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Speaker 1: She's telling people for the next twenty years, I went

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is us Spencer's Back in the day when

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Speaker 1: the mall was the mall. You know, it's a little

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Speaker 1: different now, I don't even know. I'm sure it still exists,

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Speaker 1: but that's there. It was a little edgy Spencer's. You know,

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Speaker 1: you go like towards the back and it was like ooh,

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Speaker 1: this is a little start right. It's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm that head back there and you know, it's like

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Speaker 1: like like Golo in the dark grateful dead posters, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, whoa, what are you doing? Like it was

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Speaker 1: a whole new world in the fact that specildhood.

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Speaker 2: A recent peace in British Vogue, I think actually, I

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Speaker 2: think you will agree with this. Maybe you should listen

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Speaker 2: before you tell me if you agree or not disagree.

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Speaker 2: Actually I think you wrote this, then do it. Then

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: You're on spirit and you.

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Speaker 3: Do you want I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you want to take it on spirit and you

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Speaker 2: can do whatever you want it. It's a wild world

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Speaker 2: inside that cabin. A recent piece in British Vogue argues

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Speaker 2: that women are posting less about their partners, and in

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Speaker 2: some cases feel that simply having a boyfriend is culturally

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Speaker 2: loser ish I love you, hear the whole sentence.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is embarrassing to have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, women, many women. The women many women reference to

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Speaker 2: fear of needing to scrub posts if things end, or

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Speaker 2: being judged for being too coupled. Some say being single

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Speaker 2: has become the new status symbol. Getting experts say, the

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Speaker 2: issue is at relationships per se. It's when someone lets

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Speaker 2: a partnership define their entire identity, which I don't know

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Speaker 2: how that would I don't know how being married or

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Speaker 2: in a you know, committed non marital relationship, I don't

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Speaker 2: know why that matters. You have to do all the

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Speaker 2: same things if you get married too and then divorce,

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Speaker 2: which a lot of people do, which half of people do,

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Speaker 2: so I guess I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know the difference.

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Speaker 2: What's the difference between having Why would it be embarrassing

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Speaker 2: to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend and in this

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Speaker 2: case boyfriend specifically versus getting divorced?

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Speaker 1: Isn't that embarrassing too?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: I mean, no, it's absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Is embarrassing Paulina based on this argument, based on the

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Speaker 2: argument that you would have to scrub your social media

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Speaker 2: if you break up with someone, how is it any

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Speaker 2: different if you're married to.

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Speaker 1: Them and get divorced.

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Speaker 5: Well, Fred, I don't like that part that whole, Like

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Speaker 5: scrubbing social media like.

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Speaker 3: That point house a friendship any different?

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Speaker 5: No, like I'll lead a friendship like that doesn't matter

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Speaker 5: to me at all.

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Speaker 1: You're playing to Dooku again, You're always playing.

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Speaker 3: I love this article, and I'm actually writing something very similar

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Speaker 3: to this, So.

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Speaker 5: I am like, Hull, we'll see if I pick it up, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: catch me outside, but we'll see if they pick it up.

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Speaker 5: But I'm writing one about how I'll never get remarried again,

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Speaker 5: like if I get divorced and potentially date Like you

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Speaker 5: guys know, I'm going on my little dates.

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Speaker 3: Everyone getting a date with me, but I'm not. I'm

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Speaker 3: not like gonna take it a step forward. We're not

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Speaker 2: But my point is in this argument, it says, yes,

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Speaker 2: it's embarrassing to have a boyfriend because women reference fear

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Speaker 2: of needing to scrub post if things end. You would

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Speaker 2: have to do that in any at the end of

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Speaker 2: any relationship, friendship, or being judged being coupled, saying that

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Speaker 2: being singles become the new status symbol and that people

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Speaker 2: let a partnership to find their identity also something that

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Speaker 2: could happen in a marriage.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so I guess I don't.

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Speaker 2: Understand how I think the issue here is breaking up

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Speaker 2: is embarrassing because because these aren't things that are exclusive

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Speaker 2: to boyfriend girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: I hear you, breaking up can be embarrassing. I think

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Speaker 5: this article that I've read this article over and over

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Speaker 5: and over. I think it's an amazing article.

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Speaker 3: I think what she's.

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Speaker 5: Saying is like, having a boyfriend is a liability for

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Speaker 5: a lot of women. And that's a big talk, a

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Speaker 5: big conversation on TikTok too, like it truly is having

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Speaker 5: a partner is liability?

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Speaker 3: Well, i'm you Fred Hayter Lauren saying more man.

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Speaker 1: Bashing eight three five if you have, because this isn't

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Speaker 1: talking about girlfriends.

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Speaker 2: This is from the female perspective. Yes, and and and

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Speaker 2: the quote is or her statement is yes, and it

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Speaker 2: doesn't really matter why even though I think it applies

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Speaker 2: to any relationship. Can I think that I would like

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Speaker 2: to know do you have a boyfriend and are you

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Speaker 2: embarrassed of said boyfriend in a way that you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: be embarrassed of a husband.

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Speaker 3: Well, I can embarrass you too, like to hear you

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Speaker 3: on that.

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Speaker 2: And the article is more about independent self identity outside

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Speaker 2: of partner changing norms about how relationships are displayed. Yes,

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Speaker 2: but I get I guess if I'm independent and I

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Speaker 2: have self identity outstead of a partner, that I'm not

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Speaker 2: embarrassed by my boyfriend because I stand on my own too. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so this is, in my opinion, this whole thing, it

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Speaker 2: contradicts itself all over the place.

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Speaker 3: I think, yes and no.

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of times when women get into relationships,

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Speaker 5: you see the baddies, you know, getting taken off the streets,

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Speaker 5: and you know, she's in a relationship. I'm serious, and

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Speaker 5: like her content's a little more watered down, or she

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Speaker 5: might not be outside as much because she's in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: And that's natural, it happens, right.

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Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of people change when they

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Speaker 5: get into a relationship or they get married. Now, making

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Speaker 5: your whole identity, that's annoying. And she said it in

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Speaker 5: the article too. She goes, if I was to see you,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, on the beaches doing this and that,

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Speaker 5: and all of a sudden, it's just like you and

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Speaker 5: your husband in the kitchen, that's all your content.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm on following you.

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Speaker 2: Why are we judging our actual lives on what your

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Speaker 2: content is.

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Speaker 5: I think she's just pointing that out as far as

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Speaker 5: like I think that's a problem. I know, Well that's

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Speaker 5: what she's saying, and it's like I see what she's

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Speaker 5: saying in terms of like we we make our relationship

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Speaker 5: our identity, or we can some women do.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying, oh women, but some women can.

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Speaker 5: And I think that's like what she's pointing out too,

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Speaker 5: is like you're really absorbed in this relationship and like

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Speaker 5: it's kind of embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: That's what she's saying.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but how.

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Speaker 2: Does that apply to just a boyfriend versus a husband too?

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Speaker 2: I mean, is it like I'm doing this for someone who?

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Speaker 6: Who?

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Speaker 2: And I also don't know why the man has to

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Speaker 2: take all of the ownership every time in that. It's like,

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Speaker 2: so what I was going to say is so you're

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Speaker 2: saying it's embarrassing that I'm committed to this dual identity,

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Speaker 2: but you haven't quote unquote pulled the trigger. But again,

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Speaker 2: she's talking about self identity and self independence, So then

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Speaker 2: it wouldn't matter whether I pull the trigger or not

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Speaker 2: because you're your own person, your own figure, So it

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Speaker 2: doesn't actually matter whether it shouldn't matter based on her

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Speaker 2: argument whether we're married or not, I shouldn't be embarrassed

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Speaker 2: to have a boyfriend or a husband because it doesn't

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Speaker 2: matter because I have ownership in this decision. I think

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Speaker 2: it would be embarrassing if you're constantly telling everybody that

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Speaker 2: your whole life is dependent upon someone else's decision making

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Speaker 2: based on your value, you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 2: Kiki jokes about it, but Kiki is her own woman,

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Speaker 2: her own brand, her own identity, and whether Big Tim

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Speaker 2: owned that or not, I mean, you can we can

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Speaker 2: be real for one second.

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Speaker 1: You got a gimmick.

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Speaker 2: You gotta gimmick this whole arm single until this man

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Speaker 2: claims me or whatever. No, you never needed him to

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Speaker 2: claim you. You don't for one second need a man

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Speaker 2: to claim you, Kiki, And you know that I don't

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Speaker 2: need him to claim me.

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Speaker 7: But in order for me to go public with him,

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Speaker 7: I need to have some stake in the game because

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Speaker 7: it is embarrassing when you are dating people for women,

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Speaker 7: It can be embarrassing because you I put you on

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Speaker 7: display as my man, as my boyfriend, right, and so

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Speaker 7: that that eliminates all my other potential partners on this algorithm, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, Like, so that level of risk, that's it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's embarrassador in itself, I know, But all my

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Speaker 7: potential men that's sitting on a bench.

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Speaker 1: Why are we framing it?

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Speaker 2: And I agree society does this, but why aren't we

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Speaker 2: having a bigger conversation, which is why are we allowing

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Speaker 2: society to frame this like if a dude doesn't pull

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Speaker 2: the trigger, he doesn't claim you on a permanent basis,

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Speaker 2: that that somehow has some that's some assessment of your value.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you're the one.

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Speaker 2: Like in Calen situation, I think that dude would would

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Speaker 2: have married her before they even started dating.

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Speaker 1: He would have married her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so but I think maybe she in this case,

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Speaker 2: I'm surmising, based on things that have been said over

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Speaker 2: the last couple of years, that maybe she's the one

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Speaker 2: saying let's pump the brakes. So there should be zero

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Speaker 2: assessment of Klen's value based on the fact that she's

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Speaker 2: got a boyfriend and not a husband.

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Speaker 7: I don't think friend, I don't think it has anything

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Speaker 7: to do with my value. Now I'll say that I

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Speaker 7: just think it's embarrassing because I didn't put all my

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Speaker 7: other potential partners on notice about you. I'm letting them

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Speaker 7: know that you're the star player on my team. Then

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Speaker 7: I come to find out you can't dribble the ball.

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Speaker 7: That's embarrassing. You know, it's not about my value, my

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Speaker 7: value say what it is?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm me.

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Speaker 7: But so it's just about this May. I didn't put

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Speaker 7: you out there, let everybody think you the man. Now

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Speaker 7: you just stand next to me and got some of

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Speaker 7: this glow that now you want come.

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Speaker 2: And so and so you got it. You got about

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Speaker 2: three quarters right. And so then if he if he

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Speaker 2: screws this up, then he loses the aura. Then he's

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Speaker 2: then he is out of the shadow. By that's bad.

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Speaker 7: Once I found out how embarrassing you are, now you're

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Speaker 7: forever attached to my legacy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Jesus, Taylor.

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Speaker 2: This article, this article just goes left and right and

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Speaker 2: it's all over the place, and it says two different things.

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Speaker 1: Hi, what did you want to say? Having a boyfriend's embarrassing?

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Speaker 8: Why it's just embarrassing? Why my boyfriend is my boyfriend?

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Speaker 9: That right?

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Speaker 10: Just embarrassing. I don't know, It's just I come off

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Speaker 2: I feel like so so saying your husband's your husband

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Speaker 2: that how does that change the context if it's the same.

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Speaker 3: Guy, sounds different.

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 8: More adult And let.

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Speaker 2: Me tell you something. I'm gonna make a counter argument, Taylor.

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Speaker 2: I might argue that having a husband can be embarrassing

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Speaker 2: can be because at least at least boyfriend and girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: there is no added pressure, no added level of Look,

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Speaker 2: let's face it, there are a lot of people listening

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Speaker 2: right now in relationships who are married and they're not

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Speaker 2: getting divorced because it's too much of a pain in

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Speaker 2: the butt. But in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship you get

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Speaker 2: a little bit more flexibility. It could still be a

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Speaker 2: big pain in the butt, but each of you are

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Speaker 2: choosing to be there, and it's not real tough to

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Speaker 2: get out of it. So I might argue that you're

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Speaker 2: choosing each other in that situation, as opposed to a marriage,

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Speaker 2: where you may stop choosing each other locket, but you've

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Speaker 2: got lives intertwined legally and otherwise, and as time goes

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Speaker 2: by in a marriage ten twenty thirty years. Yeah, look,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, my parents have been together for

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Speaker 2: forty years. Yeah, they love each other and they're gonna

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Speaker 2: eighty years old to move on. I don't know that

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Speaker 2: they would even if they should.

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Speaker 10: That's a good.

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Speaker 8: Point, but I sometimes relationship every day, and I hate

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Speaker 8: using my parents as an example, because they do love

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Speaker 2: Well, my dad wouldn't live without my mom, Like he

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Speaker 2: physically wouldn't survive. I love him, but he's gotten a

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Speaker 2: without my mother. He doesn't know how to wash his chonies.

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Speaker 2: He has no idea, no clue. He doesn't even where

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Speaker 2: the chonees where. He don't know nothing about the chonies. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so this man walk around with no chonies, be awful

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Speaker 2: for society.

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Speaker 3: Up with your mom?

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Speaker 2: No, and and and frankly, I think my mom needs

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Speaker 2: him too. That she's going to listen to this and

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Speaker 2: about my phone is gonna ring and she's gonna say I.

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Speaker 1: Need him but nothing.

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Speaker 2: I've hid all the money everywhere.

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Speaker 1: He's broke.

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Speaker 3: You, Taylor, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: See what he's a good example.

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Speaker 5: Should have called me instead. I mean, I love this author.

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Speaker 5: She's gram and really like, I'm really invested in her

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Speaker 5: and this whole thing. I wish they would have called

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Speaker 5: me because I've been saying which exactly what you're saying.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I think you can take us up further

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Speaker 5: and say husbands can be embarras too. Do you know

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Speaker 5: how many moms have to do this alone even though

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Speaker 5: they're legally married and the man's actually physically in the house,

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Speaker 5: but like, won't wash a dish.

