WEBVTT - How Small Changes Lead to Big Rewards with Michael Easter

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<v Speaker 1>You give a cave man of sleeve of oreos, they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to eat the whole thing. And that makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>because they're never going to see that again. Right. But

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<v Speaker 1>today we're just surrounded in food, and we still have

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<v Speaker 1>a brain that goes like, hey, if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to overeat or eat food that is more calorie dense,

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<v Speaker 1>like junk food, like do that. And you see this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of manifests itself in people's waistlines today. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>people are obviously, on average, a lot heavier than they

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<v Speaker 1>were in the past.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the one you feed Throughout time, great thinkers

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<v Speaker 2>have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have, quotes

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<v Speaker 2>like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think,

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<v Speaker 2>ring true. And yet for many of us, our thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>don't strengthen.

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<v Speaker 1>Or empower us.

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<v Speaker 2>We tend toward negativity, self pity, jealousy, or fear. We

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<v Speaker 2>see what we don't have instead of what we do.

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<v Speaker 2>We think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not just about thinking. Our actions matter. It

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<v Speaker 2>takes conscious, consistent and creative effort to make a life

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<v Speaker 2>worth living. This podcast is about how other people keep

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<v Speaker 2>themselves moving in the right direction, how they feed their

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<v Speaker 2>good wolf. Thanks for joining us. Our guest on this

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<v Speaker 2>episode is Michael Easter, a writer and speaker who focuses

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<v Speaker 2>on how humans can leverage modern science and evolutionary wisdom

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<v Speaker 2>to perform better and live healthier lives. Michael's work has

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<v Speaker 2>been implemented by professional sports teams, elite military units, fortune

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<v Speaker 2>five hundred companies, and leading universities. Today, Michael and Eric

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<v Speaker 2>discuss his book, The Scarcity Brain.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Michael, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for having me, glad to be here.

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<v Speaker 3>I am really excited to have you on. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to be discussing your book, Scared City Brain. But before

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<v Speaker 3>we get into that, let's start like we always do

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<v Speaker 3>with the parable. In the parable, there's a grandparent who's

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<v Speaker 3>talking with their grandchild and they say, in life, there

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<v Speaker 3>are two wolves inside of us that are always at battle.

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<v Speaker 3>One is a good wolf, which represents things like kindness

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<v Speaker 3>and bravery and love, and the other is a bad wolf,

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<v Speaker 3>which represents things like greed and hatred and fear. And

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<v Speaker 3>the grandchild stops and they think about it for a second.

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<v Speaker 3>They look up at their grandparents. They say, well, which

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<v Speaker 3>one wins? And the grandparent says the one you feed.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'd like to start off by asking you what

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<v Speaker 3>that parable means to you in your life and in

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<v Speaker 3>the work that you do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, a lot of my work focuses on the

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<v Speaker 1>general theme that in order to improve your life, you

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<v Speaker 1>often have to do things that are challenging in the

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<v Speaker 1>short term to get a long term benefit and reward

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. And you know, I think the world

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<v Speaker 1>is increasingly set up that it's harder to feed the

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<v Speaker 1>good wolf if you will, It's so much easier to

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<v Speaker 1>feed the bad wolf, right, Like, that's an easy thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do. But I do think that, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>all know that the reward of feeding the good wolf

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<v Speaker 1>is better for our long term health, well being, mindset,

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<v Speaker 1>all those things.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, so I'm going to ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 3>I've asked a lot of people and gotten generally unsatisfactory answers,

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<v Speaker 3>but I believe you are going to give me a

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<v Speaker 3>satisfactory answer.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no pressure.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's this. You know, I've exercised for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a young man. You know, I've got thousands

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<v Speaker 3>of reps of exercise under my belt. Every single time

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<v Speaker 3>I've done it, when I'm done, I'm like, that was great,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm glad I did that, And yet with that much

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<v Speaker 3>positive reinforcement, I still find it hard to do sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is that.

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<v Speaker 1>Humans evolved to avoid physical activity. We invented exercise basically

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<v Speaker 1>after the Industrial Revolution. So if you think about the

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<v Speaker 1>grant sweep of humanity, right, what we needed to survive

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<v Speaker 1>was always scarce and it was hard to find. So

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<v Speaker 1>energy was one of those things. Energy in the form

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<v Speaker 1>of food. So if you were the type of person

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<v Speaker 1>that wanted to burn energy for the sake of it,

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<v Speaker 1>that is to say, exercise, you would have died off

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<v Speaker 1>because there just wasn't enough food to do that. So

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<v Speaker 1>over time, humans basically evolved to be lazy and avoid

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<v Speaker 1>any extra activity that wasn't going to getting resources to

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<v Speaker 1>Like this larger point, right, A stat that I love

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<v Speaker 1>that highlights this, which I'm sure we'll talk about later

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, is that two percent of people take the

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<v Speaker 1>stairs when there's also an escalator available. So what that

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<v Speaker 1>tells me and shows me is that we really are

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<v Speaker 1>wired to do the next easiest, most comfortable thing and

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<v Speaker 1>avoid extra movement. Right. We just do that unconsciously. So

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<v Speaker 1>long story short, It's like for two and a half

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<v Speaker 1>million years of time of generations, avoiding exercise or any

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<v Speaker 1>extra movement, it kept you alive. And we have all

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<v Speaker 1>these discomforts. Our body throws at us psychologically physically to

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<v Speaker 1>keep us away from moving any more than we have to,

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<v Speaker 1>and exercise is a form of that. So, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you went into every workout being like I absolutely want

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<v Speaker 1>to do this every single time, and you just kept

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<v Speaker 1>going and going like still today, that you'd probably incur

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<v Speaker 1>some downside's like you want some sort of resistance going

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<v Speaker 1>into that, or else the human species would not have

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<v Speaker 1>lived on.

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<v Speaker 3>So is it safe to say that things that take

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<v Speaker 3>that much energy expenditure don't end up becoming what we

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<v Speaker 3>would truly consider a habit, meaning it happens automatically every time.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it really a sense of these things that you

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<v Speaker 3>really have to summon a lot of energy for there's

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<v Speaker 3>always going to be some degree of resistance there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think there probably will be some degree of resistance, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if something is challenging. Exercise is a great example. Healthy

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<v Speaker 1>eating is harder than unhealthy eating because we're also wired

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<v Speaker 1>to value and crave foods that are more calorie dense

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<v Speaker 1>than those that are less calorie dense. Right, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>back like the exercise thing. For two and a half

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<v Speaker 1>million years of time, it always made sense to overread

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<v Speaker 1>if you had the opportunity, Right, you give a cave

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<v Speaker 1>man of sleeve of oreos, they're going to eat the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, And that makes sense because they're never going

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<v Speaker 1>to see that again. Right. But today we're just surrounded

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<v Speaker 1>in food, and we still have a brain that goes like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a chance to overeat or eat food

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<v Speaker 1>that is more calorie dense, like junk food, like, do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you see this kind of manifests itself in people's

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<v Speaker 1>waistlines today. You know, people are obviously, on average a

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<v Speaker 1>lot heavier than they were in the past.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that makes a lot of sense to me. Listener,

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<v Speaker 3>while you were listening to that, what resonated with you?

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<v Speaker 3>What one thing to feed your good wolf comes to mind?

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<v Speaker 3>If the thing that came to your mind was more

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<v Speaker 3>time for stillness, or you've tried meditation before and you

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<v Speaker 3>really haven't liked it, then I want to give you

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<v Speaker 3>a quick tip that might make it better for you.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's simply to stop expecting that you're not going

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<v Speaker 3>to have thoughts. Nearly everyone has this expectation that they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to sit down and meditate and they're going to

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<v Speaker 3>stop having thoughts. And when they stop having thoughts, that

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<v Speaker 3>means they're doing it well. But no one does that,

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<v Speaker 3>and so we end up feeling like we're failing all

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<v Speaker 3>of the time. Every three seconds, failed again, failed again.

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<v Speaker 3>We develop a relationship with meditation that is aversive. So

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<v Speaker 3>if you want to stop dreading meditation and actually find

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<v Speaker 3>it relaxing, check out my free meditation guide at Goodwolf

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<v Speaker 3>dot me slash calm. In it, I walk you through

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<v Speaker 3>my process to engage with meditation in a new way,

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<v Speaker 3>and a lot of people have found it really helpful.

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<v Speaker 3>That's Goodwolf dot me slash calm. So you mentioned the

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<v Speaker 3>two percent stat You're wearing a hat that says two

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<v Speaker 3>percent that orients towards a way of approaching the world

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<v Speaker 3>that you call being a two percenter, And you say

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<v Speaker 3>this in your substack about this, You say, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we all tend to think of the big things that

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<v Speaker 3>we do as being important, but you say what we

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<v Speaker 3>do in all our other moments is the most powerful.

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<v Speaker 3>The littlest choices make the biggest impact. I mean my

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<v Speaker 3>favorite phrase is little by little, a little becomes a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>both positively and negatively. Right, And so talk about other

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<v Speaker 3>ways besides taking this versus the escalator. What are other

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<v Speaker 3>sort of small choices that we can make that over

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<v Speaker 3>time are going to be very beneficial for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a great question. So, yeah, the substack is

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<v Speaker 1>called two percent after that stat which totally changed my

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about humans and behavior. Ye. I actually have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole written piece that's called the two percent Manifesto up

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<v Speaker 1>on the site that'll dive into a ton of this,

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<v Speaker 1>and the site is twopct dot com. But to answer

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<v Speaker 1>your question, I think it manifests itself relationship wise. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>think of how many people text today instead of call

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<v Speaker 1>because a call is more intimate. Right, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be more open. It might take a little bit more time.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know what to expect. You can't control all

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<v Speaker 1>the variables. But there's plenty of research that says the

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<v Speaker 1>simple act of picking up the phone and calling someone

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<v Speaker 1>it creates better social bonds, more intimate connections. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you put that in the context of the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>we're facing a loneliness crisis, like pick up the phone

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be totally worth it, not to mention, you'll honestly

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<v Speaker 1>save time in the long run, especially if you're like

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<v Speaker 1>asking the person the question. So socially it affects us.

