1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Bring it on in, Tanya and Sissony. Hey, Tony, 3 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: I just was thinking about you last night, and it 4 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: really was I was really having these these wonderful thoughts 5 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: about you because there have been so many holidays where 6 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: you or I have gotten to them and we really 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: didn't have a partner. Girl, tell me about it. And 8 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: so this one, not only do you have a partner, 9 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: you are observing Hanaka with him and his family, and 10 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: you're celebrating Christmas with yours, and so I can see 11 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: the excitement. I can I can see the it's just 12 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: a different you. Yeah. First of all, I love that 13 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: you were thinking about me last night. That is so cute. 14 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: Next time you think about me, lob me a text. 15 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: You know. I love those incomings. I don't overdo it. 16 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: I mean it was in a long time. I was 17 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: just like, you know what, Tiny has been really happy 18 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: late and I think I know why. And then I 19 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: went to sleep. But you know what's interesting is like 20 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: the holidays, I feel like there's such a great time 21 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: of year, and we always talked about the good and 22 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: that the positive, but I think they're a really hard 23 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: time of year for people too. And I also remember 24 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: last year on Christmas, like my mom had COVID and 25 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: it I couldn't be with my family and I wasn't 26 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: in my relationship. It was just like a really tough Christmas. 27 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: And did you break up? Did you guys break up 28 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: over Christmas last year? Right before? Yeah, right before Christmas 29 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: last year. The timing of that break up right before 30 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: the holidays, it's really insulting. But it's like, look what 31 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: a difference that year makes. Like I was so sad 32 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: last Christmas and this this one, I'm just so happy, 33 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: I know, And that's what I was thinking about. And 34 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm happy for you, and I'm happy Sisney got a 35 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: mute button two and our little closet there at home 36 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: in testing? Was that you playing with it? Hasn't playing 37 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: with it? Did you install that? Uh? Secny installed it? 38 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: But I helped Sysney. You installed your own button. I'm 39 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 1: mute button. Wow. I can't even figure out the printer Trey. Hello, 40 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you good? Hey? Ryan? How are you? 41 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm doing well? Stevie, thanks for asking? How can we 42 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 1: help him? Um? I just had oh, so I go 43 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: on this weekend trip right, uh, with this girl kind 44 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: of seeing each other for about a week or two, 45 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: and you know, my whole mindset is that I'm gonna 46 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 1: have a nice weekend, pay for this hotel when it's 47 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 1: been some time together, get close to each other. And 48 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm going in knowing that she's dealing with some family stuff, 49 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: some emotional stuff with work. So my you know, expectations are, well, 50 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna you know, have I'm a helper, I'm gonna 51 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: be there for her, and everything's gonna be really copathetic 52 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: and she's gonna like fall in love with me, when 53 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: in reality, it was like the complete opposite. So she 54 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: gets overwhelmed with everything. We end up fighting all weekend. Um, 55 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: she's dealing with just a bunch of stuff, and instead 56 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: of us getting closer, we kind of like moved apart 57 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: from each other. And I didn't know if it was 58 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: like my expectations, you know what I mean, that we're 59 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: that we're wrong, or if it was just like the 60 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: wrong weekend, because now we're not talking anymore. So we 61 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: went from like hanging out every day, seeing each other, 62 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: spending time together, pulling on this nice little weekend to 63 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: like absolutely nothing. Now she's like I need to spend 64 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: my time and my energy focusing on work, focusing on 65 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: my family, and I'm sitting here over here, like, well, 66 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: I just spent like six hundred dollars for like this 67 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: hotel and now I don't know what to do. So yeah, 68 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: so I don't know. It was kind of it's just 69 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: kind of crappy, little crappy situation and weekend. But you know, 70 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: love is hard, and so did you did you? You 71 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: fought the whole time? Then no, it was just like 72 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: what Yeah, there was like moments, like little spats here 73 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: and there where I definitely saw little aspects of her 74 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: personality that came out, and I just I attributed it 75 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: to her being like overwhelmed. I'm very patient, sold me. 76 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: I was just trying to be there for her and 77 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: do all these things and it just became a point 78 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: of contention. And then there was other aspects of it 79 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: near the tail end, where it was like booking another 80 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: trip on she was like looking a trip with her friends, 81 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: like in front of me on the phone at like 82 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: this trip was so wrong, and I was like, WHOA, 83 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: that's kind of messed up too. I don't know, And again, 84 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was my own stuff. Yeah. 85 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Stevie, I have to think of 86 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: it this way. Maybe all of that happened so you 87 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: could see her true self, because she sounds to me 88 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: like these sound like little tiny potential buds of red flags. Right, 89 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: So if you think about it, maybe this all happened 90 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:41,679 Speaker 1: early so you could see the unvarnished side of somebody. 91 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: Because we're often on a performance mode first week, week 92 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: and a half. I mean, you're like your best behavior, 93 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: but those candid moments might be very, very telling about 94 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: who she is once things go a different way or 95 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: go longer with her, you know, Steve, I might look 96 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: at it that. Yeah. For sure. For me, I just 97 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: was like, you know, as part of myself thinking that 98 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: was my fault for studying certain expectations and when they 99 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: weren't met, I put it on I put the on 100 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 1: this on on me. You know, why don't you do 101 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: if I want to do this, youre me, I would 102 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: file that and and you file that, okay as important 103 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: information to see if it's consistent with other things that 104 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: happened along the way, because let's forgive, let's forgive once, 105 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: and let's file it a way. But let's see if 106 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: there's a theme. Let's see if there's a consistency, and 107 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: then you need to, like, I need to look inside 108 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: of myself introspectively and figure out that's something that I 109 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: need to work on. You mean, no, I don't think 110 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: it's about you. I think it's about much how she 111 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: responded to certain things bother I would file that a 112 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: way and see how things go. See her