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Speaker 1: I want women's power here.

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Speaker 2: But that's what she's saying on one hand to Brighton

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Speaker 2: she on the other hand, so I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, Hey, Ashley, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying at thirty five to say you have

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Speaker 2: a boyfriend is embarrassing. I see, I think that's just

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Speaker 2: social Well what are you saying?

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Speaker 1: So like, that's.

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Speaker 2: What my blurb said. Okay, that's what that's what your

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Speaker 2: pre interview said. All right, So if we got the

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Speaker 2: pre interview wrong, then I need you to correct that.

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Speaker 11: No, that's the Hunter b Like at thirty five, when

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Speaker 11: you're just introducing someone being like, this is my boyfriend,

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Speaker 11: it just sounds so immature because there's so many people

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Speaker 11: at that stage of life that is like married.

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Speaker 3: Mind you, I've already been married and divorce by go

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Speaker 3: oh you're good, right, you need it right now.

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Speaker 11: Fortunately enough, we are engaged and we're getting married in December.

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Speaker 11: But when I was introducing him at thirty five and

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Speaker 11: thirty eight as my boyfriend. It just feel like a

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Speaker 11: sep back in life, because you know, I'm approaching that

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Speaker 11: forty mark ye.

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Speaker 2: Saying I have a boyfriend, and I hear, you know,

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Speaker 2: I hear what you're saying, Ashley, and that's fair and

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Speaker 2: that's honest, and you're being transparent. But I'm going to

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Speaker 2: write a piece for British Vogue where I say, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that is a social construct. Yes, what you're saying. What

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Speaker 2: you're saying is what other people are putting onto you. Like,

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Speaker 2: that's what the world's putting onto you. And I can

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Speaker 2: say to this from the perspective of a forty four

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Speaker 2: get married because people look at me like I'm a weirdo,

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Speaker 2: people on the dating apps, people in real life, people

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Speaker 2: my friends who introduce me to people. It's like, what

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Speaker 2: do you mean, he's forty four and never been married.

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Speaker 2: There must be something wrong with him as opposed to

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Speaker 2: what if I choose his life. That's true, So you

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Speaker 2: shouldn't be embarrassed. I'm telling you. That's my whole point here.

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Speaker 2: You should not be embarrassed about that whatsoever you made

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Speaker 2: that choice.

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Speaker 3: Culd you head high.

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Speaker 2: And if a guy doesn't want to propose to you

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Speaker 2: then and you're self awareness not you know, and you're

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Speaker 2: and you're good with yourself, then I guess that's his loss.

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Speaker 11: That's true, But doesn't don't you think the title boyfriend

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Speaker 11: instead of like, you know, it sounds immature. Fourteen year

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Speaker 11: olds have boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we could change the word man friend, right,

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Speaker 2: college little guy dude?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fair enough. I hear that.

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Speaker 3: But but you're thinking it. No, no, no, I.

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Speaker 2: Think what you said is what the part that makes

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Speaker 2: you embarrassed, in my opinion, shouldn't make you embarrassed. It's

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Speaker 2: it's your embarrassed because other people. You think other people

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Speaker 2: think that. So it's a little bit of projection that

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Speaker 2: I'd like to correct.

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Speaker 3: Fortunately enough, we are getting married in December. He's my

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Speaker 3: fiance now.

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Speaker 1: So we don't got to say boyfriend.

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Speaker 7: No mo congratulations, Yes, all right, thank you?

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Speaker 1: You took you there? You go.

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Speaker 2: See, it wouldn't have matter. Big Tim could have said

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Speaker 2: he could have walked. You would have been devastated because

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Speaker 2: that's a that's a crappy thing to do. You would

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Speaker 2: have been sad. But then guess what next, O Marion,

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Speaker 2: what's up?

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Speaker 7: And I'm saying that's why you don't put out a

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Speaker 7: boyfriend because my bench is watching and the other we're.

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Speaker 1: So late and we got to go.

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Speaker 2: But the other part of this is that we're judging

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Speaker 2: things based on social media content, which is outrageous.

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Speaker 3: I hate that.

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Speaker 2: I do not care no part of your actual life.

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Speaker 2: You got to live your life. And if that and

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Speaker 2: if you want to live a separate life, that's for

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Speaker 2: everybody else. I guess fine. But like the fact that

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Speaker 2: we're now we're now meshing and meshing the two where

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Speaker 2: my social media life and how I'm judged on social

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Speaker 2: media it plays into my actual identity. That's the worst

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Speaker 2: place on earth. Why would you want that to be

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Speaker 2: the barometer of how you're doing in life? The Internet's

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Speaker 2: the worst place on earth.

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Speaker 3: The longer the caption, the more the problems. I stand

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Speaker 3: by that girl.

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Speaker 12: Oh yeah, Like if it's wordy and oh two souls.

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Speaker 2: So how dysfunctional is your family? And well that should

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Speaker 2: be the topic. We'll leave it there and call now.

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Speaker 2: I just function is your family?

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Speaker 9: Eight?

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Speaker 2: Five five five? Call now and we'll be talking about

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Speaker 2: this for three hours. No, how dysfunctional does your family

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Speaker 2: have to be for this to make headlines? And how

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Speaker 2: weird are the holidays going to be?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 2: A guy says that he is suing his brother in

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Speaker 2: law after a prank in which super glue was poured

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Speaker 2: into his belly button while he slept.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're right over there.

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Speaker 1: Can I hear the snorting? And I know that's kala?

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Speaker 1: So okay?

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Speaker 13: Is It's just like pranks are so silly until they

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Speaker 14: And then you tell someone like that's how I lost.

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Speaker 3: My belly button, you know what I mean. It's a

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Speaker 2: I just like, what what must be happening? You know

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Speaker 2: I know what to do. I can't figuilla glue out,

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Speaker 2: you know? But this is the headline. Man suing his

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Speaker 3: With oh man, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, in a viral post that was shared to Reddit.

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Speaker 2: in law, who was completely sober, thought it would be

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Speaker 2: hilarious to film my belly button with super glue. At

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Speaker 1: We tried to remove it, but it was stuck.

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Speaker 2: The glue had adhered to my skin and when we

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Speaker 2: go there. They used to solve him in an ointment

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Speaker 2: The husband writes that his wife is upset. Her family

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Speaker 2: thinks that he overreacted. No, I mean, here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: If you're gonna prank somebody, I mean, come on, if

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Speaker 2: you I don't think I don't think this guy's overreacting

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Speaker 2: at all. If you're gonna prank somebody and and you

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Speaker 2: don't think it out and that, or if the prank

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Speaker 2: as a result of the prank, you gotta pay. You

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Speaker 2: dude was his sleep, he know what. He didn't ask

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Speaker 2: for his belly button to get filled up?

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Speaker 1: Whoa what? You just took it somewhere else?

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Speaker 2: But that's that's no, you did well, that's hey. I'm

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Speaker 2: just I'm just telling you the headline. I am reporting

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Speaker 2: with super glue. Don't you agree?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 2: There's no there's no question here, like if you if

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Speaker 2: you do the prank and there is you know, damage.

444
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,080
Speaker 2: I don't know if you dye somebody's hair and they

445
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,840
Speaker 2: can't diet back, or they want to die back and

446
00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,720
Speaker 2: then they got to go to the salon or you know,

447
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,439
Speaker 2: just you know, an every day prank likes only someone's

448
00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,560
Speaker 2: belly button that was super glue and they gotta go

449
00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:16,280
Speaker 2: to the hospital.

450
00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 1: You got to pay for that.

451
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 3: Right, Yes, that's official pranking rules.

452
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't know why this is on him.

453
00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:24,919
Speaker 2: This man was just sleep but he didn't ask for

454
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:26,760
Speaker 2: you know, filled up belly button.

455
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,160
Speaker 12: It's like so embarrassing to go to the er too,

456
00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,240
Speaker 12: like when they ask you what's wrong and if it's

457
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 12: not quote unquote normal, like that's embarrassing, Like my belly

458
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,240
Speaker 12: My brother in law gluede my belly button and I

459
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,560
Speaker 12: need you guys to get it out.

460
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,000
Speaker 3: I would foul charges, like straight to jail.

461
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing you have to see when you

462
00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 2: go to the yar and they go, so what happened here?

463
00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:50,120
Speaker 2: You know, like so what happened here? And then it's

464
00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 2: like you got to explain. I told the story before,

465
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 2: but I have a friend who is a physician and

466
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:58,879
Speaker 2: during medical training, he he had a rotation in the

467
00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 2: emergency room I guess all doctors do, and he told

468
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 2: me the story because the story was more about empathy

469
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: than it was about what happened.

470
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:06,679
Speaker 1: But he was like, a dude came in.

471
00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 2: I feel like every year doctor has the same story,

472
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 2: which just makes me wonder, like have we not sent

473
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 2: the memo out about not doing this? But apparently a

474
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 2: dude had a glass coke bottle in his rectum, and

475
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,719
Speaker 2: right right, that's what I'm saying, and so and so

476
00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 2: they needed to know how it got there because I

477
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 2: guess how it got there might be helpful into how

478
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 2: to get it out. And I think we all know

479
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 2: how it got there. But the dude was swearing up

480
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,720
Speaker 2: and down that he slipped and fell on it and

481
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,199
Speaker 2: then it lodged its way all the way, and so

482
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 2: he was this My doctor friend's telling me, he's like,

483
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 2: I was mad at this guy because it's like, stop

484
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 2: lying to me about how this happened, Like I need

485
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 2: to know how you got it up there, what you use,

486
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: what you did, because then I'm going to use a

487
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 2: similar method, hopefully to reverse it, because if this thing

488
00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 2: breaks in there when we're taking it out, then we

489
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 2: have this serious pelvic surgery.

490
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 1: Now. Now we got to go through the stomach, and

491
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 1: we got it.

492
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 2: It's a whole big thing and we don't want to

493
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 2: have to do all that, So just tell me what

494
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 2: what were you doing and what you know, what are

495
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 2: you on and like what really happened here? And the

496
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 2: guy just insisted I slipped and fell on this thing

497
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 2: and it went there. And so as an er doctor,

498
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 2: I just can't imagine the things that you must hear.

499
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 2: But if you guys, I'm sure not quite that. But

500
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 2: if you guys ever had a brank go wrong.

501
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 15: Yeah, I broke my toe because actually my friend ended

502
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 15: up marrying the dude who did it, which is hysterical.

503
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 15: But in college, they put a box like in the

504
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 15: middle of the street with a cinderblock in it on

505
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,399
Speaker 15: Saint Pati's Day, knowing that like drunk people would kick it.

506
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 15: I was the drunk person who tried to kick the

507
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 15: box out of the street and I broke my toe.

508
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 14: Oh yeah, yeah, and they thought it was hilarious and

509
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 14: your parents probably had to pay the medical.

510
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 1: Bill on that.

511
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

512
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 15: I mean I was on my dad's insurance at the

513
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 15: time because it was college. But yeah, like going into

514
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 15: the er, it's embarrassing. And then I was wearing a

515
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 15: boot in college.

516
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 1: From a prank because that's the thing is it looks?

517
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: How did this happen? Right?

518
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,479
Speaker 2: You got to explain? Well, Like I remember I went

519
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: to the ear as a kid. I we weren't tall enough.

520
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 2: We put the basketball rim at my friend's house down

521
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 2: as low as it would go, which I think was

522
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: like seven feet or eight feet. I can't from seven

523
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 2: feet maybe, but we weren't tall enough to dunk that

524
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: at that height at that point. So we had the

525
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 2: brilliant idea of jumping off of a bucket to then

526
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: dunk the ball.

527
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: Like, okay, this is great.

528
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: So this concrete and a basketball hoop, how are we

529
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 2: going to get up there? I know we'll jump off

530
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 2: a little bucket, So obviously you know what happens next.

531
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: The bucket you know, falls over when I'm jumping and

532
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 2: I land, and I won't get into it, but let's

533
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 2: just say my fingernail was involved. It was graphic and

534
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 2: it was painful and it was terrible. And then I

535
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: have to run home and I'm like ten years old.

536
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: I have tell my parents what I did, and it's

537
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 2: like you're an idiot, and then like I don't even

538
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: know what to do with this. So we go to

539
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 2: the yar and then I have to tell this guy.

540
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 2: You know, my parents are like, well, how'd you do that?

541
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 2: It's always the dumbest thing, you know, Or like the

542
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 2: dude who shreds his hand cutting an avocado, you know,

543
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 2: because he does the knife thing or whatever. You know,

544
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: how you can do that where you can slice the

545
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 2: avocado like in the in the whatever. It is, right,

546
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 2: and people cut their they like sever tendons this way

547
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 2: on their hand doing that, and then you got to

548
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 2: like imagine having to go to the r and be like, yeah,

549
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 2: I need hand surgery because I you know, it's trying

550
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 2: to make a smoothie or something. You know, you just

551
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 2: feel stupid. But yeah, I think that that's prank rules.

552
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: I would say, is you gotta if you are guilty

553
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: of if you are the super glue filler up, or

554
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: then you got to pay the price.

555
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: I agree. Okay, good, we're all on the same page

556
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: about this.

557
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 2: I just wanted someone just text if someone oh God,

558
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: if someone dies in a prank, theyn't have to go

559
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 2: to jail. I mean, I guess that's that's true, right,

560
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 2: even if it's a prank, if somebody gets that seriously hurt,

561
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: you gotta go jail.

562
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: So I don't. This is messed up.

