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Speaker 1: girls right in a call and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mine, where a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: speaks sober. We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: I love when we have the rap girlies on. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: Like I'll just be so excited because y'all know the

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Speaker 1: girlies are taking over the game right now, are and

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Speaker 1: we have the talented, the beautiful gloss up in the building.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for coming here. You look so pretty. You

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Speaker 1: know what I love? I love when I meet like

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Speaker 1: the girl is because like when y'all be rapping, y'all

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Speaker 1: be meeting besney like, but when I meet y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: be are you shy? Yeah you are?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: That'd be so crazy to me. I would have never

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Speaker 1: guessed that. Like I've followed your career for a while,

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Speaker 1: so like seeing you on social media and just like

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Speaker 1: how you wrap, I would have never guessed you were shot.

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Speaker 1: I got like real mad social really, so what made

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Speaker 1: you decide to be like, Okay, I'm gonna do this

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Speaker 1: because this is the opposite job of somebody who's shot,

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Speaker 1: I know, right, Like I'm still like fighting through it

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Speaker 1: and now like I think I need counseling. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to explaining, but I know this

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Speaker 1: time I want to do so like sometimes you got

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Speaker 1: to put that to the side. Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: I understand it, because girl, I be feeling it away

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Speaker 3: sometimes too, not as far as like the social anxiety,

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Speaker 3: but just like people just always.

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Speaker 1: Looking at you and just kind of always I'd be forgetting.

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Speaker 4: I'd be going place and I'm like, why is y'all

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Speaker 4: looking at me? I'm booked here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so how do you deal with that? Though? Like

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Speaker 1: teor I know that's right, it's gonna keep you. Like

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Speaker 1: it literally makes me be real friendly. Okay, when I

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Speaker 1: be having bookings and they don't have my teleport, I'll

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Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, like you're like people have to

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Speaker 1: smoke weed. I feel like I really need some teleports

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Speaker 1: to you. Yes, so because I feel have you ever

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Speaker 1: been in a situation though, where like you drank too much,

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Speaker 1: like for like a booking or or something. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but now you like used to drink like on cosomigos

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Speaker 1: and stuff. I stopped drinking it after the Little Baby

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Speaker 1: tour because I went on Glow Tour then I went

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Speaker 1: on a Little Baby to a back to back.

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Speaker 4: We was drinking way too much and it's like I

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Speaker 1: Drink that more. Yeah, but it wasn't a night like

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Speaker 1: you with like split on the stage. Yeah, like I

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Speaker 1: don't like that. Yeah, I have to go on stage

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Speaker 1: like dancing, I have to be sober. Yeah, so you

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Speaker 1: do like eight counts, like, let's see, I can I

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Speaker 1: gotta see. I would be drunk, but I would, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm old, I'll probably fall break something. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I forget this. Sheets sober too, because yeah,

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Speaker 1: well I think about it because they have to wrap.

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Speaker 1: They have to know the way to the choreography. So

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Speaker 1: talk about that too, like, cause I'm pretty sure were

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Speaker 1: you did you grow up dancing? No?

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Speaker 4: Well, I used to be like in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Nothing like jump in, jump out, turn yourself about. You know.

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Speaker 1: I used to be a flat girl. Okay, okay, so

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Speaker 1: you did a little girl. I know that's what I

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Speaker 1: used to be. Kicking that leg up, I did. I

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Speaker 1: like we used to dance like majors had a flame.

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Speaker 1: We really didn't use it, really we use I.

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Speaker 3: Think we had flag girls Supergirl. They wasn't dancing all.

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Speaker 3: They just used to be herrying the flag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't care what you call up. What did

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Speaker 1: you call it that you used to do? Majort and

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Speaker 1: it was a flat girl. Okay, see we just had

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Speaker 1: the girls with the batons. Oh yeah, that's the major ad. Okay, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I ain't do none of that. Ship. I played volleyball,

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Speaker 1: but I did take dance. I did take dance. But

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Speaker 1: they want you all to be Jennet Jackson and that motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Actually, I got it, Like, Okay, I

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Speaker 1: like my rollout playing like it's like when I see mines,

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Speaker 1: I liked it. So you like dancing and learning being

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Speaker 3: I agree with her because who want to just go

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Speaker 3: Like I need to be entertained, Like, yeah, of course

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Speaker 3: I know the music already and I'm an sing along

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Speaker 1: I think you know, I'm not gonna lie. I think

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Speaker 1: Offset went on that stage and busting Michael Jackson moves.

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Speaker 3: Ain't fair at though, because he really got a dance

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Speaker 3: background that Nigga was.

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Speaker 1: But move walked in that moment. It's people out here

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Speaker 1: like boogie. They be actually dancing. Yeah yeah, like for

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Speaker 1: Nance TV doing like you know, you can't expeak certain

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Speaker 1: stuff with yeah doing what they do. Really Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: like that though. I could the movie me too, because

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Speaker 1: when I I'm a little older than y'all, I'm thirty four.

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Speaker 1: So I remember going to a Nelly concert and Nelly

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Speaker 1: drop down and get your eg long girl. He was

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Speaker 1: dropping the dem y'all. I had the girls doing it,

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Speaker 1: but he would be in the line with him, you know,

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Speaker 1: doing a little one too. You know how a little

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Speaker 1: love when he do that. Yeah, that'd be my favorite part.

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Speaker 1: I'm not about to play with you. I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 1: They be they be getting to it. Okay, So we

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Speaker 1: a little bit about like growing up in Memphis and

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Speaker 1: how that was for you and how that affected you

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Speaker 1: know who you are today growing up in Memphis, Like

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Speaker 1: I used to be baking for for my mom and

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Speaker 1: my dad likes to run away go to my daddy

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Speaker 1: she live in a bougie area. She still lived there.

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Speaker 1: My daddy used to live in the ghetto. And I

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Speaker 1: used to be wanting to be with the good. That's

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Speaker 1: used to get in trouble at school and runaway. So

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Speaker 1: you will go to your dad's house, so you low

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Speaker 5: Me, no, because everybody knew, like she Okay, I want

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Speaker 5: to hide okay, okay, Nah, like my mama she do nails.

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Speaker 1: My daddy he cut her so like, I ain't never

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Speaker 1: seen my parents go to work. They always work for themselves. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so they kind of like molded me into be like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I want to be an entrepreneurneur too. I want to

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Speaker 1: I always been writing since I was a little girl.

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Speaker 1: My mom used to think there was poems, Like she

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Speaker 1: and she's to swear it was poems. I was like,

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Speaker 1: all right, whatever. I started rapping in a rap group

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Speaker 1: in Memphis with some girls. I'm not. I don't deal

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Speaker 1: with them no more. Okay, this is a different group. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: before okay, we had did the song. It had went viral.

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Speaker 1: Everybody just fell off, fell aparty on whatnot. I started

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Speaker 1: talent show. We got real cool. I had needed a job.

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Speaker 1: She was working in Nike. She put me on in

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Speaker 1: her job. We was working together. We had got real

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Speaker 1: he Key. Well, I've been on Hei Kid, but together

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Speaker 1: we ran into he Kid at this showcase. He put

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Speaker 1: all the girls together and we did set the son.

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Speaker 1: But that is crazy because I thought that y'all like

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Speaker 1: twenty four one on okay, and she the youngest?

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Speaker 4: How is she like twenty two?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah? I really y'all are?

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Speaker 3: I really thought y'all grew up together, like went to

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Speaker 1: But I loved it. I feel like that's the best

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Speaker 3: Though. I was when y'all getting some money together, That's

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Speaker 1: After the first group, as we I was like, I

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Speaker 1: there it's like Glow came along and she just showed

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Speaker 1: me like you don't. You don't got everybody's gonna hit

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Speaker 3: So how was that, like, you know, coming up with

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Speaker 4: It was fun like everything like was experienced.

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Speaker 1: It's it's different now because everybody be so busy we

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Speaker 1: just I don't know, I miss it sometime, yeah, like

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Speaker 1: just well yeah, I miss it, Like yeah, I understand,

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Speaker 3: Like sometimes you wish you could hang with y'all friends

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Speaker 3: every week or every day because that's what you used to.

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Speaker 3: But then when you have so much going on with

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Speaker 3: just can't feed it in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy because we literally talked about times like this.

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Speaker 1: It was like, so you know, sometimes I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: a show, You're gonna have a show. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: got to think about it like these start being booked

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Speaker 1: and busy. That's the good thing I do. So let

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Speaker 1: me ask you this being in Memphis, because we know

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Speaker 1: a lot about the Memphis. I mean, Memphis is a

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Speaker 1: historical city. When and barbecue, right, you know said something?

