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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, at your girl a j holiday? What's up,

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Speaker 3: Tam Bam?

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Speaker 2: Hey aj I love y'all so much. How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: My weekend was very uneventful. It's been getting cold outside

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Speaker 1: and that's it. There's really nothing much going on in

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Speaker 1: South Carolina right now.

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Speaker 3: I'm Hiberneaton.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't have bay.

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Speaker 3: Me about that nigga.

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Speaker 1: Listen.

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Speaker 2: You tell me every week, so I was just wondering

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Speaker 2: you asked me.

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Speaker 1: I don't be mentioning him because you asked me, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes I be having to explained some ship that I

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Speaker 1: said on this this damn podcast.

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Speaker 2: He listens to listen, so he listens every week. I'm

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Speaker 2: make sure my niggas don't listen.

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Speaker 3: Every week.

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Speaker 1: He'd be knowing what we're talking about. Like last week

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Speaker 1: he was like, so you want a marathon? But yes,

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Speaker 1: actually I do, so was it talking about you?

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Speaker 2: So he's gonna have two shows to listen to this week,

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Speaker 2: ours and our guests. So y'all, we got some amazing

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Speaker 2: guests on their cousins to the podcast. They're like our

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Speaker 2: Sisters show on the network because it's female led Mela

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Speaker 2: and Erica from Good Mom's Bad Choices. It's our guests

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Speaker 2: on the show this week. Welcome Lady ah here, Hey girl.

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Speaker 3: Eighty Hey.

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Speaker 2: So we just got on with them yesterday and we

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Speaker 2: had a really good time talking with them, and now

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Speaker 2: we had to bring them over here with our of

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Speaker 2: your listeners. So maybe y'all can jump on and listen

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Speaker 2: to their show if you already aren't. They probably already

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Speaker 2: tuning in, so I don't know where I was about

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Speaker 2: to go with it.

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Speaker 3: You high her?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's talk about y'all.

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Speaker 3: Weekend LA is pretty uneventful. I feel like it's gotten

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Speaker 3: very dry since twenty twenty. So I was in I

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Speaker 3: was in New York, and then I went to Miami

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Speaker 3: because I was avoiding coming home because why come home

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Speaker 3: when I could go to Miami. And actually I had

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Speaker 3: a pretty eventful week in New York. I danced with

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Speaker 3: Sierra at the Soho House.

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Speaker 2: I saw that.

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Speaker 3: It's pretty epic. It wasn't planned. I don't know her

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Speaker 3: at all. People think I'm really cool now, like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, you guys blew up. I'm like yeah, me

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Speaker 3: and sis. And then I went to Miami and I

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Speaker 3: wandered into a drag brunch by myself, made seven friends,

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Speaker 3: and joined the dance contest even though they said locals only.

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Speaker 3: I was like locals or locals and what I've joined? Anyway.

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Speaker 3: I didn't win, though, which was a tragedy. But other

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Speaker 3: than that, and today I went and tried on wedding dresses.

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Speaker 3: So I've had an eventful week.

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Speaker 2: Oh you had a very eventful week, what about you, Erica?

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Speaker 4: Excuse me.

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Speaker 5: I was also in New York with Mila and witnessed

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Speaker 5: her dance with Sierra. If you have a second, go

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Speaker 5: on our page good Mom's bad Choices and go see

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Speaker 5: the knees, because mila'sknees are well oiled.

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Speaker 4: Okay, period? And what else did I do? I came back.

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Speaker 5: I had to jump straight back into motherhood. So my

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Speaker 5: daughter had cheerleading. I fucked up, and I got to

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Speaker 5: the damn homecoming. We got her to the homecoming game late.

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Speaker 5: She missed the whole performance. Bad choice mom, good whatever

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Speaker 5: the fuck? So that was annoying. Other than I've just

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Speaker 5: been chilling girl, I've just been relaxing, decompressing. I love

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Speaker 5: New York, but every time I come back, I'm a

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Speaker 5: little bit like I just feel like energetically, like it

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Speaker 5: just pulls me a lot.

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Speaker 4: Even this trip, I was actually really well behaved.

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Speaker 5: Like normally when I'm in New York, I'm like outside,

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Speaker 5: and this trip I was. This is the calmest I've

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Speaker 5: ever been in New York City in my whole fucking life.

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Speaker 5: But I still came back and needed like two days

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Speaker 5: of recovery. So I've just been chilling today. It's raining

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Speaker 5: in la and I love it. I love a good rain.

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Speaker 4: It feels cleansing. And now I'm on here with you ladies.

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Speaker 1: Don't I always say that about New York, Like it's

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Speaker 1: like a it's They're definitely like harvesting our energy Between

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you always said that you hate Oh good, So okay,

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Speaker 2: let me tell you about my weekend. I didn't tell y'all.

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Speaker 2: So my mom just purchased a new house, so I

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Speaker 2: was out helping her. I'm know, I'm so happy for her,

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Speaker 2: been like a gypsy for the past year. So I

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Speaker 2: came out to La. I was there for like forty

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Speaker 2: five days, and I broke my foot. So then I

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Speaker 2: left LA. And then you broke your foot in La.

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Speaker 2: I know. I came back home for a wedding and

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Speaker 2: I jumped a catch the bouquet broke my foot on

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Speaker 3: Yeah's ConA plush you no, so, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So my stuff is still in La in a storage

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Speaker 2: unit right now. So I haven't been back. It's been almostly.

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Speaker 2: It's been a year. So I'm going back out. I'll

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Speaker 2: be back out there soon. When we have to hang

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Speaker 2: out here for that forty five day I would do here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I decided to because you broke your foot.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And I just didn't want to be out there

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Speaker 2: or without a village with a broken foot, can't drive,

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Speaker 2: you know, all those things. So then I came back

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Speaker 2: And then in February I got an apartment in New York,

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Speaker 2: but I was subletting that it wasn't like my own space,

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Speaker 2: and it was furnished. So my ship was in the

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Speaker 2: storage unit in Charlotte. Some of my stuff was in

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Speaker 2: this unit in LA and then the stuff I brought

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Speaker 2: with me to New York. Right, so like I'm scattered,

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Speaker 2: and then there's ship in South Carolina. So now yeah,

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Speaker 2: like just very scattered. So now my mom is like moving,

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Speaker 2: So now I would either need to move my shit

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Speaker 2: my own place. So I've been apart apartment shopping. Finally,

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Speaker 2: after a year of living out of a suitcase and boxes,

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Speaker 2: I'm finally about to be back in an apartment of

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Speaker 2: my own, back in Charlotte, the place I did not

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Speaker 2: necessarily want to be, but here we are. So that's

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Speaker 2: what I was doing looking at apartments. It's fun. I

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Speaker 2: found it really, Like I think right now is a

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Speaker 2: good time to be like apartment hunting because it's cheap.

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Speaker 2: I mean, well I won't say cheap.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm like, can you share for the West Coast

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Speaker 3: people listening? Can you please tell me?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: I mean I found its jealous and mad.

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Speaker 2: This q ass apartment, y'all and south in Charlotte. So

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Speaker 2: it's right outside of downtown and it's a six floor unit.

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Speaker 2: It's nine hundred nine hundred ninety square feet or something

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Speaker 2: like that, and it's only eighteen sixty. Well so it's

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Speaker 2: it's two thousand and ninety, right, but with a month free.

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Speaker 2: So I just take down off the entire lease and

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Speaker 2: it came out to eighteen sixty a month. And it's

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Speaker 2: so cute, like I mean, it's got like the nice finishes,

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Speaker 2: like all those all the bells and whistles. Wash your dryer,

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Speaker 2: definitely wash your and dryer. Yeah, absolutely, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean you don't get you got to be a millionaire

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Speaker 3: to have a washer and dryer in la. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: not joking.

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Speaker 5: I gotta use water like that, right, I mean fact

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Speaker 5: I wish that.

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Speaker 4: That sounds like a that's a great price. Eighteen hundred

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Speaker 2: And so this building it was meant to be condos, right,

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Speaker 2: so it's only four units on each floor.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, nice and yeah.

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Speaker 2: It is just so I came went to movie and girl.

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Speaker 2: Now the only thing I did not I don't have

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Speaker 2: is a balcony. So I hate that because you know,

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Speaker 2: I'll be smoking.

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Speaker 3: But we just go four people on your floor. They

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Speaker 3: were like, go to fuck with you?

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Speaker 2: Maybe they leave the Yeah, because it's like corner. I'm

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Speaker 2: on the corner there on the corner, Like so I'm

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Speaker 2: just off by myself, but I'm excited for it.

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Speaker 1: The air purified, you'd be all right, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: So wait, so why did New York work out?

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Speaker 3: And why aren't you going back to La?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So La did not work because I just didn't

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Speaker 2: feel connected there, but I didn't give it a chance

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Speaker 3: I remember Orlando telling me, like, TAM's moving, and then

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Speaker 3: I was like, what happened to Tam? He's like, she

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Speaker 3: broke her foot. He was like she was trying to

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Speaker 3: that bouquet. And then I just never heard about it again,

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Speaker 3: but he said that it reminded me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just hugely competitive, especially when I'm drunk. So

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Speaker 2: I was like, not.

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Speaker 4: Not somebody else's weading. You broke you broke your foot,

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Speaker 4: and now all the attentions on you, bitch, and.

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Speaker 3: It reeled out and something to carry you outs or no.

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Speaker 2: I was drunk, you know, so I just kind of

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Speaker 2: hobbled out. I was like, it's fine, it's just frain.

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Speaker 2: But then the next day. That's when I realized, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: and the pain. But so La the first day I

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I only were recording virtual and

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Speaker 2: then sh it just start shaking. I was like, oh shit,

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Speaker 2: this place really be shaking like this. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like so that just kind of, you know,

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Speaker 2: was kind of off putting. I was like an Elliott

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Speaker 2: give La a try. Then New York. I like New York,

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Speaker 2: but New York is so like the transportation was just

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Speaker 2: so expensive. I don't I cannot ride the train. I tried.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. You watch these movies like Sex

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Speaker 2: TV shows like Sex and the City. They're on the train,

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Speaker 2: and shit, nobody really rides that motherfucker for real, Like

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Speaker 2: my say, dear girl, everybody be on that No girl,

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Speaker 2: I got on that train. I was like I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: because I was taking acting classes right, so I was like,

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Speaker 2: And I got on the train and I don't know

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Speaker 2: if this guy could sense like I was, you know something,

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Speaker 2: but he came over me. He was like, I can

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Speaker 2: balance your chakras right, yeah, for a dollar not in nodsense.

