WEBVTT - “I FOUND A SUGAR DADDY IN VR” 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:00.280 Hi. 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:01.720 What's your name? Hi? 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:03.360 My name's Amber. 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:06.720 Amber. What's going on? Amber? How's life today? 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:09.480 Doing good? How are you? 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:15.400 Gek? You know I'm doing okay. Today was a bit 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:20.360 of a crap shoot, But you know, I thought I 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:22.320 was done. I thought I was done with crap shoots. 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.239 But crap shoots, I don't know if you've ever really 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:24.759 done with them. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.240 But anyway, it keeps coming. 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:29.520 Yeah, it keeps coming. But you deal with it, you 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:33.120 manage it, you figure out how to keep going. Well, 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:34.760 what's up, Amber? Would you want to talk about today? 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:39.280 I kind of wanted to talk about a recent situation 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:44.879 I got myself into. So I recently got like a 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:49.120 meta quest dr headset and I've been playing this game 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:53.320 called dr Chat and it's a lot of fun. Essentially, 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:58.520 it's like chat room style. And I ran into a 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:02.960 very interesting character the other night, literally like three nights ago, 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:06.040 and I was a little bit drunk of drinking, having 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:09.160 a good time with couples friends, and we ended up 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:12.760 just chatting, kind of flirting a little bit. Well flirting 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.600 kind of led to a little bit more. Uh ended 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.440 up doing a little bit of sexting, a little bit 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:23.800 of cam stuff, and Uh, the night. Afterwards, he messaged 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:25.919 me and was like, hey, okay, hold on, hold. 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.759 On, hold on, I want I want you to finish this. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.280 I want you to finish this story. But before you do, 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:34.920 I have I have a lot of questions. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:37.960 This happened very quickly too. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:42.600 When you are when you say that you were guys 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:47.600 were sexting and doing cam stuff, now VR chat your 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:51.880 your different characters right, like was he knuckles the echidna 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:55.560 and you were like Princess Peach? Like what were or 0:01:55.720 --> 0:02:01.279 was it just like were you were you sexting in character? Uh? 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:04.919 No, So we took it to discord. 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:10.200 Okay, okay, who was his carrot? Who was his character? 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.680 Honestly, it was like some e boy style thing. It 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:18.560 was actually not even my type of thing. But he 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:22.160 was pretty smooth, I gotta say, uh for a young adult. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.160 He was like twenty two. 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.359 Okay, can I ask how old you are? 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:30.079 I'm thirty three. 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:36.360 And I'm curious why, like did you you never like 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:39.600 saw this guy's face, did you? And like like when 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.360 you when you brought him? When you when you brought 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:48.320 I guess I guess like this is the extremely online 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.440 version of like bringing someone back home from the bar 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:56.919 is bringing them into a private discord server essentially, And 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:58.160 what was it about him? 0:02:58.200 --> 0:02:58.320 Then? 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:02.240 Yeah? Yeah, But so I'm curious what was it about him? 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:04.840 Because I assume you couldn't see his face? What was 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:07.800 it about him that attracted you to that point where 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:09.839 you guys were doing that stuff if you didn't even 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:11.160 know what he looked like? 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:16.440 To be honest, he was kind of sweet, a little flirty, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:19.600 but not like too heavy handed flirty. You know, you run 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:22.800 into guys and they go like, ooh, a little uncomfortable. Sure, 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:28.360 And I was also quite inebriated, so of course I 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.280 let my body do the talking for myself. 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:36.760 Okay, all right, So you guys were like sexting as 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:38.320 real human beings. 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:40.920 As real human beings. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.960 And were you did you like like when you answered 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:46.360 the like I guess when you do that with a stranger, right, 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:49.960 like when you answer the video call? Are you already naked? 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:52.000 Or is there a little bit of high what's your name? 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.040 I'm so and so nice to meet you? 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:59.480 So not originally naked? It was super super lated at night, 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:03.200 so of course, like in Pajannys the like, not super 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:07.760 like covered up, did a little bit of talking of 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.600 like Hi, how are you? The snee thisew kind of 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:14.800 see each other. And then of course that escalated very quickly. 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:19.680 And I don't know if you know much about vr chat, 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:25.320 but there's a lot of personal toys that are long distance. 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:27.080 WHOA what? 