WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Are We Having Fun Yet?

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jewels. Second date update date. You ever go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with someone and you're not sure why,

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<v Speaker 1>but you just know that they hate you the whole time? Wow, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. No, I feel like that's happened to you

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<v Speaker 1>more than once. Yeah, all the time, even in the

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<v Speaker 1>current relationships. It's weird. I were just out and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you hate me, and I don't understand why. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Vic is on the phone for a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>today and he was in that situation. He went out

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl that he met on tender and he

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<v Speaker 1>says it just seems like she didn't like him very much,

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<v Speaker 1>but he liked her, and now he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>and try to get a second date. What's up, Vic? Hey, Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I understand why she didn't like you. Know,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense you too, Yeah, I'm sorry. Man, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with you for three seconds. So your

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<v Speaker 1>email said that the girl you went out with just

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<v Speaker 1>was cold to you the whole time. Fridgid, then why

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<v Speaker 1>are you even calling us? Why would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with somebody that you didn't obviously connect with. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want her and I just have to know

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<v Speaker 1>if whatever I did is something that I do on dates,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of plague me, you know, for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life. I like how you're already blaming

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<v Speaker 1>yourself the whole thing. That's good. Has this happened to

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<v Speaker 1>you before? Not exactly. I mean I've I've dated online

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<v Speaker 1>before and either it goes well that's really poorly okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and this this one sort of felt like an in

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<v Speaker 1>between it. I mean, it didn't seem like we had

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<v Speaker 1>no chemistry. It just doesn't seem like she liked me.

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<v Speaker 1>And was this the whole date that she didn't like you?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was there a turning point? Um, I'm say about

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<v Speaker 1>twelve minutes. In twelve minutes for her to like you.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you guys do on your date? We decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go rock climbing. Oh that's ambitious. I assume you

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<v Speaker 1>guys saw that you both were into that on Tinder. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's got a lot of pictures of her doing you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like really athletic staff I play probably about the beach,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, she seemed like probably played sports in college,

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<v Speaker 1>and it seemed like a fun thing for us to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd gone like once or twice before and she'd never gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said it sounded like fun. Yeah, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like an awesome date. Yeah. And so we went to

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<v Speaker 1>the place and they've got you know, they set you up,

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<v Speaker 1>they give you a harness and you know, teach you

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<v Speaker 1>how to get hooked in and what to do. And

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<v Speaker 1>we paid for two hours, thinking that, you know, we'd

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<v Speaker 1>be good and tired, not knowing that twelve minutes in

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<v Speaker 1>she'd wanted to be over exactly. And so I looked

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<v Speaker 1>over at her at one point and she just had

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<v Speaker 1>this look on her face like she was doing the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing in the world she wanted to be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it look I mean, for the sounds of it,

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<v Speaker 1>looks like she wanted to push you off the fake

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<v Speaker 1>rock wall that you were on. Yeah. She just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like she was having it. So I said to her, I, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe this is another thing, you know, forget

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<v Speaker 1>the two hours, Like I know, an oyster shack a

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<v Speaker 1>few miles down the road. Let's go there and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>switch the date up a little bit. See, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that is good self awareness in a date. How

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<v Speaker 1>did she respond? She was relieved, it seemed like at first,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, you know, you know what, I think

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<v Speaker 1>they'd be a great idea. I'm not really feeling this.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got to the Oyster Shack and we order drink,

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<v Speaker 1>and this conversation would like kind of start and stop.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd find a thread, talk for a minute or so,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it would sort of die, and then it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of up to me to start the next

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<v Speaker 1>threat of conversation. And it just seemed like she had

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<v Speaker 1>something on her mind. There was something bothering her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what it was. It kind of felt

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<v Speaker 1>like that throughout the night, and by night, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five minutes because she then tells me that she

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<v Speaker 1>has a work presentation that she totally forgotten about she

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<v Speaker 1>had to go prepare for. And I'm going like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is weird. It's five thirty on a Sunday and completely

