1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Hi everyone. I'm Rachel Zoe and I'm Roger Berman, and 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: you're listening to Works for Us, where we talk to 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: people about what works for them and their relationships and 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: of course what doesn't. Today we're so excited to be 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: talking to the most glowing, gorgeous mother daughter duo that 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: ever was Doctor Barbara Storm and her mini me, or 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: the mini her, or the real her, Charlie Storm. But 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: Doctor Sturm and Charlie are not only bonded together through family, 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: but also through their joint efforts in now the family business. 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: As an innovative and revolutionary leader in skincare, which I 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 1: can say firsthand, Doctor Barbara Storm has quickly become one 12 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: of the most sought after esthetics doctors in the world. 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: She's widely renowned for her anti inflammatory philosophy and non 14 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: surgical yes non surgical anti aging skin treatments, often dubbed 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: the vampire facial. Doctor Sturm's famous MCX facial and MC 16 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: one of a spokeloma based cream made with each patient's 17 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: blood yes blood gained the avid support of celebrity clients 18 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: such as Kim Kardashian, Hailey Bieber and Angela Bassett and 19 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: solidified Doctor Storm as an international skincare giant. Her lovely 20 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: and I can say, beautiful daughter. You can't see her, 21 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: but I can and I have. Charlie Storm has clearly 22 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: inherited her mother's incredible genes and skincare no how while 23 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: also becoming a boss within the family business, Charlie is 24 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: heavily involved in the marketing, social media, content creation, brand partnerships, 25 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: and product development for her mom's skincareline, Doctor Barbara's Storm 26 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: Molecular Cosmetics. Welcome to works for us, Doctor Storm and Charlie. 27 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: I can also say, again, our listeners can't see me, 28 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: but I probably have at least seven Storm products on 29 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: my face and body as we sit here. And I 30 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: have to be honest, I also have the yes hump, 31 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: I don't I just put some sort of a cream. Yes, 32 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: thank you for the lovely introduction, Oh my God. Of course, 33 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,839 Speaker 1: of course, of course. But I mean I can say, um, 34 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: you know, very often we're lucky enough to have um 35 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: incredible guests that we know personally, and we are lucky 36 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: enough to call friends. And I just want to say 37 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: that the two of you have been friends for many years. 38 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: I've had the good fortune of experiencing the storm experience 39 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: and it's funny my skin. And this is clearly not 40 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 1: an ad um, but I just want you to know 41 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: that the Storm System products and process are literally I 42 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: swear and die by them always and I can't stop 43 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: using them and I can't ever get enough of them. 44 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: So um, you know, not not that any of you 45 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: needed to hear that, but I just needed to share 46 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: that that she is legit and if you guys see 47 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: her face, you would die. All of both of you 48 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: love you so much. And I've been always like so honored, 49 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: and I was proud the orangel is always using my protest. 50 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean they really are that good. I 51 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: mean they really are that good. You do? And I 52 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: get more compliments in my skin and they go, what 53 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: do you do? I was like, I have such a regiment, 54 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: I really do. And then they say, okay, but if 55 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: I can only buy one, I'm like, that's hard for 56 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: me to answer. That's hard for me to answer. People 57 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: come back and they say, you know, all of a sudden, 58 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: I get compliments from my skin and I never did. 59 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: And that's that's so rewarding for me because they say yes, 60 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: So I make a change in people's lives. We can 61 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: afford one product. Just start with the face cream. Yeah, 62 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: bid your way into it, and start like you know, 63 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: with with with like step by step and then you know, 64 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: I when I started, I just said my amcy one 65 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: cream and I was my life already. Yeah. I agree. 66 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: I always say the face cream. And I mean, Charlie, 67 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: I remember meeting you. I mean when your mom first 68 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: came out, we first met and you you were like 69 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: this baby with just like long legs and long hair, 70 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: and I said, who is this beautiful creature? And I 71 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: feel like you, without obviously probably planning and trying, became 72 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: this very organic ambassador spokesperson. Because what I love about you, 73 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: Charlie is that you know from the younger generation. Not 74 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: that Barbara and I are not young obviously, but like 75 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: you know, but I think you kind of exemplifying the 76 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: changes in your skin, you know, from being a teen 77 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: into your twenties. And I think you've been very candid 78 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: about you know, sort of like, oh, I've had that 79 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: issue and I used this and this process helped me 80 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: and da da da, And I think that's so incredible 81 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: to actually have someone in front of you that's going 82 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: through it and living with the products and obviously has 83 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: access to everything, but for you firsthand to say this 84 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 1: is worked for if I have breakouts or whatever, So 85 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: I think that's really cool. But first and foremost, because 86 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: it's so easy for me to talk to you guys 87 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: about that, I thank Roger's minds. I have to go 88 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: back to the beginning. I was like, are we in 89 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: sorry for a store getting a product intro? Because no, 90 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: I literally just fall asleep. Now stop, Okay, no, I did. 91 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, okay, let's do it. Well. I 92 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: want to know, like, how did this all happen? Like 93 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 1: we're here, probably relationships. This is a relationship show. You 94 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: guys have relationships, so like how did this all? And 95 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: by the way, I might ask one of the hardest 96 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: ones people ask Roger and I how we work together? 