WEBVTT - Pet Names with GiGi Gorgeous 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.360 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:10.560 and I Heart Radio Podcast. Hello everyone, thank you for 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:13.960 joining us on another non April Fools episode of Help 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:17.159 I Suck At Dating. You've got your usual suspects in 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:24.079 studio today, starting with me, Younglert, Vanessa Grimaldi in studio. 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:25.800 Can you guys talk or am I just gonna be 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:30.440 talking about I'm teasing these long breaks I'm seeing when 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:32.680 Tara does it, he says in the Beautiful and he 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:34.720 just like, yeah, I just really get you going. So 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:37.919 you're ready to go for the podcast. I'm extending my 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:41.680 my periods of silence so you guys can introduce yourselves. Well, 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:43.800 I just flew in. Guys, I don't even know where 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:45.800 I am right now or what time it is. You're 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:48.839 on the Almost Famous podcast and he's Ashley and on 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:53.519 beds again. Yeah, all over again. We'll welcome to a 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:55.520 new episode of Help by Second Dating. The three of 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:57.720 us are all in studios, so hopefully sound qualities a 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.880 little bit better. This week, we have a special guest 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:02.720 who is a little under the weather today, so she's 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.280 going to call in, but she goes by the name 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:08.040 of gig Gorgeous and it's something that we've been campaigning. 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:09.679 At least Vanessa and I have been campaigning for a 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.280 little bit now, and I've been campaigning you have, and 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.640 Vanessa and I have been more vocal about campaigning for 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:16.920 I am I. I want Gig on the podcast, not 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:20.000 just Gi specifically, but it's always good to get different perspectives. 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:22.480 So Gi Gorgeous, for those that don't know, is a 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:27.119 transgender essentially a supermodel. It seems like stunning, stunning, beautiful woman. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:29.840 Um who She's a big part of the l g 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:34.200 B t Q community. UM she is notoriously known for 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:38.120 trans being a transgender from a man to a woman. 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:40.120 She's very open and honest about that. So she's gonna 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.959 be on the podcast a little bit later. Book that 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:44.959 she's going to talk abouts are big on YouTube. She 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:47.920 has a big YouTube following. She has a documentary where 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.560 she from. Oh you you know you want me to 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:52.600 say where she's from, So I actually want to ask 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.960 her because it does say Montreal, because I did, like, 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:57.600 I did do like a little bit of research. I'm like, wait, 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:59.880 when she was diving in her documentary, I'm like, that 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.160 looks like Lord Jobian, which is right next to my house. 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:06.000 I'm sorry that France, Okay, So I'm don't to ask 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.080 her if that if she's actually from Montreal, if she 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.440 grew up in Toronto. But she's Canadian and that makes 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:13.160 me really happy. And she's studying and has such an 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:15.560 amazing story, So very excited for her to call in. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.200 But before we get to that, that's gonna be later 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:21.720 on in the episode. Obviously we're blessed with Vanessa's presence 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:24.639 in studio today. Vanessa, why are you in studio? So? 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:28.280 We had the wine tour with I Heart Radio? Where 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:32.120 was that in Napa Valley? Dean? Where were you? Oh? 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:35.040 Not there? Why weren't you there? But you're too cool 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:40.080 for school? It's not can't travel their over here just 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.560 to hang out with me? Yeah, two days before, did 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.600 your boyfriend come with you? No, he didn't because he's 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:52.359 in Uh he wasn't Toronto. Oh well, that's okay. And 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:55.959 who's all there? Jared Ashley, Vanessa ben Wells. As you 0:02:56.000 --> 0:03:02.200 said earlier, the usual suspects, suspect Blank Blake is going 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:04.840 to be there. Yeah, Derek Pets but Blake. You know, 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.000 it's somebody that we just saw this past weekend. But 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.720 it's somebody that you should be seeing. Well just in 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.000 a couple of months, get down in a beach in Mexico. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:16.040 Really great transition, man. Yeah, I try any updates on that? 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.880 About that I message you, remember, I got so mad 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.000 at did I tell you everything? Why didn't you tell me? 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:22.840 You said, just a paradise? No, no, no, no. This 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.280 is what Vanessa does. Vanessa text me and says, Dean, 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.359 I tell you everything. I can't believe you didn't tell 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:28.919 me this big secret, and that's it. And then it 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.080 cuts off and I said I was like, I was like, 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:34.880 what did she find out? Um? And then she goes, 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.400 you're going to Paradise. You didn't tell me. Nothing is confirmed, 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.240 you guys, so hold on. So that means you didn't 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:44.160 say no. I haven't said yes either, committed, I don't. 