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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: I don't join joining me. You turn you're going. You

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Speaker 1: Come come on your fad uh huh, I sure will

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Speaker 1: come on. Everybody, y'all listen to the voice. Come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey. Uh got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Yep, yep sometimes saw all I can

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Speaker 1: say yelp, Man, how far I've come is really unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: But you know I finally figured it out. Man. God

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Speaker 1: allowed me to have the life I've had so that

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Speaker 1: then this experience when I'm talking and sharing with people,

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Speaker 1: I will be able to relate to a lot of

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Speaker 1: different circumstances. Not exact, but just the circumstances. You know.

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Speaker 1: You know, if a person comes to men, they say, man,

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Speaker 1: I've been down and out. Okay, Well I know what

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Speaker 1: So you know, I think what I'm trying to say

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Speaker 1: to everybody is when you're going through life and life

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Speaker 1: is dealing the cards that it deals, I want you

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Speaker 1: to understand that life deals everybody these cards. The disappointment card,

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Speaker 1: gonna get, the rash of bad decision card, everybody gonna

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Speaker 1: get these cards. It's how you play them, though, you know,

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Speaker 1: from time to time, one more time, it's how you

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Speaker 1: play them, you know. From time to time. I'm watching TV.

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Speaker 1: I love to watch the World Series of Poker. I

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Speaker 1: like watching poker tournaments on TV because it's it's really weird.

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Speaker 1: What's happened to a sport? To a poker they're actually

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Speaker 1: trying to call it a sport, you know, And as

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Speaker 1: if they play their cards right, the best poker players

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Speaker 1: the hand because they knew the bluff, they knew the odds,

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Speaker 1: And it ain't whether you're gonna get dealt bad cards

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Speaker 1: You know, when you play and draw poker, some of

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Speaker 1: Until you make a conscientious different, the conscious decision to

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Speaker 1: Stop tripping yourself out. I was talking to this young person.

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Speaker 1: take ownership. When God gives you something, blesses you would

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Speaker 1: Don't let people come in here and take it from you. Man, Okay,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. What maul can I say than this?

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Speaker 1: It's a great day to day. Certainly you must appreciate

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Lord, Heavenly Father for this day. Grant me

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Speaker 1: man a man Amen again. Chully Strawberry calling for real

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Speaker 1: with all the hell mouth of the sophist in the

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Speaker 1: We are here today, gathered. A normally asked Junior what

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Speaker 1: Was there ever a point in your career? Uh, and

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Speaker 1: a new mindset. That's that's a great that's great advice, Steven.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you for that. Coming up in thirty

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, it's on

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Speaker 1: you to run that prank back. What you got, Let's

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Speaker 1: run that prank back. This is the prank and pay

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Speaker 1: your wife neck running catch you love that part. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I wish to speak with a mister please, Hello, sir,

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Speaker 1: my name is Sebastian. I am with the Art Institute

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Speaker 1: and I wanted to give you a call about I

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Speaker 1: have a huge showing coming up where I am going

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Speaker 1: to be displaying my portfolio and all of my drawings

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Speaker 1: looking to display that I have not put on canvas yet,

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Speaker 1: and I'm looking to take something of essence to put

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Speaker 1: Well wait, hold on, DoD just to stop you right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't do that, all right, I'm not a model.

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Speaker 1: That's not my profession. So not waste your time no more.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Just no, go ahead, mister.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you understand that my showing is gonna

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Speaker 1: Black Twitter has been less than kind since the Queen's death,

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Speaker 1: wreck your marriage because he bought four hundred dollars from assist.

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Speaker 1: You talked to his sister, and assistant never mentioned it

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Speaker 1: to you. Sist probably don't even like you. That's why

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Speaker 1: she gave you the four hundred Because he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to ask you for the four hundred. He bought some

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Speaker 1: cigars with it. It's what he did. Don't call her

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, thank you, Cello. I think coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we'll have some

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Speaker 1: entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Well. Queen Elizabeth the Second passed away

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Speaker 1: on Thursday. Last Thursday at the age of ninety six.

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Speaker 1: Black Twitter wasted no time calling out her legacy. While

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Speaker 1: some chose to mourn her death, many folks decided to

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Speaker 1: address the history of the British monarchy, which included colonialism

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Speaker 1: and slavery. TMZ caught up with Dale Hugley, our friend,

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Speaker 1: and got his thoughts on the negative tweets and posts

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Speaker 1: following the death of the Queen. Take a listen. She's

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Speaker 1: obviously she didn't have anything to do with slavery. I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying that she didn't have views that were problematic.

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Speaker 1: But at the end of her life her race is

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Speaker 1: over now. Yeah, never she's done, she's gonna be judgedful, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I think that ultimately, I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 1: see how somebody could claim the whole Christian ideas and

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Speaker 1: then want to point to somebody after they gone. She's

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Speaker 1: running her race. Whatever she did or didn't do, she's

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Speaker 1: answered for now. Whatever place she's saved, saved that having

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Speaker 1: her hand, she's into that. So all I can do

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Speaker 1: is be capacity to the people that lost somebody to

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Speaker 1: their life. Well, I agree with what d L said.

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Speaker 1: I don't have much of an opinion really one way

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Speaker 1: or the other. I didn't grow up in England. I

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Speaker 1: didn't grow up in the monarchy, you know. I never No,

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Speaker 1: I never understood the whole queen thing to begin with.

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Speaker 1: And now her son Charles is the king. He just

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Speaker 1: get to be that goodness entire life. Yeah, I've seen

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Speaker 1: some monarchies work, but I'm going over here and deal

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Speaker 1: with this voting. This voting work for me unless I

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Speaker 1: could go into a place where monarchy has great family

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Speaker 1: leadership and stuff like that. But in our democracy, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean London, UK got problems like everything else. Socism

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Speaker 1: they got, they got, they got racism, so that yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will just say this that Earl of Aldingham will

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Speaker 1: be him to straighten out all of this after the

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Speaker 1: nineteenth Yeah, and he knows all the dog secrets and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna finally know what was really going on at

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Speaker 1: Buckingham Palace with Earl of Altingham speaks after the final funeral,

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Speaker 1: the funeral law James Brown funeral stuff. Why is the

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Speaker 1: Godfather of Soul in this cover? Well because I thought

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Speaker 1: the other day, but y'all told me she died in

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Speaker 1: Scotland and that that was the part they was having

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Speaker 1: in Scotland. And yeah, other part gonna be on the nineteenth.

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Speaker 1: You know they kept James a long time. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on. Thank you heard about James. I was

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Speaker 1: actually involved in the fight. That's the way he should be.

