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Speaker 2: If if you need your passport, it come with Dick.

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Speaker 3: I think just if we get on that plane, it's

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Speaker 4: Now if you fly woman in Vegas for forty five

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Speaker 2: To show for sure.

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Speaker 1: So you staying FTNA involved you If you got to

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Speaker 1: The taking over the game, all right? Everybody? Welcome to

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Speaker 1: Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,

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Speaker 4: beautiful people, welcome to another episode of The Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: I'm your host, Zar Faraday, Truth in the Building, and

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Speaker 4: today we have a very very funny guest in the building.

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Speaker 4: Super excited about it. He's a stand up comedian. He

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Speaker 4: has an hilarious special on YouTube called Laughing Voodoo, So

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Speaker 4: make sure you guys check it out. Please welcome Maliks.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what's up man?

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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm here, Like even though I see

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Speaker 1: you all the time, but you don't know. I never

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Speaker 1: told you, but it's always a little weird. Like, man,

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Speaker 1: I used to be in Miami watching this dude on

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Speaker 1: the NBA. Oh damn the raid. You know what I Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I ain't really like y'all see.

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Speaker 2: This every other day, but I like you as a person.

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Speaker 1: But growing up, but it's it's always weird to be

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying now.

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Speaker 1: It's like because you never really see like people you

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Speaker 2: You never look at him as a regular human and

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, he's just just a guy, right, especially one

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Speaker 1: of the guys you'd be talking mad trash.

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Speaker 2: Just walking to gmoy be like.

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Speaker 3: They can't be slacking, little ass way some white boy

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Speaker 3: you don't stop up.

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Speaker 4: Well, we're super excited to have you. I love your show,

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Speaker 4: your special that you have. You're so funny.

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Speaker 1: Before we started to see him live about about a

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Speaker 4: He's good nice. Before we started filming, you were talking

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Speaker 4: about the difference between there's a thin line between being

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Speaker 4: crazy and entitled. Yeah, so please ex elaborate on that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just in this climate, I'm glad I'm

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Speaker 2: Wrong with you. That's the women. It's the women.

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Speaker 1: Dudes too, but mostly women, you know, because we speaking

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Speaker 3: But they got unrealistic expectations of men these days, especially

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Speaker 2: Am I gonna be a comedian? Am I gonna be

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Speaker 2: You clean houses? In my booking? What are my book?

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Speaker 4: I learned that. I learned that from different women, like

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Speaker 4: It's the modern day prostitution.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I think that's if somebody fly you out the.

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Speaker 4: that's not what you're on exactly. But if you're on that,

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Speaker 2: To do that. What is this my rule?

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Speaker 1: If I if I fly you out the country, then yeah,

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Speaker 2: No, I'll fly you anywhere.

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Speaker 1: But if you need your passport, yeah that it comes

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Speaker 3: How far you gotta I think just if we get

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Speaker 4: Now, if you fly woman to Vegas for forty five

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Speaker 1: So you're saying, if TSA involved you, if you got

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Speaker 4: it just depends like if I'm dating someone in it's

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Speaker 2: It don't matter where you fly, Uh, it's going down.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe in that.

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Speaker 4: I'm in another state with you, Like, I think that's

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Speaker 1: So nowadays, I think because you you got yourself together

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Speaker 4: It's content for them. But I think the difference, like

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Speaker 2: Because you actually really live in the experience.

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Speaker 4: But I've never took it, like taken an out of

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Speaker 2: I don't know you on that level, especially three days.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I can't imagine spending two three days with

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know you like that. Bro, you

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Speaker 2: can't just be in my space like that. I don't

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Speaker 5: Are?

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Speaker 2: How pretty? If I just met you? You can't just

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Speaker 4: you talk about a lot how you like older women.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, it's easy.

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Speaker 4: What's the older woman?

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Speaker 1: When I say older? When I when I was younger,

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Speaker 4: You don't consider me an older woman?

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Speaker 4: I'm thirty four.

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Speaker 2: No, you're young. You're young, you know.

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Speaker 4: He tells me, I'm an older woman every day on

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Speaker 2: But you probably mature as hell. That's probably why.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, he just says I'm cooked and I'm

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Speaker 2: But desperation kicks in when you're get your thirties. For women, he.

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Speaker 4: Always says that, But that's not true. I don't know, man,

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Speaker 2: I just see it.

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Speaker 4: You don't, that's not true. The women that you surround yourself.

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Speaker 2: I doesn't surround myself. I'm just so far looking.

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Speaker 4: I don't what do you think about that? About what

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Speaker 2: I think that's not range.

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Speaker 1: I think women are so much more at all independent now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think times have changed. What women at least outgoing

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Speaker 2: They want a man.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's the kind of woman I want. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: I just want you to want me, not need me,

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Speaker 2: Right? How were you living? Because how come whatever you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and especially with as soon as you meet someone,

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Speaker 4: how are you requiring this? I don't even know you

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Speaker 2: I don't know you. Yeah, I am like you. You

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Speaker 2: need a scholarship. Yeah, I'm not a scholarship. You need

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. But do you believe

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I think times have changed.

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Speaker 1: A lot of women are very independent, like especially with

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Speaker 2: So they doing a thing. Yeah, I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: You know, when we were kids, me and Paul, Well,

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Speaker 2: Women running things.

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Speaker 1: Now, you know, Yeah, women are killing it like influencer

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Speaker 2: I know, what do lashes on? Killing it?

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Speaker 1: Bro like millions and lashes? She make lashes? She said,

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Speaker 2: No, it's just.

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Speaker 4: Beauty and the beauty industry is big. And I feel

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Speaker 4: I mean Paul that basically women are so desperate and

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Speaker 4: like women can really thrive without a man. As matter

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Speaker 4: of fact, a woman without a man can be more

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Speaker 4: of course, But like what I'm saying is it's not desperate,

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Speaker 4: like I said, like I can't even walk outside without

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Speaker 4: Like I don't have not an ounce of desperation in

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Speaker 3: They this is the reason, the reason they're not desperate

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Speaker 2: Hills only for the booking Info. It's the booking Info book.

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Speaker 3: They find the ways that there's so many different opportunities

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, I mean, this is a lot of

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Speaker 1: That's not every woman, not every I think what happens

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Speaker 1: is now we live in a world where our algorithm

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Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times people get caught

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Speaker 4: Is what they believe to be true, right, And you

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Speaker 1: Gotta start liking some other stuff you got. You never

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Speaker 1: getting these videos like I want some Yeah, but you

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Speaker 4: I literally just reset my algorithm the other day. It

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Speaker 4: like it's the same. I said, let me reset my

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Speaker 4: But I think you're right. I feel like people have

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Speaker 4: You know, like you may see a bunch of prostitutes,

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Speaker 4: but I may see a bunch of boss women that's

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Speaker 1: To your point, like some people may see a bunch

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Speaker 2: Like you got a little bit, you should know who

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Speaker 4: But yeah, that's that's dope. So another thing that you

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Speaker 2: Women love for real And I'm just gonna don't agree

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Speaker 4: Well, him say what he has to say.

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Speaker 2: Women not holes.

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Speaker 4: Again, he doesn't knows the different women not holes.

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Speaker 1: See a lot of time, I think women and holes

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Speaker 1: Come on, So I think women, if a woman one

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Speaker 1: can't nobody take your woman? Man, A nigga can take

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Speaker 2: Clock that that's that's ain't nobody take your woman.

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Speaker 4: They take your Hopells.

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Speaker 2: Get got all the time. Women get got all the time.

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Speaker 4: So women don't get God, yeah they do, women don't.

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Speaker 2: That means she left already, ain't nobody take her? Well?

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Speaker 2: And well, there's no such thing as women?

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Speaker 4: Then I'm just crazy.

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Speaker 3: There's no such thing as women. Women are women cheat.

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Speaker 3: You could treat a whole, get you amazing, and she

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Speaker 2: How did you get your woman? Though? How do you

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Speaker 2: Like I say this all the time, you gotta have a.

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Speaker 3: Under certain conditions, she's your woman, right Like if he

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Speaker 1: Well, I know for me for sure, Like I'm very Uh,

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Speaker 2: I don't think a man will fall in love with

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Speaker 4: I've seen so many dad, women that are beautiful be

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Speaker 2: Know because she ain't looking money because you not, even.

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Speaker 4: If sometimes you don't. Sometimes women are so infatuated with romance,

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Speaker 1: Bro. Every I think every man has something that can

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Speaker 4: I think from Paul it's hard because he's been famous

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Speaker 4: about that. And the problem with a lot of women,

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00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 4: including myself, is we love heard.

445
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Speaker 2: But then you get with a.

446
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Speaker 4: Man who's so used to women using them that no

447
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,160
Speaker 4: matter how hard, they're never gonna see that you really

448
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Speaker 4: love them, and then you're gonna mess up the right

449
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 4: woman who actually truly loves you, because you're so blinded

450
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Speaker 4: by the fact that you've been used and abused by

451
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 4: people and you're so scarred by that.

452
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Speaker 2: See, that's one of my things I don't want to.

453
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Speaker 1: I hope when I get to be this household name

454
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 1: and this big start, that I've already got my person.

455
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like you know, to be like like I

456
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,080
Speaker 2: like you, everybody like me, yeah.

457
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 4: But everybody don't love you, right, And so you gotta

458
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 4: know how to decipher that. Just as a person like

459
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 4: men claim they have certain intuitions or they feel something.

460
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Speaker 4: I think a lot of men look past those things

461
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 4: just like women do, and they know, oh, she might

462
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Speaker 4: be using me, or this.

463
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Speaker 2: Might be just okay with that.

464
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Speaker 4: We talk about that, it looks good.

465
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Speaker 2: You're cool. My boys giving me produ Yeah I'm cool.

466
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Speaker 4: I'm cool. So a lot of and do that, but

467
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,159
Speaker 4: then they still end up getting scarred in hurt because

468
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Speaker 4: your women can't get took. But guess what, she's a

469
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:10,160
Speaker 4: whole do what you on conditional reasons can definitely get took.

470
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 4: So now you got scarred because you were looking past

471
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 4: all this stuff, and then you come and you blame

472
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,880
Speaker 4: all women and that blows me. Women do the same thing.

473
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 4: You go with a man who you know is not

474
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Speaker 4: a good choice because your picker is off. You keep

475
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 4: picking the wrong man, and then you sit on these

476
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 4: podcasts or this internet and you talk about how.

477
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: All men is not it right?

478
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Speaker 4: You know what I mean? And I'm sick of that

479
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 4: narrative because there's a lot of good women, and I

480
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Speaker 4: can't sit here and subscribe to the fact that all

481
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Speaker 4: women are wholes. There's no good women, there's no women

482
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Speaker 4: that are gonna love you, and I won't subscribe to

483
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484
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Speaker 2: And that there's no good men that aregorithm.

485
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Speaker 1: Yeah, at a certain age, if you still say all

487
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Speaker 1: men ain't this, all women ain't that, it might be you.

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Speaker 4: Do you think it's more or less of a red

523
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Speaker 4: flag if someone says they never argue in relationships, that's

524
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 4: a red flag? It is if they don't ever argue.

525
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Speaker 1: You lie, You're a liar, You're lion. Yeah, you're lying

526
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: or you don't care. If you care, you're gonna have

527
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: some kind of disagreement.

528
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I agree. Do you feel like a woman

529
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 4: should like you more than you like her? You should

530
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 4: like her more than she likes you. I just heard

531
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Speaker 4: someone going back and for cash. Kobain a rapper. No,

532
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Speaker 4: I feel like kurk Cobain or Kurt Cobain. Yeah, he

533
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 4: said that a woman should always have to like him

534
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 4: more than he likes her. I think a man should

535
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 4: like you more because women love way harder and we're

536
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 4: like too like emotional, and it's like if a man

537
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 4: likes you less, you just looking crazy and thirsty.

538
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: Damn. Yeah, that's tough because you definitely want the person

539
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 2: to like you as much. So I don't know.

540
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Speaker 1: I mean I think each individual we're going to always say, nah,

541
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: the person's gotta like me more, you know, just on

542
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Speaker 1: some selfish protecting your heart.

