1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: This is the Eds with Eddie Judge and Edwin Ato 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: Yavi the Husband's know Best Too Tease Production. 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: Welcome to episode eleven. We have Doctor Debrou with us today. 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: Doctor Debrou is married to The Real Housewives Orange County 5 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 2: cast member Heather Dubro. They've been married for twenty five 6 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: years and have four kids, Max, Nick, Kat and Ace. 7 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: How you doing, Doctor Debrou. I'm good. It's great to 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: see you guys. Great to be with you. 9 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: Hey, so, do you like doctor Debreu or can I 10 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: call you Terry? 11 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: I prefer you call me like sir, your honor, your majesty, 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: your majesty. Hear Terry. I you know, I introduced myself 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: to my patients is Terry Debrou and I let them pick. 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: But I'd rather you guys call me Terry. 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 2: So yeah, awesome, awesome. Well, I know that Edwin doesn't 16 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: know a whole lot about you. We go way back to, 17 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 2: you know, when you guys first came on the show, 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 2: So we have history. So I'm gonna I'm gonna have Terry's. 19 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Long longevity in the game. 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of how long you've been in 21 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: the game and. 22 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: How successful you've been. So it's awesome. 23 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 3: Finally we spoke briefly I think in Vegas, but yeah, 24 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 3: right to finally, you know, get to know, you know 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: everything about Terry. 26 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: So I'm excited about this podcast. I appreciate. Other thing 27 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: lacking is of course the alcohol. But that's okay, that 28 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: that gets us in trouble, Terry. It's tru early in the. 29 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 3: Day, right, You're like, So, I had no idea you 30 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 3: were married for twenty five years. I mean we're talking 31 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: longevity in business, we're talking longevity and obviously the family 32 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: life as well. And I knew you had children. I 33 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 3: don't know you had four. That's a lot of children there. 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've done. We've had seven wonderful years of marriage together. Unfortunately, 35 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: we've been married for twenty five. My wife hates when 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: I make that job. I know hat, so I can 37 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: only make it when she's not around. 38 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: Let let's go back, because this is about you, Terry. 39 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: I want to know about I understand you were born 40 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: and raised in LA. Tell us what it's like being 41 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: raised in LA. Like, what's it like growing up there? 42 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, what part of La? Yeah, so 43 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: for the first nine years, so my mom and dad 44 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: divorced when I was like, you know, two. So my 45 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: mom initially raised me as a single mom up until 46 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: ten in La near CBS Television City, which I know, 47 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: you guys know where that is. I'm Fairbax. Yeah, And 48 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: I used to skateboard, I remember in the dvs all 49 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: the time. So when I go back there, it's sort 50 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: of like, well, and then she met this guy. We 51 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: didn't like him, but she married him anyone, and she 52 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: moved us. My brother and I you know, my older 53 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: brother was the Leitzinger Quiet Riot Kevin debrou Right, Oh, 54 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: we're going to talk about that, that's yeah, yeah, And 55 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: she moved us into the valley with this guy who 56 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: had three kids. So we moved into this really tiny 57 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: house with five boys around the. 58 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 2: Savings oh my god, geez. 59 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and the stepfather. You know, I don't really want 60 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: to get too much into it, but not the nicest 61 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: guy in the world, you know, not physically but emotionally. 62 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: Not very cool anyway. So I grew up essentially from 63 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: ten to eighteen in Van Eyes, Okay, the San Fernando 64 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: Valley And for those of you across the country who 65 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: don't know what the San Fernando Valley is. You'll know 66 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: it when I call it the valley, all right, Valley, 67 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: it's that valley. It's that valley. So you know, I 68 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: was a valley boy growing up. And then I went 69 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: to Van Eys High School, and as soon as I graduated, 70 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: the first thing I want to do is get out 71 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: of the valley. And for those of you who live 72 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: in the valley, I'm not putting down the valley just 73 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: wasn't my cup of tea. Yeah, yeah, no. 74 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: I have friends that were raised in Big Bear, and 75 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: as much as I love Big Bear, they tell me, yeah, 76 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: I couldn't wait to get out. There's nothing wrong with 77 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: Big Bears, just they want other opportunities. 78 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. Did you always know you. 79 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: Wanted to be a doctor or when did that happen? 80 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: So you know, I had no idea. I was always 81 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: a really good student. I you know, you sort of 82 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: lean into what you're good at, and I was okay 83 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: at sports, and before I was really good looking until 84 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: I hit about twelve, and then I wasn't. I remember that. 85 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: I remember being treated a certain special way because I 86 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: was a very cute little kid, and I hit twelve 87 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: thirteen wasn't cute anymore. So, but I remember being treated 88 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: special because of the way I looked, and that was gone, 89 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: and then I wanted to be treated special again. And 90 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: the thing that made me stand out and be treated 91 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: special was I was good at school, really good at school. 92 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: And so if I, you know, you get straight a's, 93 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: you get this certain feedback from it. And so that 94 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: was my thing. That was what I did. I got 95 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: straight a's. I only got one B in high school, 96 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: you know. And it was a teacher who gave me 97 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: a beat. He told me I was really obnoxious in 98 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: high school. Big shock, Right, Yeah. I used to walk 99 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: into the class and I go, okay, so here's the 100 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: a What is everybody else going to get that kind 101 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: of thing? Right? Like that kid? I was that kid? 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: You know. 103 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: So were you like a cool smart I assume you 104 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: were a cool smart kid. Sometimes the smart kids aren't 105 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 3: the coolest, but I get the feeling maybe you were both. 106 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: No, I was not. I was obnoxious smart kid. I 107 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: was really good at tennis. But apart from that, I 108 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: mean I had some cool friends, but I was not 109 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: a cool kid in high school. 110 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: You know, did anybody ever bully you for the confidence 111 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 2: you had? 112 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: No? Not really? No, I mean I you know, I'm 113 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: one of these kids, like a lot of us, we 114 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: think were special. I thought I was special because of 115 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: the way I I apparently was just a really good 116 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: looking kid till about ten, right, and so I remember 117 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: my mom taking me to a stored people would stop, 118 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: g oh, my god, your son is so beautiful, like 119 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: that thing. And so I always feel like I sort 120 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: of was born on the right side of the bed somehow, 121 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,239 Speaker 1: you know. It just was like and then when that left, 122 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: I thought, oh what am I going to do get 123 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: that feeling back? And so it was that so I, 124 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: you know, I was, I was. I'm a very I 125 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: think you know, Eddie, I'm a really kind of a gentle, nice, 126 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: sweet guy. I'm a really I'm a really sweet guy, 127 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: as are you. For sure. I think we're both very 128 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: sweet people. And as I've gotten older, I've gotten even 129 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: a lot sweeter to everybody I meet. But I wasn't 130 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 1: sweet in high school. I was sarcastic. I mean I 131 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: had buddies. Yeah, I was a bit of a pain 132 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: in the ass, and I thought it was really smart 133 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: and anyway, so oh I was obnoxious, you know. 134 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 2: So when did you realize that you wanted to go 135 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: to medical school. 136 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: So I didn't. I had you know, I was raised 137 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: by a single mom and then my stepfather was a plumber. 138 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: So there was like no conversations at home about ambition 139 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: or what we're going to do is never discussed. It 140 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: was just you just lived. And then it came like 141 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: to eleventh grade and I thought, okay, so what am 142 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: I going to do? And I said to my mom 143 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: what should I do? She goes, why don't you be 144 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: an optometrist. That's really easy and it's clean. And I go, oh, 145 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: what what do they do? And I looked up and 146 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: I go and she said, be a dentist. And so 147 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: I thought, okay, be a dentist. And so I did 148 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: a re volunteer thing at USC dental school when I 149 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: was in high school. And then I sort of started 150 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: to volunteer in a dentist's office in like four days, 151 00:07:54,080 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: and I said, this is incredibly boring. And the dentist 152 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: said to me interestingly enough, he goes, you know what 153 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: you are? Men? And I go out. He was you're 154 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: a surgeon. I go I am. He goes, oh, yeah, 155 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: you are a surgeon all day long? And I said, really, 156 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: because you should be a surgeon, and I said okay. 157 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: So then I worked. I volunteered. I went to Yale 158 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: right and I volunteered at Yale's hospital emergency room in college. 159 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: And when I was there, the minute I walked into 160 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: the emergency room, the minute I walked in the hospital, 161 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: the smell. The residents were just like the coolest people. 162 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 1: We called it relaxed brilliance. The residents in med school 163 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: at Yale were just like, yeah, you know, they just 164 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: look like they it was just they were just cool 165 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: and they were doing the most important things. I thought, 166 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: this is it. And so when I got there, I 167 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: thought I want to be a doctor. And then so 168 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: I applied to med school. I got into UCLA, and 169 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: like day one at UCLA, they said you're a surgeon 170 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 1: and I said, really, did go why Gil, because you're 171 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 1: kind of obnoxious and you're confident and you're outspoken. And 172 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: I said okay. And then I met this guy, my 173 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: best friend to this day, Scott Former, who's an orthopedic surgeon, 174 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: and we hunt. They called us the Dude Brothers at 175 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: UCLA Med School because we're always walking around and go 176 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: hey dude, hey dude, Hey dude. We called everybody dude, 177 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: and we graduated to give a certificate called the Dude 178 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: Brothers and that's funny. And then I was going to 179 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: be a heart surgeon because that's the most intense thing 180 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: you can do in medicine, heart surgery. And then my 181 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: second year, my second year of med school, this incredibly 182 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: handsome guy comes in. You know, they give you these 183 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: sort of specialty lectures when you're in your first two 184 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: years of med school and they say, Okay, this is 185 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: what neurologies like, this is what general surgery is like, 186 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: this is what intern and this guy walks and he goes, 187 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: turn down the light. He was like this good looking 188 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: he looked like a tall version of Mel Gibson with 189 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: cowboy boots. And he starts showing the slides and he goes, ladies, gentlemen, 190 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to show you the last true renaissance field 191 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: in medicine, and it's called plastic and reconstructive surgery. And 192 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: he showed us these slides for an hour of like 193 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: what plastic and reconstruct surgeons do, burns, congenital deformities, gunshot wounds, 194 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: the face, cosmetic surgery, replants of fingers and digits like that, 195 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: and it was like everybody. He turned up the lights 196 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: over and just went whoa. And then so I follow 197 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: him down from the auditorium at UCLA, and he go, 198 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: do you do research in your lab? Because if you 199 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: want to out be outstanding in med school, you do 200 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: research in somebody's lab. He goes, come with me. So 201 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: he took me his lab. The next day I started 202 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: working his lab, and I actually ran his lab for 203 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:54,479 Speaker 1: the next seven years. And then I did general surgery 204 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:58,199 Speaker 1: after med school. For seven years, I was chief resident 205 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: in general surgery, doing trauma, gunshot wounds, cancer reconstruction, all 206 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Right, yeah, and then and then 207 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: I went on to plastic surgery. 208 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: Did you just say, I don't want the trauma stuff anymore. 209 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 2: I want I want you know, beauty, I want esthetics, 210 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 2: I want nicer things. 211 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: No. So, back in my day, to be a plastic surgeon, 212 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: to be a cardiac surgeon, and to be a transplant surgeon, 213 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: all those super specialties, you had to complete general surgery training. 214 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: Oh okay, So I did a full general surgery training. 215 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: I got board certified in general surgery and then went 216 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: I graduated June thirtieth, nineteen ninety in general surgery and 217 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: walked into UCLA's plast surgery program July first, nineteen ninety 218 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: and went right in from general surgery to plastic surgery 219 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: and then graduated plastic surgery and then got board certified 220 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: plast surgery that went right away into practice. 221 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't quite catch the timeline. So how long 222 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 2: did that whole thing take? From did general surgery start 223 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 2: to the plastic surgery. 224 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm ready to do this. So four years college, four 225 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: years med school, seven years of general surgery training and 226 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: this is like wow. Back in the day when there 227 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 1: were no rules prohibiting it like there are now, there 228 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: was no limitation the number of hours a resident would work. 229 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: So for seven years, I literally this is not an 230 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: exaggeration at all. If there's one hundred and sixty eight 231 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: hours in a week, twenty four times seven twenty four 232 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 1: hours time seven days, at one hundred and sixty eight, 233 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: we would work around one hundred and forty and we 234 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: were most of the time awake every other night in 235 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:53,319 Speaker 1: the hospital operating. And so I did that for seven years. 