1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: So the latest reconciliation with my mom was announced at 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: Bravo Khon so is Yodo. What was your first thought 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: when you received that text from mom on your phone? 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Did you thought you saw a ghost? 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: I did? I was like, is this real? This is 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: my sister? I was. I was very confused. It took 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: me a minute. I'm like, is this a joke? Because 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: you know, we all get these random text messages and 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 2: phone calls at certain hours and it might be like 10 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Andy Cohen. 11 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, he does do this spoofing whatever this spoof like 12 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 3: sometimes that my mom calls it spoofing. 13 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's no. 14 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 3: I think that's what it is. 15 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it took me a little minute to make 16 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: it comprehend and sink in, and I was like again, 17 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: I answered her right away. You know, that's that's exactly 18 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 2: what I wanted, because it it's not me I want. 19 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 2: I always want her in my life, no matter what 20 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: we did. If we had an argument, She's not my sister. 21 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: I'm a man, I'm different. I want to protect her. 22 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 2: But she pushed me away and she had she had, 23 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: she had right she whatever she was going through in life. 24 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: You know, I can't blame her because she went through 25 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 2: a lot of things in life and she's still a woman. 26 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 2: She had she left her four children. It was tough 27 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 2: on her. So that was the best moment. It really, 28 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: it really was. It was It was a great moment 29 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: to receive that text. And and and I you know, 30 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: like when I met her. When we met, he was 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: just like, listen, I love you. I don't want to 32 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 2: hear nothing. Let's let's talk about this. I don't want 33 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: to talk about it. I don't even care. It's over. 34 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 2: Let's move on. And that's what we have to do. 35 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: Move on. And that's it. And I bring up the past. 36 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 2: The past is over, it's done, it's gone. It's behind us. 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 2: But we are older now, we are smarter, now, we're 38 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: we're all more mature. You know. 39 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: I think we all realized too that like the little 40 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: things are really little things. Like it's like I can't 41 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 3: believe I used to get mad at that. Like even 42 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: if we laugh about like the sprinkle cookie, it's like 43 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 3: that was a major there was like a whole episode 44 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 3: or two like are you kidding me? Like it's so funny. Yeah, 45 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: but like and just to say, like when you're twenty four, 46 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: and pregnant or I was twenty five. I was like, 47 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 3: she's so mean, Like I'm like, she to me, she 48 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: threw us when I was like a twenty I was 49 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: your age. So I was your age and I was pregnant, 50 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 3: and so I was so insulted, and I'm like, okay, 51 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: now tell me that I was a forty five year 52 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 3: old woman. I'd be like, all right, throw it in 53 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 3: the garbage, like who cares? 54 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: You know. 55 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 3: So it's like it's really just growing pains, I would say, 56 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 3: you know, And I think that's why people love our show, 57 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 3: because it's real. It goes on everywhere and like the 58 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 3: petty little like you know what I mean, It's. 59 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: Just it's funny. Yeah, after you and mom saw each other, 60 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: how did you feel when the four of you met? 61 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 3: I was nervous that day, you were, Yeah, I was 62 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 3: because I just honestly, I went. 63 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: In everyone was nervous going into each one of those 64 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: little I guess meetings. 65 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm gonna be tolling. Honestly, I 66 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: wasn't at all any meeting, no, because I have I 67 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: have no anger inside me. I just wanted to make up. 68 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: I don't care. It's over. So I wasn't nervous. I wasn't. 69 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: I wasn't. I was just happy, let's all get together, 70 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: and I feel like it was going to be fine. 71 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: He did, he did. He did feel like that. I said, 72 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 3: this is either going to go left or right, and 73 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: this is going to really truly because I'm more of 74 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: a realist I am. I've always been that way. So 75 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, this is either going to go really 76 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: far left or really far right, because you know, you 77 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 3: never know. I'm not sure how this is going to go, 78 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: but we'll see. So of course I went in there 79 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: very like, okay, I want to try. I want to 80 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 3: go try, and I'm going to say my piece, let 81 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: her say hers, and let's see. Like I hope, but 82 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 3: I said, Joe, we might be like you know what, 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: I don't know what we're doing here. Let's get the 84 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: fa out here. I was like, this could happen. But 85 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: I do think Louis was a big help that day. 86 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 3: In like, if Teresa and I got into like a 87 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 3: little bit of like not an argument, but just like, 88 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 3: well I felt this way. Well I felt that way. 89 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 3: I'd say, you and Louis both would look at us 90 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 3: and be like it's fair though, because she felt and 91 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 3: I'm like okay, like and we we were at the 92 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 3: point where we were ready to accept that You're never 93 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 3: gonna understand this part and I'm never gonna understand that part, 94 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 3: and we're okay with it. Yeah, you know, so that 95 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 3: was important. 