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Speaker 1: The Nicki Gliser Podcast Niki Glaser.

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Speaker 2: Here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello, here I am it's a Nicki Glaser podcast. Welcome

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Speaker 3: to it. Joining me as always, Brian Frangie. He's in

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Speaker 3: Los Angeles. How's it going, Brian?

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Speaker 4: Hello, it's going fine. I'm doing fine. Everybody great.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for Yeah, your wedding is coming up very soon

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Speaker 3: in a couple of weekends.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, don't remind me. Anxiety levels are yes. If

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Speaker 4: you want to get tickets to my wedding, you can

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Speaker 4: go to our adam tickets dot com slash Brian's wedding. No,

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Speaker 4: anxiety levels are at a high. Are at a high right.

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Speaker 3: Now, Let's talk about that a little bit because we

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Speaker 3: also have Anya here from she's in New York. She's

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Speaker 3: also getting married, So you're getting married. Sorry, Anya's getting

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Speaker 3: married July ninth, yep. And Brian, you're getting married June sixeenth, seventeenth, seventeenth.

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Speaker 3: So this and then Noah is also engaged in TBD

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Speaker 3: on when she's gonna get married. But this is wild

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Speaker 3: that we have this, I mean, the randomness with what ages. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and then me who's like starting early stages of talking

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Speaker 3: about that kind of stuff with her partner, Well.

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Speaker 4: You're getting married on August seventeenth, twenty forty eight, twenty twenty.

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Speaker 1: Did you never hear about that?

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Speaker 3: Obviously I can work with that date. That is like,

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Speaker 3: that's honestly, this.

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Speaker 1: Is wait, did he I have so much to say?

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Speaker 1: Did wry to say twenty twenty four?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: He said forty eight, twenty forty eight, And that is

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Speaker 3: honestly a date I can work.

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Speaker 2: Okay, got it? That gives me no anxiety. Perfect.

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Speaker 3: We have so many things to talk about before we

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Speaker 3: get started, though. I just want to say that the

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Speaker 3: response about Brian has been overwhelmingly positive, almost one hundred

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Speaker 3: percent positive. I see no no one said anything negative

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Speaker 3: to me. I'm sure people are writing about it extensively,

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Speaker 3: but I don't read that stuff. You guys know that,

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Speaker 3: but no, I it was so it's so heartening to hear,

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Speaker 3: especially on my Girl's Chat. My best friend Kirsten, one

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Speaker 3: of my best friends, she's on the Girl's Chat and

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Speaker 3: she's an avid listener to the podcast, and she said

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Speaker 3: that she just she did an impression of you yesterday.

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Speaker 3: We should play it. I wish I would have like

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Speaker 3: saved it because there's too much other talk on there

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Speaker 3: that I can't just like randomly play stuff because people

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Speaker 3: are crying about their lives and stuff on there. So

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Speaker 3: but she did cry about Brian's life a little bit. No,

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Speaker 3: she just did an impression of you that was so sweet,

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Speaker 3: because she's really good at impressions. But she said that

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Speaker 3: she just loves I just trust her opinion. She would

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Speaker 3: say nothing if it was like there was nothing to say,

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Speaker 3: but she just said she thinks you're so funny.

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Speaker 2: And she's like such an arbiter of.

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Speaker 3: What's funny to me because she's one of the finnest

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Speaker 3: people I've ever met. And she just likes your like

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Speaker 3: tude and your mood and your and your dude you're dude,

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Speaker 3: and she just likes she likes it, and she said

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Speaker 3: so many nice things. And I know Noah was on

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Speaker 3: that same chat. Did you hear that, Noah, didn't that

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Speaker 3: make you feel good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to look for it now, But Okay.

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Speaker 4: I hear that impression because it would inform me as

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Speaker 4: to like what I how I am view We don't

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Speaker 4: want to it's important as a comedian to know like

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Speaker 4: what how people view you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'll talk exactly at your pace right now?

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Speaker 2: Does this sound like you too?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: I mean, we need this on the podcast. I'm talking

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Speaker 3: motor mouth over here.

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Speaker 4: I'm totally I have no idea how I sound or

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Speaker 4: how it's supposed to sound, and I would love to.

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Speaker 2: Are you doing stand up right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I got to show it tonight. I was in

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Speaker 4: Arizona actually right now. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Are you doing a bit right now? You were in

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Speaker 2: Arizona this past weekend?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was in Tempea, Arizona this past weekend at

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Speaker 4: the Tempe Improv.

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Speaker 2: Oh sweet, that's a good club.

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Speaker 4: Who are you opening for Adam Conover? Oh?

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Speaker 3: That's so fun because if you don't know, Brian wrote

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Speaker 3: on Adam Ruins Everything, which.

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Speaker 4: Seasons two through the Find finale.

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Speaker 3: And then you also help him on his YouTube channel now,

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Speaker 3: which is like blowing up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, YouTube channel, he's got like six hundred thousand subs.

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Speaker 4: All of his videos get a million views. Yes, and

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Speaker 4: he's like, yes, a versioning star in the WGA negotiations.

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Speaker 4: He's really because he's amazing. Yes, and uh yeah, and

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Speaker 4: he also had the show that you were.

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Speaker 2: Where did you get that?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right?

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Speaker 3: That and you've got a really great story about that

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Speaker 3: that we should get into it at some point. Let

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Speaker 3: me just hold let me just ask you, because I

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Speaker 3: don't know if I know the story. How did you

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Speaker 3: You did tell us you've got a blind submission for

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Speaker 3: the Adam Conover.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, we did stand up together open mics

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Speaker 4: and stuff in New York City back in the early

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Speaker 4: whatever is the two thousand Tennis area?

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Speaker 2: I know we need a name for that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what the fuck can we please? I'm sick and

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Speaker 4: tired of saying the early aughts.

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Speaker 2: Let's coin one whatever.

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Speaker 4: Someone says the early.

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Speaker 3: Makes sense, that's like two thousand and one to two

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Speaker 3: thousand and eight, Yes, but then what are we calling

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Speaker 3: two thousand and nine to two thousand twenty.

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Speaker 4: It sucks because if it was the nineteen hundreds, you

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Speaker 4: could just say that was the twenties, that was the thirties,

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Speaker 4: that was the forties. When we're in the.

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Speaker 1: Ten, why don't I say the tens.

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Speaker 3: Because two thousand ten nobody does the early two thousand tens, Like,

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Speaker 3: what does that?

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Speaker 1: Why don't I say in the early tens, Because no

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Speaker 1: one's talking about the twentieth century anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about nineteen ten.

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Speaker 1: All the time, cholera, automobiles, scarvy, we know.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, Okay, I found it.

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Speaker 3: I'm totally around in this conversation, but I think it

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter. We need to be taken out of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's get us.

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Speaker 3: Betts Ky is on fire right now. I've had a

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Speaker 3: perfect amount of latte, okay, which is one and a half? Okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: here's any lattes.

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Speaker 5: Here's Kirsten's impersonation of Brian wondering about his wedding.

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Speaker 4: I'm real curious where Brian Franzi is getting married, Like

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Speaker 4: where is the National Park?

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Speaker 1: I find him hilarious and I'm so glad that he

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Speaker 1: is a part of the show.

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Speaker 4: I have a meaning to say that because.

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Speaker 3: I think it, and he's waits for the right time

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Speaker 3: to talk, and yeah, between him.

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Speaker 2: And audiaving on it, it's like the best it's ever been.

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Speaker 2: So thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: She's watching white asparagus.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's always like meal prepping. She's doing something of

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Speaker 3: a woman of which I was. Okay, Brian, how did

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Speaker 3: that make you feel?

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Speaker 4: That's so nice? And you know what I don't I've

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Speaker 4: never met Kirsten, I don't think, but I do feel

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Speaker 4: like I know her somewhat from watching the show on

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Speaker 4: e Yes.

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Speaker 2: She's incredible.

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Speaker 4: I have a face to a name and a personality

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Speaker 4: to a face and a name, and I I really

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Speaker 4: appreciate that, And I'm going to compliment the complimenter for

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Speaker 4: complimenting me. That makes me feel really good because I

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Speaker 4: have a lot of self sometimes about, you know, doing

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Speaker 4: stuff like this, putting myself out there and pretty much

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Speaker 4: everything in general, and hearing compliments like that make me

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Speaker 4: feel give me the confidence to continue. And it's just

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Speaker 4: so it's just so important to me that someone would

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Speaker 4: say something like that. So thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so nice. I just watched a reel the

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Speaker 3: other day or some tic. It was on Reddit because

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Speaker 3: that's where I get my tiktoks. But it was a

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Speaker 3: girl saying I never ever. She was kind of annoying,

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Speaker 3: but which I should probably not say that based on

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Speaker 3: what she said.

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Speaker 2: But she says, you'll see the irony of why I

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Speaker 2: shouldn't have said that.

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Speaker 3: She goes, never keep a nice thing to yourself, only

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Speaker 3: keep bad things to yourself. Never keep a nice thing

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Speaker 3: to yourself, unless it's like nice boobs nightice ass. She

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Speaker 3: never She's like gave an example. She was like, I

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Speaker 3: was walking by a girl on the street and I

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Speaker 3: saw her journaling, and I said, you know what, I

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Speaker 3: am so glad I saw this day because it is

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Speaker 3: a nice reminder that I need to get back into journaling.

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Speaker 3: And then the girl goes, I actually haven't journaled for

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Speaker 3: so long. That feels so good to hear. This is

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Speaker 3: gonna make me journal more. So she was like, by

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Speaker 3: but I'm gonna journal more. And I felt good. It

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Speaker 3: was just like, Oh, that's we need to be I

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Speaker 3: always called them drive by compliments. I started doing them

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Speaker 3: at Lollapalooza in like two thousand and nine. When I

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Speaker 3: started going to Lollapalooza, I would like walk around, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the early tens, I would walk around, and because there's

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Speaker 3: drive bys.

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Speaker 2: And so it doesn't have to engage in.

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Speaker 3: A conversation, but someone's just getting a little slit of

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Speaker 3: a compliment, especially when you're going to something where people

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Speaker 3: are being dressed to be seen, like a Coachella or

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Speaker 3: Swift Cella, which is Taylor Swift Concerts. I was walking

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Speaker 3: in those masses of people and I'm like, I know

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Speaker 3: that I'm dying for someone to compliment my outfit that

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Speaker 3: I've put thought into. Because everyone puts thought into their

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Speaker 3: outfit at Taylor Swift Concerts. That why am I not

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Speaker 3: complimenting every single person who's outfit I liked? And so

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Speaker 3: I started and it felt so good to do. But

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Speaker 3: I do want to ask you to follow up Kristen's

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Speaker 3: question what National Park? Because I kind of Chris has

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Speaker 3: handled all of our travels, so I don't know exactly

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Speaker 3: where it is and why did you choose that National park?

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Speaker 2: And what are we going to be doing?

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Speaker 4: I will answer that question. However, I have a comment

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Speaker 4: about what you just said. Please but drive by compliment.

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Speaker 3: So like again, you your your choices of when to talk,

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Speaker 3: like Christen said, are just genius.

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Speaker 2: No, they are.

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Speaker 1: It's good talking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have waited till she has finished talking and

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Speaker 4: now I am talking. And when you're doing striking and

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Speaker 4: you have the WGA signs. You can write whatever you

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Speaker 4: want on the signs, and a lot of people are

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Speaker 4: like taking these signs personally and it is kind of like, well,

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Speaker 4: I'm a writer, I'm writing on this sign. If this

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Speaker 4: isn't a good fucking sign, then like, and you're surrounded

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Speaker 4: by other people who could potentially hire you.

