh, we always fight.

710
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 4: We must not be right for each other. Peace out,

711
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 4: you know.

712
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 6: It's it's like, oh, we had this disagreement, but let's

713
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 6: repair and move forward.

714
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 4: But for the most part, we're we're it's been good.

715
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 6: The quarantine was awesome for us. It really was as

716
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 6: far as just like spend time with each other being homebodies.

717
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 6: We were doing arts and crafts and stuff, and we're

718
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 6: being creative.

719
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 4: We were dancing together. So it's been good. Man, it's been.

720
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 4: It's been really good.

721
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: I feel like quarantine for a lot of couples it

722
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 2: was like they decided do I really like this person

723
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: or is this not?

724
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah it was.

725
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 6: And I saw that a lot like in my circle,

726
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 6: you know, the same same things, and and uh, yeah, no.

727
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 4: I'm it's been it's been really it's been good. Been

728
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 4: really good. Back some really cool trips too. We were

729
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 4: in Africa.

730
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 6: Recently and do some really few like a bucket list things.

731
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Speaker 4: Is pretty cool.

732
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 2: I know. I remember last time we talked to you, you

733
00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: had just gone on a trip y'all had just gone

734
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: trip with the bucket Lists family, and yeah, the things

735
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 2: that y'all did in the videos, and so I was

736
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 2: just like, that is the coolest the experiences and also

737
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 2: things that I find so scary, like swimming, you know,

738
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 2: with large underwater animals, one of my biggest fears, but

739
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: it's so beautiful like watching someone else do it. I

740
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 2: just I'm like so fascinated by It's so cool that

741
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 2: y'all get to do that kind of traveling and experiences

742
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:27,760
Speaker 2: and together.

743
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 6: Oh, it's been good, and we've had some really great

744
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 6: friends and it's it's been a it's been good. And

745
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 6: now we're doing the Vegas Show together, which is awesome

746
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 6: because we're dancing together, we're rehearsing where it's like we're

747
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 6: like this, it's a cool journey.

748
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 4: It's a cool the unknown.

749
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Speaker 6: You know, I've never done this before, you know, in

750
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 6: the residency in Vegas, and so we're.

751
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 4: Gonna be doing together and it's gonna be it's gonna

752
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 4: be great.

753
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Speaker 3: First of all, I definitely want we should go out

754
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 3: to Vegas and go to one. Yeah, so that's for

755
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 3: sure happening. And then so you're gonna be doing that

756
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 3: you're judging Dancing with the Stars, and then when are

757
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 3: you fitting in You're doing a new podcast.

758
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 6: Oh so yeah, so it's not necessarily my podcast, but

759
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 6: I just wanted to bring it up because it's something

760
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 6: that I think is just, uh, it's an amazing thing.

761
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 4: You know.

762
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 6: When I was dancing with Amy Purty I Dancing with

763
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 6: the Stars, it was one of my favorite seasons of

764
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 6: all time, mainly because she just introduced me to this

765
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 6: world of Paralympians and the Paralympics. And I actually went

766
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 6: to Sochi, Russia, spent time with her, trained her right

767
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:26,959
Speaker 6: before she went and.

768
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 4: Did an Olympic competition. Like it was. It was crazy.

769
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 6: I'm like, you cool, learning this chat chat before you're

770
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 6: about to go, like train for are you go go

771
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 6: compete for the like Paralympics?

772
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 4: Are you Are you sure?

773
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 6: She's like yeah, and which she was. She you know,

774
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 6: she meddled, which is incredible and as as a Paralympic snowboarder.

775
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 4: But she introduced me to that world.

776
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 6: And right now, you know, we're gearing up for the

777
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 6: Tokyo you know, uh, put on our focus to the

778
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 6: Tokyo twenty twenty Paralympics.

779
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 4: Right now, and there's this beautiful podcast.

780
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 6: It's the six part series and it's called equal To

781
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 6: and it's it's hosted by Sophie Morgan and basically it's

782
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 6: about you know, six mar series that exports the biggest

783
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 6: challenges faced by the disability, you know, community, and it

784
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 6: just brings up a conversation about what's needed to drive equality.

785
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 6: And it's, uh, it's really cool because the creators of this,

786
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 6: they actually the producers are called Harder.

787
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 4: Than you Think.

788
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 6: And they've produced this movie that's called Rising Phoenix on

789
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 6: Netflix and it got won all these awards. It's an amazing,

790
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 6: amazing film.

791
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 4: But yeah, it's it's a really really great thing. Go

792
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 4: check it out. It's called equal To podcast.

793
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 6: You can find out on iHeart, you know, and all

794
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 6: the different platforms that you know, listen to podcasts, and it's.

795
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 4: It's really cool.

796
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 6: But yeah, Amy Pray, people always ask me like, what's

797
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 6: my favorite season Dank Bazars and I'm all and Amy

798
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 6: Prairie is always right up there.

