WEBVTT - The Ownership Generation

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome the Money and Wealth with John Hobrant, a production

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<v Speaker 1>of the Black Effect podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Hey, Hey, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is John Hope Bryant, entrepreneur and host of the

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<v Speaker 1>Black Effect Networks podcasts Money and Wealth with John Hopebriant

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<v Speaker 1>on iHeartRadio. And I've been doing a lot of guests

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<v Speaker 1>recently because I believe they've been bringing you best in

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<v Speaker 1>class intel that you need to transform your life. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of all those guests. When I bring a

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<v Speaker 1>guest to you know that I believe they are the

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<v Speaker 1>best of the best in their space and their field.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I come at you myself, there's something going

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<v Speaker 1>on that I really want to communicate with you directly.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe the time is now, and I believe the

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<v Speaker 1>message is urgent, and such is the case for this moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe the economy is essentially strong, but there are

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<v Speaker 1>outside forces that are messing with the economy, messing with

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<v Speaker 1>its stability that I think will create challenges for it

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<v Speaker 1>in the short term. I think long term it's strong,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do believe in the next six to eight months,

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<v Speaker 1>you may need to find a safer place to hide

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<v Speaker 1>and don't do flaky stuff. Don't do silly stuff. Be

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<v Speaker 1>very mature about your decisions. They got me thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>the larger issue of this generation and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff I see on social media that just it frustrates

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<v Speaker 1>me because I think people are just misguided. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that they are going to harm their own economic futures

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<v Speaker 1>because they think things are simpler, easier than they are.

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<v Speaker 1>And so this is inspired by my book. This podcast

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<v Speaker 1>episode called the Ownership Generation. That's this episode's title. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a special one hour, two part podcast. Tell all your

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<v Speaker 1>friends to put this on repeat, break it down in

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<v Speaker 1>the pieces, and talk about it in barbershops and nel

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<v Speaker 1>salons and hair salons and fraternity and sorority meetings and

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<v Speaker 1>family meetings. And is inspired by my book now bestseller

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<v Speaker 1>Capitalism for All Inclusive Economics in the Future Proving of America,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm going to get to in subsequent episodes dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with the book itself. But this book, this piece, this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast episode is inspired by the book, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>about the book. This is about specifically you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and particularly if the you right now is twenty thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>even forty years of age, and even paying way too

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<v Speaker 1>much attention to Instagram or social media, or what your

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<v Speaker 1>friends are telling you and who maybe broke themselves and

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<v Speaker 1>not realize it. So let me break this down. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't build a life by renting one. There's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of straight talk. I do these straight talk videos.

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<v Speaker 1>There are two or three minutes, and you can almost

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<v Speaker 1>assume this is one hour of continuous straight talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I think matter the most right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm doing this because I love you, Because as

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<v Speaker 1>my T shirt that I'm wearing right now says, actually

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<v Speaker 1>I can you can, Actually you can win. I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to win. And when you want somebody to win,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell them what they need to hear and not

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<v Speaker 1>what they want to hear. I rather you respect me

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<v Speaker 1>and learn to like me, than like me and never

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<v Speaker 1>respect me. So let me drill down on things that

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<v Speaker 1>I think really mad. And it starts with this first

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<v Speaker 1>principle of the ownership generation. You don't build a life

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<v Speaker 1>by renting one, and one gift mean something that you

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<v Speaker 1>have that's part of your life. One gift is not

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<v Speaker 1>enough to build anything worth leaving behind. So part one

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<v Speaker 1>rent a life versus own your life. The false argument

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<v Speaker 1>that's keeping a generation in place, Part two. One thing

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<v Speaker 1>is not enough pretty smart, handsome, educated, credentialed, talented, degreed.

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<v Speaker 1>Why that's only the beginning. It's gonna be a deep episode.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about where we start. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you today about a decision and you're making

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<v Speaker 1>right now. If you're in that age group that I mentioned,

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<v Speaker 1>or you know somebody you love and care about who's

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<v Speaker 1>in that age group that I mentioned twenty thirty forty,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're making decisions even without knowing. You're making them

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<v Speaker 1>every single day. You're either renting your life or you're

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<v Speaker 1>building toward owning it. And most people I talk to

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<v Speaker 1>have convinced themselves that renting is enough, that it's even smart.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here to tell you that's the most expensive lie

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<v Speaker 1>in the economy. I'm thinking right now about folks who

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<v Speaker 1>show up on business television shows telling poor people and

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<v Speaker 1>working class people and working middle class people not to

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<v Speaker 1>buy a house, not to buy a home, when they

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<v Speaker 1>own one, two, three, four, or five six homes themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Certainly they own one home. The number one way you

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<v Speaker 1>build wealth in America, everybody who's an investor knows is

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<v Speaker 1>home ownership. It's a lie, but it feeds into a

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<v Speaker 1>narrative that renting and living your best life right now

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<v Speaker 1>is a smart thing to do. I'm going to unpack

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<v Speaker 1>all this now. I'm not just talking about apartments. And

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm a landlord joint venture with CIM Group.

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<v Speaker 1>I sold my last real estate company. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>principal owner. I was the owner and the Promise Homes company.

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<v Speaker 1>I've sold it in twenty twenty one and I have

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<v Speaker 1>a minority stake in that. I'm sure trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of that deal right now. But I've partnered with

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<v Speaker 1>CIM Group is incredible organization. They're doing cent to new

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<v Speaker 1>yards here and Atlanta. I'm part of that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I am an investor. I am a landlord.

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing single family, now doing multi family. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking against my own interest, is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you not to rent from me long term.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to be with me short term, but

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to at some point to transition. I

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<v Speaker 1>really want you to go from rent to own with

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<v Speaker 1>me or with somebody else. So I'm not here to

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<v Speaker 1>debate square footage and interest rates people. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the bigger picture. The idea that renting has

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<v Speaker 1>become a lifestyle, a brand, a vibe, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to challenge that, not to shame anyone, but to free someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I rented right until I didn't me I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the false argument. So the cultural narrative is

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<v Speaker 1>owning is overrated, renting is freedom. The financial influence would say,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not throwing money away, you're buying flexibility. The tech

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<v Speaker 1>optimized entrepreneur influencer would say, own nothing, access everything. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>what they don't tell you about renting as a lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>The landlord me in this example is always building equity. Always,

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<v Speaker 1>So as you're paying rent, paying two thousand, three thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>four thousand, five thousand a month, six thousand, seven thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>eight thousand, ten thousand a month in New York City,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very common that rental rate. You're paying down that

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<v Speaker 1>mortgage of the investor every month, and you're opening up

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<v Speaker 1>a window and just throwing that money out the window.

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<v Speaker 1>With regard to yourself, now, if you're there for a

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<v Speaker 1>short term job, or if you're in that city because

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<v Speaker 1>you have a career or a job, or renting is

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<v Speaker 1>part of a long term strategy for you to transition

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<v Speaker 1>within one, two, three, four, five years into home ownership fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a strategic part of your thinking. No different than

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to work at McDonald's for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. It's a great job at a certain age,

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<v Speaker 1>but unless you're the manager or the general manager, or

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be an owner of McDonald's at some point,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to step up and step out at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>Walmart is one of those rare places where you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually stay with them from cashier to general manager and

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<v Speaker 1>make a half million dollars a year, but that's very rare.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend w Millan literally went from stocking shelves to

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<v Speaker 1>CEO at Walmart. But for most of these places, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to hit it and split it. And same as

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<v Speaker 1>the case with renting versus ownership, the landlord is always

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<v Speaker 1>building equity. Your rent check is writing someone else's wealth

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<v Speaker 1>story freedom. That's a subscription, a very expensive one. But

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't just about housing, which about renting your job

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<v Speaker 1>versus owning your career trajectory. If it's late in late

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<v Speaker 1>long lunch, leave early and you aren't invested in that thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just showing up. You're just sort of mailing it in.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really hitting your face on their fist. The employer,

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<v Speaker 1>you're wasting your time and not impressing them. They're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to give you a raise and you have an

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<v Speaker 1>earned one. And I'd rather you waste my money than

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<v Speaker 1>waste my time. No one can waste my time but me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ruthless about my time. It's very interesting. Poor people,

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<v Speaker 1>struggling people value cash, and wealthy people they value their time.

