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Speaker 1: Thanking nephew. Subject. You can yell and shout because I'm out.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband is the most disrespectful cheater

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Speaker 1: on the planet.

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Speaker 2: He's messy with it.

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Speaker 1: I cheated on him for four years when we first

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Speaker 1: got married, and he never suspected a thing.

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Speaker 2: But he wants the world to.

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Speaker 1: Know he's cheating and will park his car in front

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Speaker 1: of a restaurant when he's on a date. My friends

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Speaker 1: don't even tell me when they see him out anymore.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't until my eleven year old son came home

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Speaker 1: and told me that his teacher had a picture of

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Speaker 1: her and his daddy in her phone and showed it

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Speaker 1: to him. I called his teacher, and she asked why

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Speaker 1: I was so worried about what my.

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Speaker 2: Ex husband was doing.

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Speaker 1: I let her know that I wasn't the ex, well,

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Speaker 1: at least not yet. I told my husband I was

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Speaker 1: leaving him, and he cried, yelled, and pitched a fit

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Speaker 1: all night. I told him he could yell and shout

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Speaker 1: because I'm out. I've been looking for apartments and I

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Speaker 1: started being rude like him. I leave apartment booklets on

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Speaker 1: the coffee table, and I took a chunk of money

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Speaker 1: out of our savings to make him question.

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Speaker 2: What's going on. I don't answer any of his questions.

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Speaker 1: When he asked if I'm really leaving him, I took

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Speaker 1: his cell phone because I paid for it. I took

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Speaker 1: his car because I pay for that too. His car

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Speaker 1: is in my mom's garage, and he showed up over

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Speaker 1: there yelling and screaming in front of her house. This

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Speaker 1: man can dish it out, but he can't take it.

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Speaker 1: He showed up at my job and my coworkers asked

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Speaker 1: him to leave. He started all of his yelling and

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Speaker 1: screaming at my job. We all laughed. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to miss that is disrespectful, and then tries to be

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Speaker 1: a cry baby. He's had our pastor come to the

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Speaker 1: house to try to talk to me.

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Speaker 2: And at this.

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Speaker 1: Point I've cheated. He's cheated, and it's time to let

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Speaker 1: this marriage go. Should I file for divorce or stay

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Speaker 1: and make him as miserable as possible? What?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Why are you guys even married?

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Speaker 1: I don't get it, and yes, to answer your question,

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Speaker 1: please file for divorce immediately. Everyone just doesn't need to

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Speaker 1: be married, and you guys sure don't. This is stupid

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Speaker 1: and for what, I don't even understand what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: How is this a marriage when all you guys do

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Speaker 1: is cheat on each other and you started the cheating

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Speaker 1: right from the beginning of your marriage. Now he's cheating,

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Speaker 1: but you're mad because of the way he's cheating.

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Speaker 2: Am I reading this letter correctly?

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Speaker 1: He's open with it, whereas you were more discreet with

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Speaker 1: your cheating because he didn't find out about it. Everyone

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Speaker 1: knows that when a better cheaters, So what okay? The

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Speaker 1: best thing you guys can do at this point is

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Speaker 1: put yourselves out of your own misery. The cheating started

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Speaker 1: with you, but you don't even say why. I mean,

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Speaker 1: just because you wanted to cheat? It sounds like I

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Speaker 1: think you cheated just to cheat, and you sound like

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Speaker 1: it would be okay if your husband would just cheat respectfully.

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Speaker 1: You called him a disrespectful cheater. All he was doing

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Speaker 1: was just following your lead. Again, for whatever reason, you

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Speaker 1: started the cheating.

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Speaker 2: This letter is.

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Speaker 1: Really stupid, and now you want out because he's doing

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Speaker 1: it to you disrespectfully.

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Speaker 2: You're wrong and this one's this. You created this mess.

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Speaker 1: I say get out and just stay single because you

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Speaker 1: don't understand how marriage works. Okay, you're not supposed to cheat,

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Speaker 1: and you did that the first years of.

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Speaker 2: Your marriage for four years.

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Speaker 1: Get out, Tommy, Come on, this letter makes me mad.

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Speaker 3: Oh this is stupid. I've never heard of a respectful cheating.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, don't know what what what does that mean?

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Speaker 3: A respectful cheating? I'm I'm cheating over here, real good,

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Speaker 3: so he don't know nothing. I'm respecting him.

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Speaker 4: What that doll?

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Speaker 3: This is stupid, lady. What are you talking about? You

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Speaker 3: know who else?

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Speaker 4: Miss it?

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Speaker 3: This damn teacher missing? Now you done brought the baby

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Speaker 3: in there? What you showing the.

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Speaker 4: Baby the picture for? What is that for? That was?

