1 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown and bishone. 2 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 2: Hey hey, Mandre are you? 3 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Oh? 4 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: You know hanging in there. I feel like mercury is 5 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 3: in retrograde and the world is coming to get me. 6 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: So I am in my bunker. I don't want to 7 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 3: leave this house. 8 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: Well, your hair's cute. I was like, ooh, I like 9 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 2: this update with the bag. 10 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. I finally got my new pattern product 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: in the mail. 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 2: Ooh, it's do when you good girl? All these girl 13 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: who's popping? 14 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 3: What's up with you? 15 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 2: Oh? I finally got my Webby award in the mail. 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 3: Hey, better late than never. When you started posting, I'm like, 17 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 3: is this old content from me? 18 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 1: No? Literally, I got it that day and I was like, 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: At first I thought they'd sent me mine and yours. 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 2: I was like, why do I have too? 21 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: Then I remember that we were doubly amazing and because 22 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: we won two Webby Awards. 23 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: Yes, girl, pull that bag out. 24 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: Doesn't it feel like you want an award to feel? Yes, 25 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: it feels like there's. 26 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: Waight to it. 27 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: See if you watch this on YouTube like you ought 28 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 1: to do, he you know, then you could see Mandy's 29 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: holding up one of her two Webby Awards. And if 30 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: you're not familiar to the Webby Awards is it's a 31 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 1: online It's an international Internet award for excellence so all 32 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: things Internet and it's an international award well respected. Uh. 33 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: This year made the Stallion one, Drew Barrymore, a bunch 34 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: of other people and Brown Ambition one two. Webby said 35 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: in Business, y'all the best, and then Webby said, let's 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: ask the people what they think about the Business podcast, 37 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: and the people. 38 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: Say, y'all the best. So yeah, it was pretty awesome. 39 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 3: Oh I'm so glad that you got them. So that 40 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 3: means you finally checked your po box? Right? 41 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: Are they melted to my house? It just literally came 42 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, what's this? And then I started 43 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: opening them and I was like my Webby Award. Oh 44 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: they sent me Mandy's too. 45 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 2: Then I was like, wait a minute, we got oh 46 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: no dues. 47 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: So yes, I'm excited. That's I mean, it's nice to 48 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 3: have that. Like it's nice we let we have y'all's love, 49 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 3: but it's nice to get a little some some little recognition. 50 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 3: We're also nominated for a Plutus Award. We've been nominated 51 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 3: several times. I don't think we've ever won a Plutus, 52 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: which is like the personal finance like NERD Award. And 53 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 3: I'm actually gonna be there at fin Con in a 54 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 3: couple of weeks where they will be announcing the winners. 55 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 3: So if we win, I will try to represent. 56 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: Ray some cute girls you can get on that stage 57 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 2: and be like, I just want to dedicate this award. 58 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 3: So anxious about being people are gonna see me from 59 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: like the top of my boobs down, and I don't 60 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 3: think people have seen that much of me. Like I'm 61 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 3: gonna have to wear a bra. You guys don't understand 62 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 3: when I tell you my bras, I do not know 63 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 3: where they even are in my closet because I have 64 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 3: not worn them in so long. I am so I 65 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: don't want to wear a bra so badly that I 66 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 3: bought those like little like chicken cutlet pasties. I just 67 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 3: cover the so when I go to daycare pickup, but 68 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 3: it's not scandal kids they cut into my sides like 69 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 3: I even. 70 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like I'm a sports marau girl 71 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: these days, just because like at the house, because it's 72 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: just so uncomfortable to your point, but I'm like oh, 73 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 1: let me not look crazy on this line. 74 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 2: Let me just w it at Sports broad at least 75 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: there's some cushion. 76 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: But the other day is I have braw let like 77 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 3: three times bigger than what I need, so that I 78 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: don't even feel it, Like it's just catching. 