96 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: I think that was like the biggest thing for you got, 97 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: like all of us though, really to understand all of this. 98 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: It's like everyone is entitled to have their own feelings 99 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: and that's kind of what drifted things to go a 100 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: certain direction or maybe get escalated to a certain point. 101 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, we all have 102 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: to understand, Okay, these are our feelings. Now we're going 103 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: to move on from here. And I think that was 104 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: like the beauty of all of it. It was like, wow, 105 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 1: this is like it was refreshing. And she came home 106 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: that day and she looks at me and she goes, 107 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: Melissa was so nice. I was like, good, you're like 108 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 1: under great. Oh, like, I'm so happy for you, so 109 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: so so so. 110 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: See, so she maybe thought the same thing that I 111 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 3: was gonna come at her a little yeah, you know, 112 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 3: but I think we all went in there, and I 113 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 3: think there's also. 114 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: These like stigmas, like oh, Melissa's cold towards me. Oh okay, 115 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: But then today she was like, well, Melissa was really 116 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: sweet to me today. I was like, yeah, I think 117 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: you both could be really sweet to each other. She 118 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: just has to like build and it was just so 119 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: it's trust. And it was funny because the way she 120 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: came home that day, it was very like chill good 121 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: and she I texted her. I was like, are you 122 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: all right? And when the second she texted me back 123 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: and said, we're at Willow and West. 124 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 3: Were you lying okay? Like we're out to lunch. 125 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: I was like, they're fine. 126 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, we We're out to lunch. 127 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: We're all is good. We spent our first holiday together 128 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: in three years. How did it feel for the family 129 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: to be back together for a normal Christmas like it 130 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: would have been? 131 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: It was? It was It was great. I mean, we 132 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: just we missed our no, no and none now we 133 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: missed them, but being together was great. I mean really, 134 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 2: it took a little minute, right with everybody in the beginning, 135 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 2: it took about a half hour thirty. 136 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: And it was funny because I kind of missed half 137 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: of that because Christian and I had shown up a 138 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: little later, like not that late, but like by fifteen minutes. 139 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: But that initial fifteen I think before I got there, 140 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: it was like everyone was adjusting. 141 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 142 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: But then I walked in and I was like, all right, 143 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: and I don't know, I'm easy. I'm like, all right, 144 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: let's just let's go back to normal. That's so I'm 145 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: just I'm so easy. So that's why I was always 146 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: like grabbing Antonia. And then she brought me up to 147 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: her room and I was like, okay, good. I was like, 148 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: let's just be like normal, go back to the way 149 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: it was, and it was funny. Then I seek Gabriella 150 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: and Toni laughing and I'm like, oh, this makes me happy. 151 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: Milania and Antonio making tiktoks, I'm like, oh my god, 152 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: this is great. 153 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 3: They all made tiktoks all nice because we all knew 154 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: they were going to go viral. Just yes, yes, yes, 155 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 3: And it didn't take long. I feel like there was 156 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 3: a little awkwardness, not so much with Teresa and Louie 157 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: and I and Joe. It was the girls because Antonia 158 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: and the boys are kind of like whatever, Like the 159 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 3: boys are like cool, but they even they needed a 160 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: minute because and I'll say Joey's an easier He's easier 161 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 3: than Gino because Gino's eighteen years old. Now he's like 162 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 3: all right, so like this real, like what's happening here? 163 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 3: You know? So I think everyone was like just feeling 164 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: it out. And then as the night went on, everyone 165 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 3: was like, oh no, this is normal, like we're all family. 166 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 3: We all remembered that we're family. 167 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: That goes to show a lot of families. You spay, 168 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: you're apart so long, look what happens. Yeah, and it's 169 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 2: a shame we lost all those years, all those memories. 170 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 3: We can't ever let this happen again. 171 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: Never, No, it's not gonna happen. 172 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: No, it's just everyone. It was crazy like when I 173 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: actually first saw Gino and Joey, like my actually, I 174 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: got tears right away when I was in the house. 175 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: They're so yes because they're so big, like immediately, but 176 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: like the way Joey hugged me, I'm like, oh my god, 177 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: you are must love. Like I was like, oh and 178 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: I feel the hug. You don't even know I feel it. 179 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,239 Speaker 1: I feel the hug. 180 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 3: Yes, Gino is a gorga. 