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Speaker 1: What is going on? People? Everybody good? Amazing? You gotta
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Speaker 1: with our words. You know what I'm saying in Big
Speaker 1: Facts Friday tradition shot What we got? Inquisitive? Inquisitive inquisitive um?
Speaker 1: The Urban Dictionary, Well, no, I'm gonna start with the
Speaker 1: textbook expreary. It says interested in, um, wanted to know
Speaker 1: someone else's business? Okay? Um. The Urban says curiosity the
Speaker 1: degree in which a person or emma wants to learn
Speaker 1: new things. And I'm a person or animal or person
Speaker 1: or animal nosy, Yeah, wants to but is wanting no
Speaker 1: new things? Being nosy? Not not wanting to know new okay?
Speaker 1: Wanted to know? Okay, So let's let's just go straight
Speaker 1: into our topic from inquisitive with which is hiness? When
Speaker 1: should you mind your own business. But on the flip side,
Speaker 1: when should you not mind your own business? Because sometimes,
Speaker 1: of course, uh, I think most of the time you
Speaker 1: should be minding your damn business because I'll be minding
Speaker 1: my damn business and it's just better, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Overall, But I mean there might be times
Speaker 1: where you might need to get in somebody's business for
Speaker 1: the sake of maybe helping them or saving them from
Speaker 1: some bs, you know what I'm saying, Like, you ain't
Speaker 1: supposed to just sit around and watch your people just
Speaker 1: crash out without maybe getting their business a little bit Like, look,
Speaker 1: I don't want to get in your business, but I
Speaker 1: just want to let you know that that ain't it,
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So what's the fine line
Speaker 1: between that, like many of business staying out the way
Speaker 1: so people don't call you nosy or inquisitive, but also
Speaker 1: being a person that don't just let your people just
Speaker 1: crash out and be on some bs how you laughing?
Speaker 1: You know? Um, I think it's it's definitely alignment between
Speaker 1: it two, right, So, like, if you're being inquisitive for
Speaker 1: the sake of trying to help somebody, okay, you should
Speaker 1: definitely look into things, whatever the relevant situation is. But
Speaker 1: a lot of people be wanting to know information that
Speaker 1: ain't got ship to do with them, and they just
Speaker 1: want to know, like why are you asking me this?
Speaker 1: But even if you even if you're trying to help them,
Speaker 1: sometimes the feedback you can get from him is my
Speaker 1: your damn business. This is my business. But in that case,
Speaker 1: you may be they may be your business. Like if
Speaker 1: I say, if M like a mom asking her son,
Speaker 1: what are you going like the sun stay with like
Speaker 1: a teenager or something like what you're gonna business? You're
Speaker 1: my business? Son. You ain't got no business saying my
Speaker 1: your business this before you've grown, So you can't tell
Speaker 1: me my my business because you're my kid. It's just said, though,
Speaker 1: I mean it could be said. But what about when
Speaker 1: it comes to a significant others significant others and I
Speaker 1: think like best friends and family members is more kind
Speaker 1: of what we're talking about. Like, but they can get
Speaker 1: you with the same magic business thing. So say fascist
Speaker 1: let's make it like die Terry. What does somebody say,
Speaker 1: I went to the doctor, the doctor said my blood
Speaker 1: pressure messed up, And then you see them eating fried chicken.
Speaker 1: Did you just let them eat the fried chicken and
Speaker 1: then just fall back or you know, the doctor said
Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to be eating all that. I literally
Speaker 1: met the fried chicken for real. Yeah? Why because if
Speaker 1: they did, they went out how they wanted to even good,
Speaker 1: how they want to eat? Okay, but what did you
Speaker 1: like know, like, dang, you just you can stop doing that?
Speaker 1: What if you know you're the one person that can
Speaker 1: get them? Like what if it was bank and they're
Speaker 1: trying to tell Cass don't be eating no damn chicken.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say some See, I think it depends on
Speaker 1: how much you care about the person who it is.
Speaker 1: It is much you care about it and who it is,
Speaker 1: Because if it's somebody you care about unconditionally, you ain't
Speaker 1: you don't care if they're mad, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like certain people really don't get they mad at you
Speaker 1: like I'm looking at right. I'm gonna just tell you right,
Speaker 1: if that's the case, don't be cool with me and
Speaker 1: throw down about you eating right, yeah, because I care
Speaker 1: about you. Now, if you just something like somebody it
Speaker 1: is what it is, then ship they stay not to
Speaker 1: eat chicken? Okay? So do you think them mind not
Speaker 1: minding them inquisitive, not minding the business people that be
Speaker 1: all another business. Do you think it's always illhearted? Do
Speaker 1: you think they have some good intentions? Sometimes? You know
Speaker 1: that people always and everybody else business and want to know.
Speaker 1: I want to know. I want to know. I want
Speaker 1: to know. Can they ever have y'all y'all know something,
Speaker 1: y'all keep granted. Let's see y'all grants is funny. Let's say,
Speaker 1: what's I feel like? You know, mind you've been most
Speaker 1: people ain't gonna teach and they want to see you
Speaker 1: crash too though. That's just what I'm saying. Like some
Speaker 1: people people like that are trying to do this to
Speaker 1: myself from you, like as she said, you're gonna let
Speaker 1: them eat the chicken. That wouldn't be my friend. Like
Speaker 1: I can't deal with about it like that because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, we all got flowed flaws.
Speaker 1: And if you're saying you get a funk about me,
Speaker 1: how are you gonna just even if I'm even if
Speaker 1: I'm showing that I don't give a funk about myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. It's just different people. People
Speaker 1: are different because some people might care but I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna say ship because I don't want Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: you got some people that don't give a fuck, and
Speaker 1: I still say something, don't even give a funk, you
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. I'm just saying to be in
Speaker 1: your bidding, but I don't give a funk of your
Speaker 1: that not what so that ship just I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's that's weird talking. It's a saw again. I just
Speaker 1: think it depends on who the person is and how
Speaker 1: much you care about them, right, because like, when there's
Speaker 1: somebody you care about, you don't care if you're gonna
Speaker 1: crash out, you know what I'm saying, Like, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna care how they feel if you're looking out for
Speaker 1: them and you had the best interest at heart. But
Speaker 1: how long do you try to drive someone the person
Speaker 1: when they's like when they're just who they is. It
Speaker 1: depends on who it is, keep going definitely depend on
Speaker 1: it is. There've been somebody who I love, like my
Speaker 1: mama or a brother, somebody like that until we can't
Speaker 1: talk about it no more. We're gonna keep trying to
Speaker 1: think who that is. And then's they're starting to take
Speaker 1: a strong on your relationship by you by you being
Speaker 1: so quiz about they didn't yeh she and the starting
Speaker 1: to take a train on relationship because you try to
Speaker 1: change this person. So how you do that? What you
Speaker 1: do about when they come down there? What do you do?
Speaker 1: I think at that point you take a step back
Speaker 1: because now it's starting to affect you because I love
Speaker 1: you so much that you don't even see you you're
Speaker 1: sucking yourself up and now it's starting to tear me down.
Speaker 1: So now I gotta take a step back from this
Speaker 1: whole situation. Think that's naturally what starts to happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's for sure, because like you can care about somebody
Speaker 1: more than they care about themselves in that instance to
Speaker 1: where it's like, damn, I know you're not supposed to
Speaker 1: be eating this chicken, but you keep on eating this
Speaker 1: chicken and you don't care about anything because that's what
Speaker 1: you want to do. But I care about how it's
Speaker 1: gonna how it's gonna affect you. And I'm putting more
Speaker 1: energy into trying to stop this ship and it's really
Speaker 1: stressing me out. You don't get a fun but you
Speaker 1: can't another thing. I feel like you can't got damn
Speaker 1: see for a motherfucker. What they don't see for their self. Yeah,
Speaker 1: or you don't feel what they feel. So when you start,
Speaker 1: when you I feel like you gotts. Just open your
Speaker 1: eyes to who people live. Yeah, you see exactly who
Speaker 1: they is, just letting them be that. But you don't
Speaker 1: think to a certain extent, we're kind of all here
Speaker 1: to help everybody else. You help other people get better,
Speaker 1: help each other if they want to be better, that's
Speaker 1: what adults. How you're gonna help them be better? You're
Speaker 1: gonna do it. Make you don't feel like your opinionated.
Speaker 1: That's all you don't do. You could be really come
Speaker 1: from a genuine place of love, Karen. I want to
Speaker 1: see you win. I want to see you be this person.
Speaker 1: But don't people be good who they is? So you
Speaker 1: know day you're just pre judging them, right, You're right.
Speaker 1: You're trying to change the mother too how you see them,
Speaker 1: and that will never happen. What you think it is
Speaker 1: deep down to make certain people and maybe not for
Speaker 1: the right reasons, what you think it is, and make
Speaker 1: people not bund their business and be nosy like say,
Speaker 1: for instance, when I stay in a pot man's we
Speaker 1: might hear somebody next door arguing, right, And my thing
Speaker 1: is like couples domestic ship, they're gonna like they're gonna
Speaker 1: they're gonna have their own ship. Couples gonna have their
Speaker 1: own ship. Right. So I think like, as long as
Speaker 1: it ain't like stop help me kicking my head like that,
Speaker 1: ain't you know what I'm saying, As long as they
Speaker 1: don't get extreme to the point of like deafer ship
Speaker 1: like that, I'm not gonna get in the domestic business
Speaker 1: because a lot of times domestic business be smoke on
Speaker 1: Monday and peace and love on Tuesday. You see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying at the end of the night, or you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So what you think it is
Speaker 1: in certain people that they can't mind their business no
Speaker 1: matter what the situation is, domestic, neighborhood, workship, relationship. Best,
Speaker 1: they got to know everything they feel. Like if they
Speaker 1: don't know, they almost offended. I think that they don't
Speaker 1: have any self identity, Like you ain't got your own business,
Speaker 1: like you you so caught up in what everybody else
Speaker 1: doing that makes you home. Like if you take it
Speaker 1: with everybody else doing, you don't know who you are.
Speaker 1: So you so you ain't got no self identity, so
Speaker 1: you you ain't mine your own business. Yeah, that's kind
Speaker 1: of where it boils down to, especially like I think again,
Speaker 1: like you said, if they ain't no help, come save me,
Speaker 1: I'm trapped in a closet type of ship. Like when
Speaker 1: it comes to domestic ship, you're your own sister, because
Speaker 1: nine times got to ten, y'all gonna figure that sh
Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, you be mad at me, or I
Speaker 1: may take it there because that y'all may be arguing,
Speaker 1: I'm we're here, ready to pull my gun out on him.
Speaker 1: And then now y'are back cool, and me and him
Speaker 1: still got smoke like that's weird now, you know. And
Speaker 1: then now I probably got smokeing hurt because she felt
Speaker 1: like I took it too far, but he was just
Speaker 1: you ainking her up like you know, I just well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mind my business and ship like that personal relationship, yeah,
Speaker 1: stay out for you know what I'm saying, Like even
Speaker 1: on opinion, like as my opinion, I know my opinion
Speaker 1: be so wrong and straight to the point, I just
Speaker 1: keep it to myself. Do what you feel, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And they took a long time for
Speaker 1: me to get to that person but you got that
Speaker 1: motherfucker do what they feel? What have you seeing something
Speaker 1: that you know ain't right? Like for somebody under age?
Speaker 1: It did? What it is? What like? Ma kid, we'll
Speaker 1: definitely for sure first off your kids and yeah, then
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something, what what what? What if? What if?
Speaker 1: It's what if you're walking out the gas station and
Speaker 1: some other young kids from the like still a ribber
Speaker 1: from an old elderly woman or something, he's go you
Speaker 1: know that that that that that's when your morals and
Speaker 1: ship kicking right, you're automatic become a protective person, community business. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not being a nobody. Then that's really stopping a crime.
Speaker 1: But some young cultures say anytime you're trying to stop
Speaker 1: any type of crime and snitches, they want to call
Speaker 1: it didn't with dinner with podessions. Yeah, but if I
Speaker 1: see it, If I see a nigger over the cut
Speaker 1: making a play, he's serving somebody. I don't even see that.
Speaker 1: I'm blinding it exactly. If I see a nigga stilling
Speaker 1: out of Walmart, the wal By, that thank your wal By,
Speaker 1: that ship, I see you doing anything, it's not directly
Speaker 1: affecting a human being that ain't my beIN. Yeah whatever,
Speaker 1: it's your partner business. What you mean, what have you
Speaker 1: see somebody stealing out your partner business? I see my
Speaker 1: stilling on my potner like he got a clover store.
Speaker 1: You see some little young niggas you know, trying to
Speaker 1: do the little one too. She gonna have a camera,
Speaker 1: he got secured. Right, it's a business ain't to be watching, right,
Speaker 1: I got you. I feel now that turned you to
Speaker 1: a police. You do that, yeah, but you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: telling a man I put that ship down. It depends
Speaker 1: on which one of my potnership, how much you care about?
Speaker 1: And then my brother, one of my brothers be this
Speaker 1: is my ship. Yeah. But if I'm just in a store,
Speaker 1: one of my homie store fin about some shoes and
Speaker 1: another niggas did the song that ain't my being right?
Speaker 1: What um ship those J Simpson gloves bro. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: stay out your business my business. But no, I just
Speaker 1: I think, um, I think a lot of people they
Speaker 1: want to be informed by ship that ain't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with them. So like, if I hate people,
Speaker 1: ask me questions, why don't not nestarty? Because you know
Speaker 1: why though? So you got so that the way of
Speaker 1: the world to want to know people being, but getting
Speaker 1: the people being and want to know people being in
Speaker 1: two different things. You are right, getting the people business
Speaker 1: is being involved in how the business navigates, but just
Speaker 1: knowing it's just to everybody's inquisitive who don't want to
Speaker 1: know ship? Right? Sometimes I don't want to know, though,
Speaker 1: because if somebody asked me, I can honestly say I
Speaker 1: don't know. It depends on what it is. Man, think
Speaker 1: about criminal ship. Yeah, but I'll saying even past that.