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<v Speaker 1>slip my mind to have the biggest presentation of my

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<v Speaker 1>life tomorrow and I don't know why I forgot. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go handle that right now, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>theoretically I would like to give me the benefit of

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<v Speaker 1>the doubt, because I mean, if if she really did

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<v Speaker 1>have her presentation the next day, then you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that was why she was not having fun rock climbing,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe why she couldn't really hold a conversation together. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. She could have been preoccupied with trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get ready for her thing and felt like she was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wasting time on a date at that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Either that or I'm really unlikable. That's so sad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you like so much about her? Because she

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it was kind of a painful, awkward time

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<v Speaker 1>with her. You know, she was she was gorgeous. She

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<v Speaker 1>has these brown eyes that could like pierce into your soul.

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<v Speaker 1>And on tint or a profile, you know, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>into old eighties horror movies stuff I grew up on. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It seemed like we were really going to hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>And when she was talking with me, I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed really cool and interesting those brief moments she would

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<v Speaker 1>respond to your comment or something. Maybe, I mean, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she just wasn't attracted to you. And it's not to

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<v Speaker 1>say that there's probably anything wrong with you, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that was just it. But we I mean, we met

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<v Speaker 1>on Tinder. She has like four pictures of what I

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<v Speaker 1>look like. Yeah, how accurate are they? They're all recent

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<v Speaker 1>pictures taken in the last year. So it looks like me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's what I look like. Okay, So it

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely your personality that she didn't good. We got

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<v Speaker 1>the looks out of the way, and we know that

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<v Speaker 1>it goes deeper than that. It goes straight down to

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<v Speaker 1>your soul. So let's figure it out. Will play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and then call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, all right, thank you fucking Jebels

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<v Speaker 1>second date update date. If you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. Vic is on the phone, and

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<v Speaker 1>Vic is the most likable unlikable person I've ever met

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. I say that because Vic went out

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl named Jesse that he met on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 1>They went rock climbing and then went to go get

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<v Speaker 1>some oysters. But he says the whole time it just

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like she hated him, and he wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>if he's doing something on dates that makes women dislike him. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>he's as he likes her too, but more than that,

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<v Speaker 1>he just wants to know what's unlikable about Vic. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a sitcom. Vic, Yeah, just doesn't work out

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<v Speaker 1>on the second date. We could just maybe write a

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<v Speaker 1>show what's unlikable about Vic? What do you think? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you go could handle that? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what if she does say something super harsh about you,

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<v Speaker 1>then I will know and I can change. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>can't change the things people don't like about you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just have to find somebody who does like it. Okay, Vic, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. She's just she's really cool. I like

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<v Speaker 1>her and I hope she'll go out with me again. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>well let's get her on the phone and find out

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<v Speaker 1>first why she seemed to have a horrible time in second,

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<v Speaker 1>if she'll do it all over again, sounds great. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello. Can I speak to

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<v Speaker 1>Jesse please? Hi speaking Hey Jesse, how are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who that is. We're a plumbing and

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<v Speaker 1>contracting service. I need to know if you need you

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<v Speaker 1>worked out in neighborhood, that'd be so amazing. What are

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<v Speaker 1>all those people in the background, Hi, Jesse? Those are

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<v Speaker 1>all people that work at Brook and Jewel in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning plumbing and contracting. Well you do it in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm confused. I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're calling you today because we actually got an

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<v Speaker 1>email from one of our listeners who wanted us to

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<v Speaker 1>call you. Okay, his name is Vic. Oh um, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually said it kind of positive. Okay. Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>So Vic emailed us because he really liked you a

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<v Speaker 1>lot and was hoping you guys would go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>But since your date, you haven't talked to him. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's going to happen. You don't think going

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again is going to happen? No, what

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<v Speaker 1>is it? So he says, it seems like you had

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<v Speaker 1>a horrible time the entire time on your date, Like