181 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: I always say. 182 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 3: Joey's like me and my family. Gin is gonna be 183 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: a little bit more. 184 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 2: Joys like me. 185 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 3: No, he's nice like me. We fight over with Joey's like, 186 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 3: but he's like me. 187 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: How often do you guys talk to mom as of now? 188 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm talking we we you know our mom, Louis nuts. 189 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 2: I probably talked to Louis a little bit more than 190 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: yeah than mom. And it's every week is different. I 191 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 2: might talk to Louis every day. We were on the 192 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 2: phone and then uh, he just wound up popping over. 193 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 2: But we run our way out to dinner and he 194 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 2: was gone, and he calls me up to our doorbell warning, 195 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: so we get alert and it's Louis at the door. 196 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 2: He's crazy, he's he made it over. 197 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 3: He works right by our house. 198 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: What do you guys think we as a family need 199 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 1: to do to avoid another feud like this? 200 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 3: Communicate? 201 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 2: Now? 202 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 3: I really think, like, don't let it linger so like 203 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 3: especially like you know, like if somebody sees anything they 204 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 3: don't like, just call instantly. Is this real? Is this true? 205 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 3: Did you say this? What's happening here? I think when 206 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 3: we would we let things go for too long? And 207 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 3: then I think that's number one. Number two or this 208 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 3: should be number one. Actually, the outside influences, like if 209 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 3: someone's calling to say, did you read like I don't 210 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 3: think she was saying that wrong, or she said it 211 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 3: with an attitude, Oh my god, hang up the phone. Yeah, 212 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 3: Like I think that's you. 213 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: Know, the biggest thing because a lot of your guys 214 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: is fight were caused by others, and it was like Delly. 215 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 3: Other people bringing attention to something, bringing life to it. 216 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 2: Exactly, yes, exactly, so ridiculous. That's why I don't like 217 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 2: Antonia's watching these episodes. I don't even watch them. I 218 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: can't watch them. Get exactly shut it off. 219 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I leave the room, put it on like you 220 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: would put on Gray's Anatomy. It's like, oh, it's time 221 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 3: to watch my show. I'm like, turn it off. 222 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 2: Now you would think you would want to watch yourself. 223 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 2: It's great. I don't want to watch it. 224 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: Listen in the beginning, it's cute watching us as babies. 225 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 3: Yes, that's when she's on. That's why I'm still like 226 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: Joey books in the room and I'm like, oh, keep 227 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 3: it on, keep it on as soon as it goes 228 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 3: in another two seasons, like and turn it off. 229 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: Well, I got to season ten. I'm taking a little 230 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: bit of a break. 231 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: You're like, I'm done. 232 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I'm all right. I'm like, maybe 233 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: i'll keep watching it, but I really did. I stopped 234 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: after that, No, because season ten it was when my 235 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: dad got supported, right, so I'm at that point right now, 236 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, I'm good. You're like, I'm like, 237 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: the family remember it. I do remember my dad getting deported. 238 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: I don't remember a lot of the a lot of 239 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: the stuff, though, I remember us going to Italy and 240 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: going to visit him at ICE. I don't remember like 241 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: a lot of the times where I was having conversations 242 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: with you guys, like telling me that like I wanted 243 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: him to stay, and I felt like I was almost 244 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: like being a little selfish because I wanted him to stay, 245 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: thinking that he was going to come back and be 246 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: home for my sisters. So I wanted him to fight, 247 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: like for me to like get out and be home 248 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: in time for all of these milestones in my life. 249 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: Then at the end of the day, he was deported, 250 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: and now he missed everyone's life and basically Audrianna's entire life, 251 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: and so like then I think back on it and 252 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I was so like I was like, 253 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: so like, what is that called when you're like looking 254 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: like I was a ton of It was like a 255 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: tunnel vision and I only thought one way, and it's 256 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: that was nice to watch it back because again, like 257 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: that's what I do with next gen. I watch myself 258 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: back because I'm like, this is a mirror reflection of myself. 259 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: I never want to do that again, or I want, 260 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: all right, how can I learn from this or be 261 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 1: better from this? And that's how everything you mentioned yourself, Yes, 262 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: even random weekends with friends out at the bar, anything, 263 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: I look at it as a mirror reflection like, Okay, 264 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: now I'm going to do this better. And that's like 265 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: that's such a good quality. That's that's how I feel 266 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: like it's good for me. It's like therapy for me. 267 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: Otherwise I'll like have a freaking mental breakdown. So we 268 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: have a statement from Margaret. Obviously we know that Margaret 269 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: is no longer going to be on the Real Housewives 270 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: in New Jersey. She said, I've been thinking about a 271 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: lot of different things and I am moving on from 272 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: the New Jersey Housewives. How do you guys feel about this? 273 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: And how do you think if Jersey does come back, 274 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: that this could be beneficial to either you or to 275 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: the cast as a whole or honestly, I was thinking 276 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: to you, a mom's relationship. 277 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that Margaret has felt like this for well, 278 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: I know that she's felt like this for a while. 279 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 3: I think she obviously, you know, you know her mother. 