79 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: I know the men's they don't understand they I was 80 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: watching this, this is just random. I was watching this 81 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: documentary and just had me thinking, like, remember last week 82 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: we talked about how you know, like so many of 83 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: like the gruruls, meaning like you know, the people who 84 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: are doing well in business but are having a hard 85 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: time behind the scenes. So I was watching this documentary 86 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: of I think it was Insider of the guys who 87 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: robbed the Kim Kardashian in Paris. Remember that time she 88 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: was in Paris and they ran up in her. Yeah, 89 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: and so they called them like I forget what they 90 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: called them, but basically these guys ranged in age from 91 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: six seventy two. 92 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: They were like old g h rob wait basically. 93 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: Got it, Okay, it's literally like so it's been like 94 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: they caught them though they caught Yeah, they caught them 95 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 1: because one of them left his DNA behind and so 96 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: they spent like twenty two months in jail or something, 97 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: and so they basically asked him and they so, you 98 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: know it was Vice. Well Vice did a documentary about 99 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: it too, like a mini documentary. But they asked them, 100 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: you know, why did you rob Kim Kardashian. Did you 101 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: feel bad? He was like, well, He's like, honestly, I'm 102 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: not really on social media, but like, my granddaughter basically 103 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: was showing me here's this rich person and she was talking, 104 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: you know, she was flashing. 105 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: Her ring about her money yes, and he said, oh, 106 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 2: she don't really want that thing. 107 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: So he was like old school, you know, back in 108 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: the day, Robert him and his you know, he literally 109 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: it's like a movie. He got the old crew together. 110 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: It was like, let's go get that money. And he said, 111 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: literally he was able to track every moment of her 112 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: day because she posted everything real time on social media 113 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: and you should have seen me in So they did 114 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: like a broader They didn't just do the the Kim 115 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Kardashian guy. They also like interviewed other people who were 116 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: robbing folks, and they were basically like, yo, social media 117 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: has been He said, back in the day, you used 118 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: to have to stalk outside someone's house and watch. 119 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: He said, I don't have to do that anymore. 120 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: He said, One, I can know exactly where you are, 121 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: at least the area because on your social media, I 122 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: can see your geolocation. Two, you have a picture of 123 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: you holding all this cash. I'm like, bet they have cash. 124 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: Three you're talking about I'm going to be dot dot 125 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: dot here tonight. It's like, say less, I'll come get 126 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: that watch, you know. And I just thought, you know, 127 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: like it's so crazy, whether you know you're a Kim 128 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: Kardashian or just a regular person, how much we actually 129 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: share and how much we put ourselves in danger by 130 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,559 Speaker 1: sharing what we share, and you know, like people wanting 131 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: to come and steal your watch or money or or 132 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: things like that. 133 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 2: And I just was just like to watch. 134 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: It was really like ie opening because I don't really 135 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: post like, you know, like that kind of stuff anymore, 136 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 1: but I used to. I used to be like, you know, 137 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: it was fun like now I'm out here, like oh 138 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 1: we went to hear I'm about to get on you know, 139 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: you don't think about it, or like I'm on vacation, 140 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 1: basically come rob my house, you know. Yeah, So it's 141 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: just what I just wanted to get your feedback on 142 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: that that, like, whoof how does that make you feel? 143 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: Like knowing that like, yikes that people be watching? 144 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 3: I don't. I mean I feel like I maybe because 145 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: I've covered personal finance for so long and I covered 146 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 3: like cyber crime and like people stealing. And one of 147 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 3: the one of the tips experts would always say is 148 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: do not post on social media when you're going on vacation. 149 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 3: And one of my good friends, like a family friend, 150 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 3: just posted this weekend a picture of her kids at 151 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: the airport. Is are about to go to you know, 152 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 3: on a trip, And I was like, don't are you 153 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 3: at the airport now? Is this an old photo? Like, 154 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 3: don't post that right now, because literally now everyone knows 155 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 3: that you're gonna be gone for an extended period of 156 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 3: time at your house. So I don't know, in the 157 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 3: back of my mind, I've always felt that way. So 158 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 3: a lot of the stuff I post is from the 159 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 3: day after or you know, the week after or whatever. 