799
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 2: Yeah she's because yeah, she's incredible. Yeah, she was on

800
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 2: our podcast and I remember and then even just the

801
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: last few years she's been through. It's her strength, like

802
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: mentally and her physical strength is beyond anything that I

803
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: can even understand. She is absolutely incredible.

804
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 6: It's amazing because you know, people like look at the

805
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 6: physical disabilities right perhaps you know, they're like, oh, she

806
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 6: has two prosthetic legs, But be it emotional fitness and

807
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 6: the mental fitness that is that they acquire during all

808
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 6: these you know, difficult times is unbelievable, you know, so

809
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 6: so you and right now, I feel like one of

810
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 6: the strongest currencies to have in this world is emotional

811
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 6: and mental fitness. Honestly, I think, especially with someone this

812
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 6: is going on, I think that we all get sucked

813
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 6: into certain things and we all get sort of hijacked,

814
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 6: you know, mentally, and that's I would say that we

815
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 6: live in We're in a time now where I feel

816
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 6: like that that type of fitness is as important, if

817
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 6: not more important, than just your physical fitness. And I

818
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 6: think that somebody like her, who's been through so much

819
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 6: is a huge inspiration.

820
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I have a question for you regarding this

821
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 2: season Dancing with the Stars, because they announced that Jojo

822
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 2: Seewah is going to be dancing with the same sex

823
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: partner for the first time ever.

824
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's awesome.

825
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 2: It's so cool. I mean, they've never I never thought

826
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: that there would be a time where this was happening.

827
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 2: So it's really cool to see it happening right now, Like,

828
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,399
Speaker 2: are you think will it be that she is? It's

829
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: still kind of whoever she's dancing with is the lead

830
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 2: because they haven't announced who she's dancing with, right.

831
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 4: Right, I know, come on, I just I just gotta

832
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 4: figure it out.

833
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 6: And also it would take a certain type of dancer,

834
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 6: I think, to be able to have you know, a

835
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 6: certain knowledge and certain just abilities and as far as

836
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 6: like teaching and but which is really cool. So on

837
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 6: World of Dance, there was a couple, man, I'm so

838
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 6: sorry for about their names, those two gentlemen who dance

839
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 6: stelsa together, and.

840
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 4: They were unreal. They were unreal. It was so fun

841
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 4: to watch.

842
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 6: They were so extraordinary great dancers. And the truth is,

843
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 6: and when we danced with each other more in the

844
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 6: dance studio, you know usually say all right, here's the

845
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 6: man's part or here's the ladies part, and where now

846
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 6: Really it's kind of evolved to being like, okay, now

847
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 6: here's the leader's part, here's the followers part, because honestly,

848
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 6: it ebbs and flows, you know where like there's moments

849
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 6: where the lady is moving me or or vice versa.

850
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 6: I think it's so so the way I sort of

851
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 6: like look at when people say, well, who's going to

852
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 6: be like the male part or the female But I'm like, honestly,

853
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 6: you don't need to even say that. You could just

854
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,720
Speaker 6: say it's just like the lead, all right, who's leading?

855
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 6: Who's following here? Like what's what's that going to be like?

856
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 6: And I think it opens it up for really exciting

857
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 6: routines and really exciting h dynamics, you know, to be

858
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 6: honest with you as well. In England, in in ballroom

859
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 6: competitions very very very common even to this day, it

860
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 6: is very very common that there's there's all girl competitions

861
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 6: dancing ballroom and they're in hold and they're doing like

862
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 6: ballroom dances across the floor. And a big part of

863
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 6: that was because there just wasn't enough guys honestly to

864
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 6: oh yeah, to part of them, so they would just

865
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 6: partner each other and it became a whole culture of

866
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:34,479
Speaker 6: dance and and so yeah, so I think it's great.

867
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 6: I think it's really great. And also Jojo, she's a dancer.

868
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 6: So I think that it will be good. I think

869
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 6: that I think I think they're gonna be great.

870
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really excited.

871
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 9: It's so true though what you said, because there is

872
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 9: this like, uh, I guess stereotype of like the man

873
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 9: and the woman, and the.

874
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: Man is the strong role. But I when I watched

875
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 2: Anto with the Star specifically and watch you specifically, there's

876
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: and you're just amazing, Like everything you do looks like

877
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 2: it just takes no effort because are so good. But

878
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 2: there's these moments where like you're so effortlessly the dance

879
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 2: is beautiful, and then you see the woman and she's

880
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 2: in this strong role and it has nothing to do

881
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 2: with the gender, who who is who? It's just about

882
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 2: like what the dance is.

883
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 6: So yeah, I think I think there's different things that

884
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 6: you know, different concepts.

885
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 4: But that's the thing.

886
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 6: Here's the thing is it's it's The beautiful thing about

887
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 6: dance is that it is about it's it's it's those

888
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 6: storytelling to it. There's just pure for me as well.

