Speaker 1: Vocally, y'all think Trey song sings better than fetti wop?
Speaker 1: No way, y'all are kidding me right, I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about music now, we know Trey songs makes better music,
Speaker 1: but y'all talking about vocally y'all think Trey song sings
Speaker 1: better than fetti wop? Yes? Me neither. Betty wop sounded
Speaker 1: like Whitney Houston. What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lex p
Speaker 1: And it's your girl Dre and the call and you
Speaker 1: are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds. We're
Speaker 1: a drunk mine speak sober thought. We ain't got no
Speaker 1: guests today. We ain't got no guests today period. So
Speaker 1: we were just having a conversation and we were talking
Speaker 1: about like good throwback songs, like some good good throwback
Speaker 1: songs do you I want to talk about? So we
Speaker 1: were talking about like Trick Daddy and his throwback song.
Speaker 2: What was the song? You was just singing the song?
Speaker 1: I ain't really here to play no games?
Speaker 3: Yo?
Speaker 1: You already mind name? Yeah? Yeah, hit they don't make
Speaker 1: they don't do it like that no more. I want
Speaker 1: to talk about the Timberland era. That was a good era.
Speaker 1: You Timberland really and you know what this is what
Speaker 1: is so crazy because it goes to show you like
Speaker 1: everything goes out of style, but it'll come back, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like Timberlin had that good like
Speaker 1: nineties two thousand sound and obviously like now that's not
Speaker 1: what people are listening to, but it's gonna come back.
Speaker 1: He still be producing, people still be producing. But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is like people don't really look for like
Speaker 1: Timbaland type beats. They're looking for that take Keith beat.
Speaker 1: They're looking for, you know, a metro booming type beat
Speaker 1: right now because that's what's hot right now. But one
Speaker 1: thing I love about Timberland though, he makes like music
Speaker 1: that you can listen to, because I can still listen
Speaker 1: to Hot Light Fire. I was actually listening to that
Speaker 1: the other day, Like I put that on my Instagram
Speaker 1: post the other day. Timeless music kids.
Speaker 2: He he had a good run with ce Loo.
Speaker 1: How could be gonapeak you with ridiculous? Like damn, they
Speaker 1: don't do it like that no more. You know, music
Speaker 1: just isn't the same.
Speaker 2: It's not the same. Carry Hilson had.
Speaker 1: A great run with Timberlin. Carrie Hillson's first and second album, Perfection.
Speaker 4: I was watching that movie yesterday, almost Christmas, and she
Speaker 4: was in that movie Shots Secury was Almost Christmas.
Speaker 1: Who's in that? Vanny Glover Monee? Oh, yes she was, Yes.
Speaker 2: I know what ever real union she was? She was
Speaker 2: a t T.
Speaker 4: I can't remember her her real name, that's the respectful
Speaker 4: she's alleging.
Speaker 2: No, I know, I know what's her name?
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't think of it. Somebody remember her name? Okay,
Speaker 1: I look, hey, not say her name, but you know
Speaker 1: who also had a great run together justin Timberlake and Timberland.
Speaker 1: They did crime around, Creamy, crimey crime, creamy, crimey. Oh
Speaker 1: that was such a good song. Well I'm gonna listen
Speaker 1: to that in a car because you know what we
Speaker 1: have to talk about how justin Timberlake. It's everything that
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber is just me because Justin Timberlake was like
Speaker 1: the first Wiga. He was the first one that we're like,
Speaker 1: does he like black girls? And they we're like, oh,
Speaker 1: false alarm. Same thing for Justin Temple. I mean Justin Bieber,
Speaker 1: we were like, do he like a little chocolate in
Speaker 1: that though? Do you think so? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't think that they don't like.
Speaker 2: Like a little chocolate in that.
Speaker 1: But we thought, you know, sometimes you think they gonna
Speaker 1: end up with a black woman because dating a black
Speaker 1: girl and like ending up with a black like just
Speaker 1: the same thing for us. We'll date a little a
Speaker 1: white man and we ain't gonna end up with one,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's a difference. So
Speaker 1: I think we at one point we all thought that,
Speaker 1: you know, Justin was like, oh yeah, he got too much,
Speaker 1: too much seasoning and that salt.
Speaker 4: Do you think black women be fine but we just
Speaker 4: be a headache. No, I don't know what they be saying.
Speaker 1: It's the streets say. I think the thing is is
Speaker 1: like to me, if you're the type of person that think,
Speaker 1: oh a black woman is fine, but she's a headache,
Speaker 1: you just a man that doesn't like to be challenged.
Speaker 1: I think black women are so intelligent and we bring
Speaker 1: issues to the table, we challenge that, and I think
Speaker 1: to become a better person, you have to be challenged.
Speaker 1: And if you don't want to be challenged, that means
Speaker 1: you're okay with where you are in life and you're
Speaker 1: okay with being stagnant, which is cool with me. But
Speaker 1: as for me and mine, we're finna challenge each other
Speaker 1: in upgrade.
Speaker 2: So if you call that annoying, good for you.
Speaker 1: But I'm finna go up over here where the challenges
Speaker 1: are I like a little not annoying. You don't think
Speaker 1: you can grow without being challenging.
Speaker 2: In order to grow.
Speaker 1: It's a challenge because in your comfort zone, it's not challenging.
Speaker 1: In order to grow, it's a challenge no matter what.
Speaker 1: That's how I personally feel like growing is not easy.
Speaker 1: It's easy to stay in this comfort zone. It's hard
Speaker 1: to grow. So yeah, I think it's always going to
Speaker 1: be a challenge when you're growing. So when you're surrounded
Speaker 1: by people, even with a romantic my friend, my family,
Speaker 1: I like to be around people who challenged me to
Speaker 1: do more and push me to do more and think
Speaker 1: outside the box.
Speaker 4: And I was talking to one of my friends and
Speaker 4: she was telling me, like she has like one of
Speaker 4: her best friends is like Latino, and she was just
Speaker 4: saying like, and she said she has like a few
Speaker 4: other friends that are like of other races, and she
Speaker 4: was just like, they just don't be as combative as
Speaker 4: we are. Like she was like, including herself, she was like, like,
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm very spicy, Like when it comes
Speaker 4: to niggas. She was like, I feel like I'm very spicy.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give them in a run for his money,
Speaker 4: Like you're just not about to play on my top,
Speaker 4: Like They're like I always got something to say. I'm
Speaker 4: a challenge thing. She was like my friends, she was like,
Speaker 4: they just be like cool. They don't ever say anything cool.
Speaker 4: And she was like, but she but the reason I'm
Speaker 4: asking it is because she was like, I feel like
Speaker 4: men still change for them. She was like, and I
Speaker 4: feel like they still challenge the men at they're daiy,
Speaker 4: but just a different approach. She was like, I feel
Speaker 4: like sometimes like as black women, we be a little abrasive.
Speaker 4: And I was like really yeah, she was like you
Speaker 4: she was like just being a person who has She
Speaker 4: was like, do you have a lot of like friends
Speaker 4: of other racism And I was like, no, I don't,
Speaker 4: and she was like yeah. She was like, I have
Speaker 4: like numerous friends of other races. She was like, and
Speaker 4: it's just something that I've noticed. She was like, they
Speaker 4: be getting me into like grow and change and challenge
Speaker 4: them too. She was like, but I just think it's
Speaker 4: in a different way. She was like, if anything, I
Speaker 4: think like we be running niggas away, and I said, hmmm, interesting, Yeah,
Speaker 4: there's an interesting perspective.
Speaker 1: It's an interesting perspective. But you know, being with being somebody,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm still friends with all my friends
Speaker 1: from high school. It's probably and all of them. I
Speaker 1: would say eighty percent of my friends, you know they've
Speaker 1: gotten married, but also a lot of them are divorced
Speaker 1: now single moms. I feel like, I don't think race
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with it. It's just a person
Speaker 1: that you're dealing with, man, woman, black, white. If you're
Speaker 1: dealing with somebody who's willing to grow with you, they're
Speaker 1: gonna grow with you, doesn't matter what your attitude is
Speaker 1: or x y Z. So if you're dealing with the
Speaker 1: right person, they're gonna do right by you, no matter
Speaker 1: if you're aggressive or not. So I don't know, I
Speaker 1: have to, like I said, I think I disagree with that,
Speaker 1: but I don't know. Like I said, I always like
Speaker 1: people who kind of stand on business and they're not
Speaker 1: just go with the flow in order to keep a man,
Speaker 1: because I'm not finna shut up just to keep a man.
Speaker 1: Then a lot of times when you go look at
Speaker 1: the snapped episodes, it be a few episodes with us,
Speaker 1: but go look at the most people that be on
Speaker 1: there because they be quiet, but they be building that
Speaker 1: shit up. So I'd rather deal with with a little
Speaker 1: talking back than a blicky because it gets sticky. I agree,
Speaker 1: I mean I disagree with that too. I think that.
Speaker 4: What kind of relationship are you in if you can't
Speaker 4: say how you feel? You know, why does it always
Speaker 4: have to be a challenge or or combative? Wise, it
Speaker 4: mean just not telling you my perspective, Like I'm just
Speaker 4: giving you my perspective, I'm giving you my opinion.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: This is how I look at the situation, which might
Speaker 4: be different from how you look at the situation. All
Speaker 4: from a living place, though, But why does it have
Speaker 4: to be combative?
Speaker 6: Disrespectful?
Speaker 1: Aggressive?
Speaker 4: And I think people just like to associate those words
Speaker 4: with black women. And I think it's also very very
Speaker 4: annoying and telling when other black women say that about it.
Speaker 1: Too, because I just be wondering, like, okay, so you
Speaker 1: being an easygoing person, and even if some people are
Speaker 1: naturally easy going though.
Speaker 2: So this is not for the women who are easy going.
Speaker 1: But if you're trying to force yourself to be easy going,
Speaker 1: where did that get you? Though? I think it gets
Speaker 1: people somewhere. Not that I disagree with you.
Speaker 4: I do think being easy going get people a lot
Speaker 4: of places. But I also think because when you just
Speaker 4: go with the flow and you don't have nothing to say,
Speaker 4: I think a lot of the time it is easier
Speaker 4: to get the things that you want temporarily or in
Speaker 4: the moment.
Speaker 1: I do think that.
Speaker 4: Maybe even in the long term, I think it's easy
Speaker 4: to get what you want, But I don't think you
Speaker 4: will be happy in the long time, right, And I
Speaker 4: guess that's what I mean. But I think some people
Speaker 4: don't care about happiness. A lot of people care about
Speaker 4: outer perception. They don't really care about, like actually being happy.
Speaker 4: I think a lot of people care more about what
Speaker 4: shit looked like than like, as long as it look
Speaker 4: good to everybody else, what they got going on in
Speaker 4: they household, between them and the men they cool with dealing.
Speaker 1: With all its long as it look good on the outside,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't think black women are abrasive. I think weve been.
Speaker 4: I think that we were raised by women for generations
Speaker 4: who have been through a lot of bullshe so they
Speaker 4: raised us to be prepared to deal for the to
Speaker 4: deal with the bullshet. That's really how I feel about it.
Speaker 4: I feel like my mama prepared me to be ready
Speaker 4: to deal with whatever, like however it's coming, be ready
Speaker 4: for this. And I feel like he was ready for
Speaker 4: war from birth. Yes, but I feel like that's how
Speaker 4: most of us was raised like and that's just something
Speaker 4: that a lot of other like women of other racess
Speaker 4: just will never understand gratefully, like luckily you will never
Speaker 4: have to know the struggle, you know what I mean,
Speaker 4: because I think we don't want to have to know
Speaker 4: their struggle, but it's just our reality, right, And I
Speaker 4: think people always take it as aggressiveness and abrasiveness, but
Speaker 4: I think if you find the right men, you naturally
Speaker 4: will fall into submission.
Speaker 1: But I also think I like men who like a
Speaker 1: mean value my opinion and they want to hear me say, okay,
Speaker 1: well what is your perspective on it? Because I know
Speaker 1: I'm looking at it like this, what's your view on it?
Speaker 1: I like that. I like somebody who I can have
Speaker 1: intellectual conversations with and they value my opinion because a
Speaker 1: lot of times the women in those situations they're dealing
Speaker 1: with a man who doesn't value their opinion. So you
Speaker 1: being easy going also goes with you don't have no
Speaker 1: say so with nothing. So yeah, And I've always looked
Speaker 1: at my life like when I'm in my last chapter,
Speaker 1: I always looked at it like I was a boss, y'all, granddaddy,
Speaker 1: your daddy, my husband, we was both bosses, and we
Speaker 1: was making moves together, and we made things happen together,
Speaker 1: you know. And there's nothing wrong with being like a
Speaker 1: housewife or somebody, because that's a job in its own
Speaker 1: as well. But I'm saying for me and what works.
Speaker 1: I like for my man to challenge me. I like
Speaker 1: to challenge my man, and I like for us to
Speaker 1: grow intellectually. And I like for a man when I
Speaker 1: say something, he doesn't look at that, look at it
Speaker 1: as me nagging, you know, vice versa. I don't want
Speaker 1: if a man tells me, hey, you know what, when
Speaker 1: you do this, it bothers me. I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I don't look at that as nagging. You know, we're
Speaker 1: trying to grow and elevate and figure it out. But
Speaker 1: I think it's a line though. It's definitely a line
Speaker 1: now cause some some bitches do be nagging. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that's a and like we said, that's alright, said some nigga,
Speaker 1: you think you'll be nagging for real, I'll be smiling
Speaker 1: when I do it.
Speaker 2: So that's like, how you.
Speaker 1: Not nagging with a smile?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Either? Why do you think you be nagging? Oh? Because
Speaker 1: I ask for a lot, I'll be asking.
Speaker 2: But do you give a lot?
Speaker 1: Yeah? See, he gives more because I be like his Also,
Speaker 1: I think that his give is more. What I need
Speaker 1: from him a lot of times is physical stuff, Like
Speaker 1: I just ordered a whole bunch of tools and stuff
Speaker 1: so he can fix some bars for me. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: he asking me for stuff, he just wanted me to
Speaker 1: cook breakfast. Yea, yeah, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: I'd be like, sometimes it's uneven, but daddy ryeah, so improved.
Speaker 4: But as long as you're stroking the ego and you
Speaker 4: being appreciated.
Speaker 6: Look, I don't think that's nagging.
Speaker 3: Though.
Speaker 4: When I think of nagging, I think of like somebody
Speaker 4: who is always telling somebody what they ain't doing or
Speaker 4: what they not good enough egg, or like you need
Speaker 4: to be bitter in this area. You need to do
Speaker 4: more for me. I'm unhappy. Like to me, that's what
Speaker 4: I kind.
Speaker 2: Of change who they are, like or.
Speaker 4: You're just constantly complaining about what you're not getting. When
Speaker 4: to me, if you're like so unhappy, you can go
Speaker 4: find some news. But I think when I think of
Speaker 4: like a nag, I think of somebody who is constantly
Speaker 4: trying to change. Yeah, the person, right, if they're with,
Speaker 4: whether it's the man, the woman, whoever. But like you
Speaker 4: just always complaining about this person, telling them what they're
Speaker 4: not doing right, what you feel like you deserve. Oh,
Speaker 4: you didn't do this right, you didn't do that right.
