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Speaker 1: Tampon Rock is a production of Anthem Entertainment and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio. Welcome to Tampon Rock, Tampon We don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Previously Tampon Rock, Daja and Chloe get in the fight.

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Speaker 1: It's so sad. Chloe changes her life sort of in

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Speaker 1: Deja disappears. Oh my god, it's she Okay, no, she's dead.

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Speaker 1: What I'm just kidding? Oscar nominee Alicia Brown. Wait wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: we're starting with Gina and Data again. Okay, I'm getting

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Speaker 1: worried that they're not in bed, they're driving. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: just cue the radio. Okay, hey, thanks for letting me

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Speaker 1: crash here annual glamping Extravaganza. The more the merrier. You

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Speaker 1: don't think your friends will mind, right, No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: I think they'll actually be pleasantly surprised. Well, look, I

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Speaker 1: do have a few questions. First, one, okay, are your

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Speaker 1: friends white, because I have seen it out and I'm

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Speaker 1: not trying to have a brain transplant. And two are

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Speaker 1: we sleeping in the same time because you know, like

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Speaker 1: if there will be bears, I just want to be protected. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well one, no, don't worry you and your brain will

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Speaker 1: be safe. Okay, and too we'll all be sleeping in

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Speaker 1: a cabin, so you'll have lots of people to protect you. Wonderful. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we should probably stop and get some gas. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we should pull off at this exit right now because

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Speaker 1: Google says there's only yes, the next one isn't for

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Speaker 1: another hand. Okay, great, we're doing this great all right.

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Speaker 1: Also perfect timing because we need to re up on

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Speaker 1: slurpees and snacks. Yes, yes, and snacks. Slurpees and snacks

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Speaker 1: brought to you by Tampa on raw Deja Sophie. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I thought you moved back to Toronto after graduation.

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Speaker 1: Wait in my Canada? I've been trying. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy. Yeah, well I do live in Toronto,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just on a road trip. Hey baby, can

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Speaker 1: friend Sophie from college, Kwind. How crazy is it that

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Speaker 1: we ran into one another. She doesn't even live here,

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Speaker 1: She's from Canada. Thanks to meet you. Sorry, what was

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Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. Likewise, enjoying your American freedom, yeah,

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Speaker 1: nothing like freedom without the free healthcare. Yeah yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: that's that's the American dream right there. Um, well, I

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Speaker 1: still need to pee, Desh. I'll meet you at the car.

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Speaker 1: It's so nice to meet you, Sophie. I got you

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Speaker 1: the large water but they only had to signy. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. This world is so small. That's so random.

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Speaker 1: Ran into somebody from college. I know that. Hey, can

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Speaker 1: can we talk about something? Oh? That's scary? Are you

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Speaker 1: breaking up with me? No? I think I'll keep you

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Speaker 1: for now. Okay, what's up? I just want to be

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Speaker 1: clear about some things. You introduced me as your girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: which is so freaking sweet, and obviously we're more than friends,

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Speaker 1: but I'd really prefer the word partner. I feel like

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Speaker 1: is the best policy. As I learned in kindergarten, Well,

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Speaker 1: my other partners will be there tonight. Um, I think

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Speaker 1: you've already met Tina, right, Oh yeah, great? Cool? Yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: She's comfy, that's that one way. She's actually so sweaty. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on my side? What do you like? Deja's therapist took

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Speaker 1: You're not taking my side? Chloe, I'm not taking any sides.

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Speaker 1: I am just trying to understand why Desia having other

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Speaker 1: a second. Okay, who's Paul. Paul is my older brother

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Speaker 1: who committed suicide when I was sixteen. Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: I'm very sorry that happened. Ah. Yeah, it sucked. Of

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Speaker 1: course that did, Chloe. It's not surprising that you're so

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Speaker 1: abandoned you too, essentially, right, you needed more support in

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Speaker 1: at the same time feeling empathy for their loss. I mean,

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Speaker 1: So what do I do now? I don't know, Chloe,

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Speaker 1: But what about your relationship with your parents? You don't

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Speaker 1: those feelings and your friendships. Yeah, I guess it still sucks.

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have a job. It's your last name, humor, because

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Speaker 1: a great place for us to stop. Okay, I'll see

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Speaker 1: you the same time next week. Mm hmm. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: her to have a breakthrough. That's how it works, therapy.

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Speaker 1: spy only took two sessions. We out here only took one,

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Speaker 1: not two. Only two sessions. That's it. Not five, not four,

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Speaker 1: Don was in love with Haley's sister, Nikki. Nikki isn't gay,

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Speaker 1: but they make out when they're drunk, but Haley won't

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Speaker 1: And then there's Justin Walter and Brian all best friends

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Speaker 1: have a saying when Brian gets wasted, Brian gets naked. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm already so earlier you mentioned Tina would be there.

