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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Zach is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Eliah.

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Speaker 3: So in a few minutes we'll.

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Speaker 2: Call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.

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Speaker 3: But before we do that, we got to talk to Zach. Zach,

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Speaker 3: why do you think Alia's ghosting you?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess because when we went back to my place,

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Speaker 4: there was a woman sitting on my couch.

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Speaker 5: Oh I'm sorry, what why I would do it?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, it's just it's just my neighbor and

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Speaker 4: she so I have Disney Plus, and you know, she

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Speaker 4: doesn't like to pay for it, and so I just

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Speaker 4: like let her come over whenever she wants to watch

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Speaker 4: Disney Plus. And she was watching Disney Plus when I

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Speaker 4: came home with Aliah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, god, yeah, that would definitely be an awkward

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Speaker 2: thing to walk into if you're on a date with somebody.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I feel very good about that. Oh

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Speaker 3: oh really, Okay, No it was not.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's just like a nice older lady like

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Speaker 4: it's she's she's cool, Like, okay, she's like a good

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Speaker 4: friend of mine.

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Speaker 2: She's not.

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Speaker 4: It's so we hung out for a while and then

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Speaker 4: we watched a little you know, Once upon a Time,

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Speaker 4: and and Aliyah give me a hug and left, and

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Speaker 4: then she won't returning my text.

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Speaker 3: So all three did all three of you stay and

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Speaker 3: watch Once upon a Time? Or was it just you

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Speaker 3: and Aliyah? No, no, it was all it was all

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Speaker 3: of us, okay. And then that's like super sweet and cute. Yeah, Like, well,

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Speaker 3: she just want to pay for Disney Plus.

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Speaker 2: You could see it, like, wow, what a nice guy

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Speaker 2: he lets his neighbor come over and watch Disney Plus.

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Speaker 2: But it would be awkward maybe to hang out with

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Speaker 2: a random woman who just was on your couch when

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Speaker 2: you got back to your place. You can see how

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Speaker 2: that would be kind of weird, right for her?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 4: No, come on, no, I mean yeah, she's so much

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Speaker 4: older though, Like it's.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, And you explained it to her that it

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Speaker 2: was your neighbor and just a buddy of yours.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I mean I guess sort of like I

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Speaker 4: guess I did. I don't remember, you know, I just

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Speaker 4: I also, you know, texted her just to talk more,

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Speaker 4: but she won't respond, so I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, get it done it, see if we

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Speaker 2: can figure it out for you. We'll play a song

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Speaker 2: come back, and then call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, cool, Yeah, No, I really liked her. I mean,

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Speaker 3: she's so cool, and I just I'd really like to

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Speaker 3: see her again.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Zach is on the phone and he's

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by a woman named Aliyah. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Zach, why don't you break

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Speaker 2: down your situation for us again real quick?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Okay, Well, I went on a date with this

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Speaker 4: really cool girl named Eliah, and we went back to

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Speaker 4: my place and my neighbor was there sitting on my

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Speaker 4: couch watching Disney Plus because.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't Yeah, she was the woman.

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Speaker 4: And uh, she's a friend of mine and she uh

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Speaker 4: lives near next door to me, and so I let

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Speaker 4: her watch his eplus because she doesn't really like to

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Speaker 4: pay for it, which doesn't have the money.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, okay.

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Speaker 6: Aliah and I sat on the couch and we hung

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Speaker 6: out and we watched Once upon a Time with my neighbor,

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Speaker 6: and uh, then she hugged me and she left and

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Speaker 6: now she won't respond any of my text.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know why. All right, are you ready

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Speaker 3: for us to call her? Yeah? Well she hugged you.

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Speaker 3: Does she pat you on the back a couple of times? Wow?

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Speaker 3: That's the friend pat? Yeah kind of.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll see if that is the reason

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Aliah. Please, Hey, Aliah,

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Speaker 2: how are you? This is a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: the Jewbil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Leah, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm thiks for you, and

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Speaker 3: my name is Jubil. How are you? I'm good? Cool?

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Speaker 3: What's going on? I know?

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Speaker 1: I just I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I'm not familiar with you guys. So okay, Well, it's

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jubile Show. You can

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Speaker 2: check out our podcast wherever you get your podcasts if

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Speaker 2: you want. But the reason we're calling you right now.

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Speaker 2: Is because we do a segment on the show called

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Speaker 2: the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can send us an email asking

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Speaker 2: us to find out why they got ghosted. And we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody, did you Well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: any idea who would email us someone that you might

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Speaker 2: be ghosting?

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Speaker 3: I have some idea, yeah, all right, who do you

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Speaker 3: think it would be?

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Speaker 5: I think it's this dude, Zach, And I'm ghosting him

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Speaker 5: because I don't want to end up being a victim

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Speaker 5: in a true crime documentary. I'm just not trying to

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Speaker 5: get murdered anytime soon.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't okay, Why why do you say that?