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<v Speaker 1>I would also say it affects us food wise. So

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<v Speaker 1>when you look at a lot of the research, most

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<v Speaker 1>eating decisions today are not actually driven by true physiological hunger.

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<v Speaker 1>So more than eighty percent of eating is not because

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<v Speaker 1>of real hunger. It's because it's a certain time at

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<v Speaker 1>a clock, and we always eat at that time. It's

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<v Speaker 1>because we're stressed out, like stress eating is a huge thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's because we're bored something like that. Right, So

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<v Speaker 1>I think that learning to be okay with hunger can

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<v Speaker 1>teach you something about physiological hunger and how much food

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<v Speaker 1>you actually need to feel well and perform well. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it extends to how we spend our time and attention.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you look at why people pick up their phone,

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<v Speaker 1>more than ninety percent of pickups things ninety six percent

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<v Speaker 1>are not because a person got a notification. They're because

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<v Speaker 1>they felt something internal, usually boredom. We've just become totally

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<v Speaker 1>boredom resistant today and we just have this easy, effortless

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<v Speaker 1>escape from it in our phone. But if you can

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<v Speaker 1>just sit with that boredom, if you can be like

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<v Speaker 1>the two percent mentality, right, I'm going to choose this

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<v Speaker 1>short term discomfort to get a long term benefit. There's

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<v Speaker 1>all this crazy research that shows that boredom is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the best ways to increase creativity. Some of the

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<v Speaker 1>best ideas come out of being bored. Not to mention

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<v Speaker 1>it gives your brain a break from all the screens

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<v Speaker 1>that we spend our time on. We spend more than

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen hours a day engage with digital media. This is

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<v Speaker 1>all new stuff in the grand scheme of time and space.

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<v Speaker 1>People spend ninety three percent of their time indoors, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, why the hell's that. It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>because the outdoors is cold or it's too hot, or

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<v Speaker 1>it might be raining or it's windy, and it's less

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<v Speaker 1>predictable than my you know, sanitary box that I live in.

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<v Speaker 1>And so even something as simple as going outside is

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best hacks for mental health and can

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<v Speaker 1>prove mental health. But we just don't do it all

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<v Speaker 1>that often. So it's like, how can I take this idea,

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<v Speaker 1>this two percent idea, like being the two percent of

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<v Speaker 1>people that's going to select that thing that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a little more uncomfortable in the short term, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to give me a long term reward. How

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<v Speaker 1>can I apply that just across the board, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can find tons of ways. I've written a lot about this,

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<v Speaker 1>so and then to answer your call up quest to that,

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<v Speaker 1>how do these things add up? And I'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>a really interesting stat So, when you look at how

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<v Speaker 1>people burn calories across the day, we think of exercises

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<v Speaker 1>like the big thing that's burning our calories. Right, if

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<v Speaker 1>you count out the calorie burn from just keeping your

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<v Speaker 1>body alive, which is called BMR, you find that actually

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<v Speaker 1>just the everyday movement you do in daily life actually

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<v Speaker 1>burns significantly more calories than workouts, like two to three times.

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<v Speaker 1>And so there's research from the Mail Clinic that basically

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<v Speaker 1>found that people who just move more throughout the day,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like taking the stairs, that's like parking the farthest

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<v Speaker 1>spot away every time it's like, oh, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>go down to get a coffee and the coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>is a half mile away, Like I'm just gonna walk,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to drive or whatever it is, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>they burn more than eight hundred extra calories across a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's equivalent to like an eight mile run. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how many people just go out for an eight mile run?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't, right, We go to the gym for like

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes, and we think that like that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be enough. And it's like I'm not saying don't go

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<v Speaker 1>to the gym at all. I am saying go to

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<v Speaker 1>the gym, but I am also saying, how can you

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<v Speaker 1>weave in more incidental movement into your day because that's

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<v Speaker 1>going to have a larger effect on your health span

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<v Speaker 1>and lifespan and general fitness than just doing your whatever

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<v Speaker 1>amount of time in the gym and then sitting. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like we really just kind of have partioned off, like

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<v Speaker 1>we do this weird thing where we have like this

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<v Speaker 1>is the healthy part of my day and life and

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<v Speaker 1>then the rest of it is like sedentary or kind

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<v Speaker 1>of unhealthy, and or it's like January is my healthy month,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I fell off the wagon in February whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is, right, And so I think we just need

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<v Speaker 1>to start thinking, like how can I find little wins

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the day rather than trying to take on these

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<v Speaker 1>heroics Because heroics don't seem to last.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Right, Heroics don't last, and heroics aren't available for

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people, right. A lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 3>have ninety minutes a day to say, go exercise, but

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<v Speaker 3>they do have lots of little five minutes and lots

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<v Speaker 3>of little on the way to places. It's interesting how

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<v Speaker 3>much environment plays a role too, because I was in

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<v Speaker 3>New York City recently and it was cold out and

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<v Speaker 3>we were outside walking all day every day, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I get home to and it's cold, and all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden, I'm like, it's a little bit too cold

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<v Speaker 3>out there, and I suddenly don't want to go out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so interesting to me how, like you said, we

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<v Speaker 3>get into these sort of ways of being that need interrupted.

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<v Speaker 3>The other thing that you were saying there also is

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we had an exercise scientist on years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's been probably seven years ago, but I

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<v Speaker 3>remember it clear as day because she basically said the

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<v Speaker 3>rule is move as often as you can in any

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<v Speaker 3>way that you can. I mean, that was it. That

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<v Speaker 3>was the whole sum of her overall research and everything,

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<v Speaker 3>was that that's the best way to go. Just move

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<v Speaker 3>when you can. However you can and ideally in ways

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<v Speaker 3>you like to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally. In the comfort crisis, I talk a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about with environments changing. It's just our environments have changed

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<v Speaker 1>so much, so fast in the grand scheme of time

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<v Speaker 1>and space. It's like we've really engineered movement out of

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<v Speaker 1>our days. We've engineered more hyperchloric food into our days.

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<v Speaker 1>We've engineered connection out of our days. Like we've engineered

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<v Speaker 1>all the good stuff out of our days and engineered

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<v Speaker 1>in stuff that isn't necessarily good for us. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just take a look at how much people

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<v Speaker 1>moved in the past compared to today. Since we're on the

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<v Speaker 1>topic of exercise, people used to walk at least twenty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand steps a day and about ten miles a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Now the average person is taken, you know, anywhere from

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<v Speaker 1>four thousand to seven thousand steps per day. And the

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<v Speaker 1>average person in the past used to do what the

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<v Speaker 1>government classifies as moderate exercise, and they gauge this using

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<v Speaker 1>accelerometers and all these different things. On Hunter gathers for

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<v Speaker 1>about three hours and twenty minutes three hours and twenty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of exercise a day. Right now, the average person

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<v Speaker 1>is like thirty minutes three times a week, right, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just crazy how much less we move.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not like you know, I think people sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>think of these people in the past and be like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>these are just like these heroic people. It's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you would do the same damn thing. It's just you

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<v Speaker 1>live in a built environment now, and so you don't do.

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<v Speaker 3>That, right. Yeah, environment is so hugely important in the

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<v Speaker 3>choices that we make. All right, let's change direction here

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<v Speaker 3>and talk about your latest book, Scarcity Brain. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>you say that you've come across this concept of something

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<v Speaker 3>called the scarcity loop, and you say it's the serial

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<v Speaker 3>killer of moderation. Yes, I'm a big believer in moderation,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, even though having been an addict, maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>recognize the importance of moderation. But I just loved that line,

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<v Speaker 3>the serial killer of moderation. Tell me about the scarcity loop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I learned about it interestingly enough, because I live

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<v Speaker 1>in Las Vegas and watching people play slot machines for

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<v Speaker 1>hours and hours and hours at a time and going

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<v Speaker 1>why would you keep doing that when everyone knows the

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<v Speaker 1>house always wins, Like, what the hell is going on? Right? So,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm a journalist. When I ask a question like that,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't just go you know, and then move on,

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<v Speaker 1>like I actually try and figure out the answer. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I start talking all these different gaming researchers and

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<v Speaker 1>people in casino industry and blah blah blah. Long story short,

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<v Speaker 1>this leads me to this place on the edge of

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<v Speaker 1>town that is a fully working, brand new cutting edge

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, but it's used entirely for human behavior research.

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<v Speaker 1>So it is like a living, working casino laboratory, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's funded by the casino industry and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>big tech companies. I think seventy two different companies are

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<v Speaker 1>on board providing all sorts of funding to this place.

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<v Speaker 1>And so this is where I talk to a slot

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<v Speaker 1>machine designer who explains to me basically how a slot

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<v Speaker 1>machine works, why it's so good at hooking people, and

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, they really are. Slot machines make more

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<v Speaker 1>money than books, movies, and music combined, those three industries

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<v Speaker 1>combined every single year.

