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Speaker 1: Vocally, y'all think Trey song sings better than fetti wop?

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Speaker 1: No way, y'all are kidding me right, I'm not talking

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Speaker 1: about music now, we know Trey songs makes better music,

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Speaker 1: but y'all talking about vocally y'all think Trey song sings

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Speaker 1: better than fetti wop? Yes? Me neither. Betty wop sounded

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Speaker 1: like Whitney Houston. What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lex p

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Speaker 1: And it's your girl Dre and the call and you

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Speaker 1: are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds. We're

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Speaker 1: a drunk mine speak sober thought. We ain't got no

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Speaker 1: guests today. We ain't got no guests today period. So

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Speaker 1: we were just having a conversation and we were talking

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Speaker 1: about like good throwback songs, like some good good throwback

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Speaker 1: songs do you I want to talk about? So we

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Speaker 1: were talking about like Trick Daddy and his throwback song.

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Speaker 2: What was the song? You was just singing the song?

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Speaker 1: I ain't really here to play no games?

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Speaker 3: Yo?

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Speaker 1: You already mind name? Yeah? Yeah, hit they don't make

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Speaker 1: they don't do it like that no more. I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about the Timberland era. That was a good era.

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Speaker 1: You Timberland really and you know what this is what

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Speaker 1: is so crazy because it goes to show you like

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Speaker 1: everything goes out of style, but it'll come back, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like Timberlin had that good like

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Speaker 1: nineties two thousand sound and obviously like now that's not

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Speaker 1: what people are listening to, but it's gonna come back.

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Speaker 1: He still be producing, people still be producing. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying is like people don't really look for like

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Speaker 1: Timbaland type beats. They're looking for that take Keith beat.

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Speaker 1: They're looking for, you know, a metro booming type beat

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Speaker 1: right now because that's what's hot right now. But one

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Speaker 1: thing I love about Timberland though, he makes like music

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Speaker 1: that you can listen to, because I can still listen

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Speaker 1: to Hot Light Fire. I was actually listening to that

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Speaker 1: the other day, Like I put that on my Instagram

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Speaker 1: post the other day. Timeless music kids.

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Speaker 2: He he had a good run with ce Loo.

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Speaker 1: How could be gonapeak you with ridiculous? Like damn, they

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Speaker 1: don't do it like that no more. You know, music

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Speaker 1: just isn't the same.

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Speaker 2: It's not the same. Carry Hilson had.

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Speaker 1: A great run with Timberlin. Carrie Hillson's first and second album, Perfection.

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Speaker 4: I was watching that movie yesterday, almost Christmas, and she

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Speaker 4: was in that movie Shots Secury was Almost Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Who's in that? Vanny Glover Monee? Oh, yes she was, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I know what ever real union she was? She was

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Speaker 4: I can't remember her her real name, that's the respectful

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Speaker 4: she's alleging.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, I know what's her name?

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Speaker 1: I can't think of it. Somebody remember her name? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I look, hey, not say her name, but you know

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Speaker 1: who also had a great run together justin Timberlake and Timberland.

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Speaker 1: They did crime around, Creamy, crimey crime, creamy, crimey. Oh

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Speaker 1: that was such a good song. Well I'm gonna listen

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Speaker 1: to that in a car because you know what we

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Speaker 1: Justin Bieber is just me because Justin Timberlake was like

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Speaker 1: the first Wiga. He was the first one that we're like,

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Speaker 1: we were like, do he like a little chocolate in

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Speaker 2: Like a little chocolate in that.

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Speaker 1: But we thought, you know, sometimes you think they gonna

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's a difference. So

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Speaker 1: I think we at one point we all thought that,

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Speaker 1: And if you don't want to be challenged, that means

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Speaker 2: So if you call that annoying, good for you.

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Speaker 1: But I'm finna go up over here where the challenges

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Speaker 2: In order to grow.

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Speaker 1: It's a challenge because in your comfort zone, it's not challenging.

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Speaker 1: In order to grow, it's a challenge no matter what.

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Speaker 1: That's how I personally feel like growing is not easy.

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Speaker 4: think like we be running niggas away, and I said, hmmm, interesting, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's an interesting perspective. But you know, being with being somebody,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm still friends with all my friends

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Speaker 1: because I'm not finna shut up just to keep a man.

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Speaker 1: Then a lot of times when you go look at

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Speaker 1: I mean I disagree with that too. I think that.

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Speaker 4: What kind of relationship are you in if you can't

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Speaker 4: mean just not telling you my perspective, Like I'm just

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Speaker 4: giving you my perspective, I'm giving you my opinion.

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Speaker 4: This is how I look at the situation, which might

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Speaker 4: from a living place, though, But why does it have

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Speaker 6: Disrespectful?

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Speaker 4: And I think people just like to associate those words

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Speaker 1: Too, because I just be wondering, like, okay, so you

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Speaker 2: So this is not for the women who are easy going.

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Speaker 1: But if you're trying to force yourself to be easy going,

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Speaker 1: where did that get you? Though? I think it gets

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Speaker 4: I do think being easy going get people a lot

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Speaker 4: of places. But I also think because when you just

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of the time it is easier

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Speaker 4: Maybe even in the long term, I think it's easy

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Speaker 4: guess that's what I mean. But I think some people

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of people care more about what

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Speaker 4: they household, between them and the men they cool with dealing.

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Speaker 1: With all its long as it look good on the outside,

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't think black women are abrasive. I think weve been.

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Speaker 4: I think that we were raised by women for generations

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Speaker 4: I feel like my mama prepared me to be ready

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Speaker 4: to deal with whatever, like however it's coming, be ready

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Speaker 4: war from birth. Yes, but I feel like that's how

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Speaker 1: that lady used to hate on you because you had

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00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 1: that fat ass. But they're all like jays. I don't

435
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 1: think she was hating. Not to think she she was.

436
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 1: She's seen a battie and her panty. She's not battie

437
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 1: with a fatty. I'm telling showing her panty, I'm not.

438
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't. No, I was being funny. But I'm telling

439
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 1: you older women because this is what happened to me

440
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 1: at my last job. When they see somebody that's young

441
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 1: and they see and they're you're smart, you ambitious, and

442
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 1: they know they know you're not supposed to be here,

443
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 1: and they know that they didn't probably misstate mark on

444
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: what they they wanted to do and maybe follow their dreams.

445
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: Because I told you, the lady was so mean to

446
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: me when I was like, hey, I'm just trying to

447
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 1: make ends meet. I need to go to the radio station.

448
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: She was mad about it.

449
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy, I think some of the

450
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 4: people they was actually really doing what they wanted to

451
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 4: do with their life. Like I feel like they was

452
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 4: cool with working where they were working. They just didn't

453
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 4: want you to surpass them. At least that's how I

454
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 4: feel when I worked in corporate America, Like, I don't

455
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 4: think it was like, oh, you haven't reached your peak,

456
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 4: you haven't reached out potential.

457
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna go on to do bigger things than me,

458
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 1: So I'm hating on you.

459
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 4: I think it's like, this is what I'm doing, this

460
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 4: is what I'm gonna be doing till I die, and

461
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,239
Speaker 4: I be damned if you take my place, or if

462
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 4: you surpassed me because you're younger and you come home.

463
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 1: My god. That's really what I think it was.

464
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 4: But again, I think that some people are okay with

465
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 4: being in an environment where they're being told to do

466
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 4: what to do all the time by other people and

467
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 4: they can't be free thinkers or do what they want

468
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 4: or have their own schedule or with their own schedule.

469
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 4: That just wasn't for me. There's anything wrong with that,

470
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 4: but it just didn't work for me. So I think

471
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 4: I was never a good employee because I always used

472
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 4: to be like, why the fuck I gotta listen to you?

473
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 4: And why the fuck I gotta be here at these times.

474
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 1: I remember when I used to work for that company.

475
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 1: I mean, it don't matter.

476
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 2: I used to work for a company called Regis.

477
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: And we had an employee meeting one day and I

478
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: remember the lady like she was over the regional She

479
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 1: was like the regional manager, and she was like, yeah,

480
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: because if you want to get to my position, and

481
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 1: good luck because to get here and babahlah, and like

482
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: I remember afterwards, everybody was doing like an interview afterwards

483
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: because I kind of see how you felt about the job,

484
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: how things were going. And she was like, okay, so

485
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: how do you want to grow with the company. Where

486
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: do you see yourself in five years with the company.

487
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't see myself being here,

488
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: like this is just temporary for me.

489
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 4: And when I tell you she got you said yeah,

490
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 4: I probably wouldn't have said it.

491
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: I mean, but at the end of the day, she

492
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 1: was asking what I got my degree in.

493
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 4: I don't see you should say that it worked, but

494
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 4: I tell you why, Actually I don't think I'm going

495
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 4: to be here.

496
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Speaker 1: I mean, but the the thing is, she was asking me,

497
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: what did you get your degree in? Yeah? And I

498
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: told her what I got my degree and she was like, okay, well,

499
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: what do you want to do. I say, you know,

500
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: I want to get into you know, like television. At

501
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 1: that point, I didn't know we were doing the YouTube stuff,

502
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,119
Speaker 1: so it wasn't nothing serious. She's like, so, where do

503
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 1: you see yourself in five years with the company? I said,

504
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, you know, this is like a

505
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: stepping stone, so I'm you. I mean, of course I

506
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: didn't say it like that, but I was like, I'm

507
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: using this as a stepping stone so I can learn,

508
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 1: you know, managing skills and this and that. You know,

509
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 1: I'm fluffing it up. But at the same time, it's like,

510
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,199
Speaker 1: I don't want to be here, and then you just

511
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: sat in front of everybody and told us good luck

512
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: to being where you want to be. And one thing

513
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like when people try to

514
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: talk down on you, because like they feel like, oh,

515
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: I'm up here and you work for me, and I'm

516
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: the regional manager, but you not the CEO. And even

517
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: if you are the CEO, you don't need to look

518
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: down on anybody, like we all trying to figure this

519
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 1: shit out. So it just kind of rubbed me the

520
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: wrong way, and I was just kind of like I

521
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: was serving it to her like she had tried to

522
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: serve it to us. I love on hoes, talk down, Yeah, yeah,

523
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: because I know she is. I know she probably like,

524
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: look at that bitch, That's what I'm saying.

525
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 4: So who cares? It's like you ricey. So I wasn't

526
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 4: gonna make it there.

527
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then at my other job that I had,

528
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: I actually had an opportunity to move up in the

529
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: company after I left that company, and he wanted me

530
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: to sign a contract that I was gonna be with

531
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: the company for at least four years.

532
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 2: I said, I can't do that. I can give you

533
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 2: what you need right now.

534
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: I can give you what you need right now, but

535
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm not signing a contract to be here for four years.

536
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 1: And literally like a year and a half later, we

537
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: had went on and you was a good employee. That

538
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: was a great I am a great worker. But I

539
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: think that's what makes me a great boss too. I

540
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: think there's two sides of being a boss. There's somebody

541
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 1: who like you are like the type of boss like

542
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: you like being in control, You're organized, you're smart, You're

543
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: very like, this is what I want and this is

544
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna execute. I'm on the other hand, I

545
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: think that's why we work so well. On me the

546
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 1: other end, I know how it feel like to be

547
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: a great employee. I know what to look for because

548
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: I know what I gave to the companies, and I

549
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: think that's why it works so well. Because I'm very

550
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: much gay. My no, I'm when I used.

551
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 2: To work, I used to clock up.

552
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: Baby, Look, I was given my all. Let's rich, dude.

553
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: I mean, well, how I met you?

554
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 4: Well, we were working together at first, but then you

555
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 4: became my boss.

556
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: I mean because I'm not gonna lie.

557
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 6: To the manager.

558
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: Every club was like every I ain't gonna love this, yek,

559
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: she'll take advantage. I used to be like, I used

560
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: to take to like Lex, I'm gonna be thirty minutes late.

561
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: I'll be like, I got you covered, y'all be just

562
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: be on time and dravy walking in and they'd be like, well,

563
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: why don't worry.

564
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 6: About walking in with Chick fil a water Burger.

565
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 1: And y'all know I love a little burger. She used

566
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: to brother. I used to bring her food to brob

567
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: me a little burger. But I say this though, I

568
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: promise you I'm not kidding. Every single job I've ever

569
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: had since I was sixteen years old.

570
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 2: I promoted every time, every single.

571
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: Time, every single time. I I don't know. I like

572
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: to work. I thrive in the work environ. Really, I'm

573
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: an overachiever. I am like when it comes to like

574
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. I just like to

575
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: be the best at everything, like I have to. I

576
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: gotta show you. So I think that's where we differ

577
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 1: at too, Cause like one thing about you, like you

578
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: gonna start something. If you don't like you be like

579
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: fuck it, I'm about to move on, and you gonna

580
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

581
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 4: I don't like wasting time, right, What wasted time is

582
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 4: the worst thing in the world to me, Like when

583
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,199
Speaker 4: I think about myself as like an old person, the

584
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 4: worst thing that I think of that's gonna like make

585
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 4: me cringe and look back on my life and be

586
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: so regretful is wasting.

587
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: My time on anything.

588
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 4: Money, all this stuff, Like none of that stuff matters

589
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 4: that much to me because you can get all this

590
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 4: like you can get money bag.

591
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean.

592
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 4: So I don't care so much about like losing money

593
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 4: on like a bad investment or if something needn't work out.

594
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: Even when people talk about stuff like, oh, you spend

595
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 1: all this money on rent, or.

596
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 4: You spend all this money on X, Y and Z,

597
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 4: might as well buy a house money that I'm gonna

598
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 4: get back right right, but I have a place to stay.

599
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: One of my uncles taught me that.

600
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,959
Speaker 4: Though I was trying us to my uncle Mama, one

601
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 4: of my mama brothers, he always taught me that. He

602
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 4: was like, I never understood why people trip or care

603
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 4: so much about spending money on stuff, and they'll try

604
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 4: to make people feel bad about not owning something. Mind you,

605
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 4: this is one of my uncle who one of my

606
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 4: uncles who owned like three properties.

607
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: But he was just like, buy shit when you're ready.

608
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 4: He always told me that buy a house when you ready,

609
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 4: Buy property when you're ready, because at the end of

610
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 4: the day, as long as you have somewhere to lay

611
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 4: your head, and if you not ready to take on

612
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 4: all of the maintenance that it takes to have a home,

613
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 4: whenever something breaks, you have to fix it. When you

614
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 4: live in an apartment, the apartment got to fix it.

615
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 4: That's part of your rent. Cause do what makes sense

616
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 4: to you. Yeah, So I just feel like I don't know,

617
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 4: like I think about money and all of those things

618
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 4: as things wasted.

619
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: I think about time all the time.

620
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 4: So I think that's when why when I was younger,

621
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 4: it was all and even now you're in realcation, it's

622
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 4: so easy for me to be like fuck this shit,

623
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 4: because if I say fuck it and then what I

624
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 4: go do doesn't work out, I can go back to

625
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 4: that or maybe not the exact same right right, obviously,

626
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 4: but something similar like when I quit my corporate job. Okay,

627
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 4: when I made the decision and took the risks to

628
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 4: decide to move to Atlanta. So I would have moved

629
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 4: to Atlanta and I stayed here for two years and

630
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 4: shit didn't work out and I need to move back

631
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 4: to Houston.

632
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: I could have went back.

633
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: And got another corporate job working in oil and gas

634
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 4: because I already had a year and a half of experience.

635
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. So I don't know.

636
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: I think people just I think a lot of people

637
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: do need to be more risk takers in life. Well,

638
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: I think there's also characteristics to being like a boss,

639
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: and I think people need to realize it's a cycle.

640
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: We need bosses, right, we need CEOs, we need entrepreneurs,

641
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: but we also do need you know, the working class.

642
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: We need people who are good and like I said,

643
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: I think that's why our balance is so well because

644
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: we need people like you who are risk takers, who

645
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: start things, who think outside the box, who take that risk.

646
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: And then we also need people like me.

647
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: I can work, I know how I'm gonna show up,

648
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the job. But also on the end

649
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: of me being an entrepreneur and a CEO, I have

650
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: that experience of like, Okay, I understand the type of

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Speaker 1: we sit you. Okay, I want to talk about Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: real quick. Thanksgiving, Dude, what dish does not belong at Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: Because I have a dish. I think it's very strange

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Speaker 1: when I show up to people's houses and they have this.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it belongs on the table. I think

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Speaker 1: that it's very weird when they have it. So y'all

723
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Speaker 1: let me know if I'm wrong. Okay, I not hate.

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Speaker 1: I think it's very strange when people cook mashed potatoes

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Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving. I think mashed potatoes is very weird on Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like Thanksgiving is like it's given, like

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Speaker 1: dressing mac and cheese. Like I feel like mashed potatoes

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Speaker 1: is such like a dish, like you normally eat mashed

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Speaker 1: potatoes on a Tuesday night. I'm gonna take the advice

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Speaker 1: the opinion anybody who eats green bean casserole with a

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Speaker 1: green but that's Thanksgiving, that's green bean castrole is for

733
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Speaker 1: thanks I eat green bean. It's good now and wait time,

734
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Speaker 1: hold on exact. I'm on the side of TikTok. You

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Speaker 1: know how if you watch one, you eat it, thank you.

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Speaker 1: So let me tell y'all, I end up on the

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Speaker 1: side of TikTok. So TikTok is in a frenzy. They're

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Speaker 1: in a whole war right now. TikTok is in a

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Speaker 1: war about how to cook the mac and cheese right now.