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Speaker 1: Now you know a little something? I do know you

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Speaker 1: know what. I'm gonna get back to that in a second,

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Speaker 1: so I can ask this question. But we're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: about because I'm okay, well, let's get to it right

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Speaker 1: now here. Who has the best barbecue? Do you think

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Speaker 1: Memphis has the best barbue taxis.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I ain't never really barbecue from Texas.

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Speaker 3: You gotta try. I'm from Houston. Texas do got good barbarous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, don't Atlanta. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: My cousin he be making barbecue pulls at home for now.

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Speaker 1: Do you know.

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Speaker 4: I'm on your I want some barbecue daily five minutes away.

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Speaker 1: Please, I go buy my own and stuff. No, it's

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Speaker 1: just be the the regular ship. Even I just found

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Speaker 1: out that you can get a beef rib. Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't care anything. They got a rib, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: eat it, dug cow, I don't care. If you gotta rib,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna eat it. Tip. I don't give a damn.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if you have a rib, little salmon rib,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I just think it's so but like

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Speaker 1: is just not the same without you. It's like literally

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Speaker 3: So we're good, y'all cheers, be so good, they'll stick

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Speaker 1: Be careful, careful. Okay. So what's up y'all? Is your

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love College Hill because I always wish I

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Speaker 1: We gotta tune in for the team and the education. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be so interesting because it's gonna be so

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Speaker 1: funny to see Tamar going from her living in the

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Speaker 7: Take testing sure get their education.

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Speaker 1: So what y'all gonna do is go to BT dot

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Speaker 1: super lit already, No period. So fast forward. You know,

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Speaker 1: so have you ever had a job? Yeah, so where

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Speaker 8: Barbie, Like, I'm gonna let you so you know you

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Speaker 1: Is no? I just like like literally discovered I can

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Speaker 4: Really okay, but you I don't know how a barbecue.

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Speaker 1: I know how a song to be ready to sweet? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. I think that's like a thing for me.

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Speaker 1: That's a different type of man. That's a manly man,

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Speaker 1: So how did you realize that you can cook?

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Speaker 3: I got a real boyfriend and he wanted you to cook.

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Speaker 1: us can't cook like our grannies can. But I feel

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00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 1: like if you can go in that kitchen and make

430
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,639
Speaker 1: something happen, you you winning. But do you feel like

431
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: that's our fault?

432
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 3: Because I kind of feel like that's our fault that

433
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 3: we can't cook like our greennies.

434
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Speaker 1: Well, because we wasn't putting in that work. We ain't

435
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Speaker 1: want to be in the keyshie. My mom trying to

436
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: be all five to make me clean up and my

437
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Speaker 1: sister cook.

438
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 4: I know how to clean up, my sister know how

439
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 4: to cook. Yeah, but your house don't look like that.

440
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: I clean up every day, and I will say cleaning up,

441
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: what people don't realize is a skill. Some people do

442
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: not know how to clean up right like you. My

443
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: mom used to get on me about that when I

444
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: was young. She's like, you don't clean right, And she

445
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: really taught me how to clean. Like you gotta go.

446
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 1: I don't know how to clean. You have to know

447
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: how to clean.

448
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. I always say, you go

449
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,719
Speaker 3: to somebody house, check they toilely get the bottom.

450
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: Come on now, it's.

451
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 3: Gonna let you know how clean they are and check

452
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Speaker 3: they what's the constant baseball?

453
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Speaker 1: Ooh you're getting too deep? Yeah, you're getting deep. You

454
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Speaker 1: get see. This is why I came to write you

455
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Speaker 1: to my house. You street, I am a little bit.

456
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Speaker 1: I am a.

457
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Speaker 3: Little street because I just feel like if you don't

458
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 3: clean clean now every day, I understand you not gonna

459
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 3: do all of that every day, especially if you have

460
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 3: a busy life, Like you can't clean your baseboards, you

461
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,959
Speaker 3: hadn't clean your to lily every single day, but you

462
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 3: need to deep clean.

463
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 1: Your house at least once a week. Yeah. Facts, facts,

464
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: I don't. And plus you know we have hair, yeah

465
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Speaker 1: hair be every hair and shit, and like I literally

466
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: always cause I always say this, I have my own place,

467
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: but I'll be at my man house like ninety five

468
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: percent of the time. But I'm always making sure, like

469
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: I'm vacuuming and sweeping in the bathroom because my hair

470
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: be everywhere you do, man, I know, for a lot

471
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 1: of people, hair just grosses them out. So I'm glad

472
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: you said that though, like you could clean because people

473
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: like clean. But yeah, cleaning is a skill because a

474
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: lot of y'all cannot clean, right they can. What's your

475
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: what's your favorite thing to cook? What's my favorite thing

476
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: to cook? Like, what's your big dish? Like, yeah, I'm finna,

477
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: I'm finna do my big one. Oh.

478
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 3: I make a lot of good stuff though I don't know.

479
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 3: I make like really good tuskin samon. My green beans

480
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 3: are really good. I make my green beans from scratch

481
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 3: and I use chicken stock and then I use red

482
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 3: potatoes throwing it's good. I'm gonna have to make you

483
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: so please, so that be busting. I also make I

484
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 3: used to. I don't eat like this no more because

485
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 3: I'd be trying to be more healthy now. But I

486
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 3: used to make some good smothered chicken mac and cheese.

487
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 3: I love to make cabbage. My cabbage be but some

488
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: my crawfish it to fe I could that crawfish. Now

489
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 3: I could keep going. I don't even know what that is.

490
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Speaker 1: It's like it's like a kind of.

491
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like okay, so it's a Louisiana dish and

492
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 3: it is it's kind of like a stewl but you

493
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 3: make it with like craffie and you could put shrimp

494
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: in it too, and you add like flour. You kind

495
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 3: of started the same way you start a gravy. So

496
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 3: you use like flour, oil water and like make a

497
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 3: root and then you add the crawfietails and shrump and

498
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 3: you had like some it's do you put like you

499
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Speaker 3: put it off of rice or a lot of country

500
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 3: people like to eat it with potato.

501
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: Salie too love.

502
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Speaker 4: Do y'all eat on fish and spaghetti?

503
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 3: No I do, but see ho spaghetti is a one dish.

504
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: Me I do fish and spetti. But you gotta realize,

505
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: like I didn't grow up in Houston. I grew up

506
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: in Orange. It's like two hours from Houston. It's like

507
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: a small town that's on the border of Louisiana. So

508
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: like mixing stuff like that was like normal to me,

509
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, I like this. I mean I like fish,

510
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: like in the fish fry. You don't make fish and spaghetti.

511
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 3: No, I like fish and I like spaghetti, but she

512
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 3: don't like together.

513
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: But I don't like them together. So since since we're

514
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: talking about black shit, because I feel like that's what

515
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: black people do, is what black people do. So we

516
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: have a game that we're gonna play with you, Okay,

517
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: just to gotta do a little icebreaker. We're gonna talk

518
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 1: about how stereotypically black are you? Do you think you're

519
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: a stereotypical black?

520
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 4: I don't know.

521
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: I find out, I know, I know, I am. Okay,

522
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna ask the first one you want me to go.

523
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 3: Do you wear your bonnie or your pajamas in public?

524
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: She said yes, not her can be done. But my

525
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: bunny gonna be own if I ain't got nothing to do

526
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: because I got kids and they be pulling my hair.

527
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Okay, that makes that make that

528
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: makes my baby. I don't know why the fuck he

529
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: do that. He'll be right here just doing this.

530
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: Not a little Indian barn.

531
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: Off a weak. Do you wear pajamas or boness in public? No?

532
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: I don't.

533
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 3: But my mama was real streaked about this type of sheet.

534
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 3: When I was growing, she just used to be real streat.

535
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 3: She'd be like, no, you need to do your hair,

536
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 3: or no, you need to put on and.

537
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: Do nothing with my hair. So this real.

538
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: She used to be like, even if you're gonna put

539
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 3: it in a pony tail, I don't care what you're

540
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 3: about to do, but you're about to do something to

541
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: your hair.

542
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: So Mama was like kind of streaked about this.

543
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 3: So I don't my don't see nothing wrong with it.