97 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: And I have to say I would turn that question 98 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: on you. Yes, how did this all start? So we 99 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: want to hear that, But also we want to hear 100 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: how do you work as a mother and daughter? I 101 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: think listen before we get there. I think we always 102 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: like to start at the beginning. So I would just like, 103 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: how did you guys meet? Like what they meet? Yeah? 104 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: At birth? Well, yeah, like what was it like? You know, 105 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: we ask everyone how they met. I think it would 106 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: be cool to see, like how you guys, like what 107 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: were you thinking? And trobably, you know, if you don't remember, 108 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: it's cool, we can make it up. I don't really remember, 109 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: but I'm sure you do very I guarded you, like 110 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: my everything from day one, and I guarded you and 111 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: guarded you, protected you and made sure you get the 112 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: best education, the best upbring in my eyes. You know, 113 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: it doesn't always say it's the best, but what I 114 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: thought serves you the best for your upbringing. And you know, 115 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: I tried to teach a little bit about using your 116 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: mother's skincare products. And then when you were like fifteen, 117 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: you just know, when you're a fourteen, you were like, no, 118 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: I need the pharmacy products. I need like real products 119 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: from the from the But what's so interesting All her 120 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: friends were using my product and Channy was and she 121 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: needed like some special products for her her teenager life. 122 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: I mean, she's right, She's absolutely right. I felt the 123 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: need at like fourteen fifteen, struggling with acouts and acting whatnot. 124 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, your anti aging products are 125 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: not going to do it for me. I need You're like, 126 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: I want to I want to look a little more 127 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: mature not but you're like, I'm not Benjamin Button here, right, 128 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: I need something that you know, it does the trait 129 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,119 Speaker 1: that burns a little little bit, like you know, maybe 130 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: makes my skin look at it. But but but I'll just 131 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: get rid of everything that's bothering me. Right. So I 132 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: did that. Nothing ever worked. It just got worse, you know, 133 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: dried up my skin and it made zero difference. I Meanwhile, 134 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: she's right. My roommate was already literally my mom. I 135 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: refuse until I ran out of my other products. I 136 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: was like, you know what, Okay, fine, it's right here. 137 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: Try I'll give in. I'll knock be stubborn. Um And 138 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: I did. And that's you never used anything else again. 139 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm on, people, know that's true. That's absolutely true, because 140 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: it's the first thing that ever helped my skin. Yeah, 141 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: we see that. That's what I was talking about. That's 142 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: the like organic not like that's what I was saying. 143 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: Because Charlie was like a teenager. Who would me, at 144 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: fourteen if my mother asked me to use something that 145 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: she made? Are you kidding me? I would have walked 146 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: in my room. I would have tried literally using butter 147 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: before I would use something that my mother gave me, 148 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: and I would like walk out, slammed the door and 149 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: be like, no thanks, I'm going to figure this out 150 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: on my own. I probably would have destroyed my face. 151 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: Isn't it lovely to have children? Okay, so now that 152 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: we determined your angry teenage self is refusing to use 153 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: your mother's incredible products, I would say stubborn, stubborn ill. 154 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: I was all the things. I was all the things 155 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: a teenage girl was so um okay, so then you 156 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 1: started it out and then your skin was never better 157 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: and then what happens? Yeah, and then what happens? And 158 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 1: then and then I was still I went to university. 159 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: I was still somewhat reluctant to working in the family 160 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: business because I felt like I should be doing something 161 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: else and I actually my own there, and and I 162 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: was also charties into acting, and I was also doing acting, 163 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: and I still an't doing that, by the way, but I, um, 164 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: I just you know, it just happened very organically, to 165 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: be honest, I didn't even know this, but then I 166 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: just I started doing little things for the company here 167 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: and there. Um, and I just kept getting to getting 168 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: more for only Chary. That was later though, and then yeah, 169 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: you're don't want to see me. They don't want to 170 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: see me. They only want to see charity out of 171 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: the freeze. It's it's it's generational. It's literally like it's 172 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: it's it's generational. That's who's that's who's shopping, it's you 173 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's crazy, But I like seeing you, Barbara. 174 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: I just want you to know that, thank you. That's 175 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: a beautiful aspect to to us and to us working together, 176 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: that we relate to you know, different generations totally. I 177 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: think that's the good. Also, I think when I talk 178 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: about skin, I talk about science and I'm excited about 179 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: how things work and what happens with your skin, and 180 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: Chattie cuts right through its face. You know, Oh, this 181 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: is how you use this product and you lay it 182 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: like this, you know, if you have storry, that's how 183 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: you do it. And I say, oh, yeah, that's what 184 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: we wanted to know. Not your mother explaining audition. You know, 185 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: well some people do. Some people want to really dive 186 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: into the science, and some people just want to know, 187 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: you know, the quick, quick answer. But I also think 188 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: that people don't understand how rare it is these days, 189 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: at least that I've ever seen that such like sort 190 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: of skin you know, experts and everything are actual doctors. 