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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't.

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Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 2: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 2: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 2: a good woman who always made good choices. That shit,

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Speaker 2: we're good Mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: You single mom who said fuck the patriarchy shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices and.

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Speaker 2: Sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 3: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 1: I can.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Nila. Happy hump day, bitches, Happy hump day, bitches.

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Speaker 2: It's July. We are deep middle of the summer. Baby

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Speaker 2: julyon July. July. In July, I'm not Lying's not June.

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Speaker 2: Is julying you? Julying is definitely julyon. Oh God means

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Speaker 2: the right is due?

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Speaker 3: Oh is it every motherfucking month?

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Speaker 2: Every four week? The rent is Just take a deep breath,

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Speaker 2: because the rent is due today. Guys.

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Speaker 4: It's Wednesday, which means it's July third, right, I mean

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Speaker 4: it's about to be late, about to be late.

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Speaker 2: Take a deep breath, a collective breath.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's gonna be okay, you have a roof over

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Speaker 4: your head, it's all day. They'll get it when you

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Speaker 4: got it, even though mine just gets automatically debited from

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Speaker 4: my account.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I just did it because I was Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's best to do that.

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Speaker 3: So you're just don't even worry about it because I'm

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Speaker 3: the bit chip four fifty seven.

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Speaker 2: On the third.

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm like, I I know I have to pay it.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait till the very last moment of the

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Speaker 3: second of the day because I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I need to.

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Speaker 4: When did rent become a thing I don't have to pay?

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Speaker 2: Too? Invented rent?

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Speaker 4: Like when there were just huts, Like people weren't renting

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Speaker 4: huts and shacks? Like, when did we what is the

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Speaker 4: word commande? Commoditized, commoditized, monetize, commoditize, commodity, commodity, you know

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Speaker 4: what the fuck I mean, start charging people to live civilly?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's uh, what's the word I'm looking for?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Even consumerism, consumers of America America. I'm

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Speaker 2: over it.

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Speaker 3: I really was just thinking like, what is life supposed

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Speaker 3: to be if you just exist? What if we could

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Speaker 3: just live comfortably, eat delicious food and be healthy and

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Speaker 3: just commune, Like, what would life be if we weren't

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Speaker 3: constantly on the rat race of fucking success?

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Speaker 4: And according according to America, it's savagery. I feel like

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Speaker 4: we were doing that before and then they were like, savage.

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Speaker 3: That's propaganda, America, the representation of America is savagery. And

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Speaker 3: then they've painted it in red, white and blue and

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Speaker 3: stars and white picket fences and white people and pies

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Speaker 3: and shit and told us this is democracy. And then

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Speaker 3: all the meanwhile fucking villaging, pillaging and fucking murdering other

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Speaker 3: people in other countries and telling.

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Speaker 2: Us this is life.

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Speaker 3: Come over here, and now they're just acting nuts, and

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Speaker 3: we're exposing and peeling the peeling the lid back on

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Speaker 3: the savagery that is America and has always been America

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Speaker 3: that created America. America was built in savagery. And here

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Speaker 3: we are acting like we didn't know for the last

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Speaker 3: fucking six hundred years, but bitch, we did. We just

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Speaker 3: ignored it. But now we're here with this orange monster

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Speaker 3: and ice.

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Speaker 4: On that note, fuck Ice. Fuck Trump, there's a genocide

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Speaker 4: happening in Gaza. Free Congo, Free Africa, Free everybody.

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Speaker 3: And while we're at it, Lord, free me from this shit.

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Speaker 3: Get me the fuck out of this country if you can.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking about getting it loped so I can be

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Speaker 3: it in Jamaican's citizen. Yeah, as soon as possible, because

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Speaker 3: I actually I will deport myself. Just just give me

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Speaker 3: the ticket fees. I'll get the fuck out myself.

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Speaker 2: I'm over it.

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Speaker 3: I was at breakfast just now, and you know, we're

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Speaker 3: in Hollywood, or right across the street from Universal shout

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Speaker 3: Hollywood Hills. We were right across the street from Universal Studios,

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Speaker 3: and I'm overhearing all these very Hollywood conversations.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, my audition and oh this new production.

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Speaker 3: And this guy's like, oh hi, George, I just got

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm over this city. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear about your script. Jill. I don't give

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I lived here too long.

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Speaker 3: But I think also I'm fresh off the plane from

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Speaker 3: Costa Rica, and just like the conversation is different, and

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Speaker 3: I know this is my life and this is where

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Speaker 2: Speaking of fresh off the plane from Costa Rica.

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Speaker 4: When I got fresh off the plane from Costa Rica,

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Speaker 4: I had to go to an influencer event that night

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Speaker 4: with my mom and I sat next to these nice

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Speaker 4: ladies and they were like, so, what do you do,

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know, I do a lot

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Speaker 4: just got back from Costa Rica. I was doing a retreat.

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Speaker 4: They're like, oh, did you did you fly private there?

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Speaker 4: And the girl next to her was like why would

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Speaker 2: And I and I was like, thank you God.

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Speaker 4: And I couldn't even believe this bitch asked me this

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, fresh off of like my nervous system

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Speaker 4: being regulated, eating fresh fruits, like frolicking in the jungle

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Speaker 4: with couples, and like just doing God's work, and you're

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Speaker 4: asking me if I flew fucking private to Costa Rica.

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Speaker 2: No, bitch, I didn't fly private? What like? What? And

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Speaker 2: what did the girl? She was like, oh, I know.

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Speaker 2: She was like, I'm sorry. That was like not grounded.

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Speaker 2: It's just sometimes I'm in these spaces and you just

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Speaker 2: never know. And I was like, well, you should just

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Speaker 2: assume to just never fucking ask you stupid ask a question.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you I flew private. I was like,

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Speaker 4: that event. I didn't say a lot of words, and

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Speaker 4: I could not wait to go home. I felt like

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Speaker 4: I felt like a deer in headlights there.

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Speaker 2: That's literally how I feel every time I go to

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Speaker 3: I'm like, am I as my older self like nosy

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Speaker 3: felt this bothered by people speaking until this, like this

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Speaker 3: shut the fuck up, Like I, you're not talking about

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Speaker 3: anything important, shut up. So I'm like, and I did.

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Speaker 3: I've invested in headphones just so that I don't have

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Speaker 2: I realized, if it's time I have headphones at the gym.

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Speaker 4: First of all, what do you were doing? You were

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Speaker 4: headphone less at the gym. I wasn't, but were you

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Speaker 4: listening to the gym music?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Until I realized this is not gonna worry you were

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Speaker 4: probably working out for fifteen minutes. I left the gym

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Speaker 4: and immediately went to Best Buy, like I wouldn't go back.

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Speaker 2: I had to get them. And it wasn't even the

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Speaker 3: It was everybody having ridiculous, fucking, ridiculous, first world problem

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Speaker 3: fucking conversations that I was just like, everybody is tone

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Speaker 3: live in LA and like, it's so odd that you're

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Speaker 3: shit is crazy, this is nuts, and fear that someone

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Speaker 3: to be like, well I voted for him or.

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Speaker 4: All today speaking of that and speak just speaking in general.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know how you feel about this.

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Speaker 4: I said it in our group chat, but no one

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Speaker 4: said anything. And I always feel like I'm the bitch

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Speaker 4: of the group. So whatever, someone at the table today,

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Speaker 4: I was at this meeting and they're like, what's everyone doing?

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Speaker 4: For fourth of July and everyone's fucking quiet. I was like,

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Speaker 4: there was like no plans, no plans. You know, there's

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Speaker 4: like a whole protest of Fourth of July this year

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Speaker 4: of like, you know, not investing in the economy, not

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Speaker 4: celebrating coming away.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure it's every year.

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Speaker 4: No, it's specifically this year because they're dragging people off

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Speaker 4: the streets and Fourth of July is supposed to be

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Speaker 4: in celebration of our independence, so.

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Speaker 2: I mean yes.

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Speaker 4: And also the this year is exponentially worse than most years.

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Speaker 3: No, this year is not exponentially worse the most years.

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Speaker 3: We're just no, we're just paying attention. No, it is

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Speaker 4: No America has been I'm not saying that America hasn't

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Speaker 2: It's a clear has been bad, but it's worse this year.

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Speaker 2: It's been bad. You were people getting.

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Speaker 4: Ripped from their families and in mass rates like they

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Speaker 4: have been this year, last year.

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Speaker 2: Globally and in generally.

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Speaker 4: I'm not arguing whether or not it's bad, but it's

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Speaker 4: you're gonna You're not gonna say that this year is

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Speaker 4: what's happening right now is not worse than that is bad.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is people have been acting and against it.

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Speaker 4: It's not.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not arguing always and that I'm not arguing,

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Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Like, I understand you're plight against UH the fourth of

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Speaker 3: July and not supporting the economy, but unfortunately, this is

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Speaker 3: the economy in which we exist in and so every

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Speaker 3: other day we're supporting the economy.

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Speaker 4: No I know, but but but but we are seeing

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Speaker 4: how our boycotting of certain targets.

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Speaker 2: We actually have a lot of economy power.

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Speaker 4: We have a lot of money power in this economy,

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Speaker 4: and we often don't take advantage of it because we

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Speaker 4: would rather party or hang out with our friends.

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Speaker 2: And that's fine, we can still do that.

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Speaker 4: But I just think that it's it's easy for people

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Speaker 4: to just ignore things when they don't feel like it's

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Speaker 4: directly impacting them. And I'm not saying and I'm not

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Speaker 4: saying that America hasn't historically been bad, like but I

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Speaker 4: can't let you say that right now is not worse

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Speaker 4: than it was last year.

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Speaker 3: I just think it's worse because we are it's in

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Speaker 3: the media and we have social media and it's exposed.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's worse. I think it's been bad.

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Speaker 3: I think it's been I'm not saying that it's not been.

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Speaker 2: Bad in different ways. And now just argue with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm not arguing with it. You've brought up a conversation.

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Speaker 4: I'm just wondering, like, but like, you're gonna sit here

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Speaker 4: and tell me that what's happening right now is not

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it hasn't been bad. There's been slavery

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Speaker 2: in America, and I'm not arguing that.

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Speaker 3: They're saying when you have people don't have the choice

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Speaker 4: It's the antidote to pain and the antidote to just

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Speaker 3: I don't think anybody, I don't think anyone in our

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like it's energetically we have to do both,

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Speaker 2: But how do we find balance in that? That's all

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Speaker 3: Like I feel I'm the most conspiracy theorist, anti America

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Speaker 4: I agree I don't think not celebrating on fourth of

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Speaker 4: I don't think that not celebrating Thanksgiving is like you saying,

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Speaker 4: So that's all I'm saying is like for some people

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Speaker 2: No? But do I feel like hanging out with my friends? Sure?