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Speaker 4: That was? That was salty as well?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: This is this whole.

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Speaker 3: Relationship is toxic. It is and y'all need to get out.

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Speaker 3: Y'all need to part ways instead of y'all arguing at

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Speaker 3: somebody house y'all and hid the cars and you done

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Speaker 3: took his cell phone. Man, stop get this man his

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Speaker 3: give him a phone. Let him have that little piece

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Speaker 3: of communication. I don't know nothing. I don't know what

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Speaker 3: you're gonna do about this car. What y'all need to

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Speaker 3: just everybody need to be packing up and moving out.

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Speaker 3: That's what everybody need to be packing up and moving out.

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Speaker 3: Let's get our stuff together.

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Speaker 4: And roll out because it's not working respectfully.

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Speaker 3: Cheating I respected you eat it on you. You know

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Speaker 3: now you just out here, all out here in the open,

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Speaker 3: cheating on me, and everybody's seeing this.

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Speaker 4: Now you're not gonna do it respectfully. That I that

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Speaker 4: we have an issue.

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Speaker 3: If we're not gonna you know you're gonna respect me

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Speaker 3: when you cheat on me. It is what you need

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Speaker 3: to be doing, okay, all right, So if you're gonna cheat,

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Speaker 3: then you need to drive somewhere, crawl up in the

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Speaker 3: garage and y'all do y'all thing behind closed doorf I

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Speaker 3: know you ain't ating no restaurant with nobody that is

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Speaker 3: disrespectfully cheating, and that right there is not gonna work.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna respect me when you cheat on me, and

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Speaker 3: I mean put some respect on this cheap okay with her? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: on this cheat, and then I'll be fine with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm comfortable with that. If you and Glinda is gonna

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Speaker 3: do what y'all doing, that's fine as long as only

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Speaker 3: me you, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Really need to know what you and Glinda doing.

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Speaker 3: But the fact that I know now you're not respecting

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Speaker 3: me alone though, Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I graduated eighty five and a bunch of glims.

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Speaker 2: Junior. What you got. We can start off here and

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Speaker 2: then finish.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll tell you right now. Since we talk about

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Speaker 5: cheating with there's some rules if we're gonna be cheating,

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Speaker 5: let's just.

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Speaker 6: Understand what the rules are. First of all, if you

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Speaker 6: don't cheat, you gonna need money first, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 6: to do You're gonna have to have that to cheat. Okay,

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Speaker 6: you can't have nobody else paying your bills. And you

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Speaker 6: try to cheat, now that don't work, Well.

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Speaker 5: They repossess your car. Now you can't get to your cheating.

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Speaker 2: Now you can't even.

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Speaker 5: Get over it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, now they took your phone. Now you can't call

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Speaker 6: your cheat. You can't do it.

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Speaker 4: You need money to cheat.

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Speaker 5: What I see.

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Speaker 1: Time, we'll have part two of your response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: subject you can yell and shout because I'm out.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 2: hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's time to recap the Strawberry letter and

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Speaker 1: get to two of Junior's response. The subject is you

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Speaker 1: can yell and shout because I'm out. This wife wrote

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Speaker 1: this strawberry letter and she's mad because her husband is

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Speaker 1: cheating on her. But he's doing it very disrespectfully. He's

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Speaker 1: all out in the open with it. You know, people

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Speaker 1: know that he's cheating, and she cheated at the beginning

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Speaker 1: of their marriage. The wife did who wrote the letter,

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Speaker 1: but she obviously did it respectfully where he didn't know

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Speaker 1: she was cheating. So the problem is obviously not that

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Speaker 1: he's cheating, but that he's so disrespectful with it, you know,

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Speaker 1: the little boy. That's how when she really got mad.

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Speaker 1: Her son saw a picture of his teacher and her

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Speaker 1: dad and his dad. So he was upset about that.

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Speaker 1: He showed it to the mom and she was like, Uh,

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Speaker 1: we're getting a divorce because you don't know how to cheat.

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Speaker 1: You're too disrespectful what you're cheating. So, I mean she

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Speaker 1: wants she's asking us should she file for divorce or

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Speaker 1: stay with him and make him as miserable as possible.

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Speaker 1: This letter is crazy, It's really dumb and uh, Junior,

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Speaker 1: we want to hear from you now what you got

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Speaker 1: on this.

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Speaker 2: You can yell and shout because I'm out.

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Speaker 5: All we talk about is cheating. It's just rules to cheating.

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Speaker 5: You have to make your own money to cheat.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 5: The reason why I understand this, Tommy, is because I've had.