236 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: And then in plastic surgery UCLA the hours were much better, 237 00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: but it was super intense. 238 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 3: A lot of people don't realize the sacrifice that you 239 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 3: have to make. You know, people see all your success 240 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 3: now and all the things you've done, but they don't 241 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 3: see those one hundred and forty hours a week out 242 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 3: of one hundred and sixty eight. 243 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: Right. 244 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 3: I'm so glad you brought that up, because again, people 245 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 3: think that success just comes to you and you just 246 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 3: get lucky, but like, you literally sacrifice seven years of 247 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 3: your life. 248 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's funny. We for a lot of 249 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: the super intense, hair on fire type people like me, 250 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: we didn't really see it as a sacrifice. You know. 251 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: It was like, this is the coolest thing that a 252 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: human being. To me, it was always fighter, pilot, rock 253 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: star or surgeon. Those were the three things to be right. Well, 254 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: my brother was a rock star with a number one 255 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: album when I was in med school. I'm not good 256 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: with heights and spinning, so I wasn't going to go 257 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: into the air force, so I was going to be 258 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: a surgeon. So it was more than anything else. It 259 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: was fun, you know, it was fun. I mean, I 260 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 1: found my call. I wasn't, you know, let's be honest, 261 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: I wasn't. I had an incredible sex drive, but I 262 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: wasn't particularly good with girls. All right, I was really 263 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: good with my brain in my hands, and I I'm 264 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: one of these. So everybody's different when it comes to sleep, 265 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: and we all need sleep. But there's a certain percentage 266 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: of people, maybe two to four percent of people that 267 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: congenitally don't need sleep. Yeah, and I do. I don't 268 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: do well with a lot of sleep. I don't really 269 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: do well with six hours or five hours. I do 270 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: much better with three or two and so and so 271 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: if you're not a sleeper, you're going to be a 272 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: good general surgery resident because you're most of your work 273 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: is between midnight and six am. Yeah, such a great point. 274 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I gotta have my six to eight hours 275 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 3: or I'm a disaster. I thought maybe it was a 276 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 3: mental thing for me, but like, if I sleep less 277 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 3: than six hours, I have a tough time. 278 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: I got it much of them, and I think everybody 279 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: should focus on that, particularly when you've reached my stage 280 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: of life, you need to get as much sleep as possible. 281 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: These are called the marginal decades where if you don't 282 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: take care of you like I work out seven days 283 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: a week, if you don't take care of yourself at this 284 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: stage of mime in you're gonna rapidly decline. But at 285 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: that stage of life, if I got two and a 286 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: half three hours, I could remember everything I read, I 287 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: could remember every detail. If I got six or seven, 288 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: I was foggy. Yeah, And even to this day, even 289 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: though I'm sixty five right now, even to this day, 290 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: if I do four days in a row of five 291 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: six hours of sleep, my brain doesn't work as well. 292 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of slows down. 293 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: Very cool. Yeah, But I think for my heart and 294 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: for my overall health, you know, I don't think it's 295 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: good for me to get two hours a night, But 296 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: like last night, before last, I slept about an hour 297 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: and a half. 298 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 299 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't recommend that for anyway. But that's 300 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: just my that's just the way my body works. I 301 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: do well with very little sleep. I'm very sharp on 302 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: no sleep. But anyway, so general surgery was really good 303 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: for me, and I loved the emergency surgery. I was 304 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: it's it's work, cocaine emergency surgery. 305 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: You definitely have to be in love with it to 306 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 2: be as passionate and as good as you are with it. 307 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: Because I hate going to hospitals, I hate going to doctors. 308 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: I hate the whole. I gotta, you know, check up 309 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: on myself. And I think it was a conversation you 310 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 2: and I had one of the shows. We started talking 311 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 2: about prostate cancer and You're like, that's one of the 312 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 2: easiest things to you know, just check, just go get 313 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 2: it checked. And I was thinking, well, I don't want 314 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: some guy to put his finger up my ass. I 315 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 2: don't want anything up my ass. But you know, it 316 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 2: has to be done because it's your health. It doesn't 317 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 2: matter how it's done. It's your health, and it's an 318 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 2: easy procedure and it could save your life. 319 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: So it's a good point that in colonoscopies are things 320 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 1: that everyone after forty. If you're not getting a colonoscope, 321 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: you're taking unnecessary risk. I mean, there are certain things 322 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 1: that are completely preventable, and colon cancer is number one 323 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: on the list. It starts as a pall up, but 324 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: press prostate cancer. By the way, all cancers, okay, even 325 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: pancreas the worst of the worst if you catch it early. 326 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 1: And I love that you and Tamra do and talk 327 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: about the pernubo scan. Right, yep, yeah, she died, did it? Well? 328 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: You did it right. I think the one downside of 329 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:45,239 Speaker 1: it is that you get you're going to chase the 330 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: things in beside your body that are insignificant that you 331 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: don't need to know about, the barnacles that we get 332 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: to get older. But that's okay because if you catch 333 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: for example, you hear someone gets pancreas cancer, right, you 334 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: know they've got three to six months to live there 335 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: fruit not true. Pancer's cancer is completely and totally and 336 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: rather easily treatable for five years while you have it. 337 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 2: Oh do they just put it up? 338 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: You just cut it out. The problem is it's so 339 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: far back in the what's called retro partineum in the 340 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: back of the abdomen that it grows and it doesn't 341 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: interfere with anything until it gets uncurable, incurable, unrespectable. But anyway, 342 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 1: so that pernubo scan that Tamrau is talking about, I 343 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 1: love to see that kind of stuff. I've had. I've 344 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: scanned every inch of my body and my and multiple times, 345 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:42,640 Speaker 1: and my prostate three times. Yeah, because if you get 346 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: prostate cancer early, it's like big deal. It's like testicular cancer, 347 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: no big deal. You catch it way way, way way late. 348 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: You're going to die from it. 349 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, well on that note. 350 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, so by everybody go go be depressed. 351 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 3: Believe it or not, Terry, I actually wanted to be 352 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 3: a doctor, but I just wasn't smart enough. 353 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: But I wanted to. 354 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 3: But I just wanted to be a doctor because I 355 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 3: needed to get out of the hood and I needed 356 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 3: to make enough money. And I knew doctors made a 357 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 3: lot of money. So I'm like, maybe if I become 358 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 3: a doctor, I could get out of the hood. And 359 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 3: then I'm like, okay, well I'm not smart enough, so 360 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 3: I just get into sales and uh and then but 361 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 3: so funny story about that. So when I used to 362 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 3: so I used to go door to door selling alarm 363 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 3: systems in like Watts and Compton, and someone told me 364 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 3: doctors made four hundred dollars an hour. So I started 365 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 3: making four hundred dollars an hour as I was selling 366 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: these alarm systems. Right, So I called myself while I 367 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 3: was in the field doctor Rojave, and I wanted to 368 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 3: I wanted to average four hundred dollars an hour. So anyway, 369 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 3: so well that's good. I mean, I mean, a truth 370 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 3: be told. 371 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: You don't necessarily you don't have to be particularly smart 372 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 1: to be a doctor. You have to you have to 373 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: be smart to get in to medical school. So once 374 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: you're in medical school, it helps to be smart. It 375 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 1: makes it a lot easier. But it's medical school. I mean, 376 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 1: if I told you, guys, how the kidney works, you'd go, yeah, 377 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: I get that. I mean, you know, it's not like 378 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: physics where you have to go, now, how does this 379 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: equation work? You know? So you don't need to necessarily 380 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 1: be smart to be a doctor. You have to be 381 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: interested interested to be a doctor. You have to be wanting. 382 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: Like to me, I used to sit there in medical 383 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: school at UCLA and I was buzzing. I thought, this 384 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: is exactly where there is no better feeling. You guys, 385 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: all both of you have felt this way, whether it's 386 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 1: on a bicycle in the middle of a long bike 387 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: ride when you've hit you know, just your flow and 388 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: your pace and your heart's going a million miles an hour, 389 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 1: but you feel nothing except in doorphin hun you know, 390 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: whatever it is that puts you in that flow. I'm 391 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: a flow junkie, okay, like before, like right now, I am. 392 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 1: So For example, I'm obsessed with these miracle weight loss 393 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: drugs right absolutely obsessed with them. And it's a historic 394 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 1: time and that we literally have the cure for obesity. 395 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: I have no plan on opening weightlift clinics or prescribing them, 396 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: but I'm obsessed with the physiology. So I am studying 397 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: for the American Board of Obesity Medicine Certification Exam to 398 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 1: get bored certified. I was doing it right before I 399 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 1: came on with you guys, just because I always need 400 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: to be doing yes, yes, you know what I mean. 401 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: Like I'm vacation, I'm a loser. I'm the worst. I 402 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 1: can't stand it. You know. 403 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 2: I can't lay around on vacation. It's boring. 404 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 1: It's boring. So I need to be doing something. So 405 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 1: I have like six jobs all the time that I 406 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: enjoyed doing. If you're that kind of person, and yeah, 407 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 1: that makes a good doctor, I think, yeah, yeah. 408 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: And I always wondered how you balanced it all, because 409 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 2: as entrepreneurs, you know, we you know, we have to 410 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 2: figure out the time balance with family and kids and 411 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 2: all those responsibilities we have. And I know that you 412 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: worked a lot. You did multiple shows, you were on 413 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 2: the Housewives, you were doing surgery, and you weren't getting 414 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 2: very little sleep. And now I know why you just 415 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: don't require that much sleep. But how you balance all 416 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 2: that around is remarkable. 417 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate you saying that, but the truth is, 418 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: I mean, if you really looked at it holistically from 419 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: the thirty thousand foot view, you might say, well, maybe 420 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 1: Terry doesn't balance it that well, maybe you know, he 421 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily. I think I do now now that they're older. 422 00:22:56,160 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: I spend really high quality, interesting, interested time with my kids. 423 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: But when they were growing up, I thought to myself, 424 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 1: I don't remember being three or five, or seven or 425 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: even eleven, So I thought, why am I spending Why 426 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 1: am I gonna sit there at the baseball I never 427 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: did that stuff, you know, And some of that played 428 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: out on Housewives, and you know, they like to exaggerate 429 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: for story of but but there was a current. There 430 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,400 Speaker 1: was more than a kernel of it. I wasn't home 431 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: that much. And there after I got my own TV show. Well, no, no, no, 432 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: I did a TV show called The Swan. Okay, I 433 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: don't know if you guys are aware of that, but 434 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: this was a Housewives right way before. It was in 435 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: two thousand and four, right and I think that was 436 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: before the first season of Real Housewives of Orange County. 437 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 1: I think it was two thousand and three. I don't 438 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: know how long. What season is Orange County on seventeen 439 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: eighteen eighteen? Okay, so that would be you know two 440 00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 1: thousand and eight, right or twosand seven. So I did 441 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: a TV show called The Swan which was a giant 442 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 1: makeover reality show on Fox, and it was on after 443 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: American Idol, and like you know that we had like 444 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 1: thirty million viewers. I mean it was like one of 445 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: it was. It was before it was when there was two, four, seven, nine, 446 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: eleven and thirteen, right, it was like there was an HBO. 447 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: I don't think no cable. So and I was the 448 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 1: surgeon on this makeover show, only only a few years 449 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 1: out of my training, and that put me on the 450 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: map immediately. So I got to be able to operate. 451 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: And what plastic surgeons want to do is what what 452 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: any surgeon want to do is we want to operate. 453 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 1: You want to get your skill set because it's a 454 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: it's a skill based profession, right, it's an experience based profession. 455 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: The more I mean, can you imagine Tom Brady with 456 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: his body at twenty five, with his experience and brain, 457 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: now he'd be ten times, the quarterbacks ten times. Well 458 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: that's the way I am now, because we don't we 459 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: don't degrade in plastic surgery. We don't degrade the surgeon. 