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Speaker 2: He was standing over me, bitch. I was so scared.

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Speaker 4: I was like, please.

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Speaker 3: Chakras for a dollar ninety nine, bitch.

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Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine. He was standing over me with

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Speaker 2: like and I was like, I'm never getting on this

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Speaker 2: and I'm still in school, but I'm just virtual now.

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Speaker 2: But I don't like the noise pollution either. It's just

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Speaker 2: too much. The train, Like I could literally hear the

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Speaker 2: train like it felt like it was running through my bedroom.

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Speaker 3: So you traumatized the South it is for me.

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Speaker 1: New York is mad Max. I'm cool on New York anyway.

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Speaker 1: Into stupid internet news. Yes, you got going on a day,

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Speaker 1: so I know everybody, but everybody's been seen Cam Newton

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Speaker 1: The big list like who you have slept with?

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Speaker 2: Lists? What's big for some not for others?

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Speaker 3: I'm also going to stop talking to you for you

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Speaker 3: Like what are you talking about? You don't know these

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Speaker 3: I just think it's an immature statement. I think it's

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Speaker 3: What is the point that's an apartment hunting?

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Speaker 2: What about your America?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Firm believer in lion to niggas. Okay, wait, if you're

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Speaker 4: Then what? What?

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Speaker 3: What are you gonna? What do you think is the

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Speaker 3: Their minds, right, Okay, the men last.

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Speaker 5: They start, they literally tell you literally start seeing Dix

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Speaker 5: You know, just and how you think a bitch feels

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Speaker 1: I'm like what I always say, if I walk into

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Speaker 1: probably don't hit like twenty bitches in here. So who's

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Speaker 3: Right, what are we talking about? I don't even I

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Speaker 3: Kind of how that you can ever disrespect any any

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Speaker 3: nigga I fuck still wants to be my friend. He's

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Speaker 3: gonna he he aha, your face, my face, He's gonna

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Speaker 3: And honestly, for all the men and women listening who

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Speaker 4: Thanks doing real quick.

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Speaker 1: I know, men don't even think about you until they

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Speaker 1: see you with whoever you fucking now, so you know,

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Speaker 1: so let me go ahead and tell on myself before

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Speaker 1: this nigga, you know, tells as if we had sex

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Speaker 2: My whole facts, My Whole facts deletes at eleven fifty

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Speaker 3: And to be honest, if you were at condom, it

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Speaker 5: I may, I may or may not even say shit

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Speaker 5: it's not your motherfucking business, it's before you.

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Speaker 4: Why what for what?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 4: What I mean unless y'all be unless I find out y'all.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, like I've actually done that before and

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Speaker 5: it has backfired on me because niggas always say they

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Speaker 5: of actually being honest about what they've done is also

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Speaker 5: very low and poor. So why the fuck am I

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Speaker 5: going to tell you my shit? Like no, thank you,

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Speaker 5: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then anybody becomes their cousin or friend once

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Speaker 3: That's my homeboy, Like, nigga, let me see your let

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Speaker 3: me see your phone phone number. You lie like a

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Speaker 5: I also like one time I did tell this guy

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Speaker 3: That was so whack.

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Speaker 5: He he went and called him out of respect. He

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Speaker 1: And so yeah, and this nigga like they're not even

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Speaker 4: The current called the former the former was out there.

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Speaker 5: Minded weirder and and me and and the former we

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Speaker 5: and done situation. We tried it, it wasn't there wasn't

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Speaker 5: and the guy was thrown off. He called me like,

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Speaker 5: why is this nigga calling me to tell me this ship?

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Speaker 5: Like I don't like this is weird? And I was

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Speaker 2: Now, did y'all see this? Steph Curry's wife, Ayisha, is

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Speaker 4: Of course not true.

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Speaker 1: That whole headline isn't true. Of course I've seen it.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: What woman who got married at twenty one and got

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Speaker 1: You know, the should have could have watered because she

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Speaker 1: I don't know why people hate her so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: They really hate her. They hate her because that's me.

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Speaker 5: That was the first comment that hates people hate women.

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Speaker 5: Well there's that too, yes, but they whip really hate

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Speaker 3: I feel like she's like the most Like she's like

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Speaker 3: I think of the men on the internet who hate

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Speaker 3: like more provocative outwardly, because she probably is like a

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Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm very shocked by people hating her,

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Speaker 3: Like what is there to hate? She seems very wholesome.

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Speaker 3: I never wear any sea or wearing anything that's gonna

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I say, it's because people, the men are

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Speaker 5: tell as a wife and Aisha Curry has Ayisha Curry,

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Speaker 5: although yes, she has has yes, although she has followed

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Speaker 5: on her own. She has her own like I guess,

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Speaker 4: Or just being a wife in general.

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Speaker 5: And I think it's just unfortunate, like because so many

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Speaker 4: Like the like disgust in her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like.

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Speaker 4: Where is this coming.

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Speaker 1: No, I think the women think that girl, your husband

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Speaker 1: is be grateful whatever, you don't exactly be grateful, shut

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Speaker 5: But those same women, if they were in the same position,

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Speaker 4: you got, You're still human.

440
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,159
Speaker 5: You have you have desires, you have wishes, you have

441
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 5: goals that maybe haven't been fully you know, realize, especially

442
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 5: when you're living in the shadow of a famous person,

443
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 5: you know, your whole identity starts being attached to them.

444
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 5: You can't even be your own woman, your own person.

445
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 5: Everyone your Steph Curry's wife, Steph Curry's wife. It's just

446
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 5: like when you go meet like even you even't gotta

447
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 5: be famous. Have you ever been out with like like

448
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 5: your man and like none of his homeboys ever like

449
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 5: even talk to you, Like they just they just like

450
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 5: like you'll go down the line of like shaking someone's

451
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 5: hand and they just like skip you out of respect.

452
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,880
Speaker 5: Like this whole idea around like being respectful and act

453
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 5: and ignoring the woman is like so old.

454
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 4: It's some. It's really some black people shit. And I

455
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 4: hate to say that about it.

456
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 3: I don't black people.

457
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 5: I don't see white men do that. I don't see

458
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,959
Speaker 5: white I don't see white men do that.

459
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 3: We don't be hanging around them. We don't know.

460
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 5: I've been around the white men's They don't be ignoring

461
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 5: the fucking wives and shit like that.

462
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 4: I see that a lot in our culture a lot.

463
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 3: I never even considered if it was a black people thing.

464
00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 3: But maybe I.

465
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 5: Mean, I'm or it happens on both sides, but I

466
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 5: say it's prevalent in our in our space.

467
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 3: Is it like an insecurity thing like or just like

468
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 3: it like yeah, I don't know respect yeah, but but

469
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,959
Speaker 3: but but you don't want people to respect me, like

470
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 3: as a whole person. Like I think generally we've learned

471
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 3: in like the era of social media, is that society,

472
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 3: particularly men, don't respect whole women. They want you to

473
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 3: be like an avatar of who they think you're supposed

474
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 3: to be, not say much conservative, not have a history

475
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 3: like you want to. You want an ai girlfriend like

476
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 3: you don't want a real human or else. You wouldn't

477
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 3: even have these type of conversations because they do.

478
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 1: Though, because they they call the girl with the depth,

479
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: and that's what they're cheating with, right while you got

480
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: old girl like.

481
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 3: The house we shut the fuck up, and then they

482
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: tell her all your business and write and pillow talk.

483
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 3: Yeah you good advice.

484
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 5: Well, well, good news to them. I don't know if

485
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 5: you saw this today in the news. Not to interrupt

486
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 5: your news, but chatchy BT is going to now have

487
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 5: erotic interacts for age verified adults on their app.

488
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 4: So yeah, just go get you a virtual bitch and

489
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 4: she'll be a very agreeing.

490
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: Can she suck your dick? Like, what are you talking about?

491
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 2: Phone sick?

492
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,719
Speaker 5: Probably because chat can generate images, so sure they're going

493
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 5: to really start charging for that.

494
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: It's like chatg EPT is probably going to have like

495
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: an only fans tiers.

496
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 5: Of course they're trying to monopolize every every space. But anyway,

497
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 5: I'll long story short, go get you a build a

498
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 5: bitch if that's what you need, because I don't know,

499
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 5: I just feel like women the people just want women

500
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 5: to be quiet and just I don't know where else

501
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 5: they're supposed to share. I appreciate someone with her platform

502
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 5: being that, honest. I think a lot of women and

503
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 5: married people like want that and need that.

504
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

505
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what just happened to Tam, but go ahead.

506
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 3: Keep going, she'll probably come back maybe. Yeah. I think

507
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 3: it's really important. I think it's really important that we

508
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 3: as women, especially women in our industry, as we talk

509
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 3: and we talk shit and and sometimes I know, like

510
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: we probably get backlash and niggas are trying to listen

511
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 3: to every episode so they can calculate what we did

512
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 3: last weekend, not anybody here or notathing.

513
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: Liar, I tell all the things now, I know, I'm

514
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 1: just fucking with you.

515
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 3: I think I think that there is it's really important

516
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 3: that women start to like stop being pigmies and start

517
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 3: living in their entire like their entirety, because then men

518
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 3: can men will can just be asexual and be together

519
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: and leave us the fuck alone if everyone and there's

520
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 3: not like women who are pretending to be half people

521
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 3: and pretending that they slept with three guys at thirty

522
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 3: because they're fucking lying like a motherfucker, and like because

523
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 3: you want a man so badly. But the more that

524
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 3: we like be human and talk about it, then men

525
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 3: can stop like loving this fantasy like false sense of

526
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 3: what they thought we were, because nigga, that's just not real.

527
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 2: Man.

528
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

529
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: Man, And it's not all men, but it's a large

530
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,479
Speaker 1: a large majority of them.

531
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 5: Fortunate because like the women women, women co signing what

532
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 5: they say just perpetuates this whole thing, like there's no

533
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 5: patriarchy unless women are upholding it, and unfortunately that's that's

534
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 5: what happens.

535
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 4: So it's like women are literally the problem too.

536
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: Let's talk about that for one second. Y'all really think

537
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: we in a patriarchy, bitch. Hell yeah, yeah, I'm gonna

538
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 1: tell you why I say that, right, because I always

539
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: say how some being submissive that is definitely an ultimate

540
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: form of manipulation, because your bitch is in the bedroom

541
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: telling you what to do. When you go out there

542
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: front everybody like it was your decision. There's always women

543
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: behind it scenes, from the mothers to the grandmothers to

544
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 1: everybody who are actually running things. And and I think

545
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: white women in particular, right, they the ship that.

