1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Big B and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts, the 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: www dot Big facts pot dot com. You know who 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: it is. DJ Scream, Big Bank is here, O, g 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: Shante is here, Shot Jones in Big Homie Kodak at 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: this time for another Big Facts Friday. What is going on? People? 7 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: What is going on? People? Everybody good? Amazing? You gotta 8 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: do the wellest check today. Well, let's kick it off 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: with our words. You know what I'm saying in Big 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 1: Facts Friday tradition shot What we got? Inquisitive? Inquisitive inquisitive um? 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: The Urban Dictionary, Well, no, I'm gonna start with the 12 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: textbook expreary. It says interested in, um, wanted to know 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: someone else's business? Okay? Um. The Urban says curiosity the 14 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: degree in which a person or emma wants to learn 15 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: new things. And I'm a person or animal or person 16 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: or animal nosy, Yeah, wants to but is wanting no 17 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: new things? Being nosy? Not not wanting to know new okay? 18 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: Wanted to know? Okay, So let's let's just go straight 19 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: into our topic from inquisitive with which is hiness? When 20 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: should you mind your own business. But on the flip side, 21 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: when should you not mind your own business? Because sometimes, 22 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: of course, uh, I think most of the time you 23 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: should be minding your damn business because I'll be minding 24 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: my damn business and it's just better, you know what 25 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Overall, But I mean there might be times 26 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: where you might need to get in somebody's business for 27 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: the sake of maybe helping them or saving them from 28 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: some bs, you know what I'm saying, Like, you ain't 29 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: supposed to just sit around and watch your people just 30 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: crash out without maybe getting their business a little bit Like, look, 31 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to get in your business, but I 32 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: just want to let you know that that ain't it, 33 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So what's the fine line 34 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: between that, like many of business staying out the way 35 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: so people don't call you nosy or inquisitive, but also 36 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: being a person that don't just let your people just 37 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: crash out and be on some bs how you laughing? 38 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: You know? Um, I think it's it's definitely alignment between 39 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: it two, right, So, like, if you're being inquisitive for 40 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: the sake of trying to help somebody, okay, you should 41 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: definitely look into things, whatever the relevant situation is. But 42 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people be wanting to know information that 43 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: ain't got ship to do with them, and they just 44 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: want to know, like why are you asking me this? 45 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: But even if you even if you're trying to help them, 46 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: sometimes the feedback you can get from him is my 47 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: your damn business. This is my business. But in that case, 48 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: you may be they may be your business. Like if 49 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: I say, if M like a mom asking her son, 50 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: what are you going like the sun stay with like 51 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: a teenager or something like what you're gonna business? You're 52 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: my business? Son. You ain't got no business saying my 53 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: your business this before you've grown, So you can't tell 54 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: me my my business because you're my kid. It's just said, though, 55 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: I mean it could be said. But what about when 56 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: it comes to a significant others significant others and I 57 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: think like best friends and family members is more kind 58 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: of what we're talking about. Like, but they can get 59 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: you with the same magic business thing. So say fascist 60 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: let's make it like die Terry. What does somebody say, 61 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: I went to the doctor, the doctor said my blood 62 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: pressure messed up, And then you see them eating fried chicken. 63 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Did you just let them eat the fried chicken and 64 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: then just fall back or you know, the doctor said 65 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to be eating all that. I literally 66 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: met the fried chicken for real. Yeah? Why because if 67 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: they did, they went out how they wanted to even good, 68 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: how they want to eat? Okay, but what did you 69 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: like know, like, dang, you just you can stop doing that? 70 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: What if you know you're the one person that can 71 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: get them? Like what if it was bank and they're 72 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: trying to tell Cass don't be eating no damn chicken. 73 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say some See, I think it depends on 74 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: how much you care about the person who it is. 75 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: It is much you care about it and who it is, 76 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: Because if it's somebody you care about unconditionally, you ain't 77 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: you don't care if they're mad, you know what I'm saying, 78 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: Like certain people really don't get they mad at you 79 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: like I'm looking at right. I'm gonna just tell you right, 80 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: if that's the case, don't be cool with me and 81 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: throw down about you eating right, yeah, because I care 82 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: about you. Now, if you just something like somebody it 83 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: is what it is, then ship they stay not to 84 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: eat chicken? Okay? So do you think them mind not 85 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: minding them inquisitive, not minding the business people that be 86 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 1: all another business. Do you think it's always illhearted? Do 87 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: you think they have some good intentions? Sometimes? You know 88 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 1: that people always and everybody else business and want to know. 89 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: I want to know. I want to know. I want 90 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: to know. Can they ever have y'all y'all know something, 91 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: y'all keep granted. Let's see y'all grants is funny. Let's say, 92 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: what's I feel like? You know, mind you've been most 93 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: people ain't gonna teach and they want to see you 94 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: crash too though. That's just what I'm saying. Like some 95 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: people people like that are trying to do this to 96 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: myself from you, like as she said, you're gonna let 97 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: them eat the chicken. That wouldn't be my friend. Like 98 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: I can't deal with about it like that because at 99 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: the end of the day, we all got flowed flaws. 100 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: And if you're saying you get a funk about me, 101 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: how are you gonna just even if I'm even if 102 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm showing that I don't give a funk about myself. Yeah, 103 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. It's just different people. People 104 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: are different because some people might care but I ain't 105 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: gonna say ship because I don't want Yeah, and then 106 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: you got some people that don't give a fuck, and 107 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: I still say something, don't even give a funk, you 108 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. I'm just saying to be in 109 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: your bidding, but I don't give a funk of your 110 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: that not what so that ship just I don't know. 111 00:05:54,680 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: That's that's weird talking. It's a saw again. I just 112 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: think it depends on who the person is and how 113 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: much you care about them, right, because like, when there's 114 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: somebody you care about, you don't care if you're gonna 115 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: crash out, you know what I'm saying, Like, you're not 116 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: gonna care how they feel if you're looking out for 117 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 1: them and you had the best interest at heart. But 118 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: how long do you try to drive someone the person 119 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: when they's like when they're just who they is. It 120 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: depends on who it is, keep going definitely depend on 121 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: it is. There've been somebody who I love, like my 122 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: mama or a brother, somebody like that until we can't 123 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: talk about it no more. We're gonna keep trying to 124 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: think who that is. And then's they're starting to take 125 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: a strong on your relationship by you by you being 126 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:39,239 Speaker 1: so quiz about they didn't yeh she and the starting 127 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: to take a train on relationship because you try to 128 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: change this person. So how you do that? What you 129 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: do about when they come down there? What do you do? 130 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: I think at that point you take a step back 131 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: because now it's starting to affect you because I love 132 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: you so much that you don't even see you you're 133 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: sucking yourself up and now it's starting to tear me down. 134 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: So now I gotta take a step back from this 135 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: whole situation. Think that's naturally what starts to happen. Yeah, 136 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: that's for sure, because like you can care about somebody 137 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: more than they care about themselves in that instance to 138 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: where it's like, damn, I know you're not supposed to 139 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: be eating this chicken, but you keep on eating this 140 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: chicken and you don't care about anything because that's what 141 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: you want to do. But I care about how it's 142 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: gonna how it's gonna affect you. And I'm putting more 143 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: energy into trying to stop this ship and it's really 144 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: stressing me out. You don't get a fun but you 145 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: can't another thing. I feel like you can't got damn 146 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: see for a motherfucker. What they don't see for their self. Yeah, 147 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: or you don't feel what they feel. So when you start, 148 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: when you I feel like you gotts. Just open your 149 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: eyes to who people live. Yeah, you see exactly who 150 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: they is, just letting them be that. But you don't 151 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: think to a certain extent, we're kind of all here 152 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: to help everybody else. You help other people get better, 153 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: help each other if they want to be better, that's 154 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: what adults. How you're gonna help them be better? You're 155 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: gonna do it. Make you don't feel like your opinionated. 156 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: That's all you don't do. You could be really come 157 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: from a genuine place of love, Karen. I want to 158 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: see you win. I want to see you be this person. 159 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: But don't people be good who they is? So you 160 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: know day you're just pre judging them, right, You're right. 161 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: You're trying to change the mother too how you see them, 162 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: and that will never happen. What you think it is 163 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: deep down to make certain people and maybe not for 164 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: the right reasons, what you think it is, and make 165 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: people not bund their business and be nosy like say, 166 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: for instance, when I stay in a pot man's we 167 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: might hear somebody next door arguing, right, And my thing 168 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: is like couples domestic ship, they're gonna like they're gonna 169 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna have their own ship. Couples gonna have their 170 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: own ship. Right. So I think like, as long as 171 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: it ain't like stop help me kicking my head like that, 172 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: ain't you know what I'm saying, As long as they 173 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: don't get extreme to the point of like deafer ship 174 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: like that, I'm not gonna get in the domestic business 175 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: because a lot of times domestic business be smoke on 176 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: Monday and peace and love on Tuesday. You see what 177 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying at the end of the night, or you 178 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So what you think it is 179 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: in certain people that they can't mind their business no 180 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: matter what the situation is, domestic, neighborhood, workship, relationship. Best, 181 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: they got to know everything they feel. Like if they 182 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: don't know, they almost offended. I think that they don't 183 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: have any self identity, Like you ain't got your own business, 184 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: like you you so caught up in what everybody else 185 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 1: doing that makes you home. Like if you take it 186 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: with everybody else doing, you don't know who you are. 187 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: So you so you ain't got no self identity, so 188 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: you you ain't mine your own business. Yeah, that's kind 189 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 1: of where it boils down to, especially like I think again, 190 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: like you said, if they ain't no help, come save me, 191 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm trapped in a closet type of ship. Like when 192 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: it comes to domestic ship, you're your own sister, because 193 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: nine times got to ten, y'all gonna figure that sh 194 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, you be mad at me, or I 195 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: may take it there because that y'all may be arguing, 196 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: I'm we're here, ready to pull my gun out on him. 197 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: And then now y'are back cool, and me and him 198 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: still got smoke like that's weird now, you know. And 199 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: then now I probably got smokeing hurt because she felt 200 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: like I took it too far, but he was just 201 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: you ainking her up like you know, I just well, yeah, 202 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: I mind my business and ship like that personal relationship, yeah, 203 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: stay out for you know what I'm saying, Like even 204 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: on opinion, like as my opinion, I know my opinion 205 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,839 Speaker 1: be so wrong and straight to the point, I just 206 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: keep it to myself. Do what you feel, you know 207 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And they took a long time for 208 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:42,599 Speaker 1: me to get to that person but you got that 209 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: motherfucker do what they feel? What have you seeing something 210 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: that you know ain't right? Like for somebody under age? 211 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: It did? What it is? What like? Ma kid, we'll 212 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: definitely for sure first off your kids and yeah, then 213 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something, what what what? What if? What if? 214 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,080 Speaker 1: It's what if you're walking out the gas station and 215 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: some other young kids from the like still a ribber 216 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: from an old elderly woman or something, he's go you 217 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: know that that that that that's when your morals and 218 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: ship kicking right, you're automatic become a protective person, community business. Yeah, 219 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: that's not being a nobody. Then that's really stopping a crime. 220 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: But some young cultures say anytime you're trying to stop 221 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: any type of crime and snitches, they want to call 222 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: it didn't with dinner with podessions. Yeah, but if I 223 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: see it, If I see a nigger over the cut 224 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 1: making a play, he's serving somebody. I don't even see that. 225 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm blinding it exactly. If I see a nigga stilling 226 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: out of Walmart, the wal By, that thank your wal By, 227 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: that ship, I see you doing anything, it's not directly 228 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: affecting a human being that ain't my beIN. Yeah whatever, 229 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 1: it's your partner business. What you mean, what have you 230 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 1: see somebody stealing out your partner business? I see my 231 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: stilling on my potner like he got a clover store. 232 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: You see some little young niggas you know, trying to 233 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: do the little one too. She gonna have a camera, 234 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: he got secured. Right, it's a business ain't to be watching, right, 235 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: I got you. I feel now that turned you to 236 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: a police. You do that, yeah, but you ain't gonna 237 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: telling a man I put that ship down. It depends 238 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: on which one of my potnership, how much you care about? 239 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:42,719 Speaker 1: And then my brother, one of my brothers be this 240 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: is my ship. Yeah. But if I'm just in a store, 241 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 1: one of my homie store fin about some shoes and 242 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: another niggas did the song that ain't my being right? 243 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: What um ship those J Simpson gloves bro. I'm gonna 244 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: stay out your business my business. But no, I just 245 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: I think, um, I think a lot of people they 246 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: want to be informed by ship that ain't got nothing 247 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: to do with them. So like, if I hate people, 248 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: ask me questions, why don't not nestarty? Because you know 249 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: why though? So you got so that the way of 250 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: the world to want to know people being, but getting 251 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: the people being and want to know people being in 252 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: two different things. You are right, getting the people business 253 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: is being involved in how the business navigates, but just 254 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: knowing it's just to everybody's inquisitive who don't want to 255 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: know ship? Right? Sometimes I don't want to know, though, 256 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: because if somebody asked me, I can honestly say I 257 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: don't know. It depends on what it is. Man, think 258 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: about criminal ship. Yeah, but I'll saying even past that. 259 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes when you know ship, it's like think about it. 260 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: If you know some ship and the information get out 261 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 1: and then the person want to blame. How did the 262 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: information get out? I couldn't find it. Ain't saying secrets 263 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: like you said, you know a secret. Niggas want to 264 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: know that what everybody else knows. Oh yeah, nikas wanted 265 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: to know what everybody else knows. You've got damn this 266 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: stock is going to be this nick Niggers want to 267 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: know these the new shoes that's coming. Niggas want to know. 268 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: No me put my input, like even if if shot 269 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: got a new boyfriend, I want to know that come 270 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: screen like worry that's cool. But I'm not going to 271 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: input my input on her new one, right right? Right? 