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes when you know ship, it's like think about it.
Speaker 1: If you know some ship and the information get out
Speaker 1: and then the person want to blame. How did the
Speaker 1: information get out? I couldn't find it. Ain't saying secrets
Speaker 1: like you said, you know a secret. Niggas want to
Speaker 1: know that what everybody else knows. Oh yeah, nikas wanted
Speaker 1: to know what everybody else knows. You've got damn this
Speaker 1: stock is going to be this nick Niggers want to
Speaker 1: know these the new shoes that's coming. Niggas want to know.
Speaker 1: No me put my input, like even if if shot
Speaker 1: got a new boyfriend, I want to know that come
Speaker 1: screen like worry that's cool. But I'm not going to
Speaker 1: input my input on her new one, right right? Right?
Speaker 1: I think this, Yeah, yeah, you're right, but here, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to know because it's my friends. So I
Speaker 1: want to know what my friend got going on in
Speaker 1: a light, I'm inquisitive. But but but but if I'm stopping
Speaker 1: to be like, uh oh he got this kind of
Speaker 1: car ain't get into business? Yeah, but what if the
Speaker 1: person ain't it? What if you feel like what do
Speaker 1: you what have you see something that gives you the
Speaker 1: vibe of I shot new person? Ain't it? Or cod
Speaker 1: that new person? Like you just get that feeling in
Speaker 1: love with right? That's point about being but knowing her?
Speaker 1: And she said something through Big Fast Friday, like I
Speaker 1: don't want no negative do this? She yeah, she got
Speaker 1: to see that in him because I saw that. She
Speaker 1: should say. Yeah, sometimes girls and guys got different type
Speaker 1: of binoculars. Hey man, but who who am I to
Speaker 1: be the need to tell you about this dude? And
Speaker 1: then and that's what you really like about him? Now?
Speaker 1: I mean you're being there that is now you would
Speaker 1: hate it hate Yeah, but I can have my opinion
Speaker 1: to myself or to my wife or two screen. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but me bringing it to you. You might not take
Speaker 1: it that way, right, You don't bring into unless it's
Speaker 1: like nine one one like I saw him. I saw
Speaker 1: him dumping a body in the truck something crazy. She
Speaker 1: should have been the reason behind about it for me.
Speaker 1: He dons to He don't do some ship like playing
Speaker 1: with kids that got on his laptops on his laptop here, Yeah, yeau.
Speaker 1: I know you got a daughter that it's different, right,
Speaker 1: But whatever that man do with it business his business? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: my business. Um, what's what's some of the ways you
Speaker 1: can keep people out of your business? And what's some
Speaker 1: of the ways people who just can't help but getting
Speaker 1: in everybody's business can stay out of people business? Feel
Speaker 1: like the main way to keep people out your being
Speaker 1: and started talking to people about your being because people
Speaker 1: are talking to people about their being and didn't get
Speaker 1: mad when they discuss it with their friends. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't understand that. How you mad? You don't told you motherfucker?
Speaker 1: Oh you're being Now they can use it against you
Speaker 1: now you're mad. It's kind of like the ship you
Speaker 1: see on the internet, like will be like, oh everybody
Speaker 1: might be mother you put on that you put on
Speaker 1: social media you're mad at everybody is on social media
Speaker 1: and your ship. Now that's how they knew you put
Speaker 1: it up. You told them. When you push it on
Speaker 1: social media, you invite everybody have an opinion on what
Speaker 1: the fun you got going on, whether it's whether it's
Speaker 1: some ship you made up or you should have actually happened.
Speaker 1: And now people have an opinion about you. And when
Speaker 1: you told somebody something, you told them they spouse, their
Speaker 1: friends they want to tell to They gave them the
Speaker 1: option to tell the ship to beat in your bidd
Speaker 1: You might want to say that out because once you
Speaker 1: tell somebody's out regardless, do you feel like there's literally
Speaker 1: no secrets. And once you tell somebody or something absolutely
Speaker 1: not secrets. So like if somebody tell you something for show,
Speaker 1: your spouse gonna find down about it. People know Peo,
Speaker 1: people know the people independ details may change. The details
Speaker 1: may change, but it may you may change the names,
Speaker 1: change scenarios. But like you, if it's something to what
Speaker 1: you want to get somebody else's opinion on something, that
Speaker 1: something I was told to you, it's gonna get out
Speaker 1: a version of the story. Gonna watch that it's manipulated too,
Speaker 1: like it's people that don't tell certain business to certain
Speaker 1: people because they know it's gonna get spread. A whole
Speaker 1: lot that logging. I know I ain't telling nobody, but
Speaker 1: you make up a whole story. We do that ship
Speaker 1: back in the day, like yeah, yeah, damn, I just
Speaker 1: took a major loss. Everybody that ship. You one nigga, everybody,
Speaker 1: but you know you only told that lot to one
Speaker 1: nigger and you search it. You want to spread to
Speaker 1: see what type of kickback you get, what type of
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, how people treat you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you'd be like man that throw my call, ain't
Speaker 1: got no money, ain't you could be telling the motherfucking lie.
Speaker 1: But you I want to see how you're gonna treat me.
Speaker 1: Thinking that the nigga from from the South Korea, he
Speaker 1: did southre he did that ship a few years ago.
Speaker 1: He like a rumor came out like he died of
Speaker 1: some ship and end up being fake. He and he
Speaker 1: said he wanted to see how the circle will react
Speaker 1: to it. That's how I go. I forgot KEIMN. John. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was a fake room about his death and he
Speaker 1: said he can't. He put it out there to see
Speaker 1: how people would treat them or how they would react
Speaker 1: to it. But you gotta be careful with trusting your
Speaker 1: bidding with people who you think you love too. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. They might not They might not
Speaker 1: know how important your business dear to you. So now
Speaker 1: you're telling your friends trying to get a a pinion
Speaker 1: on my serious business. That ain't it, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So you know you gotta a friend or
Speaker 1: home girl or homeboy that's a motor mouth, sir. Ship.
Speaker 1: You can't tell them nless you want to get out.
Speaker 1: I got a couple of homeboy that I know talk
Speaker 1: like the radio. So when I want some ship out,
Speaker 1: I tell them because I know where I want well,
Speaker 1: I want this ship to spread, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And if I want my phone, want no shoot out,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell them, but one or two people.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying that you may not never
Speaker 1: hit the fans, sir, ship never hits the fans, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. When you keep keep that ship
Speaker 1: tight as you wanted to be, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But do you fought a person? Okay, if you're in
Speaker 1: a situation to where you tell somebody your business and
Speaker 1: it could be big or small, whatever it is, and
Speaker 1: that ship get out. Is it that person fought for
Speaker 1: telling your business or is it your fat for even
Speaker 1: going to jo? But yeah, you just gotta take it.
Speaker 1: So if you could find in somebody and things get out?
Speaker 1: Is your father for fighting that word this because you
Speaker 1: think about it, you think it's overrated? Is overrated. You
Speaker 1: can't confide to nobody unless you know they feel how
Speaker 1: you feel about you. That's why it's already. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: also you gotta think, has this person ever told me
Speaker 1: somebody else's business? That too? Because if you have, if
Speaker 1: you're always telling me about somebody else, you're probably doing
Speaker 1: that other people too. You tell what you're getting into. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what you're dealing with. I got one best friend.
Speaker 1: Anybody tell me anything, I'm gonna call my dog now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call it and be like why this person
Speaker 1: gets and we're gonna talk about it. Sometimes if somebody
Speaker 1: come to me for advice and I may not know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my dog and like, hey, my home,
Speaker 1: my other home girl going through this and this, she's
Speaker 1: gonna give me advice and I'm gonna go running back.
Speaker 1: But again, that home girl don't know nobody in Atlanta,
Speaker 1: So how does that work? Did you tell a little
Speaker 1: that you told someone else and got their opinion. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to you know. I ain't gonna lie
Speaker 1: but my best friend. So it's just like ship. You know,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. Now everybody knows business, but for real,
Speaker 1: that's like my best dog. So it's like she all
Speaker 1: away and Callie. She don't know nobody in Atlanta. So
Speaker 1: if any of my Atlanta home girls calling me with
Speaker 1: relationship ship, I may call Danyelle and we may gossip
Speaker 1: and talk about it. I may run it back to you.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be helpful, but it ain't gonna get around
Speaker 1: the world. You get what I'm saying. But that's a
Speaker 1: female trait. Though it ship female do so search shit.
Speaker 1: You can't searching. I'm not gonna tell. Even though I
Speaker 1: know she signed, she probably gonna still ain't gonna take
Speaker 1: because I don't know you you pushed about I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take. I can't tell you to shoot
Speaker 1: out strength. I can't tend it to you because you're female,
Speaker 1: and I couldn't catch you on your emotional days and
Speaker 1: you could just say it back to me. If you
Speaker 1: said anybody to me, you said anybody, I look at it. Damn. Well,
Speaker 1: now if you're talking about somebody else being, yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you everybody to be. I don't even funk about
Speaker 1: that being because I don't get about it. Didn't nobody.
Speaker 1: I don't care. Yeah, you only know it because they
Speaker 1: told it to you exactly. I don't know because that does. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but what's the fine line in the relationship or marriage
Speaker 1: of maya damn business? That's why I was gonna ask
Speaker 1: NEXTMEI y'all, yeah, you got a man, you're being in
Speaker 1: the married piness. I felt like I felt like there
Speaker 1: is a line because you're still an individual, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But if you know it's something that
Speaker 1: could potentially affect, oh, the household exactly everything you kind
Speaker 1: of kind of everything affaces the house, going to know everything,
Speaker 1: piece of Yeah, I was saying, what's the fine line
Speaker 1: of what's the fine out of speak? For me? I
Speaker 1: don't really have one? Okay, he did, but I don't.
Speaker 1: And I think that's because we live like different lives
Speaker 1: to a certain degree, you know. So like he just said,
Speaker 1: certain stuff I'm just not gonna know in his life
Speaker 1: and you might not want to know right exactly so,
Speaker 1: but for my life is kids this this that you know?
Speaker 1: So for my life pretty much no. So I think
Speaker 1: it just depends on the person life. It's the same
Speaker 1: thing in my situation. My wife always be saying I
Speaker 1: don't know all the industry ship and she talking about
Speaker 1: what her friends are SI the ship that I would
Speaker 1: never know because I don't want to hear because you
Speaker 1: don't want to know, you but that But that's the
Speaker 1: fine line because I don't want to know. But what
Speaker 1: if she wants to know? Then? Like like nor, I
Speaker 1: guess my question is what if the other person wants
Speaker 1: to know? Is there an open book, especially when you're married.
Speaker 1: What is she? What is she? What does she said?
Speaker 1: I want to everything? That's what makes me comfortable. Everything
Speaker 1: everything need to go find that ain't gonna happen. What's everything? Everything? Everything?
Speaker 1: You know everything? Every day you want to ask, well,
Speaker 1: it's pretty much she do know everything. Really, that's what.
Speaker 1: But that's why we don't know. My personal feelings as
Speaker 1: a man, did you tell your brothers you didn't tell
Speaker 1: that to no females, different conversations for different rooms, because
Speaker 1: exactly certain ship, it's just you shouldn't even feel comfortable
Speaker 1: with telling your spouse. How is that just a man
Speaker 1: that's feel about it should being should be women too,
Speaker 1: because some ship is gonna show aside of me that
Speaker 1: I never want you to see you get won't to
Speaker 1: say even though you know, even though at times Nick's
Speaker 1: gonna be vulnerable today, wife, you're gonna be soft, You're
Speaker 1: gonna be whatever. But I don't want to show you
Speaker 1: a weakness so much checked my weakness that to do
Speaker 1: with my pother day, because I feel like because I was,
Speaker 1: I had a fear of this, I don't want to
Speaker 1: tell her fear what I'm saying. A lot a lot
Speaker 1: of people, like a lot of men definitely feel like
Speaker 1: that because they, especially in our generation, like they fear
Speaker 1: that being used against them. Like if you have an
Speaker 1: insecurity or something that you have been dealing with personally
Speaker 1: and somebody that you're talking to wants to they want
Speaker 1: you to confide in them, they don't. Men won't confide
Speaker 1: any woman because they feel like them. Well, if we
Speaker 1: ever get into it and she wants, she'll use that
Speaker 1: against you for sure. They both ways. Yeah, Nick, to
Speaker 1: think about it as most women, we are just more
Speaker 1: of an open book, so it's easier for us to
Speaker 1: confide in like whoever we're dating, tell us the whole
Speaker 1: life story, tell us are traumas and differently, then we
Speaker 1: wanted to do something back up in the Nick faith
Speaker 1: that he knows he uh, you don't stepped outside his
Speaker 1: zone and his character to tell you and you throw
Speaker 1: it back that ship might not might not never tell
Speaker 1: you ship. That's true, but men do it though. They
Speaker 1: literally are not saying every man but the average man
Speaker 1: for show girls are confiding them with certain things. And
Speaker 1: you would get that that's why this is so and
Speaker 1: so and so and so like Na, yeah, we can't.
Speaker 1: We can't act like it's something that's something that's gender specific.
Speaker 1: But I just know, I mean, and you might feel different,
Speaker 1: but I just as a guy who's done that ship before,
Speaker 1: you can fide to some ship and then they bring
Speaker 1: that ship back up, it's like that that's kind of
Speaker 1: hurt because I was I exposed myself to you when
Speaker 1: you know, typically we aren't supposed to be doing ship
Speaker 1: like that when they bring it back up are they
Speaker 1: bringing it back up in life? Question? What happened? We go?
Speaker 1: Whatever happened that the women would pour out that hart
Speaker 1: and I would use I would use the ship that
Speaker 1: we told you all happened and do the shoot again.
Speaker 1: What you mean? What you mean? What you mean your
Speaker 1: deep dark secrets and stuff like that, you'll like him?