544
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: It doesn't bother me, you know what, because I know

545
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: everybody talks about how Monique used to be like, don't

546
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: where are you bonness in the airport? But I'm not

547
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I don't wear my bonnet in public, but

548
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 1: I have before because like, I was in a rush

549
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 1: to go somewhere, and I wanted my hair to be

550
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,719
Speaker 1: beautiful whenever I got there. I'm not taking my bonnet

551
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: off and my hair down because I don't care about y'all.

552
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: But when I get to the event I'm going to,

553
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: that's when I need my hair to be serving. I agree.

554
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: So when I see a girl in public with her

555
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: bonnet on, I'm not like, oh, I'm like, okay, she

556
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: probably going somewhere and she wants her hair to be fresh.

557
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: That's what I think. I want somebody to say something

558
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: to me in my face. Yeah, you ain't gonna say,

559
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: and how is it bothering you? I don't think it.

560
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: To me, it doesn't look bad. I just think it's

561
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: a black girl things. If you get it, you get it,

562
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: and if you don't, you don't.

563
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 3: A bonding for us is the white girl ponytail, their

564
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 3: hair be wet and you know all right, Okay, okay.

565
00:28:55,920 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: Sah typically white. Next episode, Okay, okay, next question. It's

566
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: kind of missy. This is so, this is very missy.

567
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Do you and your siblings all have the

568
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: same mother and father? The ain't nothing?

569
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, me and my sister doing my brothers.

570
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so y'all all one big happy. Oh you really

571
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: knew now for real? She ain't gloss. No, I thought

572
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: you was got. I got other sisters and brothers too,

573
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: But they all with the same mama. We got same day,

574
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: and my daddy got seven kids. MoMA got four. So

575
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: all you and your siblings don't have the same mom

576
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: and dad. The three said three and three three? Okay,

577
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: so three of them, y'all do? No two of them. Well,

578
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: y'all confer, we confirs. I guess we confirst. I got

579
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: I got six little siblings, okay, and then I got

580
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581
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582
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614
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Speaker 1: have the same mom and the same dad. That's it.

615
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Speaker 4: Oh see now, ye it's get them.

616
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so okay, you're not all the way. You

617
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: got a little hood in you. Oh so your daddy

618
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: got different kids? Does your mom have different kids outside

619
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: of your dad? No? Okay, so your yeah, my okay,

620
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: so your mom got more than one baby daddy.

621
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, my mom got two baby daddies and my daddy

622
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 4: got two baby mamas.

623
00:31:55,320 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: Okay, see that's the hood family. Dry. We're not even

624
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: gonna okay, go ahead, I'm gonna let you there. Me

625
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: and my little sister got different daddies. Yeah, how old

626
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: your sister six? She like, it's a long it's a

627
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: long story. My mama not but my mama.

628
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, my real mama not as.

629
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: Old as you think.

630
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm thirty three, and she like forty six.

631
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, she don't drink. I must say my mama forty six.

632
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: So let me get another one, because.

633
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 4: I don't think mama fifty years though.

634
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: My mama my brother old thirty one and she had

635
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: my brother when she was thirteen.

636
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 4: I'm twenty six.

637
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 3: You twenty six, And you said your mama was thirty

638
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 3: one and when she had.

639
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: Your brother thirteen, My brother thirty one right now? Oh okay,

640
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: your mom was s thirteen. Oh so that mean your

641
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: mom is forty four.

642
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, my mama forty.

643
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: See I was gonna say, like, I don't think it's

644
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: probably they was in the same condum. They was in

645
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: the same drive a thirteen year old. Okay, see, okay,

646
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: what's the next one? Is fried chicken in your top

647
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: three food? Yes, bame, I love with rice. I'm drunk. Yes,

648
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: that's why I we got you. We got you. But

649
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: I love me a little wing. What's your favorite flavor?

650
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 4: I like hot wings when I'm pregnant.

651
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: But when I'm not, I like, Oh I like hot limp.

652
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: I'm a hot limped, extra crispy. I'm sorry. You are

653
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: never gonna take me away from fried chicken me either.

654
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: They can be like, oh they're the they are the niggers.

655
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: Go eating that chicken. I'll be right there, like yup, indeed,

656
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: and I'll do it again. I love me some fried chicken.

657
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: It's just so good, a staple in the black community.

658
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: But not everybody can make it. I can make some

659
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: good hot wings. Oh you can make hot wings. It's

660
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: making fried chicken is hard. No, not with the earth.

661
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: I don't play with the grease, like, oh, you don't

662
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: play with grease. Okay, you a little healthy one, guy.

663
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 4: I've been in a house firest I'm like skilled of

664
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 4: fire and sheep.

665
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I make for everything. Okay, No, I haven't been.

666
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: I don't with the grease I said fried chicken is

667
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: hard because everybody's fried chicken isn't good. That's why I

668
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: say it, because honestly, it's so many different ways to

669
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: fried chicken. Yeah, you know, I'm not gonna lost y'all.

670
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: Y'all probably gonna get mad in the comments. I don't

671
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: give a fuck. Pop Pee's has been nasty for a

672
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: very fuck and you like, did you like it? Pope's

673
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: is nasty? Now you gotta get some caju just fucking

674
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: with it? Who a little seasoning? Okay, maybe that's what

675
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: I gotta do.

676
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 4: I went live and I was showing them how to

677
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 4: eat Pope's.

678
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to get a lesson on how to

679
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: eat Pope's, right, because the last I can tell, every

680
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: time I've had Popeye's, like I can honestly say the

681
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: last like four or five times I've had it, it

682
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: has not been busting.

683
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 3: I feel like the OLG chicken is good. It's when

684
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 3: y'all be trying to get all the other sheet on

685
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 3: the MEU this when people be like, oh, Popeye's is nasty, Like,

686
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 3: why the fuck is you ordering popcorn shrimp from Popeyees.

687
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: That's I mean, it's wrap with red beans rice in it. Like,

688
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:30,959
Speaker 1: why are you doing why are you ordering? I like RUPs? Hey,

689
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm on my health.

690
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that, That's what I'm saying, Like that.

691
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: From Captain's Yeah, why would you do that?

692
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 3: Like you just gotta stick to the basics in certain

693
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 3: places with Popeyes, get you a little three piece and

694
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 3: some fries and some rid beans and rice and collar

695
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: to day.

696
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: But the rad beans and rice don't even be busting.

697
00:35:53,960 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: That's Louisiana. Mm hmmm, y'all said down the time. But yeah,

698
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: all of our top three. Okay, big facts. Okay, Okay,

699
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: this is a question. Now don't answer see she goes, Okay,

700
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: you gotta listen. Catholic gloss. I know we're a little tipsy. Okay,

701
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: when a black mom says, close my door, you letting

702
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: my blank out? What are you letting out? Because what

703
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,439
Speaker 1: does that? You let my air out?

704
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 3: As if the air gonna go somewhere for relax.

705
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: I think moms like dress you said that they are

706
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: all black moms have a handbook. I think it's a

707
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: handbook we don't know about. And neither one of you

708
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: all got kids, and I've been saying now that you

709
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: said there, like you be saying that you be telling

710
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: your kids you smell like outside. Yes, they do outside

711
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: outside smell like that. I got so mad yesterday I

712
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: fired both of my niemas. I'm like, you know what,

713
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: fuck it? And are we another thing? We'd be like purple?

714
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 1: Purple is a color and a flavor, you know, because

715
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: we don't really like it'd be like but like when

716
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: we say like purple cool, like like purple is a color,

717
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 1: but it's also a flavor, like purple. I can taste purple. Yeah,

718
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: I can taste purple, purple stuff, purple stuff. I can

719
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: taste that purple stuff. That's what he means. I know

720
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: that's right. Look, I wish I have a little tipsy now.

721
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: I gotta question, Oh lord, what's a black person favorite fruit?

722
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: You know it? Watermelon gowns with some niggas.

723
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 3: Like orange or something redeemers, but she said she was

724
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 3: a nigga.

725
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: I love a little watermelon too, A little watermelon. That's

726
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: my favorite. Y'all sat on your watermelon sometimes. I used to, Yeah, no,

727
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: no more, that's why my ankle swelling. Note right now,

728
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: gos show you to.

729
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love me some watermelon. Watermelon, be bussy. Every

730
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 3: time I go to the grocery store, I always get

731
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 3: some watermelon.

732
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: But you gotta be careful with this out. I know.

