WEBVTT - Call It With Rachel Bilson and Olivia Allen

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<v Speaker 1>Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,

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<v Speaker 1>an iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Hello, hello, Hello, hello everyone, and welcome to another

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<v Speaker 2>episode of Call It What It Is? Or should I

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<v Speaker 2>have said, ho ho ho hoozy.

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<v Speaker 3>It is cheesy, but it's right. This week is the

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<v Speaker 3>week to go ho ho ho.

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<v Speaker 4>It feels right, it feels right.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta tell you, I got like the Christmas sweat today.

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Where I was like, I've made a list for hate,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've made a list for Lucas and I counted,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's a discrepancy. Oh oh, the dreaded discrepancy.

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<v Speaker 3>There is one kid that has would currently have more

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<v Speaker 3>under the tree.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I rushed to target teeth, not brushed, rushed

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<v Speaker 2>in there looking so little, and was literally just launching

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<v Speaker 2>shit into the basket.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know what I got.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like that that's pink with a thing, go, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of glitter.

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<v Speaker 4>Fine. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I did a similar thing when I launched myself into

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<v Speaker 5>my car. I had brushed my teeth, but you know

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<v Speaker 5>it's winter here in New York, so I had like

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<v Speaker 5>the hat pulled almost.

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<v Speaker 4>Over the eyebrows like that, can your eyeballs just poke

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<v Speaker 4>the eyeball, put eye.

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<v Speaker 5>Holes in the so I can see through that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how I got it.

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<v Speaker 5>And I almost launched my car into a couple other

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<v Speaker 5>cars just trying to park before I actually launched myself

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<v Speaker 5>or launched things into a cart of any kind.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know what, I felt like a low hum.

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna say this word, and then I thought

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<v Speaker 5>that's too much capshaw, and then I went, no, it's right.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt a low key rage, like the Christmas rage,

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<v Speaker 4>like a little bit of like the opposite of Christmas chair.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I think that it comes with more than

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<v Speaker 2>a sprinkle every year of some Christmas rage. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that is true. The traffic in LA right now is painous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it took me so long to even get there, and

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<v Speaker 2>by the time you're walking in, it's just and the

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<v Speaker 2>shelves have been cleared out already. Yeah, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like an apocalypse has happened.

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<v Speaker 3>But for Christmas. Yep, No, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>I get the sweat, I get the I get the.

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<v Speaker 3>The rage, the parking, the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I sat, I you know, this person had

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<v Speaker 5>the they tapped on their brake lights, so that usually

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<v Speaker 5>indicates they're going to leave. So I pull over, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like a frogger, like it's just for my life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I leap into that spot so that I could take

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<v Speaker 5>her spot. And then you know, I waited because it

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<v Speaker 5>was fine. I was chilling, and then it was like

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<v Speaker 5>more than enough time for her to have tacked out

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<v Speaker 5>by now, and I didn't see the white lights that

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<v Speaker 5>you know, meant she was gonna reverse.

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<v Speaker 4>So then I was like, do I get out of

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<v Speaker 4>the car and say like, I'm so sorry, but are

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<v Speaker 4>you leaving? I know? Do I not? Could she be

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<v Speaker 4>filled with the Christmas rage? And maybe it wasn't so

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<v Speaker 4>low key?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I don't know. It's a risky move. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a risky a risky get out and tap the window and.

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<v Speaker 4>Off just talking about it. Yeah are you leaving sign?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you can get you can get a oh yeah

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<v Speaker 2>yeah I'm leaving my now, or.

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<v Speaker 3>You can get a like a goot fuck your song

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<v Speaker 3>with rage.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the spot, right, And then they're taking out

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<v Speaker 2>the laptop. They're doing meetings in that spot, but they're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to turn the lights off. They'll keep the

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<v Speaker 2>reverse lights on. And then you're and then it's then

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<v Speaker 2>then the rage is raging.

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<v Speaker 4>And you don't know which one it's gonna be.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't know what you do? Did you get out

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<v Speaker 3>of the sleep of faith? Did you?

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<v Speaker 6>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>If I waited a little bit less time, I think

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<v Speaker 5>I would have just kept going, but I'd actually invested

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<v Speaker 5>a little more than I want you to have.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And so I had to just check.

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<v Speaker 5>So I get out and I sort of go hi, like,

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<v Speaker 5>didn't want to scare her. Yeah, And she gave me

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<v Speaker 5>the no, I'm setting up shop in this parking.

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<v Speaker 2>Spots, and I was like, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, what I don't like about the no I'm

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<v Speaker 2>staying is it's okay to be like, hey, no, I'm staying.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that some people really feel like insulted by

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<v Speaker 2>the question.

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<v Speaker 5>What about me in my car with my break lights on?

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<v Speaker 5>Makes you think I'm going to leave this spot?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're acting entitled because you've read the lights in

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<v Speaker 2>the back. I just like, I just like, I just

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<v Speaker 2>use those to light the work inside that I'm about

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<v Speaker 2>to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, by the way, Karva was on my side because

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<v Speaker 5>as I full of shame, went back to my car.

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<v Speaker 5>That one car over actually did have people in it,

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<v Speaker 5>so I did the same thing, like, Hi, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 5>are you leaving?