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<v Speaker 1>And wealth is a mindset. You make money during the day,

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<v Speaker 1>you build wealth in your sleep. Renting your relationships transactional

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<v Speaker 1>versus commitments. A giver and a giver is exotic. That's relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>that's covenant. But then you have giver a taker. That's

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<v Speaker 1>neurotic and truly, I'm assuming in this case you're the

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<v Speaker 1>giver and then you have take her to take her,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's psychotic. You don't want to really be in

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<v Speaker 1>the last two versions of this. Networking is a taking business, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Relationships are a giving business. You want to be a

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<v Speaker 1>giver and engage with a giver. Right, So what are

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<v Speaker 1>your relationships like? What's your relationship capital? Like? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>hanging around people smarter than you, brighter than you? Sharper

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<v Speaker 1>than you, wiser than you, people who can teach you something.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the smartest person in your group? That's scary.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a person very very, very smart who hangs

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<v Speaker 1>around people smarter than she is, sorry, less intelligent, less ambitious,

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<v Speaker 1>and less intelligent than she is because she wants their approval.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, and she had a home and decide to

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<v Speaker 1>move from the house, didn't want to deal with a

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<v Speaker 1>renter and decide to sell the house, and now she

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<v Speaker 1>lives in an apartment because she wants to be where

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<v Speaker 1>all the action is. I think she's won the battle

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<v Speaker 1>on the loss of ward twice. But it's not my

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<v Speaker 1>life to live rendering your identity performing for approval versus

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<v Speaker 1>building from values. Let me go back to the person

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<v Speaker 1>who I mentioned didn't want to deal with the lamp,

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<v Speaker 1>with the renters and tenants and owned ownership drama, just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to live free. Only in the dictionary does the

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<v Speaker 1>word success come before the word work, because it's alphabetical.

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<v Speaker 1>All things that are valuable are work. Whatever you love

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<v Speaker 1>is going to drive you nuts. Your family, your children,

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<v Speaker 1>your husband, your wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your job,

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<v Speaker 1>your career, your friendships, whatever you love is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be work, so get over it, knock it off. You

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<v Speaker 1>can do it, as I said that, my T shirt says,

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<v Speaker 1>actually you can, but you've got to invest in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything's an investment, and if you find a free lunch

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<v Speaker 1>is probably stale. Renting your future outsourcing decisions to algorithms, trends,

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<v Speaker 1>and other people's opinion. I don't love to say it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay if you don't like me. I like me. Not

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<v Speaker 1>one ounce of my self esteem depends on your acceptance

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<v Speaker 1>of me. That's a Quincy Jones quote. God bless his rest,

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<v Speaker 1>his soul, friend of mine. So you've got to understand

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<v Speaker 1>that you're a leader. You are an eagle surrounded by

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<v Speaker 1>buzzers and turkeys. People are not going to understand you.

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<v Speaker 1>So don't rent your future, and certainly don't rent it

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<v Speaker 1>out to somebody else who doesn't have one, and don't

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<v Speaker 1>listen to broke people. You can rent a beautiful apartment

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<v Speaker 1>and still be homeless in your spirit. I see a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people who've got doorman and fancy rented or

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<v Speaker 1>least cars and clothes they bought on twenty six percent

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<v Speaker 1>credit cards, and apartments that they can't afford trying to

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<v Speaker 1>press people they don't know with money they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>about things that don't matter, and people who don't care

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<v Speaker 1>about them. And for what what is all that for?

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<v Speaker 1>You just rearranging the deck chairs of the Titanic, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just stepping in mess versus over it that you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the Titanic. You're just picking drapes that you know you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to get off the ship and find one

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<v Speaker 1>that is not full of holes in false dreams and lies,

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<v Speaker 1>and one that travels and can get you to a destination.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me talk about that systemic dimension here, because

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<v Speaker 1>some people are like, I just want to live my

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<v Speaker 1>best life. This whole system is rigged and all that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff. And this is from my book Capitalism

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<v Speaker 1>for All, which again which is now a bestseller. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me acknowledge structural realities, not to excuse inaction, but to

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<v Speaker 1>make this message honest and defensible. The argument from Capitalism

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<v Speaker 1>for All for All that ownership gaps are not only behavior,

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<v Speaker 1>they were in part deliberately engineered. I want to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>that that's in it. I want to acknowledge that relationships

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<v Speaker 1>are rigged. I mean if you go to not literally,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you go to Harvard. People don't just go

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<v Speaker 1>there because it's better quality education than a university or

0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:28.080
<v Speaker 1>college down the street from Harvard. They go there because

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<v Speaker 1>the relationships you're gonna get at Harvard as you go

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<v Speaker 1>to college there are you're gonna hook each other up

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<v Speaker 1>for the next thirty or forty years. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>hang around nine broke people, you'll be the tenth. The

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<v Speaker 1>opposite is also true. So a system that is designed

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<v Speaker 1>to game you, I want you to game it. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're not working the system, the system is working you.

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<v Speaker 1>We've never mastered financial literacy or capitalism free enterprise for

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<v Speaker 1>most people unless you come from wealth. So it's what

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know that you don't know, but you think

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and the system is set against you. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to set you free. Let's ungame this system.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm trying to do with capitalism for all.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've told everybody who's read this book. If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree by the preface the preface that this book

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<v Speaker 1>is transformational, just send it back to my office with

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<v Speaker 1>your receipt and your cost of postage, and we will

0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:23.760
<v Speaker 1>send you a full refund. I will personally do that

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<v Speaker 1>I've donated the proceeds for Operation Hotel Perache hold my

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<v Speaker 1>financial literacy Philanthropy for the All twenty twenty six for

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<v Speaker 1>my book Capitalism for All, And I'll donated that book

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<v Speaker 1>copy that you sent back to me to a library.

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<v Speaker 1>No one sent it back to me. In fact, if

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<v Speaker 1>you look at the reviews so far as they've been

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<v Speaker 1>all five star. Now I want to be honest with

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<v Speaker 1>you about something. I'm not standing here pretending the playing

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<v Speaker 1>field is level. It is not. The system was not

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<v Speaker 1>designed with everyone in mind to be at the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Red Lining was real, as in real estate red lining,

0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:02.600
<v Speaker 1>discriminatory ending practices was real. And many places probably still

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<v Speaker 1>are communities deliberately cut off from the wealth building machinery

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<v Speaker 1>of this country. That is historical fact, not an excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's what I also know, and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>argument I make in my book Capitalism for All. The

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<v Speaker 1>answer to a system that excludes you is not to

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<v Speaker 1>exclude yourself. Further, to argue with the food bruiser too.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you're arguing with yourself, the answer is to

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<v Speaker 1>demand a seat. To quote my friend's Deephanie rule, to

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<v Speaker 1>expand the table and add a chair, build the capacity

0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:41.399
<v Speaker 1>and the capital to buy one, as in a seat

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<v Speaker 1>at the table if you have to, and then hold

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<v Speaker 1>the door open for everyone to follow behind you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm trying to do here with this podcast, in

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<v Speaker 1>my straight Talk Live series and my book and the

0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:57.520
<v Speaker 1>work of Operation Hope and the speeches I give, etc.

0:17:57.800 --> 0:18:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Etcam trying to open the door and hold it for

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<v Speaker 1>those behind me. Or to quote James Brown, I like

0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:08.720
<v Speaker 1>the James Brown version of affirmative action. Open the door.

0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll get it myself. It's a hand up, not a handout.