543
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Speaker 4: You're just gonna say that because you want to. Okay,

544
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 4: more or less? Respect lost when a woman proposes to

545
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 4: a man. Have you seen women been proposing to.

546
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 2: Maan, I've seen that. Do I lose respect for her? Yeah?

547
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 4: Or just what do you think about it?

548
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just one of those Western society things. Yeah,

549
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: we haven't seen it, so it looks weird.

550
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 2: But who knows. I don't know.

551
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: I mean those marriages probably work out, but you know,

552
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: Western society says that the man's supposed to propose, So.

553
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 2: I don't know. I probably would feel a little awkward

554
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 2: if a woman proposed.

555
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: To me, Yeah, because naturally, I feel like I'm supposed

556
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: to be ready before she's ready, because now you're putting

557
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: it on.

558
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:25,239
Speaker 2: Me to be like, yeah, the women ready from day one, right,

559
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: That's not true.

560
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 4: Not women always want to marry a man. I've had

561
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 4: men in life that man. Yeah, Like I feel like

562
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 4: I've been in relationships where I'm just like, Okay, i

563
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 4: gotta wrap this up, like I'm serious, like I'm not

564
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 4: going to see it. I do not see a future

565
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 4: with you. I can genue you're a good time, like

566
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 4: not even a good time, Like I love you and

567
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 4: I'm in this relationship, but now that I'm getting to

568
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 4: know you and I see your traits and qualities as

569
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 4: a man, it's not someone I want to spend the

570
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 4: rest of my life with. Simple like I can't. I

571
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 4: might be miserable if I decide, Like I have a

572
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 4: serious fear of that. Like I'm like, I don't want

573
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 4: to be complacent jes to say I have a ringer,

574
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 4: just to say I have married married to meet societal expectations.

575
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 4: A lot of women do that. I know women who

576
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 4: are like, well, i'm this age, so I'm gonna just

577
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 4: have this baby with him, and I'm gonna just marry him.

578
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 4: I could have done that before, but it's like, hell no,

579
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 4: there's men who want it more than women at times,

580
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 4: and it's just like I'm cool. I've had to walk

581
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 4: away from situations like that, So not every woman just

582
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 4: is thirsty for that. A lot are a lot due

583
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 4: because it's so much pressure on a woman when you

584
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 4: are single. As a woman, you're automatically pegged as what

585
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 4: is wrong with you? Something ain't right?

586
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: It was right?

587
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 4: Why are you single? You must have this? Why you

588
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 4: ain't married? Like, well, because y'all are on bullshit, Like

589
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 4: I wouldn't be alone, I'll be I'm weird. Shit, I'd

590
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 4: rather be by myself. Okay, I get it, you know

591
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 4: what I mean. I just feel like, what, Okay, so

592
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 4: more or less risky? Moving too fast or taking your time?

593
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: I think taking your time is more risky at my age.

594
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 2: I feel that it's more risky.

595
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because at my age, yeah, we got all that

596
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: all that time. If I'm being a woman that's forty eight,

597
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: she like, hey, what we're doing? Bro?

598
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 4: Yeah you know what I'm saying.

599
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: I think younger generation, you know you've been too fast.

600
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: Maybe you risky for them?

601
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, but how long you how long if you get

602
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: into a relationship now at this age, how long you

603
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 3: think you have to be together before you're like, all right,

604
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 3: I'm ready to be married.

605
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: To be married, I don't know if it's a time.

606
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: I think it's a it's a feeling. For me, I

607
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: think it's a it's a trust, it's a vibe, it's

608
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: an energy. I don't know if it's a time, but

609
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: what do you feel like?

610
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 4: Starts to be like, all right, what do we say this?

611
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 1: I think the reason I never got into a serious,

612
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: like a relationship to where I was married again is

613
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: because after my divorce the way my kids handle it,

614
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: and my daughter, so I kind of want to like

615
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: make sure she was sure and older before I got

616
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: into like, you know, like I'm.

617
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 2: Gonna marry somebody.

618
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 5: Yeah.

619
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, Now that she's older, now I think, okay, now I.

620
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 4: Can you feel like you bring someone around somewhere you

621
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 4: know what.

622
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and she can handle it, and you know,

623
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: we can try to do that now.

624
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: But I think for those first couple of years, because

625
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: she was like eleven or twelve and it was.

626
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 4: It was, well the first couple of years, you need

627
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 4: to take a minute. Anyways, you was in a whole

628
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 4: twenty six year long relationship.

629
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 1: Not good man and put a strain on our relationship.

630
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: So I'm still building that back up.

631
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 4: But now you feel like you're at that place.

632
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 2: I feel like that at some point, I'm gonna have

633
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: to be a little bit selfish.

634
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: I can'tnot live my life based on you know what

635
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because she's going to go off and have

636
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: her life. So I feel like she's a little older now,

637
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: we build a better bond, you know what I'm saying. Like,

638
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: like my ex wife lived right around the corner for me. Yeah,

639
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: you know, I previously did that because I didn't want

640
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: to have to go you know right now. Yeah, like

641
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: right now, they live around the corner for me because

642
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: I wanted my daughter to be right there, you know

643
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

644
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 2: So she goes back and forth.

645
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 4: So you love your daughter more than your son.

646
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: I don't love my.

647
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 4: Daughter on the podcast comedy.

648
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: But no, I know it's a different love. I know

649
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: it's a different left you.

650
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 4: No, I have five sisters. Yeah, my dad had six parents.

651
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 4: Yeah they say that, But I have brother in laws

652
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 4: that my sister's been married for almost thirty years and

653
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 4: I'm thirty four, so he's a brother to me basically.

654
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, you know, me and my daughter

655
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: relationship is a little different because she took it the

656
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: heart as she was younger.

657
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I get it. It's hard. It's hard, but

658
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: you gotta sometimes not caught all your children as much.

659
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 4: And because I'm a daughter and it's like that, I

660
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 4: think you you coddle too much and you try to

661
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 4: protect them too much that it becomes like now you

662
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 4: put them in a position where now they feel like

663
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 4: you're always gonna do that. You gotta rip the band

664
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 4: aid off. And I say that with my parents because

665
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 4: they went through struggles. They win to you stuff and

666
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 4: they try to hideh instead of just being real, and

667
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 4: that damaged me more than you just being real with me.

668
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: That starts to make me feel like, Okay, well I'm

669
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 4: expecting this unrealistic expectation of what is supposed to be

670
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 4: when in reality it's like as a as a daughter,

671
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 4: I rather do you keep it real with me, because

672
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 4: then you, as a kid, you have intuition, You find

673
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 4: out shit anyways, and it's worse to look at your

674
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 4: dad and be like, damn, you wasn't even keeping it

675
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 4: real with me? You know what I mean? Because I've

676
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 4: had that situation with my dad and it's like just

677
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 4: be honest like.

678
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: Situation because in that process I end up hurting people

679
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: you do, which I feel that I deal with dad.

680
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: That's a lot of guilt that I carry, Yeah, because

681
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: I heard people who really genuinely love me, Yeah, and

682
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: we could never But.

683
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 4: You're trying to like make it right. So it's not

684
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 4: like you you can't feel guilt because you were trying

685
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 4: to do the right thing.

686
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: I was trying to but.

687
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 4: What I should do. We think coddling and hiding and

688
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 4: doing these things is the best you can do when

689
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 4: in reality, kids are a lot smarter than you think,

690
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 4: and sometimes you just need to be like, hey, this

691
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 4: is what it is. You know what I mean, And

692
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 4: that even if it doesn't seem like in the moment,

693
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 4: a kid will be like all right. And as a man,

694
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 4: we look at that man because your daughter, you're her

695
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 4: first love as a man, so she gonna look at

696
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 4: you and be like, Okay, cool, I know my dad

697
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 4: moves like this. And then you teach her to be

698
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 4: an adult because you can't. A woman's gonna go into

699
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 4: the world and you're gonna be like whoa, whoah, woah,

700
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 4: what's going on? And if you call it shelter too much,

701
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 4: that ship is going to mess you up in a

702
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 4: crazy way. You need to learn that ship early on.

703
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 2: College in August.

704
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to learn that ship early on, or.

705
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: You always go to off the college too. I'm like, boy,

706
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in Houston every other.

707
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: Every two weeks. I might have to get a little

708
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: Airbnb down. I told her.

709
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: I told her, I said, you ain't going to no

710
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: school where I can't get a direct flight, right, Okay,

711
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: no weird as school. I gotta fly and drive. Yeah

712
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: that's good because she's supposed to go to T s U.

713
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 4: So yeah, ok, yeah, those tough lessons help you as

714
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 4: a kid, yes, man, But you.

715
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: Know we're figured out. I mean, you know, like we're

716
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: in the same situation.

717
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 3: Your daughter is your first Yeah, she's seventeen, about eighteen,

718
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 3: about to go to off the college this this August.

719
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. I mean I don't, I don't.

720
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do.

721
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: You don't even know if you like, I feel like

722
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm ready, But I'm like, damn, it's scary because you

723
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: feel like they're not ready.

724
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: Yeah for real, especially these valley kids. I feel like,

725
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: is she even ready to ye Oh, she's such a

726
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: valley girl.

727
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

728
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why you gotta do that, because I feel like,

729
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 4: for a long time. I was sheltered and called oled, right,

730
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 4: and then I went into the world and I lost

731
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 4: my motherfucking mind right, because I was like whoa, And

732
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 4: then like but then that happened to me young. I

733
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 4: was like fourteen fifteen. I can't imagine if I was eighteen,

734
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So it's like those tough

735
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 4: lessons you got to learn soon. And I remember my dad.

736
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 4: I used to be worried about me when I went

737
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 4: off when I was eighteen, and he would call me

738
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 4: and be like, you know, like you would just have

739
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 4: different shit every other week, like so did you go

740
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 4: to the doctor? Like yes, I'm cool. And then he

741
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 4: slowly learned like, oh she got it, like she got

742
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 4: her shit together her and she's doing it. And you

743
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 4: just slowly see like there were more grown than you think,

744
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 4: Like we got more going on, do you imagine?

745
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, your kids show you a side of them. Yeah,

746
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: I got a whole another side.

747
00:32:59,440 --> 00:32:59,959
Speaker 2: That we don't get.

748
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I get it. And I'm my dad's youngest daughter,

749
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 4: I'm his baby. I'm the closest one he got to

750
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 4: all his kids.

751
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,719
Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, when I realized my daughter had

752
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: a whole nother personality that she I don't get to season.

753
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: I took her to a Scissor concert and she was

754
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: so engulfed in the scissors. She starts singing these lyrics.

755
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: She was singing the curse words, and I'm looking at

756
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: her like like, oh, oh, this this the real you,

757
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: Like she forgot. I was there and I was like, oh,

758
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: say some crazy when she started, I'm looking like your

759
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: daughter say that.

760
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 2: Oh man. I was like, yo, I'm right here that.

761
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: It meant, but I'm saying it just messed me up

762
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: to see her come out of that, Like she wasn't

763
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: this little girl no more.

764
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 4: She was just like vib and I was just like,

765
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 4: she's comfortable to do that.

766
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: But I think the music she got caught up.

767
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, she got caught up. Because it took me a

768
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 4: long time to be comfortable in front of my dad

769
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 4: saying stuff even like cursing, Like I still be kind

770
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 4: of on edge with that, but you know, like he's

771
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 4: and my dad is seventy eight, Like we're all grown

772
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 4: at this point, you know, but like at least you know,

773
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 4: you feel comble. It took me a long time to

774
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 4: be comfortable with my dad because you just especially that

775
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: age gap though. I have a huge age gap with

776
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 4: my dad, you know, like he had me at like

777
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 4: forty eight, young dad.

778
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, younger to my son than my daughter. Though with

779
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: my daughter, I was a grown man. I was like

780
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 1: thirty two.

781
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,919
Speaker 2: I was grown with my son, I was only twenty

782
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: one years old.

783
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we we we grew up together.

784
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. He was my practice kid. Yeah

785
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: for show for show.

786
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,160
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790
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Speaker 2: You know what I what I try to do.

