WEBVTT - Lets Give Thanks 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:04.360 Vocally, y'all think Trey song sings better than fetti wop? 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:08.640 No way, y'all are kidding me right, I'm not talking 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:11.160 about music now, we know Trey songs makes better music, 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:14.040 but y'all talking about vocally y'all think Trey song sings 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:20.000 better than fetti wop? Yes? Me neither. Betty wop sounded 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:52.040 like Whitney Houston. What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lex p 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.440 And it's your girl Dre and the call and you 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:58.520 are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds. We're 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.319 a drunk mine speak sober thought. We ain't got no 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:08.200 guests today. We ain't got no guests today period. So 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:11.520 we were just having a conversation and we were talking 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:17.360 about like good throwback songs, like some good good throwback 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.800 songs do you I want to talk about? So we 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.920 were talking about like Trick Daddy and his throwback song. 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.400 What was the song? You was just singing the song? 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.399 I ain't really here to play no games? 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:27.720 Yo? 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:36.400 You already mind name? Yeah? Yeah, hit they don't make 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.280 they don't do it like that no more. I want 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:43.800 to talk about the Timberland era. That was a good era. 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:54.760 You Timberland really and you know what this is what 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:58.000 is so crazy because it goes to show you like 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:00.400 everything goes out of style, but it'll come back, you 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.400 know what I'm saying. Like Timberlin had that good like 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:06.560 nineties two thousand sound and obviously like now that's not 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.320 what people are listening to, but it's gonna come back. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.560 He still be producing, people still be producing. But what 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:13.440 I'm saying is like people don't really look for like 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.320 Timbaland type beats. They're looking for that take Keith beat. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.959 They're looking for, you know, a metro booming type beat 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.919 right now because that's what's hot right now. But one 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:25.920 thing I love about Timberland though, he makes like music 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:27.440 that you can listen to, because I can still listen 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.880 to Hot Light Fire. I was actually listening to that 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:33.000 the other day, Like I put that on my Instagram 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:36.720 post the other day. Timeless music kids. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:38.720 He he had a good run with ce Loo. 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:47.320 How could be gonapeak you with ridiculous? Like damn, they 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.359 don't do it like that no more. You know, music 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:51.360 just isn't the same. 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.680 It's not the same. Carry Hilson had. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:03:01.600 A great run with Timberlin. Carrie Hillson's first and second album, Perfection. 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.440 I was watching that movie yesterday, almost Christmas, and she 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:06.840 was in that movie Shots Secury was Almost Christmas. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:13.200 Who's in that? Vanny Glover Monee? Oh, yes she was, Yes. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:16.280 I know what ever real union she was? She was 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:17.680 a t T. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:22.560 I can't remember her her real name, that's the respectful 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:23.280 she's alleging. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.119 No, I know, I know what's her name? 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:26.600 I don't know. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:29.960 I can't think of it. Somebody remember her name? Okay, 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:34.520 I look, hey, not say her name, but you know 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:39.720 who also had a great run together justin Timberlake and Timberland. 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:47.160 They did crime around, Creamy, crimey crime, creamy, crimey. Oh 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.760 that was such a good song. Well I'm gonna listen 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.160 to that in a car because you know what we 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:56.920 have to talk about how justin Timberlake. It's everything that 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:02.240 Justin Bieber is just me because Justin Timberlake was like 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:05.240 the first Wiga. He was the first one that we're like, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.560 does he like black girls? And they we're like, oh, 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.720 false alarm. Same thing for Justin Temple. I mean Justin Bieber, 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:14.920 we were like, do he like a little chocolate in 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:22.279 that though? Do you think so? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:23.640 don't think that they don't like. 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:24.640 Like a little chocolate in that. 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.080 But we thought, you know, sometimes you think they gonna 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.400 end up with a black woman because dating a black 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.400 girl and like ending up with a black like just 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:34.279 the same thing for us. We'll date a little a 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.280 white man and we ain't gonna end up with one, 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.800 you know what I'm saying. So it's a difference. So 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:42.560 I think we at one point we all thought that, 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:45.520 you know, Justin was like, oh yeah, he got too much, 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:47.839 too much seasoning and that salt. 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:50.000 Do you think black women be fine but we just 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:54.080 be a headache. No, I don't know what they be saying. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:57.200 It's the streets say. I think the thing is is 0:04:57.279 --> 0:05:00.920 like to me, if you're the type of person that think, 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:03.200 oh a black woman is fine, but she's a headache, 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.480 you just a man that doesn't like to be challenged. 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.440 I think black women are so intelligent and we bring 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:13.080 issues to the table, we challenge that, and I think 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.320 to become a better person, you have to be challenged. 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.360 And if you don't want to be challenged, that means 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.360 you're okay with where you are in life and you're 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:21.320 okay with being stagnant, which is cool with me. But 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:24.400 as for me and mine, we're finna challenge each other 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:25.040 in upgrade. 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.120 So if you call that annoying, good for you. 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:30.480 But I'm finna go up over here where the challenges 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:34.000 are I like a little not annoying. You don't think 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.440 you can grow without being challenging. 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:38.200 In order to grow. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:43.000 It's a challenge because in your comfort zone, it's not challenging. 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.320 In order to grow, it's a challenge no matter what. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:48.880 That's how I personally feel like growing is not easy. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.719 It's easy to stay in this comfort zone. It's hard 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.560 to grow. So yeah, I think it's always going to 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:56.680 be a challenge when you're growing. So when you're surrounded 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:01.240 by people, even with a romantic my friend, my family, 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.159 I like to be around people who challenged me to 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:06.000 do more and push me to do more and think 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:06.960 outside the box. 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.000 And I was talking to one of my friends and 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.640 she was telling me, like she has like one of 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:14.440 her best friends is like Latino, and she was just 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:16.839 saying like, and she said she has like a few 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:19.200 other friends that are like of other races, and she 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:23.280 was just like, they just don't be as combative as 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.880 we are. Like she was like, including herself, she was like, like, 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:28.520 I feel like I'm very spicy, Like when it comes 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.720 to niggas. She was like, I feel like I'm very spicy. 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:33.119 I'm gonna give them in a run for his money, 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.000 Like you're just not about to play on my top, 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:37.960 Like They're like I always got something to say. I'm 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:40.560 a challenge thing. She was like my friends, she was like, 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:44.599 they just be like cool. They don't ever say anything cool. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:46.880 And she was like, but she but the reason I'm 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:48.479 asking it is because she was like, I feel like 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.080 men still change for them. She was like, and I 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:53.760 feel like they still challenge the men at they're daiy, 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.719 but just a different approach. She was like, I feel 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.599 like sometimes like as black women, we be a little abrasive. 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:01.400 And I was like really yeah, she was like you 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.640 she was like just being a person who has She 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:05.159 was like, do you have a lot of like friends 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:06.840 of other racism And I was like, no, I don't, 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:08.840 and she was like yeah. She was like, I have 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.840 like numerous friends of other races. She was like, and 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:13.920 it's just something that I've noticed. She was like, they 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:18.520 be getting me into like grow and change and challenge 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.000 them too. She was like, but I just think it's 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:21.520 in a different way. She was like, if anything, I 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:27.960 think like we be running niggas away, and I said, hmmm, interesting, Yeah, 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:29.840 there's an interesting perspective. 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:34.120 It's an interesting perspective. But you know, being with being somebody, 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:35.720 Like I said, I'm still friends with all my friends 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:40.160 from high school. It's probably and all of them. I 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.360 would say eighty percent of my friends, you know they've 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.680 gotten married, but also a lot of them are divorced 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:49.040 now single moms. I feel like, I don't think race 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:50.600 has nothing to do with it. It's just a person 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.920 that you're dealing with, man, woman, black, white. If you're 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.480 dealing with somebody who's willing to grow with you, they're 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.480 gonna grow with you, doesn't matter what your attitude is 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:01.040 or x y Z. So if you're dealing with the 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.040 right person, they're gonna do right by you, no matter 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:09.680 if you're aggressive or not. So I don't know, I 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.440 have to, like I said, I think I disagree with that, 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.480 but I don't know. Like I said, I always like 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.320 people who kind of stand on business and they're not 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.160 just go with the flow in order to keep a man, 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.400 because I'm not finna shut up just to keep a man. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.960 Then a lot of times when you go look at 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:30.880 the snapped episodes, it be a few episodes with us, 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:32.640 but go look at the most people that be on 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.360 there because they be quiet, but they be building that 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:40.000 shit up. So I'd rather deal with with a little 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:47.000 talking back than a blicky because it gets sticky. I agree, 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:49.400 I mean I disagree with that too. I think that. 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:53.040 What kind of relationship are you in if you can't 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.880 say how you feel? You know, why does it always 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:59.319 have to be a challenge or or combative? Wise, it 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:02.959 mean just not telling you my perspective, Like I'm just 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:05.240 giving you my perspective, I'm giving you my opinion. 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:06.199 I'm telling you. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:09.280 This is how I look at the situation, which might 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.520 be different from how you look at the situation. All 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.880 from a living place, though, But why does it have 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:15.960 to be combative? 0:09:16.240 --> 0:09:17.880 Disrespectful? 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:18.920 Aggressive? 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:23.120 And I think people just like to associate those words 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:26.880 with black women. And I think it's also very very 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:31.480 annoying and telling when other black women say that about it. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:36.439 Too, because I just be wondering, like, okay, so you 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.240 being an easygoing person, and even if some people are 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:40.840 naturally easy going though. 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:42.960 So this is not for the women who are easy going. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:45.079 But if you're trying to force yourself to be easy going, 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:50.000 where did that get you? Though? I think it gets 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:52.320 people somewhere. Not that I disagree with you. 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:54.760 I do think being easy going get people a lot 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:57.000 of places. But I also think because when you just 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:58.880 go with the flow and you don't have nothing to say, 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:00.840 I think a lot of the time it is easier 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:04.440 to get the things that you want temporarily or in 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:05.000 the moment. 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:06.160 I do think that. 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.040 Maybe even in the long term, I think it's easy 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:11.480 to get what you want, But I don't think you 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.679 will be happy in the long time, right, And I 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:15.280 guess that's what I mean. But I think some people 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:18.280 don't care about happiness. A lot of people care about 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.840 outer perception. They don't really care about, like actually being happy. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:23.760 I think a lot of people care more about what 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:27.240 shit looked like than like, as long as it look 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:30.080 good to everybody else, what they got going on in 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:33.400 they household, between them and the men they cool with dealing. 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:36.200 With all its long as it look good on the outside, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:36.480 you know. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:39.199 But I don't know. 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.959 I don't think black women are abrasive. I think weve been. 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:46.199 I think that we were raised by women for generations 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.640 who have been through a lot of bullshe so they 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:50.720 raised us to be prepared to deal for the to 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.280 deal with the bullshet. That's really how I feel about it. 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:55.160 I feel like my mama prepared me to be ready 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:59.559 to deal with whatever, like however it's coming, be ready 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.480 for this. And I feel like he was ready for 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:06.760 war from birth. Yes, but I feel like that's how 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:11.440 most of us was raised like and that's just something 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:14.360 that a lot of other like women of other racess 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:19.559 just will never understand gratefully, like luckily you will never 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:21.160 have to know the struggle, you know what I mean, 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:22.920 because I think we don't want to have to know 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:26.520 their struggle, but it's just our reality, right, And I 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:29.600 think people always take it as aggressiveness and abrasiveness, but 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.800 I think if you find the right men, you naturally 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:34.240 will fall into submission. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.480 But I also think I like men who like a 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:41.000 mean value my opinion and they want to hear me say, okay, 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:43.080 well what is your perspective on it? Because I know 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.080 I'm looking at it like this, what's your view on it? 