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Speaker 1: So they're going back about the dishes and things like that.

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Speaker 1: So the reason I'm bringing this green bean casserole, let

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Speaker 1: me tell you these southern Southern women, they're showing people

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Speaker 1: how to cook the green bean casserole. What is the

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00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: southern Kimmy creations? That is not a Southern Southern she

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Speaker 1: cooks Southern dishes.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that lady is from New Jersey, from New York, Well,

747
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Speaker 4: she cooks Southern dishes.

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Speaker 1: You're just further approving my point. Let me not even

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Speaker 1: lie I don't even know if I seen it was

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Speaker 1: heard green bean castro, because it probably from I saved it.

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Speaker 1: It's somebody, it's some lady. I can't remember.

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Speaker 6: I can assure you Southern people, it is not making green.

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Speaker 1: Beans soon leaving the con I'm telling you Southern people

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Speaker 1: that are Southern, they're they're cooking. But I say all

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Speaker 1: that to say there is a war on TikTok. They

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Speaker 1: cooking the green bean castle, but they're showing how to

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Speaker 1: use it without the can of mushroom. They not using

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Speaker 1: the can stuff. They're like, this is how you make

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Speaker 1: it from scratch. I mean they are cutting up with

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Speaker 1: the casseroles, with the mac and cheese. But back to

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Speaker 1: the topic, I do not believe mashed potatoes is a

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dish. I know, quick, it's too basic, and I

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Speaker 1: feel like there's already too many starches. You're doing the dressing,

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Speaker 1: you got the mac and cheese, you got the Hawaiian rolls,

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Speaker 1: the biscits, so you don't need no What are we

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Speaker 1: eating mashed potatoes a Thanksgiving? For real? Quick?

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Speaker 4: Though, you right, Southern people do be making green bean casserole.

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Speaker 4: But see, the problem is every time I've ever went

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Speaker 4: to a Thanksgiving being, it be one scoop.

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Speaker 1: Out of it.

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Speaker 4: Oh see, not me, it be on the table like

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Speaker 4: nobody eats it. Well, I've seen it at Thanksgiving dinners.

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Speaker 4: No one ever eats it. I've never seen a whole

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Speaker 4: pan of green bean casserole gone demolished.

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Speaker 1: Never because you ain't been a Thanksgiving with me. Because

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Speaker 1: if y'all going Thanksgiving with If y'all no, I do not,

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Speaker 1: I'll be at Thanksgiving when my aunt ties bull and

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Speaker 1: y'all be making it. Yeah, I mean, like I said,

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Speaker 1: I think that's a maybe it's like a deep South, Okay,

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Speaker 1: deep South thing. I've never seen it in the deep South,

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Speaker 1: deep South thing. But I'm trying to find the lady

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Speaker 1: that could because it wasn't Kimi kras But I think

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Speaker 1: she did do a recipe, but because I saved it

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Speaker 1: because I was like, ooh, I like that right now,

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Speaker 1: and who would you gonna make it for? It is

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Speaker 1: this lady. I'm sorry, I don't know where she's from.

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Speaker 1: Tony Chapman on TikTok. I know I made a few

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Speaker 1: of her recipes before she was making a green bean casserole.

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Speaker 1: But she's like showing you how to do it, like

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Speaker 1: for real, for real, I see her. She Latino though.

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Speaker 8: Well she I don't know where she's from. I don't

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Speaker 8: think where she's from. It's a lot of black people.

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Speaker 1: No, she makes a lot of barm recipes. This man, y'all.

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Speaker 6: With this making green bean casserole.

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Speaker 1: Oh god. But but I will say exactly, green bean castrole.

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Speaker 1: If you like it or not, green bean casserole could

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Speaker 1: be but no, but I feel like green. No you eat.

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Speaker 1: I eat green bean casserole once a year at Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, no matter what time of

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Speaker 1: the year, mashed potatoes. I don't want mashed potatoes on

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Speaker 1: my plate at Thanksgiving. I don't. I don't. I think

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Speaker 1: it's weird with mashed potato, a little turkey and gravy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see that. I think this is maybe maybe it's

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Speaker 1: just an orange thing or orange Texas thing, like we

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Speaker 1: never cooked potatoes at Thanksgiving, Like when they be making

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Speaker 1: the all grinding potatoes, that's the real white thing. I'll

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Speaker 1: be saying. Because I like to deep diving. Would everybody

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Speaker 1: be cooking? I like to see people because you know,

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Speaker 1: people get mad around Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: Why y'all posting y'all plates, we all eating the same thing.

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Speaker 1: No, we're not well.

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Speaker 4: I do hate when people post a plate because it

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Speaker 4: looked nasty when all this sheep yeah on one plate

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Speaker 4: mixed together, like, but people eat it.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't post it though. Do y'all like cranberry sauce?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: You like cranberry sauce? Okay, y'all, you you know what

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Speaker 1: it depends. My sister can make a cranberry sauce from scratch,

819
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Speaker 1: change my life. Fresh cranberries. I don't like that. I

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Speaker 1: don't like the ocean spray from the can come on

821
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Speaker 1: from yeah too, sly, but let me there's certain things

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Speaker 1: that if you try it from scratch, it might change

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Speaker 1: your life. My sister, she my sister knows how to

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Speaker 1: really cook. She's a baker too. Them biscuits, I don't

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Speaker 1: pay my own biscuits. Shout out to she makes. It's

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Speaker 1: just different. It's a biscuit, you know. I just I

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Speaker 1: don't know my perfect Thanksgiving play. Come on, give it

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Speaker 1: to us.

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Speaker 4: It's dressing, dirty rice, dressing, dirty rice, mac and cheese,

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Speaker 4: collar green or Cabby come on.

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Speaker 1: Up or both of them. Let's get it.

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Speaker 4: A Hawaiian row. Come on, little cornbread. Maybe where are

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Speaker 4: you from?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, depending on what you like to dabble

835
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Speaker 1: in yams? Can I get your day yams sweat?

836
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Speaker 4: Yeah you won't and in a little in a little

837
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Speaker 4: turkey or.

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Speaker 1: A turkey wing or I'm not mad at that, or.

839
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Speaker 4: You know I'm from Texas. I talked about these recently.

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Speaker 4: Little brisky Yeah, come on, Drea, they're not ready for

841
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 4: that little brisket. In Texas, we be having barbecue for things. Yeah,

842
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 4: a little brisky, little rib.

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Speaker 2: What's what's on your plate? What's on your plate?

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Speaker 1: I don't want no ham. My palette has changed, like

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Speaker 1: as I've become more of an adult. So like my

846
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Speaker 1: aunt here, she'll make a seafood dressing.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, oh my god, my sister makes the best seafood.

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Speaker 1: I never had that until I moved here. If she

849
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Speaker 1: put crawfish and shrimping hers crabs, she put lobster, she

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Speaker 1: puts shrimp, it's gonna change your life. Gotta have macaroni.

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Speaker 1: I like corn, and now I like honey roasted carrots.

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Speaker 1: Those are really my kind. Make candy am cassero with

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Speaker 1: the marshmallows. So I like that more than I like

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Speaker 1: the yams. Yeah yeah, love a fried turkey and those

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Speaker 1: are like my man. And then for vegetable, I'll do greens.

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Speaker 1: Greens are like a broccolini. I like the yeast rolls.

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Speaker 4: Y'all know what I forgot. Y'all know what I forgot? Uh,

858
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Speaker 4: broccoli and cheese casserole.

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Speaker 1: That's good blessing. Yeah, that's that's some good menus. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So now that we're talking about the I want to

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Speaker 2: get into the first topic.

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Speaker 1: A holiday party? How do y'all feel about that? Who

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Speaker 4: Because like to throw a party that you want to

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Speaker 4: throw and then you want people to pay you to

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Speaker 4: to the party or send them I just think that's

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Speaker 1: Like Now, I do think as an upstanding citizen, you

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Speaker 4: I think as an upstanding citizen, yeah, you should not

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Speaker 1: I was raised that way. I think that if you're

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Speaker 4: Bring a little bottle. Bring a bottle, you can bring

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Speaker 1: You can bring something.

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Speaker 4: But like me as the host putting that in the invitation,

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Speaker 4: like hey, cash at me fifty dollars, But you could

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Speaker 1: So this is how I feel. I am agreeing with

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Speaker 1: event on this. I think instead of asking people to

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Speaker 1: send money, you who would be better off having a

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Speaker 1: pot luck. But the thing about a pot luck. I

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Speaker 1: So that's the thing that's the risk with the pot luck,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Luckily for me, like if

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Speaker 1: I threw a potluck with like you Jazz Lauren Killer, like,

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Speaker 1: I could trust a potlug, but it would only be like,

957
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Speaker 1: it's only gonna be about three fox dishes because I.

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Speaker 2: Don't have that many friends.

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Speaker 1: But usually when people are having a friends giving or

960
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Speaker 1: a holiday party, it's a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: So I think of it like this.

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Speaker 1: It could work either way, but I think you should

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Speaker 1: ask people beforehand. How do you feel do you want

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Speaker 1: to like contribute throw something in the pot or would

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Speaker 1: you rather bring a dish or bring something? I think

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Speaker 1: it's good to give people the option, you know, no

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Speaker 1: no option?

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Speaker 2: How do you feel tied?

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Speaker 1: I'm in the middle, so yeah, me and my friends.

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Speaker 1: I trust my friends though, yeah, they hands be I

971
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Speaker 1: know I've been to their homes, so we'll do a

972
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Speaker 1: friends giving Pollock. We do it every year and we

973
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Speaker 1: just have those sign up sheet. People do their best, Yes,

974
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Speaker 1: do your bed, but your best then yeah. But again,

975
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Speaker 1: if you're just throwing this event and then asking people,

976
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Speaker 1: that does seem a little off putting. I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: But if we decide as a group we're gonna do this,

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Speaker 1: and then it's decided it's gonna be at my house,

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Speaker 1: then yeah, everybody can contribute financial And that's what I

980
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Speaker 1: think it should be like.

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Speaker 4: It should be like you're trying to get you and

982
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Speaker 4: bach don't be asking me, don't be using me.

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Speaker 1: I think I think I kind of like, I don't

984
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Speaker 1: like it. I agree with Tod. I think it should

985
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Speaker 1: be like a group conversation what y'all want to do?

986
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Speaker 1: Do y'all want to do a potluck style?

987
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Speaker 2: Or do y'all want me to do everything? Because I

988
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Speaker 2: honestly I feel like this.

989
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Speaker 1: If you want people to contribute, let me go to

990
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Speaker 1: the grocery store. I'll show y'all the total. Let's blest

991
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: it down like that. Yeah that's fair. That would be

992
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Speaker 1: the you know what I'm saying, Because the grocery is expensive,

993
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Speaker 1: but you ain't finna charge me no thirty dollars for

994
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Speaker 1: no grains and Tarkt negs man. So I think there's

995
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Speaker 1: just a way to go about it. And I think

996
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Speaker 1: it depends like why would I pay you thirty dollars

997
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Speaker 1: when I could just go to DC's. This is it,

998
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Speaker 1: It's blessing. No, we're talking about that. This is in

999
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Speaker 1: Houstons or Mickey's in Houston. Ooh, Mickey's is life changing?

1000
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Speaker 1: It is? Or let me tell you about Mickey's.

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Speaker 2: They got that?

1002
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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

1003
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Speaker 2: What did I eat there?

1004
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: Would I give you? It was like some rice and

1005
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Speaker 1: gravy with a not the hamburger. Maybe it was a

1006
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Speaker 1: little hamburger steak that she had made. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it was, some kind of steak. Mickey's gonna change

1008
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Speaker 1: your life if you were in Houston that mac and

1009
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Speaker 1: cheese Micky's be bussy, yeahs be busting.

1010
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Speaker 4: I would rather you just ask me for some money,

1011
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Speaker 4: because I'm gonna ask you anyways. If you seen me

1012
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Speaker 4: the Tigs, some be like you need the whole song.

1013
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but let me ask all. This is because I

1014
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Speaker 1: know we talked about this a little bit before the

1015
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Speaker 1: War on TikTok right now is do you make a

1016
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Speaker 1: root for your mac and cheese or do you not?

1017
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Speaker 1: And then you use the egg cause they're saying that

1018
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: the old school mac and cheese warriors, they use the

1019
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Speaker 1: egg in it to keep it. It's a binder so

1020
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Speaker 1: it doesn't separate. And that's how the old school. So

1021
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Speaker 1: the older ladies on TikTok, the older women, they're like,

1022
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Speaker 1: you use the egg, and then the new school because

1023
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: you know, Teeni's mac and cheese has been a thing

1024
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: on TikTok for like two years. Right now, I've personally

1025
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: made teenies mac and cheese. It's busting now.

1026
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 2: Huh.

1027
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: That's what the root, that's what the root. Now my

1028
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: mom's recipe, y'all. Let me tell you all about my

1029
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: mom's recipe. Every so when my sister started day when

1030
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Speaker 1: my sister was with her first child's father and we

1031
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Speaker 1: suspend Thanksgiving together, and I don't care if any y'all

1032
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Speaker 1: watching right now call me a liar, strike me down

1033
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Speaker 1: right now. Every my mom would bring a pan, and

1034
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Speaker 1: I don't know who on his side of the pan family

1035
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 1: would bring a pan.

1036
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: My mom's pen would be gone.

1037
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: I literally have friends and I'm not even friends. I'm

1038
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: wanna be like, damn, you got your mama recipe? And

1039
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: I do have the recipe? I asked my sister the

1040
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: other day when the war was gone. I said, Jazz,

1041
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: do you have Mom's recipe? I was like, because I

1042
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: know she emailed it to me a long time ago.

1043
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: She sent me that recipe.

1044
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: It had an egg in it, It had an egg

1045
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: in it. It did it did, And I was like,

1046
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 1: damn because I like I said, I made teenies mac

1047
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: and cheese, and then I had my mom's mac and cheese.

1048
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: Was oh my god, life changing. So do y'all put

1049
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 1: egg in y'all mac and cheese? Do you do a root?

1050
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 1: I do it? You do the root?

1051
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 6: But I'm a roote girl.

1052
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: The egg, I think egg is the old older woman thing.

1053
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: But my mama older, she don't use an egg. No,

1054
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: we knew a room. Yeah, but my mama used a

1055
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Speaker 1: roof for everything.

1056
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 4: Like my mama is really an old school yeah, cooking

1057
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 4: everything from scratch mother, yeah, like everything. I mean, you

1058
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 4: could definitely use an egg in the mac and cheese,

1059
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,280
Speaker 4: but she just didn't use one, like it's the old

1060
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 4: school rule. But Ma Mama used a roof for everything.

1061
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 4: She u was a root for mac and cheese. She

1062
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 4: used a roof for banana pudding. Bit should be using

1063
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 4: that instant box pudding. I don't know nothing about that.

1064
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 4: I come from the school of the double boiler.

1065
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Speaker 1: Okay, now with a flower, let's go, and the sugar

1066
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: extra in the milk, they're up stirring it for like

1067
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, you know. But I digree. But yeah, like

1068
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: a room, okay, a room, no egg. I'm not gonna lie.

1069
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Speaker 1: At first, I was all like road. But when my

1070
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Speaker 1: sister sent me that recipe because I knew, I was like,

1071
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: I know, my mama used the room, I said, I know.

1072
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Speaker 1: When she said me, I said, oh my god, Mama

1073
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 1: use the egg. She was an egg girl.

1074
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: And when I tell you, she had the best smack

1075
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 2: and cheese.

1076
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: So I just think it's a it's a preference thing

1077
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: because it's all about the cook though, it's all about

1078
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 1: your hands. And I don't know, I don't care what

1079
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: y'all say. An older Southern woman can always cook for me.

1080
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 4: And I don't trust nobody who used glory greens.

1081
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: That's the ones in the can. Yeah, I cannot believe

1082
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 1: anybody who used glory, glory greens. I can't don't even

1083
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: because you got your tongue. Don't even want to spray.

1084
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 6: It, can't even.

1085
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: I couldn't even get it out. Disgusted, the lord said,

1086
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: I rebuked it because fresh greens. See. Okay, bye bye shay.

1087
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: So let us be line with glory you do.

1088
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1089
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 6: Greens because we know we ain't going.

1090
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: Greens are actually probably one of the easiest things to cook.

1091
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 4: The hardest thing about greens is cleaning and cleaning them.

1092
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 4: You gotta clean them for a long time. It takes literally,

1093
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 4: my mama used to clean greens for.

1094
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,479
Speaker 1: Hours and hours and hours getting the bugs out.

1095
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let me know.

1096
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: Do y'all believe in paying a fee for a holiday party?

1097
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: Friends giving? Do you think mashed potatoes belong? Are you

1098
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: asking me to pay a fee to come to a party?

1099
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 1: You not come? You are not my friend?

1100
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: You're not coming.

1101
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: We ain't friend. Okay, you ain't my friend.

1102
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 8: In me?

1103
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: You do want to have shamal on the co of course,

1104
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: chamar a we waiting on you. She ain't my friend though,

1105
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 1: that ain't it's not given friendship. Okay, come ahead with topic,

1106
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 1: all right, what's up y'all? Is your girl lexp Andy Schagarls.

1107
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 3: Are in the cold, Clayton, English, Louis Belt just money

1108
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 3: bag bo. Listen, if you're trying to book us.

1109
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: For your event, hosting, comedy show, whatever you got going on,

1110
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: let's keep it real professional, no flying in my DM.