791
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: I think sometimes if you don't see a little bit

792
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: of your mom and this woman, if you had a good.

793
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,919
Speaker 2: Mom, yeah, then that's not the woman.

794
00:34:59,040 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 4: You want to know. What's so?

795
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, that's not the woman. If

796
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: you don't see a little bit of your mom in her,

797
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: that's not her. If you had a good mom, or

798
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: it's the opposite. If you do see a bit of

799
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: your mom in there and you didn't have a good mom,

800
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: get out of there.

801
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. That's always my that's how

802
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: I gave you.

803
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 4: It's so crazy because I was with someone who was like,

804
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 4: you remind me my mom. And at the time, I'm like,

805
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to remind you of your mom. And

806
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 4: he was like, that means you're like a wife to me.

807
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 4: You don't get that. It's not a like negative thing

808
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 4: my mom, because I know you like a wife, nurturing

809
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 4: your you're caring. I trust you. You have so many

810
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 4: characteristics that are like my mother. And I was like,

811
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 4: oh okay, because at first I'm I don't remind you.

812
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: That's you know, That's how I always gauge you, Like

813
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: if I don't see a little bit of my mom

814
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: and you, then I know, okay, you a good time.

815
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 1: You're not a life You're not a life partner. You

816
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: were gonna have a good time, We're gonna kick it whatever.

817
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: But I don't look at you as a wife. You

818
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: know you a good time? Yeah.

819
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 3: I want to I want to kind of go off

820
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: topic for a second. I want to talk about, like you,

821
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 3: when did you move to Los Angeles twenty twelve and

822
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 3: what made you come? I had a job, I had

823
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 3: a job off of cedret entertainer, had got a TV

824
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: show and I was on the road to him. I

825
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: was still living in Miami, and he was like, yo,

826
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 3: I got this TV show man, I think you'll be

827
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 3: good to be a writer. I was like, what, dude,

828
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,919
Speaker 3: I ain't never write nothing. I don't know nothing about

829
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 3: writing for TV. I was like, and I'm a comedian.

830
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: You know, comedians usually we don't have day jobs, you know,

831
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: we just work on weekends.

832
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 2: And he was like, well, they're gonna pay you this much.

833
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I tried, you know, I figured

834
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: it out right.

835
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: So I flew out here, got apartment, went in the

836
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: writer's room, kept my head down, my ears open, and

837
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: just you know, I got a couple of people to

838
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: take me under their wings and showed me the way.

839
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 1: And that's how I came out here and what made

840
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: you want to get into comedy? But you always just

841
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: which is crazy, it's out of universe would line it up.

842
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 1: That's why one thing I never worry about the how.

843
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: The house not my business. It's the will the universe

844
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: gonna take the care of how. You know what I'm saying,

845
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: how I'm sitting here with you right now, it's none

846
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: of my business. You know what I'm saying, so me

847
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: and my boy went to go see the Kings of Comedy.

848
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: That was my first comedy show.

849
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: I didn't even know.

850
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: It was no such thing as comedy clubs. We want

851
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: to go see the Kings of Comedy. He was like, man,

852
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: you funny. You should try that, Like, man, I ain't

853
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: doing the crazy and he's like, then he told me

854
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 1: he going to the military. Well, I'm from nobody went

855
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 1: to the military. Yeah, And he was like, yeah, man,

856
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: we're not doing nothing with our lives. I'm gonna just

857
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna just go like, man, yeah, whatever

858
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 1: I said, if you go, I'm gonna try this, dude went,

859
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: he went, So I had to try.

860
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 2: And that's how I ended up doing comedy. I end

861
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 2: up meeting d. L.

862
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: Hugley, and then through DL Hugley, I ended up meeting

863
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: Cedric and that's how the whole writing and acting and

864
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,240
Speaker 1: all that came about.

865
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 4: Man, I actually saw that you were on the neighborhood. Yeah,

866
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 4: I'm a writer, and you know that's my aunt Arnold. Yes, yeah,

867
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 4: that's my girl. Yeah yeah go hard yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, dope.

868
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 2: I love that.

869
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: You know, I always wonder I want to ask you

870
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 3: this though, Like being in the industry right Hollywood, the

871
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 3: glitz and glamour, you probably met so many different stars.

872
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 3: You already mentioned, you know, Hugh Lee and said the entertainer.

873
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 3: Do you believe and I know you've probably done auditions

874
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 3: for like your shows, movies or whatever. Do you believe

875
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 3: that in order to get to the top you got

876
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 3: to sell your soul to actually be like.

877
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 2: A superstar. I don't believe that.

878
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 3: And what I mean by that because it's a lot

879
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 3: of people saying you gotta like do some crazy shit.

880
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: I think that's just something. I think that's the new

881
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: he gay? Yeah right, that's I always say, like I

882
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: can't wait for them to say I'm gay or I'm

883
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: in the Illuminati, because that means that means I got

884
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: that big house, That means my account is fat, that

885
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: means my kids is good.

886
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 2: That It's like, you notice how they don't ever say

887
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: he gay until you blow up?

888
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like even with athletes,

889
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: soon as you start popping, oh, he gay, Like it's

890
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: like that's the black man, bring him down thing. It's

891
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: like I never subscribe to that whole he did this

892
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: to do I'm like, because to me, it's like, only

893
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,320
Speaker 1: black people do that. So you're trying to tell me,

894
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: ain't no black talented people, none of us talented. We

895
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: all had to do something gay cause you imagine how

896
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: easy it would be if that was just the way

897
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: to do it. Wouldn't all gay dudes be movie stars?

898
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: If that's what it took, all the movie stars would

899
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: be gay. The it would be all gay dudes just popping.

900
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: It'd be all gay dudes in the NBA, all gay.

901
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, whatever it is, if that's just

902
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: the way to do it, wouldn't everybody just you know

903
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying is the

904
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: dudes that are gay, wouldn't they just be popping. There's

905
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: a lot of gay dudes out here working warehouse jobs, LA,

906
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: a lot of them popping too. There's a lot of

907
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: them that's popping in Hollywood too.

908
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: True.

909
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, I don't subscribe into that

910
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: whole you You do this and then you're gonna be

911
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: a start because here's a funny day.

912
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, the people still gotta

913
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: want you.

914
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, So like for a comedian, let's just say you

915
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: do give up your ass or whatever. You still the

916
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: people still gotta want to come see you in that theater,

917
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: in that arena, in that county club.

918
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 2: This is just la.

919
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: Okay, you did this with it with this one guy. Okay,

920
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: you did that. But if you go to Cincinnatis, the

921
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: club gonna be backed there. I don't know that guy.

922
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: If the guy gonna call Cincinnati, hey here, y'all go

923
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: see him. He gave me the ass, so y'all go

924
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 1: see y'all.

925
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 3: It's just that they see you blowing up and then

926
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 3: it's like, hold on, he's blowing up too fast. Hold On,

927
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 3: we gotta have something over their head because think about that.

928
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: I don't know nobody that blew up fast, though, I

929
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 1: guess because I'm any women.

930
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 3: Because for the women, the women was performing sexual favors

931
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 3: to get certain roles.

932
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: It's always been like a thing. I think that's just

933
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,359
Speaker 1: that's just that's is business in every industry. I think,

934
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So why doesn't that hold

935
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: true for the men. I'm not saying it doesn't hold true.

936
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is I don't subscribe to the fact

937
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 1: that every black man in Hollywood did something gay.

938
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: I'm just like that I'm talking about. That's only a

939
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 3: select few super superstars, right, and a lot of people

940
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 3: say about them that they've turned the other cheek just

941
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 3: to get to where they needed to go.

942
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: I can say that I haven't seen it. I can

943
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: say I haven't seen it. That's what I and I

944
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: can say, I damn sure. I ain't give up my

945
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: head because I ain't done nothing like that, So I

946
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: ain't popping like that. But if I had to do that,

947
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: I would never do that. And I'm too old now.

948
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm too mature and grown. I would

949
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: have done it one of my twenties, so it's not

950
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: even a conversation now.

951
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 4: But I think when you say sell your soul, I

952
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 4: think it's more than giving up your bootyhole. I think that,

953
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 4: you know, I grew up in a celebrity family, so

954
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 4: I've been positioned around really superstars, right, and I've seen

955
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 4: even one of my family members, you know, killed himself

956
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 4: very high up there. I won't even name his name.

957
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 4: But you know a part of that is people saying like, oh,

958
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 4: I sold my soul, right, And I think when people

959
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 4: say they sell their soul. It doesn't mean they actually

960
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 4: signed some Illuminati contract. I'm selling my soul to the devil.

961
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 4: It's just a metaphor that I've done so much shit,

962
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 4: whether that's like watching pedophiles.

963
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: Or doing that.

964
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 4: And not and not saying anything. I might have not

965
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 4: even indulged it, but I just was like, hey, I'm

966
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 4: gonna just turn I'm not gonna say anything because I

967
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 4: don't want to do that. And I think that happens

968
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 4: on a much smaller uge, like in my career and

969
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 4: even in my lifetime working and working under CEOs when

970
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 4: I was, you know, doing that. It's like you see

971
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 4: a lot of stuff and I'm a woman and I'm

972
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 4: black at that. So for me, it's like there's certain

973
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 4: things I would see, like it's not my business because

974
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna keep our little job.

975
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 2: I think we've all done that on some level or another.

976
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 4: You know, the higher you go, the different levels of

977
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 4: what that looks like is. So for me, it might

978
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 4: just be me looking at a man CEO having an

979
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 4: affairs looking the assistant doing this, but on that next

980
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 4: high level, it might be Jeffrey Epstein on the Damn Island.

981
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 4: You didn't like we don't know what's going on.

982
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: I think I think that happens again for me. I

983
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: feel like that happens in every industry period. No, no, no,

984
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about that. No, I'm saying business wise,

985
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: even in your sports I'm not saying on the court,

986
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 1: but you don't think to what she was in in

987
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: that in that executive office. You don't think assistant saw something.

988
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: It was like I'm gonna look the other way. So

989
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it happens in every aspect of the business.

990
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 2: Business. That's what I'm saying.

991
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: But to your point, I do think. I'm sure it's

992
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: people that felt like they sold they sold. Yes, that

993
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 1: I totally agree with. I was just I thought we

994
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: was just talking about just the gate.

995
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: That's part of it. But that's part of part of it.

996
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 3: Keep on like that's not the only come in with

997
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 3: a certain like this is what you're selling, this is

998
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 3: what you what your personality is, this the roles you

999
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 3: feel like you can give, and they're like, nah, here

1000
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: throw this dress on right, Like you know what I'm saying, Well,

1001
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 3: it's like I never have to do that to get

1002
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 3: to where I need to go, Like you know what

1003
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 3: I'm saying, I think you.

1004
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: Just got to be confident with who you are and

1005
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: where you're at in your life. Well, I'm at right now.

1006
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm cool with whatever comes. If I never become a

1007
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: mega superstar, I'm cool. I'm fine. You know what I'm saying.

1008
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 2: I got a house.

1009
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: I did because I think a lot of people equal

1010
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: success with money, and that's that's how you end up

1011
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:41,479
Speaker 1: selling your soul when you start equating it with money.

1012
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: Because success is if you're happy doing what you're doing

1013
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: and your bills are paid, you're successful. You can be

1014
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: successful whatever. So for me, it's like, right now, I

1015
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: don't drink or smoke. So if a liquor company cames

1016
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: like we want you to this ad, I'd be like, dude,

1017
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 1: I can't do that because I'm I don't drink.

1018
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: I'm lying, I'm not gonna do it. You know what

1019
00:44:58,719 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1020
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 4: Like, there's people who so that they we're doing. Yeah,

1021
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 4: it's like, what are you willing to do? Right?

1022
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 3: Right?

1023
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 4: It may take you longer. You might get there still,

1024
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 4: but it just might be a longer road.

1025
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: It's like, but you'll be happy.

1026
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 4: Yeah. The woman who's like, I want this role so

1027
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna get on my knees versus a woman who's like,

1028
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 4: I'm not doing that.

1029
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 1: What the problem is? That is the problem with that.

