1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington, 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Well, Hello, hello, Hello, hello everyone, and welcome to another 4 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 2: episode of Call It What It Is? Or should I 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: have said, ho ho ho hoozy. 6 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 3: It is cheesy, but it's right. This week is the 7 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 3: week to go ho ho ho. 8 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 4: It feels right, it feels right. 9 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: I gotta tell you, I got like the Christmas sweat today. 10 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: I was doing that thing. 11 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: Where I was like, I've made a list for hate, 12 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: and I've made a list for Lucas and I counted, 13 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: and there's a discrepancy. Oh oh, the dreaded discrepancy. 14 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 3: There is one kid that has would currently have more 15 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: under the tree. 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: And so I rushed to target teeth, not brushed, rushed 17 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 2: in there looking so little, and was literally just launching 18 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: shit into the basket. 19 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 4: I don't even know what I got. 20 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 3: I'm like that that's pink with a thing, go, yeah, 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 3: a little bit of glitter. 22 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 4: Fine. Yeah. 23 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 5: I did a similar thing when I launched myself into 24 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 5: my car. I had brushed my teeth, but you know 25 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 5: it's winter here in New York, so I had like 26 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 5: the hat pulled almost. 27 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 4: Over the eyebrows like that, can your eyeballs just poke 28 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 4: the eyeball, put eye. 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 5: Holes in the so I can see through that. 30 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 4: That's how I got it. 31 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 5: And I almost launched my car into a couple other 32 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 5: cars just trying to park before I actually launched myself 33 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 5: or launched things into a cart of any kind. 34 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 4: And you know what, I felt like a low hum. 35 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 5: I was gonna say this word, and then I thought 36 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 5: that's too much capshaw, and then I went, no, it's right. 37 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 4: I felt a low key rage, like the Christmas rage, 38 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 4: like a little bit of like the opposite of Christmas chair. 39 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 2: You know, I think that it comes with more than 40 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 2: a sprinkle every year of some Christmas rage. I think 41 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 2: that is true. The traffic in LA right now is painous. Yeah, 42 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 2: it took me so long to even get there, and 43 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 2: by the time you're walking in, it's just and the 44 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: shelves have been cleared out already. Yeah, you know, it's 45 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: like an apocalypse has happened. 46 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: But for Christmas. Yep, No, I get it. 47 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 2: I get the sweat, I get the I get the. 48 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: The rage, the parking, the whole thing. 49 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I sat, I you know, this person had 50 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 5: the they tapped on their brake lights, so that usually 51 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 5: indicates they're going to leave. So I pull over, you know, 52 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 5: like a frogger, like it's just for my life. Yeah, 53 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 5: I leap into that spot so that I could take 54 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 5: her spot. And then you know, I waited because it 55 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 5: was fine. I was chilling, and then it was like 56 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 5: more than enough time for her to have tacked out 57 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 5: by now, and I didn't see the white lights that 58 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 5: you know, meant she was gonna reverse. 59 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 4: So then I was like, do I get out of 60 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 4: the car and say like, I'm so sorry, but are 61 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 4: you leaving? I know? Do I not? Could she be 62 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 4: filled with the Christmas rage? And maybe it wasn't so 63 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 4: low key? 64 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: And then I don't know. It's a risky move. It's 65 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: a risky a risky get out and tap the window and. 66 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 4: Off just talking about it. Yeah are you leaving sign? 67 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: Because you can get you can get a oh yeah 68 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 2: yeah I'm leaving my now, or. 69 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 3: You can get a like a goot fuck your song 70 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: with rage. 71 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 2: I love the spot, right, And then they're taking out 72 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,119 Speaker 2: the laptop. They're doing meetings in that spot, but they're 73 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: not going to turn the lights off. They'll keep the 74 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: reverse lights on. And then you're and then it's then 75 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: then the rage is raging. 76 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 4: And you don't know which one it's gonna be. 77 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 3: You don't know what you do? Did you get out 78 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: of the sleep of faith? Did you? 79 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 6: You know? 80 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 5: If I waited a little bit less time, I think 81 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 5: I would have just kept going, but I'd actually invested 82 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: a little more than I want you to have. 83 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, And so I had to just check. 84 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 5: So I get out and I sort of go hi, like, 85 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 5: didn't want to scare her. Yeah, And she gave me 86 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 5: the no, I'm setting up shop in this parking. 87 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 2: Spots, and I was like, okay. 88 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 3: That's so annoying. 89 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 90 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: And also, what I don't like about the no I'm 91 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: staying is it's okay to be like, hey, no, I'm staying. 92 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: You know that some people really feel like insulted by 93 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 2: the question. 94 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 5: What about me in my car with my break lights on? 95 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 5: Makes you think I'm going to leave this spot? 96 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 97 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: Like you're acting entitled because you've read the lights in 98 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: the back. I just like, I just like, I just 99 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 2: use those to light the work inside that I'm about 100 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: to do it. 101 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 102 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 5: Well, by the way, Karva was on my side because 103 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 5: as I full of shame, went back to my car. 104 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 5: That one car over actually did have people in it, 105 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 5: so I did the same thing, like, Hi, excuse me, 106 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 5: are you leaving? 