1111
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 3: Well I'm not gonna say that. That's what they want

1112
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 3: me to say. You can still slide my deals, but

1113
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,959
Speaker 3: it's gotten to be freaky now. I'm just like, look,

1114
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 3: let's keep it real professional.

1115
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: Just what you're gonna do.

1116
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 4: Hit the email bookies at eighty five song show dot com.

1117
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 3: That's how you make sure everything is handled right with

1118
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 3: no games.

1119
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: I really don't answer no DM.

1120
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 3: That don't start with how much do you like?

1121
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,439
Speaker 1: I don't have to contact the email man. Hey, ain't

1122
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: no more. Hear me on the side. I'm professional this year.

1123
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: You gotta talk to my people.

1124
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,959
Speaker 3: So one more time for bookings, hit.

1125
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Up books at eighty five shops show dot com. And

1126
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 1: that way you can get your event handled the right way. Cause,

1127
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm not gonna hit you. I'm not

1128
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:45,879
Speaker 1: gonna spat so.

1129
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 3: Look, no funny business.

1130
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: No funny business is.

1131
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 3: Just strictly family business around here. Man, we bring the

1132
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 3: fun of you. Just have your business straight.

1133
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 4: Let's go hop y'all at your Girl xp ed is

1134
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 4: sugarl and the call.

1135
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 1: Y'all know we have a second on Poor Minds called

1136
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1137
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 1: or something that you want to promote and you want

1138
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,760
Speaker 1: it featured on Poor Minds. Your opportunity is here period.

1139
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 4: If you have an item or you have a business

1140
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 4: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1141
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 4: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1142
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 4: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1143
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 4: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1144
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 4: an email to Item of the Week pm at gmail

1145
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 4: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1146
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 4: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1147
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 4: Send us an email and we'll work it out. We

1148
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 4: gonna figure it out.

1149
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1150
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:41,720
Speaker 1: you some money.

1151
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 2: We love to support a small business man.

1152
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: And a black business said that, but I.

1153
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 4: Mean on a scrimma dad, any businesses welcome.

1154
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: First.

1155
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 4: I mean for the second topic, I wanted to talk

1156
00:54:56,280 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 4: about being on your phone during the day or just

1157
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:06,240
Speaker 4: being addicted to your phone in general. MM, I think

1158
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 4: that we live in an era where so many people

1159
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 4: are addicted to be in on they phones, Like people

1160
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 4: cannot not check they phone for.

1161
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: I was gonna say an hour, but.

1162
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 4: Honestly, even like fifteen minutes. Most of them can't check

1163
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 4: their phone for fifteen minutes. You gotta check, you gotta

1164
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 4: see what's going on. And I think that's the problem.

1165
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 4: I think it is really causing a divide when it

1166
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 4: comes to communication, like when it comes to really getting

1167
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 4: to know people. If you cannot sit at a table

1168
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 4: and talk to your peers and talk to the people

1169
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 4: at the table around you for a good thirty minutes

1170
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 4: without looking on your phone and having to interact with

1171
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 4: somebody on your phone via text message, via Instagram, Twitter,

1172
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 4: or whatever, I think that's the problem.

1173
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 2: I agree.

1174
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: And I know y'all don't talk about me cause I

1175
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: just had my phone up, but I be using my

1176
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: phone for my time or to see what's time we on.

1177
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, I am such a sucker

1178
00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 1: for a deep conversation. I don't care if you're my friend,

1179
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 1: my lover, my employee, my boss, whoever. I just love

1180
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: a good conversation and nothing drives the COUCHI up, Like,

1181
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: if I'm sitting there, we got oysters on the table, espresso,

1182
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: Martini's flowing. You know what I'm saying, I'm feeling good, and.

1183
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 2: Then you just be like what what, Like it's such

1184
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: a vibe killer. It is such a vibe kill.

1185
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: I think that is so like even if we're if nothing,

1186
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm a person to silence isn't awkward to me. So

1187
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 1: if we're sitting at the table and like maybe we're

1188
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: in between conversations or we're eating, I'm still not gonna

1189
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: pick up my phone.

1190
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 4: But I just think it's awkward to me if we

1191
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 4: just sitting there looking at each other.

1192
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: But it is also somebody I'm talking about, Like if

1193
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with you, Like if me and you are

1194
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 1: at dinner, I'm not gonna feel awkward if me and

1195
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 1: you are at dinner and we're like not talking because

1196
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: you know me, right, But a first day, oh yeah,

1197
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: first day is a little awkward. But honestly, I might

1198
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: be like, so that's like a comfort thing then, I.

1199
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 4: Mean, because if I don't know you, if our first

1200
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 4: encounter and now we're having like this awkward silence, we

1201
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 4: are not talking about another to.

1202
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: For teen minutes. I'm go'n just be like, well, let

1203
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: me see what's going I think for me, if I'm

1204
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: on a first date and it's like if it does

1205
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: feel awkward that we're not talking, because obviously that is

1206
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: gonna be awkward for silent it's a first date, I'm

1207
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: just gonna like sit there and I'm gonna make sure

1208
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 1: you know, like, hey, spark up a conversational. I'm gonna

1209
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 1: start a coming. What are you gonna say? I'm'd be

1210
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: like I would say something. I'm gonna say something because

1211
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: I feel like, what's a good example. We just sitting

1212
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: there like these So I'm saying, okay, so what you

1213
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 1: got played? What you got playing for tomorrow? What you

1214
00:57:53,000 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: got playing for tomorrow? What if I'm like nothing, okay?

1215
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: I mean, well I'm having a good time. Do you

1216
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: like your a two faith ho Adney? It's cool? Mm hmmm.

1217
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna get enough drink. You want another drink

1218
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna get lead. You'm trying to take them

1219
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: pennies off man, check please check please, because what you're

1220
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: trying to take another shot? I'm with you too, But

1221
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: what we about to do after they.

1222
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 5: See hobby you aren't too Harry. Oh my god, I

1223
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:43,439
Speaker 5: was playing.

1224
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: So much stuff to talk about life? So what you so?

1225
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: What you're trying to do? I mean, I don't know.

1226
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 1: I just feel like, let's go with a night leading

1227
00:58:53,600 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: boy song. I'm ready? So what you got playing for tomorrow?

1228
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're trying to do? I mean,

1229
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't know you wanna is this you asked me

1230
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: on a second date already we even finished the first date.

1231
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: I mean we can go on the second day. But

1232
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out what you trying to

1233
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: do tonight. I mean, I feel like we're having a

1234
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: good dinner. Are you having a good time? Who said

1235
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 1: it was good? You know? Like you don't like the food?

1236
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: So why you said me here? Now we find to

1237
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: argue batch you see the food? Cool? But who is

1238
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: you calling the bitch? Why are you stud like your eggs?

1239
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: I can't take this. I can't who is calling to be?

1240
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: Who are calling to be? But no, okay, I do

1241
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: feel like it's so many things to talk about and do,

1242
00:59:56,920 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: so if I grab my phone on the date, it's

1243
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: like a last resort.

1244
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 2: I'm checked out.

1245
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 4: What if you grab your phone? What if you grab

1246
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 4: your phone? What if you like I'm acting. I've had

1247
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 4: somebody do that to me before.

1248
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: Why are you looking at your phone? You don't want

1249
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: to talk to me, don't be weird. You me have

1250
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: my phone now now I'm fitting killed the vibe because

1251
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,959
Speaker 1: I've had somebody do that to me before. Weird because

1252
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: why would you grab your phone because you ain't talking

1253
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 1: about ship? Hold adding no, But I, like I said,

1254
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 1: I never grab my phone on a day because I

1255
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:41,479
Speaker 1: like having conversation. You're never going to make me feel

1256
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: awkward until it's just like if you're giving me if

1257
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm asking you a question, obviously I'm trying to have

1258
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: a conversation with you. But if you're giving me close

1259
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: ended answers, that makes me feel like you're just not

1260
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: interested or you're not interesting. So I don't know. I

1261
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: think it's very rude to be on a day. I

1262
01:00:58,240 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: don't care if this is the first day or the

1263
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: five hundredth date. Get off your phone, Let's disconnect, and

1264
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: let's be in this world together. Let's enjoy this moment.

1265
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: And that'd be the problem with folks. Folks are really

1266
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: addicted to their phones, and they don't know it.

1267
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just talking to one of my friends

1268
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 4: about this the other day. I just downloaded this app

1269
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 4: on my phone and I have it to where it

1270
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 4: like locks me out of all of my social media apps.

1271
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: Ooh, so like you don't have to give me that.

1272
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't say to nine because I ain't paid us.

1273
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't gonna say it, no wayig because you worried.

1274
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 4: But at you could set it to whatever time frame

1275
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 4: you on the city too, So I said mine from

1276
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 4: ten at ten thirty at night, it locks me out

1277
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 4: of all of the social all of my social media apps.

1278
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: But I mean, really, you could choose any apps on

1279
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: your phone.

1280
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 4: But I have it to where it locks me out

1281
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 4: of all of my social media apps from ten thirty

1282
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 4: at night to nine thirty in the morning.

1283
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 1: I need that.

1284
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 4: So normally I just naturally wake up around like seven

1285
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 4: o'clock every morning anyways. So I like that because by

1286
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 4: nine thirty I've done my whole morning routine. Yeah, I've

1287
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 4: done pretty much everything I need to do except for

1288
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 4: go to the gym, but everything else, like as far

1289
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 4: as like prayer, meditation, writing in my journal, reading my Bible.

1290
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: Stretching all of that stuff.

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01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 4: Washing that ass, Well, I'm not gonna wash my ass

1292
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 4: before I go to the gym.

1293
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: Some people do.

1294
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to wash it again in the morning,

1295
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 4: like when first thing you wake up, you didn't take

1296
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 4: a bathdat night.

1297
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't.

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01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 4: That ain't my problem, that's not my testimony, period, but

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01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 4: speak on it. Yeah, So I have it to wear

1300
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 4: from ten thirty at night to nine thirty in the morning.

1301
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 4: And then I love that because I suffer from insomnia.

1302
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, me too.

1303
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 4: I suffer from insomnia. So I feel like it's been

1304
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 4: helping me with my insomnia. Because one of the main

1305
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 4: things that I would do when I would wake up

1306
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 4: at like one in the morning, two in the morning,

1307
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 4: is I would get on social media. There it'd be Instagram, Twitter, whatever,

1308
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 4: and then I'll be on there for like an hour.

1309
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 4: I doom two hours mindless scrolling, doom scrolling, and then

1310
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 4: before you know it, now it's four am and I've

1311
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 4: been up two hours, and then I'll go back to sleep,

1312
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 4: waking up at seven, so I'm not getting a good

1313
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 4: amount of sleep. Now I'll still wake up, don't get

1314
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 4: me wrong, Like I still be waking up at like one, two.

1315
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 4: But then I wake up and I can't do shit,

1316
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 4: so I'll just go back to sleep because it literally

1317
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 4: won't let you even click on you like it'll have

1318
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 4: like a little screen that come up there be like,

1319
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 4: ha ha, you're block.

1320
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah I need that. I need that because I'm a

1321
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 1: doom and you can't do anything. Tell me is so bad.

1322
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,919
Speaker 1: It's so bad. Like and then it's to the point

1323
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: to where I convince myself. I'm like, girl, you've grown.

1324
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: You don't gotta go to sleep because you can wake

1325
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: up whenever you want. I'll be trying to convince myself

1326
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: that it's okay that I'm up, and then I'm like,

1327
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 1: the next morning, I wake up and I'm tired.

1328
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:59,479
Speaker 2: I'm slugging. I need that because the one thing about it, yeah, I'm.

1329
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: A dude, you do. I pay for it, though, but

1330
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: I got a little twenty dollars I paid, y'all. I

1331
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: got got the other day. And we're gonna move on.

1332
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: I have to tell this story. What is this app called?

1333
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: So I was scrolling TikTok the other day. This was

1334
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: actually yesterday that this happened. I was scrolling TikTok. There's

1335
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: this app called real short and the reason I can

1336
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: say the app because you're gonna be mad once you downloaded.

1337
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: So it's like short stories. It's like short stories, right.

1338
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 2: So it was like this short story of.

1339
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: This woman who had lost her child at birth and

1340
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: they ended up heard another woman ended up switching children

1341
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: at birth, and one was really rich and one was

1342
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: really poor. What's that Mickey mouth story? The Prince of

1343
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: the Pauper. That's what it was given. And I'm like

1344
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 1: watching it. I was like, oh my god, Like I'm

1345
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: watching it for like ten minutes on TikTok, and then

1346
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: it was like, oh, to finish the story, download this app.

1347
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 2: So I said, I need to know what happened, period.

1348
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 1: So I downloaded the app and it was like, oh,

1349
01:04:57,560 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: it's the finishing. You gotta watch all these ads, watch

1350
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 1: all these asked and it was like, okay, if you

1351
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: want to watch it, just pay a little ten dollars

1352
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: And I paid the ten dollars. Now I finished the story, right,

1353
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, that was a cute little

1354
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 1: Lifetime little movie one two. But then I'm like scrolling

1355
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: through the rest of the app and like all the

1356
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 1: rest of the movies was trash and I was so mad,

1357
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 1: but I get the app free for a week long

1358
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: story short stop dum scrolling cause I paid ten dollars

1359
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: finish some bullshit. Yeah, I don't know. I really like

1360
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: that app.

1361
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 4: It like keeps me on track with like my morning goals,

1362
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 4: going to sleep at a decent time, getting my eight

1363
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 4: hours to sleep, and then you can even set it

1364
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 4: to whats like to other times throughout your day, so

1365
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 4: like if you want to take like even a break

1366
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 4: throughout the day, like say you want to do like

1367
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 4: three hours from.

1368
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: Like two to five, then you could see it for

1369
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 1: that time I need to lock you out.

1370
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm definitely download that.

1371
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: I love it.

1372
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 4: I need because I think that this generation we're two

1373
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:02,439
Speaker 4: way too upset to being on social media.

1374
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: I'll be looking back at myself from when I was.

1375
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 4: Like twenty two, twenty three, even like twenty six twenty seven,

1376
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 4: I was not on my phone as much as I

1377
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 4: am now.

1378
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I think I'm on my phone

1379
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: a lot now, but I think I used to be

1380
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: on my phone more in my twenties because I think

1381
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm worse now. But I used to be at the

1382
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: club recording my entire night but you wasn't on social media.

1383
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: Yes I was. I was posting on What's it since

1384
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: not chack. I used to post. You would know everywhere

1385
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: I was at, everything I was doing. I'm at the

1386
01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: nail shop, I'm going to eat lunch, I'm at the club.

1387
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:43,919
Speaker 2: I used to post my every single move.

1388
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: I used to be I'm in the club. Fuck, I

1389
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 1: got people with me in real time. Literally, we have

1390
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: so many videos of us.

1391
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 2: That's my dog. We had the dog filter on.

1392
01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 6: That's my dog, and then a little we thought we ate.

1393
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 2: We was like, that's my job.

1394
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 4: We used to be posting it in real time, so lame.

1395
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 4: We can't post it in real time now.

1396
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never posted nothing, but.

1397
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 4: It was a but you know what's crazy though? That

1398
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 4: was like the fun era of social media. Yeah, like

1399
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 4: that's the That's the part of social media that I

1400
01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 4: wish we could get back to because it's like even ought.

1401
01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we was supposting real time and our stories was looking.

1402
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 6: Like tic texts.

1403
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: We was really having a good time.

1404
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 4: Worry about nobody pulling, and we didn't give a fuck

1405
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 4: about what we was posting. That's why we was posting everything.

1406
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:41,760
Speaker 4: You was posting your plate, you was posting your nigga. Yeah,

1407
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 4: we would never post now, Oh my god, I used to.

1408
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: On my social Oh my god. You know Facebook does memories, y'all.

1409
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: You can literally go to my Facebook right now. My

1410
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend pictures all of them all up and down

1411
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 1: my all up and down my feet, all up and

1412
01:07:59,360 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: down my feet.

1413
01:07:59,880 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 4: But I'm saying it was fun back then. You remember

1414
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 4: that night me and killing went to live in forty

1415
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 4: five when she came to my house, that little baby

1416
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 4: song was had just came.

1417
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 1: Out, which l yeah, I do remember that night.

1418
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:20,639
Speaker 4: Like, we just used to have so much fun in

1419
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 4: the moment and we wouldn't think about anything like now,

1420
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 4: there's so much overthinking when it comes to social media,

1421
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 4: and I just think we're all like people are trying

1422
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:31,040
Speaker 4: so hard to be perfect.

1423
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 1: That was the difference between now and then. But I

1424
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 1: also that's why I love But I think that's why

1425
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 1: I love this platform too, because we can like talk

1426
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: about our faults and our mistakes and stuff. And I

1427
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 1: feel like we have created a safe space here.

1428
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 8: Because it's not a lot of safe spaces.

1429
01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: Online, but I feel like we've done a good job

1430
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 1: of doing that. In the poor Mind's universe. Okay, now

1431
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. So let us know how y'all

1432
01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:59,599
Speaker 1: feel about being on your phone in a day. What's

1433
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: up y'all? That your girl x pee and it's Sugarl

1434
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: draining the call.

1435
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 2: And we have a.

1436
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:05,759
Speaker 1: Very exciting announcement today.

1437
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:07,599
Speaker 2: We have a brand new show dropping.

1438
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: Yes, we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon.