160 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 3: But yeah, do not. I don't know if there's a 161 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 3: way to like turn I don't think that like Instagram 162 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 3: tracks your location, right, I mean, unless. 163 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: You put the locations well, this is what integra Every 164 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: time I come on, like, cause you know, I always 165 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: take the app off my phone cause toxic. So whenever 166 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: I download the app again and I signed it, it 167 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: always says before I post something, do I want to 168 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: have approximate location or pinpointed location? That doesn't give me 169 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: an opportunity to say neither as far as I can tell, 170 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: And so I always say approximate obviously because I'm just 171 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: like little child. But it is really scary, you know, 172 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: like in this day and age, it's just really crazy 173 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: because one of the things that the robbers said, he said, 174 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: it's it's like Heroin to influencers, that the attention they 175 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: get for showing off their financial gains. 176 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 2: And literally they. 177 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: Had just interviewed a young woman who her whole apartment 178 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: was ransacked just a few months prior, and she asked 179 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: her what are you doing now to protect herself? 180 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: She was saying the same things. 181 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: You know, I don't post real time, but she the 182 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 1: interviewer went out with her party with her friends, and 183 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: literally in the interview, she's showing. 184 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: Off her watch. 185 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, this watch I bought for this, And then the 186 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: interviewers said, like after leaving her and her friends at 187 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: the party, she said, now let me check her Instagram 188 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: and looked at her stories, and in her stories it 189 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: showed exactly where she was because she's like I just 190 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: left her, so she's currently there now exactly what she's doing. 191 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: It's like I wonder, like, what is that need for 192 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: validation so much that after putting your life at risk. 193 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 2: And almost having it taken. 194 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 3: You put your life at risk again, like soon after 195 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 3: instant gratification. There must be some kind of like chemical, 196 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: like a hit of something like it the dopamine receptors 197 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 3: in our brains or whatever it is that make when 198 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 3: you eat sugar, and it's like more more a little 199 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: bit of that, and I'm like everyone else, I get 200 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: that little bit of like a you know, when you 201 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 3: see something you posted of like has like gotten a 202 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,479 Speaker 3: lot of attention, you get that little bit of like gratification. 203 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: I'm suspicious of that feeling, though at least be like 204 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 3: I think we should all be suspicious of that feeling 205 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: and just ask why do you need that? You know, 206 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 3: and are you okay without it? I'm very at peace. 207 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 3: If you came to my house and took something, I'd 208 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 3: still be I like, you know what you want my 209 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 3: zucchinis and my want the caterpillars. 210 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: Right, It's true, there's nothing really to take over here. 211 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to carry cash on me. 212 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 3: I'm meant my baby and maybe husband on. 213 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 2: A day, depending on the day you came. 214 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 3: However, if you'd like a sixty pound mutt, you can 215 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: take Molly in. 216 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 2: Molly's like, oh word, if you can carry her, you. 217 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 3: Can have her. 218 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, it just can't be thinking like a lot, 219 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: like you know, because it's really hard honestly, social media. 220 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: I just was like I jumped down the robbin hole 221 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: of just watching what what it's done to people's psyche, 222 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: watching financial affluence being touted on social media. You know 223 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: how this is huge raise and like you know, cybercrimes 224 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: and just like you know, depression and just feeling you're 225 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 1: comparing yourself. I remember, do you remember when we first 226 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: going on? Like I remember, like Facebook was the only thing. 