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.560 I like that. I like somebody who I can have 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:51.680 intellectual conversations with and they value my opinion because a 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:54.880 lot of times the women in those situations they're dealing 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.240 with a man who doesn't value their opinion. So you 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.760 being easy going also goes with you don't have no 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:05.360 say so with nothing. So yeah, And I've always looked 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:07.520 at my life like when I'm in my last chapter, 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:11.000 I always looked at it like I was a boss, y'all, granddaddy, 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.480 your daddy, my husband, we was both bosses, and we 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.920 was making moves together, and we made things happen together, 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:17.840 you know. And there's nothing wrong with being like a 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.080 housewife or somebody, because that's a job in its own 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.560 as well. But I'm saying for me and what works. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.560 I like for my man to challenge me. I like 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:26.200 to challenge my man, and I like for us to 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:29.160 grow intellectually. And I like for a man when I 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:32.280 say something, he doesn't look at that, look at it 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.679 as me nagging, you know, vice versa. I don't want 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:37.520 if a man tells me, hey, you know what, when 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:39.000 you do this, it bothers me. I don't like it. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.160 I don't look at that as nagging. You know, we're 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:45.880 trying to grow and elevate and figure it out. But 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.840 I think it's a line though. It's definitely a line 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:53.120 now cause some some bitches do be nagging. Yeah, and 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.040 that's a and like we said, that's alright, said some nigga, 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:59.640 you think you'll be nagging for real, I'll be smiling 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:00.320 when I do it. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:01.320 So that's like, how you. 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.200 Not nagging with a smile? 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:05.160 Yeah? 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.800 Either? Why do you think you be nagging? Oh? Because 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:10.440 I ask for a lot, I'll be asking. 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:12.720 But do you give a lot? 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:17.600 Yeah? See, he gives more because I be like his Also, 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:21.079 I think that his give is more. What I need 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.439 from him a lot of times is physical stuff, Like 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.120 I just ordered a whole bunch of tools and stuff 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:29.400 so he can fix some bars for me. Yeah, when 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.160 he asking me for stuff, he just wanted me to 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.760 cook breakfast. Yea, yeah, you know what I mean. So 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:39.240 I'd be like, sometimes it's uneven, but daddy ryeah, so improved. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.400 But as long as you're stroking the ego and you 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.439 being appreciated. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:44.800 Look, I don't think that's nagging. 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:45.080 Though. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:48.600 When I think of nagging, I think of like somebody 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.800 who is always telling somebody what they ain't doing or 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:54.960 what they not good enough egg, or like you need 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.000 to be bitter in this area. You need to do 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:00.480 more for me. I'm unhappy. Like to me, that's what 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:01.000 I kind. 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.560 Of change who they are, like or. 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:07.280 You're just constantly complaining about what you're not getting. When 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:11.719 to me, if you're like so unhappy, you can go 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:14.800 find some news. But I think when I think of 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:17.160 like a nag, I think of somebody who is constantly 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:20.400 trying to change. Yeah, the person, right, if they're with, 0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:23.080 whether it's the man, the woman, whoever. But like you 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.760 just always complaining about this person, telling them what they're 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:28.880 not doing right, what you feel like you deserve. Oh, 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:30.760 you didn't do this right, you didn't do that right. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.760 I asked you to do this and you didn't do it, 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:33.640 whatever the. 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.800 Case may be. But like you could just go be 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:38.640 with somebody else at that point, yeah, at that point. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.440 But I want to go back to what you were saying, 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.280 because you were like, Oh, he does all this and 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:44.200 he just wanting me to cook breakfast. It may be 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.000 small to you, but it could be big to him 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:48.600 because he probably dated so many women who don't want 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.000 to get their ass up in the morning and cook breakfast. Yeah, 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.240 so it could be big to him. Yeah, and his 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.840 thing is like, I'm I'm going out, I have a job, 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:58.200 I'm bringing in money, I'm doing all these I take 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.320 you on these nice days, We're going on trips stuff. 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:03.360 So like, yeah, these are things, our simple asks. But 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:05.760 you know, when you're a pillow princess, you'd be wanting. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:08.680 I don't want to do that much. Okay, now I 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.920 feel yeah, not a nag. Maybe I don't think that's nagging. Yeah, 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:16.480 I don't think that's nagging either. Like I said, I 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:20.160 think that when you're in a good, healthy relationship, y'all 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:23.200 challenge each other to grow and to become better. And 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.520 so when you're with the white person, it makes sense. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.760 You know, it makes sense A little one two. But 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:35.119 we want to take the shot now? You want to wait? Sure? Sure? 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:41.560 All right? What we toasted to another good solo? Were 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:48.840 almost there? Jesus pete. It's one of twenty five. It 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:54.320 is crazy when I really think about it, Wow to 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:59.240 pass what we drinking? Gral dang. I was going back 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:01.000 and forth between what t call this one. I was 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.920 gonna call it the perfect pair like pe a R 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.480 because that's some pair, and oh I love the other 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.840 one was called sour Apple bitter bitch design fucking Willdom. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:15.000 That song was just in my head for so Hobby 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:16.880 can choose whenever he puts this up, you can choose 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:18.600 which one you want to go with. But this one 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:20.960 has we went a little bit light, but still fall 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:24.400 autumn style. We have whatever spirit of choice you like. 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:27.120 We have a little pear juice. We have some apple 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:29.920 schnops or some sour apple snops in there, so kind 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:33.240 of pairing that apple with the pear, kind of collaborating 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.800 on those. We have some caramel syrup and then a 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:37.440 little bit of lemon juice, and then we topped it 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:40.520 off with some sparkling champagne. So that's kind of what's 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:44.560 giving at that beautiful like off green color to it. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.160 And then we garnished it. I gotta look creative. We 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:50.920 did like a slice of pear. I drizzled some caramel 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:54.360 and then topped it with a few pomegranate seeds, so better. 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.960 I don't know where you got these pears from, but 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:59.840 the pears are they're really good. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:01.520 This is a really good drink. 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:05.320 Bartlet, Pears, Bartlett, this is real tasty. 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:07.520 Only bart I know is Simpson, but he wasn't doing 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:08.360 it like this. 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:10.359 When I used to work at the grocery store. We 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:11.840 used to sell a lot of Bartlet pears. 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:14.320 You know about a bartlet pair? You look like you 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.119 know about a bartlet paper. I used to cause the 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.880 grocery store I used to work at was very very bougie. Okay, 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.480 so let me ask you this. What's up, y'all? 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I never worked at a grocery store. 0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:22.600 So when we had to sell a drink or something, 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:24.600 we had to know everything about it. So I didn't 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.920 know if they had to. Y'all had to learn why 0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:28.639 the grapes taste like cotton candy? 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:32.240 No, no, we never have to learn it in our trainings. 0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:35.480 We just we always had to learn like the cold. Oh, 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:36.840 so y'all had to go like this so you know, 0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:41.440 Like yeah, so you know, like when you weigh your 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:44.879 fruit or whatever, it'll be like a po u code. 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:47.359 It'll be a pou cod that you gotta know. 0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:50.560 So like sometimes when they bring it to the register, 0:19:51.200 --> 0:19:54.720 it might not have the cold on the actual fruit, 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:56.199 so you need to know. You need to know how 0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:59.040 to look it up and weigh it by the pounds 0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.280 or whatever. So like that's the type of stuff we 0:20:01.280 --> 0:20:05.000 would learn in training. Okay, not how a great taste 0:20:05.080 --> 0:20:05.959 like cotton candy. 0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:08.679 I don't know, because I would. I would be the 0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:10.320 one that come up to the ractip like why does 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:13.480 taste like and I would be like, ma'am, google is free? 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:16.960 Probably were you? Was you a good employee? No? I 0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:18.360 was never a good employee. 0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:21.240 That's why I always say I probably will say that 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:24.080 like that's it's so crazy because back in the day 0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:26.320 I said this. I remember, like some years ago when 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:28.959 somebody had left the comedy was like Drea probably brags 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:33.440 about not being a good employee, bitch facts because everybody 0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:35.960 is not like I was not. I don't feel like 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:40.080 that was for me. I sucked at being like an employee. 0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:43.000 I feel like working for people to be cool, if 0:20:43.040 --> 0:20:45.920 you could get to like still be yourself. I feel 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:47.240 like the environments that I. 0:20:47.240 --> 0:20:49.320 Worked in, yeah, you have to be very like that 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:51.159 when I what to do with that fat ass booty, 0:20:55.200 --> 0:20:57.200 That's not what I was. I'm sorry. 0:20:57.560 --> 0:21:02.280 I just feel like the environment's like, for example, when 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:05.119 you work in certain environments, I feel like it is 0:21:06.080 --> 0:21:09.480 okay to be yourself, Like it's pushed to be able 0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:11.520 to still be your sivil, be your creative, still be 0:21:11.600 --> 0:21:11.920 who you. 0:21:11.880 --> 0:21:12.280 Want to be. 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:15.560 The environments that I worked in when I worked for 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:22.320 other people. I had to conform if that makes. 0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:24.160 Me, No, it didn't. But I wasn't being funny because 0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:26.520 that lady used to hate on you because you had 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:29.480 that fat ass. But they're all like jays. I don't 0:21:29.520 --> 0:21:31.480 think she was hating. Not to think she she was. 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:36.720 She's seen a battie and her panty. She's not battie 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:41.560 with a fatty. I'm telling showing her panty, I'm not. 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:44.240 I wasn't. No, I was being funny. But I'm telling 0:21:44.240 --> 0:21:47.399 you older women because this is what happened to me 0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:51.000 at my last job. When they see somebody that's young 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:54.399 and they see and they're you're smart, you ambitious, and 0:21:54.440 --> 0:21:57.040 they know they know you're not supposed to be here, 0:21:57.320 --> 0:21:59.679 and they know that they didn't probably misstate mark on 0:21:59.720 --> 0:22:01.960 what they they wanted to do and maybe follow their dreams. 0:22:02.320 --> 0:22:05.760 Because I told you, the lady was so mean to 0:22:05.800 --> 0:22:07.800 me when I was like, hey, I'm just trying to 0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:09.920 make ends meet. I need to go to the radio station. 0:22:10.000 --> 0:22:11.160 She was mad about it. 0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:12.919 But you know what's crazy, I think some of the 0:22:13.000 --> 0:22:16.399 people they was actually really doing what they wanted to 0:22:16.440 --> 0:22:18.119 do with their life. Like I feel like they was 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:20.800 cool with working where they were working. They just didn't 0:22:20.840 --> 0:22:24.800 want you to surpass them. At least that's how I 0:22:24.800 --> 0:22:26.640 feel when I worked in corporate America, Like, I don't 0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:28.800 think it was like, oh, you haven't reached your peak, 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:29.920 you haven't reached out potential. 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:32.000 You're gonna go on to do bigger things than me, 0:22:32.160 --> 0:22:33.119 So I'm hating on you. 0:22:33.480 --> 0:22:35.280 I think it's like, this is what I'm doing, this 0:22:35.320 --> 0:22:37.119 is what I'm gonna be doing till I die, and 0:22:37.160 --> 0:22:39.239 I be damned if you take my place, or if 0:22:39.240 --> 0:22:42.280 you surpassed me because you're younger and you come home. 0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:44.480 My god. That's really what I think it was. 0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:48.760 But again, I think that some people are okay with 0:22:48.880 --> 0:22:51.440 being in an environment where they're being told to do 0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:54.399 what to do all the time by other people and 0:22:54.480 --> 0:22:58.680 they can't be free thinkers or do what they want 0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:01.000 or have their own schedule or with their own schedule. 0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:03.440 That just wasn't for me. There's anything wrong with that, 0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:05.400 but it just didn't work for me. So I think 0:23:05.400 --> 0:23:07.280 I was never a good employee because I always used 0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:08.919 to be like, why the fuck I gotta listen to you? 0:23:09.200 --> 0:23:11.119 And why the fuck I gotta be here at these times. 0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:13.440 I remember when I used to work for that company. 0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:15.400 I mean, it don't matter. 0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:17.680 I used to work for a company called Regis. 0:23:17.320 --> 0:23:20.240 And we had an employee meeting one day and I 0:23:20.280 --> 0:23:24.159 remember the lady like she was over the regional She 0:23:24.240 --> 0:23:27.120 was like the regional manager, and she was like, yeah, 0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:29.080 because if you want to get to my position, and 0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:32.399 good luck because to get here and babahlah, and like 0:23:32.480 --> 0:23:36.080 I remember afterwards, everybody was doing like an interview afterwards 0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:37.800 because I kind of see how you felt about the job, 0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:39.639 how things were going. And she was like, okay, so 0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:41.000 how do you want to grow with the company. Where 0:23:41.000 --> 0:23:42.760 do you see yourself in five years with the company. 0:23:42.840 --> 0:23:44.560 I was like, oh, I don't see myself being here, 0:23:44.600 --> 0:23:46.000 like this is just temporary for me. 0:23:46.280 --> 0:23:48.560 And when I tell you she got you said yeah, 0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:49.639 I probably wouldn't have said it. 0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:50.840 I mean, but at the end of the day, she 0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:53.159 was asking what I got my degree in. 0:23:53.359 --> 0:23:55.920 I don't see you should say that it worked, but 0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.320 I tell you why, Actually I don't think I'm going 0:23:58.400 --> 0:23:58.800 to be here. 0:23:59.119 --> 0:24:01.560 I mean, but the the thing is, she was asking me, 0:24:01.720 --> 0:24:03.760 what did you get your degree in? Yeah? And I 0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:05.840 told her what I got my degree and she was like, okay, well, 0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:07.119 what do you want to do. I say, you know, 0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:09.960 I want to get into you know, like television. At 0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:12.399 that point, I didn't know we were doing the YouTube stuff, 0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:14.119 so it wasn't nothing serious. She's like, so, where do 0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:15.880 you see yourself in five years with the company? I said, 0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.000 if I'm being honest, you know, this is like a 0:24:18.000 --> 0:24:19.800 stepping stone, so I'm you. I mean, of course I 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:21.480 didn't say it like that, but I was like, I'm 0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:23.280 using this as a stepping stone so I can learn, 0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:25.439 you know, managing skills and this and that. You know, 0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:28.919 I'm fluffing it up. But at the same time, it's like, 0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:31.199 I don't want to be here, and then you just 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:33.560 sat in front of everybody and told us good luck 0:24:33.640 --> 0:24:35.760 to being where you want to be. And one thing 0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:37.879 I don't like. I don't like when people try to 0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:41.280 talk down on you, because like they feel like, oh, 0:24:41.320 --> 0:24:43.840 I'm up here and you work for me, and I'm 0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:46.960 the regional manager, but you not the CEO. And even 0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:48.480 if you are the CEO, you don't need to look 0:24:48.520 --> 0:24:50.840 down on anybody, like we all trying to figure this 0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:52.919 shit out. So it just kind of rubbed me the 0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:54.800 wrong way, and I was just kind of like I 0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:56.639 was serving it to her like she had tried to 0:24:56.680 --> 0:25:00.240 serve it to us. I love on hoes, talk down, Yeah, yeah, 0:25:00.280 --> 0:25:03.119 because I know she is. I know she probably like, 0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:05.520 look at that bitch, That's what I'm saying. 