280 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: Your mother and her just do not get along. They 281 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 3: didn't have the mending right that we had. And I 282 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 3: think she had a good feeling that I don't know, 283 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 3: like she knew that we made up. She was very 284 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 3: supportive of us making up as a family. She was 285 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 3: very happy. She wasn't mad about it, you know, which 286 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: I never expected her to be. I think she just 287 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 3: felt like it's just something I don't I'm not I 288 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 3: don't want to be a part of anymore. I think 289 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 3: she knew that the road with your mom and her 290 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 3: is going to be a longer one. And like, when 291 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 3: you're not family, why make up? Yeah, Like, if I 292 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 3: don't like you, I don't like you, you're not I 293 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 3: don't have to have Christmas with you. You're not my blood, 294 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: you're not my family. 295 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: And you guys are at this point in your life 296 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: especially when it comes to friends, where it's like, if 297 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: I don't want you in my life, I'm old enough now, 298 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: I don't want people in my life. And that's fine. 299 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 3: Advice your mom and like they both feel the same. 300 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent. And you know the way you 301 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: feel about certain people, of course, and that's a respect 302 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: thing between the two of you. 303 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I mean, obviously she has friends I don't 304 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 3: talk to. I have friends she doesn't talk to, And 305 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: I think that's okay. Respect each other's friendships. They have 306 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 3: nothing to do with each other, and and that's it, 307 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 3: you know. That's that's what I think. And I think, 308 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 3: you know, I'm happy for Margaret. I am. I will 309 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 3: say I think that this is a good she made 310 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,479 Speaker 3: a good decision. Yeah, I do. 311 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: Do you think it's going to be beneficial to you 312 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: and mom's relationship? Okay, guys, wait, we literally just got 313 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: the news. My podcast producer just walked through the door. 314 00:14:55,920 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: Drum well please, congratulations family coming back on top. Oh yeah, 315 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: we have Jerseys Melissa Dolores coming back for the Real 316 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: Housewives in New Jersey season fifty. 317 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: Well it's about time. Oh my gosh, we waited long enough, right, 318 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 3: this is great. I'm so excited. 319 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: For you guys. 320 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. This is They just literally just now while 321 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 3: we're doing this podcast. 322 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: They just announced it because you know, it was probably 323 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: Margaret released her video and they were like, Okay, it's 324 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: time for us to do this. 325 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so we're back. 326 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 3: We're back. We're back, baby back, We're all back. You're 327 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 3: our next Gaen. But you could be back to a 328 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 3: little bit. I'll be back a little Yeah. 329 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: They're definitely going to want to show some stuff about 330 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: our family and I'm excited for it. 331 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. 332 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 3: Jersey's back baby. 333 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: Fifteen, right season, let's do it, and you guys are 334 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: going to see a united family. 335 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 3: Yes, that's right, Thank you Jesus. Yes, I think that 336 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 3: for you know, I know my sister in law so well, 337 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: and I know that she doesn't you know, it's going 338 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: to irk her right if Margaret's in her space or 339 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 3: whatever it is, and I know that, like it's it's 340 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 3: only going to be a problem. We're all going to 341 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 3: just keep talking about the fact that Teresa and Margaret 342 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 3: don't get along, and like it's just nobody wants to 343 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 3: hear the old no drama and that's I think it's 344 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 3: like either of them. I don't think your mom wants 345 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 3: to either, and I don't think I know Margaret doesn't 346 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 3: want it. So I think everyone's just like I think 347 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: she made a good decision. 348 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, there was a lot of speculation that 349 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: the reconciliation only happened because you two wanted to start filming. 350 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: Reja says in New Jersey. 351 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 3: What do you have to say about that we're not 352 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 3: good actors? 353 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? Like I could call both right now. 354 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 355 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 3: I mean everyone they know us too well to know that, 356 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 3: like we're not good at putting on a show because 357 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 3: we just all just like, you know, spit it out. 358 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 2: You can't fake it. 359 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: My mother. 360 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: She couldn't. I mean maybe if I had act a 361 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: little bit, all right, but no, that one forget it so. 362 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: You'll know it by just her face. It's like it'll 363 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: give it away, does it about it? 364 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 2: It was great when these two when they you know, 365 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 2: when we put them together. I would we we sat 366 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: at this little table in the park and I sat 367 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: there and I watched them and she was very she 368 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 2: was very chill and good right, and and Teresa, they 369 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: were both so and I would just I was on 370 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: I was on edge. I was very cool and I 371 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 2: was on it. 372 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 3: We can both just break at any time, and I 373 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 3: think you were waiting for that, but it didn't happen, 374 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 3: thank god. 375 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, look at these two all right, and then 376 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: they started they got right back together because that's their family, 377 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 2: and they both love each other and they hate each other, 378 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 2: but they love each other. But they hate each other, 379 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 2: but they love each. 380 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: Other, but they love each other. 