546
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 3: There men do.

547
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 1: They benefit off of it one hundred and they are

548
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: raising them right. So I just I just feel like

549
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: the matriarchy and do y'all even think we would be

550
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: okay in a in a society actually just straight meat,

551
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: absolutely crazy, No.

552
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I think we'd be frolicking picking berries naked, that

553
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 3: everybody'd have equals everything because we rebirthing each other's babies,

554
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 3: and we'd go outside to fucking come back in the

555
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 3: gates and lock the doors because that's where violence and

556
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 3: conflict happened when the niggas come in. We fuck out there,

557
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 3: we come back and we'd be great, you know, go back.

558
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: Like the like listen to divine. Feminine is very very dark.

559
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 3: Oh it can't. It can be okay, but chaos. I

560
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: think it gets darker when we don't have when we

561
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 3: don't have healthy outlets to be dark. I think it's

562
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 3: when you don't have a man or like a safe

563
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 3: space that says, oh, I under I see the entirety

564
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 3: of you. I see both sides embrace that we're so

565
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 3: busy trying to be fucking pick mees for a nigga

566
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 3: like Cam Newton, that we're like suppressing and suppressing and

567
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 3: then we get caddy with each other like that's my

568
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 3: nagger or whatever it is, and then like it creates,

569
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 3: it creates us imbalance. We're not we don't really know

570
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 3: what we are because we haven't been fully expressed. And

571
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 3: so when you when you suppress anything, just like a

572
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 3: gay nigga who's acting straight, you suppress it, he becomes crazy,

573
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: he becomes violent because he's not being himself. I think

574
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 3: that is what creates these like this deep imbalance. Wait, wait,

575
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 3: aj do you think that if we you think do

576
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,199
Speaker 3: you think that women are better like showing up in

577
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 3: this way that men can know its palatable? Don't get it,

578
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 3: don't get it. Fucked up.

579
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: Women are the gods on a planet and this is

580
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: why these nigga's mad.

581
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: But we got to confuse them to make them think

582
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 3: they're in control.

583
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 4: I think that like go ahead, oh sorry, go ahead, no,

584
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 4: no please.

585
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: I want to hear what you want to say.

586
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 4: I was just gonna say.

587
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 5: I think that even in a matriarchal society, and even

588
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 5: in like okay, we'll start with the matriarchal society, I

589
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 5: think that even in a matriarchal society, a true maker

590
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 5: matriarchal society understands the balance, like Mila said, of like

591
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 5: the need for the masculine to be there. It's not

592
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 5: about necessarily like everything is woman, that's it, right, you

593
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 5: know what I mean? And I think even the divine

594
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 5: feminine like to be divine is to be like to

595
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 5: be one with God. And if you're one with God,

596
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 5: then you also see the divine and the masculine. And

597
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 5: I think this whole idea of like divine femininity.

598
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 4: Is great as beautiful and I reflect it and I

599
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 4: receive it.

600
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 5: But I also think my journey in understanding the divinity

601
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 5: of the femininity is also seeing the divinity in men.

602
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 5: And I think it's been like there's like always this

603
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 5: like agenda to separate us because there are a lot

604
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 5: of men that are not in their divinity, of course,

605
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 5: but then there are a lot that there are some

606
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 5: that are, you know, there are some that are willing

607
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 5: and open and want to listen to their women.

608
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 4: And ultimately, what makes a woman, what makes.

609
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 5: I think the divine be able to be divine as

610
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 5: far as it goes with femininity, is being able to

611
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 5: really rest in your femininity, which requires the masculine to

612
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 5: be present. And so I don't think that like it's

613
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 5: one or the other. I think that there has to

614
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 5: be both, you know, And like I do think that

615
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 5: we are in a patriarchal society.

616
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 4: We're seeing it, especially here in America. We're seeing how.

617
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 5: How when it goes so far, how fucked up it

618
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 5: can get, like our country is on fire. Not quite yet,

619
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 5: not like literally yet, but it's like I feel like

620
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 5: we're heading towards that, unfortunately, and it's because there's a

621
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 5: lot of imbalance and a lot of white men making

622
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 5: a lot of decisions for women, and women are not

623
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 5: being heard and men and.

624
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 4: Even black men.

625
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 5: I was just listening to fucking what's his name, Stephen

626
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 5: that Nigga on ESPN. Oh my god, someone take him

627
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 5: off the air lord, please God fire his ass Already they.

628
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 4: Were talking about him running for a politics.

629
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, oh, yes.

630
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 5: He's thinking about running getting into politics. And I'm like,

631
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 5: as haircut, get out of here.

632
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 4: Just like fact.

633
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 2: So we have text on items for women. It's proof

634
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: that we live in a patriarchal.

635
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 3: What what kind of tax?

636
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: Pink tax? Like pink so things that are pink of

637
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: a female's bike is more than a male's bike, a

638
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: pink bike.

639
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 3: Like we're making less money we're women.

640
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 2: It'll be the same razor, same package. If it's pink,

641
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: it costs a few cents more. We did a whole

642
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: episode all night on that, like things that are for

643
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: women are more expensive. Yes, that's why it.

644
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: Should be inflation on this plicity if you want it.

645
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: It got to be inflation on the pussy baby.

646
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: A lot to be a woman. It just costs a lot.

647
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: So y'all got to pay the see what the usage tax?

648
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 3: I think for us to become like back in balance,

649
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: like deeply in balance, like there has to be like

650
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 3: a deep like we have to come all the way

651
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 3: back and also wake the fuck up, Like I feel

652
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 3: like women are resurrecting right now, like there's a resurrection

653
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 3: of like the wild and free woman, So we're waking up.

654
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 3: But I think that because men have had this power trip,

655
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 3: this like toxic, this top masculinity for so long, it's violent,

656
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 3: Like I think we have to completely in some ways

657
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 3: pull back because it's like we see it. It's violent,

658
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 3: like they don't give a fuck about us because they've

659
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 3: lived in this this facade for so long. So I

660
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: just think, like for in order to find balance again,

661
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 3: because of course there are good divine masculine men, of

662
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: course they exist, or else we'd all be single bitches.

663
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 3: But you know, we have uncles and fathers and things

664
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 3: like that. But it's like there has to be like

665
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 3: we have to starve these new niggas that with this

666
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: brain set like no pussy, no food, like just go away,

667
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 3: die off and don't procreate. Definitely don't put your seamen

668
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: in anybody with those fucking stupid thoughts.

669
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, but the bitches will never ever be on

670
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: the same page because there's always going to be somebody's

671
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: couch this nigga can go to, right, I don't know

672
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: what do we do about the women, because it starts

673
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: and ends with us.

674
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 3: You go with them too.

675
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 5: There might be a few, There might be some women.

676
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 5: Some women gotta die off too. They got some women

677
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 5: gotta go.

678
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 3: You choose the wrong one before we get off.

679
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: Stupid internet news because we've been here for a long time.

680
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: Have y'all seen the headlines about us, Swee eat Ye, Sweety,

681
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: former friends, Sweedy, her former friend Mayback.

682
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 3: May.

683
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if May is sure for madam, but

684
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: she's basically saying that Sweety owes her some money cause

685
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,719
Speaker 1: she put her down does European soccer player? And like,

686
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: how I owe you for broken in Mikucci basically.

687
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 5: So she's all I know is I love Sweety. I

688
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 5: want to be clear, I love her too.

689
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: I'm a fan too.

690
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 5: Okay, and may Back, whatever the fuck your name is,

691
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 5: you should have got you should have collected your coins

692
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 5: ahead of time, Honey. I don't know what to tell you.

693
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 5: You're doing bad business, bitch.

694
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 3: Bitch is because they put you with the baller. They

695
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 3: are owed No, bitch, We was hanging out and I

696
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: got the baller and you better shut the fuck up.

697
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 3: That's it. Unless we had unless we had a contract

698
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 3: and if we don't have an agreement, shut the fuck up.

699
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 4: Now get your coins before come on?

700
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 3: Are you?

701
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: Are you madam or not?

702
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: Beyonce's Internet bashing me like uh uh? And honestly, how.

703
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: Does this even become a headline? Because how much I

704
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: owe you? How much I'll right for my ship?

705
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: Exact?

706
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 3: Like how did? How do we?

707
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 4: How are we?

708
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 3: Like?

709
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, how are we coming to a final? Like cost

710
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 5: of goods and services?

711
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: Like well, she's supposed to be coming out with receipts, so.

712
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 4: Girl, come out with them. I still love sweetie.

713
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 3: She got invoices on Sweety Cucci like, well this even five.

714
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 3: Sweety fucked this baller in Africa at sevent ten.

715
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 4: I'm doing rich shit, pretty bit ship.

716
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 3: Like girl, leave that girl on her kouchie alone. Everybody

717
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: sold some pussy one way or another, okay, and they

718
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 3: didn't knowwe you shit?

719
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we got we got a topic today,

720
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: the Judgment Olympics from moms and single ladies. After this commercial,

721
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: we're going to get into it. We'll be right back,

722
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: all right, y'all, We're back, and it's the Judgment Olympics.

723
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: I don't know why I always laugh at that what

724
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 2: because we don't really got no fucking wear.

725
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 4: Right, I'm like, do I need to do that?

726
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 3: Yeah? I was thinking that yesterday. We didn't do that.

727
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 5: Because the way they be interrupting our conversation with ads abruptly.

728
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, maybe we really need to be more

729
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 5: more diligent here.

730
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you added in there that way they don't break

731
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: your shit up because they will break it up they listen.

732
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 2: You might add it in there and your shit still

733
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 2: get broken up.

734
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 4: I know, girl, I know.

735
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 2: All right, So AJ you came up with this? What's

736
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: up with the judgment?

737
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 3: All right?

738
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: So today we're competing in the Judgment Olympics twenty twenty

739
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: five edition, because whether you're a single woman or a

740
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: mom with kids, society loves to hand out unsolicited medals

741
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: and criticism. Okay, so today's contestants the co hosts of

742
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: Good Mom's Bad Choice Is and us we talked back podcasts.

743
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna starry using like the things on this app anyway.

744
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 2: But we can add it in later in no words, right.

745
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: So for the warm up, let's talk about like some

746
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: of the common stereotypes as U single moms that you

747
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: guys hear a lot. We're moms that are single or

748
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: y'all are in relationships now and right, but moms that

749
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: are single that.

750
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 3: We have baggage and we're like unwanted ran through.