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Speaker 2: Got to compliment people's signs.

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Speaker 1: The AI signs, those are fucking awesome.

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Speaker 2: Traffic zones are like the Kardashunes.

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Speaker 4: People signs is a genius idea. And also you'd have

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Speaker 4: to make sure your signs. So I wrote a bad one, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so I feel very not because I thought it's so

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Speaker 4: then I feel like yeah, and then it's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: it was this, and then I would get silence, Like

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Speaker 4: I was walking with these two people who are like, uh,

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Speaker 4: was like, I wrote this sign, but it's I haven't

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Speaker 4: seen it around lately, because you know, you leave the

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Speaker 3: Like, what, you can pick up your sign anyone, Like

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Speaker 3: you just keep rotating signs and they say what did

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Speaker 4: And I was like, it said two wrongs don't make

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Speaker 1: It takes a minute to compute, but it seems to.

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Speaker 3: Sense compute is the right word. I think this is

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Speaker 3: an argument for AI.

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Speaker 4: We need never realize now it's.

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Speaker 3: Funny that it's bad. It's honestly, you weren't. It's not

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Speaker 3: you did not. You were not trying to be like prolistical,

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Speaker 3: like you weren't trying that's the wrong word. I'm bad writer,

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Speaker 3: But you weren't trying to be to write something that

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Speaker 3: ironic kind of and doing a pun obviously because your

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Speaker 2: So you were being funny by you. I see what

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Speaker 3: It is funny in that respect, yeah, because you're trying

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Speaker 4: I wasn't trying to be ironic. I was literally thought,

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Speaker 4: what is wrong?

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Speaker 3: What is that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know?

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Speaker 1: AI is one of them and there's got to be

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Speaker 1: and not getting paid a writer, you know.

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Speaker 3: I thought was interesting about the AI thing, which I

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Speaker 3: didn't know until I listened to Justin Bateman on something

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Speaker 2: She posted the w the whoever.

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Speaker 3: They're not even willing to talk about AI, right, isn't

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Speaker 3: that there's like a stalemate about that, Like they just

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Speaker 4: To come to the table to discuss it because they say,

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Speaker 3: Right, Okay, But I didn't realize the problem would be

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Speaker 3: that AI. Okay, so it's going to take people's jobs.

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Speaker 3: That's the big that's the big issue. That is like

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Speaker 3: that happens, and that's all legal and fine, AI will

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Speaker 3: only be able to generate new material based on the

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Speaker 3: material that it is fed from writers who have existed before.

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Speaker 3: So writers need to be paid for the machines that

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Speaker 3: going to lose their jobs, but like they should be

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Speaker 3: compensated for like the stuff that's plugged into the machine.

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Speaker 4: I thought that was.

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Speaker 2: There's everything that exists.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it takes everything that exists, it plugs it into

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Speaker 4: the machine, and then it spits out a you know,

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Speaker 4: a farcical uh you know, plagiarized version of a script

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Speaker 4: that a writer would write and has no humanity in

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Speaker 4: it at all. I really don't believe that AI is

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Speaker 4: ever going to be able to replace writers in terms

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Speaker 4: of that. But what it can replace, we got humanity

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Speaker 4: it can replace. If it replaces humanity, then it'll be

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Speaker 4: great because then they'll be AI making stuff for other

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Speaker 4: AI and that'll probably be a utopian society that would

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Speaker 4: be better than we currently have.

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Speaker 2: But I saw a clip of Oh sorry, what what's

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Speaker 2: your butt?

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Speaker 4: Well AI, so sag After is gonna has just decided

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Speaker 4: they're going to do a vote on whether to strike

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Speaker 4: actors and actresses by just like they could take a

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Speaker 4: likeness of you, Nikki. Like let's say you sign a

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Speaker 4: you do tape for one day and they get all

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Speaker 4: other scenes for you and you don't get paid for that.

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Speaker 4: And that's what f Girl.

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Speaker 3: Island will be once we get all the footage from

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Speaker 3: f Boy three. Yeah, yeah, So that's they're gonna go

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Speaker 3: you can go home early.

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Speaker 2: We've that is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, deep fakes are already so good, like you

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Speaker 3: can kind of do that. I watch this one that

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Speaker 3: someone made me, my friend Brian Monarch, who does deep

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Speaker 2: Brian Monarch is the guy behind those.

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Speaker 3: But he did one of me as Taylor Swift, and

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Speaker 3: I watch it all the time because I go there

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Speaker 3: and then there's me doing stand up is Taylor Swift face,

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Speaker 3: and you just realize that Taylor Swift's prettier than me

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Speaker 3: because I look weird on her face, and then she

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Speaker 3: we know what's going on here. But besides that, I

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Speaker 3: love watching it because there's oftentimes that I watch Taylor

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Speaker 3: Swift and or anyone for that matter, doing things with

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Speaker 3: their fingers, young Korean children playing guitar, and you go,

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Speaker 3: my fingers can do all of those things.

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Speaker 2: Those fingers are not.

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Speaker 3: I have abilities that mine don't why why. It gives

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Speaker 3: me hope, but it also gives me a sense of defeat.

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Speaker 3: Do you ever do that where you're like that person's

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Speaker 3: body is no different than my athletes. You go, no,

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Speaker 3: that's different. They've worked harder. But like guitar like schlovey guitarists,

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, there's no muscle. There are muscles there

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Speaker 3: more than anything, there's brain, uh matter that I don't.

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Speaker 4: Have irons connecting each other.

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Speaker 3: I watch Anya do like fingerpicking and like, I don't

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Speaker 3: even understand. I mean I do because I have sense

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Speaker 3: that practice leads to like memorizing things and all that stuff.

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Speaker 3: But even when you're playing that one song A Through Street,

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Speaker 3: which if you've never heard on your song not A

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Speaker 3: Through Street, please spotify right now, pause the episode, go

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Speaker 3: to it. It's one of my favorite songs. But the

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Speaker 3: fingerpicking on that, you go like all up and down,

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Speaker 3: and it's just so I'm like, do you do you?

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Speaker 3: It's when you play that song, is it is it

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Speaker 3: a memorization thing like your body has memorized it?

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Speaker 2: Or is it like, oh, I know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: It's not hard. You could totally do it. There's just

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Speaker 1: one part that's a little challenging. It's all about just memorizing, uh,

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Speaker 1: Like patterns in my mind, like my fingers make this shape,

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Speaker 1: then they make this shape. I don't know what notes. Right.

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Speaker 1: I have the same thing with you when you're playing

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Speaker 1: a Taylor swift strum that I don't know that I've

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the skill you don't have on the TI it's

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Speaker 3: the only thing I have to my name.

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Speaker 1: It's very frustrating and I'm slowly getting it, and it

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Speaker 1: does come with repetition. But man, you invested a lot

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Speaker 1: of hours because you you're singing things at a different uh,

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Speaker 1: you're doing a syncopated thing, which is really advanced, and

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Speaker 1: it's incredibly hard for me. So nice it's like and

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Speaker 1: patting your head at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, I have that feeling a lot when, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, normal everyday people say like the funniest thing

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Speaker 3: I've ever heard that is not just like you know,

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Speaker 3: like it's like actually like mathematically hilarious, where I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, like two wrung make a writer.

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Speaker 4: That's mathematically Oh so then I mean, this is just

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Speaker 4: this is just life. You know, I wrote, I just

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Speaker 4: fucking lit up the place. Everybody was like, ha ha,

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Speaker 2: Did it have any a caption with it?

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Speaker 4: It was a pile of shit. It just was a

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 1: You should go into art, not writing an animator.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you are an animator. You do great animations.

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Speaker 3: Was that decasting at all for you?

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Speaker 1: That you're like, wait, I barely tried on this.

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Speaker 3: So embarrassing when that happens when you when you get

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Speaker 3: in writing, in preparing my new special that I'm going

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Speaker 3: to tape this December and Seattle Watch Out, I am

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Speaker 3: I don't like when people laugh at it because I

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Speaker 3: It didn't take any brain power. It was it was

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Speaker 3: And if I could just say for a second I

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Speaker 3: I'm going to share with you something that happened this morning,

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Speaker 2: It, but I was really stuffed up all the break.

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Speaker 3: And then we're going to talk about shit when we

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Speaker 3: we've got a lot of loose ends to tie up.

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Speaker 3: We're going to find out why you're having a wedding

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Speaker 3: So the observation I made in my special about shit

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Speaker 3: I'm more worried about if I've never taken a picture

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Speaker 3: like mister Hanky, the shit from South Park, like it

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Speaker 3: I couldn't because what if I'm what if someone finds

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Speaker 3: I've so Anya and I when we were living together,

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Speaker 3: I would draw it. It's almost like, yeah, they I

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Speaker 3: it would be better off drawing a picture of Mohammed

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Speaker 2: But do you guys ever have the thing?

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Speaker 3: So I was really stopped up in Europe, and I

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Speaker 3: Like I sent a picture to Anya of my stomach.

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Speaker 3: She's some one back later I looked weirds once pregnant.

441
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 3: I think we talked about this already, No, we did not,

442
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 3: but I looked legit. Shivroy last episode of Succession six

443
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 3: months pregnant, and I showed Chris. I put a towel

444
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 3: over it to show Chris because I couldn't have him

445
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,200
Speaker 3: see my actual but I was like, just no, underneath this,

446
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,959
Speaker 3: look look at me, I look pregnant.

447
00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,359
Speaker 2: He was just like, are you like?

448
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 3: He was still confused by it.

449
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 1: It is crazy what the body could do, and that

450
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 1: it's just gas, mostly gas and water.

451
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 3: Well mine was material, and it was and then I thought,

452
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 3: you know, by the end of it, I was like,

453
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: you know, things are happening, things are flowing. There's like

454
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 3: little things happening here and there, but there was nothing substantial.

455
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 3: And I'm not someone who tracks like what's going on

456
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 3: with my body very much, but the past two days,

457
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if anyone's ever had this. I woke

458
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,719
Speaker 3: up this morning with a horrible headache and it started

459
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 3: last night. And I've been kind of regular since I

460
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 3: got back, which is my favorite word to say, I've

461
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 3: been shitting normally. When people are just like regular, it's

462
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,639
Speaker 3: such a stupid word. It's like when people are like,

463
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,679
Speaker 3: we're trying and everyone's like, oh, you're getting cummed in

464
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 3: every night.

465
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 2: Like it's kind of the same thing of like I'm regular.

466
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 3: It's like, eh, I just see like poop like coming

467
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 3: out in a good amount of chunks coming out of

468
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 3: your butt. So uh, I was thought I was regular.

469
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 3: And then this last night I had like a headache.

470
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 3: This morning, I woke with that headache. I couldn't get

471
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 3: out of bed, and I was, you know, putting my

472
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 3: eyemask on super tight so it would just push my

473
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 3: head to make it stop. And then I went to

474
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: the bathroom and I was like, oh my god, that

475
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,679
Speaker 3: was it. I was like, oh, this, that like solved

476
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 3: my headache. Then I went down to Starbucks and had

477
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 3: a sip of coffee and I instantly was.

478
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: Like, what's the bathroom code?

479
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 2: And it is.