381 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. I do think what people forget is that we've 382 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 3: been in each other's lives no matter what. We have 383 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 3: so many memory race together and I'm talking about just 384 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 3: going to your father's family parties that I don't even 385 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 3: know why we were invited all the time, because like. 386 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: You guys were family, you know what I'm saying. 387 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 3: Like I have so many weekends that I've spent with 388 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 3: Teresa before she was a housewife or before any of this, 389 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: and even on Housewives, We've been through so much, Like 390 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 3: I think people forget like her and I have been Well. 391 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: There was a history before the show. There was a 392 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: life before this show. 393 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 3: Right, I mean, So it's just I think people forget 394 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 3: how long of a history. So like when we make 395 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 3: up and I'm with her, and it's good. I feel 396 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: like I'm with my sister, Like I can I yell 397 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 3: at Teresa right now. She'll she'll call me in the 398 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 3: morning or like maybe send me one of her little 399 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 3: found something on the internet. And it's not even about me. 400 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 3: It's usually about somebody else. And I'm like, Teresa, like 401 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,239 Speaker 3: I yell at her again, which is good. That's how 402 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 3: you know, like you're's real, you. 403 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: Know, yeah, yeah, I just know it's good. Okay, the 404 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah, I'm like, just who goes. She's like okay, 405 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 1: and then she and then I'm like, she even told 406 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: me about the the other day. She's like, I know, 407 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: I just talked to Melissa, and I feel good. I 408 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: feel good. She she told me, I need to col down. 409 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,440 Speaker 3: I cannot because and I don't want to, like ever 410 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 3: give you stress. But sometimes I'm like, I'm. 411 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 2: Gonna call you. 412 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: I swear. 413 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 3: I'm gonna call Gia. It's like calling Teresa's mom or something. 414 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm gonna call Gie. 415 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: I swear. It's so funny. 416 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 3: It's so funny. 417 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 1: Can you tease anything about what maybe viewers or fans 418 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,679 Speaker 1: would see a little bit more into what you have 419 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: built over the years while Jersey has been on pause. 420 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,360 Speaker 3: I mean I sprinkle by MG, yes, I know. Can 421 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 3: you believe I launched a whole sprinkle company, like yes, 422 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 3: So that's been obviously amazing. That just took off like 423 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 3: I never I mean I knew people were gonna be like, oh, 424 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 3: this is hysterical that I kind of took a dig 425 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 3: and like turned it into like a business. But that's me. 426 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 3: I've always been. Don't forget. I've had envy for over 427 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 3: a decade. 428 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 1: Envy as well. You know the second location? But did 429 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: you do the second location on the show. 430 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 3: No, I did that off the show during this time 431 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 3: life as well. So like I'm always been a little 432 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 3: bit of a business kind of worker be thing. So 433 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 3: I knew when I did the Sprinkle cookies it was 434 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 3: going to be a thing. I just would I want 435 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 3: to know. 436 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 1: One zo Joe let you let the let the gate 437 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: open and was like you can work. It just all flourished. 438 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: And now he's probably like, don't stop. 439 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 3: He's so annoying. I don't know what I did because 440 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 3: now I'm like me, maybe I don't want to work. 441 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 3: Oh no, now you're you're working. 442 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, now you're going to work you broke my 443 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 2: bulls all those years. Yeah, foped me all the time. 444 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,959 Speaker 2: That work, yeah, Shell said. She's like, I'm not working anymore. 445 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,679 Speaker 2: I'm done because some days are hard. Of course, business 446 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 2: still hard, so it's not always peaches and cream. 447 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 3: It's not I get stressed out, like you know, I 448 00:20:55,720 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 3: have employees like all this stuff. She's nesty, next, don't 449 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 3: short tempered? 450 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: Oh, some, especially with Christia, you. 451 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 2: Won't even know. You won't even know I'm in the 452 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: bad mood or what's going on? 453 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 3: Better withholding in like anger than I am, believe or not. 454 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: No, he he like reminds me like now like of 455 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 1: christ like Christian, Oh my god, will never walk through 456 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: my apartment door mad upseeat that's amazing nothing he's well 457 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: because he's so chill me forget it because you're. 458 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: Like freaking out. But that's good. You're supposed to be opposite. 459 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just I'm like, I get mad. He's like, 460 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 1: why are you mad? Right now? I'm just in a 461 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: bad mood. 462 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 3: Wait. 463 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: I have a question. 464 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 3: What when you guys, because I don't we weren't talking 465 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 3: at the time when I came out with sprinkle cookies, 466 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 3: Like what I went through your head. Were you like, 467 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 3: what the hell is you know? Yeah, I was so curious. 