again and 113 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: see how things go. And if you see any sort 114 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: of consistent themes in how she's handling certain things that 115 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: you don't feel all right, then you've then you've got 116 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 1: to address it. I think gras, I think she needs 117 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: to make you more of a priority. And I know 118 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: that she's got her own stuff going on. Whatever, K fine, 119 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: but it just sounded like we weren't. But it wasn't 120 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: sound like they're waying this weekend and he wasn't like 121 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: top priority per se. And then she's starting to book 122 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: a trip with her friends. So so just like, I 123 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: think we all want to be someone's top priority, and 124 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: I get that sometimes you don't have to, you can't be, 125 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: but you just got to look for that as well. 126 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: I definitely felt like I wasn't you know, considering everything 127 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: I did that I wasn't like it, you know, a 128 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: priority at all. So I was trying to understand her 129 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: situation to with work and family stuff. But she's good. 130 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: You sound like you're doing handling pretty well, Stevie. As 131 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: you said, the beginning, love is tough, alright, So take 132 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: that advice as as you can. Appreciated. Guys, thank you all. 133 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: I'm saying, basically, Stevie, leave the door a jar. Derek 134 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: is on the line here, Derek in Fullerton, Derek, good morning, 135 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: Good morning Ryan. How are you doing all right? Man? 136 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? What's up? How can we help you? Um? 137 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: I got like a weird dilemma. I want to see 138 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: if I'm I'm the bad guy here. I have a roommate. 139 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: Every morning, I dream coffee as most people do, and 140 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: I put creamer in that coffee, um, and I think 141 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: it expired two three days ago, which means it's so good, 142 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: you know. And I went to go my morning or 143 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: team before work. I go to get the creamer out 144 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: of the fridge and it's not there. And there's still 145 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: some left, you know, maybe like two cups of coffee left. 146 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: And I look in the trash and it's there and 147 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: it's empty, and I didn't do it, and I only 148 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: have two other people who live in my house. Am 149 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: I crazy for being upset about that that one of 150 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: my roommates used the last of my cream in their 151 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: coffee and then a third a way without asking? Yeah? Yeah, 152 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: I mean because no, no, you're not crazy. You're in 153 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: the right, because to me, it's a sign of a 154 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: bigger problem. Right, the creamer is just a tool. The 155 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: creamer is just the creamer. But it could have been 156 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: a pizza, It could have been a meal that you 157 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: would because I will tell you saying, Derek, this has 158 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: happened to me in the past, and I resent it still. 159 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: I literally will put something in the refrigeration, put some 160 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: in the refrigerator. And I was so stoked about having 161 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: when I got home. I was picturing it all day 162 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: and it was gone, and it was left over from 163 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: the night before. But I love I really love left 164 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: especially tortillas. Like tortilla's cold, like enchilada's cold. I love. 165 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, I love them cold. And I had 166 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: a container of cheese enchilades with chopped onions on top 167 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: from the night before, and I came back and Tenas. 168 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him out ten as my old roommate. 169 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: I still he denies it, but I still think he 170 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: ate them because they weren't there. So well you you 171 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: accused him of stealing and saying, look, this is not 172 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: about the creamer. This is about a bigger notion. You know, 173 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: if you took the last of the creamer, what you 174 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: took the last of the dinner I was looking forward to. 175 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 1: We took to the last of the groceries I sat for. 176 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: I mean, you just can't do that. It's just not 177 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: It's not the size of the violation. It's the violation. 178 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: Respect and Derek creamer. What's in creamer? Does it ever 179 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: go bad? I don't even know if it's cream is it? Alright? 180 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: It does go bad, But like a wi years after spices, 181 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: it's the violation, not the size of it. So yeah, 182 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: I would. I would address it head on. Bro. It happens, 183 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: if it could get worse if you don't address it now, 184 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: it gets worse, becomes other things. They're using your and 185 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: take your girl. Yeah exactly, you guys, all right, that'll 186 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: motivate you, man, She's not wrong. Give him an inch. 187 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: They take a yard yeah. Respect. You gotta lay down 188 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: the law trillion. It's not that the creamer is about 189 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: his girl. It's about it's about self respect, boundaries, self respect, 190 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: and self calm offidence. And it's about because you too, 191 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: live alone. So everything you have in your fridge right 192 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: now is yours. Like you live in a house with 193 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: every it's a free for all. Like I'll buy something 194 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: it might be gone tomorrow, like I don't even know. 195 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: I have lived in a home with a plethora of 196 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: women in my day and we did not. It's no, 197 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 1: you got it. You can't do that. If you want 198 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: to share, you can say this is for the house, 199 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: and you share. If you take the last of anything, 200 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 1: you buy a new one, you replace and replenish. It 201 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 1: is a rule that it doesn't sign on the door, 202 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:33,599 Speaker 1: replace and replenish and recycle. All right, let's get to 203 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 1: the morning act then I have it isn't need the 204 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 1: quote of the day. Uh, it's happening to everyone. It's 205 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: time for Thanksgiving dinner and you forget something, Well, these 206 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: are the most forgotten items, so don't make the same 207 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: mistake cranberries. People forget the most napkins and beverages. So 208 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: think about what you're responsible for. Make your list. Cranberries, napkins, 209 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: and beverages are the most forgotten items. Today's quote where 210 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: gratitude like a cloak and it will feed every corner 211 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: of your life headlines Well, the Biden administration is extending 212 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 1: the pause on student loan payments until no later than 213 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: June of next year, as the administration's plan to forgive 214 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: up to twenty thousand dollars in loans is held up 215 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: in court. President Biden announced the extension yesterday in a 216 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: video posted to the White House Twitter account. The Los 217 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: Angeles City Council voted to a probe the Fair work 218 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: Week Ordinance yesterday, which guarantees retail and grocery workers have 219 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: two weeks advanced notice of schedules and compensation for canceled 220 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: or on call shifts. The ordinance will impact about seventy 221 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: thousand retail and grocery workers citywide, and it's expected to 222 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: go into effect April of next year. And after announcing 223 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: that Prince Harry and Megan Markle's highly anticipated Netflix docuseries 224 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: will arrive before the end of the year, we now 225 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: have an official release date. According to the outlet, the 226 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: docuseries will be availed on the streaming platform on December eight. However, 227 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: there's still no information on the show's title or any 228 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: promotional images and trailers yet from Netflix on Air with 229 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: Ryan Secrets, Kylie is with us now, Kylie, good morning, 230 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: How you doing good? How are you doing well? Kylie? So? 231 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: How Oh Kylie? Kyle? What I say? Kylie? How do 232 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: you spoke? K y l? I E right l E. Yeah. 233 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm so used to seeing the name Kylieen on Instagram 234 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: that Kyle became Kylie in my brain. It's okay, Well, 235 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: thank you anyway, What what can we do for you? Oh? So, 236 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: I have a big group shot with a bunch of 237 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: my college friends, and it's like our main form of communication, 238 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: you know, sending means talking about what's going on with 239 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: our lives. All about a year ago, um, two of 240 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: our friends actually broke up and we're all still like 241 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: kind of friendly, but things have been weird for them 242 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: for a while. So one of the guy actually left 243 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: the group chat after they broke up, but now he's uh, 244 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm still friendly with them and everything, but 245 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: now he recently texted me about rejoining the group chat, 246 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: and I just feel like that's super awkward because of 247 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: how weird. Ah, they aren't together, So I just don't 248 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: know what to do. I feel like everybody will freak 249 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: out if I randomly add him back. Well, then you're 250 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: probably right, do you think there is Yeah? I feel like, 251 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: you know, if you add him back, they're going to 252 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: freak out. Yeah, but he's still my friends, so I 253 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: just don't want him to be upset and feel left 254 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: at what if you add him back and then start 255 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: a new one without him? Yeah, I mean, Maid, it's 256 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: a life that can be assured sometimes, right, We're just 257 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: trying to get through some of it, well, Kyle. Usually 258 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: in this situation, group etiquette friend eediquette. Etiquette is a 259 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: tricky one sometimes. But I find in most of the 260 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: conversations we've had with people in that universe, the first 261 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: thing they say to us is the right thing, and 262 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: they know already that's what they should do. So I 263 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: think that that's the right path for you. Yeah, yeah, 264 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: that makes sense. All right, Well, good luck, Hole, thank 265 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: you very much for calling. Thank you, Okay, bye. Don't 266 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: you think when we here calls usually even relationships stuff 267 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: like the first thing they say, they've already almost made 268 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: up their minds. It's just about action. Mm hmm. There's 269 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: a coffee shop with a twist and Echo park that 270 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: we think you should know about sisany as the details now. So, 271 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: I've kind of been toying with the idea of getting 272 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: another tattoo. I want to maybe get something like that 273 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: involves my kids names or their initials or their birthdays. 274 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, write something that you have creative three 275 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: kids tattoos. Oh I have. I have one tattoo. It's hidden. 276 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: It's a little bit hard toying for start. It's kind 277 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: of like whenever something big in my life happens, I 278 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: want like something else that is like drastic afterwards, Like 279 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: when I got married. Uh, after I got married, I died. 280 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: I bleached my hair platinum blonde, and then I dyed 281 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: it purple and pink and and so it's like there's 282 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: something about that with like with big events, when they're over, 283 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: you get the blues. So you want to do something 284 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: bigger to like compensate. So like maybe that's like the 285 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: feeling I'm having now that I've had all my kids 286 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: and like, what's next tattoo? Does everybody agreed that you 287 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: maybe I've had no big events in my life. I'm 288 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: not plotting them done. My hair, Yeah, this is the same. 289 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: It's been for well as long as as long as 290 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: I was this tall, which is a long never had 291 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: You've never had the edge to get a tattoo. Of course, 292 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: I've had the itch. I just don't scratch it because 293 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: I know what my body's gonna look like in thirty 294 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: five years with a tattoo. It's not going to be 295 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: what I want to see. Well, you care in thirty 296 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: five years what your body looks like with the tattoo? Probably, yeah, 297 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: for sure, I think. And also good your body will 298 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: still be tight in thirty five years, So there's that us. Uh, 299 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: you did your hair plottum once or no? Yeah? He did? Yeah? 300 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: He and Jojo kind of like I was creeping around 301 00:16:55,560 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: looking around at their their their style. Not like creeping, 302 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 1: but what is the right verb? I was checking it 303 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 1: out because I thought maybe if I changed my wardrobe 304 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: a little bit, maybe that platinumize my hair at some point. 305 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: But platinumize is something I can get that I could 306 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 1: do and get rid of tattooing. You can't anyway, we are, Yeah, 307 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: I think I think you could and just own it. 308 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: That's that's the difference. Do it and own it, don't 309 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: do it to be shy about it. Um okay. So 310 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: this is l A's first tattoo and coffee shop. Um. 311 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: I think the idea is genius. It's an echo park 312 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: and it's kind of nice. The owner wanted to create 313 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: this space especially for tattooed newbies that wasn't intimidating. So 314 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: when you think about tattoo parlor, you don't really know 315 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: what to expect. Do you feel like intimidated when you 316 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: walk in? Who knows? So this is more of like 317 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: a pink, really inviting coffee shop. They have really cute drinks. 318 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 1: There's like this latte called the ash tray and they 319 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: make it look like the sprinkles of like the cocoa 320 00:17:58,080 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 1: on top look like ash. And then they put a 321 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: like a vanilla straw looking thing in there and think 322 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: it look like a cigarette. Um. And so this have 323 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: like really creative drinks and then you go and get 324 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: your tattoo. And it's so simple to make your appointment. 