191 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: So I think that's also something to really know it. 192 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 1: And I think that you really see that when you 193 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 1: start talking about the skin, it's not just like, oh, 194 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: do this and you'll look younger. It's actually, this is 195 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: how it works, and this is the science behind it. 196 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: That's the problem with the industry. You know, the industry 197 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: is made in the way that so far it only 198 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: functioned on marketing. So you buy a product because of 199 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: its package shots of some some slogans like organic or 200 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: clean or whatever it is, which all doesn't mean anything, 201 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: you know, and nobody really put attention into, you know, 202 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 1: what's in the product, why does it work, what's important 203 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: about the skin? Why we shouldn't use reggie, all all 204 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: these kind of things. And now we challenged this industry 205 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: with brands like mine, you know, ours not mine, um 206 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: to to to really think about what is it, what 207 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: we what we use on our skin, because it's you know, 208 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 1: relating to our health, you know, totally, And how do 209 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: you find I think Roger watches my mom and I 210 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: so I think, I mean, how do you guys like 211 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: work together? By the way, I just want to also 212 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,199 Speaker 1: preface that by I worship my mother. I die for her. 213 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: She's like the queen, that's for sure. And they do 214 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: love each other, and you seem to love each other. 215 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: I mean from all, from all, clearly from you know, 216 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: all our perspective. Um, but how do you work together? 217 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: And what do you guys do? Let's talk about like 218 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: some like relationships within the business. Okay, let me start, 219 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: because I'm the chatty one of us. Great, then you 220 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: come in like some qualified comments. But you know, Charlie, 221 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: when Charlie, Charlie was young, she's always people said, you know, 222 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: Charlie's just the mother and you are the child. So 223 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: I was the one who was like, you know, like 224 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: the butterfly and trying different things and doing everything and 225 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: just like everywhere, and Charlie was the one who was 226 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: like watching the scenery and then one comment and you 227 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: cannot do this more. And it's the same like when 228 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: we work together. You know, I have some crazy ideas 229 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 1: and she said no, no, no, no, no no, not 230 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: to everything, by the way, because we all question ourselves 231 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: sometimes right, and we all like risks can be scarier, 232 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: doing something out of the ordinary can be scary. But 233 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: one thing that I felt you always did really well, 234 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: and what I kind of envy and I wish I 235 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: had more of, is just trusting your guttings instincts. Like 236 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: whenever you've done that, you've you've sometimes obviously not, but 237 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: most of the time you've been right and it's worked out. 238 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: And so I feel like, oftentimes I'll also tell you, 239 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: you know what, if it's your gut instinct, just follow that. 240 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: It's worked in the past, and you have a pretty 241 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: good one, so it's not it's not just but but 242 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: I will say often I'm like, no, no no, no, we 243 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: can't do this. 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But I will say 284 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: that people always say, what would you tell your youngest, 285 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: your younger self? And I would say, and as I 286 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: was listening to Charlie, what I would say to that is, 287 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: our young selves question everything that we do, and we 288 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: question our gut and we haven't experienced adult life long 289 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: enough to know how does this work out? And look 290 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: even as adults, we don't know how it's going to 291 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 1: work out. But I think with time and experience, you 292 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: start to say, Okay, when I go against my gut, 293 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: this doesn't work, and when I follow it it really 294 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: most of the time, really does you know? And so 295 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: I think a lot of that comes with getting older. 296 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 1: And I also think getting older in business, and I 297 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: think that both of you know and have experienced, like 298 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: building a business and a brand. There's nothing harder, There's 299 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: nothing harder, there's nothing more rewarding, but there's nothing more challenging. 300 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: And it has its ties, and it has its lows 301 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: and all those things. But I think that is the 302 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: best experience that you can probably and both of you 303 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: also both of you also have your name on the brand. Yeah, 304 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: so I think that's a little It's also slightly different 305 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: because I think in many ways the brand Encapula encapsulates 306 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: you a little bit more than it's almost like I 307 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 1: always think about it like it was a movie. You 308 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: could be playing a role as an actor, or you 309 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: could be doing like the biography, Like the biography is 310 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: like sort of you, and like if you could play 311 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: someone else, could you whatever you want to be? So 312 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: I think there's a there's a certain element of that 313 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 1: anyway by two cents, But I love it. I just 314 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: I do think representing it generationally is so cool because 315 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: I think that you're hitting really two people because if 316 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: you know, if a sixty something is looking at STEM 317 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 1: products and they're only looking at Charlie, they'll be like, Okay, 318 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: really does she understand what I'm dealing with? It? All right? 319 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 1: So all of this, all this sense, this all sounds 320 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: really copathetical. Like what do you guys fight about? Though? 321 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: Like what's your like? What issues you out? Seriously? You 322 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 1: definitely fight. I get tell Charlie's annoyed with me. Sometimes 323 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: you're annoyed with me sometimes, but you're more often annoyed 324 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: with me. It's like when I get the look from 325 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: Charlie and they're like, oh, you don't want to get 326 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:24,679 Speaker 1: Charlie's look. No, Sometimes sometimes you act very impulsively. I 327 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: would say maybe you know, and then I'm just like, 328 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, or what would be an example of that, Charlie, 329 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm having trouble putting my finger on it. Let me 330 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: try you have recently, like she sometimes, for example, will 331 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: share things that I don't want her to share, you know, 332 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 1: right right? Oh my god, why are mothers and daughters 333 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: so competitive? Like, oh my god, you wore my sweater. 