Speaker 4: I asked you to do this and you didn't do it,
Speaker 4: whatever the.
Speaker 1: Case may be. But like you could just go be
Speaker 1: with somebody else at that point, yeah, at that point.
Speaker 1: But I want to go back to what you were saying,
Speaker 1: because you were like, Oh, he does all this and
Speaker 1: he just wanting me to cook breakfast. It may be
Speaker 1: small to you, but it could be big to him
Speaker 1: because he probably dated so many women who don't want
Speaker 1: to get their ass up in the morning and cook breakfast. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it could be big to him. Yeah, and his
Speaker 1: thing is like, I'm I'm going out, I have a job,
Speaker 1: I'm bringing in money, I'm doing all these I take
Speaker 1: you on these nice days, We're going on trips stuff.
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, these are things, our simple asks. But
Speaker 1: you know, when you're a pillow princess, you'd be wanting.
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that much. Okay, now I
Speaker 1: feel yeah, not a nag. Maybe I don't think that's nagging. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think that's nagging either. Like I said, I
Speaker 1: think that when you're in a good, healthy relationship, y'all
Speaker 1: challenge each other to grow and to become better. And
Speaker 1: so when you're with the white person, it makes sense.
Speaker 1: You know, it makes sense A little one two. But
Speaker 1: we want to take the shot now? You want to wait? Sure? Sure?
Speaker 1: All right? What we toasted to another good solo? Were
Speaker 1: almost there? Jesus pete. It's one of twenty five. It
Speaker 1: is crazy when I really think about it, Wow to
Speaker 1: pass what we drinking? Gral dang. I was going back
Speaker 1: and forth between what t call this one. I was
Speaker 1: gonna call it the perfect pair like pe a R
Speaker 1: because that's some pair, and oh I love the other
Speaker 1: one was called sour Apple bitter bitch design fucking Willdom.
Speaker 1: That song was just in my head for so Hobby
Speaker 1: can choose whenever he puts this up, you can choose
Speaker 1: which one you want to go with. But this one
Speaker 1: has we went a little bit light, but still fall
Speaker 1: autumn style. We have whatever spirit of choice you like.
Speaker 1: We have a little pear juice. We have some apple
Speaker 1: schnops or some sour apple snops in there, so kind
Speaker 1: of pairing that apple with the pear, kind of collaborating
Speaker 1: on those. We have some caramel syrup and then a
Speaker 1: little bit of lemon juice, and then we topped it
Speaker 1: off with some sparkling champagne. So that's kind of what's
Speaker 1: giving at that beautiful like off green color to it.
Speaker 1: And then we garnished it. I gotta look creative. We
Speaker 1: did like a slice of pear. I drizzled some caramel
Speaker 1: and then topped it with a few pomegranate seeds, so better.
Speaker 1: I don't know where you got these pears from, but
Speaker 1: the pears are they're really good.
Speaker 2: This is a really good drink.
Speaker 6: Bartlet, Pears, Bartlett, this is real tasty.
Speaker 1: Only bart I know is Simpson, but he wasn't doing
Speaker 1: it like this.
Speaker 4: When I used to work at the grocery store. We
Speaker 4: used to sell a lot of Bartlet pears.
Speaker 1: You know about a bartlet pair? You look like you
Speaker 1: know about a bartlet paper. I used to cause the
Speaker 1: grocery store I used to work at was very very bougie. Okay,
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Speaker 1: grapes that taste like cotton candy? How they do that?
Speaker 1: What about them? How do they do that, bitch? Am
Speaker 1: I a farmer? Well you? Or did I work at
Speaker 1: the fucking a little one?
Speaker 2: Two about?
Speaker 1: I was a cashier? Well, I thought they had to
Speaker 1: teach y'all in case people asked, because I used to
Speaker 1: work in the restaurant. I never worked at a grocery store.
Speaker 1: So when we had to sell a drink or something,
Speaker 1: we had to know everything about it. So I didn't
Speaker 1: know if they had to. Y'all had to learn why
Speaker 1: the grapes taste like cotton candy?
Speaker 4: No, no, we never have to learn it in our trainings.
Speaker 4: We just we always had to learn like the cold. Oh,
Speaker 4: so y'all had to go like this so you know,
Speaker 4: Like yeah, so you know, like when you weigh your
Speaker 4: fruit or whatever, it'll be like a po u code.
Speaker 1: It'll be a pou cod that you gotta know.
Speaker 4: So like sometimes when they bring it to the register,
Speaker 4: it might not have the cold on the actual fruit,
Speaker 4: so you need to know. You need to know how
Speaker 4: to look it up and weigh it by the pounds
Speaker 4: or whatever. So like that's the type of stuff we
Speaker 4: would learn in training. Okay, not how a great taste
Speaker 4: like cotton candy.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I would. I would be the
Speaker 1: one that come up to the ractip like why does
Speaker 1: taste like and I would be like, ma'am, google is free?
Speaker 1: Probably were you? Was you a good employee? No? I
Speaker 1: was never a good employee.
Speaker 4: That's why I always say I probably will say that
Speaker 4: like that's it's so crazy because back in the day
Speaker 4: I said this. I remember, like some years ago when
Speaker 4: somebody had left the comedy was like Drea probably brags
Speaker 4: about not being a good employee, bitch facts because everybody
Speaker 4: is not like I was not. I don't feel like
Speaker 4: that was for me. I sucked at being like an employee.
Speaker 4: I feel like working for people to be cool, if
Speaker 4: you could get to like still be yourself. I feel
Speaker 4: like the environments that I.
Speaker 1: Worked in, yeah, you have to be very like that
Speaker 1: when I what to do with that fat ass booty,
Speaker 1: That's not what I was. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I just feel like the environment's like, for example, when
Speaker 4: you work in certain environments, I feel like it is
Speaker 4: okay to be yourself, Like it's pushed to be able
Speaker 4: to still be your sivil, be your creative, still be
Speaker 4: who you.
Speaker 2: Want to be.
Speaker 4: The environments that I worked in when I worked for
Speaker 4: other people. I had to conform if that makes.
Speaker 1: Me, No, it didn't. But I wasn't being funny because
Speaker 1: that lady used to hate on you because you had
Speaker 1: that fat ass. But they're all like jays. I don't
Speaker 1: think she was hating. Not to think she she was.
Speaker 1: She's seen a battie and her panty. She's not battie
Speaker 1: with a fatty. I'm telling showing her panty, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I wasn't. No, I was being funny. But I'm telling
Speaker 1: you older women because this is what happened to me
Speaker 1: at my last job. When they see somebody that's young
Speaker 1: and they see and they're you're smart, you ambitious, and
Speaker 1: they know they know you're not supposed to be here,
Speaker 1: and they know that they didn't probably misstate mark on
Speaker 1: what they they wanted to do and maybe follow their dreams.
Speaker 1: Because I told you, the lady was so mean to
Speaker 1: me when I was like, hey, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: make ends meet. I need to go to the radio station.
Speaker 1: She was mad about it.
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy, I think some of the
Speaker 4: people they was actually really doing what they wanted to
Speaker 4: do with their life. Like I feel like they was
Speaker 4: cool with working where they were working. They just didn't
Speaker 4: want you to surpass them. At least that's how I
Speaker 4: feel when I worked in corporate America, Like, I don't
Speaker 4: think it was like, oh, you haven't reached your peak,
Speaker 4: you haven't reached out potential.
Speaker 1: You're gonna go on to do bigger things than me,
Speaker 1: So I'm hating on you.
Speaker 4: I think it's like, this is what I'm doing, this
Speaker 4: is what I'm gonna be doing till I die, and
Speaker 4: I be damned if you take my place, or if
Speaker 4: you surpassed me because you're younger and you come home.
Speaker 1: My god. That's really what I think it was.
Speaker 4: But again, I think that some people are okay with
Speaker 4: being in an environment where they're being told to do
Speaker 4: what to do all the time by other people and
Speaker 4: they can't be free thinkers or do what they want
Speaker 4: or have their own schedule or with their own schedule.
Speaker 4: That just wasn't for me. There's anything wrong with that,
Speaker 4: but it just didn't work for me. So I think
Speaker 4: I was never a good employee because I always used
Speaker 4: to be like, why the fuck I gotta listen to you?
Speaker 4: And why the fuck I gotta be here at these times.
Speaker 1: I remember when I used to work for that company.
Speaker 1: I mean, it don't matter.
Speaker 2: I used to work for a company called Regis.
Speaker 1: And we had an employee meeting one day and I
Speaker 1: remember the lady like she was over the regional She
Speaker 1: was like the regional manager, and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: because if you want to get to my position, and
Speaker 1: good luck because to get here and babahlah, and like
Speaker 1: I remember afterwards, everybody was doing like an interview afterwards
Speaker 1: because I kind of see how you felt about the job,
Speaker 1: how things were going. And she was like, okay, so
Speaker 1: how do you want to grow with the company. Where
Speaker 1: do you see yourself in five years with the company.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't see myself being here,
Speaker 1: like this is just temporary for me.
Speaker 4: And when I tell you she got you said yeah,
Speaker 4: I probably wouldn't have said it.
Speaker 1: I mean, but at the end of the day, she
Speaker 1: was asking what I got my degree in.
Speaker 4: I don't see you should say that it worked, but
Speaker 4: I tell you why, Actually I don't think I'm going
Speaker 4: to be here.
Speaker 1: I mean, but the the thing is, she was asking me,
Speaker 1: what did you get your degree in? Yeah? And I
Speaker 1: told her what I got my degree and she was like, okay, well,
Speaker 1: what do you want to do. I say, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to get into you know, like television. At
Speaker 1: that point, I didn't know we were doing the YouTube stuff,
Speaker 1: so it wasn't nothing serious. She's like, so, where do
Speaker 1: you see yourself in five years with the company? I said,
Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, you know, this is like a
Speaker 1: stepping stone, so I'm you. I mean, of course I
Speaker 1: didn't say it like that, but I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: using this as a stepping stone so I can learn,
Speaker 1: you know, managing skills and this and that. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm fluffing it up. But at the same time, it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be here, and then you just
Speaker 1: sat in front of everybody and told us good luck
Speaker 1: to being where you want to be. And one thing
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like when people try to
Speaker 1: talk down on you, because like they feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm up here and you work for me, and I'm
Speaker 1: the regional manager, but you not the CEO. And even
Speaker 1: if you are the CEO, you don't need to look
Speaker 1: down on anybody, like we all trying to figure this
Speaker 1: shit out. So it just kind of rubbed me the
Speaker 1: wrong way, and I was just kind of like I
Speaker 1: was serving it to her like she had tried to
Speaker 1: serve it to us. I love on hoes, talk down, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I know she is. I know she probably like,
Speaker 1: look at that bitch, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So who cares? It's like you ricey. So I wasn't
Speaker 4: gonna make it there.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then at my other job that I had,
Speaker 1: I actually had an opportunity to move up in the
Speaker 1: company after I left that company, and he wanted me
Speaker 1: to sign a contract that I was gonna be with
Speaker 1: the company for at least four years.
Speaker 2: I said, I can't do that. I can give you
Speaker 2: what you need right now.
Speaker 1: I can give you what you need right now, but
Speaker 1: I'm not signing a contract to be here for four years.
Speaker 1: And literally like a year and a half later, we
Speaker 1: had went on and you was a good employee. That
Speaker 1: was a great I am a great worker. But I
Speaker 1: think that's what makes me a great boss too. I
Speaker 1: think there's two sides of being a boss. There's somebody
Speaker 1: who like you are like the type of boss like
Speaker 1: you like being in control, You're organized, you're smart, You're
Speaker 1: very like, this is what I want and this is
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna execute. I'm on the other hand, I
Speaker 1: think that's why we work so well. On me the
Speaker 1: other end, I know how it feel like to be
Speaker 1: a great employee. I know what to look for because
Speaker 1: I know what I gave to the companies, and I
Speaker 1: think that's why it works so well. Because I'm very
Speaker 1: much gay. My no, I'm when I used.
Speaker 2: To work, I used to clock up.
Speaker 1: Baby, Look, I was given my all. Let's rich, dude.
Speaker 1: I mean, well, how I met you?
Speaker 4: Well, we were working together at first, but then you
Speaker 4: became my boss.
Speaker 1: I mean because I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 6: To the manager.
Speaker 1: Every club was like every I ain't gonna love this, yek,
Speaker 1: she'll take advantage. I used to be like, I used
Speaker 1: to take to like Lex, I'm gonna be thirty minutes late.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, I got you covered, y'all be just
Speaker 1: be on time and dravy walking in and they'd be like, well,
Speaker 1: why don't worry.
Speaker 6: About walking in with Chick fil a water Burger.
Speaker 1: And y'all know I love a little burger. She used
Speaker 1: to brother. I used to bring her food to brob
Speaker 1: me a little burger. But I say this though, I
Speaker 1: promise you I'm not kidding. Every single job I've ever
Speaker 1: had since I was sixteen years old.
Speaker 2: I promoted every time, every single.
Speaker 1: Time, every single time. I I don't know. I like
Speaker 1: to work. I thrive in the work environ. Really, I'm
Speaker 1: an overachiever. I am like when it comes to like
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. I just like to
Speaker 1: be the best at everything, like I have to. I
Speaker 1: gotta show you. So I think that's where we differ
Speaker 1: at too, Cause like one thing about you, like you
Speaker 1: gonna start something. If you don't like you be like
Speaker 1: fuck it, I'm about to move on, and you gonna
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I don't like wasting time, right, What wasted time is
Speaker 4: the worst thing in the world to me, Like when
Speaker 4: I think about myself as like an old person, the
Speaker 4: worst thing that I think of that's gonna like make
Speaker 4: me cringe and look back on my life and be
Speaker 4: so regretful is wasting.
Speaker 1: My time on anything.
Speaker 4: Money, all this stuff, Like none of that stuff matters
Speaker 4: that much to me because you can get all this
Speaker 4: like you can get money bag.
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: So I don't care so much about like losing money
Speaker 4: on like a bad investment or if something needn't work out.
Speaker 1: Even when people talk about stuff like, oh, you spend
Speaker 1: all this money on rent, or.
Speaker 4: You spend all this money on X, Y and Z,
Speaker 4: might as well buy a house money that I'm gonna
Speaker 4: get back right right, but I have a place to stay.
Speaker 1: One of my uncles taught me that.
Speaker 4: Though I was trying us to my uncle Mama, one
Speaker 4: of my mama brothers, he always taught me that. He
Speaker 4: was like, I never understood why people trip or care
Speaker 4: so much about spending money on stuff, and they'll try
Speaker 4: to make people feel bad about not owning something. Mind you,
Speaker 4: this is one of my uncle who one of my
Speaker 4: uncles who owned like three properties.
Speaker 1: But he was just like, buy shit when you're ready.