0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:07.720 So who cares? It's like you ricey. So I wasn't 0:25:07.760 --> 0:25:08.440 gonna make it there. 0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:11.520 Yeah. And then at my other job that I had, 0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:14.320 I actually had an opportunity to move up in the 0:25:14.359 --> 0:25:19.040 company after I left that company, and he wanted me 0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:21.840 to sign a contract that I was gonna be with 0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:24.160 the company for at least four years. 0:25:25.160 --> 0:25:27.399 I said, I can't do that. I can give you 0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:28.399 what you need right now. 0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:30.439 I can give you what you need right now, but 0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:33.080 I'm not signing a contract to be here for four years. 0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:35.359 And literally like a year and a half later, we 0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:37.879 had went on and you was a good employee. That 0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.399 was a great I am a great worker. But I 0:25:40.400 --> 0:25:42.639 think that's what makes me a great boss too. I 0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:44.600 think there's two sides of being a boss. There's somebody 0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:47.199 who like you are like the type of boss like 0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:52.560 you like being in control, You're organized, you're smart, You're 0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:54.280 very like, this is what I want and this is 0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:56.840 what I'm gonna execute. I'm on the other hand, I 0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:58.480 think that's why we work so well. On me the 0:25:58.480 --> 0:26:00.879 other end, I know how it feel like to be 0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:03.720 a great employee. I know what to look for because 0:26:03.800 --> 0:26:06.159 I know what I gave to the companies, and I 0:26:06.200 --> 0:26:08.520 think that's why it works so well. Because I'm very 0:26:08.560 --> 0:26:11.040 much gay. My no, I'm when I used. 0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:12.119 To work, I used to clock up. 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:15.840 Baby, Look, I was given my all. Let's rich, dude. 0:26:15.920 --> 0:26:17.200 I mean, well, how I met you? 0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:19.800 Well, we were working together at first, but then you 0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:21.400 became my boss. 0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:22.800 I mean because I'm not gonna lie. 0:26:22.760 --> 0:26:23.840 To the manager. 0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:27.440 Every club was like every I ain't gonna love this, yek, 0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:29.920 she'll take advantage. I used to be like, I used 0:26:29.920 --> 0:26:31.960 to take to like Lex, I'm gonna be thirty minutes late. 0:26:32.080 --> 0:26:34.199 I'll be like, I got you covered, y'all be just 0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:37.320 be on time and dravy walking in and they'd be like, well, 0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:38.560 why don't worry. 0:26:38.240 --> 0:26:41.320 About walking in with Chick fil a water Burger. 0:26:41.359 --> 0:26:43.679 And y'all know I love a little burger. She used 0:26:43.680 --> 0:26:46.080 to brother. I used to bring her food to brob 0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:48.639 me a little burger. But I say this though, I 0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:53.080 promise you I'm not kidding. Every single job I've ever 0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:54.880 had since I was sixteen years old. 0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:57.440 I promoted every time, every single. 0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:01.359 Time, every single time. I I don't know. I like 0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:04.880 to work. I thrive in the work environ. Really, I'm 0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:07.800 an overachiever. I am like when it comes to like 0:27:08.280 --> 0:27:10.000 I don't know what it is. I just like to 0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:12.879 be the best at everything, like I have to. I 0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:15.600 gotta show you. So I think that's where we differ 0:27:15.640 --> 0:27:17.639 at too, Cause like one thing about you, like you 0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:19.320 gonna start something. If you don't like you be like 0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:22.080 fuck it, I'm about to move on, and you gonna 0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:22.800 you know what I'm saying. 0:27:23.040 --> 0:27:26.639 I don't like wasting time, right, What wasted time is 0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:29.320 the worst thing in the world to me, Like when 0:27:29.320 --> 0:27:32.199 I think about myself as like an old person, the 0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:34.440 worst thing that I think of that's gonna like make 0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:36.399 me cringe and look back on my life and be 0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:38.280 so regretful is wasting. 0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:39.320 My time on anything. 0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:42.680 Money, all this stuff, Like none of that stuff matters 0:27:42.720 --> 0:27:44.320 that much to me because you can get all this 0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:45.680 like you can get money bag. 0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:47.360 Yeah you know what I mean. 0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:50.840 So I don't care so much about like losing money 0:27:50.880 --> 0:27:53.520 on like a bad investment or if something needn't work out. 0:27:53.880 --> 0:27:56.480 Even when people talk about stuff like, oh, you spend 0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:58.360 all this money on rent, or. 0:27:58.280 --> 0:27:59.840 You spend all this money on X, Y and Z, 0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:02.159 might as well buy a house money that I'm gonna 0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:05.119 get back right right, but I have a place to stay. 0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:06.439 One of my uncles taught me that. 0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:07.959 Though I was trying us to my uncle Mama, one 0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:10.240 of my mama brothers, he always taught me that. He 0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:12.880 was like, I never understood why people trip or care 0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:15.240 so much about spending money on stuff, and they'll try 0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:17.680 to make people feel bad about not owning something. Mind you, 0:28:17.960 --> 0:28:19.520 this is one of my uncle who one of my 0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:21.080 uncles who owned like three properties. 0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:24.280 But he was just like, buy shit when you're ready. 0:28:24.320 --> 0:28:26.440 He always told me that buy a house when you ready, 0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:28.399 Buy property when you're ready, because at the end of 0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:30.880 the day, as long as you have somewhere to lay 0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:33.000 your head, and if you not ready to take on 0:28:33.240 --> 0:28:36.320 all of the maintenance that it takes to have a home, 0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.800 whenever something breaks, you have to fix it. When you 0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:41.920 live in an apartment, the apartment got to fix it. 0:28:41.960 --> 0:28:44.920 That's part of your rent. Cause do what makes sense 0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:48.240 to you. Yeah, So I just feel like I don't know, 0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:50.800 like I think about money and all of those things 0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:52.240 as things wasted. 0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:54.440 I think about time all the time. 0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:56.720 So I think that's when why when I was younger, 0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.240 it was all and even now you're in realcation, it's 0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:02.160 so easy for me to be like fuck this shit, 0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:05.200 because if I say fuck it and then what I 0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:07.640 go do doesn't work out, I can go back to 0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:11.440 that or maybe not the exact same right right, obviously, 0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:14.320 but something similar like when I quit my corporate job. Okay, 0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.560 when I made the decision and took the risks to 0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:18.840 decide to move to Atlanta. So I would have moved 0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:20.640 to Atlanta and I stayed here for two years and 0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:22.320 shit didn't work out and I need to move back 0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:22.720 to Houston. 0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:23.640 I could have went back. 0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:26.360 And got another corporate job working in oil and gas 0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:29.640 because I already had a year and a half of experience. 0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:32.800 Yeah, you know what I mean. So I don't know. 0:29:32.840 --> 0:29:34.520 I think people just I think a lot of people 0:29:34.560 --> 0:29:36.440 do need to be more risk takers in life. Well, 0:29:36.520 --> 0:29:40.280 I think there's also characteristics to being like a boss, 0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:43.560 and I think people need to realize it's a cycle. 0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:47.360 We need bosses, right, we need CEOs, we need entrepreneurs, 0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:50.320 but we also do need you know, the working class. 0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:52.360 We need people who are good and like I said, 0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:55.280 I think that's why our balance is so well because 0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:57.640 we need people like you who are risk takers, who 0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:01.040 start things, who think outside the box, who take that risk. 0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:03.240 And then we also need people like me. 0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:06.560 I can work, I know how I'm gonna show up, 0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.600 I'm gonna do the job. But also on the end 0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:12.760 of me being an entrepreneur and a CEO, I have 0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:15.600 that experience of like, Okay, I understand the type of 0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:18.840 personality that we need for poor minds and what I'm 0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:19.800 what we're looking for. 0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:22.840 No, like you are more willing to take on task. 0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:25.240 I think me I'm the person. I'm more of the 0:30:25.240 --> 0:30:28.640 person where it's like I'm a creator. I create the idea, 0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:31.720 and I'm cool with like, Okay, this is the idea. 0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:34.040 I made enough money, not let me delegate them. 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That's l U M E D E 0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:06.280 O D O R A n T dot com. And 0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:08.760 when they ask, please support our show and tell them 0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:11.400 we sit you. Okay, I want to talk about Thanksgiving 0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:18.120 real quick. Thanksgiving, Dude, what dish does not belong at Thanksgiving? 0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:21.040 Because I have a dish. I think it's very strange 0:33:21.120 --> 0:33:23.480 when I show up to people's houses and they have this. 0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:27.400 I don't think it belongs on the table. I think 0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:29.560 that it's very weird when they have it. So y'all 0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:33.680 let me know if I'm wrong. Okay, I not hate. 0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:37.520 I think it's very strange when people cook mashed potatoes 0:33:37.760 --> 0:33:41.400 on Thanksgiving. I think mashed potatoes is very weird on Thanksgiving. 0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:42.240 I do. 0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:47.560 I just feel like Thanksgiving is like it's given, like 0:33:47.840 --> 0:33:51.560 dressing mac and cheese. Like I feel like mashed potatoes 0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:54.320 is such like a dish, like you normally eat mashed 0:33:54.320 --> 0:33:58.720 potatoes on a Tuesday night. I'm gonna take the advice 0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:03.240 the opinion anybody who eats green bean casserole with a 0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:07.240 green but that's Thanksgiving, that's green bean castrole is for 0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:13.479 thanks I eat green bean. It's good now and wait time, 0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:16.040 hold on exact. I'm on the side of TikTok. You 0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:19.560 know how if you watch one, you eat it, thank you. 0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:21.480 So let me tell y'all, I end up on the 0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:24.759 side of TikTok. So TikTok is in a frenzy. They're 0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:27.400 in a whole war right now. TikTok is in a 0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:31.000 war about how to cook the mac and cheese right now. 0:34:31.000 --> 0:34:33.399 So they're going back about the dishes and things like that. 0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:38.319 So the reason I'm bringing this green bean casserole, let 0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:41.560 me tell you these southern Southern women, they're showing people 0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:43.719 how to cook the green bean casserole. What is the 0:34:43.760 --> 0:34:48.160 southern Kimmy creations? That is not a Southern Southern she 0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:49.480 cooks Southern dishes. 0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:53.080 Maybe that lady is from New Jersey, from New York, Well, 0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:54.400 she cooks Southern dishes. 0:34:55.080 --> 0:34:58.279 You're just further approving my point. Let me not even 0:34:58.320 --> 0:34:59.960 lie I don't even know if I seen it was 0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:03.960 heard green bean castro, because it probably from I saved it. 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:05.960 It's somebody, it's some lady. I can't remember. 0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:09.480 I can assure you Southern people, it is not making green. 0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:12.480 Beans soon leaving the con I'm telling you Southern people 0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:15.400 that are Southern, they're they're cooking. But I say all 0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:18.319 that to say there is a war on TikTok. They 0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:20.040 cooking the green bean castle, but they're showing how to 0:35:20.120 --> 0:35:22.479 use it without the can of mushroom. They not using 0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:24.359 the can stuff. They're like, this is how you make 0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:27.880 it from scratch. I mean they are cutting up with 0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:31.360 the casseroles, with the mac and cheese. But back to 0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:34.640 the topic, I do not believe mashed potatoes is a 0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:38.120 Thanksgiving dish. I know, quick, it's too basic, and I 0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:41.480 feel like there's already too many starches. You're doing the dressing, 0:35:41.920 --> 0:35:44.760 you got the mac and cheese, you got the Hawaiian rolls, 0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:48.520 the biscits, so you don't need no What are we 0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:51.200 eating mashed potatoes a Thanksgiving? For real? Quick? 0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:55.960 Though, you right, Southern people do be making green bean casserole. 0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:58.920 But see, the problem is every time I've ever went 0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:01.680 to a Thanksgiving being, it be one scoop. 0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:01.719 Out of it. 0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:04.560 Oh see, not me, it be on the table like 0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:08.280 nobody eats it. Well, I've seen it at Thanksgiving dinners. 0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:11.120 No one ever eats it. I've never seen a whole 0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:14.440 pan of green bean casserole gone demolished. 0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:17.520 Never because you ain't been a Thanksgiving with me. Because 0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:20.759 if y'all going Thanksgiving with If y'all no, I do not, 0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:24.560 I'll be at Thanksgiving when my aunt ties bull and 0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.279 y'all be making it. Yeah, I mean, like I said, 0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:30.960 I think that's a maybe it's like a deep South, Okay, 0:36:31.239 --> 0:36:34.120 deep South thing. I've never seen it in the deep South, 0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:37.319 deep South thing. But I'm trying to find the lady 0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:39.160 that could because it wasn't Kimi kras But I think 0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:41.640 she did do a recipe, but because I saved it 0:36:41.680 --> 0:36:44.640 because I was like, ooh, I like that right now, 0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:46.840 and who would you gonna make it for? It is 0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:49.000 this lady. I'm sorry, I don't know where she's from. 0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:53.319 Tony Chapman on TikTok. I know I made a few 0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:56.640 of her recipes before she was making a green bean casserole. 0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:58.160 But she's like showing you how to do it, like 0:36:58.200 --> 0:37:02.480 for real, for real, I see her. She Latino though. 0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:05.399 Well she I don't know where she's from. I don't 0:37:05.400 --> 0:37:07.560 think where she's from. It's a lot of black people. 0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:13.760 No, she makes a lot of barm recipes. This man, y'all. 0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:16.960 With this making green bean casserole. 0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:23.480 Oh god. But but I will say exactly, green bean castrole. 0:37:23.480 --> 0:37:26.359 If you like it or not, green bean casserole could 0:37:26.360 --> 0:37:31.200 be but no, but I feel like green. No you eat. 0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:34.480 I eat green bean casserole once a year at Thanksgiving. 0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:36.400 But what I'm saying is, no matter what time of 0:37:36.440 --> 0:37:40.319 the year, mashed potatoes. I don't want mashed potatoes on 0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:43.520 my plate at Thanksgiving. I don't. I don't. I think 0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:48.080 it's weird with mashed potato, a little turkey and gravy. Yeah, 0:37:48.160 --> 0:37:50.600 I see that. I think this is maybe maybe it's 0:37:50.640 --> 0:37:53.440 just an orange thing or orange Texas thing, like we 0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:58.600 never cooked potatoes at Thanksgiving, Like when they be making 0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:01.200 the all grinding potatoes, that's the real white thing. I'll 0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:04.320 be saying. Because I like to deep diving. Would everybody 0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:06.319 be cooking? I like to see people because you know, 0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:07.760 people get mad around Thanksgiving. 