1439
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 4: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

1440
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

1441
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 1: gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Billa Dache,

1442
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 1: where the hell could you go? If you can't go

1443
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: to Blanche, what the hell we're gonna be doing? Talk

1444
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: to me, chit chat with me. It's gonna be feeling

1445
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: at a little tea. Oh my girl, Now you didn't.

1446
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 4: God everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be

1447
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,440
Speaker 4: doing it right here on Patreon.

1448
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

1449
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

1450
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown

1451
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

1452
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at Poor.

1453
01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 2: Chronicles, So make sure y'all tune in September.

1454
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 1: Second. It's going down period, and now it's time to

1455
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: get into the bed bowl. A bowl about a bow bow. Okay,

1456
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: so this is a topic I know we have talked

1457
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: about before, but we're gonna come at it from a

1458
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 1: little different angle. Mmm mm hmmm, sweet sweet nick.

1459
01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 4: Though I thought I was gonna say, sweet sweet victory,

1460
01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:33,879
Speaker 4: that is a sweet victory.

1461
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: What happened? So let me tell you what happened. I know,

1462
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: my pillow busted. I have a down pillow, and y'all,

1463
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: this pillow was so expensive. It's a down and it

1464
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 1: had the real like goose feathers and it busted. So

1465
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: there's like feathers all everywhere, and I like vacuum them

1466
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 1: up and I still keep finding feathers. I have remnants

1467
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,759
Speaker 1: of feathers all in my hair. So yeah, be careful

1468
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 1: with these down pillows. Comfy pillow though, I mean I'm

1469
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 1: not getting another one. Anyways. I wanted to talk about

1470
01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 1: body counts and double standards because you.

1471
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 2: Know, it's okay, what you laughing at.

1472
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 1: When they laughed, it was that's a black king, right now,

1473
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: that's a queen. Well, you know, Kanya said king. Kya

1474
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 1: said king. I wasn't calling you a king. I wasn't

1475
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: calling you a king. I was thinking of the mean

1476
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: I love when people switch starts. Oh my god, I

1477
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 1: wasn't calling you a king.

1478
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 6: She did say that's a black king like I.

1479
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:51,839
Speaker 2: Was quoting Kanya.

1480
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking about event.

1481
01:11:55,400 --> 01:12:01,919
Speaker 8: So oh, come on, locuse.

1482
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 1: Shepherd's pie is crazy. Anyways, pipe down, see she back home,

1483
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 1: come back home, come back home. Me and one think

1484
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 1: about me in tie. Shepherd's pie is taste crazy.

1485
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 4: A shepherd's Any type of pie with mashed potatoes is

1486
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 4: the christ It's crazy.

1487
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 6: Taste the thing peas and beans and carrots.

1488
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 2: You she didn't have peas in hers?

1489
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't either. She didn't put peas in hers.

1490
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,599
Speaker 1: You like pan No, I do not like green peas.

1491
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: I've seen you eat peas.

1492
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 2: Why do you lie so bad?

1493
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: This is crazy? How she lies more than me? Now?

1494
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 1: I have seen and I wouldn't put on something. I

1495
01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: wouldn't lie more than you. Put that level.

1496
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 2: Put that on something.

1497
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: You saw me eat some peas before, right hand to God,

1498
01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,720
Speaker 1: right now, put it on it. Put on that. Why

1499
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:56,560
Speaker 1: is your top pea colored. You ain't never seen no

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01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:57,719
Speaker 1: peenus color.

1501
01:12:58,680 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 8: I have.

1502
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 1: One. You ate? You're a liar? What you because I

1503
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 1: believe you lying. I hate peas. I don't care how

1504
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: buttery is salty whatever you put on it. So I

1505
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: ain't never seen God, I've never seen you eat of mamie. Okay,

1506
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: you see me eat at a ma mad. I'm talking

1507
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 1: about some peas. I'm talking about peas. She's so cap bro,

1508
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 1: she's so full of ship. Show me and you full

1509
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 1: of peas. I'm full of beans, bitch, get it right,

1510
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 1: gang gang, exact bean family. So you don't so you

1511
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: don't eat hommies, bitch.

1512
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 2: I love hommy full of peas.

1513
01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: Chick peas not a green pea A pea, It's not

1514
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:52,920
Speaker 1: a green pea.

1515
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 2: Green peas are horrible.

1516
01:13:56,080 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: Sure you don't like sweet, So you don't like sweet? No,

1517
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't. I never don't know you haven't. Oh I'm

1518
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: finna get mad. If I'm lying, then why are you mad?

1519
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 4: Because I don't eat peas night, because I've seen.

1520
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: Leave me alone. I'm gonna wrap this up. Okay, thank

1521
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: you for tuning in. Okay, let's get back to the

1522
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 1: topee okay, okay, So body counts and double standards. So

1523
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:50,720
Speaker 1: you know, if a man has uh fifty bodies, oh

1524
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: hear that, nigga, he a pimp, he'll player. And if

1525
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,799
Speaker 1: a woman has fifty bodies, they're like, oh, she's a whore.

1526
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: And people like to use the key theory. If you

1527
01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 1: don't know what the key theory is, it's basically that

1528
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,639
Speaker 1: you know, when you have the master key, you can

1529
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 1: open a lot of doors and you you you run

1530
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:11,120
Speaker 1: shit and this and that. But when you have the lock,

1531
01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: you know it's only supposed to open to one key

1532
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,800
Speaker 1: and things can't be used and things like that. So

1533
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,679
Speaker 1: how do you feel about body counts and the double

1534
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:21,160
Speaker 1: standards when it comes to women and men?

1535
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 4: I think that's some fucking bullshit. I think if you

1536
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 4: fuck a bunch of people, period, your whore.

1537
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 1: Come on now, don't matter men or women? Big on that.

1538
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:33,639
Speaker 2: I think that people when you're easy.

1539
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 4: But I don't even want to say whoror like. I

1540
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 4: just feel like you like pussy or.

1541
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: You like me.

1542
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 4: Don't like people because I don't want to call them war.

1543
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 4: I take them back because even though they're gonna.

1544
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: Their body shaming or they're sick shaming.

1545
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:56,479
Speaker 4: I'm not sex shaming. I just think like, if you

1546
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 4: like to have sex with a lot of people in

1547
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 4: general rule, then I think it should be equal judgment

1548
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 4: on both sides.

1549
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:09,440
Speaker 1: Okay, come on now, exactly exactly, you're not worth.

1550
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 4: Judging both equally, like you should be judging men and

1551
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 4: judging women equally.

1552
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be oh, because you're a woman. Dude.

1553
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:18,800
Speaker 4: I had a conversation with a man and he was

1554
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:21,439
Speaker 4: just like, yeah, but that's because a man is entering

1555
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 4: a woman. A man, you can still and sometimes they do,

1556
01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 4: and men do getting getting answered a lot.

1557
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 1: They got bussy and it and they be saying to

1558
01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 1: be wet, it do get weg the camera, it do

1559
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 1: get a little wet.

1560
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:51,640
Speaker 8: I can't confirm that's what I'm saying, so I just

1561
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 8: think that, but I'm a woman, maybe my bussy just

1562
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:55,560
Speaker 8: get wigged.

1563
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: Ever a one when maybe everything get wet. No, I think,

1564
01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,280
Speaker 1: first of all, I do think bussies get wet. Bussies

1565
01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:14,080
Speaker 1: get wet. But I just also want to say that

1566
01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: if you enjoy sex, enjoy sex. And I agree with Dreya.

1567
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,760
Speaker 1: If you're gonna judge somebody, you need to judge everybody

1568
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:26,480
Speaker 1: your mama, and I also feel like I just like people.

1569
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:28,160
Speaker 6: Start bussy probably get wet.

1570
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 2: Too, exactly because your mama bussy ain't.

1571
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:33,679
Speaker 8: Your daddy bussy was wet, and your daddy was probably

1572
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 8: daddy bussy headed.

1573
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: Because he was probably low key, down low What they

1574
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 1: have to do with how they got here? Though, All

1575
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying is stop judging people, because you need to

1576
01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 1: go off of what y'all go.

1577
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,719
Speaker 6: When you don't make this, you gonna go back.

1578
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 1: Daddy's bussies be wet. What does that have to do

1579
01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: with the child getting here? Because because that bussy got wet,

1580
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, let me straighten my life up

1581
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 1: and be a good man to this woman and stop

1582
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 1: getting my bussy blown out. So then why don't they

1583
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: be there still? What? They still be dead? Be daddy's dead.

1584
01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 1: It is not dead bussy. A bussy is crazy? Who

1585
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 1: thought of that name? A bussy? Yes, because it is

1586
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:33,360
Speaker 1: one I think about that word. It's crazy, but it's true.

1587
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 6: It's a buf se.

1588
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:40,440
Speaker 1: What N. L. E. Chopper said, hmmm, smell.

1589
01:18:40,200 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 4: Like not he did say, boy, But but it is booty.

1590
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:46,719
Speaker 1: Deck and pussy.

1591
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 4: Oh, but is booty and Pussy's.

1592
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 1: Thought you knew that they would saying that back in

1593
01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:02,959
Speaker 1: elementary school. I'm not sexually advanced. That's a lie. However,

1594
01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:07,840
Speaker 1: they've been saying badosi for a long puce okay, because

1595
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 1: it's booty, dick and pussy, So that means y'all was

1596
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:12,680
Speaker 1: doing all of that.

1597
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:16,480
Speaker 6: A collaboration, a compilation.

1598
01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:18,879
Speaker 1: Do you watch porn compilations?

1599
01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 4: I love a compilation, porn compilations. I love any type

1600
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 4: of complax.

1601
01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:24,960
Speaker 2: I hate porn compilation.

1602
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 4: I love a compilation because I like you know why

1603
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 4: I like compilations, why, Drea, Because it gets straight to

1604
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 4: the point. Think about it. When you think about a compilation,

1605
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 4: it's all the best.

1606
01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:46,519
Speaker 1: Parts of each porn. It's straight.

1607
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 4: We're talking about a man who has a black coochie matter,

1608
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:05,440
Speaker 4: it's had on. But seriously, think about it. A compilation

1609
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 4: is the best parts of the point.

1610
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:11,360
Speaker 1: That's why I like a compilation. Get to the meaty,

1611
01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:18,799
Speaker 1: get to the meedy, me get to the meeting is crazy, okay,

1612
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 1: fair enough, fair enough, but we get to the I

1613
01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:30,040
Speaker 1: cannot believe we are the new generation and yeah this

1614
01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:32,200
Speaker 1: is childish, no, but so you don't.

1615
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:32,280
Speaker 3: Like But.

1616
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've been in a situation where

1617
01:20:36,040 --> 01:20:44,560
Speaker 1: but ah, but I don't.

1618
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 6: Why are you making it?

1619
01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:46,839
Speaker 1: No wise, I don't know, Like it's just it seems

1620
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: like a lot I feel. I know I have been,

1621
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: but I'm just like, I don't even know how to describe.

1622
01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:01,160
Speaker 1: It's what you know, but just seemed like when you

1623
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 1: explained it to me, like I get it. So I'm like,

1624
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 1: it's hootie, but seeing dick, it just seems like so much.

1625
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1626
01:21:13,640 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 4: I think it's an authentic I don't know if I'm

1627
01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:23,200
Speaker 4: gonna say afterwards.

1628
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 1: I thought I might be like, see, that's what I'm saying,

1629
01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 1: Like I like, I like this, I like sex and

1630
01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 1: the smells and the tape smell like, but no, oh,

1631
01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 1: I stuck my finger in my nose and a booger

1632
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:48,680
Speaker 1: fell on my lips, right, and did I did this?

1633
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 7: You ate it?

1634
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:58,400
Speaker 1: And then you didn't see me. You didn't see me

1635
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: all over here like you what it tastes like? See

1636
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:18,280
Speaker 1: it looks saucy. Gotta decrease my sodium intake. We come on,

1637
01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 1: we gotta figure out.

1638
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:22,520
Speaker 2: Sorry, Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about body.

1639
01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:27,720
Speaker 1: Left. You never said how you feel I did say

1640
01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:29,559
Speaker 1: how I feel I said, I agreed with you. I

1641
01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:31,360
Speaker 1: think that if you're gonna be judging, you need to

1642
01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 1: be judging across both tables, because anybody who is weak

1643
01:22:34,360 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 1: at the flesh is just It needs to be the

1644
01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 1: same across the table.

1645
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 8: I think if a woman has had sex with fifty

1646
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 8: men and a guy, they are in the same.

1647
01:22:41,960 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: Category, and that's whatever category you put them in, just

1648
01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 1: like if a man has had sex with one woman

1649
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 1: and a woman has had sex with one man, or whoever,

1650
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 1: a woman with a woman, god with the guy. If

1651
01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 1: it's one person, it needs to be judged the same period.

1652
01:22:58,479 --> 01:23:04,600
Speaker 1: Now it's time to get into the viou oh bow

1653
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:11,880
Speaker 1: the bow, Bow Bow Bow bow to. So my bop

1654
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:13,920
Speaker 1: of the week I found a new artist. I don't

1655
01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 1: know how new he is or not, but I've recently

1656
01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: discovered this song. It's called Drive Me Crazy by Miles Lloyd.

1657
01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: I really like the tone of his voice. One thing

1658
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,519
Speaker 1: about me I really like when I listen to music,

1659
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:30,719
Speaker 1: the first thing I hear.

1660
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:33,639
Speaker 2: Is the actual track, like the beat.

1661
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 1: But then I also listen to the tone of your voice,

1662
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 1: and I actually am more concerned with the tone of

1663
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: a person's voice like before the lyrics, because that's why

1664
01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: you realize a lot of people get away with a

1665
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 1: lot of bullshit just because either the track is hot,

1666
01:23:48,160 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 1: or the melody is hot, or their tone is hot.

1667
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:53,639
Speaker 1: Cisco Thong song, he said. He repeated the same thing

1668
01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:56,120
Speaker 1: for three four minutes, and we was feeling and we

1669
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 1: was feeling it why because the track was hot and

1670
01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:01,320
Speaker 1: the melody was hot. We didn't even realize he kept

1671
01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 1: repeating the same shit over and over again. So one

1672
01:24:04,520 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 1: thing I like about Miles Lloyd, I love the tone

1673
01:24:06,960 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 1: of his voice. So my bop of the week is

1674
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:18,759
Speaker 1: drive Me Crazy, Miles Lloyd. It's about period, Okay.

1675
01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:24,120
Speaker 4: I lately I have just been in my bag of

1676
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:28,679
Speaker 4: like listening to old school music too, because I feel

1677
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:32,000
Speaker 4: like we definitely show a lot of love to like

1678
01:24:32,120 --> 01:24:34,559
Speaker 4: new school stuff show and I feel like you are

1679
01:24:35,080 --> 01:24:37,040
Speaker 4: like who people can like credit for that because I

1680
01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 4: feel like your ears always to the street, you low

1681
01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 4: key a little A and R a little bit.

1682
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:43,960
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you for real though,

1683
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:49,800
Speaker 1: if like whatever popping labels out right now, if they

1684
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 1: hired me, they can't lose every to the streets.

1685
01:24:56,080 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 4: When it comes to music, and I feel like I

1686
01:24:57,720 --> 01:24:59,600
Speaker 4: definitely be like having my ears to the streets a

1687
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:01,599
Speaker 4: little bit when it be like when it comes to music,

1688
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:03,200
Speaker 4: but I feel like you listen to like more of

1689
01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:06,320
Speaker 4: like the artists that people be slipped on, yeah, like

1690
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:09,000
Speaker 4: any arts and stuff like I kind of be more

1691
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna know, like the new shit that's coming out

1692
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 4: when it comes to like the artists that kind of

1693
01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:15,760
Speaker 4: everybody know about. I wish labels would go back to

1694
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:17,880
Speaker 4: developing artists because it do be a lot of artists

1695
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,479
Speaker 4: that are great, but they're not necessarily like ready, but

1696
01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 4: they could be developed into a star. Like they don't

1697
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,840
Speaker 4: develop artists anymore, and I hate that. I feel like

1698
01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 4: that's why we're missing out on a lot of good shit.

1699
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:33,840
Speaker 1: Like they developed Whitney Houston, like as great as she was,

1700
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:36,120
Speaker 1: she was ready, but like Clive, they had a team

1701
01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:36,559
Speaker 1: on her.

1702
01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:39,600
Speaker 2: They had a fucking that they had a team on

1703
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:40,360
Speaker 2: Mariah Carey.

1704
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:42,200
Speaker 4: But do you feel like but do you feel like

1705
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:48,720
Speaker 4: it was because back then it wasn't as many superstars,

1706
01:25:48,800 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 4: Like it was harder to find superstars. It's not to

1707
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:54,240
Speaker 4: say that it wasn't a lot of Maria. I'm sure

1708
01:25:54,360 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 4: if we scoured the world. It was a lot of

1709
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:01,760
Speaker 4: Mariah Carey's and Whitneys back in the day that were like.

1710
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:03,160
Speaker 1: They could seen, they could sing.

1711
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:05,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, people that could.

1712
01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 4: Have been as big as Riah and as big as

1713
01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 4: Whitney that just were never discovered because we didn't have

1714
01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 4: the technology and the ability to be able to find

1715
01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:18,000
Speaker 4: people the way that we're now, like the ability for

1716
01:26:18,040 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 4: people to be able to be seen.

1717
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think back then it was a lot of.