272 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: I think this, Yeah, yeah, you're right, but here, yeah, 273 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: I want to know because it's my friends. So I 274 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: want to know what my friend got going on in 275 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: a light, I'm inquisitive. But but but but if I'm stopping 276 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: to be like, uh oh he got this kind of 277 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: car ain't get into business? Yeah, but what if the 278 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: person ain't it? What if you feel like what do 279 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: you what have you see something that gives you the 280 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: vibe of I shot new person? Ain't it? Or cod 281 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: that new person? Like you just get that feeling in 282 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: love with right? That's point about being but knowing her? 283 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: And she said something through Big Fast Friday, like I 284 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: don't want no negative do this? She yeah, she got 285 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: to see that in him because I saw that. She 286 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: should say. Yeah, sometimes girls and guys got different type 287 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: of binoculars. Hey man, but who who am I to 288 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: be the need to tell you about this dude? And 289 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: then and that's what you really like about him? Now? 290 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 1: I mean you're being there that is now you would 291 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: hate it hate Yeah, but I can have my opinion 292 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: to myself or to my wife or two screen. Yeah, yeah, 293 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: but me bringing it to you. You might not take 294 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: it that way, right, You don't bring into unless it's 295 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: like nine one one like I saw him. I saw 296 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: him dumping a body in the truck something crazy. She 297 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: should have been the reason behind about it for me. 298 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: He dons to He don't do some ship like playing 299 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: with kids that got on his laptops on his laptop here, Yeah, yeau. 300 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: I know you got a daughter that it's different, right, 301 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: But whatever that man do with it business his business? Yeah, yeah, 302 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: my business. Um, what's what's some of the ways you 303 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: can keep people out of your business? And what's some 304 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: of the ways people who just can't help but getting 305 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: in everybody's business can stay out of people business? Feel 306 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 1: like the main way to keep people out your being 307 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: and started talking to people about your being because people 308 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: are talking to people about their being and didn't get 309 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 1: mad when they discuss it with their friends. Yeah, I 310 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,719 Speaker 1: don't understand that. How you mad? You don't told you motherfucker? 311 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: Oh you're being Now they can use it against you 312 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 1: now you're mad. It's kind of like the ship you 313 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: see on the internet, like will be like, oh everybody 314 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 1: might be mother you put on that you put on 315 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 1: social media you're mad at everybody is on social media 316 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 1: and your ship. Now that's how they knew you put 317 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: it up. You told them. When you push it on 318 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: social media, you invite everybody have an opinion on what 319 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: the fun you got going on, whether it's whether it's 320 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: some ship you made up or you should have actually happened. 321 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: And now people have an opinion about you. And when 322 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 1: you told somebody something, you told them they spouse, their 323 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: friends they want to tell to They gave them the 324 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: option to tell the ship to beat in your bidd 325 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: You might want to say that out because once you 326 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: tell somebody's out regardless, do you feel like there's literally 327 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: no secrets. And once you tell somebody or something absolutely 328 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: not secrets. So like if somebody tell you something for show, 329 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: your spouse gonna find down about it. People know Peo, 330 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: people know the people independ details may change. The details 331 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: may change, but it may you may change the names, 332 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: change scenarios. But like you, if it's something to what 333 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: you want to get somebody else's opinion on something, that 334 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: something I was told to you, it's gonna get out 335 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 1: a version of the story. Gonna watch that it's manipulated too, 336 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: like it's people that don't tell certain business to certain 337 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: people because they know it's gonna get spread. A whole 338 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: lot that logging. I know I ain't telling nobody, but 339 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 1: you make up a whole story. We do that ship 340 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,719 Speaker 1: back in the day, like yeah, yeah, damn, I just 341 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 1: took a major loss. Everybody that ship. You one nigga, everybody, 342 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,479 Speaker 1: but you know you only told that lot to one 343 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: nigger and you search it. You want to spread to 344 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: see what type of kickback you get, what type of 345 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, how people treat you. Yeah, 346 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: if you'd be like man that throw my call, ain't 347 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 1: got no money, ain't you could be telling the motherfucking lie. 348 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 1: But you I want to see how you're gonna treat me. 349 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: Thinking that the nigga from from the South Korea, he 350 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: did southre he did that ship a few years ago. 351 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 1: He like a rumor came out like he died of 352 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: some ship and end up being fake. He and he 353 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 1: said he wanted to see how the circle will react 354 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 1: to it. That's how I go. I forgot KEIMN. John. Yeah, 355 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: it was a fake room about his death and he 356 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: said he can't. He put it out there to see 357 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: how people would treat them or how they would react 358 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: to it. But you gotta be careful with trusting your 359 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 1: bidding with people who you think you love too. You 360 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. They might not They might not 361 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: know how important your business dear to you. So now 362 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: you're telling your friends trying to get a a pinion 363 00:19:54,720 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 1: on my serious business. That ain't it, you know what 364 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So you know you gotta a friend or 365 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: home girl or homeboy that's a motor mouth, sir. Ship. 366 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: You can't tell them nless you want to get out. 367 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: I got a couple of homeboy that I know talk 368 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: like the radio. So when I want some ship out, 369 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 1: I tell them because I know where I want well, 370 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: I want this ship to spread, you know what I'm saying. 371 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: And if I want my phone, want no shoot out, 372 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell them, but one or two people. 373 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying that you may not never 374 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: hit the fans, sir, ship never hits the fans, you 375 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. When you keep keep that ship 376 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: tight as you wanted to be, you know what I'm saying. 377 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: But do you fought a person? Okay, if you're in 378 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: a situation to where you tell somebody your business and 379 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: it could be big or small, whatever it is, and 380 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: that ship get out. Is it that person fought for 381 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: telling your business or is it your fat for even 382 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: going to jo? But yeah, you just gotta take it. 383 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: So if you could find in somebody and things get out? 384 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 1: Is your father for fighting that word this because you 385 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: think about it, you think it's overrated? Is overrated. You 386 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: can't confide to nobody unless you know they feel how 387 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: you feel about you. That's why it's already. Yeah. And 388 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: also you gotta think, has this person ever told me 389 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: somebody else's business? That too? Because if you have, if 390 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,239 Speaker 1: you're always telling me about somebody else, you're probably doing 391 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: that other people too. You tell what you're getting into. Yeah, 392 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: you know what you're dealing with. I got one best friend. 393 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 1: Anybody tell me anything, I'm gonna call my dog now. Yeah, 394 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call it and be like why this person 395 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: gets and we're gonna talk about it. Sometimes if somebody 396 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: come to me for advice and I may not know, 397 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my dog and like, hey, my home, 398 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: my other home girl going through this and this, she's 399 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 1: gonna give me advice and I'm gonna go running back. 400 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 1: But again, that home girl don't know nobody in Atlanta, 401 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: So how does that work? Did you tell a little 402 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: that you told someone else and got their opinion. I 403 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to you know. I ain't gonna lie 404 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: but my best friend. So it's just like ship. You know, 405 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. Now everybody knows business, but for real, 406 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: that's like my best dog. So it's like she all 407 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,679 Speaker 1: away and Callie. She don't know nobody in Atlanta. So 408 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: if any of my Atlanta home girls calling me with 409 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: relationship ship, I may call Danyelle and we may gossip 410 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: and talk about it. I may run it back to you. 411 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: It's gonna be helpful, but it ain't gonna get around 412 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 1: the world. You get what I'm saying. But that's a 413 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: female trait. Though it ship female do so search shit. 414 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: You can't searching. I'm not gonna tell. Even though I 415 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: know she signed, she probably gonna still ain't gonna take 416 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: because I don't know you you pushed about I'm not 417 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take. I can't tell you to shoot 418 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: out strength. I can't tend it to you because you're female, 419 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: and I couldn't catch you on your emotional days and 420 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,440 Speaker 1: you could just say it back to me. If you 421 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:48,360 Speaker 1: said anybody to me, you said anybody, I look at it. Damn. Well, 422 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: now if you're talking about somebody else being, yeah, I'll 423 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: tell you everybody to be. I don't even funk about 424 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: that being because I don't get about it. Didn't nobody. 425 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: I don't care. Yeah, you only know it because they 426 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: told it to you exactly. I don't know because that does. Yeah, 427 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 1: but what's the fine line in the relationship or marriage 428 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: of maya damn business? That's why I was gonna ask 429 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: NEXTMEI y'all, yeah, you got a man, you're being in 430 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: the married piness. I felt like I felt like there 431 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 1: is a line because you're still an individual, you know 432 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But if you know it's something that 433 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 1: could potentially affect, oh, the household exactly everything you kind 434 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: of kind of everything affaces the house, going to know everything, 435 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 1: piece of Yeah, I was saying, what's the fine line 436 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: of what's the fine out of speak? For me? I 437 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: don't really have one? Okay, he did, but I don't. 438 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: And I think that's because we live like different lives 439 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 1: to a certain degree, you know. So like he just said, 440 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: certain stuff I'm just not gonna know in his life 441 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: and you might not want to know right exactly so, 442 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: but for my life is kids this this that you know? 443 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 1: So for my life pretty much no. So I think 444 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: it just depends on the person life. It's the same 445 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: thing in my situation. My wife always be saying I 446 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 1: don't know all the industry ship and she talking about 447 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: what her friends are SI the ship that I would 448 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: never know because I don't want to hear because you 449 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 1: don't want to know, you but that But that's the 450 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: fine line because I don't want to know. But what 451 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: if she wants to know? Then? Like like nor, I 452 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: guess my question is what if the other person wants 453 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: to know? Is there an open book, especially when you're married. 454 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: What is she? What is she? What does she said? 455 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: I want to everything? That's what makes me comfortable. Everything 456 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 1: everything need to go find that ain't gonna happen. What's everything? Everything? Everything? 457 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,239 Speaker 1: You know everything? Every day you want to ask, well, 458 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: it's pretty much she do know everything. Really, that's what. 459 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 1: But that's why we don't know. My personal feelings as 460 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: a man, did you tell your brothers you didn't tell 461 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: that to no females, different conversations for different rooms, because 462 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: exactly certain ship, it's just you shouldn't even feel comfortable 463 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: with telling your spouse. How is that just a man 464 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 1: that's feel about it should being should be women too, 465 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 1: because some ship is gonna show aside of me that 466 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: I never want you to see you get won't to 467 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: say even though you know, even though at times Nick's 468 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 1: gonna be vulnerable today, wife, you're gonna be soft, You're 469 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: gonna be whatever. But I don't want to show you 470 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: a weakness so much checked my weakness that to do 471 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: with my pother day, because I feel like because I was, 472 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: I had a fear of this, I don't want to 473 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: tell her fear what I'm saying. A lot a lot 474 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: of people, like a lot of men definitely feel like 475 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: that because they, especially in our generation, like they fear 476 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: that being used against them. Like if you have an 477 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: insecurity or something that you have been dealing with personally 478 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: and somebody that you're talking to wants to they want 479 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,959 Speaker 1: you to confide in them, they don't. Men won't confide 480 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: any woman because they feel like them. Well, if we 481 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: ever get into it and she wants, she'll use that 482 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 1: against you for sure. They both ways. Yeah, Nick, to 483 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: think about it as most women, we are just more 484 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: of an open book, so it's easier for us to 485 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: confide in like whoever we're dating, tell us the whole 486 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: life story, tell us are traumas and differently, then we 487 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: wanted to do something back up in the Nick faith 488 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: that he knows he uh, you don't stepped outside his 489 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: zone and his character to tell you and you throw 490 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: it back that ship might not might not never tell 491 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: you ship. That's true, but men do it though. They 492 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: literally are not saying every man but the average man 493 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: for show girls are confiding them with certain things. And 494 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: you would get that that's why this is so and 495 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: so and so and so like Na, yeah, we can't. 496 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 1: We can't act like it's something that's something that's gender specific. 497 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 1: But I just know, I mean, and you might feel different, 498 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 1: but I just as a guy who's done that ship before, 499 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: you can fide to some ship and then they bring 500 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 1: that ship back up, it's like that that's kind of 501 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: hurt because I was I exposed myself to you when 502 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 1: you know, typically we aren't supposed to be doing ship 503 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: like that when they bring it back up are they 504 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 1: bringing it back up in life? Question? What happened? We go? 505 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: Whatever happened that the women would pour out that hart 506 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: and I would use I would use the ship that 507 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: we told you all happened and do the shoot again. 508 00:27:54,920 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: What you mean? What you mean? What you mean your 509 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: deep dark secrets and stuff like that, you'll like him? 510 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: Thinks like, oh well, so why would you do that? Then? 511 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: Why don't you going to relationship? Why don't you going 512 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: to relationship, a new relationship, telling, telling your new nigga, 513 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 1: this nigga, the old nigga cheated on you for teen 514 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: years straight? Why would you do that? They don't even 515 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 1: make sense because I ain't never just cracked the code 516 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: for be like, oh but again, you're not You're not wrong. 