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:48.360 I don't know. So if you were to go on Paradise, 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.600 what would you would you be going on for fun? 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:56.040 For to gain followers, to find love. That's kind of 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.839 why I get to give an answer, because I haven't 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:00.320 really figured out what I want out of anything. Great 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:04.040 for our podcast, just take one from a business perspective, fantastic, 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:05.960 we'll get We'll get a couple of extra listeners for 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:07.880 a couple of extra weeks while the season is airing. 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:12.400 Totally worth it, right, Yeah, yeah, well yeah for you guys, 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.360 it's it's a zero risk, zero risk for you. I 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:17.920 just really hope that you pull up into Paradise with 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.480 your van, drive down there, take a little road trip. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.520 Instead of coming down the stairs, you just pull up 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.160 right in front of the stairs. I was thinking about 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:25.640 of the van. I was actually thinking about this, like, 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:27.560 if I were to go through with Paradise. You guys 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.080 know that I got my sky diving license, how cool 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:32.800 would it be the skydive onto the beach? Yeah, that 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.440 seems like it's that beach is quite such a bachelor move. 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:39.040 Though it would be pretty bad. Isn't dangerous to skydiving 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.400 water as well? Well, there's just like winds that come 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.600 off the water over the land that are kind of dangerous. 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:45.360 But at that point I'll have enough jumps to where 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.480 I'm comfortable doing that. We don't want Yeah, yeah, but no, 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.440 like nothing is confirmed. I don't know what do you 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.360 guys think. Obviously, you guys both want me to do it. 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:55.480 I want you to do it. If you're to do 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.600 it and not end up regretting it. Did you ender 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.359 regretting the last time? Well, one time you went. The 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:05.000 thing that is different this time around is going into 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:07.920 every show, I've been in a mindset that I haven't 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.080 really been in that I am now like going into 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.400 Bachelor mindset is up. Going to the Bachelorette, I was 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.160 open to new opportunities, not really sure what would come 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:18.080 from it, um looking for, like to mix up my 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:19.560 life in spite of my life a little bit. So 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.800 that was my mindset going into that. Going into Paradise, 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:25.000 the first Bachelor Paradise immediate following Bachelorette, I was like 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.120 in a weird place, you know. I just came off Bachelorette, 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.080 like literally three weeks prior um, Like financially, I wasn't 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:32.160 really comfortable all that kind of stuff, and I didn't 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:33.600 really know what was gonna come of all of this. 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.200 And then going into Bachelor Winter Games, my headspace was 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:38.599 all messed up. Obviously. I was so kind of um 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.719 torn up from my Bachelor and Paradise experience, and I 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:42.800 figured going into Winter Games might help me get over that. 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.440 Obviously that's not the case. And so for the first 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:47.560 time out of any of the Bachelor's shows again. If 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.240 I were to do Bachelor in Paradise, which not confirming 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.919 nor denying anything right now, um, it would be the 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.560 first time where like I'm fully saying, like fully comfortable 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:57.920 with who I am, not like hung up on anything 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:01.360 in the past. Uh like almost like a fresh start. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.560 Not even a fresh start, but it's like I'm finally 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:08.360 like happy, Like financially speaking, I'm good, emotionally speaking, I'm 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.599 good mentally speaking, I'm good like all of these things. 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.960 And so it's like for that reason, it would kind 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:14.880 of be like, okay, like maybe we can give us 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:16.800 a go, where like everything is kind of running on 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:18.840 all cylinders. I just want you to go because I 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.760 feel like so many past contestants that have turned down 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.320 Paradise look back and say, why the hell did I 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:28.680 say no? Like it's well, they keep asking me. They 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:32.120 asked me again this well, one of the producers. Every 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.799 time I hear from her, I'm like, oh my god, 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:36.440 I like it's been so long, so excited to hear 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:39.160 from you. And then I like, you just want me 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:41.640 to know, you want to know if I'm single. And 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:43.880 so I was asked again for this season, and of 