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<v Speaker 3>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's amazing, and it's horrifying. So a slot machine

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<v Speaker 1>works by having these three parts, which is what I

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<v Speaker 1>call a scarcity loop. It's got opportunity unpredictable rewards and

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<v Speaker 1>quick repeatability. Think of it as a looping behavior. Okay, so opportunity,

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<v Speaker 1>you have an opportunity to get something of value. With

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<v Speaker 1>slot machines it's money, right, unpredictable rewards. You know you'll

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<v Speaker 1>get that thing of value at some point if you

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing the behavior, but you don't know when you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to get the thing of value, and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how valuable it's going to be. So with a

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<v Speaker 1>slot machine, you play a game and you could lose,

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<v Speaker 1>you could win some money, you could win a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of money, right, crazy range of outcomes, and then three

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<v Speaker 1>quick repeatability. You can just repeat the behavior immediately. There's

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<v Speaker 1>like zero pause in between repeating the behavior. So with

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<v Speaker 1>slot machines, people play about nine hundred games an hour. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that this is important and why the book

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<v Speaker 1>starts in the casino lab and learning this is because

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<v Speaker 1>once you understand this behavior loop, you start to see

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<v Speaker 1>why people get hooked on all sorts of stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>seems counterproductive and dumb. All these bad habits we have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them have elements of the scarcity loop. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, this is what makes social media work. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's got those same three parts. You got an opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>for some social likes, a boost to find something entertaining.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know how many likes you're gonna get. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know when you're gonna find the real that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make you crack up. And then you just keep scrolling

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<v Speaker 1>and scrolling and scrolling because of infinite scroll. Right. That's

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<v Speaker 1>in Instagram, It's in Twitter, it's in TikTok, and name

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<v Speaker 1>any social media app. The loop is being put in

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<v Speaker 1>personal finance apps so people will do more trading faster.

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<v Speaker 1>It explains the rise of sports betting and how that's

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<v Speaker 1>really just taken off. It was like this combination of

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<v Speaker 1>legality and then putting it in cell phones and leveraging

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<v Speaker 1>the loop, the mided tick off. It's what makes dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps work, right, opportunity to find a mate, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I just matched with someone being jack

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<v Speaker 1>pot swipe swipe, swipe, swipespe Right. And so when you

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<v Speaker 1>start to look at how the world is constructed, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's even in elements of our food system. I talk

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<v Speaker 1>to a guy who's a executive for junk food companies,

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<v Speaker 1>and he talked about how Yeah, we totally use the

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<v Speaker 1>quick repeatability thing in our food. I mean it just

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<v Speaker 1>starts to show up everywhere and it is unparallel but

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<v Speaker 1>pushing people into these quick repeat behaviors that are usually

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<v Speaker 1>engaging in the short term or at least distracting in

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<v Speaker 1>the short term, but that can often lead to long

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<v Speaker 1>term regrets or long term problems. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You quote one of the people in the snack food

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<v Speaker 3>industry saying there's three v's in the snacking world, value, variety,

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<v Speaker 3>in velocity, which is exactly the three things of the

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<v Speaker 3>scarcity loop. So you're talking about all the modern applications

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<v Speaker 3>of this scarcity loop, but this is something that is

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<v Speaker 3>built into us right from evolutionary history. So explain the

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<v Speaker 3>origins of why we get so lost in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So it's funny because after I talk to the

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<v Speaker 1>slot machine designer, like he's showing me how the slot

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<v Speaker 1>machine works and blah blah blah, and then I asked him,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, why do people find this so captivating? And

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<v Speaker 1>he just looks at me and he goes, Dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just make machines that make a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money, Like, I don't know why people play him right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I end up talking to this guy who's a

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<v Speaker 1>behavioral psychologist at the University of Kentucky. His name is

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas Entl. He's like eighty something years old. He's been

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<v Speaker 1>doing research since the late nineteen sixties, and he like

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<v Speaker 1>knows everything. And he told me it's basically a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of evolutionary hardware in our brain that helped us find

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<v Speaker 1>food every day when we were hunter gatherers on the savannah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want you to picture us looking for food, right,

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<v Speaker 1>every single day you had to find food. You either

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<v Speaker 1>had to find it in the form of gathering you

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<v Speaker 1>were like walking out looking for trees that have food,

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<v Speaker 1>or you have to find it from hunting. Right, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to find an animal that it's on the move.

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<v Speaker 1>So you go to one place you think is going

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<v Speaker 1>to have food, doesn't have food. So you go to

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<v Speaker 1>another place you think it's going to have food. No

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<v Speaker 1>food there. You go to another place, jackpot place has

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of food. So yay, everyone's fat and happy

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<v Speaker 1>for only a moment, though, because then you got to

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<v Speaker 1>repeat that behavior, maybe the same day for lunch or dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely the next day for food again. The next day, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so like literally our life finding food every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>we fell into this scarcity loop of finding food and

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<v Speaker 1>so our sort of attraction to it and these random

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<v Speaker 1>rewards embedded in it, and this like quickly repeating the behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>It kept us alive for all of time. And now

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<v Speaker 1>that architecture simply gets applied to all these different places

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<v Speaker 1>in our life and is really unparallel at capturing our attention,

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<v Speaker 1>and it works in every single animal. All wild animals

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<v Speaker 1>still have to find food scarcely loop style, and so

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<v Speaker 1>like this guy Thomas and Tal, I mean he can

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<v Speaker 1>get pigeons to fall into it with like these slot

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<v Speaker 1>machine games he makes them. I mean, you see it

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<v Speaker 1>in all animals. It's really fascinating. I think really the

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<v Speaker 1>key is that it's always been a part of us,

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<v Speaker 1>but Las Vegas really figured out how it works and

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<v Speaker 1>how to work it and how to just really optimize

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<v Speaker 1>it starting in about nineteen eighty, and other industries took

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<v Speaker 1>notice and they went, why are people playing those slot

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<v Speaker 1>machines so often all the time now, and why are

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<v Speaker 1>they making so much money? What the hell is going

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<v Speaker 1>on there? And they just pulled elements of it.

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<v Speaker 3>So we've got this scarcity loop that's sort of embedded

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<v Speaker 3>in US, but has some certain limits on it evolutionarily,

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<v Speaker 3>right as in like there isn't like crazy amounts of food. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>there is repeatability, but you don't repeat it two seconds later,

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<v Speaker 3>right right. Whereas these modern scarcity loops, we know, for example,

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<v Speaker 3>that our food is designed to be super satiating and stimulating.

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<v Speaker 3>We know that we can repeat these things really really fast.

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<v Speaker 3>And so this scarcity loop, if I understand you, is

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<v Speaker 3>built into us evolutionarily. But our modern world has figured

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<v Speaker 3>out how to essentially soup it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a great word to describe it. A modern

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<v Speaker 1>world has really figuredigured out the optimal schedule of unpredictable rewards.

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<v Speaker 1>So about forty five to fifty five percent of the

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<v Speaker 1>time getting something is optimal in slot machines, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>But they've also found ways to tweak it. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>slot machines really started taking off when they started being

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<v Speaker 1>embedded with this thing called a win disguised as a loss.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is when you say you bet a dollar

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<v Speaker 1>and you play a slot machine game, And when you

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<v Speaker 1>play a slot machine game, it's no longer just a

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<v Speaker 1>single line of symbols that you're trying to line up,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's all these different combinations of symbols you can get.

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<v Speaker 3>It could be like I don't even understand them. I

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<v Speaker 3>see one and I'm like, I don't know what's happening

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<v Speaker 3>here at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're crazy now. But the long story short is

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<v Speaker 1>that by doing this, they can do what are called

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<v Speaker 1>losses disguised as wins, and that basically just means you

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<v Speaker 1>quote unquote, win less money than you bet. So you

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<v Speaker 1>might bet, say a dollar, but you quote unquote win

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<v Speaker 1>fifty cents. But here's the thing. It sounds ridiculous, but

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<v Speaker 1>when you actually play the game, the machine cues you

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<v Speaker 1>to show you that something good has happened. You still

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<v Speaker 1>get the lights, you still see the money go up.

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<v Speaker 1>And scientists will study this. They'll do fMRI neuroscience stuff

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<v Speaker 1>and find that people's brain reacts the exact same to

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<v Speaker 1>a loss, discusses a win as they do a real win,

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<v Speaker 1>and it compels people to play the game for longer

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<v Speaker 1>and makes it more entertaining. And you see this, for

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<v Speaker 1>example in social media. So when you go on to

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<v Speaker 1>social media, usually there's like this delay, right, you wait

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 1>to see if you've got an update, like they could

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<v Speaker 1>tell you immediately. The delay is programmed in to tell

0:24:41.440 --> 0:24:45.399
<v Speaker 1>you how many, say notifications you got on Twitter or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, right, and then when you open that up,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, well, how many is it going to actually be?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it one? Is it one million? Did I get

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<v Speaker 1>two likes? Did I get two million likes? Right, there's

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of like there's losses disguise of wins. There's

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<v Speaker 1>real wins. I mean, it's really just like a taking

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<v Speaker 1>of the casino tactics. Yeah. And then also the speed.

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<v Speaker 1>A good example from slot machines is that when they

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<v Speaker 1>removed the handles on them, people could gain faster, and

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<v Speaker 1>they went from playing four hundred games an hour to

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<v Speaker 1>nine hundred games an hour. Similar thing happened when social

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<v Speaker 1>media started using infinite scroll. Screen time just went through

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<v Speaker 1>the roof and people's sessions lengthened. All these different things happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So generally, the faster you can get a person to

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<v Speaker 1>repeat a behavior, the faster they will repeat a behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>So engineers now know this, and so they go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how can we get someone to do this quicker? Even

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of online shopping places, for example, are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to really push people into one click buying, because what

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<v Speaker 1>happens when you go kart. Yes, i'd like to check out,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my address information, here's how i'd like it shipped.