517 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna get some sympathy, yes, yea, but that's game game. 518 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: You just can't be open. That's not open. That's why 519 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: we even talking about the past anyway. He gone, you know, 520 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: well you why we talking about That's what I was 521 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: gonna say. Yeah, why are you crying? Why you're crying 522 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: over this nigga? Why we did not people like me 523 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 1: and you? But you do get squares and niggas that 524 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: will be like what happened in your last work out. 525 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: You do got squares, not people like me and you. 526 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: But I feel what you're saying. But you do that, niggas, 527 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: I want to know everything that happen to you. Throw 528 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 1: that back up in your face. If you do the 529 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: same thing, that's what you that's what you attracts, or 530 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: you don't even got to be here. Tracks the old 531 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: type of niggas. H If I meet if I wasn't 532 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: married and I meet a new queen of day, I 533 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: don't want here. Next she went through sweethar going to 534 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 1: show you how to be loved by bank. I'm not 535 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: going to talk to you about nothing that happened in 536 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: your life past me, before me. That ain't really highlight work. 537 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: But why are you? Why are you? Why are you letting? 538 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: Why are you letting old trauma affect new relationships? This 539 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: is a new thing. Women do it. We discuss what 540 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: we've been through. Yeah, so as a woman, Yeah, because 541 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: that's how you're going in the hopes of the new man. 542 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna do that, a regular conversation on what 543 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: I've been through. Yeah, that's the type of person that, 544 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 1: well you know, I'm not a one. But I don't 545 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: think that's smart. I mean, now that you just broke 546 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: that ship down to that, you're right, don't sound like 547 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: what are we talking about this? How do we still 548 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: think about how do we resolve this ship? And Mama, 549 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: that's what you list? Know? What? What? What's that? What's 550 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 1: the resolution to that? Though? Like, but I give him this, 551 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: maybe maybe forma tuma, but what did you building a 552 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: relationship with that person? You want to tell them like 553 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: you're what makes you? What hurts you? The things? Yeah, 554 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: and all of that you want to Yeah, if you, 555 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: if you, if you, if you had a business, he 556 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: had a business partner and they were stealing money, right 557 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: then you get a new business partner, like bro fun 558 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: with you, but I catch you stealing this money like 559 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: that last dated but you don't have to telling but 560 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: if you running, but if you're running the business, you 561 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: got to tell your business partner not to steal. If 562 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: I don't get it, almost like a warranting moment. I'm 563 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: not going to talk about all the things that my 564 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: old woman did that I did not like because I'm 565 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: not even fin put in her mind that I could 566 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,719 Speaker 1: go for something like that. But then that's you. I'm 567 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: just saying that's way I think. No, I don't know 568 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: how about this way. I think I ain't trying to 569 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: even I ain't even trying to put that energy into this. Yeah, 570 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: I've never thought of it the way that you know, Well, 571 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: I want this energy in this this I'm a whole 572 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: new nigger. What what I went through made me a 573 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: whole another nigga. But that for you, that's true. So 574 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: why am I talking about that? Because I think what 575 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: happens when you first started to meet somebody or you 576 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 1: first started to date somebody, the question is, damn you cool? 577 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: Why are you not in a relationship? What happened? Okay, 578 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: what happened that normally didn't work out? You got some 579 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: women that will say to be like, we grew apart. 580 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: Wrong women, not no woman who trying to tell that 581 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: be didn't do all this and make this look like 582 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: a sucker and any mindy looking like that. What you 583 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: stay with alone? How your sucker? Both of y'all will sucker. 584 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: You're some bullshit to it too. Parts to this story 585 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: that we're a real go to thinking about it's too 586 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 1: side of the story. But you really probably crazy. When 587 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: the women go to saying, well, we just grow apart. 588 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: I still love him, we're coparing and whoo whoo, but 589 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: we just grow grew apart. Niggle's respect that because not 590 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: there's like a myth dew you get on saying the 591 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm thinking like they probably just grew upart. But I 592 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: know it's something, but I don't know it then. But 593 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: she she, this is how she's gonna ge get if 594 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 1: I fuck up. Give me your game and all relationship 595 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: part of relationships, especially earlier on around game. But what 596 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: if that ain't her situation because what you just said, 597 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, that sounds perfect when you break up with somebody, 598 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: especially got kids, you co s. But you're moving forward. 599 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 1: So why are you bringing this baggage to this new nigga? 600 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: Is it baggage? It is bad that I think I 601 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: think I think it's you could be over and talking 602 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:15,080 Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm a woman not gonna be like man, 603 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: y'all be yes, No, maybe you know what I'm saying. 604 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: You asked a woman a question. She gonna were gonna 605 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: go down, so you don't have the question. We don't 606 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: have to talk about this again. I'm gonna break everything 607 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: down because I feel like I feel like he may say, 608 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 1: I think like that carey energy, bro. And I'm just 609 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: not trying to bring that deal with that energy because 610 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: why do we have to deal with that ship that 611 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with us. We're inviting the third 612 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: party into some ship that could be going good. We're 613 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: good right here. So you're telling me that you used 614 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 1: to that used to get about this NIGG for ten 615 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: years and what am I gonna do with this information? 616 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: How does this help our relationship today? When I got big, 617 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: if I meet a new ship me and was to 618 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: get the voice there, I mean a new chick, because 619 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell that chick. I'm never gonna tell her 620 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: nothing bad. I'm just saying I wasn't the guy for her, 621 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: but that but that I didn't I wasn't ready. Now 622 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm ready, But again I think that that I'm not fish. 623 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: Don't play hurt. I'm glad you because that's never happened. Like, well, 624 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:31,839 Speaker 1: I think let's do something. Do that. Women women asked, women, 625 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 1: women ask that ship all the time. Why are you 626 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: saying that you don't want to and you don't tell 627 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: him that, you don't tell them all that, you don't 628 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: go into details. No, I ain't just went into details 629 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 1: about the damn the girl because we asked m well, 630 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 1: because we asked the details. If I'm still hurt about it, 631 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: I still want her. I don't think you leave it 632 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 1: to other counsel. Not. That's what I need ship, That's 633 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: what I need to That's what I'll be doing. If 634 00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm talking about her. I'm not talking about you know 635 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 1: what what she was in a physically abusive one and 636 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 1: she definitely don't want. That ain't my business. I don't 637 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,320 Speaker 1: even want you. I don't even want you, babe. You 638 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: got too much of co with that. I don't want that. Man, 639 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: give me a frisky bitch man you're doing that. Look, 640 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't I get what he's saying 641 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: because you don't want. You don't because eventually, why do you? 642 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: Because if you're flipping around a woman the same same ship, right, 643 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,320 Speaker 1: you don't want to es Is he wrong for not 644 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: want to deal with somebody else trauma? She did? She 645 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 1: going through some ship exactly, and that's just gonna affect him. Woman, 646 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: I want, I don't want. A woman might say this 647 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 1: nigga cool, but he's broke, right, and he's fucked up right. 648 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with that right now. Maybe 649 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: if he gets past all that ship, I'm not gonna 650 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: be trying to get you pass nothing right. I need 651 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 1: to meet a woman who's already focused on what she 652 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: got going on and what she's doing with her what 653 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: you went through this, nigga, because now they're gonna be 654 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 1: insecure in me. You count too much about this ship. 655 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 1: You got some women that never mentioned their baby dad 656 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 1: and never mentioned their X, never mentioned nobody this about us. 657 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 1: Because if it's the pass, that should be the past. 658 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 1: I agree. That's being in people business. I ain't trying 659 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,839 Speaker 1: to be in a business. Men, hug got bit in there, right, 660 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: you ain't trying to be I ain't trying to be 661 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 1: in that. I don't want I don't want to see 662 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: him lay in, lay in, listen to how much so 663 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,879 Speaker 1: you really did? Lord this nickel if you went through 664 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 1: all that with could you ever let's make an insecurity 665 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: because you never loved me, because you ever loved me 666 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 1: that But fast, bro, you're not over that. You know 667 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: what's crazy as women. So now I'm going to do 668 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 1: for the funk you you know what I'm saying, but 669 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,320 Speaker 1: never going to start thinking about my bit you. I 670 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 1: don't need the ship. You're telling me that I don't 671 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: d you. You're making me feel sorry for my bit 672 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 1: who I did Like that point, his point came around 673 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 1: cash and my triple point. You see him crying to 674 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 1: meet and I'm listening to you, like, really, I need 675 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: to go home and take Yeah. Yeah, it's a cycle. 676 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: That's what my life. No, don't talk. Don't talk to 677 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 1: your new nigga about your trauma therapy that. Don't talk 678 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 1: to you about that trauma. Man, you meet a nigga 679 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: in this age where we are not wrong. He already 680 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: had his first love. But I'm saying this ship before 681 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: he already had the woman and a little more than anybody. Okay, 682 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 1: then when this new ship, this ship feels good because 683 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: it's new, it's fresh. I ain't did you wrong wood Woo, 684 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: But I still you're telling me about how your first 685 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: love did you, How the person you you thought would 686 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,000 Speaker 1: never do you, how he did you. All you're doing 687 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: is reminded me how I did somebody that I really love. 688 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,439 Speaker 1: So why am I seeing him listening to this ship? 689 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,839 Speaker 1: They don't get fitted with this so called I'm crying? 690 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,799 Speaker 1: But what if it's like your first love and y'all come, 691 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,919 Speaker 1: y'all come back around. And now you're talking about the people. 692 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,919 Speaker 1: We ain't talking about that, we're talking about us. You're saying, 693 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: that's did dick and we'll come back around. Then we're 694 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: back to go. That ain't happen. That's another nigger woman. Now, 695 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,800 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, that's just how it goes. That's another 696 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: man woman. The time that we're wasting talking about your 697 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: old trauma is the time that we could be spending 698 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,759 Speaker 1: making new memories. Because the age we are no, we're 699 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: trying to build something exactly, So we're gonna take a 700 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: year or two to help you get over this. I 701 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: need to go only jump into the ship we're in 702 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: the build because I already done, got damn told down 703 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: the building over here, that's sold my Buildingest if I'm 704 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,839 Speaker 1: going into a new relationship about the old relationship our 705 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 1: building has clung run wrong? Why sing about we're gonna 706 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 1: be seeing and having a conversation about crumble building. Yes, 707 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,920 Speaker 1: we had a building. We were looking at ashes and 708 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 1: ship rubble and ship looking at old rubble. We could 709 00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: be build and like you said, a big part of 710 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 1: this moving on in life and anything, you're gonna have 711 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: to know when the passage just to pass. Like like 712 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 1: just dwelling in the past, you're right doing in the passage, 713 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: you're really moving backwards, so you might as well going 714 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 1: the highway and drive backwards. Women like women like women 715 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: be thinking that they can got Damn, I guess they're 716 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: gonna get a pitted part it from the new NA. 717 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 1: What is it that we just want to know what 718 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 1: you've been through to we're gonna ask you about your Yeah, 719 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 1: I think it's more so inquisitive. I ain't gonna peak 720 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: for all women, but that I think for the average 721 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,080 Speaker 1: we can agree, right, it's just more so for being 722 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,520 Speaker 1: you know, inquisitive. We just want to know what you've 723 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 1: been so I can go back to that equally, if 724 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 1: you if you are in a space like you said, Okay, 725 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 1: if you're in this space and you're on this upward 726 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,800 Speaker 1: trajectory and you're just saying, hey, I would like to 727 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 1: meet a partner that is with me. Cool. But then 728 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: you do have some people who have both dealt with 729 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 1: traumas and ship right, and maybe they can help each 730 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 1: other through the traumas. It depends on how much the 731 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 1: trauma is I guess what I'm trying to say. It 732 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,880 Speaker 1: depends on how much is waiting how much so if 733 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 1: I can see that this is still affecting and hurting, 734 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: you think, yeah, that's what I'm trying to just connect. 735 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You can be over whatever, but 736 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: just talking like the things that you didn't been through. 737 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: Have you've been to Africa? Just whatever? You just talking 738 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: about the things that you've been through. Me personal, I 739 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,720 Speaker 1: don't want to talk to nobout about no another nigga. 740 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: I just don't. I would think that no nigga does. 741 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: But there are niggas that would, I feel you because 742 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,760 Speaker 1: they be trying maybe doing some different trying to get 743 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 1: into a situation like you don't gotta let's that's chatty, like, 744 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 1: don't talk. I don't care. I don't care. There's nothing 745 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do with this information. I don't care to 746 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 1: turn off it needed to do. But that's a turn 747 00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 1: off to me. What are you doing? What do you 748 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,799 Speaker 1: do to you? Baby? I would never let it up. 749 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 1: I don't talk about me being to me right right, 750 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm right here right. I don't want to talk about 751 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: what I don't I don't want to know what does 752 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 1: it do for me? What does it do for us? Yeah? Yeah, 753 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 1: what's it doing? He treat me like a therapist and 754 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: ship like I'm not. I don't got no advice for you. 755 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 1: If you no, you need you need license therapists. I've 756 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 1: been through some things in my life and I just 757 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: want this to be right. I can respect that I 758 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,759 Speaker 1: don't want to hear the details of things. But then 759 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 1: the average person is gonna say, but what things have 760 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: you been through? The average person? But I'm saying me, 761 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, baby, this this is different. Yeah, 762 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear the details of thing because 763 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 1: now you're starting to let me see that you don't 764 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: have a spine. But how do you know it's different? 765 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: If she told you what she's been through? What you mean? 766 00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 1: If they haven't expressed to you what they've been through. 767 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 1: You say, but this is different. She sat and be 768 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: through some things, but this is different. You with me, now, 769 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 1: how do you know what's different? Hey? When I when I, 770 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,360 Speaker 1: when I displayed the behavior that you can't deal with, 771 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,280 Speaker 1: and that's when you say, this is the same behavior. 