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying one or the other can't exist. All

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Speaker 4: To me, that feels counterintuitive. I'm not saying don't celebrate

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, no, And I understand that.

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 3: It's inevitable. There's no way we can go around that.

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Speaker 3: So I'm saying like, yes, and.

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Speaker 4: Yes, There's a difference between paying rent and spending four

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have to eat dinner every day and spend.

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Speaker 4: Buying Tyson or whatever the fuck chickens you're gonna buy that.

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Speaker 2: I am very I don't shop at the supermarket. I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm not I'm not I'm not attacking you,

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Speaker 2: You're attacking me.

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Speaker 3: But I understand, like this is the I think this

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Speaker 3: there's also the understanding like people are off this day,

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Speaker 4: But I'm just saying all I'm saying too, Okay, we

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Speaker 4: like they're fucked up. And a lot of that, I

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Speaker 3: And I think as black people are as in just

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Speaker 4: And so I'm just saying, like, it took so long

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Speaker 4: And then it finally someone said, you know what, I

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Speaker 3: I feel that we've had these conversations of times, not

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Speaker 3: because the veil is being lifted, Black people, brown people,

442
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,359
Speaker 3: people in general are becoming more intentional about where they spend,

443
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,880
Speaker 3: going to smaller business versus two bigger businesses that are

444
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,440
Speaker 3: probably fueling these type of things. But I think it's

445
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,320
Speaker 3: a slow process, and so sometimes I think when we're like,

446
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: let's just not shop on Friday.

447
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:51,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, it is.

448
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,600
Speaker 3: It's a way bigger thing that needs to happen than

449
00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 3: just not shopping on Friday.

450
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 2: It's a huge it's a huge.

451
00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 3: Machine that we're feeding all year long with separate different holidays,

452
00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 3: with fucking Super Bowl, with the basketball, with everything. This

453
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 3: is the programming of America. And so as we wake up,

454
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 3: I think everybody's mind is shifting Amazon just all these things.

455
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 3: We're recognizing. There's documentaries on Netflix that are accessible and

456
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,680
Speaker 3: people are having the knowledge like, oh my dollar matters,

457
00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 3: and what I do matters, and if we do this together,

458
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,119
Speaker 3: it will shift. But it is also true that we

459
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 3: have been intentionally separated in a sense to think that

460
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 3: together our dollar isn't making that much of an impact,

461
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,119
Speaker 3: and we're realizing now that it is. And I agree

462
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 3: with you. I think those are all valid things. I

463
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:34,919
Speaker 3: think it's something that has to be consistent, and we

464
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 3: have to do it all the time and all year

465
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 3: long for everybody to get it and for.

466
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 2: It to actually be impactful.

467
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,119
Speaker 4: But it's never gonna be all the time. All you

468
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,239
Speaker 4: have to do one thing at a time for it

469
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,119
Speaker 4: to be consistent. So you start with something like target

470
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,560
Speaker 4: right that you start with something else that you start with,

471
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 4: whether it's a national holiday that you no longer fuck

472
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 4: with and that we all agree we don't fuck with

473
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 4: every year. We don't fuck with that holiday. Okay, check this,

474
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,640
Speaker 4: we're not going to shop here on Fridays.

475
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 2: Hey, check. That's how it happens.

476
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 4: It has to happen that way, because it's not possible

477
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 4: for it to all happen.

478
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,719
Speaker 3: And I think this has been like this is a

479
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 3: domino effect of it happening slowly, people waking up and

480
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 3: recognizing and realizing like, oh, there's other routes like let's

481
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 3: support each other versus these other businesses that don't support

482
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 3: our communities.

483
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 2: And so I do.

484
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 3: I think it's been happening, and that's why we're here

485
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 3: and we're having these conversations because we know. Now, Oh,

486
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: if I do withdraw my earnings or whatever I do,

487
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,159
Speaker 3: then I know that it's not like it is going

488
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 3: to make a difference.

489
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 2: It Target will be fucked up, you know.

490
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,360
Speaker 3: So I think it's absolutely something's true, But I don't

491
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 3: think it necessarily saying I'm not showing up on fucking

492
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 3: the fourth of July barbecue is gonna like save the world,

493
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 3: per se, But it is.

494
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,120
Speaker 2: It's not gonna save the world. That's not exactly. That's

495
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 2: not the point.

496
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 4: The point is like chipping away little by little by

497
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,879
Speaker 4: little for the greater good of all of us.

498
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

499
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 4: Yes, I agree, I'm not saying the fourth and that,

500
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,679
Speaker 4: but that's the that's the minds that they want us

501
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,160
Speaker 4: to have. Oh it's for the July. I mean, what

502
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 4: are we gonna do. I mean, it's that's not going

503
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 4: to change the world. People thought, Oh, Target, that's not

504
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 4: going to change the world. Oh, boy cutting that's not gonna.

505
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: Change world until it actually fucking does change the world,

506
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 2: you know, and it's it's slow.

507
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 3: I think we all have to have the mindset that

508
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 3: we that our dollars matter, that our choices matter, and

509
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 3: like if we if we have it on an individual basis,

510
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 3: then yes, on a larger basis, it's going to be impactful.

511
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 4: And I want and I like, if you're listening to

512
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 4: this too, like right now, because there's gonna be a

513
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 4: thousand and fourth of July sales and I'm we're having

514
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 4: a fourth of July sale, invest in black, black businesses

515
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 4: and blessed, invest in brown businesses on fourth of July.

516
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 4: If you want to buy some shit, invest in those

517
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 4: businesses because those are the ones that actually are gonna

518
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 4: benefit you, those are the ones that actually need it.

519
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 4: Fucking Skims doesn't need your money for the bodysuit, bitch, Okay,

520
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,680
Speaker 4: Like it's okay, you don't need the body suit on

521
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 4: fourth of July. You do need this motherfucking retreat though,

522
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 4: So all I'm saying is like redirecting your dollars, Okay,

523
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 4: Like I don't know where you can go buy black

524
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:54,360
Speaker 4: owned fried like chicken and like raw chicken and and Barbie.

525
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, I'm just saying, like for Fourth of July,

526
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 4: is there a store that we that we could go to.

527
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 3: I mean, there's local, there's local butchers, there's there's local

528
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 3: there's a local soul food restaurants in your neighborhood. I'm

529
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: sure there are in mind, and like those are the

530
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 3: restaurants in the places that you So.

531
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: That's so that's what I'm in farmers market. So that's

532
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 2: what I'm encouraging.

533
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 4: So maybe like if we could do that on I'm

534
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 4: going to have your Jamaican hus been cooking, so that's

535
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 4: you know, we're already putting back.

536
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 2: We're supporting the.

537
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 4: Jamaicans by him making the jerk chicken on Fourth of July,

538
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 4: but all.

539
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 3: Of our meats from the Indian butcher by our house.

540
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 3: We're going to go to the farmer's market. We're gonna

541
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 3: avoid the supermarkets. I'm not going to go buy fucking

542
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 3: American flag balloons and my my fucking American flag bathing suit.

543
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 3: We're gonna do it differently, and that's how we will

544
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 3: spread our joy, and we could do it in a

545
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 3: different day if that works for everybody's schedule. I'm not

546
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 3: pressed about this holiday per se, because obviously America is

547
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 3: not great, and it's not independent, and it's been a

548
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 3: fucking shit show, and it's retavoc on other countries and

549
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 3: even domestically on its own people. So I am not

550
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 3: in accordance with contributing to this economy. Even further, this

551
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 3: machine that obviously doesn't give a fuck about black people,

552
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 3: doesn't give a fuck about brown people, doesn't give a

553
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 3: fuck about any of the people unless you're in the

554
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 3: top one percent, and that is an issue.

555
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm always going to be with humanity.

556
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 3: I'm always going to be with the greater good of

557
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 3: what's going to be the best for the people. That

558
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 3: is just period. Like I think it's wild if you're not.

559
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 3: And we're seeing right now that a lot of people

560
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck about other people, and it's crazy.

561
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 3: It's fucking disheartening and kind of scary that people just

562
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 3: generally don't people that we know, people that I've been

563
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 3: friends with that are just seeing things in plain sight

564
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 3: and just in fucking denial, like it's not happening, Like

565
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 3: it's not a terrible thing, Like it's not a big deal.

566
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: Making comments like you don't get it is like.

567
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 2: No, it's not complicated.

568
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 3: Murdering people, children and women and people innocently is fucking insane.

569
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 2: Period.

570
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 3: I've never been a grey area type of bitch. It's

571
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 3: either like this is it or is not. I'm not

572
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: gonna not say shit because it doesn't make you comfortable.

573
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 3: But if you're fucking murdering thousands of people for who

574
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 3: fucking knows what something's.

575
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 2: Territory, it's period. That's smoke o'clock. Good thing. I rolled

576
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: the backload before we started. What flavor is? I thought,

577
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 2: banana Austar.

578
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 3: You know, shit's too real. There's no flavors. This is straight,

579
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 3: this is this is just a straight, true wrap. There's

580
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 3: no sugarcoating this ship. Okay, it's most five minutes, the

581
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 3: first five minutes of the show. There's no sugarcoating it.

582
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 3: America is going to hell. Pack your bags, make your plan.

583
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to scare everybody. I'm scar I scare

584
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: myself enough every day as I sleep.

585
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 2: And I'm like, when am we're going to get out?

586
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 2: When are were gonna get out?

587
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 3: This isn't my life in my head, my anxiety ridden

588
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: I've literally since I was a child. When I learned

589
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 3: about slavery, I literally could not understand for the life

590
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 3: of me, why the fuck after freedom we were still here.

591
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 3: I just couldn't understand it, Like, why are we here

592
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: in this place?

593
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 4: Because they convinced us to think this is America, this

594
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 4: is the greatest place on earth.

595
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 2: It's programming, it's it's fucking we've made us our own land.

596
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: They think they made us think that our own land

597
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 2: is full of savages, and.

598
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 3: It's obviously not true. They've ripped our land of its resources.

599
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 3: But this is also our land because we are the

600
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 3: first people and this is our land. We built this

601
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 3: shit and it's been our land. And I'm just I'm

602
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: not with starving people like the blunt.

603
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, murder, I.

604
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 3: Am with blunts, though big backwards to Honestly, if people

605
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 3: don't smoke in this era, how are you raw dogging life?

606
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 2: How the fuck are you raw dogging life?

607
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 3: Call me if you were sober? You don't smoke weed?

608
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 3: You don't have wine at night?

609
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 2: What house way, please?

610
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 3: Because a bitch needs a blunt by noon at least,

611
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: because like the news, everything is pretty bad.

612
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 4: Well, if you would like to escape America, join us

613
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 4: at the Good Vibra treat this summer in Coaster Rica.