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<v Speaker 1>The system needs to change, and it is changing by

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<v Speaker 1>the way. But you cannot afford to wait for the

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<v Speaker 1>system to save you. You have to move, and you

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<v Speaker 1>have to move now. AI is coming like a train

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<v Speaker 1>and is going to threaten everybody's sense of entitlement or

0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be okay syndrome. You're not gonna be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Your job's not gonna be replaced. I put this in

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<v Speaker 1>my book Capitalism for All whole chapter by AI. But

0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.960
<v Speaker 1>your job may be replaced by somebody who can use AI.

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<v Speaker 1>That requires you to move, to bob, to weave, to flex,

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<v Speaker 1>be flexible, to gain new skills, to not sit as

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<v Speaker 1>a renter of your own life. Now, while the door

0:18:56.840 --> 0:19:00.000
<v Speaker 1>is still open, I want you to slam it open

0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:05.280
<v Speaker 1>further for others and for yourself. In other words, when

0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:08.399
<v Speaker 1>you get out of your own way. The real cost

0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:13.360
<v Speaker 1>of renting a life. The Federal Reserve Survey of Consumer

0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:18.280
<v Speaker 1>Finance in twenty twenty five, along with the Aspen Institute

0:19:18.320 --> 0:19:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and the US SINSUS Girl, have just absolutely compelling statistics.

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty twenty five, the average homeowner has a net

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<v Speaker 1>worth of four hundred and thirty thousand dollars. Had a

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<v Speaker 1>networth of forture and thirty thousand dollars. The average renter

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<v Speaker 1>hold on now same income level, paying the same amount

0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:44.800
<v Speaker 1>of rent on indoor mortage payment in aggurgate dollars dollar amounts,

0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:47.320
<v Speaker 1>the average renter has a net worth had a net

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<v Speaker 1>worth of ten thousand dollars. I'll repeat that in twenty

0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:55.399
<v Speaker 1>twenty five, the average net worth of a homeowner paying

0:19:55.440 --> 0:20:01.520
<v Speaker 1>the same amount for shelter and making the equivalent and income.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why I keep saying we over index on

0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:08.600
<v Speaker 1>cash dollars money, the bag getting that money, It's irrelevant

0:20:08.600 --> 0:20:11.040
<v Speaker 1>it all the money is an exchange of value. You

0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:12.960
<v Speaker 1>want to build wealth and you build wealth and your sleep.

0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:16.280
<v Speaker 1>That's compounding. So the average homeowner had a net worth

0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 1>of forded and thirty thousand dollars. The average renter had

0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:23.679
<v Speaker 1>a net worth of ten thousand dollars. That is a

0:20:23.800 --> 0:20:27.040
<v Speaker 1>forty three to one gap. Again, that's according to the

0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:29.760
<v Speaker 1>Federal Reserve data. Now, who do you think this hits

0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:36.280
<v Speaker 1>the worst? Black people who have forty three forty four

0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:40.200
<v Speaker 1>percent home ownership rate compared to their white counterparts. Right,

0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:42.760
<v Speaker 1>so we're not owning homes with chilling. And there are

0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:45.680
<v Speaker 1>other groups too. But I'm we have the lowest credit score,

0:20:45.760 --> 0:20:48.320
<v Speaker 1>the lowest access to prime credit, the lowest home ownership rate,

0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:50.240
<v Speaker 1>and the lowest net worth. And I'm tired of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we have to break this cycle. So I'm giving

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<v Speaker 1>you these and out of their numbers, not because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an accountant or I love numbers. I like math because

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't have an opinion, but because numbers tell a

0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 1>story that feelings can argue with. So renter versus homeowner

0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:20.280
<v Speaker 1>thirty years two people, same annual household spend, radically different outcomes.

0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Two twenty eight year olds same income, same city, same

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<v Speaker 1>starting housing budget of approximately twenty four thousand dollars a

0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:33.359
<v Speaker 1>year two thousand dollars a month. One rents, one buys. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to take this part, clip it out

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<v Speaker 1>and share it to everybody who says ownership is stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>The median US home price in twenty twenty four four

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<v Speaker 1>to and twenty seven thousand dollars with a ten percent

0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:49.520
<v Speaker 1>down payment forty two thousand, seven hundred dollars. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, if you're a person of color, you're a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be able to get down payment assistance of

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<v Speaker 1>about ten percent from an FDIC insured bank. Hello with

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<v Speaker 1>a few times where being a person of color being

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<v Speaker 1>black is an advantage. I'm joking, but I'm serious. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't know these programs, you're not ware what

0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:12.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. Go to Operation Hope online, the Hope

0:22:12.280 --> 0:22:15.760
<v Speaker 1>in Hand app downloaded on your Android or Apple device,

0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:19.440
<v Speaker 1>iOS device are going on our website at Operation Hope

0:22:19.480 --> 0:22:21.560
<v Speaker 1>dot org or call eight eight eight three eight eight

0:22:21.640 --> 0:22:23.520
<v Speaker 1>hope get a hold of one of my people. I

0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:26.359
<v Speaker 1>suggest you go to the app that way, you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the queue. It is. It's hard to miss it because

0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you're in the queue on the app, versus you calling

0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:35.920
<v Speaker 1>somebody and then we just missed the call. My team

0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:37.800
<v Speaker 1>will walk you through this. But okay, ten percent down

0:22:37.800 --> 0:22:40.880
<v Speaker 1>payment and a thirty mortgage that let's say six point

0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:44.760
<v Speaker 1>seventy five percent make this reasonable monthly payments about twenty

0:22:44.760 --> 0:22:48.520
<v Speaker 1>four one hundred and ninety dollars. The home buyer spends

0:22:49.840 --> 0:22:54.639
<v Speaker 1>modestly more in early years. By year aged ten, the

0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:58.520
<v Speaker 1>renter absorbing three percent annual rent increases. It's being the

0:22:58.560 --> 0:23:04.399
<v Speaker 1>same or more per month. Now, I'll also tell you

0:23:04.440 --> 0:23:07.639
<v Speaker 1>that in the thirty year mortgage, twenty to thirty of

0:23:07.680 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 1>those thirty years are probably the interest. That's not a negative.

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:14.040
<v Speaker 1>That's a positive because the US tax policy in this

0:23:14.119 --> 0:23:16.760
<v Speaker 1>regard as design to support home ownership. So you get

0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:20.400
<v Speaker 1>to write off most of those mortgage payments against your income.

0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:23.600
<v Speaker 1>That's why if you do a detailed tax return, you

0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:27.159
<v Speaker 1>get that back and potentially as a tax refund against

0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Talk to your tax people and talk to my people

0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:32.080
<v Speaker 1>that operation. So back to the example, the renter thirty

0:23:32.160 --> 0:23:35.320
<v Speaker 1>years later, total rent paid over thirty years at two

0:23:35.320 --> 0:23:38.920
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars a month with three percent annual increases. Hold

0:23:38.960 --> 0:23:45.920
<v Speaker 1>on to your boots approximately one point to million dollars,

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>and you have nothing to show for it except for

0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:52.680
<v Speaker 1>doorman who says yes, sir, yes, ma'am, who don't care

0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:57.720
<v Speaker 1>about you either, at getting paid. Equity built from those

0:23:57.760 --> 0:24:03.320
<v Speaker 1>payments zero assets owned at year thirty nothing, average renter

0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:07.439
<v Speaker 1>net worth ten thousand dollars according to AID Institute and

0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 1>the Federal Reserve. The homeowner thirty years later, mortgage fully

0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:16.399
<v Speaker 1>paid off at year thirty. US median home prices have

0:24:16.400 --> 0:24:20.600
<v Speaker 1>arisen over this period one hundred and eighteen percent after

0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 1>inflation since nineteen seventy. This is a Census Bureau, So

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>a four hundred and twenty seven thousand dollars home purchase

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 1>today is conservatively worth seven hundred to eight hundred and

0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:34.160
<v Speaker 1>fifty thousand dollars in thirty years. And I think that's

0:24:34.280 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>that number is low. Equity built through principal reductions alone

0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:44.679
<v Speaker 1>approximately two hundred thousand dollars in this example. Total acid

0:24:44.760 --> 0:24:48.680
<v Speaker 1>value at year thirty, let's say eight hundred thousand dollars

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:53.879
<v Speaker 1>owned free and clear. Average homeowner net worth four hundred

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:56.679
<v Speaker 1>and thirty thousand dollars according to the Federal Reserve. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think these numbers on the home ownership level are

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<v Speaker 1>very low. I think over thirty years at number is

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:05.800
<v Speaker 1>easily double that. But I'm just being conservatives for those

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:09.640
<v Speaker 1>who want to argue, let's just hope for the best,

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:12.160
<v Speaker 1>expect the worst, and condition your mind for whatever happens.