772 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 1: I have to walk away the difference. Fix it like 773 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 1: sometimes and this at the beginning, when I tell you 774 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: the things I've been through, you could have been like, well, 775 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 1: I'm that some time. What you mean she said, do 776 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 1: you feel like that? If the person show you there, 777 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,319 Speaker 1: that's who they is. Man, people are goddamn censory because 778 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 1: they care about you and try to be a different 779 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,360 Speaker 1: person because they love you. But who they are and 780 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 1: who they are, they all lie. The lie, their thief, 781 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,399 Speaker 1: they're thieving, They're cheating. They're cheating, That's what they are. 782 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:56,280 Speaker 1: Some people try not to be that to to complete 783 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,759 Speaker 1: the love that they will have for another person. People 784 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 1: do that, but that don't mean that that's not who 785 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: they are, and you know that's who they are. They 786 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 1: just putting it on. I am I running wrong. You 787 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,239 Speaker 1: know who a person is. You know, you know when 788 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:17,239 Speaker 1: you meet a niggas, what kind of nigga he like? 789 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: All these women be trying to say they'd be treated 790 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,680 Speaker 1: in this you lye, you've seen all the signs in 791 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,480 Speaker 1: the beginning with you see everything with every person in 792 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:29,320 Speaker 1: the female because you look over because you like certain 793 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 1: things about it and you want to saying I like 794 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:37,839 Speaker 1: certain things about it that this may change. I think 795 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 1: people people Dave. People have the possibility of what they 796 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 1: may become, especially women like we looked at him. We 797 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 1: know you fucked up, but I know you could be 798 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 1: some ships how that maybe you're gonna really love you. 799 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 1: He's gonna try to steer his car that way as 800 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: much as he can with no power staring flu He's 801 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 1: still gonna try to turn that. But right, he is 802 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 1: who he is, and you know he is. Yeah, vice 803 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 1: versus with a female, she is who she is. So 804 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 1: what open to see all day and tell you got 805 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 1: damn show attention to use to the Boots? But you 806 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,879 Speaker 1: like Boots? Yeah? How the fund company to keep saying 807 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 1: this all day? And I know that she urged my nerve. 808 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: This affecting me, It's affecting relationship to keep Windy harda 809 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: Boots and my motherfucker out. But you like Boots. He's 810 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 1: gonna learn to love that ship. But what get rid 811 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:44,320 Speaker 1: of Yeah? Yeah, giving big facts, man, this is a 812 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: good game. People can't evolved, though, they can't evolve, But 813 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: you have to let them do it on that That's 814 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:53,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You gotta let them do it in 815 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 1: their own terms, on their own time. You can't force 816 00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 1: nobody to change for the sake of them, though it ain't. 817 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: Of course, you can get it overrated to you don't 818 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 1: think you can. I can think. I think you can 819 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: only leave pushing somebody and you got your own flog. 820 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,720 Speaker 1: That's how I look at ship. But when I say push, 821 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: it's more like I can't keep telling me what all 822 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 1: I need to do, but you don't want to do ship. 823 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 1: No other accounts ain't here on that we both sucked up. Yeah, 824 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 1: you can say all day about whatever it is that 825 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: nigga under to you, but you might work too much 826 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:31,280 Speaker 1: to the nigger cat like cash working. That's an issue 827 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: to this nigga. But how that's an issue because I 828 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,320 Speaker 1: gotta go get my money? Okay, how's the issue? I 829 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 1: gotta stay out? That an issue in what why one 830 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 1: one one don't weigh the same like you're trying to 831 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 1: make this make because because they're your feelings. That's why 832 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 1: it's different big facts. Huh Right, that ain't the traditional way. 833 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:59,399 Speaker 1: I'm crying tradition. What's the traditional way? Then? I think 834 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: people try to just like scale their logic like whatever. 835 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: Every Yeah, a lot of ship they come with the 836 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 1: tradition to now that niggas planted on brain up like 837 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,239 Speaker 1: just different ship being sumissive. You know what I'm saying. 838 00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: You said, come on, we need to have a fool 839 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: cook Thanksgiving meal everything. That's what the traditional grandmama used 840 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 1: to do and did after that, you gotta bust it 841 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 1: off every night you want to say the tradition. Damn you. 842 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,280 Speaker 1: You don't matter how time you are, how many dishes 843 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 1: you did, how much food you cook, leftovers, whatever you 844 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: got going on me? You got traditional woman with women 845 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 1: with super woma. Yeah, the new women, get what you 846 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 1: got and what it is? What you got what and 847 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,080 Speaker 1: be traditional niggas. This our new tradition over here? How 848 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: many wrong? You get what you got with anybody? For real? 849 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,800 Speaker 1: It's a jest. Next, people gotta start looking at to 850 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: they self and see who they are to go ahead. 851 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like when you're in the relationship, you gotta 852 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: you gotta step back and look at yourself. Yeah, and 853 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 1: see everything that I'm asking for? Am I doing it? 854 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 1: And do I just not? Not? Do I deserve it? 855 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: Do I keeck out that same energy that I'm asking for. 856 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: You can't be stuck in your own mind thinking because 857 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,719 Speaker 1: you know who you are like you desicate me. I 858 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 1: feel like I'm motherfucker' king Gosamander, but we're walking on 859 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: rose in my mind ever, But I can't. I can't 860 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,919 Speaker 1: push that energy off on her expecting her to feel 861 00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 1: like that if I'm not treating her the same way 862 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: as I want to be I want to feel Yeah, right, 863 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: lead by example. You gotta lead by example. I don't 864 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,000 Speaker 1: ask nobody to do something I don't know. But back 865 00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,280 Speaker 1: to the other ship. All the women out there, stop 866 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: telling me of y'all bid the man. Yeah, I mean 867 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,799 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, and that's just your side. 868 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 1: And what if it's somebody that you really want to 869 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: spend your rest of your life with you like they 870 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 1: need to know every Don't you feel like you don't 871 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 1: even know everything about your wife rest of your life? Jessica? 872 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 1: Do you feel like because you really know how to 873 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: read like I can read certain ship after they read 874 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 1: certain ship. But I'm sure y'all had the conversations about what, 875 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 1: like things that she's been through, things she liked, things 876 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 1: she don't like, not not in no super deep detail 877 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: like kind of like what he was saying like that ship, 878 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,240 Speaker 1: then could you handle it? If you do, your partner 879 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,439 Speaker 1: was completely honest with you. That's not That's what women 880 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 1: try to do. They try to pre plan a relationship. 881 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 1: That's what it up because you trying to. When you're 882 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:05,759 Speaker 1: pre playing it, you building expectations from another human being. 883 00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 1: How the fun you're gonna do that? If I'm telling 884 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 1: you what I like, No, let me see if you 885 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: what I like. Let me see if you would I like. 886 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,040 Speaker 1: If if I was to get a new woman right now, 887 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell what I like. I'm going 888 00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: to see if she already what I like. Experience exactly. 889 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 1: Everybody down trying to put you about to put that 890 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: mask on. You tell somebody what you like, they're gonna 891 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: play the perfect act. It's gonna be the perfect role. 892 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 1: It put them in character you don't get in the script. 893 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,439 Speaker 1: That's all I gotta do, just reafing the script line 894 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 1: for line. The best way. The woman that I already 895 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: know what you like, dash the one she just naturally 896 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,080 Speaker 1: doing the ship. Yeah she ain't even tell you like 897 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,640 Speaker 1: I got them walking into clouds of smiling like, yeah 898 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 1: she know. But if I got to continue to tell 899 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 1: you this is what I like, or this is what 900 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 1: I like that means you don't know what I like. 901 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: So now when you're doing this fight, right all, you 902 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 1: broke that down, down down. So if I'm saying asking 903 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,640 Speaker 1: a woman like, if I'm saying, ask you, what is 904 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 1: it like? What is I'm asking? I'm telling you sharpen 905 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 1: my game. If you don't, if you don't already like you, 906 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: if I'm not already like you said we soul mate, 907 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm not already your soul mate, mate, because you're soul mate, 908 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,720 Speaker 1: you like my bullshit? Right? Yeah, it's something about that bullshit. 909 00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 1: You can't every right though, because the real you come 910 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,520 Speaker 1: out one day. So you might be hiding some ship 911 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,279 Speaker 1: and then the real you come out one day and 912 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,839 Speaker 1: it sucks it up anyway, you see what I'm saying, 913 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,440 Speaker 1: Because they don't tell you what to be, how to 914 00:50:55,560 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: be all that ship. That's why I see this is straight. 915 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be playing that role the whole time, and 916 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,240 Speaker 1: that he need doing some bullshit. Now you've been traded, 917 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 1: but she already know didn't nigga some bullshit? So she 918 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: find out you on that still lame man A lot 919 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 1: of ship that's overrated. But wait, y'all don't feel like 920 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 1: you can't you know how people will be like, I'm 921 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 1: in love with you. I love you unconditionally, y'all. Do 922 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,719 Speaker 1: y'all feel like you could love somebody without knowing all 923 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:34,239 Speaker 1: of what? You never will know everything. You don't want 924 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,360 Speaker 1: to know everything about anybody. I feel like the right you, 925 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,279 Speaker 1: you meet the right person to love you. But they 926 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 1: don't mean you're not even gonna remember what you went through. Right, 927 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 1: that ship goes away for real, bro, because that becomes 928 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 1: your therapy, that person, not what we're talking about, you 929 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: my therapy. You'll never know everything like you my therapy. 930 00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: Now like fun, when I went that ship was a 931 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:04,399 Speaker 1: bad dream. I'm walking out. God. Yeah, so now you're 932 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,440 Speaker 1: telling me about the badad dream. You really just showing 933 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 1: me how to play my whole to me? Right, I 934 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 1: don't know not a big fat women out there, listen, 935 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 1: Damn how a bunch of is gonna be mad at 936 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,399 Speaker 1: you in the comments like, damn bag what you're telling them? 937 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 1: It's the ship. We got kids, daughters and granddogs. Man, 938 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:32,600 Speaker 1: damned because but but that ship helped them too. Because 939 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 1: I can meet a woman that I really liked, and 940 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 1: she go to tim me that I don't like you 941 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:43,440 Speaker 1: no more? Yeahs too, my come with this now? Now? 942 00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 1: Now is putting me putting my mind on thinking about 943 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:52,920 Speaker 1: what you're thinking about? Is she thinking about this? Nigga? Right? 944 00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You went through all this, 945 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,160 Speaker 1: you say you've been when the nigga teen years going 946 00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:00,800 Speaker 1: through all this? I ain't taking you through that. You 947 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:07,120 Speaker 1: don't like that? What you like? That Team years tells 948 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 1: you about telling the true? Some people are used to 949 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 1: like dysfunctions. Some people are used to abuse. They don't 950 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: know how to live without it. I'm telling you, so 951 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,120 Speaker 1: you just got to recognize that ship and read it. 952 00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 1: It ain't necessarily about talking. That talking can be good, 953 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,239 Speaker 1: it could be therapeutic. But I'm telling you it's a 954 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,399 Speaker 1: certain ship you just read when you're around a person. 955 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 1: You just learn how to just read energies and read people, 956 00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,120 Speaker 1: and you can kind of look. You ever looked at 957 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 1: somebody and they just seemed trouble, like they've just been 958 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,320 Speaker 1: through some ship, and it's like, damn, this person just 959 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: gives a troubled energy, Like, but you could read seeing 960 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: a woman that just you know, like she cool with 961 00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:47,439 Speaker 1: whatever she's been through. Yeah, she yes, she had peace 962 00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,880 Speaker 1: with it, whatever it will, that what that will, right? 963 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. But now you meet a 964 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,879 Speaker 1: woman that like, I hate, well, I can't say I hate. 965 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 1: I dislike a woman a queen that's telling me how 966 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 1: much she hate a nick You get said because you 967 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,680 Speaker 1: tell me how much you hate it, I mean you 968 00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 1: really love them. To me, that's the thin line love 969 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,399 Speaker 1: and hate. That's the thin and ship of them. That's 970 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: the worst ship. Knew to have a motherfucker that love 971 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 1: you and hate you at the same time. You can't 972 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,960 Speaker 1: keep talking about something you don't care about, right, Sure, 973 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,439 Speaker 1: you can talk about something either way. That's still energy 974 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 1: that you're dedicating to that, to that nigga. It's energy 975 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,840 Speaker 1: that you could be spending loving me instead you spending 976 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,680 Speaker 1: that ship hating him. And you've been and I've seen 977 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:31,239 Speaker 1: women that hated nigga one day, me and too. Though. Yeah, 978 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,919 Speaker 1: I'm for my personal friends. They'll use you the about 979 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 1: the nigga that they hate, and then you see them 980 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 1: with that neigga later on the week like damn, oh 981 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,800 Speaker 1: I did like that? They like that? Y'all know it? 982 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 1: Keep thinking, keep thinking, don't go to you. Yeah she 983 00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,440 Speaker 1: wasn't she want you to take it for what. You 984 00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,040 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. She was just talking. Yeah was 985 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: the honey friend zone. He can be your friends. What 986 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying, what you're saying, I gotta be all that bro. 987 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,879 Speaker 1: They queens today, man queen, then we're gonna call queen. 988 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 1: They we're gonna slip up and calling bitches here another 989 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:16,319 Speaker 1: less queen word and king word queens. I know I'll 990 00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,160 Speaker 1: be talking a lot man saying a lot of ship, 991 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 1: but I'll be passionate about that game. Listen, you get 992 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,840 Speaker 1: some game today for sure, because it's even feminine members 993 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 1: like your sister, like my sister know they can't call 994 00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 1: them to about nigga. I don't want to hear. I 995 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:32,800 Speaker 1: don't want to hear nobody the time about now. I 996 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:36,000 Speaker 1: listen to my nigga's talking about their bitches. That different, 997 00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 1: but I don't want to hear no female talking about 998 00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:42,800 Speaker 1: no nigga that you're still funt with. Come me to 999 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:48,719 Speaker 1: me you he's yeah, but sometimes people don't want People 1000 00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 1: don't want to resolution to me. If you if you down, 1001 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:56,520 Speaker 1: if you're saying, if you telling, if my sister called 1002 00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,360 Speaker 1: me right now and be like, I hate this motherfucker 1003 00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:02,000 Speaker 1: who I hate them too. You hiss up by saying that, 1004 00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,920 Speaker 1: because you don't know how I'm gonna take that. If 1005 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,360 Speaker 1: she's telling me she ain't, didn't even that mean I 1006 00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 1: could rob him? Fact, But you don't really feel like that. 1007 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:16,160 Speaker 1: She's just been right, like I just told, she just 1008 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,759 Speaker 1: been just talking, Okay, But I'm saying that how much, 1009 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 1: how much time, and how many nigs have died behind talking? 