0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:10.200 Why y'all posting y'all plates, we all eating the same thing. 0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:12.120 No, we're not well. 0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:14.759 I do hate when people post a plate because it 0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:17.600 looked nasty when all this sheep yeah on one plate 0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:23.560 mixed together, like, but people eat it. 0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:26.880 Don't don't post it though. Do y'all like cranberry sauce? 0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:28.759 I don't. 0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:33.160 You like cranberry sauce? Okay, y'all, you you know what 0:38:33.280 --> 0:38:36.640 it depends. My sister can make a cranberry sauce from scratch, 0:38:37.120 --> 0:38:41.359 change my life. Fresh cranberries. I don't like that. I 0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:44.000 don't like the ocean spray from the can come on 0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:49.760 from yeah too, sly, but let me there's certain things 0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.040 that if you try it from scratch, it might change 0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:55.319 your life. My sister, she my sister knows how to 0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:58.359 really cook. She's a baker too. Them biscuits, I don't 0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:02.120 pay my own biscuits. Shout out to she makes. It's 0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:06.800 just different. It's a biscuit, you know. I just I 0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:09.960 don't know my perfect Thanksgiving play. Come on, give it 0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:10.279 to us. 0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:16.040 It's dressing, dirty rice, dressing, dirty rice, mac and cheese, 0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:19.479 collar green or Cabby come on. 0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:21.759 Up or both of them. Let's get it. 0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:27.839 A Hawaiian row. Come on, little cornbread. Maybe where are 0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:28.279 you from? 0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:30.760 Yeah? Yeah, yeah, depending on what you like to dabble 0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:35.720 in yams? Can I get your day yams sweat? 0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:39.200 Yeah you won't and in a little in a little 0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:40.840 turkey or. 0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:46.879 A turkey wing or I'm not mad at that, or. 0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:50.000 You know I'm from Texas. I talked about these recently. 0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:53.640 Little brisky Yeah, come on, Drea, they're not ready for 0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:57.560 that little brisket. In Texas, we be having barbecue for things. Yeah, 0:39:57.600 --> 0:39:58.840 a little brisky, little rib. 0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:02.319 What's what's on your plate? What's on your plate? 0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:04.840 I don't want no ham. My palette has changed, like 0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:06.840 as I've become more of an adult. So like my 0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:09.480 aunt here, she'll make a seafood dressing. 0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:13.120 I'm like, oh my god, my sister makes the best seafood. 0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:15.640 I never had that until I moved here. If she 0:40:15.680 --> 0:40:19.560 put crawfish and shrimping hers crabs, she put lobster, she 0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:23.239 puts shrimp, it's gonna change your life. Gotta have macaroni. 0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:27.400 I like corn, and now I like honey roasted carrots. 0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:32.520 Those are really my kind. Make candy am cassero with 0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:34.960 the marshmallows. So I like that more than I like 0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:39.719 the yams. 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New Year's parties? 0:43:02.160 --> 0:43:03.040 Do y'all believe? 0:43:03.360 --> 0:43:07.160 Like, if you're hosting an event and you invite people, 0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:08.200 is it. 0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:11.960 Okay to like say, hey, just zell cash at me 0:43:12.000 --> 0:43:15.000 fifty dollars if you're coming so I can provide everything 0:43:15.000 --> 0:43:15.480 for everybody? 0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:18.279 Paying a fee for friends giving paying a fee for. 0:43:18.400 --> 0:43:20.640 A holiday party? How do y'all feel about that? Who 0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:26.680 asked you to have it? No, I'm saying I'm asking you, 0:43:27.000 --> 0:43:29.840 I'm this ain't a situation. I'm not asking you that 0:43:29.960 --> 0:43:30.560 you in it. 0:43:30.600 --> 0:43:33.000 I'm saying, who asked you to. 0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:35.560 Have the party? Oh? Like, who told you. 0:43:35.520 --> 0:43:35.960 To do this? 0:43:36.280 --> 0:43:41.000 If you can't afford to do it? That's fair? I 0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:42.840 think you a little broke or I'm gonna be like 0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:45.280 to see you need some money? Do you need some money? 0:43:45.360 --> 0:43:49.400 Do you need some money? What's that from? What's that movie? 0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:52.400 No money? 0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:53.600 Best man? 0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:55.919 Do you need some money for real? 0:43:56.080 --> 0:43:59.799 Because like to throw a party that you want to 0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:03.640 throw and then you want people to pay you to 0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:06.200 to the party or send them I just think that's 0:44:06.200 --> 0:44:07.040 a little tachy. 0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:15.880 Like Now, I do think as an upstanding citizen, you 0:44:16.000 --> 0:44:16.879 should Yeah. 0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:20.160 I think as an upstanding citizen, yeah, you should not 0:44:20.239 --> 0:44:21.880 go to somebody house empty handed. 0:44:22.040 --> 0:44:24.359 I was raised that way. I think that if you're 0:44:24.360 --> 0:44:26.360 gonna go to somebody house, you need to. 0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:30.239 Bring a little bottle. Bring a bottle, you can bring 0:44:30.239 --> 0:44:32.200 a little painting, you can bring a little cake, a 0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:34.160 little cake from public something. 0:44:34.520 --> 0:44:35.719 You can bring something. 0:44:36.920 --> 0:44:41.880 But like me as the host putting that in the invitation, 0:44:42.160 --> 0:44:45.839 like hey, cash at me fifty dollars, But you could 0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:48.120 have just stopped through the party because we would have 0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:49.800 been okay, we could have went somewhere else. 0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:54.160 So this is how I feel. I am agreeing with 0:44:54.520 --> 0:44:58.360 event on this. I think instead of asking people to 0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:02.600 send money, you who would be better off having a 0:45:02.640 --> 0:45:05.759 pot luck. But the thing about a pot luck. I 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:08.120 don't trust y'all. I do you have a cat in 0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:09.560 your home? Do you have a cat? Do you have 0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:11.600 a dog? Do you have a snail? Do you have 0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:14.080 a man? We know niggas don't wash their hands. Do 0:45:14.160 --> 0:45:17.799 you wash? Do you wash your hands? No? Thank you? 0:45:18.000 --> 0:45:21.720 So that's the thing that's the risk with the pot luck, 0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:24.759 you know what I'm saying. Luckily for me, like if 0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:29.960 I threw a potluck with like you Jazz Lauren Killer, like, 0:45:30.040 --> 0:45:32.080 I could trust a potlug, but it would only be like, 0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:34.360 it's only gonna be about three fox dishes because I. 0:45:34.320 --> 0:45:35.600 Don't have that many friends. 0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:38.040 But usually when people are having a friends giving or 0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:40.320 a holiday party, it's a lot of people. 0:45:41.920 --> 0:45:43.319 So I think of it like this. 0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:48.200 It could work either way, but I think you should 0:45:48.239 --> 0:45:51.439 ask people beforehand. How do you feel do you want 0:45:51.440 --> 0:45:54.160 to like contribute throw something in the pot or would 0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:56.759 you rather bring a dish or bring something? I think 0:45:56.760 --> 0:46:02.320 it's good to give people the option, you know, no 0:46:02.320 --> 0:46:02.759 no option? 0:46:02.840 --> 0:46:03.680 How do you feel tied? 0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:07.000 I'm in the middle, so yeah, me and my friends. 0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:09.239 I trust my friends though, yeah, they hands be I 0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.360 know I've been to their homes, so we'll do a 0:46:11.480 --> 0:46:13.799 friends giving Pollock. We do it every year and we 0:46:13.880 --> 0:46:16.600 just have those sign up sheet. People do their best, Yes, 0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:20.960 do your bed, but your best then yeah. But again, 0:46:21.239 --> 0:46:24.839 if you're just throwing this event and then asking people, 0:46:24.880 --> 0:46:29.160 that does seem a little off putting. I wouldn't do that. 0:46:30.000 --> 0:46:31.799 But if we decide as a group we're gonna do this, 0:46:31.960 --> 0:46:33.880 and then it's decided it's gonna be at my house, 0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:36.640 then yeah, everybody can contribute financial And that's what I 0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:37.440 think it should be like. 0:46:37.440 --> 0:46:41.800 It should be like you're trying to get you and 0:46:41.920 --> 0:46:44.239 bach don't be asking me, don't be using me. 0:46:45.920 --> 0:46:48.359 I think I think I kind of like, I don't 0:46:48.440 --> 0:46:50.320 like it. I agree with Tod. I think it should 0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:52.560 be like a group conversation what y'all want to do? 0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:54.200 Do y'all want to do a potluck style? 0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:56.400 Or do y'all want me to do everything? Because I 0:46:56.600 --> 0:46:57.640 honestly I feel like this. 0:46:58.280 --> 0:47:00.799 If you want people to contribute, let me go to 0:47:00.840 --> 0:47:04.040 the grocery store. I'll show y'all the total. Let's blest 0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:06.920 it down like that. Yeah that's fair. That would be 0:47:06.960 --> 0:47:11.680 the you know what I'm saying, Because the grocery is expensive, 0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:15.520 but you ain't finna charge me no thirty dollars for 0:47:15.640 --> 0:47:19.960 no grains and Tarkt negs man. So I think there's 0:47:20.000 --> 0:47:21.319 just a way to go about it. And I think 0:47:21.360 --> 0:47:23.960 it depends like why would I pay you thirty dollars 0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:26.920 when I could just go to DC's. This is it, 0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:31.640 It's blessing. No, we're talking about that. This is in 0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:37.280 Houstons or Mickey's in Houston. Ooh, Mickey's is life changing? 0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:40.560 It is? Or let me tell you about Mickey's. 0:47:40.560 --> 0:47:40.920 They got that? 0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:42.319 Oh my god? 0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:43.120 What did I eat there? 0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:45.400 Would I give you? It was like some rice and 0:47:45.560 --> 0:47:49.799 gravy with a not the hamburger. Maybe it was a 0:47:49.800 --> 0:47:51.960 little hamburger steak that she had made. I don't know 0:47:52.000 --> 0:47:54.960 what it was, some kind of steak. Mickey's gonna change 0:47:54.960 --> 0:47:57.880 your life if you were in Houston that mac and 0:47:57.960 --> 0:48:00.960 cheese Micky's be bussy, yeahs be busting. 0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:03.040 I would rather you just ask me for some money, 0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:05.600 because I'm gonna ask you anyways. If you seen me 0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:10.319 the Tigs, some be like you need the whole song. 0:48:11.440 --> 0:48:14.560 Okay, okay, but let me ask all. This is because I 0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:17.160 know we talked about this a little bit before the 0:48:17.200 --> 0:48:19.920 War on TikTok right now is do you make a 0:48:20.040 --> 0:48:21.880 root for your mac and cheese or do you not? 0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:25.040 And then you use the egg cause they're saying that 0:48:25.120 --> 0:48:29.080 the old school mac and cheese warriors, they use the 0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:32.560 egg in it to keep it. It's a binder so 0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:35.440 it doesn't separate. And that's how the old school. So 0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:38.719 the older ladies on TikTok, the older women, they're like, 0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:42.680 you use the egg, and then the new school because 0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:45.200 you know, Teeni's mac and cheese has been a thing 0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:48.120 on TikTok for like two years. Right now, I've personally 0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:52.120 made teenies mac and cheese. It's busting now. 0:48:52.600 --> 0:48:52.920 Huh. 0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:55.560 That's what the root, that's what the root. Now my 0:48:55.680 --> 0:48:58.239 mom's recipe, y'all. Let me tell you all about my 0:48:58.239 --> 0:49:01.640 mom's recipe. Every so when my sister started day when 0:49:01.640 --> 0:49:04.880 my sister was with her first child's father and we 0:49:04.920 --> 0:49:07.719 suspend Thanksgiving together, and I don't care if any y'all 0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:09.759 watching right now call me a liar, strike me down 0:49:09.800 --> 0:49:12.440 right now. Every my mom would bring a pan, and 0:49:12.480 --> 0:49:14.720 I don't know who on his side of the pan family 0:49:14.719 --> 0:49:15.399 would bring a pan. 0:49:15.800 --> 0:49:17.440 My mom's pen would be gone. 0:49:18.640 --> 0:49:20.640 I literally have friends and I'm not even friends. I'm 0:49:20.640 --> 0:49:23.080 wanna be like, damn, you got your mama recipe? And 0:49:23.120 --> 0:49:26.200 I do have the recipe? I asked my sister the 0:49:26.239 --> 0:49:27.840 other day when the war was gone. I said, Jazz, 0:49:27.960 --> 0:49:29.680 do you have Mom's recipe? I was like, because I 0:49:29.680 --> 0:49:31.279 know she emailed it to me a long time ago. 0:49:31.719 --> 0:49:32.920 She sent me that recipe. 0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:35.800 It had an egg in it, It had an egg 0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:39.800 in it. It did it did, And I was like, 0:49:39.880 --> 0:49:41.839 damn because I like I said, I made teenies mac 0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:43.960 and cheese, and then I had my mom's mac and cheese. 0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:50.160 Was oh my god, life changing. So do y'all put 0:49:50.200 --> 0:49:53.439 egg in y'all mac and cheese? Do you do a root? 0:49:53.680 --> 0:49:55.480 I do it? You do the root? 0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:56.880 But I'm a roote girl. 0:49:57.160 --> 0:50:00.319 The egg, I think egg is the old older woman thing. 0:50:00.520 --> 0:50:03.480 But my mama older, she don't use an egg. No, 0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:06.160 we knew a room. Yeah, but my mama used a 0:50:06.239 --> 0:50:06.960 roof for everything. 0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:09.880 Like my mama is really an old school yeah, cooking 0:50:09.960 --> 0:50:14.040 everything from scratch mother, yeah, like everything. I mean, you 0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:16.839 could definitely use an egg in the mac and cheese, 0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:19.280 but she just didn't use one, like it's the old 0:50:19.280 --> 0:50:22.040 school rule. But Ma Mama used a roof for everything. 0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:24.360 She u was a root for mac and cheese. She 0:50:24.560 --> 0:50:28.600 used a roof for banana pudding. Bit should be using 0:50:28.680 --> 0:50:31.799 that instant box pudding. I don't know nothing about that. 0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:34.080 I come from the school of the double boiler. 0:50:34.440 --> 0:50:37.240 Okay, now with a flower, let's go, and the sugar 0:50:38.120 --> 0:50:40.480 extra in the milk, they're up stirring it for like 0:50:40.520 --> 0:50:45.279 twenty minutes, you know. But I digree. But yeah, like 0:50:46.680 --> 0:50:50.160 a room, okay, a room, no egg. I'm not gonna lie. 0:50:50.160 --> 0:50:54.000 At first, I was all like road. But when my 0:50:54.040 --> 0:50:55.840 sister sent me that recipe because I knew, I was like, 0:50:55.880 --> 0:50:57.960 I know, my mama used the room, I said, I know. 0:50:58.120 --> 0:51:00.280 When she said me, I said, oh my god, Mama 0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:02.800 use the egg. She was an egg girl. 0:51:03.600 --> 0:51:05.120 And when I tell you, she had the best smack 0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:05.520 and cheese. 0:51:05.560 --> 0:51:07.960 So I just think it's a it's a preference thing 0:51:08.200 --> 0:51:11.200 because it's all about the cook though, it's all about 0:51:11.719 --> 0:51:14.319 your hands. And I don't know, I don't care what 0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:17.799 y'all say. An older Southern woman can always cook for me. 0:51:17.960 --> 0:51:21.560 And I don't trust nobody who used glory greens. 0:51:22.160 --> 0:51:26.680 That's the ones in the can. Yeah, I cannot believe 0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:31.560 anybody who used glory, glory greens. I can't don't even 0:51:31.560 --> 0:51:33.719 because you got your tongue. Don't even want to spray. 0:51:33.520 --> 0:51:34.239 It, can't even. 0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:38.359 I couldn't even get it out. Disgusted, the lord said, 0:51:38.360 --> 0:51:48.120 I rebuked it because fresh greens. See. Okay, bye bye shay. 0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:54.960 So let us be line with glory you do. 0:51:56.000 --> 0:51:56.880 I'm not gonna lie. 0:51:56.800 --> 0:52:01.279 Greens because we know we ain't going. 0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.080 Greens are actually probably one of the easiest things to cook. 0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:06.759 The hardest thing about greens is cleaning and cleaning them. 0:52:06.920 --> 0:52:09.680 You gotta clean them for a long time. It takes literally, 0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:11.759 my mama used to clean greens for. 0:52:11.800 --> 0:52:15.479 Hours and hours and hours getting the bugs out. 0:52:16.200 --> 0:52:17.400 Yeah, so let me know. 0:52:17.480 --> 0:52:19.960 Do y'all believe in paying a fee for a holiday party? 0:52:20.480 --> 0:52:23.960 Friends giving? Do you think mashed potatoes belong? Are you 0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:26.000 asking me to pay a fee to come to a party? 0:52:26.040 --> 0:52:27.399 You not come? You are not my friend? 0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:28.000 You're not coming. 0:52:28.280 --> 0:52:31.480 We ain't friend. Okay, you ain't my friend. 0:52:33.239 --> 0:52:34.080 In me? 0:52:35.200 --> 0:52:37.080 You do want to have shamal on the co of course, 0:52:37.320 --> 0:52:40.120 chamar a we waiting on you. She ain't my friend though, 0:52:40.160 --> 0:52:44.720 that ain't it's not given friendship. Okay, come ahead with topic, 0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:52.360 all right, what's up y'all? Is your girl lexp Andy Schagarls. 0:52:51.920 --> 0:52:56.400 Are in the cold, Clayton, English, Louis Belt just money 0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:58.800 bag bo. Listen, if you're trying to book us. 0:52:58.880 --> 0:53:02.000 For your event, hosting, comedy show, whatever you got going on, 0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:04.600 let's keep it real professional, no flying in my DM. 0:53:04.880 --> 0:53:07.399 Well I'm not gonna say that. That's what they want 0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:09.960 me to say. 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We 0:54:36.280 --> 0:54:37.080 gonna figure it out. 0:54:37.440 --> 0:54:41.120 Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make 0:54:41.160 --> 0:54:41.720 you some money. 0:54:42.719 --> 0:54:44.880 We love to support a small business man. 0:54:44.800 --> 0:54:47.359 And a black business said that, but I. 0:54:47.320 --> 0:54:52.480 Mean on a scrimma dad, any businesses welcome. 0:54:52.640 --> 0:54:52.960 First. 0:54:53.040 --> 0:54:56.279 I mean for the second topic, I wanted to talk 0:54:56.280 --> 0:55:01.360 about being on your phone during the day or just 0:55:01.760 --> 0:55:06.240 being addicted to your phone in general. MM, I think 0:55:06.320 --> 0:55:08.720 that we live in an era where so many people 0:55:08.760 --> 0:55:10.720 are addicted to be in on they phones, Like people 0:55:10.760 --> 0:55:12.520 cannot not check they phone for. 0:55:14.880 --> 0:55:16.279 I was gonna say an hour, but. 0:55:16.200 --> 0:55:18.560 Honestly, even like fifteen minutes. Most of them can't check 0:55:18.560 --> 0:55:21.120 their phone for fifteen minutes. You gotta check, you gotta 0:55:21.160 --> 0:55:23.520 see what's going on. And I think that's the problem. 