460 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: But anyway, so very soon out of my training, I 461 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: got this TV show. It was a major hit, and 462 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: I started operating seven days a week, not six, not five, 463 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: but saturdays. And I would start Sunday morning at six 464 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 1: amte my own practice, just me. I was booked for 465 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: years and so and so I remember I came home, 466 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 1: I met the refrigerator Sunday night, and I look down 467 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: and I look at my son. I go, when did 468 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: you get so tall? And the heather listen, he goes, 469 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: she looks at me, she goes, really, so you're going 470 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: to do this their whole childhood. You just gonna operate 471 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: every single day. So I went from like seven to 472 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: six days a week, and then I went to five. 473 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: And then now you know, now, since they're what I 474 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: call sentient humans, right, you can interact with them and 475 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: they're wonderful. I spend a lot of time with them now. 476 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: But so I to your point, I don't think I was. 477 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: I met the classic definition of work life balance. I 478 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: think I'm much better now much better. 479 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 3: Now, what was your back then? What was your favorite 480 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 3: part to operate on? I'm curious. 481 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I've always liked I always like to 482 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 1: do It's the favorite favorite procedures for a plastic surgeon, 483 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: to be quite honest, are the ones that are fun, elegant, 484 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: and pay and pay the most boobs. So facelifts pay 485 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: the most, rests are the most common, right, And so 486 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: I like to do facelifts and breasts, right because I 487 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: could do five or six or seven breasts in a day. 488 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: But now, well you know my practice obviously in the 489 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 1: last time, I've been doing botch for ten years. Right, Yeah, 490 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: So you don't come to Terry de Brow for a 491 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: you know, a twenty three year old breast implant, twenty 492 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 1: three year old with who wants brett you? First of all, 493 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: you can't afford me. And second I and if you've 494 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: come to me, I say, why are you coming to me? 495 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: Go to this guy down the street. He's just as good, 496 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 1: and he's going to be a third of the price. Right. 497 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 1: And of course when you say that, they want you 498 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: to do it more, right, right, But so now I 499 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 1: do primary most of what I do is if you 500 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: had a botch case. You come to me now, okay. 501 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever had a botch case where you 502 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 2: just it's too risky to even attempt to fix it, 503 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: and you're and you have to tell him the bad news, like, 504 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I can't help you. Nobody can help you 505 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 2: that they're so botched. 506 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: Well, that's a good question. So the first deason of Botched, 507 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: we got, like, you know, two thousand applicants and the network, 508 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: because you know how it works, The network finds you 509 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 1: these people with terrible visual problems, interesting stories because they 510 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: have to have a story, and then they send them 511 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,680 Speaker 1: to you, go can you fix this? And the first 512 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: like ten, we go, no way, no way, no way, 513 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: too risky, I'll make them worse. I'm not. The last 514 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 1: thing you want to do is botch. By the botch 515 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 1: doctor is ruin someone on national television. It wo ruins 516 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: the whole show. So I would accept maybe one out 517 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 1: of three. By the fourth season, you know, you get 518 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 1: good at what you do all the time, right, whatever 519 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 1: it is you do a lot of By the fourth 520 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 1: season it was like I would accept three out of five. 521 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: And the last three seasons you send it over, we 522 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: take it. There's nothing. We will turn down, well, turn 523 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 1: you down if we feel you have too many red flags, 524 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: like you have very very unrealistic expectations, you're hostile, you're 525 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: ragging too much on your previous surgeon. But I feel like, 526 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: you know, there's pretty much anything I can make better, 527 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: just as long as I'm honest, which I am, And 528 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: I say, look, you understand, I can make you worse. 529 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: I can put you in the hospital. But here's fifteen 530 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: consent forms that said I warned you of this possibility. 531 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: So if you sign here, let's go. Yeah. Yeah, So 532 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: Terry walk us through. 533 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 3: So you're at swan. Was that a success? I assume 534 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 3: it was a successful show. And then how did you 535 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 3: make the transition a botch? How did that oak all 536 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,719 Speaker 3: come about? 537 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so I did in two thousand and three, I 538 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: did this one. It was a huge reality show. We 539 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 1: were on the cover of People magazine, and then they 540 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: picked it up for another season, and then I did 541 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: that and it was hugely successful. And that was in 542 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: two thousand and four, and we were about to start 543 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: the third season and we'd almost fully cap cast it. 544 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 1: It was going to be of course, they were pushing 545 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: the envelope by the way. This is back when reality 546 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: TV was really pushing the envelope and really inappropriate shows 547 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: like Who's Your Dad at Yeah? And you know they 548 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: get they get women up on a stage and take 549 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: a laser point and go, oh you could you know 550 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: if you lost a little way here. Remember that disgusting 551 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: show is really body negativity time in reality TV. And 552 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: then the head of Fox left and the new head 553 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: of Fox came from FX, which was a very cool 554 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 1: cable show, cable NETWORKX. I'll tell you about what Botch 555 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: was called. Before it was called Botch, it was. It 556 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 1: was actually called Nip Believe it or not. It was, 557 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 1: and we loved it, but the advertiser, the advertisers didn't 558 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: like it, so they changed it. But anyway, so right, 559 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: I remember it was ten o'clock at night. He was 560 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: a Tuesday. I was at Arthur Smith Productions, you know, 561 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 1: the guy does all the top chef shows and everything, 562 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: and they I'm looking at the patients and oh, and 563 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 1: we're pushing the envelope. The third season. We're going to 564 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,479 Speaker 1: do trip twins and we're gonna do triplets. And there 565 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 1: was two plasters, me and another guy who I trained 566 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: with the UCLA he was going to do one. I 567 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: was going to do two and see what the difference was. 568 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: It was like such a bad message anyway, So the 569 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: one of the people over, the executives over go you 570 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: can go home now, and I go, what, because, yeah, 571 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: you can go home now, give us a call tomorrow. 572 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: And I walk out of there and go, I think 573 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: the show just got canceled. And the first move this 574 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: guy did, who coming over from FFEX, goes, I'm canceling 575 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: that terrible TV show, The Swan. So we got canceled 576 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: because it was the most if you if you google 577 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 1: worst reality shows of all time. I did the top two. 578 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 1: I did The Swan and a show called Bridal Plastic. 579 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: But anyway, so it got canceled. It got canceled, and 580 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: then I went back to my practice and operated like 581 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: a mania for the next four years. And then he 582 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: asked me to do the show called Bridal Plasty that 583 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: went only one season. And this also, body positivity was 584 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: getting even more and more important, and body shaming was 585 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: becoming a colloquial term, as it should, and we were 586 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: taking these engaged women, okay, engaged women, putting him in 587 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: a house. Every week they would compete in a wedding 588 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 1: related challenge, and if they won the wedding related challenge, 589 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: they got to have Terry Debrou do a plastic surgery 590 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 1: procedure on the Oh my gosh. And then if you 591 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: won the whole show, Terry Debru would do a head 592 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 1: to toe makeover on you. But here was the caveat 593 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: your fiance couldn't see you till the day you got married, 594 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: and they lift the veil and now he's seeing you 595 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: for the first time, completely made over. It was like, 596 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 1: so that's the number two worst reality show. I could 597 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 1: say why it was. It was a pretty big hit. 598 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: But that was just when Julianna Ransick was colleing Zendia 599 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: the weird things that she got in trouble for. Remember 600 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 1: I don't remember on Fashion Police and body shaming coming. 601 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: So they just said, okay, never mind, and they canceled 602 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: that show too. Yeah. In fact, they so hated that show. 603 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 1: They flew me out to the View to have me 604 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 1: sit there at the table with the View women just 605 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 1: to rag on me for doing the show. That's what 606 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: they do, and so I know, and they said, do 607 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 1: you really want to do this? And I said to NBCU, 608 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: I go, do I want to do this? They go, yeah, 609 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 1: go do it? You're good? You know. I went okay, 610 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 1: And I remember arriving in New York going up the 611 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 1: service elevator to do the show, and the pie goes, 612 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 1: are you really ready for this? Like like they're going 613 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: to kill you? You know. I lines that long story short. 614 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 1: I get up there, I go to have my makeup 615 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 1: and I go into the makeup room and they're all 616 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 1: sitting there. Barbara Walters ope up, whoopee what's her name? 617 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 1: The comedian, and they go, oh, you know. I go 618 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: and I shmoozed them. He them like, I do you know? 619 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: I you know what was that called on that that 620 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: vampire show where they used to take v what was 621 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: that not be? Anyway? I glammed them, you know anyway, 622 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 1: and by the time I got there, they liked me 623 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 1: so much they couldn't go there. Yeah, I saved it 624 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 1: by the way. I went on Doctor Phil when I 625 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 1: did the Swan, he brought me on to trash me too, 626 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: and I shmoozed him and he went, well, Terry, maybe 627 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 1: it's such a good idea of the d ND show. 628 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: I go, You're you're not wrong, Doctor Phil. Yeah, so 629 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: that show got canceled. That show got canceled, and then nothing. 630 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: So I just went to my practice and then to 631 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: lead into how I got botch it, That's what you're 632 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: asking is that when you're we're kind of going there editions, 633 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: we're at home, and the financial crisis hits, the global 634 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: financial crisis, and I'm sure you guys have specific memories 635 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:32,720 Speaker 1: of that time right where if you were in real estate, 636 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: it was over. Whether you win any service industry, it 637 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 1: was over. And you know, all of our practices, even 638 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 1: my practice was very slow. And it happened over lap 639 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: a time where I'm building this giant mansion in Pelican Crest, 640 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 1: Newport Beach, and it's like, this is not the time 641 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: to cut off cash flow here, Okay, I was in 642 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 1: the last ten percent of the remember that house ye 643 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: in Pelican Chris. That was a beauty, wasn't it? Anyway? 644 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 1: So I thought, all right, okay, all right, so what 645 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 1: am I going to do? So I took out an 646 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 1: iPad like this, and I concepted a reality TV show 647 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: of these high end women in Newport Beach who know 648 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 1: didn't don't know shit about restaurants, opening up a restaurant 649 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: because they were going to do that. All these high 650 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 1: like the wife of the CEO of Smith Wesson, this 651 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:30,840 Speaker 1: beautiful woman, my wife, these five other women whose husbands 652 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: were like billionaires were they said, let's open a restaurant. 653 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: I thought, that's a reality show. So I wrote, I 654 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 1: looked up how to write a treatment? Right, and I, 655 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 1: by the way, I did this at three and four 656 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: in the morning, of course, because that's that's where I'm 657 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: most away. How to do a treatment, and so oh, 658 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,279 Speaker 1: how do you do a treatment? So I wrote up 659 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: Pelican Hill Wife Show or now what was it called? Anyway, 660 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 1: because we knew would be a fail, and I set 661 00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 1: it off to literally eight production companies. Then I just 662 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,359 Speaker 1: what are the top production companies? And there was a 663 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 1: three ball that did Biggest Loser, there was this, there 664 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 1: was that, And I said who does the housewives? And 665 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: it said evolution. So I sent off and I said, 666 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,919 Speaker 1: Denny's wanted interested in this treatment? Please email me back. 667 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: It was such a good treatment, to be honest with you, 668 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: I mean, the characters were so good. I had their 669 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: pictures and description of all the women that the Immediately 670 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 1: within forty eight hours, everyone said let's take a meeting. 671 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,720 Speaker 1: So we were going to do a deal long story 672 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,239 Speaker 1: shirt with some other production company. And then I got 673 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: an email from Evolution, from Alex Baskin of all people, 674 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 1: who was kind of a junior guy back then, and 675 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 1: he said, come in for a meeting. So I drove 676 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 1: my hybrid over. The women flew their helicopter over, and 677 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 1: I met with Alex basket I go, let me tell 678 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: you about the women you're going to meet. We had 679 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: a meeting and I go, sort, are you interested? He goes, 680 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: I'll call you. So on the way, Homie calls me 681 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: and I said, I know you're interested in doing a deal, 682 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,919 Speaker 1: right because I said, but we're already kind of doing 683 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 1: a deal with a bigger company. He goes, let me 684 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,479 Speaker 1: pitch you something rather than you do that show, which 685 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: probably has a small chance of actually getting picked up. 686 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: Why doesn't your wife come on Real Housewives of Orange 687 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: County and you can incubate that show on Real Housewives 688 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:23,280 Speaker 1: of Orange County. And I go, good, idea start out 689 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 1: on a hit show, branch off the hit show. So 690 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 1: I get home and my wife goes, so what did 691 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 1: that Evolution think? And I go, they think you might. 