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:28.040 How tell? 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:35.520 How So there's like personal toys that you can download 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.640 an app for and control from a distance. 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:44.800 Okay, and so wait, so so you have like a 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.600 vibrator that with an app and you can get you 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:50.159 can you were You're like, hey, download this app and 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.680 you can use the you can press a button that 0:04:52.760 --> 0:05:01.520 makes the vibrator work. While he's like, yes, interesting, I 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:04.640 feel like I don't know why. Well, no, here's the 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:06.599 thing is. I feel like like if I was hooking 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.480 up with someone and they were like, hey, in order 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.559 for us to do this, you have to download an app, 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:12.200 I'd be like, I'm just not gonna do it. I 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:16.160 I can't. I'm I've been horny. And let me tell 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:18.320 you something. I've been horny enough to put my credit 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:22.880 card information in with one hand while I masturbate with 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.280 the other one. But I will not download an app 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.200 out of horniness. 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:26.680 That is. 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:30.480 Where I draw the line. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.039 That's fair, that's fair. 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:38.039 Okay, so tell me more about this this situation. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:43.560 So that happens. The next morning, I wake up obviously 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:47.560 super hungover. He messages me and tells me that he 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:53.200 would like to buy me some gifts I have like 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.960 in my bio on dr chat that I am saving 0:05:56.040 --> 0:06:00.279 for full body trackers, and I was. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:00.520 Like, hey, I. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.240 Full what is What are full body? 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:10.960 Full body trackers? Essentially you can see entire movements in 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:14.640 VR chat as opposed to just like hands or things 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:21.040 like that, so it's a very like immersive experience. So 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.359 I make a little wishless and I say little wishless. 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:27.359 It was essentially everything that I would need for a 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:31.760 startup of full body trackers, coming to about eleven hundred 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:36.040 dollars worth of stuff. He messages me a couple hours 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:39.000 later with a screenshot that he has purchased me my 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:44.440 entire giftness and asked if I would come play video 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:48.440 games with him that night. So, uh, me, being who 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:50.839 I am, I was like, okay, well that's a lot. 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:54.120 Felt a little bit uncomfortable in a way, but at 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.000 the same time, I was like, like kind of wanted 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:58.839 all this stuff, So I have a bit of a 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:02.839 moral lima there ended up playing games and he's a 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:06.320 super nice guy, definitely not my type, eleven years younger 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:12.040 than me, so it's kind of weird. But I don't 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:12.920 know what to do. 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.559 You don't know what to do. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:26.200 Yeah, Basically, when I when I ended up logging into 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:29.280 like play video games with him, I definitely made it 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:32.560 super clear that I was like, hey, I'm not I 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:35.559 don't want to like take these things with the intent 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:39.120 of like being your girlfriend or anything like that. Like, essentially, 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:45.800 this is a super transactional situation. So I will spend 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:51.240 time with you if you buy anythings. And he was like, yeah, 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:53.400 definitely wait wait. 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:58.480 Wait, oh wait, okay, so you will you will be 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:01.800 I'm I'm sorry if I if I'm getting this incorrect. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.440 But you said that, like, you won't be his girlfriend 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.960 if he buys you stuff, but then you said you will. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:12.280 No, that I definitely won't be his girlfriend, but I 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:17.280 would spend time with him, like play video games or 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:22.800 whatnot for compensation. 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:29.200 You will, you will spend time with him as long 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:30.880 as he keeps buying you stuff. 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:35.520 Essentially, yeah, and is that. 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:40.199 Time implied by you to be purely platonic? 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:41.720 Yes? 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:52.400 Okay, why why do you want to spend time with 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:57.520 this guy. I mean, is it just to get stuff? Yeah? 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:01.200 Kind of like that's where my dilima because I've never 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:07.040 been that kind of person. And I had this happen now, 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.839 and I'm like, well, would it be foolish of me 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:14.680 not to take that if that's what he wants to do? 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.200 So funny enoughter like, I brought this up to my 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.080 sister and I was like, hey, this is what happened, 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:23.480 and she's like, you know, that's like a kink. It's 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:27.360 called like pay pig of guys who essentially just want 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:33.160 to buy you things and you treat them kind of 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:33.720 like shit. 