1030
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: If you get on your knees for that role, you

1031
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: don't have to keep getting on you. Yeah, that's what

1032
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: people don't realize. It's never a one time thing.

1033
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 4: But also too, just so you know, even with me

1034
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 4: and I'm not even nowhere near successful life, people are

1035
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 4: like they still be like, the only reason she has

1036
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 4: that is because she looks us away and she's getting

1037
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 4: on her knees. Even if you're not as a woman,

1038
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 4: you're gonna be assumed. If you're slightly attractive, you're gonna

1039
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 4: they're gonna assume that you got on your knees to

1040
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 4: get right here. Like that's what people still say about

1041
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 4: me to this day. No matter what job, career, wherever

1042
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 4: I've been, I've always even in my career working I've

1043
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 4: always worked under like a CEO and been like a

1044
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 4: chief of staff in that type of position. And it's like,

1045
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 4: even in those positions sexualized all the time. It's always uncomfortable,

1046
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 4: and Yeah, to keep my job, I might not say nothing.

1047
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 4: I might just keeping pushing and look the other way,

1048
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 4: because it's like, Okay, I have to pay my bills,

1049
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 4: so I'm not gonna do anything, but I have to

1050
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 4: feel uncomfortable showing up here every day, right, you know

1051
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 4: what I mean? Because now I feel like they're gonna

1052
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 4: say that that's just the price you pay trying to

1053
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 4: be especially a woman in a male's dominated field.

1054
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's just the price you pay

1055
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: just try to be successful.

1056
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, everything comes with sacrifices, and you know what

1057
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying, whatever it may be, even like right now,

1058
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: let's just say me and p did a podcast and

1059
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: then then it popped off, They'll be like, the only

1060
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: reason you blew up because you.

1061
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: Connected the p.

1062
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1063
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 2: So it's like you're always gonna have to deal with

1064
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff.

1065
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: But it's just like, all right, that's cool that but

1066
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: guess what, I'm still gonna go to my nice ass

1067
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: house and you're still gonna say all that.

1068
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 4: I have a podcast with pe people. It's our show.

1069
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 4: I produce. I do a lot of right, But they say,

1070
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 4: they say he does everything. I just come here and

1071
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 4: I just like say, yeah, it's pretty yeah, and I

1072
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 4: just I don't it's the Paul Pierce Show, Paul Pierce Podcast,

1073
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 4: Paul And like if I was someone who cared about that,

1074
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 4: I would feel bad every day. Like damn, I put

1075
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 4: so much effort into the show. Most of the guests

1076
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 4: that came on the show is because me on the

1077
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 4: grind try to get people, but no one gives me credit.

1078
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 4: Till this day, the show is Paul Pierre Show to

1079
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 4: the Internet, to everybody else. I'm just like, oh, you

1080
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 4: could replace me any day, Like you know what I mean,

1081
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 4: because you know that, and.

1082
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 1: That's all that matters. Yeah, yeah, you know what you

1083
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: bring at the end of the day, that's all that matters.

1084
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 4: I don't care about it. It's not even something I

1085
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 4: ever bring up because I don't give a damn. That's

1086
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 4: what people are gonna, honestly think the whole time.

1087
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,479
Speaker 2: The way I look at it, Man, if people ain't

1088
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 2: talking about you, you ain't profit her, ain't If you

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Speaker 2: Is that everybody like you?

1091
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Speaker 4: Yeah, what is that?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 4: but it helps you, you know, get it going. You

1139
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Speaker 4: said you only had a few hearts left.

1140
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 2: I said, I don't know. I ain't trying to.

1141
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 4: Waste Look, you ain't got to waste them. No more sparks, honey. Okay,

1142
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 4: So which one being right? Or keeping the peace, keeping

1143
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 4: the piece, winning the argument, or winning the relationship, winning

1144
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 4: the relationship, saying what you feel or saying what won't

1145
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 4: start a fight, saying what I feel.

1146
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 2: I like that.

1147
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:09,760
Speaker 4: Apologizing even when you feel justified, or standing on your pride.

1148
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 2: Eh.

1149
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 4: I know that's a hard one.

1150
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 2: That's a that's a that's apologizing it even if I'm so.

1151
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 2: You said, I'm not in the wrong.

1152
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 4: But you're not in the wrong. But like it was

1153
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 4: an intensive situation, I'm stilling on my Okay, you still.

1154
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 2: On the ride if I ain't wrong, I'm stilling on

1155
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 2: my pride.

1156
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 4: Okay, walking away to cool off or talking it out

1157
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 4: immediately walking away. Men always pick walking away and women

1158
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 4: always want to talk.

1159
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm a libro man. We we don't like conversation like that.

1160
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: We cool were just like, hey man, at some point,

1161
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: for me, if I'm arguing with you, if it's going

1162
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: too long, I'd be like, you're right, even if you

1163
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: diare wrong, because I'm just like, we're not going nowhere.

1164
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 2: Right, I know you really are.

1165
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 4: What's your birthday?

1166
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 2: October twenty first.

1167
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 4: Okay, he's a liber too. Yeah, okay, So protecting your

1168
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 4: ego or protect your partner's feelings?

1169
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: You know what his what's funny thought that protecting my

1170
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: partner's feelings is showing my ego because I'm strong enough

1171
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: to let her get that, you know what I'm saying.

1172
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 2: I'm strong enough.

1173
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 1: I'm confident in myself enough to be like, you get

1174
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 1: that go ahead if it makes you feel good and

1175
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,720
Speaker 1: you cool, because you need that go ahead?

1176
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: Okay.

1177
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,720
Speaker 4: Letting the small things slide or addressing everything?

1178
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: I address everything because to me, small things are the

1179
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 1: biggest reason relationships don't work. Big things are big things

1180
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: are big things. Small things is what leads to like

1181
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 1: disrespect and certain things. So I don't let the small

1182
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: things slide because that's how things get out of hand.

1183
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 4: But then you just said that you would like to

1184
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,800
Speaker 4: avoid confrontation as a lever, So how do you balance that?

1185
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 1: It's not if I'm just telling you something. Now, Once

1186
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: you react, how you react. That's the conversation.

1187
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 4: Okay, so you feel like I'm still going to address it.

1188
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna I agree with that.

1189
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 4: But I think as a woman, where we struggle is

1190
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 4: like I want to address small things because I'm like,

1191
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 4: you know, it's little things that could just be corrected

1192
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 4: that doesn't have to build a sentment. But then you

1193
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 4: don't want to feel like when you bring it to

1194
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 4: a man, he's like, this is she always got something

1195
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 4: to say. It's always something every day. But it's like,

1196
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 4: I just want to get these little things off so

1197
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 4: we can like because it's sometimes small things that make

1198
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 4: you feel like, damn, this person love me. Like it's

1199
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 4: small I had.

1200
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: I had this woman, I was talking to you. She

1201
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: still say shut up all the time. I don't do

1202
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: shut up, damn shut up. And it was small to her,

1203
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 1: but to me, it was just like, hey, I don't

1204
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: you know whatever you disrespect, like, I don't do shut up.

1205
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:43,280
Speaker 2: Bro, don't tell me to shut up. And we were joking.

1206
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: It was a joking thing that she said. I was like,

1207
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: I don't do that. I don't do it.

1208
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: And then she thought it was like I was like,

1209
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: you know, I like you, so I want this to work.

1210
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to, don't. I don't do shut up, bro, like,

1211
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 1: don't tell me to say I can't.

1212
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 2: I don't even think. I know the last time somebody

1213
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 2: even said.

1214
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, but it was even though it

1215
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 1: was in a joking. Man, I'm like, just like some women,

1216
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 1: you know how we be like a lot of people

1217
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: say bitches. Some women be like, that's how I don't

1218
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: call that's what I'm saying even in sex, don't know,

1219
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: and I'm like, cool, I respect that.

1220
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 4: Let me know, even though it's weird because I let

1221
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 4: a man be like, this is my bitch. I don't

1222
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 4: mind that because it's the LA thing from LA. But

1223
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 4: don't just be like you're a bitch. You're like bitch.

1224
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 4: You gotta be like that. You could be like that's

1225
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 4: my bitch because it's off from LA. Is the nature

1226
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 4: of it. But don't ever just be like bitch.

1227
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 2: I had only called me that is when we have

1228
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: a sex. That's it.

1229
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 4: I don't even want to be called that during people.

1230
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 2: Baby.

1231
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,760
Speaker 4: Let's let's sten to that unless it's like I don't know, okay,

1232
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 4: So being honest even if it hurts, or keeping the

1233
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 4: vibe calm me being honest, yeah, or her like, do

1234
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 4: you prefer someone to just be honest? Like, baby, you're

1235
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 4: not making me come at all.

1236
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 2: Keep the vibe, keep the vibe women see women.

1237
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 4: Honesty be hurting, though, man, But what if it's like

1238
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 4: fix that I'm supposed to live a life, find a

1239
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 4: way to get it, to tell me without being just

1240
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 4: say like, find a way.

1241
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, put on a movie and let the movie tell me.

1242
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:22,760
Speaker 2: I don't put on a sound.

1243
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 4: But what if you're not getting it? Then you're like, hey, babe, I.

1244
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 2: Know, but what I'm saying is at least try first.

1245
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 4: Okay, So you don't want a woman to come to

1246
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 4: you and be like listen. What if it's like listen

1247
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 4: baby and it's so sweet and song.

1248
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 2: Here's when it hurts. If it's somebody you. If it's

1249
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 2: just some random I don't care, no.

1250
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 4: Someone you love, it hurt. Yeah, it does. It hurts

1251
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 4: if even a man said something vibe. But I want

1252
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 4: to know I'm gonna be honest, find a way. If no,

1253
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 4: you could tell me it's gonna hurt. But I rather

1254
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 4: do it right and learn how to do what you

1255
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 4: like period point, Like I'd rather have that hurt in

1256
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 4: the shorte.

1257
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,280
Speaker 2: It's sexual. I'm always now I'm second guess and everything.

1258
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, but think about this. That leads to other things

1259
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 4: in the relationship.

1260
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 2: I gotta take the I gotta now, I gotta call Pete.

1261
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: I need a box.

1262
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 4: Okay, So I get that. Okay, So being understood of

1263
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 4: being loved, being loved.

1264
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: Because then I think they'll have patience with you. They

1265
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 1: love you, the understanding will come. They accept you as

1266
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: is because somebody could understand you to not love you.

1267
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: Because they understand you is why they don't love you

1268
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: like I know who he is.

1269
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 4: Understand the love. You're more understanding when you love something, Yes,

1270
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 4: it comes.

1271
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:45,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got one. Okay, what you like? Any or

1272
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 2: audi billy button? What is it? I thought I was

1273
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 2: billy button.

1274
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 4: When it's out.

1275
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you're talking about, right, No, I ain't answer.

1276
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 1: I don't know what if you're not talking about belly,

1277
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: but I don't know what we're talking about talking about belly,

1278
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: But then I don't know what we're talking about it

1279
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 1: were talking about, you know, we're talking about ain'tal no

1280
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: or a girl?

1281
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 2: Oh? Any or ality or the girl?

1282
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 4: What is that?

1283
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: I'm still not sure. Can we can we can we lips?

1284
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 2: What what is it? Any any or a that you mean?

1285
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 2: Leave it in or pool? I don't you know? Girls

1286
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 2: have anys and outis? What do you have?

1287
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 4: I have any belly, budd and I don't know what

1288
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 4: you're talking about.

1289
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 2: I don't even know the reference, billy, what about about?

1290
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: Like?

1291
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 4: Oh, I don't even know what I have. I'm not

1292
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 4: going to answer that.

1293
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1294
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: It could be if it's too far out, like no,

1295
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: that's like a small.

1296
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like nah it hang it out.

1297
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:12,439
Speaker 4: Yeah nah, that's like circumcised or uncircumcised. Yeah, you guys

1298
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 4: don't know nothing about that.

1299
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about that. Oh my goodness, No,

1300
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know nothing about that either. But it's a thing. Okay, Well,

1302
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 4: thank you for that. If prescribed new sexual health patients

1303
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Speaker 4: get fifteen dollars off their first order of sparks on

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00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:28,960
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1306
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 4: rule sparks are right for you.