563
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: This didn't ask for that, No, did you guys ever

564
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 2: do the prank? It was like a thing in my

565
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 2: in college my freshman year in the dorm is like

566
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 2: when people were asleep if their leg was kind of

567
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 2: because we had bunk beds, and we would we would

568
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: raise well, actually, I guess they were like normal beds.

569
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: One was on each side of the room, because you know,

570
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: college dorm rooms are like rectangular for the most part,

571
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 2: at least ours was.

572
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: They were long and rectangular.

573
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: So in order to save space where you could raise

574
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 2: the beds and like basically put you know, they come

575
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: in and they would put like another set of legs

576
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: on it, so it was twice as high so you

577
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 2: could put like your desk underneath it. Essentially it made

578
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: it a bunk bed, except with no lower bed. So

579
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: like if you're a lot of guys would sleep and

580
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 2: like their foot would hang out or their leg would

581
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: kind of hang, you know, because out of the sheet

582
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 2: or whatever or the comforter. And so that became this

583
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: thing for a few weeks where dudes would take a

584
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 2: sharpie and they would draw on your leg if it

585
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 2: was exposed while you were asleep and you wouldn't necessarily

586
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 2: know this happened. So if it was like on the

587
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: back of your leg, you'd walk around with like whatever

588
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: they dorew on it, and if you were wearing shorts,

589
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: everybody would see it.

590
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 3: Come on, don't play.

591
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: I walked around an entire day with a gigantic dog

592
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: along my cat.

593
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 3: I knew exactly what they do on your life, right,

594
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: it always is.

595
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: And I didn't know I walked around a whole day

596
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: like this because I don't know.

597
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't look.

598
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 2: I don't look at the back of what is it

599
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 2: my shin or whatever. I don't look at that to

600
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 2: see if anybody drew on it. So I walked around.

601
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: This all day. Funny, I should have sued. I should

602
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: have sued for twenty two hundred bucks. You guys never

603
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 1: had these kind of calen did you? Guys never had

604
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: these kind of college shenanigans. No, didn't bring me at home.

605
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 7: My brother used to do a lot of pranks, but

606
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 7: it was just like he was just mischievous. He was

607
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 7: just doing dumb stuff, like he would take a can

608
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 7: of oil sheine or like hairspray and make a fire torch,

609
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 7: like run walk past you and just light this big

610
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 7: fire and then like laugh and run off.

611
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 3: He used to pop out of closets and like scare everybody,

612
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 3: like it was just good.

613
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 10: Yeah.

614
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 7: So those kind of pranks, but nothing that would have

615
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 7: ended in jail, because I get it.

616
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, people bring people.

617
00:25:58,560 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: Oh.

618
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 3: I still prank my boyfriend the time.

619
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: Frank your boyfriend, what do you do?

620
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 3: So he was in our bedroom the.

621
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,239
Speaker 14: Other night and he was like half asleep, and I

622
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,719
Speaker 14: snuck out on the balcony through the other door and

623
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 14: I just like pounded really fast and scared him. I

624
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 14: jump out and scare him when he comes home. It's funny,

625
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 14: I know, but it's fun.

626
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: I think he went to pick up your dry cleaning

627
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 2: and then here you are, just jumping out prea. I

628
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 2: think it was on packing your bags and doing your laundry.

629
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I'm so mad at him. He's

630
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 3: banned from doing my laundry. Oh man, can stop doing

631
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 3: your girl's laundry please.

632
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: I agree with that. It's really upseting. Okay, well, I've

633
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: never done my girlfriend's laundry. I don't have one. But

634
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: if I have, you maybe that's part of the reason

635
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: I've never done it, because I don't have one, but

636
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: if I did have one, I'm not doing the laundry underwear,

637
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 1: please one. I don't want to see what I don't.

638
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: I don't need to know, Like you don't need to

639
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: be looking at my underwear, and I don't need to

640
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: be looking at yours. But the other thing, more importantly,

641
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know why you're so passionate about.

642
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 3: That, but I'm really passionate about this.

643
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: The thing is, I'd be afraid to mess something up,

644
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 1: like like what if I what if I, like wash

645
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: your braw and I'm not supposed to, or what if

646
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: I wash your underwearing correctly and then I write and

647
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: then I dry it correct and those little chonies worth

648
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: twenty five dollars and I messed up a bunch of

649
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: them because my all of our stuff, you know, and

650
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: Jason can attest to this, all of our stuff. It

651
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: just literally you can just put it all in, all

652
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: of it at one time.

653
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, all small colors, all fabrics.

654
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: I watch it on cold.

655
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 3: I separate the bottoms from the tops. That's separating what

656
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 3: I do.

657
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: What does that been life?

658
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 16: I don't know, But why do you do that? I

659
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 16: don't know because I can't put the bottoms in with

660
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 16: the tops and it's too much. So I'm like, okay,

661
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 16: how do I separate this? In my head, the bottom's

662
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 16: going once and the top's going on the load and

663
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 16: then the whites.

664
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Speaker 10: What the hell?

665
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: I don't even do that, you guys, I know this

666
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 1: is going to make a lot of people shiver. Oh

667
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: I don't even separate the white. Oh my god, I'm gone.

668
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: You just watching everything on cold? Well sometimes it depends,

669
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: but like every day just sort of whatever. Nah, everything

670
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 1: goes in on cold and most things get dried, and

671
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: I know that bothers a lot of people.

672
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I dry everything and every single thing.

673
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, where am I gonna hang clothes?

674
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: You?

675
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 3: First, all, you have a house, a home where I

676
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: haven't got to clothes line.

677
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 2: Well, now, as we learned, Mike the mechanic has a

678
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 2: home and Jason will it happens to Mike.

679
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: So there is he should get used to efficiency because

680
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: that's probably what he's going to need. Exactly a friend show.

681
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having us on.

682
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: There is a correct way, according to etiquette experts, to

683
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: eat a banana. This is a completely random thing, but

684
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 2: I actually saw this video. And I've seen this guy's

685
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 2: videos before and I thought it was a parody, but

686
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: he is very much for real. He is a British guy,

687
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: and he teaches us all the etiquette that we did

688
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: not know. In a recent viral video, there's a a

689
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: British etiquette expert. His name is William Hansson, and he

690
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 2: demonstrated what he claims to be the correct way to

691
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: eat a banana, and that is with a knife and

692
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: a fork. If I gave you a banana and you

693
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: used a knife and a fork, I would take the

694
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: banana away from you and lock you up and throw

695
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 2: it away, and then I would erase your phone number

696
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 2: and unfriend you and unfollow you everywhere, and I would

697
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: pretend that I had never met you before my life,

698
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: and we would never speak again. This guy meticulously cuts

699
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: off the ends, slices down the peel, and then eats

700
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 2: the banana from a plate, slating his approach as more

701
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 2: civilized than peeling it by hand, quote unquote like a primate.

702
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 2: So the video has over two hundred thousand views, and

703
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: of course, as soon as I see it this, I

704
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: go right to the comments. I mean, that's really where

705
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 2: the gold lives. In most of these videos is sometimes

706
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: I just can't even wait to get to the comments.

707
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: I can't even watch the whole video before I get

708
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 2: to the comments. And this person, one person said, what

709
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: kind of la is he? No good servants do you

710
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 2: have working for you in that big mansion that don't

711
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: even know that you're supposed to peel your banana before

712
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: you serve it to someone.

713
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: Preposterous.

714
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: He also did a tutorial in The Proper Way to

715
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: Eat Grapes, recommending the use of scissors to cut smaller

716
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 2: bunches for plating. What would you do if you saw

717
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: someone eating a banana with a knife and fork? What

718
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: other pizza is or a pizza is one, by the way,

719
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: but I was gonna say, what other food is unacceptable

720
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: to eat with a knife? Like a pizza with a

721
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: knife and fork unless you're eating Chicago deep dish pizza

722
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 2: that's really hot and like steamy, and because once it

723
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: kind of congeals, you can pick that up, like if

724
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 2: you slice it and like once it all kind of

725
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: forms into one thing, then you could. But otherwise I

726
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: can see a knife in a fork situation. Otherwise, is

727
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 2: there any should you ever be using a knife and

728
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 2: a fork for pizza. Should you ever be using a

729
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: knife and fork for fruit?

730
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: No?

731
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: Maybe berries if you're in a restaurant, Maybe so that

732
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: you're not grabbing it with your hands, don't.

733
00:30:59,280 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

734
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: I mean, are there any other etiquette rules that you

735
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: guys were surprised to know?

736
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 3: Let me think about. Don't understand why I can't eat

737
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 3: my pizza with a ford?

738
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: Why do you need to eat a pizza with a fork?

739
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 7: Because sometimes it gets messy, it may be greasy, you know.

740
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 7: I like to cut every now and then pick it up.

741
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 7: I block my pizza and everyone makes fun of me

742
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 7: for that. Oh, I get in the grease sauce just

743
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 7: a little bit.

744
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 15: I mean, lord knows, I'm not getting it all off,

745
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 15: but I sometimes when it's really wet, I'm like, I

746
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 15: don't really want all that.

747
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 7: I just feel like I feel cute when I use

748
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 7: a knife and a fork.

749
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 5: I have to eat boneless wings with a knife and

750
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 5: a fork. Ooh, I do people do? I wouldn't if

751
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 5: I had. If I had to eat that, I won't

752
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 5: eat that. So I do the wings with bones. I

753
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 5: do know, yeah, but if I had to, like, I

754
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 5: don't think I would I would use my hands. Do

755
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 5: you use a knife prefers, yes, boneless wings, Yeah, I

756
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 5: use a fork.

757
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: If there's super saucy than I would. Yeah.

758
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess because I don't. I don't need to

759
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 2: pick it up because there's no bone. I've seen people

760
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: use a knife and a fork for ribs, and I've

761
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: seen people use a knife and for chicken wings and

762
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 2: there's not that much meat. Okay, So like I'm sorry,

763
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: I'm picking it up now. Then again, I don't know.

764
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess if you here.

765
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: Like a fancy fancy is serving ribs, but ribs need

766
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: to be picked up.

767
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I use a fork sometimes, but I get the

768
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 5: meat off of it with it. Yeah, I just use

769
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 5: it's like pick the meat off and then I go

770
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 5: in on the bone. And you guys a gotta do both.

771
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: Do you have any etiquette rules that? Okay?

772
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 2: So I've got one from growing up, and I don't

773
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: know if it's a real rule or not, but this

774
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: is a rule in my house. My dad instilled this

775
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: in us. And my dad came along when I was

776
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: like eight nine, the guy who raised and adopted me,

777
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 2: so I was old enough to be like have to

778
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: adjust to this rule. It wasn't like it was ingrained

779
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 2: to me as a child. But he hates it when

780
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 2: a waiter or a server, waitress, whatever, takes food away

781
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: from the table before everyone is done eating, he will

782
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 2: slap their hand, like he will physically stop them. And

783
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: it is very difficult at some restaurants because I guess

784
00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 2: some restaurants, like the management or whatever is meticulous about

785
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: if there's an empty plate, it needs to go.

786
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true, and.

787
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 2: So like, so what will happen is, especially they're working

788
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: in teams, he'll have to do it multiple times because

789
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 2: like they'll come see a plate and they'll go to

790
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: take it because that's what they are supposed to do

791
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: as what they were training. And he doesn't want it

792
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: because he feels like it rushes everyone else who's still eating.

793
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: So like, if you're a really fast eater and you're

794
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: done and I take the plate away and now it's

795
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 2: just you and me and your plate still there, it's

796
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: like I'm just sitting there looking at you. Yeah, but

797
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: if I have a plate in front of me, it's

798
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: like I'm still eating, You're still eating, so you don't

799
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 2: have to be rush.

800
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: He cannot stand it.

801
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 15: I can't stand that, like people will wait for me

802
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 15: if I'm not seated at the table to start eating.

803
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 15: I know it's like a respect thing, but like eat

804
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 15: your food, you know what I mean, Just get started.

805
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 3: I don't think we all need to wait for everyone

806
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 3: to be seated.

807
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 2: Oh that's another one. That's another one. If everyone doesn't

808
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: have their food.

809
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 12: Then yeah, yeah, usually I'm last because I'm like doing stuff,

810
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 12: for grabbing stuff, and I'd rather not feel like people

811
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 12: are waiting for me.

812
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 3: Just enjoy.

813
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: Did you guys have anything that your parents made you

814
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: do that may or may not have been real etiquette,

815
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: it's just is ingrained in you, because yeah, that one.

816
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: That one like to this day, and I've had to

817
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: get kind of like comfortable with it because it has

818
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 2: become more commonplace that restaurants want the tables cleared, and

819
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 2: so it's like it's by the fourth time somebody comes

820
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: to take your plate's like, just take it right. I

821
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 2: don't want to argue with you. I'm I'm tired. I'm tired.

822
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: I'm tired. You're supposed to put your napkint next to

823
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: your plate, not on it. I'm going through a list

824
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 2: of these things you're supposed to shield your lemon when squeezing.

825
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: No one does that. No one seems to do that.

826
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: But I don't know why that's not obvious. Like if

827
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: I've got a lemon and you're sitting next to me,

828
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 2: I know it's going to go everywhere if I just go.

829
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 2: You know that's the noise it makes. I don't know

830
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 2: why that's the noise. It comes to mind. I don't

831
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 2: know what what noise is squeezing and lemon make.

832
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: I don't know.

833
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: That's why I'm not the scientific guy in the show.

834
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 2: You're always supposed to pass food.

835
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: To the right. I didn't know that. I didn't know

836
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: that it mattered.

837
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: You're always apparently you're supposed to meeter the speed at

838
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: which you eat your food, Like you're supposed to eat

839
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: slower on purpose, Like even if you're really hungry, you're

840
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: not supposed to just go at it.

841
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 3: I guess because we eat more than we should that way.