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<v Speaker 4>And she said yes, And.

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<v Speaker 5>Then by the grace of the Santa Spirit, the person

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<v Speaker 5>behind me allowed me to back up a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>more so I could take that spot.

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<v Speaker 3>That's good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you know what I like.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it when I am am doing the same

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<v Speaker 2>thing that you're doing. I'm like, I've decided to stalk this,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the stalk or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't, I say, stalk the.

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<v Speaker 3>Spot right and the and the car puts on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Lights, and then you're waiting and waiting and waiting, and

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<v Speaker 2>there's a part of me it's like I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to get out, but I will stay here. And the

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<v Speaker 2>longer it takes, as long as I can make that

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<v Speaker 2>eye contact when they pull out of like it's been

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<v Speaker 2>too goddamn long, you right, Like when they pull out, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>as long as I have that moment where they can

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<v Speaker 2>see in my eyes it's fifteen minutes, Yeah, then I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do what Really, it's not going to do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna make my day a little bit brighter.

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<v Speaker 2>But like I just there's a point where it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I waited, but I'm not going to risk getting out

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<v Speaker 2>the car.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm there for that. The eyeballs are like.

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<v Speaker 4>For the Yeah, I've been here all day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and what have you been doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>What have you?

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<v Speaker 3>I can see you in the car.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So we're in the Christmas spirit here, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, it's gonna you know, I think that I

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<v Speaker 5>as a parent, I feel like it's all just we're

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<v Speaker 5>in a state of military grade.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I am an operative.

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<v Speaker 5>And I have I have three twenty four hour shifts

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<v Speaker 5>ahead of me until school gets out.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not. It's a volunteer position, and it's a volunteer that.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't have, but nobody told you that it was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm getting paid in love. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So

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<v Speaker 4>they better throw it at me when school gets out

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<v Speaker 4>on Thursday. We get out on Thursday. Oh thank you

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<v Speaker 4>so much?

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<v Speaker 2>School.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, they're like, hey, do you need the Friday?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, yeah, no, definitely let them out before the

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<v Speaker 5>week's over.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, by the time this airs, though, they'll be out.

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<v Speaker 5>It's true, it's true, But I'm just saying of my

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<v Speaker 5>mindset is twenty.

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<v Speaker 4>Four hour three twenty four hour shifts.

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<v Speaker 3>Never say die, goodise, never say die.

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<v Speaker 4>Get to the finish line and then you know what.

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<v Speaker 5>Then at that point, if things haven't been done well,

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<v Speaker 5>then they're not gonna They're not gonna get done.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I tell you the biggest mistake that gets made

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<v Speaker 2>on Christmas Day in our family? And honestly it sends

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<v Speaker 2>me off the It's like, you know, it could be

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<v Speaker 2>the final straw. We talked about final straws.

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<v Speaker 3>Recently.

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<v Speaker 2>We have had seasons and I now I know better,

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<v Speaker 2>and I knew better at Target today where you get

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<v Speaker 2>all the toys and they're like batteries not included and

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<v Speaker 2>it's not like an AA right, it's like one of

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<v Speaker 2>those circles, like a double circle with a little you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Got to be pinkoing. It's a battery you've never heard of.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have to fly.

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<v Speaker 4>You need a scare driver to take the off to

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<v Speaker 4>insert the battery.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and the screwdriver will have always been in one

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<v Speaker 2>spot until Christmas Day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I had to move. It was like the Elf,

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<v Speaker 4>the Elf ticket.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, the batteries are gone to Spot and so

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<v Speaker 2>I know better. Though this year I bought one of

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<v Speaker 2>those battery things that has the whole all of them,

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<v Speaker 2>all of them, every single one.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what you got a Target today. It's one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't get it at Target today.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked for regular batteries a Target, but Costco had

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<v Speaker 2>the the suitcase.

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<v Speaker 3>You've seen the case?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, for sure. Anyway, I never thought that would

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<v Speaker 4>be my life.

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<v Speaker 5>Just so we're saying, like when I was prancing around

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<v Speaker 5>in my twenties just being cute. Yeah, yeah, I really

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<v Speaker 5>battery like thinking ahead to battery.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, would benefit me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it's a situation that day when you open

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<v Speaker 2>that present and you can't it, it's not going to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, okay, So wait, I know a little bit more

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<v Speaker 5>about who we have on today than you do.

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<v Speaker 3>I have met her one time, but I want to

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<v Speaker 3>talk about it with her how I met her. But

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<v Speaker 3>you why don't you tell on.

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<v Speaker 4>Half the crew?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Have the pair. We have the lovely Rachel Bilson and

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<v Speaker 4>Olivia Allen on the show today. So excited.

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<v Speaker 5>They were maybe one of the first podcasts that I

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<v Speaker 5>went on after knowing that we were about to start

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<v Speaker 5>our own, so I was looking at it in a

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<v Speaker 5>very different way, and they were lovely, very very lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>So you calling me after and telling me you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is you know, this is like the vibe and

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<v Speaker 2>they're two best friends, and it was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they've got a similar situation going on, yet similar and.

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<v Speaker 5>Different, Which is why I always say there's space for everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not a I'm not a I don't operate from scarcity.