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Speaker 1: I was his property move in the front yard though,

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Speaker 1: I was. It's sports news, well kind of kind of

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Speaker 1: sports news, sort of sports news. Sex worker in Las Vegas,

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Speaker 1: So while we're switching gears, a sex worker in Las

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Speaker 1: Vegas is offering her services to the Las Vegas Raiders

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Speaker 1: football players and staff members at a discounted rate. The

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Speaker 1: sex worker's name is Ariel Ganjaum, who works at the

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Speaker 1: Chicken Ratch brothel, and according to TMZ Sports, Ariel is

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Speaker 1: reportedly offering a fifty percent off special to the Raiders

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Speaker 1: for her special services. Throughout the twenty twenty two twenty

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Speaker 1: three football season as a quote, thank you for bringing

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Speaker 1: excitement to the city. The services that she's offering include

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Speaker 1: her name is Ariel Ganja Ganja or Ganja. Yeah. Why

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Speaker 1: why you asked? I'll go ahead, Okay who the whole

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Speaker 1: football team? Well anyway, yeah, well let me tell you

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Speaker 1: what her services will be. She's going to offer um private,

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Speaker 1: um free limo rides to the chicken ranch with a

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Speaker 1: private entrance to a bungalow for added secrecy, and she's

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Speaker 1: hoping to become These are her hope. She has dreams too, Okay, uh.

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Speaker 1: She she wants to be the official sex worker to

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Speaker 1: the Las Vegas Raiders. So to answer your question, yes, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you know prostitution is legal in some areas of Nevada,

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Speaker 1: So there you go. That's for the sad thing about

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Speaker 1: this is they're going to I'm going down there. Yeah

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Speaker 1: oh uh huh for sure exactly when you said that staff?

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Speaker 1: Uh because the football players and the staff members and

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Speaker 1: it's the rate is going to be discounted. So it's

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Speaker 1: a win win, Is that what you're saying for everybody?

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you I just left Vegas and

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Speaker 1: I saw that stadium. The rate is not they have

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00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: laid it out for the Raiders, so you knew this

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Speaker 1: was coming right. Yeah. So that's her goal to be

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Speaker 1: known as the official sex worker to the lavent Las

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Speaker 1: Vegas Raiders. So there you go. Uh. Kanye is back

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Speaker 1: in the news and an interview Steve with Bloomberg News,

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Speaker 1: Kanye said he's done working with big companies. It's time

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Speaker 1: for him to quote go at it alone. Uh. Kanye said,

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Speaker 1: It's fine. I made the company's money, The company's made

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Speaker 1: me money, created ideas that will change apparel forever. Now

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Speaker 1: it's time for ya to make the new industry. No

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Speaker 1: more companies standing in between me and the audience. Kanye

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00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: referred to the companies as his new baby mamas and said, quote,

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Speaker 1: I guess we're going to have to co parent these

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Speaker 1: three fifties, which are shoes he created with Adidas, and

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Speaker 1: that that contract ends in twenty twenty six, so they

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Speaker 1: still have that together until that year. Yeah, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: rock my easies. Yeah yeah. And it was wrong for

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Speaker 1: them to copy him and not give him credit and

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Speaker 1: close him out of the board meetings and all of that.

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Speaker 1: Yea I'm wait see what Kanye do tomorrow. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to really, he's a flip flopper co signed

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Speaker 1: this year. Yeah, you're on the fence right now, all right,

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00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after someone's got a big

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00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: crush on you, Steve. She said it on National TV.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, Sherry Shepherd. Congratulations to Sherry

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Speaker 1: Shepherd's love her. She debuted her new talk show on Monday,

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Speaker 1: and Candy Burriss was her very first guest. Sherry also

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Speaker 1: had a very special virtual guest. Her name is Miss

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Speaker 1: Lorene Harmon. Miss Loreen is ninety seven years old. She's

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Speaker 1: a grandmother who went viral on TikTok after she wrote

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Speaker 1: around Walmart in a motorized cart with a megaphone in

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Speaker 1: her hand, shouting that she was looking for a sugar daddy.

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00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: I heard they had a sale on sugar daddy what

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Speaker 1: she was saying. So, Loraine was one of the people

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00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 1: that gave Sherry a life. She gave her life. Sherry

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Speaker 1: love this and she also gave Sherry some advice on

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Speaker 1: how to have a successful talk show. Take a little bit.

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00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: I just have to ask you, because I've been asking everybody.

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00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: Do you have any advice for me? Yes? Just keep

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Speaker 1: being your lovely, funny self. It's gonna hate you, but

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00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: be sure and let's try to have more sugar. Dad

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Speaker 1: is in the audience. You know what, Loreen, I will

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Speaker 1: make that when we have our next meeting. I am

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Speaker 1: going to make sure that happens for you. So I

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Speaker 1: want to say, do you have anybody that you'd like

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00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: to see on my show? Uh? You know I have

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00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: a crush on Steve Harvey, right, So I'm like, you

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00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: wouldn't him? I would be over of hilarious. So she

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00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: likes you. She's feeling you. Steve always somebody Grandmama. You know, Lord,

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00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 1: I've waited all my life. You determed me into something

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Speaker 1: that I do appreciate the fact that you have done

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Speaker 1: what I asked. The timing of it, though she's just

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Speaker 1: ninety seven, surely listen to what I'm saying. I'm listening.

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Speaker 1: It's the timing of what the Lord gave me that

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Speaker 1: I'm why, Lord, why could you not have given me

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Speaker 1: this when I was there? Why are you wasting I'm

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Speaker 1: sixty five? Nah, everybody won't me ninety five? Whoa lord,

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00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do about Miss Loreen's crust show. I

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna wearing about Miss loren Man, Man, Man, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna leave Miss She wanted sugar daddy, And don't you

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00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: fit that, Bill? You fit that. Marjorie has all the money.

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Speaker 1: I'm sugar out, all my sugar going. I'm just daddy.

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Speaker 1: But she does have a crush on you. Cute she

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00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: was cute as pie. She was. And congratulations again to

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Speaker 1: Sherry Shepherd, you know, making her debut. That was a

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Speaker 1: dream of hers. It came truth always. She always wanted

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Speaker 1: her own talk show. Coming up at thirty four minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we have a question for Sister Odell.

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Speaker 1: Sister Odell in the building, speaking of ninety seven year old.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: In a promotional video for a coffee company, eighty one

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Speaker 1: year old Martha Steward had on an apron with nothing

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Speaker 1: under it. Okay, this is while she was just holding

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Speaker 1: a simple cup of coffee. She was nude under the apron.

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Speaker 1: She was naked under there. Martha said, oh hi there,

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Speaker 1: I'm just enjoying the natural flavor of pumpkin spice from

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Speaker 1: Green Mountain Coffee Roasters, and nothing else. Literally. Okay. Martha's

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Speaker 1: one point seven million social media your followers praised her

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Speaker 1: for her creativity and for having an incredible eighty one

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Speaker 1: year old body. She used to be a model way

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Speaker 1: back in the day, and she still does look really good.

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Speaker 1: She does h she looks really good. So uh, sister

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Speaker 1: O'Dell just happens to be here today. Oh really? Uh huh?

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Speaker 1: I locked in, yes, yes, I did good mornings and

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Speaker 1: we was good morning, sister Odell. Hello, Sherley, his you today.