751
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 4: We're still sucking our baby daddies and.

752
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 3: We were not to be married. No one wants, No

753
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 3: one wants to father somebody else's kids.

754
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 4: We're unavailable. We're unavailable.

755
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 5: We're not sexy, even though we had to be that we.

756
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 3: Should, that we shouldn't be dating, and that we shouldn't

757
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 3: be sexy, that we should wear like certain conservative clothes.

758
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 2: Oh you're a mom, now, yeah.

759
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 3: Why are you out? Where's your kid? That's my When

760
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 3: you at the party at midnight and it's like, where's

761
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 3: where so and so nigga in the bed? Where do

762
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 3: you think she's at with her with her daddy? Like

763
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 3: what right?

764
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: Daddy?

765
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: Don't ever have to have the damn kids? Do they

766
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 1: even get do they even get asked that question?

767
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: Not?

768
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: Where's the kids?

769
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 2: I hate when niggas be like, I got a babysit, nigga,

770
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: that's your kid. You not babysitting that child. You're not

771
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 2: baby that's your child. You don't babysit your own kid.

772
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: You are being a parent, So that's annoying.

773
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: All right?

774
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 2: What about all right? Aj me and you child free selfish?

775
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: Your clock is ticking, your clock ticking.

776
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: Oh no, this is the one I hate. And this

777
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: is from like the friends who have kids and family

778
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 1: who have kids. Just because I don't have kids, that

779
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: does not mean I don't got shit to do. So

780
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm not sitting home twittering my thumb and for your

781
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: ass to hit me up to do something for you

782
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: and your fucking kids. And that's the one thing I

783
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: really can't stand because I'm just as busy even though

784
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: I don't have kids.

785
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 2: Are you gonna die along.

786
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: And wait and give a fuck?

787
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: Oh you ain't got a kid yet, your pussy must

788
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: not be good.

789
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 1: I've had an abortion.

790
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 3: This pussy is good.

791
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: If you ain't never had an abortion, that pussy is

792
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: why shut up?

793
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 5: Unpopular opinion trigger warning, sexy warning, I don't know I work.

794
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 2: Another one. You're lonely.

795
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: People with no kids just got all this extra money,

796
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: Like my nieces and nephews hit me up so much

797
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: for money, like it's just me paying all my bills,

798
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 1: like your parents are together. I don't have extra money.

799
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 3: It's not income house, or you're crazy. Oh she never,

800
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 3: she ain't been married, she got no kid. She probably crazy.

801
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,959
Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? I don't

802
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: like people say why don't you have any kids? That's

803
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: such a rude question.

804
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 1: My ex fiance he had two kids at the time.

805
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: I've heard that he has since had two other I

806
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: don't even tell you about that. Shit's tam because how

807
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: the fuck my mama know that? And I don't anyway,

808
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: my mom still talks to my ex fiance and she

809
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: doesn't see a problem with that. Do you realize, like

810
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: he probably thinks he was right in a relationship because

811
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: he still has access to you. You're an extension of me.

812
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: But anyway, I would always like, I don't have to

813
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: be a mom to be a parents. I think a

814
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: lot of times people think that women with no kids

815
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: can't parents. Okay, I'm a mother at heart, so I

816
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 1: don't have to have kids to be a parent. So

817
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,879
Speaker 1: this was being like an ongoing argument and that relationship

818
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: because just because you have kids, that do not automatically

819
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 1: mean you're a good parent. Sometimes the longer you wait

820
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: to have kids, you see things like I might have

821
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: a little bit extra information gathered from everywhere watching everybody

822
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: else parents. You know, I know what I want to

823
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: do as a parent and what I wouldn't do.

824
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 3: I don't know.

825
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: I think the longer you wait, you get more information.

826
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: But it ain't nothing like the real deal though.

827
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: No, absolutely listen, I'm not trying to discredit parents at all.

828
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, do you get offended when you said?

829
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: Do you get offended when people say why don't you

830
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: have any kids? You get offended when they ask you

831
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 1: when are you having kids?

832
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 4: Is that the same thing?

833
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, both of those. It's like, bitch, if I knew,

834
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 2: I get I tell you right, I don't know when

835
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: I'm having kids. How the fuck am I going to

836
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 2: answer that question for you tomorrow? I don't know?

837
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 5: Or do you want kids? Is that also? Like like

838
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 5: you get offended with someone.

839
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 2: Do you want kids? You know? That's not offensive, It's

840
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 2: just why don't you have kids? Because I could say

841
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 2: some shit that will make us both uncomfortable.

842
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: I do it, and sometimes I do pregnancies. I go

843
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: ahead and make everybody uncomfortable if God will, and I

844
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: have one. I've had two tuble pregnancies and they like,

845
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: oh yeah, because you should not be asking women I

846
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: believe over thirty why they don't have kids.

847
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 3: Wait, is that true? Or you just do that to

848
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: make them feel like that's true?

849
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, So you should not ask women of

850
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: a certain age why they don't have kids. If they

851
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: want kids, just mine your business. That's how I feel.

852
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 4: I agree, wrong, I agree, I agree?

853
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: All right, So let's talk about why people just so

854
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: hard though. All right, Oh, we just talked about the

855
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: patriarchal expectations of motherhood. Do y'all feel like y'all need

856
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 2: to fit into the mold? Well, no, y'all know, y'all

857
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 2: don't feel like.

858
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 4: Girl. We back good minds about choices.

859
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: Our entire podcast is about it.

860
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 4: I think we did it. We've done everything except.

861
00:40:54,880 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 3: Do that hard. The move ian very hard, swung hard

862
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 3: to the other side.

863
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 2: Okay, but when you were like new mothers, did you

864
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 2: have like did people's judgments affect your confidence and you're

865
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 2: dating your friendships?

866
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 3: Like?

867
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: Were you affected by that as very young mothers?

868
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 3: I think I noticed when people were being judgmental, like

869
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 3: especially when I broke up with my child's father and

870
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 3: I was going out and I was outside, I could

871
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 3: see even some of my friends who hadn't had kids

872
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 3: yet were like, oh, you're out, you're out a lot,

873
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 3: or whatever their comments were. But I've always been pretty

874
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 3: like clear about the balance in like having a life,

875
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 3: like mama got to have a life too, because my

876
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: parents were kind of like that. But I think people

877
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 3: are very judgmental about that, especially women against women is

878
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 3: because they are. When you see someone that is exuding

879
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 3: and existing in a way that you think that you can't,

880
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 3: you're gonna project and you're gonna feel away about it

881
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 3: because bitch, you're over there knitting sweaters and baking cakes

882
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 3: so and you wish you were getting your black back

883
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 3: blown out, and you know daddy was doing something, but

884
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 3: he's watching fucking football and ignoring the fuck out of you,

885
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 3: and that kid, Yeah, you're gonna feel a way. One

886
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 3: time I went to I went to a party of

887
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 3: this guy. I was like a small dinner party. I

888
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: was like some white people and they were like, I

889
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 3: was talking about my daughter and I was like no,

890
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 3: me and her dad broke up like oh my god,

891
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 3: oh god, I'm so sorry, Like, oh god, that seems

892
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 3: so hard. That's like so hard. I was like, no,

893
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 3: actually not, that's not nothing to be sorry about. I'm

894
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: doing great. Actually, God's plan for my life, right, I

895
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 3: get the best of both worlds.

896
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 6: So yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, I mean I think

897
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 6: me and Mila have had different journeys as early as

898
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 6: moms early on, because I definitely felt myself when I

899
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 6: got pregnant starting to kind of fall into society's expectations

900
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 6: around what motherhood was supposed to look like.

901
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 5: And that wasn't just from society, that was also my family,

902
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 5: and so prior to having my daughter, I was like,

903
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 5: just I'm a free spirit.

904
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 4: I smoke a lot of weed. I moved how I

905
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 4: wanted to move.

906
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 5: I was probably financially irresponsible because I didn't have anything

907
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 5: to worry about except myself. And when I became a parent,

908
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 5: like it was like, oh, y erca, you know, you

909
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 5: can't do that no more. You can't do that no more,

910
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 5: you can't do that any more. And I almost fell

911
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 5: into that trap. And I think that's one of the

912
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 5: things that me and Mila share a lot on our

913
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 5: on our show, is like that was the beginning of

914
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 5: Good Mom's Bad Choices, was me meeting Mela and her

915
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 5: mirroring the things that I wasn't allowing myself to experience

916
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 5: and realizing that like I was heading on down a

917
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 5: path of imprisonment. And it's and it's interesting because like

918
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 5: the person that I was with my child's father, he's

919
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 5: not like a traditional man, like he's outside, you know,

920
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,240
Speaker 5: like I wasn't like about to wrap up my life

921
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 5: with like a like a god fearing in the house nigga,

922
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 5: Like like he spent like half my pregnancy at the

923
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 5: strip club, you know what I'm saying. So that even

924
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 5: tells you even more. And he wasn't even that was

925
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 5: not his expectation of me either, you know. So it

926
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 5: was really like the programming. Really it's so deeply ingrained

927
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 5: in women from such a young age with us like

928
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 5: caring for babies and playing house and you know, like

929
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 5: these roles really being shoved down our throats and society

930
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 5: doesn't help. And so I you know, I'm grateful for

931
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 5: my friendship with Jamila because it reawakened what was already

932
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 5: inside of me, Like what I had already been. I

933
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 5: was already that girl. It was just that when I

934
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 5: became when I went into motherhood, I felt like I

935
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 5: had to that girl had to die and grandtsed when

936
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 5: your mom like you do you rebirth into something else,

937
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 5: but like the old parts of you are still there

938
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 5: and in fact, like they deserve to be watered, and

939
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 5: your child deserves to see you show up as a

940
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 5: whole human and like understand who their parent is because

941
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 5: and ultimately that bitch go par or she's just gonna

942
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,839
Speaker 5: literally die and be depressed. And I think we see

943
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 5: a lot of maybe our parents, we see like what

944
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 5: that does to them. We see like these shells of

945
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 5: these women, and like we have like, oh, your mom

946
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 5: used to be that girl.

947
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, what the fuck happened? I don't know that girl,

948
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 4: you know?

949
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 5: And it's like it almost feels like a fable, like

950
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 5: a story time where it's like is that real?

951
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 4: Like my mom was that?