842
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 12: I mean, if I, like, like get distracted and take

843
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 12: a minute while I'm eating a meal, I'm like, WHOA,

844
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 12: I am full.

845
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 3: I just had to wait a second, you know.

846
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: True, you're supposed to introduce the person of higher status first,

847
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: So like if I'm in a room and I suppose

848
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: it's like I don't know the boss and then you guys,

849
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: and I'm introducing to people, I'm supposed to introduce the

850
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 1: boss first because he's supposedly of higher status.

851
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: I say, supposedly I would consider all of you of

852
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: higher status to them, but I apparently no, but I

853
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't do that though. I would introduce them you guys first,

854
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 2: because the people know you guys, they don't know who

855
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: that person is. You know what I'm saying, Like, if

856
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 2: we're going to an event, people want to meet you

857
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: guys first, so I would introduce you that you're the ones,

858
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 2: you're the stars, so I would introduce you guys first.

859
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 2: Apparently it's bad etiquette to add your boss on social media.

860
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 15: What Yeah, I don't like that, our old boss that

861
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 15: isn't here anymore. He kept following me, and I kept

862
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 15: removing him from my followers list my Instagram because I

863
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 15: just don't need like that's just gonna cause me.

864
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 2: We're talking about the guy who only followed you and

865
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: no one else on the show.

866
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I let him follow me.

867
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 15: But there was a guy, a guy in this office

868
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 15: that used to be here that I just I just

869
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 15: saw nothing good can come from this.

870
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: So I got removing him from my followers. Why like,

871
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 3: why are you watching? Yeah outside of work. Yeah, but

872
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 3: our but our boss, you know, our closer boss. I

873
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 3: let him follow me.

874
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 2: There was one guy that he was a big wig

875
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 2: in the company. He is no longer, which that you know,

876
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 2: like every other person doesn't. It is no longer.

877
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 3: That is like, yeah.

878
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: No, it's we're the only ones left. And I don't

879
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: know for how much longer.

880
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: But they he only followed he met all of us.

881
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 2: And I've known the guy for like a decade. He

882
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 2: does not follow me on social media. Okay, I literally

883
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: have known the guy since he was not a big wig,

884
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: and now again he doesn't work here anymore. He we

885
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 2: had a meeting with all of us, We leave the

886
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 2: meeting and by the time, like five minutes later, he's

887
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 2: following Kaylan and only Kaylin and no one else. And

888
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 2: I've said something to him. What I finally said, I said,

889
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: I said to the guy, Yeah, I go dud well, No,

890
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 2: it was just like, can you be a little less

891
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 2: can you be a little more slick next time? You know,

892
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: like he obviously wants to see your stuff and only

893
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 2: your stuff, but maybe add the rest of us so

894
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 2: it doesn't.

895
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: Look that obvious.

896
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 3: Oh what did he say?

897
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: I was like, dude, I've known you for a decade.

898
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 2: You only followed Kaylen And he was like, I don't

899
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: remember what he said, but it's.

900
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: Like, oh, I thought I phoned. Yeah, I said, I

901
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: get it.

902
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 7: Though, I'm kind of like that with my followers. I

903
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 7: only want to see pretty stuff.

904
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 1: Well I can't. I can't understand why he would only

905
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: want to look at Kaylin and not my ugly ass.

906
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it is like, can you

907
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: can you make it? Can you make it a little

908
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: bit less obvious?

909
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 4: What?

910
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:53,240
Speaker 3: It was funny?

911
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 2: But you're a creeper that you're a lecturess, so you

912
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 2: only follow pretty people?

913
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like I only like to see ready stuff on

914
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 7: my timeline, ugly people on my timeline Like.

915
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 3: Like it triggers and I'm like, oh god, not you again,

916
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 3: Like why so.

917
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: You again?

918
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 17: Yes?

919
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 3: I only like to see pretty stuff.

920
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 9: Thank you.

921
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 3: I think you're complimenting. I am okay, thank you.

922
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: Well, I don't. I don't think you'm have a choice

923
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: but to follow everyone else in this room.

924
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 18: You.

925
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 3: I think we are a good looking show, especially for radio.

926
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: Wow, especially for radio. More Fred Show.

927
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 19: Next, Thank you Jackie, have a good day.

928
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: Thank you you did a good show. You were nervous.

929
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,919
Speaker 1: You did a great John that's gonna be nervous about.

930
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,399
Speaker 1: We're a bunch of clowns to talk good.

931
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 3: You guys are unhinged today and I'm so hereful.

932
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 2: It's really becoming that way. Thank you, Jackie, You have

933
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 2: a good day. Fred's show is sas issued statement. They're

934
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 2: begging travelers stop hiding animals in weird spots on your

935
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 2: body at airport security. Another day and another thing they

936
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: actually have to say, a woman tried to smuggle two

937
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 2: live turtles trapped to her chest. In another incident, a

938
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: guy can stealed a five inch turtle in his pants,

939
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 2: a newer to TSA agents are urging people to stop

940
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 2: this behavior. It's not only inappropriate, but also risky for

941
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: the animals. I get an idea, but let me put

942
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 2: my turtle in my pants.

943
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone.

944
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Lisa, good morning, Welcome to

945
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:33,919
Speaker 2: the show. How are you hey?

946
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 9: Good morning?

947
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: So what's going on with this guy? Seth?

948
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 2: Can you give us all the backstory about how you met,

949
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 2: any days you've been on kind of where everything is now?

950
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, So we met at a party

951
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 9: and I actually asked for his number, and like we

952
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 9: flirted for a bit at a party and then I

953
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 9: asked you if you wanted to get drinks and he

954
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 9: said yes, so we did. And you know, I'm usually

955
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 9: not like outgoing or orward, but there is just something

956
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 9: about him that, you know, just made me feel like, yeah,

957
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 9: go for it, you know, give it a hand.

958
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 10: So I did.

959
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 9: And now after he made he had drinks, he's not

960
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 9: talking to me, so like he's ghosting me, I think,

961
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 9: And I'm just trying to see what's going on, because

962
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 9: it was cool.

963
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: All right.

964
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 2: So you look back on this date and you were,

965
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: you know, attracted to him and you thought everything went well,

966
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: well enough that you were hoping to see him again.

967
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 2: But oh, yeah, no call from him. He hasn't reached out,

968
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 2: he hasn't texted. Have you reached out to him, he's

969
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,439
Speaker 2: not responding to you as well.

970
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 9: Yeah I reached out, but like not like an annoying

971
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 9: amount of times, but definitely I have reached out and

972
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 9: he's he's Yeah, he's just not talking to me, and

973
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 9: I don't I don't think I did anything.

974
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 10: I mean, the attraction was there on my end.

975
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: For sure, right.

976
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 2: I mean, if you go on a date with somebody

977
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 2: that you thought went well and you text them and

978
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 2: they don't respond or reach out to you afterwards, then

979
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 2: there's a difference of opinion then, And let's see if

980
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: we can figure out what that is. To play a song.

981
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 2: Come back, Lisa, you'll be on the phone when we

982
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 2: call Seth. We'll try and get him on the line

983
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: and and ask some questions. You're welcome a jump in

984
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 2: at some point, and the hope is we can straighten

985
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: this out and set you guys up on another date

986
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 2: that we faced.

987
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 10: Okay, cool, thank you, Hey.

988
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,879
Speaker 2: Lisa, Hey, welcome back. Let's call this guy Seth. You guys,

989
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 2: went on a date that you thought went really well.

990
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: You have texted him or reached out since the date,

991
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 2: because he didn't hear from him. He hasn't responded at all,

992
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 2: and you're confused, like, what, you know, what day was

993
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 2: I on? I guess if you thought it went well

994
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 2: and he's not.

995
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 9: Calling you back, yeah, I mean, I'm thinking he was busy,

996
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 9: but maybe I don't know.

997
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 10: I just really want to you know. It was a

998
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 10: good date. I want to know.

999
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well let's give him a call now.

1000
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 2: And I wish you. I wish you good luck, Lisa.

1001
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: That that sounded very formal. I wish you, I wish you,

1002
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 2: I'd give you, I offer you.

1003
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:54,280
Speaker 1: Best wishes on this call to Yeah, good luck Lisa,

1004
00:41:54,880 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: Thank you. Hello. Hi is this Seth?

1005
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 6: Yes?

1006
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: This is I he Seth.

1007
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

1008
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: Fred's Show, the morning radio show, and I have to

1009
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 2: tell you that we aren't the radio right now. The

1010
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: whole crew is here and I would need your permission

1011
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: against you with the call, can which have for just

1012
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 2: a second, would you mind?

1013
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1014
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah, Well thank you. This guy actually sounds happy

1015
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 2: to hear from us, which is is rare. What's going

1016
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 2: on with a woman named Lisa who you went on

1017
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: a date with recently? Because she reached out to us

1018
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 2: and I told us that she had met you and

1019
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: you guys went out and that she enjoyed it but

1020
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 2: hasn't heard from you, and she's hoping that we can

1021
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: figure out why.

1022
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 18: Yeah, I to be honest.

1023
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: I was genuinely scared of her? Why scared of her?

1024
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: Why is this the same lady from the other day. Why? Well, so,

1025
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: you know, we go on the date and things.

1026
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 18: Are going normally because we met at the party and

1027
00:42:58,920 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 18: were on the day.

1028
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: And were and we're having a good time.

1029
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 18: And then she she leans over to me and she says,

1030
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 18: I didn't want to tell you this at the party,

1031
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 18: but we are twin flames, which means at one point

1032
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 18: our soul were one, but they were split.

1033
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: Wow.

1034
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 2: That is what are the odds of you guys finding

1035
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 2: each other? That is incredible. You once one, now you're separate,

1036
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: You're going to come back together again?

1037
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: I assume that it seemed to be her intention.

1038
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 18: She kept going on about how we had this divine connection,

1039
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 18: that our souls were split in half and they will

1040
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 18: only be complete when they're together.

1041
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: And at the time, you know, a little buzz.

1042
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 2: If you were once one to come back together guys,

1043
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 2: that sounds like, uh, that's illegal in forty eight states.

1044
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 1: Wow.

1045
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 2: Wow, so you a spiritual reconnection? Because I have heard

1046
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 2: about this before, this twin flame thing. I think it

1047
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: is documentary about it, but peoplementary? Yeah, hm, well let

1048
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: me ask Lisa lost it the other half of you.

1049
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 2: I mean you probably you probably know Lisa's here because

1050
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 2: you guys are you know, you're one spiritually, But I

1051
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 2: forgot to mention that Lisa is here. Lisa, that is

1052
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 2: really intense that you think you found your twin flame.

1053
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 2: I mean that's a lot to sort of put on somebody.

1054
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 9: Well, I mean, like when you know you know and

1055
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 9: we do have a very very strong connection. I believe

1056
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 9: it is. It is divine and I do believe that

1057
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 9: he absolutely is my twin flames.

1058
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: Huh okay, and then how like how does one know this?

1059
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1060
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 3: Identify it?

1061
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like how am I going to know when I

1062
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 2: it's like walking around in Walmart my twin like I

1063
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 2: would not wouldn't.

1064
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 3: How am I going to Lisa?

1065
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 9: I mean, you know, like everything gets worked out in

1066
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 9: a perfect way on.

1067
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 10: Our on our days the party, so like we just met.

1068
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 9: We we we made eye contact and doing that, he

1069
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 9: like he knew what I was going to order.

1070
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 10: And uh, it was just all these guys and he

1071
00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 10: barely knew me.

1072
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 3: And it was real, you knew what you were gonna order.

1073
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 1: You went to a pizza place, I mean you ordered

1074
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: I don't know where you went but did you know what?

1075
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: Did you already know Deeth what she was going to order?

1076
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 2: Or were you psychic? Did you know she wanted the

1077
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 2: orange chicken?

1078
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: We did.

1079
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 18: She's sorry about the drink and she had a Gin

1080
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 18: and Tonic before, and I was like, I'm gonna get

1081
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 18: you another gen Tonic.

1082
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: And dude, you guys were meant to be.

1083
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's incredible that you knew the same

1084
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 2: drink she was having before. I mean, I can see

1085
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: it this way. The guy he just knew innately to

1086
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: order you another of what.

1087
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 9: You had, but he knew that I need somebody that

1088
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 9: pays attentions, like and like, that's rare, It's real, and like,

1089
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 9: I really do believe.

1090
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 2: That sadly courteous people that is rare. You're right about it.

1091
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 2: It sounds like this guy was like breathing and attentive.

1092
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: So I don't you know, it's not everybody on days

1093
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 2: is these days? Okay, well, I'm not gonna knock this.

1094
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 2: You feel a certain kind of way about him. But

1095
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 2: here's what I would say, Lisa, is it even if

1096
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,879
Speaker 2: you're right, that's a lot to hear on a first date,

1097
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: especially from somebody who might not believe in this.

1098
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 10: I mean, it's.

1099
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 9: It's not going to go away, like if we're twinslans,

1100
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 9: like we're going to end up reconnecting at some point.

1101
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 9: It's inevitable, Like it's happening. We've met now, and our

1102
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,760
Speaker 9: paths are going to kid, they're always going to cross.

1103
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 2: So you may as well just pull the trigger set

1104
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 2: because she's never leaving you.

1105
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: Ever, I might have to pull a trigger on a

1106
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: restraining order.

1107
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 7: Okay, yes, it's given thirsty really, yeah, you don't buy

1108
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 7: any of this. No, how many twin flames have you

1109
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 7: had in your life? Was your ex also your twin flame?

1110
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: Oh?

1111
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 6: Wow?

1112
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 3: Did you feel that about the Ladda?

1113
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 9: We did have a really really strong connection. But no

1114
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 9: he was not.

1115
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 10: But Seth is like, this is real.

1116
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 3: You don't know, Seth.

1117
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's giving a little bits.