227 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,599 Speaker 1: But I remember when I first came on Facebook and 228 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: there were people who I knew in real life, because 229 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: back then you've just followed people that you knew. But 230 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: I remember being like, wait, he's on that lavish vacation, 231 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: but I know them. He doesn't have money. I just 232 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: remember being so confused because I was like, such and 233 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 1: such works at the pharmacy, making nine dollars an hour, 234 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: complaining about you know, his nineteen eighty nine civic But 235 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 1: meanwhile the pictures were saying, just oh, you're luxuriating once 236 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: again in Miami, And I just remember being so confused, 237 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: and honestly, I started to feel like, what am I 238 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: doing wrong? Because that person can afford this and I 239 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: seemingly can't afford that. But I remember that very, very 240 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: very being confused about how people I knew, how they 241 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: were living in real life versus what they were putting 242 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: on social media not real life at the time that 243 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: that was something it was going to develop into this 244 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: dual life that people portrayed as a release to their finances. 245 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 3: You know, yeah, I don't think anything has driven that 246 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 3: point home. The whole point of like social media is 247 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 3: a curated lie that we tell the world as much 248 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 3: as like now that I'm a mom, every cute picture 249 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 3: of my son, just know bet that there was a 250 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 3: tantrum before or after, and I wanted to give him 251 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 3: back to the uterus like just no, and my own 252 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: mother when she saw it in person when I was 253 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 3: visiting her in July in Saint Louis, and I take 254 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: amazing I'm a great photographer. I will toot my own horn. 255 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 3: I love taking pictures. I always have. My dad's a photographer. 256 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. 257 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 3: I take epic photos of Rio and my mom is like, 258 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: so this is how you do it, Like that little 259 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 3: beautiful smile is because like you've thrown something at him 260 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 3: that now you have to clean up, or because he's 261 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 3: just rubbed snot on you and he thinks it's hilarious. 262 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, now I see, yeah, so everything is. 263 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 3: I think you just have to I'm able to consume 264 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 3: social media now because I understand that. I'm like, okay, 265 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 3: I know they're real, real and I'll say say that 266 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 3: it's a lie or it's just what people want to show. 267 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 3: But there's so much behind the scenes. I went on 268 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 3: a walk this morning. I usually take my walks in 269 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 3: the morning, and I have it stack you're proud of. 270 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 3: I have a stack. If I drop Rio off, I 271 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 3: go to the park do my little walk. And a 272 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 3: girlfriend of mine who she's a young mom too in 273 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 3: my area, a black mom, and there's not a lot 274 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 3: of us, and she and I have been talking about 275 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:24,079 Speaker 3: meeting up in the park for a while. She just 276 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 3: had her second baby. Finally made it happen and we 277 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 3: just had like we walked for about four miles and 278 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: an hour and a half, and the conversations that we have, 279 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 3: I mean, that's really where I think that you see 280 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: what's happening behind people, And that conversation that I had 281 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 3: just reminded me. Between that conversation I had with this 282 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 3: fellow mom and just like being there for her and 283 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 3: for each other. And then yesterday when my butt ran 284 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 3: over something. Whoever led a shot putball loose on the 285 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 3: highway yesterday to eighty seven in Westchester, you can go 286 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 3: to hell because I ran over it, got it my 287 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 3: first flat tire my whole life, and I had to 288 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 3: like I was pandiced because I, you know, got the 289 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 3: car toad. And then I had to pick up Rio 290 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 3: from daycare like an hour later, and I didn't have 291 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 3: a way of getting him because we only had the 292 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 3: one car, and my neighbor fellow mom, I called her, Brianna, 293 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 3: who I haven't talked to you in like a week, 294 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 3: and I was like, Brianna, can you take me to 295 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 3: pick up Rio? I don't you know she has a 296 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 3: car seat. So my my neighbor took me to get 297 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 3: Rio yesterday, and I just feel like those two back 298 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 3: to back experiences just humbled me and reminded me like 299 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 3: just get off the phone for a minute and like 300 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 3: connect with people you never know who would benefit from 301 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 3: just like ten minutes of you having a conversation with them. 302 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 3: And also like I needed that at the same time. 303 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 3: And I feel like whenever I feel really good about myself, 304 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 3: like I got it going on, I got I got this, 305 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 3: I got that. Business is good, I have my stuff together. 