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<v Speaker 5>I operate from abundance. While they are two best friends

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<v Speaker 5>and we had many our conversations when I was on,

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<v Speaker 5>there absolutely would be ones that you and I would have.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a there's a different there's a there is a

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<v Speaker 5>difference in the vibe. Yeah, there's different energy. Yeah, they're

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<v Speaker 5>both so cool and really really really interesting. And I

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<v Speaker 5>also enjoyed being able to have them now as guests

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<v Speaker 5>because I got to like the I find that the

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<v Speaker 5>research part of it's so cool, Like you think you

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<v Speaker 5>know people, but then when you're about to have them,

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<v Speaker 5>obviously as a host, do you want to be prepared

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<v Speaker 5>and so learning about.

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<v Speaker 2>Them is pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd never I want to ask Olivia, because I'd never

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<v Speaker 3>heard of a spiritual psychologist before I know, no, I

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<v Speaker 3>had no, So I want to know all the things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep, well, obviously we're gonna get to know all the things.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you guys matching?

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<v Speaker 3>We did not plan it the whole suit.

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<v Speaker 4>We're both well they are slightly different, but like not much.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 5>So these two beautiful faces just popped up in the

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<v Speaker 5>almost exact same color, beautiful Bordeaux, deep cherry, nearly christmasy color.

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<v Speaker 5>And then they said we didn't plan it, as they

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<v Speaker 5>swung their mics in front of their faces at the

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<v Speaker 5>exact same time and the exact same.

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<v Speaker 3>Position, and they're like, yes and not go together.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 5>We were just we were chatting before you all came in,

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<v Speaker 5>and I said that doing your podcast, I loved doing

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<v Speaker 5>your podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I loved I love your energy, I love your questions,

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<v Speaker 4>I love your perspective. I loved hearing them all.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was the first podcast that I had ever

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<v Speaker 5>done as a guest, knowing that we were about to

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<v Speaker 5>go on this ride.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I didn't know that. Wow, yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>billed it. Oh please please?

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<v Speaker 5>So I went to I heard stingle Ball in Los Angeles,

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<v Speaker 5>and then I went to the New York one and

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<v Speaker 5>it was it's not over to like eleven thirty, which

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about, you guys, way past my bedtime.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm like standing there and were at Penn station

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<v Speaker 5>and like the chances of a of an uber actually

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<v Speaker 5>making it to the door, like so slim and it's

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<v Speaker 5>so cold, and I'm with two teenage girls that of

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<v Speaker 5>course definitely did not need to wear jackets, and so

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<v Speaker 5>we're like, cool, can we maybe maybe see if the

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<v Speaker 5>car pulls up? So we're just waiting there, waiting there,

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<v Speaker 5>waiting there, and someone that was with us will know

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<v Speaker 5>what her name was, and if you had been with

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<v Speaker 5>me Camilla, you would know who she was. But she

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<v Speaker 5>was a desperate housewife and she was on the maybe

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<v Speaker 5>Jersey version and across this very small room you hear

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<v Speaker 5>her scream whispering.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you please introduce me to Kate Gapshaw?

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<v Speaker 3>She's over there? But who was it? I heard?

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<v Speaker 4>You?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys watch the Housewives? Do you watch guys?

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<v Speaker 7>I know I've never seen. It's crazy that I haven't

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<v Speaker 7>because I love reality TV.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never seen an episode. Oh you're messing out?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you watch Band of Pump rolls.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never seen an episode of the House.

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<v Speaker 6>I watched one half season when I was like sick

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<v Speaker 6>in bed.

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<v Speaker 7>I love that shit, though, Like I love reality television.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the reality tale of television that you watched? You

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<v Speaker 2>watched Love Island? I love Love is.

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<v Speaker 3>Blind is like my favorite.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, but I was like, I got into the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 7>World forever and I was so committed and I haven't

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<v Speaker 7>in like years now.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I like those ones, like the dating ones are fun

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, speaking of crazy things that I haven't heard yet,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm taking a hard right turn.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's just like you're going to ask because we

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<v Speaker 2>just talked about this, well because because I, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, we're a little yin and yang, she and I,

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<v Speaker 5>and so she knows about stuff that I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>about Nino, so we bring it all together.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Have you heard about the drones in New Jersey?

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<v Speaker 7>Of course She's just brought this up to me yesterday.

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm Rachel in her yang Yeah, LOI yeah, I'm Rachel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you know about the drones?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank god.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course I had to because here's the thing. When

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<v Speaker 2>you guys were coming on, they're coming on. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>they talk, you know what, they open and talking about stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>and I heart like they're open and I said, what

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<v Speaker 2>about aliens literally and they were like, yeah, they'll talk

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<v Speaker 2>about aliens. And it felt right because this drone situation

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<v Speaker 2>is real.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hoping it's aliens. I mean, yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, it's going to be disappointing if it's some

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<v Speaker 2>sort of like just regular but no, it's it's so

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<v Speaker 2>it's all over the world right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you too tell me why you think it's aliens

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<v Speaker 4>or what is there any evidence to support alienness.