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:40.600 Okay, this guy wants and you told and you were 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:45.080 this guy wants you to treat him like shit in 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:50.760 exchange for buying things for you. He's that he's expressed 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:53.199 that to you, not in. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:56.440 Those words, but I've made my side clear on it. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.440 And he was like, yeah, no, I'm in, I'm game. 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:11.640 Okay, what's your name? My name's Amber, amberm get I mean, 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:15.360 get it get into this with me here, right, because 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:17.440 look because look, well let me let me ask you. 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.320 I mean I want to ask you a few things genuinely, 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:23.720 is like, do you want do you want to Actually, 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:25.679 I'm gonna ask I'm gonna ask you this straight up. 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:31.600 Amber you said, yes, Do you like your life? 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:32.200 Yeah? 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:32.800 Absolutely? 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:34.240 Really? 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.000 Oh yeah, one hundred percent. 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:40.960 Okay, Okay, what do you like about your life? 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:46.240 I love my family, I have a great home. I 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:50.160 work hard, I'm very successful. What I do am I 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.680 not like filthy rich or anything like that. I do 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:57.199 well off. I have a great set of friends and 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.360 a great support system. And obviously, like it wasn't always 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.520 like that in my life, but at this point in 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.680 my life, I'm probably at the happiest I've been in 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:06.280 a long time. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:11.680 Okay, do you Are you hoping to get into some 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.240 form of romantic relationship. 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:16.160 At some point? 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:21.200 But I got out of a pretty shitty relationship about 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:25.520 two years ago and since then have not really heavily 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.480 seeked out one. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:31.400 Okay, So yeah, Well, I'm glad to hear that you 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.760 like your life. That's good, Thank you. Do you do 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:42.160 you believe that engaging in this situation, especially considering what 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:44.040 you told me about how you seem like you're doing 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:48.120 pretty okay financially, do you believe that engaging in this 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:52.080 situation will improve your life. 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:03.120 Materialistically? Potentially, but not in a not in like a 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:04.480 mental or emotional way. 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:10.480 Do you believe it has the potential to deteriorate your 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.320 life in any mental or emotional way? 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:13.600 Oh? 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.400 Yeah, okay? 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:18.120 Do you never know what people online? 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:20.400 Right? And and would you say that. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:24.400 It? 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.920 Would it? Would you say? And? And by the way, 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:30.480 you know these are just these are all genuine questions 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:36.559 to answer. You know, I don't believe in they're being 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:41.520 right or wrong answers necessarily to these questions. But uh, 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:44.800 would would the material enrichment of your life to the 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:50.800 tune of eleven hundred dollars of VR equipment be worth 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:59.120 truly any amount of but be worth a undefined in 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:03.600 your words, amount of mental anguish if you were to 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.640 if you were to ask me, I would say no. 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:10.880 If you were to ask me, I would say no, 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.839 but I don't live your life. If you were asked me, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.320 I would say no, but I don't live your life. 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:16.960 You live your life. And so you have to answer 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:18.559 that question. But that's the question to ask. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.160 Yeah, no, definitely, it wouldn't be worth it. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:28.959 No, So what do you do? Go? Enjoy your life? 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:35.400 Get off? I mean I tried to go. I try 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.560 to be passive in these calls, and I genuinely do 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:42.200 believe that to be my favorite way of communicating with people. 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:43.560 But also in the back of my head, I just 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:45.480 want to be like, get the fuck off of vr chat. 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.880 If you have such a great life, I mean, Jesus Christ. 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:53.800 You know, so true, so true. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.000 Well, yeah, I mean, let this. I don't know what. 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.600 I don't know what up with this uh this, this 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:06.120 twenty two year old dude in vr chat who's like 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:09.800 dropping Well, yeah, well, well it's I don't know. I 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.040 don't know where he's getting his money from. I don't 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:23.480 know if it's it's it's not. Yeah anyway, Yeah, for sure, 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:28.520 I've learned. Every every time I, uh learn more about 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:32.760 vr chat, I'm like I I walk away every Honestly, 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.120 every time I learn more about vr chat, I walk 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:36.280 away a little sadder. 