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:45.919 course it's a compliment because like once I'm you know, 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.840 once they stop asking, it's like, well, you're kind of 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.120 like old new old news, don't really wants anymore. So 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.760 I'm like, no, I'm gonna I'm happily in a relationship now, 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.480 you know, I don't. I mean, I can't predict the future, 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.240 but I do suppose that I will still be with 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.880 him come summertime. So I'm maybe I can give out 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:04.200 a date card. It would be cool. I mean, give 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:08.839 some dating advice podcast on dating. From the production standpoint, 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:13.640 I don't really see why they would be exactly makes sense. Hey, 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:15.080 put it out there. You never know what's gonna happen. 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:16.920 The challenging thing, too, is essentially for me go to 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:18.920 going to if I were to go to Paradise, Like 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.080 I'm a I'm a pretty controversial figure, I think in 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:23.560 terms of Bachelor Nation, So it's like that could go 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.600 either way for me, in terms of a girl being 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.160 like kind of uh drawn to that or just completely 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.960 going to block me up. But those are things, those 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:33.040 are things that are such outside of your control that 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:36.840 you can't say yes or no because of that. Yeah, 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:39.480 I guess, but it's like sometimes you might not even 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.280 get a fair shot just because of what you've been 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.320 labeled from the past. I think if somebody doesn't give 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.160 you a fair shot because of how you were labeled 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.360 and past, that person is not for you anyway. That's 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:49.920 fair now and now you wouldn't want to be with 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:54.920 that person anyway. Did you slide into anyone's damns UM season? Well, 0:07:54.920 --> 0:08:00.320 we had Brion the podcast back in UM we talked 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:02.520 a little bit. But did you hang out outside of 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:08.920 talking on social media? No? Not yet, not yet, but 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:12.080 kalyn s yours a long time ago. That's been obviously there. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:15.040 I'm not gonna like, yeah, a few of them have 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.920 slid into my d m oh so more than just 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.200 two of them. Yes, I'm not gonna name names obviously, 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:20.880 but it's like, can you give us the first letter? 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:22.880 Maybe their initially absolutely not. I got to tease it 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:25.560 a little bit, but that's that's what I'm saying. It's like, Okay, sure, 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.080 I guess it would be still fun to go to 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.000 the beach and hang out with people. I mean, look, 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:33.240 Melbie came out of it and she ended up becoming 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:39.240 friends with people. Yeah, I don't know. I also kind 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.720 of like as great as the Bachelor franchise has been 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:43.160 to me and to all of us, I kind of 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.400 like want to remove myself from it makes sense, you know, 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:46.760 Like I don't want to be known as Dean from 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.360 The Bachelor, unbeknown as like Dean the guy that does 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:53.439 cool things and travels all over the world. Yeah. I 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.560 don't know. It's just there's a lot of conflicting ideas 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.280 that like someone are encouraging me to do it, and 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:58.600 some are saying me for me not to do it, 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:02.000 And again maybe like I'm not even desire to go 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:03.880 back from a production standpoint a like no one's asked 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:11.240 me from the production side of things lying, So it's 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.520 like who the hell knows seen from the Bachelor. Hey, listen, 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:17.440 try being known as Mr Ashley. I, Um, you're Mr Connetti, 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:20.240 Mr i Connetti. Well, no, that's weird because that's Actuley's 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.640 dad's name. Because I still get I still get a 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:27.800 congratulations on your engagement. That's kind of depressing. I'm sorry 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:29.599 about that that. I know we've talked about this, and 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.120 I'm sure you actually talked about it. But when you 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:33.400 guys get married, it's gonna be Ashley high Bond. But 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.880 she's still gonna go by. I think she's gonna obviously 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:40.360 she wants to change her name, um, but she's definitely 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.679 gonna still go by. I think Ashley I as her 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:46.120 like you know, but like her name. I don't even 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:48.120 not say that. Her driver's license will still say government 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.240 her government name. Change her name at some point, yeah, 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:54.480 but we're talking to Jade about that, because Jade actually 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:56.800 didn't legally change her name to Tolbert. I think till 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:59.240 like a year afterwards, I think she said, And so 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:01.480 who knows will happen, but well, you know, we'll do 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:03.720 that well when we get that. I've always been very 