1718
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:24,800
Speaker 4: Talented people just as talented as them, but like it

1719
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:27,519
Speaker 4: was just harder to find them. I agree, But now

1720
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:30,519
Speaker 4: it's way easier to find people. So do you feel

1721
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:35,200
Speaker 4: like because it's so many people and like the industry

1722
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 4: is so oversaturated that like it's hard to kind of

1723
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:44,719
Speaker 4: create these superstars and build them out because if you think.

1724
01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:46,640
Speaker 1: About it, all of these.

1725
01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:51,040
Speaker 4: Labels are doing the same thing with all of the artists,

1726
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 4: but it's everybody competing with each other versus it being

1727
01:26:55,120 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 4: like one superstar that's coming out and then you're putting

1728
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:01,639
Speaker 4: all of your energy into this one person, Like RCA

1729
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:05,800
Speaker 4: has this one person. But love Face, well I don't

1730
01:27:05,800 --> 01:27:08,639
Speaker 4: even love face, not around them, but in the day,

1731
01:27:08,800 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 4: but back in the day, RCA has this one person,

1732
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 4: but face don't really have a person, right, versus like

1733
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 4: le Face RCA Capital Botown everybody having a person now

1734
01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 4: and we're all putting the same machine behind all of

1735
01:27:24,439 --> 01:27:27,080
Speaker 4: these people, and so nobody is really kind of taking

1736
01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:29,160
Speaker 4: off more than the person, if that makes it.

1737
01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 2: So, I do agree with you with that.

1738
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:33,559
Speaker 1: I feel like now everybody like they want to make

1739
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:37,160
Speaker 1: a TikTok song. Everybody wants that people put more value

1740
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:40,720
Speaker 1: in value in singles than they do actual projects. So

1741
01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:44,080
Speaker 1: I think that's what hurt the industry. But like I said,

1742
01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 1: I think now due to inflation, companies losing a lot

1743
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:54,919
Speaker 1: of money because back then, if you had okay perfect example,

1744
01:27:56,320 --> 01:28:00,240
Speaker 1: Rock Nation, they had Rihanna and they had Tierra Marie. Well,

1745
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:03,880
Speaker 1: no that was Rockell Rockefeller. I'm sorry, it's rock Nation now, right,

1746
01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:07,479
Speaker 1: So they had Rihanna Tierra Marie, right, yeah, Tierra Marie

1747
01:28:07,560 --> 01:28:12,040
Speaker 1: came out swinging. Tierra Marie was bigger than Rihanna when

1748
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:16,639
Speaker 1: they first dropped. She was she had no daddy around

1749
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:19,600
Speaker 1: when she was growing up, proud and know how to

1750
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: make a craffee. So with that being said, this is

1751
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:26,880
Speaker 1: when a lot of stuff changed. Let me tell you

1752
01:28:26,920 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 1: and I if y'all send him this clip, he probably

1753
01:28:30,160 --> 01:28:33,879
Speaker 1: gonna be like, Yeah, this person is single handedly changed

1754
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 1: the music industry. And either people gonna say it's for

1755
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:39,799
Speaker 1: the best or it's for the worst. Soldier Boy. Soldier

1756
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:44,000
Speaker 1: Boy changed the game because he was like, I'm not developed,

1757
01:28:44,040 --> 01:28:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting in my bedroom. I'm making these hits

1758
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 1: and I'm ready to go. So once he got on

1759
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:52,680
Speaker 1: with Colla Park and all that stuff, they didn't have

1760
01:28:52,760 --> 01:28:55,000
Speaker 1: to invest too too much because he was ready to

1761
01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:57,519
Speaker 1: go because he was a superstar on his own.

1762
01:28:57,760 --> 01:28:59,960
Speaker 2: And that was the first kind of that that we saw.

1763
01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:02,599
Speaker 1: So now they were like, okay, if Sojio Boy came

1764
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:06,519
Speaker 1: ready made and we had to invest maybe a million

1765
01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:10,080
Speaker 1: dollars versus ten million dollars investment on somebody who has

1766
01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 1: to be ready and I mean somebody that we have

1767
01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:14,519
Speaker 1: to package up and get.

1768
01:29:14,400 --> 01:29:18,000
Speaker 2: Ready to go. So I think Sodier Boys what changed it.

1769
01:29:18,160 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 1: Also, like I said, the tier Marie and Rihanna situation,

1770
01:29:21,479 --> 01:29:24,400
Speaker 1: Tierre Marie came out swinging, she was dropping his and

1771
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:29,160
Speaker 1: Rihanna came out like Rihanna came out in hot luke warm.

1772
01:29:29,520 --> 01:29:34,519
Speaker 1: The first album was good, but that second album when

1773
01:29:34,520 --> 01:29:37,759
Speaker 1: they changed her into that pop that pop girl.

1774
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:39,720
Speaker 2: That's when it's umbrella.

1775
01:29:40,080 --> 01:29:44,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, and once she's fun, that's fun to replay.

1776
01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:46,880
Speaker 1: Replay was a hit, but it didn't do it and

1777
01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:50,960
Speaker 1: the other song and that was her first single, No,

1778
01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:54,479
Speaker 1: that was her second thing. I'm sorry, but what I'm

1779
01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 1: saying was first. But I'm saying all that to say

1780
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:00,960
Speaker 1: is because in the beginning, I mean, they put all

1781
01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:04,559
Speaker 1: their cards in Tierra Marie and it didn't end up working,

1782
01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:06,400
Speaker 1: and they had they were like, uh, we're gonna do

1783
01:30:06,439 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 1: this with Rihanna and we gonna see and then Rihanna

1784
01:30:08,520 --> 01:30:10,560
Speaker 1: ended up turning up on the ass and they was like,

1785
01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:13,519
Speaker 1: you know what, we need to stop spending money on

1786
01:30:13,560 --> 01:30:15,559
Speaker 1: these girls and see what they gonna do and see

1787
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:19,679
Speaker 1: and men and everybody, let's stop spending money and let's

1788
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:21,720
Speaker 1: see what they can do. Let's see how bad you

1789
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:25,439
Speaker 1: want it. So now it's up to the artist. You

1790
01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:28,800
Speaker 1: gotta really spend it on yourself. And you know, and

1791
01:30:28,880 --> 01:30:32,000
Speaker 1: I think as good as that is, because the cream

1792
01:30:32,120 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 1: rises to the top, but we're also missing a lot

1793
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:38,360
Speaker 1: of people who maybe don't have the resources, that are

1794
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:41,280
Speaker 1: good as fuck, that are superstars. Even with summer Walker

1795
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:45,080
Speaker 1: Summer quite as it's kept, summer Walker was developed by

1796
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:48,840
Speaker 1: a girl named Summer Walker who is from Beaumont, Texas,

1797
01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:53,719
Speaker 1: that discovered her. People don't know that, y'all. Y'all, y'all

1798
01:30:53,800 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 1: DJ Drama's first wife. She's very intelligent and ti I mean,

1799
01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:01,080
Speaker 1: she's very She used to be a video okay, and

1800
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:03,640
Speaker 1: she was somebody who's artsy and this, and she discovered

1801
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:06,960
Speaker 1: Summer Walker. I don't know that true story, but she

1802
01:31:07,080 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 1: saw something in her and she developed her, and she

1803
01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:12,680
Speaker 1: took that time with her. And I don't want to

1804
01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 1: say that she's the reason that she made it, but

1805
01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like some people have to be developed. Some

1806
01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,760
Speaker 1: people aren't ready made to go. So I think the

1807
01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 1: labels are messing up by not really taking their time

1808
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: and trying to find superstars or trying to hurry up

1809
01:31:26,840 --> 01:31:28,840
Speaker 1: and get the bag and get the dollar, when in

1810
01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:31,400
Speaker 1: the long run it's better, Like look at how when

1811
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 1: Usher and Justin Bieber and the long run of things.

1812
01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:36,160
Speaker 1: I think we need to start getting back to the

1813
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:40,160
Speaker 1: long run of things. Stop rushing people for albums. Stop

1814
01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 1: dropping four albums in a year, y'all dropping too much music.

1815
01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry four albums, Well they're dropping. Let me tell

1816
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:54,599
Speaker 1: you something. Beyonce is doing these acts, but she's Beyonce.

1817
01:31:55,960 --> 01:31:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear I want to do I

1818
01:31:58,400 --> 01:32:01,080
Speaker 1: want to see two albums from beyond a year. Yeah,

1819
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:03,719
Speaker 1: I can handle that. But Beyonce has developed these two

1820
01:32:03,760 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 1: albums for years. She's been working on Act two for years,

1821
01:32:08,200 --> 01:32:10,519
Speaker 1: working on Act one for years. We just didn't know

1822
01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:12,320
Speaker 1: about it. But she also ain't doing that.

1823
01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:18,080
Speaker 4: Like Beyonce dropped even with the acts. Beyonce dropped The

1824
01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:23,559
Speaker 4: Renaissiance July June of twenty twenty two. Whenever there was

1825
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:24,599
Speaker 4: maybe August of.

1826
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:25,280
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty two.

1827
01:32:25,800 --> 01:32:30,240
Speaker 4: She didn't drop Cowboy Carter until March of this year, right,

1828
01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:33,520
Speaker 4: So it's been like a year and a half between albums.

1829
01:32:33,520 --> 01:32:38,120
Speaker 4: So I don't think, I don't well, like I said,

1830
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:41,400
Speaker 4: even a year and a half between albums, that's a

1831
01:32:41,400 --> 01:32:42,160
Speaker 4: good amount of time.

1832
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:44,559
Speaker 1: But you have to realize back in the day they

1833
01:32:44,640 --> 01:32:47,719
Speaker 1: was dropping the album, they was touring two three years

1834
01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:50,559
Speaker 1: off of one album they were then they get off tour,

1835
01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:55,599
Speaker 1: they disappeared for a while, and do it again. These

1836
01:32:55,720 --> 01:33:00,720
Speaker 1: people are dropping two three albums in the two three years.

1837
01:33:00,840 --> 01:33:03,439
Speaker 4: I be so take your time with the music. I

1838
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 4: be so jealous when I think about, like our grandparents

1839
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 4: and parents, when songs used to drop and albums used

1840
01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:14,439
Speaker 4: to drop, and I used to hear that she for

1841
01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:17,000
Speaker 4: the first time, and I used to be dancing to

1842
01:33:17,040 --> 01:33:18,599
Speaker 4: when it was no social media.

1843
01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:22,240
Speaker 1: And to tell you this ship, I was listening a

1844
01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 1: whipped last night, Yeah, and.

1845
01:33:27,080 --> 01:33:29,679
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, can you imagine when

1846
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 4: that song first dropped, how they was cutting up in

1847
01:33:32,320 --> 01:33:33,560
Speaker 4: the whip it?

1848
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:35,840
Speaker 1: And you know what I was listening to this morning.

1849
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 4: You know what I was listening to Tie Imagine how

1850
01:33:39,400 --> 01:33:42,120
Speaker 4: they was cutting up in the globe when they dropped

1851
01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:45,200
Speaker 4: the first time on the on that pure cocaine.

1852
01:33:45,640 --> 01:33:46,960
Speaker 2: You know what this morning?

1853
01:33:47,640 --> 01:33:49,559
Speaker 1: And I was getting ready because I was feeling kind

1854
01:33:49,560 --> 01:33:53,960
Speaker 1: of down. I played this ship this morning because I

1855
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:55,759
Speaker 1: was feeling kind of down. I wanted to feel myself.

1856
01:33:55,800 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 1: You know what, I put on Darro through she goad.

1857
01:34:01,840 --> 01:34:05,120
Speaker 1: I said, you know the bad buses was outside just

1858
01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:10,240
Speaker 1: since Fine and Stom because you used to have to wait.

1859
01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:12,120
Speaker 1: You know how bad we used to run off that

1860
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:14,800
Speaker 1: bus to get on Watch one O six in part

1861
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:17,800
Speaker 1: because we had to see who was number. When you

1862
01:34:17,840 --> 01:34:22,800
Speaker 1: knew the premiere. I remember when No Scrubs dropped, bro,

1863
01:34:23,439 --> 01:34:25,040
Speaker 1: I remember when that video.

1864
01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:29,960
Speaker 4: Dropped, So imagine how it was with No Nothing Soul

1865
01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:31,559
Speaker 4: Train and they used to be doing the fleet.

1866
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:36,160
Speaker 1: Y'all, we have messed up the music industry. It's so sad.

1867
01:34:36,240 --> 01:34:39,200
Speaker 1: It is. It's really sad because the kids these days,

1868
01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:43,120
Speaker 1: y'all don't know how it feels to anticipate a video dropping.

1869
01:34:43,439 --> 01:34:45,639
Speaker 1: We couldn't pull up our phone and watch a video.

1870
01:34:46,040 --> 01:34:50,040
Speaker 1: We had to wait until it came on trl Damn

1871
01:34:52,400 --> 01:34:56,519
Speaker 1: what I ran off the bus. I said, TLC's video

1872
01:34:56,680 --> 01:34:58,760
Speaker 1: is premiering tomorrow, and they used to talk about it

1873
01:34:58,880 --> 01:35:02,680
Speaker 1: the whole week. TLC premiere Friday. TLC I said, oh

1874
01:35:02,720 --> 01:35:05,679
Speaker 1: my god, I gotta get home. If you can't see

1875
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:15,920
Speaker 1: spand my horizon, some slums never Rizon, I said, left

1876
01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:21,160
Speaker 1: that at so let me give you something to think about.

1877
01:35:22,160 --> 01:35:28,439
Speaker 1: She ain't. Don't do that. A moment in time, especially

1878
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:31,679
Speaker 1: spanned my horizon. Then I leave your glass of scrubs

1879
01:35:31,760 --> 01:35:41,160
Speaker 1: or horizon. The kids don't know droll.

1880
01:35:41,720 --> 01:35:45,000
Speaker 4: I know, but that's what I was saying. So I

1881
01:35:45,080 --> 01:35:47,920
Speaker 4: can imagine because I was exciting to when.

1882
01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:50,760
Speaker 1: I see it. I wish I could tell you up.

1883
01:35:50,760 --> 01:35:55,520
Speaker 1: And when they took out that Breaston plant, I said, oh,

1884
01:35:56,320 --> 01:36:04,080
Speaker 1: how could she not use for me? Pretty did not

1885
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 1: hit me hard enough?

1886
01:36:05,400 --> 01:36:14,360
Speaker 4: No, need me hard enough because I was like, okay, man's.

1887
01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:17,400
Speaker 1: It was a time.

1888
01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:20,439
Speaker 4: But like I said, going back to even because I

1889
01:36:20,439 --> 01:36:23,360
Speaker 4: feel like our grandparents here harder. Like, yeah, we definitely

1890
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:26,200
Speaker 4: was like watching One on sixty part TR But I

1891
01:36:26,200 --> 01:36:26,920
Speaker 4: feel like in the.

1892
01:36:26,920 --> 01:36:30,160
Speaker 1: Eighties the seventies they was really couldning. Uh you know

1893
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:32,360
Speaker 1: what they do? They need to bring Soul Train back though.

1894
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:35,120
Speaker 1: We need to make artists premire things. We need to

1895
01:36:35,200 --> 01:36:38,000
Speaker 1: force it. We need a Soul Train or a t

1896
01:36:38,880 --> 01:36:41,519
Speaker 1: R and make us the whole take all this ship

1897
01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:44,880
Speaker 1: off of online. And we need to force people to

1898
01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:47,720
Speaker 1: congregate again. We need to force this on people. We

1899
01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:50,639
Speaker 1: need to start doing shows in time. We're gonna bring Tide.

1900
01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:55,040
Speaker 1: She's gonna be our bars and she's and everybody sleep

1901
01:36:55,720 --> 01:37:02,240
Speaker 1: what except for me? I might knock it up my Yeah.

1902
01:37:02,280 --> 01:37:04,280
Speaker 1: We need to force we need to force people to

1903
01:37:04,280 --> 01:37:08,280
Speaker 1: start premiering music together in this YouTube premiers. No, I'm

1904
01:37:08,320 --> 01:37:10,679
Speaker 1: not talking about that. We need to make people gather

1905
01:37:10,800 --> 01:37:13,320
Speaker 1: around and gather around the TV and make it a thing.

1906
01:37:13,640 --> 01:37:15,120
Speaker 1: You can't do it from your phone.

1907
01:37:15,760 --> 01:37:18,640
Speaker 4: It needs to something needs to happen. Everybody need to

1908
01:37:18,640 --> 01:37:19,799
Speaker 4: be being from their phone.

1909
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:24,840
Speaker 1: COVID makes shit worse comb because.

1910
01:37:26,360 --> 01:37:30,200
Speaker 4: Prior to COVID, we was like one social media. Don't

1911
01:37:30,200 --> 01:37:30,679
Speaker 4: get me wrong.

1912
01:37:30,720 --> 01:37:32,640
Speaker 1: We was on there, but not like it is, but

1913
01:37:32,800 --> 01:37:33,479
Speaker 1: not like this.

1914
01:37:33,640 --> 01:37:36,719
Speaker 4: It was like when COVID hit, niggas couldn't go nowhere,

1915
01:37:36,960 --> 01:37:39,439
Speaker 4: and that's when TikTok really like took off.

1916
01:37:39,479 --> 01:37:41,519
Speaker 1: I told you this, we said this past people were

1917
01:37:41,640 --> 01:37:46,080
Speaker 1: making flyers. I'm going live Tonight's seven, use nigga, don't

1918
01:37:46,080 --> 01:37:49,479
Speaker 1: nobody give a damn and Verses that's when Versus took off.