889
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 6: There doesn't have to be storytelling. It just be entertaining

890
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 6: and fun to watch and enjoyable. Jennifer Lopez and I

891
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 6: used to argue about that all the time. She's like,

892
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 6: there's no story in this dance. It's like, why does

893
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 6: there have to be a story? It's just a jive,

894
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 6: like kick your legs and like do a flip and

895
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 6: then have a ball.

896
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 4: She's like, but I like it.

897
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 6: So I think there's there's different approaches, the different types

898
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 6: of dances and what your intention is, how you what

899
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 6: do you want to do, Like, you know, do you

900
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 6: want to tell a story?

901
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 4: Do you just want to entertain and have fun? Do

902
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 4: you want to whatever it is? You know.

903
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 6: I mean there's also times where I've I've had a

904
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 6: dance a rumba with my sister, which is by all

905
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 6: accounts wrong.

906
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 4: Because but but that's in the traditional.

907
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 6: Like the rumba is the dance of love and this

908
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 6: and that. And I was like, well, hold on, I'm

909
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 6: going to change. I'm going to change that. It's a

910
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 6: dance of love, but not in a in a in

911
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 6: a essential way, but in like a in a in

912
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 6: a love way, like in a brother sister way. Yeah,

913
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 6: you know, like I love I love for your family.

914
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 6: So you can change the narrative, you can change the

915
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 6: intention however you seem fit.

916
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 4: There's no like this is the way it is.

917
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 6: This is the like who wants to who wants to

918
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 6: dance in that you know exactly, which is why I

919
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 6: might I might have some I might have some arguments

920
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 6: Langodnes because Langodmn is a little bit more of a traditionalist,

921
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 6: So I might be like, I might be like, Len,

922
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 6: come on, man, who cares, Let's go, let's have a

923
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 6: good time. You know.

924
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 2: I like when you're on there because I feel like

925
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 2: you challenge I feel like you challenge him.

926
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 4: Well I haven't. I did before when I was in

927
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 4: the dance, when.

928
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 2: I was a yeah, you always have like yeah challenged.

929
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,479
Speaker 4: There's a little there's a little bit of this because

930
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 4: I was.

931
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 6: About more of a rule breaker and he was about

932
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 6: a little bit more about the rules, which is, by

933
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 6: the way, that's good to have.

934
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 4: I actually love Lane. I love one. I'm so excited

935
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 4: he's back this season.

936
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 6: And I'm just curious to know because I never judged

937
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 6: with him, so I'm curious to know that's gonna be.

938
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 2: Like because a lot of the dancers like when he

939
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: gives his critique, which I mean, like you said, every

940
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 2: I love his dynamic. I just love the dynamic of

941
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 2: all the judges, but you were always kind of the

942
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: one a lot of the dancers just like listen and

943
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 2: take the criticism, and if you were like this is no,

944
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: like this is not right, you always said something. So

945
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 2: I'm excited to watch y' all judge together.

946
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 4: It'll be fun.

947
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 6: I'm looking forward to it, and I'm excited about the

948
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 6: season too. So far the cast from things i've heard,

949
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 6: it's gonna be real.

950
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 2: It's gonna beat anything any heard.

951
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 4: I'll just don't know.

952
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: There's one.

953
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 6: There's one that I'm like, legit excited about because just

954
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 6: like legend and just yeah, what industry.

955
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 3: What industry athlete, singer, singer.

956
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 4: Actor, singer, singer, entertainer.

957
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Rod, that's a broad genre.

958
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 3: But we can first and last name.

959
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 4: Uh, I'm gonna give it.

960
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, No, He's like, I'm really excited too. I

961
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: think it's gonna be a really fun season. And I'm

962
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 2: I honestly, how long does your show You're show in Vegas?

963
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 2: Your residency? How long is that it's gonna.

964
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 4: Be from September twenty second to November twenty.

965
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 6: First, And actually, what's really cool, I'm just gonna throw

966
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 6: it out there right now too, because my my friends,

967
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 6: the divines they have they have a new thing called

968
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Speaker 6: Somewhere Divine dot com and it's the you get the

969
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 6: most incredible deals booking flights and booking hotels, And he

970
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 6: just posted something today if you go check it out

971
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 6: somewhere Divine dot com.

972
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 4: They they've worked it out.

973
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 6: To where they get a deal where you can say

974
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 6: like one hundred bucks on a room and at the Venetian,

975
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 6: which is basically like a free ticket to my show essentially.

976
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 4: So it's kind of a cool. It's kind of a

977
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 4: cool thing, So go check.

978
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 6: That one out, because you know, it's always always love

979
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 6: making sure people feel comfortable and feeling that they can

980
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 6: afford it and come out. But it's gonna be an

981
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 6: amazing show. This show live band.

982
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,800
Speaker 4: I got like the most incredible.

983
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 6: Dancers, all star casts, like the best answers we've ever

984
00:45:56,080 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 6: seen live, and.

985
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 4: Every type of music can think of.