614
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,360
Speaker 4: You have to you have to start somewhere, Yeah, because

615
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 4: I really like Costa. Rica for me is like always

616
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 4: a wake up call because I can get I get

617
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 4: like plugged back into the matrix every not every time,

618
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 4: it's all like there's always there's like every time I

619
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 4: come back, there's more and more deprogramming that happens every

620
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 4: time I come back. But when I go there, it's

621
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 4: such a deep fucking reset to my body in all ways,

622
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 4: like literally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, that when I come back here,

623
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 4: it's like it feels it feels.

624
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: Even more foreign to me.

625
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 4: The land, this land feels even not the land with

626
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 4: this environment feels even more foreign to me.

627
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: Just feels unnecessary.

628
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, So we are running a Memorial Day sale if

629
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 4: you want to come. I'm sorry, I don't even know what.

630
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 2: It's called the fuck America Ford. I don't even know what.

631
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's called having a fuck America Fords sale. The

632
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 3: coat is escape. Honestly, like you think getting your nails done,

633
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 3: your hair done, and going, you know, to lunch with

634
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 3: your homegirl is self care it's not. I'm here to

635
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 3: tell you you got to get on a plane and

636
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 3: change your whole fucking environment because the net, like the

637
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 3: the energy here.

638
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 2: Just the amount of people there is the energy that exists.

639
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 3: Even in your house with the door closed, you still

640
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 3: feel that shit, the lights, everything, There's a lot going on.

641
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 3: You have to literally remove your energetic field from this

642
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: field and go to a new one to be like, oh,

643
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 3: this is what it feels like to be semi settled.

644
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 3: Literally when we go out of the country, you know

645
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 3: how many people are like, are you guys okay? You

646
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 3: guys are from America? Are you okay?

647
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 2: Literally we're like no. Every time we are there, they're like, oh,

648
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 2: we see what's happening.

649
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: Like they're like living in a whole other dimension and

650
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 4: we're in Fuck, We're in the fucked up dimension.

651
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's dimensions.

652
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: You have to quantum leap to a different dimension, into

653
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: a different energetic field in order to get your mind right.

654
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,719
Speaker 3: And I'm not saying that to get you to come

655
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 3: to retreat. You really should come. This was affirming having

656
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 3: men at this retreat. This last couple's retreat we did,

657
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 3: was like so beautiful to see like just to see

658
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 3: the love between the couples and to understand how important

659
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: love is in this time, like to have two people

660
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 3: together and decide to escape just for a week together

661
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: and to pour into themselves and pour into their relationships.

662
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: And then most of them, all of them except one

663
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 3: couple parents, you know, like really saying this is important

664
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 3: to me. Whatever walk we take as a family, however

665
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 3: my lineage goes, it's up to me. Like, these are

666
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 3: important conversations that we have there. And I think people

667
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 3: need to come up out of their programming and up

668
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 3: out of their environment of comfortability to see it for themselves,

669
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 3: how other people are living and like, this is not it.

670
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 3: You have to experience it and taste it and feel

671
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 3: it to know that it exists.

672
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: Amen. Yeah, And we have two retreats.

673
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 3: So July thirty first, Yeah, August fifth, m August eighth.

674
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: August July thirty first through July fifth, and then July

675
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: eighth through the thirteenth.

676
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, two retreats. This is our women's retreats. This is

677
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 4: our like, this is our annual summer retreat. You've seen it,

678
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 4: you've heard us talk about it. It's time to come.

679
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,239
Speaker 4: It's time to come. We're giving a major discount. It's

680
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: eight hundred dollars off this week only. This code is

681
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:10,239
Speaker 4: only gonna work.

682
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 3: This to the supermarket. Go to Good Mom's Bad Choices

683
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: dot com or.

684
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 4: Just click the link in this episode, or check out

685
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 4: the Good Vibe Retreat on Instagram and use code escape

686
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: and escape with us out of this weird fucking place

687
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,479
Speaker 4: and come to Costa Rica. If you can't afford it,

688
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 4: just put down a deposit, pay a little bit, and

689
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 4: then you can pay the shit later. We have payment options.

690
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 4: Don't worry. Just bring that ass with us because you

691
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 4: need to plug yourself out of the matrix and see

692
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 4: why we can't not go, why we're always in Costa Rica.

693
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 4: I feel like when I sit down this couch, I'm like,

694
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 4: I've been sat here in a while, and I was like,

695
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 4: I feel like we are like not here a lot anymore.

696
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 4: I feel like we are away a lot, Like we're

697
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 4: plotting our exit, whether or not we realize it or not.

698
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: It's by design.

699
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: And I realized we asked for this, like there was

700
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 3: a time before or it got so bad, or it

701
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 3: felt like it was getting so bad, and we were like,

702
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 3: I want to get out of here and now God is.

703
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: Like, how about now, how about now? You know?

704
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 3: And yeah, whether we want you or not, it's happening.

705
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 3: And honestly, we've had people, We've had women come in

706
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 3: the retreat who now live in Costa Rica and I'm like, oh,

707
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 3: this is the beacon of light that I needed. Like

708
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 3: you have no idea how changing your environment will change

709
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: your reality and make shit happen for you, Like you think, No,

710
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 3: I don't know the first step of doing any of

711
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: those things. Just go on the trip and then it

712
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 3: will come to you. Like the divine lives in nature.

713
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 3: You will get the messages, you will get all the things,

714
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 3: the blessings, all the things that church promises you checks

715
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: in your mail on Friday and surprises. That is what

716
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 3: happens when you like convene with nature. Those are the

717
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 3: blessings that you'll get. And I know because somehow we've

718
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 3: manifested every year we get out of this bitch less

719
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 3: and less and less and less and less and less.

720
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 3: And I do believe it's because we've stepped away. It

721
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 3: made it more realistic, It made that shit if possible.

722
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: Amen, our network is going.

723
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 3: To be like can you guys not can you refrain

724
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 3: from talking about the government.

725
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: Shout out to black Efect, we love you. Thank God.

726
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 3: When you're with a blackety black network, you can have

727
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: blacketty black conversation.

728
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: Also shout out to Charlemagne. Happy birthday, cancer brother. I

729
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: know was your cancer.

730
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was his birth It was his birthday I

731
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 4: think a few days ago. So happy birthday, Charlemagne.

732
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: It was also my birthday a few days ago. Yes,

733
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 2: happy birthday, boo. Thank you. I'm very I had a

734
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: really nice birthday. You know.

735
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 3: I'm turning twenty four and just being out of the

736
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 3: country and just chilling and doing not much was really, really,

737
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 3: really really what obgineded and it made it really clear, like.

738
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: Where are we going this year and my life?

739
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: And I was like, I wasn't in America when I

740
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 3: brung it in, and I don't want to be in

741
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 3: America much longer. It's very clear. But yeah, we've been

742
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: doing this for a long time. I think when we

743
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 3: first started, I just I was like about to celebrate

744
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 3: my twenty ninth, my thirtieth, or my twenty ninth birthday.

745
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: Let me start it. Yeah I just turned thirty.

746
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so did I just turned thirty two. Then

747
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: you were thirty when we started. I was twenty nine

748
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 3: when I turned thirty. Yeah, so wow, wow wow wow.

749
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: So don't do the math. Also, so she's twenty four

750
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: and twenty five, so I'm twenty four, and I.

751
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 4: Know that was confusing, but I'm twenty five and she's

752
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 4: twenty four.

753
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: We're going backwards. We have ten year olds. Still don't

754
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 2: do any math.

755
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 3: My cousin Chris told me singing Happy Birthday and blowing

756
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: out the candles is a fucking ceremony and it's a

757
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 3: ritual that's making us age. If you don't sing the

758
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 3: song and you don't acknowledge it, it doesn't exist.

759
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 2: And I was like, you're right, who even made this

760
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: shit up?

761
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 3: Sounds beautiful. I wouldn't just go with how I feel.

762
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 3: I like that speaking at twenty four years old. That

763
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 3: brings us to our next topic. It's very very important.

764
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 3: Oh I did it Love Island? Oh shit, A bunch

765
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: of fucking under thirty year old people with abs and big.

766
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 4: Boobs, no in a Fiji and fucking a ways catch

767
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 4: me up because I meant, I know. I was supposed

768
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 4: to watch the Isoland yesterday, but my brain couldn't do it.

769
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 2: I couldn't turn it on. I have to feel like

770
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: I have to be in the right mindset. You know what,

771
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: You're right, because I tried to watch it the other

772
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,760
Speaker 2: day and.

773
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 4: I had just specific Oh, there was no way Orlando

774
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 4: was watching it, and it was pissing me off. Do

775
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 4: you know what I tried to watch when we got back.

776
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 4: Have you ever seen the bear? Have you watched the

777
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 4: show The Bear Bitch? They're yelling and screaming at each

778
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 4: other the whole time. There's certain shit. I can't I

779
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 4: could not watch.

780
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: You know what. I watched what's it called my planet planet?

781
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 2: I watched that. I watched birds evolve. You have to

782
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 2: be it's important. Like that's another thing.

783
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 3: When you leave out your environment, you do pay attention

784
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 3: to the things you.

785
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 2: In dust and jest.

786
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, like literally in your body and also like visually

787
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 4: and like just inaudibly as well.

788
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: Like I couldn't. I could not. I was like, can't

789
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: just put on the animal planet?

790
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 3: I know, you know, I'm somewhere between, like everything is fine,

791
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 3: ignore it, You're happy, my friends are healthy, everything's good.

792
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: I'm protected, everything's fine. I have time, and.

793
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: We're gonna die. That's like the two voices in my

794
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: head that's like, I think that's like what America wants.

795
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: Am I going crazy? No, I'm pretty sure everyone that's

796
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: listening can relate to that.

797
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 3: I literally feel like Dory sometimes, like just keep swimming,

798
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,959
Speaker 3: just keep swimming, just keep swimming. Everything is hard, hard,

799
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 3: and then like you have to come down because otherwise

800
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, we need to build a bunker. Orlando, go

801
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 3: get seventeen gallons of water. He's like, where we're gonna

802
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 3: put it. I don't fucking know. In the closet do

803
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 3: we have canned food? Ask Orlando, Like, every three to

804
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 3: six months, into my closet. Every three to six months,

805
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 3: I go a little bit like a copy of apocalyptic crazy,

806
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 3: and I demand that we buy canned foods that are

807
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 3: still there. And then it does. The world doesn't end.

808
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm coming to a point where, like, bitch,

809
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: if it ends today, it's a good day.

810
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 4: Everyone get their passport just I just want to just

811
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 4: throw it out there. Random thought right now, high thought,

812
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 4: My high thought is everyone make sure your passport is

813
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 4: not expired. Make sure it's not expiring. Then in the

814
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 4: next three months, because it gets really challenging to travel.

815
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 4: If your passport is close to expiring, so I think

816
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 4: six months, make sure you go after this episode. Please, please,

817
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 4: for the love of God, go check your passport status.

818
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 4: You don't have your passport? Why why you are you're

819
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 4: asking to be a slave to America if you don't

820
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 4: have your passport, like.