306 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 3: Life has a way of just throwing you on your 307 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 3: ass and reminding you that you need people, you know 308 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 3: what I mean. Like when I say I was humbled, 309 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 3: I'm in the passenger seat of my neighbor's car like 310 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 3: like a teenager, like can't need to stop and shop 311 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 3: because I also ordered groceries and now I have no 312 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 3: way of getting them, Like so humbled. Yeah, that's the 313 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 3: shit that matters. Forget the forget the icing, you know, 314 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 3: like the jewels and all of that. Anyway, So shall 315 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 3: we brown boosty brown break? Ye Oh, I have a 316 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: good one. Yes, let's take a quick let's take a 317 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 3: quick baby break and be right back with our brown 318 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 3: boost brown break. 319 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 2: It's time for offend. 320 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: Nook No, no, that's b a qa. I'm like, what's 321 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: my brown bootsbew break song? Oh girl, my brain. Well 322 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: we just go cut straight to the straight to the straight. 323 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: It's time for a brown boost and brown break. So 324 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: if you're new, you know, just in case, you know, 325 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: when we're brown boosting brown breaking, we're taking a break 326 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: from the things that we're like this. 327 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: No moss, you're no like you no, say I don't 328 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: want it. 329 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: And then brown boost is when we're like, ooh we 330 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 1: love more of this more yes, yeah, yes, KKK, give 331 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: it good, give it, give a give it. So you know, 332 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: we tend to be heavy brown boosts here because you 333 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: know it's already breaking outside. But sometimes we do have 334 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: a break. So you said you had a brown boost 335 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: for us, Mandra. 336 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 3: I have a twofer. Are you going to do the 337 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 3: appraisal one? Is that one of yours? 338 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: No? 339 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 3: No, no, because we have to quickly mention this insane 340 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: story when whenever I get tagged in another one of these, 341 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 3: like black family got their home appraised. You know it 342 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 3: came in a lot less and then they had a 343 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 3: white person stand in and all of a sudden their 344 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 3: house was worth twice as much. I constantly think, oh, 345 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 3: we already talked about that. It's the same story. Never 346 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 3: it's always a new one. I can't believe that shit 347 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 3: is still happening. But if you guys haven't seen it, 348 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 3: this New York Times article came out last week. Home 349 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 3: a praised with a black owner four hundred and seventy 350 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 3: two thousand dollars with a white owner seven hundred and 351 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 3: fifty thousand, cold crazy craziness. So just brown break for 352 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 3: all that brown boost to the family because they are 353 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 3: suing the lender lone depot. Even though these line they 354 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 3: hire like they have contractor appraisers that they you know, 355 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 3: outsource the work to, it's still you know, their responsibility. 356 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 3: So the family is actually suing loan depot. I hope 357 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 3: that they, I don't know, get their day in court 358 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 3: or settle or whatever. But brown, brown break for that. 359 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 3: And then I wanted to do a brown boost because well. 360 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 2: Let me just jump in real quick with that brown booth. 361 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: So just so you know, go ahead, I'm working on 362 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: a law. Remember I let the same Angela Vie McKnight. 363 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: Assembly Woman Angelobe McKnight. I wrote the budget list the 364 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: law A one four one four making financial education mandatory 365 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: for middle school students in the state of NJ because 366 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: New Jersey already has a high school long place, right, 367 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: So that same assembly woman hit me up when when 368 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: it happened to me, and so the law has officially 369 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: become a big and well, our appraisal potential law is 370 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: now a bill. 371 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 2: It's going to be voted on. 372 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: Soon, so hopefully I'll have a second law under my 373 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: belt and making you know, it illegal to appraise or 374 00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: property based upon race, gender, you know, sexual orientation, anything 375 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: like that. And then on top of it, because I 376 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 1: said the law has to include education that I wanted 377 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: to like, I want this bill, which it does have, 378 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: included that that your realtor and the appraiser has to 379 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: give you some sort of checklist of like what to like, 380 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 1: what you should expect from the appraisal process, and then 381 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: what to do if you suspect that your appraisal has 382 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 1: been done based upon you know, like your your race, 383 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: your your sexual orientation, your gender, whatever, like what your 384 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: recourse is that has to be included in the appraisal. 