107 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 4: And she said yes, And. 108 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,559 Speaker 5: Then by the grace of the Santa Spirit, the person 109 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 5: behind me allowed me to back up a little bit 110 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 5: more so I could take that spot. 111 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 3: That's good. 112 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 4: I mean, you know what I like. 113 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: I like it when I am am doing the same 114 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 2: thing that you're doing. I'm like, I've decided to stalk this, 115 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: you know, the stalk or whatever. 116 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 4: I don't, I say, stalk the. 117 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 3: Spot right and the and the car puts on the. 118 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: Lights, and then you're waiting and waiting and waiting, and 119 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: there's a part of me it's like I'm not going 120 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 2: to get out, but I will stay here. And the 121 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 2: longer it takes, as long as I can make that 122 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: eye contact when they pull out of like it's been 123 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: too goddamn long, you right, Like when they pull out, Like, 124 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 2: as long as I have that moment where they can 125 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 2: see in my eyes it's fifteen minutes, Yeah, then I'm okay, 126 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 2: I'll do what Really, it's not going to do anything. 127 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: It's gonna make my day a little bit brighter. 128 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: But like I just there's a point where it's like, 129 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: I waited, but I'm not going to risk getting out 130 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 2: the car. 131 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 3: But I'm there for that. The eyeballs are like. 132 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 4: For the Yeah, I've been here all day. 133 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and what have you been doing? 134 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 135 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 6: What have you? 136 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: I can see you in the car. 137 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what are you doing? 138 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 3: Okay, So we're in the Christmas spirit here, guys. 139 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's gonna you know, I think that I 140 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 5: as a parent, I feel like it's all just we're 141 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 5: in a state of military grade. 142 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: Like I am an operative. 143 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: And I have I have three twenty four hour shifts 144 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 5: ahead of me until school gets out. 145 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 4: You're not. It's a volunteer position, and it's a volunteer that. 146 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 2: You didn't have, but nobody told you that it was 147 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 2: gonna be twenty four hours. 148 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 4: I'm getting paid in love. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So 149 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 4: they better throw it at me when school gets out 150 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 4: on Thursday. We get out on Thursday. Oh thank you 151 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 4: so much? 152 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 2: School. 153 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, they're like, hey, do you need the Friday? 154 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 5: No, no, yeah, no, definitely let them out before the 155 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 5: week's over. 156 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 3: Well, by the time this airs, though, they'll be out. 157 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 5: It's true, it's true, But I'm just saying of my 158 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 5: mindset is twenty. 159 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 4: Four hour three twenty four hour shifts. 160 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 3: Never say die, goodise, never say die. 161 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 4: Get to the finish line and then you know what. 162 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 5: Then at that point, if things haven't been done well, 163 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 5: then they're not gonna They're not gonna get done. 164 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 2: Can I tell you the biggest mistake that gets made 165 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: on Christmas Day in our family? And honestly it sends 166 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 2: me off the It's like, you know, it could be 167 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 2: the final straw. We talked about final straws. 168 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 3: Recently. 169 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 2: We have had seasons and I now I know better, 170 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: and I knew better at Target today where you get 171 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: all the toys and they're like batteries not included and 172 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: it's not like an AA right, it's like one of 173 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: those circles, like a double circle with a little you know, 174 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: and it's. 175 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: Got to be pinkoing. It's a battery you've never heard of. 176 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 5: Uh huh. 177 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to fly. 178 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: You need a scare driver to take the off to 179 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 4: insert the battery. 180 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 2: Yes, and the screwdriver will have always been in one 181 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: spot until Christmas Day. 182 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I had to move. It was like the Elf, 183 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 4: the Elf ticket. 184 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the batteries are gone to Spot and so 185 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 2: I know better. Though this year I bought one of 186 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: those battery things that has the whole all of them, 187 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: all of them, every single one. 188 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 4: That's what you got a Target today. It's one of them. 189 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 3: I didn't get it at Target today. 190 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 2: I looked for regular batteries a Target, but Costco had 191 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,119 Speaker 2: the the suitcase. 192 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 3: You've seen the case? 193 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, for sure. Anyway, I never thought that would 194 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 4: be my life. 195 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 5: Just so we're saying, like when I was prancing around 196 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 5: in my twenties just being cute. Yeah, yeah, I really 197 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 5: battery like thinking ahead to battery. 198 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, would benefit me. 199 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's a situation that day when you open 200 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 2: that present and you can't it, it's not going to work. 201 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 202 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 5: No, okay, So wait, I know a little bit more 203 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 5: about who we have on today than you do. 204 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 3: I have met her one time, but I want to 205 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 3: talk about it with her how I met her. But 206 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 3: you why don't you tell on. 207 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 4: Half the crew? 208 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 209 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 4: Have the pair. We have the lovely Rachel Bilson and 210 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 4: Olivia Allen on the show today. So excited. 