334 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, Rachel, you have seventy sweaters, yeah, but I 335 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 1: love that one. But like, you haven't worn that in 336 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: two years, but I might have worn it. I'm like, 337 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so mean. That's like mother daughter. 338 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: What can I tell you something? You guys, and tell 339 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 1: me if you agree with this, Charlie specifically, here's a 340 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 1: reason behind this. Here's the thing. This is what I 341 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: find with mothers and daughters. And tell me if you 342 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: guys believe this. I think mothers we have It's like, 343 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: our moms are our safe people, right, It's our safest person. 344 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: So we can yell at them, we can be mean 345 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: when we need to, because like, I'm not mean to 346 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: anybody and nobody when you're a pain, when you're a 347 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: pain of my but that, honey, that just means you're 348 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: my safe person. But like, I don't how to become scary. 349 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: I want to get nice to you. But the truth 350 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: is is that my mom and what I find with 351 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: girls and moms a lot of my friends, we can't 352 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: breathe without our mothers, But there's no one we sort 353 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: of like bicker with or they can hit that chord. 354 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: My mom can say something to me before bed that 355 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,959 Speaker 1: literally it like a gift. It's like a talent. She 356 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: could say like four words and I'll just hang up 357 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: the phone. I'll be like, but why did why did you? 358 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: Why did you say that? And I'll like wake up, 359 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: and I'll look at Roger. I'll be like, do you 360 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: think Hias is growing properly? Do you think he's too small? Like? 361 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 1: She'll just say something that'll like it's like a zinger 362 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: and like reverer fine, And I'll talk to her for 363 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: two more hours the next day and we just like 364 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: live for each other. But there's just no other person 365 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: in my life that I can have that safe relationship 366 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: with where you can be your one hundred percent truest 367 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: self and share your good I want to hear from 368 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: them how they feel. Do you believe in that? I 369 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: believe believe in that. I would definitely say you're my 370 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: safe person. Um. But but one thing I will say 371 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: about the arguing is that if we do or when 372 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 1: we do it, I mean we do, but it's never long, 373 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 1: like we always recovery time. That's the key to a 374 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: close with the ship. I can't live like we've made 375 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: a pony and like yeah and bad energies and whatever, 376 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: like we need to make up immediately, Like it's yeah, right. 377 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 1: You could like yell at each other and be like, okay, 378 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: what are we having for dinner? From each other? Energy? No, No, 379 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 1: we just get bitchy, you know, like it's a bicker. 380 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: It's a bicker. Yeah, it's like a it's like a quickie. 381 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean anything. It's like ah. But I think 382 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: that's human. And I also think that because you work together, 383 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: it's sort of like, I don't know, there's no one 384 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: else you trust in the world like you guys. So 385 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 1: I feel like the way I always say it when 386 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: I bicker with him is sort of like I'd rather 387 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: bicker with him than somebody else, if that makes sense, 388 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 1: Like do you know what I mean? But I also 389 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: love that you guys are building such a beautiful thing together. 390 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,880 Speaker 1: That's got to feel really good. But you know what's 391 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,239 Speaker 1: also great, So why are we're working together? We're not 392 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 1: really working together. Charlie says, like, you know, authorities in 393 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: other weds where I'm not really involved and I want 394 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: her to to make decisions there because it's suited to 395 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: her more than it is to me. So I trust 396 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: her completely with her opinion about things. She's very, very smart, 397 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: um when because she's like different to me. She thinks 398 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: about things and you know, makes like decisions she had 399 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: thought about like a long time, and I'm like, okay, 400 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: let's do it. Let's do it. You know, for me, 401 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: there's no no no boundary. I just go for things 402 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: quickly and do it. And you know that's how I 403 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: how I love to do it. But it's nice if 404 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 1: someone sits there and also says, you know what, let's 405 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: think about it a a little more and maybe don't jump 406 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: on it into quickly. Nice balance. Well, I have a question, um, 407 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: is it true that you have five children? Oh? I 408 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:55,199 Speaker 1: have three step children. Okay, I have Pappa and Charlie. 409 00:22:55,520 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: So I have like three teenagers okay and seventeen, Peppers 410 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: seven and Charlie's twenty five. Oh my goodness. Well, first 411 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 1: of all, but I also want to point out that 412 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: you were a very young mom, right, I looked like twelve, 413 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: No joke, oh, I kind of only you still look twelve, 414 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 1: by the way. Eating Healthy, Delicious food has always been 415 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: important to me, and as a mom raising two very 416 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: quickly growing boys, it's become even more important. That's why 417 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm such a huge fan of Green Chef. 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Green Chef the number one 450 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: meal kit for eating. Well, how is that building a 451 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 1: business as a mom, Because that's my question, because I 452 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: think that's I was a later mom and I it's 453 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 1: it's it's not easy to do. And you have five children, 454 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: but you've also been a young you were very young 455 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: mom building this spare. But I was still a student. 456 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: I was in medicine, and I had Charlie in my 457 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: you know, semester vacation, and then I went right back 458 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 1: to university and I took her with me and I 459 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 1: was breast feeding her. You know, it was just like 460 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: taking her everywhere, and she would sleep. She was so easy. 461 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: She was such a relaxed kid. And and then you know, 462 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm like Pepper or I had Pepper seven. I said 463 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 1: to my husband, you know, so easy, we can have 464 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: another child. It's so easy. It goes on the side 465 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: and it's like full on crazy andy. So it's like 466 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: something like some thunder hit me. But it was Charlie 467 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: was easy, and she was like, you know, going aside 468 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,719 Speaker 1: and along with whatever I was doing, she was. And 469 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 1: also my mother was still alive. My parents were taking 470 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: care of Charlie, so I could really focus also on 471 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 1: my business. And Charlie was also cool. We mostly didn't 472 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: go on vacation. We went to New York or where 473 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: else in the world, treating patients. She was a patient. 