0:55:23.600 --> 0:55:26.360 I think it is really causing a divide when it 0:55:26.400 --> 0:55:29.960 comes to communication, like when it comes to really getting 0:55:29.960 --> 0:55:32.600 to know people. If you cannot sit at a table 0:55:33.080 --> 0:55:35.000 and talk to your peers and talk to the people 0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:37.520 at the table around you for a good thirty minutes 0:55:37.520 --> 0:55:39.440 without looking on your phone and having to interact with 0:55:39.480 --> 0:55:43.160 somebody on your phone via text message, via Instagram, Twitter, 0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:46.600 or whatever, I think that's the problem. 0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:47.200 I agree. 0:55:47.360 --> 0:55:48.759 And I know y'all don't talk about me cause I 0:55:48.800 --> 0:55:50.279 just had my phone up, but I be using my 0:55:50.320 --> 0:55:52.160 phone for my time or to see what's time we on. 0:55:53.400 --> 0:55:56.800 Let me tell you something, I am such a sucker 0:55:57.320 --> 0:56:01.920 for a deep conversation. I don't care if you're my friend, 0:56:02.239 --> 0:56:07.799 my lover, my employee, my boss, whoever. I just love 0:56:07.800 --> 0:56:13.440 a good conversation and nothing drives the COUCHI up, Like, 0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:18.000 if I'm sitting there, we got oysters on the table, espresso, 0:56:18.160 --> 0:56:21.920 Martini's flowing. You know what I'm saying, I'm feeling good, and. 0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:30.000 Then you just be like what what, Like it's such 0:56:30.000 --> 0:56:33.200 a vibe killer. It is such a vibe kill. 0:56:33.280 --> 0:56:35.520 I think that is so like even if we're if nothing, 0:56:36.080 --> 0:56:39.239 I'm a person to silence isn't awkward to me. So 0:56:39.320 --> 0:56:40.839 if we're sitting at the table and like maybe we're 0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:44.560 in between conversations or we're eating, I'm still not gonna 0:56:44.560 --> 0:56:46.160 pick up my phone. 0:56:46.360 --> 0:56:48.279 But I just think it's awkward to me if we 0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:49.759 just sitting there looking at each other. 0:56:50.480 --> 0:56:52.279 But it is also somebody I'm talking about, Like if 0:56:52.280 --> 0:56:54.000 I'm comfortable with you, Like if me and you are 0:56:54.040 --> 0:56:56.840 at dinner, I'm not gonna feel awkward if me and 0:56:56.920 --> 0:56:58.800 you are at dinner and we're like not talking because 0:56:58.800 --> 0:57:01.719 you know me, right, But a first day, oh yeah, 0:57:01.760 --> 0:57:04.120 first day is a little awkward. But honestly, I might 0:57:04.160 --> 0:57:11.839 be like, so that's like a comfort thing then, I. 0:57:11.760 --> 0:57:14.520 Mean, because if I don't know you, if our first 0:57:14.640 --> 0:57:18.160 encounter and now we're having like this awkward silence, we 0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:19.360 are not talking about another to. 0:57:19.360 --> 0:57:21.040 For teen minutes. I'm go'n just be like, well, let 0:57:21.080 --> 0:57:24.080 me see what's going I think for me, if I'm 0:57:24.120 --> 0:57:26.400 on a first date and it's like if it does 0:57:26.480 --> 0:57:28.720 feel awkward that we're not talking, because obviously that is 0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:32.040 gonna be awkward for silent it's a first date, I'm 0:57:32.080 --> 0:57:34.800 just gonna like sit there and I'm gonna make sure 0:57:34.840 --> 0:57:37.240 you know, like, hey, spark up a conversational. I'm gonna 0:57:37.240 --> 0:57:39.400 start a coming. What are you gonna say? I'm'd be 0:57:39.440 --> 0:57:42.320 like I would say something. I'm gonna say something because 0:57:42.360 --> 0:57:44.240 I feel like, what's a good example. We just sitting 0:57:44.280 --> 0:57:48.680 there like these So I'm saying, okay, so what you 0:57:48.680 --> 0:57:52.960 got played? What you got playing for tomorrow? What you 0:57:53.000 --> 0:58:02.080 got playing for tomorrow? What if I'm like nothing, okay? 0:58:02.680 --> 0:58:06.640 I mean, well I'm having a good time. Do you 0:58:06.840 --> 0:58:12.800 like your a two faith ho Adney? It's cool? Mm hmmm. 0:58:13.800 --> 0:58:15.560 Well I'm gonna get enough drink. You want another drink 0:58:15.560 --> 0:58:20.040 because I'm gonna get lead. You'm trying to take them 0:58:20.080 --> 0:58:29.000 pennies off man, check please check please, because what you're 0:58:29.000 --> 0:58:30.960 trying to take another shot? I'm with you too, But 0:58:31.040 --> 0:58:32.280 what we about to do after they. 0:58:33.080 --> 0:58:42.280 See hobby you aren't too Harry. Oh my god, I 0:58:42.520 --> 0:58:43.439 was playing. 0:58:44.000 --> 0:58:48.000 So much stuff to talk about life? So what you so? 0:58:48.080 --> 0:58:49.920 What you're trying to do? I mean, I don't know. 0:58:49.960 --> 0:58:51.640 I just feel like, let's go with a night leading 0:58:53.600 --> 0:59:00.880 boy song. I'm ready? So what you got playing for tomorrow? 0:59:01.600 --> 0:59:05.280 I don't know what you're trying to do? I mean, 0:59:05.320 --> 0:59:07.320 I don't know you wanna is this you asked me 0:59:07.360 --> 0:59:11.040 on a second date already we even finished the first date. 0:59:11.680 --> 0:59:13.720 I mean we can go on the second day. But 0:59:15.280 --> 0:59:17.680 I'm just trying to figure out what you trying to 0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:20.680 do tonight. I mean, I feel like we're having a 0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:22.880 good dinner. Are you having a good time? Who said 0:59:22.920 --> 0:59:25.120 it was good? You know? Like you don't like the food? 0:59:25.760 --> 0:59:28.480 So why you said me here? Now we find to 0:59:28.600 --> 0:59:33.680 argue batch you see the food? Cool? But who is 0:59:33.720 --> 0:59:37.520 you calling the bitch? Why are you stud like your eggs? 0:59:39.800 --> 0:59:46.160 I can't take this. I can't who is calling to be? 0:59:48.440 --> 0:59:53.880 Who are calling to be? But no, okay, I do 0:59:53.960 --> 0:59:56.760 feel like it's so many things to talk about and do, 0:59:56.920 --> 1:00:00.560 so if I grab my phone on the date, it's 1:00:00.600 --> 1:00:01.720 like a last resort. 1:00:01.880 --> 1:00:02.800 I'm checked out. 1:00:02.840 --> 1:00:05.600 What if you grab your phone? What if you grab 1:00:05.680 --> 1:00:16.040 your phone? What if you like I'm acting. I've had 1:00:16.040 --> 1:00:17.160 somebody do that to me before. 1:00:17.840 --> 1:00:20.600 Why are you looking at your phone? You don't want 1:00:20.600 --> 1:00:22.440 to talk to me, don't be weird. You me have 1:00:22.560 --> 1:00:25.320 my phone now now I'm fitting killed the vibe because 1:00:25.320 --> 1:00:27.959 I've had somebody do that to me before. Weird because 1:00:28.000 --> 1:00:30.000 why would you grab your phone because you ain't talking 1:00:30.000 --> 1:00:36.520 about ship? Hold adding no, But I, like I said, 1:00:36.680 --> 1:00:39.240 I never grab my phone on a day because I 1:00:39.360 --> 1:00:41.479 like having conversation. You're never going to make me feel 1:00:41.480 --> 1:00:45.520 awkward until it's just like if you're giving me if 1:00:45.520 --> 1:00:47.520 I'm asking you a question, obviously I'm trying to have 1:00:47.560 --> 1:00:49.360 a conversation with you. But if you're giving me close 1:00:49.520 --> 1:00:51.800 ended answers, that makes me feel like you're just not 1:00:52.000 --> 1:00:56.520 interested or you're not interesting. So I don't know. I 1:00:56.560 --> 1:00:58.200 think it's very rude to be on a day. I 1:00:58.240 --> 1:00:59.720 don't care if this is the first day or the 1:00:59.720 --> 1:01:04.720 five hundredth date. Get off your phone, Let's disconnect, and 1:01:04.800 --> 1:01:08.480 let's be in this world together. Let's enjoy this moment. 1:01:08.760 --> 1:01:10.680 And that'd be the problem with folks. Folks are really 1:01:10.720 --> 1:01:12.320 addicted to their phones, and they don't know it. 1:01:12.840 --> 1:01:15.680 Yeah, I was just talking to one of my friends 1:01:15.720 --> 1:01:17.960 about this the other day. I just downloaded this app 1:01:17.960 --> 1:01:20.040 on my phone and I have it to where it 1:01:20.120 --> 1:01:22.680 like locks me out of all of my social media apps. 1:01:22.720 --> 1:01:25.400 Ooh, so like you don't have to give me that. 1:01:25.720 --> 1:01:27.680 Yeah, don't say to nine because I ain't paid us. 1:01:27.880 --> 1:01:31.200 No, I wasn't gonna say it, no wayig because you worried. 1:01:31.840 --> 1:01:36.520 But at you could set it to whatever time frame 1:01:36.560 --> 1:01:39.760 you on the city too, So I said mine from 1:01:39.880 --> 1:01:42.320 ten at ten thirty at night, it locks me out 1:01:42.320 --> 1:01:44.720 of all of the social all of my social media apps. 1:01:44.760 --> 1:01:46.800 But I mean, really, you could choose any apps on 1:01:46.840 --> 1:01:47.560 your phone. 1:01:47.640 --> 1:01:49.320 But I have it to where it locks me out 1:01:49.360 --> 1:01:51.120 of all of my social media apps from ten thirty 1:01:51.160 --> 1:01:52.640 at night to nine thirty in the morning. 1:01:52.720 --> 1:01:53.400 I need that. 1:01:54.400 --> 1:01:58.080 So normally I just naturally wake up around like seven 1:01:58.120 --> 1:02:04.160 o'clock every morning anyways. So I like that because by 1:02:04.360 --> 1:02:07.160 nine thirty I've done my whole morning routine. Yeah, I've 1:02:07.200 --> 1:02:09.840 done pretty much everything I need to do except for 1:02:09.920 --> 1:02:12.200 go to the gym, but everything else, like as far 1:02:12.240 --> 1:02:17.360 as like prayer, meditation, writing in my journal, reading my Bible. 1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:18.400 Stretching all of that stuff. 1:02:18.480 --> 1:02:22.000 Washing that ass, Well, I'm not gonna wash my ass 1:02:22.000 --> 1:02:23.160 before I go to the gym. 1:02:23.840 --> 1:02:24.440 Some people do. 1:02:24.560 --> 1:02:27.520 I'm gonna have to wash it again in the morning, 1:02:27.760 --> 1:02:29.920 like when first thing you wake up, you didn't take 1:02:29.960 --> 1:02:30.720 a bathdat night. 1:02:31.000 --> 1:02:33.280 Sometimes people don't. 1:02:33.840 --> 1:02:37.120 That ain't my problem, that's not my testimony, period, but 1:02:37.960 --> 1:02:40.600 speak on it. Yeah, So I have it to wear 1:02:40.800 --> 1:02:43.320 from ten thirty at night to nine thirty in the morning. 1:02:43.920 --> 1:02:46.920 And then I love that because I suffer from insomnia. 1:02:47.000 --> 1:02:48.200 Oh my god, me too. 1:02:48.520 --> 1:02:50.720 I suffer from insomnia. So I feel like it's been 1:02:50.760 --> 1:02:53.840 helping me with my insomnia. Because one of the main 1:02:53.920 --> 1:02:56.200 things that I would do when I would wake up 1:02:56.240 --> 1:02:58.040 at like one in the morning, two in the morning, 1:02:58.160 --> 1:03:01.880 is I would get on social media. There it'd be Instagram, Twitter, whatever, 1:03:02.240 --> 1:03:04.280 and then I'll be on there for like an hour. 1:03:04.520 --> 1:03:09.160 I doom two hours mindless scrolling, doom scrolling, and then 1:03:09.200 --> 1:03:12.200 before you know it, now it's four am and I've 1:03:12.200 --> 1:03:14.480 been up two hours, and then I'll go back to sleep, 1:03:14.520 --> 1:03:16.400 waking up at seven, so I'm not getting a good 1:03:16.440 --> 1:03:20.480 amount of sleep. Now I'll still wake up, don't get 1:03:20.520 --> 1:03:22.800 me wrong, Like I still be waking up at like one, two. 1:03:23.240 --> 1:03:24.840 But then I wake up and I can't do shit, 1:03:24.960 --> 1:03:27.880 so I'll just go back to sleep because it literally 1:03:27.920 --> 1:03:29.960 won't let you even click on you like it'll have 1:03:30.000 --> 1:03:31.520 like a little screen that come up there be like, 1:03:31.560 --> 1:03:32.960 ha ha, you're block. 1:03:33.040 --> 1:03:35.040 Yeah I need that. I need that because I'm a 1:03:35.120 --> 1:03:38.320 doom and you can't do anything. Tell me is so bad. 1:03:38.640 --> 1:03:41.919 It's so bad. Like and then it's to the point 1:03:41.960 --> 1:03:46.880 to where I convince myself. I'm like, girl, you've grown. 1:03:47.240 --> 1:03:48.880 You don't gotta go to sleep because you can wake 1:03:48.920 --> 1:03:51.280 up whenever you want. I'll be trying to convince myself 1:03:51.280 --> 1:03:53.560 that it's okay that I'm up, and then I'm like, 1:03:53.800 --> 1:03:55.560 the next morning, I wake up and I'm tired. 1:03:55.720 --> 1:03:59.479 I'm slugging. I need that because the one thing about it, yeah, I'm. 1:03:59.360 --> 1:04:01.360 A dude, you do. I pay for it, though, but 1:04:01.440 --> 1:04:05.040 I got a little twenty dollars I paid, y'all. I 1:04:05.080 --> 1:04:08.000 got got the other day. And we're gonna move on. 1:04:08.200 --> 1:04:11.960 I have to tell this story. What is this app called? 1:04:12.040 --> 1:04:15.000 So I was scrolling TikTok the other day. This was 1:04:15.000 --> 1:04:18.240 actually yesterday that this happened. I was scrolling TikTok. There's 1:04:18.280 --> 1:04:21.800 this app called real short and the reason I can 1:04:21.880 --> 1:04:24.480 say the app because you're gonna be mad once you downloaded. 1:04:24.880 --> 1:04:28.400 So it's like short stories. It's like short stories, right. 1:04:28.880 --> 1:04:31.080 So it was like this short story of. 1:04:31.160 --> 1:04:34.760 This woman who had lost her child at birth and 1:04:34.800 --> 1:04:37.600 they ended up heard another woman ended up switching children 1:04:37.600 --> 1:04:40.120 at birth, and one was really rich and one was 1:04:40.120 --> 1:04:42.120 really poor. What's that Mickey mouth story? The Prince of 1:04:42.200 --> 1:04:45.200 the Pauper. That's what it was given. And I'm like 1:04:45.280 --> 1:04:47.200 watching it. I was like, oh my god, Like I'm 1:04:47.240 --> 1:04:50.000 watching it for like ten minutes on TikTok, and then 1:04:50.040 --> 1:04:52.520 it was like, oh, to finish the story, download this app. 1:04:52.560 --> 1:04:54.880 So I said, I need to know what happened, period. 1:04:55.440 --> 1:04:57.480 So I downloaded the app and it was like, oh, 1:04:57.560 --> 1:04:59.720 it's the finishing. You gotta watch all these ads, watch 1:04:59.760 --> 1:05:01.720 all these asked and it was like, okay, if you 1:05:01.720 --> 1:05:04.280 want to watch it, just pay a little ten dollars 1:05:04.760 --> 1:05:09.360 And I paid the ten dollars. Now I finished the story, right, 1:05:09.560 --> 1:05:11.000 and I was like, Okay, that was a cute little 1:05:11.080 --> 1:05:14.560 Lifetime little movie one two. But then I'm like scrolling 1:05:14.560 --> 1:05:15.920 through the rest of the app and like all the 1:05:15.960 --> 1:05:18.280 rest of the movies was trash and I was so mad, 1:05:18.360 --> 1:05:20.800 but I get the app free for a week long 1:05:20.840 --> 1:05:26.800 story short stop dum scrolling cause I paid ten dollars 1:05:27.000 --> 1:05:29.920 finish some bullshit. Yeah, I don't know. I really like 1:05:30.000 --> 1:05:30.400 that app. 1:05:30.480 --> 1:05:34.840 It like keeps me on track with like my morning goals, 1:05:35.000 --> 1:05:37.960 going to sleep at a decent time, getting my eight 1:05:38.000 --> 1:05:40.440 hours to sleep, and then you can even set it 1:05:40.480 --> 1:05:43.160 to whats like to other times throughout your day, so 1:05:43.240 --> 1:05:44.920 like if you want to take like even a break 1:05:45.000 --> 1:05:46.800 throughout the day, like say you want to do like 1:05:47.200 --> 1:05:48.480 three hours from. 1:05:48.360 --> 1:05:51.080 Like two to five, then you could see it for 1:05:51.120 --> 1:05:52.680 that time I need to lock you out. 1:05:52.800 --> 1:05:54.240 So yeah, I'm definitely download that. 1:05:54.720 --> 1:05:55.320 I love it. 1:05:55.400 --> 1:05:59.880 I need because I think that this generation we're two 1:06:00.840 --> 1:06:02.439 way too upset to being on social media. 1:06:02.440 --> 1:06:04.320 I'll be looking back at myself from when I was. 1:06:04.240 --> 1:06:09.360 Like twenty two, twenty three, even like twenty six twenty seven, 1:06:09.640 --> 1:06:12.120 I was not on my phone as much as I 1:06:12.200 --> 1:06:13.160 am now. 1:06:14.080 --> 1:06:16.120 You know what's crazy. I think I'm on my phone 1:06:16.120 --> 1:06:17.320 a lot now, but I think I used to be 1:06:17.360 --> 1:06:20.520 on my phone more in my twenties because I think 1:06:20.520 --> 1:06:22.160 I'm worse now. But I used to be at the 1:06:22.200 --> 1:06:27.520 club recording my entire night but you wasn't on social media. 1:06:28.120 --> 1:06:31.680 Yes I was. I was posting on What's it since 1:06:31.800 --> 1:06:34.840 not chack. I used to post. You would know everywhere 1:06:34.880 --> 1:06:37.360 I was at, everything I was doing. I'm at the 1:06:37.440 --> 1:06:40.800 nail shop, I'm going to eat lunch, I'm at the club. 1:06:40.840 --> 1:06:43.919 I used to post my every single move. 1:06:44.120 --> 1:06:47.760 I used to be I'm in the club. Fuck, I 1:06:47.880 --> 1:06:52.360 got people with me in real time. Literally, we have 1:06:52.520 --> 1:06:53.480 so many videos of us. 1:06:53.600 --> 1:06:56.240 That's my dog. We had the dog filter on. 1:06:56.560 --> 1:06:59.920 That's my dog, and then a little we thought we ate. 1:07:03.680 --> 1:07:05.080 We was like, that's my job. 1:07:08.920 --> 1:07:11.880 We used to be posting it in real time, so lame. 1:07:12.480 --> 1:07:14.240 We can't post it in real time now. 1:07:14.560 --> 1:07:16.000 Yeah, I never posted nothing, but. 1:07:16.360 --> 1:07:18.640 It was a but you know what's crazy though? That 1:07:18.840 --> 1:07:22.120 was like the fun era of social media. Yeah, like 1:07:22.160 --> 1:07:24.360 that's the That's the part of social media that I 1:07:24.400 --> 1:07:26.560 wish we could get back to because it's like even ought. 1:07:26.600 --> 1:07:29.760 Yeah, we was supposting real time and our stories was looking. 1:07:29.560 --> 1:07:30.360 Like tic texts. 1:07:30.680 --> 1:07:32.160 We was really having a good time. 1:07:32.440 --> 1:07:35.080 Worry about nobody pulling, and we didn't give a fuck 1:07:35.120 --> 1:07:37.400 about what we was posting. That's why we was posting everything. 1:07:37.560 --> 1:07:41.760 You was posting your plate, you was posting your nigga. Yeah, 1:07:41.760 --> 1:07:44.080 we would never post now, Oh my god, I used to. 1:07:46.040 --> 1:07:49.440 On my social Oh my god. You know Facebook does memories, y'all. 1:07:49.520 --> 1:07:52.400 You can literally go to my Facebook right now. My 1:07:52.560 --> 1:07:55.840 ex boyfriend pictures all of them all up and down 1:07:55.840 --> 1:07:59.360 my all up and down my feet, all up and 1:07:59.360 --> 1:07:59.840 down my feet. 1:07:59.880 --> 1:08:02.040 But I'm saying it was fun back then. You remember 1:08:02.040 --> 1:08:07.440 that night me and killing went to live in forty 1:08:07.480 --> 1:08:11.160 five when she came to my house, that little baby 1:08:11.200 --> 1:08:12.640 song was had just came. 1:08:12.480 --> 1:08:17.960 Out, which l yeah, I do remember that night. 1:08:18.000 --> 1:08:20.639 Like, we just used to have so much fun in 1:08:20.680 --> 1:08:23.479 the moment and we wouldn't think about anything like now, 1:08:24.080 --> 1:08:27.000 there's so much overthinking when it comes to social media, 1:08:27.240 --> 1:08:29.559 and I just think we're all like people are trying 1:08:29.640 --> 1:08:31.040 so hard to be perfect. 1:08:31.120 --> 1:08:34.439 That was the difference between now and then. But I 1:08:34.479 --> 1:08:36.760 also that's why I love But I think that's why 1:08:36.800 --> 1:08:38.960 I love this platform too, because we can like talk 1:08:39.000 --> 1:08:41.559 about our faults and our mistakes and stuff. And I 1:08:41.560 --> 1:08:45.280 feel like we have created a safe space here. 1:08:45.760 --> 1:08:47.880 Because it's not a lot of safe spaces. 1:08:47.439 --> 1:08:49.160 Online, but I feel like we've done a good job 1:08:49.200 --> 1:08:53.479 of doing that. In the poor Mind's universe. Okay, now 1:08:53.520 --> 1:08:55.479 we're gonna move on. So let us know how y'all 1:08:55.479 --> 1:08:59.599 feel about being on your phone in a day. What's 1:08:59.680 --> 1:09:01.960 up y'all? That your girl x pee and it's Sugarl 1:09:02.040 --> 1:09:02.639 draining the call. 1:09:02.760 --> 1:09:03.559 And we have a. 1:09:03.560 --> 1:09:05.759 Very exciting announcement today. 1:09:05.840 --> 1:09:07.599 We have a brand new show dropping. 1:09:08.000 --> 1:09:10.960 Yes, we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon. 1:09:11.040 --> 1:09:14.000 It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. 1:09:14.080 --> 1:09:16.040 We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're 1:09:16.040 --> 1:09:19.679 gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Billa Dache, 1:09:20.000 --> 1:09:22.960 where the hell could you go? If you can't go 1:09:23.040 --> 1:09:27.400 to Blanche, what the hell we're gonna be doing? Talk 1:09:27.479 --> 1:09:29.519 to me, chit chat with me. It's gonna be feeling 1:09:29.520 --> 1:09:34.760 at a little tea. Oh my girl, Now you didn't. 1:09:36.560 --> 1:09:39.439 God everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be 1:09:39.439 --> 1:09:41.440 doing it right here on Patreon. 1:09:41.600 --> 1:09:44.000 Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been 1:09:44.080 --> 1:09:47.559 to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's 1:09:47.600 --> 1:09:50.479 gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown 1:09:50.680 --> 1:09:53.160 into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a 1:09:53.240 --> 1:09:56.519 lot of fun still over here at Poor. 1:09:56.400 --> 1:09:59.040 Chronicles, So make sure y'all tune in September. 1:09:59.360 --> 1:10:10.000 Second. It's going down period, and now it's time to 1:10:10.040 --> 1:10:19.120 get into the bed bowl. A bowl about a bow bow. Okay, 1:10:19.160 --> 1:10:22.320 so this is a topic I know we have talked 1:10:22.320 --> 1:10:23.960 about before, but we're gonna come at it from a 1:10:23.960 --> 1:10:29.439 little different angle. Mmm mm hmmm, sweet sweet nick. 1:10:29.479 --> 1:10:32.240 Though I thought I was gonna say, sweet sweet victory, 1:10:32.479 --> 1:10:33.879 that is a sweet victory. 1:10:34.240 --> 1:10:38.080 What happened? So let me tell you what happened. I know, 1:10:38.200 --> 1:10:42.160 my pillow busted. I have a down pillow, and y'all, 1:10:42.160 --> 1:10:45.360 this pillow was so expensive. It's a down and it 1:10:45.479 --> 1:10:49.200 had the real like goose feathers and it busted. So 1:10:49.280 --> 1:10:52.479 there's like feathers all everywhere, and I like vacuum them 1:10:52.560 --> 1:10:55.920 up and I still keep finding feathers. I have remnants 1:10:55.920 --> 1:10:58.759 of feathers all in my hair. So yeah, be careful 1:10:58.760 --> 1:11:03.280 with these down pillows. Comfy pillow though, I mean I'm 1:11:03.280 --> 1:11:06.599 not getting another one. Anyways. I wanted to talk about 1:11:06.760 --> 1:11:11.599 body counts and double standards because you. 1:11:11.600 --> 1:11:15.720 Know, it's okay, what you laughing at. 1:11:17.640 --> 1:11:21.720 When they laughed, it was that's a black king, right now, 1:11:22.000 --> 1:11:27.320 that's a queen. Well, you know, Kanya said king. Kya 1:11:27.400 --> 1:11:35.519 said king. I wasn't calling you a king. I wasn't 1:11:35.560 --> 1:11:38.479 calling you a king. I was thinking of the mean 1:11:38.600 --> 1:11:46.439 I love when people switch starts. Oh my god, I 1:11:46.560 --> 1:11:47.559 wasn't calling you a king. 1:11:47.840 --> 1:11:50.840 She did say that's a black king like I. 1:11:50.800 --> 1:11:51.839 Was quoting Kanya. 1:11:52.720 --> 1:11:53.960 I wasn't talking about event. 