Speaker 1: Thinks like, oh well, so why would you do that? Then?
Speaker 1: Why don't you going to relationship? Why don't you going
Speaker 1: to relationship, a new relationship, telling, telling your new nigga,
Speaker 1: this nigga, the old nigga cheated on you for teen
Speaker 1: years straight? Why would you do that? They don't even
Speaker 1: make sense because I ain't never just cracked the code
Speaker 1: for be like, oh but again, you're not You're not wrong.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get some sympathy, yes, yea, but that's game game.
Speaker 1: You just can't be open. That's not open. That's why
Speaker 1: we even talking about the past anyway. He gone, you know,
Speaker 1: well you why we talking about That's what I was
Speaker 1: gonna say. Yeah, why are you crying? Why you're crying
Speaker 1: over this nigga? Why we did not people like me
Speaker 1: and you? But you do get squares and niggas that
Speaker 1: will be like what happened in your last work out.
Speaker 1: You do got squares, not people like me and you.
Speaker 1: But I feel what you're saying. But you do that, niggas,
Speaker 1: I want to know everything that happen to you. Throw
Speaker 1: that back up in your face. If you do the
Speaker 1: same thing, that's what you that's what you attracts, or
Speaker 1: you don't even got to be here. Tracks the old
Speaker 1: type of niggas. H If I meet if I wasn't
Speaker 1: married and I meet a new queen of day, I
Speaker 1: don't want here. Next she went through sweethar going to
Speaker 1: show you how to be loved by bank. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to talk to you about nothing that happened in
Speaker 1: your life past me, before me. That ain't really highlight work.
Speaker 1: But why are you? Why are you? Why are you letting?
Speaker 1: Why are you letting old trauma affect new relationships? This
Speaker 1: is a new thing. Women do it. We discuss what
Speaker 1: we've been through. Yeah, so as a woman, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: that's how you're going in the hopes of the new man.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna do that, a regular conversation on what
Speaker 1: I've been through. Yeah, that's the type of person that,
Speaker 1: well you know, I'm not a one. But I don't
Speaker 1: think that's smart. I mean, now that you just broke
Speaker 1: that ship down to that, you're right, don't sound like
Speaker 1: what are we talking about this? How do we still
Speaker 1: think about how do we resolve this ship? And Mama,
Speaker 1: that's what you list? Know? What? What? What's that? What's
Speaker 1: the resolution to that? Though? Like, but I give him this,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe forma tuma, but what did you building a
Speaker 1: relationship with that person? You want to tell them like
Speaker 1: you're what makes you? What hurts you? The things? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and all of that you want to Yeah, if you,
Speaker 1: if you, if you, if you had a business, he
Speaker 1: had a business partner and they were stealing money, right
Speaker 1: then you get a new business partner, like bro fun
Speaker 1: with you, but I catch you stealing this money like
Speaker 1: that last dated but you don't have to telling but
Speaker 1: if you running, but if you're running the business, you
Speaker 1: got to tell your business partner not to steal. If
Speaker 1: I don't get it, almost like a warranting moment. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to talk about all the things that my
Speaker 1: old woman did that I did not like because I'm
Speaker 1: not even fin put in her mind that I could
Speaker 1: go for something like that. But then that's you. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that's way I think. No, I don't know
Speaker 1: how about this way. I think I ain't trying to
Speaker 1: even I ain't even trying to put that energy into this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never thought of it the way that you know, Well,
Speaker 1: I want this energy in this this I'm a whole
Speaker 1: new nigger. What what I went through made me a
Speaker 1: whole another nigga. But that for you, that's true. So
Speaker 1: why am I talking about that? Because I think what
Speaker 1: happens when you first started to meet somebody or you
Speaker 1: first started to date somebody, the question is, damn you cool?
Speaker 1: Why are you not in a relationship? What happened? Okay,
Speaker 1: what happened that normally didn't work out? You got some
Speaker 1: women that will say to be like, we grew apart.
Speaker 1: Wrong women, not no woman who trying to tell that
Speaker 1: be didn't do all this and make this look like
Speaker 1: a sucker and any mindy looking like that. What you
Speaker 1: stay with alone? How your sucker? Both of y'all will sucker.
Speaker 1: You're some bullshit to it too. Parts to this story
Speaker 1: that we're a real go to thinking about it's too
Speaker 1: side of the story. But you really probably crazy. When
Speaker 1: the women go to saying, well, we just grow apart.
Speaker 1: I still love him, we're coparing and whoo whoo, but
Speaker 1: we just grow grew apart. Niggle's respect that because not
Speaker 1: there's like a myth dew you get on saying the
Speaker 1: I'm thinking like they probably just grew upart. But I
Speaker 1: know it's something, but I don't know it then. But
Speaker 1: she she, this is how she's gonna ge get if
Speaker 1: I fuck up. Give me your game and all relationship
Speaker 1: part of relationships, especially earlier on around game. But what
Speaker 1: if that ain't her situation because what you just said,
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, that sounds perfect when you break up with somebody,
Speaker 1: especially got kids, you co s. But you're moving forward.
Speaker 1: So why are you bringing this baggage to this new nigga?
Speaker 1: Is it baggage? It is bad that I think I
Speaker 1: think I think it's you could be over and talking
Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm a woman not gonna be like man,
Speaker 1: y'all be yes, No, maybe you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You asked a woman a question. She gonna were gonna
Speaker 1: go down, so you don't have the question. We don't
Speaker 1: have to talk about this again. I'm gonna break everything
Speaker 1: down because I feel like I feel like he may say,
Speaker 1: I think like that carey energy, bro. And I'm just
Speaker 1: not trying to bring that deal with that energy because
Speaker 1: why do we have to deal with that ship that
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with us. We're inviting the third
Speaker 1: party into some ship that could be going good. We're
Speaker 1: good right here. So you're telling me that you used
Speaker 1: to that used to get about this NIGG for ten
Speaker 1: years and what am I gonna do with this information?
Speaker 1: How does this help our relationship today? When I got big,
Speaker 1: if I meet a new ship me and was to
Speaker 1: get the voice there, I mean a new chick, because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell that chick. I'm never gonna tell her
Speaker 1: nothing bad. I'm just saying I wasn't the guy for her,
Speaker 1: but that but that I didn't I wasn't ready. Now
Speaker 1: I'm ready, But again I think that that I'm not fish.
Speaker 1: Don't play hurt. I'm glad you because that's never happened. Like, well,
Speaker 1: I think let's do something. Do that. Women women asked, women,
Speaker 1: women ask that ship all the time. Why are you
Speaker 1: saying that you don't want to and you don't tell
Speaker 1: him that, you don't tell them all that, you don't
Speaker 1: go into details. No, I ain't just went into details
Speaker 1: about the damn the girl because we asked m well,
Speaker 1: because we asked the details. If I'm still hurt about it,
Speaker 1: I still want her. I don't think you leave it
Speaker 1: to other counsel. Not. That's what I need ship, That's
Speaker 1: what I need to That's what I'll be doing. If
Speaker 1: I'm talking about her. I'm not talking about you know
Speaker 1: what what she was in a physically abusive one and
Speaker 1: she definitely don't want. That ain't my business. I don't
Speaker 1: even want you. I don't even want you, babe. You
Speaker 1: got too much of co with that. I don't want that. Man,
Speaker 1: give me a frisky bitch man you're doing that. Look,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't I get what he's saying
Speaker 1: because you don't want. You don't because eventually, why do you?
Speaker 1: Because if you're flipping around a woman the same same ship, right,
Speaker 1: you don't want to es Is he wrong for not
Speaker 1: want to deal with somebody else trauma? She did? She
Speaker 1: going through some ship exactly, and that's just gonna affect him. Woman,
Speaker 1: I want, I don't want. A woman might say this
Speaker 1: nigga cool, but he's broke, right, and he's fucked up right.
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with that right now. Maybe
Speaker 1: if he gets past all that ship, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be trying to get you pass nothing right. I need
Speaker 1: to meet a woman who's already focused on what she
Speaker 1: got going on and what she's doing with her what
Speaker 1: you went through this, nigga, because now they're gonna be
Speaker 1: insecure in me. You count too much about this ship.
Speaker 1: You got some women that never mentioned their baby dad
Speaker 1: and never mentioned their X, never mentioned nobody this about us.
Speaker 1: Because if it's the pass, that should be the past.
Speaker 1: I agree. That's being in people business. I ain't trying
Speaker 1: to be in a business. Men, hug got bit in there, right,
Speaker 1: you ain't trying to be I ain't trying to be
Speaker 1: in that. I don't want I don't want to see
Speaker 1: him lay in, lay in, listen to how much so
Speaker 1: you really did? Lord this nickel if you went through
Speaker 1: all that with could you ever let's make an insecurity
Speaker 1: because you never loved me, because you ever loved me
Speaker 1: that But fast, bro, you're not over that. You know
Speaker 1: what's crazy as women. So now I'm going to do
Speaker 1: for the funk you you know what I'm saying, but
Speaker 1: never going to start thinking about my bit you. I
Speaker 1: don't need the ship. You're telling me that I don't
Speaker 1: d you. You're making me feel sorry for my bit
Speaker 1: who I did Like that point, his point came around
Speaker 1: cash and my triple point. You see him crying to
Speaker 1: meet and I'm listening to you, like, really, I need
Speaker 1: to go home and take Yeah. Yeah, it's a cycle.
Speaker 1: That's what my life. No, don't talk. Don't talk to
Speaker 1: your new nigga about your trauma therapy that. Don't talk
Speaker 1: to you about that trauma. Man, you meet a nigga
Speaker 1: in this age where we are not wrong. He already
Speaker 1: had his first love. But I'm saying this ship before
Speaker 1: he already had the woman and a little more than anybody. Okay,
Speaker 1: then when this new ship, this ship feels good because
Speaker 1: it's new, it's fresh. I ain't did you wrong wood Woo,
Speaker 1: But I still you're telling me about how your first
Speaker 1: love did you, How the person you you thought would
Speaker 1: never do you, how he did you. All you're doing
Speaker 1: is reminded me how I did somebody that I really love.
Speaker 1: So why am I seeing him listening to this ship?
Speaker 1: They don't get fitted with this so called I'm crying?
Speaker 1: But what if it's like your first love and y'all come,
Speaker 1: y'all come back around. And now you're talking about the people.
Speaker 1: We ain't talking about that, we're talking about us. You're saying,
Speaker 1: that's did dick and we'll come back around. Then we're
Speaker 1: back to go. That ain't happen. That's another nigger woman. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, that's just how it goes. That's another
Speaker 1: man woman. The time that we're wasting talking about your
Speaker 1: old trauma is the time that we could be spending
Speaker 1: making new memories. Because the age we are no, we're
Speaker 1: trying to build something exactly, So we're gonna take a
Speaker 1: year or two to help you get over this. I
Speaker 1: need to go only jump into the ship we're in
Speaker 1: the build because I already done, got damn told down
Speaker 1: the building over here, that's sold my Buildingest if I'm
Speaker 1: going into a new relationship about the old relationship our
Speaker 1: building has clung run wrong? Why sing about we're gonna
Speaker 1: be seeing and having a conversation about crumble building. Yes,
Speaker 1: we had a building. We were looking at ashes and
Speaker 1: ship rubble and ship looking at old rubble. We could
Speaker 1: be build and like you said, a big part of
Speaker 1: this moving on in life and anything, you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to know when the passage just to pass. Like like
Speaker 1: just dwelling in the past, you're right doing in the passage,
Speaker 1: you're really moving backwards, so you might as well going
Speaker 1: the highway and drive backwards. Women like women like women
Speaker 1: be thinking that they can got Damn, I guess they're
Speaker 1: gonna get a pitted part it from the new NA.
Speaker 1: What is it that we just want to know what
Speaker 1: you've been through to we're gonna ask you about your Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it's more so inquisitive. I ain't gonna peak
Speaker 1: for all women, but that I think for the average
Speaker 1: we can agree, right, it's just more so for being
Speaker 1: you know, inquisitive. We just want to know what you've
Speaker 1: been so I can go back to that equally, if
Speaker 1: you if you are in a space like you said, Okay,
Speaker 1: if you're in this space and you're on this upward
Speaker 1: trajectory and you're just saying, hey, I would like to
Speaker 1: meet a partner that is with me. Cool. But then
Speaker 1: you do have some people who have both dealt with
Speaker 1: traumas and ship right, and maybe they can help each
Speaker 1: other through the traumas. It depends on how much the
Speaker 1: trauma is I guess what I'm trying to say. It
Speaker 1: depends on how much is waiting how much so if
Speaker 1: I can see that this is still affecting and hurting,
Speaker 1: you think, yeah, that's what I'm trying to just connect.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You can be over whatever, but
Speaker 1: just talking like the things that you didn't been through.
Speaker 1: Have you've been to Africa? Just whatever? You just talking
Speaker 1: about the things that you've been through. Me personal, I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to nobout about no another nigga.
Speaker 1: I just don't. I would think that no nigga does.
Speaker 1: But there are niggas that would, I feel you because
Speaker 1: they be trying maybe doing some different trying to get
Speaker 1: into a situation like you don't gotta let's that's chatty, like,
Speaker 1: don't talk. I don't care. I don't care. There's nothing
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do with this information. I don't care to
Speaker 1: turn off it needed to do. But that's a turn
Speaker 1: off to me. What are you doing? What do you
Speaker 1: do to you? Baby? I would never let it up.
Speaker 1: I don't talk about me being to me right right,
Speaker 1: I'm right here right. I don't want to talk about
Speaker 1: what I don't I don't want to know what does
Speaker 1: it do for me? What does it do for us? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's it doing? He treat me like a therapist and
Speaker 1: ship like I'm not. I don't got no advice for you.