0:25:12.280 --> 0:25:17.040
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather underestimate and overperform than overestimate and underperform. But

0:25:17.080 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>in this example, same income, same city, roughly the same

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:25.000
<v Speaker 1>monthly spend on shelter. Thirty years later, one person has

0:25:25.000 --> 0:25:28.199
<v Speaker 1>an eight hundred thousand dollars asset they own outright. The

0:25:28.240 --> 0:25:31.560
<v Speaker 1>other person has ten thousand dollars in net worth and

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:35.480
<v Speaker 1>a landlorder who just raised the rent again, same money,

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:39.320
<v Speaker 1>same year, two completely different financial lives. That is not

0:25:39.680 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>an accident. That's a decision, and most people don't even

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 1>know they're making it. They're just living. They don't I'm

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 1>just chillingtting. No, No, you're making a decision every day.

0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 1>The wealth gap between homeowners and renders has grown seventy

0:25:55.880 --> 0:26:01.959
<v Speaker 1>percent since nineteen eighty nine, and it's still accelerated. Seventy

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:04.400
<v Speaker 1>one point five percent of renters say they would rather own,

0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:09.359
<v Speaker 1>but fewer than fifteen percent prefer renting. Again. These the

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Federal Reserve numbers twenty twenty five, renters are spending fifty

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:15.840
<v Speaker 1>eight point five percent more in real terms than renters

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 1>did in nineteen seventy. The rent trap tightens every decade.

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 1>That's according to the US Census, only thirty nine percent

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:27.119
<v Speaker 1>of renter households earn more than they spend, which is

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:32.119
<v Speaker 1>why the down payment never materializes. Seventy eight percent of

0:26:32.160 --> 0:26:36.960
<v Speaker 1>homeowners own stock and appreciating assets see becomes ownership becomes

0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 1>a habit. Once you own one thing, you want to

0:26:38.800 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 1>own other things. Only twenty five point seven percent of

0:26:43.040 --> 0:26:47.800
<v Speaker 1>renters participate in the stock market, according to Oxford Academic

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 1>and the Federal Reserve. See what I'm saying culture mindset.

0:26:54.920 --> 0:27:01.639
<v Speaker 1>It's a habit. Success is a habit. Compound interest works

0:27:01.680 --> 0:27:04.680
<v Speaker 1>on both sides of the ledger of people. If you're

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 1>building equity, it works for you. If you're paying a rent,

0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>it works for your landlord. Every single month, when I

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:17.359
<v Speaker 1>own those homes, they just kept appreciating in value. I'm

0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 1>not a genius. It's just the magic of compound and interest.

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:23.639
<v Speaker 1>In fact, when I own the homes, seven hundred of them,

0:27:23.680 --> 0:27:28.640
<v Speaker 1>just about an annual income and annual expenses almost equaled out.

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:31.639
<v Speaker 1>What I really benefit from was the appreciation over time.

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 1>That's just the way compounding works. There's something that happens

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 1>to a person when they stop believing they can own

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:45.159
<v Speaker 1>anything and doesn't stay in the financial column. It bleeds

0:27:45.200 --> 0:27:48.879
<v Speaker 1>into how you carry yourself. The most dangerous person world

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>is a person with no hope, and it bleeds into

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 1>the risks you won't take, including on yourself. The table

0:27:57.160 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 1>you won't sit at because maybe you're intimidated or you

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:02.200
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like you're worthy the deal. You won't ask

0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:10.200
<v Speaker 1>for what winters cannot pass on, equity assets of family legacy. Again,

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not downing renters. I was a renter. I own

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 1>rental property. It's a natural course of life. I just

0:28:17.560 --> 0:28:20.159
<v Speaker 1>want you to have a life plan that transitions you

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 1>out of that in three, five, eight years. Don't stay

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:28.640
<v Speaker 1>in that for twenty years. Don't just decide I don't

0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:31.040
<v Speaker 1>want to be an owner at all, because you'll be

0:28:31.119 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 1>broke for life. Your grandchildren will be shaped by the

0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>decision you make this decade. As an old Southern saying,

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:41.360
<v Speaker 1>no matter how much I love you, my son or

0:28:41.400 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 1>my daughter, if I don't have wisdom all I can

0:28:44.160 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 1>give you is my own ignorance. So out of love

0:28:47.080 --> 0:28:51.880
<v Speaker 1>we pass down bad habits from generation to generation. How

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 1>the poorka Save Capitalism is another book that I have

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>and I want you to read that because I talk

0:28:56.360 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 1>about ownership as community transformation doesn't create renters a right,

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about spirituality and identity calls. God doesn't create renters.

0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 1>He creates stewards, right. And nobody washes a rental car,

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:13.760
<v Speaker 1>like nobody rents a car from Hurts or wherever you budget,

0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>rent a car and texts it through a car wash

0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 1>and polishes it up every day. And this is not

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>the mindset of people rent You drive it every day

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>and you put enough, put gas in it if you

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 1>have to, but you let it get dusty and whatever.

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:29.160
<v Speaker 1>And then you know, you take it back to the

0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 1>owner and let them deal with it, which is Hurts

0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 1>or budget, and let them wash the car. That's why

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>they have a huge washing bay there. Nobody washes rental cars.

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:40.320
<v Speaker 1>There's a mindset, right, So God creates stewards. There's a

0:29:40.360 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 1>difference between being broken being poor, being broken as economic

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>being poor is a disabling frame of mind, a depressed

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 1>condition of your spirit. He mu's vow never to be

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>broke again. So there's a difference between someone who takes

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:57.800
<v Speaker 1>care of what belongs to someone else and someone who

0:29:57.840 --> 0:30:03.040
<v Speaker 1>takes ownership of what they've been and trusted to build.

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:05.440
<v Speaker 1>You can always tell when there's a render in a

0:30:05.480 --> 0:30:08.080
<v Speaker 1>house because the line is up to their eyebrows. Right

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 1>the ownership mindset. What ownership is not not just buying

0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 1>a house, not just a class status marker, not available

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 1>only to the ultra already wealthy. Please hear me on that,

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:29.479
<v Speaker 1>because it starts with a mindset. So who is this for?

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Who's this podcast for the excluded middle and the burgeoning

0:30:34.160 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 1>working class, those who are strivers. This is the capitalist

0:30:38.560 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 1>for all argument made personal. This is not the wealthy.

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to, not the hopeless, but the people in

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>between who are close and don't know it. I'm not

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 1>talking to people who have already made it. I mean,

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess I could they want to reset a reminder,

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 1>but that's not my target market here. I'm not talking

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>to the people who are geting up either, because I'm

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>not trying to convince you that you should be at

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 1>the table. I can't guarantee that being positives is going

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 1>to make you a success, but I absolutely guarantee you

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that being negative is going to make you fail. I'm

0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>talking to the people in the middle, the ones who

0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 1>are working, the ones who are trying, the ones who

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>are one decision, one relationship, one piece of financial knowledge

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:27.800
<v Speaker 1>away from crossing into a completely different life. That is

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 1>the group nobody talks about or talks to. They try

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:33.479
<v Speaker 1>to other than try to take advantage of them, separate

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 1>them from their wallet. The financial system was not built

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:41.440
<v Speaker 1>for these people. The wealth management industry was not built

0:31:42.080 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 1>for these people. Even a lot of the financial literacy

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:50.160
<v Speaker 1>conversation was not built around these people. My book Capitalism

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:56.280
<v Speaker 1>for All was written for these people, written for you.