325 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: I was on their website and you just pick your date. 326 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 1: You say do you need an hour tattoo a two 327 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: hour tattoo, and you go from there. You can have 328 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: a consultation if you're not sure what you want to do. 329 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: I went into one, not this. I went into a 330 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 1: tattoo parlor once with somebody who's getting a tattoo, and 331 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: she asked me to come along with her. And I 332 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: didn't even know what to ask, what questions to ask, 333 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 1: or what to do inside the tattoo parlor because everybody 334 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: felt everybody that was in there was a member, you know, 335 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: like they knew what to do, and I was an outsider. Yeah, 336 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,199 Speaker 1: this would be a good place for you to go to. 337 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: That Like, it's not intimidating. No, it looks very cute. 338 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,919 Speaker 1: It's like my tattoo would be if I got one. Jenny, 339 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: good morning, how you doing. I'm good. How are you guys? 340 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: We are really doing quite well. I mean we've got 341 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: a new member to the family. And if you heard, 342 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: Britania and her very long time boyfriend Robbie got a 343 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: dog named Sonny. That's so exciting. Congratulations, thank you were 344 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: obsessed with her. They say dogs, well, I mean they say, 345 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: we know dogs. You cannot be in a bad mood 346 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: around a dog. A dog changes your mood. It's like 347 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: it's good for wellness. So anyway, Jenne, how can we 348 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: help you? Okay? So, UM, my husband and I go 349 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: it's it's a little bit of a situation. So my 350 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: husband and I go to our local bar almost every weekend. 351 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: So we've actually become really good friends with the staff 352 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: and the bartender, the bartenders there, so so much so 353 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 1: that we actually have started like hanging out with them 354 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: other than the bar. So just really quick backstory, just 355 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: for context. So there's a female bartender who's dating another 356 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 1: bartender there. They are a couple, they have a baby together, 357 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 1: they are boyfriend a friend, they're still together. UM. A 358 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: few months ago, that female bartender hired another, UM, male 359 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: bartender who she said is like her really good friend. 360 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: She describes him as like a brother to her. We 361 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: love him too, so he's actually become part of our 362 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: group as well. UM. So just recently, my husband was 363 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: actually hanging out with this new bartender, the new guy, UM, 364 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: and he revealed to my husband that he's actually been 365 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: sleeping with the female bartender, the one that has the boyfriend, 366 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: that has a baby with this boyfriend. UM. So we 367 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: are obviously incredibly shocked. UM, we don't really know what 368 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 1: to do with this information. Because obviously we're friends with 369 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,880 Speaker 1: everyone in this situation. So, um, we're not quite sure 370 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: if we confront the female bartender, if we tell her 371 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 1: boyfriend we haven't seen anybody in a while. But we 372 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: just really are in such a spot. We have no 373 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 1: idea how to handle this. Well, cishany I see you 374 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: shaking your head, go for it. To me, it's very simple. 375 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: You just go to her girl to girl and say, hey, 376 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: this was said behind your back. I don't know if 377 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: it's true, but you should definitely talk to this guy 378 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 1: and ask why he's spreading rumors or why he's telling 379 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: you know, my husband that that you're sleeping together. M 380 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: I think you go to her girl, girl to girl 381 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: and see what she says and see and then then 382 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:28,919 Speaker 1: but but then what like, so what happens after that 383 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 1: conversation is where does that go? They are sleeping together? Well, 384 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: then now she knows that the dude's telling everybody true, 385 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. One of the things that 386 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 1: we all need to try and do. It's in the 387 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: Four Agreements. It's in the book the Four Grands. I 388 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: need I need to reread that book. Gossip Toxic, Get 389 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: away from it, Stay away from it, don't get near it, 390 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: don't you know, just get it out of your life 391 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 1: because it is there's just no good with it. But 392 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, you could just go back to the 393 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 1: bar your drinks and have fun. Just pretend like you 394 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: guys don't know anything. That would be something I wish 395 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 1: we didn't know this. We both wish we really did 396 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:12,239 Speaker 1: not have this intermed honestly, thing, isn't it. Sometimes you 397 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: just don't want to hear things. I tell Sistening and 398 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: Tanya all the time, don't tell me like they're talking 399 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 1: about something. Well, no, and then we don't tell you, 400 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: and then you get out set that you don't know. 401 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: Let's be clear, Sorry, Jenny, this is now a family 402 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: and family issue. UM. I don't get upset that I 403 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 1: don't know. I just often say I don't want to 404 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: hear you talking about the people you're talking about behind 405 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 1: their backs. I don't I don't want to hear it. 406 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: I don't I don't need to know. Mm hmmm. And 407 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: you guys like that as a sport. Sometimes we don't 408 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: talk about anybody behind their back, with all due respect, 409 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: we don't. We You don't either, Tanya. No, we don't 410 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 1: really talk about people behind their back to talk about 411 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: our own personal lives. Yeah, that's where you getting comfortable 412 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 1: when we're start talking about periods and stuff. I am 413 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: completely comfortable with the period panties that you talked about 414 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: this week, like I've now learned about them and they 415 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: sound good for the environment. But you get so squiggly 416 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 1: squaggly when you're like, oh, I don't know what they're 417 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: talking about again, but you just want no part of it. No, 418 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: it's really a fine line. No. No, I I sit 419 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: here and I listen. I listened to your whole conversation 420 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: about the period panties and what they do in Sistani 421 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 1: asked do you reuse them? And I thought that was 422 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: a very astute question. And now I have knowledge of those, 423 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: So I learned things here. I just sit back sometimes 424 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 1: and watch it happen, and then I get curious. But 425 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: that's the thing gossiping. But you're training reports are kind 426 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: of gossipy anyway. Well, no, if you if you really 427 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: pay attention, I'm reporting facts about what's actually going. Yes, 428 00:23:54,600 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: I am. You're using sometimes like tabloids as No, they're 429 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: not all right, Jenny, Please. I think Sisany's advice is 430 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 1: the best here. Yeah, I agree. I think that's that's 431 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 1: probably gonna be the plan of action. All right, we're 432 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: good luck, all right on air with Ryan Seacrest. I 433 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: should have come up with this idea in the meeting yesterday. 434 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 1: And by the way, good morning, how are you? Siany 435 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: is here? Did everyone else go on Thanksgiving vacation early? 