385 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,959 Speaker 1: So that way, the appraiser knows I'm on to you, 386 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: and so that bill. Let's all cross our fingers and 387 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: hope that this bill becomes law, because if we can 388 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: set precedent in New Jersey, then other states can look 389 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: at that, can multiply it and that and hopefully one 390 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: day can become a federal law, because our current administration 391 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: has mentioned that they understand that the appraisal process is 392 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: contributing to the racial wealth gap. 393 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's so powerful. I'm glad you brought that up. 394 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 3: Do you have like a copy or a link to 395 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 3: that bill? 396 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna you know what, I was just thinking, like, 397 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: you know, because usually there's like a number going to 398 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: I'll text Angela today and do, like what's the number 399 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: front of the bill because you'll be able to like 400 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: google it and then it'll pull up the because she'd 401 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: given it to me before and I saw it online 402 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: and of course I forgot. But I'm gonna get it to. 403 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: Media out there because if we post that, then even 404 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 3: now before it even becomes a law, if you guys 405 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 3: want to like send this to your local assembly person 406 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 3: or you know, your local legislative people, Like, can I 407 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 3: think of the words representatives just as an example. I 408 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 3: mean even that it's in progress, it's powerful. So look out, 409 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 3: look at you making changes. I'm just hitting sitting here complaining. 410 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 3: Tiffany's like, I got that move on. So my boost 411 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: was going to be a fun one because tif you 412 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 3: don't really get listen in our relationship, we have so 413 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 3: much going for us. But if I'm honest, something has 414 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 3: always lacked for me? Can I be honest with you? Okay, 415 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 3: So you don't love Beyonce like I do, Tiffany, and I. 416 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: Can't love Beyonce it but not like I mean, I 417 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 1: do love Beyonce, not like me, yes, not like you. 418 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 3: So I have not been able to have my moment 419 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 3: where I geek out with someone about the new Renaissance 420 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 3: album until the Read finally came out of their hiatus. 421 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 3: They have been off all summer long. A's a two 422 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 3: hour episode. When I tell you, it fed my soul 423 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 3: because they go track by track That's what I but wanting. 424 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 2: I listened to that started by this morning. It's funny. 425 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: I know Kid Fury was away for mental health, which 426 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: is it's awesome he took that time away, But yeah, 427 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: I was listening to this morning when I was doing 428 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: my jump ropes and I was just. 429 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 3: Like, okay, yeah, they gave me. 430 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,959 Speaker 1: But I guess I'm not a Beyonce connais you know, 431 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: am a I'm a fringe Beyonce. Stand like, I don't 432 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,479 Speaker 1: I have a card, but I can't find where it is. 433 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 1: You know, my my car carrying. 434 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 3: Fine, It's fine. And no one comes to Brown Ambition 435 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,239 Speaker 3: for us to talk about the Beyonce Renaissance album, but 436 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 3: we do go to the Read for that. So if 437 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 3: you're like me, a fellow Bee Hive member and you 438 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 3: just want to Marinade and the beauty and the joy 439 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 3: and the goddess that is Beyonce and her new album 440 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 3: the Read's latest episode, you will not be disappointed. I 441 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,640 Speaker 3: spent I took my day off on Friday. The whole 442 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 3: day I took, I listened to that two hour episode, 443 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 3: and after every ten minute segment where they talked about 444 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 3: a song, I listened to that song, and then I 445 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 3: listened to the next segment. It was they so tif, 446 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: you know, but I believe in relationships, we can't expect 447 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 3: each other to be everything, you know what I mean? 448 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 3: So I hope I had to fulfill that part of 449 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 3: me outside of the show. 450 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm glad you found soulless. I'm glad you found a 451 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: place to be made whole again. And so I'm going 452 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,200 Speaker 1: to finish listening to the episode and you know that way, 453 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: you know we can we could. You know, it's not 454 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,479 Speaker 1: too late. We can still chit chat about it, you know, okay, 455 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: because you won't break my soul. So my booze, I 456 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 1: have a two for two part boost. First boost, I 457 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: was I did a lot today with Financial Times. It's 458 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: a huge financial platform the paper. Yes they got like 459 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, like seven million followers or on Twitter 460 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: and whatever on on Instagram. But it was nice because 461 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 1: we got to talk about personal finance, but like from 462 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 1: like of course if I'm US centric because I'm you know, 463 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: born and raised here, but we you know, the player 464 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 1: who I think it's the formal editor in chief or 465 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 1: maybe she might still be she you know, brought like 466 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: she's from the UK, so she got We were able 467 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: to talk kind of like internationally about what to do 468 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 1: to prepare for the economic doom and gloom if you will, 469 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: and so it was just it was a nice conversation 470 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: and it was nice to see honestly, how many people 471 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: were from so many countries. I'm from Italy, I'm from 472 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia, I'm from so in the comments, so it 473 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: was really it was just that was just a cool experience. 474 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: So if you want to watch that, go go to 475 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 1: Financial Times on Instagram and you'll be able to rewatch our. 476 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 2: Live a Good Times. And this is the first place 477 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm announcing this publicly. Are you ready? 478 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 1: So September sixth, you will be able to go on 479 00:21:51,440 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 1: to Netflix and watch your girl in a documentary actually local, high, 480 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: low key. If you go to Netflix right now and 481 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: you type in now, get the name of this this 482 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 1: see what they named it? They love the name of 483 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 1: my book Get Good with Money. Yeah, that they named 484 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: the documentary get Smart with Money. 485 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 3: Oh okay, yes, So. 486 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 2: The documentary fo. 487 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: It follows four folks who are struggling with their finances 488 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: and then they paired them with four different coaches. 489 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: And I'm one of the coaches. 490 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: The other coaches are mister Money Mustache, Paula patten Afford, anything. 491 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 2: Oh this Ross? Oh, what's his name? I'm gonna say 492 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 2: his name wrong. His name is Ross. I'm gonna get 493 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 2: his names. 494 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to like, I feel like bad about 495 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: not having his his his name, but and so and 496 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: me and so we all have our own person that 497 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: we help out. 498 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 2: And it just was like I've been taping it. I 499 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 2: I want to say Ross Mack r O s s 500 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 2: Ross Mack. So it was awesome. 501 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: Like I think Ross his guy was like an ex 502 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: NFL player. My person was a DreamCatcher Latina super awesome 503 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: and she she's just every day mom wife struggling with 504 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: her finances. Paula Patton, I think hers is an artist. 505 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: And mister money mass Mustache, he helped a couple. 506 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 2: And so it's just it. So if you go to 507 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 2: gets Smart with Money, like you just type in get 508 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,640 Speaker 2: Smart with Money. 509 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 3: You mean Paula Pant. 510 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 2: But you know what I just have to say. 511 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 1: First of all, I love the diversity because Paula Pant 512 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: I'm positive she is a like Asian in my in 513 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: my so yeah you know. And then obviously I'm a 514 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: black woman, okay, undeniable. And then mister money Mustache, he's 515 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: a white dude. And then Ross what did I say 516 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: his name, Ross Mack? Yeah, Ross Mack is an African 517 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,919 Speaker 1: American black man. So I love this diversity of financial 518 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 1: experts that they tapped into. Honestly, I'm not gonna by 519 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: the trailer is boom dat cool And if I do 520 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: say my soul myself and I do say so myself. 521 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: So Get Smart with Money comes out September sixth, I'll 522 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: do some big old I'm almost positive I'm gonna have 523 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: some sort of viewing party here in like in New 524 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 1: York where I live, where you know, like I'll rent 525 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: out some theater or something like that and we'll watch 526 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: together and we'll talk about it after. 527 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 2: So I'm just like, I don't know. It's so like 528 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 2: last night and hit me because I was watching the 529 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: trailer and I was like, Yo, you're a Netflix Tiffany, 530 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 2: and not just like oh here's a little no. 531 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: No, you are a main component of this. It's a 532 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: Netflix film, Like they bought this documentary. You're a main 533 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: component of this Netflix film. And I just am like, wow. 534 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: It just it still has not sunk in. But it's 535 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: crazy because it's like it feels like you're in New 536 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: York Times bestseller Tiffany, You're on the cover of Money magazine. Tiffany, 537 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: You're an NWAC. You know what I mean. 538 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 2: It's like, Tiffany, you used to be a preschool teacher. 