692 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: They want you to come you to come on Real 693 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange County and she goes, no way. That 694 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: is the final nail on the cop into my acting career. 695 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 1: And back then it wasn't like being on Housewives now. 696 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 1: Being on Housewives now as being like, in my opinion, 697 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 1: like on an A list show. 698 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's why by the way, run well? 699 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: I mean, who's the third banana on a sitcom on NBC? 700 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,240 Speaker 1: No idea, who's the new housewife? Everybody in the world 701 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 1: knows the new housewife? Right yea? So true. So it's 702 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: a big deal now, but it wasn't back then. It 703 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 1: was kind of like, you know, the dregs of TV kind. 704 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,840 Speaker 2: I remember that distinctively, because you were so excited to 705 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 2: be on the show and you were all about the show, 706 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 2: and Heather was like. 707 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. I don't want to 708 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: be a part of this. Pissed And so I was 709 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 1: lying to Alec Baskin the whole time, Oh she's doing it. 710 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,319 Speaker 1: Oh she's doing it. So he sends the contract. I 711 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 1: write head their due bro, I send it in and 712 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: she goes. And then I literally forced her to do it, 713 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: and I mean her first few seasons she hated it 714 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: so much. It's not that anybody really likes it now, 715 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, they're right. But at least 716 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:58,800 Speaker 1: you understand it now, you know you can get it. Yeah, 717 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,640 Speaker 1: and so, at the exact same time, and I'll shorten this, 718 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: but the exact same time, Paul Nassip was on Real 719 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,320 Speaker 1: Housewives of Beverly Hills, and the first two seeds of 720 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: Real Housewives Beverly Hills were really entertaining. I even watched it. Okay, 721 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: I never watched Orange County because I didn't watch it. 722 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm a guy a housewives show, right, But I watched that. 723 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: He got divorced, he left the show, and he wanted 724 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:25,760 Speaker 1: that TV juice back. So and he and I weren't 725 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 1: practice together in Beverly Hills for a short period of time, 726 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 1: and then we weren't practice. I stayed down in Newport 727 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,839 Speaker 1: Beach and he calls me one day and he goes, 728 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 1: you do a lot of revisional surgery, don't you? And 729 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 1: I go yeah. He goes, why don't we do a 730 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 1: show about fixing bad plastic surgery? And I go, that's 731 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 1: kind of a shitty idea. He goes, why. I go, 732 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: because if we if other guys haven't been able to 733 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: fix it? What makes us so special? And what do 734 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,799 Speaker 1: we do on the show when we've ruined them? He goes, 735 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 1: I think we could do it, And it was sort 736 00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:01,280 Speaker 1: of his idea at Alex's idea, and we did a sizzle, 737 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: a three minute sizzle in his office, us just looking 738 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 1: at before pictures of people who are trashed and me 739 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 1: making fun of Paul, and it had instant chemistry Easton 740 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:21,760 Speaker 1: chemistry so much so that E went straight to series Wow, 741 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 1: and we did no pilot. We did eight episodes, and 742 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: I remember we finished the season. We made it through 743 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: the season successfully and we flew to New York and 744 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:35,280 Speaker 1: Twitter was very new then, very very new twenty fourteen, 745 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,840 Speaker 1: very new, and we're sitting there at a restaurant. We 746 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: said to the bartender, Hey, could you turn on this 747 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: show on E? He goes why, He goes, well, because 748 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 1: this is a new show and we're on it. He 749 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 1: turns it on. I'm sitting there on Twitter like this 750 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: and it's like, love this show, greatest show. I go, WHOA, 751 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,920 Speaker 1: we might have something here because I had one pole. 752 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 1: I go, I go, the show is probably gonna and 753 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: we got picked up for season two and three right away. Wow, 754 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: after three episodes and then the rest is history. And 755 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,720 Speaker 1: ten years later, you're. 756 00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:17,640 Speaker 2: Right, are you still filming a much? 757 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 1: So I'm not really. I'm gonna say this in a 758 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 1: very vague way, okay, because you know how it works 759 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:32,160 Speaker 1: in this business. There's something new, Okay, that that I'm doing. 760 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 1: That's that's that in my little world is even bigger 761 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: than watched. Wow. Yeah, that's big. And it's it's it's going, 762 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,960 Speaker 1: it's going on right now. It could be a total disaster, 763 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: but it's it's like Botch times two. Yeah. And it's 764 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: not the Botch doctors. It's me and Bop up up by. 765 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: You know, you know how it works. I can't get 766 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:02,560 Speaker 1: out until it's a thing. Uh. And it's it's really 767 00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: exciting and really scary, and you know, it's maybe a 768 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 1: February thing, but it's it's it's it's so until we 769 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: don't know what the So what happened with Botch is interesting. 770 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:23,440 Speaker 1: So NBCUS sold the first season of Botch to Netflix. 771 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:28,879 Speaker 1: Oh yes, and so it came out on Netflix and 772 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: it was the number two show on Netflix for like 773 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,520 Speaker 1: three weeks in a row. The season one of Botched, 774 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,840 Speaker 1: and when they look at the stats, because my agent 775 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 1: does that kind of thing. The number one show this 776 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: year on Netflix, that's a re that's a repurposed show 777 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: that a show that was elsewhere is as you know, 778 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: Suits is Suits, right, yeah, Suits. The number one, number 779 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 1: two is Botched. 780 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:57,440 Speaker 2: Wow. 781 00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 1: Wow is Botched. 782 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,319 Speaker 2: The typical reality show where you don't get residuals. You 783 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 2: don't get any. 784 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:04,360 Speaker 1: Of that nothing. 785 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:05,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 786 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: But the difference is the benefit for someone like me 787 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 1: who does a show like Botch. You know, if it 788 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 1: feeds your primary business, you're very, very lucky. 789 00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. Are you at the point where you have surgeons 790 00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 2: working for you? 791 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't do that, Okay, I don't do that. I 792 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,920 Speaker 1: never have a surgeon. I don't let surgeons come in 793 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 1: my operating room. I don't think. Look, I thought about this, 794 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 1: and most guys would do this. And what you can 795 00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,800 Speaker 1: do is you can run two or three rooms, start 796 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 1: the surgery here, have a junior guy finish it up. 797 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 1: Start the surgery here, and literally make three times the money. 798 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 2: Do that. 799 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: I put in every stitch, I do every procedure, I 800 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: do one at a time. And I think part of 801 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: that is just I think that's the right thing to 802 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,280 Speaker 1: do karmically, and the other thing is I'm too para, 803 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,320 Speaker 1: you know, because like the chance that something bad is 804 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 1: going to happen and somebody's going to try to extort 805 00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,720 Speaker 1: me for it is relatively high anyway. So the best 806 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: way to minimize any problems is to be a good dude, 807 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 1: to be an honest dude, and do all the work yourself. 808 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. 809 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 1: Actually, I mean if you would have told me after 810 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:24,240 Speaker 1: ten seasons, ten years of Botch that included Watch by Nature, Botch, 811 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: post up, other shows in the batch umbrella, that we've 812 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 1: had like two unhappy patients, Yeah, I mean, think about it. 813 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,239 Speaker 1: I would if you would have said to me ten 814 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 1: years ago, how many people do you think I'll sue 815 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: you within those ten seasons, I'd say, oh, I'll have 816 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 1: fifteen lawsuits, And I've only had one and it was 817 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 1: a BS extortion And I told Harvey Levin about I'm 818 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 1: being extorted, and Harvey put it on TMZ and they 819 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,879 Speaker 1: all just went and they ran away. So it's good 820 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,439 Speaker 1: to be close to Harvey Levin, by the way. 821 00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:01,359 Speaker 3: It is, by the way, I'm curious. I'm curious. Back then, 822 00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 3: real Housewives. Your wife's on it, you're you're un botched. 823 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 3: Who got paid more? You're her as far as the 824 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 3: shows are concerned. 825 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 1: So she I didn't get botched till she was on 826 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: I think four seasons or yeah, four, So yes, you 827 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 1: guys know, well maybe you don't, Eddie because she's been 828 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 1: on it for so long. But as you guys know, 829 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,759 Speaker 1: your first couple of seasons, it's like it doesn't pay 830 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 1: your hair and makeup right on Orange in Orange County. 831 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: So I think it was pretty close, like my starting 832 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 1: point to where Heather was a season four and then 833 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 1: and then she ultimately made more, but you know, and 834 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:59,360 Speaker 1: now like what is it now? It's pretty close. We 835 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 1: get paid aby out the same, but you got to 836 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 1: be you know. But you have to understand, I to 837 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,360 Speaker 1: be a big plastic surgeon with an operate with a 838 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 1: surgery center and an office that is about two hundred 839 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: thousand a month you need to make just to break 840 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: even even. Yeah, so if you take away a day 841 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: of filming a week, yeah, and three quarters a day 842 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 1: of filming surgery a week, right, you do the math. 843 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,720 Speaker 1: It it takes I make a lot more money operating 844 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 1: than I do being the botch doctor. Okay, and if 845 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 1: they let's say they paid me, which they don't. But 846 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 1: then let's pay say they paid me one hundred thousand 847 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: an episode to do botch, which they don't. You know, 848 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand is not worth a day and a 849 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 1: half for me. I got to pay this overhead. That's 850 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,359 Speaker 1: two hundred things, you know what I mean. So it's 851 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,240 Speaker 1: very expensive to run out. I have, you know, twenty 852 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: two employees. I mean, it's a it's and by the way, 853 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,840 Speaker 1: my employees have all been with me for twenty years, 854 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: so they're hay scale is all here. You know what 855 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 1: a lot of doctors do and I've never done this 856 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 1: is Oh somebody starts to make too much, you fire 857 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 1: them and you get the junior person who makes this. 858 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:13,520 Speaker 1: And by everybody is at the top of the pay scale. 859 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 1: In fact, my coordinators and my pa get paid more 860 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 1: than doctors do. 861 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, Oh the time the right company. 862 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,839 Speaker 1: I love them. They protect me. They keep me out 863 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 1: of trouble. You know. Although I had a patient the 864 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 1: other day. 865 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 2: Listen to this. 866 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 1: So this patient I go in to see her and 867 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,760 Speaker 1: she's this rich woman with all these diamonds, and she's 868 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: messed up that's a good combo platter, right, because messed 869 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 1: up and rich, I mean, where else they gonna go? 870 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 1: They have to go to the box doctor. And so 871 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: she goes, I want you to fix this. I want 872 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,600 Speaker 1: you to fix this. I want you to fix this. 873 00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 1: I want you to fix this. 874 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 2: And she was. 875 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: Totally unlikable and totally mean, and it sued three of 876 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: her four doctors. And so I walk out, I hand 877 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,279 Speaker 1: the chart to my surgery coording in the hallway. I go, 878 00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 1: not for a million dollars? And she goes, really, I go, yeah. 879 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: So she takes the lady out and she goes, she 880 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,040 Speaker 1: walks in, she goes and she's in the hallway and 881 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: I go what. She goes, how about two hundred and 882 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: forty thousand dollars? And I go to forty? I would do. 883 00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:31,240 Speaker 1: Everybody's got a price. I'm kidding. I'm sort of kidding. 884 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,319 Speaker 1: I'm sort of kidding. Maybe not, but uh, you know. 885 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: So it's very expensive to be a plastic serge, particularly 886 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 1: when you're you know, have the same employees forever. So 887 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:46,399 Speaker 1: I've watched is a net negative for sure. But let's 888 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 1: face it, do I really need any more money? I've 889 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:49,120 Speaker 1: done pretty well. 890 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 2: Right, I mean, so well, it's a marketing platform for you. 891 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but do I really need it after ten seasons? 892 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,719 Speaker 1: I mean, how much more? I mean, I'm not that famous, right, 893 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:00,840 Speaker 1: You guys have the same les of fame I do. 894 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 1: Everyone knows who we are, you know what I mean. 895 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,359 Speaker 1: And we're not getting any more famous by doing ten 896 00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 1: more seasons of whatever we do, right if this is it? 897 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:10,120 Speaker 3: Right? 898 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:13,319 Speaker 1: So I'm not going to get any more famous as 899 00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,759 Speaker 1: a plaster I don't need as a marketing and they're 900 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 1: gonna run Botched. You turn on E right now, you 901 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,360 Speaker 1: turn on Peacock right now? What do you think is running? 902 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,799 Speaker 1: What do you think is running on E? A marathon 903 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 1: of Botch on E? A marathon of Box is running 904 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: on E? Right? And so it's on Netflix, It's on 905 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 1: It's on Peacock, it's running right now. I mean, it's 906 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:38,200 Speaker 1: always on TV. So it doesn't really I don't need anymore. 