474 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: She's sitting on the sofa with her Nintendo and that 475 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: was done book clocks and phillis into people's faces. You know, 476 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 1: that was her life, watching me building and building this business. 477 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: You know, Wow, it's pretty cool. It's almost like like 478 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 1: a musician or someone else that goes on the road 479 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: and their kid, you know, goes on the road with them. 480 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: You know kind of yeah, it's like almost famous. No, 481 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: but it's pretty It's really cool. And I for me, 482 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: just as a working mom, I always thought was like 483 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 1: my biggest question, like what if I did this mom 484 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,479 Speaker 1: thing earlier? What would that have been like? From building 485 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: my career and even having Sky really late in life, 486 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: I took him everywhere until he was in school. I 487 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: literally just took him every air. You know. So beyond work, 488 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 1: what do you guys like to do? And first of all, 489 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 1: what do you like to do when you're not working? 490 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: And do you do it together or separately? Um, we 491 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: do a lot of things together. Our work is very 492 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 1: much not schedule, like it's very it's constant, you know, 493 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: but we do like stuff in between. For example, now 494 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: we just went, um we obviously like celebrated Christmas together 495 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 1: and then we went skiing together. Um, in between, we'd 496 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 1: work stuff obviously, but like skiing together for them, but 497 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: we love right we What else do we do together? Um? 498 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: We go for nice we were in together, we go 499 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 1: for walks. We're yeah, I mean when we're we're in 500 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: the same city. When when we're in the same place, 501 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: we just around together. Yeah, spend. The guys are the cutest. 502 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: I just want to everyone to know that they are 503 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: actually that, I mean, they are really beyond beautiful, not 504 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: to professional, but they're soka. Um, So, Charlie, where do 505 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: you live live now? New York? Just to move to 506 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: New York? I was living in LA, but I just 507 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: moved to New York, which is also nice to be 508 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: a bit closer to Europe. Um, yeah, it is. That's 509 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: the one negative about LA. We're far from Europe. Pain 510 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: in the butt. To add to the young mom thing, 511 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to say that it was a like I 512 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 1: always loved it because I feel like we had such 513 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: a close relationship and such a more like also sister 514 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: friendly relationship. And don't get me wrong, she was strict. 515 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: She wasn't she wasn't a not strict mom. But she 516 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: also he always gave me trust, like I trusted her 517 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 1: with everything because, like I, even though I knew you 518 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: should get mad at something's obviously, I trusted with telling 519 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: her everything because she was there as a friend and 520 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: supported and would help me find a solution rather than 521 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: you know, getting really at right. Yeah, I've always really 522 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: appreciated that growing up. And what's your advice to other 523 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: people about working with their moms, Like, like, clearly it's 524 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 1: working really well for you guys, but do you have 525 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 1: thoughts on that outside? I mean, I guess it depends 526 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 1: on the relationship, but yeah, I guess it depends. I 527 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: think one thing that you said that I totally agree 528 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: with is that we work in different different Like we 529 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: we don't have every meeting together, you know, we work 530 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: in different departments. Yeah, we have a good balance, and 531 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: I think that really does it. And then we also 532 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 1: divide and conquer, like in a way that you know, 533 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 1: like some things you can't be out, so I'll do 534 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: them now, And it's just a really good um. Yeah, 535 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: it has to be different departments. I think also for couples, 536 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: if they you know, work on the same meetings, Oh god, 537 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't even imagine. Oh yeah, we've been working together 538 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: for a very very long time, and we at this 539 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: point where we basically very different together. We're not a 540 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: meeting together most of the time. I think it's just 541 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 1: way better. It's actually and for most of the time, 542 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: she's not allowed to ask me questions because most of 543 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 1: the questions are oh stop, mostly already answered in other 544 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: written communications. So if she read this is how we 545 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: were communication, we have to have our listeners can't see. 546 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 1: But I'm hitting him with a paper right now. You 547 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: get to know. I want to ask her certain questions too. 548 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, I just want to know things sometimes, you know, 549 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: just and she'll just be annoyed. I hate, I hate, 550 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate Oh my god, I love you. 551 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: I hate updating people too, especially after I wrote an 552 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: email updating everyone. Yeah, Jesus, just like, no, I don't 553 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: repeat my conversation here. I don't know, Charlie. I'm with you, 554 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: deep love Charlie. I'm with you. We love you, guys, 555 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: and it's so amazing to have you on today. We 556 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 1: love you obviously. I'm a die hard fan. I actually 557 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 1: made Roger care about his skin because of you. I 558 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: think his first ever facial was with you. Actually, he 559 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: was really excited and slightly nervous. I mean, thankfully, I'm 560 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: blessed with amazing skins, so I don't have to do 561 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: much work for it. But you know, for those of 562 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 1: you who have more taxing needs, I would recommend a 563 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: full regimen of Miss Durmo's product. Doctor man, please, by 564 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: the way, you have to work really hard for a 565 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: doctor in front of your name. That I think for 566 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: those who actually achieve that in life, it should just 567 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: always be any of our friends said, Actually, our doctors, 568 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: we literally call them, like our friend Jake is like, 569 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: we literally call him doctor Jake, Like, we will never 570 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: address him as Jake. We just call doctor. I tell 571 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: him tell I say doctor Jacomore. Yeah, because we feel 572 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 1: like he's on a soap oprice just playing one in. 573 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: All right, let's play some Let's play a little game. 574 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: Let's ask some great questions. I'm gonna ask the first question. 