480
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 3: I try to memorize it because every time I always

481
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,119
Speaker 3: think I'm not gonna need it in my phone, but

482
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 3: I should have put it in. I think it's oh,

483
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 3: I remembered it sixty two twenty three, and you know

484
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: how I remembered it. I was saying, that's like, just

485
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 3: remember a disgusting age like a couple in Hollywood, like

486
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,959
Speaker 3: sixty two twenty three, Like that to me is just

487
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 3: like a gap that would happen. So I went in

488
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,919
Speaker 3: there and I had the best BM of my life,

489
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 3: which is is on par with many I've had, but

490
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 3: isn't the best one Where you're in a public space

491
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 3: where you're like kind of worried about the plumbing situation.

492
00:22:55,720 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 2: And you're you're you're the eel that you release in

493
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 2: the wild.

494
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,919
Speaker 3: The electric eel goes right down the hole like it

495
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 3: knows where its home is, like disappeared souse.

496
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 2: You love that when you.

497
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 3: Look in and it's like already on its way, and

498
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 3: you're like, this is gonna be no issue, because the

499
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 3: issue is always the breaking up of it, and then

500
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 3: it's then it breaks and then it tries to go

501
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 3: in twice like those designs try to go in.

502
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 2: We all know this.

503
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: This is a thing that happens some of the most

504
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 3: most of us. But I was like, has anyone talked

505
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 3: about the satisfaction when you look down and you go, oh,

506
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 3: good snake, you.

507
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: Know where your home is. It's already like headed out

508
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 2: the door. Is that relatable?

509
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 5: I always imagine like the like those Olympic divers and

510
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 5: they have like the perfect dive, and that's what I

511
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 5: related to.

512
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, it just slices through the water perfectly. There's

513
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 3: gonna be it barely even there's no it doesn't touch

514
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 3: the out. You could drop your phone in the bowl

515
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: and if it just hit the sides, it wouldn't even

516
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 3: touch the giant.

517
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: And aren't you kind of shocked and proud when like

518
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: the kale is coming out?

519
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? What do you mean?

520
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 2: Like it's like, like what's coming out of the hole?

521
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 3: Oh, I've never had that before, but I think in

522
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: Europe I did a little bit, even though that my

523
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 3: poops weren't big enough because in Europe that's where it

524
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 3: would have happened, because the water level is so low

525
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 3: in Europe toilets.

526
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: Yes, And you have another observation Berlin that you never

527
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: saw because in Berlin apartments because we weren't in apartments,

528
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: we were in hotels. But in the apartments in Berlin

529
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: there is a poo shelf and there's no water, so

530
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: when you poop, you poop on a shelf in the

531
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: toilet and then there's like then it flushes. So it's

532
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: truly disgusting because.

533
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 3: So it flushes, it comes from the water comes from

534
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 3: the side of the bowl onto the shelf and pushes

535
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 3: it down like a wall.

536
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: And do you know what the shelf was for? It

537
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: had a practical poops for people to inspect for worms

538
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: and stuff. So you're supposed to like go through your poop.

539
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: It's insane. I went to my friends and I was like, oh,

540
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:00,360
Speaker 1: it smells the entire bathroom up. If it doesn't immediately.

541
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 2: A trophy shelf. It's for some of the things I've

542
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 2: let go.

543
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 3: And I had worms in my poop in fourth grade

544
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 3: and I remember seeing them and then they went back

545
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: inside really quickly.

546
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 2: By the time I called my parents in, Oh god, And.

547
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 3: I remember being like, there were and I thought I

548
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: was hallucinating because they would not come out again once

549
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 3: they got spooked by my parents being there. They were

550
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: party worms and they don't like parents around, and so

551
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 3: they ran they thought the cops were coming. They ran

552
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: back in the poop, and I was like, I know,

553
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 3: I saw it. And then I made the dumb mistake

554
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 3: of telling my friend Molly Collier and you're out there.

555
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 3: She's actually nice to me now, she's a fan. She

556
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 3: spin at shows, but she I told her in fourth

557
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 3: grade that I had worms in my poop, and man,

558
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 3: then everyone everyone knew. By lunch or by recess that

559
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 3: I had worms in my poop and then I had

560
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 3: to deny, deny, deny, kind of like Kendall Roy in

561
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 3: the final episode in one pivotal scene, not gonna spoiler,

562
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 3: not even a spoiler alert, just giving you you got

563
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 3: to get to it if you haven't gotten to it yet,

564
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 3: to get to it. But have you ever done that

565
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: where you told someone something embarrassing when you were young,

566
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 3: and then.

567
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 4: Well you denied, and then you pooped, and then you're like, everybody,

568
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: look at my poop because the worms hide, and then

569
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 4: of course the dumb worms would come out if you

570
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 4: showed everybody yeah.

571
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 3: Or if you were yeah, if everyone go, look there's

572
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 3: no worms, because you know they're going to hide, and

573
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 3: then that's when they're like, hey, what's up.

574
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: I'm finally ready to come.

575
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: Out, like they're pride month for worms. Yeah okay, Brian,

576
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 3: Why why the national park? We know you love the outdoors.

577
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 3: Oh yes, your lady, Ali, But why this one?

578
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 2: And where are we going?

579
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 4: We are going to Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado, right, okay?

580
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 4: And that's also where I proposed And yeah, Ali and

581
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 4: I have this thing where we want to go to

582
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 4: all sixty three national parks before we die?

583
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: Before we die? Yeah, how many do you have?

584
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 4: Over twenty? Over twenty? Yeah, oh that's good. You can

585
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 4: die soon, yeah, I've Yeah, maybe I shouldn't go that fast.

586
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 2: Lesson, are you getting married outside? Are you when?

587
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: Are you starting to look at the weather, like is

588
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 3: it that far out that you can start kind of seeing.

589
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: Mountain two weeks?

590
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,479
Speaker 4: Mountain weather is unpredictable, but I kind of hope, you know,

591
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 4: the mountain weather, really I don't. I hope that it rains. Honestly,

592
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: I love the rain. I think it would be great

593
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 4: if it rained. It's outside, but it's a coming.

594
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 3: Really seems easy going, like she wouldn't care if it rains,

595
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: and she'd look like hot and rain.

596
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, yeah, she she would. She wouldn't care.

597
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 4: I think she's like prayin too. Thank you, thank you

598
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 4: very much.

599
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: You got a good one.

600
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 4: When you say that on the podcast, you know she

601
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 4: listens to the podcast, and when you say she's pretty,

602
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 4: it like makes her weak.

603
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

604
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 3: If she doesn't know she's she's one of the prettiest

605
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 3: people going, like naturally effervescently, a beautiful person like Chris

606
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 3: and I are pretty obsessed with her, and she's just

607
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 3: she's just a lovely person. I'm actually really looking forward to,

608
00:27:55,440 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 3: like going on trips with you guys as couples and

609
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: getting to know her more and better because she's just

610
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 3: an instantly fun person.

611
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 2: I first met her.

612
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 3: I think maybe I met her before Tim's wedding, but

613
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 3: that's when I first feel like I got to know her.

614
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 4: No, we went to we went to a breakfast brunch

615
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 4: thing at the Sunset Junction. Lizzie Cooperman was there, Yeah,

616
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 4: Chris was there.

617
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 2: Not an ideal such.

618
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I think I was in like a funky mood

619
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 3: that day, and I've been in some funky moods around her. Actually,

620
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 3: even when we went to dinner at that cow. I

621
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 3: think it was, Oh, you feel like you if you're listening,

622
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 3: I apologize for my mood that night.

623
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: Oh, like I was in a bad mood man?

624
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 4: Really, Yes, Oh I was.

625
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: I'm not. I don't think I was. I know I was.

626
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 2: I was.

627
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 3: I was depressed that day and I was being kind

628
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 3: of like existential dread nikki of like I don't even

629
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 3: like my life, Like I was just being a bitch.

630
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 3: And then I think it was probably triggered by how

631
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: pretty she was. And I was feeling fat that night

632
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,719
Speaker 3: and she just looked and she got like all this

633
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 3: food that I was like, man, she just is one

634
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 3: of these girls that can eat what she wants and

635
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 3: like she just looks great, like just me at my worst.

636
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 3: And then I and then I knew Chris. I felt

637
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 3: bad because it was supposed to be like couples having

638
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: a couple of dinner and like getting to know each other.

639
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 3: And I'm just morose and I'm not being rude, but

640
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 3: I'm just being I'm just in a bad mood. And

641
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 3: and then I felt bad because I know that I

642
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 3: wasn't my best for that. And it was like I

643
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 3: think that Chris was was wanting it to be like

644
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 3: this is we're going to be this foursome, you know,

645
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 3: this is the quad, the reference succession, and I felt

646
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 3: like I blew it.

647
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 2: And then I felt like we.

648
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 3: Were deemed it on the street though, because we talked

649
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 3: to you about some ideas.

650
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 4: This is mind blowing, how because.

651
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: What was this like the early times?

652
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 3: This was no, this was November December, yeah, it must

653
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: have been January.

654
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I was here. It was before Brian was on

655
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 2: the podcast.

656
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys were just visiting. You as were just visiting,

657
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 4: and maybe this was when you were doing uh real

658
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 4: a fortune or something. I don't know, Yes, exactly I was.

659
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 2: We weren't.

660
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 3: This wasn't in our Santa Monica trip where we were

661
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Speaker 3: living there. This was a separate visit when I was

662
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 3: just at a hotel down the street. So yeah, he

663
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 3: was there visiting.

664
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Speaker 4: Yes, this this is a lesson to everybody listening. I'm

665
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 4: sure this happens all the time. Because I left that

666
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 4: dinner thinking that I was a piece of shit and

667
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 4: I felt like I wasn't at my best because I

668
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 4: had gotten my tooth extracted six days prior to the dinner.

669
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: You were in pain.

670
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 4: I was in horrible pain. I just felt like I

671
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 4: wasn't anything. I couldn't get anything. I asked the wait

672
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 4: I can't have to ask the waiter what's the softest

673
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 4: food they have?

674
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: But that was funny. You brought levity with your pain.

675
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 4: But this is the lesson. This is the lesson. After

676
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 4: that dinner, I was in the car with Alli and

677
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 4: I was like, was I just a piece of shit

678
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 4: all night?

679
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

680
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 4: And she was like no, No. I was like it

681
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 4: just didn't feel like you know, usually when the the

682
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 4: four or the three of us, ALLI wasn't usually there,

683
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 4: but when the three of us hang out, it feels

684
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 4: just very easy, comfortable and easy. And that night I

685
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,239
Speaker 4: was like, I think I was a piece of shit. No,

686
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 4: it was me, man, Yeah, you were picking my vibe.

687
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: I was.

688
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 3: I will take responsibility for that because you were in pain,

689
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: and I'm sure there was something off about you, but

690
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 3: I was not having I was not yes ending that night,

691
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: and it was on me, and I like, I've been

692
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 3: pretty reflective this morning. I was doing some journaling about

693
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: my mood disorder that I clearly have, and like that

694
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: reared its head in the international trip like literally a

695
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 3: thousand times. I just there's an email coming to you,

696
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: Anya at one o'clock because I have this new feature

697
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 3: on Gmail that everyone should do. If you're writing on

698
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: your phone, you hold down the send button and then

699
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 3: it gives you the option to send later and pick

700
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 3: a time. Yeah, and it's so great because I wanted

701
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 3: to send this. I wrote this whole email to Anya,

702
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 3: just you know, going over our trip, a post mortem

703
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 3: if you will, and just thanking her. But I was

704
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 3: also like being reflective of like all of the shit,

705
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 3: like all the shitty things I did on the trip,

706
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 3: because I was like pretty like not great sometimes, I

707
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: you know, and and there was nowhere for me to

708
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 3: like usually and I'm not making excuses, but I am

709
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 3: usually I have alone time to cry or to like

710
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 3: really panic and like kind of vent, not even cry

711
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 3: because I don't really cry when I'm alone, but like

712
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 3: being alone, I guess helps me just let it out

713
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 3: in whatever way. But I was never alone because I

714
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: was with Crystal whole time, which is great because I

715
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: wasn't like abusing food with for my feelings because I

716
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: was accountable. I wasn't like there were so many great

717
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 3: things about living with someone, and in fact, Chris and

718
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 3: I decided like we want to live together after this

719
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 3: trip because there were those great things spoiler alert, but

720
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 3: I but I do think that living in small hotel

721
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 3: rooms where there's not separate rooms and places for you

722
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: to get away and have a loan time, because when

723
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: we had that in like certain areas we now falcony, even.