986
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 6: It's gonna be fantastic, just something for everybody, the whole show,

987
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 6: bring the whole BAM.

988
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 2: I know you don't do anything half assed, so I'm

989
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: really excited to come out and see this.

990
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 4: Is right, this is gonna be full ass.

991
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 10: Ye.

992
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for taking time to hang out with

993
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 2: us again and scrub In and I'm so happy for

994
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 2: you and everything you're doing. It's really cool, like not

995
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 2: seeing you for years, you were really busy at the time,

996
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: and you're still just crushing it.

997
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 3: So yeah, we're really happy for it.

998
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so much, thanks for having.

999
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: Me for time.

1000
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: Bye bye, bye, guys bye.

1001
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 2: I love him.

1002
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 3: He's wonderful, wonderful.

1003
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:58,400
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Speaker 2: you listen to podcasts. And also P and G is

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Speaker 2: make a difference for people with disabilities. They are donating

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1008
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Speaker 2: drive even more equality in sports and beyond for people

1009
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 2: with disabilities, which is really cool. I forgot I remembered

1010
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 2: when he danced with Amy Purty, and I love Amy Perty.

1011
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 2: She's just one of my favorite people I followed inside.

1012
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 3: I also love that he doesn't he's not shy about

1013
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 3: admitting that was his favorite season because people was like,

1014
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 3: I can't pick a favorite, and he's like, Amy Purtty

1015
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 3: was my favorite season.

1016
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, I like that, Well, here you weren't here

1017
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 2: when Whitney cars I did my the podcast with Whitney

1018
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 2: Carson the loone, I think you were gone, And I

1019
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: can't remember if she said what her favorite was, but

1020
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,959
Speaker 2: she did say, like one of the funniest was wait,

1021
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 2: can you all remember who who was the guy that

1022
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 2: did like the the comedian? Yeah, Chris Catan And I

1023
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: went and watch the video because she was like, Becky,

1024
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 2: you have to YouTube, but it is one of the

1025
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 2: funniest things. Was he bad? Well, yeah, you relate to

1026
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 2: his but it was more that he was so endearing

1027
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 2: and tried so hard and she just said he was

1028
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 2: so much fun. But she was they only made it

1029
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: through like week one, Oh yikes. But anyways, Yeah, it's

1030
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 2: I like when the answer people and competitions will be

1031
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 2: like this is my favorite. Yeah, yeah, all right. I

1032
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 2: think we have emails and am I right?

1033
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1034
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 8: And the first one's really a tough one. I'm not

1035
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 8: really sure where to go with it, but we'll see

1036
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 8: if we can come up with together some nice.

1037
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 2: Alexis, as we always do.

1038
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 8: She says, I feel like I've reached a crossroads with

1039
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 8: my husband's family. Long story short, I'm not religious, and

1040
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 8: after my husband and I were married over ten years ago,

1041
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 8: he started to question his own faith. I was always

1042
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 8: very supportive of him and going to church. I encouraged it,

1043
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,439
Speaker 8: but some things in his life changed and he felt

1044
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 8: like faith wasn't for him anymore. His family was upset

1045
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 8: and made sure that we knew that he now drinks

1046
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,240
Speaker 8: alcohol and coffee, two things that were against his previous religion,

1047
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 8: and his family blames me. They've said I'm not well

1048
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 8: him in their home, that I have damned his salvation

1049
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 8: and are actually trying to break up our marriage by

1050
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 8: sending him pictures of faithful women. Yes, I know that

1051
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 8: it's as crazy as it sounds. I won't allow my

1052
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 8: in laws to see my three children because they do

1053
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 8: not respect me, and frankly, I don't trust them or

1054
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 8: what they might say to my kids about me.

1055
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 5: So where do I go from here?

1056
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 8: I don't want to give them an ultimatum because it's

1057
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 8: his family, But at the same time, I can't continue

1058
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 8: to live with constant belittling and the anxiety that they

1059
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 8: constantly cause.

1060
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: This is so I mean, this is I'm honestly so

1061
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: sorry you're going to this, Alexis. I was having this

1062
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 2: thought the other day about religion and my faith in

1063
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 2: how like in my past, when I was younger, I

1064
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,479
Speaker 2: was so forceful about what I believed, and I felt

1065
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 2: like everyone needed to believe the same as I did.

1066
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 2: And I was thinking the other day about why I

1067
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 2: did that, Why did I need everyone to agree with me?

1068
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 2: And what I thought? Like now, when I talk about

1069
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: my faith.

1070
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 6: Or I.

1071
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 2: Express like how grateful I am, I say it in

1072
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 2: a sense of like I have experienced so much peace

1073
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 2: and it's the only constant thing in my life where

1074
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 2: I get that sense of peace from And if anything,

1075
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,919
Speaker 2: I want everyone to feel that. But I don't need.