1010 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,840 Speaker 1: But that? But that's what I'm about to say. A 1011 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,600 Speaker 1: lot of people don't want a resolution. They don't want 1012 00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 1: to uh their problem solved. They just want to get 1013 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: that off their chest. That's all they're trying to do. 1014 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,839 Speaker 1: I understand it. But you can't tell a person who 1015 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,319 Speaker 1: loved you how to take something that is a big fact. 1016 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. You can't tell next. You 1017 00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 1: can't tell like you just said. You can't if you 1018 00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 1: come in and tell a shot every day. Man, you 1019 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,799 Speaker 1: know it. I just feel like black just be wood 1020 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:52,839 Speaker 1: woo woo and shot. Goddamn shoot me. You can't tell 1021 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,839 Speaker 1: how to take that because she loved you, but you've 1022 00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,520 Speaker 1: just been You love me with all your heart, but 1023 00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 1: you've been to a person that's take any ship serious, right, 1024 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,760 Speaker 1: the other person don't react, so you really put yourself 1025 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 1: in the opposition. That's a damn dog game to days. 1026 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 1: Women a niggas look at it though, you know, you 1027 00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,520 Speaker 1: know when you didn't with a different type of nigga 1028 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: who don't think it's far and who's just be looking 1029 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 1: at women as women just be talking. But I know 1030 00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:28,320 Speaker 1: women that just be talking that nigga's fucked up and 1031 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,760 Speaker 1: niggas and jail did all that behind a woman just talking, 1032 00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:35,520 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. And she could just be vting, 1033 00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:42,800 Speaker 1: But that vent can turn into some real ship. Cash 1034 00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: can come in right now and be like, man, I 1035 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 1: ain't didn't she don't know what me and screen plot. 1036 00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah no, I'm just saying. But you can't say they 1037 00:57:53,800 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 1: say you mean because you know, well every it is 1038 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 1: exceptions to every rule, like I always say, But that 1039 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 1: ship don't happen to where somebody, somebody not you, but 1040 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 1: somebody will be all. That's what I'm saying. A monthy 1041 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,760 Speaker 1: you can never get into that ship because Monday, literally 1042 00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm seeing people. Damn they're ready to stablish, shoot each 1043 00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 1: other and then too to be back. How many relationships 1044 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 1: you think have been what's called dissolved. Dissolved me over right? 1045 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,880 Speaker 1: How many relationships do you think have been dissolved by 1046 00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 1: a person taking a person venting the wrong way? Get 1047 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like chant vent into shot and shot. 1048 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: You show me the energy that that you got for 1049 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 1: her being bitch? Fuck you father, because they're still my 1050 00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,919 Speaker 1: wife period. And I know what I'm saying. You probably 1051 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,960 Speaker 1: gonna lose your jaw. You get I'm wrong me, But 1052 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 1: all this because of Vent. Now, he was just a casualty. 1053 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: You're just a gargantee of some thin ship. She don't 1054 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 1: give a funcuse she still got me. I know she crazy. 1055 00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 1: I know I'm crazy, But now you're getting in Nigga's business, 1056 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 1: being in Nigga's being it like she know her friend no, 1057 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:18,720 Speaker 1: not to call me somebody y'all need Hey, this gonna 1058 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 1: call my phone? Are you gonna work around it? Be? 1059 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:24,919 Speaker 1: You know she just feel like this to day. Don't 1060 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: try to talk to me because I'm mad. Yeah, we 1061 00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: both mad, and my friends ain't gonna try to talk 1062 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,640 Speaker 1: to her. We're gonna figure this ship out when we 1063 00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 1: sing it out. Because business soon as you get in 1064 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,520 Speaker 1: the middle of now, you hey, don't want the whole 1065 00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,120 Speaker 1: in no more? Who you calling the hell that's my 1066 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,520 Speaker 1: wife you're talking about now I'm saying. I'm saying, I'm 1067 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,920 Speaker 1: telling her I want my phone, and you're like, no 1068 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 1: more because opinion could have been right, but you on 1069 00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:50,160 Speaker 1: her side or you're on my side, bitch, fuck you 1070 00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 1: though you're a divider. Yeah, not a divider. You're a divider. 1071 00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,840 Speaker 1: If you got an opinion on some ship, this, this function, yeah, 1072 01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,960 Speaker 1: that's already what it is, some bullshit. How you're gonna 1073 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:08,480 Speaker 1: have opinion on some bullshit that's already some bullshit. You're 1074 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,440 Speaker 1: gonna have a bullshit opinion that's gonna put you in 1075 01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: the middle of At that point, I think if something, 1076 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,000 Speaker 1: if your home is just calling you in the event 1077 01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,320 Speaker 1: in or whatever, you listen and like I know for me, 1078 01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:21,760 Speaker 1: all my home girls and they got that bullshit with 1079 01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:23,960 Speaker 1: their niggas, I'd just be like ground you know, I 1080 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 1: ain't gonna even disrespect him of you, Like that's just 1081 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:27,280 Speaker 1: what I say, because I just be like, I'm not 1082 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 1: gonna say nothing because I know you're gonna be right bad. 1083 01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,680 Speaker 1: I ain't I'm gonna listen. At that point, I just 1084 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 1: listened some people didn't, specially family members. You know what 1085 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying, You got feminine members that goddamn that's how 1086 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 1: it got Damn in laws. Donna vote with in laws. 1087 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,960 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because you may take it. 1088 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:46,600 Speaker 1: You're taking this ship for what it is. Yeah, you 1089 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:47,880 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You're taking this ship for what 1090 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 1: it is. But you over on the other hand, putting 1091 01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:53,560 Speaker 1: it out here like it's this, but it really this. 1092 01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 1: But then, folks taking this ship for what it is, 1093 01:00:56,360 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: is that right? You have to. That's what I'm saying. 1094 01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,680 Speaker 1: Like women have to be mine for that though. Yeah, 1095 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,760 Speaker 1: I think we just emotional creatures as women that you 1096 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: gotta be mind for that though, because at the end 1097 01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,360 Speaker 1: of the day, you can meet a nigga that really 1098 01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,400 Speaker 1: like you, and you're gonna tell the nigga that and 1099 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: he go to see, Okay, I like everything about you, 1100 01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:17,600 Speaker 1: But Debt, that's a character flaw for me. I'm not 1101 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 1: dealing with it. You get what I'm saying, because I 1102 01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 1: know how far that leads to. Now you you you 1103 01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:25,439 Speaker 1: finished build before I even meet dude, You're gonna build 1104 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 1: me up. I hate this nigga, shore baby Dad, We 1105 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 1: gotta deal with this nick for you, But you don't 1106 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,680 Speaker 1: build me up looking like they're getting kids and get 1107 01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 1: the nick. You get what I'm saying, you got me. 1108 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know this nigga, but from what the 1109 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:40,760 Speaker 1: way I feel about you and the ship he took 1110 01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:42,880 Speaker 1: you through, I don't like him, but I don't know 1111 01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 1: both sides. I don't know that you got Damn I've 1112 01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 1: been doing whatever you've been doing. The dude, I ain't 1113 01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,640 Speaker 1: heard it side. I just took the bitch side off 1114 01:01:50,680 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 1: the rip. Damn. Yeah, you gotta admit, big fans, I 1115 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,439 Speaker 1: didn't got mad at my baby daddy and like talk 1116 01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,080 Speaker 1: some cash ship about my baby daddy and and not 1117 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:10,000 Speaker 1: like you explaining it like that. I can see why 1118 01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,120 Speaker 1: a person would had that energy and then later you'd 1119 01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:13,840 Speaker 1: be like, oh, we cool, and then the other person 1120 01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,520 Speaker 1: looking at you like bet you just said all this 1121 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:20,439 Speaker 1: crazy ship, now y'all cool. He couldn't get chance last 1122 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:24,360 Speaker 1: week and I had to work da. I literally didn't 1123 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:29,840 Speaker 1: do the queen response. They're gonna make it seem like, well, 1124 01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: he should have known that. I ain't feel like that. 1125 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,720 Speaker 1: How I've done that before, laid in the bed if 1126 01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:38,200 Speaker 1: for fucking laying down. You're telling me this ship, I 1127 01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:42,680 Speaker 1: mean my monot, this nigger. Now, yeah, that's our walls 1128 01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:46,600 Speaker 1: and ship. Thought they'd just be miscommunication because now I'm 1129 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,560 Speaker 1: saying it like that like you said ben In, because 1130 01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 1: that's me. I'll be venting. I should be mad. I 1131 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,040 Speaker 1: gotta work, like, can you help me get a chance 1132 01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:53,600 Speaker 1: to today? And then he telled me, now I'll get 1133 01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 1: on the phone complaining bitch in the morning, the whole 1134 01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 1: whole bitch ass all types of but just because I'm mad, 1135 01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 1: right if me and I love you, what do you 1136 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 1: take me? Serious? Y? Yeah? And then the next day 1137 01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 1: when he called me a shy I'm gonna compete, chance 1138 01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 1: up blah blah blah blahm I okay, so yeah, a 1139 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 1: chance they just picked her up ba blah blah regular 1140 01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 1: And then as a person mad as fun now and 1141 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm looking like, why you got that energy? You already 1142 01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,200 Speaker 1: already poisoned the water. Yeah, I ain't even see it 1143 01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:24,760 Speaker 1: like that. Thank you, bank. Thanks. That's especially when be 1144 01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,720 Speaker 1: ready to ride for you, Like if you know that 1145 01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm a react off, whatever off, any type of disrespect, 1146 01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 1: you don't tell me, don't don't play with disrespect, like 1147 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 1: take ain't tell me then about I don't even her sister, 1148 01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:41,920 Speaker 1: her mama, her brother, because whoever, whoever she know, my 1149 01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,320 Speaker 1: energy is gonna change on them, interesting even my kids. 1150 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: She got enough because I feel like I was supposed 1151 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 1: to be. You know what I'm saying, turn the fire. 1152 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn it up. So if I see something 1153 01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:01,840 Speaker 1: that's you. What I'm saying got her upset, I'm automatic 1154 01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:04,000 Speaker 1: gonna be upset. I don't even know what's going on 1155 01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,000 Speaker 1: all the way. So that's when we were saying, early, 1156 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 1: tell me everything, because she can't. You can't tell me, sir, 1157 01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,959 Speaker 1: because the smallest ship, like I just said, that's small, 1158 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:18,000 Speaker 1: that ben ship. I'm taking that to the extreme because 1159 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 1: that's how I feel because I'm knowing how far that 1160 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:23,000 Speaker 1: can go if you come tell me. God damn well, 1161 01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 1: I had filed it all in my pocketbook, and they're 1162 01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:29,600 Speaker 1: gonna want nobody here but your son. Well you're there. 1163 01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,080 Speaker 1: But then she gonna find up on the bed. I 1164 01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: don't show then't my whole hand, So she gonna wait 1165 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:43,640 Speaker 1: till she find or that ship. You're gonna you get 1166 01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:47,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like real ship because you gotta know 1167 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:50,240 Speaker 1: what you're dealing with, bro, what you're dealing with and 1168 01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:52,960 Speaker 1: who are you dealing with? Like, certain people don't take 1169 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 1: love for play or protection for play. Some people don't 1170 01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 1: take that ship for play. And I only I'm only 1171 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 1: thinking from from my point of view. So and somebody. 1172 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:10,040 Speaker 1: So she go vetting to somebody about me. I hope 1173 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,560 Speaker 1: they hope they don't feel how I feel when she 1174 01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,080 Speaker 1: fit to me about them. You get what I'm saying. 1175 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm facts, big facts. 1176 01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 1: You never get theirselfs cut off because now you can't 1177 01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,720 Speaker 1: even be her friend no more. Y'all got sneak and 1178 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 1: be friends. You gotta sneak because you showing me that 1179 01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 1: you gotta. If she had a pin, if you told 1180 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,840 Speaker 1: because the women to do this. She will tell this 1181 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,400 Speaker 1: girl all this bullshit about without undid for thirty years 1182 01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,480 Speaker 1: to her and then tell me, can you believe this 1183 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,720 Speaker 1: this time to tell me to leave you day? Do 1184 01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 1: she hate mass bitch? She ain't even got hate her 1185 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:04,880 Speaker 1: from don't true? Yeah? She got me fucked up. She 1186 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:10,880 Speaker 1: divide all. She's telling me she's seen you company, really 1187 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:15,520 Speaker 1: loves company. Why certain ship you just can't hear. You 1188 01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:19,280 Speaker 1: can't hear women talk. Yeah, the phone ring, I don't. 1189 01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:26,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to. I'm gonna watch this. Yeah, I 1190 01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:28,680 Speaker 1: don't want to heal like certainly something. You can just 1191 01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 1: sit by that girl and listening talk. I know that 1192 01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 1: you don't like going on on the room. Yeah, And 1193 01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,680 Speaker 1: you can't take our friendship serious because we would be 1194 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:41,680 Speaker 1: mad at me. She said, you can't take girls friendship 1195 01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:44,760 Speaker 1: like like I said, you can't take most girls friendship 1196 01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:47,040 Speaker 1: serious because certain girls that get into it over like 1197 01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:51,160 Speaker 1: the smallest thing. But be back. And I'm not saying 1198 01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,480 Speaker 1: even because if I say I ain't suing with somebody, no, 1199 01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,720 Speaker 1: that'sh it. But woman, what I'm saying a woman, a 1200 01:06:57,760 --> 01:06:59,840 Speaker 1: woman saying Sometimes it would be like, oh that was 1201 01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 1: just yesterday, some bullshit, some bullshit, or it could be 1202 01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:04,760 Speaker 1: like you could talk. It is sound like we talk 1203 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:07,960 Speaker 1: to ship about our home. Girl. I'm already not your 1204 01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 1: free and friends cool, nobody cordial, right, your friends, it's cool, 1205 01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,720 Speaker 1: everything cool, because I know how you just say fun 1206 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 1: the folks and then I'm still got ain't gonna be right. Yeah, 1207 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:24,880 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna put myself in a position where you 1208 01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:26,720 Speaker 1: feel like you still DM me what's wrong? I want 1209 01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:35,400 Speaker 1: you to say, Nah, yeah, ship that all that ship 1210 01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 1: come back through most of the time, and there are 1211 01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,800 Speaker 1: exceptions to every room. You should be minding your business. 1212 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:45,960 Speaker 1: Why do why do you men want to heal with 1213 01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:50,040 Speaker 1: women talk about unless they're talking to me. I don't 1214 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 1: want to hear what you're talking about to know another woman. 1215 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:56,160 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I think that's it. I don't 1216 01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:58,640 Speaker 1: want to hear that ship because because at the end 1217 01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:01,640 Speaker 1: of the day, you're going to display a different character 1218 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,520 Speaker 1: amongst your friends, because I may not want to even 1219 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:11,800 Speaker 1: be exposed to m hm. Why why put yourself in 1220 01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:14,560 Speaker 1: a position to see something or do something that's gonna 1221 01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:17,960 Speaker 1: turn you off for the person you love, Because I 1222 01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:20,240 Speaker 1: definitely wouldn't want mine needed to be around me and 1223 01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,120 Speaker 1: all my friends talking because if they tell them about 1224 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:23,920 Speaker 1: all the hot girl ship, he's gonna probably think I'm 1225 01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:29,479 Speaker 1: a hot girl too. Yeah, manya business on that, get 1226 01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 1: your man cave down, go out of it with all 1227 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:37,719 Speaker 1: that ship staring. I don't stop out of that then, Yeah, 1228 01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:47,840 Speaker 1: maya business to put your ass an event. Maya what's 1229 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:51,280 Speaker 1: the world? What the world was? Inquisitive? Don't be so inquisitive. 1230 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:56,240 Speaker 1: You got no business one of them. I don't be 1231 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,160 Speaker 1: one of though. That's just me. See, I just think 1232 01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:02,000 Speaker 1: of ship to fuck. So the search ship, I don't 1233 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 1: want to know because I'm gonna make it something that 1234 01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:09,360 Speaker 1: probably ain't even break it all the way down when 1235 01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,519 Speaker 1: the other person that might just be some simple ship. 1236 01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go down to the wrong ship. Yeah. 1237 01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:18,400 Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking at every every party involved, at some 1238 01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:20,639 Speaker 1: bullsh I'm already saying what's gonna happen next, and what's 1239 01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:24,280 Speaker 1: gonna happen, So I don't even need to see no bullshit. 1240 01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't even need to see. Let me deal with 1241 01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,479 Speaker 1: the flaws that we already know we have as people. 1242 01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:34,479 Speaker 1: I don't need to dig for them, big c Yeah 1243 01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:41,240 Speaker 1: huh yeah. Some people capitalize off her, but that's a 1244 01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:45,240 Speaker 1: weak nigga. How you capitalize but you But you're giving 1245 01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:47,720 Speaker 1: the nigga all the tools to capitalize off you though, 1246 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,479 Speaker 1: how how? How how you just melt a nigga this month? 