733
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: I don't do it that much, damn little tahe I know,

734
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 1: but I don't like the seedless watermelon. I like the

735
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: watermelon with the seed yea to, I feel like the

736
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: seedless watermelon. I feel like they don't they don't be

737
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: sweet enough. It's fake. Yeah, excuse me, like you ain't

738
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: no real bitch because how y'all playing it? Yeah? I

739
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: need a real bigga fishable. All right? That was how

740
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: stereotypically black are you? And I think we are? All

741
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: the stereo show alight, be ashamed of I'm proud. I

742
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: don't care. I love my black skin me too. All Right,

743
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the first topic today. We didn't

744
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: even got to the topics gloss. We've been cutting up

745
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: over here. Are you having a good time? Ye, I'm drunks.

746
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: I know that my boyfriend Nick.

747
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 4: Wait.

748
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so for the first topic today, let me ask

749
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: y'all something before. Have you cheated before? Drea? Just simple

750
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: yes or no? Have you cheated before? Yes or no. Yes,

751
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: everybody know I didn't cheated it before. So I me

752
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: and Drea were wondering this the other day because we've

753
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: all been Have y'all been cheated on? Yeah? I've been

754
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 1: cheated on? Why are cheaters so mean? Like? Have you

755
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: ever had a man like all of a sudden, he

756
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: just being rude to you out the blue. He ain't

757
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: calling you baby no more. He being dry in the text.

758
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: He just sends you a GM, can't even say good morning.

759
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: He ain't even spelling that shit out no more. Come

760
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: to find out, it's not because you did anything. He

761
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 1: just found a no woman. He cheating on you. So

762
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about why are cheaters so mean? Yeah,

763
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 1: because it'd be frus grading them that they got somebody

764
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: else did they like, but they got your ass too.

765
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: They don't know how to break it off with you.

766
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's like I didn't even do nothing.

767
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: Just set me free, ass nigga.

768
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 3: That's what I think. But sometimes I don't even think

769
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 3: it'd be cheating. Like I feel like a nigga can

770
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 3: meet somebody else that he liked and he not even

771
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 3: fucking with her, right.

772
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 4: He don't even know?

773
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, he don't even know a ten.

774
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so he started being mean to you because

775
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 3: he liked him. I want to fuck with these other beach.

776
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: I mean, he'll roll over and be like, good morning, beautiful,

777
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: the sun rolls the day you woke up. I hope

778
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: you haven't one can't. No nigga come to me like that.

779
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 1: This sounds cool, but no, I'm be like, you don't

780
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: like that. You don't like I don't saying nothing like that.

781
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: Oh I like that good morning beautiful. I'll be like this, No,

782
00:40:56,120 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: I love and beautiful. It's give it an example, Like

783
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: he gonna be texting that to look at you and

784
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 1: be like, what's good morning? Be aggravating with you? You

785
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, Like they

786
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: be so nice but be so mean to you.

787
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 4: It's so crazy.

788
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: It's like psychological warfare because you as a woman. I

789
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: don't know about y'all, can't speak for y'all, but for me,

790
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: it's like during that time, I was trying to figure

791
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: out what I was doing wrong? Why are we not

792
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: getting along? And I'm like pulling at strings, like trying

793
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: to figure out, like why is it so hard? The

794
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: whole time. It ain't nothing to do with me. He

795
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: just don't like me no more. He found somebody else.

796
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm so crazy. I would have been done about me

797
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 1: too the time we got out of being Ooh.

798
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 4: See, I don't know I like that, but I'm from Yeah.

799
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, see, I just I think I was green too

800
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: when I was younger too, Like I would be like, oh,

801
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: he's just having a bad day. Oh he's just up

802
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: there every day, y'all.

803
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 3: I told you Ill was green. Damn, I don't like

804
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 3: this she either. I would have been done found me.

805
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 3: Let the nigga and nigga got one time to be

806
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 3: mean to me for real though, and I'd.

807
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: Be like, big, Now, let me ask when y'all were cheating?

808
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: Did y'all get mean? No? I don't think I mean

809
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: when I cheat? No, what about you? What you mean

810
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: I was cheating? Cause I just feel like, motherfucker today's

811
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: till m what you mean? Like the guy you were daty? Yeah,

812
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: we just fight all the time. I used to be like, right,

813
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: so you were like that was like a lure. Yeah, okay,

814
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: that makes sense. When I'm not gonna lie, I feel

815
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: like when I was cheating, I don't do that no more.

816
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 1: I wouldn't get mean. I would just be kind of standoffish,

817
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: like I wouldn't care, like when I'm in love, I

818
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: want to be in my man's skin. And it's like

819
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: once I was like kind of finding somebody else that

820
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: was feeling that void I was looking for. I would

821
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: just be like, you want to come over, I'll be

822
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: like I don't care. Like not that I'm being mean,

823
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: but I were like, Okay, I guess I am. Feel

824
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: come over there, all right? You fin the cook I

825
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: got Pope's, and you know I don't like Pope's, so

826
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: that if I ever order you Popa's, you know I

827
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 1: hate you. You know I do not like your ass.

828
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: That's awful about Taco Bell. Oh see, if you bought

829
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: me a Mexican pizza, I'd be like, you really love me?

830
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 1: I would buy you one because you like taco Be.

831
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: I like Taco Be. You do would you like? I

832
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: like not your I like the country. Oh she knows something.

833
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 4: I've been eating a little burrito. It's a new berrito,

834
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 4: they gat.

835
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, the new mean you girl all found out.

836
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: Ever since I'm a little about that they meet. No.

837
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: I was about to say.

838
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 3: Ever since I found out that they be using rowtini

839
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 3: noodles for them fucking chiros.

840
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 1: I don't funk with taco whats like. I don't go

841
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: there for the dessert she's talking about. The little dessert. Yeah,

842
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: I eat them. Oh you eating noodles? You eat them?

843
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: It tastes like plass to me, So I don't care.

844
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: It's a little noodle, ay, just deep fried. And then

845
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: they expand it looked like, yeah, I figured when they

846
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 1: did that. When I found out, I was like, okay,

847
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 1: so now I know I can make Rahmen into a dessert.

848
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: I just found a new trick. Taco p is girl.

849
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: It's exquisite eatery. That shit fine, Okay.

850
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 3: See I knew, But I do be confused about the meat.

851
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 3: The That's why I don't be eating.

852
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I hate when I see that stuff on

853
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: the internet, like McDonald's meat and stuff like, don't show me.

854
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to see it. I just want to

855
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: eat it. Yeah, but I will say, we just went

856
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 1: to Lindy. You weren't supposed to tell nobody. Oh god, damn,

857
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 1: it's in the blog. That's what the go ahead. Tell

858
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: the truth. So we went to Lindy and girl. We

859
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: were so hungry. We had an ate all day, and

860
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: we was like, we're gonna go to McDonald's.

861
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 3: You know, the McDonald's and Europe is supposed to be

862
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 3: so much different from the right here. So it was like, Okay,

863
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 3: we're gonna go to McDonald's. So I got some chicken

864
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 3: nookies and I'm not gonna lie. It's it was real cheeky,

865
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 3: Like you this you could tell the difference. I was like,

866
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: this is not no duck, this is not no dog.

867
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: It was it was. It was very delicious. It was

868
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: very fresh.

869
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 3: I had never tasted no fries that had fresh grease

870
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 3: like that. The salt came straight from the.

871
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: Sea may salt. I don't know. I'm not gonna lie like.

872
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 3: If I lived in Europe, I would probably eat McDonald's

873
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 3: way more often. She had got a file of fish

874
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 3: se Why you put like.

875
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: That, because she the reason we went in the first place.

876
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: She wanted a fil a fish. That fil a of fish, girl.

877
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: It was so flaky.

878
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, America ain't got sheez.

879
00:45:53,840 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: McDonald's get here talking about cheater. What's up y'all?

880
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,719
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881
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,480
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884
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885
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Speaker 3: me a little tex mixed.

886
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:17,160
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887
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 3: That got these black bean and blue corn crunch burritos.

888
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,120
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889
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,400
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890
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,600
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891
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892
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907
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Speaker 1: poor Mind's Apps America's number one meal kit. What I

908
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: was saying, if I bring you pop ups, that means like,

909
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't I don't really fuck with you. I think

910
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: now at this age though, like if I even feel

911
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: myself even looking at another man, are interested in another man?

912
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: I know I'm drunk. No, you good? You good? Are

913
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: you good? I feel like if I'm even looking at

914
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: another man or wanting to talk to another man at

915
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: this age, I already know, Okay, you're kind of checked out.