468 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 1: Well, I was just like, she made a line off 469 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: of mom's line. 470 00:21:55,560 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 3: I say that she's making money off of this scene. 471 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: And like, I'm obviously going to tell you the truth. 472 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: It was strategic. I mean we were in a place 473 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: and then you launched. 474 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 3: We also didn't have a show. I was yeah, I 475 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 3: was like, I guess I'll do it because I've always 476 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 3: wanted to do it for years. But I was like 477 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 3: always busy, and I'm like I had envy. And finally 478 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: I was like, you're not gonna let me film, so 479 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 3: I guess I'm gonna do this, you know. 480 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: So you how it was, I'll never hit on the 481 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 1: hustle ever. 482 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 3: I know. See that's good. We never hit on the 483 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 3: grind never. 484 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 1: And you see, like this is beautiful, supporting each other's businesses, 485 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: always lifting each other off. This is how it's supposed 486 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: to be. 487 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 3: Of course, you asked me to be here, we're here. 488 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: And your comedy is doing amazing as well. 489 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so you little comedian. 490 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 2: I told you somewhere with your mom, right, I'm like, oh, 491 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 2: this is so funny. I said, I'm going to use 492 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 2: that in my comedy show. Right, I go, this is 493 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 2: just hilarius. She goes, Okay, two hours. 494 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 3: Later, don't use that show. 495 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. I was on a conference corner seventeen minus hello. 496 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 2: I was thinking, uh huh every show, you know, I'm like, okay, 497 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 2: I shall I'm gonna use it, but I won't put 498 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 2: any names in it. All right. 499 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,479 Speaker 3: She's like, no, I think that's what people don't know 500 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 3: about your mom. She comes off so like she doesn't care, 501 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 3: but she cares, like she overthinks everything, you. 502 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,119 Speaker 1: Know, and I I really, I mean, I don't know 503 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: if she's always been like that. 504 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,400 Speaker 2: There's a lot of pressure on it. You know, she's 505 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 2: got four kids, I know, work a lot. You know, 506 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 2: it's pressure for a person. 507 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: Well, and that's why she scares me, because like, you know, 508 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: she wants, she's always have and always will and still does, 509 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 1: you know, wants the best life for my sisters and I, 510 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: so she will not stop working. But then she just 511 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: makes me nervous. I'm like, you gotta take care of 512 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: your health too, Like she always just makes me nervous. 513 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, you can't work yourself up like that, Like 514 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: nothing that serious. Yeah, that's the biggest takeaway, I feel 515 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 1: nothing is that serious? What kind of advice do you 516 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 1: guys have for me in terms of navigating love, family, 517 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: filming a reality show of my own, and being in 518 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: the public. 519 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 2: Eye with love with Christian? 520 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:22,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's what. Well, well, I mean kind of 521 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 1: funny because you got married at my age. 522 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 3: I know, how old are you? 523 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: Twenty five? No, so you were younger. 524 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 3: I got married. I was twenty five. We were engaged 525 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 3: at twenty four. 526 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: Got it? Yeah? Yeah, I mean I've been with him 527 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: for a while, long time, how long? Six years? 528 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: Six years? Wow, that's good. 529 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: We were so young. 530 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but see that's good because at least you've been 531 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: together dating and this all started with you, right, But 532 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: as as life goes on, you're gonna grow even bigger, 533 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 2: You're gonna get even more busier. You just you always 534 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 2: have to be included together. It's got to be a 535 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 2: together thing because, as you know, he might get lost 536 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 2: in a shuffle, and who knows how he handles it then. 537 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 2: But if you're doing it together, at least he's involved, right, 538 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 2: because you're gonna grow. He might not grow. You might 539 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 2: grow together. You know, he might be doing this thing. 540 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,199 Speaker 2: But fame is a different world. You're out everywhere. You 541 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 2: know you have to become a mom one day. It's 542 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,719 Speaker 2: just different. So you know, you got to remember your 543 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,880 Speaker 2: relationship comes first, can work right, It's the same thing 544 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 2: you gotta love, but you got to you gotta balance 545 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 2: both of them. 546 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: I do love that you guys though, no matter what though, 547 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: even when you started the show, like you two really 548 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: did do everything together. And I think that shows throughout 549 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 1: all the years and all the crap you guys have 550 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 1: been through, even when we were talking about the silly 551 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: things before, like you both are still here. Yeah, both 552 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: are still together. So I think that's the testament of 553 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: you know, your marriage. 554 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 2: And we still do it together. 555 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 1: We still do. 556 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 3: Still do yes, I mean obviously we're not so normal 557 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 3: like that might be a little extra how much, But 558 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 3: the truth is you're marrying your best friend, which I'm 559 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 3: just liked, Like I just want to be with him. 560 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 3: I'm most comfortable. Sometimes I'm not as social as people think. 