1118
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 2: It's giving a little bit like everyone might be your soulmate,

1119
00:46:56,440 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: and I think that's a really sweet aspiration, except it's

1120
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 2: not true.

1121
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: Everyone's not going to be your soulmate.

1122
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,399
Speaker 5: Yes, they say that the the twin flames are actually

1123
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 5: the toxic ones. They're the ones that, yes, you connect with,

1124
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 5: but it's the one that you're not supposed to be

1125
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 5: with because it's a toxic relationship. Oh wow, Yeah, she

1126
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 5: should look for her soulmate if anything.

1127
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: And have you heard that?

1128
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 2: Have you heard that, Lisa, that maybe it's a sign

1129
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 2: that you shouldn't be with uh this guy?

1130
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 3: Run girl?

1131
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 9: I think I think it's just the opposite.

1132
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 10: I think that it's toxic if you avoid it, like

1133
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 10: I think that.

1134
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 9: If you just go away from it, that's toxic.

1135
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 10: So I mean I'll see him again, It's okay again?

1136
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: That actually okay?

1137
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 3: So well, yeah, get the restrained in order.

1138
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: Not Yeah, I don't know. I feel bad if if

1139
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 2: she feels a certain kind of way. But we got

1140
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 2: to play cooy, you know, we gotta we gotta play

1141
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 2: it a little hard to get Lisa.

1142
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: You know you can't be saying this everybody you meet.

1143
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 1: I don't.

1144
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 3: I don't.

1145
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 9: I don't. I mean, I don't say that to you.

1146
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 9: I don't.

1147
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 10: I don't feel that way about everyone. I do feel

1148
00:47:59,480 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 10: that way.

1149
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: About I just got rejected. I'm not a boy. It's

1150
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: a shame. Okay.

1151
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 2: Well, look, I'm going to ask the question, Seth. I mean,

1152
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 2: I think I know the answer, But would you enjoy

1153
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 2: another experience? Because again, you're I guess she's never going away.

1154
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 2: I mean, twin flames, it's once in a lifetime or

1155
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 2: maybe you know, if she considers the last guy, then

1156
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: a couple of times in a lifetime. But you know,

1157
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 2: would let you try another date?

1158
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I can't. I'm sorry, Lisa. I hope you find

1159
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: your true twin flame.

1160
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 18: But I don't really buy into it, and so I

1161
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 18: don't think I'm.

1162
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: Right for you.

1163
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 9: I mean, I understand, I get it, but you're wrong.

1164
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 10: And I mean I hope.

1165
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 9: That you can reconsider it at some point because I

1166
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,720
Speaker 9: think it's just you're avoiding what it's supposed to happen.

1167
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're avoiding it. So Lisa, good luck to you. Seth.

1168
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: I wish you the best of luck as well. I like,

1169
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: really I do. Thank you. We have it on record

1170
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: that she settled, that it's all. It's all. Yeah, don't worry,

1171
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: it's all documented. It's in the public record now. It's

1172
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: one of my favorite shirts. One of you guys gave

1173
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: it to me. I think it was Klein.

1174
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 2: It says a blockbuster on and the question that you

1175
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 2: had for belahmine was Bella hemine.

1176
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 3: Welcome get in here, Hey, fred, I feel scared.

1177
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: You have your phone, we can just text you right anyway. Okay?

1178
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, No, you don't.

1179
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: Have to be sorry. What what is this?

1180
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 3: What did I do?

1181
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: What is No? I'm asking you what my shirt is?

1182
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 3: What is that? That's Blockbuster?

1183
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: Yeah? And how old are you?

1184
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven?

1185
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: And do you know what this is?

1186
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 13: Yes?

1187
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 3: I know Blockbuster? Come on, Fred, I don't think you

1188
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 3: would you know what this is? Have you been to one? Yeah? When? Well,

1189
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 3: when's the last time you've been?

1190
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: So you know what this is?

1191
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: Because Blina was very worried that you didn't know what

1192
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 2: my shirt said.

1193
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: I just did.

1194
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 13: Yeah, Sol, No, I know what that is. I just

1195
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 13: I told Kat the other day. I didn't know the

1196
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 13: difference between Jared what was that?

1197
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 3: What was that guy's name? Jared Leto? And Jared Leto

1198
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 3: and boy in j Leto and.

1199
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: You know the difference between Jared Leto and Jay Leno.

1200
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was so confused me neither girl.

1201
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not just wildly different people though.

1202
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 13: Yeah, I also don't know the difference between Christina Aguilera

1203
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 13: and what and oh god, what's that girl's name?

1204
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,919
Speaker 3: Gleed stefani O come next to each other? I don't

1205
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 3: know which ones which girl?

1206
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 5: Now you lost me the Jared j Len will think, Okay,

1207
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 5: I can see that because.

1208
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,280
Speaker 3: The name of how similar?

1209
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 1: How wait? How could you see that? The Differencewen, Jared Leto.

1210
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 3: And j L like if you put them together in

1211
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 3: side by side.

1212
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 5: Yes, but if like Kaylen did an entertainment report and

1213
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 5: brought it up, I might confuse at you the how are.

1214
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 3: The names are just too similar? Yeah? But now Gwen

1215
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 3: Sefani and Christina Aguilera are.

1216
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,439
Speaker 1: Jared and j are not the same name at all?

1217
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 1: J and J No, I get it anyway, So probably didn't.

1218
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 2: Think that you knew what this shirt meant, and I

1219
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 2: just I was curious. I was hoping, I mean, at

1220
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 2: twenty seven that you knew when Blockbuster was. But there's

1221
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 2: probably some someone listening now, maybe some young kid who

1222
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 2: has no idea.

1223
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 3: No, we all know what we've been informed.

1224
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: Have you ever been to one? You have so you've

1225
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,240
Speaker 2: rented I assume a DVD?

1226
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 3: Well I never did, but because I'm too little, but.

1227
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: My mom, Oh, I see, so you accompanied somebody inside

1228
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: a Blockbuster.

1229
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a library.

1230
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: It sort of was like a library, right, it was.

1231
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: It's kidding.

1232
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you can check them out. That's yeah, that's

1233
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 3: kind of good.

1234
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:28,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1235
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, a VHS sate.

1236
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had a lot.

1237
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 15: Okay, yeah, because my sister, oh, her sister's millennial.

1238
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd like to speak with her. Three thirty two.

1239
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: I don't remember.

1240
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So, and I always get these wrong, but I'm

1241
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm gen X slash millennial, but more I mean, like

1242
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 2: on the cost of I guess most of you are

1243
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 2: millennials and your gen Z.

1244
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm ninety eight, So this is the list.

1245
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 2: I'm twenty one. I know Blockbuster. Someone texted, well, that's good.

1246
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 2: I'm twenty three. I used to go to Blockbuster. Okay, good,

1247
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 2: thank god.

1248
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 3: Okay, we build that formed O.

1249
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: Well, I do it. Paulina was worried about it, whether.

1250
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 5: That you knew, because one did like the Netflix era

1251
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 5: start right, like what age group?

1252
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 2: I would think it would be hers, Yeah, it probably.

1253
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: I think the DVDs in the mail were like late

1254
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: May to late two thousands.

1255
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 3: Right, I think so.

1256
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 13: Yeah, I remember when Netflix only did DVDs and you

1257
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 13: would get a mail to your house.

1258
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, good times.

1259
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was your version of Blockbuster. And I

1260
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 2: was talking to someone the other day. Fifty million bucks

1261
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 2: I believe was the number that Netflix offered to sell

1262
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: to Blockbuster for five zero fifty million dollars. And now

1263
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 2: they're worth like fifty billion. Wow, let me see it again.

1264
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 2: I looked it up the other day. No, excuse me,

1265
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 2: five hundred and sixteen billion dollars. So Blockbuster could have

1266
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 2: bought Netflix for five zero fifty million, and instead they

1267
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 2: said no, why would we do that, Well, Blockbuster, we'll

1268
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 2: need you. Now Blockbuster is gone and they're worth five

1269
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 2: hundred and sixteen billion dollars.

1270
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 3: One Blockbuster left.

1271
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 2: In vand Oregon. Yeah. Yeah, there was a whole documentary

1272
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 2: about him. How they like, I don't know how they

1273
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: do it.

1274
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know where they're getting all the

1275
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: DVDs from. I don't know, right someone's basement. Yeah, I

1276
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: don't know how it's all working.

1277
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 13: But don't sell DVDs you guys like Target.

1278
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: Well okay, but how do you play it?

1279
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 2: I mean like, I's actually donated a bunch of DVDs

1280
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 2: because well, I guess everyone that's true.

1281
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1282
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 3: You don't worry.

1283
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: I always he's a huge gamer, but he's more of

1284
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: a switch to guy now you know more of a

1285
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: switch to switch one or no, certainly not certainly not you. Yeah,

1286
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry I haven't sent you three already

1287
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: because you know you're on the cutting edge as a

1288
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: gaming influencer. Gay right, well yeah, the gay yeah, the game,

1289
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: the game party for sure.

1290
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 3: You get that. Lock that down right, I know he

1291
00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 3: gets on a.

1292
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: Podcast you're gaming gaming with j.

1293
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 2: Okay, so on this eight five five five three five

1294
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 2: and you can context the same number. But Bella, stay here,

1295
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: because so these are the things, well you you are

1296
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 2: your gen X why why why? I don't know, I

1297
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know what all those things are.

1298
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: And then you guys just keep saying letters and now

1299
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: I'm really confused. See Okay, So these are things that

1300
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,479
Speaker 2: basically that our parents would have most of our parents

1301
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 2: would have allowed us to do. And I just want

1302
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: to get your reaction to like how this would have

1303
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 2: gone in your house. Then again, your parents are a

1304
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 2: little wild. Your parents are are a little I mean,

1305
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 2: I've talked to your moms. She's a little while apparently

1306
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 2: your dad's try and believes that he needs their time

1307
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: now too, to speak about his mayoral duties, which is

1308
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 2: not happening because I can't. I can't provide equal time

1309
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 2: to your whole family, Nor can I provide equal time

1310
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: to the entire you know political uh uh, you know

1311
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 2: the landscape of California. There are actual election laws against

1312
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,720
Speaker 2: this competitor would have to get equal airtime.

1313
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 3: I don't know, he's not it doesn't have a competitor.

1314
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: Well, he wouldn't, add me. Yeah, so he ran unposed.

1315
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: So he did. He gave it to him?

1316
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 13: Why and why is it about it? He's just jealous

1317
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 13: and my mom is on air. He's just jealous.

1318
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure your dad's a lovely man. But if he

1319
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 1: read unopposed, I mean that's that he volunteered basically.

1320
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,800
Speaker 3: Those campaign dollars.

1321
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 2: If no one ran against him, he didn't really win

1322
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:29,320
Speaker 2: or lose. He just sort of is okay. Anyway, here's

1323
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 2: my question. I want to know him from the people

1324
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 2: at home and the people in the room, and then you,

1325
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 2: as the youngest member, how this would have gone on

1326
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 2: in your house? For example? Okay, were you allowed to

1327
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 2: just well you kind of grew up in it. Did

1328
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 2: you always grow up in kind of a smaller town?

1329
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1330
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 2: From there, maybe maybe this doesn't apply as much to you.

1331
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: But were you allowed to just roam the neighborhood?

1332
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 3: Oh?

1333
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 13: It depends, my It depends how old I was, if

1334
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 13: I was in trouble, like you know, like ground.

1335
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 12: When you were old enough and not in trouble, could

1336
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 12: you roam Yeah, for the most part, but like my

1337
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 12: mom would want to know where.

1338
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not talking about the time where you were

1339
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 2: grounded or sleeping fellow, I mean like, were you allowed

1340
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: I'm wondering if you were allowed on a time when

1341
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: you were conscious, ungrounded, not in jail, right when the

1342
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: weather was nice, you know, when they were most parts

1343
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 2: and people weren't protesting.

1344
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 3: Were you able to within the neighborhood?

1345
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you could in my neighborhood. A different reality

1346
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 1: like that doesn't having you guys are having a conversation.

1347
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: I'm having a conversation.

1348
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 2: She's having a conversation, and it's not the same conversation, okay,

1349
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 2: because because like as kids, like when I was young,

1350
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: it was and it was just you know, ride your bike, go,

1351
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: just go, And there was no way really for us

1352
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 2: to get you know, there were no cell phones.

1353
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: Maybe a pager, but I didn't have one. Really.

1354
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 2: I mean, there was really no way to know where

1355
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 2: we were, what we were doing. I mean, they were payphones,

1356
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 2: but we didn't really use those. And it was like, hey, go,

1357
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 2: you know, not a or whatever, and just come back

1358
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 2: before it gets dark, which in Arizona in the summer

1359
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 2: is like ten o'clock at night. And I'm not saying

1360
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: my parents didn't care, but they did. There was nothing

1361
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 2: was happening.

1362
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: See.

1363
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 13: That was that's where we differ. I had to have

1364
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 13: a cell phone, so I wasn't allowed to roam. You

1365
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 13: weren't really roaming, So I wasn't really roaming. I mean

1366
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 13: like it felt like I was, but not really.

1367
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 2: Okay, were you allowed to go to someone's house whose

1368
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: parents your parents didn't know?

1369
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 4: Uh?

1370
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so you could do that, yes, because I

1371
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: guess that's the thing, and that's that didn't happen. I mean,

1372
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: my wife went to all kinds of people's houses and

1373
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: parties and stuff, and my parents didn't ask where I

1374
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: was or or who the people.

1375
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 2: They didn't interview the parents ahead of time. They didn't

1376
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 2: call over there and see what was going on. They

1377
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 2: weren't they weren't logged into the live stream, you know,

1378
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 2: on YouTube or whatever to see. Okay, so you were

1379
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 2: allowed to go to people's home, so your parents didn't know.