1247 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:59,760 Speaker 1: But you know all you're biding it and third, that's 1248 01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,800 Speaker 1: all you at that point. At that point, yeah, I'm 1249 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,240 Speaker 1: saying when when when y'all started then and telling them 1250 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:10,360 Speaker 1: what you went through them. I mean temp like when 1251 01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 1: a long let's put the time on. If if I'm 1252 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,040 Speaker 1: getting a relationship with you and I want to be 1253 01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:16,200 Speaker 1: with you, you want to be with me and you 1254 01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:17,680 Speaker 1: want me to know what you went through and you 1255 01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:19,160 Speaker 1: don't want to go through it again, how long does 1256 01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 1: it take for you to get that out to me? 1257 01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:26,080 Speaker 1: It's time a long ship. I don't know the first 1258 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 1: six months, two weeks? Now we want to lie how 1259 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:34,880 Speaker 1: long long? Probably within the first couple of weeks. That's 1260 01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:43,960 Speaker 1: what I said. They're gonna know everything about about you. No, 1261 01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying if starting to drumma, you don't have to. 1262 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,280 Speaker 1: I know we're about to be together. Like I'm not 1263 01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:53,640 Speaker 1: telling certain ship. It's like open book. It's like my 1264 01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 1: business that I tell y'all. It's not it's like minnut ship. 1265 01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:59,599 Speaker 1: I'm not like what I'm saying. What we're saying from 1266 01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:02,800 Speaker 1: the be getting another relationship beginning of the conversation when 1267 01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,120 Speaker 1: y'all said, when you're just talking to you meet a 1268 01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,920 Speaker 1: guy and you're just venting him about your old relationship, 1269 01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:12,160 Speaker 1: I long that that that that conversation. Yeah, okay, that's 1270 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,000 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. Yeah, A couple of weeks. You 1271 01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,639 Speaker 1: know my whole life, and that's your life. You're gonna 1272 01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,560 Speaker 1: know your whole How long it's gonna take him to 1273 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 1: know everything that happened in that bad relationship. Let's say 1274 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:27,120 Speaker 1: that that first little jump a couple of weeks months then, 1275 01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,200 Speaker 1: so in two weeks, I'm gonna everything you went through 1276 01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:32,599 Speaker 1: a whole another relationship two weeks talk about that. Yeah, 1277 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:36,840 Speaker 1: not necessarily necessarily because that help a day. Yeah, you 1278 01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,200 Speaker 1: don't talking about for days? You know what I'm saying. 1279 01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:42,040 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody saying we gotta wake up and talk about 1280 01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,040 Speaker 1: the nigger and go to sleep, talk about the neighborhood. Yeah, 1281 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,400 Speaker 1: that short story? Okay? And then when you tell me 1282 01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:48,720 Speaker 1: that short story and I started being a certain way 1283 01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:52,000 Speaker 1: because of whatever. Now I'm a nigga too, right because 1284 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 1: your story? What you what you said? What you say 1285 01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you didn't change, you didn't change since 1286 01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,040 Speaker 1: I told you this story. Yes, because that turns me 1287 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,640 Speaker 1: off that you allowed yourself to even go through that 1288 01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:09,960 Speaker 1: for those many years that you just told me what No, 1289 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:20,679 Speaker 1: I'm no man, know you know what what I'm saying. 1290 01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:29,680 Speaker 1: So actual question how that made me weak? Okay? If 1291 01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:33,560 Speaker 1: you told me what you went through with another relationship, 1292 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:36,280 Speaker 1: right and the things that you told what you went through, 1293 01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:38,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I can't deal with a woman that 1294 01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:41,800 Speaker 1: went through that. Am I fuck nigga now? Because I 1295 01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:48,599 Speaker 1: say I don't want to deal with it again than 1296 01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:51,840 Speaker 1: if you pretend like you want to hold up if 1297 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:54,960 Speaker 1: I try to do it with it over the course 1298 01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:57,640 Speaker 1: of six months, no knowing that I don't. You don't know, 1299 01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't know what you can't you can't. Yes, 1300 01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,360 Speaker 1: but I'm saying, hold on all of this I went 1301 01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 1: through right, you fe and you heard what I said. 1302 01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:10,479 Speaker 1: We had over lunch and we didn't have a long 1303 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:15,639 Speaker 1: third of days and you do some function or whatever 1304 01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:18,680 Speaker 1: the case may be. You understand I'm walking away. I'm 1305 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,400 Speaker 1: not dealing with this somebody. I'm just saying what you said, 1306 01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:28,599 Speaker 1: you exactly what my question? What's your question again? Because 1307 01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,559 Speaker 1: if you just let you know what not to try, 1308 01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 1: if you you know what, I want you to let 1309 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:39,400 Speaker 1: me know how to try. And I got all the 1310 01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 1: all the excitement at you and all the butterfly don't 1311 01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:43,880 Speaker 1: over money. Now, I know she didn't want to try 1312 01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,599 Speaker 1: to somebody leave her along I'm a nigga or real nigga. 1313 01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:52,800 Speaker 1: But you already knew that nigga because you because you 1314 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,080 Speaker 1: already knew because we don't what about me? That's what 1315 01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:59,719 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Okay, over the course of time, you're telling 1316 01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:03,559 Speaker 1: me what you went through. Right, we're already fun. Okay, 1317 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:07,240 Speaker 1: we already every time? Uh huh. And then I started 1318 01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 1: to see, like I really want somebody, that's all I 1319 01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,320 Speaker 1: want her. So I'm not gonna take her through that 1320 01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:15,760 Speaker 1: and my fund, you're gonna really gonna leave you? Yes, 1321 01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. You know you're not. They're gonna 1322 01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 1: make you a fun but how you still make your 1323 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:28,800 Speaker 1: sound what you mean? What? No? No, no no. But 1324 01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 1: he's saying he ain't getting Mary. They say, y'all fucking 1325 01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:37,200 Speaker 1: were and all the course I'm expressing to you all 1326 01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:39,960 Speaker 1: the things that I've been through, but we're both engaged. 1327 01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:44,760 Speaker 1: That's the purpose. Once he find out that somebother some way, 1328 01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 1: Once I she doesn't been through too much and I 1329 01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:49,920 Speaker 1: ain't gonna take it through much. She got too much? 1330 01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:55,720 Speaker 1: Bad get you that women's eyes that's not ain't not 1331 01:14:55,920 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 1: you not you're not hurt, right, but women eyes if 1332 01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:04,680 Speaker 1: it don't. If you don't, don't please say this. And 1333 01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:07,559 Speaker 1: womenies over a month or two months, we maybe don't 1334 01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:09,600 Speaker 1: to the common model, maybe sucking wrong. By now, I 1335 01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:13,519 Speaker 1: don't know, she's gonna feel like she's in love, so 1336 01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna be a fun ni. I don't pressed all this. 1337 01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:18,920 Speaker 1: I've been through all of this. How do you don't 1338 01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:21,400 Speaker 1: want me? You don't have a reason, you don't nothing, No, babe, 1339 01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:23,519 Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm not the one. How that 1340 01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:27,479 Speaker 1: ain't a women because you're not dragging because you would 1341 01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 1: be a nine nine times. No, if you're not dragging it, 1342 01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:40,679 Speaker 1: I'm not doing nothing. You're not. But but but okay, 1343 01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:43,519 Speaker 1: that's what I But do you feel like even if 1344 01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:48,640 Speaker 1: the last six hurt, I'm becush? How that's dragging it? 1345 01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:53,280 Speaker 1: That's not dragging. I was trying, he was trying. I'm trying. 1346 01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 1: That's not hurt that we broke up and sad and 1347 01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:00,439 Speaker 1: cry to my friends. But just out you made to 1348 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,120 Speaker 1: respect it when you've been into your friends? What am I? 1349 01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:14,760 Speaker 1: Thank you? Man? Nine times? I don't like am I? 1350 01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:17,920 Speaker 1: If it don't end up, you don't end up the 1351 01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,400 Speaker 1: way the woman wanted it. Ud look if it don't 1352 01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:28,000 Speaker 1: the woman wanted. It don't matter what you saying to 1353 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,840 Speaker 1: your friends. That's what I am. Whatever you're saying is 1354 01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 1: what I am to your to you what you ain't know? No, 1355 01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,719 Speaker 1: God damn which one is it? Just fro my counter 1356 01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:43,920 Speaker 1: saying what the funk going on? Many ship just to 1357 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:52,760 Speaker 1: fake bitches, just says retarded. But the queens pitches you're retarded, bro, Like, 1358 01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:55,880 Speaker 1: how the funk I go through all this ship with you? 1359 01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 1: We've been fucking six months and I'm been were I 1360 01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,040 Speaker 1: don't want to take you do this. I don't want to. 1361 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:05,840 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I feel like I want to. 1362 01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 1: I want to date other women. I don't want to 1363 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:10,640 Speaker 1: take you. This's not gonna work. I ain't going back 1364 01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:12,360 Speaker 1: and forth. I ain't give me no excuses. This ain't 1365 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:19,240 Speaker 1: this ain't it for real? Real? But are going to 1366 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:22,600 Speaker 1: call shant be like, let me tell you did? But 1367 01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:25,840 Speaker 1: what I don't sell? But we're real, we don't know 1368 01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:30,840 Speaker 1: the same. What what they say saying say is what 1369 01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,920 Speaker 1: I am. That's what you're passing on your friend because 1370 01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:39,360 Speaker 1: you don't That may be my soul mate still saying, 1371 01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:41,960 Speaker 1: you know what, girl here real nickna women they're not 1372 01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:44,200 Speaker 1: gonna let you anywhere. You say this, nigga, just real 1373 01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:45,880 Speaker 1: need you want to other women? That's what you like. 1374 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:47,920 Speaker 1: Ain't the baby you probably need to be with? Hell No, 1375 01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 1: because she may like that Initially. Girls ain't gonna do that. 1376 01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,800 Speaker 1: I still like you. You you you just you just 1377 01:17:55,920 --> 01:17:57,720 Speaker 1: kind of heard her feelings a little bit and she 1378 01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,880 Speaker 1: understand why that's why you're not a nigger, you know. 1379 01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 1: But then no, I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go. 1380 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:06,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go. Whatever it is, 1381 01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 1: we can work on it. If I say I just 1382 01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:09,679 Speaker 1: like have a six with other women, that's true. They're 1383 01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,160 Speaker 1: gonna whatever it is. We got work on what you're saying. 1384 01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:14,760 Speaker 1: We were working on it and I'm starting to do it. Yeah, 1385 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:20,240 Speaker 1: I actually yeah, I'm gonna because you want to that 1386 01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:29,600 Speaker 1: many hubs you want sign you can't figure out like that, 1387 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 1: you can't figure out now. I'm just I'm just trying 1388 01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:35,360 Speaker 1: to like just you know, somebody holed this to the like, damn, 1389 01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:38,400 Speaker 1: I'll be doing that. That's me. You know what I'm saying. 1390 01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:41,040 Speaker 1: Which one is just like you, I ain't gonna to 1391 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:43,040 Speaker 1: please you by trying to be who you want me 1392 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 1: to be. That's true. I'm gonna please me, but please 1393 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:50,360 Speaker 1: you by being me don't work. Fuck you, Yeah, because 1394 01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:51,600 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, no matter what I do, 1395 01:18:51,680 --> 01:18:53,839 Speaker 1: if I come be real like you know what Chante 1396 01:18:55,280 --> 01:19:00,200 Speaker 1: were looking like, what, Well, you're right, but I'm just 1397 01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:02,360 Speaker 1: gonna go and get my stuff. We can work on that. 1398 01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:05,439 Speaker 1: You're not saying we can work on what I really 1399 01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:07,680 Speaker 1: told you out of my heart, what it was that 1400 01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:10,439 Speaker 1: I want I want bitches, you're saying we can work 1401 01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:13,160 Speaker 1: on it. You mean you're basically saying you're gonna get 1402 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:16,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna get over that. That's what you're thinking. But 1403 01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:19,280 Speaker 1: Nigga coming to being all the way real with you 1404 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:22,920 Speaker 1: out of his heart one thousand, which women say they want. 1405 01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:25,360 Speaker 1: But you're saying we can work on that. But you're 1406 01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:27,280 Speaker 1: not really saying we can work on that. You're saying 1407 01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:29,680 Speaker 1: neither you're gonna get passed that. I think when they 1408 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:31,360 Speaker 1: say we could work on that, she in her head 1409 01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:33,600 Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna work on something that you want no 1410 01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:38,320 Speaker 1: other thank you, But that's not I came in tme. Yeah, 1411 01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:41,080 Speaker 1: that's not guaranteed. So when it don't work out, that 1412 01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:43,479 Speaker 1: work again. When it don't work out the way the 1413 01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:48,120 Speaker 1: woman wanted to work out, you are yes man, because 1414 01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:51,360 Speaker 1: you didn't all the way comply to her needs. If 1415 01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:54,120 Speaker 1: I don't apply to your needs, I'm a fucking or 1416 01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:58,400 Speaker 1: because my needs, my wants, my morris, I'm a funk 1417 01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: nigger like women always just be real, be one hundred. 1418 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:05,719 Speaker 1: I'm coming out to be all the way one hundred. 1419 01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:11,360 Speaker 1: Well you know what leg cross looking like this, nigga 1420 01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:17,160 Speaker 1: gonna lost this motherfucking mind. So was it what you do? Cash? 1421 01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:22,960 Speaker 1: Did you put you in a position that you gotta 1422 01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:25,519 Speaker 1: Did you put you in a position that you gotta 1423 01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:29,479 Speaker 1: be a funny that? What I'm telling you is if 1424 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,960 Speaker 1: I come tell you, baby, they just ain't working out 1425 01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:34,280 Speaker 1: between us, you'd be like, why because I want to 1426 01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:37,559 Speaker 1: be out more. I want to date other women. But baby, 1427 01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 1: don't we we're gonna figure this out. Nigga heard, Okay, 1428 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:46,679 Speaker 1: But what you meant when you say we're gonna figure 1429 01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:50,000 Speaker 1: this out? I don't want you to leave. I don't 1430 01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:52,960 Speaker 1: want you to leave. But no, yeah that's what you're thinking. 1431 01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:55,240 Speaker 1: You're saying, Yeah, well you're telling me we're gonna figure out, 1432 01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:57,679 Speaker 1: because I just told you what I want. We're gonna 1433 01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:00,920 Speaker 1: figure it out together, and we can't because I already 1434 01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,920 Speaker 1: told you what I wanted. There's nothing to figure out 1435 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 1: when what you want to go back and forth? No, 1436 01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:08,240 Speaker 1: I want us to you want to make a deal. Look, 1437 01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:10,880 Speaker 1: I want us to be there. It's a different it's 1438 01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:12,880 Speaker 1: a different creature because if you flip that around and 1439 01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:18,479 Speaker 1: a woman come and tell the man that was gonna 1440 01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:25,479 Speaker 1: figure it out exactly. Yeah, yeah, get depends on the guy. 1441 01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:28,240 Speaker 1: You never know what a nigga gonna say. Ain't no 1442 01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:30,800 Speaker 1: niggas gonna say. She could go out there and she's 1443 01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:35,120 Speaker 1: a nice young nigga. I feel like a nigga like 1444 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:38,439 Speaker 1: me would say, I'm giving you your wings fly Bertie, 1445 01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:43,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you fly away. But that should be respected. 1446 01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:45,920 Speaker 1: A woman would still keep you in it knowing that 1447 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,200 Speaker 1: they can't deal with the person you are. That's true. 1448 01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 1: That That's what I'm saying, nigga, don't ahead to take 1449 01:21:52,439 --> 01:21:54,840 Speaker 1: that hurt, Like, go ahead, I want to go to 1450 01:21:54,920 --> 01:21:58,160 Speaker 1: thinking about Okay, he gonna be he gonna actually find 1451 01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:01,800 Speaker 1: a woman who could be that for him. Yeah, I 1452 01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:04,000 Speaker 1: want to be there, but I can't. I'm not that 1453 01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,360 Speaker 1: And so now I'm got them getting hinder this nigga. 1454 01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:11,160 Speaker 1: Now say here fun nigga when he do the things 1455 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:17,400 Speaker 1: that he said he was, come on out you hinder. Yeah, 1456 01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying it's still her. Yeah you can go. You 1457 01:22:22,160 --> 01:22:24,640 Speaker 1: Charles to just say. You could have laughed, but I 1458 01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:26,840 Speaker 1: chose to tape because you said we're working on that. 1459 01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:32,519 Speaker 1: Sh Right, you gotta plan. You have a plan when 1460 01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:36,800 Speaker 1: you say, okay, well yeah, get your ship. But we 1461 01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:39,160 Speaker 1: can say you've been hinder. It's like you don't want 1462 01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:42,840 Speaker 1: to be there. You've been You're being hindered because you're 1463 01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:46,160 Speaker 1: giving me mixed messages. Sweetheart. You're saying we're working on it. 1464 01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:48,439 Speaker 1: But then when I get you make a relationship, you're 1465 01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:53,680 Speaker 1: supposed to hinder because now I'm going through stress. Oh 1466 01:22:53,760 --> 01:22:58,479 Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god. I gotta sneak around on 1467 01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:02,439 Speaker 1: this ship working on If we're working on that, if 1468 01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:04,240 Speaker 1: you are ready and told what it is and we're 1469 01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:09,000 Speaker 1: working on it, it should be out here. That's talking about. 1470 01:23:09,120 --> 01:23:13,360 Speaker 1: You're not being UNSOO can't talking about but I'm saying 1471 01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:17,640 Speaker 1: but but but you know that's not me. You know 1472 01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm speaking to the third person. What I'm saying is 1473 01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:23,920 Speaker 1: if I if I, if I was a man, that 1474 01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:27,360 Speaker 1: felt like if I told Shane said I want other bitches, 1475 01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:29,880 Speaker 1: I'm still gonna try to keep it out of face, 1476 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:32,400 Speaker 1: and then we're sucking a bitch together. You get what 1477 01:23:32,439 --> 01:23:35,719 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's not sneaking around and just respect because 1478 01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:38,719 Speaker 1: you are my wife. But I told you what I'm about, 1479 01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:41,400 Speaker 1: you get Donna saying. So if I get caught up 1480 01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,360 Speaker 1: you in my phone, I feel like, why is you 1481 01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,040 Speaker 1: in my phone when I already told you what I'm about? 