1076
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,919
Speaker 2: I don't need to force what I believe onto someone else,

1077
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:33,720
Speaker 2: because I think that's the biggest turnoff for people who

1078
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 2: are already resistant or don't have any interest in a

1079
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,919
Speaker 2: religion or any sort of faith. It's like someone being

1080
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 2: forceful about it is the biggest way to turn them

1081
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 2: off of it. And I feel like in this situation,

1082
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 2: he seems like he has come to the decision on

1083
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: his own of what he believes. And sometimes it takes

1084
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,240
Speaker 2: a long time for people to decide what they believe

1085
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 2: from their religion or if they want to continue believing that,

1086
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 2: and people and there whatever is uncomfortable feels scary, and

1087
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: people act out of fear. And it sounds like his

1088
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 2: family's acting out of this fear. And it doesn't at

1089
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: all like condone how they're behaving, but it's from a

1090
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 2: place of feeling like out of control because they're not

1091
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 2: able to control what he believes anymore.

1092
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I also think that this I mean, I

1093
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 3: hate to say there's nothing you can do about it,

1094
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 3: but I think for me, this is on your husband,

1095
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 3: because this is really on him to have that conversation

1096
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 3: with his family, because I think for me, I was

1097
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 3: one of those people where I was just like, I

1098
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 3: want to marry somebody that's Christian and I want to

1099
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 3: you know, like that was always something that I thought

1100
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: would be my reality. And it's so interesting because Red

1101
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 3: Star is Jewish, and when we started dating, I had

1102
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 3: a lot of friends saying like, oh, you can't seriously

1103
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 3: be dating him, like he's gonna want you to convert

1104
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 3: or you know, all of these things. And people don't

1105
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 3: know the reality unless you're actually in the relationship. And

1106
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 3: he loves the fact that he loves who I am

1107
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 3: and he's like I think a big part of that

1108
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: is your faith, and I would never want you to

1109
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: change that for me. And he, you know, is learning

1110
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 3: about and celebrating things that I celebrate that he's never celebrated.

1111
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 3: And I'm learning about things and celebrating things that I've

1112
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 3: never celebrated in my life. And we come from parents

1113
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 3: that aren't you know what I mean, I don't know,

1114
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 3: it's just it's the generations are just I think it's

1115
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 3: getting a little bit better and better as the generations

1116
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 3: grow and we start to you know, what's the word mingle,

1117
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 3: intermingle with faith, interfaith mingle, And I just think it's

1118
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 3: gonna be honestly, I think it's gonna make the world

1119
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 3: a better place. I think it's a conversation that he

1120
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 3: has to have with with his family and kind of

1121
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 3: has to set boundaries.

1122
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, setting the boundaries because he is

1123
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 2: your husband, he is your kid's father, and if you

1124
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable in that space because of things that

1125
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: they say, and I mean, it sounds like they're pretty

1126
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: fearless and what they say to you, it's not like they,

1127
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 2: you know, have respect for what you believe. They only

1128
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 2: expect you to have respect for what they believe, and

1129
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 2: I think that if you can really make it clear

1130
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 2: to him that you don't feel comfortable and you don't

1131
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 2: want your kids to be uncomfortable or in a toxic environment,

1132
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 2: then he needs to step up and set those boundaries

1133
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 2: with this family and be because it's ultimately he's made

1134
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,479
Speaker 2: this decision of what he believes, and it's.

1135
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 3: Not your fault, it's not your on you.

1136
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 2: You don't have control over what he does with his life,

1137
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:41,280
Speaker 2: and so I think that that's going to be something

1138
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: that he has to step up.

1139
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 3: And honestly, it's really immature and I think selfish that

1140
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,879
Speaker 3: his family thinks you're the reason why he's done that,

1141
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 3: Like it's just I don't know.

1142
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 2: I think I feel like they're acting out of fear.

1143
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 2: They're they're like, it's uncomfortable, they don't know how to

1144
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 2: handle it, and I don't think it's right. But I

1145
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 2: think that's where it comes from, because I think within

1146
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 2: families in religion and faith, there's love there, but there's

1147
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 2: also when someone changes something or someone goes in a

1148
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 2: direction that isn't on the expectation path from the family, Yeah,

1149
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: it causes this like what are we supposed to do

1150
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 2: with this? And It's not always handled the best way.

1151
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 2: But I think I think that this is your husband's,

1152
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 2: you know, time to have that conversation and and like,

1153
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, sometimes healing comes, sometimes there's mending in

1154
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 2: the relationship, and sometimes you just have to say, like,

1155
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 2: it is what it is.

1156
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you guys have said it all.

1157
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 8: I think this is an extreme example, but this dynamic

1158
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 8: has been playing out for hundreds of years. You know,

1159
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,280
Speaker 8: the younger generation is less devout.

1160
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 5: Than the older generation.

1161
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 8: That creates conflict and that's always going to continue. But yes,

1162
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 8: it is on the husband. He needs to talk to

1163
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 8: his parents say, look, you got to respect my beliefs.