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<v Speaker 6>The weird part is it's kind of like that movie

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<v Speaker 6>Don't Look Up. Did you guys see that? Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 6>like World the World Don't Look Up was amazing movie

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<v Speaker 6>about an asteroid coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I did see that. I did see that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, And they're basically like, carry on, don't look up,

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<v Speaker 6>keep going. And that's what's happening with the drones is

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<v Speaker 6>we're not getting any answers. Nobody's saying what they are.

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<v Speaker 6>They're literally coming out going we don't know what they are.

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<v Speaker 6>Get back to you. More will be revealed, and nobody

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<v Speaker 6>has an answer of what these lights in the sky

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<v Speaker 6>the drones.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you seen the bulbs of light the orbs?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, I've seen them. They look kind of holographic. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a millet.

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<v Speaker 4>Jessica's laughing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm say, Jessica, you're not gonna be laughing when you

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<v Speaker 3>end up.

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<v Speaker 4>With a spaceship in the backyard. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a guy on TikTok right now, and his

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<v Speaker 3>theory is is that he has worked in the military,

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<v Speaker 3>and he said, those drones that we're seeing, they're lying

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<v Speaker 3>to us. They are US drones. Those are in the air.

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<v Speaker 2>And he talks about how the lights on them, and

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<v Speaker 2>he shows pictures and how he's seen drones like that,

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<v Speaker 2>and the US military is lying to us about the

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<v Speaker 2>US government is lying to us about that, right are

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<v Speaker 2>those are our drones. But the reason that they're in

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<v Speaker 2>the air is because of the orbs. The orbs they

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what they are, and the orbs feel like UFOs,

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<v Speaker 2>and so the orbs are flooding the airspace, and so

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<v Speaker 2>the drones are up there to try and take a

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<v Speaker 2>look because basically they're saying, listen, if it was like

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<v Speaker 2>some if it was a different country and adversary that

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<v Speaker 2>was up there, we'd be shooting them down, like we

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't let it go on this long with this.

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<v Speaker 4>But they're only interested in Jersey. No, they're all over.

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<v Speaker 3>It's wrong with Jersey, Justine.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm just saying that there's a collective of them

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<v Speaker 5>in New Jersey, correct that they're starting to theirs. I

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<v Speaker 5>was just saying, if they're orbs that are alien, don't

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<v Speaker 5>you think that they would like maybe move with it there?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I heard a theory that was more like they are.

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<v Speaker 5>Looking for something, because evidently they only come out at night, right,

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<v Speaker 5>no one's seen them in the daytime.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, they were also over a military base, and so

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<v Speaker 6>they were over different parts that could be considered sensitive

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<v Speaker 6>to our safety.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, see, I was talking to someone. That's what I

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<v Speaker 5>was saying earlier was that their theory was far more like.

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<v Speaker 4>Dark.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>That it was like just more like more Jason Bourney,

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<v Speaker 5>more like like mission impossible, more like like someone searching

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<v Speaker 5>for something and then and that in that way as

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<v Speaker 5>opposed to just like aliens coming down and being like

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<v Speaker 5>what's up.

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<v Speaker 6>There's another theory that it's all just a distraction from

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<v Speaker 6>something in life. On a good show, Like this girl

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<v Speaker 6>was telling me yesterday that she's like, it's just a distraction.

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<v Speaker 6>The US government comes up with ideas of way to

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<v Speaker 6>distract us and polarized attension while they do something behind

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<v Speaker 6>our backs.

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<v Speaker 4>So everybody on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 6>And all this that, everybody's trying to dissect what it is,

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<v Speaker 6>and all I want is for it to be aliens.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well maybe that's what Santa's going to bring this year,

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<v Speaker 4>some alien.

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<v Speaker 5>What would you do? I would be so, I'd be

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<v Speaker 5>so curious. I don't feel afraid of aliens.

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<v Speaker 6>Me neither.

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<v Speaker 3>I just you don't believe aliens.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe in everything.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but I feel like we've only been presented with

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<v Speaker 7>what aliens are or could.

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<v Speaker 4>Be through movies.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, And so in my mind, I'm like, is it

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<v Speaker 7>going to be like The Predator or is it going

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<v Speaker 7>to be like.

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<v Speaker 3>With the Predator was an alien?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? He is an alien Astralien. Yeah, he's an alien.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, are they super scary looking or what if

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<v Speaker 3>they're like cool?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm that's the alien I'm hoping for. That's the

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<v Speaker 4>one I'm curious about. I'm not curious about Predator.

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<v Speaker 3>No, definitely not.

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<v Speaker 6>There's a theory that people with RH negative blood or

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<v Speaker 6>alien and I have RH negative blood.

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<v Speaker 4>If you heard this theory, I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 4>that is.

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<v Speaker 5>That sounds hardware one boot a discount, You get a

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<v Speaker 5>discount there?

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<v Speaker 4>What's happening?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Tell me because I love a theory.

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<v Speaker 4>Ourh negative blood is.

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<v Speaker 6>If you heard of people that have negative blood where

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<v Speaker 6>they have to get the shot to have a baby

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<v Speaker 6>and everything. No, okay, so I had to get a

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<v Speaker 6>shot so that my body.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't hurt my own baby. I've heard of that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, wow, it's yeah, it's a thing. And they can't

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<v Speaker 6>trace where the blood originated. Like all other forms of blood,

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<v Speaker 6>there's lineages of it and it all maps out, makes sense.

