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Speaker 1: And with a ahole for sleeping in a stranger's door

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Speaker 1: when I was visiting my friend at college. I am

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Speaker 2: Wait, what is that the intro? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, the last part was me. That would have

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Speaker 2: Give them the shadow. What's their handle?

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Speaker 3: That's right, it is purple soup.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a purple simple soup.

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Speaker 4: in the point fives on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: That's right, throw it in.

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Speaker 1: Baby, I, twenty female, was invited to visit my childhood

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Speaker 1: best friend, also twenty females, college, to celebrate her birthday.

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Speaker 3: Let's call her Molly.

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Speaker 1: I didn't seen Molly for two years because I had

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Speaker 1: moved an hour and half away, but prior to all this,

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Speaker 1: we were best friends since fourth grade. I was invited

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Speaker 1: day after her birthday, so let's be clear birthday. Oh

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Speaker 1: but this wasn't her actual birthday, which she did celebrate

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Speaker 3: This is kind of like a after party.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, just a little caveat, Like, if someone's

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Speaker 3: That's a good point. People have multiple birthdays.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's like Also, if I can't celebrate with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's still it's still birthday vibes, Still birthday vibes.

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Speaker 1: I had never been to a college party prior to

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Speaker 1: Molly knew this.

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Speaker 1: She said that her and her friends were going to

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Speaker 3: I'm guessing it wouldn't be a big deal.

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Speaker 1: One thing I made clear was since I live an

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Speaker 3: She promised I could park on campus without any issues.

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Speaker 1: So I called Molly and told her I was ten

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Speaker 1: She called me when I'm five minutes away and told

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Speaker 1: I thought the friends were good to chill. I pull

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Speaker 1: When I meet up with her friends, they were all

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Speaker 3: Now. We went to go partying around one am, when.

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Speaker 1: A random girl overhears this and offers to make me

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's great.

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Speaker 3: I agree and assume that Molly is following us.

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Speaker 1: When we get back to her balcony, I see that

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Speaker 1: that is such an awkward, awkward situation to be in.

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Speaker 1: Mollie is actively declining my calls. She would even pick

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Mollie's a terrible friend.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Finally she stays on the phone long enough for

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Speaker 1: We call her and tell her that we're there, and

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Speaker 3: They are but like give me. This is also like

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Speaker 1: Dudie took it up with his like hey, I don't

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Speaker 1: She's saying crazy things like if you leave, we're done

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Speaker 1: a hurricane of destruction. Like I mean, just like Katrina,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Molly wouldn't answer my text or calls to tell me

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Speaker 1: The kicker was the girl told me that I could

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Speaker 3: The day of Molly, Wow, Molly's a bad friend. The

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Speaker 3: next day, I asked Molly finance my birthday. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The next day I asked Molly if we could talk.

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Speaker 1: I went off on her overtext about how she had

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Speaker 1: out strong, coming out strong low key kind of deserves that.

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Speaker 1: I also did some not nice name calling, but I

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Speaker 1: not what happened, and if I felt that way, it's

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Speaker 1: a good thing. We're not friends anymore. Then she blocked me,

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Speaker 1: which I was happy about, even though I wanted to

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Speaker 1: have the last word. I know I'm not the a

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Speaker 1: hole for leaving Molly, But am I the a hole

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Speaker 4: I think something that is apparent is if a stranger

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Speaker 4: have picked the wrong friends.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just the circumstance. Like you didn't.

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Speaker 1: You had no intention of like crashing and taking up

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Speaker 1: you know, all this all this time from this girl,

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Speaker 1: but you just ended up going with getting some mac

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Speaker 3: Help you eat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so, big yikes, dude, big yikes.

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Speaker 2: But thank you for your story. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Let's know, baby,