916
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,399
Speaker 1: You need to either figure out what's going on wrong

917
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: in your relationship or just move on. You know what

918
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because that meanshit. When I look back on it,

919
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: it's so fucked up. It really is fucked up. If

920
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: you think about it, like this person ain't do nothing

921
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: you over here cussing them out, being rude, good morning, bitch,

922
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: damn well. Cheating is fucked up. Period. Yeah, it's I done.

923
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 4: Got to the age to where like I can't cheat

924
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 4: no more.

925
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:15,280
Speaker 1: That's good because it ain't even cheating.

926
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk to nobody else.

927
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: I feel you. Normally, I like get into it with

928
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: you and I go take somebody else. But I was like, fuck,

929
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go sleep by myself. That see, that's

930
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 1: the maturity because I used to feel like that too.

931
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: As soon as a nigga made me mad, I'm on

932
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,399
Speaker 1: the phone with somebody else, I'm texting somebody else. Now

933
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm just like, you know what, I'm gonna talk it

934
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: out with my man, or we can talk in the morning,

935
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: or we can just you know, because then you gotta

936
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: realize the next day if you and your man getting

937
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: along again, now you still got this other nigga texting, right, huh?

938
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: Just blocking, I mean, niggas is crazy. Nice me and

939
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: my nigga back on good terms. Block and I see.

940
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: But that's why you can't. You don't need to do

941
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: it in the first cause, nigga.

942
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 3: I agree, I for sure agree you shouldn't be doing

943
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 3: it in the first place.

944
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 1: But I thought we were talking about back in the day. Yeah,

945
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is niggas be messy. So we

946
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: talking to the girls who still cheat out there. Niggas

947
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 1: be messy. So if you text nigga block him, you

948
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 1: never know, he might damn your nigga Like, oh this

949
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: yo bitch was with me last night. All types of

950
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: shit niggas. I've definitely had a man DM another man like,

951
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 1: oh you fuck with Lex Like, oh what's going on?

952
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: Because you know? She like, hell yeah, I've had that before,

953
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: real miss. And I was like, I don't even know him,

954
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: bagg knowing he had my whole booty holl on his phone,

955
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: not jump it. Did heppen to me before? See, niggas

956
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: be messy, you gotta be real. He walked up to

957
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: the nigga. See, that's why you got to keep that

958
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: thing on you. He walked up to him, he was like,

959
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: you be fucking im would look at you crazy like

960
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: he was like, girl, now that's my girl. Now that's crazy. Okay, Okay,

961
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. So now it's time to get

962
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: into the b a bow bow bow bow bow ball

963
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: to go ahead, it's for the Bends.

964
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 3: Topic we really wanted to talk about because neither one

965
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 3: of us have had a child yet, but I wanted

966
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 3: to talk about because I think this is a very

967
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 3: interesting topic because I always see online women still dating

968
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 3: while they're pregnant. Do you think that it's appropriate to

969
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 3: date somebody else or have some or half six with

970
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 3: somebody else while you're pregnant for somebody.

971
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: For like a siper men. See see when I was pregnant,

972
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: I was wed. We was in a full relationship like

973
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: the baby show, me and my boyfriend. Oh he was

974
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: there at your baby show. It was I had both

975
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: of them. That's how I know that Coulchie good. He

976
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: did not get Yeah, that's what it was like. Yes,

977
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like if you got a nigga

978
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: you pregnant in the person that got you pregnant want

979
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: to see you down like you like, go be happy? Yeah,

980
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: I think.

981
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 3: And it is niggas out there who wants to still

982
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 3: date women when they pregnant.

983
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this. I think that it's so

984
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,879
Speaker 1: unfair when a man can do whatever he wants if

985
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: a woman is pregnant right after you can live your life.

986
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: Why does a woman's life necessarily have to stop? I

987
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: think if they be thinking that the other dude be

988
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: hitting that baby head, they do. And you get so

989
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make it sound good doing it's crazy.

990
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:08,439
Speaker 1: I'm no, say not the doctor gotta shape they head

991
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,720
Speaker 1: because they got a little bit in the back. Oh,

992
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: have mercy. I'm a weak now, I'm a look at

993
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 1: babies weird when they got that weird shaped head. I'm

994
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: like your mama. If a baby got a weird shaped head,

995
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 1: I already know what's going down now, Mama was getting

996
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: bust open. I'm weak. But no, I do think that

997
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: when they look at men, you know, like they're single. Oh,

998
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: they're not carrying the baby. They always say like that

999
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 1: lock and key reference, you know, like one key can

1000
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: open up a bunch of different locks or whatever. You

1001
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: know how people they be saying that. It's just so stupid.

1002
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like at the end of the day,

1003
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: we're all human and we all have needs. So if

1004
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 1: you're not with somebody and you get in a relationship,

1005
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: I don't see the issue with it. I don't like, right,

1006
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And I feel like it's

1007
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: not affecting the baby, you know what I'm saying. But

1008
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: it's like if you would have been a better father

1009
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: and maybe you know, being supportive, maybe she wouldn't even

1010
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: be worried about day because people also feel like, why

1011
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 1: she worried about dating? I'm still human, the baby not

1012
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: here yet, as long as the mom's happy, like the

1013
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 1: emotions and stuff not negative. Yeah, yeah, because I mean

1014
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: pregnancy is stressful, not that I know. And it's a

1015
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 1: lot of people wanting to go through like you know,

1016
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: sleeping in bed with their boyfriends, touching their stomach or whatever. Yeah,

1017
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: you need those moments.

1018
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 4: My baby dad is went third, but I got all

1019
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 4: these shit.

1020
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 3: I know that's right because I feel like that's important,

1021
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 3: Like it's important for a mom to not be stressed

1022
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 3: out while.

1023
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: She pregnant, and I feel like these niggas be stressful.

1024
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 1: If you are pregnant, would you be dating? Like if

1025
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: you and your baby dad didn't work out, would you

1026
00:53:51,000 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: be dating? Baby? Getting your babyhead busting? Even how? I

1027
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not sure. I feel like I've waited

1028
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: to have kids, so it's like I'm thirty three. So

1029
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 1: if I get pregnant at this age and things don't

1030
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: work out between me and my baby daddy.

1031
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 3: I feel like I ain't gonna be worried about like

1032
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 3: a nigga until after I have my kids, but if

1033
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: I was younger, probably yeah, because I feel like when

1034
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 3: you were younger, it's just different. Like I feel like

1035
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 3: at thirty three, I'm gonna be hard on myself, Like

1036
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna feel like, but you waited this long to

1037
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 3: be your mom and.

1038
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: You still made the wrong. Yeah, you're still made the wrong.

1039
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be mad at myself. I ain't even gonna

1040
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:40,760
Speaker 3: be worried about no nigga.

1041
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,399
Speaker 1: Yeah that's true, that's true. That's a different perspective. For

1042
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: that reason, I feel like my third baby'll be with

1043
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: it right right, That's what I'm saying. And so like

1044
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: maybe if I would have had one when I.

1045
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 3: Was younger, Okay, cool, she don't work out between me

1046
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 3: and you, I'm gonna go dat another nigga.

1047
00:54:58,880 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: But at this.

1048
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 3: Age, I feel like I strategically weighted because I'm like, Okay,

1049
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 3: whoever I have a child with it has to be

1050
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 3: my man. We got a lot and we're gonna make

1051
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 3: these work.

1052
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a family. Yeah.

1053
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 3: So if I have a baby for the thinker, or

1054
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 3: if I get pregnant and then we break up while

1055
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 3: I'm still pregnant, I'm gonna be depressed a little bit.

1056
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, baby gonna come out skinny as fuck, because

1057
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: you know you don't eat when you get said you're

1058
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: gonna give birth to bone? Why would you? Because I

1059
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 1: know you giving births to straight Birth to bones is nuts.

1060
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1061
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 3: Crazy, it's that drink.

1062
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm drunk, dude.

1063
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:49,439
Speaker 3: Bloss was like, I don't know, don't bring me into

1064
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:49,919
Speaker 3: this ship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to have a little, a little

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00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 1: Patreon moment. You know, we're gonna do a little Patreon

1067
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 1: So Patreon is just like exclusive content, you know, so

1068
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 1: we can really get free and loose on this segment

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00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:16,280
Speaker 1: of the show. Okay, Okay, So now we're gonna get

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00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: into the bop about bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. Okay,

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00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: what you been listening to? My Bop of the week.

1072
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 1: So Bob of the Week is a song that we've

1073
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: been jamming this week, whatever music we've been listening to.

1074
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: And y'all know it's summertime. I'm back in my afrobeats bag, y'all. Like,

1075
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all something. I love this girl. She

1076
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: is so talented. Are your star? Every time she never misses.