211 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 5: They were maybe one of the first podcasts that I 212 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 5: went on after knowing that we were about to start 213 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 5: our own, so I was looking at it in a 214 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 5: very different way, and they were lovely, very very lovely. 215 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: So you calling me after and telling me you're like, 216 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: this is you know, this is like the vibe and 217 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: they're two best friends, and it was like, you know, 218 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: they've got a similar situation going on, yet similar and. 219 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 5: Different, Which is why I always say there's space for everyone. 220 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 5: I'm not a I'm not a I don't operate from scarcity. 221 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 5: I operate from abundance. While they are two best friends 222 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 5: and we had many our conversations when I was on, 223 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 5: there absolutely would be ones that you and I would have. 224 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 5: There's a there's a different there's a there is a 225 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 5: difference in the vibe. Yeah, there's different energy. Yeah, they're 226 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 5: both so cool and really really really interesting. And I 227 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 5: also enjoyed being able to have them now as guests 228 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 5: because I got to like the I find that the 229 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 5: research part of it's so cool, Like you think you 230 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 5: know people, but then when you're about to have them, 231 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 5: obviously as a host, do you want to be prepared 232 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 5: and so learning about. 233 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 2: Them is pretty cool. 234 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 235 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 3: I'd never I want to ask Olivia, because I'd never 236 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 3: heard of a spiritual psychologist before I know, no, I 237 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: had no, So I want to know all the things. 238 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 4: Yep, well, obviously we're gonna get to know all the things. 239 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 4: Are you guys matching? 240 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 3: We did not plan it the whole suit. 241 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 4: We're both well they are slightly different, but like not much. 242 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 3: That's a whole thing. 243 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 5: So these two beautiful faces just popped up in the 244 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 5: almost exact same color, beautiful Bordeaux, deep cherry, nearly christmasy color. 245 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 5: And then they said we didn't plan it, as they 246 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 5: swung their mics in front of their faces at the 247 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 5: exact same time and the exact same. 248 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 3: Position, and they're like, yes and not go together. 249 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 4: I'm so excited. 250 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 5: We were just we were chatting before you all came in, 251 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 5: and I said that doing your podcast, I loved doing 252 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 5: your podcast. 253 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 4: I loved I love your energy, I love your questions, 254 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 4: I love your perspective. I loved hearing them all. 255 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 5: And it was the first podcast that I had ever 256 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 5: done as a guest, knowing that we were about to 257 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 5: go on this ride. 258 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I didn't know that. Wow, yeah, yes, 259 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 4: billed it. Oh please please? 260 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 5: So I went to I heard stingle Ball in Los Angeles, 261 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 5: and then I went to the New York one and 262 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 5: it was it's not over to like eleven thirty, which 263 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 5: I don't know about, you guys, way past my bedtime. 264 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 5: So I'm like standing there and were at Penn station 265 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 5: and like the chances of a of an uber actually 266 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 5: making it to the door, like so slim and it's 267 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 5: so cold, and I'm with two teenage girls that of 268 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 5: course definitely did not need to wear jackets, and so 269 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 5: we're like, cool, can we maybe maybe see if the 270 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 5: car pulls up? So we're just waiting there, waiting there, 271 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 5: waiting there, and someone that was with us will know 272 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 5: what her name was, and if you had been with 273 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 5: me Camilla, you would know who she was. But she 274 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 5: was a desperate housewife and she was on the maybe 275 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 5: Jersey version and across this very small room you hear 276 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 5: her scream whispering. 277 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 4: Can you please introduce me to Kate Gapshaw? 278 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 3: She's over there? But who was it? I heard? 279 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 4: You? 280 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 2: Do you guys watch the Housewives? Do you watch guys? 281 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 7: I know I've never seen. It's crazy that I haven't 282 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 7: because I love reality TV. 283 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 4: I've never seen an episode. Oh you're messing out? 284 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: Do you watch Band of Pump rolls. 285 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 4: I've never seen an episode of the House. 286 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 6: I watched one half season when I was like sick 287 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 6: in bed. 288 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 7: I love that shit, though, Like I love reality television. 289 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: What's the reality tale of television that you watched? You 290 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: watched Love Island? I love Love is. 291 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 3: Blind is like my favorite. 292 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 7: Oh, but I was like, I got into the Bachelor 293 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 7: World forever and I was so committed and I haven't 294 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 7: in like years now. 295 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 3: I just I don't know. 296 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 4: I like those ones, like the dating ones are fun 297 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 4: for me. 298 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 5: Well, speaking of crazy things that I haven't heard yet, 299 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm taking a hard right turn. 300 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 2: But it's just like you're going to ask because we 301 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: just talked about this, well because because I, you. 302 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 5: Know, we're a little yin and yang, she and I, 303 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 5: and so she knows about stuff that I don't know 304 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 5: about Nino, so we bring it all together. 305 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 4: Right, Have you heard about the drones in New Jersey? 306 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 7: Of course She's just brought this up to me yesterday. 307 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 7: So I'm Rachel in her yang Yeah, LOI yeah, I'm Rachel. 308 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: Yes, you know about the drones? 