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<v Speaker 6>This our h factor was like brought onto the scene

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<v Speaker 6>and they're going, this doesn't belong to anything on Earth.

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<v Speaker 4>So the theory is that RH.

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<v Speaker 6>Negative blood comes from aliens alien and when I heard that,

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<v Speaker 6>I went that because you're part.

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<v Speaker 4>AliOS, right, she has alien eyes. I think I might

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<v Speaker 4>be a little part alien maybe a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>That's wild.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this would just contribute to me being curious about aliens.

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<v Speaker 4>You're welcome here on Earth, Olivia, Thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You, I asked you a question too, Olivia, because okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so before we came on the pod, I said to

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica that I had never heard of a spiritual psychologist before.

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<v Speaker 3>I and you said you had an either dress no,

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<v Speaker 3>but I want to know more. So we wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>know more about what that is because maybe I need it.

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<v Speaker 6>So basically I did a master's program in spiritual psychology

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<v Speaker 6>where you learn all the different modalities of psychology, but

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<v Speaker 6>then they bring the spirit into it in the sense

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<v Speaker 6>of what is your soul's perspective, like bringing in meditation,

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<v Speaker 6>bringing in consciousness, what are you here for that's bigger

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<v Speaker 6>purpose outside of just your mind. So most psychology deals

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<v Speaker 6>with the mind, and so basically a spiritual psychologist takes

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<v Speaker 6>it to a higher elevation of bringing consciousness into it

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<v Speaker 6>and really kind of including your soul in You're healing

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<v Speaker 6>in order to get past any blocks you have. So

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<v Speaker 6>I did like two years of studying that in a program.

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<v Speaker 3>And then do you guys have your own spiritual psychologists.

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<v Speaker 6>I saw a coach for a long time, and my

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<v Speaker 6>therapist is very spiritual, so she brings in that stuff

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<v Speaker 6>like we won't just be like, oh this happened when

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<v Speaker 6>you're a kid or whatever. She will take me to

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<v Speaker 6>kind of different places as far as like say something

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<v Speaker 6>was going on in your life and you were like,

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<v Speaker 6>I can't decide between this and this, and these are

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<v Speaker 6>both kind of painful choices, then we would say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>So if you were to rise above that and look

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<v Speaker 6>at the situation, what is it that your soul is

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<v Speaker 6>seeking to learn through this experience and what do you

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<v Speaker 6>think would be most in alignment with your authentic self

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<v Speaker 6>and your soul's journey. I know it's a little out there.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, no, no, it's not at all. An actually

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<v Speaker 3>makes perfect sense to I mean, I'm very spiritual to

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<v Speaker 3>a justice too.

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<v Speaker 2>It actually suddenly feels weird to me that we don't

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<v Speaker 2>include that in therapy, right, Like that should just be

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<v Speaker 2>a part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, agree, agree, I'm I'm in the part.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like when I'm sitting in the patient chair, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>this is my work, guys, this is when I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>how do I reach my authentic self to ask that

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<v Speaker 5>question again?

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<v Speaker 4>Where what's my soul's phone number? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Way, is there like a quantifiable way that I can

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<v Speaker 5>understand that this is really being It's that it's that piece.

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<v Speaker 4>There's always been like a speed bump for me.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not just the mental exactly right, And so you

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<v Speaker 6>would have to get out of the mental and into

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<v Speaker 6>the physical. Yeah, because like your intuition is your authentic self,

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<v Speaker 6>and your intuition's never going to speak through fear's voice.

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<v Speaker 6>So the minute you're thinking from fear, you're in your

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<v Speaker 6>mind and that's how you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like, how do you get there?

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<v Speaker 6>You get into your body and you can feel if

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<v Speaker 6>your intuition is clear and calm and gets a hit,

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<v Speaker 6>it's never going to be attached to fear. That's only

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<v Speaker 6>the analytical mind and ego. That's your instincts, right.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that it stopped.

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<v Speaker 4>Me at any moment. I mean no, no, no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean yeah, Rachel, does she like this?

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<v Speaker 2>Is so? I yeah, yeah, sorry, no, I'm so sucked in.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the the you know, the premise of this show

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<v Speaker 5>is I mean, obviously that's it was born of our friendship.

0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:45.000
<v Speaker 5>It was born of a lot of things. But one

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<v Speaker 5>of the things that we are lucky enough to have

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<v Speaker 5>is a group of people that trust calling in, writing

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<v Speaker 5>in with things that are on their mind. And so

0:23:55.400 --> 0:23:59.800
<v Speaker 5>we get a huge spectrum of concerns and worries and

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<v Speaker 5>or stories to tell or you know, some kind of

0:24:02.920 --> 0:24:07.280
<v Speaker 5>like piece of belonging to like reach for in all

0:24:07.320 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 5>of this, right, what we hear a lot in different

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:14.720
<v Speaker 5>forms is self doubt, like how do I know I'm

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<v Speaker 5>doing the right thing?

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<v Speaker 4>And I.