561 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 3: Would you probably know this about me, Like I don't 562 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 3: feel like me can small talk with all these people, 563 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 3: Like I'd rather just go to dinner with Joe and 564 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 3: drink a glass of wine and like not do the 565 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 3: small talk sometimes I am like that. I admit that 566 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 3: I'm like that, right, Like I like to be with Joe. 567 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 3: I'm like the most comfortable with him. If I don't 568 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 3: feel like talking, I don't have to. If I don't 569 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 3: like whatever, I don't like to have to. Like you know, 570 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 3: there's obviously times I have an amazing friends and we 571 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 3: do a lot of friends things. But I like him 572 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 3: with me. It makes me more calm, it makes me 573 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 3: more comfortable. I don't know. I don't know if that 574 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 3: comes from me never having a father, growing up from 575 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 3: being a young girl, Like I like him around me. 576 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: No, that's like me with Christian, I enjoy it, right, 577 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: Like I'd rather I would choose him over any of 578 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 1: my friends. Not even to sound like that, but sometimes 579 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: I really do enjoy being with support people. 580 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 3: Well that's that's who you should marry, then, yeah, because 581 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 3: that's all you need to say, Like you'd pick him first, 582 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 3: Like I'd rather have dinner with you than go out 583 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: with all my girlfriends, Like, and it's just I would. 584 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's obsessed. 585 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: Oh please, that's a good thing. It's a good thing, though, 586 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 1: Like I love that, and I feel like this has 587 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: helped both of you though by doing that like from 588 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: the beginning, and also has helped you guys both also 589 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: build your brands individually because obviously you were construction commercial 590 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 1: real estate. I don't think you would have ever thought 591 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: years back from now that you would be doing stand 592 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: up comedy. 593 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 3: Never, I am still in shock. I still go there 594 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 3: gee and I'm like, wait, is he what's happening right now? 595 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 3: Like I'm still in shock. 596 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just fun because you know, like you never 597 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: stops your real hustle and grind, which is obviously commercial 598 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 1: real estate, but you were able to now have a 599 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: second side hustle, and it's like, that's great and it's fun. 600 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 2: It's fun. You're out there. 601 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 3: It's forty five minutes on a stage an hour. 602 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 1: And I mean I watched you at Bravo Con. I 603 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: was dying. I was laughing myself. I thought it was 604 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: so funny. 605 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so so good. 606 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,159 Speaker 1: It's also good like doing things together because see, you 607 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,879 Speaker 1: guys have also built things together but also separately in 608 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 1: your own lane. So it's like you did build together. 609 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. And when I do a show or whatever she does, 610 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 2: I'm always there for you know, I'm supporting her. And 611 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: if I do a show. I'm like, what are your 612 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 2: host tonight? And she's like, all right, our host tonight. 613 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,160 Speaker 2: Sometimes she's like no, I'm not hosted. I don't feel 614 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 2: like yeah, but then she comes to show host and 615 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 2: then you know, I'm like. 616 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 3: Good introduced, which is cool on the stage. 617 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, one time we did a show together. I said, 618 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,479 Speaker 2: come on, you're doing the whole way there. 619 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 3: She's like, what am I gonna do it? I was 620 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 3: like I don't want it? 621 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, But then we went up there, we killed it. 622 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: It did so cute. 623 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 3: On the way home, I'm like, don't don't get used 624 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: to this though, like. 625 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: Like that's actually funny. 626 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 3: Though once in a while it was like, once in 627 00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 3: a while, like do. 628 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 1: It do a show like that? And I'm it'll be 629 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: another sold out because. 630 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 2: We are as funny as hell together. 631 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: Well you are, because she like she'll just tear you apart. 632 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 2: She yells and bitch back. We like make each other. 633 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 2: She busts my ball. I bust her. 634 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 635 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 2: I instigate her. I get her so crazy. I do. 636 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: And it's it's fun, it really is. She's so easy. 637 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 3: I just like, whatever, Joe, We've been together too long 638 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 3: that we can just you know, it is what it is. 639 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,239 Speaker 3: But I do think as advice for you do as 640 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 3: much together as long as it doesn't bother you as 641 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 3: you can, because I feel like people kind of frown 642 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 3: upon that. Now everybody's like girl time and oh my god, 643 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 3: like have your but I'm like, uh uh, old school 644 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 3: works too. Still, I don't care. It's good to be together. 