Speaker 1: If you no, you need you need license therapists. I've
Speaker 1: been through some things in my life and I just
Speaker 1: want this to be right. I can respect that I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear the details of things. But then
Speaker 1: the average person is gonna say, but what things have
Speaker 1: you been through? The average person? But I'm saying me,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, baby, this this is different. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear the details of thing because
Speaker 1: now you're starting to let me see that you don't
Speaker 1: have a spine. But how do you know it's different?
Speaker 1: If she told you what she's been through? What you mean?
Speaker 1: If they haven't expressed to you what they've been through.
Speaker 1: You say, but this is different. She sat and be
Speaker 1: through some things, but this is different. You with me, now,
Speaker 1: how do you know what's different? Hey? When I when I,
Speaker 1: when I displayed the behavior that you can't deal with,
Speaker 1: and that's when you say, this is the same behavior.
Speaker 1: I have to walk away the difference. Fix it like
Speaker 1: sometimes and this at the beginning, when I tell you
Speaker 1: the things I've been through, you could have been like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm that some time. What you mean she said, do
Speaker 1: you feel like that? If the person show you there,
Speaker 1: that's who they is. Man, people are goddamn censory because
Speaker 1: they care about you and try to be a different
Speaker 1: person because they love you. But who they are and
Speaker 1: who they are, they all lie. The lie, their thief,
Speaker 1: they're thieving, They're cheating. They're cheating, That's what they are.
Speaker 1: Some people try not to be that to to complete
Speaker 1: the love that they will have for another person. People
Speaker 1: do that, but that don't mean that that's not who
Speaker 1: they are, and you know that's who they are. They
Speaker 1: just putting it on. I am I running wrong. You
Speaker 1: know who a person is. You know, you know when
Speaker 1: you meet a niggas, what kind of nigga he like?
Speaker 1: All these women be trying to say they'd be treated
Speaker 1: in this you lye, you've seen all the signs in
Speaker 1: the beginning with you see everything with every person in
Speaker 1: the female because you look over because you like certain
Speaker 1: things about it and you want to saying I like
Speaker 1: certain things about it that this may change. I think
Speaker 1: people people Dave. People have the possibility of what they
Speaker 1: may become, especially women like we looked at him. We
Speaker 1: know you fucked up, but I know you could be
Speaker 1: some ships how that maybe you're gonna really love you.
Speaker 1: He's gonna try to steer his car that way as
Speaker 1: much as he can with no power staring flu He's
Speaker 1: still gonna try to turn that. But right, he is
Speaker 1: who he is, and you know he is. Yeah, vice
Speaker 1: versus with a female, she is who she is. So
Speaker 1: what open to see all day and tell you got
Speaker 1: damn show attention to use to the Boots? But you
Speaker 1: like Boots? Yeah? How the fund company to keep saying
Speaker 1: this all day? And I know that she urged my nerve.
Speaker 1: This affecting me, It's affecting relationship to keep Windy harda
Speaker 1: Boots and my motherfucker out. But you like Boots. He's
Speaker 1: gonna learn to love that ship. But what get rid
Speaker 1: of Yeah? Yeah, giving big facts, man, this is a
Speaker 1: good game. People can't evolved, though, they can't evolve, But
Speaker 1: you have to let them do it on that That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You gotta let them do it in
Speaker 1: their own terms, on their own time. You can't force
Speaker 1: nobody to change for the sake of them, though it ain't.
Speaker 1: Of course, you can get it overrated to you don't
Speaker 1: think you can. I can think. I think you can
Speaker 1: only leave pushing somebody and you got your own flog.
Speaker 1: That's how I look at ship. But when I say push,
Speaker 1: it's more like I can't keep telling me what all
Speaker 1: I need to do, but you don't want to do ship.
Speaker 1: No other accounts ain't here on that we both sucked up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can say all day about whatever it is that
Speaker 1: nigga under to you, but you might work too much
Speaker 1: to the nigger cat like cash working. That's an issue
Speaker 1: to this nigga. But how that's an issue because I
Speaker 1: gotta go get my money? Okay, how's the issue? I
Speaker 1: gotta stay out? That an issue in what why one
Speaker 1: one one don't weigh the same like you're trying to
Speaker 1: make this make because because they're your feelings. That's why
Speaker 1: it's different big facts. Huh Right, that ain't the traditional way.
Speaker 1: I'm crying tradition. What's the traditional way? Then? I think
Speaker 1: people try to just like scale their logic like whatever.
Speaker 1: Every Yeah, a lot of ship they come with the
Speaker 1: tradition to now that niggas planted on brain up like
Speaker 1: just different ship being sumissive. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You said, come on, we need to have a fool
Speaker 1: cook Thanksgiving meal everything. That's what the traditional grandmama used
Speaker 1: to do and did after that, you gotta bust it
Speaker 1: off every night you want to say the tradition. Damn you.
Speaker 1: You don't matter how time you are, how many dishes
Speaker 1: you did, how much food you cook, leftovers, whatever you
Speaker 1: got going on me? You got traditional woman with women
Speaker 1: with super woma. Yeah, the new women, get what you
Speaker 1: got and what it is? What you got what and
Speaker 1: be traditional niggas. This our new tradition over here? How
Speaker 1: many wrong? You get what you got with anybody? For real?
Speaker 1: It's a jest. Next, people gotta start looking at to
Speaker 1: they self and see who they are to go ahead.
Speaker 1: I'm just like when you're in the relationship, you gotta
Speaker 1: you gotta step back and look at yourself. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: see everything that I'm asking for? Am I doing it?
Speaker 1: And do I just not? Not? Do I deserve it?
Speaker 1: Do I keeck out that same energy that I'm asking for.
Speaker 1: You can't be stuck in your own mind thinking because
Speaker 1: you know who you are like you desicate me. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm motherfucker' king Gosamander, but we're walking on
Speaker 1: rose in my mind ever, But I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: push that energy off on her expecting her to feel
Speaker 1: like that if I'm not treating her the same way
Speaker 1: as I want to be I want to feel Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: lead by example. You gotta lead by example. I don't
Speaker 1: ask nobody to do something I don't know. But back
Speaker 1: to the other ship. All the women out there, stop
Speaker 1: telling me of y'all bid the man. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, and that's just your side.
Speaker 1: And what if it's somebody that you really want to
Speaker 1: spend your rest of your life with you like they
Speaker 1: need to know every Don't you feel like you don't
Speaker 1: even know everything about your wife rest of your life? Jessica?
Speaker 1: Do you feel like because you really know how to
Speaker 1: read like I can read certain ship after they read
Speaker 1: certain ship. But I'm sure y'all had the conversations about what,
Speaker 1: like things that she's been through, things she liked, things
Speaker 1: she don't like, not not in no super deep detail
Speaker 1: like kind of like what he was saying like that ship,
Speaker 1: then could you handle it? If you do, your partner
Speaker 1: was completely honest with you. That's not That's what women
Speaker 1: try to do. They try to pre plan a relationship.
Speaker 1: That's what it up because you trying to. When you're
Speaker 1: pre playing it, you building expectations from another human being.
Speaker 1: How the fun you're gonna do that? If I'm telling
Speaker 1: you what I like, No, let me see if you
Speaker 1: what I like. Let me see if you would I like.
Speaker 1: If if I was to get a new woman right now,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell what I like. I'm going
Speaker 1: to see if she already what I like. Experience exactly.
Speaker 1: Everybody down trying to put you about to put that
Speaker 1: mask on. You tell somebody what you like, they're gonna
Speaker 1: play the perfect act. It's gonna be the perfect role.
Speaker 1: It put them in character you don't get in the script.
Speaker 1: That's all I gotta do, just reafing the script line
Speaker 1: for line. The best way. The woman that I already
Speaker 1: know what you like, dash the one she just naturally
Speaker 1: doing the ship. Yeah she ain't even tell you like
Speaker 1: I got them walking into clouds of smiling like, yeah
Speaker 1: she know. But if I got to continue to tell
Speaker 1: you this is what I like, or this is what
Speaker 1: I like that means you don't know what I like.
Speaker 1: So now when you're doing this fight, right all, you
Speaker 1: broke that down, down down. So if I'm saying asking
Speaker 1: a woman like, if I'm saying, ask you, what is
Speaker 1: it like? What is I'm asking? I'm telling you sharpen
Speaker 1: my game. If you don't, if you don't already like you,
Speaker 1: if I'm not already like you said we soul mate,
Speaker 1: I'm not already your soul mate, mate, because you're soul mate,
Speaker 1: you like my bullshit? Right? Yeah, it's something about that bullshit.
Speaker 1: You can't every right though, because the real you come
Speaker 1: out one day. So you might be hiding some ship
Speaker 1: and then the real you come out one day and
Speaker 1: it sucks it up anyway, you see what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Because they don't tell you what to be, how to
Speaker 1: be all that ship. That's why I see this is straight.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be playing that role the whole time, and
Speaker 1: that he need doing some bullshit. Now you've been traded,
Speaker 1: but she already know didn't nigga some bullshit? So she
Speaker 1: find out you on that still lame man A lot
Speaker 1: of ship that's overrated. But wait, y'all don't feel like
Speaker 1: you can't you know how people will be like, I'm
Speaker 1: in love with you. I love you unconditionally, y'all. Do
Speaker 1: y'all feel like you could love somebody without knowing all
Speaker 1: of what? You never will know everything. You don't want
Speaker 1: to know everything about anybody. I feel like the right you,
Speaker 1: you meet the right person to love you. But they
Speaker 1: don't mean you're not even gonna remember what you went through. Right,
Speaker 1: that ship goes away for real, bro, because that becomes
Speaker 1: your therapy, that person, not what we're talking about, you
Speaker 1: my therapy. You'll never know everything like you my therapy.
Speaker 1: Now like fun, when I went that ship was a
Speaker 1: bad dream. I'm walking out. God. Yeah, so now you're
Speaker 1: telling me about the badad dream. You really just showing
Speaker 1: me how to play my whole to me? Right, I
Speaker 1: don't know not a big fat women out there, listen,
Speaker 1: Damn how a bunch of is gonna be mad at
Speaker 1: you in the comments like, damn bag what you're telling them?
Speaker 1: It's the ship. We got kids, daughters and granddogs. Man,
Speaker 1: damned because but but that ship helped them too. Because
Speaker 1: I can meet a woman that I really liked, and
Speaker 1: she go to tim me that I don't like you
Speaker 1: no more? Yeahs too, my come with this now? Now?
Speaker 1: Now is putting me putting my mind on thinking about
Speaker 1: what you're thinking about? Is she thinking about this? Nigga? Right?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You went through all this,
Speaker 1: you say you've been when the nigga teen years going
Speaker 1: through all this? I ain't taking you through that. You
Speaker 1: don't like that? What you like? That Team years tells
Speaker 1: you about telling the true? Some people are used to
Speaker 1: like dysfunctions. Some people are used to abuse. They don't
Speaker 1: know how to live without it. I'm telling you, so
Speaker 1: you just got to recognize that ship and read it.
Speaker 1: It ain't necessarily about talking. That talking can be good,
Speaker 1: it could be therapeutic. But I'm telling you it's a
Speaker 1: certain ship you just read when you're around a person.
Speaker 1: You just learn how to just read energies and read people,
Speaker 1: and you can kind of look. You ever looked at
Speaker 1: somebody and they just seemed trouble, like they've just been
Speaker 1: through some ship, and it's like, damn, this person just
Speaker 1: gives a troubled energy, Like, but you could read seeing
Speaker 1: a woman that just you know, like she cool with
Speaker 1: whatever she's been through. Yeah, she yes, she had peace
Speaker 1: with it, whatever it will, that what that will, right?
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. But now you meet a
Speaker 1: woman that like, I hate, well, I can't say I hate.
Speaker 1: I dislike a woman a queen that's telling me how
Speaker 1: much she hate a nick You get said because you
Speaker 1: tell me how much you hate it, I mean you
Speaker 1: really love them. To me, that's the thin line love
Speaker 1: and hate. That's the thin and ship of them. That's
Speaker 1: the worst ship. Knew to have a motherfucker that love
Speaker 1: you and hate you at the same time. You can't
Speaker 1: keep talking about something you don't care about, right, Sure,
Speaker 1: you can talk about something either way. That's still energy
Speaker 1: that you're dedicating to that, to that nigga. It's energy
Speaker 1: that you could be spending loving me instead you spending
Speaker 1: that ship hating him. And you've been and I've seen
Speaker 1: women that hated nigga one day, me and too. Though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm for my personal friends. They'll use you the about
Speaker 1: the nigga that they hate, and then you see them
Speaker 1: with that neigga later on the week like damn, oh
Speaker 1: I did like that? They like that? Y'all know it?
Speaker 1: Keep thinking, keep thinking, don't go to you. Yeah she
Speaker 1: wasn't she want you to take it for what. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. She was just talking. Yeah was
Speaker 1: the honey friend zone. He can be your friends. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what you're saying, I gotta be all that bro.
Speaker 1: They queens today, man queen, then we're gonna call queen.
Speaker 1: They we're gonna slip up and calling bitches here another
Speaker 1: less queen word and king word queens. I know I'll
Speaker 1: be talking a lot man saying a lot of ship,
Speaker 1: but I'll be passionate about that game. Listen, you get
Speaker 1: some game today for sure, because it's even feminine members
Speaker 1: like your sister, like my sister know they can't call
Speaker 1: them to about nigga. I don't want to hear. I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear nobody the time about now. I
Speaker 1: listen to my nigga's talking about their bitches. That different,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to hear no female talking about
Speaker 1: no nigga that you're still funt with. Come me to
Speaker 1: me you he's yeah, but sometimes people don't want People
Speaker 1: don't want to resolution to me. If you if you down,
Speaker 1: if you're saying, if you telling, if my sister called
Speaker 1: me right now and be like, I hate this motherfucker
Speaker 1: who I hate them too. You hiss up by saying that,
Speaker 1: because you don't know how I'm gonna take that. If
Speaker 1: she's telling me she ain't, didn't even that mean I
Speaker 1: could rob him? Fact, But you don't really feel like that.