0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 1>This episode it is for those people, and hopefully it's

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:11.280
<v Speaker 1>for you, America's future dream makers. Here's what I want

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>to tell to these people, the one who's almost always

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>there and doesn't know it, These people so close. I

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>want them to know this. The gap between where you

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 1>are and where you're trying to go is not as

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:31.680
<v Speaker 1>wide as you think or as why as it looks.

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>But you will not close it by renting your future.

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:38.920
<v Speaker 1>You close it by owning it, and that starts with

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:42.520
<v Speaker 1>ownership in your mind mindset, because whether you believe you

0:32:42.600 --> 0:32:45.680
<v Speaker 1>can or whether you believe you can't, you're absolutely right,

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:49.440
<v Speaker 1>You're not as far as you think. But you will

0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:52.560
<v Speaker 1>not close the gap renting as again, you close it

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:57.920
<v Speaker 1>through an ownership mindset, the four pillars of ownership mindset.

0:32:58.240 --> 0:33:03.280
<v Speaker 1>You own your story. I'm outsourcing your narrative to your circumstances.

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Can I get an amen? You own your decisions, not

0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 1>your parents, not your zip code, not your algorithms on

0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 1>social media? Right, you own your development, your own personal development.

0:33:17.240 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Investing in yourself is not arrogant, it's stewardship. As I

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 1>said in this T shirt, Ashley, you can number four,

0:33:25.640 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>you own your legacy? Who are you building for? That

0:33:29.360 --> 0:33:34.120
<v Speaker 1>question changes everything. I grew up with nothing, and I

0:33:34.240 --> 0:33:37.120
<v Speaker 1>mean nothing, I mean not literally nothing. My mom and

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>dad worked, but I grew up in Confinence, South Central

0:33:40.480 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and we had no inherited wealth, no legacy, no nothing, nothing,

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:46.720
<v Speaker 1>And my parents couldn't help me. They were working class people.

0:33:46.720 --> 0:33:48.600
<v Speaker 1>My dad owned his own business, but it was a

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:51.680
<v Speaker 1>semen contracting business and it literally was weak to week

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 1>hand in mouth. My mother worked. McDonald was aircraft when

0:33:54.920 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>he is Smith, Johnny will Smith. You read their story

0:33:57.400 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>in my book Up from nothing. I mean, I slept

0:34:01.240 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 1>in my car. I was homeless for six months to

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 1>a year or more in my Montero jeep in LA.

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:10.240
<v Speaker 1>No safety that And the thing that saved my life

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't a program, it wasn't a handout. It was a

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>moment I decided I was responsible for this, this thing

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 1>called my life. I owned this life. And when I

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:25.040
<v Speaker 1>owned it, I gotta start building it. I remember these

0:34:25.040 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>inflection points. I remember a guy and I was in

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:32.560
<v Speaker 1>a suit. I'm going to work backwards. You know. It's

0:34:32.600 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 1>an investment banker, around twenty one years of age, twenty

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:38.799
<v Speaker 1>something like that, and I was wearing a suit. I

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 1>was in the hood, ad a nice Mercedes car and

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>convertible at drove to see a property I owned in

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:48.560
<v Speaker 1>south central LA and Watts and I took a photo

0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 1>of the property. But as I took a picture of

0:34:50.760 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 1>the property, wasn't these fancy phones now that's instantaneous. It

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.920
<v Speaker 1>was a digital handhold camera and took a minute for

0:34:56.960 --> 0:35:01.000
<v Speaker 1>the shutter to finish closing capture the picture after you

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 1>hit the button and you could hear a click, And

0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:05.520
<v Speaker 1>so as I was trying to get the camera out

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>and push the button. A guy walked across the lens

0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>between me and the property. I didn't mean to get

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:15.720
<v Speaker 1>him in the picture. He just happened to be walking

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:18.759
<v Speaker 1>fast and didn't care about me standing there in the

0:35:18.760 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>middle of the road. And he turned to me and said, man,

0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:24.200
<v Speaker 1>did just take my picture? And I realized that moment

0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 1>that a rational answer didn't matter. What he's really he

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.920
<v Speaker 1>was saying was I don't want my picture taking and

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:31.880
<v Speaker 1>if you're picking my picture, you and I have a problem.

0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I want that camera and I may want your life.

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:35.320
<v Speaker 1>He wasn't saying that, but that's what he was saying,

0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:38.479
<v Speaker 1>and it hit me at that moment. It was five

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 1>to eight feet back to my car. He was about

0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:43.719
<v Speaker 1>ten fifteen feet from me. I couldn't sit to negotiate

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:45.839
<v Speaker 1>with him, because the most dangerous person in the world

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>is a person with no hope. He would have taken

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:50.399
<v Speaker 1>my life, or taken my camera, or beat me up

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 1>or mugged me. He didn't want to talk to me.

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:54.800
<v Speaker 1>He didn't want to negotiate with me. He wanted to

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:56.680
<v Speaker 1>take out his frustrations on me. I had to get

0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:59.359
<v Speaker 1>the hell out of there. Don't hang around toxic people

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:02.400
<v Speaker 1>or environments. Don't try to reason with unreasonable people. I

0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:04.480
<v Speaker 1>got back into my car, got in my car, locked

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:08.840
<v Speaker 1>the door, and realized that lesson you cannot reason with

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 1>unreasonable people. Sometimes you just need to balance and watch

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you taking pictures of There's another story where I was

0:36:16.640 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>selling fila and unless they sports were out of the

0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>trunk of my car. Much earlier, my teens and I

0:36:21.680 --> 0:36:23.880
<v Speaker 1>had to borrow some money from this local gangster in

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 1>my neighborhood. This was Compton, and I went to go

0:36:26.160 --> 0:36:27.880
<v Speaker 1>pay him back with interest and he said, what are

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:29.920
<v Speaker 1>you doing? I said, what do you mean? What am

0:36:29.920 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I doing? I'm I'm paying you back and he's like,

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't understand what kind of lender I'm at.

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I am man, you don't pay me back. We have

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:39.200
<v Speaker 1>a relationship for life. You borrow from me, We just

0:36:39.239 --> 0:36:42.399
<v Speaker 1>figure out what you need and I'll you can give

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 1>me some money, and you know we talked about it

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:46.359
<v Speaker 1>and I'll make sure you have enough money to live.

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:49.120
<v Speaker 1>But you know, you and I we we have a relationship.

0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm a partner with you. I'm not your lender. And uh.

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 1>And then at some point I decide when you're free

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>that was date, and he was serious, and he would

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 1>kill me, That's what he was really saying if I

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:07.320
<v Speaker 1>try to get away from him. But God gave me grace.

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 1>He looked at me and said, you know, you're not

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:10.759
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be doing this. Man. You're like a good kid.

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:13.879
<v Speaker 1>I know you from the neighborhood. Your mom is really

0:37:13.960 --> 0:37:16.920
<v Speaker 1>raised you well, she loves you. Tell you what, You're

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to be here. I'm gonna let you go.

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Don't come back here. You're not meant for this life.

0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I bounced learn another lesson there. Know who you're getting

0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:29.640
<v Speaker 1>business with, know who you're borrowing from, no know who

0:37:29.680 --> 0:37:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you're tying up with. I've only made that mistake once

0:37:32.760 --> 0:37:34.960
<v Speaker 1>since that time that I'm aware of, and I am

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:38.680
<v Speaker 1>paying a tax for that. Actually right now, I can't

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 1>talk about it right now. But it was a lesson

0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:42.799
<v Speaker 1>I learned, and I've learned it again as an adult.