Speaker 4: He always told me that buy a house when you ready,
Speaker 4: Buy property when you're ready, because at the end of
Speaker 4: the day, as long as you have somewhere to lay
Speaker 4: your head, and if you not ready to take on
Speaker 4: all of the maintenance that it takes to have a home,
Speaker 4: whenever something breaks, you have to fix it. When you
Speaker 4: live in an apartment, the apartment got to fix it.
Speaker 4: That's part of your rent. Cause do what makes sense
Speaker 4: to you. Yeah, So I just feel like I don't know,
Speaker 4: like I think about money and all of those things
Speaker 4: as things wasted.
Speaker 1: I think about time all the time.
Speaker 4: So I think that's when why when I was younger,
Speaker 4: it was all and even now you're in realcation, it's
Speaker 4: so easy for me to be like fuck this shit,
Speaker 4: because if I say fuck it and then what I
Speaker 4: go do doesn't work out, I can go back to
Speaker 4: that or maybe not the exact same right right, obviously,
Speaker 4: but something similar like when I quit my corporate job. Okay,
Speaker 4: when I made the decision and took the risks to
Speaker 4: decide to move to Atlanta. So I would have moved
Speaker 4: to Atlanta and I stayed here for two years and
Speaker 4: shit didn't work out and I need to move back
Speaker 4: to Houston.
Speaker 1: I could have went back.
Speaker 4: And got another corporate job working in oil and gas
Speaker 4: because I already had a year and a half of experience.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think people just I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: do need to be more risk takers in life. Well,
Speaker 1: I think there's also characteristics to being like a boss,
Speaker 1: and I think people need to realize it's a cycle.
Speaker 1: We need bosses, right, we need CEOs, we need entrepreneurs,
Speaker 1: but we also do need you know, the working class.
Speaker 1: We need people who are good and like I said,
Speaker 1: I think that's why our balance is so well because
Speaker 1: we need people like you who are risk takers, who
Speaker 1: start things, who think outside the box, who take that risk.
Speaker 2: And then we also need people like me.
Speaker 1: I can work, I know how I'm gonna show up,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the job. But also on the end
Speaker 1: of me being an entrepreneur and a CEO, I have
Speaker 1: that experience of like, Okay, I understand the type of
Speaker 1: personality that we need for poor minds and what I'm
Speaker 1: what we're looking for.
Speaker 4: No, like you are more willing to take on task.
Speaker 4: I think me I'm the person. I'm more of the
Speaker 4: person where it's like I'm a creator. I create the idea,
Speaker 4: and I'm cool with like, Okay, this is the idea.
Speaker 4: I made enough money, not let me delegate them. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it's like I rather pay people who I know are
Speaker 4: better at doing certain things than I am so that
Speaker 4: I can have the free time to keep thinking right
Speaker 4: and creating.
Speaker 1: And then I'm on the other end, like, let me
Speaker 1: do the job so I can show y'all how I
Speaker 1: want it done. And then I expect you to perform
Speaker 1: at this standard.
Speaker 2: That's fair, you know what I'm saying. But I think
Speaker 2: that's why it works.
Speaker 1: It's a proof is in the pudd Okay, I have
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Speaker 1: we sit you. Okay, I want to talk about Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: real quick. Thanksgiving, Dude, what dish does not belong at Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1: Because I have a dish. I think it's very strange
Speaker 1: when I show up to people's houses and they have this.
Speaker 1: I don't think it belongs on the table. I think
Speaker 1: that it's very weird when they have it. So y'all
Speaker 1: let me know if I'm wrong. Okay, I not hate.
Speaker 1: I think it's very strange when people cook mashed potatoes
Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving. I think mashed potatoes is very weird on Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: I just feel like Thanksgiving is like it's given, like
Speaker 1: dressing mac and cheese. Like I feel like mashed potatoes
Speaker 1: is such like a dish, like you normally eat mashed
Speaker 1: potatoes on a Tuesday night. I'm gonna take the advice
Speaker 1: the opinion anybody who eats green bean casserole with a
Speaker 1: green but that's Thanksgiving, that's green bean castrole is for
Speaker 1: thanks I eat green bean. It's good now and wait time,
Speaker 1: hold on exact. I'm on the side of TikTok. You
Speaker 1: know how if you watch one, you eat it, thank you.
Speaker 1: So let me tell y'all, I end up on the
Speaker 1: side of TikTok. So TikTok is in a frenzy. They're
Speaker 1: in a whole war right now. TikTok is in a
Speaker 1: war about how to cook the mac and cheese right now.
Speaker 1: So they're going back about the dishes and things like that.
Speaker 1: So the reason I'm bringing this green bean casserole, let
Speaker 1: me tell you these southern Southern women, they're showing people
Speaker 1: how to cook the green bean casserole. What is the
Speaker 1: southern Kimmy creations? That is not a Southern Southern she
Speaker 1: cooks Southern dishes.
Speaker 4: Maybe that lady is from New Jersey, from New York, Well,
Speaker 4: she cooks Southern dishes.
Speaker 1: You're just further approving my point. Let me not even
Speaker 1: lie I don't even know if I seen it was
Speaker 1: heard green bean castro, because it probably from I saved it.
Speaker 1: It's somebody, it's some lady. I can't remember.
Speaker 6: I can assure you Southern people, it is not making green.
Speaker 1: Beans soon leaving the con I'm telling you Southern people
Speaker 1: that are Southern, they're they're cooking. But I say all
Speaker 1: that to say there is a war on TikTok. They
Speaker 1: cooking the green bean castle, but they're showing how to
Speaker 1: use it without the can of mushroom. They not using
Speaker 1: the can stuff. They're like, this is how you make
Speaker 1: it from scratch. I mean they are cutting up with
Speaker 1: the casseroles, with the mac and cheese. But back to
Speaker 1: the topic, I do not believe mashed potatoes is a
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dish. I know, quick, it's too basic, and I
Speaker 1: feel like there's already too many starches. You're doing the dressing,
Speaker 1: you got the mac and cheese, you got the Hawaiian rolls,
Speaker 1: the biscits, so you don't need no What are we
Speaker 1: eating mashed potatoes a Thanksgiving? For real? Quick?
Speaker 4: Though, you right, Southern people do be making green bean casserole.
Speaker 4: But see, the problem is every time I've ever went
Speaker 4: to a Thanksgiving being, it be one scoop.
Speaker 1: Out of it.
Speaker 4: Oh see, not me, it be on the table like
Speaker 4: nobody eats it. Well, I've seen it at Thanksgiving dinners.
Speaker 4: No one ever eats it. I've never seen a whole
Speaker 4: pan of green bean casserole gone demolished.
Speaker 1: Never because you ain't been a Thanksgiving with me. Because
Speaker 1: if y'all going Thanksgiving with If y'all no, I do not,
Speaker 1: I'll be at Thanksgiving when my aunt ties bull and
Speaker 1: y'all be making it. Yeah, I mean, like I said,
Speaker 1: I think that's a maybe it's like a deep South, Okay,
Speaker 1: deep South thing. I've never seen it in the deep South,
Speaker 1: deep South thing. But I'm trying to find the lady
Speaker 1: that could because it wasn't Kimi kras But I think
Speaker 1: she did do a recipe, but because I saved it
Speaker 1: because I was like, ooh, I like that right now,
Speaker 1: and who would you gonna make it for? It is
Speaker 1: this lady. I'm sorry, I don't know where she's from.
Speaker 1: Tony Chapman on TikTok. I know I made a few
Speaker 1: of her recipes before she was making a green bean casserole.
Speaker 1: But she's like showing you how to do it, like
Speaker 1: for real, for real, I see her. She Latino though.
Speaker 8: Well she I don't know where she's from. I don't
Speaker 8: think where she's from. It's a lot of black people.
Speaker 1: No, she makes a lot of barm recipes. This man, y'all.
Speaker 6: With this making green bean casserole.
Speaker 1: Oh god. But but I will say exactly, green bean castrole.
Speaker 1: If you like it or not, green bean casserole could
Speaker 1: be but no, but I feel like green. No you eat.
Speaker 1: I eat green bean casserole once a year at Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, no matter what time of
Speaker 1: the year, mashed potatoes. I don't want mashed potatoes on
Speaker 1: my plate at Thanksgiving. I don't. I don't. I think
Speaker 1: it's weird with mashed potato, a little turkey and gravy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see that. I think this is maybe maybe it's
Speaker 1: just an orange thing or orange Texas thing, like we
Speaker 1: never cooked potatoes at Thanksgiving, Like when they be making
Speaker 1: the all grinding potatoes, that's the real white thing. I'll
Speaker 1: be saying. Because I like to deep diving. Would everybody
Speaker 1: be cooking? I like to see people because you know,
Speaker 1: people get mad around Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: Why y'all posting y'all plates, we all eating the same thing.
Speaker 1: No, we're not well.
Speaker 4: I do hate when people post a plate because it
Speaker 4: looked nasty when all this sheep yeah on one plate
Speaker 4: mixed together, like, but people eat it.
Speaker 1: Don't don't post it though. Do y'all like cranberry sauce?
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: You like cranberry sauce? Okay, y'all, you you know what
Speaker 1: it depends. My sister can make a cranberry sauce from scratch,
Speaker 1: change my life. Fresh cranberries. I don't like that. I
Speaker 1: don't like the ocean spray from the can come on
Speaker 1: from yeah too, sly, but let me there's certain things
Speaker 1: that if you try it from scratch, it might change
Speaker 1: your life. My sister, she my sister knows how to
Speaker 1: really cook. She's a baker too. Them biscuits, I don't
Speaker 1: pay my own biscuits. Shout out to she makes. It's
Speaker 1: just different. It's a biscuit, you know. I just I
Speaker 1: don't know my perfect Thanksgiving play. Come on, give it
Speaker 1: to us.
Speaker 4: It's dressing, dirty rice, dressing, dirty rice, mac and cheese,
Speaker 4: collar green or Cabby come on.
Speaker 1: Up or both of them. Let's get it.
Speaker 4: A Hawaiian row. Come on, little cornbread. Maybe where are
Speaker 4: you from?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, depending on what you like to dabble
Speaker 1: in yams? Can I get your day yams sweat?
Speaker 4: Yeah you won't and in a little in a little
Speaker 4: turkey or.
Speaker 1: A turkey wing or I'm not mad at that, or.
Speaker 4: You know I'm from Texas. I talked about these recently.
Speaker 4: Little brisky Yeah, come on, Drea, they're not ready for
Speaker 4: that little brisket. In Texas, we be having barbecue for things. Yeah,
Speaker 4: a little brisky, little rib.
Speaker 2: What's what's on your plate? What's on your plate?
Speaker 1: I don't want no ham. My palette has changed, like
Speaker 1: as I've become more of an adult. So like my
Speaker 1: aunt here, she'll make a seafood dressing.
Speaker 8: I'm like, oh my god, my sister makes the best seafood.
Speaker 1: I never had that until I moved here. If she
Speaker 1: put crawfish and shrimping hers crabs, she put lobster, she
Speaker 1: puts shrimp, it's gonna change your life. Gotta have macaroni.
Speaker 1: I like corn, and now I like honey roasted carrots.
Speaker 1: Those are really my kind. Make candy am cassero with
Speaker 1: the marshmallows. So I like that more than I like
Speaker 1: the yams. Yeah yeah, love a fried turkey and those
Speaker 1: are like my man. And then for vegetable, I'll do greens.
Speaker 1: Greens are like a broccolini. I like the yeast rolls.
Speaker 4: Y'all know what I forgot. Y'all know what I forgot? Uh,
Speaker 4: broccoli and cheese casserole.
Speaker 1: That's good blessing. Yeah, that's that's some good menus. Okay.
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Speaker 1: If you can't afford to do it? That's fair? I
Speaker 1: think you a little broke or I'm gonna be like
Speaker 1: to see you need some money? Do you need some money?
Speaker 1: Do you need some money? What's that from? What's that movie?
Speaker 1: No money?
Speaker 6: Best man?
Speaker 1: Do you need some money for real?
Speaker 4: Because like to throw a party that you want to
Speaker 4: throw and then you want people to pay you to
Speaker 4: to the party or send them I just think that's
Speaker 4: a little tachy.
Speaker 1: Like Now, I do think as an upstanding citizen, you
Speaker 1: should Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think as an upstanding citizen, yeah, you should not
Speaker 4: go to somebody house empty handed.
Speaker 1: I was raised that way. I think that if you're
Speaker 1: gonna go to somebody house, you need to.
Speaker 4: Bring a little bottle. Bring a bottle, you can bring
Speaker 4: a little painting, you can bring a little cake, a
Speaker 4: little cake from public something.
Speaker 1: You can bring something.
Speaker 4: But like me as the host putting that in the invitation,
Speaker 4: like hey, cash at me fifty dollars, But you could
Speaker 4: have just stopped through the party because we would have
Speaker 4: been okay, we could have went somewhere else.
Speaker 1: So this is how I feel. I am agreeing with
Speaker 1: event on this. I think instead of asking people to
Speaker 1: send money, you who would be better off having a
Speaker 1: pot luck. But the thing about a pot luck. I
Speaker 1: don't trust y'all. I do you have a cat in
Speaker 1: your home? Do you have a cat? Do you have
Speaker 1: a dog? Do you have a snail? Do you have
Speaker 1: a man? We know niggas don't wash their hands. Do
Speaker 1: you wash? Do you wash your hands? No? Thank you?
Speaker 1: So that's the thing that's the risk with the pot luck,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Luckily for me, like if
Speaker 1: I threw a potluck with like you Jazz Lauren Killer, like,
Speaker 1: I could trust a potlug, but it would only be like,
Speaker 1: it's only gonna be about three fox dishes because I.
Speaker 2: Don't have that many friends.
Speaker 1: But usually when people are having a friends giving or
Speaker 1: a holiday party, it's a lot of people.
Speaker 2: So I think of it like this.
Speaker 1: It could work either way, but I think you should
Speaker 1: ask people beforehand. How do you feel do you want
Speaker 1: to like contribute throw something in the pot or would
Speaker 1: you rather bring a dish or bring something? I think
Speaker 1: it's good to give people the option, you know, no
Speaker 1: no option?
Speaker 2: How do you feel tied?
Speaker 1: I'm in the middle, so yeah, me and my friends.
Speaker 1: I trust my friends though, yeah, they hands be I
Speaker 1: know I've been to their homes, so we'll do a
Speaker 1: friends giving Pollock. We do it every year and we
Speaker 1: just have those sign up sheet. People do their best, Yes,
Speaker 1: do your bed, but your best then yeah. But again,
Speaker 1: if you're just throwing this event and then asking people,
Speaker 1: that does seem a little off putting. I wouldn't do that.
Speaker 1: But if we decide as a group we're gonna do this,
Speaker 1: and then it's decided it's gonna be at my house,
Speaker 1: then yeah, everybody can contribute financial And that's what I
Speaker 1: think it should be like.
Speaker 4: It should be like you're trying to get you and
Speaker 4: bach don't be asking me, don't be using me.