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Speaker 1: I'm lovely, lovely, lovely, good good car Hey, sister Oldwn,

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Speaker 1: my favorite. How are you? My fun of South missip

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Speaker 1: Monica your mama doing? She can't fishing any she said.

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Speaker 1: He I'm gonna come down there and sit on the

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Speaker 1: poach woter. Soon we'll be together. What is y'all talking

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00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: about today? Well, Sister O'Dell, you know, we just did

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Speaker 1: the story about Martha Stewart, who's eighty one, and Martha

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Speaker 1: Stewart Stewart, Yeah, the white woman that went to jail,

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Speaker 1: yes man, yeah, but she has a show now with

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Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg. Yes, got out and just thriving. Uh. Yes,

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Speaker 1: most black people get out of end up going back in.

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Speaker 1: They don't do quite as well. Yeah, all right, call

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Speaker 1: it what it's rectivism. Yeah, I said, they go back

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Speaker 1: to prison, surely. Yeah, nobody said, nobody's gonna coming in

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Speaker 1: visit them. That's not what she's That's what that word

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Speaker 1: means anyway. Yeah, okay, So I wanted to ask you

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Speaker 1: since Martha Stewart is doing it, she's nude under her

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Speaker 1: apron selling, yeah, selling coffee. Uh huh, she's in a

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Speaker 1: coffee commercial. Yeah, so I guess that's a big deal. Now,

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Speaker 1: what don't you think? So what girl? Do you know

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Speaker 1: how many times I've been niked? No, I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been naked with coffee. I've been naked with tea.

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Speaker 1: I was naked smoking the cigars with heavy I was naked.

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Speaker 1: I was naked one time. I was Nike. Was in

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Speaker 1: a rush to get down to service one day and

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Speaker 1: I was nicking under my apron doing communion. I was

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Speaker 1: witnessing one time. One time I was naked doing missionary work,

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Speaker 1: Sister Odell, respectful, just amazing. Then as soon as the

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Speaker 1: white lady doing nash in nash all over the things. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: would you do it for a commer TV commercial? And

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Speaker 1: how much would it take for you to do it?

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Speaker 1: I mean they're paying, you know. Oh, well I've done

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Speaker 1: it for free, so yes, quite naturally, I take a chick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: ain't that ain't what you want? Because I get to you.

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Speaker 1: I got some posies for you for paper, called posing

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00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: for paper, like like I'm afraid to ask for what.

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Speaker 1: You know, we did a calendar one time. You know,

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Speaker 1: Martha Stewart used to be a model and we did

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Speaker 1: a calendar one time. You know. Huh it was a

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Speaker 1: Christian calendar. Oh, thank god Christian like I did. And

630
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: I was all twelve months, oh month January to December. Okay,

631
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: January I had on my Nurses Guild outfit, huge day.

632
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: I wore my rusher board outfit number one. Where's uh

633
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: except then you March I had on my missionary outfit.

634
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: And then but then it got into the summer months

635
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: that I wore less. Oh did you wear a bikini ever? Girl?

636
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: Now it's a Christian calendar. I can't let nobody to

637
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: see all this. Oh I ain't know a temptation girl

638
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: back in the day. Oh, when I was dead. Oh

639
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: you should have seen me. I handsome for you when

640
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: I was coming up. Next, it is a prank phone

641
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: call right after this, Thank you, sister Odell breast. Everything

642
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: you're listening to show coming up at about four minutes

643
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,919
Speaker 1: after the hour. As usual, it is my Strawberry letter

644
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: for today, and the subject is he needs to pace

645
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: himself with everything. So we'll get into that in just

646
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: a little bit whatever that means. We'll find out everything. Yes, everything,

647
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: But right now it is time for today's prank phone

648
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 1: call with Steve in for uh yeah, well, I ain't

649
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: got time for all this hip. It is Crump drivel Exchange,

650
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: Running Cat. That's your favorite paring from running. Hello. Hello,

651
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Franklin. Yeah, this is Franklin. Franklin.

652
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: How you doing? This? Is Roosevelt giving you a call

653
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: from Human Resources USA. Hey, what's up, Roosevelt? What could

654
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: I do? All? Right? Man, I'm calling you from Human

655
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: Resources Trains of Partners. Where you been here? You've been

656
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: driving trucks for us for quite some time? Now? What

657
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: do you you? Six? Six six and a half years

658
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: right now? Man, I'm eight and a half years. He's

659
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: two years short baby, Okay, eight and a half. You

660
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: how you doing, man? I'm good man, enjoying this road life. Man,

661
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: I love working a few guys. Man, the benefits is there.

662
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm supposed to get a call from you.

663
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, hope everything. I'm sure you're on

664
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 1: the road right now. You're probably driving. I wanted to

665
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: give you a call and is it's a bad time?

666
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: Can you talk right now? Yeah? I actually told dope,

667
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: but man, I had to get something to eat. Man. Okay, okay,

668
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: so listen, let me tell you what going on here

669
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: with uh but GTP. What we're doing is we are

670
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:10,800
Speaker 1: doing some job exchange and some of the drivers that

671
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: we have have been pulled out of a pool and

672
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: some of you guys are gonna be actually driving in

673
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: different places now. So for the next six months, within

674
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: the next thirty days, here, Franklin, you're gonna be um,

675
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: You're you're gonna be driving trucks in South Africa and

676
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: you're gonna be or for about six for about six

677
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: about six months, you're gonna drive in South Africa. Holloa, hola, holah. Yeah, listen,

678
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: I ain't got no file with South Africa. But y'ah

679
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: rather smart. I'm not going on South Africa. I don't

680
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: come out of job on the right handside of the row.

681
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: And I love Africans. I love everything about Africa, but

682
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm not going I got a family out here in

683
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: the United States of America and you're trying to tell

684
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: me I got to go to South Africa. Come on, then,

685
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 1: what type of that you want? Man? It's it's frequently.

686
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: It's part of the job exchange. Just what it is, man, Okay,

687
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: you change y'all got going on? Man, I don't want

688
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 1: to be part of that job exchange. No, no, I'm

689
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: not going to No, damn South Africa. This is not happening.

690
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: But this is just listen to the track six months

691
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: and you'll be back in the States. Okay, let me

692
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: say this. A national geographic program y'all got going on? Man,

693
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all got going on at y'all

694
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,919
Speaker 1: calling me. I'm in the middle of talking like trying

695
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: to eat me at cheeseburger from being on the road

696
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: or one night, and you're talking about sending me to

697
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: South Africa. What type of you on? Man? There's some

698
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: foreign exchange program y'all got going on it. I'm not

699
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: being part of this. You pulled my name out of

700
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 1: the pool like it was a su suit to come

701
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 1: tell me that I'm up to be jobbing in South

702
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: of that this must be a joke, you know, No,

703
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: I don't know not so you look at this. This

704
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 1: is a good thing, though, Franklin, I think you're gonna

705
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: like it, and I know it's not a good thing.