1:11:55.400 --> 1:12:01.919 So oh, come on, locuse. 1:12:01.960 --> 1:12:07.360 Shepherd's pie is crazy. Anyways, pipe down, see she back home, 1:12:07.439 --> 1:12:10.400 come back home, come back home. Me and one think 1:12:10.439 --> 1:12:14.479 about me in tie. Shepherd's pie is taste crazy. 1:12:15.400 --> 1:12:19.000 A shepherd's Any type of pie with mashed potatoes is 1:12:19.040 --> 1:12:21.320 the christ It's crazy. 1:12:21.400 --> 1:12:25.360 Taste the thing peas and beans and carrots. 1:12:26.000 --> 1:12:27.599 You she didn't have peas in hers? 1:12:28.240 --> 1:12:30.000 Yeah, I don't either. She didn't put peas in hers. 1:12:30.080 --> 1:12:32.599 You like pan No, I do not like green peas. 1:12:34.120 --> 1:12:35.320 I've seen you eat peas. 1:12:35.400 --> 1:12:36.920 Why do you lie so bad? 1:12:37.040 --> 1:12:38.960 This is crazy? How she lies more than me? Now? 1:12:39.040 --> 1:12:42.800 I have seen and I wouldn't put on something. I 1:12:42.840 --> 1:12:46.479 wouldn't lie more than you. Put that level. 1:12:46.520 --> 1:12:47.200 Put that on something. 1:12:47.200 --> 1:12:50.040 You saw me eat some peas before, right hand to God, 1:12:50.160 --> 1:12:52.720 right now, put it on it. Put on that. Why 1:12:52.800 --> 1:12:56.560 is your top pea colored. You ain't never seen no 1:12:56.800 --> 1:12:57.719 peenus color. 1:12:58.680 --> 1:12:59.040 I have. 1:13:00.680 --> 1:13:08.280 One. You ate? You're a liar? What you because I 1:13:08.720 --> 1:13:13.120 believe you lying. I hate peas. I don't care how 1:13:13.160 --> 1:13:15.479 buttery is salty whatever you put on it. So I 1:13:15.479 --> 1:13:21.200 ain't never seen God, I've never seen you eat of mamie. Okay, 1:13:21.280 --> 1:13:22.840 you see me eat at a ma mad. I'm talking 1:13:22.880 --> 1:13:28.439 about some peas. I'm talking about peas. She's so cap bro, 1:13:29.320 --> 1:13:33.720 she's so full of ship. Show me and you full 1:13:33.760 --> 1:13:37.559 of peas. I'm full of beans, bitch, get it right, 1:13:37.920 --> 1:13:44.320 gang gang, exact bean family. So you don't so you 1:13:44.320 --> 1:13:46.160 don't eat hommies, bitch. 1:13:45.920 --> 1:13:47.600 I love hommy full of peas. 1:13:48.240 --> 1:13:52.080 Chick peas not a green pea A pea, It's not 1:13:52.120 --> 1:13:52.920 a green pea. 1:13:53.479 --> 1:13:54.920 Green peas are horrible. 1:13:56.080 --> 1:14:00.479 Sure you don't like sweet, So you don't like sweet? No, 1:14:00.600 --> 1:14:13.280 I don't. I never don't know you haven't. Oh I'm 1:14:13.320 --> 1:14:24.080 finna get mad. If I'm lying, then why are you mad? 1:14:24.280 --> 1:14:29.080 Because I don't eat peas night, because I've seen. 1:14:31.720 --> 1:14:34.000 Leave me alone. I'm gonna wrap this up. Okay, thank 1:14:34.040 --> 1:14:43.439 you for tuning in. Okay, let's get back to the 1:14:43.520 --> 1:14:47.320 topee okay, okay, So body counts and double standards. So 1:14:47.439 --> 1:14:50.720 you know, if a man has uh fifty bodies, oh 1:14:50.760 --> 1:14:53.200 hear that, nigga, he a pimp, he'll player. And if 1:14:53.200 --> 1:14:55.799 a woman has fifty bodies, they're like, oh, she's a whore. 1:14:56.200 --> 1:14:58.880 And people like to use the key theory. If you 1:14:58.880 --> 1:15:01.040 don't know what the key theory is, it's basically that 1:15:01.439 --> 1:15:05.639 you know, when you have the master key, you can 1:15:05.680 --> 1:15:08.000 open a lot of doors and you you you run 1:15:08.040 --> 1:15:11.120 shit and this and that. But when you have the lock, 1:15:11.280 --> 1:15:14.040 you know it's only supposed to open to one key 1:15:14.200 --> 1:15:16.800 and things can't be used and things like that. So 1:15:16.840 --> 1:15:19.679 how do you feel about body counts and the double 1:15:19.720 --> 1:15:21.160 standards when it comes to women and men? 1:15:21.240 --> 1:15:23.240 I think that's some fucking bullshit. I think if you 1:15:23.320 --> 1:15:25.519 fuck a bunch of people, period, your whore. 1:15:25.800 --> 1:15:30.200 Come on now, don't matter men or women? Big on that. 1:15:31.760 --> 1:15:33.639 I think that people when you're easy. 1:15:33.680 --> 1:15:36.080 But I don't even want to say whoror like. I 1:15:36.120 --> 1:15:38.479 just feel like you like pussy or. 1:15:38.439 --> 1:15:39.000 You like me. 1:15:39.080 --> 1:15:41.400 Don't like people because I don't want to call them war. 1:15:42.600 --> 1:15:45.120 I take them back because even though they're gonna. 1:15:45.400 --> 1:15:49.160 Their body shaming or they're sick shaming. 1:15:50.400 --> 1:15:56.479 I'm not sex shaming. I just think like, if you 1:15:56.800 --> 1:15:59.599 like to have sex with a lot of people in 1:15:59.680 --> 1:16:04.320 general rule, then I think it should be equal judgment 1:16:04.400 --> 1:16:05.120 on both sides. 1:16:05.439 --> 1:16:09.440 Okay, come on now, exactly exactly, you're not worth. 1:16:09.280 --> 1:16:12.160 Judging both equally, like you should be judging men and 1:16:12.240 --> 1:16:13.559 judging women equally. 1:16:13.880 --> 1:16:17.040 It shouldn't be oh, because you're a woman. Dude. 1:16:17.120 --> 1:16:18.800 I had a conversation with a man and he was 1:16:18.880 --> 1:16:21.439 just like, yeah, but that's because a man is entering 1:16:21.520 --> 1:16:26.960 a woman. A man, you can still and sometimes they do, 1:16:27.160 --> 1:16:30.479 and men do getting getting answered a lot. 1:16:30.960 --> 1:16:34.000 They got bussy and it and they be saying to 1:16:34.040 --> 1:16:48.360 be wet, it do get weg the camera, it do 1:16:48.520 --> 1:16:49.280 get a little wet. 1:16:49.360 --> 1:16:51.640 I can't confirm that's what I'm saying, so I just 1:16:51.640 --> 1:16:54.479 think that, but I'm a woman, maybe my bussy just 1:16:54.520 --> 1:16:55.560 get wigged. 1:17:03.160 --> 1:17:06.720 Ever a one when maybe everything get wet. No, I think, 1:17:06.800 --> 1:17:09.280 first of all, I do think bussies get wet. Bussies 1:17:09.320 --> 1:17:14.080 get wet. But I just also want to say that 1:17:14.479 --> 1:17:19.599 if you enjoy sex, enjoy sex. And I agree with Dreya. 1:17:19.800 --> 1:17:22.760 If you're gonna judge somebody, you need to judge everybody 1:17:23.240 --> 1:17:26.480 your mama, and I also feel like I just like people. 1:17:26.280 --> 1:17:28.160 Start bussy probably get wet. 1:17:27.880 --> 1:17:30.920 Too, exactly because your mama bussy ain't. 1:17:30.920 --> 1:17:33.679 Your daddy bussy was wet, and your daddy was probably 1:17:33.800 --> 1:17:35.160 daddy bussy headed. 1:17:34.960 --> 1:17:38.680 Because he was probably low key, down low What they 1:17:38.760 --> 1:17:41.000 have to do with how they got here? Though, All 1:17:41.080 --> 1:17:45.000 I'm saying is stop judging people, because you need to 1:17:45.040 --> 1:17:47.040 go off of what y'all go. 1:17:47.640 --> 1:17:49.719 When you don't make this, you gonna go back. 1:17:52.160 --> 1:17:54.680 Daddy's bussies be wet. What does that have to do 1:17:54.760 --> 1:17:58.920 with the child getting here? Because because that bussy got wet, 1:17:59.000 --> 1:18:01.280 he was like, oh, let me straighten my life up 1:18:01.320 --> 1:18:02.960 and be a good man to this woman and stop 1:18:03.000 --> 1:18:11.680 getting my bussy blown out. So then why don't they 1:18:11.720 --> 1:18:18.080 be there still? What? They still be dead? Be daddy's dead. 1:18:19.160 --> 1:18:24.760 It is not dead bussy. A bussy is crazy? Who 1:18:24.840 --> 1:18:28.800 thought of that name? A bussy? Yes, because it is 1:18:28.880 --> 1:18:33.360 one I think about that word. It's crazy, but it's true. 1:18:33.479 --> 1:18:36.040 It's a buf se. 1:18:36.600 --> 1:18:40.440 What N. L. E. Chopper said, hmmm, smell. 1:18:40.200 --> 1:18:45.920 Like not he did say, boy, But but it is booty. 1:18:45.640 --> 1:18:46.719 Deck and pussy. 1:18:46.760 --> 1:18:54.840 Oh, but is booty and Pussy's. 1:18:55.000 --> 1:18:56.880 Thought you knew that they would saying that back in 1:18:56.960 --> 1:19:02.959 elementary school. I'm not sexually advanced. That's a lie. However, 1:19:04.280 --> 1:19:07.840 they've been saying badosi for a long puce okay, because 1:19:07.840 --> 1:19:10.760 it's booty, dick and pussy, So that means y'all was 1:19:10.800 --> 1:19:12.680 doing all of that. 1:19:13.040 --> 1:19:16.480 A collaboration, a compilation. 1:19:17.640 --> 1:19:18.879 Do you watch porn compilations? 1:19:18.960 --> 1:19:23.120 I love a compilation, porn compilations. I love any type 1:19:23.120 --> 1:19:23.639 of complax. 1:19:23.760 --> 1:19:24.960 I hate porn compilation. 1:19:25.120 --> 1:19:27.519 I love a compilation because I like you know why 1:19:27.520 --> 1:19:35.920 I like compilations, why, Drea, Because it gets straight to 1:19:35.960 --> 1:19:41.120 the point. Think about it. When you think about a compilation, 1:19:41.280 --> 1:19:42.400 it's all the best. 1:19:42.160 --> 1:19:46.519 Parts of each porn. It's straight. 1:19:57.200 --> 1:19:59.920 We're talking about a man who has a black coochie matter, 1:20:00.080 --> 1:20:05.440 it's had on. But seriously, think about it. A compilation 1:20:05.920 --> 1:20:08.120 is the best parts of the point. 1:20:09.120 --> 1:20:11.360 That's why I like a compilation. Get to the meaty, 1:20:11.600 --> 1:20:18.799 get to the meedy, me get to the meeting is crazy, okay, 1:20:18.880 --> 1:20:26.200 fair enough, fair enough, but we get to the I 1:20:26.240 --> 1:20:30.040 cannot believe we are the new generation and yeah this 1:20:30.120 --> 1:20:32.200 is childish, no, but so you don't. 1:20:32.080 --> 1:20:32.280 Like But. 1:20:34.040 --> 1:20:35.920 I don't know if I've been in a situation where 1:20:36.040 --> 1:20:44.560 but ah, but I don't. 1:20:43.080 --> 1:20:44.200 Why are you making it? 1:20:44.360 --> 1:20:46.839 No wise, I don't know, Like it's just it seems 1:20:46.840 --> 1:20:50.360 like a lot I feel. I know I have been, 1:20:50.400 --> 1:20:54.360 but I'm just like, I don't even know how to describe. 1:20:56.720 --> 1:21:01.160 It's what you know, but just seemed like when you 1:21:01.200 --> 1:21:03.479 explained it to me, like I get it. So I'm like, 1:21:03.560 --> 1:21:09.599 it's hootie, but seeing dick, it just seems like so much. 1:21:12.560 --> 1:21:13.360 You know what I'm saying. 1:21:13.640 --> 1:21:20.960 I think it's an authentic I don't know if I'm 1:21:20.960 --> 1:21:23.200 gonna say afterwards. 1:21:24.200 --> 1:21:28.360 I thought I might be like, see, that's what I'm saying, 1:21:29.240 --> 1:21:33.120 Like I like, I like this, I like sex and 1:21:33.160 --> 1:21:37.559 the smells and the tape smell like, but no, oh, 1:21:37.680 --> 1:21:40.320 I stuck my finger in my nose and a booger 1:21:40.479 --> 1:21:48.680 fell on my lips, right, and did I did this? 1:21:51.720 --> 1:21:54.120 You ate it? 1:21:55.439 --> 1:21:58.400 And then you didn't see me. You didn't see me 1:21:58.439 --> 1:22:03.400 all over here like you what it tastes like? See 1:22:09.479 --> 1:22:18.280 it looks saucy. Gotta decrease my sodium intake. We come on, 1:22:18.320 --> 1:22:19.080 we gotta figure out. 1:22:19.200 --> 1:22:22.520 Sorry, Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about body. 1:22:24.080 --> 1:22:27.720 Left. You never said how you feel I did say 1:22:27.720 --> 1:22:29.559 how I feel I said, I agreed with you. I 1:22:29.560 --> 1:22:31.360 think that if you're gonna be judging, you need to 1:22:31.360 --> 1:22:34.320 be judging across both tables, because anybody who is weak 1:22:34.360 --> 1:22:37.040 at the flesh is just It needs to be the 1:22:37.080 --> 1:22:38.240 same across the table. 1:22:38.280 --> 1:22:40.200 I think if a woman has had sex with fifty 1:22:40.200 --> 1:22:42.200 men and a guy, they are in the same. 1:22:41.960 --> 1:22:45.000 Category, and that's whatever category you put them in, just 1:22:45.040 --> 1:22:46.880 like if a man has had sex with one woman 1:22:47.120 --> 1:22:49.559 and a woman has had sex with one man, or whoever, 1:22:50.000 --> 1:22:51.920 a woman with a woman, god with the guy. If 1:22:51.920 --> 1:22:56.360 it's one person, it needs to be judged the same period. 1:22:58.479 --> 1:23:04.600 Now it's time to get into the viou oh bow 1:23:04.960 --> 1:23:11.880 the bow, Bow Bow Bow bow to. So my bop 1:23:11.880 --> 1:23:13.920 of the week I found a new artist. I don't 1:23:13.960 --> 1:23:17.720 know how new he is or not, but I've recently 1:23:18.360 --> 1:23:22.439 discovered this song. It's called Drive Me Crazy by Miles Lloyd. 1:23:22.760 --> 1:23:25.559 I really like the tone of his voice. One thing 1:23:25.600 --> 1:23:29.519 about me I really like when I listen to music, 1:23:29.560 --> 1:23:30.719 the first thing I hear. 1:23:31.360 --> 1:23:33.639 Is the actual track, like the beat. 1:23:33.840 --> 1:23:36.280 But then I also listen to the tone of your voice, 1:23:36.560 --> 1:23:39.080 and I actually am more concerned with the tone of 1:23:39.120 --> 1:23:42.360 a person's voice like before the lyrics, because that's why 1:23:42.400 --> 1:23:45.080 you realize a lot of people get away with a 1:23:45.080 --> 1:23:48.040 lot of bullshit just because either the track is hot, 1:23:48.160 --> 1:23:50.439 or the melody is hot, or their tone is hot. 1:23:50.920 --> 1:23:53.639 Cisco Thong song, he said. He repeated the same thing 1:23:53.720 --> 1:23:56.120 for three four minutes, and we was feeling and we 1:23:56.160 --> 1:23:59.040 was feeling it why because the track was hot and 1:23:59.080 --> 1:24:01.320 the melody was hot. We didn't even realize he kept 1:24:01.320 --> 1:24:04.519 repeating the same shit over and over again. So one 1:24:04.520 --> 1:24:06.920 thing I like about Miles Lloyd, I love the tone 1:24:06.960 --> 1:24:09.200 of his voice. So my bop of the week is 1:24:09.280 --> 1:24:18.759 drive Me Crazy, Miles Lloyd. It's about period, Okay. 1:24:19.800 --> 1:24:24.120 I lately I have just been in my bag of 1:24:24.160 --> 1:24:28.679 like listening to old school music too, because I feel 1:24:28.680 --> 1:24:32.000 like we definitely show a lot of love to like 1:24:32.120 --> 1:24:34.559 new school stuff show and I feel like you are 1:24:35.080 --> 1:24:37.040 like who people can like credit for that because I 1:24:37.040 --> 1:24:39.320 feel like your ears always to the street, you low 1:24:39.360 --> 1:24:40.960 key a little A and R a little bit. 1:24:41.720 --> 1:24:43.960 Honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you for real though, 1:24:44.120 --> 1:24:49.800 if like whatever popping labels out right now, if they 1:24:49.880 --> 1:24:56.040 hired me, they can't lose every to the streets. 1:24:56.080 --> 1:24:57.600 When it comes to music, and I feel like I 1:24:57.720 --> 1:24:59.600 definitely be like having my ears to the streets a 1:24:59.640 --> 1:25:01.599 little bit when it be like when it comes to music, 1:25:01.600 --> 1:25:03.200 but I feel like you listen to like more of 1:25:03.320 --> 1:25:06.320 like the artists that people be slipped on, yeah, like 1:25:06.520 --> 1:25:09.000 any arts and stuff like I kind of be more 1:25:09.800 --> 1:25:12.040 I'm gonna know, like the new shit that's coming out 1:25:12.080 --> 1:25:13.800 when it comes to like the artists that kind of 1:25:13.840 --> 1:25:15.760 everybody know about. I wish labels would go back to 1:25:15.800 --> 1:25:17.880 developing artists because it do be a lot of artists 1:25:17.880 --> 1:25:21.479 that are great, but they're not necessarily like ready, but 1:25:21.520 --> 1:25:24.720 they could be developed into a star. Like they don't 1:25:24.760 --> 1:25:27.840 develop artists anymore, and I hate that. I feel like 1:25:27.880 --> 1:25:29.840 that's why we're missing out on a lot of good shit. 1:25:30.080 --> 1:25:33.840 Like they developed Whitney Houston, like as great as she was, 1:25:33.960 --> 1:25:36.120 she was ready, but like Clive, they had a team 1:25:36.200 --> 1:25:36.559 on her. 1:25:36.760 --> 1:25:39.600 They had a fucking that they had a team on 1:25:39.680 --> 1:25:40.360 Mariah Carey. 1:25:40.520 --> 1:25:42.200 But do you feel like but do you feel like 1:25:42.320 --> 1:25:48.720 it was because back then it wasn't as many superstars, 1:25:48.800 --> 1:25:51.320 Like it was harder to find superstars. It's not to 1:25:51.360 --> 1:25:54.240 say that it wasn't a lot of Maria. I'm sure 1:25:54.360 --> 1:25:57.519 if we scoured the world. It was a lot of 1:25:57.560 --> 1:26:01.760 Mariah Carey's and Whitneys back in the day that were like. 1:26:01.960 --> 1:26:03.160 They could seen, they could sing. 1:26:04.560 --> 1:26:05.719 Yeah, people that could. 1:26:05.600 --> 1:26:07.840 Have been as big as Riah and as big as 1:26:07.840 --> 1:26:11.920 Whitney that just were never discovered because we didn't have 1:26:12.040 --> 1:26:15.280 the technology and the ability to be able to find 1:26:15.360 --> 1:26:18.000 people the way that we're now, like the ability for 1:26:18.040 --> 1:26:19.439 people to be able to be seen. 1:26:19.640 --> 1:26:22.200 Yeah, I think back then it was a lot of. 1:26:22.120 --> 1:26:24.800 Talented people just as talented as them, but like it 1:26:24.840 --> 1:26:27.519 was just harder to find them. I agree, But now 1:26:27.760 --> 1:26:30.519 it's way easier to find people. So do you feel 1:26:30.520 --> 1:26:35.200 like because it's so many people and like the industry 1:26:35.280 --> 1:26:39.479 is so oversaturated that like it's hard to kind of 1:26:39.520 --> 1:26:44.719 create these superstars and build them out because if you think. 1:26:44.560 --> 1:26:46.640 About it, all of these. 1:26:48.360 --> 1:26:51.040 Labels are doing the same thing with all of the artists, 1:26:51.360 --> 1:26:55.040 but it's everybody competing with each other versus it being 1:26:55.120 --> 1:26:58.880 like one superstar that's coming out and then you're putting 1:26:58.960 --> 1:27:01.639 all of your energy into this one person, Like RCA 1:27:01.760 --> 1:27:05.800 has this one person. But love Face, well I don't 1:27:05.800 --> 1:27:08.639 even love face, not around them, but in the day, 1:27:08.800 --> 1:27:11.000 but back in the day, RCA has this one person, 1:27:11.040 --> 1:27:14.080 but face don't really have a person, right, versus like 1:27:14.560 --> 1:27:21.240 le Face RCA Capital Botown everybody having a person now 1:27:21.280 --> 1:27:24.400 and we're all putting the same machine behind all of 1:27:24.439 --> 1:27:27.080 these people, and so nobody is really kind of taking 1:27:27.120 --> 1:27:29.160 off more than the person, if that makes it. 1:27:29.400 --> 1:27:31.120 So, I do agree with you with that. 1:27:31.280 --> 1:27:33.559 I feel like now everybody like they want to make 1:27:33.600 --> 1:27:37.160 a TikTok song. Everybody wants that people put more value 1:27:37.160 --> 1:27:40.720 in value in singles than they do actual projects. So 1:27:40.760 --> 1:27:44.080 I think that's what hurt the industry. But like I said, 1:27:44.439 --> 1:27:49.840 I think now due to inflation, companies losing a lot 1:27:49.880 --> 1:27:54.919 of money because back then, if you had okay perfect example, 1:27:56.320 --> 1:28:00.240 Rock Nation, they had Rihanna and they had Tierra Marie. Well, 1:28:00.280 --> 1:28:03.880 no that was Rockell Rockefeller. I'm sorry, it's rock Nation now, right, 1:28:04.040 --> 1:28:07.479 So they had Rihanna Tierra Marie, right, yeah, Tierra Marie 1:28:07.560 --> 1:28:12.040 came out swinging. Tierra Marie was bigger than Rihanna when 1:28:12.040 --> 1:28:16.639 they first dropped. She was she had no daddy around 1:28:16.680 --> 1:28:19.600 when she was growing up, proud and know how to 1:28:19.720 --> 1:28:25.000 make a craffee. So with that being said, this is 1:28:25.000 --> 1:28:26.880 when a lot of stuff changed. Let me tell you 1:28:26.920 --> 1:28:30.160 and I if y'all send him this clip, he probably 1:28:30.160 --> 1:28:33.879 gonna be like, Yeah, this person is single handedly changed 1:28:33.880 --> 1:28:36.080 the music industry. And either people gonna say it's for 1:28:36.080 --> 1:28:39.799 the best or it's for the worst. Soldier Boy. Soldier 1:28:39.840 --> 1:28:44.000 Boy changed the game because he was like, I'm not developed, 1:28:44.040 --> 1:28:46.840 I'm just sitting in my bedroom. I'm making these hits 1:28:46.840 --> 1:28:49.400 and I'm ready to go. So once he got on 1:28:49.520 --> 1:28:52.680 with Colla Park and all that stuff, they didn't have 1:28:52.760 --> 1:28:55.000 to invest too too much because he was ready to 1:28:55.040 --> 1:28:57.519 go because he was a superstar on his own. 1:28:57.760 --> 1:28:59.960 And that was the first kind of that that we saw. 1:29:00.520 --> 1:29:02.599 So now they were like, okay, if Sojio Boy came 1:29:02.680 --> 1:29:06.519 ready made and we had to invest maybe a million 1:29:06.560 --> 1:29:10.080 dollars versus ten million dollars investment on somebody who has 1:29:10.120 --> 1:29:13.200 to be ready and I mean somebody that we have 1:29:13.320 --> 1:29:14.519 to package up and get. 1:29:14.400 --> 1:29:18.000 Ready to go. So I think Sodier Boys what changed it. 1:29:18.160 --> 1:29:21.000 Also, like I said, the tier Marie and Rihanna situation, 1:29:21.479 --> 1:29:24.400 Tierre Marie came out swinging, she was dropping his and 1:29:24.439 --> 1:29:29.160 Rihanna came out like Rihanna came out in hot luke warm. 1:29:29.520 --> 1:29:34.519 The first album was good, but that second album when 1:29:34.520 --> 1:29:37.759 they changed her into that pop that pop girl. 1:29:38.520 --> 1:29:39.720 That's when it's umbrella. 1:29:40.080 --> 1:29:44.439 Yeah, and once she's fun, that's fun to replay. 1:29:44.680 --> 1:29:46.880 Replay was a hit, but it didn't do it and 1:29:46.920 --> 1:29:50.960 the other song and that was her first single, No, 1:29:52.680 --> 1:29:54.479 that was her second thing. I'm sorry, but what I'm 1:29:54.520 --> 1:29:58.479 saying was first. But I'm saying all that to say 1:29:58.600 --> 1:30:00.960 is because in the beginning, I mean, they put all 1:30:01.040 --> 1:30:04.559 their cards in Tierra Marie and it didn't end up working, 1:30:04.600 --> 1:30:06.400 and they had they were like, uh, we're gonna do 1:30:06.439 --> 1:30:08.439 this with Rihanna and we gonna see and then Rihanna 1:30:08.520 --> 1:30:10.560 ended up turning up on the ass and they was like, 1:30:10.640 --> 1:30:13.519 you know what, we need to stop spending money on 1:30:13.560 --> 1:30:15.559 these girls and see what they gonna do and see 1:30:15.600 --> 1:30:19.679 and men and everybody, let's stop spending money and let's 1:30:19.680 --> 1:30:21.720 see what they can do. Let's see how bad you 1:30:21.840 --> 1:30:25.439 want it. So now it's up to the artist. You 1:30:25.520 --> 1:30:28.800 gotta really spend it on yourself. And you know, and 1:30:28.880 --> 1:30:32.000 I think as good as that is, because the cream 1:30:32.120 --> 1:30:35.240 rises to the top, but we're also missing a lot 1:30:35.280 --> 1:30:38.360 of people who maybe don't have the resources, that are 1:30:38.400 --> 1:30:41.280 good as fuck, that are superstars. Even with summer Walker 1:30:41.640 --> 1:30:45.080 Summer quite as it's kept, summer Walker was developed by 1:30:45.200 --> 1:30:48.840 a girl named Summer Walker who is from Beaumont, Texas, 1:30:49.120 --> 1:30:53.719 that discovered her. People don't know that, y'all. Y'all, y'all 1:30:53.800 --> 1:30:58.360 DJ Drama's first wife. She's very intelligent and ti I mean, 1:30:58.400 --> 1:31:01.080 she's very She used to be a video okay, and 1:31:01.160 --> 1:31:03.640 she was somebody who's artsy and this, and she discovered 1:31:03.680 --> 1:31:06.960 Summer Walker. I don't know that true story, but she 1:31:07.080 --> 1:31:09.479 saw something in her and she developed her, and she 1:31:09.560 --> 1:31:12.680 took that time with her. And I don't want to 1:31:12.720 --> 1:31:14.439 say that she's the reason that she made it, but 1:31:14.439 --> 1:31:18.120 I'm saying, like some people have to be developed. Some 1:31:18.120 --> 1:31:20.760 people aren't ready made to go. So I think the 1:31:20.840 --> 1:31:23.760 labels are messing up by not really taking their time 1:31:23.800 --> 1:31:26.840 and trying to find superstars or trying to hurry up 1:31:26.840 --> 1:31:28.840 and get the bag and get the dollar, when in 1:31:28.840 --> 1:31:31.400 the long run it's better, Like look at how when 1:31:31.560 --> 1:31:34.360 Usher and Justin Bieber and the long run of things. 