724
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: If you Todd had separate rooms, like no time to

725
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: do any it.

726
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 3: Just my feelings got constipated and so I was cranky

727
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: and bloated the entire time. None of my clothes fit,

728
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 3: which is the number one time for Nikki to I

729
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 3: hate to talk to the third person, but for me

730
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 3: to feel bad is to be uncomfortable in my clothes.

731
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 2: None of them fit.

732
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: And I made the mistake of I have this amazing

733
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 3: stylist here in Saint Louis who hooks me up with

734
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 3: She writes companies on my behalf and has them send

735
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 3: me stuff and then I post and tag them and

736
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: then we send them back.

737
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: And I've talked about this.

738
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: They're all sample sized twos, but I didn't try on

739
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 3: any of the outfits before I went because I was like,

740
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 3: I'll be fine, you know. And then I get there

741
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 3: and I have nothing to wear except these clothes that

742
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: are all too tight and make me feel insane.

743
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: And meanwhile I can't poop. I'm bloated.

744
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 3: I just and I was like under the impression that

745
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 3: Europe is supposed to make you like diuretic or whatever,

746
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: but it didn't happen for me, and so I was

747
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 3: just like a moody bitch and like I really and

748
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm alone in this.

749
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 2: That's why I'm sharing it.

750
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 3: Like I don't think this is something unique about me

751
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 3: or I'm a bad person, But like I when I

752
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 3: get in a bad mood, I want to make other

753
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 3: people in a bad food too, Like I want other

754
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: people to feel mad or to feel to feel like

755
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 3: I feel.

756
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 2: What is that?

757
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 3: And why do I don't think everyone does that because

758
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 3: I don't have it happen to me from other people

759
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 3: all the time. But like, what is that need to bring?

760
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 3: Why don't I want to absorb some people's happiness instead

761
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 3: of bring people down with me because.

762
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 4: I don't want Yeah, you're looking for affirmation. You want

763
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 4: I feel this way, and if other people don't feel

764
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 4: this way, that means I'm a psychopath and so I

765
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 4: need adds to it.

766
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: And you know what I say about psychopath? Am I crazy?

767
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm so weird? Why can't I be like other people?

768
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 2: We're also harder work to feel better, it's easier.

769
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 3: And when you're feeling sad, your your muscles are like

770
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 3: you're you're emotionally weak, like you can't do the hard thing,

771
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 3: and it's easier just to do the worst thing, which

772
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: is just stay in that mindset and like make little

773
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 3: jabs that, like you know, aren't specific enough for that

774
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 3: person to go like fuck you, but like, are shitty

775
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 3: enough that they feel bad, Like.

776
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 2: I'm probably a kind of expert at that.

777
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, we talked about muscle memory in the first segment,

778
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 5: and because you've done it so much, it's just like

779
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 5: muscle memory now, so I'm like unwired that it is

780
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 5: really difficult with.

781
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: A guitar, except in mindes with you know.

782
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 4: It feels so good to keep digging and digging deeper

783
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 4: and just piling on. That's it almost feels like indulging in,

784
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 4: like eating a bunch of food, or like, uh, we're

785
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 4: staying in bed, Like if you wake up in the morning,

786
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 4: you just stay in bed. Like it's so easy to

787
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 4: just keep doing that. And something I learned recently is

788
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 4: that you can fake being happy, all right, you can

789
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 4: fake it. You can smile, you can just even if

790
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,720
Speaker 4: it's like to psychotic degree of being like I'm happy.

791
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,959
Speaker 4: This is amazing, Oh my god, this is the best

792
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 4: thingy ever. And the trick is that will not make

793
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 4: you feel better that day, but it will make you

794
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 4: feel better two days from them.

795
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 3: Oh, it's like exercise or like eating right. Why doesn't

796
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 3: it just show up right away?

797
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 2: I gotta try that.

798
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true.

799
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 3: Can I tell you about a book I'm reading a

800
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: third of right now that I'm so into, Yes, and

801
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 3: this is legit. I know that I've felt this way

802
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 3: about a lot of books, but I stand by all

803
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 3: the ones that I said, this is good. This is

804
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 3: kind of talking about the same kind of thing that

805
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 3: I There was a book I was reading a long

806
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 3: time ago.

807
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: Let me just I forget what it was.

808
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 3: It was probably last summer, and it was about manifestation

809
00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 3: and quantum physics and how if you imagine something enough.

810
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 3: It's also Louise Hey. I've talked about her, just like

811
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 3: the power of positive thinking, and obviously this has been

812
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 3: talked about extensively everywhere you look. But this book that

813
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 3: I don't know why it was in my library on

814
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: my phone, but I think I just download books sometimes

815
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: from the subreddit books.

816
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 2: It'll say like, what's a book that's changed your life?

817
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 3: And I just anyone who has a list that I

818
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 3: think is compelling, I'll just download all those samples of

819
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 3: the books. And so one day I was looking for

820
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 3: something to read, and that day, being on the way too,

821
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 3: on the way to the Europe trip. I was reading

822
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 3: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, which, by

823
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 3: the way, is was everyone read in twenty fourteen or

824
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: sixteen when it came out.

825
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 2: It's so good, you guys, I know, it's kind of

826
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 2: ki and.

827
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: It's like the set of like the amount of people

828
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 3: who like commented on my book and were like, Oho,

829
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 3: that's a funny title, Like how did were you asleep?

830
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 2: In twenty sixtey?

831
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 3: This was everywhere, but they but it it really and

832
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 3: the guy kind of it's in a co way, but

833
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 3: it's very conversational and he's not ka.

834
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 2: The book is not ca.

835
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 3: They made him call it that, like the publishers were like,

836
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: you should call it that. He wanted to call it

837
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 3: something else. So like just like my show Not Safe

838
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 3: with Niki Laser, which that name was so cuh and

839
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 3: I didn't like it at all because it made it

840
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 3: seem like what.

841
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 2: I'm doing is not safe.

842
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: We wanted to call it NSFW, just like not safe

843
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 3: for work, like this is stuff that like you shouldn't

844
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 3: watch it work, and it wasn't us being like we're

845
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 3: so nuts.

846
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: Safe for work.

847
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 3: But then they were like, no one knows what NFW means,

848
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,919
Speaker 3: them being Comedy Central, and they weren't wrong. Some people

849
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 3: didn't know, but they would have googled it or something.

850
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter anyway, they made us call it not safe,

851
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 3: and I hated it because it sounded like I thought

852
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 3: I was sweet, and I don't think I'm sweet. Sometimes

853
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 3: I do, but I'll usually attest to it. Then I

854
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 3: did not think I was sweet, So I hated that title.

855
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: So anyway, don't judge a book. But this book I'm

856
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: reading now, it's called The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

857
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 3: by Joseph Murray PhD and then Comma d D.

858
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what DD is Dungeons.

859
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: And dragonstor dentistry.

860
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know.

861
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: But it's it's it was written in the sixties, I believe,

862
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 3: or maybe the early seventies, but probably sixties, and it's

863
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 3: it's the language kind of the way it's written is

864
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: kind of new age and kind of kind of like

865
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 3: it just sounds like some guy who thinks he's pretty sweet.

866
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 3: But it is all about and it's just what I

867
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 3: love about it is you get everything you need from

868
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 3: the first chapter and then it's just repeating it over

869
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 3: and over. And I love a book like that, because

870
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: what that tells me is this is simple, but what

871
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 3: is difficult is getting it through your fucking skull. So

872
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 3: I like a book that's not like this is all

873
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 3: these steps. It's like, what is difficult is not what

874
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 3: we're doing. It's what it is forgetting all the stuff,

875
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 3: you know. And that's the same thing my voice teacher

876
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 3: said yesterday. He was like, singing is not hard. People

877
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 3: think it's hard, but what is hard it's psychological. What

878
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 3: is hard about singing. He's like, most people could be

879
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 3: good singers. He was like most people besides like Harvey

880
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 3: Fires who actually has a throat thing like both of

881
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 3: his vocal like all of his vocal folds are.

882
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: Filing at the same time.

883
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 3: So he always said like this, He was like, that

884
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 3: guy can never sing good, but most people can sing.

885
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 3: What gets in the way is trying too hard. And

886
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 3: what you need to do is learn how to to

887
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 3: not try, which is hard in and of itself, but

888
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 3: it's actually you have to learn to not do things.

889
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: And that's what this book is about.

890
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 3: It's about just positive thinking, like how you have to

891
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 3: just anytime you have a negative thought, just don't say

892
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 3: it out loud, don't give it. I've said yesterday on

893
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: the Girl's Chat, don't put air in that balloon, like

894
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 3: just you know it's there, have the thought, but like,

895
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 3: don't feed that dog. The dog that's like, ah, like

896
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 3: don't like, don't feed that possum.

897
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: Let starve.

898
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 3: But the thing that I like about is that you

899
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 3: because it talks about how it can heal. And it's

900
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 3: also quantum physics y, which I always like, but it's

901
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,439
Speaker 3: not actually talking about that, but it's the same things

902
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 3: as the other guy talked about. That really sold me

903
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 3: on how manifestation is a science and it's not just

904
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 3: like fufu woo woo God shit, and this is all

905
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 3: about God and how people pray things away and how

906
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 3: prayer works, not because necessarily God is doing things for you,

907
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 3: but because your subconscious mind is what is running everything

908
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 3: in your body. It's the thing that's keeping you breathing.

909
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: You're not like thinking like I have to breathe right now,

910
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: you know, like it just keeps your heart beat going.

911
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 3: All these things, your subconscious mind is in control, and

912
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: your conscious mind is giving directions to your subconscious mind

913
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 3: all the time. And your subconscious mind is kind of

914
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 3: autistic in the sense that it takes you literally. It

915
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 3: does not have a sense of humor, it does not

916
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 3: have a sense of irony, So you have to tell it.

917
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 3: Have I said this before on this podcast? Yeah, sorry,

918
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 3: sorry to repeat myself, but I think it was like it.

919
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:52,919
Speaker 4: But I'm getting in again and again.

920
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to do it again, but I'm so on

921
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 3: board and I do think there's something to this. I'm

922
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 3: resisting it so much because it's so it's exactly what

923
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 3: we're just talking about. It's the harder thing to do,

924
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 3: which is just not feed that dog and feed those

925
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 3: negative thoughts because you want to so badly. But the

926
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: more I read about this, it's like prayer works because

927
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 3: you are trusting that God is going to take care

928
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 3: of it. The people that prayer works for where they

929
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 3: heal things about their body, things that they could never heal.

930
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: It's not because you know, necessarily God is waving his

931
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 3: magic wand and a miracle is happening. Your subconscious mind

932
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 3: is your conscious mind is saying, please, God, take this away,

933
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 3: and it's believing that God is taking it away. People

934
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 3: that really believe there's a guy that's like I care

935
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 3: about you, and I'm going to take care of you.