821
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,760
Speaker 3: Truly, make sure you have a copy of your birth certificate.

822
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 3: I'm saying this like I have any any information.

823
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 4: There's a few things, actually, I've been saying all the.

824
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 2: Time. It's like all the things you have to have.

825
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 4: Intact in order in order to get the fuck out

826
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 4: of here quick maybe I don't know.

827
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 2: And also get global global entry.

828
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 3: Because except every time I come through it and they

829
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 3: just they just look at me and they're like jimmy

830
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 3: map And I'm.

831
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 4: Like, I know which cha que doesn't have Global entry

832
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 4: and has been pissing me the fuck off. Okay, when

833
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 4: we when we landed at six am, I was like,

834
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 4: we should just go over there and just let's go see.

835
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 4: And he was like being resistant, and I was like, naked,

836
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 4: I will leave you behind, no, And I was like,

837
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 4: if I'm not staying around. When we were in Costa

838
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 4: Rica and some shit popped off out here. I was like,

839
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 4: I think we need to talk about like what if

840
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 4: shit hit the fan? Like what is what are you

841
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 4: willing to do? Like because I don't want to be

842
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 4: I don't be arguing with you and like negotiating with

843
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 4: you when shit is going on, like are you going

844
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 4: to stay? And like are you trying to stay? Are

845
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 4: you down to like leave this bitch because some people

846
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 4: are gonna stick around and find out and other people

847
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 4: are gonna have not you know what I said, but

848
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,399
Speaker 4: you'd be surprised, like COVID Like that really highlighted how

849
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 4: people react in times of turmoil and chaos, and it

850
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 4: was shocking to see how some people react.

851
00:37:59,000 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 2: You were like, oh.

852
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 4: Shit, I didn't think you were going to become a recluse.

853
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 4: I didn't think that you were going to like you know,

854
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 4: like all these things everything. I think it's also important

855
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 4: just to have the conversations with the people that you love,

856
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 4: like what is the plan if anything were to happen,

857
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 4: just so we all know, like we're not shocked and

858
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 4: fucking disappointed if and when she hits the fan.

859
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: Anyway, tell me about Love Island anyway. In a lighter note,

860
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: this is why we need shows like Love Isoland anyway, Yeah,

861
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 2: lighten it up.

862
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 3: It's a bunch of twenty something year olds that are

863
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 3: all hot, hot, hot according to American standards. I'm really

864
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 3: dough happy that there's now I'm only on like episode four, there's.

865
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 4: Now Who's Who to hear about Huda? Okay, so I

866
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,919
Speaker 4: what's up with who? Everybody liked her and now they're

867
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 4: turning again.

868
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. Iwards the end.

869
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 3: I'm only on episode four, so I'm right now at

870
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: the point where I'm starting out to like her.

871
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 4: Okay, But because she was well loved at first, right,

872
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 4: everyone was fucking with Who at first.

873
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

874
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 3: Shout out to Love Island for casting more than two

875
00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 3: black people and them not being like ambiguous black people.

876
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: But like, there's some chocolate girls.

877
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, I see some representation, because sometimes

878
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 3: I actually shows.

879
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 4: I saw a chocolate girl like tonguing this white boy down.

880
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 2: She was sucking the ship out of his life. I

881
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 2: know what you're talking about.

882
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 3: Their their name is or It's like the female of Orlandia, Orlandia.

883
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 2: She wasn't sucking the ship. I don't even know what

884
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: was going on. I saw that clip. I was like, Okay,

885
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm going to watch this at some point.

886
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: First of all, they're all basically making out with each

887
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 3: other because they're literally just go down the line and

888
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 3: just like make out down the line, like we'll just

889
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 3: they all make.

890
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 2: Out with each other. Do they all get tested before?

891
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: That's what Sai, They're gonna get Mono. I was like,

892
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 3: they probably tested for Mono because there's so much making out.

893
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 4: But I heard I haven't heard Mono in so long

894
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 4: when he said it teat it doesn't exist anymore.

895
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 2: I think it's extinct. I don't think so. No, it

896
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 2: does exist, Just don't Mono still exists? Anyway?

897
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 3: A bunche of twenty seven year olds just houring out

898
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 3: in the house. It's like literally they're like, let's see cheating.

899
00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 3: Let's put all this wait.

900
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: So are they try trying to find love?

901
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 3: You're trying to find love? Or they just trying to

902
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 3: find love? Okay, but I would ever love you can

903
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 3: find it twenty four to twenty five.

904
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 2: Is there an incentive if they find it? I did

905
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: think it a hundred thousand dollars if they find love.

906
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,720
Speaker 2: I think it's unclear.

907
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, fucking Hohoda fell in love the first day

908
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 3: within hours with like the black Ken Barbie and she's cute.

909
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 3: She's a Middle Eastern but oh no, is there's drama

910
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 3: because don't don't duh.

911
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 2: She's a mom. Who who does a mom? She's twenty four.

912
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 3: She didn't tell him for the first three episodes that

913
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 3: she was a mom, and then when she tells them,

914
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 3: she's like, I have to tell you something.

915
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: How old is your kid? Five?

916
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 3: And she's like, He's like what, and she's like, I'm

917
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 3: a mom. He's like, oh, yo, yo, I can't even

918
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 3: look at you right now, look at me.

919
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 2: He's like I can't. I just I'm trying to process this.

920
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm like you atot she told you she's a fucking

921
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: fucking well, it's kind of weird if, like, you know,

922
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 2: he's probably reab I mean, I don't know. I'm not

923
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: going to give this nigger the benefit of doubt, but bitch,

924
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 2: why are you lying? Well? I feel the same way,

925
00:40:58,800 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 2: like it is a little weird.

926
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 3: Now it's a weird, and I made a big deal

927
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 3: like picture should have said it, like why are you

928
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 3: like that's the scarlet?

929
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 2: The scarlet? Why would you child?

930
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 3: But I do understand the propaganda against moms. She's a

931
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:10,399
Speaker 3: young mom.

932
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 4: A lot of there's the young men who are like,

933
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 4: I'm not going to do any fody with I mean

934
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 4: I would, I mean, I'm not evening a lie. We've

935
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 4: talked about this early on in the podcast, like I

936
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 4: think you led with a luna, but like I when

937
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 4: I first started dating, like I was like, it took

938
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 4: me a while to feel comfortable, and it took me

939
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,760
Speaker 4: a while to like, yeah, feel comfortable even talking about

940
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 4: that and feeling like because.

941
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 2: You feel less word they tell you you're lesson.

942
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 4: You have baggage, you feel less valuable, like you're not

943
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 4: like the prime pick, Like you can't you're not.

944
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 2: Going to have the first baby with this person. You

945
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: have this experience, you have a baby daddy. He's gonna

946
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 2: be he's going to be beating me up. Yeah, he's

947
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: a round. You might go around and fuck him, you know.

948
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's all these these negative but so it

949
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 3: was interesting to see that dynamic and she still hasn't

950
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 3: she's only told the women.

951
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 2: The guys don't. The other guys don't know.

952
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 3: But they're in love with literally in like two hours

953
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: and they're like doing all these challenges where they're just

954
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 3: making out with each other. Basically, each challenge is a

955
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 3: different way to make out with each other, and.

956
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 2: They're all like for real. Literally, they like.

957
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 3: At one point everyone got blindfolded and they're like, Okay,

958
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 3: we're just gonna tap you on your shoulder and you

959
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 3: can go around and make out with whoever you want.

960
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 3: Everybody's blind button, be quiet because you remember who's sitting

961
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 3: next to you, and they're.

962
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,319
Speaker 2: Just like that grows. That sounds horrible. Maybe when I

963
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: was like they even interroed, you know it.

964
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 4: That was re appealing when I was like a teenager,

965
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 4: because it's exciting. You maybe haven't made out that many times.

966
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 4: You're hoping that maybe your crush actually chooses you. That's

967
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 4: exciting as an adult, a twenty five year old adult,

968
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 4: I don't want just like any random guy thinking he

969
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 4: can just come over make out with me.

970
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 3: Like no, it's on National TV. It was like, is

971
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 3: this video? Is this in the contract? I mean, I

972
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 3: guess the perk is. They're all like magazine.

973
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,720
Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. I was like, this doesn't seem appealing.

974
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 3: But if you're drunk and you're twenty maybe so they

975
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,439
Speaker 3: blindfolded everybody, like you could literally make up with multiple people.

976
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: You can make up everybody. And then they this is

977
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 2: really what fucked me up? Are they you supposed to

978
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: guess at the end who was no? Okay?

979
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 3: But then at the end, while they're still all blindfolded,

980
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: they introduced two new people and they also made out

981
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:14,319
Speaker 3: with people. All these people you haven't even seen, laid

982
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: eyed on these people. I'm like, what contract we're kind

983
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,439
Speaker 3: of released for me? The mofuck a half?

984
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: Because this is crazy. It was wild. Okay, I watch it.

985
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 2: I can't wait.

986
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 3: I know I'm mature for twenty four, but wow, this

987
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 3: is crazy.

988
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 2: Wow.

989
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: But then now Hoota, for some reason, these last two episodes,

990
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 3: she's always fucking crying.

991
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: Every time I see her. She's like, I've seen her.

992
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 2: She has like really long eyelashes, right, yeah, are they

993
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 2: fake or the okay?

994
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 4: And every time I've seen her she's crying on the

995
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 4: allways crying.

996
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, She's like, yeah, me and him, we're locked in.

997
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: We go together.

998
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: They call us mom and dad in the house. The

999
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: other guy, Ace, who's actually he's like on the internet

1000
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: dancing a lot.

1001
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: You've seen him.

1002
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:00,280
Speaker 3: She's like, he's like, you do realize this is Dave four?

1003
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: How many days is it's been?

1004
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 3: Literally I'm on day four, But how many days is

1005
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 3: six weeks?

1006
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: Oh wow? And she's like and he's and she's like,

1007
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: I know, and I don't care. I'm like, sounds like

1008
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: cancer energy. I'm not like that sounds like I mean

1009
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 2: it sounds like like waterside energy, like your mine. We

1010
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 2: are sound like scorpio energy, like we're locked in.

1011
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 4: Your mind at four, I'm intuitive at my heart. My

1012
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 4: soul told me I had a dream. I saw a

1013
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 4: bird land on a fence. He was my she was

1014
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 4: my grandmother. She told me, you're maked, Like, what are

1015
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 4: you talking about?

1016
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 3: She's crying. The new girl gets introduced. There, she's making out.

1017
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 3: They picked, she's making out with her man. She's on

1018
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 3: the side like crying. I'm like, this is the most ridiculous, dramatic,

1019
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 3: stupid shit I've ever watched, and I'm watching it here.

1020
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 2: We are okay, Well, so those are that's what's happening

1021
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 2: on Love Island.