1919
01:37:49,520 --> 01:37:51,519
Speaker 1: That's when Versus took off. But Versus was cool because

1920
01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:54,040
Speaker 1: that's what really brought us together, like we was all

1921
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:56,800
Speaker 1: doing it together. I like stuff like that. But we

1922
01:37:56,840 --> 01:37:59,320
Speaker 1: need to figure out how can we get everybody together

1923
01:37:59,600 --> 01:38:02,759
Speaker 1: to start listening to music and putting these.

1924
01:38:02,600 --> 01:38:04,360
Speaker 2: Pressure on artists to make good music.

1925
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:08,479
Speaker 1: It's so it's like this many people making music and

1926
01:38:08,520 --> 01:38:12,040
Speaker 1: this many people making good music. You know who does

1927
01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:16,720
Speaker 1: a fucking good job at good music? Billy Billie Eilish.

1928
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the new new school. I'm talking about

1929
01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:23,639
Speaker 1: the new school. Billie Eilish is fucking good. I can't

1930
01:38:23,680 --> 01:38:26,719
Speaker 1: take that from her. I don't care if she dresses

1931
01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:29,519
Speaker 1: like Snoop Dogg in nineteen ninety two.

1932
01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:30,840
Speaker 4: But.

1933
01:38:36,240 --> 01:38:41,600
Speaker 6: Nope, okay, yeah, because.

1934
01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:53,479
Speaker 1: She does. Yeah, uh huh, yeah she.

1935
01:38:53,520 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 9: Shot out.

1936
01:38:57,000 --> 01:39:01,639
Speaker 1: You gotta like that's to be a soul soldier girl.

1937
01:39:01,720 --> 01:39:05,639
Speaker 2: So okay, go ahead, go ahead, man.

1938
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:08,840
Speaker 4: We've been trying to get to my box for that. Literally,

1939
01:39:24,360 --> 01:39:26,759
Speaker 4: I want to shine a spotlight on Jeezy.

1940
01:39:27,200 --> 01:39:28,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that.

1941
01:39:28,320 --> 01:39:29,639
Speaker 6: I love young Jeezy.

1942
01:39:29,800 --> 01:39:33,000
Speaker 4: Like who do you listen to whenever you want to

1943
01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 4: get in your bag, whenever you need to feel like

1944
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:35,840
Speaker 4: I'm the beach for me?

1945
01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:36,719
Speaker 1: Is Jeezy.

1946
01:39:36,920 --> 01:39:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm off I'm a dof girl.

1947
01:39:38,600 --> 01:39:41,679
Speaker 4: I'm a jeezy girl, like whenever I need to remember

1948
01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:43,680
Speaker 4: who the fuck I am and then I need to

1949
01:39:43,760 --> 01:39:46,599
Speaker 4: boss up and get on my sheet and stop letting

1950
01:39:46,600 --> 01:39:47,519
Speaker 4: life get me down.

1951
01:39:48,040 --> 01:39:50,920
Speaker 1: I got a hold Jeezy, play least. Oh you gotta

1952
01:39:50,960 --> 01:39:53,120
Speaker 1: release that for the people. We need that. I do

1953
01:39:53,360 --> 01:39:56,280
Speaker 1: so go to the streets. So I be listening to

1954
01:39:56,320 --> 01:39:59,000
Speaker 1: go Crazy. Oh that's a good one.

1955
01:39:59,439 --> 01:40:04,200
Speaker 4: I know, go Crazy, I believe need to put on

1956
01:40:05,240 --> 01:40:11,720
Speaker 4: I lose my mind. Oh your bab me okay, I

1957
01:40:11,800 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 4: love it seeing it all okay with jay Z.

1958
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:21,840
Speaker 1: Let me see hold on, let me go down. You

1959
01:40:21,880 --> 01:40:23,840
Speaker 1: gotta make this a playlist and give it to the people.

1960
01:40:23,920 --> 01:40:27,960
Speaker 10: I do, I do, And then with Indeed with her,

1961
01:40:30,840 --> 01:40:33,760
Speaker 10: I do A do a zoo a zoo a zoo

1962
01:40:33,840 --> 01:40:34,439
Speaker 10: a zoo.

1963
01:40:36,400 --> 01:40:37,280
Speaker 6: Shout out to Jeszu.

1964
01:40:37,439 --> 01:40:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Gz has a leg of a catalog. I like

1965
01:40:41,880 --> 01:40:45,200
Speaker 1: when people rap and they articulate their words so well.

1966
01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,559
Speaker 1: He's one of those rappers like jay Z does that

1967
01:40:48,040 --> 01:40:50,760
Speaker 1: and Jez does that. They're like two people that like

1968
01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:53,960
Speaker 1: when they rap, it's so clear what they're saying. You

1969
01:40:54,040 --> 01:40:55,720
Speaker 1: never go and who jay Z?

1970
01:40:56,400 --> 01:40:57,080
Speaker 2: Like When jay Z.

1971
01:40:57,160 --> 01:41:02,080
Speaker 1: Raps, he articulates every word so clearly, it's like you

1972
01:41:02,120 --> 01:41:04,840
Speaker 1: cannot you know. Sometimes somebody will rap something like what

1973
01:41:04,880 --> 01:41:07,160
Speaker 1: they said? Did they say this today? You never have

1974
01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:08,920
Speaker 1: to do that with Jeez or with jay Z.

1975
01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:12,840
Speaker 4: Not dreaming with him and he shako that ain't really

1976
01:41:12,840 --> 01:41:13,960
Speaker 4: a motivational song, but.

1977
01:41:14,040 --> 01:41:19,120
Speaker 1: That's just the heat it's and so is he that

1978
01:41:19,280 --> 01:41:25,439
Speaker 1: pussy up? Mm hmm your bedroom play lead. I go

1979
01:41:25,640 --> 01:41:33,439
Speaker 1: licks m so humbert hum and sing I'm gonna tell

1980
01:41:33,479 --> 01:41:34,120
Speaker 1: that poor.

1981
01:41:33,960 --> 01:41:37,400
Speaker 6: So off every time you try to check les black Card.

1982
01:41:37,520 --> 01:41:40,400
Speaker 1: She feels, I mean, I got the melody that's closer now?

1983
01:41:41,479 --> 01:41:44,160
Speaker 1: Is that the one with trace song? Mm hmm, it's

1984
01:41:44,240 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 1: falling the moment that's that's a different one. Card, that's

1985
01:41:51,560 --> 01:41:55,400
Speaker 1: a different one. We know. I'm gonna tell that poor

1986
01:41:55,520 --> 01:41:58,760
Speaker 1: sol Off. Oh you know what song I used to love?

1987
01:41:58,960 --> 01:41:59,320
Speaker 1: That was?

1988
01:41:59,400 --> 01:41:59,479
Speaker 3: Not?

1989
01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:01,839
Speaker 6: That was with Lloyd?

1990
01:42:01,920 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 1: Why are you saying that? Like ply? Y'all know what

1991
01:42:05,600 --> 01:42:07,639
Speaker 1: song I used to love though, speaking of tree songs,

1992
01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:08,640
Speaker 1: and we're not gonna get into it.

1993
01:42:08,720 --> 01:42:10,120
Speaker 2: He had this song with bun Bee.

1994
01:42:10,720 --> 01:42:13,479
Speaker 1: If you need love, I love it.

1995
01:42:13,680 --> 01:42:18,200
Speaker 11: If you need I'm thinking if you need a hustler,

1996
01:42:18,960 --> 01:42:26,519
Speaker 11: whatever you need, girl, I'm gonna holds be shout out.

1997
01:42:26,400 --> 01:42:31,759
Speaker 1: To bun Beata. I'm make he love that bun Beata.

1998
01:42:31,840 --> 01:42:39,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a scream, yes, he said, But let

1999
01:42:39,520 --> 01:42:43,599
Speaker 1: me see he said, bun be Okay, let me read

2000
01:42:43,640 --> 01:42:52,360
Speaker 1: the lyrics. Y'all know how he said, Here you go,

2001
01:42:54,360 --> 01:43:02,080
Speaker 1: bun beat the I'm a see he said, he said,

2002
01:43:02,160 --> 01:43:04,920
Speaker 1: one beat the Yeah, that's what I said.

2003
01:43:05,560 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 4: You said, but beat like b e A t e

2004
01:43:09,520 --> 01:43:14,160
Speaker 4: A b e t e e A e e A

2005
01:43:14,360 --> 01:43:15,200
Speaker 4: t e.

2006
01:43:15,160 --> 01:43:18,479
Speaker 1: A e A. I didn't say it like that, I said,

2007
01:43:18,560 --> 01:43:21,760
Speaker 1: bun be the ama. That's what he said, bun be

2008
01:43:22,000 --> 01:43:26,519
Speaker 1: the Alma. I don't want to be I don't want

2009
01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:27,040
Speaker 1: to leave.

2010
01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:34,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to be b Why did he do

2011
01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:35,880
Speaker 2: that like that? He thought?

2012
01:43:35,920 --> 01:43:36,800
Speaker 1: He ate he did?

2013
01:43:37,160 --> 01:43:37,800
Speaker 2: Let me do it again?

2014
01:43:37,920 --> 01:43:41,000
Speaker 1: He did, though, what I don't like that. Let me

2015
01:43:41,760 --> 01:43:46,040
Speaker 1: now that we ten years later. I like, how you

2016
01:43:46,120 --> 01:43:48,920
Speaker 1: gonna fill ten years from now when they be pulling up.

2017
01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:58,520
Speaker 6: Ship, you said, he did.

2018
01:43:58,720 --> 01:44:01,120
Speaker 1: So when you've seen that ten years ago, you weren't

2019
01:44:01,200 --> 01:44:04,840
Speaker 1: like horrible and I'll be back to hold you down.

2020
01:44:05,520 --> 01:44:10,240
Speaker 1: And I don't want to leave me leave me? You

2021
01:44:10,320 --> 01:44:16,240
Speaker 1: did not, he said. He did, though, that's crazy. You're useless.

2022
01:44:17,240 --> 01:44:19,200
Speaker 2: How to cut that cane?

2023
01:44:20,200 --> 01:44:31,200
Speaker 1: What I how to cut that cane? Okay?

2024
01:44:34,560 --> 01:44:34,600
Speaker 2: This?

2025
01:44:34,800 --> 01:44:34,840
Speaker 3: What?

2026
01:44:37,120 --> 01:44:39,519
Speaker 1: What was that song? He said? So many people who

2027
01:44:39,720 --> 01:44:42,599
Speaker 1: never coming on that show? What was the first Trace song?

2028
01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:50,200
Speaker 1: Just gotta make it? Oh? He was always in pain.

2029
01:44:50,400 --> 01:45:09,360
Speaker 1: He was. Oh, beat his ass, Oh he was, He's one.

2030
01:45:09,439 --> 01:45:10,639
Speaker 2: That was his favorite dance move.

2031
01:45:10,800 --> 01:45:15,240
Speaker 6: What it's the top of the world.

2032
01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:20,800
Speaker 1: Me and my girl, We just gotta make you.

2033
01:45:21,320 --> 01:45:23,120
Speaker 2: Cut that cane.

2034
01:45:24,439 --> 01:45:28,479
Speaker 1: That he said, cut that cane? But what what's that hoo?

2035
01:45:28,800 --> 01:45:31,600
Speaker 1: Are you used to sound how destroy that.

2036
01:45:33,640 --> 01:45:37,600
Speaker 2: I used to tell Daddy how I cut that cane.

2037
01:45:42,560 --> 01:45:46,840
Speaker 1: Dry? I can't wait to see you. I'm whooping your ass,

2038
01:45:47,040 --> 01:45:51,519
Speaker 1: my mom, It's on site, hold avenue.

2039
01:45:52,080 --> 01:45:54,640
Speaker 4: No Trey song used to go hard because yeah, that

2040
01:45:54,760 --> 01:45:58,240
Speaker 4: song can't help. But wait, that was my song girl

2041
01:45:59,280 --> 01:45:59,680
Speaker 4: for the w.

2042
01:46:02,160 --> 01:46:09,960
Speaker 1: Yes. But Lex, that was you look for what you really? Maybe? Girl?

2043
01:46:10,080 --> 01:46:19,200
Speaker 1: You are restored? No, I can't help. I hate him bad.

2044
01:46:19,479 --> 01:46:20,519
Speaker 1: Why oh?

2045
01:46:20,560 --> 01:46:21,880
Speaker 2: I hate him so bad?

2046
01:46:22,280 --> 01:46:23,200
Speaker 1: So you ain't used to like?

2047
01:46:23,400 --> 01:46:23,599
Speaker 2: No?

2048
01:46:23,800 --> 01:46:25,880
Speaker 1: I told you all this. This is before the Alex.

2049
01:46:25,920 --> 01:46:28,360
Speaker 1: We talk about this nigga every three month. You see

2050
01:46:28,400 --> 01:46:33,040
Speaker 1: me in the videos they why doing make your body

2051
01:46:33,160 --> 01:46:36,920
Speaker 1: go crazy? Oh? Catch me and Maxine?

2052
01:46:37,360 --> 01:46:41,960
Speaker 4: Baby, I hate you with me and my part never

2053
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:43,280
Speaker 4: you ain't never like that.

2054
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:45,479
Speaker 8: Let me be honest, y'all know I'm like a fake

2055
01:46:45,560 --> 01:46:46,080
Speaker 8: walk queen.

2056
01:46:46,200 --> 01:46:48,479
Speaker 1: But this was before everything came out about him. I

2057
01:46:48,600 --> 01:46:53,479
Speaker 1: promise I'm very much fake WoT. But before all this

2058
01:46:53,560 --> 01:46:58,120
Speaker 1: stuff happened, I've been a Trey Songs hater since diapers

2059
01:46:58,479 --> 01:47:00,240
Speaker 1: never liked him ever.

2060
01:47:00,800 --> 01:47:01,880
Speaker 2: I hate his boy.

2061
01:47:02,040 --> 01:47:12,320
Speaker 1: He was so good, he was so good, my super No,

2062
01:47:12,360 --> 01:47:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm not are you well? Then? Why you not? Not?

2063
01:47:20,560 --> 01:47:29,040
Speaker 1: You know all the lyrics are you? She is not?

2064
01:47:30,640 --> 01:47:36,640
Speaker 1: You do your thing. You can't be in a car like.

2065
01:47:38,120 --> 01:47:42,600
Speaker 4: It's somebody who was fitty wi biggest than you before.

2066
01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:47,120
Speaker 1: Again, Maddy, first of all, we're not gonna do that

2067
01:47:48,800 --> 01:47:52,640
Speaker 1: if you're gonna compare to those thirty y'all didn't know

2068
01:47:52,680 --> 01:47:55,240
Speaker 1: what time seven thirty. Y'all did not know what military

2069
01:47:55,320 --> 01:47:56,960
Speaker 1: time was before face.

2070
01:47:57,320 --> 01:48:01,320
Speaker 4: I hate somebody who fucking tell military time it's five oh.

2071
01:48:01,160 --> 01:48:05,559
Speaker 1: Two or it's seventeen thirty eight. That's about Remy, not

2072
01:48:05,680 --> 01:48:06,519
Speaker 1: about the time.

2073
01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 12: Though exactly exactly exactly, need to correct me.

2074
01:48:12,560 --> 01:48:12,920
Speaker 1: Cut up.

2075
01:48:13,160 --> 01:48:15,280
Speaker 4: He was talking about cut on my row.

2076
01:48:15,280 --> 01:48:19,920
Speaker 8: Seventeen to mix because we didn't ask what it mat

2077
01:48:21,600 --> 01:48:22,760
Speaker 8: I stay head, what's up?

2078
01:48:22,840 --> 01:48:29,880
Speaker 1: And low? You thought he was saying the military song.

2079
01:48:30,200 --> 01:48:34,720
Speaker 8: God damn it, Remy ball.

2080
01:48:36,520 --> 01:48:37,640
Speaker 1: Seventeen.

2081
01:48:40,880 --> 01:48:42,800
Speaker 2: He used to be singing and.

2082
01:48:42,920 --> 01:48:45,160
Speaker 4: Sold in Trey songs. So what's the book?

2083
01:48:45,200 --> 01:48:50,439
Speaker 1: It sing better Trida for Trey songs? Vocally, y'all think

2084
01:48:50,520 --> 01:48:55,200
Speaker 1: Trey song sings better than Fatty Wap. No way, y'all

2085
01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:57,760
Speaker 1: are kidding me right, I'm not talking about music. Now,

2086
01:48:57,760 --> 01:49:01,160
Speaker 1: we know Trey songs makes better music. Y'all talking about vocally.

2087
01:49:01,240 --> 01:49:03,479
Speaker 1: Y'all think Trey song sings better than Fatty Wop?

2088
01:49:03,600 --> 01:49:07,040
Speaker 2: Yes, me neither.

2089
01:49:07,120 --> 01:49:23,519
Speaker 1: Fatty Wop sounded like Whitney Houston. Oh the t came out,

2090
01:49:23,720 --> 01:49:28,200
Speaker 1: blocking out Hopby blocking out, you are crazy. Trey songs

2091
01:49:28,280 --> 01:49:32,200
Speaker 1: used to be having me in the car Patty walk sing. Y'all.

2092
01:49:32,240 --> 01:49:33,240
Speaker 1: Remember when Fatty Wap.

2093
01:49:33,680 --> 01:49:36,240
Speaker 2: All I gotta do was he dropped that Drake remix

2094
01:49:36,360 --> 01:49:36,680
Speaker 2: and I.