706
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: What are you telling me it's a good thing. I

707
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: got wife and kids. But I'm what the fuck are

708
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: you talking about? South Africa? Do they even have roadways

709
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: out there? I'm not gonna fight. Are you serious? You're

710
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: not here? I'm not I'm not hearing this correct, brother,

711
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: I'm not hearing this correct, mister Roses. Though I don't

712
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: salad what okay? I can't play? Just telling me South Africa?

713
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Okay this frank to hear me out here?

714
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: Mant me like I said, they pull names out of

715
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: a pool, and h you and about fifteen other guys

716
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: are gonna be going to different parts of the world.

717
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: What type of pool you pulled it in? You better

718
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: put me back in the shallow part. You're going to

719
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: the deep end pullers, man, Get the fun. I'm not

720
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: gonna fight South Africa. I am not gonna go Southrica.

721
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't I'm not taking the malarious shots, so I

722
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: don't even gotta passport. Do you want me to go

723
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: to about that point, well, listen to me, Franklin. We're

724
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: gonna get you all the shots you need within the

725
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: next thirty days, so you'll be shut to go. I'm

726
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: not going to go around go to South Africa and

727
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: Trump will want me back in the country because of y'all.

728
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: I'll with right now. I'm not going to South Africa.

729
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: It's a job exchange, Franklin. Okay, let me give let's

730
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: type a job. So what so what we're exchange it?

731
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: You're bringing South Africans over here, and then you're bringing

732
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: me over it. Y'all. My wife is not going to

733
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 1: be happy about this. I'm not going my like someplace. Basically,

734
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: tell you that your salary actually doubles the six months

735
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 1: while you're over there. Don't try to don't try to

736
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: tell me about that South African dollars or American dollars?

737
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:38,280
Speaker 1: What is it? What is it? Don't try that American dollars, Franklin. Franklin,

738
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: it will be American dollars. I'm not going to know

739
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: South Africa. I am not going that of fact, this

740
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: is my last day and broke y'all could come pick

741
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: up this brig and talking like because I'm not going

742
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: to South Africa. I don't care how you spell it

743
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:58,240
Speaker 1: or you say it. I ain't going. Okay, Okay, Franklin, listen,

744
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 1: you're build into country come eight eight plus years, and

745
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 1: I just gotta tell you you are obligated. You've been

746
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: chosen out of a pool. All you have to do

747
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: is six months. You're gonna get paid double. Your family's

748
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: gonna be fine, You'll be back. I ain't obligated to

749
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: do but driving truck like I do everything day, I'm

750
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: not going. You can't tell me about being obligated. Let

751
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 1: me tell you what I'm obligated to you. I'm obligated

752
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: to truck. I'm fourth year and try right through your

753
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 1: human resources window because I ain't going to South Africa.

754
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: And I keep telling you that I told you that

755
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 1: since you got in the damn phone. I ain't going nowhere. Okay,

756
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: but but but but let me ask something, Frankly, you've

757
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: been here for what it's for eight some years? Man,

758
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: you don't you don't want to continue your job here

759
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: with the company. I don't give a about this job

760
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: right now, trying to send me overseas like you're setting

761
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 1: me up from I ain't going out of fact. Let

762
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: me turn this truck on right now. I'm coming down

763
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 1: and see you, mister Roses out. Okay, hold on, uh

764
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: do you know um Jermaine? Yeah, I know, Rivers. What

765
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: do you gotta do with it? Okay, let me go

766
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: and don't say this, Franklin. This right here that you're

767
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: talking to is nephew Tommy and your boy Rivers got

768
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 1: me the plank phone call you. You just got pranked

769
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: by your boy, Jermaine Rivers. Oh that wait till I

770
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: see Rivers. So you ain't no roads ago and I

771
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: ain't gotta go to South Africa. No, god, man, this

772
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: is nothing man. I'm just listening to hes on the road. Oh, Rivers,

773
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: you want to play a lists? I want to put

774
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: some sugar in your trunk? All right, Franklin before we leave, man,

775
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: tell me this. What is the baddest radio show in

776
00:50:52,480 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: the lands. That Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah, that's it.

777
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: He wasn't going over there. I got a thin after

778
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: no trus it's all good man. Well, let me do

779
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: some dates. You ready for love Fridays Friday Nights, watch

780
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 1: me Tommy. Tommy will be back probably by November. I've

781
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: been asked to come back, yes me and say it

782
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: was sitting on the golf course in the Bahamas and

783
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: uh huh, that's exciting. Somebody said, hey, man, will we

784
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 1: ever see the Kings again? And said, pointed right at me.

785
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: It's on me? Really, Oh, is it you're the hold up? Yeah?

786
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: Him and Dale still out. I didn't know it was you.

787
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: That was how I got to hold up, though, because

788
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: I gotta wait because if I do this one moment

789
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: when I go on stage, they're gonna cancel all much.

790
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: Oh can't you just control your y? You have to

791
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: get canceled. Do you know what will be a stand up? No,

792
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to say what you want to say.

793
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah to Maten pointed comical remarks. But here's a TV show. Yeah,

794
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: you could do that. It is different than me. I'm

795
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: saying something that's gonna get me canceled. So I need

796
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: to wait till I have I don't care cancelation money.

797
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: Oh all right, all right, Well, thank you. Thank you

798
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: for that. Coming up next Strawberry Letters. Subject he needs

799
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: to pace himself with everything. We'll get into it right

800
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

801
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen.

802
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,

803
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEM dot com. All

804
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter and

805
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: we'll get your letter and we'll maybe read it on

806
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,439
Speaker 1: the air, just like we're gonna do this one right here,

807
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: right now. You never know it could be yours. Do

808
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: it Strawberry Letter. Let's go. That's it, all right, thank you, Steve.

809
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 1: Subject he needs to pace himself with everything. Everything. Dear

810
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty and my fiance is twenty eight

811
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: years old. We've been together two years and he proposed

812
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: three months ago. I've held out on intimacy with him

813
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: until I got a commitment, and he did not have

814
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: a problem with that. The night I got the ring,

815
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: I gave in and we had sex that night. It

816
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: was not what I expected at all. I'd seen him

817
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: naked a million times and I knew what he was

818
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: working with, but I had no idea if he knew

819
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: what to do with it. Our first time was such

820
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: a disappointment and I was left unfulfilled. We laughed about

821
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,959
Speaker 1: him being excited because it was our first time. He's

822
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: quick in everything he does, though since we met, I

823
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: have teased him about eating and drinking too fast. We

824
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: cannot share appetizers because he eats one after the other

825
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:16,320
Speaker 1: and I barely get any. If we're having wine, I

826
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: may get one glass because he drinks it like water.

827
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 1: I always have to encourage him to pace himself. I

828
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to be surprised when this same thing happened

829
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. I was brutally honest with him about

830
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: the sex because I'm about to marry this man. I

831
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 1: started having sex daily in hopes that he can get

832
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: used to me and learn to pace himself. His doctor

833
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: prescribed him something for mild anxiety. Now during sex, he

834
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: will mumble the entire time, or he will stop abruptly

835
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: and ask me questions about how he's doing or how

836
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: my day went. It is a total letdown every time.