1482 01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:49,000 Speaker 1: But it shouldn't be a caught up if we already know, 1483 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:52,880 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a caught up if we already agreed. 1484 01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:55,240 Speaker 1: It's not an agreement. Like I said, when you agreed, 1485 01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:57,479 Speaker 1: you agreed to something else in your mind. No, I 1486 01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:59,479 Speaker 1: agreed that we're gonna work on it, meaning that we're 1487 01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:01,640 Speaker 1: gonna come to gather as well as two people and 1488 01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:05,000 Speaker 1: decide what the stipulations, what's the no because it's never 1489 01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:08,160 Speaker 1: being a talk after that, it's just listen, listen. Shot. 1490 01:24:08,439 --> 01:24:12,439 Speaker 1: The talk be for you to stay. The talk don't 1491 01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,800 Speaker 1: be for you to have no bitches, but for you 1492 01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:16,920 Speaker 1: to have another house or for you to have whatever 1493 01:24:16,960 --> 01:24:18,920 Speaker 1: it is that you want to that, don't be that. 1494 01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:20,320 Speaker 1: That talk is for you to stay, for you to 1495 01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:22,200 Speaker 1: get over it, king get over that. But are you 1496 01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:24,360 Speaker 1: going through something? Yeah? Why you want what I'm doing? 1497 01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:27,680 Speaker 1: What I'm not doing? That's in your mind? That be 1498 01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:32,560 Speaker 1: and we're gonna take bitches out smoke weed? Yeah, you 1499 01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:34,280 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. If I'll be like, well, Bay, 1500 01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:36,400 Speaker 1: I just got smoke weed, and how man funk that? 1501 01:24:36,640 --> 01:24:39,600 Speaker 1: Only damn about the neighbors complaining or whatever, you'd be like, 1502 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,000 Speaker 1: we can work on that. But every time I smoke 1503 01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:47,160 Speaker 1: it gets on your nerves. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, 1504 01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:52,479 Speaker 1: So how does that work? They don't. We're not working 1505 01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:55,320 Speaker 1: on it. You just you just what you call it 1506 01:24:55,680 --> 01:25:01,560 Speaker 1: optimistic not what Yeah, when you don't want to what 1507 01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:03,639 Speaker 1: they call a cold kind of body, you just it's 1508 01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:05,840 Speaker 1: just shaking up to God damn to take the top 1509 01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,600 Speaker 1: of this flow, you know what I'm saying. Like you 1510 01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:11,840 Speaker 1: don't like it, People gotta be one hundred with what 1511 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,240 Speaker 1: they don't like, bro, And if they can't deal, they 1512 01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,400 Speaker 1: gotta be able to be like, I'm not dealing with that, 1513 01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,080 Speaker 1: but what's one What's one hundred for a man? Though? 1514 01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:24,160 Speaker 1: When you're dealing with a woman who don't even know 1515 01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:28,120 Speaker 1: what they want. Women don't even know what they want. 1516 01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:30,439 Speaker 1: Then said their friends don't even know and they ain't 1517 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:33,439 Speaker 1: even doing then, but I don't even know what's wrong 1518 01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:40,360 Speaker 1: with me. M m. They know what I'm saying, not 1519 01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:42,160 Speaker 1: that I'm saying. They could be all the way into you, 1520 01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:44,200 Speaker 1: but it just it ain't. I don't know why I 1521 01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:48,120 Speaker 1: want to be with the sick. Yeah, I don't know why. 1522 01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:49,880 Speaker 1: I just want to. I want to get into it today. 1523 01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:54,360 Speaker 1: I don't know why women, that's just women. I want 1524 01:25:54,400 --> 01:25:57,719 Speaker 1: to have something to vent about. I ain't been venting 1525 01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:03,400 Speaker 1: in the men. Emotional creatures. Well, yeah, the emotional creatures. Bro. 1526 01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,759 Speaker 1: That ship is a project, is a science, the project 1527 01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:09,240 Speaker 1: trying to try to figure it out. No, you think 1528 01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:11,840 Speaker 1: that's trying to figure men out. Y'all. Don't talk about 1529 01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:16,160 Speaker 1: shyn't express your emotions. I spress my motion to the foots. 1530 01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:19,120 Speaker 1: So whenever it comes down to where it comes down 1531 01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:27,960 Speaker 1: to already to see it everything. Yeah, yeah, everything, I 1532 01:26:28,120 --> 01:26:34,200 Speaker 1: feel about everything, like, ain't no gray areas. You ain't 1533 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:38,040 Speaker 1: no gray areas. So if I if I decide, you 1534 01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:43,040 Speaker 1: know what, this ship just ain't work what what can 1535 01:26:43,080 --> 01:26:45,519 Speaker 1: she say? She used to be like, Okay, nigga, fuck you, 1536 01:26:45,640 --> 01:26:51,559 Speaker 1: you're like I've been telling him, it's not gonna change. 1537 01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:56,960 Speaker 1: Like the narrative is gonna always be built. One month 1538 01:26:57,080 --> 01:27:02,639 Speaker 1: you're the best, next month you're the worst. Your friends 1539 01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:07,560 Speaker 1: gotta be tilling like y'all friends gotta be like, do 1540 01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:09,879 Speaker 1: you ever listen to your friends? Like this bitch is stupid? 1541 01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:12,640 Speaker 1: I know she because she told me that about like 1542 01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:17,120 Speaker 1: real ship for show listen to something like you are too? 1543 01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:23,439 Speaker 1: Why she listening to you? But you know that Like 1544 01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:29,439 Speaker 1: I know this, I know it, like because we listen 1545 01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 1: for the ven you got a real friend, They let 1546 01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:35,360 Speaker 1: you get it out and they hang on the phone 1547 01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:38,120 Speaker 1: and tell you they spelled. Man, my friend crazy is here? 1548 01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:42,200 Speaker 1: She running a man crazy because I want to tell 1549 01:27:42,240 --> 01:27:43,680 Speaker 1: her she wrong, but she's so crazy me I was 1550 01:27:43,680 --> 01:27:47,120 Speaker 1: gonna be into it. That's just how it goes. So 1551 01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:51,320 Speaker 1: do women help any real friends now? Because I think 1552 01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:53,080 Speaker 1: that you can really tell your friend when they're wrong 1553 01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:56,679 Speaker 1: to not not on not on a touchy subject. You can't. 1554 01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:04,360 Speaker 1: You're not, though, I do now, I see what you say. No, 1555 01:28:04,680 --> 01:28:07,960 Speaker 1: I definitely have. I understand exactly what you say. I 1556 01:28:08,160 --> 01:28:11,000 Speaker 1: get because at the end of the day, if I 1557 01:28:11,120 --> 01:28:13,000 Speaker 1: tell you too much, then it's gonna hinder if I 1558 01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:15,840 Speaker 1: tell you the truth, it's gonna about relations. Yeah say, 1559 01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:18,280 Speaker 1: I think it's yeah, okay. I was about to say, 1560 01:28:18,280 --> 01:28:19,599 Speaker 1: you can tell your friend the truth, but you ain't 1561 01:28:19,600 --> 01:28:22,880 Speaker 1: gotta do some massive detail like I got my homegirl Raven. 1562 01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:26,040 Speaker 1: She'd be going through crazy as ship. I did say 1563 01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:29,760 Speaker 1: her name. I forgot what we used doing. I ain't 1564 01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:33,559 Speaker 1: gonna say what. No, I'm not gonna tell, but she'd 1565 01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:35,519 Speaker 1: be going through some ship. And when when we're talking 1566 01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:37,920 Speaker 1: about it, I literally be like, man, you know you 1567 01:28:38,040 --> 01:28:40,160 Speaker 1: throw it off and I'll tell her her part and 1568 01:28:40,240 --> 01:28:41,680 Speaker 1: I leave it at that. I'm not gonna go into 1569 01:28:41,800 --> 01:28:45,040 Speaker 1: full detail long to piss her off, but I'm definitely 1570 01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:46,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell her like if you know you kind of 1571 01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:51,920 Speaker 1: started that ship you're talking to how they take constructive Criticisa, 1572 01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:53,840 Speaker 1: And then she had telling me like you know what 1573 01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:56,840 Speaker 1: you're dealing with, you know what you're dealing with. Certain 1574 01:28:56,880 --> 01:28:59,720 Speaker 1: people are a different type of personalities, like I'm not 1575 01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:03,120 Speaker 1: they go asttional opinion on some ship that I'm head 1576 01:29:03,160 --> 01:29:05,639 Speaker 1: strong back the fu nig opinion. That's how I feel. 1577 01:29:06,080 --> 01:29:08,960 Speaker 1: I ain't nigga change my mind even if I'm wrong, sucking, 1578 01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm wrong by myself. I ain't changing and that I'm wrong. 1579 01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:17,920 Speaker 1: But you got people that will go vent and want 1580 01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:20,599 Speaker 1: somebody to feel like they're right. And your real friend, noe, 1581 01:29:21,040 --> 01:29:22,479 Speaker 1: this one of the times she want to be right. 1582 01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:28,240 Speaker 1: That is true. I wanna let hell be right. Damn 1583 01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:31,960 Speaker 1: we are fake. Yeah, like I'm gonna he'll be right 1584 01:29:32,040 --> 01:29:34,519 Speaker 1: to night and hang on the phone and tell tell 1585 01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:39,360 Speaker 1: goddamn beat one tail bank up in the tail bank, man, 1586 01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:41,080 Speaker 1: why and I'm gonna break it. She gonna break it 1587 01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:42,960 Speaker 1: all the way down to me and be like, yeah, 1588 01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:51,720 Speaker 1: she wrong. Yeah, people go back. Yeah, you can't go 1589 01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:55,320 Speaker 1: back when they like when they calmed down in the middle, 1590 01:29:55,439 --> 01:30:00,400 Speaker 1: like oh yeah, but tell you then. But after moment, 1591 01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:02,640 Speaker 1: that's when we really need to tell them that, man, 1592 01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:13,200 Speaker 1: because yeah, you gotta telling in the heat of the moment, 1593 01:30:13,240 --> 01:30:17,200 Speaker 1: like hey, I'm now you tripping, ya, you're tripping, you're tripping, 1594 01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:19,920 Speaker 1: you're tripping, Get mad at me whatever. Calling when you're 1595 01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:23,160 Speaker 1: out your feeling. That's how I do my be mad 1596 01:30:23,200 --> 01:30:25,960 Speaker 1: with brother. You call on the ballhead nigga, then bro, 1597 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:27,719 Speaker 1: don't call me, nigga, you let you want the truth 1598 01:30:29,320 --> 01:30:33,280 Speaker 1: real ship, because if I don't, I don't give a 1599 01:30:33,360 --> 01:30:36,639 Speaker 1: funk about you. And that's not saying that you don't 1600 01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:39,400 Speaker 1: give your friend is just a female trait. Bro. Yeah, 1601 01:30:39,520 --> 01:30:42,160 Speaker 1: y'all don't even know because y'all saying y'all thinking like 1602 01:30:42,680 --> 01:30:47,200 Speaker 1: trying to make a right damn nil. Yeah. Sometimes even 1603 01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:48,920 Speaker 1: though you know you're wrong, you're trying to damn them, 1604 01:30:49,000 --> 01:30:51,880 Speaker 1: make it see logic, try, You're trying to twist the 1605 01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:54,120 Speaker 1: logic just enough to make it seems like this person 1606 01:30:54,320 --> 01:30:56,240 Speaker 1: is coming down on the right end of it. I 1607 01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:58,760 Speaker 1: can see what you're coming from when you don't see 1608 01:30:58,760 --> 01:31:00,439 Speaker 1: where they're coming from. Now, that's the I see what 1609 01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,280 Speaker 1: I tell you ain't coming from you. I feel you 1610 01:31:04,760 --> 01:31:07,120 Speaker 1: see what you're right due to the fact of his 1611 01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:12,639 Speaker 1: past history. That's when the nigga's automatic just here fun 1612 01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:16,760 Speaker 1: So I can never agree with him over even when 1613 01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:19,840 Speaker 1: you're wrong, because you are really told me all the 1614 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,920 Speaker 1: you are bent at all the fun ship. So I'm 1615 01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:29,400 Speaker 1: gon say nah chantell big na, not this time it's you. 1616 01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:32,040 Speaker 1: I can't say that because then you're gonna break up. 1617 01:31:32,280 --> 01:31:36,400 Speaker 1: Well you would about when in twenties twenties. Oh man, 1618 01:31:39,920 --> 01:31:42,360 Speaker 1: So if I'm wrong about this now, he was wrong 1619 01:31:42,400 --> 01:31:45,000 Speaker 1: about that then and that's wrong. But in this that 1620 01:31:47,960 --> 01:31:50,560 Speaker 1: sounds real. All that sounds real, petty and stressful what 1621 01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,040 Speaker 1: we're doing, you know, And I don't think it's stressful 1622 01:31:54,080 --> 01:31:56,800 Speaker 1: in our brains when it's coming out. It's not. It's 1623 01:31:56,840 --> 01:32:06,240 Speaker 1: just nature than the else. We're not got big. Oh 1624 01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:09,360 Speaker 1: this podcast touched one woman heart to be like, I'm 1625 01:32:09,400 --> 01:32:14,680 Speaker 1: gonna adjust my thoughts and take accountability. Did we have 1626 01:32:14,840 --> 01:32:19,719 Speaker 1: that on this show? And take accountability for my words? Okay, 1627 01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:22,360 Speaker 1: actions is a whole another thing, my actions and my words, 1628 01:32:22,400 --> 01:32:25,160 Speaker 1: because words to men are worse than actions, and then 1629 01:32:25,240 --> 01:32:28,960 Speaker 1: for women is the actions that's worse the words exactly. 1630 01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:32,640 Speaker 1: But they are all the same. It's all abuse, not 1631 01:32:32,840 --> 01:32:36,080 Speaker 1: be killing. All my words they all abuse. And you 1632 01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:37,680 Speaker 1: feel like the nigga is supposed to come back from 1633 01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:39,600 Speaker 1: it when he damned there can feel some of the 1634 01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:44,719 Speaker 1: words you're saying maybe sharp shootings, ak what I'm saying. 1635 01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:47,000 Speaker 1: So that's why you said how you mad at me? 1636 01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:49,120 Speaker 1: Because I'm a fucking on you bitch. Fuck you you're 1637 01:32:49,120 --> 01:32:51,320 Speaker 1: a piece of ship. You can't you mad at me. 1638 01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:54,760 Speaker 1: You can't say she can't say she's saying. She's saying, 1639 01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:57,040 Speaker 1: that's why I said, because I'm but then that should 1640 01:32:57,040 --> 01:32:59,000 Speaker 1: be sitting over here mad on the nigga about some 1641 01:32:59,080 --> 01:33:00,840 Speaker 1: whole most ship what he did up. But what about 1642 01:33:00,880 --> 01:33:05,800 Speaker 1: what you did to me? So I'm patted too. This 1643 01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:10,040 Speaker 1: is retaliation, okay, But once you retaliated, it's a fight. Yeah. 1644 01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:12,960 Speaker 1: But so now blow for blow, you can't. You can't 1645 01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:14,600 Speaker 1: come back from everything though. That's why you gotta be 1646 01:33:14,600 --> 01:33:17,240 Speaker 1: careful what you saw. If I did something to use Yeah, 1647 01:33:17,280 --> 01:33:19,800 Speaker 1: exactly enough, I did something of you as a helpless person, 1648 01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:21,280 Speaker 1: and you just took that on the chin and you 1649 01:33:21,400 --> 01:33:24,600 Speaker 1: just helpless cry. Now I gotta show remorse and be like, 1650 01:33:24,800 --> 01:33:27,480 Speaker 1: damn on some bullshit. I gotta take it on accountabusiness. 1651 01:33:27,600 --> 01:33:29,080 Speaker 1: But when you hit me, if I punched your in 1652 01:33:29,080 --> 01:33:32,280 Speaker 1: the face, you punched me back. We're fighting, bro, we 1653 01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:35,719 Speaker 1: fighting this blow for blow. Ain't nobody the wrong ain't 1654 01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:38,920 Speaker 1: nobody the right weight. But if I don't did some 1655 01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:41,600 Speaker 1: bullshit to you, and I see how that I just 1656 01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:44,800 Speaker 1: hurt her and she didn't. She didn't try to hurt 1657 01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:46,720 Speaker 1: me back, she didn't return the energy. I need to 1658 01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:51,200 Speaker 1: make this right. But once she's putting your once you 1659 01:33:51,240 --> 01:33:53,160 Speaker 1: put on the same shoes I got on, bitch, fuck you, 1660 01:33:54,200 --> 01:34:01,280 Speaker 1: it's up. We ops. It's the low road. Some people 1661 01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:03,240 Speaker 1: use to take the low road and not the high road. 1662 01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:06,920 Speaker 1: It's the low road. It gets lower and lower. But 1663 01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:09,280 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is the friends that you've been to 1664 01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:11,559 Speaker 1: when you because you're gonna call her soon the nigga 1665 01:34:11,600 --> 01:34:13,840 Speaker 1: do what he do for you, even rich pop. Yeah, 1666 01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:17,080 Speaker 1: when you catch your nigger down there in some ship, 1667 01:34:17,439 --> 01:34:21,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna curl gain without checking the right thing is 1668 01:34:21,240 --> 01:34:26,599 Speaker 1: gonna be like calm down, calm down, calm down, don't 1669 01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:32,760 Speaker 1: don't calm down, strategize your move. If you're gonna do something, strategize, 1670 01:34:32,760 --> 01:34:38,080 Speaker 1: don't go and do something that you're gonna regret. Because 1671 01:34:38,120 --> 01:34:39,519 Speaker 1: he may feel he can come back from that, and 1672 01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:40,920 Speaker 1: you may feel like he can come back in that, 1673 01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:42,639 Speaker 1: but you feel like I want to hurt them before 1674 01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:46,880 Speaker 1: we come back from this. Make it even. That's what 1675 01:34:46,880 --> 01:34:49,360 Speaker 1: a lot of women think, but it will never be even. 1676 01:34:50,040 --> 01:35:00,400 Speaker 1: Never for sure. No. Yeah, I'm just saying, like for 1677 01:35:00,479 --> 01:35:04,360 Speaker 1: people that go through ship and their relationship, like certain 1678 01:35:04,479 --> 01:35:06,840 Speaker 1: certain women ain't going for certain ships, sir, men ain't 1679 01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:09,240 Speaker 1: going on certain ships. That's just how it goes, you 1680 01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:10,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And if I meet a woman 1681 01:35:10,960 --> 01:35:12,559 Speaker 1: back to that, if I meet a woman that showed 1682 01:35:12,600 --> 01:35:17,560 Speaker 1: me everything that she went for with another nigger, to me, 1683 01:35:17,720 --> 01:35:22,920 Speaker 1: that show that sholl do to me, I don't agree 1684 01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:26,720 Speaker 1: with that to me, he said. He's saying that if if, 1685 01:35:26,840 --> 01:35:29,760 Speaker 1: if it's still on your mind and you're talking about 1686 01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:32,559 Speaker 1: it affects you, it affects your energy, that person still 1687 01:35:32,600 --> 01:35:35,880 Speaker 1: has some type of holes if they don't. And I'm 1688 01:35:35,920 --> 01:35:37,840 Speaker 1: just talking to you about the things I've been through, 1689 01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:42,240 Speaker 1: that's what you're talking about. But I'm speaking on when 1690 01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:44,800 Speaker 1: you have met your soul makes your true love, and 1691 01:35:44,920 --> 01:35:48,120 Speaker 1: y'all depart, That's what I'm speaking on. If I depart 1692 01:35:48,160 --> 01:35:51,600 Speaker 1: from stake, I ain't funk another bit. She'll never be 1693 01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:53,519 Speaker 1: another one of the here. I can get another woman 1694 01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:55,200 Speaker 1: and we can move up and try to get us 1695 01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:58,600 Speaker 1: some money together and have a business slash marriage relationship. 1696 01:35:59,320 --> 01:36:02,640 Speaker 1: But I'm not to try to get this back. So 1697 01:36:02,720 --> 01:36:06,120 Speaker 1: I'm not even to talk to you about her, saying 1698 01:36:06,200 --> 01:36:08,200 Speaker 1: you get because once I started telling you about her, 1699 01:36:08,240 --> 01:36:12,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna know that's my soul mate. And the things 1700 01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,280 Speaker 1: that I went through with her. I'm never going through 1701 01:36:14,320 --> 01:36:16,960 Speaker 1: this with you, bitch. The ship and I went through 1702 01:36:16,960 --> 01:36:19,400 Speaker 1: with her. I ain't even gotta tell you this. My 1703 01:36:19,600 --> 01:36:22,280 Speaker 1: energy is gonna show you this, So I ain't gotta 1704 01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:25,559 Speaker 1: tell you my vulnerable ship that I don't went through 1705 01:36:25,560 --> 01:36:28,680 Speaker 1: with this woman. Yea to let you know that I 1706 01:36:28,800 --> 01:36:31,040 Speaker 1: got that side of me for you to try to 1707 01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:33,599 Speaker 1: check check them bums and get your feeling hurt. Yeah, 1708 01:36:34,520 --> 01:36:37,720 Speaker 1: ain't even that guy. I just say I was a 1709 01:36:37,800 --> 01:36:40,920 Speaker 1: messed up guy for a queen, and I guess she 1710 01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:45,000 Speaker 1: got tired of my bullshit. Not tell you hubble or 1711 01:36:45,040 --> 01:36:49,880 Speaker 1: ship because me tell you hubble shit how I felt that. 1712 01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:52,639 Speaker 1: Let you know to me now, these are not fact 1713 01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:57,439 Speaker 1: the bank fact to me. Me tell you all the 1714 01:36:57,520 --> 01:37:01,120 Speaker 1: things that I went through with her and expressing everything 1715 01:37:01,479 --> 01:37:03,599 Speaker 1: the hurt that I went through her. To me, that's 1716 01:37:03,640 --> 01:37:07,360 Speaker 1: showing you how much I cared for her. Yeah, but 1717 01:37:09,520 --> 01:37:11,639 Speaker 1: you've been with somebody for so many years, the person 1718 01:37:11,760 --> 01:37:15,840 Speaker 1: gonna feel like you care for them regardless each other. 