Speaker 1: I think I think I kind of like, I don't
Speaker 1: like it. I agree with Tod. I think it should
Speaker 1: be like a group conversation what y'all want to do?
Speaker 1: Do y'all want to do a potluck style?
Speaker 2: Or do y'all want me to do everything? Because I
Speaker 2: honestly I feel like this.
Speaker 1: If you want people to contribute, let me go to
Speaker 1: the grocery store. I'll show y'all the total. Let's blest
Speaker 1: it down like that. Yeah that's fair. That would be
Speaker 1: the you know what I'm saying, Because the grocery is expensive,
Speaker 1: but you ain't finna charge me no thirty dollars for
Speaker 1: no grains and Tarkt negs man. So I think there's
Speaker 1: just a way to go about it. And I think
Speaker 1: it depends like why would I pay you thirty dollars
Speaker 1: when I could just go to DC's. This is it,
Speaker 1: It's blessing. No, we're talking about that. This is in
Speaker 1: Houstons or Mickey's in Houston. Ooh, Mickey's is life changing?
Speaker 1: It is? Or let me tell you about Mickey's.
Speaker 2: They got that?
Speaker 1: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: What did I eat there?
Speaker 1: Would I give you? It was like some rice and
Speaker 1: gravy with a not the hamburger. Maybe it was a
Speaker 1: little hamburger steak that she had made. I don't know
Speaker 1: what it was, some kind of steak. Mickey's gonna change
Speaker 1: your life if you were in Houston that mac and
Speaker 1: cheese Micky's be bussy, yeahs be busting.
Speaker 4: I would rather you just ask me for some money,
Speaker 4: because I'm gonna ask you anyways. If you seen me
Speaker 4: the Tigs, some be like you need the whole song.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but let me ask all. This is because I
Speaker 1: know we talked about this a little bit before the
Speaker 1: War on TikTok right now is do you make a
Speaker 1: root for your mac and cheese or do you not?
Speaker 1: And then you use the egg cause they're saying that
Speaker 1: the old school mac and cheese warriors, they use the
Speaker 1: egg in it to keep it. It's a binder so
Speaker 1: it doesn't separate. And that's how the old school. So
Speaker 1: the older ladies on TikTok, the older women, they're like,
Speaker 1: you use the egg, and then the new school because
Speaker 1: you know, Teeni's mac and cheese has been a thing
Speaker 1: on TikTok for like two years. Right now, I've personally
Speaker 1: made teenies mac and cheese. It's busting now.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 1: That's what the root, that's what the root. Now my
Speaker 1: mom's recipe, y'all. Let me tell you all about my
Speaker 1: mom's recipe. Every so when my sister started day when
Speaker 1: my sister was with her first child's father and we
Speaker 1: suspend Thanksgiving together, and I don't care if any y'all
Speaker 1: watching right now call me a liar, strike me down
Speaker 1: right now. Every my mom would bring a pan, and
Speaker 1: I don't know who on his side of the pan family
Speaker 1: would bring a pan.
Speaker 2: My mom's pen would be gone.
Speaker 1: I literally have friends and I'm not even friends. I'm
Speaker 1: wanna be like, damn, you got your mama recipe? And
Speaker 1: I do have the recipe? I asked my sister the
Speaker 1: other day when the war was gone. I said, Jazz,
Speaker 1: do you have Mom's recipe? I was like, because I
Speaker 1: know she emailed it to me a long time ago.
Speaker 2: She sent me that recipe.
Speaker 1: It had an egg in it, It had an egg
Speaker 1: in it. It did it did, And I was like,
Speaker 1: damn because I like I said, I made teenies mac
Speaker 1: and cheese, and then I had my mom's mac and cheese.
Speaker 1: Was oh my god, life changing. So do y'all put
Speaker 1: egg in y'all mac and cheese? Do you do a root?
Speaker 1: I do it? You do the root?
Speaker 6: But I'm a roote girl.
Speaker 1: The egg, I think egg is the old older woman thing.
Speaker 1: But my mama older, she don't use an egg. No,
Speaker 1: we knew a room. Yeah, but my mama used a
Speaker 1: roof for everything.
Speaker 4: Like my mama is really an old school yeah, cooking
Speaker 4: everything from scratch mother, yeah, like everything. I mean, you
Speaker 4: could definitely use an egg in the mac and cheese,
Speaker 4: but she just didn't use one, like it's the old
Speaker 4: school rule. But Ma Mama used a roof for everything.
Speaker 4: She u was a root for mac and cheese. She
Speaker 4: used a roof for banana pudding. Bit should be using
Speaker 4: that instant box pudding. I don't know nothing about that.
Speaker 4: I come from the school of the double boiler.
Speaker 1: Okay, now with a flower, let's go, and the sugar
Speaker 1: extra in the milk, they're up stirring it for like
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, you know. But I digree. But yeah, like
Speaker 1: a room, okay, a room, no egg. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: At first, I was all like road. But when my
Speaker 1: sister sent me that recipe because I knew, I was like,
Speaker 1: I know, my mama used the room, I said, I know.
Speaker 1: When she said me, I said, oh my god, Mama
Speaker 1: use the egg. She was an egg girl.
Speaker 2: And when I tell you, she had the best smack
Speaker 2: and cheese.
Speaker 1: So I just think it's a it's a preference thing
Speaker 1: because it's all about the cook though, it's all about
Speaker 1: your hands. And I don't know, I don't care what
Speaker 1: y'all say. An older Southern woman can always cook for me.
Speaker 4: And I don't trust nobody who used glory greens.
Speaker 1: That's the ones in the can. Yeah, I cannot believe
Speaker 1: anybody who used glory, glory greens. I can't don't even
Speaker 1: because you got your tongue. Don't even want to spray.
Speaker 6: It, can't even.
Speaker 1: I couldn't even get it out. Disgusted, the lord said,
Speaker 1: I rebuked it because fresh greens. See. Okay, bye bye shay.
Speaker 1: So let us be line with glory you do.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 6: Greens because we know we ain't going.
Speaker 1: Greens are actually probably one of the easiest things to cook.
Speaker 4: The hardest thing about greens is cleaning and cleaning them.
Speaker 4: You gotta clean them for a long time. It takes literally,
Speaker 4: my mama used to clean greens for.
Speaker 1: Hours and hours and hours getting the bugs out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let me know.
Speaker 1: Do y'all believe in paying a fee for a holiday party?
Speaker 1: Friends giving? Do you think mashed potatoes belong? Are you
Speaker 1: asking me to pay a fee to come to a party?
Speaker 1: You not come? You are not my friend?
Speaker 2: You're not coming.
Speaker 1: We ain't friend. Okay, you ain't my friend.
Speaker 8: In me?
Speaker 1: You do want to have shamal on the co of course,
Speaker 1: chamar a we waiting on you. She ain't my friend though,
Speaker 1: that ain't it's not given friendship. Okay, come ahead with topic,
Speaker 1: all right, what's up y'all? Is your girl lexp Andy Schagarls.
Speaker 3: Are in the cold, Clayton, English, Louis Belt just money
Speaker 3: bag bo. Listen, if you're trying to book us.
Speaker 1: For your event, hosting, comedy show, whatever you got going on,
Speaker 1: let's keep it real professional, no flying in my DM.
Speaker 3: Well I'm not gonna say that. That's what they want
Speaker 3: me to say. You can still slide my deals, but
Speaker 3: it's gotten to be freaky now. I'm just like, look,
Speaker 3: let's keep it real professional.
Speaker 1: Just what you're gonna do.
Speaker 4: Hit the email bookies at eighty five song show dot com.
Speaker 3: That's how you make sure everything is handled right with
Speaker 3: no games.
Speaker 1: I really don't answer no DM.
Speaker 3: That don't start with how much do you like?
Speaker 1: I don't have to contact the email man. Hey, ain't
Speaker 1: no more. Hear me on the side. I'm professional this year.
Speaker 1: You gotta talk to my people.
Speaker 3: So one more time for bookings, hit.
Speaker 1: Up books at eighty five shops show dot com. And
Speaker 1: that way you can get your event handled the right way. Cause,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm not gonna hit you. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna spat so.
Speaker 3: Look, no funny business.
Speaker 1: No funny business is.
Speaker 3: Just strictly family business around here. Man, we bring the
Speaker 3: fun of you. Just have your business straight.
Speaker 4: Let's go hop y'all at your Girl xp ed is
Speaker 4: sugarl and the call.
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Speaker 1: First.
Speaker 4: I mean for the second topic, I wanted to talk
Speaker 4: about being on your phone during the day or just
Speaker 4: being addicted to your phone in general. MM, I think
Speaker 4: that we live in an era where so many people
Speaker 4: are addicted to be in on they phones, Like people
Speaker 4: cannot not check they phone for.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say an hour, but.
Speaker 4: Honestly, even like fifteen minutes. Most of them can't check
Speaker 4: their phone for fifteen minutes. You gotta check, you gotta
Speaker 4: see what's going on. And I think that's the problem.
Speaker 4: I think it is really causing a divide when it
Speaker 4: comes to communication, like when it comes to really getting
Speaker 4: to know people. If you cannot sit at a table
Speaker 4: and talk to your peers and talk to the people
Speaker 4: at the table around you for a good thirty minutes
Speaker 4: without looking on your phone and having to interact with
Speaker 4: somebody on your phone via text message, via Instagram, Twitter,
Speaker 4: or whatever, I think that's the problem.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 1: And I know y'all don't talk about me cause I
Speaker 1: just had my phone up, but I be using my
Speaker 1: phone for my time or to see what's time we on.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, I am such a sucker
Speaker 1: for a deep conversation. I don't care if you're my friend,
Speaker 1: my lover, my employee, my boss, whoever. I just love
Speaker 1: a good conversation and nothing drives the COUCHI up, Like,
Speaker 1: if I'm sitting there, we got oysters on the table, espresso,
Speaker 1: Martini's flowing. You know what I'm saying, I'm feeling good, and.
Speaker 2: Then you just be like what what, Like it's such
Speaker 2: a vibe killer. It is such a vibe kill.
Speaker 1: I think that is so like even if we're if nothing,
Speaker 1: I'm a person to silence isn't awkward to me. So
Speaker 1: if we're sitting at the table and like maybe we're
Speaker 1: in between conversations or we're eating, I'm still not gonna
Speaker 1: pick up my phone.
Speaker 4: But I just think it's awkward to me if we
Speaker 4: just sitting there looking at each other.
Speaker 1: But it is also somebody I'm talking about, Like if
Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with you, Like if me and you are
Speaker 1: at dinner, I'm not gonna feel awkward if me and
Speaker 1: you are at dinner and we're like not talking because
Speaker 1: you know me, right, But a first day, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: first day is a little awkward. But honestly, I might
Speaker 1: be like, so that's like a comfort thing then, I.
Speaker 4: Mean, because if I don't know you, if our first
Speaker 4: encounter and now we're having like this awkward silence, we
Speaker 4: are not talking about another to.
Speaker 1: For teen minutes. I'm go'n just be like, well, let
Speaker 1: me see what's going I think for me, if I'm
Speaker 1: on a first date and it's like if it does
Speaker 1: feel awkward that we're not talking, because obviously that is
Speaker 1: gonna be awkward for silent it's a first date, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna like sit there and I'm gonna make sure
Speaker 1: you know, like, hey, spark up a conversational. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: start a coming. What are you gonna say? I'm'd be
Speaker 1: like I would say something. I'm gonna say something because
Speaker 1: I feel like, what's a good example. We just sitting
Speaker 1: there like these So I'm saying, okay, so what you
Speaker 1: got played? What you got playing for tomorrow? What you
Speaker 1: got playing for tomorrow? What if I'm like nothing, okay?
Speaker 1: I mean, well I'm having a good time. Do you
Speaker 1: like your a two faith ho Adney? It's cool? Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna get enough drink. You want another drink
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna get lead. You'm trying to take them
Speaker 1: pennies off man, check please check please, because what you're
Speaker 1: trying to take another shot? I'm with you too, But
Speaker 1: what we about to do after they.
Speaker 5: See hobby you aren't too Harry. Oh my god, I
Speaker 5: was playing.
Speaker 1: So much stuff to talk about life? So what you so?
Speaker 1: What you're trying to do? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just feel like, let's go with a night leading
Speaker 1: boy song. I'm ready? So what you got playing for tomorrow?
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're trying to do? I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know you wanna is this you asked me
Speaker 1: on a second date already we even finished the first date.
Speaker 1: I mean we can go on the second day. But
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out what you trying to
Speaker 1: do tonight. I mean, I feel like we're having a
Speaker 1: good dinner. Are you having a good time? Who said
Speaker 1: it was good? You know? Like you don't like the food?
Speaker 1: So why you said me here? Now we find to
Speaker 1: argue batch you see the food? Cool? But who is
Speaker 1: you calling the bitch? Why are you stud like your eggs?
Speaker 1: I can't take this. I can't who is calling to be?
Speaker 1: Who are calling to be? But no, okay, I do
Speaker 1: feel like it's so many things to talk about and do,
Speaker 1: so if I grab my phone on the date, it's
Speaker 1: like a last resort.
Speaker 2: I'm checked out.
Speaker 4: What if you grab your phone? What if you grab
Speaker 4: your phone? What if you like I'm acting. I've had
Speaker 4: somebody do that to me before.
Speaker 1: Why are you looking at your phone? You don't want
Speaker 1: to talk to me, don't be weird. You me have
Speaker 1: my phone now now I'm fitting killed the vibe because
Speaker 1: I've had somebody do that to me before. Weird because
Speaker 1: why would you grab your phone because you ain't talking
Speaker 1: about ship? Hold adding no, But I, like I said,
Speaker 1: I never grab my phone on a day because I
Speaker 1: like having conversation. You're never going to make me feel
Speaker 1: awkward until it's just like if you're giving me if
Speaker 1: I'm asking you a question, obviously I'm trying to have
Speaker 1: a conversation with you. But if you're giving me close
Speaker 1: ended answers, that makes me feel like you're just not
Speaker 1: interested or you're not interesting. So I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think it's very rude to be on a day. I
Speaker 1: don't care if this is the first day or the
Speaker 1: five hundredth date. Get off your phone, Let's disconnect, and
Speaker 1: let's be in this world together. Let's enjoy this moment.
Speaker 1: And that'd be the problem with folks. Folks are really
Speaker 1: addicted to their phones, and they don't know it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just talking to one of my friends
Speaker 4: about this the other day. I just downloaded this app
Speaker 4: on my phone and I have it to where it
Speaker 4: like locks me out of all of my social media apps.
Speaker 1: Ooh, so like you don't have to give me that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't say to nine because I ain't paid us.
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't gonna say it, no wayig because you worried.
Speaker 4: But at you could set it to whatever time frame
Speaker 4: you on the city too, So I said mine from
Speaker 4: ten at ten thirty at night, it locks me out
Speaker 4: of all of the social all of my social media apps.
Speaker 1: But I mean, really, you could choose any apps on
Speaker 1: your phone.
Speaker 4: But I have it to where it locks me out
Speaker 4: of all of my social media apps from ten thirty
Speaker 4: at night to nine thirty in the morning.