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<v Speaker 5>Joke, but I don't joke, Like I do find that

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<v Speaker 5>to be the hardest thing to gain access to because

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a thinker. But that was part of my survival, right,

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<v Speaker 5>Like that's like, well, I'm just gonna I mean, like

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<v Speaker 5>if I'm just thinking and I'm staying ahead of it,

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<v Speaker 5>and my ten steps ahead of it's even better than

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:38.919
<v Speaker 5>you know, five, So let's go.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you do twenty?

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I have twenty steps ahead?

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<v Speaker 5>And then and then I'm no longer in my life,

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<v Speaker 5>which was an unlearning and a trust in it all

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<v Speaker 5>being okay, which I preach all the time, right, because

0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:55.960
<v Speaker 5>I do believe that everything will be okay in the end,

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<v Speaker 5>and if it's not okay, it's not the end.

0:24:59.200 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 4>At least I had a good time in the meantime, yeah, exactly, And.

0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:04.399
<v Speaker 5>In the and in the meantime, what am I holding

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<v Speaker 5>on to? Like, what's what's my what's my life raft

0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:09.920
<v Speaker 5>and and and what am I going to grab onto?

0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:13.600
<v Speaker 5>And not like negotiate about how I'm being saved, but

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 5>just allow myself to be saved, not by a person

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<v Speaker 5>necessarily or even an idea, but how am I going

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<v Speaker 5>to trust? And there's definitely been a lot of unlearning

0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 5>of exactly what you said right the mental and leaning

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<v Speaker 5>into a knowing. But it's funny how once you have that,

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:32.119
<v Speaker 5>you have that thing in your head that it's like

0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 5>when you start looking for a car, You're like, oh,

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:36.200
<v Speaker 5>I really think that I'm I really want to get

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:39.640
<v Speaker 5>the the I'm interested in the Volvo blah blah blah.

0:25:39.720 --> 0:25:42.560
<v Speaker 5>All of a sudden, it's fucking everywhere. It's like everywhere

0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:46.000
<v Speaker 5>you see that Volvo everywhere everywhere. And the minute you start,

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:48.760
<v Speaker 5>you know, thinking about an idea, it's like, isn't that

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:49.760
<v Speaker 5>confirmation bias?

0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 4>Is that what it is?

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:53.119
<v Speaker 5>It's like, yeah, You're you're constantly being It's like the

0:25:53.119 --> 0:25:55.479
<v Speaker 5>world is like confirming that how you're looking at everything,

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 5>and I think.

0:25:56.200 --> 0:25:57.359
<v Speaker 4>It's an algorithm.

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, but you're like it's it just starts happening,

0:26:01.000 --> 0:26:05.360
<v Speaker 5>and so I find that it's only been I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know in like the last five ten years of my

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<v Speaker 5>life where I've had a real understanding of what knowing means,

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:14.919
<v Speaker 5>which I think you could substitute knowing for intuition. But

0:26:15.000 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 5>when you have a real knowing, you're right, it kind

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:22.000
<v Speaker 5>of is absent of fear or self doubt. You can

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:26.640
<v Speaker 5>quickly get up, you can grab it back, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Real quick programmed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But the hits are always going to be clear.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, right, yeah, I always.

0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 4>Get that, the clear hits, You get the wow that

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 4>does that happened for you?

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 7>Well, it's the same thing, like you know, once something's

0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:50.320
<v Speaker 7>in my mind, like it shows up everywhere constantly, to

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 7>the point where I'm like, okay, you can stop now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, like I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it happens all the time.

0:26:57.720 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 5>It's very easy to get distracted in the world that

0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:04.639
<v Speaker 5>we live in, right It's it's a very distracting world.

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 5>I mean there at any given time, you can truly

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 5>be in connection with so many different things, right like

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:14.960
<v Speaker 5>from we there used to be thinking time, and there's

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 5>less thinking time.

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:17.560
<v Speaker 4>We're just being time.

0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 5>And I think it's weird that I would say that.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it takes courage to just be because that

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<v Speaker 5>should be really uh intuitive, but it's not. And I

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:36.480
<v Speaker 5>think that you know, we all get we all get

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:38.720
<v Speaker 5>distracted by the drones.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that's why they've put it right. That's only

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 4>in Jersey Sted only. I want some orbs. I want

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 4>some orbs near near in Los Angeles?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 4>I know? I think that.

0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:55.639
<v Speaker 5>CaMLA would be the person outside like taking like thinking

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<v Speaker 5>she was taking some serious iPhone footage.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are you

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<v Speaker 1>a Charlotte. In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever

0:28:13.720 --> 0:28:16.160
<v Speaker 1>changed when I took on the role of Charlotte York

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<v Speaker 1>on a new HBO show called Sex and the City.

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<v Speaker 1>As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships

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<v Speaker 1>in New York City, the show helped push once unacceptable

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<v Speaker 1>conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative

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<v Speaker 1>around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them

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<v Speaker 1>as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I want to connect with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And share untold stories and all the behind the scenes

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 1>together with special guests.

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 3>What will begin with sex and the.

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<v Speaker 1>City will evolve into talks about themes that are still

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<v Speaker 1>so relevant today. Are You a Charlotte is a much

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<v Speaker 1>more than just rewatching our beloved show. It brings the

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<v Speaker 1>past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course some optimism. Listen to Are You a

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>get your podcasts.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 2>I want to know how you guys met and started

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 2>this whole podcast together.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I was.