837
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,839
Speaker 1: His doctor says it's a temporary problem and he will

838
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: be fine once he used to me, I am afraid

839
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: this may not be fixable because it has been three months.

840
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: If he can't figure out how to pace himself sexually,

841
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: should I pace myself on getting married to him? Well,

842
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: I say yes, most definitely you should because sex is

843
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: an integral part of marriage and intimacy, and it's a

844
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 1: deal breaker in some instances. So if you have a

845
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 1: chance to get it right or to fix it in

846
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 1: your case, by all means, do that pace yourself when

847
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 1: it comes to the marriage. You don't want to cheat

848
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: or end up in divorce because of it. And I

849
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: can't express the importance of that enough. I mean, it's important.

850
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 1: It sounds like it's not so much about pacing though

851
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm getting that, as it is about skill with him.

852
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: Skill you can teach. You just have to be patient.

853
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 1: You got to practice like you've been doing for the

854
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: last three months, and remember not to crush his ego.

855
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: You said you were brutally honest with him, you know,

856
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: maybe you know, come in a little softer, not so

857
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: so harsh and so brutal as you called it. I'm

858
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: assuming you really and truly love this man, otherwise you

859
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't be marrying him. I think you want a relationship

860
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:16,399
Speaker 1: and you want it to work right. Well, here's where

861
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: the work comes in. You know, you got to talk

862
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: about this stuff outside of the bedroom. You really got

863
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: to get to know each other and what you like.

864
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: I say, don't give up on him. If you love

865
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: him and if this is what you really want. He

866
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 1: can learn to pace himself, learn to eat slower and

867
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: do everything slower. He can learn these tricks. Uh. You

868
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: know this is fixable. But he's got to want to

869
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: do better too, and it sounds like he does. He

870
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: sounds like he wants to plead you. Steve, Well, I'm

871
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: gonna take a different approach here. This seems doomed. I

872
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: can fix the top half of your letter and help

873
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: go suggest on the bottom half of the letter you

874
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: gonna like so he would go, Okay, he needs to

875
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:09,760
Speaker 1: pace himself with everything. You thirty eight been together two years,

876
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 1: he proposed three months ago. I've held out on intimacy

877
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: until him, until I got a commitment. He didn't have

878
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: a problem with that. The night I got the ring,

879
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: I gave in and we had sex that night. Oh oh.

880
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: Two years of anticipation, but it wasn't quite what she expected.

881
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 1: She'd seen him naked a million times, and she knew

882
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: what he was working with, but had no idea if

883
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: he knew what to do with him. The first time

884
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: was a huge disappointment, she said. I was left unfulfilled.

885
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: We laughed about him being excited because it was our

886
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: first time. He's quick and everything he does. So now

887
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: let me fix this part of the latter. Since we met,

888
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: I've teased him about eating and drinking too fast. We

889
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: can't share appetizers called eat one after the other, and

890
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: I barely get in it. Y'all gonna have to start

891
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: getting too appetised. A fix it? She fix it this

892
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: part I can help you with. Y'all gots to start

893
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: getting too damn appetised. If we're having wine, I may

894
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: get one glass before he drank, because he drinks it

895
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: like water. Here we go again, who bottles of wine?

896
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: Now he can sit over there and finish here as

897
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: fast as he won't, and you can keep sipping yours

898
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: like the lady you are. I've always tried to encourage

899
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: him to pace himself, and so you shouldn't have been

900
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: surprised when the same thing happened in the bedroom and

901
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,439
Speaker 1: I was brutally honest with him about the sex, because

902
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm about to marry this man. So what did you

903
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: say to him? Hey? Hey, well, that that's it. Ain't

904
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: excuse me, excuse me, Uncle Ben. Minute, right, that's it. Hey,

905
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: Jack in the box, Oh, this is what we've been

906
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 1: to do, quick drawing. That's it. Hang on, hey, speedy

907
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 1: goes on. What you doing? Hang onto all your reverence,

908
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: road Runner, what we're doing now. Part two of Steve's

909
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: response is coming out to twenty three minutes after today's

910
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Subject is he needs to pace himself with everything.

911
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. It's gonna

912
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: be quick too. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve,

913
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject he needs to

914
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: pece he needs to pace himself with everything. She's the marriage.

915
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: She's got a proposal from this twenty eight year old guy.

916
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,439
Speaker 1: She's thirty, that she's held out her into to see

917
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: until she got a commitment. He didn't have no problem.

918
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 1: He bought a ring. After two years seeing this man

919
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: necking a hundred times, they finally had sex. She was

920
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 1: disappointed because his pace was incredible. He just too fast.

921
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: But it's just the way he lives his life. He

922
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: eats too fast, he drinks too fast. They ordered our derbs,

923
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: she don't hardly get any because he won. After another

924
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: out suggested, y'all need to start getting two or derbs. Next,

925
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: order bottle of wine. She only get one glass. Y'all

926
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: got to start order two bottles of wine. Give him

927
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: his own damn bottle. So you're gonna be in a

928
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: little while when the metabolism changed. You're gonna be married

929
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 1: to a fat ass alcoholic, looked like to me because

930
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: he eats the other thing in front of him, and

931
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: he drinking everything and he leaves. You know he twentyed

932
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: is metabolism high right now? As soon as it slow

933
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 1: down once again, you're gonna be married to a fat

934
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: ass alcoholic, all right, And you've encouraged him to pace himself.

935
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: So you should have been surprised when the same thing

936
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: happened in the bedroom. I was brutal, lialis with him,

937
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: about to sex because I'm about to marry this man.

938
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: So you call him a bunch of names, speedy, Gonzalez,

939
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: road runner, stuff like that, how fast we're gonna do this?

940
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 1: And then what you did, was you started having sex

941
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: with him daily and hopes that he can get used

942
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: to you and learn to pace himself. Then his doctor

943
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: prescribed him something from mild anxiety. Now he would go

944
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: just what the letters about? Now doing sex? He will

945
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: mumble the entire time, and or he will stop abruptly

946
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: and ask me questions about how he's doing or how

947
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: my day went right. He said, it's a total letdown

948
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 1: where let me tell you what that is. When a

949
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: young boy can't control himself, the best thing he do

950
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: is try to stop, change the subject, get his mind

951
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: on something else. Oh, then go back. Now he's gonna

952
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: count the downtime as time serves. Let me give you

953
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: an example. So let's say, y'all been at it for

954
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 1: a strong two minutes. Two minutes, two minutes. All he

955
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: know he got his three okay, wow, So he just

956
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: started mumbling. The mumbling is he's actually making himself talk

957
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: about other things. Man, I got to fix my car

958
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: to day. I want to how a bunch of gas prices.