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<v Speaker 1>there was just something about him that you didn't like.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was the first date. It wasn't amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not a big deal. It's a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>at him because he liked you a lot. Uh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So can you tell us, like, why didn't you like him?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, like twelve minutes into the date is when

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<v Speaker 1>you started being cold towards him. Oh, he gave me

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<v Speaker 1>twelve minutes that's that's funny. No, it's way before that.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even like him for twelve four minutes. H No,

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<v Speaker 1>how could he make you upset right away? Well, for starters,

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<v Speaker 1>he looked different than his pictures. Really, he said all

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<v Speaker 1>of his pictures were taken within the last year and

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<v Speaker 1>looked just like him. Oh well sure, but in his

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<v Speaker 1>pictures he was clean shaven. Okay, okay. So he showed

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<v Speaker 1>up with sporting a beard or something, and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like facial heart, No, I'd be fine with a beard.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't show up with a beard. What did he

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<v Speaker 1>show up with? He had a Hitler mustache? What like

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<v Speaker 1>a fake one that you get at a costume store. No,

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<v Speaker 1>like a real one growing out in his face like

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<v Speaker 1>he grew it on purpose. Was it like to try

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<v Speaker 1>to be ironic and hipster? You know, I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>if he's trying to be ironic. No one should have that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, except for Michael Jordan. For some reason, Michael

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan can wear a Hitler stash and it's okay, he's

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<v Speaker 1>the only person in America that can do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>erhaps from a multi millionaire basketball star. Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Vic obviously, couldn't pull off the Hitler stash. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us anything about that. Well maybe for him nuts metal,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just doesn't work for me. But the thing is, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can get where the mustache was a turn off

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, but that is something that can be easily changed,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. But it just gave me this bad first impression,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm climbing up this rock wall and I look

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<v Speaker 1>next to me and there's Hitler. Yeah, no, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you hate it? That'd be a little disturbing. Yeah, disturbing

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<v Speaker 1>is a good word for it. Did you ask I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about it at all? I mean, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>I think. You know, it's a first date. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to ask about it. But then it just got worse, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how does it get worse than Hitler? Yeah? Literally worse

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<v Speaker 1>than Hitler. He kept like staring me down and being

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<v Speaker 1>like are you having a good time? Are you having fun?

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<v Speaker 1>And it'd be like, well, I'm trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to climb this flock. Well you know I've never

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<v Speaker 1>done that before, and I'm trying to figure out this

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<v Speaker 1>difficult thing. And he's like, you're not smiling. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you're having a good time, like I'm trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're actually on a date with Hitler. You

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<v Speaker 1>will have fun fun, you will have no fun. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not having enough fun, man, So I can't well, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe that you left the gym and then went

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<v Speaker 1>and got drinks with him. I thought maybe alcohol might

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<v Speaker 1>calm him down a little. I was wrong. I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't have gone to the second location with Hitler.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to do that again. What happened then?

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<v Speaker 1>Are just just more of the same. He's staring me up.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you having fun? You don't look like you're having

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<v Speaker 1>fun now. I picture him doing it and like his

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<v Speaker 1>banks falling in his face and him like angrily getting out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just shouting at you the whole time. That's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much what it felt like. It was just so weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not to get weirder on you, Jesse, but Vic is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Wait seriously, Yes, oh god, so you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a presentation. No, no, you don't. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a presentation. Yeah, Jesse got out of the date by

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<v Speaker 1>saying that she had a work presentation and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you're focusing on. Vic, Well, that was a little rude

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<v Speaker 1>to lie to somebody. I mean, you can't just tell

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<v Speaker 1>them the truth. Oh, Vick, why do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>Hitler stash man? That's how my mustache grows. I don't

0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.200
<v Speaker 1>have like a full mustache. Show. It's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a more a bridge. You're trying to get tobody because

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<v Speaker 1>your mustache doesn't grow mustache. I do not think it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like a Hitler statche. I've watched hours and hours