936
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 3: They believe it so much that you send a signal

937
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 3: to your subconscious mind that is not doesn't have any

938
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 3: sense of like does any make believe or that you

939
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 3: would ever be lying to it, And it actually runs

940
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 3: with that and then starts the healing process and it

941
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 3: works on a cellular level of all this. You know,

942
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 3: the way that you are breathing right now, and you

943
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 3: don't have to tell it to breathe. It will start

944
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 3: healing these things. And it can work for ailments, and

945
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 3: it can work for talent and artistry or a thing.

946
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: You know.

947
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 3: I've just been going, like, my body rids the energy

948
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 3: that it doesn't need and keeps what it does.

949
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 2: And this is my new weight loss plan.

950
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 3: I am like, instead of because I've been like trying

951
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 3: to tool with like maybe I'll try to get on nozepic,

952
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,959
Speaker 3: maybe I'm gonna start starving myself again. All these things,

953
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 3: I've just been like kind of gambling with myself. But

954
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,720
Speaker 3: instead I'm just telling myself, my body uses the fuel

955
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: it needs and it gets rid of the fuel it doesn't.

956
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 3: It doesn't keep around things it doesn't need, and that

957
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 3: to me is what being the right size is is.

958
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to. I just want to be

959
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 3: the right size for me. I'm feeling a little bit

960
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 3: bloated right now and to get to that right size,

961
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 3: which I have been before, and I've been healthy at

962
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 3: that size. I'm just telling myself, I am a beautiful,

963
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 3: long slender.

964
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 2: Lady, which I am.

965
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 3: I'm a tall lady that has long slender features, and

966
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: that is just who I am, and that is who

967
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: I will. I'm just saying saying that to myself over

968
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 3: and over. I'm not saying I am Kate Moss. I

969
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 3: am you know things I wish I were that my

970
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 3: body can't be necessarily. I'm just sending the messages of

971
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 3: something that I know is within the realm of possibility

972
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 3: for me, and I'm telling my body like this is

973
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 3: what I am. And I'm also telling my body I'm

974
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 3: one of the best singers that's ever lived. I'm one

975
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 3: of the greatest comedic minds of all time. I am

976
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 3: the voice of a generation. I am telling myself things

977
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 3: that I let me just sneak it in, don't really believe,

978
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 3: but no, I am saying them over I'm just saying

979
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 3: that just because I don't want anyone to think that

980
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 3: I think these things, but I want to be these things.

981
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,760
Speaker 3: And so I am telling myself that I am because

982
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 3: you the key what I've learned, And if anyone knows

983
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 3: more about this than me, please enlighten me. But the

984
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 3: key is not to say what you want to be

985
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 3: and be like, I want to be the best singer ever.

986
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 3: I want to be the best singer ever. Like writing

987
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 3: that over and over or you know, meditating on that,

988
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 3: it's I am.

989
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: I am right, the best singer ever.

990
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 4: It goes beyond just like make forcing your subconscious do it.

991
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,919
Speaker 4: You need to have that attitude. It is a requirement

992
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 4: in order to become the best singer ever or the

993
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 4: best comedian ever. Because the way the world views you

994
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 4: is only fifty percent on talent, then it's fifty percent

995
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 4: on confidence. And you need to have that aura about

996
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 4: you that says I am the best and I know it.

997
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 4: Are you stupid because it seems like you don't know

998
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 4: it yet. That's the way you become the best.

999
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 3: I'm scared of being that though. Let me be honest,

1000
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 3: I'm scared of being that dilute. Let that person that

1001
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 3: I know who's delusional. I want to feel again like

1002
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 3: I want to approve of myself. I want to know

1003
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 3: my limitations and be okay with them. But at the

1004
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 3: same time, You're right, I do. I do want to

1005
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 3: be the best singer in the world, which I'm never

1006
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 3: going to sound like Beyonce.

1007
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 2: I don't think or Adele.

1008
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 3: I don't think my head shape or my vocal chords

1009
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 3: are shaped in the way to ever.

1010
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 2: Be that way.

1011
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 3: But I think Taylor Swift is my favorite singer, one

1012
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 3: of my favorite singers, and she does not have the

1013
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 3: same voice as a Kelly Clarkson or an Adele or

1014
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 3: a powerhouse of like Ariana Grande, and I think she

1015
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 3: would even admit that. But her voice to me is

1016
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 3: something so special that I would trade in all of

1017
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 3: those girls for her voice any day, because it's it's

1018
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 3: perfect to me. And so I think that that is. Yeah,

1019
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 3: I think that's what I'm getting at. And it's so

1020
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 3: hard to do though. I gotta say that maybe this

1021
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 3: is why I'm repeating it on here is because I

1022
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 3: I when I first read it, I was like, this

1023
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 3: is what I'm gonna do every morning. I'm gonna write

1024
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 3: one hundred times over. I'm the best singer in the world.

1025
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 3: My body rids itself of energy that it doesn't need.

1026
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 3: It keeps what it needs. I'm a slender, beautiful young woman.

1027
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 3: My face is not falling off my skull like I

1028
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 3: was gonna say all the things like you can't am

1029
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 3: or like gravity will affect my face in a beautiful way,

1030
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 3: like I'll say, whatever it.

1031
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 4: Is, nuttle bit of the I uh, my body rids

1032
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 4: itself of things it doesn't need. There's too many negatives

1033
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 4: in there. It should be my body only keeps what

1034
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 4: it needs like something like that.

1035
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, yes, you're right, that's good. Keep it positive.

1036
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: That's a good point. And I was like, I'm gonna

1037
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 3: do this every morning. It's been a struggle for me

1038
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 3: because I've been waking up feeling not like that, and

1039
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,879
Speaker 3: I've given into not having those thoughts, and I've I've

1040
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 3: given into the negative thoughts, and I've been like kind

1041
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 3: of blowing up those balloons. Even though I'm reading this

1042
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 3: book knowing and I know for sure this works. I

1043
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 3: have no question. I'm as sure as there's no free will.

1044
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 3: And you guys all know how I feel about that.

1045
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 3: I'm positive this works. I've never been so positive of

1046
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 3: anything in my life yet. I'm still struggling to use it. Brian,

1047
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 3: have you been on you? I know that Noah and

1048
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 3: Anya know about the power of positive thinking.

1049
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 2: Why aren't we all doing this all the time.

1050
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 4: Because of the pharmaceutical industry they want to make money

1051
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 4: off you by giving you pills. Everyone. Capitalism just tells

1052
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 4: you you're not enough, and we have if for fourteen

1053
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 4: ninety nine a month, we have the solution your problem

1054
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 4: and it takes five seconds. People are too lazy, They

1055
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 4: just they don't want to do.

1056
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: How do I get it?

1057
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 4: Apple TV? You know that's all you need?

1058
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: Oh right?

1059
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 4: I mean whatever it is like, you know, you could

1060
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 4: take a pill, or you could go to this person

1061
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 4: or whatever they're selling, or you could just buy this

1062
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 4: hamburger and you'll feel better for five seconds. That's what

1063
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 4: capitalism is. It's it's creating needs in you, saying you're

1064
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 4: not good enough, you don't have this, and you need

1065
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 4: all of these products.

1066
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you stink, you're disgusting.

1067
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 4: You're a piece of shit.

1068
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, why don't you do it? Do you do? You

1069
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 3: do a lot of positive stuff, But like.

1070
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: I think human beings are I keep doing We're complicated.

1071
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: We're not all positive. So we have a lot of

1072
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: this darkness, and that's why we probably don't do this

1073
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,479
Speaker 1: stuff every day because the dark voices are always there,

1074
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: and it's just a practice. It's like yoga, you know,

1075
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: every day you try to turn the volume up on

1076
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: the affirmations and the positive stuff and turn the volume

1077
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: down on the bullshit. So much of what I what

1078
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: was what was ailing me was I was believing my

1079
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: thoughts and then I realized my thoughts are not facts.

1080
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 1: It's just like an angry guy in there. That's like,

1081
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: you know, the cool thing about affirmation or like dreaming, daydreaming, fantasizing,

1082
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:27,240
Speaker 1: visualizing what you'd like. Uh, I think that that's so power, prayer,

1083
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it is. The reason it's

1084
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: so useful is sometimes you haven't even thought about what

1085
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: you want. You're just thinking how much you don't like

1086
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: what you have? Oh the sacks? Why is this this way?

1087
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: I hate my voice, I hate my partner, I don't

1088
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,760
Speaker 1: like where I live. And then if someone's like, what

1089
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,479
Speaker 1: what do you want in.

1090
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:48,240
Speaker 2: A perfect world?

1091
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: Like my experiment about let's say a phone rings and

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00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: you pick it up and your dream is on the

1093
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:59,280
Speaker 1: other end of the phone. They're like making this job,

1094
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: or you're gonna move here, or you're gonna be dating

1095
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: so and so. What is the phone call saying? Like

1096
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: when you write down wow, or you visualize the dream,

1097
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 1: it's hard and sometimes you realize it. Fuck, I don't

1098
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: know what I want. I don't even know what I

1099
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: don't know.

1100
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 2: What I want.

1101
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 3: My mom has said that to me my whole life,

1102
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 3: you don't even know what you like. When she's holding

1103
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 3: up two pairs of shorts for me to like wear

1104
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 3: to school and we're at Famous Bar and she's shopping

1105
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 3: and I'm doing that thing crossing my arms and she goes, Nick,

1106
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 3: which one of them?

1107
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 2: Do you want to get these or this one? I'm like,

1108
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 2: I don't know. She was like, you don't even know

1109
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 2: what you like?

1110
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 3: And I that's another That's another struggle for me. Is

1111
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 3: like Chris talking about what's our five year plan? Just

1112
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 3: imagine what you want in ten years? And I'm like,

1113
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 3: more of this. I don't know.

1114
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know. But what about that phone call?

1115
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 3: I want to hear what if we had to, if

1116
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 3: you have to choose right now that a phone is

1117
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 3: gonna ring and on the other end is going to

1118
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 3: be what is it?

1119
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 2: Anya? It's like asking you something, or.

1120
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: It's like, guess what this information? She got a job

1121
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: by SNL or you're okay, he's doing a movie with

1122
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: Judd Apatower.

1123
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 2: So it rings.

1124
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 3: First of all, I'm not going to answer because I'm

1125
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 3: gonna be like, who the fuck is this number?

1126
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 2: And your ringers off.

1127
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 4: Miss and it goes to voicemail, and it's like, hey,

1128
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 4: what is your dream? If you have a chance, and

1129
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 4: you please call me back because I have a lot

1130
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 4: of good things.

1131
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 3: My voice mail is full, so it just doesn't even

1132
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 3: get through. Okay, Brian, what is your call right now?

1133
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 4: Ring? Ring?

1134
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 3: Ring?

1135
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 4: Ring? Ring? Hello? Oh, and I have to say I'm you,

1136
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 4: I'm you. Hello. Hey listen, Brian, you just this, Oh

1137
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 4: this is your dream calling you? Uh listen, you just

1138
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 4: sold a cartoon to Fox or Pulu or something, and uh,

1139
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 4: you're going to be the creator and showrunner of your

1140
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 4: own cartoon.

1141
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's a good one. Okay, guess what

1142
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 2: can you.

1143
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,439
Speaker 1: This is not outlandish to mean, don't know it at

1144
00:51:58,480 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: all at all.

1145
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, that's what I'm asking is do you

1146
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 3: have scripts out there to the could that happen? Could

1147
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 3: a script get into the hand of someone that could

1148
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 3: call you and say that.