1380
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 13: My parents were like, thank god, okay, were.

1381
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 2: You allowed or Slasher and you're given the opportunity to

1382
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 2: go hang out in them ma all all day? Was

1383
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 2: that even a thing you could do? Yes, because that

1384
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 2: was something when we were like before we could drive.

1385
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 2: That was what like three or four dudes in the

1386
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: weekend we get dropped off of the mall and then

1387
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 2: three or four girls dropped off of the mall and

1388
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 2: it was essentially a date, but it wasn't a date,

1389
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 2: and we would we didn't have any money, so we

1390
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 2: could maybe eat, maybe we had money to eat, you know,

1391
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 2: but like, yeah, we would just walk around in circles

1392
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 2: in the mall and uh, you know, it was like

1393
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 2: a little firty walk.

1394
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 3: I dabbled the kind of thing.

1395
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So you were able to do.

1396
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 20: Well.

1397
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 2: Here there are people going up right now who don't

1398
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 2: even probably know there are towns for them.

1399
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 3: There isn't a mall, right or.

1400
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 2: There's nothing there to do, so like you wouldn't walk

1401
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 2: around the mall okay. And by the way, this is

1402
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 2: a list that was made by a website. It's eleven

1403
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 2: things that parents of gen X kids did that would

1404
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: be considered a neglect today.

1405
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 3: My parents neglected me.

1406
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: I guess.

1407
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 2: So were you expected to cook your own food? Apparently

1408
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 2: now you don't have to cook your own food?

1409
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: Did dan something?

1410
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 13: I always cooked with my parents because my parents are chefs,

1411
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 13: so I like they wanted me to learn how to cook.

1412
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 3: Okay, that was a big thing.

1413
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 2: Like if you wanted to make something and you were

1414
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 2: eight years old or ten and they weren't there, maybe

1415
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 2: that wasn't even a thing either. But I mean, were

1416
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 2: you allowed to, you know, tear on the stove and

1417
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 2: cook an egg or something if you wanted to?

1418
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 3: I would.

1419
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 13: The thing is I was really lucky because I grew

1420
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 13: up with a house with a lot of food, so

1421
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 13: I never really had that. You never had to cook, Okay,

1422
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 13: well like I did, but like not, like I never

1423
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 13: cooked eggs by myself or anything.

1424
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 3: Plus I'm the youngest, so my sister was always home.

1425
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 3: I was never really alone.

1426
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: You had people serving on you, serving you.

1427
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 3: Okay, are your.

1428
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,479
Speaker 2: Nieces and nephews who are much younger, are they allowed

1429
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 2: to do any of this stuff?

1430
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: Like? Can they go roam the neighborhood.

1431
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,919
Speaker 7: And they can go to the park, but there's cell

1432
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 7: phones with locations on them, so that doesn't really count.

1433
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 7: They're not allowed to cook. Everybody gets door dashed or

1434
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 7: uber eats.

1435
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: Now what, Okay, So that's okay.

1436
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 2: So don't turn the stove on then, because you might

1437
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 2: burn the house down or whatever.

1438
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 7: I know, I I was crying up pork chops at teams,

1439
00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 7: you know, making spaghetti, oh yeah, noodles to make rice.

1440
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: I knew how to make eggs, oh oh yeah.

1441
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 16: And cheese.

1442
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: I knew how to make mac and cheese. Oh yeah. No,

1443
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: there was no It wasn't order of peach every time

1444
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: you're hungry. No, oh no. Interesting. I didn't touch a

1445
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: stove until I was definitely in my twenties.

1446
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 2: We talked about this yesterday, making babies cry it out.

1447
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 2: I guess that's not a thing that people do anymore.

1448
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 2: It's just let the baby cry out. Because Na Pauline

1449
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 2: was talking about how little baby Gigi, you know, gets

1450
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 2: mad as stuff and like hits and whatever at one

1451
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 2: year old, which is you know, and tells her mom

1452
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 2: to f off and you know, leave and stuff like

1453
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 2: that. That's crazy and one it's a lot of angst in

1454
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 2: that kid already. But you know, the thing was you

1455
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: just let them have the outburst and just let them

1456
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 2: do it. But I do think that, like in this

1457
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 2: day and age, either people would be annoyed or they

1458
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 2: would actually think you were not doing your job if

1459
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 2: your kid freaks out in the store and you just

1460
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 2: let them freak out and walk around like that.

1461
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I mean that's what you're supposed to do.

1462
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 2: I thought as a parent, But I don't know that

1463
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 2: people wouldn't call cps on you. Now if you were

1464
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 2: walking around the you know, the jewel or the Walgreens

1465
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 2: or whatever, and your kid was just screaming because you

1466
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 2: just weren't going to deal with the fact that you

1467
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 2: were going to buy them the popsicles or the toy

1468
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 2: or whatever. Did the cops show up for that? Like

1469
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 2: abuse now or something? Letting kids figure things out themselves.

1470
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 2: Ignoring school bullies now, this is a more controversial topic

1471
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 2: because bullying has gotten far more sophisticated now. I mean,

1472
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 2: it's the same spirit of idiots saying mean things to

1473
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 2: other people because they're projecting that they're actually the loser,

1474
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 2: which is the thing that your parents always tell you

1475
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: when you're growing up, Like when the kids making fun

1476
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 2: of you and saying mean things about you, it's like, well,

1477
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 2: this person actually is very insecure about themselves and they

1478
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,959
Speaker 2: make you know. It's a terrible quality that someone people

1479
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 2: to make themselves feel better by putting you down. And

1480
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:42,080
Speaker 2: you're going to grow up to be really successful and great,

1481
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 2: so don't worry about them, you know. That's the advice

1482
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 2: I got about bullies. But my parents weren't calling the

1483
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,919
Speaker 2: school saying don't bully my kid. My parents weren't calling

1484
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 2: the parents, but my parents were like, this is part

1485
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 2: of life, and people are always going to be a holes.

1486
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 2: And that's true to this day, and I'm forty four

1487
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 2: years old and there are still people who get off

1488
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 2: on other people's failures and me. So like, if you're

1489
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 2: not equipped for that, then I don't know how well

1490
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 2: you're going to do in the real world. But I

1491
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 2: will admit you know, it's gotten. It's gotten far more dramatic,

1492
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 2: far more drastic. The accessibility with technology and social media

1493
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 2: and the ways that people are bullying are far vaster

1494
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 2: than they were. But as it pertains to just kids

1495
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 2: being mean to kids, I don't know how much there

1496
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 2: that there is anymore. How did your parents deal with

1497
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 2: you being bullied?

1498
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 3: Well, my dad's Italian, so children.

1499
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: All right to them, there's a big hole in your backyard.

1500
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 3: So he said, put me on the radios outside.

1501
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 2: I put your mother on the air, and I let

1502
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 2: her speak freely. She doesn't even know my name.

1503
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 3: I know, Jeff.

1504
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 13: No, my dad my mom would give very opposite advice.

1505
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 3: My dad's like, let me know who they are. I

1506
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 3: want to talk to them.

1507
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 13: I was like, he's like very very confrontational, and my

1508
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 13: mom's just like who cares, just like blow it off

1509
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 13: their losers. And so I would never really listen to

1510
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 13: my dad in that sense. I mean, like a couple

1511
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 13: of times I did, and I probably shouldn't have, but

1512
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 13: I tried to stick with what my mom said because

1513
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 13: it felt a little more rash.

1514
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 3: When you egged the car. Oh, yeah, that is true.

1515
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 3: Maybe I am like my dad.

1516
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: Well I did.

1517
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 2: I Okay, it sounds like your dad would actually kill

1518
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 2: people with his bare hands, and you egged a car,

1519
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 2: so you're.

1520
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: Not like you're going to a car.

1521
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 3: I threw poop at people's cars.

1522
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: Here's poop. Oh I thought I thought you were gonna

1523
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:35,479
Speaker 1: say you're poop.

1524
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 3: I was worried ab.

1525
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: In this segment is you're not the person to talk

1526
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: to you?

1527
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 3: Are you the bully?

1528
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 13: No, somebody egged my house and I didn't even know

1529
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:47,000
Speaker 13: who they were, and so I retaliated with dog poop.

1530
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: That's what it's giving. Okay, So you bully. Your parents

1531
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: basically raised you like you were one of us. So

1532
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: this is not you're not the person to talk to but.

1533
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 2: So sorry, like the bullying thing, I know, I'd look

1534
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 2: like and someone's gonna text up here and go, oh,

1535
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 2: you know, terrible example of this. Yes, of course are

1536
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 2: extreme examples, and there are ways that people are bullying

1537
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 2: now that they couldn't bully Usten. But I do say

1538
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 2: that there's something too kids being mean to kids, and

1539
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 2: you've got to teach your kids how to manage that

1540
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 2: because it's not going to go away in adulthood. And

1541
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 2: so like if you take your kid out of school,

1542
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 2: or if you I don't know a lot of different

1543
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 2: things that I've heard of people do, or homeschool your

1544
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 2: kid simply because you don't want to expose them to

1545
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 2: certain things that are mean. I understand that that sort

1546
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 2: of desire but like what happens then when it's time

1547
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 2: for your kid to go out and get a job

1548
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 2: and be in the real world and someone's mean to

1549
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:37,520
Speaker 2: them and they don't know what to how to cope

1550
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: with that or what to do because it's going to

1551
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 2: happen because people are mean. Oh.

1552
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 3: Yes, my dad taught me how to punch mine. Is

1553
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 3: that bad?

1554
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 1: No? But the rule in our house was don't hit

1555
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: unless you're a men. Hit. If you get hit, then

1556
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 1: you can hit. That was my thing. Yes, and that's

1557
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: different for.

1558
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 3: What I gotten this first on the butt with a stick.

1559
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 12: Yeah, when we were in kindergarten, and so my dad

1560
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 12: taught me how to throw a punch, throw a punch,

1561
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 12: and so the next day he said, there he is,

1562
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 12: and I punched him.

1563
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: I mean, if boys, I guess, if a man hits

1564
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: a woman, you can do what you gotta do a.

1565
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 3: Man, it's a woman. He was a little boy.

1566
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: He's probably fat, that's what. Well, that's what I just said, though.

1567
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 3: I just said, you had a welt on my butt.

1568
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: She was little, and it was she was a child.

1569
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 2: But like, if if a man hits a woman, then

1570
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 2: you know a woman and he can retell you in

1571
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 2: whatever way she pleases, except you know, poop, there's the

1572
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 2: there too, Jose.

1573
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 1: Jose, Okay, why do we call Jose?

1574
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 2: So like, why do we call the radio station and

1575
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 2: then we don't say anything?

1576
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 3: Maybe put him on hold and then pick him back up.

1577
01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 2: One more time, Jose, because I hear that there's like

1578
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:47,479
Speaker 2: a phone on. Okay, Well that was fun, thanks Jose.

1579
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 2: I agree with you. That insightful. What insightful feedback there.

1580
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 2: And honestly, the middle, the middle part of that call

1581
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 2: touched me the most. I think where he really got

1582
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 2: into his childhood.

1583
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 14: And talked about it was like when he was talking,

1584
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 14: time had no meaning.

1585
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 3: He could have gone on forever.

1586
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 2: For me, it was poetic, Like the guy is a

1587
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: true orator. Like a lot of people say that, like

1588
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 2: like Barack Obama can speak and Martin Luther King, But

1589
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 2: when Jose talks to me, it's like I'm the only

1590
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 2: person in the room.

1591
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 3: I'm a different person, you know what.

1592
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 1: A true speaker. Yeah, he was great, a true orator,

1593
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, I was. I was

1594
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: totally just locked in on everything he had to say.

1595
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: I feel like, Jose, know, your mic is very much

1596
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: on and you can speak. What an incredible speech.

1597
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 2: Okay, well anyway, and I was just I was wondering

1598
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 2: if any of this related to you, because because you

1599
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 2: do represent that generation, but I think your parents made

1600
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:46,680
Speaker 2: made it such that none of them.

1601
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: No, it's okay, it's okay.

1602
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: You can go now, and Polynic can come back, have

1603
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 2: a nice day, because that's that's where we're at now.

1604
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 2: Is with this we have to switch people, physically, switch

1605
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 2: human beings so that we have enough people to do

1606
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 2: the jobs. Rather it's gonna yeah and the doors.

1607
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: Get well, I tell her, yeah, no, we don't really

1608
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: follow directions. Well you all right, Kicky.

1609
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 3: Yes, the live stream is going great this morning.

1610
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 5: I'm having a great Oh more fredshell next right here.

1611
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: Nothing beats the jet to you holiday and right now

1612
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: you can save fifty pounds per person.

1613
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 3: That's two hundred pounds off for a family of fool.

1614
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: Fred show is my algrhythm.

1615
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 7: This weekend was menopause, and I think that's because Caitlin

1616
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 7: and I we'll talk about going through it. We were

1617
01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 7: talking about hot flashes on Friday, and now I can.

1618
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 3: Give these alerts about menopause.

1619
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 7: And it's so embarrassing because I don't want anyone to

1620
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 7: see me on a ennifo radio.

1621
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: Why are you talking about she is a fan? You

1622
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 1: guys are getting hot flashes? Seem awfully young for that.

1623
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 7: We were talking about a real housewife that goes around

1624
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 7: town and she always has a fan, and I'm always

1625
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 7: have a fan too. But we were both saying like

1626
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 7: we always get hot or whatever, and now my phone

1627
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 7: is awful about menopauls and like how to avoid hop smashes.

1628
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 3: It's so embarrassing. We at least you'll know, no, I

1629
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 3: don't want to notice early.

1630
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 1: Great, we already run worm right, You've got quite a

1631
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: while until that happens. When you're prepared.

1632
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:16,720
Speaker 3: It's very embarrassing.