959
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 1: He sure, it's nice. You know, it's tuesdays. All you

960
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 1: can eat down and walking. This is the stuff he's

961
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 1: doing to try to occupies Now. Then he'll stop and

962
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: ask you how he doing it. Now, he gonna talk

963
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: to you for five minutes, but he wants to count

964
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:00,440
Speaker 1: that five minutes with the two minutes, and then he

965
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: gonna start back up. Now we had seven minutes mm,

966
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 1: because he's young and he's stupid. Now, the doctors say

967
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 1: it's a temporary problem and he'll be fine once he's

968
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 1: used to me. Yeah, I'm afraid this may not be

969
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: fixable because it's been three months. If he can't figure

970
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 1: out how to pace himself sexually, should I pace myself

971
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: on getting married him? I think you should, or else

972
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get used to the wham bam,

973
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: thank you man, right, because that's all it's been to be.

974
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: Now you're readiness, Yes, you're ready for the answer. Yeah.

975
01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: Part you ain't gonna like the comedian in me that

976
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: I think is wrong here, all right? I think her

977
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 1: ass need to pick the pace up herself. Oh okay,

978
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: you're taken too damn long. We ain't got all day.

979
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: He got to go to work. You take it too long.

980
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: You need to pick your pace up. You know you

981
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 1: we're doing the three minutes. Let's go. Hep hepapapapapap dap

982
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: DApp let's do it. Got no time for you all

983
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 1: this loan like you for the being here all day.

984
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:24,520
Speaker 1: You need to pick your pace up. Okay, maybe that's

985
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: the problem. See, sometimes you have to speak speak up

986
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: for weak men. Sometimes you have to give the inadequate

987
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: man a voice. Okay, that's now I'm speaking for the

988
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: inadequate men. I'm speaking for the men who don't have

989
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: a Boy, you're all this, you know all this here?

990
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: You you you too fast? Hey? Are you taking too long?

991
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: Too slow? You know? Yeah, I'm too fast. Your ass

992
01:04:56,680 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: is too slow. You can't please here. You ain't all

993
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: that your damns So they're just arguing now you know,

994
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: just all listen you too small? Oh how about you

995
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: too beg how about that? See now i'm speaking for

996
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: the man, so to all you mean out there this mechanism, kate,

997
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 1: please a woman, ask yourself, fellas, is that your damn job? Really,

998
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for them. I'm speaking for the broken man,

999
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: the man that don't have a voice. Here, they're here up,

1000
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 1: she says you too small? Tell her she too be?

1001
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: That's all you got to fight back? Brother? Yeah, Now

1002
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 1: it's a fight in the bedroom. She talked about UK

1003
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: last catch up. All right, listen, please leave your comments

1004
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: on Today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and

1005
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: check out the Stubberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next,

1006
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: we'll talk about Tom Brady's return to the NFL and

1007
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: what Gaselle has to say about it. Right after this,

1008
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: you're listening to show Gaselle Buncheon appears to be back

1009
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 1: in Hubby tom Brady's corner well a little bit. Okay,

1010
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: check this out. She showed Brady a little love on

1011
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: Twitter before Sunday's game. She posted, let's go Tom Brady,

1012
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: Let's go Bucks, but she did not attend the season

1013
01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: opening game on Sunday against the Dallas Cowboys. The Bucks

1014
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: won that, by the way. Last week, Gazelle reportedly left

1015
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,919
Speaker 1: the family compound in Tampa and went to Costa Rica

1016
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: after Tom decided to unretire from the NFL. She was

1017
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 1: not happy about that. When asked about it, Tom Brady

1018
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: said he quote had a lot of sugar honey iced

1019
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: tea going on. Okay, so Steve, the question to you,

1020
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 1: here's a question to you. Have you ever done anything

1021
01:06:56,040 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: that Marjorie definitely didn't want you to do. She made

1022
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: you to do it, um and gone against her wishes

1023
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: in a major decision, you know. And then how did

1024
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: that work out for you? Did she stop speaking to you?

1025
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: What happened? What happened? Yeah? What happened? What happened? Yeah?

1026
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: I probably Since we've been married, I've done two major

1027
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: things she suggested and strongly suggested that I not do,

1028
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 1: and I did them anyway. And how that worked out

1029
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: for you? Ye, wasn't good at all. But you know,

1030
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: she's not a rub it in your face person. But

1031
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't nothing for her to leave me over you know,

1032
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 1: Zelle bounced because she got all them kids. Thought you

1033
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: was gonna be home, We was gonna do all this.

1034
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 1: Then you change your mind and went to training camp.

1035
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: Well you at camp. I'm going to Costa Rica. Yeah,

1036
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: And I really don't. And I think it's cool that

1037
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: they were looking through it, but it ain't really outbeuousness,

1038
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: you know, But I mean it's it's it's all over,

1039
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 1: you know, everywhere talking about it. Because he did retire

1040
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 1: and she was probably happy, you know, making future plans

1041
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 1: and all of that, and then here he goes up

1042
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 1: one day and decides he's going back and dangerous sports. Yeah,

1043
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: she's probably what else do you have to prove? You

1044
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 1: want to worry the greatest that has ever done until

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01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 1: you need another ring, you need another Wold championship. And

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01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: that's how she feels. Yeah, And I'm like, he's not.

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01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 1: He's got one more in him. He's got one more

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01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:42,639
Speaker 1: in him. So they're both right or or I love more.

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01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:44,679
Speaker 1: I wanted to go back down then pick up another

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01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 1: forty million. I'm just saying, ain't like he going down

1051
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: there for free, for free? You think it's about the money,

1052
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 1: you really, you'd really do it has something to do

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01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: with it. He ain't going back down there are free.

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01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: I mean, he wants to play, he loves the game.

1055
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: He misses the locker room, the camaraderie. But you're gonna

1056
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:09,839
Speaker 1: go and get your check now, don't you let nobody

1057
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:11,679
Speaker 1: tell you it ain't got nothing to do with the money.

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01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 1: You add that into the equate, all right, all right,

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01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Thanks Steve.

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Speaker 1: We'll have a voicemail message about relationships right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, So, Steve, we talk

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01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:30,600
Speaker 1: about relationships a lot on this show. You know that,

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01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,839
Speaker 1: And our listeners are engaged. We have a voicemail message

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01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 1: for you from a female listener in Atlanta. Okay, take

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01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: a listen. Hi, my name is mo I'm from Atlanta.

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01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 1: And my question is you know lady asked him? Will

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01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: get into social media and it just seems like almost

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01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 1: every other post is about how to pop life into

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01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: a man, how to speak to him, how to cater

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01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:58,680
Speaker 1: to him, what to do, how to be sobmissive, Like

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01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: there's all these tips on how to please a man,

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01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 1: but no one talks about how to please a woman,

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01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: or how to speak life into your queen, or how

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01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 1: to protect your queen, or how to combide. And I

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01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 1: just wint on, like, what's up with the tips for

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01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 1: the ladies? You know? Like for the men? I should

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01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,360
Speaker 1: say on how to keep women? Why? Who are always

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01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 1: about how we cater to them? The things I think

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01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 1: is so many women are engaged on social media concerned

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01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: about what it is with men more so than men

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01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 1: on social media wondering about what it is with women.