1164
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 8: You got to spend my wife beliefs or it's going

1165
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 8: to create this rift and you're not gonna se your

1166
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,360
Speaker 8: grandkids anymore. Not as an ultimatum, just as this is

1167
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 8: what's that's really going to happen. If you're really going

1168
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 8: to hardline us on this and if it's that important

1169
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 8: to you, then okay.

1170
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 5: But he needs to talk to his parents and lay

1171
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 5: down the law.

1172
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also make it clear lah clap down the salami.

1173
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 9: No, he doesn't need to do that, Yeah, he just

1174
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 9: needs to make it clear, like this was his decision

1175
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 9: and it has nothing.

1176
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 2: She did not force him to step away from his

1177
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 2: faith or make those decisions. It was his decision, and

1178
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 2: I think, like you said, he just has to be

1179
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 2: the one to say it and say, like, if if

1180
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 2: you're fine losing not having contact with your grandkids over this,

1181
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 2: then that's going to be on you, right, But I

1182
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,720
Speaker 2: am sorry that you're going to This really need to sucks.

1183
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:41,720
Speaker 8: Melissa says, my friend broke the news to my mom.

1184
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 8: Then I got off birth control and I'm starting to

1185
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 8: try for a baby with my husband. And I don't

1186
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 8: know how to let my friend know how badly she

1187
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 8: hurt me and betrayed my trust by showing such a

1188
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 8: personal decision that I had shared with her in private

1189
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 8: without being too confrontational. How do I let my friend

1190
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 8: know how much your comment hurt me without causing a

1191
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,800
Speaker 8: fight or making her already currently strained related ship worse.

1192
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 3: I wish we knew how the friend told the mom.

1193
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 3: M Like if it just slipped out on accident, Like

1194
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:13,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe if they were all drunk and.

1195
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 2: Like it just whatever she spilled the beans.

1196
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 3: I know, but I'm saying if it was an accident.

1197
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 3: I would just and they were like drunk. I would

1198
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 3: pull her aside it sober and be like, yo.

1199
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: Well let's assume it's not an accident, because it sounds

1200
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 2: like it was like she didn't she didn't make it

1201
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: seem like she accidentally told my mom. It seems like

1202
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 2: she and getting It's not like, oh, she's pregnant. It's like, hey,

1203
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: she's getting off birth control to start trying. That's a

1204
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 2: pretty like seems a pretty intentional conversation to have with

1205
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 2: someone I know.

1206
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm trying to put I'm trying to put it,

1207
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 3: put myself in the situation.

1208
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 2: Okay, what would you do? Like what if I went

1209
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 2: to your mom and I was like, hey, Mama, Radu

1210
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 2: Tanya is off her BC to start having a BB

1211
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,240
Speaker 2: with RS Red Star.

1212
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 3: Right, Wow, that was pretty quick. That was pretty quick.

1213
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 3: It's so hard because I feel like it's something I

1214
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: feel like my my mom would already have known, you

1215
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 3: know what I mean. I don't know. I really don't

1216
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 3: know what I would I would do because if it's

1217
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 3: your best friend, they're obviously their intention isn't to hurt

1218
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 3: you or like to do anything. She probably thought that

1219
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 3: she was just doing it like in an excited way.

1220
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 2: I was gonna say to me, it's almost like she

1221
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,919
Speaker 2: got so excited about it that she was like, I'm

1222
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,959
Speaker 2: gonna I can't wait to see what her mom thinks

1223
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: or how excited she is. But regardless of what her

1224
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:41,439
Speaker 2: intent was or how she did it, I think it's

1225
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 2: worth telling her like, hey, I I've been this has

1226
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: been weighing on me, and it's like putting a strain

1227
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: on our relationship because you shared something that was really

1228
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 2: exciting and should have been my news to share that

1229
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 2: was really personal, And I just want you to know

1230
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 2: that you telling my mom before I had a chance to,

1231
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 2: or telling anyone before I had a chance to kind

1232
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 2: of or didn't kind of it really hurt me. And

1233
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 2: it's I just want to make sure that you know,

1234
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 2: I know what your intentions were, and that when I

1235
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 2: tell you something personal, that it's not just gonna be

1236
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 2: spoken about without me having a chance to say first.

1237
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 2: I would just have a conversation. Like Tanya and I

1238
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 2: have had some very uncomfortable moments where we just have

1239
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: to talk it out and it's like uncomfortable for both

1240
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 2: of us, and but I know that like no matter what,

1241
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 2: our friendship is still going to be intact. Like, I

1242
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: never worry that if we have a conversation that we're

1243
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: going to get to a point where we're not going

1244
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 2: to be friends anymore. So I think being able to say, like,

1245
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,439
Speaker 2: I'm hurt by this, and her being able to hear

1246
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 2: you and validate why that would hurt, I think is

1247
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 2: very important because like for me, I'm like, I probably

1248
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't care about that, you know, because that's my personality.