1149
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I did sell a show once, but

1150
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 4: it just didn't get picked up the series. So it's

1151
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 4: I'm I'm close enough, but I uh yeah, you know.

1152
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 4: I it's just so hard.

1153
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 3: That's so God man, your dream stresses me out. If

1154
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 3: that call came in, I'd be like I got to

1155
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 3: come up with an idea and I got to like

1156
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 3: learn how to draw, Like I love that someone else's

1157
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 3: dream could be my like kind of like uh stressful thing,

1158
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 3: But I love that dream for you, and that is

1159
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 3: so gonna happen for you and even you putting it

1160
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 3: out here like this, there's maybe someone listening that's like

1161
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 3: works in you know, uh what's it called talent development?

1162
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 2: Or like, you know what what is it called when

1163
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 2: companies are looking for scripts and stuff?

1164
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 4: Oh, there's a production company development?

1165
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 3: Sorry, development, there's someone working in television development that has

1166
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 3: some sort of now is a little bit inquisitive of

1167
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 3: like what's the sky I have to offer? Because yeah,

1168
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 3: and where could we send them to go check.

1169
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: Out your stuff?

1170
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 4: No, I do. I would love to write your Instagram.

1171
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 4: I go to my Instagram at Brian Frangie. But I

1172
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 4: would love to have one day. This is not like

1173
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 4: my dream, but I do want to have a coffee

1174
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 4: table book about apples. Yeah, okay, that seems pretty easy.

1175
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 2: That's the next call. Yeah, that's the text that you get.

1176
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 3: Okay, We're going to get to the rest of our

1177
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 3: calls after this break, and I would implore you guys

1178
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 3: to think of this yourself and maybe call into the

1179
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 3: show and let us know what you're u And you

1180
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 3: can find that at our Instagram underneath our bio in

1181
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 3: the in the biopart, there's a link to a place

1182
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 3: where you can leave us a fantherex message and.

1183
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,439
Speaker 2: Tell us what your call is. This is so fun.

1184
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 2: We'll be back with more. Okay. Noah, ring ring ring,

1185
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,319
Speaker 2: it's your dream calling.

1186
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 5: Hello Noah, yeah, Hi? Can you speak louder I can't

1187
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 5: hear you.

1188
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 4: Are you there?

1189
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: Hello? Yeah?

1190
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 3: One second please, I just need to close out these

1191
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:03,280
Speaker 3: windows right here.

1192
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 2: And yes, Hi, it's uh noah, noh. We have great news.

1193
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 5: You have land with a farm and cows and horses

1194
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 5: and all the animals that you've ever dreamed of. It's

1195
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 5: all paid for. You won't have to pay property taxes,

1196
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 5: either it's all yours?

1197
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 2: Oh whoa? Okay, So Noah's dream is to inherit land

1198
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 2: with cows. What else was on it? Horses?

1199
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 4: Chickens?

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00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: And where is this? Okay? So wow, this sounds great.

1201
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 2: Where exactly can I ask? Just can I ask a

1202
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 2: few questions?

1203
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 3: Is that?

1204
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 4: Okay? Yeah?

1205
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 2: Of course? Okay? The rest of your life? Exactly? Is

1206
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 2: this farm?

1207
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 5: Uh in Arizona where there's really comfortable weather all year long?

1208
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: Okay?

1209
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 3: Wow, well this is really great and I'm just gonna

1210
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 3: need a couple of days to think about it.

1211
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 2: There's gonna be dogs and cats. Do we say that?

1212
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

1213
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 2: Oh wow? Will they get along? It sounds like it's

1214
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: two animals that don't get along. I'm thinking of all

1215
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 2: the problems.

1216
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 3: This is my inheriting land and getting a cartoon that

1217
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 3: I have to produce.

1218
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 2: I'm sorry to make it.

1219
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 3: About me, but I'm thinking, like, I love that other

1220
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 3: people's I love that everyone's dream is so different. You

1221
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,720
Speaker 3: want to have an animal sanctuary? That's that's that sounds

1222
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 3: so good? Noah, I want to go visit it. That

1223
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: does exactly a wing for birds pun intended. Yeah, I

1224
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 3: can't either. When he retired, I was like that is

1225
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 3: my dream. I want to be able to retire and

1226
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 3: just like save animals, we should we should collapse on

1227
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 3: that because I want to have Yeah, I want to.

1228
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 3: I also would love whenever I see these videos online

1229
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 3: of like cows playing with balls and like birds flying

1230
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 3: around and being friends with other fishes and stuff like

1231
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 3: it's that's so, that's so great. Okay, so that is

1232
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 3: a great call. I don't know how you're gonna have

1233
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 3: the property tax part of it.

1234
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: It's all paid for in the dream.

1235
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, someone is gonna like leave you something like this

1236
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 3: is totally plausible. That's someone who you're a nice person. No, no, no,

1237
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 3: no one in your family. That's that's not gonna happen

1238
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 3: for you. But like Jesus, you know someone is gonna

1239
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 3: encounter Noah and be so touched by her like overall

1240
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 3: generosity and spirit that you're gonna be one of these

1241
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 3: people that has left something just from like you being

1242
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,360
Speaker 3: kind of being like, oh, sir, your shoe is untied

1243
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 3: instead of and being like I know it is. They're

1244
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 3: gonna be one. Thank you so much. Let me put

1245
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 3: you in my will and give you all this land. Okay,

1246
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 3: Ring ring, Ring.

1247
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 1: Hello, mate, it's Anya.

1248
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing you, and then you're your dream.

1249
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: Hey, you know that song even fucking toiling over for months,

1250
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: it's gonna be in the trailer for this thing. And

1251
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna be independently wealthy because, uh, you and your

1252
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 1: co writers will split two point five million dollars and

1253
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 1: you can finally buy that house that you want with

1254
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: the dream kitchen, and your parents are going to live

1255
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: close by, and you'll live in the same city as

1256
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 1: your friend, so you won't have to do this podcast

1257
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: on zoom and all your friends and family will be

1258
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: close by.

1259
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 3: I just tell you, like, I'm not even joking. I

1260
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 3: first of all, I love this dream. But the other day,

1261
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 3: Chris and I were talking about moving in together and

1262
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 3: then eventually like getting a house if we get married

1263
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 3: and all these things, and I was like, you know,

1264
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 3: we're talking about where we want to live, and I'm like,

1265
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: I want to live and I love living in Saint Louis,

1266
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 3: but I was like, I got to get a friend here,

1267
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 3: like I need a friend here that I can see every.

1268
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 2: Day, like I need it.

1269
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm gonna work on convincing Audien

1270
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 3: move to say Louist.

1271
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: Really and so yes, we're open.

1272
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 3: So we're open to I know, and Chris goes really

1273
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 3: and I go, I think they're open to it, and

1274
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, I think I can sell them on it.

1275
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 3: I'll just like see what I can do. But I

1276
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 3: do in your dream as well, because it's part of mine.

1277
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 3: I like need to live close to a friend.

1278
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: That's the thing everyone that is so useful about this

1279
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: because I don't even know exactly what my dream is.

1280
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: I just know generally I want to be close to

1281
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: friends and family.

1282
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 2: Don't know how that's going to happen, but you don't

1283
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 2: have to know.

1284
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: But just by articulating it, something in your subconscious mind

1285
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: kind of like revs up a little bit, and then

1286
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: you start making choices in your life that are slightly

1287
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: different because now you kind of know the feeling you

1288
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 1: want to have, like I want to have the feeling

1289
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: of being close to friends, or like doing the podcast

1290
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: in the same room, or like having my parents down

1291
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: the street. Don't know how it's going to happen, but

1292
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: it just I think it affects your choices in small ways.

1293
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: It's not magic, you know what I mean, But it

1294
00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: just gets you thinking in a different way.

1295
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 2: Okay, here's mine. Wait what Brian.

1296
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 4: No, I was just going to ring the phone. But

1297
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 4: I do want to say it's also important. It's not

1298
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 4: just thinking in the same way. It's when you do

1299
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 4: this phone call conversation, it generates a feeling inside of you.

1300
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 4: It's a feeling of what you would feel like when

1301
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 4: you did have success with your subconscious Braine, is.

1302
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 3: Your subconscious mind that you're getting it, and then your

1303
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 3: subconscious mind makes it happen.

1304
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: So often you start feeling more worthwhile and worthy. Like

1305
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: when I was trying to be in a happy relationship

1306
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: and I was painfully single and sad and dejected. I

1307
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: would do that in the mirror every night, like as

1308
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: if the guy I liked, my dream partner was saying

1309
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: all the things I'd ever want said to me. And

1310
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: at first I couldn't come up with anything. Then I

1311
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 1: was like, well, how could you have a dream partner

1312
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: if you don't even know what you want? But then

1313
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: it was like, I love you, I have your back,

1314
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: You're the sexiest person I've ever met in my life,

1315
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: like things that sounded ridiculous, but I'm like, you said

1316
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: it out loud, yes, And then I started in the

1317
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: mirroring yeah, and then I'd be like this is so

1318
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: awkward and weird, but like, why is that crazy?

1319
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 2: Where did you hear to do that?

1320
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: A friend of mine was like, you should do some affirmations,

1321
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:14,760
Speaker 1: like tell yourself all the things you want your dream

1322
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: and you got it. And then I started going to

1323
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: bed at night instead of crying myself to sleep. I

1324
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 1: had the feeling that I was in love and I

1325
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: was having amazing dreams, and I was like giddy and

1326
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: like I had this crush feeling and I was like

1327
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: this feels bad, Like this feels like I'm getting away

1328
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:34,959
Speaker 1: with something like doing drugs. I was so high off

1329
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: this feeling. It fucking worked. So if you're in that

1330
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,919
Speaker 1: situation in your life, try that for a couple nights

1331
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: in a row. Tell yourself the things you wish your

1332
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,919
Speaker 1: dream partner would say to you. No one ever has

1333
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: to know. You never have to say it on a podcast.

1334
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 3: You don't have to, but like, it's so nice that

1335
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 3: you did, because it is embarrassing all these things, like

1336
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 3: doing them alone or like that's why it helps this

1337
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 3: phone call thing, to like do it as a podcast.

1338
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 3: This is like content, so it doesn't have to be

1339
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 3: as embarrassing. And that's where I ask you to call in,

1340
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 3: because I'm asking you to do it so you don't

1341
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 3: have to feel.

1342
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: Bad about it.

1343
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi? Is this is this Miss Glazer?

1344
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1345
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: Hold on, I got my sleep mouse?

1346
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: Who is this? Wait?

1347
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 3: Hi?

1348
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: I'm actually this is urgent.

1349
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 3: I don't it won't take long, I promise you, and

1350
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 3: and you can think about it and don't worry.

1351
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 2: This is not going to you. You aren't. You don't

1352
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 2: have to do anything right now about it. That's my dream.

1353
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 3: Is someone's starting back with like you don't have to

1354
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 3: get back to this right away.

1355
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 2: Okay.

1356
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift has heard about you and your love of

1357
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 3: her music and appreciative appreciation of her music, and she

1358
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 3: is really looking to mentor someone musically to take them

1359
01:01:56,520 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 3: to through the process of being a singer songwriter. And

1360
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 3: she really thinks, based on what she's heard from you

1361
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 3: and what she's seen of you, that you really have

1362
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 3: what it takes to be a great singer songwriter and

1363
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 3: that she can really help you through that process, and

1364
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 3: she wants to be your mentor and is inviting you

1365
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 3: to come out on the road with her and just

1366
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 3: be a part of the experience, and she'll try to

1367
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 3: help you write off stage, and she really also wants

1368
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 3: some of your comedic input in her own life. And

1369
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 3: I think that she artistically thinks she could both benefit

1370
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 3: each other very much. And then eventually we'd like to

1371
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 3: work towards a place where you can, you know, a debut,

1372
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 3: you know, do be featured on a song of hers

1373
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 3: on a future album, and then share the stage with

1374
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 3: her at some point in a future concert if you

1375
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 3: work hard enough and you get to the point where

1376
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 3: she thinks you're deserving of that.