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<v Speaker 1>of Hitler's speeches, and I do not. I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>mean like in documentaries and not just for your own research. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a history I was a history major in college. Okay, time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've just I've seen a lot of videos

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<v Speaker 1>of Hitler about Hitler, and I don't know, Well, why

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen a lot of videos about Hitler? Like Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you hear me? I mean I was a history major.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I didn't go out of my way to

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<v Speaker 1>watch Hitler videos. But I don't look Okay, look, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it looks good. I get that you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it looks good. I guess I have to ask some

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<v Speaker 1>people that I'm close to and get a consensus. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you don't look like Hitler, which is fine,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you think. It's so really rude and strange.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been the entire date asking me if I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>fun yet, and being mad at me for not having

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<v Speaker 1>enough fun? You know, maybe how is it like you

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been having fun. I just don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>How is it rude to ask someone if they're having fun?

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that's what people do. Are you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you having fun? I'm having fun? I'm not having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not having fun now and I wasn't having fun then?

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<v Speaker 1>Why why aren't you smiling? Are you having fun? Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you because I'm not having fun? Because you keep

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<v Speaker 1>asking me if I'm having fun? So what can we

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<v Speaker 1>do to make sure that you're having fun? Why do

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<v Speaker 1>something now? Jesse? Would you like to see if you

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<v Speaker 1>could have fun with Vic and go on a second

0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.640
<v Speaker 1>date with him? We will pay for double No? No, please,

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<v Speaker 1>I have heard enough. I do not want to go

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with the ice queat. Oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I won't be having any fun at all. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I I've yet to see you have any fun? So

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<v Speaker 1>am I done now? Do I have to keep talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys? Can I hang up? Yeah? Jesse, that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>you can go. Thank you for your time. Yeah, thanks, Yeah, Vic,

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<v Speaker 1>that was intense. That was a little rough. Um. Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get a second date? Man, No, I'm even

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<v Speaker 1>happier than I call it now, you know. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to shave that mustache off, is what you need

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Vic. I think you really have the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>idea of what this mustache looked like. It's very professional.

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<v Speaker 1>I can go out into the world like I think

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<v Speaker 1>that if I was walking around with a mustache that

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<v Speaker 1>looked like Hitler, one person other than the crabbiest person

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever met, do you think that she probably would

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<v Speaker 1>have liked it? Like sweet Jewil in the morning, text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eighty five nine two says, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care if that guy looks like Hitler. He sounded nice

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Really, I mean, but think about when you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting intimate. I couldn't. I couldn't. I mean, I understand

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed today's second date update. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>Vic who wanted to call this girl named Jesse. They

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date and she seemed instantly cold

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<v Speaker 1>right away and he wanted to know what he's doing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on dates or if he did something wrong just

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<v Speaker 1>in that specific situation. And we got her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and found out that she didn't really like him

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<v Speaker 1>because he had a quote Hitler mustache right away, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the whole time just like kept asking her if

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<v Speaker 1>she was having fun, because it was clear that she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't having fun and that just kind of annoyed her.

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<v Speaker 1>He says that he doesn't have one. He's just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to grow his mustache out and it grows in kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird or something, and nobody's ever told him that

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<v Speaker 1>but her. So we don't know. We don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of him to say if he does have a

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<v Speaker 1>Hitler stash or not. I feel like it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>distinguishable feature. I think there's no like gray area for

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<v Speaker 1>that d make eye contact. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know if he does or not.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll try to get a picture of him and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can find out important piece. He sends us

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<v Speaker 1>a picture. It's black and white and it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>exactly like Yeah, hold on a minute. Either way, they

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<v Speaker 1>decided not to go out again. As a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll probably never talk again because it didn't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>they liked each other at all at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>that phone call. Remember, if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, all you have to do is email

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<v Speaker 1>the show and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back. Yes, Young Jeffrey's song of the Week

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<v Speaker 1>is just a few minutes away at eight ten.