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01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:35,560
Speaker 1: First of all, we can't figure you out. That's the

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01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: one question. The person that could write a book on

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01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 1: this is how women are would be a millionaire. He

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01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:49,719
Speaker 1: doesn't exist Secondly, I think that there is too much

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01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 1: comparison going on. And what I mean by that is,

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01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 1: you know it's too much y'all talk more about them

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01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 1: than you do us. Instead of the focus to be

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01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 1: on every each individual that's on social media wanting to

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01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 1: be in a committed relationship, your focus should be on

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01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: you and what you want as a young lady. I'll

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01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: have to give. I'll let me empower you by telling

1093
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:19,759
Speaker 1: you this. You are the prize, you are the gift.

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01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: You are God's guilt. Ain't no man the prize or

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01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: God's guilt. We're just not. Now. We have convinced you

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01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 1: all that we are, and you all have allowed men

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01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 1: for a number of years now to act in disrespectful ways.

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01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 1: And it's your response to those disrespectful ways that allow

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01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: the disrespectful ways to continue. A woman does not have

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01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 1: to accept bad behavior because bad behavior is prevalent. It

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01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 1: don't mean you have to take it. It don't mean

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01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: you have to pass yours out because everybody else is

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01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 1: passing there's out. That's not the case, man. And the

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01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 1: reason I'm gonna tell you that is we treat women

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01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: how you treat yourself, and we treat you how you

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01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 1: treat you. So if you're passing it out like potato chips,

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01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna treat it like they laid and we're gonna

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01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: eat more than just one. The moment you treat your special,

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01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 1: it's the moment we're gonna have to be special to

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01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 1: get it. And when we get it, it's gonna be

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01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: special to us. But if it ain't special to you,

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01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 1: we're not gonna treat it as special. So get offline

1113
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: worried about the comparisons, and you have one comparison to

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01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,600
Speaker 1: make how a man treats you and the treatment you

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01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 1: will accept or expect from a man. Get all social media.

1116
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 1: Stop trying to worry about who gonna treat you. The

1117
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: one will treat you the way you demand to be treated.

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01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 1: And Steve, that's so important that you you use the

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01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: word comparison because the other issue about the social media

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01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: and comparisons. We see these beautiful women on social media

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01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 1: and we compare ourselves to them. It makes us insecure,

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01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: it makes us feel desperate. Well, I don't look like her,

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01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna get a man, and all that.

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01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: All that place into how women feel about themselves these

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01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: days because of what they see on social media, and

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01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: you're exactly right, And it's because of these comparisons. You

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01:13:32,960 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 1: got to get out of that business. It's like being

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01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: in the happy business based on what you have. If

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01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 1: you keep looking at what everybody else got, you'll never

1130
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 1: be happy with where you are. But because there's somebody

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01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 1: always with more or further up the road, or contentment

1132
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:54,960
Speaker 1: within yourself, that's right. We hope that helps you. Mo

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01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 1: Thanks for your call. Coming up at twenty minutes after

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01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 1: the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey More

1135
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this You're listening show. So Hallie

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01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: Bailey's portrayal of Ariel in The Little Mermaid is spreading

1137
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 1: a much needed Joseph Black girl magic to the next

1138
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 1: generation of young girls. We know, especially today, that representation

1139
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: is everything. A teaser for the live action adaptation of

1140
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: the classic Disney animated film was released last week, featuring

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01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 1: Hallie Bailey as the iconic redheaded Mermaid, and the remake

1142
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 1: is expected to be in theaters in May twenty three. Now,

1143
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: you know, we love it and we're happy for Hallie Bailey.

1144
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,519
Speaker 1: But there she got a lot of backlash because people

1145
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: didn't want to see you know, a young black woman

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01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 1: playing this role, but she handled it like the princess,

1147
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: like the queen that she is, the young queen that

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01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: she is. And I'm just so happy because, like I said,

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01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:57,320
Speaker 1: representation is everything, Steve, everything you know, or our young girls,

1150
01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 1: it's imperative that this type of thing happens. I was

1151
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 1: in a discussion with a white guy one time and

1152
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 1: he asked me, he says, Steve, why why is it

1153
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: that blacks feel as though they should have black dogs

1154
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: and black gi joes and stuff? He said, I'm just curious.

1155
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:18,679
Speaker 1: I said, because if your children have things to play

1156
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 1: with that look like them, you don't think our children

1157
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,679
Speaker 1: should have things to play with that look like them.

1158
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:26,720
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, but you know you can just play

1159
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 1: with the ones that we already have. I said, so

1160
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 1: could you you can play with the ones we gonna make?

1161
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: I get tight. I'm not the good person in that

1162
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:39,800
Speaker 1: conversation with That's right, So congratulations again, Hallie Bailey as

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01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 1: Ariel and the Little Mermaid. We'll have more of the

1164
01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes

1165
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll play around. I would you rather

1166
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. It is time now

1167
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 1: for would you rather, all right, Steve get ready, would

1168
01:15:55,720 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: you rather eat everything with your fingers? Or would you

1169
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: rather have a purade? Everything you eat be parade purade? No? No,

1170
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:09,200
Speaker 1: I mean with my hands. Yeah, I've been. I've been.

1171
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:14,879
Speaker 1: I've been at people's houses. I've eaten it. Some Muslims

1172
01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 1: houses and they eat with their hands. I could do that. Yeah,

1173
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 1: you're not gonna do this. It's like baby food. Right.

1174
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 1: I don't want no parade steak. I don't know what

1175
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 1: you're doing right here, puree steak. That that ain't gonna happen.

1176
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: You're not gonna drink it? No, all right, all right,

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01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: this this is a good one for you. Uh. Would

1178
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,800
Speaker 1: you rather always say the first thing, the first thing

1179
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: that comes to your mind, or just never speak at all? Oh,

1180
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna get me a it is. Yeah, that's

1181
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: not that all. That ain't gonna work for me. I'd

1182
01:16:52,479 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 1: rather you go on and get it and take this

1183
01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: one in the face. It go somewhere and have to

1184
01:16:56,120 --> 01:16:58,400
Speaker 1: deal with it. I know you're gonna have to go

1185
01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:03,759
Speaker 1: to therapy because you asked me not to say nothing

1186
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, on this show, you censor yourself sometimes

1187
01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 1: on this show. Yeah, but if I didn't have to, though,

1188
01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: be a much better show, right right? All right? Would

1189
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:23,000
Speaker 1: you rather your you pack your luggage? You pack luggage

1190
01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: for your mate, or would you rather your mate pack

1191
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: for you? Which one? Oh? Hell? I rather Marge you

1192
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: pack for you? M hmm, you pack for her? Hey, No,

1193
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get it, right well, I mean you

1194
01:17:37,240 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 1: just you would just pack what you wanted her to wear. Right,

1195
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 1: That's not gonna work. I don't want to wear that.