1719 01:37:16,280 --> 01:37:20,120 Speaker 1: But you're still type of caring Carolina. When I'm im 1720 01:37:20,439 --> 01:37:22,439 Speaker 1: to me, if I'm speaking on it, if I've been 1721 01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:26,840 Speaker 1: about this person, I still feel like I wish that 1722 01:37:26,920 --> 01:37:29,599 Speaker 1: could have been better to me? And do you feel 1723 01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:31,600 Speaker 1: like it's the way you've been about it, like like 1724 01:37:31,720 --> 01:37:34,439 Speaker 1: how you talk about this person because you can talk 1725 01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:36,760 Speaker 1: about to speak for me if I'm talking, if i'm 1726 01:37:36,920 --> 01:37:40,240 Speaker 1: if I if I'm telling the scream about Shante, I'm 1727 01:37:40,280 --> 01:37:42,760 Speaker 1: telling him because I want some answers and try to 1728 01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:45,080 Speaker 1: fix what I even did or fix what we're gonna. 1729 01:37:45,800 --> 01:37:48,400 Speaker 1: So if I'm ever speaking to anybody about my wife, 1730 01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:53,120 Speaker 1: it's not because you're a It's because, hey, brom I 1731 01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:56,639 Speaker 1: what am I missing? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I'm speaking 1732 01:37:56,640 --> 01:37:58,840 Speaker 1: about it. So I didn't finished speaking at about to 1733 01:37:58,960 --> 01:38:02,160 Speaker 1: no bitch about this or to know another woman about this, 1734 01:38:02,600 --> 01:38:08,200 Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to fish that. But women do 1735 01:38:08,320 --> 01:38:11,840 Speaker 1: the total opposite. You get what I'm saying. They give 1736 01:38:11,880 --> 01:38:15,880 Speaker 1: been about some ship to a nigga, to somebody else, 1737 01:38:16,439 --> 01:38:21,120 Speaker 1: trying to let it go, but confused, could want to 1738 01:38:21,160 --> 01:38:22,800 Speaker 1: fix it, could want to let it go, could want 1739 01:38:22,840 --> 01:38:27,439 Speaker 1: to they don't know. I see what you're saying. Yeah, right, 1740 01:38:29,920 --> 01:38:32,479 Speaker 1: If if I'm somethinghere sitting here enough, if I'm if 1741 01:38:32,520 --> 01:38:36,000 Speaker 1: I go to a therapist to talk about my marriage, 1742 01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:41,240 Speaker 1: what am I trying to do? Right, unlet's his post marriage. 1743 01:38:41,240 --> 01:38:43,479 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how not to talk to 1744 01:38:43,600 --> 01:38:47,280 Speaker 1: another woman about this marriage. You get wanna say, I'm 1745 01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:49,519 Speaker 1: trying to get it off to some people that that's 1746 01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:52,880 Speaker 1: not it's gonna hinder my relationship with them a therapy. 1747 01:38:52,920 --> 01:38:55,920 Speaker 1: This ain't gonna I'm gonna get this off the you 1748 01:38:55,960 --> 01:38:58,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, or my 1749 01:38:58,240 --> 01:39:01,000 Speaker 1: kids or my parents or something. I'm not bringing ship 1750 01:39:01,120 --> 01:39:06,439 Speaker 1: to another relationship. Because if I'm speaking on this woman 1751 01:39:06,520 --> 01:39:09,760 Speaker 1: to another woman, she don't know you still love this bitch. 1752 01:39:10,680 --> 01:39:14,680 Speaker 1: That's just what it is. M hm. Ain't if I'm 1753 01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:21,800 Speaker 1: if me back, it's talking about to another woman. I want. 1754 01:39:22,800 --> 01:39:24,840 Speaker 1: I want my bitch. I only want you. I'm just 1755 01:39:24,920 --> 01:39:31,000 Speaker 1: here for the heat. Ryan, Goddamn, I'm not here for you. 1756 01:39:32,439 --> 01:39:36,479 Speaker 1: I'm here for you. We're talking about us now, to 1757 01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:41,960 Speaker 1: see us on picnics and ship. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, 1758 01:39:42,680 --> 01:39:48,040 Speaker 1: I just always felt like me personally, So was that rebound. 1759 01:39:49,960 --> 01:39:53,000 Speaker 1: I just always felt like me personally. I never wanted 1760 01:39:53,120 --> 01:39:56,320 Speaker 1: to get in shape bank, you know what I'm saying, 1761 01:39:56,439 --> 01:39:58,600 Speaker 1: and do all this and be this new nigga with 1762 01:39:58,640 --> 01:40:02,800 Speaker 1: a new bitch already keep mine. M hm. You know 1763 01:40:02,840 --> 01:40:04,559 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm gonna get it right. I'm gonna 1764 01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:06,240 Speaker 1: get it right with that one. I can't got them 1765 01:40:06,360 --> 01:40:08,120 Speaker 1: do all this bullshit. Ain't gonna get it right with 1766 01:40:08,160 --> 01:40:12,320 Speaker 1: somebody else that's a fun nigger to me, no matter 1767 01:40:12,360 --> 01:40:14,160 Speaker 1: whether it is, no matter how bad this, because it's 1768 01:40:14,160 --> 01:40:15,800 Speaker 1: gonna go bad when I get what he's gonna go 1769 01:40:15,880 --> 01:40:24,719 Speaker 1: bad too. It's gonna be bad times right right, because 1770 01:40:24,720 --> 01:40:27,200 Speaker 1: I ain't peep this bitch flaws yet. I just met you. 1771 01:40:27,320 --> 01:40:30,920 Speaker 1: So you your best? You start taking the wings off? 1772 01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:36,679 Speaker 1: Yet you got that done? You still you still don't? 1773 01:40:38,080 --> 01:40:47,840 Speaker 1: You still got your fills on? Right arong me? Why ship? Yeah, 1774 01:40:51,680 --> 01:40:53,720 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like straight up? So what 1775 01:40:53,880 --> 01:40:57,080 Speaker 1: am I doing now? I'm now I'm counting an uncomfortable situation, 1776 01:41:00,120 --> 01:41:02,040 Speaker 1: trying to make some ship, trying to make the same 1777 01:41:02,120 --> 01:41:06,479 Speaker 1: ship already had, recreation ship you already had. The grass 1778 01:41:06,520 --> 01:41:13,800 Speaker 1: ain't always greater facts. You know you know how that 1779 01:41:13,840 --> 01:41:21,920 Speaker 1: ship go? Broh, God damn d well happily ever, hel, 1780 01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:29,880 Speaker 1: I'd really be trying to figure out, Steve. I don't 1781 01:41:32,720 --> 01:41:38,320 Speaker 1: what are you talking crazy? It's real ship. I'm just 1782 01:41:38,400 --> 01:41:40,559 Speaker 1: trying to put the folks down. A lot of people 1783 01:41:40,600 --> 01:41:42,479 Speaker 1: they think about it, think of this last day. I say, 1784 01:41:42,760 --> 01:41:45,600 Speaker 1: a lot of people go through the whole turbulence of 1785 01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:50,280 Speaker 1: the whole ride, ride that bit all the wayman to 1786 01:41:50,280 --> 01:41:52,920 Speaker 1: build a bit of dead. Why do you think so? 1787 01:41:53,240 --> 01:41:56,519 Speaker 1: Because they love each other? I don't care if they care. 1788 01:41:57,080 --> 01:41:59,400 Speaker 1: Care they care about each other. You don't talk about 1789 01:41:59,439 --> 01:42:01,000 Speaker 1: what you don't care. Why do you have to build 1790 01:42:01,000 --> 01:42:04,600 Speaker 1: ax because we were better because we love the No, 1791 01:42:05,000 --> 01:42:08,920 Speaker 1: I don't think they have ain't better with no bitch. 1792 01:42:09,560 --> 01:42:16,320 Speaker 1: What's it better? What is better? See you? Yeah? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 1793 01:42:16,320 --> 01:42:18,280 Speaker 1: I agree. We can't be mutual. Every time I see 1794 01:42:18,360 --> 01:42:21,479 Speaker 1: him fun that is because now you're mad because of 1795 01:42:21,520 --> 01:42:24,400 Speaker 1: what y'all could have been and y'are not that so okay, Okay, 1796 01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:26,240 Speaker 1: I agree with that. Okay, So I ain't thing with 1797 01:42:26,320 --> 01:42:28,920 Speaker 1: four ships. If you gotta nigga so well talking about you, 1798 01:42:29,080 --> 01:42:31,400 Speaker 1: calling you out type of niggas, will he mad because 1799 01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:34,400 Speaker 1: he won't still be around you? I agree? Get what 1800 01:42:34,439 --> 01:42:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like niggle going over they like like, but 1801 01:42:37,120 --> 01:42:39,240 Speaker 1: I don't know you no more. That's the person that 1802 01:42:39,400 --> 01:42:42,000 Speaker 1: made peace with this ship. Fuck you, that's the real 1803 01:42:42,120 --> 01:42:44,439 Speaker 1: fuck you. If I'm saying fuck you, that mean I 1804 01:42:44,560 --> 01:42:48,639 Speaker 1: love you. I ain't saying nothing. It's fuck you for real. 1805 01:42:51,360 --> 01:42:54,200 Speaker 1: That Come on, bro, don't do that. Bro, it's saying 1806 01:42:54,200 --> 01:42:59,560 Speaker 1: the guy. Damn Joe, Joe, go to sleeve. Show what 1807 01:43:01,880 --> 01:43:07,960 Speaker 1: you don't fact? You speaking facts? What's your Listen about 1808 01:43:09,560 --> 01:43:12,439 Speaker 1: everything you said today? I agree with I ain't lost that. 1809 01:43:12,479 --> 01:43:14,599 Speaker 1: I want it back now you're you're you're hitting the day. 1810 01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:21,479 Speaker 1: I ain't cheat. Yeah, right, no matter where they take 1811 01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:27,719 Speaker 1: to keep it, I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, I agree. 1812 01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:33,679 Speaker 1: Don't go chase the waterfalls. You know, people do find 1813 01:43:33,720 --> 01:43:37,200 Speaker 1: happenings outside of what they You know what I'm saying, 1814 01:43:37,240 --> 01:43:42,000 Speaker 1: I stiled up. You gotta go with nothing, so many 1815 01:43:42,360 --> 01:43:45,160 Speaker 1: fine happenings outside of you. Gotta go with the relationship. 1816 01:43:45,240 --> 01:43:49,599 Speaker 1: You can ye, relationship can also it's reality, can't it can't. 1817 01:43:49,640 --> 01:43:51,559 Speaker 1: You gotta go with your heart. It can't end. There 1818 01:43:51,600 --> 01:43:54,960 Speaker 1: can't be ading to certain relationships. It just comes to 1819 01:43:55,040 --> 01:43:56,640 Speaker 1: a point where it's now you ain't even mad at 1820 01:43:56,680 --> 01:43:59,280 Speaker 1: each other. So this is the conclusion of this part 1821 01:43:59,360 --> 01:44:02,160 Speaker 1: of our life together. That's why I always say, if 1822 01:44:02,240 --> 01:44:05,479 Speaker 1: that comes to if we come to be like we're cool, 1823 01:44:05,880 --> 01:44:07,800 Speaker 1: and it just be like this ship ain't hey, this 1824 01:44:07,800 --> 01:44:11,040 Speaker 1: ship ain't it? Then I can respect that. I can't. 1825 01:44:11,120 --> 01:44:13,080 Speaker 1: We can't get you don't caught me and some ship 1826 01:44:13,280 --> 01:44:16,040 Speaker 1: or we don't we're all going about some ship and 1827 01:44:16,120 --> 01:44:17,840 Speaker 1: we break up. That ain't gonna break up to me. 1828 01:44:18,920 --> 01:44:24,320 Speaker 1: To me, that's just to misunderstand. Now we just got them, 1829 01:44:24,560 --> 01:44:26,800 Speaker 1: can't be around each other, wing all that. But they're 1830 01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:33,320 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, that's just what it is. Yeah, yeah's 1831 01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:35,599 Speaker 1: time to let that go. But if it's like we're 1832 01:44:35,640 --> 01:44:38,000 Speaker 1: in Twitter, you're mad about something and then got them, 1833 01:44:39,520 --> 01:44:41,360 Speaker 1: we're moving out. You move out and I move out, 1834 01:44:41,479 --> 01:44:44,800 Speaker 1: that's bullshit to me. You know what I'm saying. Nobody, 1835 01:44:44,800 --> 01:44:46,560 Speaker 1: you're still donna be mad and you see it. You 1836 01:44:46,600 --> 01:44:48,200 Speaker 1: still don't want to when you see him, you still 1837 01:44:48,200 --> 01:44:51,840 Speaker 1: don't want him or whatever. But if it's just like 1838 01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:54,600 Speaker 1: ain't there, it ain't there, and you gotta respect that. 1839 01:44:56,320 --> 01:45:01,240 Speaker 1: I ain't never felt that. H We're some big bank 1840 01:45:01,520 --> 01:45:03,559 Speaker 1: in family on Big Facts Friday. I hope you all 1841 01:45:03,560 --> 01:45:07,040 Speaker 1: got some game today. Man, it's free games, free game 1842 01:45:07,640 --> 01:45:09,679 Speaker 1: else can you get free? I don't agree. I'm gonna 1843 01:45:09,680 --> 01:45:14,920 Speaker 1: be a fun Later on, we agreed with you got me, 1844 01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:18,280 Speaker 1: I take to agree. I'm not just saying, like, man, 1845 01:45:18,400 --> 01:45:22,519 Speaker 1: what do women really want the truth? Yes, yes we do. 1846 01:45:22,680 --> 01:45:27,479 Speaker 1: We talked about this stuff. But okay, when I'll be 1847 01:45:27,640 --> 01:45:32,360 Speaker 1: telling you the truth, you'll be saying I'm crazy. They 1848 01:45:32,439 --> 01:45:36,639 Speaker 1: wanted with the want with do they want the truth? Okay, okay, okay, 1849 01:45:36,640 --> 01:45:38,880 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say that do they want you? Can't 1850 01:45:38,920 --> 01:45:42,559 Speaker 1: women accept the truth? Yes, we can and we want 1851 01:45:42,640 --> 01:45:46,200 Speaker 1: the truth. However, to pick back off what you said, 1852 01:45:47,080 --> 01:45:49,519 Speaker 1: we ain't you we hear what we want to hear. 1853 01:45:50,000 --> 01:45:52,120 Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. So that's not the truth. 1854 01:45:52,960 --> 01:46:00,519 Speaker 1: I'm saying that what they want to receive it that truth. 1855 01:46:00,680 --> 01:46:05,559 Speaker 1: I agree, but we won't hear it. But honestly, we don't. 1856 01:46:05,880 --> 01:46:09,439 Speaker 1: We don't process it because we still we still trying 1857 01:46:09,560 --> 01:46:13,559 Speaker 1: to date and love the person we want you to be, yah, 1858 01:46:14,040 --> 01:46:21,320 Speaker 1: become be or whatever. And then to hear that. But 1859 01:46:21,640 --> 01:46:26,880 Speaker 1: still what you're saying earlier, what is it? Um? What 1860 01:46:27,000 --> 01:46:31,679 Speaker 1: did he say? What you say? What? What's the what's 1861 01:46:31,720 --> 01:46:36,400 Speaker 1: the movie? You want the truth? You can't want the truth? Thing? 1862 01:46:37,560 --> 01:46:41,599 Speaker 1: But when you get the truth, can you receive the truth? 1863 01:46:41,680 --> 01:46:44,160 Speaker 1: Have you not receiving the truth. You don't want the truth. Shot, 1864 01:46:44,560 --> 01:46:48,120 Speaker 1: you want a hold on you want the truth. You 1865 01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:51,120 Speaker 1: can't receive the truth. But neither one of you guys 1866 01:46:51,560 --> 01:46:53,680 Speaker 1: can't tell each other how the truth may make the 1867 01:46:53,760 --> 01:46:56,400 Speaker 1: other person feel. Even if you tell me the truth, 1868 01:46:56,680 --> 01:47:01,840 Speaker 1: you know what he's asking is if he wants us 1869 01:47:02,600 --> 01:47:05,880 Speaker 1: I just told you that you said, I don't want 1870 01:47:05,880 --> 01:47:08,840 Speaker 1: to hear that. You know was a public he said, 1871 01:47:08,840 --> 01:47:11,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. Yeah, so you don't 1872 01:47:11,439 --> 01:47:14,560 Speaker 1: want the truth? Like this the truth? You're like, we 1873 01:47:14,640 --> 01:47:17,320 Speaker 1: don't want to hear that bullshit that does ain't believe it? 1874 01:47:20,439 --> 01:47:26,360 Speaker 1: So which one is it not true? But it's like 1875 01:47:27,400 --> 01:47:30,280 Speaker 1: we're not gonna receive we we feel like you Lyne, 1876 01:47:30,320 --> 01:47:33,880 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, 1877 01:47:34,080 --> 01:47:37,200 Speaker 1: we were like you ain't just you ain't just say that, 1878 01:47:37,680 --> 01:47:39,800 Speaker 1: like I know you just say that. That's how we 1879 01:47:40,080 --> 01:47:43,080 Speaker 1: But we really want the truth. Yes, because a lot 1880 01:47:43,160 --> 01:47:45,400 Speaker 1: of you tell I'll do it, nigga, tell the truth 1881 01:47:45,479 --> 01:47:48,479 Speaker 1: and you believe that this is the truth your actions, Yeah, 1882 01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:53,080 Speaker 1: then that's what we beat ourselves up and because ourselves 1883 01:47:53,120 --> 01:47:56,439 Speaker 1: out to call our girl friend. Yeah, just get on 1884 01:47:56,479 --> 01:47:58,519 Speaker 1: the phone, call our girl friends to be like that 1885 01:47:58,800 --> 01:48:03,880 Speaker 1: funk nigga? Do you know what I'm saying? So you're 1886 01:48:04,200 --> 01:48:06,320 Speaker 1: if you're action and you're what you said in the store, 1887 01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:08,880 Speaker 1: don't add up. I'm like, shut up, you just talk. 1888 01:48:09,400 --> 01:48:18,360 Speaker 1: But if you're telling the truth. If I told you 1889 01:48:18,400 --> 01:48:21,560 Speaker 1: I got a whole wife and kids, but you'd be like, 1890 01:48:21,920 --> 01:48:24,600 Speaker 1: you don't know being no cancer, you can't telling me 1891 01:48:24,720 --> 01:48:32,360 Speaker 1: it's a FaceTime are what? But I told you the truth? 1892 01:48:33,360 --> 01:48:37,160 Speaker 1: But you heard you how? I'm like, because you ain't 1893 01:48:37,200 --> 01:48:41,400 Speaker 1: in Kansas, but I know how even married over face. 1894 01:48:42,680 --> 01:48:51,600 Speaker 1: But I couldn't be ready to run away. But you 1895 01:48:51,680 --> 01:48:54,400 Speaker 1: ain't touched on kids as you would have been in cancers. 1896 01:48:55,080 --> 01:49:00,920 Speaker 1: My bitch could be locked up. You don't know what miss, 1897 01:49:01,560 --> 01:49:04,200 Speaker 1: because I ain't tell you the whole truth. Oh God, 1898 01:49:04,800 --> 01:49:08,600 Speaker 1: ain't that's not the truth. If I say, baby, I 1899 01:49:08,680 --> 01:49:14,320 Speaker 1: got another wife and can how you want to take 1900 01:49:17,120 --> 01:49:21,240 Speaker 1: I got hold on the wife and can man talking? 1901 01:49:22,439 --> 01:49:24,960 Speaker 1: But really got when you came back and see you 1902 01:49:25,120 --> 01:49:27,680 Speaker 1: haul with a Candy tag on it, and take me 1903 01:49:27,760 --> 01:49:30,240 Speaker 1: to Candy and meet my bitch getting out of jail 1904 01:49:30,320 --> 01:49:35,880 Speaker 1: and we beat together. Now you believe it, you ain't 1905 01:49:35,880 --> 01:49:42,120 Speaker 1: gonna make man, ain't gonna shoot that ship up. That's 1906 01:49:42,240 --> 01:49:48,240 Speaker 1: gonna be wait, you shoot man. That's what I'm saying. 1907 01:49:48,280 --> 01:49:50,080 Speaker 1: So you don't want why the moon is getting killed. 1908 01:49:50,120 --> 01:49:55,479 Speaker 1: Everybody your body standards, everybody who rented than you, because 1909 01:49:55,520 --> 01:50:01,560 Speaker 1: they ain't going any name everybody's I say, if I 1910 01:50:01,720 --> 01:50:04,960 Speaker 1: keep preaching, it's plicking me. I want more than one white, 1911 01:50:05,000 --> 01:50:07,920 Speaker 1: I want three white. I keep saying this, she's gonna 1912 01:50:07,920 --> 01:50:13,000 Speaker 1: feel like, shut the funk up. Yeah, okay, Then if 1913 01:50:13,320 --> 01:50:14,840 Speaker 1: me and her around and get a divorce and I 1914 01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:17,599 Speaker 1: go get three wives, she's gonna be like, Okay, that's 1915 01:50:17,600 --> 01:50:19,960 Speaker 1: what he really. That was his truth. You heard the 1916 01:50:20,080 --> 01:50:26,439 Speaker 1: keyword the voice. So that ain't not issue. So so 1917 01:50:26,600 --> 01:50:33,360 Speaker 1: womens from their treat if you are you allowed them, 1918 01:50:33,439 --> 01:50:39,040 Speaker 1: so women, if you allow them, okay about them? Held on, 1919 01:50:39,280 --> 01:50:46,120 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, he thinking what he said? He said truth? Whoah, 1920 01:50:49,720 --> 01:50:54,200 Speaker 1: you know he's said it's like three in relationships sometimes 1921 01:50:54,280 --> 01:50:58,479 Speaker 1: even both ways. You say ship, and I might be 1922 01:50:58,560 --> 01:51:01,840 Speaker 1: guilty of this too. You say ship, but you know 1923 01:51:01,960 --> 01:51:04,519 Speaker 1: they just kind of everybody brushes some off. He does 1924 01:51:04,560 --> 01:51:08,040 Speaker 1: it too. He brushes it off. I don't brush out 1925 01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:11,960 Speaker 1: keep it. You didn't like everything, but you say something 1926 01:51:11,960 --> 01:51:13,920 Speaker 1: to say something soud like that, you're telling the truth 1927 01:51:14,360 --> 01:51:21,600 Speaker 1: with me. You want to see it, little ship, I 1928 01:51:21,720 --> 01:51:29,479 Speaker 1: take that joke. Relish the serious, doing the serious. Oh 1929 01:51:29,520 --> 01:51:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm making up ship now sayings generally we are brush 1930 01:51:34,880 --> 01:51:42,519 Speaker 1: of the three wise you were like you, yes, you're 1931 01:51:42,520 --> 01:51:48,400 Speaker 1: saying that's not the truth. Bang if you think it's complicated. 1932 01:51:48,439 --> 01:51:51,120 Speaker 1: When one wife said you're a bad look, he's gonna 1933 01:51:51,160 --> 01:51:56,800 Speaker 1: be with three wif taking this out. Okay, we're gonna 1934 01:51:56,800 --> 01:52:02,920 Speaker 1: figure it out. It was like I said, baby, I 1935 01:52:02,960 --> 01:52:04,920 Speaker 1: wanted the voice. I want three boys. What's gonna say. 1936 01:52:05,439 --> 01:52:07,479 Speaker 1: But we're gonna work. We're gonna figure this out. We're 1937 01:52:07,479 --> 01:52:10,240 Speaker 1: gonna work this out together. But you know what, part 1938 01:52:10,439 --> 01:52:13,680 Speaker 1: part of part of it has to respect that. So 1939 01:52:14,560 --> 01:52:21,800 Speaker 1: listen made this post. They gotta go through. I gotta 1940 01:52:21,840 --> 01:52:26,320 Speaker 1: take my part of figuring this ship out. You you 1941 01:52:26,400 --> 01:52:29,360 Speaker 1: do gotta read. You gotta read female language. What she's 1942 01:52:29,360 --> 01:52:32,280 Speaker 1: saying is they're got ready to go to war for you. 1943 01:52:32,439 --> 01:52:34,639 Speaker 1: Before any of that, I ain't let you just walk 1944 01:52:34,720 --> 01:52:37,439 Speaker 1: up with three bitches. We're gonna figure it out. Fight 1945 01:52:37,520 --> 01:52:39,559 Speaker 1: about it. Might get you might get to them. Three 1946 01:52:39,600 --> 01:52:46,599 Speaker 1: wis yeah, nobody, Hey, you can read home gonna come home, 1947 01:52:46,680 --> 01:52:48,320 Speaker 1: make them some sweet tea, and they're gonna fall out. 1948 01:52:48,320 --> 01:52:50,920 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna never see him again. What's coming to 1949 01:52:51,120 --> 01:52:53,960 Speaker 1: She's saying, she's going and they're gone, and now you 1950 01:52:54,080 --> 01:52:55,960 Speaker 1: got to bury these homes. She's saying, she's going to 1951 01:52:56,080 --> 01:53:01,720 Speaker 1: distance for you. You gotta I figured, yeah, make him 1952 01:53:01,720 --> 01:53:07,240 Speaker 1: a sandwich, give him something to drink. You don't come 1953 01:53:07,280 --> 01:53:12,080 Speaker 1: on my podet already got you on your mother all 1954 01:53:12,160 --> 01:53:17,280 Speaker 1: the motherucking line and ship. Okay, like moving the cup 1955 01:53:17,320 --> 01:53:21,000 Speaker 1: off like she's getting up like that side. You know 1956 01:53:21,080 --> 01:53:22,640 Speaker 1: how to make a nigga say that side. But so 1957 01:53:22,760 --> 01:53:24,760 Speaker 1: y'all know all the games because I don't went through 1958 01:53:24,800 --> 01:53:27,479 Speaker 1: this ship. You didn't not go to feel the games 1959 01:53:27,600 --> 01:53:29,519 Speaker 1: like damn I did, wait till I got home at 1960 01:53:29,560 --> 01:53:33,680 Speaker 1: three o'clock. So now you're gonna make it. Put it 1961 01:53:33,760 --> 01:53:36,280 Speaker 1: on yourself right and it should mean and you walk 1962 01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:40,280 Speaker 1: past the kitchen before you got back kids, do but 1963 01:53:40,560 --> 01:53:45,360 Speaker 1: fix it down. He bought to pop up with yes, yes, 1964 01:53:47,040 --> 01:53:51,040 Speaker 1: you want to toast it. You mean Jessica waking about 1965 01:53:51,080 --> 01:53:58,439 Speaker 1: to sleep making seances she has Now I might be 1966 01:53:58,560 --> 01:54:01,400 Speaker 1: getting cussed out. I'm eating the sandwich, but she made 1967 01:54:01,439 --> 01:54:04,760 Speaker 1: the sandwich. But you the gun that can take the 1968 01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:08,400 Speaker 1: cussing out. Oh y'all got I want you to make 1969 01:54:12,400 --> 01:54:16,679 Speaker 1: myself with love. I always like, don't cook me ship 1970 01:54:16,880 --> 01:54:23,080 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, making it happy back, don't taste like happy? Yeah, 1971 01:54:23,120 --> 01:54:25,880 Speaker 1: that's me when I like you made this with love. 1972 01:54:29,280 --> 01:54:31,400 Speaker 1: But you gotta know what you gotta. You gotta be 1973 01:54:31,400 --> 01:54:33,320 Speaker 1: accountable for your own bullshit. Like I could have got 1974 01:54:33,440 --> 01:54:36,920 Speaker 1: on made my own dad with frisbee and too him. 1975 01:54:36,920 --> 01:54:40,280 Speaker 1: He gonna still eat it. So what Yeah, I didn't 1976 01:54:40,320 --> 01:54:42,640 Speaker 1: know a nigga bro. I used to make my grandma 1977 01:54:42,720 --> 01:54:45,760 Speaker 1: water and ship with ice off the ground and ship good. 1978 01:54:45,920 --> 01:54:47,840 Speaker 1: She didn't called me all the way down the street. 1979 01:54:47,960 --> 01:54:51,920 Speaker 1: I don't get don't give me some walk. I dropped 1980 01:54:51,960 --> 01:54:57,160 Speaker 1: nice in men drinking. I saw the ground, so I 1981 01:54:57,160 --> 01:55:00,520 Speaker 1: don't want I want it with love. Have she catched 1982 01:55:00,520 --> 01:55:02,640 Speaker 1: me in the house and make me. I'm gonna make 1983 01:55:02,680 --> 01:55:05,560 Speaker 1: the water with love. You don't call me all the 1984 01:55:05,640 --> 01:55:10,760 Speaker 1: way from playing outside. That's how I feel. I'm woke 1985 01:55:10,800 --> 01:55:12,920 Speaker 1: you up. Woke you up about your sleep? That sounds 1986 01:55:12,920 --> 01:55:15,520 Speaker 1: ainting to take right. I might choke on this ship, 1987 01:55:15,840 --> 01:55:19,560 Speaker 1: then why you wake your up? He was gonna get out. 1988 01:55:20,240 --> 01:55:24,000 Speaker 1: He wanted to talk, just yeah, yeah, just make up ship. 1989 01:55:24,760 --> 01:55:26,640 Speaker 1: But I want to say, women do the same. How 1990 01:55:26,680 --> 01:55:30,840 Speaker 1: the funk? I want to y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all trying 1991 01:55:30,920 --> 01:55:32,960 Speaker 1: some ship just to see it. We'll go for it. Yeah, 1992 01:55:33,440 --> 01:55:36,280 Speaker 1: women do that. I say were Trump. I'm going for it. 1993 01:55:37,000 --> 01:55:38,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So if I'm gonna go for it, 1994 01:55:38,480 --> 01:55:40,920 Speaker 1: you better go for it. That's all I'm saying. We're 1995 01:55:40,920 --> 01:55:42,640 Speaker 1: going for a lot of ship. No way, you're going 1996 01:55:42,720 --> 01:55:44,880 Speaker 1: for everything. But if I got to get up and 1997 01:55:46,760 --> 01:55:53,080 Speaker 1: you're going, yeah, this is a real city, name it 1998 01:55:53,400 --> 01:56:05,320 Speaker 1: your name, we get out came today. I go, hey, listen, 1999 01:56:05,440 --> 01:56:11,040 Speaker 1: Triple w Dot, Big Facts Potamn from thirst and we 2000 01:56:11,160 --> 01:56:16,320 Speaker 1: got dish washing ship. 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