1633
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 1: You know what's going on. Order, it's a fresh show.

1634
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: It's Kiki's cord. All rise, The honorable Kikilik is here.

1635
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 1: Judge Kiki, your honor. The floor is yours.

1636
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 7: All right, let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has

1637
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 7: been hit. It says, hey, Kiki, am I wrong for

1638
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 7: reporting my neighbor's rescue dogs sanctuary. I live in a

1639
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 7: quiet suburban neighborhood. My next door neighbor, though, started fostering

1640
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 7: rescue dogs. At first, he was sweet two or three

1641
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 7: dogs in the yard, But now he's got ten dogs

1642
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 7: at a time, and it feels like I live next

1643
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 7: to a kennel. The barking is constant, the smell is awful,

1644
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:00,160
Speaker 7: and to make things worse, the dogs keep escaping through

1645
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 7: through gaps in his old fence and running into my yard.

1646
01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 7: They've torn up my flower beds, knocked over my trash cans,

1647
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 7: and even scared my niece when she was outside. I

1648
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 7: tried talking to him calmly, but he brushed me off,

1649
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 7: saying these dogs would be dead without me. You should

1650
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 7: be grateful that I'm saving lives. I suggested to him,

1651
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 7: maybe lemiting how many dogs he's fostering at a time, or.

1652
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 3: Fixing his fence.

1653
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 7: He then accused me of being anti rescue and said

1654
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 7: people like me are the reason that shelters are full.

1655
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 7: That was my final straw, so I filed a complaint

1656
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 7: with the city. Animal Control came out and deemed his

1657
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 7: home unsafe. They removed all of the dogs, even his

1658
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 7: family dog. Now he's telling everybody that I'm evil and

1659
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 7: I hate dogs, and my neighbors seemed to be siding

1660
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:53,679
Speaker 7: with him. Was I wrong for filing the complaint.

1661
01:09:54,320 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 2: Mmm, that is a very complicated case, is alright? Well,

1662
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 2: judge Kiki. By the way, you guys are the jury

1663
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 2: eight five five five three five What say you?

1664
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 4: So?

1665
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 7: You know, I have a problem with people who adopt

1666
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 7: dogs and they can't take care of them. I have

1667
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 7: a big problem. Like I understand, your heart is in

1668
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 7: the right place. My heart is in a lot of places.

1669
01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 7: But you don't need to adopt pets if you can't

1670
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 7: properly take care of them, you know, I don't. I

1671
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 7: wish you wouldn't have called and complained on him. However,

1672
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 7: I'm glad she did because when they got there, they

1673
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:32,920
Speaker 7: deemed it unsafe, and if it is indeed unsafe, they

1674
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 7: need to be taken out of.

1675
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 1: The home, Like girl, I mean, you can, but then

1676
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: what happens? What happens to unsafe?

1677
01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 3: To no?

1678
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 7: I know, I know, and I don't want any of

1679
01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:44,760
Speaker 7: the dogs to go to glory. I want them to

1680
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 7: be rescuing the safe. But they clearly were not being

1681
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 7: treated properly in his home.

1682
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: So yes, well, and you.

1683
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 2: Might be doing a good thing, but the neighborhood doesn't

1684
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 2: have to be affected by your good thing, because you

1685
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,559
Speaker 2: should be to do the good thing in a way

1686
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 2: that is good for the animals and also good for

1687
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 2: the community, right. I mean, it's just whatever you're doing

1688
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 2: next door might be a nice thing. But like if again,

1689
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 2: if it's unruly and unkempt and there's just there's chaos

1690
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 2: and whatever, well then are you really doing a good thing?

1691
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 3: Right?

1692
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:19,759
Speaker 7: And I was with him, I was with the neighbor

1693
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 7: up until they deemed it unsafe. Like, Okay, the dogs

1694
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 7: were barking, Okay, dogs bark the dogs tore up your

1695
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 7: flower bed.

1696
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 3: Okay, girl, they need a home. You know they're gonna

1697
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 3: be there forever.

1698
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: You know.

1699
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 7: I can get past all of that. But when they

1700
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 7: deemed the house unsafe, bro, I have to call the people.

1701
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1702
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 7: You know, it's not about you know, me hating or

1703
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 7: her hating dogs.

1704
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 3: It's just you.

1705
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 7: You did not have a safe environment for them. And

1706
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 7: I know your heart was in the right place, But

1707
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,560
Speaker 7: I don't understand adopting pets you can't take care of.

1708
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: But my question is white fostering.

1709
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: Why are all the neighbors turning on her if it

1710
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:53,640
Speaker 2: was that bad, Because wouldn't they have been affected by

1711
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 2: the same thing.

1712
01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:56,680
Speaker 7: It sounds like they didn't have the same issue that

1713
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 7: she was having. She was his direct next door neighbors.

1714
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 7: So they're going on with his word and he's just

1715
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 7: telling everybody she hates dogs and she's evil.

1716
01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would rather that. I mean again, so

1717
01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 2: you're saving these animals. They're not you know, potentially being

1718
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:15,360
Speaker 2: put down or whatever else. But you're not providing them

1719
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:17,600
Speaker 2: with a very good environment either.

1720
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 1: Right, So.

1721
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something better than nothing, I guess is the question.

1722
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: Or that's hard, that's hard to say.

1723
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:25,840
Speaker 3: You don't want them to go to like one of

1724
01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 3: those shelters, you know what you know?

1725
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 2: Right, but then again, if they're not living good lives

1726
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,639
Speaker 2: where they are, I mean, they're alive, but then at

1727
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 2: what expense?

1728
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 1: Hey, Laurie, good.

1729
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 3: Morning, Hello, good morning, Hi Laurie.

1730
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:39,639
Speaker 1: So what do you want to say Kiki's court? You're

1731
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 1: the jury.

1732
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 17: Okay, So here's the thing. How often did these issues occur?

1733
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:48,360
Speaker 17: A lot of times? What happens is, you know, the

1734
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 17: wind is blowing in the wrong direction, maybe there's a smell.

1735
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 10: Okay, what was that?

1736
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 17: You know, once every couple of months when the wind

1737
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 17: was blowing in the right direction, How often was the

1738
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 17: dog getting into the into the neighbor's yard. Was it

1739
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 17: once every six months? I just think that what happens

1740
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:09,440
Speaker 17: is is people they judge right off the bat, immediately

1741
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,400
Speaker 17: there's two or three circumstances, and they immediately want to

1742
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 17: make this person guilty without hearing the other side.

1743
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess the thing that's.

1744
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 2: I guess the thing that verifies all of this is

1745
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 2: when they show up to investigate and they're like, oh, no, no, no,

1746
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:25,640
Speaker 2: you can't do this.

1747
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah you know.

1748
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 2: Now, I also know that cities and municipalities and whatever

1749
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,640
Speaker 2: have been known to overreact, you know, and say that

1750
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:35,759
Speaker 2: something is hazardous when it's not, or say that something

1751
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 2: is bad when it's not. So I mean, how bad

1752
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 2: was it really? And I'm still wondering why none of

1753
01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 2: the other neighbors had as much of an issue with

1754
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 2: it as she did. Now, granted, the proximity may have

1755
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 2: been it, but somebody must have been on the other side.

1756
01:13:47,479 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 3: Or is she really just overreacting?

1757
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 17: That should tell you I think there's overreaction here, I

1758
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 17: really do. That should tell you right there, if all

1759
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 17: the neighbors are saying, hey, it really wasn't this bad

1760
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 17: and the city have to do that, they can't come

1761
01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 17: out under those circumstances and not do something about it.

1762
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 1: Yo, Yeah, I get that.

1763
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 17: Although I agree that, you know, maybe something had to

1764
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 17: be done, I do also believe there's another side to this.

1765
01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:17,799
Speaker 10: I'd like to hear that person's side.

1766
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Laurie, thank you, have a good day.

1767
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 10: We'll welcome you too.

1768
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 2: I think people think, well, I'm adopting these animals and

1769
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 2: they're not in the shelter so that they're better. But

1770
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 2: if they're not, what if they're not being fed properly?

1771
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 2: What if there's what if there are too many where

1772
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 2: the conditions aren't sanitary, that you're really not doing anybody

1773
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 2: any favors in that case, And it does happen. You

1774
01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 2: hear about hoarders, you hear about all kinds of different things,

1775
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 2: or people that adopt an animal. I mean, I've dealt

1776
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 2: with it one hundred times with pallets and pads. I mean,

1777
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 2: Kaitlyn knows of one where you know, you adopt an animal,

1778
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 2: the animal gets too big. This is happened three or

1779
01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 2: four different times. You buy a mastiff, or you adopt

1780
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:55,640
Speaker 2: a mastiff, or worse, you buy one like a purebred mastiff. Right,

1781
01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 2: like everybody knows that they're going to be huge, and

1782
01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:59,839
Speaker 2: then they get huge and people.

1783
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: Are like, what is this? Right?

1784
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do with this, and then

1785
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:04,759
Speaker 2: they're not treating it well and they can't afford defeat

1786
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 2: it and whatever, and then it's like what do we do?

1787
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,280
Speaker 1: And then it's not great for anybody? Right? But like

1788
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 1: what are you do when you know you knew what

1789
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: you were doing?

1790
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 2: And in that case, the animal needs to be rehomed

1791
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 2: or and luckily they are organizations that are out there

1792
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 2: trying to do this, But otherwise the animal is the

1793
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 2: one that you know, takes the brunze of it because

1794
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 2: they're the only ones in this. They don't have a

1795
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 2: whole lot of control of where they're going. Hey Daphney, Hi,

1796
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:31,760
Speaker 2: how you doing Gigee's court? Good morning? What say you?

1797
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 20: I say that she should have definitely called animal control.

1798
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 10: I think it's so.

1799
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 20: Often that people don't stand up for their own right

1800
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 20: and it's ridiculous.

1801
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Daphne, thank you, I'm glad you called. Have a

1802
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:47,720
Speaker 1: good day.

1803
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 2: And I guess the thing is you could say, well,

1804
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 2: why didn't she call like a no kill or something

1805
01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 2: like there's a bunch of organizations that would have taken

1806
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 2: these animals and found them homes or kept them. But

1807
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:57,719
Speaker 2: I don't think that those organizations have the right to

1808
01:15:57,960 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 2: just go And it needs to be a government into

1809
01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:03,639
Speaker 2: agency right to go into the house and be like, hey,

1810
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 2: you know, I don't think you know, our friends at

1811
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 2: whatever organization can just go knock on the door and go, hey,

1812
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 2: I'm taking all these animals. No, because there needs to

1813
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 2: be some jurisdiction.

1814
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 3: I missed it. Did they tried? Did she try to

1815
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:14,759
Speaker 3: have a conversation first?

1816
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 18: Oh?

1817
01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:15,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, she says.

1818
01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 7: She tried to tell him like, hey, why don't you

1819
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:20,679
Speaker 7: foster less dogs at a time? Why don't you get

1820
01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 7: your fence fixed? And he told her you're the reason

1821
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 7: that that was the first shelters are fool.

1822
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:30,759
Speaker 2: Hey Jenna, yeah, hi, Jenna Kiky's Court. So this, this woman,

1823
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 2: you know, had a neighbor who was fostering a bunch

1824
01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 2: of animals but really didn't apparently have the means to

1825
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 2: or the ability to keep to take care of them properly. Finally,

1826
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 2: she called animal control. Animal control deemed the place unsafe,

1827
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 2: took all the animals. Who knows what happens now, and

1828
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 2: the neighbors are pissed at her for that. What do

1829
01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:46,639
Speaker 2: you think.

1830
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 21: I think that he shouldn't have been able to have

1831
01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 21: as many animals as he did in the first place,

1832
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 21: So she shouldn't have had to make a complaint because

1833
01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 21: I've tried to foster and I have one cat and

1834
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 21: I wasn't able to because of the cat. So the

1835
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 21: fact that he was able to have so many foster pets,

1836
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 21: they should have been doing their due diligence and looking

1837
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 21: into a man further and.

1838
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: It would have never got stuck point.

1839
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 10: It's my opinion.

1840
01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 7: I agree with that people lie about in that process

1841
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:15,559
Speaker 7: all the time. And I don't know if he was

1842
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:18,880
Speaker 7: getting them off the street or you know, actually going

1843
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 7: through the whole process, but people do lie when they're

1844
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:21,959
Speaker 7: trying to foster animals.

1845
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1846
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,959
Speaker 3: True. Yeah, it's not good for the animals.

1847
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, Jenna, have a good day. Okay, Well what

1848
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:30,200
Speaker 1: is this one? No offense?

1849
01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:31,920
Speaker 2: I love y'all, but I think you're a bunch of

1850
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:34,760
Speaker 2: hypocrites because if this was not a fluffy dog and

1851
01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 2: a fluffy cat or bunny rabbit or something that was cute,

1852
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 2: if it was snakes all, y'all would have agreed with

1853
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 2: her and told her she what what we did agree

1854
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 2: with her.

1855
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:45,760
Speaker 3: He said that it was unsafe and they shouldn't be

1856
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 3: there matter what animal.

1857
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's snakes or fluffy bunnies, It

1858
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:54,639
Speaker 2: doesn't matter if the animals are not. If in fact,

1859
01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:57,720
Speaker 2: it was an unsafe place for the animals, and it

1860
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:01,400
Speaker 2: sounds like on top of that it wasn't well managed

1861
01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 2: and they weren't being well taken care of they were

1862
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 2: running around and whatever else, then I don't think there's

1863
01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:08,640
Speaker 2: a choice here, right, I really don't. And again I

1864
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 2: would love to have seen them go to a place

1865
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 2: where they would be safe and they would live forever.

1866
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:12,759
Speaker 1: For sure.