1077
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: She makes really good music. She makes the music like

1078
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: you can get ready to, get ready to and you're

1079
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna be feeling yourself. So she has a song called

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00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: Last Heartbreak Song. It's featuring Giveon and it's just a

1081
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: bomb ass song. I really love of her. I really

1082
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: want her to take over the American market. Like I

1083
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: feel like how big Burner boy is and stuff is

1084
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: over here. I feel like she could be like the

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00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: female Burner. I like Ario Star. Yes, that's how good

1086
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: her music is. Personally, Yeah, she's super extremely dope. So yeah,

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00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: that's my bible. The week last Heartbreaks song, Aria Star,

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00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: Oh Lord, what do you always say? Oh Lord? Is

1089
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 1: like this, It's gonna be some real ratchet.

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00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 3: I think I said this before and I'm gonna say

1091
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 3: it again. I don't be given a fun when people

1092
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 3: be having to say about Gunner because he made hits.

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00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 1: Hit after it's crazy because I really don't listen to

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00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: really girl. Yeah.

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00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 3: So he got this song that just came out maybe

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00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 3: a few weeks ago.

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00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: It's called one on one. Oh yeah.

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00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 3: We never talked about his album and the song, but

1099
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 3: I love this song on y'all.

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00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: It's so good.

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00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 3: But I mean, even though it's typical Gunner. He sounds

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Speaker 3: like all of his music. I like going to music.

1103
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 3: I feel like one thing, Like everybody don't want against

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00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 3: him since he got out.

1105
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: Of jail, and I don't like this. They haven't. Everybody

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00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 1: was at first, but when he got out, he dropped

1107
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: undeniable music. He did, so the thing is, I feel

1108
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 1: like that goes to show you, like true talent and perseverance.

1109
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: Like he was like, I don't give a fuck. This

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00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: is what I'm doing, this is what I'm sent to earth,

1111
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: this is what God gave me.

1112
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Speaker 3: And I love that niggas be in the club like

1113
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 3: I don't fuck with Gunner.

1114
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: Then they then Ye, niggas is hitting that hole. I

1115
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: do like this, hitting that hole out of here. Okay

1116
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: what you've been jamming to this past week versus this

1117
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: song whatever you want? Oh that's all? Yeah, I love it.

1118
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: I love this song. So, since we were talking about

1119
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: music and the Bible, talk about your new project for

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00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: a second. Jersey about the charge.

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00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 4: I got different clothes. I got a lot of them.

1122
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 4: I'm giving away some.

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Speaker 1: For the people who download my project on Spotify and

1124
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: Apple Music. But my project called Not Your Girl featuring

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00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: Huncho Skill, a baby and joqueeze. Okay, yeah, I got

1126
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: like a lot of like some lit little videos. I know,

1127
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: that's right. My favorite is the Baddies. I feel out

1128
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: for Horse, but it's my favorite song. I hate the

1129
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: video though, whow because I feel like the horse and

1130
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: I feel like they threw me off the whole damn.

1131
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: Oh okay, saying kind of killed your boy a little

1132
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: bit so, but I like the song. So if there

1133
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: was like who what a female rapper right now? Have

1134
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: you not had a collab with that you would like

1135
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 1: love to work with? Megan? Oh? Okay, I'm you know,

1136
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm a hottie now that Houston haughtie. Shout out to Meg.

1137
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: We want to hear a track with you in Gloss

1138
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: period coming, He's coming. What's up, y'all?

1139
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 7: As your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dreana call y'all know.

1140
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

1141
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: the Week. But do you have a product or something

1142
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: that you want to promote and you want it featured

1143
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: on Poor Minds.

1144
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 7: Your opportunity is here, period.

1145
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 3: If you have an item or you have a business

1146
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 3: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1147
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 3: having slats available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1148
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 3: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1149
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 3: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1150
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 3: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1151
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 3: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1152
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 3: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1153
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: Send us an email and we'll work it out. We

1154
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:40,959
Speaker 1: gonna figure it out.

1155
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 3: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1156
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 3: you some money.

1157
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: We love to some more. A small business man and

1158
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: a black business said that, but I mean a scrimmaad.

1159
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: Any businesses welcome. Okay, So now we got Item of

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01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 1: the Week this week. So first I want to talk

1161
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: about my lips. Y'all know, I never wear color on

1162
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: my lips. You never do color. I never wear color

1163
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: on my lips. You look pretty, thank you. Okay. So

1164
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm in my new era right now, gloss. I am aunty.

1165
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 1: So I let go of wearing lashes just because my

1166
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: lashes were getting really thin. So I've been doing good.

1167
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: My lashes are getting healthy. Y'all probably can't see them

1168
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: because they're so little, but they're really growing and I'm

1169
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: proud of myself. So I'm really in my aunty back

1170
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: today cause I got on like no lash years, barely

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01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: any makeup in that red lipstick. You know, aunties love

1172
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: no makeup and red lips. Bitch. But anyway, so I

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01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: never wear color on my lips. I'm not gonna lie

1174
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: to you. I probably haven't wore color on my lips

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01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: in about ten years. I wear the same. I do

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01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 1: Clai brown with a nude and a gloss over it.

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01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: That's all I do. I do not switch it up.

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01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: So obviously, News Beauty Collection, Drea's lip gloss company, they

1179
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: came out with a red and I have on red velvet.

1180
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: I lined my lips with the chestnut and of course

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01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: I topped it with glaze. And I was like, really,

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01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: I was saying that, and I was like, okay, I

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01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna do a red lip today. I'm just

1184
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: trying something different with my looks obvious. And I looked

1185
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:11,440
Speaker 1: in the mirror. I was like, oh, it kind of

1186
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: eats it down.

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01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 3: Something that we're not gonna do over Amused beauty collections

1188
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: come on with no ship.

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01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: That's gonna have you looking crazy. Yeah I look cute. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I really, I'm not kidding. I really do like it.

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01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 1: I've never been a red lip girl. Yeah, so I

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01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: have that.

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Speaker 3: I have muse on too, but I have on the

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01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 3: chestnut lip liner, the Glaze lip gloss, and then I

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01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 3: also have on honey Dub.

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Speaker 1: I wonder what you gotta give gloss up the glos

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01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give job to. Okay, where did the name

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01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 1: gloss come from? I don't know. I let you know,

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Speaker 1: somebody just started calling my granddaddy used to call me glossy.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know where I got it from exactly.

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01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: Okay, but it came from your granddaddy's like they used

1202
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: to call you that growing up.

1203
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I used to put a lot of vasoline.

1204
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: On my face. Oh okay, that's cute. Is so like

1205
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: that's how I used my face. That is so flawless.

1206
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: What did your granddad used to call you like? That

1207
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: would be your rap name? My granddaddy used to go,

1208
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: or you like your uncle's or something, because mine is

1209
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 1: not cute.

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Speaker 3: My granddaddy just used to call me like punky. Okay,

1211
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 3: but my granddaddy had a cute nickname. Now, his name

1212
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Speaker 3: was Jelly.

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Speaker 1: Why don't think you're ready for this, Jelly nigga. That's

1214
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: a good rap name, girl, what wat Your granddaddy used

1215
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: to call you little rascal, little track, I hit the

1216
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: drums like din Brett used to say that, I don't

1217
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 1: know little rap the same way way. Okay, man, this

1218
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 1: is so you. You probably heard him say this. Shout

1219
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: out to my uncle Freddy. I love my uncle Freddy down,

1220
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: but this would be my rap day name. It is horrible.

1221
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: He used to call me who No, he calls me

1222
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 1: mecklen bird. Oh he did. I don't know what. I

1223
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: don't know what it means. He's like, oh, Tito bug.

1224
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: He calls me title but no, no, no, mecklen bird was

1225
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: what my dad's dad used to call me. I'm sorry

1226
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: my uncle calls me title bug. Tittle bug is what

1227
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Speaker 1: my uncle. Yeah, he calls me title bug, doodle bug,

1228
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Speaker 1: and tita bug. That's cute. Oh we can have a

1229
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Speaker 1: rap group. Freddy's bitch is down' I like it? Can

1230
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Speaker 1: I like it? Shout up to my uncle Freddy. Sorry

1231
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: it wasn't it was title bug bug is cute? Think

1232
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: how you can make that rhyme? No, mmm, my name

1233
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: Tito bug? Ye.

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01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 3: I need a hug when I don't look mean, because

1235
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 3: you know I got a mug.