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<v Speaker 7>In love with my brother's best friend when I was

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<v Speaker 7>thirteen years old and he's four years older, and he

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<v Speaker 7>was obsessed with this girl in the valley where we

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 7>grew up, and there was a yearbook picture of this face.

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<v Speaker 7>And I saw her at thirteen years old, and I

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:41.960
<v Speaker 7>was like, I fucking hate her. I was like, she's

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 7>the prettiest thing I've ever seen. This dude's in love

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 7>with her. I'm in love with him. She's a bitch,

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 7>Like that was my first impression. I'm like her face,

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 7>her eyes, I'm like, there's no way she's nice, like whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>That was the first time, like I ever saw her

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<v Speaker 7>at thirteen years old. But then we became friends in

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:00.960
<v Speaker 7>our high school year and then towards the end of

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 7>high school and then we were just off.

0:30:04.080 --> 0:30:04.959
<v Speaker 3>And popping after that.

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<v Speaker 7>And then I asked her to do a podcast with me,

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<v Speaker 7>because well, she just brings everything to the conversation and

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:14.080
<v Speaker 7>she's a lot smarter than I am.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like, what's so nice though, working with

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 2>someone that you've known a long time and when you

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:23.960
<v Speaker 2>have that friendship that you guys have, is there is

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 2>a shorthand that happens between the two of you, and

0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 2>that chemistry would be really hard to be to recreate

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:36.080
<v Speaker 2>with somebody else. Yes, it's just so unnatural, like and

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I have other friends. Jess and I've talked about this,

0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:39.200
<v Speaker 2>and I don't know if you guys feel this way.

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 2>I have other friends who I love and adore, but

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't do a podcast with I feel like there's

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 2>a specific back and forth to the conversation that just

0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 2>ends up working and doesn't feel like work. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Also, I think that it was like what you

0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:57.680
<v Speaker 6>were saying, we pick up where each other's.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the yn Yan thing for sure, Like yeah, yes

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 5>you complete me, Terry Maguire platonic completion exactly.

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 6>We offer different things and it was so funny. Earlier

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 6>this morning, we had a recording and we forgot that

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 6>we had already recorded. It was already like we were

0:31:14.440 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 6>in session, and we forgot and we had a full

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:21.560
<v Speaker 6>blown love session that was captured on camera, not remembering

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 6>that we had hit record. But there's just this amazing

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 6>when you work with someone that you love so much

0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:34.960
<v Speaker 6>and you feel it home with them. That is such

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:38.000
<v Speaker 6>a gift, And not only to work with that person,

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:40.360
<v Speaker 6>but just to have friends like that where you're like,

0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 6>I am my hundred percent self with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel you know, because it's like you try

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 4>you can go do that with other people and we

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 4>have like.

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 7>Turn on like a social button or like you have

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 7>to like you know what I mean, beyond in some way.

0:31:55.560 --> 0:31:57.239
<v Speaker 7>And it's really nice to not have to do that.

0:31:57.320 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 7>And we leave each other. She'll get her car and

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.320
<v Speaker 7>we're on the phone for her drive home. Yeah, yeah,

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 7>that happens to That's what I'm yeah right.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean yeah, But I think that that's the thing

0:32:09.400 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 5>that because I've already said, I've listened to your podcast,

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:16.680
<v Speaker 5>We've been on your podcast, we have shared friends. I

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 5>think it's the thing that I'm so hopeful about in

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 5>making podcasts is that you know, listen.

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 4>There's a ton of them.

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:29.720
<v Speaker 5>People who listen to podcasts have lots of choices, and

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 5>no one's making anyone listen to anything in that way, right,

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:38.000
<v Speaker 5>And I think it's the coolest thing that someone that

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 5>we don't know, right, that none of us know, might

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:46.280
<v Speaker 5>turn on one of our episodes and feel that connection

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:50.360
<v Speaker 5>and know that it's it's it's grounded. It's something very

0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:52.840
<v Speaker 5>real and like in the same room, but also very

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 5>real because it's extended through these airwaves and into their

0:32:56.760 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 5>car or into their air pod while they walk, and

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 5>you can actually be connected by this in this very

0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 5>invisible way.

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 4>And maybe your.

0:33:06.400 --> 0:33:08.480
<v Speaker 5>Connection is really just that someone else you know signs

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 5>up for listening. But I still think that that's real.

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 5>So I don't know, I think it's I think the

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<v Speaker 5>whole podcast I was I was a little hesitant. I

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 5>didn't I was like, one more thing to doe. All

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 5>the smart people in my life kept being like, can

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:24.920
<v Speaker 5>podcast this podcast? That it all seemed very intelligent and

0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 5>I don't know, academic, and I was like, I don't

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 5>got time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a real person. I got a real job.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. But the thing that I think podcasts are changing,

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 6>and especially when you see all these best friend podcasts,

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.640
<v Speaker 6>and a lot of people that listen to best friend

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 6>podcasts listen to multiples, like if if we're their favorite,

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 6>chances are you're their favorite. Like there's some sort of

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:50.480
<v Speaker 6>comfort that it gives them if they're on a walk

0:33:50.520 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 6>alone or if they're driving alone, it's like they have

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 6>that kind of community.