309 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 4: Thank god. 310 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 2: Of course I had to because here's the thing. When 311 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 2: you guys were coming on, they're coming on. I was like, well, 312 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: they talk, you know what, they open and talking about stuff, 313 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 2: and I heart like they're open and I said, what 314 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,839 Speaker 2: about aliens literally and they were like, yeah, they'll talk 315 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 2: about aliens. And it felt right because this drone situation 316 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 2: is real. 317 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 4: I'm hoping it's aliens. I mean, yeah, I do. 318 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 2: Of course, it's going to be disappointing if it's some 319 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: sort of like just regular but no, it's it's so 320 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 2: it's all over the world right now. 321 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 4: Can you too tell me why you think it's aliens 322 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,359 Speaker 4: or what is there any evidence to support alienness. 323 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 6: The weird part is it's kind of like that movie 324 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 6: Don't Look Up. Did you guys see that? Yeah, it's 325 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 6: like World the World Don't Look Up was amazing movie 326 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 6: about an asteroid coming. 327 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 4: Oh no, I did see that. I did see that. 328 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, And they're basically like, carry on, don't look up, 329 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 6: keep going. And that's what's happening with the drones is 330 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 6: we're not getting any answers. Nobody's saying what they are. 331 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 6: They're literally coming out going we don't know what they are. 332 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 6: Get back to you. More will be revealed, and nobody 333 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 6: has an answer of what these lights in the sky 334 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 6: the drones. 335 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 4: Have you seen the bulbs of light the orbs? 336 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I've seen them. They look kind of holographic. Yes, 337 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 3: So there's a millet. 338 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 4: Jessica's laughing. 339 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 3: I'm say, Jessica, you're not gonna be laughing when you 340 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 3: end up. 341 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 4: With a spaceship in the backyard. Okay. 342 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: So there's a guy on TikTok right now, and his 343 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 3: theory is is that he has worked in the military, 344 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 3: and he said, those drones that we're seeing, they're lying 345 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 3: to us. They are US drones. Those are in the air. 346 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: And he talks about how the lights on them, and 347 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 2: he shows pictures and how he's seen drones like that, 348 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 2: and the US military is lying to us about the 349 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 2: US government is lying to us about that, right are 350 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: those are our drones. But the reason that they're in 351 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: the air is because of the orbs. The orbs they 352 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: don't know what they are, and the orbs feel like UFOs, 353 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 2: and so the orbs are flooding the airspace, and so 354 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 2: the drones are up there to try and take a 355 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 2: look because basically they're saying, listen, if it was like 356 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: some if it was a different country and adversary that 357 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 2: was up there, we'd be shooting them down, like we 358 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 2: wouldn't let it go on this long with this. 359 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 4: But they're only interested in Jersey. No, they're all over. 360 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 3: It's wrong with Jersey, Justine. 361 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 5: No, I'm just saying that there's a collective of them 362 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 5: in New Jersey, correct that they're starting to theirs. I 363 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 5: was just saying, if they're orbs that are alien, don't 364 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 5: you think that they would like maybe move with it there? 365 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 4: Because I heard a theory that was more like they are. 366 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 5: Looking for something, because evidently they only come out at night, right, 367 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 5: no one's seen them in the daytime. 368 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 6: Well, they were also over a military base, and so 369 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 6: they were over different parts that could be considered sensitive 370 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 6: to our safety. 371 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, see, I was talking to someone. That's what I 372 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 5: was saying earlier was that their theory was far more like. 373 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 4: Dark. 374 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know. 375 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 5: That it was like just more like more Jason Bourney, 376 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 5: more like like mission impossible, more like like someone searching 377 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 5: for something and then and that in that way as 378 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 5: opposed to just like aliens coming down and being like 379 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 5: what's up. 380 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 6: There's another theory that it's all just a distraction from 381 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 6: something in life. On a good show, Like this girl 382 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 6: was telling me yesterday that she's like, it's just a distraction. 383 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 6: The US government comes up with ideas of way to 384 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 6: distract us and polarized attension while they do something behind 385 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 6: our backs. 386 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 4: So everybody on TikTok. 387 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 6: And all this that, everybody's trying to dissect what it is, 388 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 6: and all I want is for it to be aliens. 389 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, well maybe that's what Santa's going to bring this year, 390 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 4: some alien. 391 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 5: What would you do? I would be so, I'd be 392 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 5: so curious. I don't feel afraid of aliens. 393 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 6: Me neither. 394 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 3: I just you don't believe aliens. 395 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 4: I believe in everything. 396 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I feel like we've only been presented with 397 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 7: what aliens are or could. 398 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:15,400 Speaker 4: Be through movies. 399 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, And so in my mind, I'm like, is it 400 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,959 Speaker 7: going to be like The Predator or is it going 401 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 7: to be like. 402 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 3: With the Predator was an alien? 403 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 6: Right? 404 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 3: Yeah? He is an alien Astralien. Yeah, he's an alien. 405 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: But like, are they super scary looking or what if 406 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 3: they're like cool? 407 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm that's the alien I'm hoping for. That's the 408 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 4: one I'm curious about. I'm not curious about Predator. 