1:31:34.680 --> 1:31:36.160 I think we need to start getting back to the 1:31:36.160 --> 1:31:40.160 long run of things. Stop rushing people for albums. Stop 1:31:40.280 --> 1:31:45.080 dropping four albums in a year, y'all dropping too much music. 1:31:45.760 --> 1:31:51.040 I'm sorry four albums, Well they're dropping. Let me tell 1:31:51.040 --> 1:31:54.599 you something. Beyonce is doing these acts, but she's Beyonce. 1:31:55.960 --> 1:31:58.360 I don't want to hear I want to do I 1:31:58.400 --> 1:32:01.080 want to see two albums from beyond a year. Yeah, 1:32:01.120 --> 1:32:03.719 I can handle that. But Beyonce has developed these two 1:32:03.760 --> 1:32:08.160 albums for years. She's been working on Act two for years, 1:32:08.200 --> 1:32:10.519 working on Act one for years. We just didn't know 1:32:10.560 --> 1:32:12.320 about it. But she also ain't doing that. 1:32:14.320 --> 1:32:18.080 Like Beyonce dropped even with the acts. Beyonce dropped The 1:32:18.080 --> 1:32:23.559 Renaissiance July June of twenty twenty two. Whenever there was 1:32:23.600 --> 1:32:24.599 maybe August of. 1:32:24.520 --> 1:32:25.280 Twenty twenty two. 1:32:25.800 --> 1:32:30.240 She didn't drop Cowboy Carter until March of this year, right, 1:32:30.479 --> 1:32:33.520 So it's been like a year and a half between albums. 1:32:33.520 --> 1:32:38.120 So I don't think, I don't well, like I said, 1:32:38.760 --> 1:32:41.400 even a year and a half between albums, that's a 1:32:41.400 --> 1:32:42.160 good amount of time. 1:32:42.200 --> 1:32:44.559 But you have to realize back in the day they 1:32:44.640 --> 1:32:47.719 was dropping the album, they was touring two three years 1:32:47.760 --> 1:32:50.559 off of one album they were then they get off tour, 1:32:50.680 --> 1:32:55.599 they disappeared for a while, and do it again. These 1:32:55.720 --> 1:33:00.720 people are dropping two three albums in the two three years. 1:33:00.840 --> 1:33:03.439 I be so take your time with the music. I 1:33:03.560 --> 1:33:10.000 be so jealous when I think about, like our grandparents 1:33:10.120 --> 1:33:13.000 and parents, when songs used to drop and albums used 1:33:13.000 --> 1:33:14.439 to drop, and I used to hear that she for 1:33:14.479 --> 1:33:17.000 the first time, and I used to be dancing to 1:33:17.040 --> 1:33:18.599 when it was no social media. 1:33:19.000 --> 1:33:22.240 And to tell you this ship, I was listening a 1:33:22.240 --> 1:33:27.120 whipped last night, Yeah, and. 1:33:27.080 --> 1:33:29.679 I was like, oh my god, can you imagine when 1:33:29.680 --> 1:33:32.280 that song first dropped, how they was cutting up in 1:33:32.320 --> 1:33:33.560 the whip it? 1:33:34.080 --> 1:33:35.840 And you know what I was listening to this morning. 1:33:36.439 --> 1:33:39.360 You know what I was listening to Tie Imagine how 1:33:39.400 --> 1:33:42.120 they was cutting up in the globe when they dropped 1:33:42.120 --> 1:33:45.200 the first time on the on that pure cocaine. 1:33:45.640 --> 1:33:46.960 You know what this morning? 1:33:47.640 --> 1:33:49.559 And I was getting ready because I was feeling kind 1:33:49.560 --> 1:33:53.960 of down. I played this ship this morning because I 1:33:54.000 --> 1:33:55.759 was feeling kind of down. I wanted to feel myself. 1:33:55.800 --> 1:34:00.400 You know what, I put on Darro through she goad. 1:34:01.840 --> 1:34:05.120 I said, you know the bad buses was outside just 1:34:05.160 --> 1:34:10.240 since Fine and Stom because you used to have to wait. 1:34:10.400 --> 1:34:12.120 You know how bad we used to run off that 1:34:12.160 --> 1:34:14.800 bus to get on Watch one O six in part 1:34:15.360 --> 1:34:17.800 because we had to see who was number. When you 1:34:17.840 --> 1:34:22.800 knew the premiere. I remember when No Scrubs dropped, bro, 1:34:23.439 --> 1:34:25.040 I remember when that video. 1:34:24.880 --> 1:34:29.960 Dropped, So imagine how it was with No Nothing Soul 1:34:30.080 --> 1:34:31.559 Train and they used to be doing the fleet. 1:34:32.600 --> 1:34:36.160 Y'all, we have messed up the music industry. It's so sad. 1:34:36.240 --> 1:34:39.200 It is. It's really sad because the kids these days, 1:34:39.280 --> 1:34:43.120 y'all don't know how it feels to anticipate a video dropping. 1:34:43.439 --> 1:34:45.639 We couldn't pull up our phone and watch a video. 1:34:46.040 --> 1:34:50.040 We had to wait until it came on trl Damn 1:34:52.400 --> 1:34:56.519 what I ran off the bus. I said, TLC's video 1:34:56.680 --> 1:34:58.760 is premiering tomorrow, and they used to talk about it 1:34:58.880 --> 1:35:02.680 the whole week. TLC premiere Friday. TLC I said, oh 1:35:02.720 --> 1:35:05.679 my god, I gotta get home. If you can't see 1:35:05.920 --> 1:35:15.920 spand my horizon, some slums never Rizon, I said, left 1:35:16.000 --> 1:35:21.160 that at so let me give you something to think about. 1:35:22.160 --> 1:35:28.439 She ain't. Don't do that. A moment in time, especially 1:35:28.560 --> 1:35:31.679 spanned my horizon. Then I leave your glass of scrubs 1:35:31.760 --> 1:35:41.160 or horizon. The kids don't know droll. 1:35:41.720 --> 1:35:45.000 I know, but that's what I was saying. So I 1:35:45.080 --> 1:35:47.920 can imagine because I was exciting to when. 1:35:47.840 --> 1:35:50.760 I see it. I wish I could tell you up. 1:35:50.760 --> 1:35:55.520 And when they took out that Breaston plant, I said, oh, 1:35:56.320 --> 1:36:04.080 how could she not use for me? Pretty did not 1:36:04.200 --> 1:36:05.120 hit me hard enough? 1:36:05.400 --> 1:36:14.360 No, need me hard enough because I was like, okay, man's. 1:36:16.560 --> 1:36:17.400 It was a time. 1:36:17.520 --> 1:36:20.439 But like I said, going back to even because I 1:36:20.439 --> 1:36:23.360 feel like our grandparents here harder. Like, yeah, we definitely 1:36:23.479 --> 1:36:26.200 was like watching One on sixty part TR But I 1:36:26.200 --> 1:36:26.920 feel like in the. 1:36:26.920 --> 1:36:30.160 Eighties the seventies they was really couldning. Uh you know 1:36:30.200 --> 1:36:32.360 what they do? They need to bring Soul Train back though. 1:36:32.400 --> 1:36:35.120 We need to make artists premire things. We need to 1:36:35.200 --> 1:36:38.000 force it. We need a Soul Train or a t 1:36:38.880 --> 1:36:41.519 R and make us the whole take all this ship 1:36:41.640 --> 1:36:44.880 off of online. And we need to force people to 1:36:44.920 --> 1:36:47.720 congregate again. We need to force this on people. We 1:36:47.760 --> 1:36:50.639 need to start doing shows in time. We're gonna bring Tide. 1:36:50.760 --> 1:36:55.040 She's gonna be our bars and she's and everybody sleep 1:36:55.720 --> 1:37:02.240 what except for me? I might knock it up my Yeah. 1:37:02.280 --> 1:37:04.280 We need to force we need to force people to 1:37:04.280 --> 1:37:08.280 start premiering music together in this YouTube premiers. No, I'm 1:37:08.320 --> 1:37:10.679 not talking about that. We need to make people gather 1:37:10.800 --> 1:37:13.320 around and gather around the TV and make it a thing. 1:37:13.640 --> 1:37:15.120 You can't do it from your phone. 1:37:15.760 --> 1:37:18.640 It needs to something needs to happen. Everybody need to 1:37:18.640 --> 1:37:19.799 be being from their phone. 1:37:20.240 --> 1:37:24.840 COVID makes shit worse comb because. 1:37:26.360 --> 1:37:30.200 Prior to COVID, we was like one social media. Don't 1:37:30.200 --> 1:37:30.679 get me wrong. 1:37:30.720 --> 1:37:32.640 We was on there, but not like it is, but 1:37:32.800 --> 1:37:33.479 not like this. 1:37:33.640 --> 1:37:36.719 It was like when COVID hit, niggas couldn't go nowhere, 1:37:36.960 --> 1:37:39.439 and that's when TikTok really like took off. 1:37:39.479 --> 1:37:41.519 I told you this, we said this past people were 1:37:41.640 --> 1:37:46.080 making flyers. I'm going live Tonight's seven, use nigga, don't 1:37:46.080 --> 1:37:49.479 nobody give a damn and Verses that's when Versus took off. 1:37:49.520 --> 1:37:51.519 That's when Versus took off. But Versus was cool because 1:37:51.560 --> 1:37:54.040 that's what really brought us together, like we was all 1:37:54.080 --> 1:37:56.800 doing it together. I like stuff like that. But we 1:37:56.840 --> 1:37:59.320 need to figure out how can we get everybody together 1:37:59.600 --> 1:38:02.759 to start listening to music and putting these. 1:38:02.600 --> 1:38:04.360 Pressure on artists to make good music. 1:38:04.680 --> 1:38:08.479 It's so it's like this many people making music and 1:38:08.520 --> 1:38:12.040 this many people making good music. You know who does 1:38:12.040 --> 1:38:16.720 a fucking good job at good music? Billy Billie Eilish. 1:38:16.760 --> 1:38:20.040 I'm talking about the new new school. I'm talking about 1:38:20.040 --> 1:38:23.639 the new school. Billie Eilish is fucking good. I can't 1:38:23.680 --> 1:38:26.719 take that from her. I don't care if she dresses 1:38:26.840 --> 1:38:29.519 like Snoop Dogg in nineteen ninety two. 1:38:30.680 --> 1:38:30.840 But. 1:38:36.240 --> 1:38:41.600 Nope, okay, yeah, because. 1:38:43.000 --> 1:38:53.479 She does. Yeah, uh huh, yeah she. 1:38:53.520 --> 1:38:54.000 Shot out. 1:38:57.000 --> 1:39:01.639 You gotta like that's to be a soul soldier girl. 1:39:01.720 --> 1:39:05.639 So okay, go ahead, go ahead, man. 1:39:06.280 --> 1:39:08.840 We've been trying to get to my box for that. Literally, 1:39:24.360 --> 1:39:26.759 I want to shine a spotlight on Jeezy. 1:39:27.200 --> 1:39:28.240 Okay, I like that. 1:39:28.320 --> 1:39:29.639 I love young Jeezy. 1:39:29.800 --> 1:39:33.000 Like who do you listen to whenever you want to 1:39:33.000 --> 1:39:34.880 get in your bag, whenever you need to feel like 1:39:34.920 --> 1:39:35.840 I'm the beach for me? 1:39:36.080 --> 1:39:36.719 Is Jeezy. 1:39:36.920 --> 1:39:38.360 I'm off I'm a dof girl. 1:39:38.600 --> 1:39:41.679 I'm a jeezy girl, like whenever I need to remember 1:39:41.720 --> 1:39:43.680 who the fuck I am and then I need to 1:39:43.760 --> 1:39:46.599 boss up and get on my sheet and stop letting 1:39:46.600 --> 1:39:47.519 life get me down. 1:39:48.040 --> 1:39:50.920 I got a hold Jeezy, play least. Oh you gotta 1:39:50.960 --> 1:39:53.120 release that for the people. We need that. I do 1:39:53.360 --> 1:39:56.280 so go to the streets. So I be listening to 1:39:56.320 --> 1:39:59.000 go Crazy. Oh that's a good one. 1:39:59.439 --> 1:40:04.200 I know, go Crazy, I believe need to put on 1:40:05.240 --> 1:40:11.720 I lose my mind. Oh your bab me okay, I 1:40:11.800 --> 1:40:15.840 love it seeing it all okay with jay Z. 1:40:19.840 --> 1:40:21.840 Let me see hold on, let me go down. You 1:40:21.880 --> 1:40:23.840 gotta make this a playlist and give it to the people. 1:40:23.920 --> 1:40:27.960 I do, I do, And then with Indeed with her, 1:40:30.840 --> 1:40:33.760 I do A do a zoo a zoo a zoo 1:40:33.840 --> 1:40:34.439 a zoo. 1:40:36.400 --> 1:40:37.280 Shout out to Jeszu. 1:40:37.439 --> 1:40:41.840 Yeah, Gz has a leg of a catalog. I like 1:40:41.880 --> 1:40:45.200 when people rap and they articulate their words so well. 1:40:45.240 --> 1:40:47.559 He's one of those rappers like jay Z does that 1:40:48.040 --> 1:40:50.760 and Jez does that. They're like two people that like 1:40:51.240 --> 1:40:53.960 when they rap, it's so clear what they're saying. You 1:40:54.040 --> 1:40:55.720 never go and who jay Z? 1:40:56.400 --> 1:40:57.080 Like When jay Z. 1:40:57.160 --> 1:41:02.080 Raps, he articulates every word so clearly, it's like you 1:41:02.120 --> 1:41:04.840 cannot you know. Sometimes somebody will rap something like what 1:41:04.880 --> 1:41:07.160 they said? Did they say this today? You never have 1:41:07.240 --> 1:41:08.920 to do that with Jeez or with jay Z. 1:41:09.280 --> 1:41:12.840 Not dreaming with him and he shako that ain't really 1:41:12.840 --> 1:41:13.960 a motivational song, but. 1:41:14.040 --> 1:41:19.120 That's just the heat it's and so is he that 1:41:19.280 --> 1:41:25.439 pussy up? Mm hmm your bedroom play lead. I go 1:41:25.640 --> 1:41:33.439 licks m so humbert hum and sing I'm gonna tell 1:41:33.479 --> 1:41:34.120 that poor. 1:41:33.960 --> 1:41:37.400 So off every time you try to check les black Card. 1:41:37.520 --> 1:41:40.400 She feels, I mean, I got the melody that's closer now? 1:41:41.479 --> 1:41:44.160 Is that the one with trace song? Mm hmm, it's 1:41:44.240 --> 1:41:51.519 falling the moment that's that's a different one. Card, that's 1:41:51.560 --> 1:41:55.400 a different one. We know. I'm gonna tell that poor 1:41:55.520 --> 1:41:58.760 sol Off. Oh you know what song I used to love? 1:41:58.960 --> 1:41:59.320 That was? 1:41:59.400 --> 1:41:59.479 Not? 1:42:00.240 --> 1:42:01.839 That was with Lloyd? 1:42:01.920 --> 1:42:05.519 Why are you saying that? Like ply? Y'all know what 1:42:05.600 --> 1:42:07.639 song I used to love though, speaking of tree songs, 1:42:07.640 --> 1:42:08.640 and we're not gonna get into it. 1:42:08.720 --> 1:42:10.120 He had this song with bun Bee. 1:42:10.720 --> 1:42:13.479 If you need love, I love it. 1:42:13.680 --> 1:42:18.200 If you need I'm thinking if you need a hustler, 1:42:18.960 --> 1:42:26.519 whatever you need, girl, I'm gonna holds be shout out. 1:42:26.400 --> 1:42:31.759 To bun Beata. I'm make he love that bun Beata. 1:42:31.840 --> 1:42:39.519 I'm gonna make a scream, yes, he said, But let 1:42:39.520 --> 1:42:43.599 me see he said, bun be Okay, let me read 1:42:43.640 --> 1:42:52.360 the lyrics. Y'all know how he said, Here you go, 1:42:54.360 --> 1:43:02.080 bun beat the I'm a see he said, he said, 1:43:02.160 --> 1:43:04.920 one beat the Yeah, that's what I said. 1:43:05.560 --> 1:43:09.320 You said, but beat like b e A t e 1:43:09.520 --> 1:43:14.160 A b e t e e A e e A 1:43:14.360 --> 1:43:15.200 t e. 1:43:15.160 --> 1:43:18.479 A e A. I didn't say it like that, I said, 1:43:18.560 --> 1:43:21.760 bun be the ama. That's what he said, bun be 1:43:22.000 --> 1:43:26.519 the Alma. I don't want to be I don't want 1:43:26.560 --> 1:43:27.040 to leave. 1:43:31.800 --> 1:43:34.400 I don't want to be b Why did he do 1:43:34.479 --> 1:43:35.880 that like that? He thought? 1:43:35.920 --> 1:43:36.800 He ate he did? 1:43:37.160 --> 1:43:37.800 Let me do it again? 1:43:37.920 --> 1:43:41.000 He did, though, what I don't like that. Let me 1:43:41.760 --> 1:43:46.040 now that we ten years later. I like, how you 1:43:46.120 --> 1:43:48.920 gonna fill ten years from now when they be pulling up. 1:43:48.840 --> 1:43:58.520 Ship, you said, he did. 1:43:58.720 --> 1:44:01.120 So when you've seen that ten years ago, you weren't 1:44:01.200 --> 1:44:04.840 like horrible and I'll be back to hold you down. 1:44:05.520 --> 1:44:10.240 And I don't want to leave me leave me? You 1:44:10.320 --> 1:44:16.240 did not, he said. He did, though, that's crazy. You're useless. 1:44:17.240 --> 1:44:19.200 How to cut that cane? 1:44:20.200 --> 1:44:31.200 What I how to cut that cane? Okay? 1:44:34.560 --> 1:44:34.600 This? 1:44:34.800 --> 1:44:34.840 What? 1:44:37.120 --> 1:44:39.519 What was that song? He said? So many people who 1:44:39.720 --> 1:44:42.599 never coming on that show? What was the first Trace song? 1:44:43.320 --> 1:44:50.200 Just gotta make it? Oh? He was always in pain. 1:44:50.400 --> 1:45:09.360 He was. Oh, beat his ass, Oh he was, He's one. 1:45:09.439 --> 1:45:10.639 That was his favorite dance move. 1:45:10.800 --> 1:45:15.240 What it's the top of the world. 1:45:15.920 --> 1:45:20.800 Me and my girl, We just gotta make you. 1:45:21.320 --> 1:45:23.120 Cut that cane. 1:45:24.439 --> 1:45:28.479 That he said, cut that cane? But what what's that hoo? 1:45:28.800 --> 1:45:31.600 Are you used to sound how destroy that. 1:45:33.640 --> 1:45:37.600 I used to tell Daddy how I cut that cane. 1:45:42.560 --> 1:45:46.840 Dry? I can't wait to see you. I'm whooping your ass, 1:45:47.040 --> 1:45:51.519 my mom, It's on site, hold avenue. 1:45:52.080 --> 1:45:54.640 No Trey song used to go hard because yeah, that 1:45:54.760 --> 1:45:58.240 song can't help. But wait, that was my song girl 1:45:59.280 --> 1:45:59.680 for the w. 1:46:02.160 --> 1:46:09.960 Yes. But Lex, that was you look for what you really? Maybe? Girl? 1:46:10.080 --> 1:46:19.200 You are restored? No, I can't help. I hate him bad. 1:46:19.479 --> 1:46:20.519 Why oh? 1:46:20.560 --> 1:46:21.880 I hate him so bad? 1:46:22.280 --> 1:46:23.200 So you ain't used to like? 1:46:23.400 --> 1:46:23.599 No? 1:46:23.800 --> 1:46:25.880 I told you all this. This is before the Alex. 1:46:25.920 --> 1:46:28.360 We talk about this nigga every three month. You see 1:46:28.400 --> 1:46:33.040 me in the videos they why doing make your body 1:46:33.160 --> 1:46:36.920 go crazy? Oh? Catch me and Maxine? 1:46:37.360 --> 1:46:41.960 Baby, I hate you with me and my part never 1:46:42.360 --> 1:46:43.280 you ain't never like that. 1:46:43.400 --> 1:46:45.479 Let me be honest, y'all know I'm like a fake 1:46:45.560 --> 1:46:46.080 walk queen. 1:46:46.200 --> 1:46:48.479 But this was before everything came out about him. I 1:46:48.600 --> 1:46:53.479 promise I'm very much fake WoT. But before all this 1:46:53.560 --> 1:46:58.120 stuff happened, I've been a Trey Songs hater since diapers 1:46:58.479 --> 1:47:00.240 never liked him ever. 1:47:00.800 --> 1:47:01.880 I hate his boy. 1:47:02.040 --> 1:47:12.320 He was so good, he was so good, my super No, 1:47:12.360 --> 1:47:20.360 I'm not are you well? Then? Why you not? Not? 1:47:20.560 --> 1:47:29.040 You know all the lyrics are you? She is not? 1:47:30.640 --> 1:47:36.640 You do your thing. You can't be in a car like. 1:47:38.120 --> 1:47:42.600 It's somebody who was fitty wi biggest than you before. 1:47:43.040 --> 1:47:47.120 Again, Maddy, first of all, we're not gonna do that 1:47:48.800 --> 1:47:52.640 if you're gonna compare to those thirty y'all didn't know 1:47:52.680 --> 1:47:55.240 what time seven thirty. Y'all did not know what military 1:47:55.320 --> 1:47:56.960 time was before face. 1:47:57.320 --> 1:48:01.320 I hate somebody who fucking tell military time it's five oh. 1:48:01.160 --> 1:48:05.559 Two or it's seventeen thirty eight. That's about Remy, not 1:48:05.680 --> 1:48:06.519 about the time. 1:48:06.360 --> 1:48:11.519 Though exactly exactly exactly, need to correct me. 1:48:12.560 --> 1:48:12.920 Cut up. 1:48:13.160 --> 1:48:15.280 He was talking about cut on my row. 1:48:15.280 --> 1:48:19.920 Seventeen to mix because we didn't ask what it mat 1:48:21.600 --> 1:48:22.760 I stay head, what's up? 1:48:22.840 --> 1:48:29.880 And low? You thought he was saying the military song. 1:48:30.200 --> 1:48:34.720 God damn it, Remy ball. 1:48:36.520 --> 1:48:37.640 Seventeen. 1:48:40.880 --> 1:48:42.800 He used to be singing and. 1:48:42.920 --> 1:48:45.160 Sold in Trey songs. So what's the book? 1:48:45.200 --> 1:48:50.439 It sing better Trida for Trey songs? Vocally, y'all think 1:48:50.520 --> 1:48:55.200 Trey song sings better than Fatty Wap. No way, y'all 1:48:55.200 --> 1:48:57.760 are kidding me right, I'm not talking about music. Now, 1:48:57.760 --> 1:49:01.160 we know Trey songs makes better music. Y'all talking about vocally. 1:49:01.240 --> 1:49:03.479 Y'all think Trey song sings better than Fatty Wop? 1:49:03.600 --> 1:49:07.040 Yes, me neither. 1:49:07.120 --> 1:49:23.519 Fatty Wop sounded like Whitney Houston. Oh the t came out, 1:49:23.720 --> 1:49:28.200 blocking out Hopby blocking out, you are crazy. Trey songs 1:49:28.280 --> 1:49:32.200 used to be having me in the car Patty walk sing. Y'all. 1:49:32.240 --> 1:49:33.240 Remember when Fatty Wap. 1:49:33.680 --> 1:49:36.240 All I gotta do was he dropped that Drake remix 1:49:36.360 --> 1:49:36.680 and I. 1:49:36.680 --> 1:49:39.320 Was singing Drake Park. All I gotta do is put 1:49:39.360 --> 1:49:42.519 my mind to you. Never said cancel line my ex. 1:49:42.560 --> 1:49:45.840 I put a lot. You never sung the hook? Maybe 1:49:46.000 --> 1:49:47.160 want you to come out? 1:49:49.240 --> 1:49:51.120 Got something ain't want Tuesday? 1:49:51.560 --> 1:49:54.200 Yes you did. I was in the club with your bitch. 1:49:55.080 --> 1:49:57.320 You were singing the hook and I was only singing 1:49:57.320 --> 1:50:00.280 it because of Drake, But you was before the remix drop. 1:50:00.400 --> 1:50:02.920 Shout out to DJ Erie because we heard it first 1:50:03.160 --> 1:50:08.040 world premiere. Shout out to. 1:50:08.120 --> 1:50:11.160 DJ seven one three. I don't even think that's on 1:50:11.280 --> 1:50:15.280 Instagram number. I think it's this Area twenty nine out. 1:50:16.520 --> 1:50:19.080 Yeah we would, and then we heard that remix first, 1:50:19.080 --> 1:50:19.639 and then we. 1:50:19.640 --> 1:50:21.840 Thought we were so cool, oh cool, because we had 1:50:21.880 --> 1:50:25.160 found out and shout out to Big Throw r p RW. 1:50:25.439 --> 1:50:28.000 But we were the first ones that found out too 1:50:28.160 --> 1:50:30.479 that Drake and Future were about to drop that album. 1:50:30.560 --> 1:50:34.439 Remember what a Time to be Alive? We was like ooh. 1:50:34.560 --> 1:50:36.280 We was like, oh yeah, I went home and saw 1:50:36.360 --> 1:50:38.360 my mama. I was like, Draking Future about to drop 1:50:38.400 --> 1:50:40.960 a new I remember I tweeted something said who I 1:50:41.040 --> 1:50:43.000 tweeted something? I was listen. This is how I don't 1:50:43.000 --> 1:50:44.880 even know who Dragon Future was. This is how lame 1:50:44.920 --> 1:50:45.200 I was. 1:50:45.240 --> 1:50:45.679 I tweeted. 1:50:45.680 --> 1:50:47.599 I was like, yeah, Drake got something coming and y'all 1:50:47.640 --> 1:50:54.120 gonna love it. I thought I. 1:50:56.240 --> 1:50:56.640 Hate that. 1:50:56.880 --> 1:50:58.800 I said, listen to this ship. When I get in 1:50:58.800 --> 1:51:01.240 a card, I said, yeah, Dray finna drop something. 1:51:01.400 --> 1:51:03.920 Y'all gonna Yeah, y'all gonna fuck with to be. 1:51:03.960 --> 1:51:07.360 Alive with the album A time? Okay, come on, we 1:51:07.360 --> 1:51:10.639 gotta move on. Okay, let's move on for thirty minutes. 1:51:11.120 --> 1:51:11.960 Lord have mercy. 1:51:12.000 --> 1:51:15.560 Okay, this is fucking this is goddamn ridiculous. 1:51:15.920 --> 1:51:19.439 Remember that song this is I thought that was something 1:51:19.479 --> 1:51:24.679 that Ludacris said. That's not like because it's a goddamn dickulous. Hey, 1:51:25.000 --> 1:51:27.800 I mission this is on my necklace and I'm Ludlechris. 1:51:28.680 --> 1:51:32.559 We know what he didn't let us. Forget that man 1:51:32.640 --> 1:51:41.240 named Knew the Chris in a bathroom in the back 1:51:41.280 --> 1:51:44.200 of the classroom. However you want it. 1:51:45.000 --> 1:51:47.599 That's enough, bro, it was him. 1:51:48.040 --> 1:51:48.240 Enough. 1:51:49.200 --> 1:51:53.160 No, I'm talking about the song ridiculous. Oh hey did 1:51:53.160 --> 1:51:55.560 shitty fucking ridiculous? 1:51:55.760 --> 1:51:56.800 I don't remember that one? 1:51:58.120 --> 1:52:02.200 Yeah, okay, sorry, sorry, sorry the drink. Okay, come on, 1:52:02.320 --> 1:52:07.280 we gotta move on. So if y'all want your item 1:52:07.360 --> 1:52:09.400 featured on the show, make sure you email us. Is 1:52:09.400 --> 1:52:12.559 it item of the week? I don't know what it is. 1:52:12.600 --> 1:52:14.559 We'll put it on thing. So we're gonna move on 1:52:14.640 --> 1:52:16.200 to pour your heart out. If you want your question 1:52:16.240 --> 1:52:17.599 to answer on the show, and make sure you email 1:52:17.680 --> 1:52:20.600 us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com. If you're a 1:52:20.680 --> 1:52:23.200 Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline 1:52:23.200 --> 1:52:24.719 because you can skip the line. 1:52:25.640 --> 1:52:27.920 And we're gonna get into the questions today. 