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Speaker 1: Is there anyone else you may have provided tooth precious

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Speaker 1: I'm so good, I made it. I've missed you. Hug

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Speaker 1: of nudity? You know what? Never mind? Who is this? Oh,

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Speaker 1: this dashing young laddad is Desia. Isn't she just the cutest?

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Speaker 1: Well this is not the first time the naked man

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Speaker 1: don't feel a fine lady Gina, I like her. See, Desha,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh sorry, no, stop come here. Oh

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Speaker 1: I missed you, Frankie. This is Deja Desa. This is Frankie.

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Speaker 1: So this must be the Desia. I didn't realize you

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Speaker 1: it's a long story. Gotta dropped? You want to beer? Yes? Please,

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Speaker 1: Well anyway, we're lit as the American hit It names everyone.

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Speaker 1: This is Deja, say hi, hi, Deja, this is everyone.

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Speaker 1: Please heart, do me a favor. Hold that thought and

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Speaker 1: then throw it out. Avoid. What's that? Did somebody say? Shrooms?

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Speaker 1: Is it shroom tradition of ours? But don't feel crushed? True?

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Speaker 1: one for me, two for you. Everyone got to peace deja.

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Speaker 1: us on? O? Wait me? You're on my team? Oh? Okay,

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Speaker 1: look I'm morning. I'm not good at all. Oh cut

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that. What's gonna happen to me? Nothing, babe,

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Speaker 1: You'll be fine. Just embrace it. The worst thing you

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Speaker 1: but we'll take it. Oh so close, you got this

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Speaker 1: Good idea? Um, how about the blanket statements? Okay? Oh

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Speaker 1: ball good try baby? Oh my god, freaky remember when

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Speaker 1: you Oh my god? Yes about It's kind of annoying

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Speaker 1: like no one should have that many inside jokes. Lucky throw,

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Speaker 1: I think you're cheating. Nah, I'm just that good bro Ya. Alright, stay,

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Speaker 1: you mean what is there? Oh? Well, they never see

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Speaker 1: you're losing your touch, Gina. Well you know you're about

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Speaker 1: to lose you're something. Yeah, that's right. Wait where were we? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do you never called me? Gee? I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: something new? Is in my turn? No? The game is over?

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Speaker 1: Deja oh exciting. I think your shreoms have kicked in Asia.

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Speaker 1: Look at that tree. It's moving. I think it's waving

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, my stomach really hurts. Oh yeah, that

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Speaker 1: pull the trickle? Trickle? Is that the right word? Trick?

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Speaker 1: I think I gotta go to the brook alright, Deja,

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Speaker 1: don't you dare throw up? You got this? Yeah, Desa,

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Speaker 1: you got this? What the fuck? Who said that? Me?

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Speaker 1: Your very gay mother? I have a very gay mother. Actually,

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Speaker 1: you have to what I've always wanted to moms. Watch

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Speaker 1: it here again? You came to throw up? Oh right? Right? Wait?

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Speaker 1: go then, right? No, no, no, please don't leave me. Fine,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're so right great guys. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: my pores are huge. Listen. I wasn't gonna say anything,

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Speaker 1: but like, listen, I think your pores might be bigger

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Speaker 1: you going to do that with toothpaste? Jeanie? Okay, but like,

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Speaker 1: my bag is so far away. Operation Desia have changed toothpastes. Ago. Alright,

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Speaker 1: coast is clear. Repeat, we have a clear coast. This

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Speaker 1: is Blanche Devereaux to headquarters. We're moving ahead and securing

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Speaker 1: this target over. Got be that tinak or in the

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Speaker 1: room with the target port port Get out of there.

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Speaker 1: Oh ship, they're making out. Deja fuck. Gotta dodge friend's baby,

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Speaker 1: run deja run? Oh is that Tina dger? Holy shit,

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Speaker 1: Tina just turned its more quilt. I can't believe Gina, Frankie.

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Speaker 1: I'm still stuck on Tina as a quill. Franky and

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Speaker 1: Gina are now Frina or Cranky one monster? Two heads.

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Speaker 1: I knew they were close, but I didn't know they

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Speaker 1: I don't want to date Frankie or anyone else. I

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Speaker 1: just wanted dat Gina too bad. Now Gina's got two heads. God,

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Speaker 1: it's crankier buss babe. No, guys, where are we? Is

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Speaker 1: that tree waving at us? That tree has been at

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Speaker 1: it all night? Guys? Where's the cabin? Oh? No, I

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Speaker 1: don't see it? Are we? I think we are? I

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Speaker 1: written by Lucia Brown, Sarah Almond, and Sophie dinnacoll, directed

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Speaker 1: and composed by Sarah Almond, music supervision by Lucia Brown

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Speaker 1: and Sophie dinnacoll. Executive produced by Brian Walland for Anthem

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Speaker 1: Entertainment produced by Selena Razak, Audio by Tad Gregor and

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Speaker 1: David Kulick. Starring Brandia Lewis as de Asia, Jules Forsburg,

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Speaker 1: Larry as Chloe, and Lea Covenetti's as Gina. Narrated by

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