0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>By the time you hit the shipping thing, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>do I really want a new pair of running shoes?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I really need this? But if you have one

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<v Speaker 1>click buying, it's just you have like no time to

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<v Speaker 1>think about whether this is a good decision or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's funny as you're saying that, I was thinking

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<v Speaker 3>back to when Amazon really sort of got going, and

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<v Speaker 3>this is early two thousands, and I remember how just

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that I could buy books that easily, and

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<v Speaker 3>again there was no one click buying then, right, but

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have to go to a bookstore. It nearly

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<v Speaker 3>ruined me the fact that in three minutes I could

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<v Speaker 3>have another book on its way to me. Right. But

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<v Speaker 3>it shows how we sort of keep up in the

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<v Speaker 3>game because now they think that's too slow. Right In

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<v Speaker 3>the same way with delivery times, like you know, before

0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:32.160
<v Speaker 3>i'd be like, oh, we're going to get this thing

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<v Speaker 3>in like three days. That's amazing. Now it's like it's

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<v Speaker 3>not here in an hour, right, Like what's the problem totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's even a lot of sites that are using

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<v Speaker 1>unpredictable rewards within shopping, so putting like the slot machine

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<v Speaker 1>features or a spinning wheel for bargains and m hm though,

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<v Speaker 1>like Tamu is a great example of the casino vacation

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<v Speaker 1>of shopping. It's all these type of random rewards and

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<v Speaker 1>bargains and discounts, and I mean those spinning wheels. Some

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:02.640
<v Speaker 1>people are like, oh, this stupid. Those increase conversion rates

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<v Speaker 1>by sevenfold.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>If you give someone a spinning wheel and they think

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<v Speaker 1>they've won like the whatever jackpot bargain, they're seven times

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>more likely to make a purchase. Crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a huge number.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Now let's pause for a quick good Wolf reminder, and

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<v Speaker 3>this one is on meditation. If while you're meditating your

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<v Speaker 3>mind wanders, you probably, like most people, treat that as

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:28.720
<v Speaker 3>a moment of failure, like, ugh, my mind wandered again.

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 3>But let's flip that and instead treat that as a

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<v Speaker 3>moment of celebration because in that moment, your mind actually

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:38.760
<v Speaker 3>woke up and you were mindful of the fact that

0:27:38.800 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 3>your mind wandered. So it's a win. So if we

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:44.080
<v Speaker 3>can flip that right on its head and say, oh,

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:47.439
<v Speaker 3>good job, brain. We actually make it more likely that

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<v Speaker 3>a our brain is going to do it more often

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<v Speaker 3>because we're training it, and b that we're going to

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<v Speaker 3>enjoy it more. And specifically, it's about how to make

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<v Speaker 3>you not dread meditation so much and actually find it relaxing.

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 3>Check out my free meditation guide at goodwolf dot me

0:28:03.760 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 3>slash calm. So I want to get to how we

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<v Speaker 3>can work against this scarcity loop here shortly, but before

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<v Speaker 3>we do, I'd like to explore it from a couple

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<v Speaker 3>different angles, like you do in your book. And the

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<v Speaker 3>first place I'd like to spend a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>time is you say, at the extreme end of scarcity

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<v Speaker 3>brain lies addiction, and listeners of the show know that

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<v Speaker 3>I have an addiction in alcoholism history, I was a

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<v Speaker 3>homeless heroin addict at twenty four. But you have a

0:28:31.920 --> 0:28:35.639
<v Speaker 3>similar background at least struggles with alcohol. So talk to

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<v Speaker 3>me about scarcity brain in the context of addiction.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, I've been sober for nine years and my

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<v Speaker 1>thing was alcohol. And when you think about how most

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:47.920
<v Speaker 1>of what we needed to survive in the past was

0:28:47.960 --> 0:28:52.200
<v Speaker 1>scarce and hard to find, and we now, how have

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:53.960
<v Speaker 1>an abundance of all these things were built to crave.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that addictive substances absolutely fall into kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what we were just talking about, how everything has been

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<v Speaker 1>strained and then distilled. So when you think about the

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 1>past and addictive substances, we would usually use the substances

0:29:07.080 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 1>that we now consider addictive and drugs as tools. So

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:15.240
<v Speaker 1>I'll give you an example of alcohol. So humans evolved

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<v Speaker 1>to have sort of a taste for alcohol because it

0:29:17.680 --> 0:29:20.080
<v Speaker 1>helped us find food. So fruit would fall from trees

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:23.280
<v Speaker 1>and it would begin to ferment, right, and it would

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 1>give us this scent and be like, oh, yeah, we

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:27.720
<v Speaker 1>can smell it better because it's fermenting, and then we

0:29:27.760 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 1>would go eat it and it would have these low

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 1>levels of alcohol, right, But we would find food and

0:29:32.400 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>we would get a ton of sugar from that. By

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 1>the way, the alcohol even killed some of the germs

0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>that would be on the food. And at the same time, though,

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 1>it's not like this fruit that was rotting was like

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 1>Jack Daniels, right, It's like a very very low level

0:29:46.200 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 1>of alcohol in the fruit. Same thing goes for say,

0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:52.600
<v Speaker 1>coca leaves, which is what cocaine is made for. Right,

0:29:52.680 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 1>So coca leaves have this very very low level of

0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>the compound cocaine, and still in countries in the Andes

0:30:00.160 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 1>will chew it because it helps with focus, it helps

0:30:02.840 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 1>ward off altitude sickness, for example. But it's like you

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>don't really feel anything from it, right, But we've managed

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 1>to and this is a story with all substances, We've

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:13.800
<v Speaker 1>managed to sort of take the psychoactive compound whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>might be, and really distill it down into its strongest form,

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 1>and so we can get just the like high from that. Right,

0:30:22.480 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 1>it's just this super concentrated high. So it's like this

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>thing that we used to use as a tool for

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, we now have an ability to have

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<v Speaker 1>it be this thing that allows us to escape. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think there's plenty of people obviously that

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<v Speaker 1>can use alcohol and even drugs to some extent, illegal

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>drugs without repercussion, right, they don't have a problem with it.

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:46.800
<v Speaker 1>But I think that you find some people I can

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I can speak for myself, who use it as a

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<v Speaker 1>way to just totally escape and deal with their problems.

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 1>And obviously that you know, comes with some downsides, Like

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:57.960
<v Speaker 1>it came with some downsides to me personally, and I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you that I've found that addiction definitely falls

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 1>into the loop as well. So for me, when I

0:31:03.520 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 1>would drink, it was like I had an opportunity to

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:08.480
<v Speaker 1>improve my life in the short term because nothing would

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:11.240
<v Speaker 1>fix my problem, Like the first drink right, doesn't matter

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 1>what kind of problem I have. If I just have

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 1>a drink, I'm good to go. Obviously, I could never

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.520
<v Speaker 1>have one drink right. My favorite drink was always the

0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>next one right, right, And then there's unpredictable rewards. I

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what the hell was gonna happen. I just

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:24.600
<v Speaker 1>know that if I start drinking, I'm gonna have a

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:27.680
<v Speaker 1>more interesting night, could be in a good way, could

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:30.120
<v Speaker 1>be in a bad way than I would if I

0:31:30.200 --> 0:31:33.480
<v Speaker 1>was sober, right, and then repeatability. It's like after that,

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm just waiting until I can have the next drink again.

0:31:36.280 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>And I think you also see it in illegal drugs too,

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<v Speaker 1>with like even getting the drugs, it's like you don't

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:43.360
<v Speaker 1>know where you're gonna get it. You don't know who

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get it from, you don't know how strong

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be, you don't know how much it's gonna cost.

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>You know if you're gonna get in trouble along the way. Like,

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:53.040
<v Speaker 1>there's all these unpredictable things about drug use, and you

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:56.240
<v Speaker 1>do tend to find that when certain drugs are legalized

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<v Speaker 1>or at least controlled and put in doses that are predictable,

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:02.280
<v Speaker 1>addiction rates do seem to fall.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's a ton of ways I would love to

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 3>follow that particular question, because we're seeing interesting things, you know,

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 3>with marijuana being legalized and Oregon decriminalizing and headed back

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 3>towards criminalization, and black markets in California for marijuana. There's

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:18.719
<v Speaker 3>a lot of interesting things happening in that space. But

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 3>that's not really where I want to go. What I

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<v Speaker 3>would love to talk a little bit about is you

0:32:24.320 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 3>talk about you know, over the last century, we've sort

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 3>of ended up with two dominant schools of thought of addiction. Right.

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 3>The one is sort of the very classic one, meaning

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:37.200
<v Speaker 3>you're an alcoholic or an addict because you're a bad person,

0:32:37.240 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 3>you're weak, you're of lower moral character, the classics, right,

0:32:41.280 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 3>And then the more recent is this idea of it

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<v Speaker 3>being a disease, and they call it lots of different things, right,

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 3>but it's there's something in your brain that gets broken

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 3>as a result of this, and I think the disease

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 3>model was actually a really good step away from the

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:03.080
<v Speaker 3>more failing model, Like it moved us a certain direction,

0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 3>and then there's a direction that I think has been

0:33:05.200 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 3>hugely beneficial. And like any model, it has its own

0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 3>limitations to it. Right, you go on to say something

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 3>that I think is really important about the broken brain idea. Right,

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 3>Because the broken brain idea, the disease model says you

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 3>don't have a choice, right in alcoholics, anonymous right, twelve

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 3>step programs. You know I'm powerless over alcohol, Right, I

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:29.640
<v Speaker 3>have no ability. But you say something about the broken

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 3>brain model. You say that, in essence, the broken brain

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 3>model is right. Addiction is not a choice. Instead, it's

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 3>a summation of repeated choices that make a different choice

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 3>harder to make for environmental, biological, and historical reasons. It's

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 3>deep learning. And I just loved that idea. I've talked

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:50.360
<v Speaker 3>to some of the same people on the show that

0:33:50.400 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 3>you've had in your book. But say a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I think the first things versus that

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you about the disease model and the

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:01.920
<v Speaker 1>intent behind it. Right, it came up in a time

0:34:01.920 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>where we're throwing all these people in jail because they're

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:07.360
<v Speaker 1>bad people, because they are addicted to drugs, and we

0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:09.839
<v Speaker 1>think that that's going to like solve their problems. It's

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 1>like no, right, And so I think it's well intentioned.