409 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 3: No, definitely not. 410 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 6: There's a theory that people with RH negative blood or 411 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 6: alien and I have RH negative blood. 412 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 4: If you heard this theory, I don't even know what 413 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 4: that is. 414 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 5: That sounds hardware one boot a discount, You get a 415 00:18:59,119 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 5: discount there? 416 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: What's happening? 417 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 3: Okay? Tell me because I love a theory. 418 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 4: Ourh negative blood is. 419 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 6: If you heard of people that have negative blood where 420 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 6: they have to get the shot to have a baby 421 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 6: and everything. No, okay, so I had to get a 422 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 6: shot so that my body. 423 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 4: Doesn't hurt my own baby. I've heard of that. 424 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, wow, it's yeah, it's a thing. And they can't 425 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 6: trace where the blood originated. Like all other forms of blood, 426 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 6: there's lineages of it and it all maps out, makes sense. 427 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 6: This our h factor was like brought onto the scene 428 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 6: and they're going, this doesn't belong to anything on Earth. 429 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 4: So the theory is that RH. 430 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 6: Negative blood comes from aliens alien and when I heard that, 431 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 6: I went that because you're part. 432 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 4: AliOS, right, she has alien eyes. I think I might 433 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 4: be a little part alien maybe a little bit. 434 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 3: That's wild. 435 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 4: Well, this would just contribute to me being curious about aliens. 436 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 4: You're welcome here on Earth, Olivia, Thank. 437 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 2: You, I asked you a question too, Olivia, because okay, 438 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 2: so before we came on the pod, I said to 439 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: Jessica that I had never heard of a spiritual psychologist before. 440 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 3: I and you said you had an either dress no, 441 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 3: but I want to know more. So we wanted to 442 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 3: know more about what that is because maybe I need it. 443 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 6: So basically I did a master's program in spiritual psychology 444 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 6: where you learn all the different modalities of psychology, but 445 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 6: then they bring the spirit into it in the sense 446 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 6: of what is your soul's perspective, like bringing in meditation, 447 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 6: bringing in consciousness, what are you here for that's bigger 448 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 6: purpose outside of just your mind. So most psychology deals 449 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 6: with the mind, and so basically a spiritual psychologist takes 450 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 6: it to a higher elevation of bringing consciousness into it 451 00:20:55,359 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 6: and really kind of including your soul in You're healing 452 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 6: in order to get past any blocks you have. So 453 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 6: I did like two years of studying that in a program. 454 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: And then do you guys have your own spiritual psychologists. 455 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 6: I saw a coach for a long time, and my 456 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 6: therapist is very spiritual, so she brings in that stuff 457 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 6: like we won't just be like, oh this happened when 458 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 6: you're a kid or whatever. She will take me to 459 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 6: kind of different places as far as like say something 460 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 6: was going on in your life and you were like, 461 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 6: I can't decide between this and this, and these are 462 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 6: both kind of painful choices, then we would say, Okay, 463 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 6: So if you were to rise above that and look 464 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 6: at the situation, what is it that your soul is 465 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 6: seeking to learn through this experience and what do you 466 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 6: think would be most in alignment with your authentic self 467 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 6: and your soul's journey. I know it's a little out there. 468 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 3: But no, no, no, it's not at all. An actually 469 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 3: makes perfect sense to I mean, I'm very spiritual to 470 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 3: a justice too. 471 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 2: It actually suddenly feels weird to me that we don't 472 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 2: include that in therapy, right, Like that should just be 473 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 2: a part of it. 474 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, agree, agree, I'm I'm in the part. 475 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 5: I'm like when I'm sitting in the patient chair, I'm like, 476 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 5: this is my work, guys, this is when I'm like, 477 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 5: how do I reach my authentic self to ask that 478 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 5: question again? 479 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 4: Where what's my soul's phone number? Yeah? 480 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 5: Way, is there like a quantifiable way that I can 481 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 5: understand that this is really being It's that it's that piece. 482 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 4: There's always been like a speed bump for me. 483 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 6: It's not just the mental exactly right, And so you 484 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 6: would have to get out of the mental and into 485 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:55,959 Speaker 6: the physical. Yeah, because like your intuition is your authentic self, 486 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 6: and your intuition's never going to speak through fear's voice. 487 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 6: So the minute you're thinking from fear, you're in your 488 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 6: mind and that's how you know. 489 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 4: So it's like, how do you get there? 490 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 6: You get into your body and you can feel if 491 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 6: your intuition is clear and calm and gets a hit, 492 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 6: it's never going to be attached to fear. That's only 493 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 6: the analytical mind and ego. That's your instincts, right. 494 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 3: I love that it stopped. 495 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 4: Me at any moment. I mean no, no, no, no, no, no. 496 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, Rachel, does she like this? 497 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 2: Is so? I yeah, yeah, sorry, no, I'm so sucked in. 498 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 5: Well, the the you know, the premise of this show 499 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 5: is I mean, obviously that's it was born of our friendship. 