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:07.800 very pro taking my wife's last name, but now kids 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.880 would have your wife's last name. Yeah, so it could 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:13.800 be like Dean Grimaldi. I've always I've always been pro that, 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.520 but now it's weird because like similar to actually I canetti, 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:19.599 like Ungler is so unique that there's only I'm the 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:21.439 only de Ungler on the entire planet, you know what 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:24.280 I mean, There's just aren't many Unglers. It's like a 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:26.360 very unique lass name. Yeah. Um, And so like if 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.720 say Mary h a girl with a very more like 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:30.360 a much more common last name, like he kind of 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:33.319 lose the identity a little bit, like the note, not 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:36.880 the notoriety, but like the like the viduality. So that's 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:39.199 like the only thing that would maybe inhibit me considering that. Now, 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:40.920 I agree with that as well, because I feel bad 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.199 because Ashley and Lauren are the last two I Canetti's, 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:49.280 so like the I Canettie name will die. That's the thing. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:51.360 I have two older brothers and so they're probably gonna 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:53.000 have kids at some point, so the Ungler name will 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:55.880 live on. Well that's nice. That's a nice security blanket 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.720 I have. Yeah, But for me, I think the Haybond, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.280 the Haybond name will live on. There's how many times 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:05.840 I'm making a mispronounce your name a bond hie Hi 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.079 like a pastry. Well, another question I have for you, 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.760 Dean and Vanessa as well, is that listen, you might 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:13.760 go down to Paradise. Who knows, you might meet somebody. 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:17.040 I remember my season of Paradise Grant in lace when 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.439 they got together, they got matching tattoos of each other. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:21.680 You guys remember this at all? Yeah, yeah, a little 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:24.280 premature because obviously it didn't work out unfortunately, and they 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:25.920 got the matching tattoos, So I don't know if you 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:28.280 just change that. What are your guys thoughts about couples 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:30.960 getting matching tattoos. I am the cheesiest person ever, so 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:34.040 of course I'm gonna say yes to matching anything, matching outfits, 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.959 matching tattoos. I like the idea. Can we say that 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:40.400 there's a big difference between matching outfits and matching if 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.920 I'm if I'm seriously going to be with someone for 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.640 the rest of my life, then why not. I don't 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:47.360 have a tattoo, and I would love to get one, 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:49.240 and I think it'd be a meaningful thing if my 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.080 significant other, my husband, and I end up getting something 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.320 that's match Yeah, I'm not you guys know me. I 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:56.760 get a bunch of dump tattoes all the time, So 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.600 another tattoo. Really, it's not that it's meaningless to me. 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:02.680 It's it's not as big as a step ye. And 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.640 I guess you can always switch it up if it's 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.200 I guess you could change it, but it is kind 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:08.680 of permanent. I mean, you can get it removed, but 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:10.800 it won't there be a scar there. So it's kind 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:13.000 of like a right well for for you guys, because 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:15.880 neither of you have tattoos, right, I don't have any 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.240 tattoos I have like I think I kind of the 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:21.000 other have like nineteen tattoos, So what do you have nineteen? Well, 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:22.800 they're just kind of all the spread. Yeah, theyre random. 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:24.880 But I'm saying it, from nineteen to twenty tattoos isn't 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.600 as big of a deal as from zero to one tattoo, 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.280 you know what I mean. So it's like, sure, I'll 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:29.960 get your name tattooed to my butt totally. It makes 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.000 a difference if I got a tattoo of actually be 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.600 very significant because it's my first tattoo at But now 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:36.400 that I'm thirty, I kind of go back and forth 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.000 through I want to get a tattoo at this point 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:40.120 after thirty years later, you get it somewhere that you 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.880 can't visibly see it. So don't get like the Superman 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:44.600 asked on my chest? Is that what you're saying? But 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:52.079 with the butt cheek left or right, you Vanessa, I'm 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:56.280 having to do. I'm never wearing tattoos. It doesn't have 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:58.599 to be at the same spot, just the same. I 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:00.440 have matched tattoos with some of my best friend ends. 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:05.520 My uh John butler TiO tattoo and my HHS tattoo 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:09.920 in my carpet knocked him tattoo. What's three best friend tattoos? 