1022
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god, please leave your comments about Love Island.

1023
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 4: I need to know your thoughts on Love Island. Hudah

1024
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,720
Speaker 4: and who's your favorite character? Who's your favorite character?

1025
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 2: I like Channing? Why am I called him a character?

1026
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 2: Are they characters?

1027
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 3: They're just they're just yeah, other characters, they're just people.

1028
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: Who are your favorite person? Channy? I think her name

1029
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: is Channy. Why what's up a Channy?

1030
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 3: She's just non problematic, she's not acting nuts so far.

1031
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 2: So she's pretty like she have a boyfriend or she's

1032
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: kind of.

1033
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 3: Just I think everyone else is a little bit more open.

1034
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 3: It's just fucking Houdah and the other nigga that they

1035
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 3: think that they go together. But yeah, it's very interesting.

1036
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 3: I like that that curly headed white boy too. He's cute.

1037
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: It's not the one who's getting his lip sucked. Maybe

1038
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 2: he's cute. He was cute. What was she? I told

1039
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 2: you girl? Chocolate girl was like.

1040
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 4: I was like, and then he she like sucked his

1041
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 4: lip and he he like went away and I could

1042
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 4: see his full face on camera, and I was like,

1043
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 4: that was a fine white boy.

1044
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 2: Who was fine.

1045
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 3: There's a fine little white boy on there who's right

1046
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,439
Speaker 3: in my age range since I'm twenty four.

1047
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: Perfect.

1048
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I wish they would stop. I don't know,

1049
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's mom's doing it. To themselves

1050
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 3: like let's bring let's bring back making single mom cool again.

1051
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 3: I thought, that's but our brand, like this is what

1052
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 3: we represent makes being a single mom cool again. It's

1053
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 3: not something to be ashamed of. It's not baggage. It's

1054
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 3: actually I know how to keep someone alive. Yeah, and

1055
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 3: you can find love again, like good love.

1056
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I actually know a little bit more kind of

1057
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 4: value yourself a little bit more once you become a parent.

1058
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 2: Not a little bit more, you kind of for anyone.

1059
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,240
Speaker 3: If you're not a parent yet, if you're not a parent,

1060
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 3: you might haven't found true value.

1061
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,399
Speaker 2: You haven't found like you haven't really valued up yet

1062
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: all the way. It's true. It's so true.

1063
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 3: And I started being a mom, I was like, huh,

1064
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 3: I've been putting up with absolute bullshit.

1065
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 2: I was like, do I love myself? I can't.

1066
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 3: It's not possible that I loved myself before this because

1067
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 3: look at who I was choosing. It is such a

1068
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 3: level of to self love that is true. Okay, love

1069
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 3: island any any other things in the news.

1070
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: I think there was something with.

1071
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 4: Be Simone and like her crying about not shopping at

1072
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 4: a department store that I wasn't aware people were still

1073
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 4: really shopping at anyway, and she had a shop at

1074
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 4: H and M and her friend doesn't think she's a

1075
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 4: good friend.

1076
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 2: There was a long pause. I don't know.

1077
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 4: I really think that Bi Simone's trolling us, guys. I

1078
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 4: really think we have got to stop watching these videos

1079
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 4: because she's doing it on purpose.

1080
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 2: That's my theory. She knows the fuck she's doing. She's

1081
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 2: an actress. Now you think this is true, you think

1082
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 2: all this shit is real?

1083
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I just think it's I think it's true. I

1084
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 3: think this is who she is.

1085
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I think, of course a lot of acting. Listen.

1086
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 4: I think that that we are witnessing who she is

1087
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 4: because she'll also like, I think that she also knows

1088
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 4: what she's doing, which is also revealing of who she is.

1089
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, the H and M shit. You can't shop at Bloomingdale's.

1090
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 3: I don't know when the last time I stepped a

1091
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 3: fucking foot in Bloomingdows.

1092
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 2: I'm just like, that's why.

1093
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, how can you be this socially unaware and

1094
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 4: on the Internet.

1095
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 2: It's not like that.

1096
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 4: It's like, like, how can you actually have a phone

1097
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 4: be this socially unaware?

1098
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 2: And then like do that.

1099
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 4: That's why I feel like either she is trolling us

1100
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 4: or she must be I don't, I don't know.

1101
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 3: It just lets me know she's not a bad bitch,

1102
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 3: Like a bad bitch doesn't care, Like I just better

1103
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 3: go to fucking h and M or Macy's or fucking

1104
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 3: Steve Madden or fucking blow me dwn. I was like,

1105
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be a bad bitch. It's that's never gonna

1106
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 3: be the part that phazes me, Like You're never gonna

1107
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 3: catch me crying. I'm gonna be a bad bitch regardless,

1108
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 3: Like this is It's just I think that there's the

1109
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 3: internet is so it makes people unaware, like you think

1110
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 3: you're popular, like you have you brought your friend on

1111
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 3: your show to ask if you're a good friend, and

1112
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 3: she couldn't even fucking answer, Like you're completely unaware.

1113
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: She might just I don't know if she's well. I

1114
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 4: just maybe there's a mental health happening, issue happening. I

1115
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 4: don't know, because I'm literally like, how can you be

1116
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 4: this socially unaware?

1117
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: This?

1118
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 2: Are you on the spectrum?

1119
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,280
Speaker 4: Because like this like what the fuck are you talking about?

1120
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 4: Like are you Like That's why I'm like this has

1121
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 4: to be a joke at this point, do you.

1122
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 2: Think social media is making true? And for those on

1123
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 2: the spectrum, this is not a time on people on

1124
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 2: the spectrum.

1125
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 4: If you're on the spectrum, great, I'm happy this is

1126
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 4: amazing for you. You are a fucking genius. But she, this

1127
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 4: is a different type. This is a different this is

1128
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 4: a different level of unawareness. And I'm just like, I

1129
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 4: don't get it.

1130
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: It's performative.

1131
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 3: It's completely like no sense of reality.

1132
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's weird.

1133
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 4: And I feel like her friends have told us what

1134
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 4: kind of like where she's lacking, which is probably.

1135
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 2: She let us.

1136
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 3: She made the clip for her friends telling us about herself,

1137
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 3: so that's how we know.

1138
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. She's trolling us. Gotta stop, we

1139
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 4: gotta stop. We have got you know what. We're boycotting America.

1140
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,399
Speaker 4: We are boycotting watching be Simone crown the Internet. We're

1141
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 4: not fucking doing it anymore.

1142
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: If you say it down, don't, I am done. Please,

1143
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: I'm calling for a nation wide boycott.

1144
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 3: No more target, no more entertaining Besimone's tears.

1145
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 4: No, no, it's done. It ends here, Like seriously, I can't.

1146
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:15,720
Speaker 2: I can't do it anymore.

1147
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 3: She's like, like the churchy shit is I feel like

1148
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 3: it's like performative too, Like how is someone telling you

1149
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 3: you're like a terrible friend and you're.

1150
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 2: Like Jesus, oh Jesus.

1151
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 3: Like you don't call it him now, you should have

1152
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 3: been asking Jesus when you was being a bitch, like,

1153
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,959
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, if if I'm telling you like bitch,

1154
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 3: you weren't really being that good of a friend.

1155
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 2: And you're like, oh, Jesus, let's pray about it.

1156
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 3: No, bitch, I'm not uh uh, it's ridiculous, And then

1157
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,720
Speaker 3: you have the nerve to to spiritual spiritual blash, yeah

1158
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 3: about fucking sage that Jesus made and crystals and shit, like, girl,

1159
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 3: I think you're I think she says stuff because she

1160
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 3: he's trolling eyes. She thinks that people are gonna rally

1161
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 3: behind it. It's time that we put our foot down.

1162
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm done. This is this is word. I'm gonna

1163
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 4: sign a petition. Hit the type form. What's that petition?

1164
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 2: Dot org.

1165
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 4: I'm gonna make her fucking We're not going to be

1166
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 4: entertaining any more. Vismone crying for the rest of twenty

1167
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 4: twenty six, five through twenty six for the rest of time,

1168
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 4: So she's gonna have to figure something else out.

1169
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 2: You know.

1170
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm this is You're welcome visimone because I'm really pushing

1171
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 4: you to expand and like really just you know, try

1172
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,399
Speaker 4: to get to the next space because the crying shit

1173
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 4: has got has gotta stop, gotta stop, the unrelatability, she's

1174
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 4: gotta stop. Like I know that you're a real person

1175
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 4: in there theater that is not a real place, but

1176
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 4: people are real. So it's just like that's what's more concerning.

1177
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 4: The Internet has created like these avatars. Yeah, yeah, like

1178
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:57,720
Speaker 4: everyone's playing a character.

1179
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's strange.

1180
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 3: That's why I feel so at odds with the Internet

1181
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 3: all the time. I'm like I want to participate, I

1182
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 3: want to post a picture, but.

1183
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 2: They're so stupid, I.

1184
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 4: Know, And that's why it's scary for the kids to

1185
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 4: be on the internet. But then also like it's summertime,

1186
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 4: you guys, and also like get on the internet because

1187
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 4: I need a fucking break.

1188
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: We need to find like the good apps, like the

1189
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 2: educational apps. There's you know, our kids are on cover Star.

1190
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 3: I know because Luna just showed me all of IRI's

1191
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 3: every single post. Last night, I looked at what they

1192
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 3: got the most highest rates. What were they them eating?

1193
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 4: And then our land like how many how many people

1194
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 4: are watching our kids on the internet.

1195
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 2: And I was like, seventeen hundred cover stars for our

1196
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 2: kid kids. I don't know. Oh god, okay, I saw

1197
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 2: the videos. I'm sure they were adorable. Oh yeah, really

1198
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 2: they really put a lot of effort.

1199
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 4: I know they care. Iri said, or was it Luna?

1200
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 4: She said she wanted to be in uh social media?

1201
00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 2: Oh no, I was I think it was irish. She

1202
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,919
Speaker 2: wanted to be in creator Creator Camp. That's so they're

1203
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 2: telling me. Art's like this also broadcasting.

1204
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 3: She wants to be broadcasting broadcast And at first I

1205
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 3: was like, I was like when she wanted to change? Okay,

1206
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 3: So our kids went to overnight camp while we were

1207
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 3: wearing Costa Rica. It was their first time. They couldn't

1208
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 3: have phones. They got to be independent. It was really

1209
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 3: like it was nice for them to go for a week,

1210
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 3: but there's different things they could do. So Luna has

1211
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 3: this fucking camp call me at fucking seven and am

1212
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 3: and Costa Rica talking about Luna would like to switch

1213
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 3: out if Trapeez and go to girl power. I was like,

1214
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 3: what girl power. I was like, what are they gonna

1215
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 3: do there? Paint their nails, learn rifles they're gonna do.

1216
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 2: I was like girl power.