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:17.839
<v Speaker 1>I think that it's downside, though, is that there's plenty

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>of examples where people are able to make choices. So

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 1>a classic example is the soldiers in Vietnam. There's this

0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:28.960
<v Speaker 1>huge spike in addiction rates to heroin in Vietnam in

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:32.239
<v Speaker 1>the Vietnam War, and so President Nixon he launches this

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:35.680
<v Speaker 1>program called Operation Golden Flow. And the deal is pretty simple.

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:39.200
<v Speaker 1>It's that if people who are addicted, our soldiers who

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:41.560
<v Speaker 1>are addicted to heroin want to come back to the

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:44.440
<v Speaker 1>United States and leave war, they have to pass a

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 1>urine test. So something like fifteen to twenty percent of

0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:51.080
<v Speaker 1>our soldiers in Vietnam we're addicted to heroin. So you

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:53.759
<v Speaker 1>would think, okay, like if people can't make a choice here,

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:56.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's one hundred percent of choice, we would have

0:34:56.600 --> 0:35:00.400
<v Speaker 1>left fifteen to twenty percent of our soldiers in Vietnam, right. Well,

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 1>what ended up happening was complete opposite. Every single soldier

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 1>passed the dr in test and when they got home,

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 1>the relapse rates among the people who were addicted were

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 1>exceedingly low. They were like five percent, and the five

0:35:13.520 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 1>percent who relapse tended to be drug users before the

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Vietnam War. So what this suggests is that one people

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:22.440
<v Speaker 1>have a choice, and that two elements of addiction may

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:26.399
<v Speaker 1>also be driven by our environment. Back to the environment, right,

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:28.880
<v Speaker 1>And so then it's like, Okay, what was Vietnam like

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 1>during the war, Well, that sounds like hell. It's like, yeah,

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 1>if I was in that hell, I might be wanted

0:35:34.680 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 1>to do some drugs too to escape. And so I

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:38.759
<v Speaker 1>think that you see, addiction rates tend to rise and

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>fall based on people's external and internal conditions. So I

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:46.960
<v Speaker 1>really see addiction as a solution for people who are

0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 1>experiencing problems. Unfortunately, using a substance provides a solution in

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:55.399
<v Speaker 1>the short term, like I said, with my drinking, right,

0:35:55.440 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 1>that'll solve a problem faster than anything. But the problem

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 1>is that it creates long term issues. Right. So unfortunately,

0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 1>when I drank, it's not like I would go, you know,

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>donate my time to charities and also donate my money

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.239
<v Speaker 1>and read great books like I did stupid shit that

0:36:13.440 --> 0:36:16.160
<v Speaker 1>ended up half ruin in my life, right, not tends

0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:17.799
<v Speaker 1>to be the story for most people. But I do

0:36:17.880 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>think that knowing that there is an element of choice

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:25.200
<v Speaker 1>is helpful for people. It's not like people will say, oh,

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:27.799
<v Speaker 1>it's a choice. It's like, well, that really really simplifies it,

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you know. Yes, it's like in a way, yes, but

0:36:32.920 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>like that is ninety nine percent right, one hundred percent wrong.

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like feels a choice. No one would make the choice.

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:42.600
<v Speaker 1>It's like, why is the person doing the behavior in

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>the first place, And it's usually because it's solving a

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 1>short term problem. That is this massive problem that's going

0:36:47.280 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 1>to have to take all these different means of solving

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:52.239
<v Speaker 1>and by the way, it's really going to suck as

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 1>you solve it in the long term, right, And so

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 1>it's super complicated. But I do think that that also

0:36:57.800 --> 0:36:59.520
<v Speaker 1>gives people a little bit of hope. So when you

0:36:59.520 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>look at this really interesting study out if I think

0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 1>the University of New Mexico, and it basically found that

0:37:04.239 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 1>the top reason people relapsed it was a study of

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:10.440
<v Speaker 1>alcoholics for about a year, it was because they believed

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 1>wholeheartedly in the disease model, and they went, well, wait

0:37:12.719 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 1>a minute, if I have a disease, and I asked

0:37:15.320 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>my doctor, how do I cure this thing? And my

0:37:17.000 --> 0:37:18.759
<v Speaker 1>doctor goes, well, there's no cure for it. Why would

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I even try? Like it's a foregone conclusion that I'm

0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:23.319
<v Speaker 1>going to relax, right, And so I do think the

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:25.400
<v Speaker 1>message that you know, there is a little bit of hope.

0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:28.040
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of hope actually, and there's also some

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.879
<v Speaker 1>personal agency, but also realizing like it's going to be hard,

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 1>and it's going to take work, and it's going to

0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:35.759
<v Speaker 1>take asking for help. You're going to have to be like, hey,

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I need help from people. You know, it's not always

0:37:37.960 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>going to be easy. But I do think you see

0:37:39.680 --> 0:37:42.160
<v Speaker 1>a much brighter outlook too. For addiction.

0:38:05.600 --> 0:38:07.640
<v Speaker 3>I agree with you. I mean, the great mystery to

0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 3>me is why some people recover and others don't. Right.

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:15.319
<v Speaker 3>We can point to things, we can look at people's environments, right,

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 3>we can look at the social capital that they have.

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:20.920
<v Speaker 3>There's lots of explanations, right, But at the end of

0:38:20.960 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 3>the day, there does seem to me to be something

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:25.839
<v Speaker 3>mysterious about it. Because you'll see some people who have

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:29.840
<v Speaker 3>all the trauma in the world, none of the social capital,

0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 3>none of the support, and they get sober. And then

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:35.120
<v Speaker 3>you'll see other people who have all the support in

0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:38.479
<v Speaker 3>the world, all the social capital, their trauma load isn't

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 3>that high, and they don't. Right, And so there is

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.120
<v Speaker 3>an element of choice in it. But the question is

0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:45.920
<v Speaker 3>always how much choice right? And I know in my

0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:49.160
<v Speaker 3>own life the amount of choice I feel about picking

0:38:49.239 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 3>up a drink or doing drugs is completely different than

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:56.600
<v Speaker 3>it was fifteen years ago. Right, fifteen years ago, it

0:38:56.600 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 3>felt like I had this sliver of choice. It was there,

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:03.360
<v Speaker 3>was always there, but it didn't feel like it feels today.

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 3>And that's why I loved your line about addiction is

0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:10.280
<v Speaker 3>not a choice. Instead, it's a summation of repeated choices

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:13.120
<v Speaker 3>that make a different choice harder to make. For all

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 3>the reasons we've talked about, environmental, biological, and historical, right,

0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:18.879
<v Speaker 3>I think that really speaks to it. I mean, that's

0:39:18.960 --> 0:39:22.520
<v Speaker 3>my understanding to bring a spiritual word into this of karma. Right.

0:39:22.640 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 3>Karma to me is simply that a behavior that I

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 3>do makes it easier to repeat again and again, hence

0:39:29.200 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 3>the scarcity loop aspect of this. Right. The more repeatable

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 3>behavior is, the more I repeat it, the more likely

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 3>it is I'm going to do the same thing in

0:39:37.560 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 3>the future. It starts to cut a groove in the record,

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:40.760
<v Speaker 3>so to speak.

0:39:40.880 --> 0:39:42.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think that too, in the sense that

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:44.359
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a mystery. I mean, I don't think

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:47.000
<v Speaker 1>that's unlike any behavior though too. You know, It's like,

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 1>why are some people really good with money and some

0:39:48.920 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 1>people really bad with money, whether or not they're rich

0:39:51.120 --> 0:39:51.399
<v Speaker 1>or poor?

0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Why are some people into ex food and not into

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:57.400
<v Speaker 1>why food? It's like it's kind of these great mysteries

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:59.520
<v Speaker 1>of being the human And when you apply addiction onto it,

0:39:59.560 --> 0:40:02.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it a murky because it is something we study,

0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 1>but there's all these things about life that we just

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:09.520
<v Speaker 1>don't study that are equally vexing, you know, totally. And

0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I do think too, like I want to kind of

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.200
<v Speaker 1>put a pin in the fact that it's important to

0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 1>have empathy because people think that like, if an addict

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:20.880
<v Speaker 1>is using a drug or drinking, it's an irrational decision.

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:24.760
<v Speaker 1>It's like, no, it's not, because if you're an addict

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:28.280
<v Speaker 1>or an alcoholic using your substance of choice, it always

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:31.640
<v Speaker 1>improves your life in the short term every single time, right, Right,

0:40:31.719 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 1>so you're going to get an immediate benefit. That is

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:37.320
<v Speaker 1>not an irrational decision in the short term, right, and

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.120
<v Speaker 1>the long term it is. Yeah, but you can't see that, right,

0:40:40.640 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 1>And not to mention, I think most people who have

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:44.879
<v Speaker 1>an addiction, they don't start using a substance and their

0:40:44.960 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 1>life immediately goes to shit. It never happens that way.

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:49.799
<v Speaker 1>No things are good for years and you get all

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:52.760
<v Speaker 1>these positive experiences from this thing, or else you wouldn't

0:40:52.760 --> 0:40:56.000
<v Speaker 1>do it. People don't do things that don't benefit them somehow, right,

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I had years of drinking where drinking enhance my life.

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Maybe we have more interesting experiences. I was more open

0:41:03.000 --> 0:41:06.920
<v Speaker 1>with people and fun at parties. I would think funnier things.