2095
01:49:36,680 --> 01:49:39,320
Speaker 1: Was singing Drake Park. All I gotta do is put

2096
01:49:39,360 --> 01:49:42,519
Speaker 1: my mind to you. Never said cancel line my ex.

2097
01:49:42,560 --> 01:49:45,840
Speaker 1: I put a lot. You never sung the hook? Maybe

2098
01:49:46,000 --> 01:49:47,160
Speaker 1: want you to come out?

2099
01:49:49,240 --> 01:49:51,120
Speaker 2: Got something ain't want Tuesday?

2100
01:49:51,560 --> 01:49:54,200
Speaker 1: Yes you did. I was in the club with your bitch.

2101
01:49:55,080 --> 01:49:57,320
Speaker 1: You were singing the hook and I was only singing

2102
01:49:57,320 --> 01:50:00,280
Speaker 1: it because of Drake, But you was before the remix drop.

2103
01:50:00,400 --> 01:50:02,920
Speaker 1: Shout out to DJ Erie because we heard it first

2104
01:50:03,160 --> 01:50:08,040
Speaker 1: world premiere. Shout out to.

2105
01:50:08,120 --> 01:50:11,160
Speaker 4: DJ seven one three. I don't even think that's on

2106
01:50:11,280 --> 01:50:15,280
Speaker 4: Instagram number. I think it's this Area twenty nine out.

2107
01:50:16,520 --> 01:50:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah we would, and then we heard that remix first,

2108
01:50:19,080 --> 01:50:19,639
Speaker 2: and then we.

2109
01:50:19,640 --> 01:50:21,840
Speaker 1: Thought we were so cool, oh cool, because we had

2110
01:50:21,880 --> 01:50:25,160
Speaker 1: found out and shout out to Big Throw r p RW.

2111
01:50:25,439 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 8: But we were the first ones that found out too

2112
01:50:28,160 --> 01:50:30,479
Speaker 8: that Drake and Future were about to drop that album.

2113
01:50:30,560 --> 01:50:34,439
Speaker 1: Remember what a Time to be Alive? We was like ooh.

2114
01:50:34,560 --> 01:50:36,280
Speaker 1: We was like, oh yeah, I went home and saw

2115
01:50:36,360 --> 01:50:38,360
Speaker 1: my mama. I was like, Draking Future about to drop

2116
01:50:38,400 --> 01:50:40,960
Speaker 1: a new I remember I tweeted something said who I

2117
01:50:41,040 --> 01:50:43,000
Speaker 1: tweeted something? I was listen. This is how I don't

2118
01:50:43,000 --> 01:50:44,880
Speaker 1: even know who Dragon Future was. This is how lame

2119
01:50:44,920 --> 01:50:45,200
Speaker 1: I was.

2120
01:50:45,240 --> 01:50:45,679
Speaker 2: I tweeted.

2121
01:50:45,680 --> 01:50:47,599
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, Drake got something coming and y'all

2122
01:50:47,640 --> 01:50:54,120
Speaker 1: gonna love it. I thought I.

2123
01:50:56,240 --> 01:50:56,640
Speaker 6: Hate that.

2124
01:50:56,880 --> 01:50:58,800
Speaker 1: I said, listen to this ship. When I get in

2125
01:50:58,800 --> 01:51:01,240
Speaker 1: a card, I said, yeah, Dray finna drop something.

2126
01:51:01,400 --> 01:51:03,920
Speaker 2: Y'all gonna Yeah, y'all gonna fuck with to be.

2127
01:51:03,960 --> 01:51:07,360
Speaker 1: Alive with the album A time? Okay, come on, we

2128
01:51:07,360 --> 01:51:10,639
Speaker 1: gotta move on. Okay, let's move on for thirty minutes.

2129
01:51:11,120 --> 01:51:11,960
Speaker 1: Lord have mercy.

2130
01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:15,560
Speaker 4: Okay, this is fucking this is goddamn ridiculous.

2131
01:51:15,920 --> 01:51:19,439
Speaker 1: Remember that song this is I thought that was something

2132
01:51:19,479 --> 01:51:24,679
Speaker 1: that Ludacris said. That's not like because it's a goddamn dickulous. Hey,

2133
01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:27,800
Speaker 1: I mission this is on my necklace and I'm Ludlechris.

2134
01:51:28,680 --> 01:51:32,559
Speaker 1: We know what he didn't let us. Forget that man

2135
01:51:32,640 --> 01:51:41,240
Speaker 1: named Knew the Chris in a bathroom in the back

2136
01:51:41,280 --> 01:51:44,200
Speaker 1: of the classroom. However you want it.

2137
01:51:45,000 --> 01:51:47,599
Speaker 2: That's enough, bro, it was him.

2138
01:51:48,040 --> 01:51:48,240
Speaker 1: Enough.

2139
01:51:49,200 --> 01:51:53,160
Speaker 4: No, I'm talking about the song ridiculous. Oh hey did

2140
01:51:53,160 --> 01:51:55,560
Speaker 4: shitty fucking ridiculous?

2141
01:51:55,760 --> 01:51:56,800
Speaker 2: I don't remember that one?

2142
01:51:58,120 --> 01:52:02,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, sorry, sorry, sorry the drink. Okay, come on,

2143
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Speaker 1: we gotta move on. So if y'all want your item

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Speaker 1: featured on the show, make sure you email us. Is

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Speaker 1: it item of the week? I don't know what it is.

2146
01:52:12,600 --> 01:52:14,559
Speaker 1: We'll put it on thing. So we're gonna move on

2147
01:52:14,640 --> 01:52:16,200
Speaker 1: to pour your heart out. If you want your question

2148
01:52:16,240 --> 01:52:17,599
Speaker 1: to answer on the show, and make sure you email

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01:52:17,680 --> 01:52:20,600
Speaker 1: us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com. If you're a

2150
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Speaker 1: Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline

2151
01:52:23,200 --> 01:52:24,719
Speaker 1: because you can skip the line.

2152
01:52:25,640 --> 01:52:27,920
Speaker 2: And we're gonna get into the questions today.

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01:52:27,960 --> 01:52:31,360
Speaker 1: Where are yours at? Oh my god? Oh I just

2154
01:52:31,400 --> 01:52:34,240
Speaker 1: have one. It was it was attached to the other one.

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01:52:34,600 --> 01:52:35,320
Speaker 1: I'll just read one.

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01:52:35,400 --> 01:52:35,960
Speaker 2: We over time.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Why are you swinging at bussy at me? She's

2158
01:52:44,240 --> 01:52:48,840
Speaker 1: swinging at bussy at me? Well, okay, hi, ladies, First

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01:52:48,920 --> 01:52:50,360
Speaker 1: and foremost, I love you guys.

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01:52:50,360 --> 01:52:52,120
Speaker 2: And I hope that your sets continues.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this past eight months, I've been talking to

2162
01:52:55,000 --> 01:52:58,320
Speaker 1: two guys from two different states. One is about eight

2163
01:52:58,400 --> 01:53:02,519
Speaker 1: years younger than me. However, he's extremely caring, emotionally stable,

2164
01:53:02,920 --> 01:53:03,840
Speaker 1: and attentive.

2165
01:53:04,200 --> 01:53:05,559
Speaker 2: The only issues with him.

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01:53:05,400 --> 01:53:08,400
Speaker 1: For me are his age, career goals, and the few

2167
01:53:08,400 --> 01:53:12,840
Speaker 1: times we've linked. He's never planned anything. We've never discussed relationships,

2168
01:53:12,840 --> 01:53:16,200
Speaker 1: but he's extremely possessive over me and it shows. He's

2169
01:53:16,240 --> 01:53:20,040
Speaker 1: also very emotional. He's a cancer. The other is a

2170
01:53:20,120 --> 01:53:22,720
Speaker 1: year older than me. He has a great job. I've

2171
01:53:22,760 --> 01:53:25,720
Speaker 1: met him once. The industry he works in demands him

2172
01:53:25,800 --> 01:53:28,160
Speaker 1: to travel a lot, and we've planned a date for

2173
01:53:28,200 --> 01:53:31,479
Speaker 1: the near future. The communication is weak with this connection

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01:53:31,960 --> 01:53:34,600
Speaker 1: due to his job, which I completely get because I

2175
01:53:34,720 --> 01:53:37,960
Speaker 1: understand the industry he works in. Would you choose one

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01:53:38,040 --> 01:53:40,360
Speaker 1: over the other or just continue to go with the flow?

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01:53:40,720 --> 01:53:42,519
Speaker 1: I just don't want to lead them on. If the

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01:53:42,560 --> 01:53:45,720
Speaker 1: younger one got his shit together, I could definitely see

2179
01:53:45,760 --> 01:53:48,799
Speaker 1: us together. However, the older one has his shit together,

2180
01:53:49,040 --> 01:53:52,080
Speaker 1: but he's extremely dedicated to his jobs at time help.

2181
01:53:52,680 --> 01:53:55,320
Speaker 1: It sounds like neither one of these guys are your person,

2182
01:53:55,520 --> 01:53:57,240
Speaker 1: So just have fun. And go with the flow until

2183
01:53:57,280 --> 01:53:58,120
Speaker 1: something bitter comes along.

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01:53:58,160 --> 01:54:02,519
Speaker 4: Why y'all do they do what? I'm just trying to

2185
01:54:02,520 --> 01:54:05,000
Speaker 4: figure out, Like, why do people do that? Why do

2186
01:54:05,040 --> 01:54:06,240
Speaker 4: they be like, oh.

2187
01:54:06,240 --> 01:54:07,519
Speaker 2: I need to stop talking to one?

2188
01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:11,360
Speaker 4: Should I pick these or don't date either one of them?

2189
01:54:11,400 --> 01:54:12,439
Speaker 1: Niggas Lena get.

2190
01:54:12,320 --> 01:54:13,559
Speaker 6: A whole new ross club.

2191
01:54:13,760 --> 01:54:16,360
Speaker 1: I mean whatever, just go with the flow and have fun.

2192
01:54:16,560 --> 01:54:19,000
Speaker 1: You can keep them both until you find something else.

2193
01:54:19,840 --> 01:54:22,280
Speaker 1: These neither one of these men sound like you're why

2194
01:54:22,320 --> 01:54:23,240
Speaker 1: you gotta pee?

2195
01:54:23,400 --> 01:54:26,040
Speaker 8: Don't pick as long as you ain't pregnant.

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01:54:26,760 --> 01:54:28,640
Speaker 4: This is why people I feel like, as long as

2197
01:54:28,680 --> 01:54:30,840
Speaker 4: you ain't pregnant, that's always my philosophy.

2198
01:54:31,880 --> 01:54:34,240
Speaker 1: You ain't pregnant. But you know what I've noticed, do

2199
01:54:34,320 --> 01:54:37,320
Speaker 1: what you want. Women always feel like, oh, I don't

2200
01:54:37,320 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 1: want to talk to them both? Why not? Men will

2201
01:54:40,560 --> 01:54:43,560
Speaker 1: date properly, That's one thing I would give them. They

2202
01:54:44,080 --> 01:54:46,760
Speaker 1: date multiple people and make the best puss out the

2203
01:54:47,000 --> 01:54:47,640
Speaker 1: proper dator.

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01:54:48,000 --> 01:54:50,720
Speaker 8: Yeah, women, we need to do the same too. The

2205
01:54:50,760 --> 01:54:52,400
Speaker 8: best Nick made the best dick win.

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01:54:52,720 --> 01:54:59,840
Speaker 1: Hobby be laughing like y'all was preaching today. Hobby No

2207
01:55:00,120 --> 01:55:07,480
Speaker 1: laughed like I got a new attitude.

2208
01:55:08,400 --> 01:55:11,760
Speaker 2: That's what Hobby said.

2209
01:55:11,800 --> 01:55:18,400
Speaker 1: See, Hobby said, he into it today. Okay, but yes,

2210
01:55:18,440 --> 01:55:24,520
Speaker 1: it's like, why do y'all? I ain't never heard Hobby laugh.

2211
01:55:25,160 --> 01:55:26,840
Speaker 6: He always laughs.

2212
01:55:27,000 --> 01:55:30,040
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? No?

2213
01:55:30,120 --> 01:55:32,839
Speaker 6: He laughing a lot of today, but he always laughs.

2214
01:55:32,920 --> 01:55:38,640
Speaker 1: Though Hobby's laughing, be like, but Hobby is like, and

2215
01:55:38,720 --> 01:55:42,440
Speaker 1: you gotta say something real funny to make Hobby laugh. No,

2216
01:55:42,520 --> 01:55:45,200
Speaker 1: Hobby is not easily. Hobby have a good sense of humor.

2217
01:55:45,280 --> 01:55:49,200
Speaker 4: He laughed, Alike, you don't be hitching me, but he

2218
01:55:49,320 --> 01:55:50,160
Speaker 4: laughed all the time.

2219
01:55:50,200 --> 01:55:53,960
Speaker 1: Well, you know, I got a bad ear, which one

2220
01:55:54,560 --> 01:55:58,800
Speaker 1: real Wow, somebody punched you in it, don't happen.

2221
01:55:59,800 --> 01:56:06,480
Speaker 2: Got swimmers here, I got swimmers here? M all right?

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01:56:06,920 --> 01:56:12,840
Speaker 1: Well, why are you laughing? It's not funny.

2223
01:56:13,360 --> 01:56:16,360
Speaker 4: I didn't laugh neither you laughed. That's why I love

2224
01:56:17,120 --> 01:56:21,120
Speaker 4: I think that. Can you please take that fucking out

2225
01:56:21,160 --> 01:56:21,879
Speaker 4: of your mouth.

2226
01:56:21,760 --> 01:56:23,800
Speaker 1: Like a country character.

2227
01:56:25,320 --> 01:56:29,400
Speaker 2: I'm ready, So Beyonce, we're going, ain't no hope? Okay,

2228
01:56:29,480 --> 01:56:29,920
Speaker 2: keep going?

2229
01:56:30,320 --> 01:56:33,560
Speaker 4: Can I say something real quick too about Beyonce haters?

2230
01:56:35,760 --> 01:56:40,480
Speaker 1: We're ahead? What we never wait? Fuck the holes.

2231
01:56:41,680 --> 01:56:46,080
Speaker 4: Everybody whoever don't like us, Fuck them holes.

2232
01:56:46,200 --> 01:56:50,160
Speaker 1: That's who fucked up the door and turned on down

2233
01:56:50,200 --> 01:56:57,000
Speaker 1: load and turn in you. They're gonna's solved and slow, baby,

2234
01:56:57,160 --> 01:57:01,920
Speaker 1: we ain't got no place to go. I hope you wonder,

2235
01:57:02,000 --> 01:57:05,760
Speaker 1: he dad, I've been reading for this salt or they long.

2236
01:57:05,880 --> 01:57:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm about to come out with a country album. You

2237
01:57:07,520 --> 01:57:09,400
Speaker 1: should but go ahead with you.

2238
01:57:10,160 --> 01:57:12,480
Speaker 4: I was just saying, like, I just don't like nobody

2239
01:57:12,520 --> 01:57:13,520
Speaker 4: did don't like Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: That's fair, That's fair because I just feel like why

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01:57:16,400 --> 01:57:20,120
Speaker 1: she don't more than nobody they get mad now. They're

2242
01:57:20,120 --> 01:57:22,320
Speaker 1: mad at her because they feel like Miss Tina speaks

2243
01:57:22,320 --> 01:57:25,720
Speaker 1: for her too much, and so that's what mama should. Dude,

2244
01:57:25,920 --> 01:57:28,280
Speaker 1: y'all know they ain't have no mama around when they

2245
01:57:28,320 --> 01:57:33,160
Speaker 1: was growing up. That's why tier Marie said it, and

2246
01:57:33,160 --> 01:57:36,160
Speaker 1: that's why y'all needed to listen to Hood too. I

2247
01:57:36,240 --> 01:57:37,040
Speaker 1: just don't like.

2248
01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:39,600
Speaker 4: I don't like how people be disrespecting our legiends they

2249
01:57:39,640 --> 01:57:42,280
Speaker 4: be disrespecting tier Marie too, and I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: I don't like when they talk to nobody. Actually, because

2251
01:57:44,720 --> 01:57:47,520
Speaker 1: I seen somebody being funny about Missy Elliott the other day,

2252
01:57:47,960 --> 01:57:50,960
Speaker 1: and one thing I don't play with it is Missy

2253
01:57:51,120 --> 01:57:53,240
Speaker 1: fucking Elliott. What they said to her.

2254
01:57:53,320 --> 01:57:54,600
Speaker 2: I can't remember what they said.

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01:57:55,360 --> 01:57:58,280
Speaker 1: They said something like, I don't know if they were

2256
01:57:58,320 --> 01:58:00,000
Speaker 1: listening to like a song she had dropped. They were

2257
01:58:00,120 --> 01:58:02,760
Speaker 1: was like something about she needs to stop dropping music

2258
01:58:02,840 --> 01:58:05,600
Speaker 1: because somebody said the top female rappers while we never

2259
01:58:05,640 --> 01:58:09,000
Speaker 1: bring Missy in the conversation, and they were like, that's

2260
01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:10,880
Speaker 1: because she can't make a hot song and she needs

2261
01:58:10,880 --> 01:58:12,600
Speaker 1: to stop because this is the last song she dropped.