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 4>And I think.

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<v Speaker 6>Too, it's really great for people to be hearing and

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 6>also mirroring in their own life women not only helping

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<v Speaker 6>each other, but advocating for each other, cheering each other on,

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<v Speaker 6>like being happy for other people's successes, because I think

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<v Speaker 6>so long women were pitted against each other, and I

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<v Speaker 6>feel like in the podcast space it's actually one of

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<v Speaker 6>those that's changing rapidly fast where we're going, No, we're champing,

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<v Speaker 6>a champion, meeting other women to have voices and to succeed.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>The same thing came up on actually the last episode

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<v Speaker 5>we recorded with Kristin Chenam, because she was talking about

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<v Speaker 5>like the nascent period of developing Wicked and it was

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<v Speaker 5>her and Adina and it being a time where it

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<v Speaker 5>was even I think I heard her saying it was

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<v Speaker 5>far less expected now it's actually seen as something that's

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<v Speaker 5>part of your like tagline, or something that's absolutely expected.

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<v Speaker 5>Like if someone all of a sudden came out of

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<v Speaker 5>the woodwork and was like, no, I'm competitive, bitch, get

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<v Speaker 5>out of my way, you'd.

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<v Speaker 4>Be like, what they did not get the memo?

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<v Speaker 6>Right? Like?

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<v Speaker 4>That would be crazy. But but I think that you're right.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think that the more and more that you

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<v Speaker 5>see people doing that, the more and more I do

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<v Speaker 5>think if there's a contagious aspect to it. I think

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<v Speaker 5>it used to be aspirational like, oh, we should want that,

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<v Speaker 5>but we don't really want that. And now because we're

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<v Speaker 5>naming these different ways to look at the world and

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<v Speaker 5>and and saying like and I don't think it's a

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<v Speaker 5>positive when someone if someone says to you operate out

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<v Speaker 5>of scarcity, I don't think anyone would take that as positive.

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<v Speaker 6>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>You want to think that there's more than enough in

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<v Speaker 5>the world for everyone. There isn't usually like in a

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<v Speaker 5>literal world, right, Like in a literal like are people

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<v Speaker 5>getting what they want right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Not really right? But we can still hope and want

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<v Speaker 4>m h yeah ho ho ho ho ho.

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<v Speaker 7>Hope you guys, thank you so much for being on

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<v Speaker 7>the pod today.

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<v Speaker 2>We look up to you guys because you've been doing

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<v Speaker 2>it for so long and there is magic to it

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<v Speaker 2>and we are still fetus podcast over here.

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<v Speaker 4>Venus. I love it learning the ropes.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm very jealous of your morning early workout sessions,

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<v Speaker 5>and I wish that I I a.

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<v Speaker 3>Door jealous so five AM, Like.

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't be doing it without them. She put it

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<v Speaker 6>that accountability really makes.

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<v Speaker 4>Her show up. Yeah, for sure. And by the way

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 4>you make Christy show up. No, I get it. I

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<v Speaker 4>get it. Yet the five am is rough.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never been able to figure out how to sustain

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<v Speaker 5>a five AM. I remember like when I was doing

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what show. I might have even been

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<v Speaker 5>out of work, who knows, But Jennifer Garner was doing

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<v Speaker 5>Alias and she was so badass and she was so ripped,

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<v Speaker 5>and we had a couple of mutual friends and they

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<v Speaker 5>kept just being like, she's such a hard worker, and

0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:48.480
<v Speaker 5>I was like, I know, she's such a hard worker,

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<v Speaker 5>Like she looks so great on the show and she

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 5>works hard, like no, no, no, She wakes up at five

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<v Speaker 5>am every single day and works out for two hours

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<v Speaker 5>before she even starts work, and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember, like, I can do that, what I can do that?

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<v Speaker 4>So then I started.

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<v Speaker 5>I signed up Liker's boot camp at five am. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>Nory is like an actual week.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know that I made it to the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the week.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's myself like running like her or Tom Cruise

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<v Speaker 5>on the treadmill.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>And then she goes to the gym at five and

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<v Speaker 7>then she'll meet me at pilates at nine.

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<v Speaker 5>What Olivia might want to come back on and talk

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<v Speaker 5>about what drives that?

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<v Speaker 4>What drives that, Olivia is that it's called or it's

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<v Speaker 4>my medicine. That's great. Really, you found your prescription exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, thank you both for thank you the time

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<v Speaker 4>so much. Thank you. I'm a little jealous that you

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<v Speaker 4>were wearing the same outfit.

0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:43.880
<v Speaker 3>I know we need to get that.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys need matching, matching.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, please, of.

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<v Speaker 4>Course that was so lovely. They're so so they made

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<v Speaker 4>the matching for a long.

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<v Speaker 3>Time, I know. And you know what I love about

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 3>their story.

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<v Speaker 4>She didn't like her to do. Yeah, they didn't like

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<v Speaker 4>each other. How all all great friendships should be born.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that's the secret sauce and the secret magic.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, let's call it thank you for being with us,

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<v Speaker 5>and a very happy holidays during the time is let's

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<v Speaker 5>call it the end of the episode.