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01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: Why would you pick that for that? Because why is

1197
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: everything here showing what I hadn't noticed? Where are my pants?

1198
01:17:59,280 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: Why is it just tops? I'll comment, Steve, ain't no

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01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 1: panties in it? Where are my bra? All right? All right?

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01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 1: Would you moving on? Would you rather Usher in concert

1201
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 1: or a Joda see concert? Which one? Usher? Concert? Or

1202
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:32,920
Speaker 1: Dash all day? I'm not gonna be able to sit

1203
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 1: around to Joda see fans, that's my problem. Oh yeah,

1204
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit around ushers people. Okay, all right, all right,

1205
01:18:42,120 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 1: thank you for that. That's today's round up. Would you

1206
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:59,519
Speaker 1: keep flipping away from me? You're listening, all right, Steve?

1207
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: Here we are our last break of the day. It's

1208
01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 1: been a good day this hump day Wednesday hump Day.

1209
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 1: Remember that commercial with the Campbell that used to be

1210
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:14,720
Speaker 1: your favorite, that used to be your favorite? You know

1211
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 1: which one? Which commercial right before we get to your

1212
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:20,640
Speaker 1: closing is my favorite? Right now? I think it's an

1213
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 1: Amazon commercial where the woman talks to her daughter. Have

1214
01:19:23,640 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 1: you seen that one about safe spending? She said, Mom,

1215
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 1: you've been reading my diary? And then the last question

1216
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:35,160
Speaker 1: they get to the little girl look at the mama

1217
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 1: said so mom, so what is bang for your book? Yes,

1218
01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 1: you're they fool you because you really think they're gonna

1219
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 1: talk about safe sex, but it's about safe spending. I

1220
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:54,719
Speaker 1: love it. I love that. Oh god, oh, congratulations again

1221
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 1: to all the Emmy winners. M Cheryl Lee Ralph with

1222
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 1: her inspirational speech about never giving up and dreams coming true.

1223
01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 1: You talk so much about that, Steve, you really do.

1224
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:10,759
Speaker 1: And and she's living it. You know, she's living her dream.

1225
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,760
Speaker 1: She won, of course for Abbott Elementary. She plays a

1226
01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 1: teacher on that show. And Cheryl's been in the business

1227
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:18,640
Speaker 1: for so long. We're just so happy for her and

1228
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 1: that speech and the song everything it was greatness. Yeah,

1229
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 1: So let me ask you. You sucked it, Sherley, Okay,

1230
01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 1: God other than Morgan Freedman. Oh yes, you cannot pick

1231
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 1: Morgan Freedman. You cannot pick Denzel Washington, and you cannot

1232
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: pick it Dress album. Okay, well I'm leaving what okay? What?

1233
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:52,799
Speaker 1: Who else? But you have to pick a celebrity crush.

1234
01:20:53,640 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 1: Who Oh, it's the celebrity crush. That's easy. Blair Underwood,

1235
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:03,240
Speaker 1: that's easy. Okay mm hmm, that's easy. Yeah, Blair Underwood.

1236
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 1: I love Blair. He's a great actor. I just love

1237
01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: him humanitarian because we've never done Okay, it's kind of

1238
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:15,320
Speaker 1: like a truth or Dad, ask me something I have

1239
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:18,120
Speaker 1: to answer, and I asked you something you have to answer.

1240
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:24,400
Speaker 1: All right, all right ready, yeah, all right. Besides Marjorie,

1241
01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: your Hollywood crush, let me tell you the truth. Uh yeah, Ralph,

1242
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:40,640
Speaker 1: I've always wow, Yeah, Shelly, Ralph, I've always thought she

1243
01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:44,439
Speaker 1: was black, and she really is. Didn't she coin that

1244
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 1: term Jamerican? I think she started saying that. Yeah, I

1245
01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 1: think she did a long time ago. But she used

1246
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:54,200
Speaker 1: to just be such a one of our favorite guests

1247
01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 1: when we had the show only in LA when she

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Speaker 1: started her deepest simply thinking let's kip all Okay, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: How much money? What's the bare minimum money you would

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Speaker 1: take to walk away from everything you do? I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: take a page out of your book, Steve. I like

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Speaker 1: this number, twenty million? Would you walk away for ten? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I would see, I said, bare minimal? Uh huh yeah? Okay.

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Speaker 1: Now let me ask you a question. Would you walk

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Speaker 1: away for five with five millions? Wait? What say it again?

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Speaker 1: Now say that again? Girl, I ain't got to say

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Speaker 1: that again. No, no, no, you said, would you walk

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Speaker 1: away with would you walk a five for five million

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Speaker 1: to five million cash tax free? Would you leave? Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I would? Yes, I would, Yes, I would, And that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's it. No, no, no, no, here we go. No

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Speaker 1: two point five million cash tax free? Do you walk away?

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Speaker 1: I gotta I think five is my my number. I

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Speaker 1: think five is my numbers. But why are you? Are

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Speaker 1: you handing out millions? You're handing out Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you something, somebody to give you two point five at

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Speaker 1: one time? Think about what you make a year and

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Speaker 1: how long it take you to make that, and you

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Speaker 1: can get that in one lump song. Back to walk away? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna listen to you on that one.

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Speaker 1: I'll just have together. Yeah, I'll make good money. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But if you give me a hundred meal, okay, can

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Speaker 1: I ask you? Yeah, how much would it take for

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Speaker 1: you to walk away from everything? Hunted meal walked right

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Speaker 1: up out of hill? Fifty million tax free, bare minimum,

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Speaker 1: fifty million tax free? Uh huh na tax free. Now

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Speaker 1: you've already paid your taxes and everything that's already taken

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Speaker 1: care of. Fifty meal. No, I can't go. But you

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Speaker 1: see why I struggle with two and a half. I

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Speaker 1: can't do that because you can't walk away from fifty

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Speaker 1: million dollars. Steve, get out of here at one at

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Speaker 1: one walk away from everything? Yeah, everything, No, I can't

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Speaker 1: at sixty five. You can't two years away from normal

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Speaker 1: retirement age. I'm telling you right now. The number is

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Speaker 1: one hundred million. One hundred million cash tax free. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: I have fifty million, and you're you're staying for you're staying.

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Speaker 1: Won't take the fifty million because I'm gonna one. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna leave on the table surely that I can make

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Speaker 1: in a year and then I'm out, and then the

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Speaker 1: following year I can't. I can't do it. Okay, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: I'm listening. If you knew when the end would be,

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Speaker 1: would you still give that same answer if you just

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Speaker 1: happen to know. I know, we don't know. I got

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Speaker 1: all that. Hell no, because I found out that the

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Speaker 1: end was next week, you still wouldn't leave for fifty

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, we wouldn't even be talking right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I hurry up and start doing the things

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to do. Let's go. Hey, y'all, that's

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Speaker 1: it for today, y'all. Enjoy your day to day. Talk

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