539 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 2: How the hell do we get here? 540 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: I still don't know how, but I do know that 541 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: I'm grateful and I can't wait to watch it with y'all. 542 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 2: And like I'm nervous, I'm excited. 543 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, I'm excited. I feel like 544 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 3: in the background, I've been like, so when. 545 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 2: That Netflix gonna come, I'm first man, he knew already. 546 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 3: I'll never forget when I saw you on Queer Eye, 547 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 3: and I wasn't expecting it. I don't know if I 548 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 3: can ever recreate that magic. But it's like they gave 549 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 3: your whole your own damn show because that little segment 550 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 3: was so good when you did the financial They don't 551 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,199 Speaker 3: usually do a financial make up. 552 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 2: They don't. They've never done it before, you know, in 553 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 2: Queer Eye. 554 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 3: But if you haven't, if you want like to get 555 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 3: your fill of tiff before this this special on September six, 556 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 3: gets Smart with Money. That what was that season three 557 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 3: of Queer Eye? 558 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: The guy. 559 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 3: To so good? I was I lost my ship. I 560 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 3: was in tears. But yeah, so so excited for you. 561 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 3: That's huge, huge, crazy. 562 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, so there's bigod things to come out of you. 563 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,959 Speaker 1: There's just the stuff that's unfolding. Lately, it's just been 564 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: like I don't know, you know, times you're just like, 565 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: am I going the right way? And I get I 566 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 1: call them God nods and God to be like, yes 567 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: you are, m Yeah, that's really what it is. It's 568 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: like there's been fifteen years of sewing in this space 569 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: and so like you know, to to harvest, to reap 570 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: this harvest. 571 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: It's just like, you know, it's pretty awesome. 572 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 3: So that's why I don't get So let me, you know, 573 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 3: at me, tweet. 574 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 2: Me and at me. After you watch the trailer, let 575 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 2: me know what you think. 576 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, your trailer in our show notes. 577 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 3: We'll have to get a link. 578 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, we can get it. 579 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: The only thing is like you don't have to get 580 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: your friends Netflix. So so hopefully as it gets closer 581 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: to time, typically they'll post trailers on their YouTube. So 582 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 1: when that happens, you know, I'll grab that link there. 583 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 1: But for now, yeah, we can post a link, but 584 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: like unless you're logged into Netflix, they're like, girl, you 585 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: can't watch right now, but. 586 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 3: Are you going to affirmation of this woman? 587 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: Like how much? 588 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 2: How long did you. 589 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 1: Work with her for like a year, a year and 590 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 1: some change. I well, I just can't wait for you 591 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: to see because it's just beautiful. Like my girl, Ariana, 592 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: she's just awesome. We clicked, he was great, and so 593 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: I have not have not seen anybody else's I don't know, 594 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: and I don't know there are other you know their people, 595 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: but it just honestly, I just love that Netflix is 596 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: really shining a light on financial transformation and what it 597 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: actually looks like. Cause at first I thought, on a 598 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: when the production company approached me that it was just 599 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: for looks, and it was like, no, like when the 600 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: cameras weren't on, I was coaching her and have you 601 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: done your homework and let me know how that goes? 602 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 1: And so I just love so what you see is 603 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: actual true transformation, Like no, no, no, this is where 604 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: she is now. It's not just for the cameras. This 605 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 1: is not This wasn't done in two or three months. 606 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: This was a year like and some change. 607 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 3: And so yeah, congrats to that's amazing, So proud of you. 608 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 3: Thanks all right, y'all, Well that was the show. Be 609 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 3: sure to catch us on Friday for ba Q and 610 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 3: A and don't forget to subscribe to our channel on 611 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 3: YouTube because we sound great. We look great too. Okay, 612 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 3: go to YouTube search for Brown and Mission Podcast to 613 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 3: find our show. 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