907 00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 1: You know what I love about it? It's us. Yeah, 908 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:49,160 Speaker 1: it's fun. Yeah, it's fascinating. It's like the most interesting 909 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 1: thing I do is Botched by far. 910 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:56,880 Speaker 2: And you've actually helped people. It wasn't just for the show. 911 00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 2: You help people. 912 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,399 Speaker 1: It's the hugs and the tears and the You know, 913 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,000 Speaker 1: it's funny about plastic surgery. If there are certain operations 914 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 1: that nobody does very much, nobody is good at them. 915 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 1: But there's operations that nobody does that are very rare. 916 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 1: That if because you're the botch doctor, you get to 917 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,399 Speaker 1: do them all the time, you get really good at it. Right, 918 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,200 Speaker 1: So I can do this, Like there's a thing called 919 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,839 Speaker 1: a uniboo where there's two there one breast goes over 920 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: to the other side because the doctor dissected too far. 921 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,359 Speaker 1: That in the textbooks is considered not fixable. Nobody tries 922 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 1: to fix it. I can fix it in twenty minutes 923 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,720 Speaker 1: with one hundred percent success. Not because I'm so special, 924 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,480 Speaker 1: because I'm not. It's just because I've done it so 925 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: many times experience. So to apply this skill set, I 926 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,240 Speaker 1: don't want to let it go. I just it's so fun. 927 00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,120 Speaker 1: But this new thing I'm doing is super weird and 928 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:59,000 Speaker 1: super fascinating. You guys will see you know what it is. 929 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:09,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, before we go any further, I want to 930 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 2: I was really interested in learning about what it was 931 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:13,439 Speaker 2: like growing up with the rock star. 932 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 1: How did that happen? So so my brother you know, 933 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 1: as intense and pressured speech and crazy as I am. 934 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,879 Speaker 1: My brother is on another level. Okay, wow, my brother, 935 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,840 Speaker 1: if he were talking to you right now, this is 936 00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:34,879 Speaker 1: my my brother. Yeah, well, you know, you know and 937 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 1: so and quite a brilliant guy who they tested his IQ. 938 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 1: It was through the roof and they let him know. 939 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,360 Speaker 1: And he was very obnoxious that he just runs in 940 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 1: the family and so he like at ninth grade, he 941 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 1: walked in and someone said to him, you have a 942 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 1: higher IQ than any teacher you're going to have, And 943 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 1: that was the worst thing you could say to an 944 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,320 Speaker 1: asshole like my brother. He was three years older than me, 945 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,839 Speaker 1: and he never had respect for teachers. And he dropped 946 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 1: out of high school in the eleventh grade. Wow was 947 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,480 Speaker 1: he a band at that time? So all he wanted 948 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: to do. He was so into rock music, you know, 949 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: and really the classic rock music. You know. It started 950 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: out with Mata Hoople and then The Faces and then 951 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 1: the Small Faces, and then of course Led Zeppelin, you 952 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: know who was you know, Free and then back Bob 953 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: but you know, all these bands from the seventies, right, 954 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 1: he was obsessed. We had a teeny little room in 955 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 1: this house. He had two little beds, his drum set, 956 00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 1: his posters on the wall. I was allowed to have 957 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 1: one little section. He hated me and he was mean 958 00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 1: to me. And he was super tall. Oh man, So 959 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 1: I grew up with this a hole. Yeah, and it 960 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:54,799 Speaker 1: was all about He had a real de real thing 961 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: in there and his drum set and he would play. 962 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 1: He'd start playing drums when I was in bed, oh man, 963 00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,920 Speaker 1: and I go, really, go get out. I go, okay, 964 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 1: so I get out. So he drops out and he 965 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: started a band called Quiet Riot. Yeah, of course, and 966 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 1: then it was him and Randy Rhodes. I mean, it 967 00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 1: just so happened. One of the most talented guitarists in history, 968 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,799 Speaker 1: arguably top certainly top fifteen best guitarists of all time. 969 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't know about top ten, but certainly is always 970 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:28,399 Speaker 1: listed in the top fifteen. Some people rated him a seven. 971 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,120 Speaker 2: You probably know who Randy Roads is due, not really. 972 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,000 Speaker 1: Randy Rhodes was in Quiet Riot, and then Ozzy Osbourne 973 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:40,200 Speaker 1: stolen you know that yeah, crazy trained, you know that 974 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 1: guitar lick that was ready anyway, so they could they 975 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,759 Speaker 1: formed Quiet Riot. They were good, by the way. My 976 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:53,040 Speaker 1: brother was so intense and so ambitious. He was a 977 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,000 Speaker 1: great drummer, but couldn't sing at all at all. But 978 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:57,480 Speaker 1: he wanted to be a front man and want to 979 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,440 Speaker 1: be a singer. So what he did is he just 980 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 1: willed himself to learn how to sing. Now, let's face it, singing, 981 00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:09,879 Speaker 1: can you really become a good singer if you don't 982 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,759 Speaker 1: have the fundamental talent you can become by the way 983 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: you're shitty with your hands. You can become a good surgeon. 984 00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah you can't. 985 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:23,359 Speaker 1: It's it's a trainable skill. I don't think rock and roll. 986 00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 1: I don't think so, you know what I mean. I 987 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 1: don't think so. You can't will yourself to become good looking, 988 00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:36,160 Speaker 1: right And I don't think you give surgery. You can't. 989 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,520 Speaker 1: But I don't think you certainly can't do anything to your. 990 00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:40,120 Speaker 2: Voice like that. 991 00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:48,280 Speaker 1: Right. No. No, He, through willpower and just fundamental ambition 992 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 1: and intense desire willed himself to find a rock and 993 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:56,839 Speaker 1: roll voice somewhere in there. Wow, And he did. And 994 00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 1: they they would play at the Roxy, they played the 995 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 1: star Wood, they play at the Whiskey, and they would 996 00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,759 Speaker 1: sell it out every night. But they couldn't get a 997 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,000 Speaker 1: record deal, and there would be a lineup all the 998 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,760 Speaker 1: way around the block every time they were at the Roxy, 999 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: star Wood and Whiskey, and they couldn't get a record deal. 1000 00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 1: And then I remember one night, I'm sitting there watching 1001 00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:24,359 Speaker 1: my brother. I'm up you know the sort of up 1002 00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 1: the you know the seats above where you sit down, 1003 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:32,520 Speaker 1: and I'm up there and there's Ozzy Osbourne, Robert Palmer, 1004 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:36,440 Speaker 1: Robert Palmer, Carl Palmer, the drummer for Emerson, Lake and Palmer. 1005 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,439 Speaker 1: And I'm going, whoa look at these guys up here. 1006 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:45,600 Speaker 1: And I see Ozzy Osbourne talking to Carl Palmer, and 1007 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 1: I had a bad feeling, and he goes Ozzy Osbourne 1008 00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 1: goes down and you see him talking to Randy Rhodes 1009 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 1: and he stole Randy Rhodes from Choir Riot. And my 1010 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 1: brother was devastated because it was Randy Rhodes. He had 1011 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:04,439 Speaker 1: the greatest guitars, so Ozzie stole him and my brother 1012 00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: was devastated. Got new guitars, but it wasn't it doesn't 1013 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,560 Speaker 1: you know Randy roads anymore, Long story short, Randy ends 1014 00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,360 Speaker 1: up dying because they crashed into a bus with the 1015 00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:16,760 Speaker 1: makeup artist on tour. They rented the plane and my 1016 00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 1: brother two years later had a number one album. Wow yeah, 1017 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 1: and so so quick story about that. I am a 1018 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,760 Speaker 1: second I'm a second year med student at. 1019 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 2: UCLA and my brother number one record. 1020 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 1: When he got his number one record, he let me 1021 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 1: live in the guest house in the back over the 1022 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 1: garage next to the pool in Hancock Parking. Got a 1023 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: big mansion and he let me live there. My only 1024 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:49,840 Speaker 1: job was to watch his cat, Larry. That's it. So 1025 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 1: I got to live rent free in Hancock park in 1026 00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,400 Speaker 1: a mansion in the back right and go to UCLA 1027 00:57:56,520 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 1: med school and take care of his cat. 1028 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,440 Speaker 3: I'm curious, did he leave you any of the. 1029 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: Leftover roopies? No? And so he would come home from 1030 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,600 Speaker 1: he would come home for tour with David Lee Roth 1031 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 1: and Eddie Van Halen and they would play pool. There'd 1032 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 1: be naked girls all around. This is back when it 1033 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,360 Speaker 1: was I'm sure it's still crazy. This is back when 1034 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:25,120 Speaker 1: it was really crazy, right where cocaine was not like dangerous, 1035 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:29,360 Speaker 1: it was just fun. All right, Candy, You know, Candy, 1036 00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:33,520 Speaker 1: this is nineteen eighty two, all right, eighty three. Nobody 1037 00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:39,000 Speaker 1: died from cocaine back then. Yet, so one night he 1038 00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 1: comes home and he's true was touring Germany, and I 1039 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 1: heard he was going to be here and there. For 1040 00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,520 Speaker 1: some reason, something got canceled, so he thought he'd fly home. 1041 00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:51,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know. And there in the back and I 1042 00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 1: hear all these cars pull up, because you know, they 1043 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 1: pulled up with all the rock star cars. And it's 1044 00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:59,920 Speaker 1: like three forty eight in the morning, and I hear this. 1045 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:03,760 Speaker 1: My brother was an asshole, by the way, and he 1046 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 1: was very coked out, okay all the time, and I'm going, 1047 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,400 Speaker 1: what the hell. I look down and he goes and 1048 00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:16,680 Speaker 1: I go, oh hey, you know, and he goes, where's 1049 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:24,840 Speaker 1: Larry his cat? And I go, oh shit, where's Larry. 1050 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:29,920 Speaker 1: My one job, the one thing I was responsible for 1051 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,040 Speaker 1: to live there Red Free, was to take care of 1052 00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 1: his cat. And so I go and I'm looking around 1053 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: in the guesthouse and there's no Larry. Oh shit, I know. 1054 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,720 Speaker 1: And so I come out and I put my scrubs on. 1055 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 1: I'd be at work in an hour at UCLA anyway, 1056 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 1: but it was like three forty eight and I couldn't 1057 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 1: find Larry. He was so pissed by the time I 1058 00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 1: got home the next day. Because I was on call 1059 00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,160 Speaker 1: that night. My mom called me. She goes, honey, I 1060 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: go what. She goes, your brother wants you out of there. 1061 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,080 Speaker 1: He kicked me out of the house because I can't 1062 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:13,960 Speaker 1: that what job? What JOm job? Wow? And so just 1063 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:17,920 Speaker 1: to one other interesting story, So I'm first year Usilly 1064 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:22,440 Speaker 1: med student. My brother gets a record contract with CBS. Okay, 1065 01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:26,600 Speaker 1: and he the album comes out and all of a 1066 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 1: sudden it appears on Billboard charts. When you know that 1067 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:33,040 Speaker 1: you would buy LPs and it was they to the 1068 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,960 Speaker 1: top one hundred and it was ninety eight with a 1069 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:38,880 Speaker 1: bullet And I come home and you know it was 1070 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:43,000 Speaker 1: the answer machines, you play the thing? I honey, it 1071 01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:45,840 Speaker 1: was my mom. She goes, your brother's album is ninety 1072 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 1: eight with a bullet. I go, whoa, Kevin's on the 1073 01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: one hundred Billboard chart. Wow. And the next week, Hi, honey, 1074 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 1: it's ninety two with a bullet. Okay, how does it? 1075 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 1: And this continued on thirteen with a bullet. Eight with 1076 01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:03,680 Speaker 1: a bullet, because with a bullet meant you were going 1077 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:07,440 Speaker 1: to go higher next week okay, because that man's accelerated growth, 1078 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 1: accelerated sales. And then the next week after that it 1079 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:17,160 Speaker 1: comes out and number one album in the country was 1080 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:22,919 Speaker 1: Metal Health by Quiet Riot. Number two was Thriller by 1081 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, and number three was All Night Long by 1082 01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 1: Lionel Richard. 1083 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,880 Speaker 2: It was like, wow, that was the eighties, right, that 1084 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,640 Speaker 2: was eighty two eighty two? 1085 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, I'm sorry eighty four. That was eighty four. 1086 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 2: I remember those songs. Yeah, yeah, And so. 1087 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,240 Speaker 1: You know that that was sort of the evolue. And 1088 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,200 Speaker 1: then when he came home, it was just a different 1089 01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,400 Speaker 1: It was a different world. He was much more coked, 1090 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:55,080 Speaker 1: his cars were much more radical, you know, Ferrari. And 1091 01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:57,840 Speaker 1: then I remember when the album hit number one, he's 1092 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 1: flying in to play at the Forum, which they call 1093 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: what do they call it now, the Great westerns whatever 1094 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 1: it's called now? Is it called Staples? I think, yeah, 1095 01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 1: Kia now, But it was called the Great Western Forum. 1096 01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,400 Speaker 1: It was called the Forum. It was like the place 1097 01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 1: you wanted to headline. And he invited me there and 1098 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 1: I hadn't seen him for three months because he's been 1099 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 1: on tour all over the world. And they I go 1100 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,800 Speaker 1: backstage and they go, hey, your brother wants to see you, 1101 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:27,600 Speaker 1: and he sees me. He goes like this, right, and 1102 01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:30,920 Speaker 1: he takes me out backstage, and you know, the opening 1103 01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,280 Speaker 1: act had already closed, and they brought all his equipment 1104 01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:37,480 Speaker 1: out and he opens up the curtain like this and 1105 01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,200 Speaker 1: he says, look at that. And I look through and 1106 01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 1: there's seventeen thousand lighters. Wow. Cool, wowes rush, he goes. 1107 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,480 Speaker 1: You want to know what it's like. He was, this 1108 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:52,760 Speaker 1: is what it's like. Yeah, and then he comes out. 1109 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 1: You know, it was like out of that. What a rush, right, 1110 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:01,680 Speaker 1: that's the ultimate rush. But he give me out of 1111 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:07,040 Speaker 1: the house. So, kim, Hey, you lost his cat. I 1112 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:12,400 Speaker 1: lost his cat? Yes, oh good, good. By the way, 1113 01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:14,440 Speaker 1: like the cat, you know where the cat was in 1114 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 1: the main house. 