1307
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 3: Hey, what's your relationship status right now? You don't myself,

1308
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 3: I don't like it. You don't like it, I'm a

1309
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: I'm a want to come home to something. You know

1310
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

1311
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 2: I know what it is. I need an emergency contact.

1312
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel that.

1313
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 2: I need somebody I can call it. Things is crazy

1314
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 2: and I know it's handled. What's the what's the data

1315
00:58:59,160 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 2: seemed like?

1316
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 4: For you here?

1317
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:01,439
Speaker 2: It's l A. I don't.

1318
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: I don't really, I don't know what dating is like

1319
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: that before real, but I don't date like that. I

1320
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,959
Speaker 1: can't go out with three different chicks in a week.

1321
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 2: I don't have that.

1322
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: Like that costs a lot, just the costs and that

1323
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna forget what one said and then bring

1324
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: an old conversation to.

1325
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 2: The new one, like, oh, you're not the one who

1326
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 2: allergic yourself? Is not bad? Like you know what I'm saying.

1327
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: Can't you know how much the other stuff we.

1328
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 1: Got going on in our lives though I can't really remember,

1329
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: Oh you you don't eat red meat?

1330
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 2: All right? Damn? I can't.

1331
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: So Like, if this connection happened and it's genuine and

1332
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: it's cool, great, but all that trying to court three

1333
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: different people and like, ain't doing notnheing that got peace?

1334
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 5: Then?

1335
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 2: Right now? I ain't doing nothing he.

1336
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 4: Said, he wants you want to be in a relationship.

1337
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be married again. Okay, I'm not.

1338
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: With the whole single like nah that So again you

1339
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: was married. I was married and then got divorced. I

1340
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: messed that one up. I'm ready for my second marriage.

1341
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 2: You know. It's a great thing.

1342
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 1: Me and my ex wife was together for like twenty

1343
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 1: six years, twenty yeah, married four.

1344
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 2: You know, all you together twenty six years, married for

1345
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 2: four you know, she never got married, that's what. Then

1346
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 2: we got married. I messed it up. Well it was me. Yeah,

1347
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 2: I was out here, just dumb. Okay. So when you

1348
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: moved okay, so where you moved from Miami? You was married?

1349
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: Yes, well no, I wasn't married yet, So you got married.

1350
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: I was going back with her though I was with her. Yeah,

1351
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: we were together. SID stayed in Miami. She stayed in

1352
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: Miami with my kids. I came out here because we

1353
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: was like, well we don't know what this is gonna be.

1354
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: You know, TV shows come and go, you know what

1355
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So and then she had her family. She

1356
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: didn't want to come out here, and I know anybody,

1357
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: So I just did the back and forth thing for

1358
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: a long time, which I think had a lot to

1359
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: do with the marriage not working because I had a

1360
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: lot of free time.

1361
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 2: Right, So yeah, twenty six.

1362
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 4: Years, you're ready to get married again.

1363
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not ready to get married today, but

1364
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: yeah I'm not. I'm not INTI marriage at all.

1365
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 4: Okay, you know what I'm saying. Do you want to

1366
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 4: have more kids?

1367
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 1: No?

1368
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 2: No, more kids? That's a deal break. You have two kids, right,

1369
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 2: that's a deal breaking.

1370
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: Like I prefer the day with want I date women

1371
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: that don't even have a uterus, I don't even want

1372
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: no slips.

1373
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you know what I'm saying, Like, like, that's

1374
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 2: a deal breaking for me.

1375
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 4: You know kids, So that's why you like older women?

1376
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: Then? So I like older women or women that got

1377
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: kids or women that don't want kids. So like, to me,

1378
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: that would have to be discussed early.

1379
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 4: That's like the first thing appetizes come out.

1380
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 2: Hey where you had on kids before?

1381
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: Because that's gonna change how much I let you order

1382
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:45,959
Speaker 1: If you want kids, Well, now you got to slow

1383
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 1: down because this is our last time talking.

1384
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you ordering crazy, I'm not gonna see you

1385
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 2: no more.

1386
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 4: You know what, I think that's good? I think asking like,

1387
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 4: do you want marriage? Do you want kids? Because if

1388
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 4: someone wants kids and you don't, that's a dub. That's

1389
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 4: someone wants marriage and you don't.

1390
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 2: That's Kobe st this tomahawk and I'm not gonna see

1391
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: you no more. Get Do you know those you go

1392
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 2: from steak to pop corn?

1393
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, because you we don't want the same thing.

1394
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: You your baby daddy need to buy you the tom

1395
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: crying I'm not I'm not trying to be a baby daddy.

1396
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 2: Oh my, you know what I'm saying. I was, I

1397
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 2: was a husband, I was a dad. I don't want

1398
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 2: to be a baby daddy.

1399
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 4: There's a difference in a baby daddy and being a

1400
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 4: husband or a wife or a baby mama. I said

1401
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 4: that last time. He disagrees with that. It's a serious difference.

1402
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 2: Good, it's great, baby mama's I'm not not.

1403
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 4: No, no, it's great. People could be great, but it's

1404
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 4: what your preference is. Like, you don't want to be

1405
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 4: a baby daddy. You were a husband, Yeah, I don't

1406
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 4: want to. Like people don't want to be a baby mama.

1407
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 2: They'd rather be like it's just aby mama.

1408
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a baby Some of them

1409
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 1: do some of them want multiple baby dads because it's

1410
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: I sat at the table with some girls, it's checks.

1411
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 4: We woul't want to get that check.

1412
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 2: They just want to check out.

1413
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 4: We're not saying women don't want that. Women do that

1414
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 4: every day.

1415
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: But there's a thing I don't even fault the women

1416
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: at some point because, like, especially in your field, p

1417
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've seen it.

1418
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 2: These dudes were having all.

1419
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: This money and they beginning with a girl that had

1420
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: kids from three other celebrity dudes, and you be the

1421
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: fourth baby daddy.

1422
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 4: Dummy, or they slip up. Men literally slip up with

1423
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 4: these women and they be that's you're a check, that's

1424
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 4: what she do. Women will literally have a baby with

1425
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 4: a man they're not even in a relationship with just

1426
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 4: to get a check.

1427
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 2: But who's that that's on him?

1428
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 4: That his faught you're sloppy? Are you just slopping? Because

1429
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 4: it's like, why are you just loose out here life?

1430
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: I never blamed the first dude, Like if you the

1431
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: first baby daddy and you the athlete, okay, because you.

1432
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 2: Ain't no, But if you're the third athlete baby daddy,

1433
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 2: come home.

1434
01:03:56,240 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: Damn, come on for that woman that's you, or if

1435
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: you're having she got four jerseys on.

1436
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 4: The I'm dad, or you're having casual sex with a

1437
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 4: woman you don't plan on with raw, Like what are

1438
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 4: you doing? What are you doing? Because at the end

1439
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 4: of the day, you know what these women are in

1440
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 4: it for, like work and she don't work, or she's

1441
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 4: just like you know, she's thirsty, she's trying to be

1442
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 4: in the mix. And at the end of the day,

1443
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 4: it's like for me, I'm like, we got to do

1444
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 4: better because so many women want that check. And to me,

1445
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 4: I seen one of these girls who has a bunch

1446
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 4: of baby daddies that are athletes and rappers. She was like,

1447
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 4: the check ain't even worth it at the end of

1448
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 4: the day because I'm over here stressed out. I got

1449
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 4: this kid and I don't have a man, Like I'm

1450
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 4: in the household alone and.

1451
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 2: The checks cut off. But they go down, the checks.

1452
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 1: Go see if he's not like somebody who's smart who

1453
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: invested their money once he got the league.

1454
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 4: And there's ways now, you know, there's ways now that

1455
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 4: you can people be moving money around, putting in someone

1456
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 4: else's name.

1457
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 2: Acting like that, like you said, you got more kids

1458
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 2: to check go down.

1459
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's like you doing all of this. But

1460
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 4: then there's also women who just there's women who want

1461
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 4: kids because they want to make their kid or their

1462
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 4: son like my king, my world, you're my everything, You're

1463
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 4: my Valentine. They want to get that love from something

1464
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 4: because they want to fell avoid. I know people like that.

1465
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 4: I know friends like that that have kids to fell

1466
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 4: avoid because they're like, I want love and I'm lonely,

1467
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 4: or I reached a certain age and I don't have

1468
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 4: a kid. Sol any man who get me pregnant, Yeah,

1469
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 4: and let me be an athlete, let me be someone

1470
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 4: who got money. I'm really having that baby with you

1471
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 4: or without you.

1472
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm stio typing right now. I'm just speaking off

1473
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 1: the cuff. I think sometimes that comes from women that

1474
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: don't have a solid relationship with their father, so they're

1475
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,919
Speaker 1: trying to get genuine love from a man any type

1476
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: of way, even if it's their son. Yes, you know

1477
01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: what I'm so, they hold on to their son vent.

1478
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:44,800
Speaker 1: But I think women who have a sided relationship with

1479
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: their father don't really move like.

1480
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 2: That, you know what I mean.

1481
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 1: And that's another thing. Thein't a woman that don't have

1482
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:53,479
Speaker 1: a solid relationship with her father. Sometime can be hard.

1483
01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 4: I've heard those things. I've heard that I have a

1484
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 4: good relationship with my dad, so I wouldn't know. My

1485
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 4: parents are still married, so you totally different, right, But

1486
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 4: I wouldn't know what the differences. But I've heard men

1487
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 4: say like women without father Someone said that. I forgot

1488
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 4: who it was, but they literally came on our podcast.

1489
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 4: I think it was Carlos Miller or someone, but they

1490
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 4: were saying, women without fathers, you can tell the difference

1491
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 4: when you date them.

1492
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you can tell the difference because the and

1493
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: it's sad, and again I'm just generalizing. Sometimes the self

1494
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: esteem is not as where it should be. You know,

1495
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 1: they getting manipulated a lot because sometimes they just don't

1496
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 1: know what that genuine love is like. So you know

1497
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: what I mean, It's like they could get played easily.

1498
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 4: But it depends.

1499
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 2: That's and I'm not saying, I'm just talking.

1500
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying because I know a lot

1501
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 4: of women without fathers that I think are incredible women,

1502
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 4: and they are like they do show up in certain

1503
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 4: ways because it's about the work that you do for yourself.

1504
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 4: Because you can have a father like, I have a

1505
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 4: father who's present, but my father is at the end

1506
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 4: of the day a man and he's seventy eight. Do

1507
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 4: you think my father knew how to be vulnerable? It

1508
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 4: expressed how much he loved me on today.

1509
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:03,680
Speaker 2: No, you don't realize it. But just the presence alone.

1510
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I could say that.

1511
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 2: I mean, the presence of him being there makes a

1512
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 2: whole Yeah.

1513
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 4: I mean I have a present, present father, So I

1514
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 4: can say, like, my dad was there my whole life.

1515
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 4: He's still there right now, like still text me I

1516
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 4: love you.

1517
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 2: Baby, and that matters. He'll guess what he don't for

1518
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 2: a while.

1519
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, my dad don't play. And my dad is like

1520
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 4: always been a provider and a protector. So I will

1521
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 4: be like honest, like my dad set the standard of like,

1522
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 4: listen if it's never been about My dad always taught

1523
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 4: me to like it's like it's if a man is

1524
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 4: doing something for you, there's always a price you have

1525
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 4: to pay. So when I was young, I remember I

1526
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 4: came home with some red bottoms one time from a

1527
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 4: man and I was red bobs cracking. My dad was

1528
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 4: pissed and he's like, what do you think you have

1529
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 4: to do for that? And I was like, no, I

1530
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 4: didn't do anything. He was like, no, no, no, you will.

1531
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 4: He's like, don't, don't, don't, because yeah, my dad checked

1532
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 4: me in that moment. And that's why I don't ask

1533
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 4: for anything from a man. I'm not like, can you

1534
01:07:57,800 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 4: do this for me? Can you get this from me?

1535
01:07:59,080 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 2: Canny.