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:11.959 What's the car My one of my best friends in 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:13.520 high school got carpet d M on his hip, and 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:14.920 me and my other best friend when we were in 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:16.720 college were like making fun of him, like, creiks such 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.480 a loser for getting carpet dum on his hip, which 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.240 we get to make fun of him. And so instead 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.160 of getting carpet DM, we got carpet knocked him on 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.920 the same spot, which means I'm sure you can surmize 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.200 what carpet Knocktom means if you know what carpet dum means, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.600 I don't carpet dum sees the day carpet knocked him, 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:31.800 of course, would then mean seized the night. So you 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:39.079 make him sarcastically getting a tattoo on the same location. Ye, yep, 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.480 we definitely want to exchange. Nineteen year old Dean is 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.760 super proud of that one. Um. Well, if you get 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.640 matching tattoos, do they have to be in the same spot. So, 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.520 for example, hypothetically speaking Dean and Vanessa, you guys end 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.240 up getting married. Uh, would you get like a tattoo? 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.320 Are like Dean? If you got a tattoo in your 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.160 forearm and you wanted to get a matching tattoo, I 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.960 wouldn't get on my farm. I don't think i'd be matching, 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:59.840 to be honest, ankle, but like, is it matching tattoos 0:13:59.880 --> 0:14:01.600 if you get the same exact tattoo, but yours is 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:04.640 on your ankle and Dean yours is on your hand. Yes, yeah, 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.440 that's fair. I don't know these things I would like 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.160 to be. I think I would like it should be 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:09.760 exactly at the same spot. I don't know if I 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.080 would get I think like it would be cute if 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:12.360 I got a star and she got a moon or 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.640 something like that. You know, like it wouldn't be exactly matching, 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:20.000 but like same significant best friends. 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I so 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:30.640 this is this is the first relationship I'm in and 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.360 that I don't call him babe. I love that, yeah, 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:35.520 because I find of like everyone calls each other. The 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:38.560 baby's the most uninspired nickname of all times. So he 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:41.400 has salt and pepper hair, more salt than peppers, I 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:46.240 call him salt. Would baby considered a nickname because they're 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:48.760 not calling the person by their first name? Yeah, but 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:59.640 I feel like, wait, I just realized nickname No, um, 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.040 I just feel like babe is like a term thrown around. 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:07.120 I would to consider a nickname, like, for example, a nickname, Well, 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:09.320 what is the definition of a nickname? A nickname is 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:13.159 like something endearing? Yeah, I don't So what do you 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:17.479 call Ashley babe? Really? Sometimes I call it just like 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:19.600 I don't have Like I don't say pumpkin, Like my 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:23.639 dad calls my mom and my specifically my sister pumpkin. 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:27.440 That's cute, or uh, what does he call her? Oh? 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:29.920 He called her one thing is so embarrassing one time 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:32.600 she was a teenager. He called her like schnook ms 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:35.359 or something like that. Yeah, when you're a teenager, you 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:39.560 don't your first name and anything. But it was so 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.640 I think now I think back upon it, Like dad, 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:43.800 I think it's the first when a couple has names 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.560 that they call each other that only they referred to 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:49.160 them as, you know, something short, something simple, but something 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.920 like kind of like almost sarcastic in a sense, but cute. Yeah, 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:54.240 something that has a meaning behind it. Yeah, I agree 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:56.160 with that one. Josh had no idea what salt meant 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.240 when I when I called him that, but um well, 0:17:58.280 --> 0:18:00.760 I said salt in a text mess and he actually 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:03.080 googled it to figure out, like what does salt mean? 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:05.840 And I'm like, no, it's just a nickname I gave you. 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.879 But in the movie with Angelina, Jelly popped up, why 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:10.880 is that a movie? Right with Salt? Or it's called 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.119 Salt with Angela need to watch movies? What nicknames have 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:16.679 you given your exes? I feel we're talking about that 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:19.080 because they might hear this and then you know, but 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.960 it's like it's original names. Yeah, but the problem is too, 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.680 I'm sure you guys, you really so you don't reoccur, 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:27.719 you don't use never. Well, here's the thing. So that's 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:30.560 why I think babe is not a nickname because it 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:37.280 just blanket terms like the one that you love. I 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.480 just I think it's inspired. It's like, be a little 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:40.679 bit more creative than that, you know. Yeah, but I 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.960