1867
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:14,760
Speaker 2: You know, a no kill shelter, But I don't think

1868
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 2: a no kill shelter has the authority to come in

1869
01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:19,720
Speaker 2: and be like, we're taking all these animals, especially from

1870
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 2: somebody who doesn't seem to have the self awareness to

1871
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 2: realize that maybe they're in over their head even if

1872
01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 2: they are doing a good thing.

1873
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but don't we say that we were.

1874
01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: We didn't. I don't know why I read that. I

1875
01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 1: just I don't know why I read that.

1876
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 3: I love snakes, to be honest, I know I'm a weirdo.

1877
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't. I don't.

1878
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 2: Hey Brandon, if you guys have to say about a snake,

1879
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 2: you better stop right now. You better, said Brandon. If

1880
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,639
Speaker 2: you talk about a stake or not a fluffy bunny,

1881
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:45,679
Speaker 2: then we're gonna.

1882
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 1: Have a problem.

1883
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:52,120
Speaker 6: We need to use some logic and intelligence here. The

1884
01:18:52,160 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 6: city doesn't just deem a house unsafe because it's a

1885
01:18:55,800 --> 01:19:00,200
Speaker 6: little fluffy buddy or a little puppy that's barky. Know,

1886
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 6: the house is a piece of crap. It needs to

1887
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,759
Speaker 6: be shut down for a legitimate reasons. It's not because

1888
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:11,760
Speaker 6: of the dog. The house itself is garbage. Therefore the

1889
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 6: inside is not safe. People just need to think a

1890
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:18,800
Speaker 6: little bit more clearly before they're panicking about.

1891
01:19:18,560 --> 01:19:19,759
Speaker 1: Well you hate my dogs.

1892
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 6: No, that's just the house itself.

1893
01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:25,559
Speaker 2: Look at this, Look at Brandon, right, Thank you, Brandon,

1894
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 2: have a good day. Brand is standing own business. And

1895
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:31,600
Speaker 2: because you know, government can be overreaching. But at the

1896
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 2: same time, I'm sure they don't want to have to

1897
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 2: deal with this now, you know, it's like this is

1898
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:41,679
Speaker 2: a logistic lusue for them too. Yeah, Hey, Kate, good morning,

1899
01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 2: Hi Kate, Kiky's care what say.

1900
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:47,439
Speaker 8: You I'm just wondering what kind of shelter is giving

1901
01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:49,280
Speaker 8: this guy twelve dogs to take care of.

1902
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 9: There's no way that that he's working with like a

1903
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:53,560
Speaker 9: reputable place.

1904
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 8: That's doing that.

1905
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that is a good question. Well where all

1906
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 2: these animals coming from? You know, because even the Pound,

1907
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:00,479
Speaker 2: I think at some point would be like, what are

1908
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:02,760
Speaker 2: you doing with all these you know, what what are

1909
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:03,720
Speaker 2: we doing here?

1910
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:05,720
Speaker 3: What he's put on different weeks.

1911
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: Where are they going?

1912
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 2: And again, if in fact he has the best intentions

1913
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 2: and he really is just trying to save all these

1914
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 2: animals from certain death, that I respect that, but there

1915
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:17,040
Speaker 2: is an obligation to the animals here to make sure

1916
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 2: that they're well taken care of and accounted for and

1917
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:22,479
Speaker 2: they're not running loose, because that, again, it defeats the

1918
01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 2: purpose if they're just if they're not safe and they're

1919
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 2: not being well fed or taken care of that you know,

1920
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 2: a sort of a sanitary environment.

1921
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 3: And took the.

1922
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 7: Family doll like they took his, you know, they took

1923
01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 7: his doll too, so that lets you know.

1924
01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:40,760
Speaker 1: They must have really not like what they saw. And

1925
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:42,720
Speaker 1: I don't think it's.

1926
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,639
Speaker 8: Like an animal hoarding situation, right.

1927
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, right, right, right right, And yeah, I would

1928
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 2: feel bad if I'm the neighbor that has to make

1929
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:51,559
Speaker 2: that call and that's what happens. But again, I mean,

1930
01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:53,599
Speaker 2: we got to have some accountability here for the fact

1931
01:20:53,640 --> 01:20:55,639
Speaker 2: that somebody came in there and saw it and goes no, no, no, no, no,

1932
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 2: we can't do it like this. Yeah, so there was

1933
01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 2: someone's really wrong. Thank you, Kate, Thank you. Have a

1934
01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:05,479
Speaker 2: good day, Kelly. Kelly, it's the neighbor's fault. Which neighbor.

1935
01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 20: I think it's the neighbor with the pets because the

1936
01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:12,679
Speaker 20: other neighbor tries to compromise. I think she was very

1937
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 20: kind and trying to reach out and talk to him

1938
01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:18,560
Speaker 20: about it, and I don't think she had bad intentions

1939
01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 20: because she was even shocked at it was being done safe.

1940
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 20: So I think that the neighbor did the best she

1941
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 20: could to talk to the other guy. He just didn't

1942
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 20: want to compromise.

1943
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right, Thank you, Kelly. Have a

1944
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 1: good day.

1945
01:21:30,240 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 2: I think it's been decided, Okay, I think he gets caught.

1946
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 2: I think it's case close.

1947
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 1: She's not wrong, no, and it's kind of feel bad

1948
01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: and now the neighbors are mad but then again, I

1949
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: want to know which neighbor are the neighbors like two

1950
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 1: streets over mad didn't even have to deal with this.

1951
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:44,400
Speaker 3: I don't know. But let this be a lesson.

1952
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 7: If you can't feed yourself or if you're struggling to

1953
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 7: feed yourself, don't get a pet.

1954
01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 3: Yeah it's like a baby, like a kid. Don't have

1955
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 3: a kid if you know you already strut.

1956
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: Like, I'm all for doing the noble thing, but like, yeah,

1957
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,599
Speaker 2: sometimes sometimes we gotta do a noble thing for ourselves.

1958
01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 2: At this, look at this golden rule.

1959
01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:01,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1960
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:07,280
Speaker 2: There's a woman, a very distraught woman, who went to Albertson,

1961
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Speaker 2: which is a grocery chain maybe where you are, and

1962
01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:14,160
Speaker 2: she had just a terrible really what's being described as

1963
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 2: a harrowing experience a hair I mean, seriously, this is

1964
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:21,519
Speaker 2: the kind of thing that stays with you forever. Listen

1965
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 2: to this, this first hand account of what happened, and

1966
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:26,560
Speaker 2: then I'll let you guys decide, Like the journey the

1967
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 2: Karen Reid case, should who is guilty and innocent?

1968
01:22:30,280 --> 01:22:31,839
Speaker 3: That's fresh because it just happened.

1969
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:37,360
Speaker 4: But my wife and I who just went to the

1970
01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 4: store or the grocery store by her house, just to

1971
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 4: buy like junk food and stuff, you know, because we're

1972
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:46,879
Speaker 4: really tired, just wanted some sweet treats.

1973
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:50,480
Speaker 1: And we were walking.

1974
01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:53,640
Speaker 4: Down an aisle and there were like two guys that

1975
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 4: walked up next to us, you know, Peyton like walked away,

1976
01:22:56,439 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 4: My wife walked away for just a second, and they

1977
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:04,559
Speaker 4: were like snickering to their like to themselves or something,

1978
01:23:05,920 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 4: and like, I didn't really think much of it. So

1979
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 4: I'm just looking at the candy. I'll try to decide

1980
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:16,599
Speaker 4: what candy I want. And he walks by and gets

1981
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 4: like inches from me and just rips one like folks

1982
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 4: like this far from me. That's disgusting to say.

1983
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 3: I can't even believe I'm having to say this, but

1984
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 3: he did.

1985
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 4: And about that time, Peyton walked up like didn't witness

1986
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 4: what happened, but like seconds later, and I'm like.

1987
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Speaker 1: Upset, and I follow after him.

1988
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,320
Speaker 3: I was like, is there a reason.

1989
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:41,719
Speaker 4: You were just so disrespectful to me?

1990
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Speaker 6: Yeah?

1991
01:23:42,080 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 3: I had need some.

1992
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 1: I needed I need to know more, like did did

1993
01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 1: he did? Did he target her?

1994
01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:50,680
Speaker 2: Or was this a case of a of a of

1995
01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:54,680
Speaker 2: a drive by of a crop dusting situation that went awry?

1996
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: Like where it was supposed to be silent, but deadly.

1997
01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:01,519
Speaker 2: It happens to everybody normal. I try everything to be

1998
01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:04,320
Speaker 2: as far away from human beings as possible, but like

1999
01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,439
Speaker 2: when we're out in public, and that's what, that's what

2000
01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:10,679
Speaker 2: the situation, that's that, those are the hands. The cards

2001
01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 2: have been dealt. I must deal But I would certainly

2002
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:15,879
Speaker 2: not walk up to someone and like aim.

2003
01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:16,480
Speaker 1: It at them.

2004
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 3: I've heard enough. She's hysterical, like, find a real problem.

2005
01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:21,040
Speaker 3: Someone tooted by you.

2006
01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:27,640
Speaker 1: I guess she called the cops or like security or

2007
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:29,400
Speaker 1: whatever she went to. She went to.

2008
01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 2: Albertson's grocery store security and said, hey, this guy just

2009
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:36,880
Speaker 2: assaulted me with his flatulence and they did not do anything.

2010
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:39,600
Speaker 2: They couldn't do anything. Yeah, wow, yeah, And I don't know.

2011
01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:41,320
Speaker 2: I mean what I would have in that situation. I

2012
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:44,360
Speaker 2: would have been like, you know, those who dealt it,

2013
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 2: those who smelt it, dealt it is what I would

2014
01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:46,760
Speaker 2: have said.

2015
01:24:46,800 --> 01:24:49,880
Speaker 1: That's what the law says on this matter. For her,

2016
01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 1: I feel like she might. I feel like traumatized.

2017
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 2: I'm not sure that you could never wash that feeling

2018
01:24:56,080 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 2: off of you. She just wanted she got way more

2019
01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 2: than that. And the cops wouldn't do anything for it.

2020
01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 2: Now we're crying on the internet. What I haven't done that.

2021
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:08,519
Speaker 2: I just am ashamed of it. I have not just

2022
01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 2: run right to the comments. But that's I'm sure that's

2023
01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:15,200
Speaker 2: where all the Oh I would have to log into X.

2024
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:17,600
Speaker 3: You couldn't waterboard that story out of me. I'm not

2025
01:25:17,640 --> 01:25:19,719
Speaker 3: gonna be crying on the internet about somebody.

2026
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's yeah, that's yeah. I would keep it to myself.

2027
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:23,800
Speaker 2: I think like I would. I would sort of just

2028
01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,240
Speaker 2: I would suffer in silence on that one. You know,

2029
01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 2: maybe come home and share it with Morgan or whatever

2030
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:30,599
Speaker 2: her name was. Or she was there, she was present

2031
01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 2: for her her wife. Oh, so she was able to

2032
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:35,720
Speaker 2: share in the trauma. But go on the internet and

2033
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 2: cry about it.

2034
01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 9: It is.

2035
01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:38,919
Speaker 1: I will say it's disgusting.

2036
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I just discuss if the person walks, if

2037
01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 2: someone walks right up to you right like a friar

2038
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:47,560
Speaker 2: house and goes, you know whatever, I'm assuming it was

2039
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:50,800
Speaker 2: as it was embarrassed, like there was clothing. I'm assuming

2040
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,040
Speaker 2: there were layers of clothes far like it was a

2041
01:25:53,040 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 2: little bit filtered at least, you know what I'm saying,

2042
01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:56,640
Speaker 2: Like a bare ass that would have.

2043
01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:01,720
Speaker 3: Been at Albertson's right. Yeah, if you if you.

2044
01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 1: Drop trou and then this occurs, like now we line

2045
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:09,519
Speaker 1: would I would argue it's as salt.

2046
01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 14: But yeah, it was like a dad joke, like oh,

2047
01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 14: stepped on a duck or something, you know, Like I

2048
01:26:15,240 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 14: don't know, I hear Dad say that.

2049
01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:19,639
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think there needs to be a full investigation. Yes,

2050
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:22,200
Speaker 2: let's get ampav on this as soon as this case

2051
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:24,200
Speaker 2: is over. Let's get these same jurors on this. We

2052
01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,760
Speaker 2: need to investigate. Let's get the Boston police to I mean,

2053
01:26:26,880 --> 01:26:30,679
Speaker 2: surely they'll get to the bottom of it. They'll figure

2054
01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 2: out what happened, no problem at all. Yeah, they'll burn

2055
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:37,800
Speaker 2: the store down. The grocery store will be destroyed, all

2056
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:40,679
Speaker 2: evidence will be gone. They'll move the person to another state.

2057
01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:43,600
Speaker 2: They'll change their names. No out blowing glass anymore. Like

2058
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:44,479
Speaker 2: it'll be crazy.

2059
01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:51,480
Speaker 3: It's fun, fact fun.

2060
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:55,880
Speaker 1: Let's look so much now.

2061
01:26:56,160 --> 01:27:03,240
Speaker 2: So, the oldest male prophylactic ever, and I shouldn't say that.

2062
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what other methods they use, but the

2063
01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:09,160
Speaker 2: oldest condoms ever were found to be made from animal

2064
01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:13,799
Speaker 2: and fish intestines. One particular example was not in Sweden

2065
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:16,880
Speaker 2: was crafted from a pag Intestine and it's thought to

2066
01:27:16,960 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 2: have been made around sixteen forty A.

2067
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:21,960
Speaker 1: D wow social there.

2068
01:27:24,240 --> 01:27:29,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so it's like, hey baby, hold on a second,

2069
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 3: let me go grab you know, the stuff, and then

2070
01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:35,120
Speaker 3: that's what it is. I mean, I would have had

2071
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:35,800
Speaker 3: a lot of kids.