1115 01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's funny. He was just. 1116 01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,040 Speaker 1: Pissed that I didn't know where the cat was. Cat 1117 01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:21,720 Speaker 1: was in the house. Oh wow. 1118 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,040 Speaker 2: So hey, I remember last time we had dinner. You 1119 01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 2: said you did not drink an ounce of alcohol until 1120 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:33,160 Speaker 2: you met Heather True. Tell us about that. How do 1121 01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: you go through med school and not drink alcohol? 1122 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 1: So in high school I didn't drink. I did smoke weed, 1123 01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 1: okay a little bit when I was when I was 1124 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,120 Speaker 1: in twelfth grade, I discovered weed. But you know, I 1125 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 1: went to college to be a doctor, right, and so 1126 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 1: I was so you know, my stepfather was a construction 1127 01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:58,880 Speaker 1: plumber who was out of work all the time. I 1128 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 1: never had any money growing up, and I felt like, 1129 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:06,800 Speaker 1: if I don't get into medical school, what the hell 1130 01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,240 Speaker 1: am I gonna do? You know? So I was always 1131 01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:11,720 Speaker 1: I was and getting into med school. I'm sure it's 1132 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,439 Speaker 1: even harder now, but it was really, really, really hard 1133 01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,960 Speaker 1: back then. And like you sit your chemistry class and 1134 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 1: they say how many of your pre met? Everybody raise 1135 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,760 Speaker 1: their head, and so they go look to your left, 1136 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: look to your right. Neither of you are getting in. 1137 01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 1: That's he competitive, so plan for something else. So it 1138 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:32,040 Speaker 1: was like I was so paranoid and I had a 1139 01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:36,800 Speaker 1: bad experience with alcohol when I was twelve. I somebody 1140 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,120 Speaker 1: gave you some whiskey. I threw up for like hours. 1141 01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:43,920 Speaker 1: So I didn't drink in college. Can you believe that 1142 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: I didn't drink in medical school. I really didn't drink 1143 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: till I met Heather. And when I met Heather, Steps 1144 01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 1: in the City was a huge program on TV okay, 1145 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,480 Speaker 1: and it was just when they they're the ones that 1146 01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:05,560 Speaker 1: made Cosmo really popular. And if you don't drink, you 1147 01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 1: can drink a Cosmos, right easy, like surely exactly. So 1148 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,520 Speaker 1: she turned me. She goes, let's have a Cosmo. So 1149 01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:18,000 Speaker 1: I'd have a Cosmo and it's Heather's so elegant and 1150 01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:22,800 Speaker 1: beautiful and awesome. And so I drink Cosmo and go, oh, 1151 01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 1: this is good. She does, and so I would have, 1152 01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: you know, one or two and then slowly, when you're 1153 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:37,160 Speaker 1: married to Heather Debro, you become a drinker, right, And 1154 01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:41,720 Speaker 1: so unfortunately I substituted alcohol for marijuana. I should have 1155 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:47,040 Speaker 1: stuck with the marijuana. And now I obviously enjoy drinking. 1156 01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:49,120 Speaker 1: I keep it. You know, I don't try not to 1157 01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,240 Speaker 1: drink during the week, but uh, you know, Heather and 1158 01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:53,960 Speaker 1: I drink. I mean, you're not married to Heather de 1159 01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,120 Speaker 1: Bro and not drink. If you are, you're not hanging 1160 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:56,640 Speaker 1: out with her. 1161 01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:10,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand you guys were you met on a 1162 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:11,919 Speaker 2: blind date? Right? 1163 01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 1: So I went to I did general surgery with a 1164 01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:22,560 Speaker 1: really so I was chief resident General Surgery with three 1165 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,919 Speaker 1: other guys with our four chief residents in my year. 1166 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:30,440 Speaker 1: And one of the guys was an incredibly gifted, intense 1167 01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 1: like black Belding, karate and super genius. This guy was like, 1168 01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,080 Speaker 1: you know, you could give him what's three hundred and 1169 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:42,240 Speaker 1: forty three times eleven hundred and seventy yeight, he'd go 1170 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 1: and he tell you it. He was one of these three. 1171 01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,920 Speaker 1: He was a savant. He was a little Elon muskis 1172 01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:52,880 Speaker 1: little Aspergers, you know, not the greatest personality, not that 1173 01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,160 Speaker 1: much empathy. But he was a surgeon, which is not 1174 01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: uncommon for a surgeon. And he went off to do 1175 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:03,080 Speaker 1: liver transplant fellowship and the best program in the country 1176 01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:08,160 Speaker 1: at Philadelphia. And I went off to do plastic surgery UCLA. 1177 01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:13,520 Speaker 1: I graduated, and I was a serial monogamist. Okay, I 1178 01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: was the kind of guy who by the really quick story, 1179 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 1: I remember my mother used to say, when you get 1180 01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,000 Speaker 1: into med school, girls are going to really like you. 1181 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,320 Speaker 1: I get into med school, Nah, girls didn't like me 1182 01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:32,400 Speaker 1: that much. And then I got into this competitive general 1183 01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 1: surgery program. My mom goes, oh, when you're a surgeon, 1184 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:37,520 Speaker 1: girls are gonna like you. 1185 01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:39,760 Speaker 2: Didn't really, it's. 1186 01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:43,720 Speaker 1: Not really true. And then I get into UCLA's plastic 1187 01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:47,640 Speaker 1: surgery program, you know, and my mom goes, well, you're 1188 01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:51,880 Speaker 1: a plastic surgeon, girls are gonna really like you. Finally 1189 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:57,800 Speaker 1: it was true. So that's how I scored someone like 1190 01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:04,280 Speaker 1: Heather debrou looking like this right. So I graduate, I 1191 01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:07,520 Speaker 1: open up my practice in Newport Beach. My buddy does 1192 01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:11,439 Speaker 1: liver transplant surgery. And I'm like three or four years 1193 01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:13,520 Speaker 1: into my practice and I get a call. Hey, there's 1194 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:15,920 Speaker 1: a doctor Craig Smith on the phone. I go, Craig 1195 01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:19,479 Speaker 1: Smith from General Surgery. I go, what's happening? I go, 1196 01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:22,160 Speaker 1: what are you doing? He goes, I'm doing Patreo's transplants 1197 01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,600 Speaker 1: now at UCLA. I go, wow. He goes, Hey, the 1198 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:27,439 Speaker 1: reason I'm calling? Are you still single? I go, yeah, 1199 01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:29,120 Speaker 1: I just broke up with my girlfriend. I was a 1200 01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 1: serial monogamist. I would go out with girls for three 1201 01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 1: months and then get bored. Take him on a shopping 1202 01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 1: trip because I was a single plastic surgeon. Who you 1203 01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:39,559 Speaker 1: know me? I don't like stuff. I don't drive a 1204 01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:43,519 Speaker 1: fancy car. I don't have any one I dress. You've 1205 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:48,800 Speaker 1: seen me. No jewelry, I'm simple man. No jewelry. It's 1206 01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:51,640 Speaker 1: all black until they make a darker color, you know. 1207 01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:55,479 Speaker 1: And so I you know, I don't spend money. I 1208 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:59,160 Speaker 1: don't care about money. I care about having fun. And 1209 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:02,559 Speaker 1: so he I go, oh. So I would always take 1210 01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:05,280 Speaker 1: the girlfriend I wanted to dump for a shopping trip. 1211 01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,439 Speaker 1: They didn't know, but that was the last day and 1212 01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:10,120 Speaker 1: I get rid of them. So I done the shopping 1213 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:13,679 Speaker 1: excursion with the last girlfriend, who, by the way, ended 1214 01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:18,840 Speaker 1: up killing two kids in on West Lake twenty years 1215 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,559 Speaker 1: later after she got married drunk. You know this case. 1216 01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,639 Speaker 1: I was her boyfriend twenty years before. Maybe you don't 1217 01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:28,040 Speaker 1: know it, but it's a famous case. Anyway, he goes. 1218 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:32,599 Speaker 3: I'm curious, what was the psychology of getting them all 1219 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 3: these presents before you dumped them? 1220 01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:42,360 Speaker 1: Guilt guilt relief. Yeah. I would go out for three months, 1221 01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:45,040 Speaker 1: three in tense months. I'm into you, I'm into you, 1222 01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm into you, not into you and so, and it's 1223 01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,840 Speaker 1: like they think I'm really into them. I'm faded, I'm 1224 01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:55,439 Speaker 1: over it. And I just couldn't bring myself to break 1225 01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 1: up with them without giving them a partying gift, good man. 1226 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 1: So I would take them. I literally would take them 1227 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 1: to Neiman Marcus and say whatever you want. And they 1228 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,479 Speaker 1: would always think that, oh, we're going to the next 1229 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:13,080 Speaker 1: level he's takings and I would drop. And this is 1230 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:18,080 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety five. I would drop twenty eight thousand dollars 1231 01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:18,479 Speaker 1: on them. 1232 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 2: Jeez, wow, that's a lot of guilt. 1233 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, think about what twenty eight thousand dollars is when 1234 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:27,639 Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety eight it even. 1235 01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:29,800 Speaker 3: I probably saw you were going to marry them, I know, 1236 01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:34,680 Speaker 3: And so a new car, it's right, right, And so 1237 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 3: I did it ghost? 1238 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:44,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I done the ghost shopping trip right and 1239 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:48,280 Speaker 1: with this girl. And I was single for two months, 1240 01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:51,519 Speaker 1: not really dating anyone. He calls me, He goes, hey, 1241 01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 1: are you still seeing I go, I am. I just 1242 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,599 Speaker 1: broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago. He goes, great, 1243 01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:58,479 Speaker 1: my girlfriend has a best friend. And I go, what 1244 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:02,080 Speaker 1: does she do? He goes, she's an actress. I go, really, 1245 01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:08,479 Speaker 1: where does she wait tables? And and he goes, no, 1246 01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:11,240 Speaker 1: she's on a TV show. I go she is? And 1247 01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:12,880 Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, she's on a show called Life with 1248 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,680 Speaker 1: Rogers Sunday nights at eight. Man go look at her? 1249 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:17,519 Speaker 1: So I go. He goes, He goes, I want to 1250 01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:19,479 Speaker 1: set you up with her. She wants to marry She 1251 01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:22,280 Speaker 1: wants to meet a Jewish doctor. And I went okay. 1252 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 1: So I go home, and you know you could there 1253 01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:28,840 Speaker 1: was no internet then, you know, they didn't have that 1254 01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,720 Speaker 1: TV there was no AOL, you know what I mean. 1255 01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:37,360 Speaker 1: And so I Sunday Night this, you know, we were 1256 01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 1: going to go out Tuesday or something of the next week. 1257 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:43,040 Speaker 1: Sunday Night comes on, and you know, I turn on 1258 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 1: Life with Roger and she's the bartender and she comes out. 1259 01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:54,479 Speaker 1: And my wife back then had very beautiful, perfect breast. 1260 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,400 Speaker 1: This is before you know, she had no she's never 1261 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,439 Speaker 1: had breast implants. She never had any plast surgery, right, 1262 01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:02,040 Speaker 1: she just fill her and botox whatever, and that face 1263 01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:06,920 Speaker 1: and I go, oh, she's never gonna like me. She's 1264 01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 1: an actress on TV. Look at the way she looks. 1265 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:12,559 Speaker 1: She was twenty eight. I'm thirty seven. Never gonna like me. 1266 01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,920 Speaker 1: And we they said, what do you want to go out? 1267 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 1: The four of us? And they want to go to 1268 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,679 Speaker 1: the grill. I go, now, let's go to the Ivy 1269 01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: at the shore. So we meet the Ivy at the shore. 1270 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:26,280 Speaker 1: She walks in and I go, oh, yeah, this girl 1271 01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:29,600 Speaker 1: forget it. This goes and so this girl's never going 1272 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 1: to like me. And she was everything I like. She 1273 01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:35,240 Speaker 1: had that round face, that beautiful black hair, the perfect breast, 1274 01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,880 Speaker 1: this wonderful body. And she's on a TV show. Yeah, 1275 01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,479 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, yeah, I'm a plastic surgeon. I 1276 01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:45,320 Speaker 1: can pull some girls, but not I'm still this all right, 1277 01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:50,400 Speaker 1: I'm still not pulling you know that? All right? Maybe 1278 01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:53,400 Speaker 1: you guys, you guys can I could never pull that, 1279 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:56,439 Speaker 1: all right, even as a plastic surgeon. Right, And so 1280 01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,680 Speaker 1: we hit it off awesome. Well, and she didn't like 1281 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,280 Speaker 1: me very much because she thought I was cocky. Yeah, 1282 01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:06,960 Speaker 1: and I wasn't cocky. And anyway, we went out and 1283 01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:09,840 Speaker 1: after about six weeks that was it. Wow, that was 1284 01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:10,759 Speaker 1: the end of it. Yeah. 1285 01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 2: Nice. 1286 01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:15,120 Speaker 1: So that's how I met her. And you know, here 1287 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,559 Speaker 1: we are twenty whatever years later. She thinks I'm a pain. 1288 01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:21,680 Speaker 1: She thinks I'm a pain in the ass. Yeah, she 1289 01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:25,080 Speaker 1: loves you, she loves me. I love her. You know, 1290 01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:29,240 Speaker 1: she's the world's greatest mother. You know, she's she's and 1291 01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:33,080 Speaker 1: and he's a killer man. What she does works. You know, 1292 01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:37,360 Speaker 1: everything I dump on her is successful. Yeah, she's an 1293 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:40,800 Speaker 1: awesome lady. Whether it's housewives or a lot and I say, 1294 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:44,679 Speaker 1: just build a house. It turns out to be like, wow, 1295 01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:48,000 Speaker 1: you you were pretty golden. So for me, you know, 1296 01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 1: it's pretty cool. 1297 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:51,760 Speaker 2: Tell us, tell us about your experience on the real 1298 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,839 Speaker 2: housefights of Orange County, the good and the bad. Because 1299 01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:58,400 Speaker 2: I mean when we met, I was I think I 1300 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:00,960 Speaker 2: was just on the cusp of of I want nothing 1301 01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:04,520 Speaker 2: to do with this, And yeah, you were all about it, 1302 01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:08,519 Speaker 2: and you navigated through it very well until you finally 1303 01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:10,759 Speaker 2: figured it out and said, Okay, I don't want anything 1304 01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:13,120 Speaker 2: to do with it. I'm gonna go do my shows. 1305 01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,680 Speaker 2: And then every time we filmed, and you filmed a 1306 01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:18,639 Speaker 2: little bit, we found ourselves behind the camera a lot 1307 01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,719 Speaker 2: because we didn't want to be a part of the drama. 1308 01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,080 Speaker 1: Right, well the hell, you know. Right. So at the beginning, 1309 01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:29,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know the show because I was a guy 1310 01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:32,679 Speaker 1: didn't watch housewives. By the way, do you watch house 1311 01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:34,639 Speaker 1: Do you watch the show anymore? I don't watch it either. 