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Speaker 1: Well, we got Alicia in Columbia, Colo. She says, I'm

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Speaker 1: closer to my aunt than my mom. My aunt put

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Speaker 1: me through college and bought me my first car. My

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Speaker 1: mom resents her from being financially able to do those things,

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Speaker 1: and I'm tired of trying to make her make my

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Speaker 1: mom feel whole. Am I responsible for her feelings for

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Speaker 1: her mom?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not? Absolutely not, absolutely not. Your mother is jealous

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Speaker 2: of her sister, period, and that's something she got to

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Speaker 2: work through. She ought to be grateful to her sister

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Speaker 2: for taking care of her daughter. That's what she ought

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Speaker 2: to do. But see, when you don't practice gratitude, you

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Speaker 2: end up with attitude. Just think about anything, anybody. If

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Speaker 2: you're having a problem with anybody that you've ever helped,

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Speaker 2: and everybody has that, remember this, what's they don't operate

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Speaker 2: with gratitude? You finny get the attitude? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, okay, okay, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Darla in Knoxville. Darla writes, my birthday was Friday, and

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Speaker 1: I told my husband what I wanted for my birthday,

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Speaker 1: and I showed him a picture of it. He went

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Speaker 1: be hurt by my reaction? Am I supposed to be

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Speaker 1: thrilled over this gift that I don't want?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know why he didn't do what you asked

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Speaker 2: him to do. I just don't understand that fellas. Now,

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Speaker 2: he might have called himself surprising you because he didn't

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Speaker 2: want to get you what you asked for, because then

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Speaker 2: it wouldn't be a surprise, but not a surprised and backfire.

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Speaker 2: But then you got to also remember, lady, you're not five.

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Speaker 2: You're not five. That could be another time to get this.

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Speaker 2: But once again, let me go back to this. When

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Speaker 2: you do something with somebody and they don't exhibit gratitude,

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Speaker 2: what you will get is attitude. Now, I got what

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Speaker 2: you told him, but the fact that he did something,

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you ask him why he gave you that?

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Speaker 2: Did he say, I really thought put some thought into this,

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Speaker 2: and I thought you might like this instead. I know

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Speaker 2: that's what you want, but I wanted to try to

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Speaker 2: surprise you with something. They may have a good reason

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Speaker 2: for that, but you're so busy wanting what you want

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Speaker 2: because you five. I ain't getting no bike for Christmas,

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Speaker 2: you know, So that's whatever?

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Speaker 3: Lady?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I hate being told what to go get, I

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Speaker 2: might as well just give you the money to go

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Speaker 2: get it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't feel like a surprise, I get. Well, we

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Speaker 3: can narrow it down, we come on because yeah it's easier.

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Speaker 1: He got what he wanted her to have, but not

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Speaker 1: what she wanted, you know, But anyway it back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now he's hurt. Okay, yeah, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Sean and Alexandria, Sean writes, my husband got laid off

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Speaker 1: and he's been down and neglecting his hygiene. But I

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Speaker 1: still try to make him feel special by having sex

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Speaker 1: whenever he wants to. How do I encourage him to

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Speaker 1: take showers and keep himself groomed while he's unemployed? Ew?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know one way to get him the shower

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Speaker 2: is quit having sex just because he won't to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now, I don't know what you not working got to

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Speaker 2: do with you being funky. But I don't understand. It's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, when I'm on vacation, I still bathe I

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Speaker 2: got that. I ain't on TV. Now I might not.

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Speaker 3: Shave, but we're gonna wash.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna do that. And I live with a

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Speaker 2: woman where you can't come up in there. You because

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Speaker 2: I'm married to a blood hound. So she got a

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Speaker 2: sense that I you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, see your sneakers by the dope. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: you know the little stuff like that, was you smoking

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Speaker 4: a cigar outside? It was outside, it was too close

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Speaker 4: to the dope, you know, stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so what she wants to.

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Speaker 3: Yes, just stop the letter stink.

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Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, the sex part with no showers and

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Speaker 1: all that. Okay, all right, last one.

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Speaker 3: You're holding up, bro, gross she got a mask on.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, last one, last one and

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Speaker 1: Stella and Syracuse says, I've planned this destination wedding, but

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Speaker 1: most of our family members are not coming because they

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Speaker 1: are scared to leave the country right now. My fiance's

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Speaker 1: dad has offered to pay for our wedding in New York.

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Speaker 1: Do we have to change our plans for them?

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Speaker 2: Yes, you do, because ain't nobody going nowhere with you

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Speaker 2: right now? Not in this crazy climbing win. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: can still have a destination wedding without getting on the

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Speaker 2: plane and going nowhere. Go to Pennsylvania. You can have

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Speaker 2: a destination wedding in Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 3: It is a different destination.

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Speaker 2: Than no, no, no. In an Amish country. You could

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Speaker 2: do it in Amish country because then you know it

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Speaker 2: ain't nobody. It'd be like you're in a different whole,

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Speaker 2: nother world. You can be down there and just have

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Speaker 2: everything because they got a lot of candles down there.

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Speaker 2: You can have candles everything right there. Oh, it's gonna

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Speaker 2: be nice. Didn't have you have butterchurn? You have fresh butter.

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Speaker 2: Oh that butter good. And then and they'll make you

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Speaker 2: a wedding gown you ain't ever seen before, come with

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Speaker 2: a bonnet and everything. You have to wear them little

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Speaker 2: lace up boots. But other than that, you're gonna bear

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Speaker 2: them high heels. It's not a diamish window. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: have to wear them boots that lay up with about

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Speaker 2: the thirty on it. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna wear them

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Speaker 2: little page boys shoes look like you deliver newspapers.

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Speaker 3: You gonna take to get out them clothes, though, after

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Speaker 3: the wed.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna take to get that too, because that horse,

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Speaker 2: horse traffic, crazy.

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Speaker 3: Pet up in there. Man, would you be all day?

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Speaker 2: Tie your little cans on that little orange triangle on

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Speaker 2: the back. Have your little cans on that?

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Speaker 3: What about the reception.

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Speaker 2: Had a reception in that barn half all that hay

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Speaker 2: around here. Yeah, they ain't got no music. Though you're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to harm everything.

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be h This carriage right now coming

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Speaker 3: over in the town. Speed that right there, that's top

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Speaker 3: speed right there.

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Speaker 2: And in statement news right brother, we got

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