0:41:07.120 --> 0:41:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm a writer. If I sat down on the keyboard,

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:10.839
<v Speaker 1>I'd probably write something different. A lot of times it

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:13.440
<v Speaker 1>was something more interesting than I normally write. And so

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I have all this evidence that alcohol does good things

0:41:16.520 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 1>for me, right years of it. But then that starts

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:22.040
<v Speaker 1>to tip and I start to have repercussion some nights,

0:41:22.280 --> 0:41:25.440
<v Speaker 1>and then over time I have a greater ratio of

0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:27.560
<v Speaker 1>bad nights to good nights. But still in the back

0:41:27.600 --> 0:41:29.800
<v Speaker 1>of my mind, I'm going I got like a decade

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:33.200
<v Speaker 1>of evidence that this is a good thing, and if

0:41:33.239 --> 0:41:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I can just get back there, things are gonna be fine.

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:37.760
<v Speaker 1>But you can't get back there.

0:41:37.960 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 3>Or you only get back there temporarily, Like if it

0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:42.680
<v Speaker 3>didn't work at all, it's back to unpredictable rewards to

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:45.359
<v Speaker 3>some degree, right, Like if I drank and I didn't

0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 3>feel better, Ever, it would be easy to be like, well,

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:51.840
<v Speaker 3>that doesn't make any sense, right, right, But the fact

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 3>is that it still does a little bit sometimes right now, again,

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:58.799
<v Speaker 3>if the same person would see like, okay, it's not

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 3>worth the trade off, and that's why I love I

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:04.840
<v Speaker 3>think it may have been Miasavolets who proposes the idea

0:42:05.080 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 3>of you know, it being in essence of learning disorder,

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:12.880
<v Speaker 3>right that a brain that's working fully correctly would be like, Okay,

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:14.880
<v Speaker 3>that used to be good, but now it's really bad,

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 3>and the downside is out weigh the pros, and I'm

0:42:17.520 --> 0:42:19.719
<v Speaker 3>going to update my mental models around this thing, and

0:42:19.719 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna learn and I'm gonna stop doing it. But

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 3>that doesn't seem to happen, at least not quickly and

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:29.839
<v Speaker 3>without great downside in the average addict or alcoholic.

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:32.399
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, exactly she's great one. Let me say that.

0:42:32.520 --> 0:42:34.400
<v Speaker 1>The second part is that I think that happens with

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:37.400
<v Speaker 1>all sorts of things every day that you do, I do,

0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:41.279
<v Speaker 1>everyone does. When you eat really unhealthy food, it's like, well,

0:42:41.280 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 1>that was really enjoyable in the short term, yeah, even

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:45.640
<v Speaker 1>though you know it's not gonna be good for you

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:49.720
<v Speaker 1>in the long run. When people play slot machines in town,

0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:52.560
<v Speaker 1>anytime you gamble, you're like, you know you're probably gonna lose,

0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 1>but it's like, well, that was still fun, right, right.

0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 1>It only becomes a problem when all of a sudden

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:00.319
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh my god, I don't have any money

0:43:00.320 --> 0:43:04.440
<v Speaker 1>to cover my bills because I've I've gambled so much, right, right,

0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:06.840
<v Speaker 1>And so there's all these kind of behaviors that just like,

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 1>at a certain point they tip for people, and that's

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:12.200
<v Speaker 1>when it becomes problematic. But that doesn't mean the behavior

0:43:12.280 --> 0:43:15.080
<v Speaker 1>is problematic in general for most people most of the time.

0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:18.160
<v Speaker 3>Right. Well, if we go back to the two percent idea, right,

0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:21.280
<v Speaker 3>we all know that taking the stairs is a good idea, yeah,

0:43:21.320 --> 0:43:23.120
<v Speaker 3>and two percent of us are doing it, right, So

0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:25.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, that's why I think thinking of addiction along

0:43:25.640 --> 0:43:28.400
<v Speaker 3>the spectrum is a very helpful concept, right, because we

0:43:28.440 --> 0:43:31.719
<v Speaker 3>all have, depending on the activity of the behavior, you know,

0:43:31.880 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 3>varying degrees of making good choices.

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Right, right. DSM five they don't use the word addiction.

0:43:38.120 --> 0:43:39.960
<v Speaker 1>The DSM five, if people don't know, is like the

0:43:40.280 --> 0:43:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Bible that psychiatrists use for diagnoses, but doesn't use the

0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>word addiction. It does use substance use disorder, and in

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:50.120
<v Speaker 1>order to figure out if a person has a substance

0:43:50.200 --> 0:43:55.279
<v Speaker 1>use disorder, it basically outlines eleven criteria eleven questions more

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:59.319
<v Speaker 1>or less and if you have, say, you know, one

0:43:59.360 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 1>to four, you've got a mild case. If you've got

0:44:02.560 --> 0:44:05.200
<v Speaker 1>five to whatever, seven you got a medium case, and

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:07.320
<v Speaker 1>eight or more you got an extreme case or whatever

0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:10.640
<v Speaker 1>they language they use. But what's fascinating about that is

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:12.799
<v Speaker 1>you can look at that and you can plug in

0:44:12.960 --> 0:44:15.279
<v Speaker 1>all sorts of things that you do that you're like,

0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I wish I did this a little less, and we'll

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 1>probably fall on some spectrum of that what they consider

0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>use disorder, like pop in your cell phone, habit, your

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:26.000
<v Speaker 1>relationship to your favorite drunk food, whatever it might be. Right,

0:44:26.239 --> 0:44:28.400
<v Speaker 1>And so I really do think that reinforces the idea

0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 1>that there's all these things we do, we're on the

0:44:30.160 --> 0:44:33.359
<v Speaker 1>sort of spectrum of giving us benefits in the short

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 1>term and harming us in the long run.

0:44:35.320 --> 0:44:38.800
<v Speaker 3>Yep. So I would love to explore this scarcity loop

0:44:38.880 --> 0:44:41.920
<v Speaker 3>from different angles. I think there's some really fun things

0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:44.400
<v Speaker 3>about games, in the ways that we can use games

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:48.120
<v Speaker 3>for positive and negative. We've touched on food. You have

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:51.879
<v Speaker 3>some great things about stuff and information. But what I'd

0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 3>like to get to now. We may get to some

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 3>of those things in the post show conversation. What I'd

0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:58.279
<v Speaker 3>like to talk about now is given, now that we

0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:02.560
<v Speaker 3>know this scarcity, what are ways that we start to

0:45:02.600 --> 0:45:04.399
<v Speaker 3>bring ourselves out of it.

0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So, if it's a bad behavior that falls into

0:45:07.320 --> 0:45:09.960
<v Speaker 1>the scarcity loop, there's three big ways that I see,

0:45:10.040 --> 0:45:14.000
<v Speaker 1>starting from easiest to hardest. So the first way is

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:16.720
<v Speaker 1>just becoming aware of it. So once you become aware

0:45:16.920 --> 0:45:19.439
<v Speaker 1>of a behavior and that it sort of falls into

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 1>this ancient loop, I think that oftentimes will reduce the

0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 1>frequency of it. So this is called the observer effect

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:30.200
<v Speaker 1>in science. Just by observing something, it tends to change.

0:45:30.239 --> 0:45:33.800
<v Speaker 1>This is bad for scientists conducting studies. This is good

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:36.239
<v Speaker 1>for us when we want to change our own behaviors.

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:39.080
<v Speaker 1>So if you can identify something you're doing, you're going like, oh,

0:45:39.200 --> 0:45:42.320
<v Speaker 1>this is falling into the scarcity loop. And by the way,

0:45:42.480 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 1>it's not your fault because it's just your ancient brain

0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:47.239
<v Speaker 1>like falling into this system that it's naturally attracted to.

0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 1>But it is your problem to solve, right, So I

0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:52.320
<v Speaker 1>think observing can be super helpful for people. It usually

0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:54.920
<v Speaker 1>will reduce some frequency. And then number two is that

0:45:55.000 --> 0:45:57.280
<v Speaker 1>you can change any three of the parts and that'll

0:45:57.360 --> 0:45:59.839
<v Speaker 1>usually reduce the frequency of the behavior. So you can

0:45:59.840 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 1>alter the opportunity, you can alter the unpredictable rewards, or

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:08.879
<v Speaker 1>you can slow down the frequency of the behavior, slow

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:11.080
<v Speaker 1>down how fast you can do the behavior basically, So,

0:46:11.600 --> 0:46:14.960
<v Speaker 1>for example, with opportunity, something as simple as like if

0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:18.040
<v Speaker 1>you've got a problem with, say, eating oreos at night,

0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:21.560
<v Speaker 1>taking away the opportunity to eat oreos, i e. Getting

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 1>them out of your house, Like you're gonna do that

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:28.840
<v Speaker 1>less Like it's so simple, but like it works.

0:46:29.120 --> 0:46:33.759
<v Speaker 3>Door Dash has ruined that though, and these meal delivery services,

0:46:33.840 --> 0:46:36.480
<v Speaker 3>like it used to be so much simpler, like you

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:38.719
<v Speaker 3>had to leave the house and now it's like, let

0:46:38.719 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 3>me just bring up this thing on my phone and

0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:44.320
<v Speaker 3>click click, click, and three ice cream sundays arise.

0:46:44.440 --> 0:46:46.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean even something like Okay, so let's take

0:46:46.880 --> 0:46:50.040
<v Speaker 1>an example of inserting pause. How can we make that

0:46:50.960 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>more of a pain in the butt. Delete the app? Yeah, right,

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:56.680
<v Speaker 1>just deleting not having the app right there, and you go,

0:46:56.800 --> 0:47:00.319
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I gotta reinstall it, and I have

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 1>to remember my password. I don't remember my password. I'm

0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:04.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna have to create a new password. Like you're putting

0:47:04.760 --> 0:47:08.319
<v Speaker 1>all these layers that that just reduces I'm not saying

0:47:08.360 --> 0:47:10.160
<v Speaker 1>that that's a guarantee you're not going to get those

0:47:10.200 --> 0:47:13.160
<v Speaker 1>ice creams, but I am saying it'll reduce the probability

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:14.239
<v Speaker 1>that you will get those ice creams.