1217
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, her mother is girl power? What the fuck

1218
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 3: would she learned girl power for. I'm like, tell her

1219
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 3: stop being a follower and do with her first mind.

1220
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,879
Speaker 3: And she goes, your mom said, how about you.

1221
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 2: Try this today.

1222
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 3: And tomorrow we'll check back in. I was like, that's

1223
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 3: not what I said, but sure. The next day calls

1224
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 3: me again, seven of them. I'm like, hello, She's like

1225
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 3: Luna to know if she got hear look in the background.

1226
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,319
Speaker 3: They won't pass through the phones. I think they're gonna

1227
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 3: make the kids like miss home. And I was like, really,

1228
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,959
Speaker 3: I talked to Iri oh that she wouldn't pass the phone.

1229
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 3: What And I was just like whatever, okay, fine. I

1230
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 3: was too tired. I didn't want to argue. I was like, okay,

1231
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: but she was telling me broadcasting in social media, and

1232
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is why you do this at home.

1233
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 2: This is where the world is going.

1234
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 3: I was like, there's a way to ethically like integrate it,

1235
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 3: because it's happening anyway.

1236
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 2: I don't know we can give them our social media

1237
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 2: following when they turn eighteen. You're welcome, You're welcome. We

1238
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: built it to undred five hundred thousands.

1239
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 4: Can you imagine if that's like the new currency for

1240
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 4: your children?

1241
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 2: What if we got a cake and it said like

1242
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:45,280
Speaker 2: five hundred k. Kind of genous, it's kind of genius.

1243
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 2: Why like what? Like? I don't know, Yeah, what am

1244
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 2: I gonna do with this? Take it?

1245
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 4: I've done everything I can do. I mean, the two

1246
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 4: point zero time for a rebrand.

1247
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 2: Your mom showed a little bit of nip on the

1248
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 2: internet for you.

1249
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 4: The only rule is you can't delete anything, keep it

1250
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 4: as you're like.

1251
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:06,479
Speaker 2: Being out of touch.

1252
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 3: And then for her eighteenth and then we're gonna give

1253
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 3: the girls. You guys ready, we're going to give them

1254
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 3: our social media following.

1255
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 2: Well, Jamila's gonna give We're gonna give them both our TikTok.

1256
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 3: Unfortunately that we could have had more to give in

1257
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 3: that department.

1258
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 2: But we're going to keep the newsletter though. We're gonna

1259
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: need that. Oh my god, Man's christ anyway.

1260
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 3: I don't know what's saving you guys this summer, but

1261
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 3: we're back into motherhood. So I really highly recommend take

1262
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 3: the kids to camp overnight camp.

1263
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 2: It was overpriced as fun.

1264
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I think it was good, they loved it,

1265
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 4: but you know what, it was expensive.

1266
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 2: But I was also thinking, like, you have my kid,

1267
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 2: like this is kind of priceless. Take her, entertain her

1268
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 2: all day fucking long, feed.

1269
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 4: Her, make core memories.

1270
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't have to do anything. Main thing.

1271
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 4: I don't have to do anything, yo, and then that

1272
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 4: is kind of priceless. Well for me, that price, Like

1273
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 4: as I as I was like experiencing her being there

1274
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 4: because the kids couldn't have their phone, which was I

1275
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 4: was really stressed out about. But then I realized, because

1276
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 4: they had this app and I don't know what kind

1277
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 4: of technology they have where they take these pictures automatically,

1278
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 4: your kid is like tagged and uploaded. But it brought

1279
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 4: me peace knowing like, Okay, at least I can still

1280
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 4: see her.

1281
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 2: You can write them letters and they can write you back.

1282
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 4: But as I was seeing these pictures and seeing all

1283
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,439
Speaker 4: the fun she was having, I was like.

1284
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 2: I didn't want to do done to that shit, but

1285
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 2: this is important.

1286
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 4: She needed this, So start saving now for next summer. Okay,

1287
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 4: if you haven't done it already, start saving now for

1288
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,879
Speaker 4: next summer to send your kids to fucking sleep away camp.

1289
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 2: That is, that is.

1290
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 4: Number one of getting through fucking the summer as a parent.

1291
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 4: That I wished I knew earlier. I mean, I don't

1292
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 4: know if I would have sent her earlier. Maybe last

1293
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 4: year I would have, but I feel like at some

1294
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 4: point it's time if your kids are around eight, to

1295
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 4: now send them. There were fifteen year olds there. Really

1296
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,479
Speaker 4: there's pairs like I don't know what to do with Joss. Really, sixteen, bitch,

1297
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 4: you gotta go. There was I think the I think

1298
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 4: it's I think fifteen is the catusk.

1299
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you become a counselor your counselor training. Yeah,

1300
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 3: I think I was kind of at first. I was

1301
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: when I woke up when she for the first day,

1302
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 3: I was like thinking of her, like, damn, she's waking

1303
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 3: up in a foreign place, in a foreign bit.

1304
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 2: She's on a retreat. Yeah, she was. Literally they were

1305
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: retreating while we were retreating, well sort of yeah, the

1306
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: same time.

1307
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 4: So it's just like, but you know what, I went

1308
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 4: to a sleep away camp in Martha's Vineyard when I

1309
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 4: was like eleven, and core memories, like for real like,

1310
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 4: I'll never forget that camp. It was called it was

1311
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 4: the Shenandoah, and we were on a boat and we

1312
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 4: were like helping man the boat.

1313
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 2: It was like an.

1314
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 4: Old camp pirate ship basically. Yes, the camp was on

1315
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 4: a boat. We were like waking up at seven am

1316
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 4: to clean the decks, like we were learning how to

1317
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 4: anchor the fucking boat into the deep sea ocean. We

1318
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 4: were singing sailor songs. It was very white, but I

1319
00:57:56,720 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 4: very much. Yeah, it was actually me and my two

1320
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 4: cousins were probably the only black people there now that

1321
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about it, but I didn't notice then. I

1322
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 4: was just having a great time jumping off the boat

1323
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 4: in the middle of the ocean, docking on like these

1324
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 4: little islands that like are ininhabited and we have our

1325
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 4: like it was pretty special. That's and so I don't know,

1326
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 4: Like I feel like as parents sometimes we are really

1327
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 4: scared to release the grip on our children because of

1328
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 4: various things like shit has happened. She just happened to you,

1329
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 4: sit is happening. But I feel like you're gonna have

1330
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 4: to release your kids to the world at some point,

1331
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 4: and like being able to give them these experiences in

1332
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 4: like doses that you trust with your gut, that you've

1333
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 4: done your research in that you feel intuitively well doing.

1334
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 4: I felt safe because I knew Luna was going to

1335
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 4: be there, and I knew i Re's other friend was

1336
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 4: going to be there. So I'm like, three of them.

1337
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 4: Ain't nobody gonna mess with them. There's three, you know,

1338
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 4: but like, trust your gut. But I do think I

1339
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 4: encourage parents because I see a lot of parents that

1340
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 4: are like.

1341
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 2: I don't. I would, I don't. My kid don't have

1342
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 2: no play date. I'm like, Dan, your kid I had

1343
00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 2: a play date.

1344
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 4: And she's ten, like girl like I that you I

1345
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 4: understand like protecting your children, but at some point, like

1346
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 4: if they have to, it's important for them to have

1347
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:07,439
Speaker 4: these type of experiences.

1348
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 3: A part of protecting your child is integrating independence and

1349
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 3: sovereignty and the ability to putting your.

1350
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: Work to test, putting the work that you've done to

1351
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 2: the test too.

1352
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 3: Our jobs are really as parents is we're training them. Yeah,

1353
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 3: we're training them to be prepared for adulthood. And if

1354
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,479
Speaker 3: you don't, if you don't, we protect them too much,

1355
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 3: they're not going to be prepared for adulthood. And we

1356
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 3: see what those kind of adults look like, and it's

1357
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 3: could be fucked up there.

1358
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 2: There can't be. They're not sustainable.

1359
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 3: So if you want to have a child, like protect

1360
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 3: them use your intuition, but teach them mostly how to

1361
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 3: use their own intuition and how to advocate for themselves.

1362
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 3: So if they do feel uncomfortable, they're like, eh, eh,

1363
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 3: you're fucking with me.

1364
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 2: Like they already know.

1365
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 3: It's not like some shy meek thing, you know, like

1366
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 3: they don't know how to interact with the outside world.

1367
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 3: I think experiences are the biggest life lessons, you know,

1368
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 3: like trips and stuff like that, like gifts and all

1369
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 3: this shit is cool, but when you put them out

1370
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 3: into the world, that is when they you know, start

1371
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 3: to like learn themselves.

1372
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: It's super important. Yeah. Yeah, So I'm really happy that

1373
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 2: we did it, and I'm going to do that the

1374
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 2: next summer. It was really good. You know, I'm gonna

1375
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 2: do that. I'm saving up for two weeks witch, all right.

1376
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 3: I was because we extended our trip once we realized

1377
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 3: they were at camp, We're like, they ain't even they

1378
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 3: ain't even gonna be.

1379
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 2: There get back. Yeah.

1380
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, that was that was the that was

1381
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 3: the best summer idea we've had thus far. I also

1382
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 3: feel like having barbecues and like joint hangouts and like

1383
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 3: househop is really like our summer has been our summer activity.

1384
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 3: So that ways that the kids could do the kids thing,

1385
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 3: and they don't. They babysit each other. And there I

1386
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 3: demand that if you're going to be in human being human,

1387
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 3: don't be on the fucking iPad.

1388
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 4: Like you can still turn up and your kids will

1389
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 4: be safe in that. And if you need to spend

1390
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 4: the night, bitch the exactly, like, just do it like

1391
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 4: you deserve this, turn up and baby will be just fine.

1392
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 4: She'll be there's thirty other aunties that want to take

1393
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 4: care of the baby.

1394
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 2: Hang out with your friends this summer. It's going to

1395
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 2: save you.

1396
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 3: Like find your tribe, especially those with friends or other

1397
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 3: girlfriends that don't mind around being around babies or kids

1398
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 3: or whatever and still have your summer fun too. Yeah,

1399
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 3: that was one thing. Even as a mom of a

1400
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 3: small child, I still I took that baby everywhere. The

1401
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 3: baby even now literally be like I'm bored. I'd be like,

1402
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 3: oh you want to kick it, Oh you want to

1403
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 3: kick it? Come on, tech your shit on and then

1404
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 3: we'd be out, still tan, and she'd be falling asleep.

1405
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh no, girl, we outside at the restaurant

1406
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 2: with my friends. This is not what I meant. I

1407
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 2: wanted to play with slime and go skys out. I

1408
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 2: thought you wanted to go to the Rosevelt.