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01:58:12,600 --> 01:58:15,120
Speaker 1: First of all. That's how I know, y'all you ain't

2263
01:58:15,160 --> 01:58:18,200
Speaker 1: never heard socking to me on a Friday night. Y'all

2264
01:58:18,240 --> 01:58:28,360
Speaker 1: too fucking young. You know what I'm saying. Doo dood goodo, like,

2265
01:58:28,480 --> 01:58:31,400
Speaker 1: stop fucking playing with I can't stand the ring?

2266
01:58:32,440 --> 01:58:33,080
Speaker 2: Who can hop?

2267
01:58:33,160 --> 01:58:33,400
Speaker 4: Boy?

2268
01:58:33,560 --> 01:58:35,120
Speaker 2: You can fucking sample?

2269
01:58:36,880 --> 01:58:41,000
Speaker 1: Baby? You got one? Break me up? Show me what

2270
01:58:41,080 --> 01:58:42,760
Speaker 1: you got. That's when who was in there.

2271
01:58:42,840 --> 01:58:55,320
Speaker 9: Lula, I'm the maintenance man, Cris.

2272
01:58:55,400 --> 01:59:02,640
Speaker 1: We are looking her part too. I love that what

2273
01:59:02,760 --> 01:59:06,520
Speaker 1: she said one minute to minutes, three minutes, hell no

2274
01:59:06,640 --> 01:59:09,080
Speaker 1: to please me, you got to sleep in it. I said,

2275
01:59:09,160 --> 01:59:12,440
Speaker 1: ooh freaky, why are you making that thing?

2276
01:59:18,160 --> 01:59:21,040
Speaker 6: It is way too much. But I love me some Trina.

2277
01:59:21,680 --> 01:59:25,520
Speaker 1: In fact, a press run right now and she needed, oh,

2278
01:59:25,880 --> 01:59:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't think we've reached out to her. We're gonna

2279
01:59:27,280 --> 01:59:29,400
Speaker 1: reach out to her. She's doing a whole press run

2280
01:59:29,480 --> 01:59:31,440
Speaker 1: right now. We need to reach out to her.

2281
01:59:31,320 --> 01:59:35,560
Speaker 4: Because, first and foremost, what's your favorite Trina Verse ever?

2282
01:59:36,360 --> 01:59:40,720
Speaker 1: My favorite trina Verse ever? Oh my, oh my god,

2283
01:59:41,400 --> 01:59:46,400
Speaker 1: all of them? Do you remember that I'm speaking? Oh?

2284
01:59:46,520 --> 01:59:49,040
Speaker 1: It's so many. Honestly, I'm not trying to be funny.

2285
01:59:49,080 --> 01:59:52,200
Speaker 1: I think my favorite. I'll say this, this is my

2286
01:59:52,400 --> 01:59:54,720
Speaker 1: personal favorite. It might not be her best one, but

2287
01:59:54,960 --> 01:59:56,200
Speaker 1: her take it to the house verse.

2288
01:59:56,400 --> 01:59:58,840
Speaker 4: I'm a five star beat because I ain't that other

2289
01:59:58,960 --> 02:00:03,120
Speaker 4: beat from the womb. I've been riched all right there,

2290
02:00:03,200 --> 02:00:05,960
Speaker 4: Miss Trina makes the ballers want a stir sky hot

2291
02:00:06,000 --> 02:00:07,720
Speaker 4: sun now boots lined with the fur.

2292
02:00:08,120 --> 02:00:10,040
Speaker 1: Pop, pull a switch, pull it, don't but make it

2293
02:00:10,080 --> 02:00:11,920
Speaker 1: to work. I'm a flirt to let her and a

2294
02:00:12,040 --> 02:00:15,280
Speaker 1: throat bad skirt. I'm that bad bitch box Beinging's own

2295
02:00:15,320 --> 02:00:18,600
Speaker 1: blade rocks on my wrists like pink lemonade. Keep your

2296
02:00:18,600 --> 02:00:21,560
Speaker 1: brochers in your rings for the mother girls, lo mama,

2297
02:00:21,640 --> 02:00:24,800
Speaker 1: watch strings, push and nail pearls. I'm back for my crown.

2298
02:00:24,880 --> 02:00:26,200
Speaker 1: Fake bitches, dive down.

2299
02:00:26,480 --> 02:00:27,400
Speaker 2: It's the remix.

2300
02:00:27,480 --> 02:00:29,880
Speaker 1: What you want to do? Now? You know? I like

2301
02:00:30,240 --> 02:00:33,000
Speaker 1: you do her get loose in the club, like you

2302
02:00:33,120 --> 02:00:33,960
Speaker 1: just don't curve.

2303
02:00:34,640 --> 02:00:37,720
Speaker 4: She ate that she used to eat all the songs

2304
02:00:38,040 --> 02:00:39,640
Speaker 4: shout out to Trina and Joe.

2305
02:00:40,560 --> 02:00:42,040
Speaker 1: She got a lot of verses that I like, though,

2306
02:00:42,720 --> 02:00:46,160
Speaker 1: like Trina is probably like between her one of my

2307
02:00:46,280 --> 02:00:51,200
Speaker 1: top five best female rap I agree, I'm gonna put

2308
02:00:51,480 --> 02:00:53,720
Speaker 1: I definitely put Trina in my top five. And I

2309
02:00:53,720 --> 02:00:55,680
Speaker 1: think it's you know, I'm not gonna watch it. And Nikki.

2310
02:00:56,400 --> 02:01:00,400
Speaker 4: I know the girls be controversial about nikkias but I.

2311
02:01:01,280 --> 02:01:04,000
Speaker 1: I mean, but she cannot deny her talent. I just

2312
02:01:04,080 --> 02:01:09,480
Speaker 1: had an epiphany. I need that guy NAIs. I'm not

2313
02:01:09,480 --> 02:01:12,880
Speaker 1: gonna lie though, Nicki Minaj is my number two because

2314
02:01:13,520 --> 02:01:16,360
Speaker 1: I've always been a Missy stand though I literally had

2315
02:01:16,400 --> 02:01:20,120
Speaker 1: all Missy's albums, Missy is your number one. I'm telling you,

2316
02:01:20,240 --> 02:01:23,920
Speaker 1: y'all have never okay. So te Pain has always been

2317
02:01:24,040 --> 02:01:26,880
Speaker 1: like up here to me, like when I was like,

2318
02:01:27,080 --> 02:01:28,840
Speaker 1: I know, the pinnacle of my career is when I

2319
02:01:28,840 --> 02:01:31,080
Speaker 1: can sit next to t Pain. So the fact that

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02:01:31,120 --> 02:01:34,160
Speaker 1: I've done that because like te Pain to me and

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02:01:34,200 --> 02:01:36,560
Speaker 1: Missy to me are like right here. When I get

2322
02:01:36,560 --> 02:01:43,760
Speaker 1: Missy Elliott on this couch, I woke up at five

2323
02:01:43,760 --> 02:01:45,760
Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning one morning because it was when

2324
02:01:45,800 --> 02:01:48,240
Speaker 1: her work It had premiered, and they were talking about

2325
02:01:48,240 --> 02:01:50,480
Speaker 1: because she didn't premiere on one on sixth In parts

2326
02:01:50,480 --> 02:01:53,360
Speaker 1: she permiitted on like a morning thing that MTV used

2327
02:01:53,360 --> 02:01:55,000
Speaker 1: to have. I woke up at five o'clock in the

2328
02:01:55,040 --> 02:01:58,320
Speaker 1: morning before my volleyball tournament, and I just remember listening

2329
02:01:58,320 --> 02:02:03,120
Speaker 1: to work it over and over and over and over

2330
02:02:04,480 --> 02:02:08,920
Speaker 1: m hm and over mm hmm. She's she was ahead

2331
02:02:08,920 --> 02:02:12,120
Speaker 1: of her time. She was, she was so ahead of

2332
02:02:12,120 --> 02:02:14,640
Speaker 1: her time. And we need to put when y'all start

2333
02:02:14,680 --> 02:02:17,160
Speaker 1: having when y'all be having these conversations, y'all need to

2334
02:02:17,200 --> 02:02:21,800
Speaker 1: stop skipping Missy, period because how can they could they

2335
02:02:21,840 --> 02:02:24,760
Speaker 1: do every time? And I don't get it. She was

2336
02:02:24,800 --> 02:02:30,560
Speaker 1: a producer, a writer, a rapper, a singer, choreographer. Missy

2337
02:02:30,640 --> 02:02:33,839
Speaker 1: is really running circles around a lot of these people,

2338
02:02:34,000 --> 02:02:39,280
Speaker 1: for real, for real, take away the golden platinum chains

2339
02:02:40,320 --> 02:02:41,240
Speaker 1: and I ain't going.

2340
02:02:42,960 --> 02:02:43,640
Speaker 2: I'm going.

2341
02:02:44,960 --> 02:02:48,600
Speaker 6: Hung out to Genie Wye who used to beasts, and

2342
02:02:48,840 --> 02:02:49,600
Speaker 6: I want Genie.

2343
02:02:53,160 --> 02:02:59,160
Speaker 1: That's what y'all. Let's wrap this up. He said, same

2344
02:02:59,440 --> 02:03:05,160
Speaker 1: old g What do sme molgi with the arms.

2345
02:03:05,600 --> 02:03:09,600
Speaker 2: We went like this, you ain't lift up there.

2346
02:03:10,920 --> 02:03:14,720
Speaker 1: It's soft. It's soft. I got a lot of ass

2347
02:03:14,800 --> 02:03:17,160
Speaker 1: under death. I don't think I can do that either way.

2348
02:03:17,680 --> 02:03:22,400
Speaker 1: You can't. I can't do that. It's soft anyway? All right?

2349
02:03:24,360 --> 02:03:26,200
Speaker 2: No, no, we done?

2350
02:03:26,240 --> 02:03:34,720
Speaker 1: Okay, say what you gotta say? Was so incredible.

2351
02:03:38,920 --> 02:03:43,080
Speaker 2: Remember when tweet what I did last night?

2352
02:03:43,560 --> 02:03:45,480
Speaker 1: What do tweet? Gotta do? A genie? Because she had

2353
02:03:45,520 --> 02:03:48,880
Speaker 1: Missy Elliott. I looked over to the less. She said,

2354
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Speaker 1: I was on my thighs butter picking brou y'all was

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Speaker 1: horny oos. I was about master babe who that goes

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Speaker 1: my turn up? Said, oh my, I tried.

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Speaker 2: I'm not tobby like he left like.

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Speaker 1: I was my thigh husband. He can bro all right.

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Speaker 4: So the point I was making was what I was

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Speaker 4: gonna say real quick before we eating these that fucking

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Speaker 4: tweet of juvenile, I mean, not genuine.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how I confused.

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Speaker 4: Come on now, genu Wine and the men. It was

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Speaker 4: his background singer singing, and they was like, I hate

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Speaker 4: old niggas, I hate.

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Speaker 2: Old But what song was they singing?

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Speaker 1: Was it pony? No? Are you sure it was something else?

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Speaker 1: It was so funny. I did my part. I think

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Speaker 1: it was phony. No, it wasn't, pony. I'm a thousand

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Speaker 1: percent positive.

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Speaker 4: But anyways, they was just like I hate old niggas

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Speaker 4: because the niggas was in and the girls was like,

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Speaker 4: they was like, I hate old niggas, and that's actually

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Speaker 4: the reason why I love.

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Speaker 1: Old If an old niggas start busting out in the

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Speaker 1: song for me.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, I get what they were saying

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Speaker 4: because that's how I feel when old niggas start like

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Speaker 4: doing their little sorority step. That's why I mean for

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Speaker 4: eterning these steps in the club.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened. Put it out. They was like.

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Speaker 2: I said, oh we was there, calm down.

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Speaker 1: They was barking in our years and ship they was

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Speaker 1: and I was just like, move niggas the fuck and

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Speaker 1: niggas be so excited they be what was that song?

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Speaker 1: What's the song that they be stepping two?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Time? I said, oh, brother, I took my chicken strips

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Speaker 1: and I left. I did I did you know? I did?

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Speaker 4: And what's the They all got their own song. The

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Speaker 4: Kappas got white me down. But that's New age though.

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Speaker 4: What was like the because I feel like that was

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Speaker 4: like when I was in college like what was before

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Speaker 4: that though, because I was like atomic dog Ben for

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Speaker 4: the cap I mean Ben for the the cut doll

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Speaker 4: for like fifty years.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it was.

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Speaker 1: But then the alphas got I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I ain't been in college since nineteen sixty four.

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Speaker 1: Also, but before we close this out, I also thought about,

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Speaker 1: since we were talking about Rihanna and Tierra Marie earlier,

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Speaker 1: when Tweet dropped, people people was comparing Tweet and Ashanti.

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Speaker 4: No, yes they was. I'm saying, no, huh, you're saying

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Speaker 4: no that they was. I'm saying, no, they can't be compared.

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Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying when they first dropped, they

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Speaker 1: dropped at the same time. M hm. Another bop of

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Speaker 1: the week tweets cigarettes. It's such a good song there

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Speaker 1: you smoking cigarettes and nice. That was on her best songs.

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Speaker 1: So thank y'all so much for tuning in. See y'all

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Speaker 1: next week. I don't want to leave it. That sounded

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Speaker 1: good too, See y'all next week.

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all

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Speaker 1: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

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Speaker 1: close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is

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Speaker 1: connected to poor minds. It's p o, you are underscore

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Speaker 1: in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page.

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Speaker 1: If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that

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Speaker 1: is at fake page. Do not follow that page. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both,

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Speaker 1: so we only have up one Instagram, one Twitter one TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It's p o, you are underscore in my nds. All right,

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Speaker 1: and we got a hell a fake Facebook page on

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Speaker 1: the Facebook pages it's our face. The crazy thing is

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Speaker 1: our Facebook page actually have the least amount of fou

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Speaker 1: So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the

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Speaker 1: least amount of file.

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Speaker 4: But one that's not us got like two hundred and

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Speaker 4: fifty thou.

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Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content because the

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Speaker 1: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because

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Speaker 1: their captures are like bumba claude should men? Should men

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Speaker 1: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No check answer

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Speaker 1: below block block pull pull pull off, Like that's literally

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Speaker 1: what the captions. I'm like you what that DG's bumba claude,

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Speaker 1: bamba claud. Let's go slide over here and talk to

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Speaker 1: the boy. What are you drinking? And I'm about the boy.

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Speaker 4: I was just thinking of seeing you tomorrow. Wake it

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02:08:59,920 --> 02:09:03,200
Speaker 4: up up with no panties, No, bra, I ain't being nasty.

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Speaker 4: I'm just being for real. Let me take off my

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Speaker 4: belt and give you the whip a pill. Yeah, you

2442
02:09:07,760 --> 02:09:09,400
Speaker 4: heard about what I do in the streets, but you

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Speaker 4: gonna love what I do in the sheets.

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Speaker 1: Say, Babby, what's your story? And you got the goods?

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02:09:15,720 --> 02:09:18,040
Speaker 1: It's plain to see to kind of get her. Keep

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Speaker 1: your brother on his knees, and I'm so curious after

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Speaker 1: the club hang out with me Valentine. No is sure

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02:09:26,400 --> 02:09:29,480
Speaker 1: to please, But now let's have an upper marsy knee

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Speaker 1: and get to know each other. Tell me and no jeans.

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Speaker 1: The way you popping here is killing me. Here, come

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Speaker 1: follow me.

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Speaker 11: Tell me.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to get that and those jeans. The

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Speaker 1: way you're here is killing me.

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Speaker 2: I meet you and the bee pee.

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Speaker 1: I'm a bad boy. Gotta let you know these other

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Speaker 1: thoughts running through my mind because I'm so curious. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: drop bullshots to you. Out the dog's speed up in

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Speaker 1: the coop because there's more restore Wait till a pool

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Speaker 1: in my driveway girl, sell everybody now, I want you

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Speaker 1: sake to thing go. You're the fine staying there. Walk

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Speaker 1: in this club, your girls days on comparity you and you.

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Speaker 1: Let's make a toe to the good life.

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Speaker 13: Hi, tell me how did I get that? The way

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Speaker 13: you're wropping down is killing me? Look over here, come

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Speaker 13: follow me. Tell me how did you get that? And

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Speaker 13: nose geen. The way you're dropping down is killing me.

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Speaker 13: I'll meet you when the via pea.

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Speaker 4: Maybe eyes are hazy eyes. I may be right up again.

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Speaker 4: So ya like of whether so purchasing your face so heavily.

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Speaker 4: I'm thanking God you better be and then I'm very sweet.

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Speaker 4: And if we get caught, you could be my accessory

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Speaker 4: access to the condo Miami.

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Speaker 1: You have breakers on the floor butt naked. We saying it,

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Speaker 1: but I'm too dark to teen mama partner your men

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Speaker 1: smark you're wining? Why then the places you go caught

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Speaker 1: up in your vobe try to kick it like Judo.

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Speaker 4: Leg and on other things you know, you know Holle

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02:11:30,360 --> 02:11:34,120
Speaker 4: and Gito. I'm probably all vibing with Wabi Belita.

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Speaker 1: Takes the thing you washing it.

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Speaker 13: Heh oh, tell me.

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Speaker 6: Jacob to.

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02:11:59,720 --> 02:12:10,040
Speaker 7: No poor get you. Yeah, I wanted a smell it.

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Speaker 2: Baby.

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Speaker 12: Yeah No, how did you get that? Now did you

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Speaker 12: do it? How did you do it? How did you get.

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Speaker 1: That bussing back there? You ain't gotta no wonder where,

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Speaker 1: no