1:52:27.960 --> 1:52:31.360 Where are yours at? Oh my god? Oh I just 1:52:31.400 --> 1:52:34.240 have one. It was it was attached to the other one. 1:52:34.600 --> 1:52:35.320 I'll just read one. 1:52:35.400 --> 1:52:35.960 We over time. 1:52:36.000 --> 1:52:44.240 Anyway, Why are you swinging at bussy at me? She's 1:52:44.240 --> 1:52:48.840 swinging at bussy at me? Well, okay, hi, ladies, First 1:52:48.920 --> 1:52:50.360 and foremost, I love you guys. 1:52:50.360 --> 1:52:52.120 And I hope that your sets continues. 1:52:52.439 --> 1:52:54.920 Okay, So this past eight months, I've been talking to 1:52:55.000 --> 1:52:58.320 two guys from two different states. One is about eight 1:52:58.400 --> 1:53:02.519 years younger than me. However, he's extremely caring, emotionally stable, 1:53:02.920 --> 1:53:03.840 and attentive. 1:53:04.200 --> 1:53:05.559 The only issues with him. 1:53:05.400 --> 1:53:08.400 For me are his age, career goals, and the few 1:53:08.400 --> 1:53:12.840 times we've linked. He's never planned anything. We've never discussed relationships, 1:53:12.840 --> 1:53:16.200 but he's extremely possessive over me and it shows. He's 1:53:16.240 --> 1:53:20.040 also very emotional. He's a cancer. The other is a 1:53:20.120 --> 1:53:22.720 year older than me. He has a great job. I've 1:53:22.760 --> 1:53:25.720 met him once. The industry he works in demands him 1:53:25.800 --> 1:53:28.160 to travel a lot, and we've planned a date for 1:53:28.200 --> 1:53:31.479 the near future. The communication is weak with this connection 1:53:31.960 --> 1:53:34.600 due to his job, which I completely get because I 1:53:34.720 --> 1:53:37.960 understand the industry he works in. Would you choose one 1:53:38.040 --> 1:53:40.360 over the other or just continue to go with the flow? 1:53:40.720 --> 1:53:42.519 I just don't want to lead them on. If the 1:53:42.560 --> 1:53:45.720 younger one got his shit together, I could definitely see 1:53:45.760 --> 1:53:48.799 us together. However, the older one has his shit together, 1:53:49.040 --> 1:53:52.080 but he's extremely dedicated to his jobs at time help. 1:53:52.680 --> 1:53:55.320 It sounds like neither one of these guys are your person, 1:53:55.520 --> 1:53:57.240 So just have fun. And go with the flow until 1:53:57.280 --> 1:53:58.120 something bitter comes along. 1:53:58.160 --> 1:54:02.519 Why y'all do they do what? I'm just trying to 1:54:02.520 --> 1:54:05.000 figure out, Like, why do people do that? Why do 1:54:05.040 --> 1:54:06.240 they be like, oh. 1:54:06.240 --> 1:54:07.519 I need to stop talking to one? 1:54:07.640 --> 1:54:11.360 Should I pick these or don't date either one of them? 1:54:11.400 --> 1:54:12.439 Niggas Lena get. 1:54:12.320 --> 1:54:13.559 A whole new ross club. 1:54:13.760 --> 1:54:16.360 I mean whatever, just go with the flow and have fun. 1:54:16.560 --> 1:54:19.000 You can keep them both until you find something else. 1:54:19.840 --> 1:54:22.280 These neither one of these men sound like you're why 1:54:22.320 --> 1:54:23.240 you gotta pee? 1:54:23.400 --> 1:54:26.040 Don't pick as long as you ain't pregnant. 1:54:26.760 --> 1:54:28.640 This is why people I feel like, as long as 1:54:28.680 --> 1:54:30.840 you ain't pregnant, that's always my philosophy. 1:54:31.880 --> 1:54:34.240 You ain't pregnant. But you know what I've noticed, do 1:54:34.320 --> 1:54:37.320 what you want. Women always feel like, oh, I don't 1:54:37.320 --> 1:54:40.480 want to talk to them both? Why not? Men will 1:54:40.560 --> 1:54:43.560 date properly, That's one thing I would give them. They 1:54:44.080 --> 1:54:46.760 date multiple people and make the best puss out the 1:54:47.000 --> 1:54:47.640 proper dator. 1:54:48.000 --> 1:54:50.720 Yeah, women, we need to do the same too. The 1:54:50.760 --> 1:54:52.400 best Nick made the best dick win. 1:54:52.720 --> 1:54:59.840 Hobby be laughing like y'all was preaching today. Hobby No 1:55:00.120 --> 1:55:07.480 laughed like I got a new attitude. 1:55:08.400 --> 1:55:11.760 That's what Hobby said. 1:55:11.800 --> 1:55:18.400 See, Hobby said, he into it today. Okay, but yes, 1:55:18.440 --> 1:55:24.520 it's like, why do y'all? I ain't never heard Hobby laugh. 1:55:25.160 --> 1:55:26.840 He always laughs. 1:55:27.000 --> 1:55:30.040 What are you talking about? No? 1:55:30.120 --> 1:55:32.839 He laughing a lot of today, but he always laughs. 1:55:32.920 --> 1:55:38.640 Though Hobby's laughing, be like, but Hobby is like, and 1:55:38.720 --> 1:55:42.440 you gotta say something real funny to make Hobby laugh. No, 1:55:42.520 --> 1:55:45.200 Hobby is not easily. Hobby have a good sense of humor. 1:55:45.280 --> 1:55:49.200 He laughed, Alike, you don't be hitching me, but he 1:55:49.320 --> 1:55:50.160 laughed all the time. 1:55:50.200 --> 1:55:53.960 Well, you know, I got a bad ear, which one 1:55:54.560 --> 1:55:58.800 real Wow, somebody punched you in it, don't happen. 1:55:59.800 --> 1:56:06.480 Got swimmers here, I got swimmers here? M all right? 1:56:06.920 --> 1:56:12.840 Well, why are you laughing? It's not funny. 1:56:13.360 --> 1:56:16.360 I didn't laugh neither you laughed. That's why I love 1:56:17.120 --> 1:56:21.120 I think that. Can you please take that fucking out 1:56:21.160 --> 1:56:21.879 of your mouth. 1:56:21.760 --> 1:56:23.800 Like a country character. 1:56:25.320 --> 1:56:29.400 I'm ready, So Beyonce, we're going, ain't no hope? Okay, 1:56:29.480 --> 1:56:29.920 keep going? 1:56:30.320 --> 1:56:33.560 Can I say something real quick too about Beyonce haters? 1:56:35.760 --> 1:56:40.480 We're ahead? What we never wait? Fuck the holes. 1:56:41.680 --> 1:56:46.080 Everybody whoever don't like us, Fuck them holes. 1:56:46.200 --> 1:56:50.160 That's who fucked up the door and turned on down 1:56:50.200 --> 1:56:57.000 load and turn in you. They're gonna's solved and slow, baby, 1:56:57.160 --> 1:57:01.920 we ain't got no place to go. I hope you wonder, 1:57:02.000 --> 1:57:05.760 he dad, I've been reading for this salt or they long. 1:57:05.880 --> 1:57:07.480 I'm about to come out with a country album. You 1:57:07.520 --> 1:57:09.400 should but go ahead with you. 1:57:10.160 --> 1:57:12.480 I was just saying, like, I just don't like nobody 1:57:12.520 --> 1:57:13.520 did don't like Beyonce. 1:57:13.680 --> 1:57:16.120 That's fair, That's fair because I just feel like why 1:57:16.400 --> 1:57:20.120 she don't more than nobody they get mad now. They're 1:57:20.120 --> 1:57:22.320 mad at her because they feel like Miss Tina speaks 1:57:22.320 --> 1:57:25.720 for her too much, and so that's what mama should. Dude, 1:57:25.920 --> 1:57:28.280 y'all know they ain't have no mama around when they 1:57:28.320 --> 1:57:33.160 was growing up. That's why tier Marie said it, and 1:57:33.160 --> 1:57:36.160 that's why y'all needed to listen to Hood too. I 1:57:36.240 --> 1:57:37.040 just don't like. 1:57:37.160 --> 1:57:39.600 I don't like how people be disrespecting our legiends they 1:57:39.640 --> 1:57:42.280 be disrespecting tier Marie too, and I don't like that. 1:57:42.440 --> 1:57:44.720 I don't like when they talk to nobody. Actually, because 1:57:44.720 --> 1:57:47.520 I seen somebody being funny about Missy Elliott the other day, 1:57:47.960 --> 1:57:50.960 and one thing I don't play with it is Missy 1:57:51.120 --> 1:57:53.240 fucking Elliott. What they said to her. 1:57:53.320 --> 1:57:54.600 I can't remember what they said. 1:57:55.360 --> 1:57:58.280 They said something like, I don't know if they were 1:57:58.320 --> 1:58:00.000 listening to like a song she had dropped. They were 1:58:00.120 --> 1:58:02.760 was like something about she needs to stop dropping music 1:58:02.840 --> 1:58:05.600 because somebody said the top female rappers while we never 1:58:05.640 --> 1:58:09.000 bring Missy in the conversation, and they were like, that's 1:58:09.040 --> 1:58:10.880 because she can't make a hot song and she needs 1:58:10.880 --> 1:58:12.600 to stop because this is the last song she dropped. 1:58:12.600 --> 1:58:15.120 First of all. That's how I know, y'all you ain't 1:58:15.160 --> 1:58:18.200 never heard socking to me on a Friday night. Y'all 1:58:18.240 --> 1:58:28.360 too fucking young. You know what I'm saying. Doo dood goodo, like, 1:58:28.480 --> 1:58:31.400 stop fucking playing with I can't stand the ring? 1:58:32.440 --> 1:58:33.080 Who can hop? 1:58:33.160 --> 1:58:33.400 Boy? 1:58:33.560 --> 1:58:35.120 You can fucking sample? 1:58:36.880 --> 1:58:41.000 Baby? You got one? Break me up? Show me what 1:58:41.080 --> 1:58:42.760 you got. That's when who was in there. 1:58:42.840 --> 1:58:55.320 Lula, I'm the maintenance man, Cris. 1:58:55.400 --> 1:59:02.640 We are looking her part too. I love that what 1:59:02.760 --> 1:59:06.520 she said one minute to minutes, three minutes, hell no 1:59:06.640 --> 1:59:09.080 to please me, you got to sleep in it. I said, 1:59:09.160 --> 1:59:12.440 ooh freaky, why are you making that thing? 1:59:18.160 --> 1:59:21.040 It is way too much. But I love me some Trina. 1:59:21.680 --> 1:59:25.520 In fact, a press run right now and she needed, oh, 1:59:25.880 --> 1:59:27.280 I don't think we've reached out to her. We're gonna 1:59:27.280 --> 1:59:29.400 reach out to her. She's doing a whole press run 1:59:29.480 --> 1:59:31.440 right now. We need to reach out to her. 1:59:31.320 --> 1:59:35.560 Because, first and foremost, what's your favorite Trina Verse ever? 1:59:36.360 --> 1:59:40.720 My favorite trina Verse ever? Oh my, oh my god, 1:59:41.400 --> 1:59:46.400 all of them? Do you remember that I'm speaking? Oh? 1:59:46.520 --> 1:59:49.040 It's so many. Honestly, I'm not trying to be funny. 1:59:49.080 --> 1:59:52.200 I think my favorite. I'll say this, this is my 1:59:52.400 --> 1:59:54.720 personal favorite. It might not be her best one, but 1:59:54.960 --> 1:59:56.200 her take it to the house verse. 1:59:56.400 --> 1:59:58.840 I'm a five star beat because I ain't that other 1:59:58.960 --> 2:00:03.120 beat from the womb. I've been riched all right there, 2:00:03.200 --> 2:00:05.960 Miss Trina makes the ballers want a stir sky hot 2:00:06.000 --> 2:00:07.720 sun now boots lined with the fur. 2:00:08.120 --> 2:00:10.040 Pop, pull a switch, pull it, don't but make it 2:00:10.080 --> 2:00:11.920 to work. I'm a flirt to let her and a 2:00:12.040 --> 2:00:15.280 throat bad skirt. I'm that bad bitch box Beinging's own 2:00:15.320 --> 2:00:18.600 blade rocks on my wrists like pink lemonade. Keep your 2:00:18.600 --> 2:00:21.560 brochers in your rings for the mother girls, lo mama, 2:00:21.640 --> 2:00:24.800 watch strings, push and nail pearls. I'm back for my crown. 2:00:24.880 --> 2:00:26.200 Fake bitches, dive down. 2:00:26.480 --> 2:00:27.400 It's the remix. 2:00:27.480 --> 2:00:29.880 What you want to do? Now? You know? I like 2:00:30.240 --> 2:00:33.000 you do her get loose in the club, like you 2:00:33.120 --> 2:00:33.960 just don't curve. 2:00:34.640 --> 2:00:37.720 She ate that she used to eat all the songs 2:00:38.040 --> 2:00:39.640 shout out to Trina and Joe. 2:00:40.560 --> 2:00:42.040 She got a lot of verses that I like, though, 2:00:42.720 --> 2:00:46.160 like Trina is probably like between her one of my 2:00:46.280 --> 2:00:51.200 top five best female rap I agree, I'm gonna put 2:00:51.480 --> 2:00:53.720 I definitely put Trina in my top five. And I 2:00:53.720 --> 2:00:55.680 think it's you know, I'm not gonna watch it. And Nikki. 2:00:56.400 --> 2:01:00.400 I know the girls be controversial about nikkias but I. 2:01:01.280 --> 2:01:04.000 I mean, but she cannot deny her talent. I just 2:01:04.080 --> 2:01:09.480 had an epiphany. I need that guy NAIs. I'm not 2:01:09.480 --> 2:01:12.880 gonna lie though, Nicki Minaj is my number two because 2:01:13.520 --> 2:01:16.360 I've always been a Missy stand though I literally had 2:01:16.400 --> 2:01:20.120 all Missy's albums, Missy is your number one. I'm telling you, 2:01:20.240 --> 2:01:23.920 y'all have never okay. So te Pain has always been 2:01:24.040 --> 2:01:26.880 like up here to me, like when I was like, 2:01:27.080 --> 2:01:28.840 I know, the pinnacle of my career is when I 2:01:28.840 --> 2:01:31.080 can sit next to t Pain. So the fact that 2:01:31.120 --> 2:01:34.160 I've done that because like te Pain to me and 2:01:34.200 --> 2:01:36.560 Missy to me are like right here. When I get 2:01:36.560 --> 2:01:43.760 Missy Elliott on this couch, I woke up at five 2:01:43.760 --> 2:01:45.760 o'clock in the morning one morning because it was when 2:01:45.800 --> 2:01:48.240 her work It had premiered, and they were talking about 2:01:48.240 --> 2:01:50.480 because she didn't premiere on one on sixth In parts 2:01:50.480 --> 2:01:53.360 she permiitted on like a morning thing that MTV used 2:01:53.360 --> 2:01:55.000 to have. I woke up at five o'clock in the 2:01:55.040 --> 2:01:58.320 morning before my volleyball tournament, and I just remember listening 2:01:58.320 --> 2:02:03.120 to work it over and over and over and over 2:02:04.480 --> 2:02:08.920 m hm and over mm hmm. She's she was ahead 2:02:08.920 --> 2:02:12.120 of her time. She was, she was so ahead of 2:02:12.120 --> 2:02:14.640 her time. And we need to put when y'all start 2:02:14.680 --> 2:02:17.160 having when y'all be having these conversations, y'all need to 2:02:17.200 --> 2:02:21.800 stop skipping Missy, period because how can they could they 2:02:21.840 --> 2:02:24.760 do every time? And I don't get it. She was 2:02:24.800 --> 2:02:30.560 a producer, a writer, a rapper, a singer, choreographer. Missy 2:02:30.640 --> 2:02:33.839 is really running circles around a lot of these people, 2:02:34.000 --> 2:02:39.280 for real, for real, take away the golden platinum chains 2:02:40.320 --> 2:02:41.240 and I ain't going. 2:02:42.960 --> 2:02:43.640 I'm going. 2:02:44.960 --> 2:02:48.600 Hung out to Genie Wye who used to beasts, and 2:02:48.840 --> 2:02:49.600 I want Genie. 2:02:53.160 --> 2:02:59.160 That's what y'all. Let's wrap this up. He said, same 2:02:59.440 --> 2:03:05.160 old g What do sme molgi with the arms. 2:03:05.600 --> 2:03:09.600 We went like this, you ain't lift up there. 2:03:10.920 --> 2:03:14.720 It's soft. It's soft. I got a lot of ass 2:03:14.800 --> 2:03:17.160 under death. I don't think I can do that either way. 2:03:17.680 --> 2:03:22.400 You can't. I can't do that. It's soft anyway? All right? 2:03:24.360 --> 2:03:26.200 No, no, we done? 2:03:26.240 --> 2:03:34.720 Okay, say what you gotta say? Was so incredible. 2:03:38.920 --> 2:03:43.080 Remember when tweet what I did last night? 2:03:43.560 --> 2:03:45.480 What do tweet? Gotta do? A genie? Because she had 2:03:45.520 --> 2:03:48.880 Missy Elliott. I looked over to the less. She said, 2:03:50.360 --> 2:03:54.160 I was on my thighs butter picking brou y'all was 2:03:54.240 --> 2:03:59.520 horny oos. I was about master babe who that goes 2:03:59.640 --> 2:04:05.080 my turn up? Said, oh my, I tried. 2:04:06.000 --> 2:04:11.560 I'm not tobby like he left like. 2:04:13.200 --> 2:04:18.720 I was my thigh husband. He can bro all right. 2:04:18.960 --> 2:04:21.280 So the point I was making was what I was 2:04:21.280 --> 2:04:24.360 gonna say real quick before we eating these that fucking 2:04:24.440 --> 2:04:27.640 tweet of juvenile, I mean, not genuine. 2:04:28.960 --> 2:04:31.200 I don't know how I confused. 2:04:34.160 --> 2:04:38.280 Come on now, genu Wine and the men. It was 2:04:38.280 --> 2:04:40.640 his background singer singing, and they was like, I hate 2:04:40.680 --> 2:04:43.440 old niggas, I hate. 2:04:43.160 --> 2:04:44.800 Old But what song was they singing? 2:04:46.200 --> 2:04:50.760 Was it pony? No? Are you sure it was something else? 2:04:51.800 --> 2:04:54.920 It was so funny. I did my part. I think 2:04:54.960 --> 2:04:58.480 it was phony. No, it wasn't, pony. I'm a thousand 2:04:58.520 --> 2:04:59.480 percent positive. 2:04:59.720 --> 2:05:02.240 But anyways, they was just like I hate old niggas 2:05:02.280 --> 2:05:11.920 because the niggas was in and the girls was like, 2:05:12.280 --> 2:05:14.560 they was like, I hate old niggas, and that's actually 2:05:14.560 --> 2:05:15.839 the reason why I love. 2:05:15.760 --> 2:05:18.840 Old If an old niggas start busting out in the 2:05:18.920 --> 2:05:19.680 song for me. 2:05:19.840 --> 2:05:21.800 But you know what, I get what they were saying 2:05:21.880 --> 2:05:24.640 because that's how I feel when old niggas start like 2:05:24.840 --> 2:05:27.560 doing their little sorority step. That's why I mean for 2:05:27.600 --> 2:05:29.120 eterning these steps in the club. 2:05:29.320 --> 2:05:31.760 That's what happened. Put it out. They was like. 2:05:33.960 --> 2:05:36.600 I said, oh we was there, calm down. 2:05:37.360 --> 2:05:39.760 They was barking in our years and ship they was 2:05:39.840 --> 2:05:44.480 and I was just like, move niggas the fuck and 2:05:44.560 --> 2:05:48.200 niggas be so excited they be what was that song? 2:05:48.280 --> 2:05:50.120 What's the song that they be stepping two? 2:05:51.720 --> 2:05:51.960 Yeah? 2:05:53.880 --> 2:05:59.040 Time? I said, oh, brother, I took my chicken strips 2:05:59.040 --> 2:06:04.480 and I left. I did I did you know? I did? 2:06:05.360 --> 2:06:08.040 And what's the They all got their own song. The 2:06:08.120 --> 2:06:12.840 Kappas got white me down. But that's New age though. 2:06:12.880 --> 2:06:14.680 What was like the because I feel like that was 2:06:14.720 --> 2:06:16.800 like when I was in college like what was before 2:06:16.840 --> 2:06:19.920 that though, because I was like atomic dog Ben for 2:06:20.040 --> 2:06:22.640 the cap I mean Ben for the the cut doll 2:06:22.880 --> 2:06:24.640 for like fifty years. 2:06:25.000 --> 2:06:25.960 I don't know what it was. 2:06:26.400 --> 2:06:33.120 But then the alphas got I don't know. 2:06:33.840 --> 2:06:35.800 I ain't been in college since nineteen sixty four. 2:06:36.800 --> 2:06:39.360 Also, but before we close this out, I also thought about, 2:06:39.400 --> 2:06:42.919 since we were talking about Rihanna and Tierra Marie earlier, 2:06:43.120 --> 2:06:47.280 when Tweet dropped, people people was comparing Tweet and Ashanti. 2:06:47.840 --> 2:06:52.640 No, yes they was. I'm saying, no, huh, you're saying 2:06:52.680 --> 2:06:57.040 no that they was. I'm saying, no, they can't be compared. 2:06:57.160 --> 2:06:59.000 I know, but I'm saying when they first dropped, they 2:06:59.080 --> 2:07:03.360 dropped at the same time. M hm. Another bop of 2:07:03.400 --> 2:07:07.120 the week tweets cigarettes. It's such a good song there 2:07:06.880 --> 2:07:11.440 you smoking cigarettes and nice. That was on her best songs. 2:07:12.360 --> 2:07:14.960 So thank y'all so much for tuning in. See y'all 2:07:14.960 --> 2:07:26.560 next week. I don't want to leave it. That sounded 2:07:26.640 --> 2:07:30.360 good too, See y'all next week. 2:07:30.920 --> 2:07:31.200 Y'all. 2:07:31.200 --> 2:07:35.960 Make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all 2:07:36.000 --> 2:07:37.560 that good stuff. And let me say this before we 2:07:37.600 --> 2:07:41.640 close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is 2:07:41.680 --> 2:07:45.560 connected to poor minds. It's p o, you are underscore 2:07:46.040 --> 2:07:49.800 in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. 2:07:50.000 --> 2:07:52.520 If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that 2:07:52.600 --> 2:07:54.880 is at fake page. Do not follow that page. Okay, 2:07:55.200 --> 2:07:58.920 they blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both, 2:07:58.960 --> 2:08:04.880 so we only have up one Instagram, one Twitter one TikTok. 2:08:05.160 --> 2:08:08.440 It's p o, you are underscore in my nds. All right, 2:08:08.880 --> 2:08:11.520 and we got a hell a fake Facebook page on 2:08:11.640 --> 2:08:14.760 the Facebook pages it's our face. The crazy thing is 2:08:14.840 --> 2:08:17.600 our Facebook page actually have the least amount of fou 2:08:18.040 --> 2:08:20.640 So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the 2:08:20.720 --> 2:08:21.960 least amount of file. 2:08:21.760 --> 2:08:24.080 But one that's not us got like two hundred and 2:08:24.160 --> 2:08:24.839 fifty thou. 2:08:25.520 --> 2:08:27.240 Make if you actually look at the content because the 2:08:27.280 --> 2:08:30.360 caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because 2:08:30.400 --> 2:08:33.560 their captures are like bumba claude should men? Should men 2:08:33.640 --> 2:08:38.920 pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No check answer 2:08:39.040 --> 2:08:43.880 below block block pull pull pull off, Like that's literally 2:08:43.880 --> 2:08:47.280 what the captions. I'm like you what that DG's bumba claude, 2:08:47.440 --> 2:08:53.680 bamba claud. Let's go slide over here and talk to 2:08:53.720 --> 2:08:56.600 the boy. What are you drinking? And I'm about the boy. 2:08:57.080 --> 2:08:59.840 I was just thinking of seeing you tomorrow. Wake it 2:08:59.920 --> 2:09:03.200 up up with no panties, No, bra, I ain't being nasty. 2:09:03.240 --> 2:09:05.200 I'm just being for real. Let me take off my 2:09:05.240 --> 2:09:07.680 belt and give you the whip a pill. Yeah, you 2:09:07.760 --> 2:09:09.400 heard about what I do in the streets, but you 2:09:09.480 --> 2:09:11.400 gonna love what I do in the sheets. 2:09:12.120 --> 2:09:15.720 Say, Babby, what's your story? And you got the goods? 2:09:15.720 --> 2:09:18.040 It's plain to see to kind of get her. Keep 2:09:18.080 --> 2:09:22.680 your brother on his knees, and I'm so curious after 2:09:22.720 --> 2:09:26.320 the club hang out with me Valentine. No is sure 2:09:26.400 --> 2:09:29.480 to please, But now let's have an upper marsy knee 2:09:29.720 --> 2:09:37.160 and get to know each other. Tell me and no jeans. 2:09:37.280 --> 2:09:41.160 The way you popping here is killing me. Here, come 2:09:41.280 --> 2:09:42.320 follow me. 2:09:44.040 --> 2:09:44.480 Tell me. 2:09:45.040 --> 2:09:47.440 I don't need to get that and those jeans. The 2:09:47.480 --> 2:09:49.480 way you're here is killing me. 2:09:50.160 --> 2:09:52.600 I meet you and the bee pee. 2:09:55.120 --> 2:09:58.160 I'm a bad boy. Gotta let you know these other 2:09:58.280 --> 2:10:02.080 thoughts running through my mind because I'm so curious. Yeah, 2:10:02.720 --> 2:10:05.640 drop bullshots to you. Out the dog's speed up in 2:10:05.720 --> 2:10:08.680 the coop because there's more restore Wait till a pool 2:10:08.760 --> 2:10:13.360 in my driveway girl, sell everybody now, I want you 2:10:14.640 --> 2:10:21.920 sake to thing go. You're the fine staying there. Walk 2:10:22.040 --> 2:10:28.720 in this club, your girls days on comparity you and you. 2:10:30.200 --> 2:10:33.320 Let's make a toe to the good life. 2:10:33.760 --> 2:10:38.200 Hi, tell me how did I get that? The way 2:10:38.200 --> 2:10:41.760 you're wropping down is killing me? Look over here, come 2:10:41.920 --> 2:10:47.040 follow me. Tell me how did you get that? And 2:10:47.200 --> 2:10:50.160 nose geen. The way you're dropping down is killing me. 2:10:50.720 --> 2:10:53.280 I'll meet you when the via pea. 2:10:53.920 --> 2:10:59.120 Maybe eyes are hazy eyes. I may be right up again. 2:10:59.240 --> 2:11:02.440 So ya like of whether so purchasing your face so heavily. 2:11:02.560 --> 2:11:05.960 I'm thanking God you better be and then I'm very sweet. 2:11:06.080 --> 2:11:08.320 And if we get caught, you could be my accessory 2:11:08.480 --> 2:11:10.400 access to the condo Miami. 2:11:10.480 --> 2:11:13.080 You have breakers on the floor butt naked. We saying it, 2:11:13.160 --> 2:11:16.160 but I'm too dark to teen mama partner your men 2:11:16.680 --> 2:11:21.240 smark you're wining? Why then the places you go caught 2:11:21.320 --> 2:11:25.920 up in your vobe try to kick it like Judo. 2:11:26.000 --> 2:11:30.160 Leg and on other things you know, you know Holle 2:11:30.360 --> 2:11:34.120 and Gito. I'm probably all vibing with Wabi Belita. 2:11:35.560 --> 2:11:39.000 Takes the thing you washing it. 2:11:41.080 --> 2:11:46.080 Heh oh, tell me. 2:11:51.480 --> 2:11:53.320 Jacob to. 2:11:59.720 --> 2:12:10.040 No poor get you. Yeah, I wanted a smell it. 2:12:12.560 --> 2:12:13.000 Baby. 2:12:13.520 --> 2:12:23.920 Yeah No, how did you get that? Now did you 2:12:24.080 --> 2:12:29.200 do it? How did you do it? How did you get. 2:12:28.960 --> 2:12:34.240 That bussing back there? You ain't gotta no wonder where, 2:12:35.880 --> 2:12:35.920 no