1409
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 4: And I'm I'm still just happy. I still give the

1410
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 4: fuck about slime. I'm like, your day, that's lime. I

1411
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 4: really have had a very conflicted relationable note it's not

1412
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 4: even been conflicted. I fucking hate slime. I think most

1413
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 4: parents hate slime. But as I've been thinking about Iri

1414
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 4: getting older and the thought of her, like when she

1415
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 4: says she doesn't want slime anymore, I'm gonna know that

1416
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 4: she's like turned into it. There's like a new chapter

1417
01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 4: that she's unlocked where slime is no longer important.

1418
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:00,080
Speaker 2: And then now.

1419
01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 4: She's stepped into true preteenhood because I don't even I

1420
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 4: don't even consider her a preteen, right, what is preteen like?

1421
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 2: No, not until slime is gone?

1422
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 3: No sixteen playing with slime Like she's preaching I just

1423
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 3: got her slime today as your friend, we're talking about

1424
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 3: they're talking about letting go. This is a this is

1425
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 3: a message for.

1426
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 2: You, my friend.

1427
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 3: You know it's happening one way or another. I was

1428
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 3: when she was at camp. I was writing her and like,

1429
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 3: hey girl, I extended my trip anyway.

1430
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 2: I guess what.

1431
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 3: Somebody broke girl, somebody broke into my mom's car and

1432
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 3: stole your backpack.

1433
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 2: I don't even what was in there.

1434
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 3: And then I was like writing it, typing out and

1435
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: I was like, Orlando, is I going to scare her?

1436
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 2: Should I tell her that? He's like, I don't know,

1437
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 2: I should I wait.

1438
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 3: Till she gets out of camp, and I was like, anyway,

1439
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 3: talk to you lady, hate me back, but I was like,

1440
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 3: why am I talking to her?

1441
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 2: Like she's my homegirl? Yeah, and then she just like

1442
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 2: take me back, like why'd they do that? Like not me?

1443
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 4: Having one friend texting with your kid is weird. It's adorable.

1444
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 4: It's it's like cute. You're like, I've have moments where

1445
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, my baby's like yeah the

1446
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 4: fuck and oh my gosh, she text me she missed me.

1447
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, what you're thinking of me?

1448
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy to get Yeah. That text message would

1449
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 3: literally be like you think they're together at the restaurant

1450
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 3: and shit, I'm like, what are you talking about? Wow,

1451
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 3: growing children is crazy, but definitely releasing the grip. I

1452
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 3: think you said something earlier that it's important, Like I

1453
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 3: know a lot of friends who don't let that their

1454
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 3: kids sleep over or whatever, you know, that don't have

1455
01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 3: play dates. And I think sometimes we project our own

1456
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 3: fears of our own abuse or things that have happened

1457
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 3: to us or thinks we've heard happened to us onto

1458
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 3: our kids, and you know, obviously, like I think, trusting

1459
01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 3: yourself and your intuition. And I find that I get

1460
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 3: that anxiety when she has sleepovers with friends that are

1461
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 3: not my direct friends. But you know, I've gotten over it,

1462
01:03:57,040 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 3: and I talked to parents, and I always talk to her, how.

1463
01:03:59,080 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 2: Do you feel you feel good?

1464
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you can call me if you need me anytime,

1465
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 3: you know, so we would check in a lot. But

1466
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 3: I do think that it is necessary to kind of

1467
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 3: give your kid the opportunity to have social experiences, because

1468
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 3: you remember how fun sleepovers were, you know, like building

1469
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,800
Speaker 3: tents and who else knows what the fuck were doing

1470
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 3: making a mess.

1471
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had like that was one thing my mom

1472
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 4: did she let me have. I think that's why I

1473
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 4: don't feel so like I'm not. I've never been the

1474
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 4: type of parent that has been like afraid to have

1475
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 4: like Iri to have a sleepover.

1476
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 2: I think she started having sleepovers around four or five,

1477
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: you know.

1478
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 4: And also I was a single mom, so I was like,

1479
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 4: I have a deeper incentive to be like please help.

1480
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I do actually need you to take you

1481
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 2: want to go so you know.

1482
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 4: But like you said, like I do, and I totally

1483
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 4: understand why people, you know, have reservations, but like you said,

1484
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 4: it's important, and like I've had, I think I've had

1485
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 4: so much growth, and it's been so even with Iri,

1486
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 4: to see other people and how they live and how

1487
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 4: they exist and appreciate how she lives too, or even

1488
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 4: I remember being a kid and like you know, I

1489
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 4: went to like a bougie private school.

1490
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 2: I would go to these people's houses and.

1491
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 4: Be like, oh my god, wow I can and then

1492
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 4: it became normal, Well I could live like this, yeah,

1493
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 4: you know, and like and that.

1494
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1495
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 4: And that's done something for me as an adult, like

1496
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 4: the awareness of what I know I can have and

1497
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 4: not that was never really like something I had to

1498
01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 4: really understand.

1499
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 2: You know.

1500
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 4: There's a lot of other things I had to understand,

1501
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 4: but like I knew that, like I know that things

1502
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 4: are possible. And I'm not gonna say it's all in

1503
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 4: part because I had to sleepover to people's house now,

1504
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,680
Speaker 4: But there was an exposure.

1505
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 2: It's not like something you just see on TV. You're

1506
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 2: actually experience it into the house.

1507
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 3: Like when you when you grow up in Hollywood. You're

1508
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 3: literally you see it's possible. You could touch it, you

1509
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 3: could feel it, you could taste it, and so it

1510
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 3: feels more obtainable versus if you just turn on Fresh

1511
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:48,919
Speaker 3: Prince of bel At or whatever.

1512
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, yeah, yeah, you get

1513
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 2: that break.

1514
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 4: Speaking of summer and like ways to ease the the

1515
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 4: I guess the chaos of being a mom in the

1516
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 4: summertime when your kid is no longer in school and

1517
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 4: you have seven hours of the day not to yourself

1518
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 4: anymore and releasing control is like the other day, I

1519
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 4: let Iri have ice cream in the morning.

1520
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't give a fuck, I don't

1521
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 2: give a fuck.

1522
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 4: Do whatever you want, just not every morning, but but today,

1523
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 4: you know what, fuck it?

1524
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 2: You want ramen? Take the ramen this morning. It's like

1525
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 2: I'm hungry She's like, actually, can I eat ramen.

1526
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 4: This expectation of being a perfect parent the summer, it's

1527
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 4: just not gonna happen.

1528
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 2: It's just not. In fact, it's for this summertime is

1529
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 2: for you to be the imperfect parent. Try on being

1530
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 2: the imperfect parent.

1531
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 3: Give yourself a break, you know, like it's little Johnny's

1532
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 3: schedule will be okay.

1533
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: Perfectly fucking fine, perfectly fine.

1534
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 4: Just make sure she brushes her teeth or some shit,

1535
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 4: and maybe not, maybe she doesn't, she'll survive. IRI's been

1536
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,959
Speaker 4: having more chores and I actually was online yesterday trying

1537
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 4: to find a chore chart so that I can do

1538
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 4: myself accountable. And I need to get one because I'm

1539
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 4: like not fucking around anymore, Like I really need structure

1540
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 4: in my house. And I feel like this summer with

1541
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 4: her being at the house and wanting to do a

1542
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 4: bunch of shit and messing up all this, I was like,

1543
01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 4: why am I doing the.

1544
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 2: Dishes right now?

1545
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 4: She's in the fucking watching Jesse and I'm doing dishes,

1546
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 4: and I was like, no, this is We're done, this

1547
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 4: is done.

1548
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, So yeah, I think I don't know how. I

1549
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 2: think I think I'm.

1550
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 4: Actually late to this to this thing, and I think,

1551
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 4: what do you think is a good age to start

1552
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 4: implementing chores today?

1553
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 2: No, for your kids, I know I'm saying. I think.

1554
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 2: I think nine eight, I think eight nine. I almost

1555
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 2: feel like six. Yeah. Six.

1556
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:43,920
Speaker 4: They need to know that they have responsibilities and we

1557
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 4: are very like like laundry at six, all you gotta all,

1558
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 4: you gotta make it things. Yeah, I can make it

1559
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 4: fun and just like, bring these clothes and wash Moommi's underwear.

1560
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 2: Thanks, get a stole on the washing. Yeah, it's time

1561
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 2: to just let them handle the household chores. Did you

1562
01:08:04,760 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 2: want to pull a tarot card? Okay, yes, I do.

1563
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 3: You know, while we're waiting for the tarot card, I

1564
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 3: have another announcement. I just thought of it. Psa announcement.

1565
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 3: I'm this is maybe a little bit late, but my

1566
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 3: child Maide Orlando and I watch.

1567
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 2: Straw. Wait, is that the scary movie?

1568
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 4: Oh though, that's the one where she's hunted over like

1569
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 4: that picture I don't know, you know that picture of

1570
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 4: the black woman on the side.

1571
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 2: Of the bed looking all tired.

1572
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, the cover of the fucking that masurance Now yeah, okay,

1573
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 3: So Taraji be Henson Straw Tyler Perry movie. First of all,

1574
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:51,680
Speaker 3: Lunamatus watch it, so I was like, where did you

1575
01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 3: see this before? Like she was like I watched it

1576
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 3: with t t I'm like, okay, within the first forty

1577
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 3: fucking ten minute minutes. But then the first ten minutes

1578
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 3: she gets evicted, they won't give her her check, gets

1579
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 3: fired what and gets gets threatened with her life, Like

1580
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 3: it is so bad. Immediately, I'm like, why the fuck

1581
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 3: are we watching? Everyone said it was so good, she

1582
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 3: did a great performance. But Tyler Perry has got to

1583
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 3: be stopped. He's gotta be stopped. I never seen black

1584
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 3: people depict it so sad and ten minutes it was

1585
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 3: ten minutes of the film, and then it just gets

1586
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 3: worse as it goes. It just it just gradually gets

1587
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 3: worse and worse and worse, and then it gets there's

1588
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 3: just crazy twist at the end, and Lynna.

1589
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 2: Was like, wait, wait, keep watching.

1590
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,640
Speaker 3: Mom's gonna get good. I was like, Luna, I was

1591
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 3: like crying but also mad.

1592
01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 2: I was like, it was like sad even though it

1593
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:54,439
Speaker 2: was like the acting. Did you watch all the way her?

1594
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 3: Yes, she required it. She may just get off her phone.

1595
01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 3: So they had Tiana Taylor there with this tear.

1596
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 2: With a wig. That was not good. Oh no, she

1597
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 2: was a detective, was her acting? It was pretty good.

1598
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 4: Rating went out of ten. What are we doing two Orlando?

1599
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 3: I would say just based on the extreme amount of

1600
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 3: struggle he had to pour into this film that I

1601
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 3: don't think it needed.

1602
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 2: I don't need.

1603
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 3: I don't think any film needs that amount of single

1604
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 3: mom black. It was so sadness. It was really I

1605
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 3: was like, I can't leave my daughter and told me

1606
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 3: to watch this.