952
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 5: And unfortunately, I think a lot of women fall into

953
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 5: that trap when they don't have to. So if you're

954
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 5: listening to this and you're a mom, you're falling into

955
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 5: that trap. Just come over to Good Moms. Let's start

956
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 5: at episode one. Take the journey with us. Because when

957
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 5: I started episode one, like I was just kind of

958
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 5: like coming out of it. And I think it's really

959
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 5: important for mothers to really evaluate themselves and give themselves

960
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 5: the time and space to really evaluate who they are

961
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 5: now and how they and what parts of the former.

962
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 5: And I say that with air quotes of you that

963
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 5: you want to bring into this space, because it's important

964
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,240
Speaker 5: to not just let that person go, right.

965
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: Because that's what Asha Curry is essentially experiencing. Right. She

966
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: has fomo a little bit. You know, she might have

967
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: felt like she missed out on some things, or I mean,

968
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: she has the means and the resources to do whatever

969
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: it is that she wants, but it's something there because

970
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: she never got to discover exactly who she was before

971
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: having to take care of somebody else, and who have kids,

972
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: who don't have kids. It's not selfish not to want

973
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 1: to be responsible for somebody else for the rest of

974
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: your life.

975
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 5: It's crazy. It's a crazy response. Not every person needs

976
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 5: to be a parent. A lot of parents don't even

977
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 5: need to be parents, you know, right.

978
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 2: Did y'all ever feel like your relationships with your friends

979
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 2: shifted once she became moms?

980
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 4: Yes?

981
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 5: Absolutely, I was outside. I was an outside girl. I

982
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 5: had friends that just stopped calling me, you know, they

983
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 5: didn't really I remember specifically, I had a situation one

984
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 5: of my best friends at the time, I was so

985
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 5: excited to tell her I was pregnant. I was living

986
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,280
Speaker 5: in New York when I found out I was pregnant.

987
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 5: So I came back to LA and I sat down

988
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 5: with her and my other friend and I was like,

989
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 5: I have something to tell you guys. And before I

990
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 5: could even tell her, she was like, you're pregnant. And

991
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, I am, and she's like I know,

992
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 5: and then just like just like didn't want to know

993
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 5: anything else. Like I was shocked. I was like, what

994
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 5: the fuck, bitch like, and then after that, I like

995
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 5: barely ever heard from her again. It was the weirdest thing,

996
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 5: and so I don't I still don't really know what

997
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 5: that was. It was like maybe it was like she

998
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 5: was mad that she was gonna have to share me.

999
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 5: She felt like we couldn't relate anymore. She was jealous.

1000
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really like to go straight to

1001
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 5: jealousy with women, because I think that's what we do

1002
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 5: a lot.

1003
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 4: But I just don't. I don't know what that was.

1004
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 5: And I'm sure that maybe there's other women that maybe

1005
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 5: relate to it, but I know, for me, like motherhood

1006
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 5: really showed me who my friends were and it continues

1007
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 5: to it shows me even like with partners, like what

1008
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 5: who was really open, really down for me?

1009
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 3: And who isn't?

1010
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 2: What about you?

1011
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 3: I would say that that didn't really happen to me.

1012
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 3: I had I was the first person in my friend

1013
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 3: group to have a kid, and I do feel like

1014
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 3: everybody really rallied around me and was like my baby daddy.

1015
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 3: So I had like a lot of baby daddies and

1016
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 3: like because there was no other kids, it was kind

1017
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 3: of like a fun group project. Look, we have a baby.

1018
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 3: But you know, it was kind of fun that way.

1019
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 3: But I think there were some things that like people

1020
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 3: didn't understand, Like there was a time where I was

1021
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 3: like about my baby daddy, like this is not gonna work.

1022
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 3: I can't stand him, or like or I would talk

1023
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 3: shit about him because it was time for me to leave.

1024
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 3: And then they would be like why don't you leave,

1025
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: Why don't you leave? Why don't you leave? And I'm like,

1026
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 3: you don't understand. You know, I had this. I'm trying,

1027
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 3: like you're not black, you don't understand. I don't want

1028
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 3: to be a baby mama, like making a lot of

1029
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: excuses for what that meant to me because I think

1030
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 3: for as a black woman being with my child's father,

1031
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: it was like there was a like a stereotype I

1032
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 3: was trying to break, like I didn't want to fall

1033
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 3: into that to the point where I'd be like at

1034
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 3: museums or at Disneyland like with my family, like miserable inside.

1035
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 3: But look, that's the dad, that's the mom, and that's

1036
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 3: the kid. Bitches. Okay, black families stay together. So I

1037
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 3: think there I had something to prove in that way,

1038
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: but it was not in the sense that like my

1039
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 3: party friends fell off.

1040
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1041
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: I think anytime one of my old ast friends have

1042
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: a baby, I'd be like, girl, your time is coming up.

1043
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm so happy when the old bitches have a baby.

1044
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna be looking at old bitch having a baby.

1045
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 2: So you want another kid? I want more kids?

1046
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I do. But I have a timeline in

1047
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 5: which I would let in which I would want that

1048
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 5: to happen, and if it doesn't, then I'm cool.

1049
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: And aj I know you're trying to have a baby

1050
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 2: every weekend.

1051
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I was very sad this weekend because my

1052
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: fucking period came on.

1053
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 3: Okay, oh so you're you're you're like actively if if

1054
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 3: it happens, it happened.

1055
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, So two weeks ago, I intentionally was trying to

1056
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 1: get trying to get pregnant two weeks ago.

1057
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 4: Are you are you you're picking them?

1058
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:22,919
Speaker 5: You're picking them well right, like you're you're making sure

1059
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 5: that they're like genetically they're okay as well.

1060
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm also I was also trying to have

1061
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: a Gemini.

1062
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 5: So now let me tell you I have a Gemini baby. Daddy,

1063
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 5: don't recommend.

1064
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 3: No, she was a Gemini bababy, the baby.

1065
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: So I missed my deception window for the Gemini baby

1066
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: because I'm a Gemini. My mom is a Gemini. My

1067
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: grandmother was a fucking Gemini. Ah, you're trying to keep

1068
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: it going, Okay, I see. So it's a legacy, yeah,

1069
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: a Gemini legacy. So my legacy is fucked up because now,

1070
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 1: like at this point, I'll be trying to get pregnant

1071
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 1: next year, I'm be forty three trying to.

1072
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: Have a baby. Babe. Just fucking a Gemini timeline. We

1073
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 3: don't need any more Geminis in the world. We just

1074
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 3: just keep sucking. I could do Virgo or Libra, and

1075
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: that's it. I can't do I can't do no fucking

1076
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 3: virgo child. That wouldn't work for me. I'm virgo rising.

1077
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 3: I could do it. I would get on their nerves.

1078
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 2: I still want to. Like, my desire to be a

1079
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: mother is starting to dwindle a little bit as I

1080
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: get older. I just feel like my window is closing

1081
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: on me. But I'm just terrified still to be pregnant again.

1082
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 2: Let me say that pregnant or births?

1083
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 3: Are you terrified about the actual birth?

1084
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 2: The whole process. The whole process just makes me scared,

1085
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 2: Like I wish I could skip that part.

1086
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 4: And just have my baby.

1087
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 3: Bitches are doing it every day. Bitches are sarrogating, surrogated

1088
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:52,479
Speaker 3: whatever their lives away. So it's not not an.

1089
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 2: Option, not impossible, right, But then I don't Also, I

1090
00:51:55,360 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 2: also at the same time don't want somebody else when Yeah,

1091
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: because there has even though they say, oh, it's your

1092
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 2: your DNA, there has to be some of this other

1093
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: bitch DNA.

1094
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 7: In my band's the science, I know, the real.

1095
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all like in his too, Like.

1096
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 4: I don't know's gonna be a little confused because.

1097
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: No throle baby, Yeah that's baby Polly pregnancy, right, So.

1098
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 2: Y'all we want to play again. Do you have any

1099
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 2: more questions? I want to play? Would you rather go?

1100
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 4: Go?

1101
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 3: Go?

1102
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna play a game with y'all real quick.

1103
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 2: Would you rather right? So the first one is would

1104
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 2: you rather have a man who worships you but has

1105
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 2: no ambition or a man who challenges you but triggers

1106
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 2: you all the time? B? Yeah?

1107
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 4: B gosh, you know what?

1108
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 3: I think that all?

1109
00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1110
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:01,720
Speaker 3: Real relations are going to trigger you all the time.

1111
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 3: Like it's you're in a relationships, most close relationships are

1112
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 3: going to trigger you. Because that's the whole point of

1113
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 3: this game of life. It's like if you were alone

1114
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 3: and you locked yourself in your apartment, you're only around

1115
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 3: those two friends that don't trigger you. They know what

1116
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 3: to say and not to say that you're not growing,

1117
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 3: You're not going to evolve. It's like the triggering leads

1118
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 3: you to more depths of yourself. Why did it, sugar me?

1119
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 3: Why am I feeling this way? And this is for

1120
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,240
Speaker 3: a person who gets triggered very easily. And I'm triggered

1121
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 3: right now, and I'm annoyed, and I don't even want

1122
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 3: to take my own advice. But that's the truth.

1123
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 4: You know what.

1124
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 5: I think that if I was with a man who

1125
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 5: worshiped me but had no ambition, I would be triggered.

1126
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 4: Also, probably I probably would rather just do be.

1127
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 3: Let's see.

1128
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: Would you rather build him up or find him built

1129
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: but boring?

1130
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 3: I can't do boring. I will build him up. I'll

1131
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 3: get that wardrobe, we'll go to the mall. Baby, we'll

1132
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 3: put on some jeans. I look put on that hat. Yep. No,

1133
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 3: I'm not doing anything boring because you're gonna I'm gonna

1134
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 3: cheat on you. It's happened.

1135
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 4: I'd rather build you up.

1136
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 5: Come on, baby, let's build a bear you let's go.

1137
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 5: You know, a bitch loves a project.

1138
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 3: Bitches love projects.

1139
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 2: Oh here's a good one. Would you rather feel safe

1140
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: but unseen or seen but uncertain?

1141
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 3: I don't like none of those options.

1142
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 5: Wait, say but unseen, seen but uncertain. I would rather

1143
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 5: be seen. I would rather be seen and uncertain because

1144
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 5: then I'm gonna break up with you anyway. But at

1145
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 5: least while we're together, I'm thinking I feel seen, you know.

1146
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 3: Like it like?

1147
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 2: Is it?

1148
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 3: Is it? Stevie? Wonder? Like? What do you mean? He can't?

1149
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 2: Like?

1150
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 3: If you see me, they're gonna see me. I ain't

1151
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 3: no not seeing this nigga.

1152
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: Or maybe he's not like inviting you out stuff like that.

1153
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1154
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: You just feel you're there, but you're not there. You know.