1536
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,439
Speaker 4: I'm not like that, Like if you said you're gonna

1537
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 4: help me, you're willing to do something. That's cool, and

1538
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 4: I appreciate it and I'm going to try to pay

1539
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 4: it back in any way that I can. But I'm

1540
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 4: not going to be out here begging.

1541
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 2: You're also not entitled.

1542
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I'm not entitled. I don't. I'm not entitled

1543
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 4: at all. But I think, like you said, I think

1544
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 4: there are women who don't have present fathers that have

1545
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:21,600
Speaker 4: done the work, that have done what it takes to

1546
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 4: feel like, you know, I have that love because you

1547
01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 4: can have both parents present and you can still lack

1548
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 4: the self love and the confidence because.

1549
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 2: They may they just may be president, they may not

1550
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:31,679
Speaker 2: be active.

1551
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,000
Speaker 4: They they may not be active, you know, and even

1552
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 4: if they are, there's always things. Even as me as

1553
01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 4: a woman, I lacked confidence. I have insecurities and these

1554
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 4: are things that I constantly work on.

1555
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 1: I think we all suffer from some kind of lack

1556
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: of confidence in one area of life or another. Week

1557
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: all we all walk around here, macho and everybody when

1558
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 1: they at home alone and they sit down, we got

1559
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 1: a little something that we insecure about or not confident about,

1560
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: you know. And I think that's just human nature. Ain't

1561
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 1: nobody walking around here just super, you know, just manly man.

1562
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing gets to me like, yeah, whatever, Bro, you

1563
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 1: hiding something. You're all vulnerable somewhere for sure.

1564
01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 3: For sure, I want to get back to this day

1565
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 3: thing you said. Uh, Like, I'm thinking, like you don't

1566
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 3: date a lot, It's not like that, But like, how

1567
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 3: do you even meet women? Like I guess it's just no,

1568
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 3: I don't do the online thing.

1569
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: Man.

1570
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 2: I'm old school, bro, I just got it. It just

1571
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 2: gotta happen.

1572
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 4: Just do you still approach women out?

1573
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 2: And you know what, even with that, I don't approach

1574
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 2: women like that. Like I said, it just gotta know

1575
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:38,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1576
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: It got to just be like it just has to happen,

1577
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: like in a in a natural state. Because I'm a

1578
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: funny person, I can always kind of break an ice. Yeah,

1579
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: but it has to be in the like like I

1580
01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 1: won't see you at the gas station and run up

1581
01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: on you while you're pumpings.

1582
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 2: I feel like that's invasive and you know you might

1583
01:09:57,560 --> 01:09:58,719
Speaker 2: be scared or whatever.

1584
01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:01,600
Speaker 1: But if we're in a funk, like you know what

1585
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: I'm saying, yeah, and I see her repeatedly, like for me,

1586
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 1: I'm not wanting that person.

1587
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 2: I see somebody one time like ooh, but you know

1588
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:12,799
Speaker 2: what I see, it happens.

1589
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 4: That's the problem though, because for me, it's like I

1590
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 4: feel like I've noticed that there's a lack of men

1591
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 4: and other women notice this too, that like approach women

1592
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:26,720
Speaker 4: and I think it hurts, and I know rejection hurts.

1593
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy that I feel like men,

1594
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 4: you got to get over that rejection because you know

1595
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 4: why Men get rejected when they come to you and

1596
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 4: they're like, hey, what's up, and then you might be

1597
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 4: like no, women get rejected after they give you their

1598
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,560
Speaker 4: entire soul, and then you're like, nah, I'm cool, are you.

1599
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 4: Women get in a relationship and give you their whole life.

1600
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 4: You get to know me, and then you decide I'm cool.

1601
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:47,720
Speaker 4: They say, well, I don't want a relationship. This really

1602
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,640
Speaker 4: ain't what you invested. I like, women get rejected on

1603
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 4: a way higher level that we don't speak about. After

1604
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 4: we've done bared our soul and you got to know me,

1605
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 4: you then decided you didn't want me. You know how

1606
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:00,080
Speaker 4: much more that hurts person you coming up to a

1607
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 4: woman and just being like, nah, I'm cool, I have

1608
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 4: a man or I'm not interested, right because even now

1609
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 4: it's like I'm out and obviously like I'm not interested

1610
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 4: in anybody, but like I'm out and man like, they're

1611
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 4: so on me, Like if I go to the store,

1612
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 4: but they stare so hard and they will never like

1613
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 4: just come up like and it's like cause it looks intimidate.

1614
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how sometimes it's intimidating. So back

1615
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,640
Speaker 1: when I was living and I was going back and forth, right,

1616
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 1: my ex wife told me this story. So she had

1617
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 1: her ring on, Yeah, it's crazy how and dude ain't care.

1618
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: She coming out the grocery store and back then I

1619
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:39,799
Speaker 1: had a cheap wrangler, but I white boy did it out, big.

1620
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: Tires, lift had the lights and everything.

1621
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 1: So dude just kept talking walking her out, and then

1622
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,639
Speaker 1: she said when she got to the jeep, and that's

1623
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 1: when he was like, oh, okay, I'm good cause he

1624
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 1: figured like she clearly got some got a man, man,

1625
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: something's going on, Like I don't want no problems. Yeah,

1626
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: And I think sometimes men like either they don't care

1627
01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: or they too shy, you know what I'm saying.

1628
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 4: Thinking, But that's the thing. It's like like men gotta

1629
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 4: get out of that and be like it's so now

1630
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 4: that men don't do that. I feel like more women

1631
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 4: tell me how attractive it is for a man to

1632
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 4: actually come up and have the confidence to be like, hey,

1633
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 4: how are you?

1634
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 1: Like yeah, but it's so hard. Again, the algorithm is

1635
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 1: in everybody. It's so hard when you see these girls

1636
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 1: be so mean and so.

1637
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 4: Yeah sorespectful, you know, but that's just not because then

1638
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 4: what they'll do is like literally I was at the

1639
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 4: grocery store yesterday and like so many men just kept

1640
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 4: staring and my homegroun was like, damn, Like these men

1641
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 4: are on you, but like obviously I'm not interested, so

1642
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:38,600
Speaker 4: I'm not giving them no play. But it's just like

1643
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 4: it's way more uncomfortable and awkward that you keep staring

1644
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 4: at me, following me around, getting in the car. It's

1645
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 4: starting to give like stalker like you rather just come

1646
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 4: up and I'll tell you like oh no I'm taking

1647
01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,640
Speaker 4: or like I'm not interested, but all of this like

1648
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:56,120
Speaker 4: staring follow me around. I'm looking at side now I'm

1649
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 4: getting nervous, like.

1650
01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 2: You gotta understand.

1651
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: You gotta understand too, because that that even happens to me,

1652
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: not that they trying to holler at me.

1653
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think with me and you at we not

1654
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:08,240
Speaker 2: Paul yet.

1655
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, I get it.

1656
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 2: So sometimes they be like no hurt.

1657
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 1: Because I get that A lot dudes be looking at

1658
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: me and I be thinking like, man, what were we doing?

1659
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, be like you you dude,

1660
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 2: you know what I'm here. I ain't thinking like he

1661
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 2: won't smoke, dude, trying to figure out where you know me?

1662
01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 4: This is them definitely like on it because you could

1663
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 4: tell the energy of a man like steering you up

1664
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:36,720
Speaker 4: at the other and it's like gets uncomfortable because it's

1665
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 4: like just say it and then I could let you

1666
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:38,920
Speaker 4: know like hey no.

1667
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: But but then again, sometimes maybe he wanted to just

1668
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:45,000
Speaker 1: live in that. You know what I'm saying, baby, maybe

1669
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: take my baby with me I'll tell you what it is.

1670
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 2: This is what it is.

1671
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 3: If a man is following you, he kind of looking

1672
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 3: what are you doing? It's like predator and prey, right,

1673
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. How have you ever watched

1674
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 3: the Animal Challenge channel. You see the lion stalking the prey.

1675
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,720
Speaker 3: He waiting for that moment. You know, it might be

1676
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:04,759
Speaker 3: a moment like you know what, she at the register

1677
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 3: or she right there. I don't really want to go

1678
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:07,559
Speaker 3: up to her, but when she hit this over here,

1679
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 3: over here, okay.

1680
01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:09,200
Speaker 2: All right, let me go.

1681
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: This is the right space because you can find out

1682
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: something to break the ice with. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1683
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 4: If you notice, like it was like register, right, we're

1684
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:19,720
Speaker 4: at the register. I'm want my homegirls. So I'm like,

1685
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 4: I hope he doesn't say nothing, right, So then I

1686
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 4: go and then he's like lingering. So I'm like, oh

1687
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:26,560
Speaker 4: wait a minute, I'm just making it up. Let's go

1688
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 4: to the cattle right here, and so we like go

1689
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 4: the opposite direction and then he's waiting over here. I'm like, yo,

1690
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:35,639
Speaker 4: you could see I'm literally try to like the interaction.

1691
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's harder for a man to shooting

1692
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 1: shot with another girl there too. If it's one on one,

1693
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 1: he probably would have.

1694
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 4: He want to listen. I go outside every day and

1695
01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:46,519
Speaker 4: it does this every day, and then you know what

1696
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 4: else happens. I go outside, I do this and then

1697
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 4: I'll see like my little message request, Hey, I didn't

1698
01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 4: want to say anything to you with your beautiful I

1699
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 4: saw you in Whole Food, I saw you whatever, because

1700
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:57,759
Speaker 4: that's safe.

1701
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,479
Speaker 2: How didy know you? Though? What I'm trying to think,

1702
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 2: they know you?

1703
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, they know who I

1704
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 4: am like? And then that's another breaking ice W mean,

1705
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 4: oh I know you from this? Oh well, what's up?

1706
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 2: Like? You know?

1707
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 4: That's how we try to play it too.

1708
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 1: And you don't have personality though you gotta understand if

1709
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:17,080
Speaker 1: you don't have personality, they don't know how to really

1710
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:19,440
Speaker 1: because if they do know you, that is the icebreaker.

1711
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 2: Yo, what you and P doing? I love y'all podcast?

1712
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 2: Now you talking?

1713
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, But some people don't know

1714
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 3: how to, he fumbled. He like, the grocery store is

1715
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:33,679
Speaker 3: the easiest spot if you want to. It's the easiest spot,

1716
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 3: especially at the rest, because you could just be like

1717
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:38,200
Speaker 3: in the our you could just be like, damn, you

1718
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, let me cook you up something.

1719
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, look at her basket. You

1720
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 2: can look at her basket. I don't like about.

1721
01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 4: What a man time about. Let me cook you up.

1722
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 4: So that's a way for me.

1723
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, those don't really you know what

1724
01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You should get deep now you're talking, And

1725
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 1: it's the thing for me, like this is what I

1726
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 1: always know. And I used to tell my girl is

1727
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 1: before because she used to be like a big like

1728
01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 1: I just want to be nice and I just want

1729
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,880
Speaker 1: to like always smiling and this I'm like, hey, man,

1730
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:16,800
Speaker 1: stop smiling a smile to a man mean, like come on.

1731
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 4: Well, I'm gonna say this though, because I would look

1732
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:21,640
Speaker 4: at that too at one point, and I remember like

1733
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 4: getting checked like hey you smile and relax. Right, So

1734
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 4: I'm more like now like mean or whatever. Right, you

1735
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:33,320
Speaker 4: don't have to be mean, but that's just more like

1736
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,640
Speaker 4: try don't they come right near me. But at the

1737
01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 4: same time, like women also, and I know men don't

1738
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 4: like to believe this, but women have a fear too,

1739
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 4: Like I stopped I've told a man like hey, no,

1740
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:46,280
Speaker 4: I'm cool, like because you're doing too much and it's

1741
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:48,559
Speaker 4: in a real cool way and they're.

1742
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 6: Like what, like fuck you too, then, bitch like, you

1743
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,320
Speaker 6: gotta check your environment if you if it's just you

1744
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:59,560
Speaker 6: and the dude outside, nobody else around, smile.

1745
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 2: And get to your Yeah.