500 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 5: It was born of a lot of things. But one 501 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 5: of the things that we are lucky enough to have 502 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 5: is a group of people that trust calling in, writing 503 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 5: in with things that are on their mind. And so 504 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 5: we get a huge spectrum of concerns and worries and 505 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 5: or stories to tell or you know, some kind of 506 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 5: like piece of belonging to like reach for in all 507 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 5: of this, right, what we hear a lot in different 508 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 5: forms is self doubt, like how do I know I'm 509 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 5: doing the right thing? 510 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 4: And I. 511 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 5: Joke, but I don't joke, Like I do find that 512 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 5: to be the hardest thing to gain access to because 513 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 5: I'm a thinker. But that was part of my survival, right, 514 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 5: Like that's like, well, I'm just gonna I mean, like 515 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 5: if I'm just thinking and I'm staying ahead of it, 516 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 5: and my ten steps ahead of it's even better than 517 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:38,919 Speaker 5: you know, five, So let's go. 518 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 4: Can you do twenty? 519 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 3: Right? 520 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 4: Like I have twenty steps ahead? 521 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 5: And then and then I'm no longer in my life, 522 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 5: which was an unlearning and a trust in it all 523 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 5: being okay, which I preach all the time, right, because 524 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 5: I do believe that everything will be okay in the end, 525 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 5: and if it's not okay, it's not the end. 526 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 4: At least I had a good time in the meantime, yeah, exactly, And. 527 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 5: In the and in the meantime, what am I holding 528 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 5: on to? Like, what's what's my what's my life raft 529 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 5: and and and what am I going to grab onto? 530 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 5: And not like negotiate about how I'm being saved, but 531 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 5: just allow myself to be saved, not by a person 532 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 5: necessarily or even an idea, but how am I going 533 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 5: to trust? And there's definitely been a lot of unlearning 534 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 5: of exactly what you said right the mental and leaning 535 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 5: into a knowing. But it's funny how once you have that, 536 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,119 Speaker 5: you have that thing in your head that it's like 537 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 5: when you start looking for a car, You're like, oh, 538 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 5: I really think that I'm I really want to get 539 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 5: the the I'm interested in the Volvo blah blah blah. 540 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 5: All of a sudden, it's fucking everywhere. It's like everywhere 541 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 5: you see that Volvo everywhere everywhere. And the minute you start, 542 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 5: you know, thinking about an idea, it's like, isn't that 543 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 5: confirmation bias? 544 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 4: Is that what it is? 545 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, You're you're constantly being It's like the 546 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,479 Speaker 5: world is like confirming that how you're looking at everything, 547 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 5: and I think. 548 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 4: It's an algorithm. 549 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but you're like it's it just starts happening, 550 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 5: and so I find that it's only been I don't 551 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 5: know in like the last five ten years of my 552 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 5: life where I've had a real understanding of what knowing means, 553 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,919 Speaker 5: which I think you could substitute knowing for intuition. But 554 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 5: when you have a real knowing, you're right, it kind 555 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 5: of is absent of fear or self doubt. You can 556 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 5: quickly get up, you can grab it back, yeah, yeah. 557 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 4: Real quick programmed. 558 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 559 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 4: But the hits are always going to be clear. 560 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, right, yeah, I always. 561 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 4: Get that, the clear hits, You get the wow that 562 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 4: does that happened for you? 563 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 7: Well, it's the same thing, like you know, once something's 564 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 7: in my mind, like it shows up everywhere constantly, to 565 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 7: the point where I'm like, okay, you can stop now. 566 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like I get it. 567 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it happens all the time. 568 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 5: It's very easy to get distracted in the world that 569 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 5: we live in, right It's it's a very distracting world. 570 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 5: I mean there at any given time, you can truly 571 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 5: be in connection with so many different things, right like 572 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 5: from we there used to be thinking time, and there's 573 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 5: less thinking time. 574 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 4: We're just being time. 575 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 5: And I think it's weird that I would say that. 576 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 5: I think it takes courage to just be because that 577 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:34,679 Speaker 5: should be really uh intuitive, but it's not. And I 578 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 5: think that you know, we all get we all get 579 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 5: distracted by the drones. 580 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's why they've put it right. That's only 581 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 4: in Jersey Sted only. I want some orbs. I want 582 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,680 Speaker 4: some orbs near near in Los Angeles? 583 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 3: I can't wait? 584 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 2: Are you kidding? 585 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 4: I know? I think that. 586 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 5: CaMLA would be the person outside like taking like thinking 587 00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 5: she was taking some serious iPhone footage. 588 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 2: Hi. 589 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are you 590 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: a Charlotte. In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever 591 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 1: changed when I took on the role of Charlotte York 592 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: on a new HBO show called Sex and the City. 593 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships 594 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 1: in New York City, the show helped push once unacceptable 595 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative 596 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them 597 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships. 598 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 4: Now I want to connect with you. 599 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: And share untold stories and all the behind the scenes 600 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: together with special guests. 601 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 3: What will begin with sex and the. 602 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: City will evolve into talks about themes that are still 603 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 1: so relevant today. Are You a Charlotte is a much 604 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: more than just rewatching our beloved show. It brings the 605 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor, 606 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: and of course some optimism. Listen to Are You a 607 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 1: Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you 608 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: get your podcasts. 