575 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: So this is sort of like newly Red game where 576 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: you have to answer for each other and see how 577 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: well you know each other. I bet they do well. 578 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 1: Maybe they do all right, So Charlie, you have to 579 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 1: answer for your mom and vice versa. So your mom says, Charlie, 580 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: can you grab me achieved from the store on your 581 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 1: way home? What would you get her a treat from 582 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 1: the store? Yeah, grab me something on the way home, 583 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: surprise me. Would you get her I get her cake. 584 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: I'd go to the next like like yeah, it depends 585 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: where we are. Like right now, we're Inducedorf and we 586 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,479 Speaker 1: have this cake store around the corner and knew exactly 587 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 1: which cake together, like cake, like a slice of cake 588 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: or a whole tree. For example, here there's the store 589 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 1: called Hindeman which has this cake called Charlotte. It's literally 590 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: called Charlotte and it's still like like cream cake with 591 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: like raspberry sauce and yep, dumb as. That's so cool, 592 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: you guys. Can you see the name of the cake story, 593 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 1: it's so dry. I just love the name of that 594 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: shakes so good, so shake. And here we'd be like 595 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: Charlotte laired all right, well vice versa. If you had 596 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: to get something Virtuarlie, what would it be? I probably 597 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: would pick up a sticky toffee pudding somewhere. I really 598 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: like sweet treats. We like it, Yeah, any sweet treat 599 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 1: to be yes, Yeah, but it's like that's really a 600 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: tree read because we try obviously to stay away from it. 601 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: But when we have it, we have it. You have 602 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,799 Speaker 1: a sweet too, Yeah, but like you want the real thing, 603 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,879 Speaker 1: Like all my European friends, they want the real things. 604 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 1: They're not eating like a diet treat like exactly, they 605 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 1: want French fries, ice cream and steak. Do you want 606 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 1: to ask a questions? Yeah? Yeah, Okay, so this is 607 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 1: my favorite and I ask everyone because I think you 608 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: learned so much about people with this question. Okay, Charlie, 609 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: if your mom was going to get arrested, what would 610 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 1: she get arrested for? Jesus, it's not anything real, Like, 611 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: it's not she's going to steal something. But like maybe 612 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 1: we've had really really funny ones. Tell too much to 613 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:55,919 Speaker 1: my competitors, you know, corporate espionage, corporate corporate espionage, people 614 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: for for false parking. Do you call it Paul's parking? 615 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they Well I'm that you're not yet most 616 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 1: parking tickets in this town here, I puck everywhere I 617 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 1: used to have I used to have. I don't have 618 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 1: this anymore, like a like a sign like a doctor 619 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 1: sign in my car, so I could just park our 620 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 1: here anywhere. And you know, there was an article in 621 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 1: a newspaper here that doctor Sturm is just parking everywhere. 622 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: That is actually you actually would get arrested for that. Okay, 623 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: what would Charlie get arrested for? You see, I think 624 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 1: I think it would be a similar thing because she 625 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: and the car's quite an aggressive driver, especially in La 626 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,439 Speaker 1: Charlie is protesting with her facial expressions just everyone else. 627 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 1: I learned. My husband told me, you are in America. 628 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: You know, people have guns. You cannot be aggressive in cars. 629 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 1: People have funs, so I s you know, as I 630 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,759 Speaker 1: just shoot out, don't grid a lift, just drive and 631 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 1: be sure you don't. But you are you and I 632 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 1: get annoyed fair enough. If you had like a car 633 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: in part behind you or whatever would see the way 634 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 1: you drive, you would be arrested for sure. I can't no, 635 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 1: these are this is literally what people some we've had, 636 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: like mine, I'd be arrested for like yelling at someone 637 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: who works at the airport because like a TSA, I 638 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: would definitely be put in jail. Yeah I have not 639 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: paid for this, I literally same yeah, same. Okay, that's insane. Okay, okay, 640 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 1: so last one, um uh Barbara, who's Charlie's hero? And 641 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: you can't say yourself. Charlie once wrote an essay in 642 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:52,359 Speaker 1: her school about her idol and guess who it was? Was? Me? 643 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:57,279 Speaker 1: So what am I? Hey? Okay, so your answer is 644 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: Charlie's hero is you? Charlie? Do you have same answer 645 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: for you? You better be very careful at that. Charlie, 646 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: who is your mom's hero? I think I think her? 647 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:14,359 Speaker 1: Are you her hero? I don't think I am? Yeah? No, no, no, 648 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 1: just gomes one way hero? Was your mom too? No? Yeah? 649 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,879 Speaker 1: I always I always thought my mom was an incredible 650 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,359 Speaker 1: human being. She was so supportive of she was so 651 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: proud of me, so supportive, she was incredible, and teaching 652 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 1: us how to treat others, and you know, being like 653 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: with both you on the ground always and and the 654 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: way she dedicated to left her children. I think it's 655 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: just you know what, what we would we learned from her? 656 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 1: And she was so asked, Yeah, I why would I? 657 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: You know, why would I? You know I canize someone else? 658 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: You know we don't know that. Well yeah, yeah, totally, 659 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: you're right. Yeah it was disappointed anyway, Um, you know 660 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 1: good night stories for rebel girls you know you know 661 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,799 Speaker 1: this one or like you know, they're like all these 662 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: great people who did some amazing things, and yeah, learns 663 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: all amazing. But I think you know, you know, the 664 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: people are really the mostly appreciate in life, other people 665 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: close around you. Yes, I mean, if you're lucky, well, 666 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 1: I love you both. I'm so happy to have you 667 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: on for joining us. I think you're our first mother daughter. 