0:47:14.400 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 3>Right, That basic rule of you know, if you want

0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:20.319
<v Speaker 3>to do more of something, decrease all the steps in

0:47:20.360 --> 0:47:22.560
<v Speaker 3>between doing it, And if you want to do less

0:47:22.600 --> 0:47:25.560
<v Speaker 3>of something, make it harder and harder in whatever creative

0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:28.040
<v Speaker 3>ways you can come up with to make it difficult.

0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:31.840
<v Speaker 1>To do exactly exactly. Changing unpredictable rewards helps too. So

0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:34.919
<v Speaker 1>for example, one of the reasons that our phones are

0:47:35.040 --> 0:47:38.480
<v Speaker 1>so rewarding as all the colors are really stimulating, Like

0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:43.359
<v Speaker 1>colors stimulate behavior, right, green means go red means slow down.

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:46.440
<v Speaker 1>So putting your phone in gray scale, for example, one

0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:49.920
<v Speaker 1>study showed reduces screen time by about forty minutes just

0:47:49.960 --> 0:47:52.879
<v Speaker 1>making that boring right, you don't get as much unpredictable

0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:56.640
<v Speaker 1>rewards basically from the phone and then slowing behaviors down.

0:47:56.680 --> 0:47:58.920
<v Speaker 1>I think this is probably the most powerful and that

0:47:59.040 --> 0:48:02.120
<v Speaker 1>comes in you know, with shopping. It could be I'm

0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:04.279
<v Speaker 1>only buying stuff in person, or if I'm going to

0:48:04.320 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>buy something online, I got a seventy two hour holding

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:09.520
<v Speaker 1>period where I'm like, it's got to sit in the

0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:11.560
<v Speaker 1>car for seventy two hours, and I guarantee by the

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:13.839
<v Speaker 1>time you go back, you'll be like, wait, what did

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I put in the cart the other day? You won't

0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:20.239
<v Speaker 1>need the item. Right. When it comes to food, I

0:48:20.239 --> 0:48:24.479
<v Speaker 1>think eating food that is less processed reduces how many

0:48:24.480 --> 0:48:27.520
<v Speaker 1>calories you'll eat simply because the food is much slower

0:48:27.520 --> 0:48:29.600
<v Speaker 1>to eat than junk food. So, as we talked about

0:48:29.600 --> 0:48:32.799
<v Speaker 1>with that executive, the third V and what makes a

0:48:32.920 --> 0:48:35.880
<v Speaker 1>junk food successful is velocity. The faster a food is

0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:38.600
<v Speaker 1>to eat, the more a person will eat of the food.

0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:41.440
<v Speaker 1>That's good for the wallets of the junk food industry.

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 1>It's not good for our wastelines. So eating less junk

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:47.080
<v Speaker 1>food and switching over to a whole in sort of

0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:51.320
<v Speaker 1>less processed foods. People eat fewer calories with cell phones

0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:54.280
<v Speaker 1>and pause. There's an app I love called clear Space.

0:48:54.840 --> 0:48:57.080
<v Speaker 1>What it does is like you choose the apps that

0:48:57.200 --> 0:48:59.920
<v Speaker 1>you have a problem opening, the ones where you're in

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:03.240
<v Speaker 1>like the grocery store line and you just find yourself

0:49:03.360 --> 0:49:05.959
<v Speaker 1>on and you're like, wait, how did that happen? Right?

0:49:06.320 --> 0:49:09.160
<v Speaker 1>The ones you reflexively take out. What it does is

0:49:09.400 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 1>you choose the apps you want kind of restricted. When

0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:14.200
<v Speaker 1>you go to open them, it basically makes you pause.

0:49:14.680 --> 0:49:16.919
<v Speaker 1>It goes, hey, did you actually want to open this app?

0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:20.239
<v Speaker 1>And you go yes, and then it goes okay, let's

0:49:20.320 --> 0:49:23.040
<v Speaker 1>like wait for a minute, makes you breathe for like

0:49:23.080 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 1>says like breathe, it's fifteen seconds. Then it shows you

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:28.480
<v Speaker 1>this nice quote about how like you know your life

0:49:28.560 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 1>is going by as you're on your phone or something,

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:33.680
<v Speaker 1>and then you have to select how much time you

0:49:33.719 --> 0:49:35.480
<v Speaker 1>actually want to spend in the app so you can't

0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:38.839
<v Speaker 1>just fall down the rabbit hole of it. And that

0:49:38.920 --> 0:49:40.800
<v Speaker 1>has been a great one for people.

0:49:41.160 --> 0:49:43.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I downloaded that app after reading the book and

0:49:43.640 --> 0:49:47.480
<v Speaker 3>it's great my remaining phone vice. Such it is. I'm

0:49:47.520 --> 0:49:50.759
<v Speaker 3>pretty much completely off social media. You know, I don't

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:54.000
<v Speaker 3>play games very much. I mean a little bit is

0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:57.920
<v Speaker 3>just compulsively, for no reason at all, checking my email

0:49:58.040 --> 0:50:00.840
<v Speaker 3>every time i'm bored, just again and again and again.

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:04.759
<v Speaker 3>It's the scarcity loop one hundred percent, right, because every

0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 3>once in a while when I open my email, I'm like, oh, wow,

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 3>there's this really great thing in here. You know, somebody

0:50:11.040 --> 0:50:13.960
<v Speaker 3>said something really nice, or I found out that I've

0:50:14.000 --> 0:50:16.080
<v Speaker 3>been asked to do this thing or whatever.

0:50:16.200 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Right awards, Yeah, man.

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:21.360
<v Speaker 3>Unpredictable reward, and I can do it again and again

0:50:21.480 --> 0:50:23.760
<v Speaker 3>and again and again. It seems to be the one

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:27.600
<v Speaker 3>sort of digital thing that I tame it back. You know.

0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:29.799
<v Speaker 3>I get to the point where I'm like, okay, I've

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:31.319
<v Speaker 3>gotten to the point now where I've like, I take

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:33.440
<v Speaker 3>time off. I can be without it for a week,

0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:36.040
<v Speaker 3>two weeks, but the minute I have it back, it

0:50:36.160 --> 0:50:38.640
<v Speaker 3>creeps its way back up to this sort of almost

0:50:38.680 --> 0:50:41.080
<v Speaker 3>like a tick, you know. So I found that app

0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:45.080
<v Speaker 3>to be really really helpful in a causing me to pause,

0:50:45.560 --> 0:50:47.759
<v Speaker 3>be being able to say how many times a day

0:50:47.960 --> 0:50:50.359
<v Speaker 3>I want to open it? So then I'm like, oh, well,

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm only going to do it two more

0:50:52.200 --> 0:50:57.640
<v Speaker 3>times today and it's ten am. I'm probably going to

0:50:57.680 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 3>want to check email again, you know. And then like

0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:03.399
<v Speaker 3>you said that it limits the time that I'm in it,

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:06.040
<v Speaker 3>so which is not for email that important because I'm

0:51:06.080 --> 0:51:08.480
<v Speaker 3>usually in it for like thirty seconds because i checked it,

0:51:08.600 --> 0:51:09.959
<v Speaker 3>you know, eight minutes ago.

0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. For people, it's called ClearSpace, and it's awesome. Here's

0:51:13.200 --> 0:51:15.440
<v Speaker 1>a great example, you telling me about how you'd kind

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:18.000
<v Speaker 1>of reduced all these other apps and like, but you

0:51:18.040 --> 0:51:20.200
<v Speaker 1>still had the one. I have a great story. And

0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:22.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to use his name because we have competitions

0:51:22.280 --> 0:51:24.760
<v Speaker 1>in giving each other shit. Is my friend Jason McCarthy

0:51:24.800 --> 0:51:27.799
<v Speaker 1>who runs go Rock. He founded the company go Rock.

0:51:28.000 --> 0:51:32.440
<v Speaker 1>It was like, so I deleted Instagram from my phone

0:51:32.480 --> 0:51:35.200
<v Speaker 1>because I was using it too much, and he's like

0:51:35.239 --> 0:51:37.920
<v Speaker 1>it was good for you know a handful of days.

0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:43.480
<v Speaker 1>Like and then I freaking found myself like compulsively checking LinkedIn.

0:51:44.160 --> 0:51:48.319
<v Speaker 1>It's like, I haven't been on LinkedIn for years, and

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like going into LinkedIn cause it's given me that

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:54.400
<v Speaker 1>unpredictable like what if someone said, what is someone can

0:51:54.480 --> 0:51:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I find on LinkedIn, I gotta scroll something for those

0:51:56.600 --> 0:52:00.640
<v Speaker 1>unpredictable rewards, And so I think it's like being conscious

0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that once you trade one you probably are going to

0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:05.279
<v Speaker 1>go looking for another, and then you gotta kind of

0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:07.239
<v Speaker 1>find a way to put rails on that. That's where

0:52:07.239 --> 0:52:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I think clear space is nice, because you just have

0:52:09.520 --> 0:52:11.640
<v Speaker 1>to be more intentional with the ones you do want.

0:52:11.840 --> 0:52:14.680
<v Speaker 3>You know, that's great. So listener and thinking about all

0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:17.320
<v Speaker 3>of that and the other great wisdom from today's episode.