Speaker 1: I need that.
Speaker 4: So normally I just naturally wake up around like seven
Speaker 4: o'clock every morning anyways. So I like that because by
Speaker 4: nine thirty I've done my whole morning routine. Yeah, I've
Speaker 4: done pretty much everything I need to do except for
Speaker 4: go to the gym, but everything else, like as far
Speaker 4: as like prayer, meditation, writing in my journal, reading my Bible.
Speaker 1: Stretching all of that stuff.
Speaker 4: Washing that ass, Well, I'm not gonna wash my ass
Speaker 4: before I go to the gym.
Speaker 1: Some people do.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to wash it again in the morning,
Speaker 4: like when first thing you wake up, you didn't take
Speaker 4: a bathdat night.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't.
Speaker 4: That ain't my problem, that's not my testimony, period, but
Speaker 4: speak on it. Yeah, So I have it to wear
Speaker 4: from ten thirty at night to nine thirty in the morning.
Speaker 4: And then I love that because I suffer from insomnia.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, me too.
Speaker 4: I suffer from insomnia. So I feel like it's been
Speaker 4: helping me with my insomnia. Because one of the main
Speaker 4: things that I would do when I would wake up
Speaker 4: at like one in the morning, two in the morning,
Speaker 4: is I would get on social media. There it'd be Instagram, Twitter, whatever,
Speaker 4: and then I'll be on there for like an hour.
Speaker 4: I doom two hours mindless scrolling, doom scrolling, and then
Speaker 4: before you know it, now it's four am and I've
Speaker 4: been up two hours, and then I'll go back to sleep,
Speaker 4: waking up at seven, so I'm not getting a good
Speaker 4: amount of sleep. Now I'll still wake up, don't get
Speaker 4: me wrong, Like I still be waking up at like one, two.
Speaker 4: But then I wake up and I can't do shit,
Speaker 4: so I'll just go back to sleep because it literally
Speaker 4: won't let you even click on you like it'll have
Speaker 4: like a little screen that come up there be like,
Speaker 4: ha ha, you're block.
Speaker 1: Yeah I need that. I need that because I'm a
Speaker 1: doom and you can't do anything. Tell me is so bad.
Speaker 1: It's so bad. Like and then it's to the point
Speaker 1: to where I convince myself. I'm like, girl, you've grown.
Speaker 1: You don't gotta go to sleep because you can wake
Speaker 1: up whenever you want. I'll be trying to convince myself
Speaker 1: that it's okay that I'm up, and then I'm like,
Speaker 1: the next morning, I wake up and I'm tired.
Speaker 2: I'm slugging. I need that because the one thing about it, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1: A dude, you do. I pay for it, though, but
Speaker 1: I got a little twenty dollars I paid, y'all. I
Speaker 1: got got the other day. And we're gonna move on.
Speaker 1: I have to tell this story. What is this app called?
Speaker 1: So I was scrolling TikTok the other day. This was
Speaker 1: actually yesterday that this happened. I was scrolling TikTok. There's
Speaker 1: this app called real short and the reason I can
Speaker 1: say the app because you're gonna be mad once you downloaded.
Speaker 1: So it's like short stories. It's like short stories, right.
Speaker 2: So it was like this short story of.
Speaker 1: This woman who had lost her child at birth and
Speaker 1: they ended up heard another woman ended up switching children
Speaker 1: at birth, and one was really rich and one was
Speaker 1: really poor. What's that Mickey mouth story? The Prince of
Speaker 1: the Pauper. That's what it was given. And I'm like
Speaker 1: watching it. I was like, oh my god, Like I'm
Speaker 1: watching it for like ten minutes on TikTok, and then
Speaker 1: it was like, oh, to finish the story, download this app.
Speaker 2: So I said, I need to know what happened, period.
Speaker 1: So I downloaded the app and it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's the finishing. You gotta watch all these ads, watch
Speaker 1: all these asked and it was like, okay, if you
Speaker 1: want to watch it, just pay a little ten dollars
Speaker 1: And I paid the ten dollars. Now I finished the story, right,
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, that was a cute little
Speaker 1: Lifetime little movie one two. But then I'm like scrolling
Speaker 1: through the rest of the app and like all the
Speaker 1: rest of the movies was trash and I was so mad,
Speaker 1: but I get the app free for a week long
Speaker 1: story short stop dum scrolling cause I paid ten dollars
Speaker 1: finish some bullshit. Yeah, I don't know. I really like
Speaker 1: that app.
Speaker 4: It like keeps me on track with like my morning goals,
Speaker 4: going to sleep at a decent time, getting my eight
Speaker 4: hours to sleep, and then you can even set it
Speaker 4: to whats like to other times throughout your day, so
Speaker 4: like if you want to take like even a break
Speaker 4: throughout the day, like say you want to do like
Speaker 4: three hours from.
Speaker 1: Like two to five, then you could see it for
Speaker 1: that time I need to lock you out.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm definitely download that.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 4: I need because I think that this generation we're two
Speaker 4: way too upset to being on social media.
Speaker 1: I'll be looking back at myself from when I was.
Speaker 4: Like twenty two, twenty three, even like twenty six twenty seven,
Speaker 4: I was not on my phone as much as I
Speaker 4: am now.
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I think I'm on my phone
Speaker 1: a lot now, but I think I used to be
Speaker 1: on my phone more in my twenties because I think
Speaker 1: I'm worse now. But I used to be at the
Speaker 1: club recording my entire night but you wasn't on social media.
Speaker 1: Yes I was. I was posting on What's it since
Speaker 1: not chack. I used to post. You would know everywhere
Speaker 1: I was at, everything I was doing. I'm at the
Speaker 1: nail shop, I'm going to eat lunch, I'm at the club.
Speaker 2: I used to post my every single move.
Speaker 1: I used to be I'm in the club. Fuck, I
Speaker 1: got people with me in real time. Literally, we have
Speaker 1: so many videos of us.
Speaker 2: That's my dog. We had the dog filter on.
Speaker 6: That's my dog, and then a little we thought we ate.
Speaker 2: We was like, that's my job.
Speaker 4: We used to be posting it in real time, so lame.
Speaker 4: We can't post it in real time now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never posted nothing, but.
Speaker 4: It was a but you know what's crazy though? That
Speaker 4: was like the fun era of social media. Yeah, like
Speaker 4: that's the That's the part of social media that I
Speaker 4: wish we could get back to because it's like even ought.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we was supposting real time and our stories was looking.
Speaker 6: Like tic texts.
Speaker 1: We was really having a good time.
Speaker 4: Worry about nobody pulling, and we didn't give a fuck
Speaker 4: about what we was posting. That's why we was posting everything.
Speaker 4: You was posting your plate, you was posting your nigga. Yeah,
Speaker 4: we would never post now, Oh my god, I used to.
Speaker 1: On my social Oh my god. You know Facebook does memories, y'all.
Speaker 1: You can literally go to my Facebook right now. My
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend pictures all of them all up and down
Speaker 1: my all up and down my feet, all up and
Speaker 1: down my feet.
Speaker 4: But I'm saying it was fun back then. You remember
Speaker 4: that night me and killing went to live in forty
Speaker 4: five when she came to my house, that little baby
Speaker 4: song was had just came.
Speaker 1: Out, which l yeah, I do remember that night.
Speaker 4: Like, we just used to have so much fun in
Speaker 4: the moment and we wouldn't think about anything like now,
Speaker 4: there's so much overthinking when it comes to social media,
Speaker 4: and I just think we're all like people are trying
Speaker 4: so hard to be perfect.
Speaker 1: That was the difference between now and then. But I
Speaker 1: also that's why I love But I think that's why
Speaker 1: I love this platform too, because we can like talk
Speaker 1: about our faults and our mistakes and stuff. And I
Speaker 1: feel like we have created a safe space here.
Speaker 8: Because it's not a lot of safe spaces.
Speaker 1: Online, but I feel like we've done a good job
Speaker 1: of doing that. In the poor Mind's universe. Okay, now
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. So let us know how y'all
Speaker 1: feel about being on your phone in a day. What's
Speaker 1: up y'all? That your girl x pee and it's Sugarl
Speaker 1: draining the call.
Speaker 2: And we have a.
Speaker 1: Very exciting announcement today.
Speaker 2: We have a brand new show dropping.
Speaker 1: Yes, we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon.
Speaker 4: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're
Speaker 1: gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Billa Dache,
Speaker 1: where the hell could you go? If you can't go
Speaker 1: to Blanche, what the hell we're gonna be doing? Talk
Speaker 1: to me, chit chat with me. It's gonna be feeling
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Speaker 4: God everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be
Speaker 4: doing it right here on Patreon.
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at Poor.
Speaker 2: Chronicles, So make sure y'all tune in September.
Speaker 1: Second. It's going down period, and now it's time to
Speaker 1: get into the bed bowl. A bowl about a bow bow. Okay,
Speaker 1: so this is a topic I know we have talked
Speaker 1: about before, but we're gonna come at it from a
Speaker 1: little different angle. Mmm mm hmmm, sweet sweet nick.
Speaker 4: Though I thought I was gonna say, sweet sweet victory,
Speaker 4: that is a sweet victory.
Speaker 1: What happened? So let me tell you what happened. I know,
Speaker 1: my pillow busted. I have a down pillow, and y'all,
Speaker 1: this pillow was so expensive. It's a down and it
Speaker 1: had the real like goose feathers and it busted. So
Speaker 1: there's like feathers all everywhere, and I like vacuum them
Speaker 1: up and I still keep finding feathers. I have remnants
Speaker 1: of feathers all in my hair. So yeah, be careful
Speaker 1: with these down pillows. Comfy pillow though, I mean I'm
Speaker 1: not getting another one. Anyways. I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: body counts and double standards because you.
Speaker 2: Know, it's okay, what you laughing at.
Speaker 1: When they laughed, it was that's a black king, right now,
Speaker 1: that's a queen. Well, you know, Kanya said king. Kya
Speaker 1: said king. I wasn't calling you a king. I wasn't
Speaker 1: calling you a king. I was thinking of the mean
Speaker 1: I love when people switch starts. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: wasn't calling you a king.
Speaker 6: She did say that's a black king like I.
Speaker 2: Was quoting Kanya.
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking about event.
Speaker 8: So oh, come on, locuse.
Speaker 1: Shepherd's pie is crazy. Anyways, pipe down, see she back home,
Speaker 1: come back home, come back home. Me and one think
Speaker 1: about me in tie. Shepherd's pie is taste crazy.
Speaker 4: A shepherd's Any type of pie with mashed potatoes is
Speaker 4: the christ It's crazy.
Speaker 6: Taste the thing peas and beans and carrots.
Speaker 2: You she didn't have peas in hers?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't either. She didn't put peas in hers.
Speaker 1: You like pan No, I do not like green peas.
Speaker 1: I've seen you eat peas.
Speaker 2: Why do you lie so bad?
Speaker 1: This is crazy? How she lies more than me? Now?
Speaker 1: I have seen and I wouldn't put on something. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't lie more than you. Put that level.
Speaker 2: Put that on something.
Speaker 1: You saw me eat some peas before, right hand to God,
Speaker 1: right now, put it on it. Put on that. Why
Speaker 1: is your top pea colored. You ain't never seen no
Speaker 1: peenus color.
Speaker 8: I have.
Speaker 1: One. You ate? You're a liar? What you because I
Speaker 1: believe you lying. I hate peas. I don't care how
Speaker 1: buttery is salty whatever you put on it. So I
Speaker 1: ain't never seen God, I've never seen you eat of mamie. Okay,
Speaker 1: you see me eat at a ma mad. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about some peas. I'm talking about peas. She's so cap bro,
Speaker 1: she's so full of ship. Show me and you full
Speaker 1: of peas. I'm full of beans, bitch, get it right,
Speaker 1: gang gang, exact bean family. So you don't so you
Speaker 1: don't eat hommies, bitch.
Speaker 2: I love hommy full of peas.
Speaker 1: Chick peas not a green pea A pea, It's not
Speaker 1: a green pea.
Speaker 2: Green peas are horrible.
Speaker 1: Sure you don't like sweet, So you don't like sweet? No,
Speaker 1: I don't. I never don't know you haven't. Oh I'm
Speaker 1: finna get mad. If I'm lying, then why are you mad?
Speaker 4: Because I don't eat peas night, because I've seen.
Speaker 1: Leave me alone. I'm gonna wrap this up. Okay, thank
Speaker 1: you for tuning in. Okay, let's get back to the
Speaker 1: topee okay, okay, So body counts and double standards. So
Speaker 1: you know, if a man has uh fifty bodies, oh
Speaker 1: hear that, nigga, he a pimp, he'll player. And if
Speaker 1: a woman has fifty bodies, they're like, oh, she's a whore.
Speaker 1: And people like to use the key theory. If you
Speaker 1: don't know what the key theory is, it's basically that
Speaker 1: you know, when you have the master key, you can
Speaker 1: open a lot of doors and you you you run
Speaker 1: shit and this and that. But when you have the lock,
Speaker 1: you know it's only supposed to open to one key
Speaker 1: and things can't be used and things like that. So
Speaker 1: how do you feel about body counts and the double
Speaker 1: standards when it comes to women and men?
Speaker 4: I think that's some fucking bullshit. I think if you
Speaker 4: fuck a bunch of people, period, your whore.
Speaker 1: Come on now, don't matter men or women? Big on that.
Speaker 2: I think that people when you're easy.
Speaker 4: But I don't even want to say whoror like. I
Speaker 4: just feel like you like pussy or.
Speaker 1: You like me.
Speaker 4: Don't like people because I don't want to call them war.
Speaker 4: I take them back because even though they're gonna.
Speaker 1: Their body shaming or they're sick shaming.
Speaker 4: I'm not sex shaming. I just think like, if you
Speaker 4: like to have sex with a lot of people in
Speaker 4: general rule, then I think it should be equal judgment
Speaker 4: on both sides.
Speaker 1: Okay, come on now, exactly exactly, you're not worth.
Speaker 4: Judging both equally, like you should be judging men and
Speaker 4: judging women equally.
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be oh, because you're a woman. Dude.
Speaker 4: I had a conversation with a man and he was
Speaker 4: just like, yeah, but that's because a man is entering
Speaker 4: a woman. A man, you can still and sometimes they do,
Speaker 4: and men do getting getting answered a lot.
Speaker 1: They got bussy and it and they be saying to
Speaker 1: be wet, it do get weg the camera, it do
Speaker 1: get a little wet.
Speaker 8: I can't confirm that's what I'm saying, so I just
Speaker 8: think that, but I'm a woman, maybe my bussy just
Speaker 8: get wigged.
Speaker 1: Ever a one when maybe everything get wet. No, I think,
Speaker 1: first of all, I do think bussies get wet. Bussies
Speaker 1: get wet. But I just also want to say that
Speaker 1: if you enjoy sex, enjoy sex. And I agree with Dreya.
Speaker 1: If you're gonna judge somebody, you need to judge everybody
Speaker 1: your mama, and I also feel like I just like people.