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Speaker 6: A woman paying myself on bill and I was cheating

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Speaker 6: and it got my phone snatched. I understand it. Hard

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Speaker 6: to cheat through email. Hard to cheat through email. Hard

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Speaker 6: to cheat through email because you gotta wait for them

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Speaker 6: to get the message and message you back.

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Speaker 5: It's easier when she took the phone.

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Speaker 6: I'm emailing cheating now, I'm emailing paper. What time are

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Speaker 6: you gonna come by and pick me up?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 6: I'm doing too much now it's might work. You need

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Speaker 6: at least this is what I've discovered just for cheating.

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Speaker 6: You need at least seventy.

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Speaker 5: Carey to cheat. If you ain't making that QUI cheating.

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Speaker 6: Don't cost hotel rooms, costs, dinners, cost dates, costs. You're

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Speaker 6: gonna have to have seventy care you to cheat if

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Speaker 6: you have fifty five dollars dollars, don't even do it.

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Speaker 5: It's not ain't working because you can't have gone. You

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Speaker 5: can't have afford it. Because I'm telling you, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Telling you you need. You need a cheating your account.

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Speaker 5: You gotta have account, but.

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Speaker 6: You gotta make at least seventy kre years cause let

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Speaker 6: me tell you why what everybody don't want to eat

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Speaker 6: that cheese every time we go out there ain't gonna

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Speaker 6: last long.

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Speaker 5: Got two for twenty, don't last long.

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Speaker 6: Somebody gonna want a Houston or Papado's a macetrows a

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Speaker 6: no boat, They're gonna.

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Speaker 4: Start walking more, gonna throw you into something.

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to tell you gotta have seventy care here. Dog,

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Speaker 6: Why are you out here with forty five thousand.

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Speaker 4: A year cheating?

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Speaker 2: You have no business?

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Speaker 6: You should be faithful man, gotta be faith forty five thousand, No,

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Speaker 6: you ain't making enough. Cheat, dog, put the playing now

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Speaker 6: the seventy K. I put the number down because when

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Speaker 6: I'm making forty five telling joke, dog, forty five k

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Speaker 6: year dog, trying to cheat put myself in some situations,

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Speaker 6: couldn't pay the wrinch?

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Speaker 2: What couldn't pay the wrinch?

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Speaker 3: Shut it?

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Speaker 6: I'm cheating.

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Speaker 4: That's back, that's back when you had a flip fall, right, dog?

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Speaker 5: Do you understand.

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Speaker 6: All these bills I got and I got forty five?

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Speaker 6: Can't here telling Joe I can't afford it. I can't

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Speaker 1: So so Junior, let me ask you this, is there

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Speaker 1: a way too? She's mad because he was such a

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Speaker 1: disrespectful cheater? Is there a way too respectfully cheat?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely could respectully cheat. Yeah, just don't let him find out.

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Speaker 6: That's what's right there. That's how you now, if you

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Speaker 6: know my cheat not hit When I got caught and

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Speaker 4: When I try to make a phone call.

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Speaker 6: And that lady came on there that your service has

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Speaker 6: been disconnected, it is not fun.

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Speaker 2: I've been that.

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Speaker 6: Making forty five here trying to cheat. Can't afford it,

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Speaker 6: but I can lose my apartment trying to cheat.

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Speaker 4: Because the room land on the land line.

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Speaker 6: I'm showing up at five thirty nine. I'm twelve dollars short,

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Speaker 6: trying to cheat. That's all I can find out. When

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Speaker 6: she snat your car and your phone. It's on the

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Speaker 6: cheat through email. I tried it because I don't wait

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Speaker 4: Shirt call.

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Speaker 6: You gotta wait for a missus to come back. So

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Speaker 6: I see the email. What time are you coming to

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Speaker 6: pick me up?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: I gotta wait send Yeah, Now, I gotta wait.

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Speaker 4: I gotta hope. I gotta hope.

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Speaker 5: She gotta checking her email.

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Speaker 4: Everybody don't check him daily. Now they don't do that.

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Speaker 6: They don't Two years tim, I didn't get a message

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Speaker 6: back till Friday.

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Speaker 5: I ain't even got Now.

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Speaker 4: You need to set your butt down someone seventy kye.

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Speaker 2: What you need to cheat?

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Speaker 6: If you ain't making that, just be faithful.

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Speaker 1: But she has some nerve though she cheated on him

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Speaker 1: for four years in the beginning of their marriage, and

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Speaker 1: Now that she knows he's cheating, she's mad because he's

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Speaker 1: out with it.

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Speaker 2: This is just the dumbest.

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Speaker 7: Craziest letter ever, really, because she's mad at the disrespect

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Speaker 7: and the sloppiness of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Nothing, he's cheating, right, right's cheating the audacity they need

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Speaker 7: taking pictures and.