436 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,400 Speaker 1: Where is everybody to? I don't see I only see 437 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:39,360 Speaker 1: sisany on my zoom. Danya, you're here, I'm here? Can 438 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 1: you Mark? Would you mind trucking down Brady Granger for me? 439 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: I think he should tell us about introducing me to 440 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 1: this tur ducan? Have you read tur Ducan? Where they 441 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: take a turkey, you put inside the turkey put a duck, 442 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 1: and inside the duck you put a chicken and you 443 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 1: stack it up like a doll. Then you just eat 444 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: the whole thing and inside. Yeah, it's a lot. And 445 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: Grannie no Brady Grania? Yeah, his friend Brady, My friend 446 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: Brady who was almost my roommate when I first moved. 447 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: I never knew his last name. You know, if you 448 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: were here today and full picture you you would have 449 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,160 Speaker 1: seen me say it. I discovered that his shirtless pictures 450 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: hanging at my doctor's office. Yeah, you know the fact 451 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: that this city is so small. The six degrees of 452 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: Kevin Bacon get me every time. So anyway, we'll track 453 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 1: him now because he taught me how to make tur ducan, which, 454 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: if you don't understand, I've never heard about it. It's 455 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,239 Speaker 1: really fun to listen to. So we get to all 456 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 1: that too, and Gus Gus, good morning bro. How you doing. Guys? 457 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 1: Good morning Ryan? How are you? I'm solid, bro? What's up? Uh? 458 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 1: Not much, man, Just you know, living life. That's good. 459 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: I like it. Gratitude, life, not mistake. So exactly, it 460 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: says here, there's this you're calling about dating? Yeah, yeah, stuff. 461 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: So I'm trying to get your thoughts on this. I 462 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: I kind of reached out to some friends and gathered uh, 463 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: their thoughts, and I wanted to see what. You know, 464 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: you're like the relationship expert guy. You know where you're 465 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 1: calling here, expert you give thank you? Um okay. So 466 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: I go on this date with this girl that I 467 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: need online on on the Hinge app, and um, it's 468 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: going well. I was actually very excited to meet up 469 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 1: with her. And we've gone to day. Everything is going well. 470 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 1: And we get to the part of the date where 471 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 1: we kind of start talking about, you know, maybe previous 472 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 1: relationships and all that, where we stand with with that, 473 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: and um, it comes to my attention or she reveals 474 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: to me that she has actually never been in a 475 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: relationship with a man before and her only relationship was 476 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: with a female. And I have there's nothing wrong with that. 477 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: But for me that was red flag emoji because I 478 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: didn't want to be the one that you're the first, 479 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: the first one, you know, what are you scared of? Well, 480 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: there's I just feel like a couple of things like okay. Also, 481 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 1: also she didn't meant and the biggest thing that she 482 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: mentioned was that she struggles to emotionally connect with men 483 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: and this is the main reason why she hasn't been 484 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: in a relationship with the man. Now, what what does 485 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: she seeing you? Well, that's the whole thing. I was like, Okay, 486 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: then what are we what are what are you doing? 487 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 1: You know, what are we doing? Like even I just 488 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: felt like her mentioning that to me was like her 489 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: way of being like, this isn't gonna work out. But 490 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: but after the date, she was the one to reach out. 491 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: She wanted to hang out with that stay in the 492 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: back of my mind. So I kind of I kind 493 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 1: of I messed up a little bit, and I kind 494 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: of just I should have been more um up front 495 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: with her and uh, transparent with how I was feeling, 496 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: and instead I kind of just I kind of ghosted her, 497 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: which I know isn't right. Maybe that's why she doesn't 498 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: emotionally connect with men. And I'm just realizing that now 499 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: as I'm speaking out loud. I don't think you're wrong 500 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: to wonder some things here right about, like what's you know, 501 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:20,239 Speaker 1: it's tricky because right but she attracted to you, So 502 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 1: I guess there's two things here, Gus. You know, you 503 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: can be extremely inquisitive and curious and ask questions, or 504 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: you can just kind of go with the fact that 505 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,919 Speaker 1: she's attracted to you for the moment and see how 506 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: this all plays out. And I would probably do that, right. 507 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: I mean, it's probably too late now because I bailed 508 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: on her a couple of times. You know, we no, no, no, no, no, 509 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 1: it's not it's not too late as long as no, 510 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: because if you're transparent and say hi, it's me, I 511 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: just gotta tell you why I didn't respond, why I ghosted, 512 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: because I just I just this is new to me 513 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: and I'm in unfamiliar territory. But you know what, I'm 514 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 1: down to, like get to know you and let's just 515 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: let's just go out and see where it goes. I 516 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: would use some of those words actually, as I'm saying, 517 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: you do. You give really good advice, but I can't 518 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: use any of it. It's like I have this unsuperpower 519 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,479 Speaker 1: in real life that I can't use it. Unbelievable. Right, 520 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna draft some stuff up in my 521 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 1: notes and maybe just tell tell her why because it's unfamiliar. 522 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: You just don't know and you're really sorry. So let's 523 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 1: forget that and let's go out Friday. So awesome. I'm 524 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: not I'm busy, but maybe next week for sure. Stop that. 525 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 1: Stop putting up the walls. What's Saturday? Whatever? You you 526 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 1: get it? Thank you. So I think in times of 527 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: walking away, there is a window where you can come 528 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: back if you tell someone why you walked away and 529 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: authentic and it was for growth. He needed to need 530 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: some time to process all of it. Yeah, or he 531 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 1: just wasn't being open about it, right, I mean, I 532 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: think that's okay. And she may say no, but at 533 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: least he has the peace of mind that he did it. 534 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: I think, Okay, let's get to the stories. What do 535 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: you have? And by the way, Tanya, now I see 536 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: you because I have you pulled up on my laptop. 