Speaker 6: Start bussy probably get wet.
Speaker 2: Too, exactly because your mama bussy ain't.
Speaker 8: Your daddy bussy was wet, and your daddy was probably
Speaker 8: daddy bussy headed.
Speaker 1: Because he was probably low key, down low What they
Speaker 1: have to do with how they got here? Though, All
Speaker 1: I'm saying is stop judging people, because you need to
Speaker 1: go off of what y'all go.
Speaker 6: When you don't make this, you gonna go back.
Speaker 1: Daddy's bussies be wet. What does that have to do
Speaker 1: with the child getting here? Because because that bussy got wet,
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, let me straighten my life up
Speaker 1: and be a good man to this woman and stop
Speaker 1: getting my bussy blown out. So then why don't they
Speaker 1: be there still? What? They still be dead? Be daddy's dead.
Speaker 1: It is not dead bussy. A bussy is crazy? Who
Speaker 1: thought of that name? A bussy? Yes, because it is
Speaker 1: one I think about that word. It's crazy, but it's true.
Speaker 6: It's a buf se.
Speaker 1: What N. L. E. Chopper said, hmmm, smell.
Speaker 4: Like not he did say, boy, But but it is booty.
Speaker 1: Deck and pussy.
Speaker 4: Oh, but is booty and Pussy's.
Speaker 1: Thought you knew that they would saying that back in
Speaker 1: elementary school. I'm not sexually advanced. That's a lie. However,
Speaker 1: they've been saying badosi for a long puce okay, because
Speaker 1: it's booty, dick and pussy, So that means y'all was
Speaker 1: doing all of that.
Speaker 6: A collaboration, a compilation.
Speaker 1: Do you watch porn compilations?
Speaker 4: I love a compilation, porn compilations. I love any type
Speaker 4: of complax.
Speaker 2: I hate porn compilation.
Speaker 4: I love a compilation because I like you know why
Speaker 4: I like compilations, why, Drea, Because it gets straight to
Speaker 4: the point. Think about it. When you think about a compilation,
Speaker 4: it's all the best.
Speaker 1: Parts of each porn. It's straight.
Speaker 4: We're talking about a man who has a black coochie matter,
Speaker 4: it's had on. But seriously, think about it. A compilation
Speaker 4: is the best parts of the point.
Speaker 1: That's why I like a compilation. Get to the meaty,
Speaker 1: get to the meedy, me get to the meeting is crazy, okay,
Speaker 1: fair enough, fair enough, but we get to the I
Speaker 1: cannot believe we are the new generation and yeah this
Speaker 1: is childish, no, but so you don't.
Speaker 3: Like But.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've been in a situation where
Speaker 1: but ah, but I don't.
Speaker 6: Why are you making it?
Speaker 1: No wise, I don't know, Like it's just it seems
Speaker 1: like a lot I feel. I know I have been,
Speaker 1: but I'm just like, I don't even know how to describe.
Speaker 1: It's what you know, but just seemed like when you
Speaker 1: explained it to me, like I get it. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's hootie, but seeing dick, it just seems like so much.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I think it's an authentic I don't know if I'm
Speaker 4: gonna say afterwards.
Speaker 1: I thought I might be like, see, that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like I like, I like this, I like sex and
Speaker 1: the smells and the tape smell like, but no, oh,
Speaker 1: I stuck my finger in my nose and a booger
Speaker 1: fell on my lips, right, and did I did this?
Speaker 7: You ate it?
Speaker 1: And then you didn't see me. You didn't see me
Speaker 1: all over here like you what it tastes like? See
Speaker 1: it looks saucy. Gotta decrease my sodium intake. We come on,
Speaker 1: we gotta figure out.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about body.
Speaker 1: Left. You never said how you feel I did say
Speaker 1: how I feel I said, I agreed with you. I
Speaker 1: think that if you're gonna be judging, you need to
Speaker 1: be judging across both tables, because anybody who is weak
Speaker 1: at the flesh is just It needs to be the
Speaker 1: same across the table.
Speaker 8: I think if a woman has had sex with fifty
Speaker 8: men and a guy, they are in the same.
Speaker 1: Category, and that's whatever category you put them in, just
Speaker 1: like if a man has had sex with one woman
Speaker 1: and a woman has had sex with one man, or whoever,
Speaker 1: a woman with a woman, god with the guy. If
Speaker 1: it's one person, it needs to be judged the same period.
Speaker 1: Now it's time to get into the viou oh bow
Speaker 1: the bow, Bow Bow Bow bow to. So my bop
Speaker 1: of the week I found a new artist. I don't
Speaker 1: know how new he is or not, but I've recently
Speaker 1: discovered this song. It's called Drive Me Crazy by Miles Lloyd.
Speaker 1: I really like the tone of his voice. One thing
Speaker 1: about me I really like when I listen to music,
Speaker 1: the first thing I hear.
Speaker 2: Is the actual track, like the beat.
Speaker 1: But then I also listen to the tone of your voice,
Speaker 1: and I actually am more concerned with the tone of
Speaker 1: a person's voice like before the lyrics, because that's why
Speaker 1: you realize a lot of people get away with a
Speaker 1: lot of bullshit just because either the track is hot,
Speaker 1: or the melody is hot, or their tone is hot.
Speaker 1: Cisco Thong song, he said. He repeated the same thing
Speaker 1: for three four minutes, and we was feeling and we
Speaker 1: was feeling it why because the track was hot and
Speaker 1: the melody was hot. We didn't even realize he kept
Speaker 1: repeating the same shit over and over again. So one
Speaker 1: thing I like about Miles Lloyd, I love the tone
Speaker 1: of his voice. So my bop of the week is
Speaker 1: drive Me Crazy, Miles Lloyd. It's about period, Okay.
Speaker 4: I lately I have just been in my bag of
Speaker 4: like listening to old school music too, because I feel
Speaker 4: like we definitely show a lot of love to like
Speaker 4: new school stuff show and I feel like you are
Speaker 4: like who people can like credit for that because I
Speaker 4: feel like your ears always to the street, you low
Speaker 4: key a little A and R a little bit.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you for real though,
Speaker 1: if like whatever popping labels out right now, if they
Speaker 1: hired me, they can't lose every to the streets.
Speaker 4: When it comes to music, and I feel like I
Speaker 4: definitely be like having my ears to the streets a
Speaker 4: little bit when it be like when it comes to music,
Speaker 4: but I feel like you listen to like more of
Speaker 4: like the artists that people be slipped on, yeah, like
Speaker 4: any arts and stuff like I kind of be more
Speaker 4: I'm gonna know, like the new shit that's coming out
Speaker 4: when it comes to like the artists that kind of
Speaker 4: everybody know about. I wish labels would go back to
Speaker 4: developing artists because it do be a lot of artists
Speaker 4: that are great, but they're not necessarily like ready, but
Speaker 4: they could be developed into a star. Like they don't
Speaker 4: develop artists anymore, and I hate that. I feel like
Speaker 4: that's why we're missing out on a lot of good shit.
Speaker 1: Like they developed Whitney Houston, like as great as she was,
Speaker 1: she was ready, but like Clive, they had a team
Speaker 1: on her.
Speaker 2: They had a fucking that they had a team on
Speaker 2: Mariah Carey.
Speaker 4: But do you feel like but do you feel like
Speaker 4: it was because back then it wasn't as many superstars,
Speaker 4: Like it was harder to find superstars. It's not to
Speaker 4: say that it wasn't a lot of Maria. I'm sure
Speaker 4: if we scoured the world. It was a lot of
Speaker 4: Mariah Carey's and Whitneys back in the day that were like.
Speaker 1: They could seen, they could sing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, people that could.
Speaker 4: Have been as big as Riah and as big as
Speaker 4: Whitney that just were never discovered because we didn't have
Speaker 4: the technology and the ability to be able to find
Speaker 4: people the way that we're now, like the ability for
Speaker 4: people to be able to be seen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think back then it was a lot of.
Speaker 4: Talented people just as talented as them, but like it
Speaker 4: was just harder to find them. I agree, But now
Speaker 4: it's way easier to find people. So do you feel
Speaker 4: like because it's so many people and like the industry
Speaker 4: is so oversaturated that like it's hard to kind of
Speaker 4: create these superstars and build them out because if you think.
Speaker 1: About it, all of these.
Speaker 4: Labels are doing the same thing with all of the artists,
Speaker 4: but it's everybody competing with each other versus it being
Speaker 4: like one superstar that's coming out and then you're putting
Speaker 4: all of your energy into this one person, Like RCA
Speaker 4: has this one person. But love Face, well I don't
Speaker 4: even love face, not around them, but in the day,
Speaker 4: but back in the day, RCA has this one person,
Speaker 4: but face don't really have a person, right, versus like
Speaker 4: le Face RCA Capital Botown everybody having a person now
Speaker 4: and we're all putting the same machine behind all of
Speaker 4: these people, and so nobody is really kind of taking
Speaker 4: off more than the person, if that makes it.
Speaker 2: So, I do agree with you with that.
Speaker 1: I feel like now everybody like they want to make
Speaker 1: a TikTok song. Everybody wants that people put more value
Speaker 1: in value in singles than they do actual projects. So
Speaker 1: I think that's what hurt the industry. But like I said,
Speaker 1: I think now due to inflation, companies losing a lot
Speaker 1: of money because back then, if you had okay perfect example,
Speaker 1: Rock Nation, they had Rihanna and they had Tierra Marie. Well,
Speaker 1: no that was Rockell Rockefeller. I'm sorry, it's rock Nation now, right,
Speaker 1: So they had Rihanna Tierra Marie, right, yeah, Tierra Marie
Speaker 1: came out swinging. Tierra Marie was bigger than Rihanna when
Speaker 1: they first dropped. She was she had no daddy around
Speaker 1: when she was growing up, proud and know how to
Speaker 1: make a craffee. So with that being said, this is
Speaker 1: when a lot of stuff changed. Let me tell you
Speaker 1: and I if y'all send him this clip, he probably
Speaker 1: gonna be like, Yeah, this person is single handedly changed
Speaker 1: the music industry. And either people gonna say it's for
Speaker 1: the best or it's for the worst. Soldier Boy. Soldier
Speaker 1: Boy changed the game because he was like, I'm not developed,
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting in my bedroom. I'm making these hits
Speaker 1: and I'm ready to go. So once he got on
Speaker 1: with Colla Park and all that stuff, they didn't have
Speaker 1: to invest too too much because he was ready to
Speaker 1: go because he was a superstar on his own.
Speaker 2: And that was the first kind of that that we saw.
Speaker 1: So now they were like, okay, if Sojio Boy came
Speaker 1: ready made and we had to invest maybe a million
Speaker 1: dollars versus ten million dollars investment on somebody who has
Speaker 1: to be ready and I mean somebody that we have
Speaker 1: to package up and get.
Speaker 2: Ready to go. So I think Sodier Boys what changed it.
Speaker 1: Also, like I said, the tier Marie and Rihanna situation,
Speaker 1: Tierre Marie came out swinging, she was dropping his and
Speaker 1: Rihanna came out like Rihanna came out in hot luke warm.
Speaker 1: The first album was good, but that second album when
Speaker 1: they changed her into that pop that pop girl.
Speaker 2: That's when it's umbrella.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and once she's fun, that's fun to replay.
Speaker 1: Replay was a hit, but it didn't do it and
Speaker 1: the other song and that was her first single, No,
Speaker 1: that was her second thing. I'm sorry, but what I'm
Speaker 1: saying was first. But I'm saying all that to say
Speaker 1: is because in the beginning, I mean, they put all
Speaker 1: their cards in Tierra Marie and it didn't end up working,
Speaker 1: and they had they were like, uh, we're gonna do
Speaker 1: this with Rihanna and we gonna see and then Rihanna
Speaker 1: ended up turning up on the ass and they was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, we need to stop spending money on
Speaker 1: these girls and see what they gonna do and see
Speaker 1: and men and everybody, let's stop spending money and let's
Speaker 1: see what they can do. Let's see how bad you
Speaker 1: want it. So now it's up to the artist. You
Speaker 1: gotta really spend it on yourself. And you know, and
Speaker 1: I think as good as that is, because the cream
Speaker 1: rises to the top, but we're also missing a lot
Speaker 1: of people who maybe don't have the resources, that are
Speaker 1: good as fuck, that are superstars. Even with summer Walker
Speaker 1: Summer quite as it's kept, summer Walker was developed by
Speaker 1: a girl named Summer Walker who is from Beaumont, Texas,
Speaker 1: that discovered her. People don't know that, y'all. Y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: DJ Drama's first wife. She's very intelligent and ti I mean,
Speaker 1: she's very She used to be a video okay, and
Speaker 1: she was somebody who's artsy and this, and she discovered
Speaker 1: Summer Walker. I don't know that true story, but she
Speaker 1: saw something in her and she developed her, and she
Speaker 1: took that time with her. And I don't want to
Speaker 1: say that she's the reason that she made it, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like some people have to be developed. Some
Speaker 1: people aren't ready made to go. So I think the
Speaker 1: labels are messing up by not really taking their time
Speaker 1: and trying to find superstars or trying to hurry up
Speaker 1: and get the bag and get the dollar, when in
Speaker 1: the long run it's better, Like look at how when
Speaker 1: Usher and Justin Bieber and the long run of things.
Speaker 1: I think we need to start getting back to the
Speaker 1: long run of things. Stop rushing people for albums. Stop
Speaker 1: dropping four albums in a year, y'all dropping too much music.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry four albums, Well they're dropping. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. Beyonce is doing these acts, but she's Beyonce.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear I want to do I
Speaker 1: want to see two albums from beyond a year. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can handle that. But Beyonce has developed these two
Speaker 1: albums for years. She's been working on Act two for years,
Speaker 1: working on Act one for years. We just didn't know
Speaker 1: about it. But she also ain't doing that.
Speaker 4: Like Beyonce dropped even with the acts. Beyonce dropped The
Speaker 4: Renaissiance July June of twenty twenty two. Whenever there was
Speaker 4: maybe August of.
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty two.
Speaker 4: She didn't drop Cowboy Carter until March of this year, right,
Speaker 4: So it's been like a year and a half between albums.
Speaker 4: So I don't think, I don't well, like I said,
Speaker 4: even a year and a half between albums, that's a
Speaker 4: good amount of time.
Speaker 1: But you have to realize back in the day they
Speaker 1: was dropping the album, they was touring two three years
Speaker 1: off of one album they were then they get off tour,
Speaker 1: they disappeared for a while, and do it again. These
Speaker 1: people are dropping two three albums in the two three years.
Speaker 4: I be so take your time with the music. I
Speaker 4: be so jealous when I think about, like our grandparents
Speaker 4: and parents, when songs used to drop and albums used
Speaker 4: to drop, and I used to hear that she for
Speaker 4: the first time, and I used to be dancing to
Speaker 4: when it was no social media.
Speaker 1: And to tell you this ship, I was listening a
Speaker 1: whipped last night, Yeah, and.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, can you imagine when
Speaker 4: that song first dropped, how they was cutting up in
Speaker 4: the whip it?