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Speaker 4: If you're cheating, you being disrespectful. Point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they don't need to be married. They don't

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Speaker 2: need to be married.

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Speaker 4: Ways, Yeah, I'm I'm worried about the boy. That's what

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Speaker 4: I'm worried about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the baby, and you have a son. This is

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Speaker 1: so so very crazy. He's all up at the job.

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Speaker 1: I mean they've got yeah with the boy, with the teacher,

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Speaker 5: And she took your car hard to cheat them. Two

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Speaker 5: things you need to cheat, car.

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Speaker 2: And a cell phone.

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Speaker 3: Now you're on the bus with your son trying to

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Speaker 3: go see the lady because 't got no car.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell mama, Jenny, I don't care y'all.

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Speaker 4: Y'all both at the bus stop trying to catch a riot?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Hit us up on Instagram. Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: That Steve Harvey f m to comment on today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: You're listening.

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Speaker 1: Morning show.

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Speaker 2: All right, it is time now for junior and sports talk.

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Speaker 6: You know, no, no, because I got a question for

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Speaker 6: the nephew, because I'm really still upset by Strawberry left time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why we got to keep telling you

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Speaker 3: it ain't no sports right now.

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Speaker 4: We in a drought.

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Speaker 5: We're in a drought right now. The NBA Draft was

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Speaker 5: just the other day. Okay, that's all.

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Speaker 6: We got victory, y'all be women, Y'all'm seven five, went

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Speaker 6: number one. Okay, we'll forget that. Got that out of

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Speaker 6: the way. Back to this cheating Tommy. When you was

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Speaker 6: cheating Tommy like we were cheating.

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Speaker 4: Though, did he say he cheated?

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Speaker 6: No on going in college when we were just out here,

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Speaker 6: when women were.

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Speaker 5: Full of time.

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Speaker 4: I was wild.

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Speaker 6: How you had to cheat in college versus how you

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Speaker 6: had to cheat? Man, Come on, now, when you were

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Speaker 6: cheating in college time, how do you have to get

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Speaker 6: across the yard. But now you got that, you got

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Speaker 6: to know what you're doing. But now, but now I

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Speaker 6: do have a pager, though, I do have a page.

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Speaker 6: So that's that was like a nice little communication thing.

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Speaker 6: Next tail, I did have that. Uh, you can't have

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Speaker 3: The yard if you're gonna if you're gonna have to

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Speaker 3: have them on opposite ends. Okay, so over here on

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Speaker 3: the north side of the yard, you got to eat

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Speaker 3: over there. Don't come old to the south side eating

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Speaker 3: at another uh cafeteria over there, you're gonna get yourself

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Now I already got one of them. They I DS,

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Speaker 3: so I can swipe it to get something to eat.

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Speaker 3: I come on, I took that I d to the

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Speaker 3: other side. I was stupid. I was so stupid.

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Speaker 4: Who I ran and I ran it? Go ahead call it.

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Speaker 4: Can I speak on that?

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Speaker 7: Because when I was in college, everything happened. Busted my

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Speaker 7: boyfriend at another girl's dorm.

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Speaker 4: But I was driving his car.

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Speaker 2: See he played football.

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Speaker 7: I'll drive up and my girls in the car rest

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Speaker 7: in peace.

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Speaker 2: Swape.

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Speaker 5: You know a tome.

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Speaker 4: I bet a ride. I's a ride or die right there, boy,

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Speaker 4: she was a ride of die.

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Speaker 7: She pulled down her glasses and say say man, that's

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Speaker 7: your boy.

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Speaker 4: Kissing on the girl.

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Speaker 2: I was devastated, Junior, Tom and Shirley. I could believe it.

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Speaker 4: She's like, you want to do something. I was like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: playing cool.

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Speaker 2: Playing cool. The next day, walked across the yard with

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Speaker 7: They're going to the Keptteria to eat, and all my

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Speaker 7: friends turned around and said, you know it's over right.

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Speaker 7: I was so shame.

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Speaker 5: Call I got busted.

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Speaker 4: I got you.

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Speaker 6: I got the same way kissing a girl in my

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Speaker 6: kissing this girl, I don't know the way to that act,

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Speaker 6: Like I didn't even know.

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Speaker 5: I excuse me, you have a wrong call.

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Speaker 3: Y'are on if y'all get y'all butt out there on

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Speaker 3: two ninety and kissing joy y'all don't need to be

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Speaker 3: kissing on the yold.

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Speaker 1: That's what you did back in the day, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. I think coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, a lady says she's ready to love Tommy,

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Speaker 1: but she's not ready to comb her hair or or

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Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening morning show,