1155
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 3: I don't like any of those options.

1156
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I actually saw this on Instagram. You know how

1157
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: those people be on the street asking questions, would you

1158
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: rather be a side chick to a star NBA player

1159
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: or married to a loyal average salary man b B.

1160
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 3: A would be you're a groupie, bitch. If you just

1161
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 3: answered A, you are a groupie. Okay, you probably knew

1162
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 3: that already in the on the Instagram post.

1163
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 1: The guy then says, well, the guy only makes like

1164
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,280
Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year and the girls like sixty thousand.

1165
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: Like that is the average person's salary, is what we're

1166
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: talking about. What a lot of places, well we're in

1167
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: the South. Were in the South, right, that's a lot

1168
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 1: black people. What do you think the average income for

1169
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: a black man is?

1170
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: Can you even live off of sixty thousand dollars? Yeah?

1171
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 4: In other places, yeah, y y'all can.

1172
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 3: In LA for sure. One hundred thousand dollars a year

1173
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:56,760
Speaker 3: is the average.

1174
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,040
Speaker 4: That's not the average, not even in la.

1175
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 2: Not even clothes. No, it's probably probably like seventy five,

1176
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 2: probably like fifty honestly, because think.

1177
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 5: About because together we're going to combine our income, so

1178
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 5: you know, we'll be had that one twenty together and

1179
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 5: we can get a cute little cabcul little lifestyle and

1180
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 5: wherever the fuck that takes us.

1181
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: So this this is from twenty twenty three, and it

1182
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: says that average. This is for black persons. It says

1183
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: fifty four thousand.

1184
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 2: That's why I said about fifty thousand is the average.

1185
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 2: You gotta think about these small towns and these small

1186
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 2: places where it's more of that than everything else.

1187
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, I forget that there's like all those

1188
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 3: states in between. Mm hmm.

1189
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: Y'all listen, Catch a man cheating with someone batter or

1190
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: is someone basic in crocs?

1191
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 3: I were crocs today?

1192
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 4: Bitch? Wait, what was the first one?

1193
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: Catch your man cheating with someone batter than you? Like

1194
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: a batter bitch crocs on.

1195
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 3: It's gonna have to be be I can't handle I

1196
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 3: can't handle a I'm gonna be mad. I didn't be

1197
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 3: able to talk shit to my friends. I didn't talk

1198
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 3: shit to my friends, and that bitch was ugly. That's

1199
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 3: because I'm shallow.

1200
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: I need the bitch to be batter or comparable. I

1201
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: cannot stand a nigga who doesn't have like standard you

1202
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: don't have, yeah, you don't have no standards.

1203
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 4: Like I've literally never in my whole I've never.

1204
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 5: In my long life of being cheated on ever, ever

1205
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 5: been cheated on with a bitch better than me.

1206
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 3: And it doesn't happen.

1207
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: It just doesn't cheating. Then it's it's just a bitch batter.

1208
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 4: It just doesn't happen.

1209
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 5: And I'm not even saying that because I'm like, I

1210
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 5: am pretty fine myself, but I'm just always astonished. I'm

1211
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 5: always like, Nigga, what what if it's.

1212
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 3: Not batter than you? They stepped out not cheating?

1213
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 2: What if what if like she's but ugly like this.

1214
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: Uglies saying I have seen some some some fucked up

1215
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,439
Speaker 1: ship to where it's like nigga, where I'm offended because

1216
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: this I'm offended.

1217
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 3: Yes, she has one eye or one arm y'all.

1218
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: I have only reached out to a bitch one time

1219
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 1: in life about a nigga, and it was because I

1220
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: could not believe this nigga was fucking this Walrus. I

1221
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: could not believe it, Like and I messaged the bitch

1222
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: on Instagram, and she didn't respond. She read my message,

1223
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: didn't respond, and then she told him I messaged her

1224
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: messaged her. I could not believe how this person look

1225
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: I just I like I needed to hear it from

1226
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: her that he actually fucked her.

1227
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 4: I couldn't believe it. I would prefer to see the

1228
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 4: bad bitches.

1229
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: Please please fuck some bad bitches, because I can't understand

1230
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: when you're fucking on.

1231
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: No, I need her to be ugly, but not now.

1232
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: I'm offended, like, don't be you know why?

1233
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't even I don't know if I

1234
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 5: can even answer that question because it's never happened. Like

1235
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 5: maybe I would be like so hurt if she was.

1236
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 5: I mean, I was hurt even when she was ugly,

1237
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 5: so like imagine she was fine, Like maybe I would

1238
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 5: be super devastated, but I don't know. I've never experienced it,

1239
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 5: Like ugly bitches have hurt my feelings too, so I

1240
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 5: don't know.

1241
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 3: The point is, it's always gonna hurt your feelings, but

1242
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 3: it's gonna hurt more. It's gonna hurt worse either way

1243
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 3: if she's extremely not to your level, and also if

1244
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 3: she's way better than you, it's gonna hurt both ways.

1245
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 3: It's gonna be offended. Are you gonna be like? What

1246
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 3: the fuck?

1247
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 2: Right?

1248
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 5: Because if she's bad like she got like, I don't know,

1249
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 5: is I gonna make me be like?

1250
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 3: Damn?

1251
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 4: Do I need to get my like?

1252
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 5: Maybe my ass isn't bigger than maybe I need to

1253
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 5: put a little someone in there, Like damn, she.

1254
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 4: Got bigger titties? Do I need a bigger like? I

1255
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 4: don't even want to go down that route. So I'm

1256
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 4: actually grateful for.

1257
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1258
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 5: I want to personally thank all my old hoes, all

1259
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 5: my my baby daddy, and everyone else from my past

1260
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 5: that fucked with ugly bitches.

1261
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so much for be my confidence high.

1262
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 3: Amen?

1263
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 2: All right? Would you rather have a man who moans

1264
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 2: louder than you or one who doesn't make a sound

1265
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: at all?

1266
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 3: Loud man louder? Yeah, let me know this pussy's good nigga?

1267
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 4: Anything worse than a silent fun like Yeah, like nigga,

1268
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 4: E be dead?

1269
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 3: Like what's going on?

1270
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 4: I love a growl in my ear?

1271
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, do something somebody I posted something reposted something yesterday

1272
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 3: that said if you're if you're a woman who likes

1273
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 3: male moans, you're a hoe. It's guilty.

1274
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 2: Well listen. Sometimes like I was dating this guy and

1275
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 2: I liked everything about him. He would have been a

1276
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 2: great husband, but I hated how he came, Like I

1277
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 2: broke up with him because how he.

1278
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 3: Know, well, how did he do it?

1279
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 2: Bru He sounded like a cartoon villain. He was like,

1280
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 2: that's how he came.

1281
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 4: You should have got him like a like want of

1282
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 4: guided him on that account.

1283
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 3: You should have made him a vampire for Halloween or something.

1284
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,439
Speaker 2: Why did he come like that? He was like, I'm

1285
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 2: just so filled with joy?

1286
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 3: And you left him? Bitch, you got now you gotta go.

1287
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 3: Theory because he was a joy was scary.

1288
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 4: I was a happy man, Okay, Well I don't like though.

1289
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 5: What I don't like is too much of a talking

1290
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 5: ass nigga during sex, Like just shut the fuck up,

1291
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 5: Like not like I don't need you, not moan, but

1292
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 5: like you're talking too much. I can't focus, Just like

1293
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,919
Speaker 5: I had a guy trying to tell me what to say,

1294
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 5: Like I get it, Like sometimes that's cool, but like

1295
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 5: it was throughout the whole experience, and so I gave

1296
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 5: him a second chance and he did it again, and

1297
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 5: I was like, like, let.

1298
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 3: What was he telling you to say? What was he

1299
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 3: telling you to say?

1300
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 8: Like, tell me how good this stick is? Tell me

1301
01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 8: how good it is? Tell me tell me. Then he

1302
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 8: said like, tell me how how good my body looks?

1303
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 8: And I was like, whoa, this is ship with me.

1304
01:01:57,360 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 8: Talk to your therapist. I don't know what's happened in here.

1305
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 8: Not talk to your therapist. That might be that might

1306
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 8: be a lame like sex therapist. That's gonna tell you,

1307
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 8: like how good you look. It's gonna be like therapize

1308
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 8: you while your dick is inside of her.

1309
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 4: Well, that's a lot of sacrifice.

1310
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Did you tell them just like I did?

1311
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 4: I did?

1312
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 3: I definitely, because like he was like.

1313
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 5: What hey At that point, I was just like, just

1314
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 5: don't stop. I'll say whatever you want, but like, this

1315
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 5: is the last time you can talk me through a bit.

1316
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 5: Don't be asking for compliments. Was he a pisces? Probably

1317
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 5: low key?

1318
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 4: I need to go.

1319
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 3: Look. I hate people talk too much. And you're like

1320
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 3: your ear is here, You're like, huh.

1321
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 4: What, Yeah, that's happened to the keeps saying things are mumbling.

1322
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 3: And like, nig I can't hear you. Stop talking to me,

1323
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 3: like I'm just the haunt is taking me out of it,

1324
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 3: like just fucking what. I can't read your lips, I

1325
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 3: can't see you. What the are we talking about? I

1326
01:02:58,880 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 3: was sticking these niggas.

1327
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 4: Do what you came to do.

1328
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 2: Right, all right, when the lottery, but lose your best

1329
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 2: friend or stay broke, but keep your tribe it broke

1330
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 2: as fuck.

1331
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 4: Like broke forever.

1332
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 3: Like I don't like these questions. We're witches. This is

1333
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 3: what happened to us. This is not how we We don't

1334
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 3: manifest like this. This is not.

1335
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 4: I don't want to be a lonely rich bitch.

1336
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like who are gonna go on the yacht with?

1337
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 3: Like who's gonna be the who's gonna be in the PJ?

1338
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: So many people I know exactly who the I want

1339
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:41,479
Speaker 1: to see having a good ass time. Okay, I gotta

1340
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 1: take all the people.

1341
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like.

1342
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 2: That one, that question because I can't. I can't figure

1343
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 2: one to choose either, because we're just gonna have.

1344
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 3: To be broke.

1345
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 4: Well, we have to figure it out, like for a while.

1346
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 3: Girls, you're just sell some pussy. I'm gonna be broke.

1347
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 3: Why would I be broke? What does that make sense

1348
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 3: to anyone?

1349
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 6: Like?

1350
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: No last one? I have a man who makes you

1351
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 1: laugh but never commits, or one who commits but never

1352
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: compliments you. Y'all haven't been with somebody who never complimented you.