Speaker 1: She's just been right, like I just told, she just
Speaker 1: been just talking, Okay, But I'm saying that how much,
Speaker 1: how much time, and how many nigs have died behind talking?
Speaker 1: But that? But that's what I'm about to say. A
Speaker 1: lot of people don't want a resolution. They don't want
Speaker 1: to uh their problem solved. They just want to get
Speaker 1: that off their chest. That's all they're trying to do.
Speaker 1: I understand it. But you can't tell a person who
Speaker 1: loved you how to take something that is a big fact.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. You can't tell next. You
Speaker 1: can't tell like you just said. You can't if you
Speaker 1: come in and tell a shot every day. Man, you
Speaker 1: know it. I just feel like black just be wood
Speaker 1: woo woo and shot. Goddamn shoot me. You can't tell
Speaker 1: how to take that because she loved you, but you've
Speaker 1: just been You love me with all your heart, but
Speaker 1: you've been to a person that's take any ship serious, right,
Speaker 1: the other person don't react, so you really put yourself
Speaker 1: in the opposition. That's a damn dog game to days.
Speaker 1: Women a niggas look at it though, you know, you
Speaker 1: know when you didn't with a different type of nigga
Speaker 1: who don't think it's far and who's just be looking
Speaker 1: at women as women just be talking. But I know
Speaker 1: women that just be talking that nigga's fucked up and
Speaker 1: niggas and jail did all that behind a woman just talking,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. And she could just be vting,
Speaker 1: But that vent can turn into some real ship. Cash
Speaker 1: can come in right now and be like, man, I
Speaker 1: ain't didn't she don't know what me and screen plot.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I'm just saying. But you can't say they
Speaker 1: say you mean because you know, well every it is
Speaker 1: exceptions to every rule, like I always say, But that
Speaker 1: ship don't happen to where somebody, somebody not you, but
Speaker 1: somebody will be all. That's what I'm saying. A monthy
Speaker 1: you can never get into that ship because Monday, literally
Speaker 1: I'm seeing people. Damn they're ready to stablish, shoot each
Speaker 1: other and then too to be back. How many relationships
Speaker 1: you think have been what's called dissolved. Dissolved me over right?
Speaker 1: How many relationships do you think have been dissolved by
Speaker 1: a person taking a person venting the wrong way? Get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like chant vent into shot and shot.
Speaker 1: You show me the energy that that you got for
Speaker 1: her being bitch? Fuck you father, because they're still my
Speaker 1: wife period. And I know what I'm saying. You probably
Speaker 1: gonna lose your jaw. You get I'm wrong me, But
Speaker 1: all this because of Vent. Now, he was just a casualty.
Speaker 1: You're just a gargantee of some thin ship. She don't
Speaker 1: give a funcuse she still got me. I know she crazy.
Speaker 1: I know I'm crazy, But now you're getting in Nigga's business,
Speaker 1: being in Nigga's being it like she know her friend no,
Speaker 1: not to call me somebody y'all need Hey, this gonna
Speaker 1: call my phone? Are you gonna work around it? Be?
Speaker 1: You know she just feel like this to day. Don't
Speaker 1: try to talk to me because I'm mad. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: both mad, and my friends ain't gonna try to talk
Speaker 1: to her. We're gonna figure this ship out when we
Speaker 1: sing it out. Because business soon as you get in
Speaker 1: the middle of now, you hey, don't want the whole
Speaker 1: in no more? Who you calling the hell that's my
Speaker 1: wife you're talking about now I'm saying. I'm saying, I'm
Speaker 1: telling her I want my phone, and you're like, no
Speaker 1: more because opinion could have been right, but you on
Speaker 1: her side or you're on my side, bitch, fuck you
Speaker 1: though you're a divider. Yeah, not a divider. You're a divider.
Speaker 1: If you got an opinion on some ship, this, this function, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's already what it is, some bullshit. How you're gonna
Speaker 1: have opinion on some bullshit that's already some bullshit. You're
Speaker 1: gonna have a bullshit opinion that's gonna put you in
Speaker 1: the middle of At that point, I think if something,
Speaker 1: if your home is just calling you in the event
Speaker 1: in or whatever, you listen and like I know for me,
Speaker 1: all my home girls and they got that bullshit with
Speaker 1: their niggas, I'd just be like ground you know, I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna even disrespect him of you, Like that's just
Speaker 1: what I say, because I just be like, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing because I know you're gonna be right bad.
Speaker 1: I ain't I'm gonna listen. At that point, I just
Speaker 1: listened some people didn't, specially family members. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You got feminine members that goddamn that's how
Speaker 1: it got Damn in laws. Donna vote with in laws.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because you may take it.
Speaker 1: You're taking this ship for what it is. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You're taking this ship for what
Speaker 1: it is. But you over on the other hand, putting
Speaker 1: it out here like it's this, but it really this.
Speaker 1: But then, folks taking this ship for what it is,
Speaker 1: is that right? You have to. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like women have to be mine for that though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think we just emotional creatures as women that you
Speaker 1: gotta be mind for that though, because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, you can meet a nigga that really
Speaker 1: like you, and you're gonna tell the nigga that and
Speaker 1: he go to see, Okay, I like everything about you,
Speaker 1: But Debt, that's a character flaw for me. I'm not
Speaker 1: dealing with it. You get what I'm saying, because I
Speaker 1: know how far that leads to. Now you you you
Speaker 1: finished build before I even meet dude, You're gonna build
Speaker 1: me up. I hate this nigga, shore baby Dad, We
Speaker 1: gotta deal with this nick for you, But you don't
Speaker 1: build me up looking like they're getting kids and get
Speaker 1: the nick. You get what I'm saying, you got me.
Speaker 1: I don't even know this nigga, but from what the
Speaker 1: way I feel about you and the ship he took
Speaker 1: you through, I don't like him, but I don't know
Speaker 1: both sides. I don't know that you got Damn I've
Speaker 1: been doing whatever you've been doing. The dude, I ain't
Speaker 1: heard it side. I just took the bitch side off
Speaker 1: the rip. Damn. Yeah, you gotta admit, big fans, I
Speaker 1: didn't got mad at my baby daddy and like talk
Speaker 1: some cash ship about my baby daddy and and not
Speaker 1: like you explaining it like that. I can see why
Speaker 1: a person would had that energy and then later you'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh, we cool, and then the other person
Speaker 1: looking at you like bet you just said all this
Speaker 1: crazy ship, now y'all cool. He couldn't get chance last
Speaker 1: week and I had to work da. I literally didn't
Speaker 1: do the queen response. They're gonna make it seem like, well,
Speaker 1: he should have known that. I ain't feel like that.
Speaker 1: How I've done that before, laid in the bed if
Speaker 1: for fucking laying down. You're telling me this ship, I
Speaker 1: mean my monot, this nigger. Now, yeah, that's our walls
Speaker 1: and ship. Thought they'd just be miscommunication because now I'm
Speaker 1: saying it like that like you said ben In, because
Speaker 1: that's me. I'll be venting. I should be mad. I
Speaker 1: gotta work, like, can you help me get a chance
Speaker 1: to today? And then he telled me, now I'll get
Speaker 1: on the phone complaining bitch in the morning, the whole
Speaker 1: whole bitch ass all types of but just because I'm mad,
Speaker 1: right if me and I love you, what do you
Speaker 1: take me? Serious? Y? Yeah? And then the next day
Speaker 1: when he called me a shy I'm gonna compete, chance
Speaker 1: up blah blah blah blahm I okay, so yeah, a
Speaker 1: chance they just picked her up ba blah blah regular
Speaker 1: And then as a person mad as fun now and
Speaker 1: I'm looking like, why you got that energy? You already
Speaker 1: already poisoned the water. Yeah, I ain't even see it
Speaker 1: like that. Thank you, bank. Thanks. That's especially when be
Speaker 1: ready to ride for you, Like if you know that
Speaker 1: I'm a react off, whatever off, any type of disrespect,
Speaker 1: you don't tell me, don't don't play with disrespect, like
Speaker 1: take ain't tell me then about I don't even her sister,
Speaker 1: her mama, her brother, because whoever, whoever she know, my
Speaker 1: energy is gonna change on them, interesting even my kids.
Speaker 1: She got enough because I feel like I was supposed
Speaker 1: to be. You know what I'm saying, turn the fire.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn it up. So if I see something
Speaker 1: that's you. What I'm saying got her upset, I'm automatic
Speaker 1: gonna be upset. I don't even know what's going on
Speaker 1: all the way. So that's when we were saying, early,
Speaker 1: tell me everything, because she can't. You can't tell me, sir,
Speaker 1: because the smallest ship, like I just said, that's small,
Speaker 1: that ben ship. I'm taking that to the extreme because
Speaker 1: that's how I feel because I'm knowing how far that
Speaker 1: can go if you come tell me. God damn well,
Speaker 1: I had filed it all in my pocketbook, and they're
Speaker 1: gonna want nobody here but your son. Well you're there.
Speaker 1: But then she gonna find up on the bed. I
Speaker 1: don't show then't my whole hand, So she gonna wait
Speaker 1: till she find or that ship. You're gonna you get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like real ship because you gotta know
Speaker 1: what you're dealing with, bro, what you're dealing with and
Speaker 1: who are you dealing with? Like, certain people don't take
Speaker 1: love for play or protection for play. Some people don't
Speaker 1: take that ship for play. And I only I'm only
Speaker 1: thinking from from my point of view. So and somebody.
Speaker 1: So she go vetting to somebody about me. I hope
Speaker 1: they hope they don't feel how I feel when she
Speaker 1: fit to me about them. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm facts, big facts.
Speaker 1: You never get theirselfs cut off because now you can't
Speaker 1: even be her friend no more. Y'all got sneak and
Speaker 1: be friends. You gotta sneak because you showing me that
Speaker 1: you gotta. If she had a pin, if you told
Speaker 1: because the women to do this. She will tell this
Speaker 1: girl all this bullshit about without undid for thirty years
Speaker 1: to her and then tell me, can you believe this
Speaker 1: this time to tell me to leave you day? Do
Speaker 1: she hate mass bitch? She ain't even got hate her
Speaker 1: from don't true? Yeah? She got me fucked up. She
Speaker 1: divide all. She's telling me she's seen you company, really
Speaker 1: loves company. Why certain ship you just can't hear. You
Speaker 1: can't hear women talk. Yeah, the phone ring, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I'm gonna watch this. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't want to heal like certainly something. You can just
Speaker 1: sit by that girl and listening talk. I know that
Speaker 1: you don't like going on on the room. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: you can't take our friendship serious because we would be
Speaker 1: mad at me. She said, you can't take girls friendship
Speaker 1: like like I said, you can't take most girls friendship
Speaker 1: serious because certain girls that get into it over like
Speaker 1: the smallest thing. But be back. And I'm not saying
Speaker 1: even because if I say I ain't suing with somebody, no,
Speaker 1: that'sh it. But woman, what I'm saying a woman, a
Speaker 1: woman saying Sometimes it would be like, oh that was
Speaker 1: just yesterday, some bullshit, some bullshit, or it could be
Speaker 1: like you could talk. It is sound like we talk
Speaker 1: to ship about our home. Girl. I'm already not your
Speaker 1: free and friends cool, nobody cordial, right, your friends, it's cool,
Speaker 1: everything cool, because I know how you just say fun
Speaker 1: the folks and then I'm still got ain't gonna be right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna put myself in a position where you
Speaker 1: feel like you still DM me what's wrong? I want
Speaker 1: you to say, Nah, yeah, ship that all that ship
Speaker 1: come back through most of the time, and there are
Speaker 1: exceptions to every room. You should be minding your business.
Speaker 1: Why do why do you men want to heal with
Speaker 1: women talk about unless they're talking to me. I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear what you're talking about to know another woman.
Speaker 1: I don't know why. I think that's it. I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear that ship because because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, you're going to display a different character
Speaker 1: amongst your friends, because I may not want to even
Speaker 1: be exposed to m hm. Why why put yourself in
Speaker 1: a position to see something or do something that's gonna
Speaker 1: turn you off for the person you love, Because I
Speaker 1: definitely wouldn't want mine needed to be around me and
Speaker 1: all my friends talking because if they tell them about
Speaker 1: all the hot girl ship, he's gonna probably think I'm
Speaker 1: a hot girl too. Yeah, manya business on that, get
Speaker 1: your man cave down, go out of it with all
Speaker 1: that ship staring. I don't stop out of that then, Yeah,
Speaker 1: maya business to put your ass an event. Maya what's
Speaker 1: the world? What the world was? Inquisitive? Don't be so inquisitive.
Speaker 1: You got no business one of them. I don't be
Speaker 1: one of though. That's just me. See, I just think
Speaker 1: of ship to fuck. So the search ship, I don't
Speaker 1: want to know because I'm gonna make it something that
Speaker 1: probably ain't even break it all the way down when
Speaker 1: the other person that might just be some simple ship.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go down to the wrong ship. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking at every every party involved, at some
Speaker 1: bullsh I'm already saying what's gonna happen next, and what's
Speaker 1: gonna happen, So I don't even need to see no bullshit.
Speaker 1: I don't even need to see. Let me deal with
Speaker 1: the flaws that we already know we have as people.
Speaker 1: I don't need to dig for them, big c Yeah
Speaker 1: huh yeah. Some people capitalize off her, but that's a
Speaker 1: weak nigga. How you capitalize but you But you're giving
Speaker 1: the nigga all the tools to capitalize off you though,
Speaker 1: how how? How how you just melt a nigga this month?
Speaker 1: But you know all you're biding it and third, that's
Speaker 1: all you at that point. At that point, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: saying when when when y'all started then and telling them
Speaker 1: what you went through them. I mean temp like when
Speaker 1: a long let's put the time on. If if I'm
Speaker 1: getting a relationship with you and I want to be
Speaker 1: with you, you want to be with me and you
Speaker 1: want me to know what you went through and you
Speaker 1: don't want to go through it again, how long does
Speaker 1: it take for you to get that out to me?