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:46.360
<v Speaker 1>Just being naive and thinking the best of people and no, no,

0:37:46.400 --> 0:37:47.759
<v Speaker 1>you want to know the facts. You want to know

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:51.800
<v Speaker 1>what you're getting into in advance, read the fine print,

0:37:51.920 --> 0:37:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Understand the arrangement that you're getting into with whomever. There's

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 1>been a lot of these little aha lessons that have

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:03.359
<v Speaker 1>stuck being forever. There's more, but I think you get

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:06.360
<v Speaker 1>the point. You cannot build a legacy on a lease.

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:09.879
<v Speaker 1>You build it on a deed, starting with a deed

0:38:10.120 --> 0:38:14.000
<v Speaker 1>to your own mind. So here's some practical on rams

0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:17.960
<v Speaker 1>for you. I want you to open a brokerage account

0:38:18.120 --> 0:38:21.440
<v Speaker 1>before you're twenty five. A stock brokerage account, you can

0:38:21.480 --> 0:38:24.799
<v Speaker 1>do it. You can do fractional investing, by the way,

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>as a friend that I had on this podcast, who

0:38:28.920 --> 0:38:32.320
<v Speaker 1>create a company called Public and he does fractional accounts.

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 1>But you can go to a number of different platforms,

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:37.880
<v Speaker 1>whatever brokerage house you want to do business with. We

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>have a new Nastek partnership that teaches financial literacy investing

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Operation Hope does. And just go to the Operation Hope

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:49.920
<v Speaker 1>in Nastek foundation website and get boned up on investing

0:38:49.960 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>it and then figure out a firm that you're comfortable

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:54.719
<v Speaker 1>with and do fractional investing or full stock investing. But

0:38:55.000 --> 0:38:58.360
<v Speaker 1>open an account twenty bucks, fifty bucks, you pick the number.

0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 1>You can participate in the marketplace. You don't need to

0:39:00.480 --> 0:39:03.439
<v Speaker 1>be rich. Understand your credit score as a financial tool,

0:39:03.520 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 1>not a grade. Okay, starting a business even while working

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.000
<v Speaker 1>for someone else, is a thing that you're nine to five,

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:13.760
<v Speaker 1>financial five to nine, and of course access operation, hope

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:22.439
<v Speaker 1>for scholarship, financial literacy, coaching, and counseling. So now let's

0:39:22.440 --> 0:39:27.759
<v Speaker 1>get into part two of this podcast. So now you

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:31.560
<v Speaker 1>know what we're building toward ownership of your life, of

0:39:31.600 --> 0:39:36.080
<v Speaker 1>your legacy, of your future. That's a destination. And I

0:39:36.120 --> 0:39:38.800
<v Speaker 1>want to be clear here, I'm talking to the people

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:44.560
<v Speaker 1>in the middle. I'm talking to you, not the ones

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:47.319
<v Speaker 1>who've already made it, although they may be inspired by

0:39:47.320 --> 0:39:51.400
<v Speaker 1>this too, Not the ones who've given up, because to

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>argue with the fool proves there are too. If you

0:39:53.480 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>don't want to save your life, there's nothing I can

0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 1>do about it. You got to come to that conclusion yourself.

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:03.279
<v Speaker 1>The ones who are close and don't know it yet,

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:07.280
<v Speaker 1>that's my target market, and that's I'm convinced most people.

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm just fascinated by people who want to argue about

0:40:10.960 --> 0:40:13.440
<v Speaker 1>this book Capitalism for all, saying is this and is that?

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:18.040
<v Speaker 1>And haven't read a page? Want to down capitalism? While

0:40:18.080 --> 0:40:23.360
<v Speaker 1>they're using capitalism on the phone, that's capitalism. You're driving

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:26.319
<v Speaker 1>a car, that's capitalism. You're paying a card, up. You

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>bought the phone talking mess in a house, you're paying

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:32.240
<v Speaker 1>rent or worgage payment. That's capitalism. In a job, that's capitalism.

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>You're trading a human capital for a paycheck. And go

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 1>on and on and on. You're in this world. You're

0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:39.920
<v Speaker 1>in this world, but you don't want to understand it.

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>And where I say that, people again, read to the preface.

0:40:42.960 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 1>If it doesn't blow your mind, I'll buy the book back.

0:40:45.600 --> 0:40:49.040
<v Speaker 1>So what's your risk? But people just convinced, Oh, I'm

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:53.839
<v Speaker 1>just convinced. They don't want to take ownership or responsibility.

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 1>They don't they don't want to admit that. They're petrified.

0:40:58.600 --> 0:41:01.680
<v Speaker 1>They're afraid of what happen if they try and fail,

0:41:01.920 --> 0:41:03.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, worse than where you were before. It's like

0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody says, why should I try God? Because God cannot

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:09.319
<v Speaker 1>possibly mismanage your life worse than you have. Give them

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 1>a shot. But let me stay here at this point

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>for a few more minutes, because there's something I see

0:41:15.200 --> 0:41:18.600
<v Speaker 1>in this generation that's really positive. And I say this

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:21.520
<v Speaker 1>with love, not with criticism. There's so much potential, so

0:41:21.640 --> 0:41:25.880
<v Speaker 1>much optimism, so much bring in, so much aspirational desire

0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:29.880
<v Speaker 1>that that's really it has me hopeful, but something worries me,

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:33.239
<v Speaker 1>and it has to do with what people think it

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:37.680
<v Speaker 1>takes to become successful. A lot of young people I

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>talk to believe that one thing is enough, that being

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:48.200
<v Speaker 1>pretty is enough. Just look at your social media. They

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 1>think that because they're pretty, that means everything else is

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:56.000
<v Speaker 1>right and tight, and they can talk mess and be

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 1>smart alex and all that kind of stuff. That being

0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:01.759
<v Speaker 1>smart is enough, that having a degree is enough, that

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 1>being funny is enough, or talented or well connected is enough.

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:11.239
<v Speaker 1>For charismatic or handsome. Let me tell you something. It isn't.

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:14.400
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, you can have several of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's still not enough. And I need to tell you why,

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<v Speaker 1>because no one else is going to tell you. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what this part two is about. One thing is

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<v Speaker 1>not enough, even if it's a number of one things.

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 1>It's just all an illusion. Social media reward surface appearance

0:42:37.480 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 1>with virality over depth, credentialism. The degree has a destination,

0:42:46.080 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 1>not a starting point. Right. Beauty culture the idea that

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:55.600
<v Speaker 1>being attractive is a career strategy or something can get

0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:57.600
<v Speaker 1>you paid. It can get you paid temporarily if that's

0:42:57.960 --> 0:42:59.640
<v Speaker 1>what you want to do. They call that something else,

0:42:59.680 --> 0:43:03.399
<v Speaker 1>by the way, but look who will fade? Somebody else

0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 1>will be twenty in gorgeous, And then what are you

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:09.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna do if that's all you're trading in? The smart

0:43:09.640 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 1>kid trapped being told you're gifted and then coasting on it.

0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I know a bunch of kids like this, and it's

0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 1>just not enough. You gotta hustle, you gotta work hard.

0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting ahead of myself. Being pretty is not the

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:25.319
<v Speaker 1>same as being attractive. Can I get an amen? I'll

0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:29.080
<v Speaker 1>say it again. Being pretty is not the same as

0:43:29.120 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 1>being attractive. There are a lot of very pretty ugly people.

0:43:34.719 --> 0:43:40.839
<v Speaker 1>Attractive people draw others through character, energy, authenticity, presence, not

0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 1>just appearance. I can't say this enough. There's a whole

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 1>bunch of very pretty, very ugly people, men and women.

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Being smart is not the same as being wise. Intelligence

0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 1>is a tool, Wisdom is the judgment to use it well,

0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:05.600
<v Speaker 1>and wisdom costs something. It comes through experience. Having a

0:44:05.640 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>degree is not the same as having a skill or

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:12.920
<v Speaker 1>an insight, a value proposition, or a career. Being funny

0:44:13.160 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 1>or witty is not the same as having substance. Attractive

0:44:17.640 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>people aren't just good looking. Attractive people pull things towards them, opportunity, trusts, loyalty,

0:44:25.040 --> 0:44:31.960
<v Speaker 1>legacy that's built, not born. Only in the dictionary does

0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:36.800
<v Speaker 1>success come before the word work, because it's alphabetical only place.