1353
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 3: I probably didn't even notice for real, for real. It's

1354
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 3: like I'm used to that. Like it's when someone compliments

1355
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 3: me where I'm like, oh okay, wow, that's a lot relaxed.

1356
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 3: It's like I'm not good at like. But now that

1357
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 3: I have that, I don't think I would be able

1358
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 3: to be a someone who like didn't notice little things

1359
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 3: or compliment me with bother me.

1360
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 5: Laughing goes a long way with me? What was what

1361
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 5: was the what makes me laugh? But what won't commit?

1362
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: Won't commit?

1363
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 3: He won't commit?

1364
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 5: Oh that was like my baby daddy. We did it

1365
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 5: for seven years though he made me laugh for a

1366
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 5: long time. That that laughing, that laughing sustained me for

1367
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 5: some time.

1368
01:04:57,960 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 3: We forgot about the other bitches. It was so some

1369
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 3: I was just like, just.

1370
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 4: Keep with the no compliment.

1371
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 5: I don't know, I'm an words I'm a words of

1372
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,439
Speaker 5: affirmation type of a I'm a wards of affirmation type

1373
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 5: of lover.

1374
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 4: Like that's what I give, and it says feel nice

1375
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 4: to receive it.

1376
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 5: I have like my partner now is very much like

1377
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 5: affirms me a lot, and I appreciate that because I

1378
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 5: think I think I've had it in the past, but

1379
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 5: maybe not to the extent that I get it now.

1380
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 1: Facts, that's that's what I'm experiencing too. I had an

1381
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: ex who would never, like verbally compliment me. He would

1382
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: wait till I leave the house and like text me like,

1383
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 1: you look, you looked good. I'm like, what the fuck? Meanwhile,

1384
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: like when he putting that shit on because I bought it, like,

1385
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, you look so good.

1386
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 3: Never never, what is that?

1387
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, hater. I think a lot of people

1388
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 1: be in relationships with men.

1389
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 4: Who well, yeah, they like I don't want you to

1390
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 4: get a big head.

1391
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 5: I want you to have a big head, Like what

1392
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 5: what are you talking about.

1393
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 2: I've had a guy who would be like his compliments

1394
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 2: would be like you think you cute? Like it would

1395
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 2: always be like some kind of.

1396
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 4: Life I'm not undercutting.

1397
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 3: I feel like that's black people shit. I feel like

1398
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 3: that's like black people, Like that's how my family talks

1399
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 3: to each other. Like I feel like it's true. Like

1400
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 3: I know that it sounds strange, but I don't know,

1401
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 3: like I don't.

1402
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 2: Know where you thinking.

1403
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, that for me, my pussy got away, Like

1404
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 3: now I'm toxic.

1405
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 4: All right, y'all.

1406
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: So after this commercial break, we are going to get

1407
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 1: some dumb bitch stories from Good Mom's Bad Choices.

1408
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 3: Okay, So I.

1409
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 2: Can't wait.

1410
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 3: And we're back, all right, y'all.

1411
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: So we have dumb bitch stories for the women and

1412
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: stimp series for the men. Okay, so we need a

1413
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 1: dumb bitch storre. This is just a time or a

1414
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: situation where you got played And I don't know how

1415
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: y'all get down by the same or opposite sex.

1416
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, it could be either.

1417
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 5: I've shared this story before on the Pot, but this

1418
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 5: is a first for y'all. So well, my dumbitch story

1419
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 5: started once upon a time I was walking in uh

1420
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 5: on fourteenth Street. I just got off the train and

1421
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 5: there was this fine guy. He was but he was

1422
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 5: out there. He was like he's kind of short, which

1423
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 5: I'm not really into the short kings.

1424
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 4: Too much, like I have.

1425
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 5: I make a few exceptions, but he was out there selling.

1426
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 5: He was like selling like feed the children type packages,

1427
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 5: like like sponsor a child in Africa.

1428
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 3: Was he really working for non problems?

1429
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 4: He was, Okay, I really did feed. I fed.

1430
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 5: I fed Zach for a good three hundred and sixty

1431
01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 5: five days.

1432
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 4: Okay.

1433
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 5: So anyway, he brought he top, He took me to Starbucks,

1434
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 5: sold me on the package, got it.

1435
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 4: He was.

1436
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 5: He was really fine to me at the time. He

1437
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 5: told me that he was a model, and so I

1438
01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, what model.

1439
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 4: And he had the pictures ready.

1440
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 5: It was like a Calvin Klein ad that he had done,

1441
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 5: a VERSACEI ad, but like all the pictures were kind

1442
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 5: of like from the side, and he was Dominican, so

1443
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 5: he you know, he had a specific He's like kind

1444
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 5: of he was Dominican, but he kind of like Puerto Rican.

1445
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 4: Whatever.

1446
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 5: Anyway, long story short, I saw these pictures. My friends

1447
01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 5: had started to do research because they didn't trust him.

1448
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 5: They're like, I don't think that's really him in the picture.

1449
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 5: And I was like, yes, it is, girl like it

1450
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 5: is him. So anyway, we started we're continuing to date

1451
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 5: long distance. He's in New York, I'm in LA. I'm

1452
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:48,720
Speaker 5: being a dumb bitch, and so I have a really

1453
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 5: good job at the time, so I'm flying him out

1454
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 5: to LA. He got no funds, but he had a

1455
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 5: big old dick, big old dick.

1456
01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:58,599
Speaker 4: You're kings, you know what I'm saying.

1457
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,600
Speaker 1: Oh listen, I'm a short nigga advocate. I always say that,

1458
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: like they be little and big at the same time.

1459
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:09,720
Speaker 5: Okay, not avide anyway, you know, he because we were

1460
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 5: long distance, there's a level of trust that you have

1461
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 5: to have.

1462
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 4: And he was always telling me, like he had his

1463
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 4: best friend.

1464
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:19,720
Speaker 5: He had this best friend but she only had one arm,

1465
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 5: so she was handicapped, and he was like, you know,

1466
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 5: I'm hanging out with Andrea, and so he was like

1467
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 5: very he was really adamant about like this is like

1468
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 5: my best friend from childhood. I never and my stupid ass,

1469
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 5: I never asked for no pictures. This was before like

1470
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 5: social media too, like we Instagram wasn't really big. I

1471
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 5: think I don't even think I had joined Instagram yet

1472
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 5: at this point. So I'm like, okay, yeah, sure, I

1473
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 5: mean cause I had male I had male friends as well,

1474
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,520
Speaker 5: and in the past, like I had been in relationships

1475
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 5: where men had like really are boys, I would say

1476
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 5: I had really like had taken issue with my male friendships,

1477
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 5: and so he wasn't. So I was not going to

1478
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 5: ruffle no feathers because I was like, yeah, they could

1479
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 5: go ahead, have your friend.

1480
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 4: I have my friend. We're cool.

1481
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 5: Long story short. I get an email one day from

1482
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,440
Speaker 5: a bitch named Andrea talking about.

1483
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:10,560
Speaker 2: Talking about.

1484
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 5: Talking about I heard I found out that you are

1485
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 5: seeing my my man and I was like, who is

1486
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 5: your man? And she told me it was this nigga.

1487
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 5: And I said, let me ask you a question. Do

1488
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 5: you have one arm?

1489
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 1: That's all I want to fucking know, the strong hand

1490
01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: with her strong hand.

1491
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 5: She said, bitch, what are you talking about. No, but

1492
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 5: then she said do you have one arm?

1493
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 4: Because he had.

1494
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 5: Also told her that he had a friend in La

1495
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 5: with one arm that he goes and visits.

1496
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 4: Is his best friend from back in the day.

1497
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 5: And I only got one bitch, So so then I

1498
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, that's crazy. But also I have one

1499
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,560
Speaker 5: final question is is this him? Are these his pictures?

1500
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 5: Is he a model? No, bitch, this was not him

1501
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 5: in any of the pictures. So I was basically just

1502
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 5: dating a whole lie, just fucking not a model that

1503
01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 5: I thought he was. I was really thinking like he

1504
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 5: was gonna make it out of like the Child Africa

1505
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 5: scheme he was in, and he was going to be

1506
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 5: a top model, and also that he was just loyal

1507
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 5: to me, and he was just so kind. He had

1508
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 5: this one arm bestie, and come to find out, we

1509
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:28,480
Speaker 5: both were handicapped.

1510
01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 4: Bitch.

1511
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:33,360
Speaker 5: Okay, so that's my dumb bitch story. And that went on.

1512
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 3: Was with him for a year. That was a year

1513
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 3: of my life, y'all. And then he proposed. Oh then

1514
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 3: he dang.

1515
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he did propose to me one day one

1516
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 5: time when I flew him to LA. We had sex

1517
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 5: on my friend's couch and while he was inside of me,

1518
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 5: he pulled out the tiniest diamond ring I've ever seen,

1519
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 5: and I said yes.

1520
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,440
Speaker 4: So that adds to the dumb bitchness.

1521
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 3: Oh dumb, Sorry we had that.

1522
01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1523
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 3: Yo, girl.

1524
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 4: I still got the ring too.

1525
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 5: I never gave that bitch back because it costs about

1526
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 5: probably forty two dollars.

1527
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 2: Oh goodness, in love, I don't know if I could

1528
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 2: Every now and then I go check on him on

1529
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 2: his Instagram.

1530
01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 5: See what he's up to, still fucking lying and scheming,

1531
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 5: trying to be a singer, rapper or some shit.

1532
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1533
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 2: What's yours.

1534
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 3: I want to say, did I do this? That's some

1535
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 3: pretty dumb bitch shit, Like Erica probably does my dumb

1536
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 3: shit better than me, because I.

1537
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 5: Can think of one in particular. Actually, okay, the dog,

1538
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 5: I near gonna say that. Okay, it wasn't that bad.

1539
01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 3: But one time I really needed to get an apartment

1540
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 3: and my credit wasn't good, so I needed to scheme

1541
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,640
Speaker 3: into So my homegirl was like, call this guy. He

1542
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:05,559
Speaker 3: could hook you up. He's gonna do X, Y and Z.

1543
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 3: So I was like, Okay, call the guy, pay him

1544
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 3: his little five hundred. So I think I got the apartment.

1545
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:14,839
Speaker 3: I think I had like some kind of Stockholm syndrome

1546
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 3: because I was like, oh my god, he got me

1547
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 3: this apartment. I was really struggling before, like thank god.