1312 01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:36,880 Speaker 1: Only if I have to, I don't. By the way, 1313 01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:39,080 Speaker 1: she'll show me a scene, but I don't even want 1314 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:40,840 Speaker 1: to see a scenes. I'm afraid they'll show me something 1315 01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:43,960 Speaker 1: it'll piss me off. So I think I think I 1316 01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:50,160 Speaker 1: don't want it. But at first I thought this is hilarious, 1317 01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah this is And you know, I had no idea 1318 01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:56,639 Speaker 1: how dangerous it could potentially be, how we could spin 1319 01:14:56,720 --> 01:15:00,759 Speaker 1: out on you, how I just thought it was funny, 1320 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, And every time I do a scene, I 1321 01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:12,320 Speaker 1: think to myself, I'm hilarious until they edit it. Are 1322 01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,240 Speaker 1: till they edit it, that's right. And you know, I 1323 01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:18,200 Speaker 1: you know, even in my medical practice, even in the 1324 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:22,360 Speaker 1: midst of a trauma, I find the silliness in everything, 1325 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,280 Speaker 1: you know, the yeah, well, that's just my thing. I'm 1326 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:31,439 Speaker 1: I'm somewhere arrested in fourth grade. You know. Densy humor 1327 01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:34,880 Speaker 1: is like between eleven and twelve years old, right, I 1328 01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:38,400 Speaker 1: know that, yeah, And so I'm still that way. And 1329 01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:42,760 Speaker 1: so I thought it was really fun and funny. And 1330 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:46,160 Speaker 1: Heather didn't want to do the show. She hated doing it. 1331 01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:50,240 Speaker 1: She was incredibly sensitive about it. Didn't want me to 1332 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,960 Speaker 1: be joking on it and all that do with make 1333 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:58,799 Speaker 1: me crazier and want to be sillier. And she hated 1334 01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:02,760 Speaker 1: me on the show. And then she resonated, as you know, 1335 01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:10,200 Speaker 1: she got better at it. And I think the turning 1336 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:14,240 Speaker 1: point for me was when we were at the final 1337 01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:19,200 Speaker 1: dinner for one of the seasons and nothing was happening, 1338 01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:21,800 Speaker 1: and I thought, come on, I want another season. Let's 1339 01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:24,000 Speaker 1: get some ratings, and I scream at David Badoor. 1340 01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:26,639 Speaker 2: I remember that dinner and. 1341 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:30,880 Speaker 1: I screamed at him, and I really didn't feel what 1342 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:33,600 Speaker 1: I was screaming. I was kind of just acting to 1343 01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,680 Speaker 1: be honest with you, and to be honest with you, 1344 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:40,040 Speaker 1: I thought he was kind of not the greatest human 1345 01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:42,519 Speaker 1: being in the world, and blah blah blah, But I 1346 01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:45,120 Speaker 1: didn't care. I love everybody. I mean, by the way, 1347 01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:50,840 Speaker 1: I saw David Badour two years ago at Javier's and 1348 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:52,599 Speaker 1: I walked by and I look him and I gave 1349 01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:55,320 Speaker 1: him a squeeze and I go, how are you? Is 1350 01:16:55,360 --> 01:16:57,000 Speaker 1: my way of saying. If I was a douche to 1351 01:16:57,040 --> 01:17:00,559 Speaker 1: you ever, I apologize, you know, but I didn't say it. 1352 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:03,040 Speaker 1: But he knew what I was doing right, And so 1353 01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:09,280 Speaker 1: I got so burned in social media for that and 1354 01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 1: so hated for doing that that I thought, oh, this 1355 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:17,200 Speaker 1: is not fun, because up until that point, he's the funniest, 1356 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:20,519 Speaker 1: He's the greatest. We love Terry. Here, does I love Terry? 1357 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:24,400 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, go places, Oh my god, yourself funny? 1358 01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:27,400 Speaker 1: It was fun, right, you know, Let's face it, being 1359 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 1: on a reality show and being successful, it's like being 1360 01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:34,880 Speaker 1: the high school quarterback. Yeah, everybody likes you. Everybody talks 1361 01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:37,160 Speaker 1: to you wherever you go. It's like hey, Terry, just 1362 01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:39,599 Speaker 1: like hey, you know, you're not an atalist celebrity, so 1363 01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:42,720 Speaker 1: people aren't acting like they don't see you. Now it's 1364 01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:44,960 Speaker 1: maybe a little different because maybe Heather I a little 1365 01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 1: more you know, you know what I mean. I don't know, 1366 01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. People aren't as but people are still 1367 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:57,479 Speaker 1: very friendly. But whatever. So and then I ran into 1368 01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:06,160 Speaker 1: some negative storylines that were based partly in truth. Like 1369 01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,519 Speaker 1: I don't remember what the first really negative thing was 1370 01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,320 Speaker 1: about me. It was before it was you know, we're 1371 01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 1: in two chunks, right, the first chunk and we were 1372 01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:19,639 Speaker 1: off and in the second chunk. And then I ran 1373 01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:24,479 Speaker 1: into some some shit that people were saying about me 1374 01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:27,880 Speaker 1: that was about maybe me as a doctor, and it 1375 01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 1: was like whoa, not cool and not true? All right, 1376 01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:36,800 Speaker 1: and now it's like my patients were coming and they're 1377 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,200 Speaker 1: going wow, and I'm going okay, okay. And then right 1378 01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:43,320 Speaker 1: about that time, I got botched. Okay, and here I am. 1379 01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:45,719 Speaker 1: I have my own TV show. It is a giant, 1380 01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:49,280 Speaker 1: at least in my little world, a giant hit. I'm 1381 01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:52,519 Speaker 1: the most famous, let's face it. Right then and arguably now, 1382 01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:55,240 Speaker 1: let's be honest, who's the most famous plastic surgeon in 1383 01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:59,200 Speaker 1: the world. I mean, because plast surgeons aren't on DV 1384 01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:03,759 Speaker 1: so it's not like there are fifty guys doing TV 1385 01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 1: shows and I happen to be the most popular. I'm like, 1386 01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: sort of it. I mean, Paul NASSIV is wonderful, but 1387 01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:18,160 Speaker 1: he's a bore, right right, So so here I am, 1388 01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:21,160 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking to myself, why would I ever expose 1389 01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:24,679 Speaker 1: myself to anything negative when I have my own hero 1390 01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:29,240 Speaker 1: show that the producers say to you, Terry, why the 1391 01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:32,240 Speaker 1: razor's edge, say anything you want, we will never make 1392 01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:36,240 Speaker 1: you look bad. And it's like, so I thought, I 1393 01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:38,759 Speaker 1: why would I ever want to film this show again? 1394 01:19:39,120 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 2: Right? 1395 01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:42,080 Speaker 1: All right? And then and then, as you know, when 1396 01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 1: we go back on it the second chunk I go 1397 01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 1: back on, I go, you know, here, I am the 1398 01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:50,040 Speaker 1: botch doctor. I'm pretty famous, I'm pretty pretty beloved in 1399 01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:52,640 Speaker 1: the plastic surgery world. I'm kind of a little bit 1400 01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:58,800 Speaker 1: of a surgical hero. And we bring on a housewife 1401 01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:02,880 Speaker 1: who sued me to twenty years ago, and it's exploited 1402 01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:08,559 Speaker 1: and evolution botches production company fully leans in and I went, 1403 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,519 Speaker 1: I can't believe you would make a storyline out of 1404 01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: me when I'm on your hit show. Yeah, I mean, 1405 01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:17,920 Speaker 1: my show brings in money. 1406 01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:21,040 Speaker 2: For them, and it's a housewives show. Why do they 1407 01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:23,400 Speaker 2: make it about us? Why do they make it about you? 1408 01:20:24,040 --> 01:20:27,800 Speaker 1: And so it it pissed me off, and I said, 1409 01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:29,960 Speaker 1: I mean when I called them, when they when they 1410 01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:32,160 Speaker 1: exploited that, and they knew it was going on, and 1411 01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,280 Speaker 1: of course the producers all live. We didn't know. Yeah, 1412 01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:36,560 Speaker 1: you don't know, yea. And I said, guess what. I 1413 01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:42,559 Speaker 1: quit botched, I quit done. So take your fifteen million 1414 01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:44,640 Speaker 1: a year or whatever you make from the show and 1415 01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 1: erase it for your books because I quit. And of 1416 01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:50,240 Speaker 1: course I said, you know what, I'm a poor acid 1417 01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:54,080 Speaker 1: in my own face. And so I was so mad. 1418 01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 1: And so those are the negative experiences. And then you know, 1419 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: you ma or whatever that thing that puts out this 1420 01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:10,160 Speaker 1: thing that says fancy pads rumor housewife not shooting because 1421 01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:13,840 Speaker 1: she's fighting with her show her husband about cheating, well, 1422 01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:18,040 Speaker 1: not cheating, and she was filming. It was just a lie, 1423 01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:22,160 Speaker 1: and that exploded cheating rumors. And I wasn't really worried 1424 01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:24,800 Speaker 1: about that because it's not true. Whatever, but at the 1425 01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:30,000 Speaker 1: end of the day, it's like, Okay, what good name 1426 01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:33,719 Speaker 1: one good thing about being on Real Housewives of Orange 1427 01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:36,320 Speaker 1: County is there for me? There's only one good thing, 1428 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:38,559 Speaker 1: and you know what it is, Eddie. You both know 1429 01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:42,519 Speaker 1: what it is. Supporting your wife. That's the only thing 1430 01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:45,640 Speaker 1: you part from that. There's nothing good in it for 1431 01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:51,800 Speaker 1: you for us, right right. I remember telling this. There 1432 01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 1: was this plastic surgeon in Orange County whose wife was 1433 01:21:55,040 --> 01:21:57,679 Speaker 1: going to be on the Housewives. She got the job, 1434 01:21:58,479 --> 01:22:00,680 Speaker 1: she got it, and he says to me, hey, can 1435 01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:03,400 Speaker 1: you go out with drinks for me? With me? And 1436 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,479 Speaker 1: I go sure. The plastic surga is just me and him, 1437 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:08,040 Speaker 1: and he says to me. He goes, so should I 1438 01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:10,920 Speaker 1: do it? And I go, let me ask you. I go, 1439 01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:14,960 Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Okay, Heather wanted his 1440 01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:16,200 Speaker 1: wife to do it. I go, let me ask you 1441 01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:20,960 Speaker 1: a question. I go, Is there something in your past that, 1442 01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:25,560 Speaker 1: if it came out, would really hurt your career? He 1443 01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:29,599 Speaker 1: goes no, and I go, Okay, if there's nothing in 1444 01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:34,080 Speaker 1: your past you didn't have, you didn't have. We're accused 1445 01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:38,599 Speaker 1: of sexually doing something, of some criminal behavior, of something, 1446 01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:42,280 Speaker 1: something something that if it came out would have a 1447 01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:46,479 Speaker 1: very negative detrimental effect on your life and your career 1448 01:22:46,840 --> 01:22:49,439 Speaker 1: if there's nothing like that in there, and you're sure 1449 01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:52,080 Speaker 1: there's no skeleton there, even if it was just a 1450 01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:56,639 Speaker 1: bullshit accusation, I said, yes, come on, and the next 1451 01:22:56,720 --> 01:23:01,840 Speaker 1: morning his wife said no, and Heather goes, what did 1452 01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:04,599 Speaker 1: you say to that guy? And I go that guy 1453 01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:05,240 Speaker 1: has something. 1454 01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:07,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean we. 1455 01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 1: Have a history, we all have a past. And well 1456 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:12,880 Speaker 1: and by the way, even if you don't, let's say 1457 01:23:12,920 --> 01:23:14,920 Speaker 1: you were, you could say anything you want about a 1458 01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:18,559 Speaker 1: person in a lawsuit, anything, because you can't defame someone 1459 01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,960 Speaker 1: in a lawsuit because it's called litigation privileges. I can 1460 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:25,240 Speaker 1: say anything, I sue you, Eddie, I can say you 1461 01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:30,880 Speaker 1: did anything, and there's no defamation. You'll prove. But once 1462 01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:35,320 Speaker 1: it's out there, once TMZ puts it out there, Eddie, 1463 01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:40,439 Speaker 1: judge did whatever. Even if it was complete, made up bullshit, 1464 01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:45,960 Speaker 1: you know it's out there. And so so now what 1465 01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 1: I do is, I'm sure you do the same thing. 1466 01:23:49,840 --> 01:23:56,479 Speaker 1: I reluctantly, you know, with great you know, pushback film, 1467 01:23:57,360 --> 01:24:00,240 Speaker 1: you know, and and so my rules are of the 1468 01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,479 Speaker 1: rules used to be no kids, no careers. Remember that 1469 01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:06,559 Speaker 1: well that since we were off and they brought in 1470 01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:10,240 Speaker 1: the other housewives who said, I'll screw that kids careers 1471 01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:13,240 Speaker 1: and we're going after all of you, all of it 1472 01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:15,320 Speaker 1: come back. You know who I'm talking. You know what 1473 01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:19,200 Speaker 1: I do about right, all right, So that they violated that. 1474 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:23,280 Speaker 1: So now it seems to be a bit better. Now, 1475 01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:27,360 Speaker 1: see the new, the new, the old generation of sensibility 1476 01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,000 Speaker 1: seems to be back. Would you agree a little bit? 1477 01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:31,400 Speaker 1: I do a little bit. 1478 01:24:31,840 --> 01:24:34,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. When we came back, I felt a lot more 1479 01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:40,160 Speaker 2: comfortable engaging and and talking. And you know, there's still 1480 01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:43,200 Speaker 2: obviously drama because my wife just knows how to produce it, 1481 01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:45,200 Speaker 2: right awesome. 1482 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:48,920 Speaker 1: So now what I do is I go my new rules. 1483 01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,760 Speaker 1: It's always been no kids careers for me anyway, but 1484 01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:54,960 Speaker 1: my new rule is, like, look, there's stuff about one 1485 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:58,760 Speaker 1: of the housewives that's just come out that's you know, 1486 01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:02,320 Speaker 1: about family and blah blah. You've seen it. I'm not 1487 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:07,040 Speaker 1: we're not talking about it. Heather would never go there, right, 1488 01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:11,040 Speaker 1: never talk about it, never bring it up because that's kids. Okay, 1489 01:25:11,400 --> 01:25:15,240 Speaker 1: We're not doing kids, all right. And there's lawsuits that 1490 01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:19,000 Speaker 1: are new that we're hearing about. Heather's not going there 1491 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:22,559 Speaker 1: all right, and so because that might affect careers. But 1492 01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:26,439 Speaker 1: what I try to do is I basically my new 1493 01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:29,719 Speaker 1: rule is you ask me about a housewife you're fighting 1494 01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:33,599 Speaker 1: with in a scene, I won't talk about it. I'll 1495 01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:36,880 Speaker 1: tell you. I'll say, oh, that's a bomber. Yeah, but 1496 01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:39,720 Speaker 1: you want and both of you know this. You want 1497 01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:45,040 Speaker 1: to lose. Go after a housewife, you will lose. So 1498 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:47,240 Speaker 1: that's my experience. So the good I want to talk 1499 01:25:47,240 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 1: about the good. Yeah, the good. The good's awesome. The 1500 01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:56,880 Speaker 1: good's great because everybody knows who you are. Everybody's nice 1501 01:25:56,920 --> 01:26:02,760 Speaker 1: to you. I I'm just gonna be honest. I love 1502 01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:06,400 Speaker 1: being famous. Why not? 1503 01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:08,160 Speaker 2: I love. 1504 01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,479 Speaker 1: You both know what I'm talking about. It's like being 1505 01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:16,519 Speaker 1: the cute chick in high school. Right. Everywhere you go, 1506 01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 1: everybody's nice to you, everybody wants to and let's face it, 1507 01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:24,719 Speaker 1: if you're ever down, okay, go to Vegas and walk 1508 01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,360 Speaker 1: around the casino about ten o'clock at night when everyone's 1509 01:26:27,400 --> 01:26:31,600 Speaker 1: hammered the love you. Oh yeah, you'll thank you. 1510 01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:31,960 Speaker 2: Hug. 1511 01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:35,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. You know. By the way, where do you think 1512 01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:39,760 Speaker 1: Heather or I are going tomorrow? Vegas? Vegas? She goes 1513 01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:41,080 Speaker 1: You want to go to Vegas for a night. I 1514 01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:47,240 Speaker 1: go to be hugged and glck down and beloved, ryry y, 1515 01:26:47,960 --> 01:26:54,280 Speaker 1: Yes night when everybody's hammered. Yes, that's awesome. 