0:44:37.719 --> 0:44:44.399
<v Speaker 1>So let's break this down. Work, consistent, unglamorous, repetitive. It's

0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:47.560
<v Speaker 1>a repetitive effort that most people are abandoned. They want

0:44:47.560 --> 0:44:49.879
<v Speaker 1>to say in late, long lunch, leave early. Everybody wants

0:44:49.920 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 1>to get to heaven. Nobody wants to die to get there.

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:54.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. There's no free LUTs of it is free,

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:57.719
<v Speaker 1>is stale. Love is work. By the way, whatever you

0:44:57.760 --> 0:45:06.280
<v Speaker 1>love is going to drive you crazy, been wise, best friends, ambition, education,

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>you name it, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever he loves to drive

0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:18.279
<v Speaker 1>you nuts. Struggle, the pressure that reveals and refines character, resilience.

0:45:19.320 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not bouncing back, but bouncing forward with something learned, grit,

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 1>doing the work on the days you don't feel like

0:45:27.480 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 1>you want to and the years no one is watching.

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:34.719
<v Speaker 1>All the years that I worked, everybody just laughed at

0:45:34.800 --> 0:45:36.640
<v Speaker 1>me and talked about going out to the clubs and

0:45:36.640 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>whatever else will Now I could buy the club and

0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:41.920
<v Speaker 1>they can't get into it. Right. They all came to

0:45:42.000 --> 0:45:47.080
<v Speaker 1>me for jobs and interviews, but they weren't interested in

0:45:47.080 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 1>that back then. By the way, there are no ugly billionaires,

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:55.840
<v Speaker 1>they're no unattractive multimillionaires. Okay, success is the greatest revenge.

0:45:56.000 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 1>But it took years and years of me staying focused

0:45:59.239 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 1>where everybody else was trying to get their immediate gratification

0:46:02.280 --> 0:46:09.600
<v Speaker 1>for free. No sacrifice, Wisdom, the compound interest of experience,

0:46:09.719 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>failure and reflection over time, Leadership, the willingness to be

0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:20.839
<v Speaker 1>responsible for outcomes, not just activities. Sacrifice, giving up the

0:46:20.880 --> 0:46:25.120
<v Speaker 1>good for the great, the now for the later. Can

0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I get an amen? We're going to church here? Values,

0:46:29.040 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the invisible architecture that determines what you built in, what

0:46:34.160 --> 0:46:39.480
<v Speaker 1>you break, Relationship capital, who you've invested in, and who

0:46:39.600 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 1>would go to war for you, your ride or dies.

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Talking a little, the discipline of doing over announcing. I'd

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:54.520
<v Speaker 1>rather underestimate and overperform than overestimate and underperform. Somebody told

0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 1>me recently, John, you move very quiet. I'm like, are

0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 1>you sure you're talking about the right person. Most people

0:46:59.520 --> 0:47:02.440
<v Speaker 1>would say move very loudly and said no, no, No, You

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:06.840
<v Speaker 1>teach loudly, you inspire loudly, You walk into a room

0:47:07.280 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 1>with confidence. Quiet confidence loudly. Your presence is loud, your

0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:16.440
<v Speaker 1>platform is loud because you're trying to impact millions, But

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:19.799
<v Speaker 1>you move quietly, You do things and then you talk

0:47:19.840 --> 0:47:23.239
<v Speaker 1>about them. That was a real compliment. It It came

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>from a real person. By the way, None of these

0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:29.480
<v Speaker 1>traits show up well on a highlight reel on social media.

0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:34.440
<v Speaker 1>That's the point, get it. I rather you respect me

0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:36.839
<v Speaker 1>and learn to like me, than like me and never

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:44.400
<v Speaker 1>respect me. Stripes, scars, and wisdom. Wisdom is not available

0:47:44.520 --> 0:47:48.320
<v Speaker 1>on a download. It comes with time and loss and

0:47:48.400 --> 0:47:52.759
<v Speaker 1>the willingness to be taught by experience. The stripe a

0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:57.800
<v Speaker 1>mark you earn, not inherit, the scar evidence of a

0:47:57.920 --> 0:48:03.760
<v Speaker 1>risk taking, a lesson survived, the story, the difference between

0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:07.000
<v Speaker 1>someone who has lived something and someone who has read

0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>about it. Can I get an amen? By the way,

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I just want people to read. By the way, I mean,

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:13.040
<v Speaker 1>it's scares the heck got to be. Kids can't read.

0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Young people can't read today because social media doesn't reward it.

0:48:15.840 --> 0:48:18.800
<v Speaker 1>So you can't write your signature. That's deep. You can't

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:23.520
<v Speaker 1>write your cursive or yeah, long form signature and it's

0:48:23.560 --> 0:48:29.280
<v Speaker 1>not an X and thus not thha. You know, or Tha.

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:32.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean like you've got to understand math, you got

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:34.640
<v Speaker 1>to understand how to write, You got to read. Because

0:48:34.760 --> 0:48:37.640
<v Speaker 1>artificial intelligence is going to reward and technology is going

0:48:37.640 --> 0:48:47.000
<v Speaker 1>to reward constructive thinking, not dumb moving with social media algorithms,

0:48:47.120 --> 0:48:49.000
<v Speaker 1>by the way, that are owned by somebody else. Somebody

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:51.560
<v Speaker 1>can pull the plug on that social media at any

0:48:51.560 --> 0:48:53.759
<v Speaker 1>time they like because they own it. You don't. That's

0:48:53.800 --> 0:49:00.120
<v Speaker 1>another podcast or another time. So I hope this as

0:49:00.160 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 1>laid a foundation for you because wisdom isn't free. It

0:49:04.239 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 1>has a tuition. The bill comes in the form of time, disappointment,

0:49:10.120 --> 0:49:14.840
<v Speaker 1>and the humility to learn from both. I take no

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:18.680
<v Speaker 1>for vitamins. Success is going from failure to failure without

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:24.200
<v Speaker 1>loss of enthusiasm. Here's the full stack person, not a

0:49:24.239 --> 0:49:28.200
<v Speaker 1>person with one impressive attribute, but a person who has

0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:33.319
<v Speaker 1>done the patient work of building a complete human architecture.

0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:38.359
<v Speaker 1>This is where it gets sexy. I think we've made

0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 1>dumb sexy by the way we dumbed down and celebrated

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:43.839
<v Speaker 1>it over the last twenty years. It is time to

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:46.279
<v Speaker 1>make smart sexy again. That's the Quincy Jones quote. I

0:49:46.400 --> 0:49:47.960
<v Speaker 1>want to give them credit. He says, to take twenty

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:50.799
<v Speaker 1>years or change of culture. And then I added to

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:53.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, we've made dumb sexy, so it's time to

0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:58.920
<v Speaker 1>make smart sexy again. So here is the architecture for

0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:04.439
<v Speaker 1>building a complete human being, pretty and purposeful. Write these down,

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:12.920
<v Speaker 1>smart and servant, minded, servant leadership, minded, educated and experienced,

0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:22.600
<v Speaker 1>talented and trustworthy, gifted and gritty. Humility, but also hunting.