537 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: Why the angle is are you in your home or 538 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: Robbie's I'm in my home? Okay, because it's a different 539 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: angle to that. Yeah, I like this angle. Little peekaboo 540 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: of the window. Go ahead, alright, So I love the 541 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: story so much. Jamal and Wanda are set to meet 542 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: up again this year. Let me just give you a 543 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: little backstory in Wanda Dench thought she was texting her 544 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 1: grandson to invite him to Thanksgiving dinner, but she mistakenly 545 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: reached Jamal Hinton that he was a high school senior 546 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: at the time, and he responded by saying, Okay, can 547 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: you please confirm that you're my grandma? Please send me 548 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 1: a photo of yourself. So she did, and then he 549 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: quickly like, okay, you're not my grandma, But can I 550 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: still get a plate though? And Wanda said, of course 551 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: you can. That's what grandma's do. We feed everyone. So 552 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 1: now six years later, they're still getting together and they 553 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: share a meal each year now he brings his girlfriend, 554 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: michaela who has been welcomed girlfriend, Michael bringing the girlfriend 555 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: and so um, it's really special because especially this year. 556 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: Last year was the first year that they had this 557 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner without her husband because he died last year 558 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: because of COVID nineteen and they posted a picture at 559 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: last years Thanksgiving with him in the picture frame. But 560 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: I just I love this friendship so much. It's all 561 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: based on getting the wrong number or texting the wrong 562 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: number and beautiful kind. It's it's one of those great 563 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 1: stories that reminds you to always be kind. And also 564 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: you never know what that day is going to bring 565 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: you never know you never know what that day is 566 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: going to bring in who you might mean, where it 567 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: might go. I mean, I'm I'm just saying, hey, Brady, alright. 568 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 1: So Brady, for example, Brady was almost my roommate. He 569 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: didn't he I was a long story, but he was almost. 570 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: But he hung with us still all the time. When 571 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: I first moved to l A. He was a nurse 572 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: at the time in the valley. But he didn't wake 573 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,239 Speaker 1: up this morning thing. And I'm gonna track him down 574 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 1: and call him today, And here we are just to 575 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: give thanks to each other. Hey, can you can you 576 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: hang on for a second. I want to talk about there. 577 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 1: Ducan sure, Yeah, I'm here. I'm just driving my daughter 578 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: to school. Hi. How are you good? Good? Well? All right, 579 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: we'll hold on one set, guys, be careful driving, and 580 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: do you remember how to build the tra Ducan Brady, Okay, 581 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: hold one second. This is the guys, This is my 582 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: this is my my. We called it a posse. Before 583 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: I worked here, I was hanging with Tanas and Brady 584 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: and Tannis. So I want to just take you back. 585 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: We're all given thanks to family and friends this week 586 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: with Thanksgiving coming up tomorrow. And uh, I believe when 587 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: I first moved to Los Angeles, I was nineteen and 588 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: I roomed with Tannaz, Mark Tannaz and Mark Louis at 589 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: the time, living in vert On Verdugo in Hollywood. White 590 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: Park Point was the apartment complex right by the big 591 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: power lines. And Brady came into the picture. Brady, how 592 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 1: did you come into the picture? Back then? You know? 593 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: I went I was on the dating game one day 594 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: with Chuck Glory. Yeah, and I remember meeting a bunch 595 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: of people in the in the green room and asked 596 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: them where to go out that night, and they told 597 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: me to go to this place called um Club Lingerie. 598 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: So I went there and I went there and I 599 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: go to the bar and just getting a drink by 600 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: myself with my blue jeans Gnham pants and button down shirt. 601 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: And there next to me was a C slayer, Oh Maya. 602 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, Bud, hey Mario. At least I 603 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: knew his name, didn't call him a C. And he said, 604 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 1: are you from I'm like you always, like I've never 605 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 1: been there. He's like, come down and joined the friend 606 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: and I met to Nasa. Oh so Tannaz my roommate. 607 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: My roommate was friends with Maria because we all lived 608 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: in the same day, lived in the same apartment complex 609 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: got and Tanas is very friendly. He's a he's a 610 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: party guy, life for the party. Yeah, we love him. 611 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay. Now, by the way, I think they 612 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: changed it's now called Warwick Club Entree in yeah, listening 613 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:34,720 Speaker 1: on the scene, I'm not yeah, I'm there every Tuesday. 614 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 1: Isn't that the night? I mean? I remember when I 615 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: was like back then, people are like, yeah, big night 616 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: is Monday's, Like really, a big night is Monday. How 617 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 1: do you think Monday the big night? Tuesday was a 618 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: day of rest. All right, Well, listen, he taught me 619 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: and said, you know we did growing up in Louisiana 620 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: was we made tur ducan, which is turkey. Then inside 621 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 1: the turkey is a duck, and inside the duck is 622 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: a chicken, and you cook the whole thing. But Brady, 623 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 1: tell us about that tradition and how you really make it. Well, 624 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't think you put the ducks in the chickens 625 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 1: the other way around. Well whatever, yeah, you just it's 626 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of you know, it's kind of 627 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: saying anyone makes it a different kind of way. But yeah, 628 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 1: you just basically take the smaller bird, you shove it 629 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 1: in the next size, larger burden, and then do it 630 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: again to the next one. And have you have you 631 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 1: made that recently? No, you know what, it's been a while, 632 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: my my, um, since I've done that. It's um, you know, 633 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: with kids don't kind of like those types of things. 634 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 1: In Berlin, sitting here as vegetarians though she doesn't go 635 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 1: for the meat stuff. Your daughter is vegetarian. That's great. Yeah, 636 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,479 Speaker 1: she teaches me a lot about the nutrition these days. 637 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: Plant baste. Plant baste is the way to go, bro, 638 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: Apparently I'm learning. Well, how about this. My old roommate 639 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: was a club lingereis driving is two little girls right 640 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: now to school? What a what a shift this is? 641 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: And I like it? You should try it sometimes. Yeah, 642 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 1: you keep telling me that let me know when to 643 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 1: let me know when you're really I'll give you some pointers. 644 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: I mean, this is the guy who used to crash 645 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: in my bedroom. Okay, this is the guy that crash 646 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 1: in my house. All right, Brady, it's great to it's 647 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 1: great to chat with you. Be um, be safe. I 648 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: have a great holiday, Happy Thanksgiving, buddy. All right, all right, 649 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: Chelsea and good morning, Good morning your fiance and you 650 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 1: just moved in with your parents. Tell me what's going on. 651 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 1: So we decided to save some money before the wedding 652 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 1: so we can buy a house. But when we moved in, 653 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: my parents really stressed us that we can't, you know, 654 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: fool around in their house. I understand where they're coming 655 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 1: from to a certain extent, but this is like my 656 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: fiance now, and you can't link together and not be intimate. 