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Speaker 3: Then? Well, like the date, it.

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Speaker 1: Was a good date, Like we got along and.

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Speaker 3: Wanted to hang out more, and so we.

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Speaker 5: Went back to his place, and like his neighbor was

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Speaker 5: there in his apartment, like sitting on the couch, and

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Speaker 5: it's just.

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Speaker 3: Like it got super weird. Right.

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Speaker 2: We talked to him, you know, he told us that

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Speaker 2: his neighbor goes over to his house sometimes to watch

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Speaker 2: Disney Plus and that he thought you might be ghosting

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Speaker 2: him because you walked in and there was another woman

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Speaker 2: on the couch, Like that's understandable, that's the reason.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean that she was wearing a T shirt and

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Speaker 1: it had a.

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Speaker 5: Picture of Zach on it and it said like number one.

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Speaker 3: Fand it was so weird.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, so his neighbor's on his couch and she's

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Speaker 2: wearing a shirt that has his picture on it.

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Speaker 3: This says number one fan. Yes.

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Speaker 1: And then later like that night, this girl she found

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Speaker 1: me on Instagram, whoa and she sent me a DM

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Speaker 1: and she was like, stay away from Zach. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: need more fans. I'm a number one fan.

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Speaker 3: I'm the only person that matter.

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Speaker 5: Like it was so and I'm like, oh, she's she's

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Speaker 5: like a stalker.

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Speaker 3: She's got to be. And I just like and I

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Speaker 3: just I don't.

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Speaker 1: Want to get involved, Like I said, I'm not trying to.

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Speaker 3: Get murdered right now. I really like my life. No,

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Speaker 3: I can understand that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even want to. I'm like this is and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, is this some weird like it's like sex thing.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: So I was like I'm going to stay.

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Speaker 3: Out of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you for telling us that Aliah. That

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Speaker 2: is an interesting situation. Zach is also on the phone

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Oh hey, Elia, how are you? Hey?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's a little weird. That's how it's going.

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Speaker 3: It's going a little weird right now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I guess I'm sorry you feel that way.

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Speaker 3: That's too bad. I mean I like to hang out

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Speaker 3: he was there?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, yeah, but it's just like a thing

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Speaker 3: It's not that deep. I mean, like she's done that before.

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Speaker 3: Well that's her favorite church, she said. But the DM part,

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Speaker 3: Oh no, No, the DM thing was just her sense

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Speaker 3: of humor she's got. She's kind of dark that way.

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Speaker 3: This is, you know, a little ones day you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't think that's very funny, that stalker behavior, Like

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Speaker 5: you have a stalker?

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Speaker 4: No you No, No, she's not a stalker. No, she's

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Speaker 4: like one of my my, my good friends. Like listen,

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Speaker 4: she wears that shirt because I let her watch my

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Speaker 4: Disney Plus it's like her way of being like, yeah.

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Speaker 5: You're just so cool because I never wanted to show dude,

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Speaker 5: that's weird, Like how did you meet her?

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Speaker 3: Oh uh, well she was.

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Speaker 4: She was my checkout person at the grocery store for

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Speaker 3: They always make chat with you at the grocery store.

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Speaker 4: And then and then like about after a year, she

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Speaker 3: And I was like what. And then she like kind

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Speaker 4: It was like, see, I'm your neighbor, like and I

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Speaker 4: was like, oh wow, yeah, we're like you know, we.

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Speaker 3: Became really good friends because of that. We see each

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Speaker 5: Dude, like seemed like a nice guy, but these are

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Speaker 5: not like weird coincidence. So she was your checkout girl,

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Speaker 5: and then all of a sudden, she's your neighbor. And

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Speaker 1: You don't see how that's like crazy.

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Speaker 5: And just like boundary defint, like it's sound stalker.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, letter, I mean I gave her to the keys.

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Speaker 4: She could just come whenever she wants because she does

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Speaker 3: Is not right.

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Speaker 2: But you were going to a grocery store where you

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Speaker 2: guys made friends there and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: she's living next to you and now she's in your

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Speaker 2: house wearing a number one Zach fan t shirt.

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Speaker 3: Escalated quickly, Little stocker.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, and listen, you're not gonna she thinks. I

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Speaker 5: think she thinks that you too in a relationship. You're

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Speaker 5: not going to find someone as long as this chicks around.

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Speaker 5: You need to change your rocks and probably move Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Whoa, oh no, no, no, that she's I don't know

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Speaker 4: what to sound.

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Speaker 3: Well, Leah, would you like to go on another date

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Speaker 3: with Zach? We will pay for it.

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Speaker 5: Uh No, thanks for asking, though, but I'm going to

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Speaker 5: choose life first date.

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Speaker 4: Y