Speaker 1: It's time a long ship. I don't know the first
Speaker 1: six months, two weeks? Now we want to lie how
Speaker 1: long long? Probably within the first couple of weeks. That's
Speaker 1: what I said. They're gonna know everything about about you. No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying if starting to drumma, you don't have to.
Speaker 1: I know we're about to be together. Like I'm not
Speaker 1: telling certain ship. It's like open book. It's like my
Speaker 1: business that I tell y'all. It's not it's like minnut ship.
Speaker 1: I'm not like what I'm saying. What we're saying from
Speaker 1: the be getting another relationship beginning of the conversation when
Speaker 1: y'all said, when you're just talking to you meet a
Speaker 1: guy and you're just venting him about your old relationship,
Speaker 1: I long that that that that conversation. Yeah, okay, that's
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. Yeah, A couple of weeks. You
Speaker 1: know my whole life, and that's your life. You're gonna
Speaker 1: know your whole How long it's gonna take him to
Speaker 1: know everything that happened in that bad relationship. Let's say
Speaker 1: that that first little jump a couple of weeks months then,
Speaker 1: so in two weeks, I'm gonna everything you went through
Speaker 1: a whole another relationship two weeks talk about that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not necessarily necessarily because that help a day. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't talking about for days? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody saying we gotta wake up and talk about
Speaker 1: the nigger and go to sleep, talk about the neighborhood. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that short story? Okay? And then when you tell me
Speaker 1: that short story and I started being a certain way
Speaker 1: because of whatever. Now I'm a nigga too, right because
Speaker 1: your story? What you what you said? What you say
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you didn't change, you didn't change since
Speaker 1: I told you this story. Yes, because that turns me
Speaker 1: off that you allowed yourself to even go through that
Speaker 1: for those many years that you just told me what No,
Speaker 1: I'm no man, know you know what what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So actual question how that made me weak? Okay? If
Speaker 1: you told me what you went through with another relationship,
Speaker 1: right and the things that you told what you went through,
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't deal with a woman that
Speaker 1: went through that. Am I fuck nigga now? Because I
Speaker 1: say I don't want to deal with it again than
Speaker 1: if you pretend like you want to hold up if
Speaker 1: I try to do it with it over the course
Speaker 1: of six months, no knowing that I don't. You don't know,
Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't know what you can't you can't. Yes,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying, hold on all of this I went
Speaker 1: through right, you fe and you heard what I said.
Speaker 1: We had over lunch and we didn't have a long
Speaker 1: third of days and you do some function or whatever
Speaker 1: the case may be. You understand I'm walking away. I'm
Speaker 1: not dealing with this somebody. I'm just saying what you said,
Speaker 1: you exactly what my question? What's your question again? Because
Speaker 1: if you just let you know what not to try,
Speaker 1: if you you know what, I want you to let
Speaker 1: me know how to try. And I got all the
Speaker 1: all the excitement at you and all the butterfly don't
Speaker 1: over money. Now, I know she didn't want to try
Speaker 1: to somebody leave her along I'm a nigga or real nigga.
Speaker 1: But you already knew that nigga because you because you
Speaker 1: already knew because we don't what about me? That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Okay, over the course of time, you're telling
Speaker 1: me what you went through. Right, we're already fun. Okay,
Speaker 1: we already every time? Uh huh. And then I started
Speaker 1: to see, like I really want somebody, that's all I
Speaker 1: want her. So I'm not gonna take her through that
Speaker 1: and my fund, you're gonna really gonna leave you? Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. You know you're not. They're gonna
Speaker 1: make you a fun but how you still make your
Speaker 1: sound what you mean? What? No? No, no no. But
Speaker 1: he's saying he ain't getting Mary. They say, y'all fucking
Speaker 1: were and all the course I'm expressing to you all
Speaker 1: the things that I've been through, but we're both engaged.
Speaker 1: That's the purpose. Once he find out that somebother some way,
Speaker 1: Once I she doesn't been through too much and I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna take it through much. She got too much?
Speaker 1: Bad get you that women's eyes that's not ain't not
Speaker 1: you not you're not hurt, right, but women eyes if
Speaker 1: it don't. If you don't, don't please say this. And
Speaker 1: womenies over a month or two months, we maybe don't
Speaker 1: to the common model, maybe sucking wrong. By now, I
Speaker 1: don't know, she's gonna feel like she's in love, so
Speaker 1: you're gonna be a fun ni. I don't pressed all this.
Speaker 1: I've been through all of this. How do you don't
Speaker 1: want me? You don't have a reason, you don't nothing, No, babe,
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm not the one. How that
Speaker 1: ain't a women because you're not dragging because you would
Speaker 1: be a nine nine times. No, if you're not dragging it,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing nothing. You're not. But but but okay,
Speaker 1: that's what I But do you feel like even if
Speaker 1: the last six hurt, I'm becush? How that's dragging it?
Speaker 1: That's not dragging. I was trying, he was trying. I'm trying.
Speaker 1: That's not hurt that we broke up and sad and
Speaker 1: cry to my friends. But just out you made to
Speaker 1: respect it when you've been into your friends? What am I?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Man? Nine times? I don't like am I?
Speaker 1: If it don't end up, you don't end up the
Speaker 1: way the woman wanted it. Ud look if it don't
Speaker 1: the woman wanted. It don't matter what you saying to
Speaker 1: your friends. That's what I am. Whatever you're saying is
Speaker 1: what I am to your to you what you ain't know? No,
Speaker 1: God damn which one is it? Just fro my counter
Speaker 1: saying what the funk going on? Many ship just to
Speaker 1: fake bitches, just says retarded. But the queens pitches you're retarded, bro, Like,
Speaker 1: how the funk I go through all this ship with you?
Speaker 1: We've been fucking six months and I'm been were I
Speaker 1: don't want to take you do this. I don't want to.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I feel like I want to.
Speaker 1: I want to date other women. I don't want to
Speaker 1: take you. This's not gonna work. I ain't going back
Speaker 1: and forth. I ain't give me no excuses. This ain't
Speaker 1: this ain't it for real? Real? But are going to
Speaker 1: call shant be like, let me tell you did? But
Speaker 1: what I don't sell? But we're real, we don't know
Speaker 1: the same. What what they say saying say is what
Speaker 1: I am. That's what you're passing on your friend because
Speaker 1: you don't That may be my soul mate still saying,
Speaker 1: you know what, girl here real nickna women they're not
Speaker 1: gonna let you anywhere. You say this, nigga, just real
Speaker 1: need you want to other women? That's what you like.
Speaker 1: Ain't the baby you probably need to be with? Hell No,
Speaker 1: because she may like that Initially. Girls ain't gonna do that.
Speaker 1: I still like you. You you you just you just
Speaker 1: kind of heard her feelings a little bit and she
Speaker 1: understand why that's why you're not a nigger, you know.
Speaker 1: But then no, I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go. Whatever it is,
Speaker 1: we can work on it. If I say I just
Speaker 1: like have a six with other women, that's true. They're
Speaker 1: gonna whatever it is. We got work on what you're saying.
Speaker 1: We were working on it and I'm starting to do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I actually yeah, I'm gonna because you want to that
Speaker 1: many hubs you want sign you can't figure out like that,
Speaker 1: you can't figure out now. I'm just I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to like just you know, somebody holed this to the like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'll be doing that. That's me. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Which one is just like you, I ain't gonna to
Speaker 1: please you by trying to be who you want me
Speaker 1: to be. That's true. I'm gonna please me, but please
Speaker 1: you by being me don't work. Fuck you, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, no matter what I do,
Speaker 1: if I come be real like you know what Chante
Speaker 1: were looking like, what, Well, you're right, but I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna go and get my stuff. We can work on that.
Speaker 1: You're not saying we can work on what I really
Speaker 1: told you out of my heart, what it was that
Speaker 1: I want I want bitches, you're saying we can work
Speaker 1: on it. You mean you're basically saying you're gonna get
Speaker 1: You're gonna get over that. That's what you're thinking. But
Speaker 1: Nigga coming to being all the way real with you
Speaker 1: out of his heart one thousand, which women say they want.
Speaker 1: But you're saying we can work on that. But you're
Speaker 1: not really saying we can work on that. You're saying
Speaker 1: neither you're gonna get passed that. I think when they
Speaker 1: say we could work on that, she in her head
Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna work on something that you want no
Speaker 1: other thank you, But that's not I came in tme. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not guaranteed. So when it don't work out, that
Speaker 1: work again. When it don't work out the way the
Speaker 1: woman wanted to work out, you are yes man, because
Speaker 1: you didn't all the way comply to her needs. If
Speaker 1: I don't apply to your needs, I'm a fucking or
Speaker 1: because my needs, my wants, my morris, I'm a funk
Speaker 1: nigger like women always just be real, be one hundred.
Speaker 1: I'm coming out to be all the way one hundred.
Speaker 1: Well you know what leg cross looking like this, nigga
Speaker 1: gonna lost this motherfucking mind. So was it what you do? Cash?
Speaker 1: Did you put you in a position that you gotta
Speaker 1: be a funny that? What I'm telling you is if
Speaker 1: I come tell you, baby, they just ain't working out
Speaker 1: between us, you'd be like, why because I want to
Speaker 1: be out more. I want to date other women. But baby,
Speaker 1: don't we we're gonna figure this out. Nigga heard, Okay,
Speaker 1: But what you meant when you say we're gonna figure
Speaker 1: this out? I don't want you to leave. I don't
Speaker 1: want you to leave. But no, yeah that's what you're thinking.
Speaker 1: You're saying, Yeah, well you're telling me we're gonna figure out,
Speaker 1: because I just told you what I want. We're gonna
Speaker 1: figure it out together, and we can't because I already
Speaker 1: told you what I wanted. There's nothing to figure out
Speaker 1: when what you want to go back and forth? No,
Speaker 1: I want us to you want to make a deal. Look,
Speaker 1: I want us to be there. It's a different it's
Speaker 1: a different creature because if you flip that around and
Speaker 1: a woman come and tell the man that was gonna
Speaker 1: figure it out exactly. Yeah, yeah, get depends on the guy.
Speaker 1: You never know what a nigga gonna say. Ain't no
Speaker 1: niggas gonna say. She could go out there and she's
Speaker 1: a nice young nigga. I feel like a nigga like
Speaker 1: me would say, I'm giving you your wings fly Bertie,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you fly away. But that should be respected.
Speaker 1: A woman would still keep you in it knowing that
Speaker 1: they can't deal with the person you are. That's true.
Speaker 1: That That's what I'm saying, nigga, don't ahead to take
Speaker 1: that hurt, Like, go ahead, I want to go to
Speaker 1: thinking about Okay, he gonna be he gonna actually find
Speaker 1: a woman who could be that for him. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to be there, but I can't. I'm not that
Speaker 1: And so now I'm got them getting hinder this nigga.
Speaker 1: Now say here fun nigga when he do the things
Speaker 1: that he said he was, come on out you hinder. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's still her. Yeah you can go. You
Speaker 1: Charles to just say. You could have laughed, but I
Speaker 1: chose to tape because you said we're working on that.
Speaker 1: Sh Right, you gotta plan. You have a plan when
Speaker 1: you say, okay, well yeah, get your ship. But we
Speaker 1: can say you've been hinder. It's like you don't want
Speaker 1: to be there. You've been You're being hindered because you're
Speaker 1: giving me mixed messages. Sweetheart. You're saying we're working on it.
Speaker 1: But then when I get you make a relationship, you're
Speaker 1: supposed to hinder because now I'm going through stress. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god. I gotta sneak around on
Speaker 1: this ship working on If we're working on that, if
Speaker 1: you are ready and told what it is and we're
Speaker 1: working on it, it should be out here. That's talking about.
Speaker 1: You're not being UNSOO can't talking about but I'm saying
Speaker 1: but but but you know that's not me. You know
Speaker 1: I'm speaking to the third person. What I'm saying is
Speaker 1: if I if I, if I was a man, that
Speaker 1: felt like if I told Shane said I want other bitches,
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna try to keep it out of face,
Speaker 1: and then we're sucking a bitch together. You get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's not sneaking around and just respect because
Speaker 1: you are my wife. But I told you what I'm about,
Speaker 1: you get Donna saying. So if I get caught up
Speaker 1: you in my phone, I feel like, why is you
Speaker 1: in my phone when I already told you what I'm about?
Speaker 1: But it shouldn't be a caught up if we already know,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a caught up if we already agreed.
Speaker 1: It's not an agreement. Like I said, when you agreed,
Speaker 1: you agreed to something else in your mind. No, I
Speaker 1: agreed that we're gonna work on it, meaning that we're
Speaker 1: gonna come to gather as well as two people and
Speaker 1: decide what the stipulations, what's the no because it's never
Speaker 1: being a talk after that, it's just listen, listen. Shot.
Speaker 1: The talk be for you to stay. The talk don't
Speaker 1: be for you to have no bitches, but for you
Speaker 1: to have another house or for you to have whatever
Speaker 1: it is that you want to that, don't be that.
Speaker 1: That talk is for you to stay, for you to
Speaker 1: get over it, king get over that. But are you
Speaker 1: going through something? Yeah? Why you want what I'm doing?
Speaker 1: What I'm not doing? That's in your mind? That be
Speaker 1: and we're gonna take bitches out smoke weed? Yeah, you
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. If I'll be like, well, Bay,
Speaker 1: I just got smoke weed, and how man funk that?
Speaker 1: Only damn about the neighbors complaining or whatever, you'd be like,
Speaker 1: we can work on that. But every time I smoke
Speaker 1: it gets on your nerves. You get what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So how does that work? They don't. We're not working
Speaker 1: on it. You just you just what you call it
Speaker 1: optimistic not what Yeah, when you don't want to what
Speaker 1: they call a cold kind of body, you just it's
Speaker 1: just shaking up to God damn to take the top
Speaker 1: of this flow, you know what I'm saying. Like you
Speaker 1: don't like it, People gotta be one hundred with what
Speaker 1: they don't like, bro, And if they can't deal, they
Speaker 1: gotta be able to be like, I'm not dealing with that,
Speaker 1: but what's one What's one hundred for a man? Though?