657 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 1: So like we are, we supposed to do it, you know, 658 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 1: get it? On and I'm down to break the rules. 659 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: But my fiance he's not up for risking it because 660 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,959 Speaker 1: he wants to respect my parents wishes. So that's nice 661 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 1: of him, but I don't think that's realistic. I am 662 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 1: on your team, and yeah, I mean, come on, let's 663 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,319 Speaker 1: all grow up here for a second. Right. It's it's 664 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: your fiance and you're grateful to be in the home 665 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: with the parents. But parents just don't understand. Sometimes parents 666 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: just don't sometimes they've done it. Where am I wrong 667 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: when that's how he got there. It's like five months 668 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: from now, So five months will be living with my parents. Okay, um, 669 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 1: I say tough at out. You think we're not going 670 00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 1: to do it for five months, I say, tough a 671 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: ut and build it up for the wedding night. Don't 672 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:47,720 Speaker 1: just make it that much better. Doesn't work. He didn't 673 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: want to bring it up or just wait until your 674 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 1: parents are not home one night or not home during 675 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,760 Speaker 1: the day. He won't do it at all in the house. 676 00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: He just wants to respect my parents. He thinks they're 677 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: going to find out and it's going to ruin everything 678 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: with you, and I respect that you should respect it. 679 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 1: I feel like that's so noble of him to care 680 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 1: that much about your parents feelings. That's a good point. However, 681 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 1: I would have a conversation with your parents about reality. Okay, 682 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 1: And it's to a hotel for a night or a car, 683 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: your car, car good. I was like sixteed. There's two choices, 684 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 1: three choices here. You tell your parents that you know 685 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 1: they're not going to know, just look the other way, 686 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: you leave the house, or you wait it out. So 687 00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 1: it's one of three doors, good luck, And I don't 688 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 1: pick one of the three doors. You pick one of 689 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 1: the three doors. Pick a door. Welcome Tyler Florence to 690 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 1: the show. We're good. You know tomorrow is Thanksgiving. I 691 00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: feel like that is the super Bowl of food. If 692 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,880 Speaker 1: you had to say, what is the most important food 693 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: when it comes to Thanksgiving, what would you say? Don't 694 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: say turkey? Well I was. I was gonna say the turkey, 695 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,800 Speaker 1: but I'm like everybody says in turkey, I think it 696 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: the gravy. I think the gravy is gotta be super important, right, 697 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: um so so so, but let me let me jump 698 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 1: into the turkey real fast. So um, if you have 699 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: it like fully decided on which direction you want to go, 700 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,279 Speaker 1: with a bird, I'd like to highly recommend that you 701 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 1: don't put a whole bird in the oven because I 702 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: think historically it's just kind of a disaster, right it 703 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,439 Speaker 1: really really think. Yeah, So so you want to treat 704 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 1: like a big chicken instead, I'd actually treat it like 705 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: a big football. Right. So, if you've got this twelve, 706 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: if you've got this twelve, the four teen found bird, 707 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 1: there's probably a little frozen in the middle, let's be real, 708 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,959 Speaker 1: probably a little bit, right. So then by the time 709 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: the heat, the radiant heat from the oven penetrates down 710 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: to the bones, and that's the most critical part because 711 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: people get freaked out if it's a little pink by 712 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 1: the bone, right that that the turkey itself, the protein 713 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 1: is just kind of hammered, and then you really really 714 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: need the great right. But if you if you, if 715 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 1: you can ask your butcher to do it, it's not 716 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: that difficult. Break it down like a big chicken. So 717 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: you've got two breasts with the wings connected, and then 718 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: you've got two legs, and it's gonna be the thighs 719 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,959 Speaker 1: and the drumsticks. Right, So if you can take away 720 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 1: what they call the middle cage, which like the rip section. 721 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 1: Take that out. You could save that for stock if 722 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,479 Speaker 1: you want. But then take the turkey season with salt 723 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: and up on both sides. See it really really well. Um, 724 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: you know, if you can't get all four pieces in 725 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 1: the pan at the same time, just take it like 726 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 1: two pieces at a time, skin side down until it 727 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: gets really kind of nice and brown and crispy. Flip 728 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: it over onto a cookie sheet or sheet pan. Bake 729 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,319 Speaker 1: in the oven at three seventy five until you can 730 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 1: insurrede thermometer. They'll give you about a one fifty five temperature. 731 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: It takes it takes less than an hour, like no joke. 732 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: It takes an app maybe an hour, right, less than 733 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 1: an hour, and you get the most succulent, right, most succulent, 734 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: most delicious turkey ever had your entire life without having 735 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: it to be just really really overcooked and hammered. And 736 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: then then you instead of having this big you know 737 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 1: Norman Rockwell presentation of the Whole Bird, but still but 738 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,879 Speaker 1: it really does anyway, just just taking like the dark 739 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: meat slices off really well, the breast meat slices beautifully, 740 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: and you can have this really nice platter is kind 741 00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: of easier to get to but the texture of the 742 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,200 Speaker 1: turkey is not overcooked. And that's the thing about it. 743 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: When you put a whole bird in the oven, you're 744 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 1: guaranteed overcook it and that's where you get the dry 745 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 1: of the turkey and all that. Wow, our mind is blown. 746 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,239 Speaker 1: And I love the fact that you can do it 747 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,359 Speaker 1: in an hour's time. I know, I feel like my 748 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: mom's always cooking it for like hours on end on 749 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: things to right down. That is Tyler Florence. And you 750 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 1: know you've watched him on the Food Network. I mean 751 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: like you've done like so many different shows, Tyler's Ultimate, 752 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,480 Speaker 1: I mean, the Great Food Truck Race. You've written like 753 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 1: a thousand cookbooks. So welcome. And you know you have 754 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 1: this podcast now that you're doing with Wells Adams. What 755 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,920 Speaker 1: can you tell us about the podcast? So it's two 756 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 1: dudes in the kitchen. Uh, Wells and I are going 757 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 1: to get together once a week and crack each other 758 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: up and start talking about recipes. He's a huge foodie. 