668 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 1: We've had a lot, a lot, a lot of couples. 669 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 1: We've had some really incredible, amazing relationships. But unfortunately the 670 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: show has no budget, so you don't get a prist 671 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 1: or anything. Okay, just I haven't for you. You're going 672 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: to be invited back to our podcasts. Oh good, So 673 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 1: it's a mandatory show up. We will we will be there. 674 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 1: We will be there, and we love doing it. I 675 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: think we're coming up on a year. We've had some 676 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,280 Speaker 1: amazing gas that we're really we've been yeah, not crazy, 677 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 1: it's like eleven years. Oh. I loved that episode. They're 678 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: very cute together. They're so cute. It's really cool for 679 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: me to see a mother and daughter um that work together, 680 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 1: because I don't I don't know how many of those 681 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 1: I've seen in my life, to be honest, because I 682 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: feel like, typically no offense, but mothers and daughters are 683 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 1: very competitive, and it's almost like it's just it's just 684 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,520 Speaker 1: like there's not enough room for both of them in 685 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: a business. Yeah, it's hard, but I think I think 686 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: that's a testament to like their relationship. I mean, they're 687 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,600 Speaker 1: they're they're clearly not competitive, and I think that they 688 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 1: both realize the sort of strength benefit. Yeah, the strength, 689 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 1: and they clearly check different boxes in the business. Well. 690 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: Also because it's like a medical based company, you know, 691 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of room for you know, 692 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,760 Speaker 1: someone has to be a real doctor. Yeah. Um, so 693 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 1: I think that, you know, there's a lot of in 694 00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: a room for her to do her going. And and 695 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 1: obviously I agree Charlie's you know, very you know, sort 696 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 1: of their target audience sprung up more or less like educated, 697 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 1: you know, sophisticated, cares about things. They're both so beautiful too, 698 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: and like can you imagine baby Charlie with like Barbara 699 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: carrying her around just taking her everywhere these like their 700 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: scan I can only imagine. Yeah. Anyway, I loved this episode. 701 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: I really loved seeing such a such a cool mother 702 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 1: daughter duo that worked together. And I also really appreciate 703 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 1: that Barbara was such a young mom and kind of 704 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: building a business. No, I mean it's not easy without 705 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: a child. I can't even imagine the challenge of building this. 706 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 1: And by the way, still in school for her getting 707 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:50,240 Speaker 1: her degree and being a mom. I mean, it's clearly 708 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,439 Speaker 1: she's very smart, able to do driven, yeah, and able 709 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: to work. But I actually think there's an even more 710 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: interesting observation. I think her sort of she said, she's 711 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 1: like kind of a free spirit. She just she doesn't 712 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: overthink it. My guess is that most people are like, 713 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, I have a child, there's no way 714 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 1: I could have a business. I need to get a job, 715 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: do whatever. And I think because she doesn't really necessarily 716 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: think that way, she just thought, Okay, we'll have a 717 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: baby and I'm gonna have a business. So I think 718 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,280 Speaker 1: that's really it really says a lot about her. Agreed. 719 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 1: So congrats to you. If you like what you've heard 720 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: so far, please make sure you're subscribed on Apple Podcasts 721 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,319 Speaker 1: and give us a rating and review please, and of 722 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 1: course keep listening. Also check out our Instagram at at 723 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 1: works dot four dot us and make sure you tell 724 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: us your story. There's it works for us phoneline that 725 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,759 Speaker 1: you can call and leave us a message with your 726 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 1: very own relationship stories, and we're planning to share our 727 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,360 Speaker 1: favorites on the podcast. You can also ask us for 728 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: a relationship advice, although I can't stress enough that we 729 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,280 Speaker 1: are not experts, but we will still take your questions. 730 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 1: So if you want to share your story or ask 731 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 1: us a question, give us a call at six five 732 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: seven five four nine two two five one. That's six 733 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,960 Speaker 1: five seven five four nine two two five one. You 734 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 1: can also find all of our contact info on our 735 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: Instagram at works dot four dot us. But before we 736 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,560 Speaker 1: leave you, we like to leave you with a little 737 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:35,279 Speaker 1: highlight and low light from our week, because in relationships, 738 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: the bad comes with a good, So this is our 739 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,279 Speaker 1: time to mention a little bit of both those things. Babe, 740 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: you want to go first, Um, sure, Well, highlight, I'll 741 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 1: go first, and it's probably gonna be the same one 742 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 1: as you. But the highlight is I'm looking outside and 743 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: for the first time in our life, we're able to 744 00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,959 Speaker 1: have like a little second getaway situation and it's kind 745 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: of second home. Yeah that's what he means. Sorry, And 746 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: you know the home part is cool, Like it's nice 747 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 1: to have like this ability to like change your vibe, 748 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 1: like from work week to week end. Although the now 749 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,799 Speaker 1: we're just going to stay here for a bit and 750 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 1: it's going to blend all into one and we're probably 751 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,719 Speaker 1: not going to achieve that, of course, but that's just 752 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 1: typical us. But that aside, it actually has a little 753 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 1: bit of a different meaning in a weird way. For me. 754 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 1: It feels like a little bit like every time we 755 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 1: do something like more adult, I feel like a little 756 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 1: bit more like, oh, no, we have a family, like 757 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 1: we are, we are parents, we are you know, we 758 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: have two like I don't know. It just makes me 759 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: feel a little bit more somewhat older, but not in 760 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,359 Speaker 1: a bad way, just so much a little bit more 761 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:57,279 Speaker 1: like established if we've grown up, Yeah, a little more established. 