1377
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: I love this. No one knew this. What not really?

1378
01:02:58,680 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 3: This is.

1379
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 4: Like not to this degree.

1380
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 3: You never wanted to meet her, Like Chris, don't meet

1381
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 3: her until she wants to meet you, Like that's that's

1382
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 3: the ticket, is like, you don't meet her.

1383
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 2: We heard that from someone famous. I forget who.

1384
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 3: Chris could remind me, but he said, don't because I

1385
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 3: think I have a chance to meet her this weekend,

1386
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna turn it down because I just don't want.

1387
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 3: I want to meet her when she wants to meet me,

1388
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 3: and because I'm going to see her this weekend. Sorry

1389
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 3: to people who haven't been able to go to aras yet.

1390
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 3: I know this is getting annoying, but in Chicago I'm

1391
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 3: going to see her with my mom and then another night,

1392
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 3: two nights. But yeah, I just feel like I think

1393
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 3: my last time we did this and the girls chat

1394
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 3: this phone call thing, my dream was like her asking

1395
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 3: me to be in a music video, but that would

1396
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 3: be like me being like funny in it, and I

1397
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 3: don't really want to do that, Like I wanna. I

1398
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 3: like what Pariglia did in her music video.

1399
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 2: I thought that was so awesome.

1400
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 3: I would have loved to be asked to do that,

1401
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 3: but I want I want to I want her help

1402
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 3: in becoming an artist, even though like and I want her.

1403
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 2: Approved.

1404
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 3: I guess it would be or like I want her

1405
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 3: to see something in me and be like, you've got it, girl,

1406
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 3: you know something like that. I think that's why that

1407
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 3: whole thing was about, like she's noticed that you have

1408
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 3: what it takes, but that you might need some assistance,

1409
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 3: and she's going to help you because I acknowledge that

1410
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 3: what I want I need a lot more help on.

1411
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 3: So I think what I've learned from my from this

1412
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 3: test is that I I'm still about the hard work

1413
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 3: of it. All, and I don't want like a simple fix,

1414
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 3: but I want to earn something.

1415
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 2: But I want Yeah, I want. I'm open to help.

1416
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 4: So what did you when you were saying that and

1417
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 4: you were doing the phone thought, how did you feel?

1418
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 4: What were the feelings that manifested.

1419
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 3: Like, Yes, I get to go do something and like

1420
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 3: be a student again and be a novice, and I

1421
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 3: get to clearly I'll be paid well and taking care

1422
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 3: of on this tour, so I don't need to worry

1423
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 3: about money. I don't need to be worried about taking

1424
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 3: like I love doing comedy and gigs, like I'll never

1425
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 3: stop doing that, and I would probably still do the

1426
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 3: podcast on tour with her. But it was like there

1427
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 3: was a feeling of like youthness, of like youthfulness, of

1428
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 3: like newness, like when you're learning something new or you're

1429
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 3: embarking on this thing that's like scary.

1430
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 2: There's like there was.

1431
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 3: A feeling of the feeling I had in my early

1432
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 3: twenties like pursuing comedy, of like I don't know what

1433
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 3: this is, this is crazy, or like and of like

1434
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 3: approval like uh, that you're on the right track and

1435
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 3: that this thing that you're kind of throwing yourself into

1436
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 3: and have a lot of self doubt about is is

1437
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 3: validated by the person that you care so much about.

1438
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 3: Uh and and like, you know, like Jerry Seinfeld telling

1439
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 3: me I was funny. I was like, okay, got it,

1440
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 3: I'm good like now, And for many months I was

1441
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 3: like very like I was riding that high, you know.

1442
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 3: And Anya even had to remind me in Europe like

1443
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 3: remember what Seinfeld said, Like you're funny, Like you don't

1444
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 3: need to question that, And but I do, because I

1445
01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 3: listened to clips of Tim Dillan, and I'm like, how

1446
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 3: how can I think I'm funny when there's Tim Dillan, which,

1447
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 3: by the way, he is a book coming out. I'm

1448
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 3: so fucking excited about it. It's he's I think I

1449
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 3: heard him on your mom's house. I was listening to

1450
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 3: clips this morning. I don't know if I was cutting

1451
01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 3: with them or I was like trying to be inspired.

1452
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 3: It's hard to tell when you're listening to someone you

1453
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 3: admire so much, like whether you're like trying to make

1454
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 3: yourself feel worse about it. Clips are cut, by the way,

1455
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 3: meaning they're edited. I get that, but still off the dome.

1456
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 3: He is so he's one of the he's just superhuman.

1457
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 3: And I and the fact that I'm even able to

1458
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 3: acknowledge that and know that makes me feel special, Like

1459
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 3: I know that I'm talented because I'm able to know

1460
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 3: that Tim Dillon is the best.

1461
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 2: Like clearly there's something.

1462
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 3: It gives me self esteem to know that I know

1463
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 3: for sure he's the best. But he's shared in this

1464
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 3: Your Mom's House clips was so funny. It's the one

1465
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 3: where he's introducing his book. You can find it online.

1466
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 3: I think it's like Tim Dillon Clips is like the

1467
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 3: YouTube channel. But he's talking about how his dad like

1468
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 3: one time told him like, you know what's good about you?

1469
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 3: He was like, I was smoking cigarettes with my dad

1470
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:07,479
Speaker 3: at the age of like well in his car. Yeah,

1471
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 3: Like he was like, and you know he told his

1472
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 3: dad told him, you know what's good about you, like

1473
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 3: meaning there's one thing he finally found it. He goes,

1474
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 3: you never smoke him down to the filter. He always

1475
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 3: leave something. He goes, that's what's good about you. And

1476
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 3: it was making me last word. But then he also

1477
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 3: said that his dad used to always like kind of

1478
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:31,040
Speaker 3: say things like there's always gonna be someone who can

1479
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 3: do what you do, You're never that special kind of

1480
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 3: like always cutting everything with like, no matter what you

1481
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 3: achieve in life, there's someone who can do it, like

1482
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 3: kind of the way I think about myself, of like

1483
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 3: anyone can do this. It's not that I'm not special,

1484
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 3: and in certain ways I am, But I said, I

1485
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,959
Speaker 3: tend to see things pretty like it's about hard work,

1486
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 3: it's about luck. It's just like, don't don't get on

1487
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 3: your high horse too much. And his dad would say that, Tim,

1488
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 3: and I'm like, it's so funny that. But I think

1489
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 3: Tim dillan out of every comedian I know, I do

1490
01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 3: agree that most comedians people could do that, and they're

1491
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 3: are like like copycats of like it's kind of repetitive

1492
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 3: a lot of times. It's not that we don't need

1493
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 3: more of that. It's great every you know, artists are

1494
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 3: inspired by others. But I do believe Tim Dillon is

1495
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 3: one of the exceptions to that.

1496
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 2: I think he is.

1497
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 3: So extraordinarily uniquely funny. And I was just thinking, like

1498
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 3: I'm just like, uh was I don't think I was

1499
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 3: cutting with his clips, because sometimes I do.

1500
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 2: I go like, God, you'll never be this funny. He's

1501
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:25,759
Speaker 2: so fucking smart. And fast and funny.

1502
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 3: But this morning I was like trying to be more

1503
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 3: inspired by it and tap into whatever that. Obviously I

1504
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 3: admire it, So it's somewhere in me that kind of

1505
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 3: like honesty and brutality with which he speaks that I

1506
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,640
Speaker 3: look up to so much that I'm like, let me

1507
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 3: get some let me have more of that.

1508
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and let me tell.

1509
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 3: I'm even talking like him now, Like, let me let

1510
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 3: me listen to this and absorb some of it. The

1511
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 3: other day, I was trying to write like a bunch

1512
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 3: of jokes about one topic. I just wanted to write

1513
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 3: a bunch of jokes about having gained a little bit

1514
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 3: of weight, because I think that's just like an interest

1515
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 3: topic to discuss it, just like just a little bit,

1516
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:05,880
Speaker 3: you know, like it's not enough to really complain about

1517
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 3: or for anyone to feel bad about you. But I

1518
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 3: was like, where can I go with this? And I

1519
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:12,639
Speaker 3: was on this porch of this hotel in Tel Aviv,

1520
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, I just want to write a

1521
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 3: bunch of jokes, And instead of just trying to do that,

1522
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 3: I was like, who writes a bunch? Who just has

1523
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 3: jokes rapid fire? And so I just started watching Jim

1524
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:25,680
Speaker 3: Gaffigan on two times the Speed on YouTube, and I

1525
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 3: just like dumped buckets of jokes on my head and

1526
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 3: like I was sopping wet with that kind of like

1527
01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:35,439
Speaker 3: thinking and that kind of joke writing, which Jim Gaffigan

1528
01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 3: is just like joke. There's no fat in the jokes.

1529
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 3: There's no like you know, yes, I typed in like

1530
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 3: fat jokes and it's like all Jim gaffigin. But if

1531
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 3: you ever want to hear jokes about any topic, you

1532
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 3: type in Jim Gaffigan in that topic and he has

1533
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:53,680
Speaker 3: twenty minutes about it, and I think he has the

1534
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 3: most precise like writing. So I've been using things that

1535
01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 3: I'm jealous of or sorry that I'm envious of to

1536
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 3: inspire me more so lately.

1537
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 2: Do you guys ever do that?

1538
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 3: Do you ever like immerse yourself in something that you

1539
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 3: might avoid otherwise because it makes you feel bad?

1540
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 4: I mean Tim Dillon did that to me. You know.

1541
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:13,599
Speaker 4: Tim Dillon was my podcast co host for like eight

1542
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 4: months on like ten years ago, on The Unbelievable podcast.

1543
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 2: Wait, I think I did know this, but I forgot it.

1544
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was my he was my co host who

1545
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:24,559
Speaker 4: were co host do you agree.

1546
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:27,480
Speaker 2: With me about what that he's extraordinary.

1547
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 4: Well, this is what happened on the podcast. He would

1548
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 4: be on the podcast and I was like, this guy

1549
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:35,599
Speaker 4: is a fucking star and like he's just he shouldn't

1550
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 4: be here. And then eventually like what is he doing here?

1551
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 4: And then so we had eight months of you know,

1552
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 4: great podcasts and the eventually he left to do his

1553
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 4: own podcast. But I this was like in twenty twelve,

1554
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 4: I was like, this guy is so funny. It's like,

1555
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 4: I'm not ready to be on the same podcast as him.

1556
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 4: And then he did leave, and then the podcast was shit. No,

1557
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,640
Speaker 4: but it was it was fine, and I was I

1558
01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 4: saw it from twenty twelve or whenever it was. And

1559
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 4: then he left, and then I was not surprised when

1560
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 4: he when he blew up.

1561
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:05,480
Speaker 2: Are you still friendly with him?

1562
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 4: If I saw him, he would say hello, but I

1563
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 4: don't like, you know, text him or anything. Gays.

1564
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 2: We're podcasting for eight Was it a was it a

1565
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 2: bad ending?