1249
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 2: But I've known, especially with Tanya's personality, if she does

1250
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 2: something or if I do something that hurts her and

1251
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't understand how that hurts. What's important

1252
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 2: is that I validate that I hurt her and that

1253
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 2: that what I did caused pain and it made her

1254
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: feel insecure or whatever it is, and to acknowledge it

1255
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: and validate it so that she knows that I hear

1256
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: her and listen to her, so that I can try

1257
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: not to do it in the future. So I think

1258
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 2: it's just communicating that, yeah, and also at.

1259
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 3: The end of the day, knowing that because you are

1260
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 3: best friends, there's never any like I can guarantee there

1261
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 3: was no ill intention of her doing that you know

1262
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 3: what I mean. Like, I think if if you were

1263
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 3: to do that with my mom, I'd be like Becca,

1264
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 3: I wanted to tell it, Like I would say right

1265
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 3: then and there, like Becca, what the.

1266
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 2: Faint we told my mom?

1267
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 3: Yeah? But yeah, just knowing that you know their intention

1268
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 3: is never is never bad. I think that's the biggest

1269
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 3: thing too, because you're just different people. And like like

1270
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 3: Beca said, we do get into these moments because I

1271
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 3: am super sensitive and my feelings at her over like

1272
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 3: maybe something it might be dumb to somebody else, but

1273
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 3: it hurts my feelings, you know. And so it's just

1274
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 3: like validating that knowing you did it, and then moving on.

1275
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 2: And if you do question her, and then maybe Rea

1276
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 2: says that is your best friend.

1277
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 8: I think we're overstating the level of this friendship. She

1278
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 8: never says best friend. She refers to her as her friend,

1279
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 8: and then she at the end says, we have a

1280
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 8: currently strained relationship. Remember the quote we've given on the

1281
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 8: show many times. Life becomes easier when you learn to

1282
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 8: accept the apology you never got. I say, move on

1283
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 8: and just stop telling stuff to this friend.

1284
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 2: Well I can't since we don't know the closeness. If

1285
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 2: she's not a great friend, if she's not a best

1286
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 2: friend and it's already strained and you don't it doesn't

1287
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 2: feel worth mending it, then I agree, walk away. You

1288
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 2: don't have to say anything. But if it's something that

1289
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 2: weighs on you and she's close enough.

1290
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 3: This is not just some like Rando that knows she's

1291
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 3: off birth control and train for pretty like. I mean,

1292
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 3: I'm not just telling that to like, you know, stale

1293
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 3: Susan walking down the street.

1294
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 5: Oh is she by the way, how is stale?

1295
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 3: Stale Susan is good?

1296
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 5: Good? I know you're not that close or not that close.

1297
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 3: She definitely wouldn't know if I was off birth control

1298
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 3: and trying for a baby, you know what I mean,

1299
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 3: be like Becca, my best friend would. So I'm just

1300
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 3: gonna throw that out.

1301
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 8: That little her breath, I bet her breath is pretty rank,

1302
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 8: pretty stale.

1303
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 2: So you got her name for a reason, the nickname. Yeah,

1304
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 2: well I'm the one who said.

1305
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 3: Stale Susan, right, say stale Stacy?

1306
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah. Relationship. Friendships are relationships are complica.

1307
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 3: Friendships are relationships. I think that's what people forget too,

1308
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 3: because I think you know, what's so interesting the question

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Speaker 3: I get asked. I get asked questions about like love, career,

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Speaker 3: and friendship are the biggest things, and people are just

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Speaker 3: like don't know how to make friends as an adult,

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Speaker 3: or like how to keep good friends in their life.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, it's work. We get into arguments, we

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Speaker 3: don't see eye to eye on things we have to,

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Speaker 3: you know, but you work through it and you get

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Speaker 3: past it, and you, you know, move on. But I

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Speaker 3: think a lot of people don't want to put in

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Speaker 3: the work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true. Putting in the work on relationships are

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Speaker 2: on yourself is sucks.

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Speaker 3: Sucks.

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Speaker 2: I know, I was there sometimes it just like is uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: There was this pink article I remember I did a

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Speaker 3: trending report on it once when she was like, people

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Speaker 3: who don't are not in long term relationships really just

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Speaker 3: don't want to work on themselves because being in a

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Speaker 3: long term relationship is like working on yourself a lot.

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Speaker 3: And I was just like, I didn't really understand it

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Speaker 3: because I was single for seven years and I was

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Speaker 3: just doing whatever the part I wanted, you know, And

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Speaker 3: now it's just so different, and I'm like, I get it,

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Speaker 3: but totally get it because Redstone I see, I mean,

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Speaker 3: we see I on a lot of things, but I'm

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Speaker 3: super sensitive and he's super not. So whenever I say,

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Speaker 3: like something hurts my feelings, He's just like doesn't get it.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like okay, And now I have to go

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Speaker 3: back and figure out, like where is this coming from

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Speaker 3: inside me? What childhood traumas is triggered by?