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:39.120 Oh I'm so sorry. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.280 No you didn't do it. No, No, it's not your 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:47.080 faults even at all. It's uh vrch everything, this, this, 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:52.560 this situation. I'm you know, I have a vaguely I'm developed. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.440 I don't I don't think it's healthy, but I'm developing 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:59.640 a vaguely deterministic view of society and so the situation 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:04.960 that you're talking about, where it's like like everything, this 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.640 entire the society that we live in, that's the basis 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:11.160 of this phone call, almost feels like it could have 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:14.760 been It was just inevitable, and now we're we have 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:22.160 to navigate it with our human consciousness and choice or 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:25.120 we don't or or or or our inability to do 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:28.320 so is inevitable too. Okay, I'm wow, I'm I'm being 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:31.080 a I'm being a I'm being a fucking I'm being 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:32.120 a douchebag right now. 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:34.200 You're all good? 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:36.440 Amber? Is there anything else you want to say to 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:37.760 the people of the computer before we go? 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:44.440 Stay golden, beautiful, Okay, good luck Amber. 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.160 That's what I don't get. I don't know. I don't 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:58.440 know some people, dude, some people, And I I genuinely 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:02.480 meant it. I was genuinely curious when I asked her 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:05.560 if she liked her life, and I think she was 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:09.320 telling the truth when she said she did. And I 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.360 don't want to knock on people who play video games 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:14.400 or spend a lot of time online, but I can't 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:18.600 imagine that spending massive, massive, massive, massive massive amounts of 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:25.200 time online to the point where you're you know, living 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:29.240 in VR chat, staring at a VR mirror or whatever. 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:34.280 I can't imagine that is compatible with being that happy 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.840 with your life. But I and you know what and 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:42.920 you know what, to meet someone, to talk to someone 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:46.040 who is telling me that you actually can spend that 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:50.080 much time online and declare yourself to enjoy your life. 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:52.920 That actually makes me happy. So I actually I walk 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:58.640 away from this VR chat related phone call more optimistic 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:01.720 about the future. I would I would love to talk 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.639 to the twenty two year old kid and ask him 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:08.800 the same question, but he might not even be real, 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:15.520 and neither may I. All right, let's keep going Hello. 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:16.679 Hello, can you hear me? 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:18.720 Hi? Yes, I can. What's your name? 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:20.960 My name's Crystal. I'm going to try to talk slow 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:21.879 so you can understand me. 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.520 Crystal. What's going on, Crystal? How you doing? 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:28.560 Oh? I mean in general, I'm breathing. I'm here, I'm alive. 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:29.560 So that's good. 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:30.440 Yeah. 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:34.600 Uh that been better, also been worse. So I can't bit. 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:40.359 You can't brag, you know, Yeah, yeah, yeah it is. 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:43.600 It is so interesting. Ah God, I want to you 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.560 know what, Crystal. I was about to go wax poetic 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:50.240 about the answer. To the question of whether or not 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:51.960 you're doing good, but it's going to send me on 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:55.040 a whole useless rant. So I'm gonna stop myself and 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:57.720 I'm going to ask you, Crystal, if there was any 0:17:57.760 --> 0:17:59.840 particular thing that you called in today I want to 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:00.440 talk talk about. 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:07.359 I guess yeah. Actually, so for the first time, look sorry, 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:11.639 for the first time in my entire life, I started 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:15.160 a new job and I feel like I'm being bullied. 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:17.000 It sounds like a ridiculous I know, I hate say 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.560 the word bully because it's so fucking stupid, but it's 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:23.200 like I've never been to a place where people are 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:27.800 just annoyed with my presence. Like I know I'm annoying, 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:31.600 but it's just it's too much. So anyways, there's I'm 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:34.840 calling you is because I started watching you or listening 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:38.199 to you or whatever while network, and you know, it 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:40.840 seems like you are pretty good at what you do 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:44.120 as far as giving just your opinion, and I need 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:48.800 like a opinion on how to or what to do. 0:18:49.040 --> 0:18:51.760 You know, do I put my job? Do I tell 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:52.480 them to get fucked? 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:52.879 Like? 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:55.159 It sounds so stupid now that I'm saying out. 