Speaker 1: When you're dealing with a woman who don't even know
Speaker 1: what they want. Women don't even know what they want.
Speaker 1: Then said their friends don't even know and they ain't
Speaker 1: even doing then, but I don't even know what's wrong
Speaker 1: with me. M m. They know what I'm saying, not
Speaker 1: that I'm saying. They could be all the way into you,
Speaker 1: but it just it ain't. I don't know why I
Speaker 1: want to be with the sick. Yeah, I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I just want to. I want to get into it today.
Speaker 1: I don't know why women, that's just women. I want
Speaker 1: to have something to vent about. I ain't been venting
Speaker 1: in the men. Emotional creatures. Well, yeah, the emotional creatures. Bro.
Speaker 1: That ship is a project, is a science, the project
Speaker 1: trying to try to figure it out. No, you think
Speaker 1: that's trying to figure men out. Y'all. Don't talk about
Speaker 1: shyn't express your emotions. I spress my motion to the foots.
Speaker 1: So whenever it comes down to where it comes down
Speaker 1: to already to see it everything. Yeah, yeah, everything, I
Speaker 1: feel about everything, like, ain't no gray areas. You ain't
Speaker 1: no gray areas. So if I if I decide, you
Speaker 1: know what, this ship just ain't work what what can
Speaker 1: she say? She used to be like, Okay, nigga, fuck you,
Speaker 1: you're like I've been telling him, it's not gonna change.
Speaker 1: Like the narrative is gonna always be built. One month
Speaker 1: you're the best, next month you're the worst. Your friends
Speaker 1: gotta be tilling like y'all friends gotta be like, do
Speaker 1: you ever listen to your friends? Like this bitch is stupid?
Speaker 1: I know she because she told me that about like
Speaker 1: real ship for show listen to something like you are too?
Speaker 1: Why she listening to you? But you know that Like
Speaker 1: I know this, I know it, like because we listen
Speaker 1: for the ven you got a real friend, They let
Speaker 1: you get it out and they hang on the phone
Speaker 1: and tell you they spelled. Man, my friend crazy is here?
Speaker 1: She running a man crazy because I want to tell
Speaker 1: her she wrong, but she's so crazy me I was
Speaker 1: gonna be into it. That's just how it goes. So
Speaker 1: do women help any real friends now? Because I think
Speaker 1: that you can really tell your friend when they're wrong
Speaker 1: to not not on not on a touchy subject. You can't.
Speaker 1: You're not, though, I do now, I see what you say. No,
Speaker 1: I definitely have. I understand exactly what you say. I
Speaker 1: get because at the end of the day, if I
Speaker 1: tell you too much, then it's gonna hinder if I
Speaker 1: tell you the truth, it's gonna about relations. Yeah say,
Speaker 1: I think it's yeah, okay. I was about to say,
Speaker 1: you can tell your friend the truth, but you ain't
Speaker 1: gotta do some massive detail like I got my homegirl Raven.
Speaker 1: She'd be going through crazy as ship. I did say
Speaker 1: her name. I forgot what we used doing. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna say what. No, I'm not gonna tell, but she'd
Speaker 1: be going through some ship. And when when we're talking
Speaker 1: about it, I literally be like, man, you know you
Speaker 1: throw it off and I'll tell her her part and
Speaker 1: I leave it at that. I'm not gonna go into
Speaker 1: full detail long to piss her off, but I'm definitely
Speaker 1: gonna tell her like if you know you kind of
Speaker 1: started that ship you're talking to how they take constructive Criticisa,
Speaker 1: And then she had telling me like you know what
Speaker 1: you're dealing with, you know what you're dealing with. Certain
Speaker 1: people are a different type of personalities, like I'm not
Speaker 1: they go asttional opinion on some ship that I'm head
Speaker 1: strong back the fu nig opinion. That's how I feel.
Speaker 1: I ain't nigga change my mind even if I'm wrong, sucking,
Speaker 1: I'm wrong by myself. I ain't changing and that I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: But you got people that will go vent and want
Speaker 1: somebody to feel like they're right. And your real friend, noe,
Speaker 1: this one of the times she want to be right.
Speaker 1: That is true. I wanna let hell be right. Damn
Speaker 1: we are fake. Yeah, like I'm gonna he'll be right
Speaker 1: to night and hang on the phone and tell tell
Speaker 1: goddamn beat one tail bank up in the tail bank, man,
Speaker 1: why and I'm gonna break it. She gonna break it
Speaker 1: all the way down to me and be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: she wrong. Yeah, people go back. Yeah, you can't go
Speaker 1: back when they like when they calmed down in the middle,
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, but tell you then. But after moment,
Speaker 1: that's when we really need to tell them that, man,
Speaker 1: because yeah, you gotta telling in the heat of the moment,
Speaker 1: like hey, I'm now you tripping, ya, you're tripping, you're tripping,
Speaker 1: you're tripping, Get mad at me whatever. Calling when you're
Speaker 1: out your feeling. That's how I do my be mad
Speaker 1: with brother. You call on the ballhead nigga, then bro,
Speaker 1: don't call me, nigga, you let you want the truth
Speaker 1: real ship, because if I don't, I don't give a
Speaker 1: funk about you. And that's not saying that you don't
Speaker 1: give your friend is just a female trait. Bro. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all don't even know because y'all saying y'all thinking like
Speaker 1: trying to make a right damn nil. Yeah. Sometimes even
Speaker 1: though you know you're wrong, you're trying to damn them,
Speaker 1: make it see logic, try, You're trying to twist the
Speaker 1: logic just enough to make it seems like this person
Speaker 1: is coming down on the right end of it. I
Speaker 1: can see what you're coming from when you don't see
Speaker 1: where they're coming from. Now, that's the I see what
Speaker 1: I tell you ain't coming from you. I feel you
Speaker 1: see what you're right due to the fact of his
Speaker 1: past history. That's when the nigga's automatic just here fun
Speaker 1: So I can never agree with him over even when
Speaker 1: you're wrong, because you are really told me all the
Speaker 1: you are bent at all the fun ship. So I'm
Speaker 1: gon say nah chantell big na, not this time it's you.
Speaker 1: I can't say that because then you're gonna break up.
Speaker 1: Well you would about when in twenties twenties. Oh man,
Speaker 1: So if I'm wrong about this now, he was wrong
Speaker 1: about that then and that's wrong. But in this that
Speaker 1: sounds real. All that sounds real, petty and stressful what
Speaker 1: we're doing, you know, And I don't think it's stressful
Speaker 1: in our brains when it's coming out. It's not. It's
Speaker 1: just nature than the else. We're not got big. Oh
Speaker 1: this podcast touched one woman heart to be like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna adjust my thoughts and take accountability. Did we have
Speaker 1: that on this show? And take accountability for my words? Okay,
Speaker 1: actions is a whole another thing, my actions and my words,
Speaker 1: because words to men are worse than actions, and then
Speaker 1: for women is the actions that's worse the words exactly.
Speaker 1: But they are all the same. It's all abuse, not
Speaker 1: be killing. All my words they all abuse. And you
Speaker 1: feel like the nigga is supposed to come back from
Speaker 1: it when he damned there can feel some of the
Speaker 1: words you're saying maybe sharp shootings, ak what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So that's why you said how you mad at me?
Speaker 1: Because I'm a fucking on you bitch. Fuck you you're
Speaker 1: a piece of ship. You can't you mad at me.
Speaker 1: You can't say she can't say she's saying. She's saying,
Speaker 1: that's why I said, because I'm but then that should
Speaker 1: be sitting over here mad on the nigga about some
Speaker 1: whole most ship what he did up. But what about
Speaker 1: what you did to me? So I'm patted too. This
Speaker 1: is retaliation, okay, But once you retaliated, it's a fight. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But so now blow for blow, you can't. You can't
Speaker 1: come back from everything though. That's why you gotta be
Speaker 1: careful what you saw. If I did something to use Yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly enough, I did something of you as a helpless person,
Speaker 1: and you just took that on the chin and you
Speaker 1: just helpless cry. Now I gotta show remorse and be like,
Speaker 1: damn on some bullshit. I gotta take it on accountabusiness.
Speaker 1: But when you hit me, if I punched your in
Speaker 1: the face, you punched me back. We're fighting, bro, we
Speaker 1: fighting this blow for blow. Ain't nobody the wrong ain't
Speaker 1: nobody the right weight. But if I don't did some
Speaker 1: bullshit to you, and I see how that I just
Speaker 1: hurt her and she didn't. She didn't try to hurt
Speaker 1: me back, she didn't return the energy. I need to
Speaker 1: make this right. But once she's putting your once you
Speaker 1: put on the same shoes I got on, bitch, fuck you,
Speaker 1: it's up. We ops. It's the low road. Some people
Speaker 1: use to take the low road and not the high road.
Speaker 1: It's the low road. It gets lower and lower. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is the friends that you've been to
Speaker 1: when you because you're gonna call her soon the nigga
Speaker 1: do what he do for you, even rich pop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when you catch your nigger down there in some ship,
Speaker 1: you're gonna curl gain without checking the right thing is
Speaker 1: gonna be like calm down, calm down, calm down, don't
Speaker 1: don't calm down, strategize your move. If you're gonna do something, strategize,
Speaker 1: don't go and do something that you're gonna regret. Because
Speaker 1: he may feel he can come back from that, and
Speaker 1: you may feel like he can come back in that,
Speaker 1: but you feel like I want to hurt them before
Speaker 1: we come back from this. Make it even. That's what
Speaker 1: a lot of women think, but it will never be even.
Speaker 1: Never for sure. No. Yeah, I'm just saying, like for
Speaker 1: people that go through ship and their relationship, like certain
Speaker 1: certain women ain't going for certain ships, sir, men ain't
Speaker 1: going on certain ships. That's just how it goes, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And if I meet a woman
Speaker 1: back to that, if I meet a woman that showed
Speaker 1: me everything that she went for with another nigger, to me,
Speaker 1: that show that sholl do to me, I don't agree
Speaker 1: with that to me, he said. He's saying that if if,
Speaker 1: if it's still on your mind and you're talking about
Speaker 1: it affects you, it affects your energy, that person still
Speaker 1: has some type of holes if they don't. And I'm
Speaker 1: just talking to you about the things I've been through,
Speaker 1: that's what you're talking about. But I'm speaking on when
Speaker 1: you have met your soul makes your true love, and
Speaker 1: y'all depart, That's what I'm speaking on. If I depart
Speaker 1: from stake, I ain't funk another bit. She'll never be
Speaker 1: another one of the here. I can get another woman
Speaker 1: and we can move up and try to get us
Speaker 1: some money together and have a business slash marriage relationship.
Speaker 1: But I'm not to try to get this back. So
Speaker 1: I'm not even to talk to you about her, saying
Speaker 1: you get because once I started telling you about her,
Speaker 1: you're gonna know that's my soul mate. And the things
Speaker 1: that I went through with her. I'm never going through
Speaker 1: this with you, bitch. The ship and I went through
Speaker 1: with her. I ain't even gotta tell you this. My
Speaker 1: energy is gonna show you this, So I ain't gotta
Speaker 1: tell you my vulnerable ship that I don't went through
Speaker 1: with this woman. Yea to let you know that I
Speaker 1: got that side of me for you to try to
Speaker 1: check check them bums and get your feeling hurt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: ain't even that guy. I just say I was a
Speaker 1: messed up guy for a queen, and I guess she
Speaker 1: got tired of my bullshit. Not tell you hubble or
Speaker 1: ship because me tell you hubble shit how I felt that.
Speaker 1: Let you know to me now, these are not fact
Speaker 1: the bank fact to me. Me tell you all the
Speaker 1: things that I went through with her and expressing everything
Speaker 1: the hurt that I went through her. To me, that's
Speaker 1: showing you how much I cared for her. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you've been with somebody for so many years, the person
Speaker 1: gonna feel like you care for them regardless each other.
Speaker 1: But you're still type of caring Carolina. When I'm im
Speaker 1: to me, if I'm speaking on it, if I've been
Speaker 1: about this person, I still feel like I wish that
Speaker 1: could have been better to me? And do you feel
Speaker 1: like it's the way you've been about it, like like
Speaker 1: how you talk about this person because you can talk
Speaker 1: about to speak for me if I'm talking, if i'm
Speaker 1: if I if I'm telling the scream about Shante, I'm
Speaker 1: telling him because I want some answers and try to
Speaker 1: fix what I even did or fix what we're gonna.
Speaker 1: So if I'm ever speaking to anybody about my wife,
Speaker 1: it's not because you're a It's because, hey, brom I
Speaker 1: what am I missing? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I'm speaking
Speaker 1: about it. So I didn't finished speaking at about to
Speaker 1: no bitch about this or to know another woman about this,
Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to fish that. But women do
Speaker 1: the total opposite. You get what I'm saying. They give
Speaker 1: been about some ship to a nigga, to somebody else,
Speaker 1: trying to let it go, but confused, could want to
Speaker 1: fix it, could want to let it go, could want
Speaker 1: to they don't know. I see what you're saying. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: If if I'm somethinghere sitting here enough, if I'm if
Speaker 1: I go to a therapist to talk about my marriage,
Speaker 1: what am I trying to do? Right, unlet's his post marriage.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how not to talk to
Speaker 1: another woman about this marriage. You get wanna say, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to get it off to some people that that's
Speaker 1: not it's gonna hinder my relationship with them a therapy.
Speaker 1: This ain't gonna I'm gonna get this off the you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, or my
Speaker 1: kids or my parents or something. I'm not bringing ship
Speaker 1: to another relationship. Because if I'm speaking on this woman
Speaker 1: to another woman, she don't know you still love this bitch.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. M hm. Ain't if I'm
Speaker 1: if me back, it's talking about to another woman. I want.