1516 01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:02,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1517 01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:07,920 Speaker 2: I just want to close with your recent health scare. Yeah, 1518 01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:10,120 Speaker 2: I just want to get your take on it. Likes 1519 01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:14,559 Speaker 2: as a doctor, you seem I know a little bit 1520 01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:19,640 Speaker 2: about this story, but you seem a little like resilience 1521 01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:21,840 Speaker 2: and didn't want to go to the doctor, and it 1522 01:27:21,880 --> 01:27:24,479 Speaker 2: was your wife that forced you and made it happen 1523 01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:27,400 Speaker 2: that ultimately saved your life. But growing up as a 1524 01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:29,799 Speaker 2: as a guy, you know, I, like I said earlier, 1525 01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:32,519 Speaker 2: I don't like going to doctors unless my arm's hanging off, 1526 01:27:32,640 --> 01:27:34,960 Speaker 2: you know, and and by a string. I'm not going 1527 01:27:35,040 --> 01:27:35,840 Speaker 2: to go see a doctor. 1528 01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:36,080 Speaker 1: You know. 1529 01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:39,559 Speaker 2: So what what happened to you? How'd you get there? 1530 01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:43,360 Speaker 1: So it's interesting. I like going to doctors. I like 1531 01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,160 Speaker 1: being in a medical environment course because it's my playground. 1532 01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:48,080 Speaker 1: When I used to go to doctors as a kid, 1533 01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:50,160 Speaker 1: I used to like opening up the drawers and looking 1534 01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:53,439 Speaker 1: at this. And I was always the kid who could 1535 01:27:53,520 --> 01:27:56,920 Speaker 1: you know, dissect the cat, you know, check out the bud. 1536 01:27:57,200 --> 01:27:59,920 Speaker 1: Nothing grossed me out? Who did. I could look at 1537 01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:04,960 Speaker 1: who can go what for man? And when it comes 1538 01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:08,480 Speaker 1: to my own health, I'm pretty on it. Okay, but 1539 01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:13,680 Speaker 1: but when I had So we're at the IVY and 1540 01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:16,479 Speaker 1: we're having my IVY meal. If you haven't been in 1541 01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:21,439 Speaker 1: your audience, hasn't been the Ivy on Robertson It's special where. Yeah, 1542 01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:24,559 Speaker 1: and you know, Heather and I met the Ivy. Anyway, 1543 01:28:24,680 --> 01:28:29,439 Speaker 1: So I'm with my son and Heather and long story short, 1544 01:28:30,760 --> 01:28:34,240 Speaker 1: about half a drink in only and I start to 1545 01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:39,120 Speaker 1: slur my words and it lasted for one minute. And 1546 01:28:40,400 --> 01:28:42,519 Speaker 1: I was very excited because I was going to be 1547 01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:44,040 Speaker 1: on Watch What Happens Live with Heather. 1548 01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:45,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1549 01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:47,800 Speaker 1: Two days later, so we're getting on a plane. I'm 1550 01:28:47,800 --> 01:28:50,360 Speaker 1: going to you know, I'm gonna promote bunch. I get 1551 01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:53,599 Speaker 1: to sit there in the second chair next to Andy. 1552 01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:57,599 Speaker 1: You've done it. It's fun. It's hilarious, super fun. And 1553 01:28:57,640 --> 01:28:59,280 Speaker 1: you know you get to do all the restaurants and 1554 01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:01,840 Speaker 1: the bass. I love New York? Yeah, yeah, I love 1555 01:29:02,240 --> 01:29:04,799 Speaker 1: Is that the greatest thing we get to do? Anyway, 1556 01:29:05,000 --> 01:29:07,160 Speaker 1: So I all this to look forward to. I got 1557 01:29:07,160 --> 01:29:10,519 Speaker 1: a full surgery schedule. Boxes killing it in the race. 1558 01:29:10,680 --> 01:29:14,760 Speaker 1: It was just like, I'm good. You know, I'm having fun. 1559 01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:17,200 Speaker 1: My life is complete. It doesn't get any better. Even 1560 01:29:17,200 --> 01:29:21,920 Speaker 1: at this stage. I'm just enjoying every moment of every minute. 1561 01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:26,280 Speaker 1: And then I live. And then it resolves and Heather 1562 01:29:27,120 --> 01:29:30,080 Speaker 1: lips out, will you stop it? And she goes called Ione, 1563 01:29:30,160 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 1: I go, what are you doing? And we're at the ivy. 1564 01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:34,960 Speaker 1: And if you're at the ivy, as you both know, 1565 01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:41,439 Speaker 1: the TMZ bus, you know they we sit there, and 1566 01:29:41,479 --> 01:29:43,759 Speaker 1: we sit at a particular table. It just so happens 1567 01:29:43,800 --> 01:29:46,960 Speaker 1: to be the most visible table from the street. I 1568 01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:54,160 Speaker 1: wondered a coincidence. Yeah right, TMZ always comes by and 1569 01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:56,519 Speaker 1: they stop and Heather goes, don't look, don't look, and 1570 01:29:56,560 --> 01:30:04,479 Speaker 1: I go like this dide, I go, you know, and 1571 01:30:04,560 --> 01:30:08,960 Speaker 1: so I don't nine one one? Are you kidding? And 1572 01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:14,200 Speaker 1: I get pissed. And even though I'm a doctor and 1573 01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:18,240 Speaker 1: I'm I'm Board certified General Surgery Plastics d I'm like 1574 01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:21,400 Speaker 1: the real thing. I know exactly. I didn't really think 1575 01:30:21,800 --> 01:30:24,759 Speaker 1: it was a tia or stoke because it lasted a minute. 1576 01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:27,160 Speaker 2: Did you hear yourself slurring? 1577 01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:33,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So I felt like it was the ice and 1578 01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:36,640 Speaker 1: I was eating there was guac and tortilla chips, and 1579 01:30:36,760 --> 01:30:39,200 Speaker 1: there was a gimlet and there was ice in the 1580 01:30:39,240 --> 01:30:42,840 Speaker 1: gimmeut and I was like, and it was maybe I 1581 01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:45,000 Speaker 1: was just you know, every one, Oh shit, I got 1582 01:30:45,520 --> 01:30:48,439 Speaker 1: you know, a little overload. And so I just thought 1583 01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:52,880 Speaker 1: I was having trouble manipulating the food. And it was 1584 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:58,479 Speaker 1: alved completely, nothing, no weakness, no except for the speech. 1585 01:30:58,520 --> 01:31:01,920 Speaker 1: I didn't have any of the others sociated signs right, 1586 01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:08,880 Speaker 1: so she wouldn't stop. She would she was calling nine 1587 01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:11,479 Speaker 1: to one one. And I got pissed, and I went 1588 01:31:11,520 --> 01:31:14,720 Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I came back and the paramedics 1589 01:31:14,760 --> 01:31:16,840 Speaker 1: pulled up. And by the way, I can see the 1590 01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:20,880 Speaker 1: other people at the table with the phones. Yeah, okay, 1591 01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:24,639 Speaker 1: we're at the ivy. So we're arguing, and now we're 1592 01:31:24,840 --> 01:31:29,600 Speaker 1: arguing on camera, okay. And so I'm so pissed and 1593 01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:32,160 Speaker 1: I go and the paramedics walk up and they go, 1594 01:31:32,280 --> 01:31:34,519 Speaker 1: I go, all right, all right, I go down to 1595 01:31:34,560 --> 01:31:36,360 Speaker 1: the parent I get in the paramedic things. I don't 1596 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,160 Speaker 1: want anybody to see me, and I sit down. I go, hey, guys, 1597 01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:42,320 Speaker 1: because you know, and I go, I go take my pressure, 1598 01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:45,680 Speaker 1: what's my pulse? I go check me out. I go 1599 01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:50,320 Speaker 1: totally normal, right, They go yeah. I go I'm fine. 1600 01:31:50,640 --> 01:31:52,600 Speaker 1: They go, yeah, but you were slearning your speech. You 1601 01:31:52,640 --> 01:31:55,679 Speaker 1: probably should go to Cedars, which is right across the street. 1602 01:31:56,080 --> 01:31:58,400 Speaker 1: I go, I'm not going to Cedars, not doing that. 1603 01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:00,320 Speaker 1: I get out. Heather's going, let's go to se I go, 1604 01:32:00,400 --> 01:32:02,879 Speaker 1: I'm not, and I start to run down the streets. 1605 01:32:05,640 --> 01:32:08,960 Speaker 1: What an asshole. And so plus, I'm going to watch 1606 01:32:09,040 --> 01:32:11,560 Speaker 1: what Happens Live. I'm not just going to watch what 1607 01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:14,840 Speaker 1: Happens Live. I'm on watch what happens. Yes, this is like, 1608 01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:20,439 Speaker 1: this is like narcissism. It's like I'm a zoo animal 1609 01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:23,920 Speaker 1: who has me in three weeks and you're like, oh, 1610 01:32:24,439 --> 01:32:26,600 Speaker 1: watch rappens live and get to sit theture. 1611 01:32:26,600 --> 01:32:26,720 Speaker 2: You know. 1612 01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:35,560 Speaker 1: And so I go up. So I run down to 1613 01:32:35,680 --> 01:32:38,360 Speaker 1: the four Seasons on doheany? And I call Uber and 1614 01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:40,920 Speaker 1: I go, I'm Audi here. So I get an uber. 1615 01:32:41,000 --> 01:32:43,879 Speaker 1: Heather gets an uber and goes Ounder Life three sixties. 1616 01:32:43,960 --> 01:32:46,400 Speaker 1: He's exactly where I am and follows me, and all 1617 01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:49,960 Speaker 1: of a sudden, three of my best friends, most brilliant 1618 01:32:50,000 --> 01:32:52,200 Speaker 1: doctors I've ever known from UCLA call me. They go, 1619 01:32:52,280 --> 01:32:55,040 Speaker 1: hey man, and I go, what's up? And I go, 1620 01:32:55,320 --> 01:32:56,960 Speaker 1: I go to Heather, call you. They go yeah, I go, 1621 01:32:57,360 --> 01:32:59,240 Speaker 1: so tell me and I go, well, I was slurry. 1622 01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:02,639 Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, sounds like a tia. Dude. He goes, 1623 01:33:02,760 --> 01:33:04,759 Speaker 1: so you know what you know what that means? Blood 1624 01:33:04,800 --> 01:33:09,479 Speaker 1: clot brain, you know, stroke, you know like Clockbusters, you 1625 01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:12,800 Speaker 1: know the Magic hour, sounds like, he goes, and they 1626 01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:15,439 Speaker 1: and I go, nah, hang up on him. And then 1627 01:33:15,560 --> 01:33:19,559 Speaker 1: another buddy of mine, another buddy of mine calls, who's 1628 01:33:19,600 --> 01:33:22,439 Speaker 1: the head of general surgery. You silly, all right? And 1629 01:33:22,520 --> 01:33:24,519 Speaker 1: he goes, hey, Terry, what's going on? And I go, uh, 1630 01:33:24,720 --> 01:33:26,519 Speaker 1: you two? And he goes, what appen? I go, He goes, 1631 01:33:26,680 --> 01:33:29,880 Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, go in go to Sieves. I go, well, 1632 01:33:29,880 --> 01:33:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm now halfway down at Newport Beach. They goes, well, 1633 01:33:32,200 --> 01:33:34,840 Speaker 1: the clock's ticking. If it's I go, it's not a stroke, Chris. 1634 01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 1: He goes yeah, but you don't know, And I go, nah, no, 1635 01:33:38,360 --> 01:33:40,519 Speaker 1: I'll call you later. Hang up on him. And then 1636 01:33:40,680 --> 01:33:43,000 Speaker 1: finally a friend of mine who's a cardiologist, brilliant guy, 1637 01:33:43,040 --> 01:33:45,200 Speaker 1: calls me. He goes, could be a stroke, you know, 1638 01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:47,040 Speaker 1: and he and if you don't do anything about it, 1639 01:33:47,360 --> 01:33:49,720 Speaker 1: you know you're going to be you're not going to 1640 01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:52,200 Speaker 1: be able to ever operate. Tries to appeal to my 1641 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:55,280 Speaker 1: ability to operate. That's what I learned at Yeah, it 1642 01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:58,479 Speaker 1: didn't work, and so he goes, he goes, he goes, 1643 01:33:58,520 --> 01:34:00,840 Speaker 1: how about this, He goes, don't do it for you, 1644 01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:07,000 Speaker 1: do it for your family. He goes, your wife, your son, 1645 01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:11,800 Speaker 1: your other kids. They're never going to sleep tonight. They're 1646 01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:14,000 Speaker 1: gonna be worried all night. And if you have a stroke, 1647 01:34:14,160 --> 01:34:18,240 Speaker 1: you've ruined them. And I go, okay. Yeah, so that 1648 01:34:19,080 --> 01:34:22,040 Speaker 1: he appealed to, and I go okay. So I went 1649 01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:25,240 Speaker 1: on the Uber app and I redirected him to Hog Hospital. 1650 01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:30,360 Speaker 1: I get into Hog Hospital and they'd let me write in. 1651 01:34:31,040 --> 01:34:35,240 Speaker 1: They put me on the stroke protocol and they get 1652 01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,880 Speaker 1: m RI. Normally you'd have to wait three hours. I 1653 01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:40,559 Speaker 1: waited three minutes because I'm on staff, it's my hospital. 1654 01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:45,080 Speaker 1: And so the result comes back on the I go 1655 01:34:45,120 --> 01:34:46,840 Speaker 1: to the nurse, I go, could you bring the computer over? 1656 01:34:47,280 --> 01:34:49,200 Speaker 1: And the er doc wasn't going to wait for him 1657 01:34:49,200 --> 01:34:51,519 Speaker 1: to tell me the result. I go and I put 1658 01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:53,720 Speaker 1: on my clothes. I go, let's go to dinner. Yeah, 1659 01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:56,439 Speaker 1: it's gonna be negative. So I put on my clothes 1660 01:34:57,280 --> 01:35:00,519 Speaker 1: and I'm fully dressed, you know, and I I'm about 1661 01:35:00,560 --> 01:35:04,640 Speaker 1: to take the IV out and I go over to 1662 01:35:04,720 --> 01:35:07,000 Speaker 1: the computer and I go like this, and it says, 1663 01:35:08,880 --> 01:35:14,080 Speaker 1: tia small plot. When I go like this, I go, oh, 1664 01:35:15,240 --> 01:35:17,519 Speaker 1: so I take off my clothes. Heather goes, what I go? 1665 01:35:17,720 --> 01:35:19,360 Speaker 1: I just I think I'm gonna put my gown on. 1666 01:35:20,120 --> 01:35:22,000 Speaker 1: And so I put my gown on and the air 1667 01:35:22,120 --> 01:35:25,479 Speaker 1: doc goes and he goes, yeah. I go yeah. So 1668 01:35:26,240 --> 01:35:28,800 Speaker 1: I they admit me in stroke protocol, which is not 1669 01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:32,240 Speaker 1: fun by the way. So they admit me, and the 1670 01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:35,639 Speaker 1: neurologist comes at three o'clock in the morning and I go, look, 1671 01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:39,200 Speaker 1: I have my carotids scanned all the time. I have 1672 01:35:39,320 --> 01:35:42,800 Speaker 1: my eric arch scan. I don't have a FIB. I 1673 01:35:43,000 --> 01:35:46,479 Speaker 1: have no reason to have a clot go up to 1674 01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:49,760 Speaker 1: my brain and he goes, well, you probably have paroxysmal 1675 01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:51,760 Speaker 1: a FIB, which I know. You know everything. There is 1676 01:35:51,840 --> 01:35:54,120 Speaker 1: no about a FIB. But there's a phenomenon called paroxysmal 1677 01:35:54,160 --> 01:35:59,280 Speaker 1: a FIB that only occurs in your sleep, right, And 1678 01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:04,439 Speaker 1: so I go, listen, I am not a sleeper, all right. 1679 01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:06,840 Speaker 1: If I had a FIB, it would wake me up 1680 01:36:07,080 --> 01:36:08,400 Speaker 1: and I'd never be able to sleep. 1681 01:36:08,920 --> 01:36:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And so he. 1682 01:36:10,400 --> 01:36:12,720 Speaker 1: Goes, I go, what about a PFO? What about a 1683 01:36:12,760 --> 01:36:14,479 Speaker 1: little hole in my heart? He goes, you're sixty five. 1684 01:36:14,520 --> 01:36:17,280 Speaker 1: You don't have a PFO. So the next day, long 1685 01:36:17,360 --> 01:36:19,760 Speaker 1: story short, I go in for the PFO test and 1686 01:36:19,920 --> 01:36:22,680 Speaker 1: I say to this cardiologist who does that special kind 1687 01:36:22,720 --> 01:36:28,280 Speaker 1: of ultrasound through the esophagus study, and I go, your job, dude, 1688 01:36:28,560 --> 01:36:31,760 Speaker 1: is find a PFO. So he puts me under and 1689 01:36:32,120 --> 01:36:35,120 Speaker 1: I wake up and I look at him and he's 1690 01:36:35,160 --> 01:36:37,880 Speaker 1: this big, cool, funny Asian guy. He looks at me 1691 01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:40,360 Speaker 1: and he goes, SHO, you got a PFO. 1692 01:36:40,560 --> 01:36:44,800 Speaker 2: Would you can fix that? 1693 01:36:45,520 --> 01:36:47,839 Speaker 1: As you can fix And then with eleven minute procedure 1694 01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:48,360 Speaker 1: they fixed it. 1695 01:36:48,720 --> 01:36:53,200 Speaker 2: Nice. Nice. So what did you learn from it? What 1696 01:36:53,400 --> 01:36:54,280 Speaker 2: was a big takeaway? 1697 01:36:54,960 --> 01:36:56,560 Speaker 1: Oh? You know, and we made a big deal of 1698 01:36:56,640 --> 01:36:58,960 Speaker 1: it in the media. We try to teach everybody about it. 1699 01:36:59,040 --> 01:37:02,200 Speaker 1: The big takeaway is don't be an asshole. You know, 1700 01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:05,200 Speaker 1: early diagnosis is the best and most important thing you 1701 01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:09,080 Speaker 1: can do. Right, The best thing you can possibly particularly 1702 01:37:09,080 --> 01:37:13,120 Speaker 1: with something like cancer, is early diagnosis. But heart disease 1703 01:37:13,240 --> 01:37:16,240 Speaker 1: number one killer of men and women of all age, 1704 01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:19,360 Speaker 1: you know, So do your thing. I could talk to 1705 01:37:19,360 --> 01:37:22,200 Speaker 1: you for an hour about this, but you know, be smart, 1706 01:37:22,360 --> 01:37:26,040 Speaker 1: get checked out, and if you have any signs of 1707 01:37:26,200 --> 01:37:30,519 Speaker 1: a stroke, right, weakness, severe headache, dys ar three. You 1708 01:37:30,560 --> 01:37:34,120 Speaker 1: know you can't speak, arm numbness, get your ass in 1709 01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:36,479 Speaker 1: the hospital because they can. They can bust that cloth 1710 01:37:36,920 --> 01:37:39,000 Speaker 1: before it kills parts of your brain. 1711 01:37:39,680 --> 01:37:44,840 Speaker 2: Okay, is there a regular health test you can do 1712 01:37:45,200 --> 01:37:49,519 Speaker 2: to know your levels, know your cholesterol, know your blood 1713 01:37:49,520 --> 01:37:50,640 Speaker 2: pressures and stuff like that. 1714 01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:54,639 Speaker 1: I think I think everyone should become cardiac health aware 1715 01:37:55,320 --> 01:37:59,120 Speaker 1: by the time they're forty. You should know your total cholesterol, 1716 01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:02,400 Speaker 1: your LDL, your HDL. You should get on a treadmill 1717 01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:07,600 Speaker 1: and be tested and see because stress tests, you know, 1718 01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:09,519 Speaker 1: because that's the number one thing we all need to 1719 01:38:09,560 --> 01:38:13,080 Speaker 1: worry about forty forty five, fifty to fifty five and 1720 01:38:13,160 --> 01:38:16,320 Speaker 1: then after that, you know, and then simultaneously start working 1721 01:38:16,400 --> 01:38:17,400 Speaker 1: up for early cancers. 1722 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:19,360 Speaker 2: It's great advice. Man. 1723 01:38:19,520 --> 01:38:22,160 Speaker 3: First of all, I got to say it's my favorite interview. 1724 01:38:22,400 --> 01:38:23,479 Speaker 2: I know you're not say that. 1725 01:38:24,640 --> 01:38:24,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1726 01:38:25,040 --> 01:38:27,400 Speaker 3: I just love how direct you are, how transparent, you are. 1727 01:38:28,479 --> 01:38:30,479 Speaker 3: So much fun filming this, like, seriously, it was I 1728 01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:32,960 Speaker 3: was just having a blast listening to you. 1729 01:38:33,040 --> 01:38:36,360 Speaker 1: It was so entertaining. So thank you so much, my player. 1730 01:38:36,360 --> 01:38:38,840 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Guys were great, guys, were very easy. 1731 01:38:38,960 --> 01:38:41,160 Speaker 1: It was like, you know, having a drinks with you guys, 1732 01:38:41,200 --> 01:38:44,599 Speaker 1: just what I would want. Thank you, I told you yeah, fun, 1733 01:38:44,720 --> 01:38:47,080 Speaker 1: super fun, super fun and by the way, so much 1734 01:38:47,120 --> 01:38:49,320 Speaker 1: which we're talking about my favorite subject. 1735 01:38:49,640 --> 01:38:51,559 Speaker 2: Yes, we are me you. 1736 01:38:53,479 --> 01:38:55,240 Speaker 1: Massive that I love it. 1737 01:38:56,760 --> 01:38:58,800 Speaker 2: Thank you so much Terry for coming on. It's great 1738 01:38:58,920 --> 01:39:01,240 Speaker 2: chatting with you and catch nothing, getting to know you more. 1739 01:39:01,600 --> 01:39:03,880 Speaker 2: I know there's a lot more about you that I 1740 01:39:03,960 --> 01:39:06,439 Speaker 2: don't know that i'd love to know, and we'll do 1741 01:39:06,560 --> 01:39:07,599 Speaker 2: that over dinner and drinks. 1742 01:39:08,040 --> 01:39:10,040 Speaker 1: I love to I look forward to seeing you soon 1743 01:39:10,120 --> 01:39:12,519 Speaker 1: and i'd love to see you soon. My man Edward 1744 01:39:12,600 --> 01:39:14,320 Speaker 1: is as well too. We should hang out all right. 1745 01:39:14,479 --> 01:39:16,920 Speaker 1: I'd love to thank you Terry. I'll see you guys. 1746 01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:17,960 Speaker 2: Bye bye