Speaker 1: And you know what I was listening to this morning.
Speaker 4: You know what I was listening to Tie Imagine how
Speaker 4: they was cutting up in the globe when they dropped
Speaker 4: the first time on the on that pure cocaine.
Speaker 2: You know what this morning?
Speaker 1: And I was getting ready because I was feeling kind
Speaker 1: of down. I played this ship this morning because I
Speaker 1: was feeling kind of down. I wanted to feel myself.
Speaker 1: You know what, I put on Darro through she goad.
Speaker 1: I said, you know the bad buses was outside just
Speaker 1: since Fine and Stom because you used to have to wait.
Speaker 1: You know how bad we used to run off that
Speaker 1: bus to get on Watch one O six in part
Speaker 1: because we had to see who was number. When you
Speaker 1: knew the premiere. I remember when No Scrubs dropped, bro,
Speaker 1: I remember when that video.
Speaker 4: Dropped, So imagine how it was with No Nothing Soul
Speaker 4: Train and they used to be doing the fleet.
Speaker 1: Y'all, we have messed up the music industry. It's so sad.
Speaker 1: It is. It's really sad because the kids these days,
Speaker 1: y'all don't know how it feels to anticipate a video dropping.
Speaker 1: We couldn't pull up our phone and watch a video.
Speaker 1: We had to wait until it came on trl Damn
Speaker 1: what I ran off the bus. I said, TLC's video
Speaker 1: is premiering tomorrow, and they used to talk about it
Speaker 1: the whole week. TLC premiere Friday. TLC I said, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I gotta get home. If you can't see
Speaker 1: spand my horizon, some slums never Rizon, I said, left
Speaker 1: that at so let me give you something to think about.
Speaker 1: She ain't. Don't do that. A moment in time, especially
Speaker 1: spanned my horizon. Then I leave your glass of scrubs
Speaker 1: or horizon. The kids don't know droll.
Speaker 4: I know, but that's what I was saying. So I
Speaker 4: can imagine because I was exciting to when.
Speaker 1: I see it. I wish I could tell you up.
Speaker 1: And when they took out that Breaston plant, I said, oh,
Speaker 1: how could she not use for me? Pretty did not
Speaker 1: hit me hard enough?
Speaker 4: No, need me hard enough because I was like, okay, man's.
Speaker 1: It was a time.
Speaker 4: But like I said, going back to even because I
Speaker 4: feel like our grandparents here harder. Like, yeah, we definitely
Speaker 4: was like watching One on sixty part TR But I
Speaker 4: feel like in the.
Speaker 1: Eighties the seventies they was really couldning. Uh you know
Speaker 1: what they do? They need to bring Soul Train back though.
Speaker 1: We need to make artists premire things. We need to
Speaker 1: force it. We need a Soul Train or a t
Speaker 1: R and make us the whole take all this ship
Speaker 1: off of online. And we need to force people to
Speaker 1: congregate again. We need to force this on people. We
Speaker 1: need to start doing shows in time. We're gonna bring Tide.
Speaker 1: She's gonna be our bars and she's and everybody sleep
Speaker 1: what except for me? I might knock it up my Yeah.
Speaker 1: We need to force we need to force people to
Speaker 1: start premiering music together in this YouTube premiers. No, I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about that. We need to make people gather
Speaker 1: around and gather around the TV and make it a thing.
Speaker 1: You can't do it from your phone.
Speaker 4: It needs to something needs to happen. Everybody need to
Speaker 4: be being from their phone.
Speaker 1: COVID makes shit worse comb because.
Speaker 4: Prior to COVID, we was like one social media. Don't
Speaker 4: get me wrong.
Speaker 1: We was on there, but not like it is, but
Speaker 1: not like this.
Speaker 4: It was like when COVID hit, niggas couldn't go nowhere,
Speaker 4: and that's when TikTok really like took off.
Speaker 1: I told you this, we said this past people were
Speaker 1: making flyers. I'm going live Tonight's seven, use nigga, don't
Speaker 1: nobody give a damn and Verses that's when Versus took off.
Speaker 1: That's when Versus took off. But Versus was cool because
Speaker 1: that's what really brought us together, like we was all
Speaker 1: doing it together. I like stuff like that. But we
Speaker 1: need to figure out how can we get everybody together
Speaker 1: to start listening to music and putting these.
Speaker 2: Pressure on artists to make good music.
Speaker 1: It's so it's like this many people making music and
Speaker 1: this many people making good music. You know who does
Speaker 1: a fucking good job at good music? Billy Billie Eilish.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the new new school. I'm talking about
Speaker 1: the new school. Billie Eilish is fucking good. I can't
Speaker 1: take that from her. I don't care if she dresses
Speaker 1: like Snoop Dogg in nineteen ninety two.
Speaker 4: But.
Speaker 6: Nope, okay, yeah, because.
Speaker 1: She does. Yeah, uh huh, yeah she.
Speaker 9: Shot out.
Speaker 1: You gotta like that's to be a soul soldier girl.
Speaker 2: So okay, go ahead, go ahead, man.
Speaker 4: We've been trying to get to my box for that. Literally,
Speaker 4: I want to shine a spotlight on Jeezy.
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that.
Speaker 6: I love young Jeezy.
Speaker 4: Like who do you listen to whenever you want to
Speaker 4: get in your bag, whenever you need to feel like
Speaker 4: I'm the beach for me?
Speaker 1: Is Jeezy.
Speaker 2: I'm off I'm a dof girl.
Speaker 4: I'm a jeezy girl, like whenever I need to remember
Speaker 4: who the fuck I am and then I need to
Speaker 4: boss up and get on my sheet and stop letting
Speaker 4: life get me down.
Speaker 1: I got a hold Jeezy, play least. Oh you gotta
Speaker 1: release that for the people. We need that. I do
Speaker 1: so go to the streets. So I be listening to
Speaker 1: go Crazy. Oh that's a good one.
Speaker 4: I know, go Crazy, I believe need to put on
Speaker 4: I lose my mind. Oh your bab me okay, I
Speaker 4: love it seeing it all okay with jay Z.
Speaker 1: Let me see hold on, let me go down. You
Speaker 1: gotta make this a playlist and give it to the people.
Speaker 10: I do, I do, And then with Indeed with her,
Speaker 10: I do A do a zoo a zoo a zoo
Speaker 10: a zoo.
Speaker 6: Shout out to Jeszu.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Gz has a leg of a catalog. I like
Speaker 1: when people rap and they articulate their words so well.
Speaker 1: He's one of those rappers like jay Z does that
Speaker 1: and Jez does that. They're like two people that like
Speaker 1: when they rap, it's so clear what they're saying. You
Speaker 1: never go and who jay Z?
Speaker 2: Like When jay Z.
Speaker 1: Raps, he articulates every word so clearly, it's like you
Speaker 1: cannot you know. Sometimes somebody will rap something like what
Speaker 1: they said? Did they say this today? You never have
Speaker 1: to do that with Jeez or with jay Z.
Speaker 4: Not dreaming with him and he shako that ain't really
Speaker 4: a motivational song, but.
Speaker 1: That's just the heat it's and so is he that
Speaker 1: pussy up? Mm hmm your bedroom play lead. I go
Speaker 1: licks m so humbert hum and sing I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: that poor.
Speaker 6: So off every time you try to check les black Card.
Speaker 1: She feels, I mean, I got the melody that's closer now?
Speaker 1: Is that the one with trace song? Mm hmm, it's
Speaker 1: falling the moment that's that's a different one. Card, that's
Speaker 1: a different one. We know. I'm gonna tell that poor
Speaker 1: sol Off. Oh you know what song I used to love?
Speaker 1: That was?
Speaker 3: Not?
Speaker 6: That was with Lloyd?
Speaker 1: Why are you saying that? Like ply? Y'all know what
Speaker 1: song I used to love though, speaking of tree songs,
Speaker 1: and we're not gonna get into it.
Speaker 2: He had this song with bun Bee.
Speaker 1: If you need love, I love it.
Speaker 11: If you need I'm thinking if you need a hustler,
Speaker 11: whatever you need, girl, I'm gonna holds be shout out.
Speaker 1: To bun Beata. I'm make he love that bun Beata.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a scream, yes, he said, But let
Speaker 1: me see he said, bun be Okay, let me read
Speaker 1: the lyrics. Y'all know how he said, Here you go,
Speaker 1: bun beat the I'm a see he said, he said,
Speaker 1: one beat the Yeah, that's what I said.
Speaker 4: You said, but beat like b e A t e
Speaker 4: A b e t e e A e e A
Speaker 4: t e.
Speaker 1: A e A. I didn't say it like that, I said,
Speaker 1: bun be the ama. That's what he said, bun be
Speaker 1: the Alma. I don't want to be I don't want
Speaker 1: to leave.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be b Why did he do
Speaker 2: that like that? He thought?
Speaker 1: He ate he did?
Speaker 2: Let me do it again?
Speaker 1: He did, though, what I don't like that. Let me
Speaker 1: now that we ten years later. I like, how you
Speaker 1: gonna fill ten years from now when they be pulling up.
Speaker 6: Ship, you said, he did.
Speaker 1: So when you've seen that ten years ago, you weren't
Speaker 1: like horrible and I'll be back to hold you down.
Speaker 1: And I don't want to leave me leave me? You
Speaker 1: did not, he said. He did, though, that's crazy. You're useless.
Speaker 2: How to cut that cane?
Speaker 1: What I how to cut that cane? Okay?
Speaker 2: This?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 1: What was that song? He said? So many people who
Speaker 1: never coming on that show? What was the first Trace song?
Speaker 1: Just gotta make it? Oh? He was always in pain.
Speaker 1: He was. Oh, beat his ass, Oh he was, He's one.
Speaker 2: That was his favorite dance move.
Speaker 6: What it's the top of the world.
Speaker 1: Me and my girl, We just gotta make you.
Speaker 2: Cut that cane.
Speaker 1: That he said, cut that cane? But what what's that hoo?
Speaker 1: Are you used to sound how destroy that.
Speaker 2: I used to tell Daddy how I cut that cane.
Speaker 1: Dry? I can't wait to see you. I'm whooping your ass,
Speaker 1: my mom, It's on site, hold avenue.
Speaker 4: No Trey song used to go hard because yeah, that
Speaker 4: song can't help. But wait, that was my song girl
Speaker 4: for the w.
Speaker 1: Yes. But Lex, that was you look for what you really? Maybe? Girl?
Speaker 1: You are restored? No, I can't help. I hate him bad.
Speaker 1: Why oh?
Speaker 2: I hate him so bad?
Speaker 1: So you ain't used to like?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I told you all this. This is before the Alex.
Speaker 1: We talk about this nigga every three month. You see
Speaker 1: me in the videos they why doing make your body
Speaker 1: go crazy? Oh? Catch me and Maxine?
Speaker 4: Baby, I hate you with me and my part never
Speaker 4: you ain't never like that.
Speaker 8: Let me be honest, y'all know I'm like a fake
Speaker 8: walk queen.
Speaker 1: But this was before everything came out about him. I
Speaker 1: promise I'm very much fake WoT. But before all this
Speaker 1: stuff happened, I've been a Trey Songs hater since diapers
Speaker 1: never liked him ever.
Speaker 2: I hate his boy.
Speaker 1: He was so good, he was so good, my super No,
Speaker 1: I'm not are you well? Then? Why you not? Not?
Speaker 1: You know all the lyrics are you? She is not?
Speaker 1: You do your thing. You can't be in a car like.
Speaker 4: It's somebody who was fitty wi biggest than you before.
Speaker 1: Again, Maddy, first of all, we're not gonna do that
Speaker 1: if you're gonna compare to those thirty y'all didn't know
Speaker 1: what time seven thirty. Y'all did not know what military
Speaker 1: time was before face.
Speaker 4: I hate somebody who fucking tell military time it's five oh.
Speaker 1: Two or it's seventeen thirty eight. That's about Remy, not
Speaker 1: about the time.
Speaker 12: Though exactly exactly exactly, need to correct me.
Speaker 1: Cut up.
Speaker 4: He was talking about cut on my row.
Speaker 8: Seventeen to mix because we didn't ask what it mat
Speaker 8: I stay head, what's up?
Speaker 1: And low? You thought he was saying the military song.
Speaker 8: God damn it, Remy ball.
Speaker 1: Seventeen.
Speaker 2: He used to be singing and.
Speaker 4: Sold in Trey songs. So what's the book?
Speaker 1: It sing better Trida for Trey songs? Vocally, y'all think
Speaker 1: Trey song sings better than Fatty Wap. No way, y'all
Speaker 1: are kidding me right, I'm not talking about music. Now,
Speaker 1: we know Trey songs makes better music. Y'all talking about vocally.
Speaker 1: Y'all think Trey song sings better than Fatty Wop?
Speaker 2: Yes, me neither.
Speaker 1: Fatty Wop sounded like Whitney Houston. Oh the t came out,
Speaker 1: blocking out Hopby blocking out, you are crazy. Trey songs
Speaker 1: used to be having me in the car Patty walk sing. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Remember when Fatty Wap.
Speaker 2: All I gotta do was he dropped that Drake remix
Speaker 2: and I.
Speaker 1: Was singing Drake Park. All I gotta do is put
Speaker 1: my mind to you. Never said cancel line my ex.
Speaker 1: I put a lot. You never sung the hook? Maybe
Speaker 1: want you to come out?
Speaker 2: Got something ain't want Tuesday?
Speaker 1: Yes you did. I was in the club with your bitch.
Speaker 1: You were singing the hook and I was only singing
Speaker 1: it because of Drake, But you was before the remix drop.
Speaker 1: Shout out to DJ Erie because we heard it first
Speaker 1: world premiere. Shout out to.
Speaker 4: DJ seven one three. I don't even think that's on
Speaker 4: Instagram number. I think it's this Area twenty nine out.
Speaker 2: Yeah we would, and then we heard that remix first,
Speaker 2: and then we.
Speaker 1: Thought we were so cool, oh cool, because we had
Speaker 1: found out and shout out to Big Throw r p RW.
Speaker 8: But we were the first ones that found out too
Speaker 8: that Drake and Future were about to drop that album.
Speaker 1: Remember what a Time to be Alive? We was like ooh.
Speaker 1: We was like, oh yeah, I went home and saw
Speaker 1: my mama. I was like, Draking Future about to drop
Speaker 1: a new I remember I tweeted something said who I
Speaker 1: tweeted something? I was listen. This is how I don't
Speaker 1: even know who Dragon Future was. This is how lame
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: I tweeted.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, Drake got something coming and y'all
Speaker 1: gonna love it. I thought I.
Speaker 6: Hate that.
Speaker 1: I said, listen to this ship. When I get in
Speaker 1: a card, I said, yeah, Dray finna drop something.
Speaker 2: Y'all gonna Yeah, y'all gonna fuck with to be.
Speaker 1: Alive with the album A time? Okay, come on, we
Speaker 1: gotta move on. Okay, let's move on for thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: Lord have mercy.