645 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 3: It's good to vacation together. It's good to have your 646 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 3: dates and your couple's time. And I want to go 647 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 3: everywhere with my husband, Yes I do. I love having 648 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 3: a girls and I had a girl's night the other 649 00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 3: night for my birthday and it was we had such 650 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 3: a great time. But like ninety percent of the time, 651 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 3: I want to be with Joe. 652 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 653 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: I always say this. If I ever got sick, or 654 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 2: she ever got sick, god forbid, God forbid. Right, I'm 655 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: going to be sitting next to her in the hospital 656 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 2: taking care of her. She's going to be doing the 657 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 2: same to me. My friends are gonna come visit. They're 658 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 2: gonna hang out an hour and then might hang out 659 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 2: two hours. Right when they leave the hospital, going out 660 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 2: to dinner, they're gonna laugh, they're gonna drink, you know. 661 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 2: Oh Joe's in the hospital down that, right, But she's 662 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 2: gonna sit there and say my husband is sick or whatever. 663 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 2: God for bid. So you gotta always remember that. 664 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: Who's going to stick by? 665 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 2: Oh no, that's right. 666 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 3: You know, I think you're going to be I think 667 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 3: you're going to have a relationship like us. I do, well, 668 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 3: I do. 669 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: I feel like that, you know, I want to be 670 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: with my partner always, and. 671 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 3: I've always asked a lot of questions to me and 672 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 3: to us about it. I feel like it's who, like 673 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:50,719 Speaker 3: you're going to go down there? 674 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I gravitate towards that though, Like, even 675 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: if I don't see him for a couple of days, 676 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing? 677 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 3: He's so cute too. 678 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 2: Complimenting each other is huge, complimented, build them up, you know, 679 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 2: come go out there and try this, try that, never 680 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 2: never knock, I know, tell. 681 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: Him to try everything, you know. I want him to 682 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: be the best at whatever he falls in love with. 683 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. Right, you can throw up as many things against 684 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 2: the wall. One of them gonna stick, twenty might fall 685 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 2: down that that one sticks. Here you go. I just 686 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 2: got to keep trying and hustling. 687 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, if no, no, and Nana were here today. What 688 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: do you think that they would say about all of this? 689 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: Oh, my god, nothing. They really didn't comment on it 690 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 3: a lot. No, No, they never, but you see it. 691 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: With their facial expressions. You know, it was very it 692 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: was like smiling, but when they were down, like you 693 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: could feel it was like a heavy. 694 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 3: Heart, especially your dad, like when he was happy when 695 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: we were all together, you can feel like the happiness 696 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 3: like he it was all over his face when we 697 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 3: were all together, Like this would make him. He'd be like, fine, 698 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 3: finally you're stupid o. You know. So it's like I 699 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 3: think he would be over the moon right now. 700 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: No, No, I feel like would just be like good, 701 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: she don't make it up. 702 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 3: But again that's what I'm trying to say. She would 703 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 3: have a little words and be like, because you guys 704 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 3: are all stupid. That's why I stay like this, you know, 705 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 3: Like that's what she would say. 706 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: I know they wouldn't say much, but you know, and 707 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 1: I think it's like it's so scary when you think 708 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 1: about like how early they passed, Like I think about 709 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 1: it with like I think about it with you and 710 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: Mom all the time, even my dad because Nono Franco 711 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: passed away so early, like it's so crazy to think 712 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: and out of nowhere all like basically all of them, 713 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: besides No No, because we we really thought No No 714 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: would be the. 715 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 3: First, right because he was always sick, always. 716 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: And he thought but it was like it's just weird, 717 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: how like it just one thing made her so weak 718 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 1: and so it's you know, it's scary to think about. 719 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 1: And that's why I also it's so it's so and 720 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: I see you guys together because it's like we don't 721 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: know how much time we have on this earth, and 722 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: it's so scary. 723 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: Melissa the other day we were in her bedroom. She's like, 724 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 2: oh my god, do you realize that people are gone? 725 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 2: She goes, your parents are gone. We're never going to 726 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 2: see them again. Literally the other day and I said, yeah, 727 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 2: she goes, people die and will never see they're just gone, 728 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 2: They're not here. 729 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 3: I was like, and that's it, like you're never going 730 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 3: to see them again. Like I just sometimes it just 731 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 3: hits me like that are not lives anymore. 732 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 2: I know. 733 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, that's like, they're gone, We're never going to 734 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 3: see them again. 735 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 2: You know. It's like talking to my sister a couple 736 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 2: of days after, she was saying, I listen, Oh my god, 737 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: do you realize I said, Melissa just said this to 738 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 2: me the other day. People just mommy and daddy are gone. 739 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 2: And I said, pay attention to that. I said, you 740 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: live one life. I said, did you wake up this morning? 741 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: She goes yeah. I go, yeah, your kids healthy? Yeah? 742 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: I know, But are you healthy? She goes, I go 743 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 2: be happy. She goes, Okay, you're right. 744 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: On that note. Thank you guys so much for coming 745 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: on casual Chaos. This is so funny. I love you both. 746 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 3: We're so proud of you. We really are killing it. 747 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 3: Thank you for having us