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Speaker 9: Like I actually I was just having this conversation because

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Speaker 9: I have a few I've like some friends who have

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Speaker 9: been in like long term relationships and broke up, and

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Speaker 9: one of them was like willing to like work on

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Speaker 9: the relationship, and the other was kind.

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Speaker 2: Of like no, I'm good, you know. And I was

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Speaker 2: telling ninety five P the other day, I was saying, like,

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Speaker 2: I feel really grateful that both of us put in

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Speaker 2: the work on ourselves and into the relationship because you know,

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Speaker 2: being I think, and I don't think this is everyone's case,

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Speaker 2: but I think when you're very different and you have

1350
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Speaker 2: different views on pretty much everything and how you just

1351
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 2: see things and how you argue and how you communicate,

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Speaker 2: you almost have to put in the like equal amount

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Speaker 2: of work for the relationship to be healthy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true. And I get like I get annoyed.

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Speaker 3: I get annoyed at how good he is without having

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Speaker 3: to do the work on himself, do you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? Like he just like picks up on things

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Speaker 3: that to me, I'm like, how did you not have

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Speaker 3: to go talk to somebody about this?

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Speaker 2: Because Tanya, we know how to handle you. We are

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Speaker 2: sensitive with our words and no.

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Speaker 3: But it's even like so one of my girlfriends, this

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Speaker 3: is a girlfriend of that I made who was being

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Speaker 3: a guy that had kids, and she was further along

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Speaker 3: in the process than me, and she was like, it's

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Speaker 3: really hard. Sometimes you'll be like She's like, I'll be

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Speaker 3: sitting on the couch or We'll be watching TV and

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Speaker 3: all the kids will be, you know, snuggled up next

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Speaker 3: to him, and I'm completely by myself on the other

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Speaker 3: side of you know, moments like that, you know. And

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Speaker 3: I wasn't wasn't that far along. I hadn't even met

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Speaker 3: them at that, but I will never forget it, Like

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Speaker 3: I remembered that it really stood out to me. And

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Speaker 3: the other night we were sitting down and like watching

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Speaker 3: I don't even know, like Lego Masters or something, and

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Speaker 3: my favorite favor it's actually really cool show and they

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Speaker 3: kind of were, you know, like we were all really

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Speaker 3: close to each other, but they were kind of more

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Speaker 3: snuggled with him, and he took his hand and he

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Speaker 3: put it around me so that I was like with them,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And I was just like wow,

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Speaker 3: like that little, that little gesture that he made made

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Speaker 3: a huge impact on me. You know, like that just

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Speaker 3: shows he I don't know, it's hard to explain, but

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Speaker 3: I had I wanted to like verbalize how much that

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Speaker 3: meant to me because of something that somebody had mentioned

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Speaker 3: to me. It was a lot of you know, people

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Speaker 3: don't necessarily think like that.

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Speaker 2: I do love that he did that, but I also

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Speaker 2: you have to give credit to yourself because you've communicated

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Speaker 2: the things that you need that would make you feel

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Speaker 2: more like safe in the relationship. Right, And he's listened

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Speaker 2: right well on that inspirational note. Also, I saw this

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Speaker 2: quote the other I think I tried to quote it

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Speaker 2: the other day, but I or on a recent podcast

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Speaker 2: but I failed. But I found it again and it

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Speaker 2: said I'm gonna leave yall with this. Imagine a world

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Speaker 2: where we all listen to learn rather than listen to reply.

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Speaker 3: Oh you posted that, right, No, but I might.

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Speaker 2: But I just thought that was so true of how

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Speaker 2: like we communicate nowadays, Like we're all just like, look

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Speaker 2: on social media, it's like, how do we reply. I

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01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 2: was noticing today a bunch of my messages it's like

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Speaker 2: you should post, you should do, you should blah blah bla.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm gonna do what i want. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to post what I want, what I feel like

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Speaker 2: I want to post. And it's like, I think if

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Speaker 2: everyone could just like learn to listen to each other

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Speaker 2: instead of waiting to have something to say back, there'd

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Speaker 2: be a lot more peace in this world. I would

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Speaker 2: hope you're right. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: And on that note, I just texted somebody because I

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Speaker 3: have balloons getting delivered to a Red Star's house for

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Speaker 3: a birthday party. And I just texted the person said

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Speaker 3: okay baby, instead of just okay, it's just automatically because

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Speaker 3: I'm doing the podcast, i just said okay and I

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Speaker 3: said okay baby. So that's where I'm at.

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Speaker 2: Well, that balloon delivery person probably feels so so special,

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Speaker 2: special and taken care of right now. Well, on that note,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna say goodbye for now and thank you to

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Speaker 2: Derek Cobb and the UTP ANDNG and we'll be back

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Speaker 2: next week.

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Speaker 3: Babe, Babe,