1566
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 4: One of the best moments of No, No, it is

1567
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 4: a perfectly fine ending, one of the best moments. Because

1568
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 4: he would come to my apartment in Sunnyside, Queens and

1569
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 4: I used to make chicken franchse. One of my best

1570
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:27,719
Speaker 4: dishes that I could make, and one of my proudest

1571
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 4: moments is I made chicken Franchise and there was some

1572
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 4: leftovers and Tim was at the house and I was like,

1573
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 4: you want some chicken Franchez because I know he's like

1574
01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 4: a foodie guy. Yeah, And he goes and he tastes

1575
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 4: the chicken franchise and he goes not bad, not bad. Yeah,

1576
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 4: a little too much white wine, but not bad. And

1577
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 4: that was like, oh my god, that was like the

1578
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:49,520
Speaker 4: best compliment coming from him.

1579
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, he ill. I mean, it's the best compliment coming

1580
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 3: from him that he was a co host.

1581
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 2: He must. You don't agree to be a.

1582
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:01,719
Speaker 3: Co host on someone's show and you think they've got something,

1583
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 3: and which you clearly have, there's no question of that,

1584
01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 3: that's why. And you don't you don't ask someone to

1585
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 3: be a post on your show if you don't see

1586
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 3: that they have and like like you did with Tim,

1587
01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 3: like I want to absorb someone something of what this

1588
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 3: guy has. But yeah, it's and then it's hard to see,

1589
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 3: especially it's sometimes hard to see people that you started

1590
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 3: with or like we're beneath you. In the comedy world,

1591
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,640
Speaker 3: like you know, eclipse you or like I struggle with

1592
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 3: all that stuff, but I'm finding like just just try

1593
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 3: to try to enjoy it and not compare yourself, but

1594
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 3: like use it to learn. Like that's why I want

1595
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 3: a mentorship from Taylor Swift, Like use these things as

1596
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 3: mentoring devices as opposed to like making you feel bad

1597
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 3: about stuff, like do you do that?

1598
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 2: Anya? Do you do this?

1599
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 1: I think envy is one of my favorite emotions because

1600
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: it tells me what I want, and sometimes I don't

1601
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,320
Speaker 1: know what. I'm one of those personalities that's a that

1602
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: can you know, has a really hard time making decisions

1603
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: because I can see all the good sides of each

1604
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: possible option. But I remember when I was working at

1605
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 1: the radio station as a DJ in San Diego and

1606
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,879
Speaker 1: I saw my friend's tour schedule. She was a singer songwriter,

1607
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:16,120
Speaker 1: and I was like filled with envy and rage, and

1608
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: then I was like, what are you doing? Why are

1609
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 1: you on the radio if you're so envious? Start taking

1610
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 1: steps to have her life. If you want her life,

1611
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 1: what are you doing? And that's when I was like, Oh,

1612
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 1: I'm stuck here because of me, But I can have

1613
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: what she has if I start taking like, no one's

1614
01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:39,640
Speaker 1: going to knock on my door and call me and

1615
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:41,599
Speaker 1: be like, hey, guys, so you have a full tour

1616
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 1: scheduled that's sold out. If you've never even made a.

1617
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 2: Record, what was the purpose of this call?

1618
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 1: This calling thing, the things we were on our phone

1619
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 1: calls are possible. Everything you we've all said, I mean,

1620
01:13:56,720 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: is extraordinary. But you're taking voice lessons. You are comedian.

1621
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 2: Taxes are unavoidable. It's death and taxes that she's never

1622
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 2: gonna die.

1623
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 1: No, Noah might end up being like I saw a

1624
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 1: really cool farm in Arizona and.

1625
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 3: Attracts exactly text she can afford the property tax, text

1626
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 3: right off because it's a pea. Yes, yes, because it's

1627
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 3: a sanctuary. Okay, thank you, all right.

1628
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 2: Also, I just found to have the.

1629
01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 1: Weddings on your land. You can write it all off.

1630
01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 1: That was it? Just that envy is really is really

1631
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: helpful to me. So sometimes I'll hear a song that

1632
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, damn it, I wish I had written that,

1633
01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, just start writing something like that.

1634
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 1: I think it informs your next steps. Was that an

1635
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: answer to your question? Did you ask me?

1636
01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 4: No?

1637
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 2: That was good?

1638
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 3: Okay, No, no, no, I think that was I think that

1639
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 3: was it. I actually saw this thing. I'll end on this.

1640
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 3: I followed I guess on Instagram you can like follow

1641
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 3: hashtags and I follow like voice teachers or something. And

1642
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 3: there's this woman that I really like and she sells

1643
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 3: like or she she's yeah, she sells classes, but she

1644
01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:05,320
Speaker 3: also gives good advice.

1645
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 2: And this was one that I really liked.

1646
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:10,639
Speaker 3: She's talking about performance and like being a better performer,

1647
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 3: and she said visualization is the practice of mentally imagining

1648
01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 3: yourself performing in a way you would like to perform

1649
01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 3: in real life. It's a mental rehearsal of skills toda.

1650
01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 3: The idea is used in Olympic sports training. The studies

1651
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 3: show that when athletes use visualization they improve performance up

1652
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 3: to thirty percent. So for your next performance, try mentally

1653
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 3: rehearsing your performance scenarios and see if your physical performance

1654
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 3: of those scenarios and actions improve. So the thirty percent improvement,

1655
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 3: I've read that before too. I think Neil Brennan suggested

1656
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 3: me a book that was like the ten percent. It

1657
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 3: wasn't ten percent happier. It was some sports book about

1658
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 3: like visualization and like you meditate and you imagine the

1659
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 3: game you're about to play, and then those players play better.

1660
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:51,679
Speaker 3: I've never done anything like that where I'm like prep

1661
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 3: picturing the performance.

1662
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 2: I would struggle with that.

1663
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 3: I struggle with like fantasy and like even you know,

1664
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 3: with masturbation. I'm never like thinking about some thing. But

1665
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 3: I guess now that there's a I usually looked at

1666
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 3: fantasy of like you're so dumb, you're never going to

1667
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 3: get this, Like this is just a sad thing, like

1668
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 3: I pictured it like kind of pathetic, And now that

1669
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:14,679
Speaker 3: there's a purpose behind it that you could be thirty

1670
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 3: percent better, maybe I could start trying to do it.

1671
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 3: But there was another one too, that said, be well rehearsed.

1672
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 3: Science has proven that when musicians or athletes rehearse their

1673
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 3: performance ahead of time, they perform up to thirty percent better.

1674
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 2: I mean, that's so true. We all fucking know that.

1675
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 1: Bring is back to the thing we started with in

1676
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: the beginning about weddings and anxiety. Today, this morning I

1677
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:39,640
Speaker 1: did like a little bit of wedding prep work that

1678
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 1: I've been putting off, and I felt so good and

1679
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 1: excited about getting married, which is a nice feeling, just

1680
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: because like I don't.

1681
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 2: Know I bought.

1682
01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bought like this stuff I'm supposed to wear

1683
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 1: under the dress, which is so annoying and complicated to

1684
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 1: me because I don't know how to wear, like what

1685
01:16:56,840 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 1: kind of bra and what kind of slip and I

1686
01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:00,839
Speaker 1: have to get the slip altered and it's fucking annoying.

1687
01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 4: But I did it.

1688
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:04,599
Speaker 1: I bought all the things. I'll probably not wear any

1689
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 1: of them, but I bought a bunch of options and

1690
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 1: answered the caterer and wrote to the fucking delivery people,

1691
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:12,720
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, now I'm getting prepared. It's the

1692
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: same thing as playing guitar for a couple hours or

1693
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: like before Europe, I picked out all my outfits and

1694
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I was like thirty percent less

1695
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 1: nervous because I'm like, I know what outfit I'm wearing

1696
01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: on what day, and it feels so good.

1697
01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 3: Do you ever watch these people like on YouTube, like

1698
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 3: the guy Jay Shetty with the ice blue eyes, and

1699
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 3: like all these other like influencers that you kind of

1700
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 3: think they're full of shit. Ryan Holliday he's the stoicism guy.

1701
01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 2: There's Lewis Howells. He's a friend of mine.

1702
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 3: But like these guys and it just seems so easy

1703
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 3: for them to do all these things all the time.

1704
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 3: It can't be, though, right, Like, no one just lives

1705
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 3: thinking positively, always practicing. I think the only person that does,

1706
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 3: maybe is Taylor Swift, because and that is why she's

1707
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 3: been so successful. Like I look at her success and

1708
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 3: it's like I read this diary that they posted on

1709
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 3: the Reddit the other day because she shared her like

1710
01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:05,920
Speaker 3: journals from the years, and it was like, today's the

1711
01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 3: anniversary of when she picked the nineteen eighty nine album cover,

1712
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:10,200
Speaker 3: and I was like, who gives a shit? And then

1713
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:12,439
Speaker 3: I read the journal entries where she was like, I

1714
01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 3: arrived in Shanghai. I'm very tired and jet lagged, and

1715
01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:17,640
Speaker 3: I knew if I slept, I'd be totally screwed. So

1716
01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 3: I went to the gym and I'm like, that's Tailor's Swift.

1717
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 3: And then she wrote like and I just was feeling

1718
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 3: unsatisfied with the photo shoot we did for nineteen and nine.

1719
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 3: I can't describe, but I just am not finding what

1720
01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:31,839
Speaker 3: I want. So I went back to the original stills

1721
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 3: that we took for like the outfit fitting or whatever

1722
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,280
Speaker 3: I'm paraphrasing. But she was like and I looked at

1723
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 3: the polaroids and I realized, oh my god, there's this

1724
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:41,799
Speaker 3: one polaroid of me that doesn't have my eyes showing,

1725
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:43,960
Speaker 3: and there's just something captivating about it.

1726
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 2: And that's the cover.

1727
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,759
Speaker 3: And it was just like, ohoh, it was she going

1728
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 3: over things, not sleeping when you know that it's gonna

1729
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 3: fuck with you, not because you know, she didn't she

1730
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:54,960
Speaker 3: needed rest, and this was at a time in her life,

1731
01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 3: I think when she was exercising too much, and she

1732
01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 3: would probably admit that too, But I was just reading

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01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:00,800
Speaker 3: that going like, there are there are certain people like

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01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 3: this who got into good habits young, and like instead

1735
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 3: of me beating myself up that like I'm I wasn't

1736
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 3: twenty two and you know, going to the gym instead

1737
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 3: of sleeping and picking out my album cover and performing

1738
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 3: a sold out show in Shanghai with a ticker tape

1739
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:17,600
Speaker 3: parade like and all these things. I was just like,

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01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 3: what can I do to maybe be more like that?

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01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 3: Or like, how can this inspire me? So I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: try to do more of that.

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Speaker 2: This was an enlightening This is an inspiring.

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Speaker 1: Episode for me too.

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01:19:30,040 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 3: You guys got me? H, what are we all gonna

1746
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 3: do just to sit by your phones all day. I

1747
01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:39,200
Speaker 3: want all out, just pick up every spam call.

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Speaker 2: All right, that feels good.

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Speaker 3: Well, until next week, we have so much discuss it

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01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:46,920
Speaker 3: will be we'll get into wedding planning details because that's

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01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 3: all coming up very soon. Leave us fan threxes. We'll

1752
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 3: get to those next week as well. Thank you all

1753
01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 3: for the messages you send, all the kind words about

1754
01:19:53,160 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 3: Brian and the show in general, and we'll see you

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01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:58,920
Speaker 3: next week on the show. Don't be kiss and you

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Speaker 3: just manifest that sh Wu conches mine baitch