762 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,799 Speaker 1: And it's kind of a good feeling. Well, we work 763 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 1: really really hard for what we want in life, and 764 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 1: you know, I think at a certain age you're excited 765 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 1: that you've done the thing that you've dreamed about. And 766 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: you know, Roger and I think looked at each other 767 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,080 Speaker 1: over this weekend we're like, we really actually have a 768 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 1: second home. Yeah, I guess that makes me feel good. 769 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:27,160 Speaker 1: Um low light And this is I mean, I don't 770 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: know if this is a little low No, it's a 771 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 1: little it's a little silly, but like the Rams really, 772 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 1: I mean they really should have won yesterday and overtime, 773 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry they didn't win. No through a game, 774 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 1: yes through a pick. I feel like that game never ended, 775 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,399 Speaker 1: Like you just kept coming in and going, oh my god, 776 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: it's done. It's the sickest game over That game. That 777 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: was the night game. That game was insane. The Raiders game. 778 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 1: The Raiders game was the sickest game I've ever seen. 779 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 1: Do you see that, Mary? That was insanity. Oh my god, 780 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: I watched the end. That was a game that went 781 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 1: on forever. Well, a really good NFL so I'd like 782 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: to thank the NFL as although the low light was that. 783 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,799 Speaker 1: Oh and the other crazy thing that happened in the 784 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 1: low light. I don't know if he saw the Chargers game. 785 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's still talking. Instead of just letting 786 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: the clock run down, the Chargers coach called a time 787 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: out and whatever. It's really silly, but he basically prevented 788 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:27,800 Speaker 1: them from coming to the playoffs, which is the weirdest 789 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,279 Speaker 1: thing of all time. I was watching it broadcast for 790 00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: watching and everyone's like, why is he doing this and 791 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 1: he didn't, and it was nuts. And then the Steelers 792 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: are now going to the playoffs and Bensberger, my sister's boyfriend, 793 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: is probably flipping out, Oh yeah, Pittsburgh. And he wouldn't 794 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: let Pamela talk in the room last night because he 795 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 1: was afraid that her loud talking was gonna By the way, 796 00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 1: you understand, it was a tie game. If they tied, 797 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,400 Speaker 1: they weren't going into the playoffs. And all of a sudden, 798 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,800 Speaker 1: the Chargers guy there was twenty seconds left, like calls 799 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 1: the time out when they were just going to let 800 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 1: the clock run out, and they're like, oh, you're really 801 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,799 Speaker 1: calling a time out, Well, then screw you it. They 802 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: kicked the field goal, so they lost. It was crazy 803 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: and the stealers went in, So yes, your mark is 804 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 1: going absolutely crazy, and Ben who's retired, everyone thought they 805 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: saw my listeners listening to my husband talking to me 806 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 1: for they're going to be they're going to cut this out. 807 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 1: Based to trying to pease my dad and like try 808 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 1: and have like a really good reaction to him explaining 809 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 1: like excited about a game because I wanted him to 810 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: not feel alone. So I kind of just found myself 811 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: trying to do that for you. I'm pretending to care 812 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 1: about what you just told me anyway. Do I have 813 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 1: a low light? Um or a highlight? That's what we're 814 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,359 Speaker 1: doing here, a highlight? Will you just stopped talking, so 815 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 1: give me a second, Jesus put some music. Do do 816 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 1: Do Do? Do? Do? Do? Do? Do? Do? I? Oh 817 00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: my god, honestly, I like forgot my highlight. Honestly, my 818 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:06,280 Speaker 1: highlight is honestly being being in Malibu, and that's already 819 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,960 Speaker 1: been used on the show. Please provide another highlight. No, 820 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:18,839 Speaker 1: I wasn't done. You get the most Annoying award today. 821 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 1: My lowland is my husband's driving me crazy. But what 822 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 1: I was going to say before he was rude and 823 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: won't stop singing, is I was going to say that 824 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: what I actually realized, my highlight is is that I 825 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 1: really can be anywhere with my family and just literally 826 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 1: be happy. And I know it sounds like sappy, but 827 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,840 Speaker 1: what I realized is I'm never sick of my kids. 828 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 1: That might change when they're teenagers, but for now, I 829 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 1: really enjoy being with them more than I enjoy being 830 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 1: with anybody. And then I really realized that when it's 831 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 1: the four of us like I'm down, like I'm cool, 832 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,399 Speaker 1: and I doesn't matter what house we're in, doesn't matter 833 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: where we travel. We you know, that's my highlight. It's 834 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 1: sort of like I'm happy with like what's right around me. 835 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm very content watching movie nights and making food and 836 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:13,359 Speaker 1: stuff like that. My love light, yeah, but my low light, 837 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 1: I would say honestly that I feel like we just 838 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 1: did a massive circle in COVID and I feel like 839 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,239 Speaker 1: we're just back in, like you know, and thankfully with Amicron. 840 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: You know, not that many people are getting really well 841 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,719 Speaker 1: people are. But anyway, long story short is, it's just 842 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: so not over and I think we're all just over it. 843 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,480 Speaker 1: But I think at the same time you have to 844 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: really still proceed with caution very very much. So that's 845 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 1: a big low light that I woke up with today, 846 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 1: just realizing like canceling things and you know whatever. So 847 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,440 Speaker 1: here we are. Here we are. But thank you. I 848 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 1: do want to say thank you to the doctors and 849 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 1: all the frontline workers. Get your vaccines please, it will 850 00:48:56,280 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 1: save your life ultimately. See you next week on works 851 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 1: for US next week fight mm hm hm