Speaker 4: Okay, this is fucking this is goddamn ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Remember that song this is I thought that was something
Speaker 1: that Ludacris said. That's not like because it's a goddamn dickulous. Hey,
Speaker 1: I mission this is on my necklace and I'm Ludlechris.
Speaker 1: We know what he didn't let us. Forget that man
Speaker 1: named Knew the Chris in a bathroom in the back
Speaker 1: of the classroom. However you want it.
Speaker 2: That's enough, bro, it was him.
Speaker 1: Enough.
Speaker 4: No, I'm talking about the song ridiculous. Oh hey did
Speaker 4: shitty fucking ridiculous?
Speaker 2: I don't remember that one?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, sorry, sorry, sorry the drink. Okay, come on,
Speaker 1: we gotta move on. So if y'all want your item
Speaker 1: featured on the show, make sure you email us. Is
Speaker 1: it item of the week? I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: We'll put it on thing. So we're gonna move on
Speaker 1: to pour your heart out. If you want your question
Speaker 1: to answer on the show, and make sure you email
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Speaker 1: because you can skip the line.
Speaker 2: And we're gonna get into the questions today.
Speaker 1: Where are yours at? Oh my god? Oh I just
Speaker 1: have one. It was it was attached to the other one.
Speaker 1: I'll just read one.
Speaker 2: We over time.
Speaker 1: Anyway, Why are you swinging at bussy at me? She's
Speaker 1: swinging at bussy at me? Well, okay, hi, ladies, First
Speaker 1: and foremost, I love you guys.
Speaker 2: And I hope that your sets continues.
Speaker 1: Okay, So this past eight months, I've been talking to
Speaker 1: two guys from two different states. One is about eight
Speaker 1: years younger than me. However, he's extremely caring, emotionally stable,
Speaker 1: and attentive.
Speaker 2: The only issues with him.
Speaker 1: For me are his age, career goals, and the few
Speaker 1: times we've linked. He's never planned anything. We've never discussed relationships,
Speaker 1: but he's extremely possessive over me and it shows. He's
Speaker 1: also very emotional. He's a cancer. The other is a
Speaker 1: year older than me. He has a great job. I've
Speaker 1: met him once. The industry he works in demands him
Speaker 1: to travel a lot, and we've planned a date for
Speaker 1: the near future. The communication is weak with this connection
Speaker 1: due to his job, which I completely get because I
Speaker 1: understand the industry he works in. Would you choose one
Speaker 1: over the other or just continue to go with the flow?
Speaker 1: I just don't want to lead them on. If the
Speaker 1: younger one got his shit together, I could definitely see
Speaker 1: us together. However, the older one has his shit together,
Speaker 1: but he's extremely dedicated to his jobs at time help.
Speaker 1: It sounds like neither one of these guys are your person,
Speaker 1: So just have fun. And go with the flow until
Speaker 1: something bitter comes along.
Speaker 4: Why y'all do they do what? I'm just trying to
Speaker 4: figure out, Like, why do people do that? Why do
Speaker 4: they be like, oh.
Speaker 2: I need to stop talking to one?
Speaker 4: Should I pick these or don't date either one of them?
Speaker 1: Niggas Lena get.
Speaker 6: A whole new ross club.
Speaker 1: I mean whatever, just go with the flow and have fun.
Speaker 1: You can keep them both until you find something else.
Speaker 1: These neither one of these men sound like you're why
Speaker 1: you gotta pee?
Speaker 8: Don't pick as long as you ain't pregnant.
Speaker 4: This is why people I feel like, as long as
Speaker 4: you ain't pregnant, that's always my philosophy.
Speaker 1: You ain't pregnant. But you know what I've noticed, do
Speaker 1: what you want. Women always feel like, oh, I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk to them both? Why not? Men will
Speaker 1: date properly, That's one thing I would give them. They
Speaker 1: date multiple people and make the best puss out the
Speaker 1: proper dator.
Speaker 8: Yeah, women, we need to do the same too. The
Speaker 8: best Nick made the best dick win.
Speaker 1: Hobby be laughing like y'all was preaching today. Hobby No
Speaker 1: laughed like I got a new attitude.
Speaker 2: That's what Hobby said.
Speaker 1: See, Hobby said, he into it today. Okay, but yes,
Speaker 1: it's like, why do y'all? I ain't never heard Hobby laugh.
Speaker 6: He always laughs.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? No?
Speaker 6: He laughing a lot of today, but he always laughs.
Speaker 1: Though Hobby's laughing, be like, but Hobby is like, and
Speaker 1: you gotta say something real funny to make Hobby laugh. No,
Speaker 1: Hobby is not easily. Hobby have a good sense of humor.
Speaker 4: He laughed, Alike, you don't be hitching me, but he
Speaker 4: laughed all the time.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, I got a bad ear, which one
Speaker 1: real Wow, somebody punched you in it, don't happen.
Speaker 2: Got swimmers here, I got swimmers here? M all right?
Speaker 1: Well, why are you laughing? It's not funny.
Speaker 4: I didn't laugh neither you laughed. That's why I love
Speaker 4: I think that. Can you please take that fucking out
Speaker 4: of your mouth.
Speaker 1: Like a country character.
Speaker 2: I'm ready, So Beyonce, we're going, ain't no hope? Okay,
Speaker 2: keep going?
Speaker 4: Can I say something real quick too about Beyonce haters?
Speaker 1: We're ahead? What we never wait? Fuck the holes.
Speaker 4: Everybody whoever don't like us, Fuck them holes.
Speaker 1: That's who fucked up the door and turned on down
Speaker 1: load and turn in you. They're gonna's solved and slow, baby,
Speaker 1: we ain't got no place to go. I hope you wonder,
Speaker 1: he dad, I've been reading for this salt or they long.
Speaker 1: I'm about to come out with a country album. You
Speaker 1: should but go ahead with you.
Speaker 4: I was just saying, like, I just don't like nobody
Speaker 4: did don't like Beyonce.
Speaker 1: That's fair, That's fair because I just feel like why
Speaker 1: she don't more than nobody they get mad now. They're
Speaker 1: mad at her because they feel like Miss Tina speaks
Speaker 1: for her too much, and so that's what mama should. Dude,
Speaker 1: y'all know they ain't have no mama around when they
Speaker 1: was growing up. That's why tier Marie said it, and
Speaker 1: that's why y'all needed to listen to Hood too. I
Speaker 1: just don't like.
Speaker 4: I don't like how people be disrespecting our legiends they
Speaker 4: be disrespecting tier Marie too, and I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I don't like when they talk to nobody. Actually, because
Speaker 1: I seen somebody being funny about Missy Elliott the other day,
Speaker 1: and one thing I don't play with it is Missy
Speaker 1: fucking Elliott. What they said to her.
Speaker 2: I can't remember what they said.
Speaker 1: They said something like, I don't know if they were
Speaker 1: listening to like a song she had dropped. They were
Speaker 1: was like something about she needs to stop dropping music
Speaker 1: because somebody said the top female rappers while we never
Speaker 1: bring Missy in the conversation, and they were like, that's
Speaker 1: because she can't make a hot song and she needs
Speaker 1: to stop because this is the last song she dropped.
Speaker 1: First of all. That's how I know, y'all you ain't
Speaker 1: never heard socking to me on a Friday night. Y'all
Speaker 1: too fucking young. You know what I'm saying. Doo dood goodo, like,
Speaker 1: stop fucking playing with I can't stand the ring?
Speaker 2: Who can hop?
Speaker 4: Boy?
Speaker 2: You can fucking sample?
Speaker 1: Baby? You got one? Break me up? Show me what
Speaker 1: you got. That's when who was in there.
Speaker 9: Lula, I'm the maintenance man, Cris.
Speaker 1: We are looking her part too. I love that what
Speaker 1: she said one minute to minutes, three minutes, hell no
Speaker 1: to please me, you got to sleep in it. I said,
Speaker 1: ooh freaky, why are you making that thing?
Speaker 6: It is way too much. But I love me some Trina.
Speaker 1: In fact, a press run right now and she needed, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't think we've reached out to her. We're gonna
Speaker 1: reach out to her. She's doing a whole press run
Speaker 1: right now. We need to reach out to her.
Speaker 4: Because, first and foremost, what's your favorite Trina Verse ever?
Speaker 1: My favorite trina Verse ever? Oh my, oh my god,
Speaker 1: all of them? Do you remember that I'm speaking? Oh?
Speaker 1: It's so many. Honestly, I'm not trying to be funny.
Speaker 1: I think my favorite. I'll say this, this is my
Speaker 1: personal favorite. It might not be her best one, but
Speaker 1: her take it to the house verse.
Speaker 4: I'm a five star beat because I ain't that other
Speaker 4: beat from the womb. I've been riched all right there,
Speaker 4: Miss Trina makes the ballers want a stir sky hot
Speaker 4: sun now boots lined with the fur.
Speaker 1: Pop, pull a switch, pull it, don't but make it
Speaker 1: to work. I'm a flirt to let her and a
Speaker 1: throat bad skirt. I'm that bad bitch box Beinging's own
Speaker 1: blade rocks on my wrists like pink lemonade. Keep your
Speaker 1: brochers in your rings for the mother girls, lo mama,
Speaker 1: watch strings, push and nail pearls. I'm back for my crown.
Speaker 1: Fake bitches, dive down.
Speaker 2: It's the remix.
Speaker 1: What you want to do? Now? You know? I like
Speaker 1: you do her get loose in the club, like you
Speaker 1: just don't curve.
Speaker 4: She ate that she used to eat all the songs
Speaker 4: shout out to Trina and Joe.
Speaker 1: She got a lot of verses that I like, though,
Speaker 1: like Trina is probably like between her one of my
Speaker 1: top five best female rap I agree, I'm gonna put
Speaker 1: I definitely put Trina in my top five. And I
Speaker 1: think it's you know, I'm not gonna watch it. And Nikki.
Speaker 4: I know the girls be controversial about nikkias but I.
Speaker 1: I mean, but she cannot deny her talent. I just
Speaker 1: had an epiphany. I need that guy NAIs. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie though, Nicki Minaj is my number two because
Speaker 1: I've always been a Missy stand though I literally had
Speaker 1: all Missy's albums, Missy is your number one. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: y'all have never okay. So te Pain has always been
Speaker 1: like up here to me, like when I was like,
Speaker 1: I know, the pinnacle of my career is when I
Speaker 1: can sit next to t Pain. So the fact that
Speaker 1: I've done that because like te Pain to me and
Speaker 1: Missy to me are like right here. When I get
Speaker 1: Missy Elliott on this couch, I woke up at five
Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning one morning because it was when
Speaker 1: her work It had premiered, and they were talking about
Speaker 1: because she didn't premiere on one on sixth In parts
Speaker 1: she permiitted on like a morning thing that MTV used
Speaker 1: to have. I woke up at five o'clock in the
Speaker 1: morning before my volleyball tournament, and I just remember listening
Speaker 1: to work it over and over and over and over
Speaker 1: m hm and over mm hmm. She's she was ahead
Speaker 1: of her time. She was, she was so ahead of
Speaker 1: her time. And we need to put when y'all start
Speaker 1: having when y'all be having these conversations, y'all need to
Speaker 1: stop skipping Missy, period because how can they could they
Speaker 1: do every time? And I don't get it. She was
Speaker 1: a producer, a writer, a rapper, a singer, choreographer. Missy
Speaker 1: is really running circles around a lot of these people,
Speaker 1: for real, for real, take away the golden platinum chains
Speaker 1: and I ain't going.
Speaker 2: I'm going.
Speaker 6: Hung out to Genie Wye who used to beasts, and
Speaker 6: I want Genie.
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Speaker 2: We went like this, you ain't lift up there.
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Speaker 1: under death. I don't think I can do that either way.
Speaker 1: You can't. I can't do that. It's soft anyway? All right?
Speaker 2: No, no, we done?
Speaker 1: Okay, say what you gotta say? Was so incredible.
Speaker 2: Remember when tweet what I did last night?
Speaker 1: What do tweet? Gotta do? A genie? Because she had
Speaker 1: Missy Elliott. I looked over to the less. She said,
Speaker 1: I was on my thighs butter picking brou y'all was
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Speaker 1: my turn up? Said, oh my, I tried.
Speaker 2: I'm not tobby like he left like.
Speaker 1: I was my thigh husband. He can bro all right.
Speaker 4: So the point I was making was what I was
Speaker 4: gonna say real quick before we eating these that fucking
Speaker 4: tweet of juvenile, I mean, not genuine.
Speaker 6: I don't know how I confused.
Speaker 4: Come on now, genu Wine and the men. It was
Speaker 4: his background singer singing, and they was like, I hate
Speaker 4: old niggas, I hate.
Speaker 2: Old But what song was they singing?
Speaker 1: Was it pony? No? Are you sure it was something else?
Speaker 1: It was so funny. I did my part. I think
Speaker 1: it was phony. No, it wasn't, pony. I'm a thousand
Speaker 1: percent positive.
Speaker 4: But anyways, they was just like I hate old niggas
Speaker 4: because the niggas was in and the girls was like,
Speaker 4: they was like, I hate old niggas, and that's actually
Speaker 4: the reason why I love.
Speaker 1: Old If an old niggas start busting out in the
Speaker 1: song for me.
Speaker 4: But you know what, I get what they were saying
Speaker 4: because that's how I feel when old niggas start like
Speaker 4: doing their little sorority step. That's why I mean for
Speaker 4: eterning these steps in the club.
Speaker 1: That's what happened. Put it out. They was like.
Speaker 2: I said, oh we was there, calm down.
Speaker 1: They was barking in our years and ship they was
Speaker 1: and I was just like, move niggas the fuck and
Speaker 1: niggas be so excited they be what was that song?
Speaker 1: What's the song that they be stepping two?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Time? I said, oh, brother, I took my chicken strips
Speaker 1: and I left. I did I did you know? I did?
Speaker 4: And what's the They all got their own song. The
Speaker 4: Kappas got white me down. But that's New age though.
Speaker 4: What was like the because I feel like that was
Speaker 4: like when I was in college like what was before
Speaker 4: that though, because I was like atomic dog Ben for
Speaker 4: the cap I mean Ben for the the cut doll
Speaker 4: for like fifty years.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it was.
Speaker 1: But then the alphas got I don't know.
Speaker 2: I ain't been in college since nineteen sixty four.
Speaker 1: Also, but before we close this out, I also thought about,
Speaker 1: since we were talking about Rihanna and Tierra Marie earlier,
Speaker 1: when Tweet dropped, people people was comparing Tweet and Ashanti.
Speaker 4: No, yes they was. I'm saying, no, huh, you're saying
Speaker 4: no that they was. I'm saying, no, they can't be compared.
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying when they first dropped, they
Speaker 1: dropped at the same time. M hm. Another bop of
Speaker 1: the week tweets cigarettes. It's such a good song there
Speaker 1: you smoking cigarettes and nice. That was on her best songs.
Speaker 1: So thank y'all so much for tuning in. See y'all
Speaker 1: next week. I don't want to leave it. That sounded
Speaker 1: good too, See y'all next week.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
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