0:52:17.400 --> 0:52:20.480
<v Speaker 3>If you are going to isolate just one top insight

0:52:20.800 --> 0:52:23.280
<v Speaker 3>or thing to do that you're taking away, what would

0:52:23.280 --> 0:52:26.240
<v Speaker 3>it be. Remember that, little by little, a little becomes

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:29.239
<v Speaker 3>a lot, and a habit for me that has accrude

0:52:29.320 --> 0:52:32.840
<v Speaker 3>and benefit over time is meditation. However, one of the

0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:35.480
<v Speaker 3>things that gets in our way of building a steady

0:52:35.520 --> 0:52:38.000
<v Speaker 3>meditation practice is that very striving.

0:52:38.080 --> 0:52:38.279
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:52:38.320 --> 0:52:40.960
<v Speaker 3>Of course, we're doing it because we want certain benefits,

0:52:41.320 --> 0:52:44.239
<v Speaker 3>but in the moment of actually meditating, we need to

0:52:44.320 --> 0:52:47.960
<v Speaker 3>let striving go and focus on just being there and

0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:52.839
<v Speaker 3>experiencing it. No matter what's happening. It becomes not enjoyable

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:55.960
<v Speaker 3>because I'm trying to make something happen some special moment

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:58.080
<v Speaker 3>we want to let go of that. So if you

0:52:58.120 --> 0:53:01.360
<v Speaker 3>want to stop dreading meditation and action find it enjoyable.

0:53:01.640 --> 0:53:04.719
<v Speaker 3>Check out my free meditation guide at goodwolf dot me

0:53:04.880 --> 0:53:08.920
<v Speaker 3>slash calm. You know, I've found for me that that pause,

0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:11.160
<v Speaker 3>and I've used other apps that do it right, you know,

0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:14.400
<v Speaker 3>some of them completely shut the thing off. But for me, generally,

0:53:14.880 --> 0:53:17.439
<v Speaker 3>if I have to stop and go do I really

0:53:17.440 --> 0:53:19.719
<v Speaker 3>want to do this? And I usually am able to

0:53:19.719 --> 0:53:22.640
<v Speaker 3>be like no, I don't and set it aside. You know,

0:53:23.080 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 3>But I like clear spaces because it's not binary, right,

0:53:26.200 --> 0:53:29.560
<v Speaker 3>It's not like completely locked out. It's just be more

0:53:29.600 --> 0:53:32.960
<v Speaker 3>intentional about when you choose to use it and why

0:53:33.040 --> 0:53:33.680
<v Speaker 3>and for how long?

0:53:33.760 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. So the third to land the plane here

0:53:36.560 --> 0:53:39.000
<v Speaker 1>on the question. The third and top level thing with

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:42.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of getting out of the scarcity loop is so

0:53:42.280 --> 0:53:44.239
<v Speaker 1>I told you about the Thomas Senthal guy. Now, he

0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:47.279
<v Speaker 1>does this research on pigeons and he can basically get

0:53:47.280 --> 0:53:51.799
<v Speaker 1>these pigeons to play this slot machine pigeon gambling game.

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:54.040
<v Speaker 1>What he does is he gives them a choice between

0:53:54.080 --> 0:53:57.840
<v Speaker 1>two games. Okay, and the first game it's predictable, so

0:53:57.960 --> 0:53:59.799
<v Speaker 1>it gives them food every other time they peck a

0:53:59.840 --> 0:54:02.240
<v Speaker 1>life gives them like fifteen units of food. The second

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:04.920
<v Speaker 1>game is like a slot machine, so about every fifth

0:54:04.960 --> 0:54:07.680
<v Speaker 1>pack they get twenty units of food. So they get

0:54:07.680 --> 0:54:10.000
<v Speaker 1>a little bit more food, but not by much. And

0:54:10.080 --> 0:54:12.439
<v Speaker 1>it's also random, like they don't know. It's about every

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 1>fifth one. Totally unpredictable. And you would think that because

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 1>animals they want to find the most resources they can,

0:54:19.239 --> 0:54:21.480
<v Speaker 1>right for the least amount of effort. This is called

0:54:21.560 --> 0:54:24.319
<v Speaker 1>optimal foraging theory, you'd think they would all play this

0:54:24.600 --> 0:54:26.680
<v Speaker 1>predictable game because if you play that, you're gonna get

0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:29.680
<v Speaker 1>more food over time, like a lot more over time, right,

0:54:29.760 --> 0:54:31.640
<v Speaker 1>But what he finds is that ninety seven percent of

0:54:31.680 --> 0:54:34.120
<v Speaker 1>these pigeons they end up playing the slot machine game.

0:54:34.920 --> 0:54:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Sit there and they play the game. So he keeps

0:54:38.080 --> 0:54:42.520
<v Speaker 1>these pigeons generally in standard lab cages. They're relatively small,

0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:46.600
<v Speaker 1>they're alone in there, and he decides that they're going

0:54:46.640 --> 0:54:49.799
<v Speaker 1>to put the pigeons together in this giant cage that's

0:54:49.840 --> 0:54:52.680
<v Speaker 1>more like the wild, right, Like they can kind of

0:54:52.719 --> 0:54:54.680
<v Speaker 1>live a wild pigeon life in there. They're with some

0:54:54.719 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>other pigeons. They can build nests, they can go on cliffs.

0:54:57.640 --> 0:54:59.840
<v Speaker 1>They got like trees, they got like all this stuff,

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, So they're living like a pigeon is evolved

0:55:02.960 --> 0:55:05.239
<v Speaker 1>to live more or less. Then he puts them back

0:55:05.280 --> 0:55:08.280
<v Speaker 1>in the game and lets them choose between the smart

0:55:08.320 --> 0:55:11.360
<v Speaker 1>game or the gambling game. Every single pigeon chooses the

0:55:11.360 --> 0:55:16.239
<v Speaker 1>smart game after that, and I'm like, okay, well, why

0:55:16.239 --> 0:55:18.959
<v Speaker 1>the hell is that? And he tells me there's this

0:55:19.280 --> 0:55:23.000
<v Speaker 1>theory called the optimal stimulation theory, and it basically says

0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:27.719
<v Speaker 1>that no matter the species, from humans to pigeons, to

0:55:28.280 --> 0:55:31.440
<v Speaker 1>rats to whatever, we need a certain amount of stimulation

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:34.360
<v Speaker 1>in our life. And if we don't get that stimulation

0:55:34.480 --> 0:55:37.600
<v Speaker 1>from somewhere, we go searching for it. And so when

0:55:37.640 --> 0:55:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you think about a creature, whether it's a human or

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:44.960
<v Speaker 1>a pigeon, living the life they evolved to live, which

0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:48.239
<v Speaker 1>for humans we were for all the time we were mostly outside.

0:55:48.320 --> 0:55:50.319
<v Speaker 1>We were in these bands together where we had to

0:55:50.400 --> 0:55:53.040
<v Speaker 1>like really be social and work together. We had to

0:55:53.040 --> 0:55:55.399
<v Speaker 1>put in physical effort every day. Like we talked about

0:55:55.440 --> 0:55:58.920
<v Speaker 1>an early part of the podcast, things weren't always easy, right.

0:55:58.960 --> 0:56:00.920
<v Speaker 1>We were always kind of doing something, We were looking

0:56:00.920 --> 0:56:04.200
<v Speaker 1>for food, doing all this stuff. We live much differently now,

0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:06.200
<v Speaker 1>and so his argument was like, when you think of

0:56:06.280 --> 0:56:09.120
<v Speaker 1>humans today, we're a little bit like the pigeons and

0:56:09.160 --> 0:56:11.600
<v Speaker 1>the small cages, you know, and we go searching for

0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:15.640
<v Speaker 1>stimulation from bad behaviors, from things that fall into the

0:56:15.680 --> 0:56:19.120
<v Speaker 1>scarcity loop. Be it drugs and alcohol, be it gambling,

0:56:19.239 --> 0:56:21.120
<v Speaker 1>be it spending way too much time on our phones

0:56:21.120 --> 0:56:24.880
<v Speaker 1>and other digital media, insert all these different other bad behaviors.

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<v Speaker 1>So his point was like, if you can find ways

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<v Speaker 1>to insert stimulation into your life and find like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of greater meaning beyond the behaviors that we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>fall into, that can usually reduce a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>bad stuff. So mine was alcohol, and it's like, when

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<v Speaker 1>I quit alcohol, it's like if nothing changes, nothing changes.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to make massive life changes, right, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>so I started exercising more, spent more time with friends,

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<v Speaker 1>I started spending way more time outside. I also, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the reasons I drank is that I've just

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<v Speaker 1>been always drawn to extreme experiences, and so it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to find that from somewhere now. So I

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<v Speaker 1>like to do stuff outdoors for extended periods of time.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to travel to kind of interesting places in

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<v Speaker 1>order to scratch that edge in a way that is

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<v Speaker 1>enhancing my life and not hurting my life.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that is a great place to wrap up, right,

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<v Speaker 3>because it speaks to all the way back to the

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<v Speaker 3>wolf parable, Right. It speaks to the choices that we make,

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<v Speaker 3>and my experience is the more good choices I make,

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<v Speaker 3>it just naturally becomes easier not to make bad choices.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a natural sort of law. When I'm doing

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<v Speaker 3>things that, like you said, enhance my life in general,

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<v Speaker 3>all the sort of difficult things tend to sort of

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<v Speaker 3>fade to the background, and it's far easier to be

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<v Speaker 3>the person I want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>You and I are going to continue in the post

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<v Speaker 3>show conversation. I think we're going to talk a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit about how to have a sane relationship with stuff

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<v Speaker 3>and the pros and cons of sort of gamifying life.

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<v Speaker 3>We've all heard you should be gamifying your life. It

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was a lot of fun. Thanks for having me.

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