609 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 2: I want to know how you guys met and started 610 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: this whole podcast together. 611 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 4: Well, I was. 612 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 7: In love with my brother's best friend when I was 613 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 7: thirteen years old and he's four years older, and he 614 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 7: was obsessed with this girl in the valley where we 615 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 7: grew up, and there was a yearbook picture of this face. 616 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 7: And I saw her at thirteen years old, and I 617 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 7: was like, I fucking hate her. I was like, she's 618 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 7: the prettiest thing I've ever seen. This dude's in love 619 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 7: with her. I'm in love with him. She's a bitch, 620 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 7: Like that was my first impression. I'm like her face, 621 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 7: her eyes, I'm like, there's no way she's nice, like whatever. 622 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 7: That was the first time, like I ever saw her 623 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 7: at thirteen years old. But then we became friends in 624 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 7: our high school year and then towards the end of 625 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 7: high school and then we were just off. 626 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:04,959 Speaker 3: And popping after that. 627 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 7: And then I asked her to do a podcast with me, 628 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 7: because well, she just brings everything to the conversation and 629 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 7: she's a lot smarter than I am. 630 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 2: So I feel like, what's so nice though, working with 631 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 2: someone that you've known a long time and when you 632 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: have that friendship that you guys have, is there is 633 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: a shorthand that happens between the two of you, and 634 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 2: that chemistry would be really hard to be to recreate 635 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 2: with somebody else. Yes, it's just so unnatural, like and 636 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 2: I have other friends. Jess and I've talked about this, 637 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 2: and I don't know if you guys feel this way. 638 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 2: I have other friends who I love and adore, but 639 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: I couldn't do a podcast with I feel like there's 640 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 2: a specific back and forth to the conversation that just 641 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 2: ends up working and doesn't feel like work. Yeah. 642 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, Also, I think that it was like what you 643 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 6: were saying, we pick up where each other's. 644 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, the yn Yan thing for sure, Like yeah, yes 645 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 5: you complete me, Terry Maguire platonic completion exactly. 646 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 6: We offer different things and it was so funny. Earlier 647 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 6: this morning, we had a recording and we forgot that 648 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 6: we had already recorded. It was already like we were 649 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 6: in session, and we forgot and we had a full 650 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 6: blown love session that was captured on camera, not remembering 651 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 6: that we had hit record. But there's just this amazing 652 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 6: when you work with someone that you love so much 653 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 6: and you feel it home with them. That is such 654 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 6: a gift, And not only to work with that person, 655 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 6: but just to have friends like that where you're like, 656 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 6: I am my hundred percent self with you. 657 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel you know, because it's like you try 658 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 4: you can go do that with other people and we 659 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 4: have like. 660 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 7: Turn on like a social button or like you have 661 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 7: to like you know what I mean, beyond in some way. 662 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,239 Speaker 7: And it's really nice to not have to do that. 663 00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 7: And we leave each other. She'll get her car and 664 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 7: we're on the phone for her drive home. Yeah, yeah, 665 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 7: that happens to That's what I'm yeah right. 666 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 5: I mean yeah, But I think that that's the thing 667 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 5: that because I've already said, I've listened to your podcast, 668 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 5: We've been on your podcast, we have shared friends. I 669 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 5: think it's the thing that I'm so hopeful about in 670 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 5: making podcasts is that you know, listen. 671 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 4: There's a ton of them. 672 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 5: People who listen to podcasts have lots of choices, and 673 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 5: no one's making anyone listen to anything in that way, right, 674 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 5: And I think it's the coolest thing that someone that 675 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 5: we don't know, right, that none of us know, might 676 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 5: turn on one of our episodes and feel that connection 677 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 5: and know that it's it's it's grounded. It's something very 678 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 5: real and like in the same room, but also very 679 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 5: real because it's extended through these airwaves and into their 680 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 5: car or into their air pod while they walk, and 681 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 5: you can actually be connected by this in this very 682 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 5: invisible way. 683 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 4: And maybe your. 684 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 5: Connection is really just that someone else you know signs 685 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 5: up for listening. But I still think that that's real. 686 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 5: So I don't know, I think it's I think the 687 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 5: whole podcast I was I was a little hesitant. I 688 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 5: didn't I was like, one more thing to doe. All 689 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 5: the smart people in my life kept being like, can 690 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 5: podcast this podcast? That it all seemed very intelligent and 691 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 5: I don't know, academic, and I was like, I don't 692 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 5: got time. 693 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 4: I'm a real person. I got a real job. 694 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. But the thing that I think podcasts are changing, 695 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 6: and especially when you see all these best friend podcasts, 696 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 6: and a lot of people that listen to best friend 697 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 6: podcasts listen to multiples, like if if we're their favorite, 698 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 6: chances are you're their favorite. Like there's some sort of 699 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 6: comfort that it gives them if they're on a walk 700 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 6: alone or if they're driving alone, it's like they have 701 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 6: that kind of community. 