1236
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 1: I dance real slick because you know I cut a rug.

1237
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Speaker 3: Oh I'm from Houston, and priestyles be coming out when

1238
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 3: we I can't.

1239
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: You can't freestyle. I can't, yeah, yeah, but I can't.

1240
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: Like when I go to the studio, I can't even

1241
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: be intoxicating. Really, Oh, I gotta be sober. Oh but

1242
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: that I mean crawfree Stouce will be trash if he

1243
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: was really in the food. It's just funny with yourself. Girl. Okay,

1244
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: I'm lying. My ship would be transh but in my head,

1245
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 1: I can really it'd be fun while we be dreams.

1246
01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 3: But I would never get in the stool and say

1247
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 3: half the ship I say when I'm dressed.

1248
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: I think I would get in the studio, like birthday

1249
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,560
Speaker 1: is gonna be asked. I'm gonna do that for my birthday.

1250
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a studio station and like all my friends,

1251
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna like just freezing. Oh. Maybe we get gloss

1252
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 1: Up on the track.

1253
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 4: I know I was gloss Up.

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01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: She's gonna have the best verse. We're gonna be like,

1255
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: huh so oh she freestyle. We're gonna have her on

1256
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: the show too. I'ma make up we are we gotta

1257
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 1: get ready.

1258
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: We gotta give prepare for her the freestyle I'm gonna

1259
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 3: write my ship.

1260
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that's right. So what came with the sorry we

1261
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 1: keep getting off trade? What came with the idea with

1262
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: the jerseys? Like, what's the story behind that? Because my

1263
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: project called not Your Girls, it was like they static up,

1264
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 1: you know, like heaven on the guys her. Okay, you know,

1265
01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 1: got jersey like you go to school, your boyfriend stuff,

1266
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: but I'm not your girl period. I like that. I'm

1267
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 1: excited to listen to it. Okay, y'all make sure y'all

1268
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 1: go listen to up project Not Your Girl. Okay, what's up, y'all?

1269
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: Iss your girl xp andy. Shegirl's ryan to call. And

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01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 1: y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I

1271
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: know you heard of a hotline, but this is the

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Speaker 1: poor Mind's shot line. Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

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Speaker 3: Y'all need to call in, y'all, And this is not

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Speaker 3: necessarily for questions, you know, we just want to hear

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Speaker 3: from y'all if we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all,

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Speaker 3: thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in

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Speaker 3: your life. So you can always call six seven eight

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Speaker 3: eight two seven one eight two seed Yes.

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Speaker 1: And y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't be

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Speaker 1: calling and letting us know about your baby daddy, says

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Speaker 1: a brother, cousin, boyfriend. Okay, well I want to hear

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Speaker 1: about that. Actually, well you know they can let a

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Speaker 1: little some but you know, we want to keep it

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Speaker 1: cute and short. Like she said, this is not questions,

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Speaker 1: This is not pour your heart out. So just call

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01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: give us a little feedback. What you want to see

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Speaker 1: on the show, any suggestions, what you think about the show,

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01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: if you just want to simply give us our flowers,

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Speaker 1: you know, or any it could be anything. What's bothering

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Speaker 1: you this week, what got on your nerves this week?

1291
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: If you just want to vent and get some things

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01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 1: off your chest, pull the shot line again. The number

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Speaker 1: is six seven eight eight two seven one eight to six.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So now it's time to get into our favorite

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Speaker 3: segment of the show, which is pouring your heart out.

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Speaker 3: So you know, if you have any questions, you can

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Speaker 3: always send them to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, that's a s K p O U R

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Speaker 3: and my nds at gmail dot com. Send us to

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01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 3: your questions and your testimonials because thank you. Sometimes we

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Speaker 3: be kind off too.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I take my own. My boyfriend Kep

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Speaker 1: texts me, it's girl, you can answer it.

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Speaker 3: We ain't judging Okay, question number one Heylex Andrea loved

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Speaker 3: the show. I've been going through a break up for

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01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 3: about five months now and I've been really sad. He

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01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,719
Speaker 3: went through my phone and saw me entertaining multiple people.

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01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 3: I've never met them and wasn't planning to, but I

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01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,879
Speaker 3: know that he's still a form of cheating. Between these months,

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01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 3: we hung out some and texted like nothing ever happened, though,

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01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 3: so I knew he was avoiding reality. Recently, he asked

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01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 3: me to tell him everything I've ever done because he

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Speaker 3: saw a lot and knew I wasn't being one hundred

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Speaker 3: percent and made it seem like if I did, we

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Speaker 3: would talk.

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Speaker 1: From that point.

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Speaker 3: After I laid stuff out, which was just me naming

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Speaker 3: people in conversations, he replied okay to my messages, and

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01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 3: then the next day completely ignored me and never said

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Speaker 3: anything else. I text him twice on two different days,

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Speaker 3: and I don't blame him, but am I wrong for

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Speaker 3: feeling like I was used? And he didn't have to

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Speaker 3: make it seem like we would communicate from now on

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01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 3: knowing this entire five months, I only wanted to fix

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Speaker 3: my wrongdoings. Or do I need to just accept reality

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Speaker 3: and move on?

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Speaker 1: I think you should accept reality and move on. I

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Speaker 1: think a person's action say everything, like we can say,

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Speaker 1: tell a person, Oh, tell me how you feel, tell

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Speaker 1: me how this is? Tell me. A person's actions tell

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Speaker 1: everything you. A lot of times we want to just

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Speaker 1: hear it to make ourselves feel better for something with

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Speaker 1: our ego. You know what I'm saying, because something in

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Speaker 1: us makes us feel like, Oh, if they can't say it,

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Speaker 1: then there's still something there. So I think like a

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Speaker 1: person's actions, like he's telling you with his actions, you

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Speaker 1: know what to do. You just don't want to hear that,

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Speaker 1: or you don't want to you know, accept that what

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Speaker 1: you think? I agree? I agree too. Yeah, I hain'te

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Speaker 1: that down. Then nobody disagree with me? Okay, all right?

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Speaker 1: Question number two? Should I say her name? She put

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Speaker 1: her name in it? I mean, why else will she

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01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,200
Speaker 1: put it in there? I guess so she want her

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Speaker 1: shout out period, Hydre and Lex. My name is Morgan.

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Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. I recently just found

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Speaker 1: out about your podcast until everyone I know to watch.

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Speaker 1: My question is how long it's too long to wait

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Speaker 1: for a ring. I've been with my man for four years,

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Speaker 1: we've been living together for three. We've talked about marriage

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Speaker 1: and he said it's coming, But how long do I wait?

1351
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: I always see relationships on social media and saying their

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01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:12,759
Speaker 1: guy knew sooner if he wanted to marry them. Looking

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Speaker 1: forward to hearing from you. M M. I feel like

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Speaker 1: we can actually talk about this because we all got

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Speaker 1: a man. Well, so like my boyfriend or whatever. He

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01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 1: always like, we've been together about six or seven, so

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Speaker 1: he just fighting some court cases. And I'm not saying,

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Speaker 1: don't propose to me, You're finna go to jail, Like

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Speaker 1: ooh he fighting court cases? Child?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you like, nah, that's like the little hold

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Speaker 4: up or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, But like we always y'all talk about marriages

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Speaker 1: like that's something that you and I know, that's something

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Speaker 1: he would do, like if he wasn't dealing with what

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Speaker 1: he's dealing with. Okay, Okay, that makes sense. So y'all

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01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: are actively having real conversations with like Tomlines about Okay,

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Speaker 1: what do you think, Drea?

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Speaker 3: You know, I think that when girls be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I been on my man for teen years and we

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01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 3: still not married, but you know, he's just on his time,

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Speaker 3: and then sometimes girls do end up getting rings even

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Speaker 3: after ten years. Personally, I don't have the patience for that. Like,

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying with a nigga for longer, especially now

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Speaker 3: why always be this way? But I'm not staying with

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Speaker 3: a nigga for longer than two years, two three years,

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Speaker 3: and you haven't proposed to me.

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Speaker 1: Like it's just not havree years for you. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: the timeline. Okay, Yeah, I do feel like you sho

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Speaker 1: who you want to marry? Yeah, I think you know

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Speaker 1: as well. I feel like, especially like I keep saying

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Speaker 1: I'm older than y'all, so I think dating for me

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01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: is a little different at this age, Like I turn

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01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 1: thirty five in August, you know, like that clock is ticking.

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Speaker 1: These eggs gonna get cooked, you feel me, they.