1746
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to be cool sometimes because some of

1747
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 4: these men get mad and they be rejected, so then

1748
01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 4: they start to like get all like crazy. So like

1749
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 4: sometimes you do have to be like, no, I'm sorry,

1750
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 4: like because I even had a man be like why

1751
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 4: are you sorry? You're sorry that you're in a play ship,

1752
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 4: like you should.

1753
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 1: Be sorry, you say I'm comedian. You gotta be like

1754
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, okay, or just lie and you don't want this.

1755
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 4: Man will be like, okay, that's cool. I heard pregnant.

1756
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. That's so mad, Arthy says,

1757
01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 4: yeah they do.

1758
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:33,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, you gotta lie. You gotta make some crazy.

1759
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 4: Stuff because even if you're like I got a man, okay,

1760
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 4: well do you got you can't have friends?

1761
01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 2: You know what you guys say, you can't have no friends.

1762
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,400
Speaker 2: I gotta turn myself into me talking about you. I

1763
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:45,680
Speaker 2: gotta I gotta turn myself into what happens.

1764
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 4: School one is like, I'm a lusbian, but they.

1765
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 2: Cool. I'm a lesbian too, your girlfriend, we all get it.

1766
01:17:55,000 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 2: We eat together. School lyrics, yeah.

1767
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 4: They old school, but it's still ald school like men

1768
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 4: out here. But I feel like younger. I think the

1769
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 4: younger men are now getting more into the older women too.

1770
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, you know that, but it's always that that.

1771
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:15,160
Speaker 1: It's always that dynamic. If you're a younger man, you

1772
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 1: want an older woman. If you're an older man, you

1773
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 1: want a younger woman.

1774
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1775
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's always been that dynam I don't think that's

1776
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:22,920
Speaker 2: gonna ever change, you know, Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's how

1777
01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 2: it is till you get that young girl and you

1778
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 2: older and you find out like this little girl getting

1779
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:30,639
Speaker 2: on my damn nerves. Yeah, she on TikTok all day,

1780
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 2: right right, even over it.

1781
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 4: I can't do no younger man though. I think that

1782
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 4: is just too much of a that's.

1783
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 2: Because you're still young. What you thirty four? That's not

1784
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 2: young though.

1785
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:44,600
Speaker 1: You know when women start getting younger men, when they

1786
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:47,200
Speaker 1: like forty, then she'll get a twenty six year old

1787
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 1: be like boody little boy fun because he's just a boyd,

1788
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But you're still that serious. Right,

1789
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:57,720
Speaker 1: She's thirty four, so right now you looking for older man.

1790
01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:00,200
Speaker 1: But when women get older, they like, I just needs

1791
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: someone to have fun with.

1792
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like they're no pill.

1793
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 4: He ready, you don't got to take for forty years.

1794
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 3: I think they're looking at the women the same way too, though,

1795
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 3: you do. They like the young man is looking at

1796
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 3: the older woman, but how they looking at him?

1797
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:16,280
Speaker 4: Well, Jayalen Green is in a whole relationship with Drea

1798
01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 4: boot Up, kissing at the court side, running to her

1799
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:21,640
Speaker 4: when she wins family kids Like, there's a lot of

1800
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,400
Speaker 4: men who actually take younger men, who take older women

1801
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 4: serious because they feel like they looked up. They're like, wow,

1802
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 4: I got with a prize. She's nurturing, she's loving.

1803
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 1: Scary thing about when it's depending on how the age

1804
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:37,240
Speaker 1: gat be carried, because at some point she's gonna be sixty.

1805
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still gonna be young. Yeah, that dynamic changes.

1806
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: It will will hit sixty five and her mind frame

1807
01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 1: is sixty five.

1808
01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still.

1809
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:51,439
Speaker 4: Well I'm scared because I feel like the women who

1810
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:53,920
Speaker 4: do the younger man man mature so much slower than

1811
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:57,639
Speaker 4: women scientifically, right, Like you could see a man yall age,

1812
01:19:57,920 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 4: Like it took me to see my dad and my

1813
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,599
Speaker 4: sister husband who's like fifty something and he's still hitting

1814
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 4: it and looking young. And I'm like, wait a minute.

1815
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 4: I thought by that time, y'all will be ready to

1816
01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:10,600
Speaker 4: like sit it down, but it's not. And so I

1817
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,960
Speaker 4: realize that now, and I'm like, how could I be

1818
01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:15,479
Speaker 4: with someone Like I have a nephew who's like twenty seven.

1819
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:17,720
Speaker 4: I have a great nephew, you know what I mean?

1820
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 4: Like I can't look at no young boy and be

1821
01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 4: like ooh, like I talked my nephew how to drive,

1822
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 4: like I still mind meant, like the age difference, it's

1823
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 4: weird to me. I'm like, I don't replate to you.

1824
01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 2: And it depends where the age difference is.

1825
01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, where the age gap is, because it's weird because

1826
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:35,320
Speaker 1: nineteen and.

1827
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:36,559
Speaker 2: Thirty looks crazy.

1828
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:37,479
Speaker 4: It looks crazy.

1829
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 2: Thirty and forty is like, okay.

1830
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 4: Thirty and forty is cool. You could be like fifteen

1831
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 4: years apart from someone. But if it's like thirty five

1832
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 4: and fifty, that's cool.

1833
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:49,519
Speaker 2: But if you like twenty and thirty five, like this

1834
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:51,639
Speaker 2: is crazy. What you got to talk about.

1835
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:55,160
Speaker 1: As long as the woman's over thirty, the man can

1836
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 1: be any age. The man could be any age. Well yeah,

1837
01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm looking at a little but at

1838
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 1: sixty and thirty it looks creepy to me.

1839
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, you gotta start looking at some of these

1840
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: sports owners.

1841
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:09,640
Speaker 4: No, I know, but what it's creepy though, And you

1842
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 4: know why the woman is with us, right, but they know, yeah,

1843
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 4: they know, we all know real love. At that point,

1844
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 4: she don't.

1845
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 2: Look at you a Belichick, he know what it is.

1846
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 2: He don't care.

1847
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 4: They waiting for you to die to collect that check.

1848
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 4: That's it. Imagine people someone who's just waiting on you

1849
01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 4: to die, Like, that's sad.

1850
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 1: So well for them young girls to me like some

1851
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 1: I don't know Bill Belichick's situation, but I don't think

1852
01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:30,599
Speaker 1: they married.

1853
01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:34,040
Speaker 2: She's the fool that she's not married because she ain't

1854
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 2: gonna get nothing.

1855
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 4: Right, That's true. And it's so funny because I was

1856
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 4: talking to a twenty three year old girl yesterday, right,

1857
01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 4: and she I asked her, I was like, what.

1858
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:41,680
Speaker 2: Do you like?

1859
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 4: Cause she's twenty three, so she thinks I'm old as hell.

1860
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 4: So she's like yeah, like I'll date older. And I'm like,

1861
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 4: what's the order you'll date. She's like thirty to thirty.

1862
01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, girl, she's like, that's ten years older than me.

1863
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 4: And she's like that's older and I'm like, so do you.

1864
01:21:55,520 --> 01:21:58,120
Speaker 4: And she's real pretty girl like influence her hitting and

1865
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 4: I'm like, do you like older man? She was like like,

1866
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:02,640
Speaker 4: me and my friends we date older man if they

1867
01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:05,000
Speaker 4: can just pay for things, like but we're disgusted, Like

1868
01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 4: we'll send each other pictures of how they look and

1869
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:10,160
Speaker 4: how tired they be, and you'll be like clowning them,

1870
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 4: like we don't want no forty and they think forty

1871
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:12,800
Speaker 4: is old.

1872
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 2: They're like forty year old.

1873
01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:16,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, the twenty three she's like the forty year olds,

1874
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:18,720
Speaker 4: like we make fun of them and we be this

1875
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 4: and like thinking, oh, we'll be sending viagra ads to

1876
01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:23,640
Speaker 4: each other saying your man, like we just clown them,

1877
01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:25,840
Speaker 4: and then we have a young man on the side,

1878
01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:27,720
Speaker 4: you know, and we just use him for money. So

1879
01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:30,240
Speaker 4: it's like older men are getting played and just so

1880
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,439
Speaker 4: you know them, twenty three year olds think forty is old.

1881
01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:34,720
Speaker 4: They think thirty four is old because they think that's

1882
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 4: twelve years older than me.

1883
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 1: I think it all depends too, because why the twenty

1884
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: three three year old things she's playing the older man.

1885
01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:44,679
Speaker 2: Depending what kind of money that older man has.

1886
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 4: He's like, he's just having fun. I'm buying, Yeah, as

1887
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:49,880
Speaker 4: long as.

1888
01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:53,040
Speaker 1: You know he's buying booking folk, Yeah, booking and fun. Yeah,

1889
01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 1: this is little money I'll be having in my addresser.

1890
01:22:55,479 --> 01:22:58,519
Speaker 1: Job girl, they have you with five hundred dollars a week.

1891
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, this ain't no money. I gave a month five

1892
01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 2: times a month. I don't care.

1893
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:12,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it depends winning facts. I think that it depends though.

1894
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 4: But if you're looking for love in that age and

1895
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:15,760
Speaker 4: you really want to be with someone and don't be

1896
01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 4: lonely when you die, that ain't it?

1897
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:18,160
Speaker 2: My brother?

1898
01:23:18,520 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing about love. Sometimes women get caught up.

1899
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,800
Speaker 1: Is the thing about dating a rich man as a

1900
01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: woman who's not rich. Yeah, sometimes they think like, oh, girl,

1901
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 1: I got this rich man. He brought me a bag.

1902
01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:32,920
Speaker 2: He bought four other bags. You ain't nothing, girl, you

1903
01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 2: you you ain't nothing. When he bought that, he.

1904
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:37,800
Speaker 1: Took the whole rack. He was like, give me all

1905
01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 1: four of them. I'm just giving these out right now.

1906
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:44,559
Speaker 1: When a regular man by your chanel bag, that man

1907
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,800
Speaker 1: love you, that man put work in, he did over time.

1908
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:49,680
Speaker 2: But they don't understand that.

1909
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:52,639
Speaker 4: No, I always say that. I always say, you'll prefer

1910
01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:55,120
Speaker 4: the rich man who has endless money to give you

1911
01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 4: five hundred, then the man who gave you a hundred

1912
01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 4: and he don't got it like that, but he got that.

1913
01:24:01,240 --> 01:24:03,320
Speaker 4: Always say that because even my dad taught me that,

1914
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 4: because it's like you, you are spending this money, and

1915
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:08,439
Speaker 4: I see you blow money all the time. It's nothing

1916
01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 4: to you. So you're doing this for me doesn't really

1917
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 4: mean as much like okay, whatever you in rotation with

1918
01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:16,800
Speaker 4: the next person, you know what I mean? And I

1919
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 4: that's real to me. It's like I rather someone put

1920
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:22,240
Speaker 4: real energy and investment.

1921
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: Now, if you happen to fall in love with somebody

1922
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:27,160
Speaker 1: that's rich, great, because we don't nobody want to struggle. Yeah,

1923
01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:29,680
Speaker 1: but I think when women go, I think women who

1924
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 1: only target rich men they never end up with a Richmond.

1925
01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:39,720
Speaker 4: That's true, and you know, but you know what else,

1926
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:41,680
Speaker 4: you have to look at how you got the girl too, right,

1927
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 4: Because if you're a rich man, and as soon as

1928
01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 4: you hollered at her, she was going and she never

1929
01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:48,479
Speaker 4: was like, nah, I'm cool, or like made you work

1930
01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 4: for it a little bit, or it was like no, no, no, no, no,

1931
01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 4: I'm not interested. Like if a woman ever did that,

1932
01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:54,840
Speaker 4: she just goes for any man that's rich because you're

1933
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 4: rich and that's the qualification.

1934
01:24:57,560 --> 01:24:59,439
Speaker 1: And a man. If you meet a woman and you

1935
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:02,479
Speaker 1: trying to take a shopping the next day, you already

1936
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 1: let let her know what this relationship gonna be.

1937
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 2: You ain't even let her like you because you're trying

1938
01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 2: to buy her, You leading with your money.