1548
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 3: So like he had a real deep voice, and I

1549
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,599
Speaker 3: was like, where are you from, Like, you know, trying

1550
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 3: start a conversation with the niggas doing the scheming because

1551
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 3: I'm stupid, I'm a cancer. I'm like, oh my god,

1552
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 3: we gonna love each other. And then one day he

1553
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 3: facetied me. He had this big old smile, got freckles,

1554
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 3: kind of light skinned. I was like, oh my guy,

1555
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 3: he's gotta fine. I was like Erica, Erica, the man

1556
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 3: who helped me with the stuff. He's fine. So I

1557
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 3: was like all giddy. I was like, you know, you

1558
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 3: said you want to come to La, like you should.

1559
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 4: Come out and visit me.

1560
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:55,720
Speaker 3: Like yeah, So he comes to LA and then he

1561
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,320
Speaker 3: he gets up the car. He's like this big he's

1562
01:13:59,360 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 3: with a.

1563
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:00,960
Speaker 4: Big old head and a little body.

1564
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 5: He looked like a big nigga, you know how like

1565
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 5: big niggas got big heads, like on the FaceTime.

1566
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 4: He looked like he could be around six feet tall.

1567
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 3: So then erics like, you can't fuck him, Like if

1568
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 3: you all have a baby, it's goning too little. I

1569
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 3: was like, shut up. But to make matters worse, he

1570
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:22,920
Speaker 3: came down. He did have a big ass dog and

1571
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 3: let him and the dog come. He brought a dog

1572
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 3: with him. Yeah, and on top of it, he was

1573
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:33,080
Speaker 3: a Muslim, so he was one of those niggas. One

1574
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 3: time we had a conversation and he was like, yeah,

1575
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 3: you know, I don't know the word of the Muslims,

1576
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 3: like if my brother, if I go to my brother's house,

1577
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:41,200
Speaker 3: my e hum or, whatever the fuck? They be calling

1578
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 3: each other and his wife goes in the back room.

1579
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 3: I said, like a dog, like we're talking about in

1580
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 3: her house. If you come over, she goes in the

1581
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:52,839
Speaker 3: back room, so you don't have to speak, I said, oh, nigga.

1582
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 3: So then I had this complex I'm and he like

1583
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 3: really did love horse, so he would like talk like salaciously.

1584
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 3: But then I also be talking this Muslim shit, and

1585
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 3: then I would like sit there and watch fary Con

1586
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:06,440
Speaker 3: fhary Con documentaries with him and be like yeah, I understand,

1587
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 3: and then I let him kind of move in basically, but.

1588
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 4: Wait, but why what kind of sex were you having

1589
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 4: that he was mind fucking you with?

1590
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 3: But wait, what kind of sex are you having?

1591
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 4: Oh you don't remember.

1592
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 5: No, you guys were having like you guys were role

1593
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 5: playing like trigger warning.

1594
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 7: No bitch, wait hold up, hold on, now I don't

1595
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 7: remember tell it.

1596
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 4: Wait, there's gotta you gotta do. Long story short, she

1597
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 4: was digmatized.

1598
01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 5: Okay, there was something going on sexually that had her digmatized.

1599
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 3: Not trigger warning, bitch, Oh my god. But then he

1600
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 3: was like mind fucking me, Like he wasn't eating my

1601
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 3: he was like talking super salaciously, but then he's like

1602
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 3: was eating my pussy and like, my, nigga, like you've

1603
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 3: been You've been around here for a long time. Like

1604
01:15:57,800 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 3: I started to notice there was like a mind manipul

1605
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 3: and he would talk salaciously, but then like be like, oh,

1606
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 3: you're gonna wear that, and I'm like, nigga, you just

1607
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 3: tell me love hordes. I'm so confused, and like he

1608
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 3: would talk, he would use like those big jail words

1609
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 3: like under circumstantial understanding of spirituality, and I was like,

1610
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 3: you're so smart. Anyway, I let him move in and

1611
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 3: he was bipolar and he was having manic episodes occasionally,

1612
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 3: and then I told all my friends that it was

1613
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,559
Speaker 3: over and that he had moved out and I'm not

1614
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 3: talking to him anymore. And then one time I was

1615
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 3: on the phone with Erica and I was like yeah,

1616
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:37,799
Speaker 3: uh huh, and then all of a sudden, the background

1617
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 3: was like she was like bitch, and I was like

1618
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 3: she was like is that fucking man and that fucking

1619
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 3: dog over there? And I was like, huh, I'll call

1620
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 3: you back. And I was like, what the fucking you.

1621
01:16:54,960 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 3: Shut the dog up, nigga. I told you, no, man.

1622
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:03,080
Speaker 1: Not going to see a man with a whorse a

1623
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 1: man with a dog.

1624
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 3: And then I continued the ridiculous relationship until one day

1625
01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 3: he slapped me in my face and I was like, oh,

1626
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 3: god's really trying to try me right now, Like are

1627
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 3: you a real dumb bitch? And then like Erica was

1628
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 3: like just picking me up and I got in the

1629
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:18,640
Speaker 3: car and she was like what's wrong And I was like,

1630
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:25,240
Speaker 3: he was conditioning you the whole time. Oh yeah, like hardcore.

1631
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 3: I was like totally unattached. And then it switched and

1632
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 3: then I was acting nuts. She was like a like

1633
01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 3: on crack. She was like a crackhead for this dick. Okay,

1634
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,400
Speaker 3: crack stat status. It was.

1635
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 2: It was what the trigger warning was?

1636
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 3: I think was it like was it like rape play?

1637
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 3: Is that what it was? Okay, I don't even remember that.

1638
01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 3: I've blocked it out, but yeah, I'm pretty I like

1639
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 3: for someone to take it a little bit. So maybe

1640
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:53,639
Speaker 3: he went all the way. Yeah, yeah, he's like choking

1641
01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 3: ed this whole This is.

1642
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 1: Like I want to planned one, like plan it, Like, yeah,

1643
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 1: it's planned.

1644
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:06,760
Speaker 3: It was planned. I was like it was consensual, non consensual.

1645
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 3: It's that's a real word in the kink, consensual, non consensual.

1646
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 3: So I was really into that he was he was

1647
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 3: an Okay, this is the thing aj those short niggas,

1648
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 3: and this is where all the ladies listening. Those short

1649
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 3: niggas do be packing sometimes okay sometimes, but also with

1650
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 3: short niggas, they've had to they've had to compensate for

1651
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 3: their height their whole life, so they come with a

1652
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 3: lot of buried testosterone that comes out unhealthy. So they

1653
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,760
Speaker 3: might slap you. They're going to mind fuck you, and

1654
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 3: they probably have really worked on their their their talking

1655
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,680
Speaker 3: and their sex game really good because that's how they

1656
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 3: brain fuck you. So if they come and have all

1657
01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 3: this chemistry and they stare deep into your eyes, run, bitch, run,

1658
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 3: they're trying to mind fuck your brain.

1659
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: Mine used to drool on me. Imagine somebody drooling on

1660
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 1: you while you having sex.

1661
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 3: They just he would growl like and then he would

1662
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 3: do like he would do Arabic prayer like mam'd like.

1663
01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh my god, he loved me so much.

1664
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 5: He made it was he was just.

1665
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 3: Like saying oh ba blah blah, like I don't even

1666
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 3: know the words anymore. A blah blah like he would

1667
01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 3: like pray after he fucked me, and I was like,

1668
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:14,560
Speaker 3: it was like, that's why I don't really fuck with

1669
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 3: Kevin Gates because I see that same demon. Like there's

1670
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 3: like a similar there's like a sex demon that lives

1671
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 3: in like into like certain type of men where they

1672
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 3: act like they love the horrishness about you. But then

1673
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:26,599
Speaker 3: they tried to do like some religious ship they try

1674
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 3: to like use big words.

1675
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 1: I'm just so glad Draca left his ass because it's

1676
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 1: almost like he was starting to look like her like

1677
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:34,360
Speaker 1: he was.

1678
01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 3: I can see that he was draining the fuck out her.

1679
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 3: Is that what happened to? Nigga started drading you, you start

1680
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,600
Speaker 3: looking they started looking like start looking like I don't know,

1681
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 3: do they not look alike? Yeah?

1682
01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm happy too. She's beautiful.

1683
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:56,440
Speaker 3: She's probably getting dicked down by healthy dick by now today.

1684
01:19:55,520 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 2: All right, ladies, Yeah, this was so much fun. Y'all

1685
01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:03,120
Speaker 2: are so funny. Tell everybody where they can find you,

1686
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 2: plug all your things.

1687
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 3: I'm Mela. You can find me on Instagram at Mela

1688
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 3: with an h underscore map with two p's. Follow the

1689
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,840
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1690
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 3: international trips next year. If you have kids or a

1691
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 3: job and you need to put that shit down for

1692
01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 3: a minute and find yourself and go hang out with

1693
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 3: some bad bitches and smoke weed and haul at the

1694
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 3: moon and think about your motherfucking self, this is the

1695
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:34,040
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1696
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1697
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1698
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 3: You don't have to smoke weed to come, but if

1699
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1700
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Speaker 3: have to worry about shit at getting yourself there, and

1701
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 3: then we take care of everything after that.

1702
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,679
Speaker 5: And make sure you follow us at Good Mom's Underscore

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1704
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1705
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Speaker 3: If you have a friend who's about to have a baby,

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01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:23,519
Speaker 2: Amen, All right, ladies. Thank y'all so much. This is

1712
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 2: fun and I'm definitely coming on the four to twenty trip.

1713
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm gonna send you all that. I'm gonna

1714
01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 3: text you right now.

1715
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1716
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: Really there, y'all be doing rituals, mammy.

1717
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we have payment plans so you have months

1718
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 5: and months and months to make small payments so it

1719
01:21:40,320 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 5: doesn't feel so overwhelming. Come on, girls, Okay, I'm about

1720
01:21:45,160 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 5: to put the tech message.

1721
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, all right, y'all.

1722
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Speaker 1: If y'all enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday

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1724
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01:22:04,479 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 2: Remember speak now, I don't know.

1729
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:11,599
Speaker 3: Never hold them never heard you, forever, hold your peace, forever.

1730
01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: We kind of switched it up a little bit.

1731
01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 2: Who's on or what we talk about?

1732
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:20,599
Speaker 3: So never hold them.

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01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 4: Bad choices, speak forever hold them titties.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for listening and celebrating five years of the Black

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Speaker 5: Effect Podcast Network with us.

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Speaker 3: Keep following because the next five years are about to

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Speaker 3: be even bigger