Speaker 1: I want my bitch. I only want you. I'm just
Speaker 1: here for the heat. Ryan, Goddamn, I'm not here for you.
Speaker 1: I'm here for you. We're talking about us now, to
Speaker 1: see us on picnics and ship. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just always felt like me personally, So was that rebound.
Speaker 1: I just always felt like me personally. I never wanted
Speaker 1: to get in shape bank, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and do all this and be this new nigga with
Speaker 1: a new bitch already keep mine. M hm. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm gonna get it right. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get it right with that one. I can't got them
Speaker 1: do all this bullshit. Ain't gonna get it right with
Speaker 1: somebody else that's a fun nigger to me, no matter
Speaker 1: whether it is, no matter how bad this, because it's
Speaker 1: gonna go bad when I get what he's gonna go
Speaker 1: bad too. It's gonna be bad times right right, because
Speaker 1: I ain't peep this bitch flaws yet. I just met you.
Speaker 1: So you your best? You start taking the wings off?
Speaker 1: Yet you got that done? You still you still don't?
Speaker 1: You still got your fills on? Right arong me? Why ship? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like straight up? So what
Speaker 1: am I doing now? I'm now I'm counting an uncomfortable situation,
Speaker 1: trying to make some ship, trying to make the same
Speaker 1: ship already had, recreation ship you already had. The grass
Speaker 1: ain't always greater facts. You know you know how that
Speaker 1: ship go? Broh, God damn d well happily ever, hel,
Speaker 1: I'd really be trying to figure out, Steve. I don't
Speaker 1: what are you talking crazy? It's real ship. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to put the folks down. A lot of people
Speaker 1: they think about it, think of this last day. I say,
Speaker 1: a lot of people go through the whole turbulence of
Speaker 1: the whole ride, ride that bit all the wayman to
Speaker 1: build a bit of dead. Why do you think so?
Speaker 1: Because they love each other? I don't care if they care.
Speaker 1: Care they care about each other. You don't talk about
Speaker 1: what you don't care. Why do you have to build
Speaker 1: ax because we were better because we love the No,
Speaker 1: I don't think they have ain't better with no bitch.
Speaker 1: What's it better? What is better? See you? Yeah? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. We can't be mutual. Every time I see
Speaker 1: him fun that is because now you're mad because of
Speaker 1: what y'all could have been and y'are not that so okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I agree with that. Okay, So I ain't thing with
Speaker 1: four ships. If you gotta nigga so well talking about you,
Speaker 1: calling you out type of niggas, will he mad because
Speaker 1: he won't still be around you? I agree? Get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like niggle going over they like like, but
Speaker 1: I don't know you no more. That's the person that
Speaker 1: made peace with this ship. Fuck you, that's the real
Speaker 1: fuck you. If I'm saying fuck you, that mean I
Speaker 1: love you. I ain't saying nothing. It's fuck you for real.
Speaker 1: That Come on, bro, don't do that. Bro, it's saying
Speaker 1: the guy. Damn Joe, Joe, go to sleeve. Show what
Speaker 1: you don't fact? You speaking facts? What's your Listen about
Speaker 1: everything you said today? I agree with I ain't lost that.
Speaker 1: I want it back now you're you're you're hitting the day.
Speaker 1: I ain't cheat. Yeah, right, no matter where they take
Speaker 1: to keep it, I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: Don't go chase the waterfalls. You know, people do find
Speaker 1: happenings outside of what they You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I stiled up. You gotta go with nothing, so many
Speaker 1: fine happenings outside of you. Gotta go with the relationship.
Speaker 1: You can ye, relationship can also it's reality, can't it can't.
Speaker 1: You gotta go with your heart. It can't end. There
Speaker 1: can't be ading to certain relationships. It just comes to
Speaker 1: a point where it's now you ain't even mad at
Speaker 1: each other. So this is the conclusion of this part
Speaker 1: of our life together. That's why I always say, if
Speaker 1: that comes to if we come to be like we're cool,
Speaker 1: and it just be like this ship ain't hey, this
Speaker 1: ship ain't it? Then I can respect that. I can't.
Speaker 1: We can't get you don't caught me and some ship
Speaker 1: or we don't we're all going about some ship and
Speaker 1: we break up. That ain't gonna break up to me.
Speaker 1: To me, that's just to misunderstand. Now we just got them,
Speaker 1: can't be around each other, wing all that. But they're
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, that's just what it is. Yeah, yeah's
Speaker 1: time to let that go. But if it's like we're
Speaker 1: in Twitter, you're mad about something and then got them,
Speaker 1: we're moving out. You move out and I move out,
Speaker 1: that's bullshit to me. You know what I'm saying. Nobody,
Speaker 1: you're still donna be mad and you see it. You
Speaker 1: still don't want to when you see him, you still
Speaker 1: don't want him or whatever. But if it's just like
Speaker 1: ain't there, it ain't there, and you gotta respect that.
Speaker 1: I ain't never felt that. H We're some big bank
Speaker 1: in family on Big Facts Friday. I hope you all
Speaker 1: got some game today. Man, it's free games, free game
Speaker 1: else can you get free? I don't agree. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be a fun Later on, we agreed with you got me,
Speaker 1: I take to agree. I'm not just saying, like, man,
Speaker 1: what do women really want the truth? Yes, yes we do.
Speaker 1: We talked about this stuff. But okay, when I'll be
Speaker 1: telling you the truth, you'll be saying I'm crazy. They
Speaker 1: wanted with the want with do they want the truth? Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say that do they want you? Can't
Speaker 1: women accept the truth? Yes, we can and we want
Speaker 1: the truth. However, to pick back off what you said,
Speaker 1: we ain't you we hear what we want to hear.
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. So that's not the truth.
Speaker 1: I'm saying that what they want to receive it that truth.
Speaker 1: I agree, but we won't hear it. But honestly, we don't.
Speaker 1: We don't process it because we still we still trying
Speaker 1: to date and love the person we want you to be, yah,
Speaker 1: become be or whatever. And then to hear that. But
Speaker 1: still what you're saying earlier, what is it? Um? What
Speaker 1: did he say? What you say? What? What's the what's
Speaker 1: the movie? You want the truth? You can't want the truth? Thing?
Speaker 1: But when you get the truth, can you receive the truth?
Speaker 1: Have you not receiving the truth. You don't want the truth. Shot,
Speaker 1: you want a hold on you want the truth. You
Speaker 1: can't receive the truth. But neither one of you guys
Speaker 1: can't tell each other how the truth may make the
Speaker 1: other person feel. Even if you tell me the truth,
Speaker 1: you know what he's asking is if he wants us
Speaker 1: I just told you that you said, I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear that. You know was a public he said,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. Yeah, so you don't
Speaker 1: want the truth? Like this the truth? You're like, we
Speaker 1: don't want to hear that bullshit that does ain't believe it?
Speaker 1: So which one is it not true? But it's like
Speaker 1: we're not gonna receive we we feel like you Lyne,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this, you know what I mean? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we were like you ain't just you ain't just say that,
Speaker 1: like I know you just say that. That's how we
Speaker 1: But we really want the truth. Yes, because a lot
Speaker 1: of you tell I'll do it, nigga, tell the truth
Speaker 1: and you believe that this is the truth your actions, Yeah,
Speaker 1: then that's what we beat ourselves up and because ourselves
Speaker 1: out to call our girl friend. Yeah, just get on
Speaker 1: the phone, call our girl friends to be like that
Speaker 1: funk nigga? Do you know what I'm saying? So you're
Speaker 1: if you're action and you're what you said in the store,
Speaker 1: don't add up. I'm like, shut up, you just talk.
Speaker 1: But if you're telling the truth. If I told you
Speaker 1: I got a whole wife and kids, but you'd be like,
Speaker 1: you don't know being no cancer, you can't telling me
Speaker 1: it's a FaceTime are what? But I told you the truth?
Speaker 1: But you heard you how? I'm like, because you ain't
Speaker 1: in Kansas, but I know how even married over face.
Speaker 1: But I couldn't be ready to run away. But you
Speaker 1: ain't touched on kids as you would have been in cancers.
Speaker 1: My bitch could be locked up. You don't know what miss,
Speaker 1: because I ain't tell you the whole truth. Oh God,
Speaker 1: ain't that's not the truth. If I say, baby, I
Speaker 1: got another wife and can how you want to take
Speaker 1: I got hold on the wife and can man talking?
Speaker 1: But really got when you came back and see you
Speaker 1: haul with a Candy tag on it, and take me
Speaker 1: to Candy and meet my bitch getting out of jail
Speaker 1: and we beat together. Now you believe it, you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna make man, ain't gonna shoot that ship up. That's
Speaker 1: gonna be wait, you shoot man. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you don't want why the moon is getting killed.
Speaker 1: Everybody your body standards, everybody who rented than you, because
Speaker 1: they ain't going any name everybody's I say, if I
Speaker 1: keep preaching, it's plicking me. I want more than one white,
Speaker 1: I want three white. I keep saying this, she's gonna
Speaker 1: feel like, shut the funk up. Yeah, okay, Then if
Speaker 1: me and her around and get a divorce and I
Speaker 1: go get three wives, she's gonna be like, Okay, that's
Speaker 1: what he really. That was his truth. You heard the
Speaker 1: keyword the voice. So that ain't not issue. So so
Speaker 1: womens from their treat if you are you allowed them,
Speaker 1: so women, if you allow them, okay about them? Held on,
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, he thinking what he said? He said truth? Whoah,
Speaker 1: you know he's said it's like three in relationships sometimes
Speaker 1: even both ways. You say ship, and I might be
Speaker 1: guilty of this too. You say ship, but you know
Speaker 1: they just kind of everybody brushes some off. He does
Speaker 1: it too. He brushes it off. I don't brush out
Speaker 1: keep it. You didn't like everything, but you say something
Speaker 1: to say something soud like that, you're telling the truth
Speaker 1: with me. You want to see it, little ship, I
Speaker 1: take that joke. Relish the serious, doing the serious. Oh
Speaker 1: I'm making up ship now sayings generally we are brush
Speaker 1: of the three wise you were like you, yes, you're
Speaker 1: saying that's not the truth. Bang if you think it's complicated.
Speaker 1: When one wife said you're a bad look, he's gonna
Speaker 1: be with three wif taking this out. Okay, we're gonna
Speaker 1: figure it out. It was like I said, baby, I
Speaker 1: wanted the voice. I want three boys. What's gonna say.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna work. We're gonna figure this out. We're
Speaker 1: gonna work this out together. But you know what, part
Speaker 1: part of part of it has to respect that. So
Speaker 1: listen made this post. They gotta go through. I gotta
Speaker 1: take my part of figuring this ship out. You you
Speaker 1: do gotta read. You gotta read female language. What she's
Speaker 1: saying is they're got ready to go to war for you.
Speaker 1: Before any of that, I ain't let you just walk
Speaker 1: up with three bitches. We're gonna figure it out. Fight
Speaker 1: about it. Might get you might get to them. Three
Speaker 1: wis yeah, nobody, Hey, you can read home gonna come home,
Speaker 1: make them some sweet tea, and they're gonna fall out.
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna never see him again. What's coming to
Speaker 1: She's saying, she's going and they're gone, and now you
Speaker 1: got to bury these homes. She's saying, she's going to
Speaker 1: distance for you. You gotta I figured, yeah, make him
Speaker 1: a sandwich, give him something to drink. You don't come
Speaker 1: on my podet already got you on your mother all
Speaker 1: the motherucking line and ship. Okay, like moving the cup
Speaker 1: off like she's getting up like that side. You know
Speaker 1: how to make a nigga say that side. But so
Speaker 1: y'all know all the games because I don't went through
Speaker 1: this ship. You didn't not go to feel the games
Speaker 1: like damn I did, wait till I got home at
Speaker 1: three o'clock. So now you're gonna make it. Put it
Speaker 1: on yourself right and it should mean and you walk
Speaker 1: past the kitchen before you got back kids, do but
Speaker 1: fix it down. He bought to pop up with yes, yes,
Speaker 1: you want to toast it. You mean Jessica waking about
Speaker 1: to sleep making seances she has Now I might be
Speaker 1: getting cussed out. I'm eating the sandwich, but she made
Speaker 1: the sandwich. But you the gun that can take the
Speaker 1: cussing out. Oh y'all got I want you to make
Speaker 1: myself with love. I always like, don't cook me ship
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, making it happy back, don't taste like happy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's me when I like you made this with love.
Speaker 1: But you gotta know what you gotta. You gotta be
Speaker 1: accountable for your own bullshit. Like I could have got
Speaker 1: on made my own dad with frisbee and too him.
Speaker 1: He gonna still eat it. So what Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: know a nigga bro. I used to make my grandma
Speaker 1: water and ship with ice off the ground and ship good.
Speaker 1: She didn't called me all the way down the street.
Speaker 1: I don't get don't give me some walk. I dropped
Speaker 1: nice in men drinking. I saw the ground, so I
Speaker 1: don't want I want it with love. Have she catched
Speaker 1: me in the house and make me. I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: the water with love. You don't call me all the
Speaker 1: way from playing outside. That's how I feel. I'm woke
Speaker 1: you up. Woke you up about your sleep? That sounds
Speaker 1: ainting to take right. I might choke on this ship,
Speaker 1: then why you wake your up? He was gonna get out.
Speaker 1: He wanted to talk, just yeah, yeah, just make up ship.
Speaker 1: But I want to say, women do the same. How
Speaker 1: the funk? I want to y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all trying
Speaker 1: some ship just to see it. We'll go for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: women do that. I say were Trump. I'm going for it.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So if I'm gonna go for it,
Speaker 1: you better go for it. That's all I'm saying. We're
Speaker 1: going for a lot of ship. No way, you're going
Speaker 1: for everything. But if I got to get up and
Speaker 1: you're going, yeah, this is a real city, name it
Speaker 1: your name, we get out came today. I go, hey, listen,
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