702 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 4: And I think. 703 00:33:56,040 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 6: Too, it's really great for people to be hearing and 704 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 6: also mirroring in their own life women not only helping 705 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 6: each other, but advocating for each other, cheering each other on, 706 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 6: like being happy for other people's successes, because I think 707 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 6: so long women were pitted against each other, and I 708 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 6: feel like in the podcast space it's actually one of 709 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 6: those that's changing rapidly fast where we're going, No, we're champing, 710 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 6: a champion, meeting other women to have voices and to succeed. 711 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 6: You know. 712 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,760 Speaker 5: The same thing came up on actually the last episode 713 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 5: we recorded with Kristin Chenam, because she was talking about 714 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 5: like the nascent period of developing Wicked and it was 715 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 5: her and Adina and it being a time where it 716 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 5: was even I think I heard her saying it was 717 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 5: far less expected now it's actually seen as something that's 718 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 5: part of your like tagline, or something that's absolutely expected. 719 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 5: Like if someone all of a sudden came out of 720 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 5: the woodwork and was like, no, I'm competitive, bitch, get 721 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 5: out of my way, you'd. 722 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,320 Speaker 4: Be like, what they did not get the memo? 723 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 6: Right? Like? 724 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 4: That would be crazy. But but I think that you're right. 725 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 5: And I think that the more and more that you 726 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 5: see people doing that, the more and more I do 727 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 5: think if there's a contagious aspect to it. I think 728 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 5: it used to be aspirational like, oh, we should want that, 729 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 5: but we don't really want that. And now because we're 730 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 5: naming these different ways to look at the world and 731 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 5: and and saying like and I don't think it's a 732 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 5: positive when someone if someone says to you operate out 733 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 5: of scarcity, I don't think anyone would take that as positive. 734 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 6: Right. 735 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 5: You want to think that there's more than enough in 736 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 5: the world for everyone. There isn't usually like in a 737 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 5: literal world, right, Like in a literal like are people 738 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 5: getting what they want right now? 739 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 4: Not really right? But we can still hope and want 740 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 4: m h yeah ho ho ho ho ho. 741 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 7: Hope you guys, thank you so much for being on 742 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 7: the pod today. 743 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 2: We look up to you guys because you've been doing 744 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,399 Speaker 2: it for so long and there is magic to it 745 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 2: and we are still fetus podcast over here. 746 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,760 Speaker 4: Venus. I love it learning the ropes. 747 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 5: But I'm very jealous of your morning early workout sessions, 748 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 5: and I wish that I I a. 749 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 3: Door jealous so five AM, Like. 750 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 6: I wouldn't be doing it without them. She put it 751 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 6: that accountability really makes. 752 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,439 Speaker 4: Her show up. Yeah, for sure. And by the way 753 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 4: you make Christy show up. No, I get it. I 754 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 4: get it. Yet the five am is rough. 755 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 6: I know. 756 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 5: I've never been able to figure out how to sustain 757 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 5: a five AM. I remember like when I was doing 758 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 5: I don't know what show. I might have even been 759 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,760 Speaker 5: out of work, who knows, But Jennifer Garner was doing 760 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 5: Alias and she was so badass and she was so ripped, 761 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 5: and we had a couple of mutual friends and they 762 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 5: kept just being like, she's such a hard worker, and 763 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 5: I was like, I know, she's such a hard worker, 764 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 5: Like she looks so great on the show and she 765 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 5: works hard, like no, no, no, She wakes up at five 766 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,720 Speaker 5: am every single day and works out for two hours 767 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 5: before she even starts work, and I. 768 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 4: Remember, like, I can do that, what I can do that? 769 00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 4: So then I started. 770 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,839 Speaker 5: I signed up Liker's boot camp at five am. Oh, 771 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 5: Nory is like an actual week. 772 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 4: I don't even know that I made it to the 773 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 4: end of the week. 774 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 5: No, that's myself like running like her or Tom Cruise 775 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:10,920 Speaker 5: on the treadmill. 776 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god. 777 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 7: And then she goes to the gym at five and 778 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 7: then she'll meet me at pilates at nine. 779 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,799 Speaker 5: What Olivia might want to come back on and talk 780 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,840 Speaker 5: about what drives that? 781 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 4: What drives that, Olivia is that it's called or it's 782 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 4: my medicine. That's great. Really, you found your prescription exactly. 783 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 4: All right, thank you both for thank you the time 784 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,840 Speaker 4: so much. Thank you. I'm a little jealous that you 785 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:42,760 Speaker 4: were wearing the same outfit. 786 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 3: I know we need to get that. 787 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,200 Speaker 4: You guys need matching, matching. 788 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, please, of. 789 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 4: Course that was so lovely. They're so so they made 790 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 4: the matching for a long. 791 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,399 Speaker 3: Time, I know. And you know what I love about 792 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 3: their story. 793 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 4: She didn't like her to do. Yeah, they didn't like 794 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 4: each other. How all all great friendships should be born. 795 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 2: I think that that's the secret sauce and the secret magic. 796 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 5: All right, let's call it thank you for being with us, 797 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:22,479 Speaker 5: and a very happy holidays during the time is let's 798 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 5: call it the end of the episode.