1939
01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 1: So when she do you dirty, you can't be like,

1940
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:14,639
Speaker 1: oh not not do you took a shopping after y'all

1941
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 1: met twelve hours ago.

1942
01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:17,800
Speaker 2: You didn't even let her like you.

1943
01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,720
Speaker 1: You let her like your money, like I remember, like

1944
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 1: I would if I have two cars, if somebody don't

1945
01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:27,559
Speaker 1: know me, if we going on the first date, I'm

1946
01:25:27,680 --> 01:25:30,920
Speaker 1: driving the lesser car. I always drive my lesser car

1947
01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: on the first day. You know what I'm saying, because

1948
01:25:34,400 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 1: I don't want you to. You know what I'm saying.

1949
01:25:36,040 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 1: It's just even though I'm not saying that, the person

1950
01:25:38,400 --> 01:25:41,719
Speaker 1: may be that, but I'm gonna come as as simple

1951
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 1: as possible. You know what I'm saying until I let

1952
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 1: you know what I really, who I really am or whatever,

1953
01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:48,519
Speaker 1: Like if somebody don't know who I am, I ain't

1954
01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:50,759
Speaker 1: saying nothing till it come about.

1955
01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:51,680
Speaker 4: So what do you do?

1956
01:25:51,960 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm oh, because then I was like okay,

1957
01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:57,880
Speaker 1: then you was rocking with me. Right, you know what

1958
01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying, not what you think I am, what you

1959
01:26:00,320 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 1: think I can be.

1960
01:26:01,760 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So a lot of dudes

1961
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:05,559
Speaker 2: money and then they get mad at.

1962
01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 4: The women lead with sex and they be naked on

1963
01:26:07,400 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 4: the internet and they're mad that he wants And I

1964
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,120
Speaker 4: don't get why these women have this entitlement back to

1965
01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:16,479
Speaker 4: what you were saying, because, like you said, women on

1966
01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:17,880
Speaker 4: the first they are like do this for me, do

1967
01:26:17,960 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 4: that for me. I don't get where women even have

1968
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,960
Speaker 4: the confidence to ask that, Like I'm embarrassed, Like even

1969
01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 4: with my own man, I be embarrassed to be like

1970
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 4: I need help with something because it's like I don't

1971
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:29,719
Speaker 4: want to be a burden. I don't want to feel

1972
01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:31,320
Speaker 4: that way. So I don't get how women can go

1973
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 4: on a day to be like I need this, I

1974
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:35,519
Speaker 4: need this, I need that, Like don't you feel crazy?

1975
01:26:35,720 --> 01:26:38,800
Speaker 4: Like why don't you feel like that's wild, Like that

1976
01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:41,320
Speaker 4: feels crazy for me time. It's crazy for me to

1977
01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:44,000
Speaker 4: even ask someone I'm in a relationship and be vulnerable

1978
01:26:44,160 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 4: enough to be like, hey, I'm really struggling or this

1979
01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 4: is happening. I have a hard time doing that and

1980
01:26:49,240 --> 01:26:51,479
Speaker 4: when and sometimes you should be vulnerable, but it's like,

1981
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 4: how can you have like how can you just have

1982
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:56,519
Speaker 4: the confidence to do that with somebody you don't even know?

1983
01:26:56,720 --> 01:26:58,680
Speaker 4: Like that's weird to me. I just don't ever. I

1984
01:26:58,800 --> 01:26:59,640
Speaker 4: never understood that.

1985
01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:03,840
Speaker 1: It ain't nothing but a Karen. Yeah, it's a it's

1986
01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 1: a form of Karenism outside your race. No, never, why

1987
01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:11,200
Speaker 1: not smash yes, dated, No, why not?

1988
01:27:12,320 --> 01:27:12,680
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1989
01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:16,840
Speaker 1: It's just I'm not anti, but I prefer black women.

1990
01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 1: I prefer black women. I'm not anti. Anything can happen,

1991
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:25,160
Speaker 1: but I don't see me shooting my shot at something

1992
01:27:25,280 --> 01:27:28,280
Speaker 1: like a white woman. If we happen to your point,

1993
01:27:28,400 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 1: were in the gym together all the time, we work

1994
01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:33,200
Speaker 1: somewhere together, and you always around him, and y'all start

1995
01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:36,439
Speaker 1: building a relationship, like and then you look up you're.

1996
01:27:36,320 --> 01:27:37,160
Speaker 2: Like, man, I like her.

1997
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 1: But for me to just shoot my shot at the

1998
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,280
Speaker 1: grocery store at a white woman gonna happen.

1999
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 4: It's funny because Carlos Naylor did you see what he

2000
01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:46,800
Speaker 4: just said? Carlos was on this lady's podcast. Her name

2001
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 4: is like less. I think she has a she's a

2002
01:27:49,040 --> 01:27:52,720
Speaker 4: white woman, and she's like six or five or yeah,

2003
01:27:52,760 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 4: and she was like, why don't you didn't white woman?

2004
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 4: Why don't you prefer white woman? And he was like,

2005
01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,679
Speaker 4: white women are liability. He was like, y'all start crying

2006
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 4: in public. Now we we he did something wrong. And

2007
01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:03,120
Speaker 4: the day he's like, I don't want a white woman

2008
01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:05,160
Speaker 4: like I want a black woman.

2009
01:28:05,200 --> 01:28:07,200
Speaker 2: I just feel like for me cultural wise, And.

2010
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:09,519
Speaker 6: That's what he said too, it's just easier, Like that's

2011
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:10,680
Speaker 6: what he's more comfortable.

2012
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like if I happen to

2013
01:28:12,320 --> 01:28:14,200
Speaker 2: say the N word, I don't got to feel awkward

2014
01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:15,679
Speaker 2: about it. You know what I'm saying?

2015
01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 1: The food this, you know, it's just and then and

2016
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 1: then visually, I just I'm more attracted to black women.

2017
01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:26,799
Speaker 2: But again, I'm not anti white. I'm just more attracted

2018
01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 2: to black women.

2019
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:29,560
Speaker 4: That's good to hear from a black man because I

2020
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 4: feel like right now we're in a climate where so

2021
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 4: many men are like, don't be with black women, be

2022
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:35,640
Speaker 4: with this woman, be with that woman, and.

2023
01:28:35,720 --> 01:28:38,080
Speaker 2: See them dudes is laying and they hate their moms.

2024
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:40,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, Tony Baker just said something too. He was like,

2025
01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:43,479
Speaker 4: I want to know why so many men hate women,

2026
01:28:43,760 --> 01:28:45,599
Speaker 4: Like what happened to y'all to hate black women?

2027
01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:48,719
Speaker 1: And he's my thing with the black black man dating

2028
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:50,800
Speaker 1: white women, I don't have an issue.

2029
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:52,240
Speaker 2: You want to date a white.

2030
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:53,960
Speaker 4: Women, but don't bask black women.

2031
01:28:54,120 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 2: But why you have to because I never see it.

2032
01:28:56,680 --> 01:28:59,160
Speaker 1: I never see a white boy that's dating a black

2033
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:01,639
Speaker 1: girl be like, I don't date white women because.

2034
01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 2: It is they just date a black girl.

2035
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 4: I say that all the time.

2036
01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't understand why you can't just date the white

2037
01:29:07,320 --> 01:29:09,639
Speaker 1: woman and just be happy with her. Why you gotta

2038
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:12,960
Speaker 1: not black women because you like the white woman just like.

2039
01:29:13,000 --> 01:29:15,800
Speaker 4: The wh Yeah, don't knock another black women when you

2040
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:17,800
Speaker 4: want to say this woman is better because they do this,

2041
01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:19,720
Speaker 4: or they do this, or they care more about this.

2042
01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:22,160
Speaker 4: It's like with black women are actually very loyal to

2043
01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:22,639
Speaker 4: their men.

2044
01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 1: You never see it the other way. I never seen

2045
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 1: a white boy be like, well, white women ain't this.

2046
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:29,960
Speaker 1: White women ain't that they're just data. They just like

2047
01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:31,160
Speaker 1: I fell in love with a black.

2048
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:33,519
Speaker 4: Women, period, and that's what we need to do more of,

2049
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 4: just d who we don't care. We don't need the

2050
01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:39,200
Speaker 4: story behind me. Yeah, yeah, I just love who you love.

2051
01:29:39,240 --> 01:29:40,479
Speaker 2: And you're not changing my mind.

2052
01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:42,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm still my women.

2053
01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:46,080
Speaker 1: Come on, so seventeen black women get hurt me in

2054
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: the room, I'm finna let us eighteen one hurt me.

2055
01:29:48,840 --> 01:29:51,760
Speaker 4: Okay, I heard that because I love to know you

2056
01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:54,680
Speaker 4: don't understand how great that is for me being a

2057
01:29:54,720 --> 01:29:57,479
Speaker 4: black woman and seeing the climate we're in, and every

2058
01:29:57,520 --> 01:29:59,599
Speaker 4: time I scroll on the internet, it's something about why

2059
01:30:00,200 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 4: not good enough or we're not the most Desiretius is popular,

2060
01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:07,800
Speaker 4: it's popular, Black is popular, And here's coming from our

2061
01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:10,679
Speaker 4: own black men. Like we get it from other races

2062
01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:12,680
Speaker 4: every day, but hearing it from your own black man

2063
01:30:12,800 --> 01:30:15,720
Speaker 4: is the most hurtful thing. And men don't understand that, Like,

2064
01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 4: and then you hear it, and you hear it and

2065
01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 4: you hear it and it really breaks your confidence as

2066
01:30:19,160 --> 01:30:20,960
Speaker 4: a woman, and as a black woman, you're like, damn,

2067
01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 4: and I don't even have I'm only half black, so

2068
01:30:23,240 --> 01:30:25,600
Speaker 4: I can't even imagine, like someone who's fool black and

2069
01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 4: what they're going through. So it's just it really is.

2070
01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:30,400
Speaker 2: You know, in America, ain't no half black.

2071
01:30:30,439 --> 01:30:38,080
Speaker 4: Thank you, I'm not black all the time the government like, exactly.

2072
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:42,519
Speaker 2: We don't sentice you like you. We can't give you

2073
01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:43,920
Speaker 2: two sentences. This your white.

2074
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 4: But I say that because the Internet always wants to say, like,

2075
01:30:47,439 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 4: I'm not black, I'm not black. But I agree with

2076
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:52,360
Speaker 4: that one hundred percent because I feel like a black

2077
01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:54,519
Speaker 4: woman and I'm out here like a black woman, and

2078
01:30:54,600 --> 01:30:56,719
Speaker 4: I'm offended when people talk about black women.

2079
01:30:57,520 --> 01:30:59,679
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm offending when people talk about black women's.

2080
01:30:59,680 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 2: I got a daughter.

2081
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 4: Now, Hello, I love to hear that. I love to

2082
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 4: hear that. Well, we're so grateful that this was dope.

2083
01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:12,640
Speaker 2: Man, Yeah, yeah, fun, what's going on?

2084
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 1: Anything you want to get out there? Y'all tell the people?

2085
01:31:15,080 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 2: Oh man.

2086
01:31:15,640 --> 01:31:17,839
Speaker 1: You know, if you want to follow me on all socials,

2087
01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:22,240
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2088
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Speaker 1: that good stuff. My comedy specials on YouTube right now, Maliks.

2089
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Speaker 1: Maliks is called laughing Voodoo. If you just type Malik

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Speaker 1: We put it on YouTube because everybody got YouTube, yep,

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Speaker 1: and we.

2093
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2095
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Speaker 3: L A, you gotta check him out here. I'm not

2096
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:49,360
Speaker 3: just saying that, but he's actually Yeah, you heard it.

2097
01:31:49,400 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 2: From the Truth.

2098
01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:52,760
Speaker 1: Y'all got a good y'all like I like y'all, good

2099
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Speaker 1: bounced energy. Man, it's a good ballance, you know what

2100
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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

2101
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Speaker 2: It's good. It's a good ballance.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so much, Jake that and thank

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Speaker 4: you for coming, and thank you guys for tuning into

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Speaker 5: Your sister taking over the game.

2107
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Speaker 1: All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: Do you think that men or women are more toxic