1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: It is time for us to ask the clo. This 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: is from Aurelia in Hyde Park, A Really writes, My 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: boyfriend is nine years younger than I am. He went 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: out Saturday night without me and then he came over 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: to my house around two thirty a m. We had 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: sex and he got up and left. I felt like 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: a booty call. It felt like a booty call, and 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: I felt used. Was that a booty call or not? 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what that is. 10 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's two thirty in the morning, they've already been out. Well, 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 3: what let me ask you, coke Arilia. Here's just a 12 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: basic question. After he called, what happened? 13 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 2: Tada? 14 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 3: See, that's all you got to do. He called, said 15 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: he coming over, it's two thirty in the morning. Then 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 3: y'all did what. 17 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: It really did? Then he got up and went home. 18 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 2: Is my shirt? You see my shirt? But was that 19 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: a booty call? Well that's the question, y'all. Wasn't over 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 2: there filling out taxes? 21 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't even give her the courtesy of a 22 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: phone call. He just went over there after. 23 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, next next question. 24 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. Moving on to Solomon in Freeport, Solomon writes, my 25 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: wife is cool. Solomon Yeah, my wife is cool with threesomes, 26 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: but only if she gets to pick the woman. It's 27 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: not fair and I won't participate if I am not 28 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: attracted to the woman. How do I get my wife 29 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: to be more considerate to my needs by letting me 30 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: help her pick the woman? 31 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: Well? 32 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: Sold? What Solomon? 33 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 3: Well, so you probably should have asked Moses about this 34 00:01:53,520 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: called I ain't got nothing for you out see you 35 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 3: know again again? Different times, folks, people are actually write 36 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 3: in talking and writing like this is normal and present 37 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 3: this to us like we're supposed to have, Like there's 38 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 3: a regular solution for this. Bro, it's not fair. 39 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: Pretend like, pretend like it's regular. Give them a regular answer, 40 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: pretend like you just pretend. I know you don't really 41 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: believe it, but just pretend. I want to see what 42 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna say. 43 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll ask the last part of the question. 44 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: So how do I get my wife to be more 45 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: considerate of my needs by letting me help her pick 46 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 1: the woman for the threesome? 47 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: Well, you know, come on, may be proud. 48 00:02:55,919 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 3: It really depends on the level of attractiveness that she's 49 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 3: bringing to the house, because you know, there are levels 50 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: to this. All of them are scaly wags. But which 51 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 3: scaley wag are you bringing into the house? Is it 52 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 3: low level scaly wag or a high level scaly wag. 53 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 3: That is what we probably faced with right here. I 54 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: don't really see the problem you have in most men 55 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 3: can't get their wife to go along with this at all. 56 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 2: You got one that's bringing them to the house. 57 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 3: Now, if I were her, she's probably not gonna bring anyone. 58 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 2: To the house that looks better than her. 59 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 3: I will assume that's the problem you have in because 60 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: she don't want you to be more attracted. She wants 61 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: to be the most attractive person in the room. So 62 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: now what you're doing is you're just having sex with 63 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 3: a bunch of ugly people. And that right there what's 64 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 3: really causing you. The trauma is gone. And you know, 65 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: how can I get her to be more considerate of 66 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 3: my Yeah, obviously. 67 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: This is not about you. This is just the fact 68 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: that she like other people. So from my scally wags 69 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 2: out some nice. 70 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 3: Well I've never I've never seen a nice scaley wag 71 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 3: because that term in years and scaliwaggs don't have real conversation. 72 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you, that was a normal answer, 73 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Asia and Fort Lauderdale, Asia writes, 74 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: my husband can be cold at times. I broke my 75 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: toe and he had no patience for my pain and 76 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: crying spells. He told me that he couldn't deal with 77 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 1: the drama and he left me home alone. We've been 78 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: married three years. Is this how my future will be? 79 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean that's how it is now. 80 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't see a change. 81 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: If you want to know, if that's how your future 82 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 3: going to be, strong, suggest you don't break another toe. 83 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: I'm just going out on the limb, or that one 84 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 3: right there, or you can elevate and just break your 85 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 3: whole leg and see how he feel about that. But 86 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 3: I don't think it's gonna change it. Think he used 87 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 3: that as an excuse to get out the house. 88 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: Hmm. 89 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: So this marriage is doomed, isn't it. 90 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 2: He don't care nothing about your broke toe. 91 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, which is a God forgive, God forbid you come 92 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 3: in there with some other news. 93 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, this is bad. This is bad. Woo. Please 94 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 2: don't come in there with no illness. Lord, have you. 95 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 3: On your own, man, you didn't diagnose with anything. 96 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: Don't go in there with time. Yeah, this is bad. 97 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 2: This is bad, all right. 98 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: Last one Steve, This is Chance in Edgewater. Chance writes, 99 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: whenever my girlfriend gets mad at me, she puts me 100 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: out of the apartment. I moved in with her in January, 101 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: so I have nowhere to go. Last night I slept 102 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: on my friend's couch. Is it time to get my 103 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: own apartment and stop going back to hers? 104 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? Bruh, Yeah, for sure. You ever heard of saying 105 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 2: God bless the child and has his own serve? 106 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 3: My father drilled that into my head. Boy, don't get 107 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: your own. Don't be beholden to nobody. Somebody can control 108 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 3: your destiny, what you do, what you have, what you own, son, 109 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: get your own. Wait until you got the money to 110 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 3: get it. If you don't borrow it, don't go in 111 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 3: there asking nobody for it. Get it yourself and go 112 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 3: on about your bids. You already see you put yourself 113 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 3: in a weak position. 114 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you. 115 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 3: Find out a little bit about her, you know, and 116 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: she know you in the weak position. She take advantage 117 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 3: of it. 118 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. Is it time to get your own place? It's 119 00:06:54,520 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: your time to get a new girl though. There you go, new. 120 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: Girl, new place, new attitude. Probably need a new job, 121 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 3: was sleeping on your free and slow for the couch. Yeah, 122 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: everybody to you. 123 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: It's one of those life lessons, sons. 124 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 2: Steve. 125 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: All right, that concludes the clo for today. Thank you 126 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: for all that clo At the time of hour. 127 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: Birthday too, just wanted to throw that out there. 128 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: It is happy birthday, junior birthday, birthday. Yeah, all right, 129 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Like I 130 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: was saying, we're gonna discuss this year's invest Fest in Atlanta, 131 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,239 Speaker 1: and Steve you will be there so we'll talk about 132 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: it right after this. 133 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 2: Los people, this is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this is what's 134 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 2: going on. This is your boy Kevin Hart. This is 135 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: your boy Chris Bran, Big Snoop Dogg 136 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 3: Less, It's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey 137 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: Morning Show.