0:50:23.800 --> 0:50:26.319
<v Speaker 1>You're at this game, you're all in, but you have

0:50:26.360 --> 0:50:29.719
<v Speaker 1>a humility about how you go about the game. I'm

0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:34.080
<v Speaker 1>not here to take anything from you people. Your beauty

0:50:34.160 --> 0:50:39.080
<v Speaker 1>is real, your intelligence is God given, it's real. Your

0:50:39.120 --> 0:50:42.279
<v Speaker 1>degree is real if you have one. But I'm here

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:45.399
<v Speaker 1>to tell you it is not enough, and I need

0:50:45.440 --> 0:50:48.480
<v Speaker 1>you to get that, like real quick before the world

0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:52.719
<v Speaker 1>sends you a message the hard way, because a train

0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:57.000
<v Speaker 1>is coming and it will mow down everybody in his

0:50:57.120 --> 0:50:59.680
<v Speaker 1>path if you cannot get in the way. It's called

0:50:59.680 --> 0:51:02.000
<v Speaker 1>a few and it is about to change everything you

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:05.320
<v Speaker 1>know by twenty thirty. And the government's not going to

0:51:05.360 --> 0:51:08.759
<v Speaker 1>save you. They're out of that business, it appears, so

0:51:08.800 --> 0:51:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you're really have to save yourself. And I'm trying to

0:51:11.560 --> 0:51:15.000
<v Speaker 1>give you the tools to do that for yourself. But

0:51:15.880 --> 0:51:20.440
<v Speaker 1>why is it not enough is it because you're not enough? No,

0:51:20.560 --> 0:51:27.759
<v Speaker 1>you're enough. In fact, you're more than enough. You've just

0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:32.879
<v Speaker 1>not done enough yet. Your value actually has to be

0:51:33.360 --> 0:51:36.920
<v Speaker 1>realized and optimized. You've got to live the life. What

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:38.880
<v Speaker 1>the proverb says, to be poor is not to not

0:51:39.000 --> 0:51:42.240
<v Speaker 1>have anything. To be poor is to not do anything.

0:51:42.400 --> 0:51:44.880
<v Speaker 1>And lazy hands make a man poor. There's problems in

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:50.600
<v Speaker 1>the Bible. Become irresistible, good people. This is where we

0:51:51.520 --> 0:51:55.400
<v Speaker 1>bring it home. I'm going to ask you something and

0:51:55.440 --> 0:51:58.280
<v Speaker 1>I want you to sit with it for a minute.

0:51:58.640 --> 0:52:02.959
<v Speaker 1>When you are gone from this earth, what will you leave?

0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:09.279
<v Speaker 1>What will you have built that's meaningful? What will your

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:15.239
<v Speaker 1>children have that they didn't have to start from zero on?

0:52:16.239 --> 0:52:19.880
<v Speaker 1>Because here's what I know. Every generation has a choice.

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:24.400
<v Speaker 1>You can be the generation that consumed, or you can

0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:29.160
<v Speaker 1>be the generation that constructed. Which one are you? The

0:52:29.200 --> 0:52:34.279
<v Speaker 1>generation that rented or the generation that owned? Which one

0:52:34.280 --> 0:52:42.800
<v Speaker 1>are you? Pretty fades, Smart without wisdom wonders. Degrees without

0:52:42.840 --> 0:52:47.640
<v Speaker 1>grit gets you to the table, but not to the

0:52:47.680 --> 0:52:51.200
<v Speaker 1>head of it. And nobody likes arrogance. People who think

0:52:51.200 --> 0:52:53.839
<v Speaker 1>they're smart just because they have a degree. It's unseemly.

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:57.040
<v Speaker 1>And no one says it, but they dismiss you as

0:52:57.040 --> 0:53:00.120
<v Speaker 1>soon as they can. They don't want you around them

0:53:00.120 --> 0:53:04.840
<v Speaker 1>because you're full of yourself. A humble spirit is a

0:53:04.880 --> 0:53:08.560
<v Speaker 1>beautiful thing. I'm glad that I don't have a bunch

0:53:08.560 --> 0:53:11.200
<v Speaker 1>of degrees and all that stuff, because I just show

0:53:11.280 --> 0:53:14.120
<v Speaker 1>up paranoid every day ready to work. I know I've

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:16.080
<v Speaker 1>got to be smarter than everybody else in the room,

0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:20.600
<v Speaker 1>So my insecurity has actually turned into a strength. Rainbows

0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:23.840
<v Speaker 1>after storms. You cannot have a rainbow without a storm first.

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:29.279
<v Speaker 1>But what about the person who has worked, who has

0:53:29.320 --> 0:53:33.560
<v Speaker 1>failed forward and grown up and built something real? That

0:53:33.600 --> 0:53:39.759
<v Speaker 1>person becomes irresistible. Do I have your attention yet? Not

0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:48.680
<v Speaker 1>just to other people to destiny itself? Stop performing, start building.

0:53:49.680 --> 0:53:54.880
<v Speaker 1>The world already has enough performers. It needs builders. Stop

0:53:55.000 --> 0:53:57.800
<v Speaker 1>rocking the mic and start owning it. Stop bouncing the

0:53:57.840 --> 0:54:01.359
<v Speaker 1>basketball and decide you want to own thesketball team. If

0:54:01.360 --> 0:54:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you see me ever at a club at two in

0:54:03.160 --> 0:54:06.399
<v Speaker 1>the morning, you better know I own it or I'm

0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:10.680
<v Speaker 1>being paid to be there. Own your mind, own your future,

0:54:11.000 --> 0:54:15.480
<v Speaker 1>own your legacy. That is the assignment, that is the standard.

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:21.160
<v Speaker 1>And I believe, I genuinely believe this generation is capable

0:54:21.480 --> 0:54:26.920
<v Speaker 1>of meeting it and exceeding that standard. Don't prove me wrong.

0:54:28.280 --> 0:54:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I am your biggest fan, but I need you to

0:54:31.480 --> 0:54:36.040
<v Speaker 1>stop performing and start building. The world as I said,

0:54:36.600 --> 0:54:42.879
<v Speaker 1>and I'll say again, already has enough performers. I want

0:54:42.920 --> 0:54:45.840
<v Speaker 1>you to live your best life. I want you to

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:48.600
<v Speaker 1>wake up tomorrow commit it to being the best version

0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:51.200
<v Speaker 1>of yourself. I want you to know that God does

0:54:51.239 --> 0:54:54.920
<v Speaker 1>not make mistakes. You may make a mistake, but that

0:54:54.920 --> 0:54:56.799
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make you a mistake. That just means that you

0:54:56.960 --> 0:55:00.440
<v Speaker 1>just are living this life. A saint is the center

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:03.279
<v Speaker 1>that got up. We're all angels of dirty faces. I

0:55:03.320 --> 0:55:07.839
<v Speaker 1>want you to stop nabl gazing, stop the paralysis of analysis,

0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:13.000
<v Speaker 1>stop criticizing other people, stop beating yourself up and hiding

0:55:13.040 --> 0:55:17.200
<v Speaker 1>behind a fake social media algorithm. I want you to

0:55:18.080 --> 0:55:21.480
<v Speaker 1>sit down and become over time, reasonably comfortable in your

0:55:21.480 --> 0:55:25.040
<v Speaker 1>own skin. You're not as good as your compliments. Hello,

0:55:26.280 --> 0:55:28.960
<v Speaker 1>You're not as bad as your criticisms, including the ones

0:55:29.000 --> 0:55:31.080
<v Speaker 1>you give to yourself. You just are who you are,

0:55:31.480 --> 0:55:34.160
<v Speaker 1>and the sooner you live and decide to live an

0:55:34.200 --> 0:55:37.439
<v Speaker 1>authentic life, the faster you will get to the front

0:55:37.440 --> 0:55:41.440
<v Speaker 1>of the line. Call the American dream. I'm here for it.

0:55:41.480 --> 0:55:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm waiting for you to join me as a partner

0:55:43.280 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>at the table of aspiracial success. Go get your book

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Capitalism for All, Read it, listen to it, consume it,

0:55:51.000 --> 0:55:53.920
<v Speaker 1>and then collect people around you who are in your posse,

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:59.600
<v Speaker 1>who are part of your same mindset, and build a

0:55:59.640 --> 0:56:05.360
<v Speaker 1>whole community of exotic A giver and a giver you

0:56:05.360 --> 0:56:09.279
<v Speaker 1>can do bad all by yourself. I guarantee love and light.

0:56:09.480 --> 0:56:11.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm out John O'Brien Money and Wealth on the Black

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