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Speaker 4: Need to get cracked.

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01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, they need to get cracked and scrambled. But I

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Speaker 1: feel like in my relationship now, me and my man

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01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 1: are very active on our timeline, like we already we

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01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: have everything, but it's not like just conversation, Like it's

1390
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 1: stuff that we're actually doing to prepare for. Okay, this

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01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: is what we're about to do. This is what we're

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01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 1: gonna do. So I feel like conversations only go so

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01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 1: far if it's just like, oh, yeah, it's coming, it's coming.

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01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: These need to be active conversations. Things need to be happening,

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01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: things need to be changing. Okay. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: y'all been together for four years? How does he not

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01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:27,800
Speaker 1: know by now? I don't know how old she is.

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01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 1: You know, it's a little different for people in their

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01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:32,760
Speaker 1: twenties versus people in their thirties. But I can speak

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Speaker 1: for a woman in my thirties, Like me and my

1401
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:37,880
Speaker 1: man have been together for what seven months now, and

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01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: like I think, like not, I think it's just a

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01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 1: little different. I can just tell when things are a

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01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:46,680
Speaker 1: little different. But we're both you know, he's in his

1405
01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 1: thirties and so on. Min So I feel like, yeah,

1406
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 1: like we know, we know what we want to do.

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01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: We ain't here. I ain't here to fuck around. Not

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01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: fucking around either, is he? So when a man, hey,

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Speaker 1: my nigga, don't play about me. He do not play

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01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: about me? And you know when a man don't play

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01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 1: about you. I agree, So it's just very obvious in

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01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:11,599
Speaker 1: the actions I believe. So good luck girl. But like

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Speaker 1: I said, I think I don't know. Maybe I'm a

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Speaker 1: little old school, but I feel like too, Like.

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Speaker 3: When you think about all my aunties and she who

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01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,920
Speaker 3: was with niggas for like fifteen years and they never

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Speaker 3: got married like.

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01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:28,679
Speaker 1: That said, Yeah, I think that maybe he's a little

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01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: comfortable with the situation. You've made him too. That's why

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01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: you can't do wifey stuff until you get.

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01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 3: Hey, we talked about that, I always we just talked

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Speaker 3: about that on the episode.

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01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not doing all it laying up in

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Speaker 1: your house.

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01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,679
Speaker 3: Acting like a wife sheet until you put a ring

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01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 3: on my fingers, little sheit here and there, Like I'll

1427
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 3: come over and cook for you every once in a while.

1428
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 3: I might clean up if I see the places disorderly

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01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:52,879
Speaker 3: when I come over.

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01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: But every day I ain't doing all this sheit. Yeah,

1431
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: because I don't know what their living situation is either.

1432
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 1: But it's like, if y'all are actually like one hundred

1433
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 1: percent living together, it shouldn't even be no question. Yeah, y'all,

1434
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 1: that's the biggest that's a big commitment in itself. He's

1435
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 1: already made that commitment. So what's the if y'all are

1436
01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,360
Speaker 1: living together? Like like I said, for me, I be

1437
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: at my main house, yes ninety five percent of time,

1438
01:15:17,920 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 1: but I can go home. I gotta like I can

1439
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 1: literally like if something happens, I can pack up my

1440
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 1: shit and go to my crib. You know, it ain't

1441
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 1: no there. There's a commitment there, but not really because

1442
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 1: if we do break up, hey bye. But it's like

1443
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: y'all live together, y'all on the lease together or a mortgage.

1444
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if you y'all have a house or

1445
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: y'all are renting. But I feel like, if y'all are

1446
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:42,760
Speaker 1: already living together, why are y'all not married? You know

1447
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Because that's when stuff is happening. Because

1448
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 1: I feel like we're living together. That means we should

1449
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 1: be investing in things, we're planning for the future. We

1450
01:15:50,600 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 1: we're doing something now like so uh yeah, yes, it's okay,

1451
01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:03,720
Speaker 1: all right, so let us know, you know what we

1452
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 1: can expect coming up. You know what I'm saying, what

1453
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 1: you and all the other stuff outside, you know, the

1454
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 1: project that's dropping, what can what other things can we

1455
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:13,960
Speaker 1: expect coming from you where they can find you all

1456
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 1: that good stuff. I'm sorry, grown little tipsy and be

1457
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: to you. But lately I've been working on filming with

1458
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 1: Impact Atlanta. Oh you're gonna be on the next season.

1459
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: Oh I'm finna be tuned in.

1460
01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 4: Oh yes, congratulations.

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01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:36,719
Speaker 1: It's different, but it's fun. I really enjoy it. Yes,

1462
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 1: you know what I love. I think now we're in

1463
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,759
Speaker 1: a day and age where it's good to see people's

1464
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:44,559
Speaker 1: personalities and that can make you love somebody even more. Yeah,

1465
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: I want I want to open up anyway so people

1466
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 1: can see, especially with my kids, like they's so funny. Yes,

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01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:52,679
Speaker 1: I love that for you because now I meeting you

1468
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: and seeing your personality, I would have never guessed your

1469
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 1: personality was like this, Like I can really like heng

1470
01:16:58,400 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 1: with you, like fuck with you. You know what I'm saying.

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01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: So yeah, I like that. I think that's a good

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01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: move for you. Thank you y'all think that's a good idea.

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01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like reality TV shows a different side

1474
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 3: of people.

1475
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 1: Oh, that'll be a good thing. I got my deluxe

1476
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: coming down, my lib glass line called Glossy Cosmetics. Okay,

1477
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:26,599
Speaker 1: see Oh yeah, I gotta cannot vince session for girls

1478
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: to come. We could just have like a little sleepover,

1479
01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 1: just vent and talk to each other.

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01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 4: Okay, what else?

1481
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:38,720
Speaker 1: Who? Because? Yeah? Who provided? Okay, make sure y'all send

1482
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: us a link to that put anybody else so the

1483
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 1: girls that want to pull up and have a little

1484
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 1: slumber party, they can do that. Okay, I'm excited. Well,

1485
01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:50,800
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Lost draft. You got anything to

1486
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 1: add now?

1487
01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:55,599
Speaker 3: Just shop newsbaud collection dot com. You know, I'll get

1488
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 3: your lib losses, your line, there's your madic with lipsticks.

1489
01:17:58,160 --> 01:17:58,800
Speaker 1: We also have.

1490
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:02,080
Speaker 3: Some new products coming out soon. I'm gonna make sure

1491
01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 3: I send you some. And yeah, that's it, thank you.

1492
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:08,759
Speaker 1: Thanks, all right, we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all

1493
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 1: in the motherfucking building. You glost in the glossy period,

1494
01:18:16,720 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 1: mm hmmm mmmmm, smiling your perfume. I thought I was

1495
01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 1: a mule. Look at around this road. I can't help

1496
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:41,759
Speaker 1: to see the chases of you. This moment is so Reene.

1497
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: I can't help. It's a word how I feel like?

1498
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 4: What swim?

1499
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 1: What? What have you been?

1500
01:18:56,120 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 9: Nobody knows me like you do nothing. Nobody don't love me.

1501
01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:05,760
Speaker 1: Nobody like you been, Evan dn N.

1502
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 9: Every time I tried it, one look image, you know I'm.

1503
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:16,320
Speaker 5: Lying, lying, body, two bodies, skin, tup skin.

1504
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 1: I never gonna love like this.

1505
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:23,040
Speaker 2: Fucking you are made.

1506
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 1: For me, just for me, all man, holy for me,

1507
01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:35,880
Speaker 1: made for me. Oh yeah, you are made on me.

1508
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:43,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh yeah. Every day.

1509
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 9: I get in my feel list this way, and I

1510
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 9: knew it was rare. Oh cause before you, I never

1511
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:54,639
Speaker 9: did care.

1512
01:19:55,479 --> 01:20:00,599
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do if I had

1513
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 1: to go on without you.

1514
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 9: Here we go, hear me back fast? Why have you been?

1515
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 9: Nobody knows me.

1516
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 1: Like you do.

1517
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 9: Nobody don't love me quite like you been, even the night.

1518
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 1: Every time I try one look, am I.

1519
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 2: You know I'm liar, liar.

1520
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:31,640
Speaker 9: Body too, body, skinned, tootheskin.

1521
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm never gone love like this up again.

1522
01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 2: You were mad for me, You were made for me.

1523
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:46,639
Speaker 2: You would made fall.

1524
01:20:49,880 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 1: You were made for me. It is there, It is there,

1525
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 1: It is the