1607
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 2: I called her.

1608
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 4: Maybe she thought, like my mom likes she was a

1609
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 4: single mom. She talked single mom stuff. Maybe she'll appreciate that.

1610
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:40,599
Speaker 2: I mean I appreciated it.

1611
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 3: It was a good depiction of being fucked with and

1612
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 3: it's fucking snapping. But I just think Tyler Perry needs

1613
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 3: to be stopped. I want him to make ten joyful Black.

1614
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 2: I don't think he's being stopped at the times.

1615
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 4: In fact, I think there's like a resurgence of Tyler

1616
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,240
Speaker 4: Perry that's happening right now, Like he's actually on top.

1617
01:10:56,280 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 4: He's killing it. He's really killing it in the game.

1618
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 4: I mean, he's that Kerry Washington and movie.

1619
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:03,599
Speaker 2: I respect the hustle you know he's doing a thing. Yeah,

1620
01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 2: I mean I love it.

1621
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 3: I love I you know, honestly, what I said to Orlando,

1622
01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 3: I said I'd love to get cast in one of

1623
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 3: his films.

1624
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:11,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, say, like that's what I said, I'd love. Actually,

1625
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 2: i'd love Is this your audition talking about it? He

1626
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 2: has to be Orlando.

1627
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 4: Delete that, delete that part because we both might be

1628
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 4: on sister's divorce next month.

1629
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 3: And guess when I'm packing my shirt and going to

1630
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 3: Atlanta so fast.

1631
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 2: So actually we're gonna have to cut that.

1632
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 3: I loved Straw Withji Taraji Pete Henson.

1633
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 2: It was great. It was phenomenal. Well, our friend is

1634
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 2: actually on Tyler Perry Show and I watched it. It

1635
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 2: was pretty good. I know I have to watch that

1636
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 2: one too. Jade Nova shout out to Jade the people.

1637
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 2: She the people. People people like that. Yeah, okay, well

1638
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,680
Speaker 2: is it terroot tyme? It is terroot tyme. That was

1639
01:11:50,760 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 2: is really I had to get that out. The twos today,

1640
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 2: the two pinnacles.

1641
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 4: Upright, multiple priorities, time, management, prioritization, adaptability. When the two

1642
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 4: pinnacles appears in a tarot reading, it's safe to say

1643
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:19,759
Speaker 4: you are juggling your priorities, roles, and responsibilities. For example,

1644
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 4: you may be a working parent, a general manager of

1645
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 4: a business, an administrative assistant in a busy office, or

1646
01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 4: someone who works multiple jobs. In the upright position, this

1647
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 4: card notes that you're doing an excellent job of balancing

1648
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 4: these different priorities and you can take on whatever life

1649
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 4: throws at you because you're letting your kid eat ramen

1650
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 4: in the morning. But this too reminds you that the

1651
01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 4: line between coping with these demands and losing control is thin.

1652
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:43,439
Speaker 2: Oh shit.

1653
01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:46,639
Speaker 4: You need to manage your time, energy, and resources carefully

1654
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 4: so you don't lose your balance. The Two Pinnacles invites

1655
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 4: you to manage your time and your priorities carefully. You

1656
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 4: may benefit from a to do list. Basic time management

1657
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 4: is crucial to your ability to juggle these various priorities

1658
01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 4: and keep your head above water. This card calls your

1659
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 4: awareness to the concept of balance and those parts of

1660
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 4: your life when you have it and those where you don't.

1661
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 4: While you can strive for equilibrium, nothing ever stays in

1662
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:09,799
Speaker 4: perfect harmony.

1663
01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 2: It's likely.

1664
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 4: So when the Two Pinnacles appears in a terror reading,

1665
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:18,400
Speaker 4: see it as a reminder to be patient, flexible, and

1666
01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:24,759
Speaker 4: adaptable as you try to juggle your responsibilities with your family, friends, work, finances, health,

1667
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:26,520
Speaker 4: and new challenges.

1668
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:32,560
Speaker 2: Yep, sounds about right adaptability. Yeah, it's summertime, baby, you

1669
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:33,360
Speaker 2: gotta be adaptable.

1670
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 3: The world is crumbling. It's summertime. Okad is home, and

1671
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:37,920
Speaker 3: you've got to just go with the flow.

1672
01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 4: Literally stressing out trying to be the perfect parent this summer, Like,

1673
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:44,880
Speaker 4: don't fucking do it?

1674
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 3: Hot Growls Summer, Hot grow Summer, Hot Mom Summer. Still

1675
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 3: didn't we do that one summer? It's like hot Mom Summer.

1676
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 3: That's been one of our themes. Yeah, and also slut

1677
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 3: over June was one.

1678
01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 2: We did that. That's amazing.

1679
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 3: That was one of my favorite. That story was so

1680
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 3: good goodness. Do you have a horri or do we

1681
01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 3: have any?

1682
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 2: I don't think we have any written any hories that

1683
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 2: I can share who stories? I mean, it's not like

1684
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 2: a super horry at the retreat.

1685
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:29,880
Speaker 4: So we're at the couple's retreat and they're like we

1686
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 4: we are in the energy of just exploration and adventure

1687
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 4: and just opening things up to one another and witnessing

1688
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:42,839
Speaker 4: couples like their their relationships.

1689
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 2: Open and bloom.

1690
01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 4: And that ship made me fucking horny, Like I was

1691
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 4: very horny at the couple's retreat, Like.

1692
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 2: Truly that was at work, but I mean I was

1693
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 2: with my man. My job is to be My job

1694
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 2: is my man. I'm working with my man, and we're.

1695
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 4: Like we're teaching made We're teaching about people into out intimacy. Yeah,

1696
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 4: I mean, like we were showing in one of the

1697
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 4: workshops that we did, we had this feather, and so

1698
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:14,720
Speaker 4: of course I had to practice. So I blindfolded to

1699
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 4: Kim and I traced his body up and down with

1700
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 4: this like beautiful long black feather, and I think, like

1701
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:26,679
Speaker 4: what I loved about this experience too, was like really

1702
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 4: being able to discover parts of your partner that like

1703
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 4: otherwise you may have not known like or been like

1704
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 4: or like yeah, like you know, like are you even

1705
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 4: putting a feather near like your man's balls, Like you

1706
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 4: would think that that tickled, and like I did that,

1707
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:43,880
Speaker 4: nothing happened.

1708
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:48,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well not the balls, then, huh have

1709
01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 2: had about the inner thigh? Oh okay?

1710
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so I guess my cup, my hory is

1711
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:56,599
Speaker 4: just like the exploration of my man with this feather

1712
01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 4: and then after that, like like we just his We

1713
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 4: were just so turned on. We like fucked outside. We

1714
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 4: fucked on the patio out by the like in the

1715
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,719
Speaker 4: jungle with the sounds and like you just hear the

1716
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 4: birds chirping and the monkeys howling at the tree.

1717
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1718
01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:15,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, because our little you know, was off tucked off

1719
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 4: in the corner of the jungle. So being able to

1720
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:23,799
Speaker 4: make love outside in nature, like the stickiness of our skin,

1721
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 4: like all of that, it felt like a movie.

1722
01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 2: I was like, is this real. I'm like, holy shit, because.

1723
01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 4: Like we've been I've been going to Costa Rica, you

1724
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 4: know for a long time now, but never with like

1725
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 4: a lover. I've had rendezvous, but like being able to

1726
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 4: make love with the person that you love in that environment,

1727
01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 4: with your nervous system regulated, with like knowing that you're

1728
01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:49,960
Speaker 4: in the supportive energy of love literally and I don't know,

1729
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:52,799
Speaker 4: like feeling so in such alignment with like my purpose

1730
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 4: and what I'm and what I'm doing, and like, I

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01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 4: don't know. It was just like that night I came

1732
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,559
Speaker 4: so hard because I was just like literally I felt

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01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 4: like I was It wasn't always manifesting, I was experiencing

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01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:04,760
Speaker 4: the manifestation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was your it was. It wasn't me

1736
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 2: like wishing for something. It was like, this is it?

1737
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:13,560
Speaker 2: I have it here, the first of my manifestation exactly. Yeah,

1738
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 2: so that's my horry. Beautiful. That was beautiful. Are we

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01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:19,559
Speaker 2: missing anything? Oh?

1740
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 3: Do you have an affirmation? Do you have an affirmation thinking?

1741
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 3: Don't let those kids stop you from being a bad bitch.

1742
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 2: Don't let those kids stop you from being a bad bitch.

1743
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 2: Not this summer, not ever, it'slot ever, sleetever.

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Speaker 4: All right, guys, Well, thanks for joining us. Make sure

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Speaker 4: you follow us on all podcast platforms. Good Mom's Bad

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01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 4: Choices on Instagram.

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01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:55,240
Speaker 2: Follow our TikTok. I don't know what it is, but

1748
01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 2: I'll put it in the link. I think it's good

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01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:58,639
Speaker 2: mom to that choice. Is it okay? Because I felt

1750
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:00,479
Speaker 2: like we got deleted and I don't know changed. I

1751
01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 2: don't know. Follow the Good Vibratree, Yes, follow the studio.

1752
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 3: If you have a aspiration of podcasting and you're in

1753
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 3: the LA area, come to Good Good Media. And if

1754
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 3: you want to come out of the country and escape

1755
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:16,759
Speaker 3: this motherfucking place, do it this week. There's a code

1756
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 3: escape and we leave July thirty first. In August eighth

1757
01:18:21,160 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 3: and we'll be in Costa Rica with our titties out,

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01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:26,919
Speaker 3: eating fresh fruit and drinking water and besetting our nervous systems,

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01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 3: and we want you to be with us.

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Speaker 2: To do Lashay. All right, we see that's aday. I love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm living it so good. Can't you tell I

1762
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: went through a drought. That's until I find a well

1763
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: may my have been known earth? I used to be

1764
01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:43,679
Speaker 1: broken tail, now got the Blues Dans and might Beyonce

1765
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 1: Jasell throat shots with popping this cow wearing our voices.

1766
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 1: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploid us. Women

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01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 1: put the pi and powers.

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01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 2: So what's point? Do they want me to be good?

1769
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 2: So I made bad choices? Bad mom, not a bad mom,

1770
01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:57,559
Speaker 2: but a bad mom.

1771
01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:01,599
Speaker 1: Gitter's in put cannapus in their backs, walked in Boston's cap,

1772
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: and I blew his cat boss tip dog.

1773
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 2: Now I'm immune to the cat.

1774
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 1: Called Herbie in the waisted straight to it like a

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01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:08,080
Speaker 1: dollar sign.

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01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:09,599
Speaker 2: Mother, rent the lover when to it.

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01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 1: It's like a water sign where you're rent the winter

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01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 1: essential will when the summertime.

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Speaker 2: I do it all. Ain't no one that needs to

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Speaker 2: run it by