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:59.760 Loud, Well, I have I have a couple of questions, 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:01.720 and I also just an observation. I mean, first of all, 0:19:01.720 --> 0:19:04.600 the fact that you said, uh, I know, I am 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:10.920 annoying is like, you know, well, you know what. Okay, 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:16.119 let's let's let's do this. Okay, So Crystal, your name 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:16.520 is right? 0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:17.760 Correct? 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:19.040 Uh? 0:19:19.040 --> 0:19:19.800 What's this job? 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:26.119 Inventory? And let me do a little side side talking 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.240 just so you know, it's hard for me to find 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:30.439 a job. I'll have a record, and it took me 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:32.960 a long time to find a job, So just keep 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:33.640 that in mind as well. 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:36.119 You said you have you have a record, so it 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:37.480 took you a long time to find a job. 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:43.600 Yes, yes, correct, And the imps on disability for a 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:45.159 good portion of my life and then you know, so 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:47.199 that's comes into play too, so you know. 0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:50.360 Anyways, okay, so so you got a job in inventory 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:52.960 and you're being tell me about what do you mean 0:19:52.960 --> 0:19:53.960 by your being bullied? 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:57.160 I love this deest like correct word, and it seems 0:19:57.160 --> 0:20:00.920 like it's like a word but aitherway. So I mean 0:20:01.000 --> 0:20:03.920 what I mean by that is I start this job 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:08.440 and I am supposed to be trained, trained, like in 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:11.000 any kind of job, you know, but I just get 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:14.280 barely trained and stuck in like the this place of 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:17.399 the store where nobody really wants to do accounting because 0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:20.119 it's you know, it's just annoying part of the story. 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:25.360 So anyway, hold on a second, then care anyways though, 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:27.800 and then they tell me, okay, well you know you 0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:30.520 got account faster and then you'll get moved moved out 0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:35.359 of there. Okay, Well three months later, I'm seeing people 0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:37.960 go past me and you know this and that, so 0:20:38.080 --> 0:20:42.240 i'll you know, anything else subject here. Yeah. Anyway, so 0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:47.439 while I'm doing my job, I'm hearing like I can 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:50.960 just send people, you know, untibody's talking about you, or 0:20:51.000 --> 0:20:54.879 you're walking in a conversation that's like about you and 0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:56.760 they just stop and you just know that they're talking 0:20:56.760 --> 0:21:00.400 about you, right mm hmm. 0:21:01.760 --> 0:21:04.400 No, you know you know I do because well, well, 0:21:04.800 --> 0:21:10.960 well I I confuse you. No, no, no, it's it's 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:13.000 not that it confuses me. But go ahead, I want 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:13.359 to leave. 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:17.800 You finish, okay, So you know it's not like that's 0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:20.399 just maybe Okay, I'm known to be a little crazy, 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:23.159 like on the books. Whatever it comes. It runs in 0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:25.399 my blood, you know, it's my family side. But anyways, 0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:28.480 so maybe it's just me. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. 0:21:28.480 --> 0:21:31.239 And you know, so I know, I tried to law 0:21:31.280 --> 0:21:33.800 schooboy one, you know, just taking this set back, and 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:37.720 as the days go by, I'm realizing that I'm not 0:21:37.800 --> 0:21:41.080 being paranoid, that I have, you know, confirmation that my 0:21:41.280 --> 0:21:45.199 direct supervisor is like talking shit about me, but not 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:48.760 only to the other employees but like to other people 0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:51.400 by as well. And it's not even like good crap, 0:21:51.520 --> 0:21:55.560 like it's nothing that's all, you know, anything exciting even 0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:59.119 it's just like you know, I'm basically because they're all 0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:01.679 a lot younger than me, so that doesn't help. You know, 0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:05.399 it's basically just talking ship, just stupid ship. Like I 0:22:05.480 --> 0:22:11.600 can explain it, but you know, I'm making yeah, yeah, 0:22:11.680 --> 0:22:15.960 and then no, and then it gets me feeling sometime 0:22:16.000 --> 0:22:18.280 way obviously, you know, and I just I don't know, 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:20.200 it's weird. I've never been in a job to do 0:22:20.200 --> 0:22:22.840 where I can't or any I'm in a situation in 0:22:22.840 --> 0:22:25.520 general to where I'm not ever like speak my mind 0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:28.040 like usually may get more than welcome, you know, or 0:22:28.080 --> 0:22:31.560 more than expected, and uh, in this situation, it's like 0:22:33.119 --> 0:22:34.800 they made me like they made me feel bad, which 0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:38.000 sucked up so It's like, do I quit until we 0:22:38.040 --> 0:22:41.680 suck them and then have no income and then spend 0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:44.000 the next year trying to find another job? Or do 0:22:44.080 --> 0:22:45.640 I just I mean, where do you go from here? 0:22:45.680 --> 0:22:47.760 I'm not the type to really be like a little 0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:51.000 contact A Well, that's just not me. I'm not the 0:22:51.040 --> 0:22:52.960 type of person that doesn't the type of shit. You know. 0:22:53.000 --> 0:23:02.359 I feel like, Okay, why I I well, I I 0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:05.600 have a few thoughts. 0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:08.040 So this is an inventory? Is this is this? Is 0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:10.560 this a job at a big company? 0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:14.879 You we go so basically we go to like Dollar Generals, 0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:18.400 dollar Tree, damn the dollars and for some reason try 0:23:18.480 --> 0:23:20.879 to supply and account you get out there through all 0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:21.880 the products in the store. 0:23:22.920 --> 0:23:25.280 Is this a job? Well, okay, before because we were 0:23:25.280 --> 0:23:26.040 talking about HR? 0:23:26.240 --> 0:23:26.439