759 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 1: We met through the Food Network. He was a contestant 760 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 1: on Worst Cooks in America a couple of years ago. 761 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,000 Speaker 1: He actually won and he did a really really great job. 762 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,800 Speaker 1: Like he's a very very serious cook and we became 763 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,919 Speaker 1: friends and so we stayed connected over the last couple 764 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,280 Speaker 1: of years. And and I've always kicked around the idea 765 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,439 Speaker 1: about getting together once a week and start talking about 766 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 1: food and life and and uh. And we we banged 767 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,239 Speaker 1: out a pilot and it was excellent and we had 768 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 1: a good time with it. So we're partnering this with 769 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: through the I Heart Radio network and it's gonna be 770 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. So you can get this podcast 771 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: two dudes in a kitchen anywhere that you get podcasts, 772 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,480 Speaker 1: and it is so much fun. We're gonna be taking 773 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: call ins. We're gonna be you know, talking about current events. 774 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna be talking about like TikTok, influencers, uh, anything 775 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:39,839 Speaker 1: and everything that has to do in the food world. 776 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,479 Speaker 1: We're gonna cover it. And we're just gonna get together 777 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 1: once a week and to start jumping into the kitchen. 778 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 1: Tyler Florence is with us right now, you know. And 779 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: it's that time of year wish list Wednesday, So Macie's 780 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 1: has everything you need for this holiday to prep like 781 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: air friars, instant pot Dutch ovens with Tanya, which Tanya 782 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 1: is very excited about. Yeah, I really want a Dutch 783 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 1: of in this baking pans, but but most importantly electronic 784 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: wine openers, which I'm excited about, bottle stoppers. So what's 785 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 1: one item everyone needs this holiday season? Tyler Florence. What 786 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 1: would you say, Well, let's start, let's start cheap and 787 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 1: then go expensive because you know, I'm there's a couple 788 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 1: of things I really like it Macy's right now. I 789 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 1: think the Neutral Bullet like pro Plus. It's like a 790 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 1: little mini blender that that makes such great smoothies. Like 791 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: to me, like I, I um use these so much, 792 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: I'll burn through them and probably get a new one 793 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 1: every year. Um, I think these are great. Yeah. So, 794 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: and they're about eighty bucks. And it's kind of one 795 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,839 Speaker 1: of those things that like, especially because there's so much 796 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: like touch and go in the morning, especially with the kids, 797 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: right trying to get the kids to school and giving 798 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 1: them a healthy breakfast, and you just want to put 799 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: something healthy in their stomach. So making a nice bix, know, 800 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: peanut butter protein smoothie in the morning. They love that 801 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 1: kind of stuff. It's the It's the Neutral Bullet Pro 802 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: Plus from Macy's at It's on sale right now. It 803 00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: used to be a hundred nineteen bucks, and I think 804 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: that's a really good one. Yeah. And then another another 805 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: thing I thought was really good too, because you know 806 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 1: when you're especially when you're cooking at around the holidays, 807 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: having extra cutting boards, I think it's always really really 808 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,840 Speaker 1: so much so yeah, so so Joseph. Joseph is the 809 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 1: name of the company of the designer, and it's called 810 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: the Folio Stainless Steel four piece chopping boards set. It's 811 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,359 Speaker 1: it's got a really pretty stainless steel case and it 812 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 1: comes in a different color, comes into a couple of 813 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: different colors like black and copper and then steel, so 814 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,840 Speaker 1: it could look really kind of stealth and pretty in 815 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: your kitchen. But having but it's inside this case, it's 816 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 1: got three portable cutting boards that you can kind of 817 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,439 Speaker 1: spread the workload out if somebody else wants to join 818 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 1: in the kitchen to help chopping onion or something like that. 819 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 1: Got that knocked out. Now, the thing that I think, 820 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: you know, would could transform your kitchen. And this is 821 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 1: a little expensive, right, and but it's the Precision griddle 822 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:59,080 Speaker 1: from Wolf Gourmet, right, so it's available at Macy's. It's 823 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,239 Speaker 1: got really really super higher ratings, like four point four 824 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,279 Speaker 1: stars out of five. Right, now, this thing is six 825 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,600 Speaker 1: This is six bucks. This is a commitment, right. But 826 00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 1: it is a flat top griddle because most people when 827 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 1: you cook, right, like like let's say for Thanksgiving, you're 828 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 1: cooking for people. How big is your sautape pan anyway? 829 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 1: Ten inches twelve inches? Right, it really kind of makes 830 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 1: it hard to see her and cook things in volume. Now, 831 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: this is a griddle that you know, on on the 832 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: average weekend, you can make French toast, you can make pancakes. 833 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 1: But if you're really gonna like cook and volume, if 834 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna if you're cooking for a group and or 835 00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: an event, I think having something like this it's a 836 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: professional grade. I even think it's like NSF certified. I 837 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: think it's like you actually take it to a restaurant kitchen, 838 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,760 Speaker 1: but you could you could see her things in volume 839 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: and and really kind of cook at scale. It's also 840 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 1: got a lit on top of it. You can steam 841 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 1: some things too, which is really great. So there's a 842 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 1: couple of really good things. I was going through the website. 843 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,840 Speaker 1: Macy's is such a fantastic store. There's so much to 844 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 1: choose from. But yeah, those are my my three hits 845 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:02,479 Speaker 1: right now, those are awesome, very good suggestions. I love that. Well, 846 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the time to chat 847 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: with us. Two dudes in a kitchen. Make sure you 848 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,319 Speaker 1: check out Tyler Florence with Wells Adams Out of There. 849 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 1: That is our new podcast on the I Heart Radio app. 850 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 1: Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving. Everybody? All right, 851 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 1: take care and you know tomorrow is also the Mazy's 852 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Parade on NBC from nine am to noon, and 853 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 1: fifty minutes of NonStop music is next on air with 854 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:34,839 Speaker 1: Ryan Secrets. All right, that's gonna do it for us. Hey, 855 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: have a happy Thanksgiving, moments of gratitude, probably eating things. 856 00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: I'm just picturing butter and cheese and cream. That's what 857 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 1: I'm picturing. Put all together, I'm saying that you could 858 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: consume up to three thousand calories in one Thanksgiving. Well, 859 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 1: if you don't, you're letting yourself down. Face yourself Thanksgiving, guys, 860 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,279 Speaker 1: Kiss will beyond through it. All right, y'all, take care. 861 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to on air with Ryan Seacrest. Make 862 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow. 863 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:06,640 Speaker 1: M