1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my best friend's 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: husband to get a paternity test? 3 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 2: This is Okayop. 4 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: We read the craziest true stories on Earth and producer 5 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Riley do we think Op is the a hole for 6 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: doing this? 7 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: What do we think? 8 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 3: He's just looking out for you, brom He wants what's 9 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 3: best for you, looking. 10 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: Out you know it is. And and we've run into 11 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: this on many episodes. Some some we've been on our 12 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: guest episodes where it's like, if you are not directly 13 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: in it, how much do you meddle? 14 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 2: And you know that kind of thing. 15 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 3: The door once you go through, you can't go back. 16 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: You can't you can't go back, you can't go back. 17 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: But we are going to go through the store quick? 18 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 3: Okay, store okay, okay? Ope, story time. Yes, there was 19 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 3: a couple of my age that recently got like pregnant 20 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 3: and they announced it. I've read too many of these stories. 21 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 3: I'm messed up in the head. The first question I 22 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 3: wanted to ask them was, oh, did you guys get 23 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: a paternity test? They were a loving couple, neither of 24 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: them would ever do any of that, But in my head, 25 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 3: I was just like, that's one of the normal things 26 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: that you should ask a couple I sought myself. I 27 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 3: didn't say it, but that thought came across my mind 28 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: of oh, I should probably ask them if they've got 29 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: a journey test, make sure one hundred percent they know 30 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 3: that this is their child. 31 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: That is so like your your knee jerk. 32 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: Yet that is the terrible thing about these stories, like 33 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: it is it is so bad because also it's like, uh, 34 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: we've also see the stories where it's like the guy 35 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: goes down the red pill rabbit hole. 36 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 2: But I don't want people going down our rabbit hole 37 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: and doing that. Hell no, no, believe your. 38 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: Beautiful wives, ladies, ladies and gentlemen mostly yes, yeah. Oh 39 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: but you know what's so great is this one actually 40 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: comes from our very own r slash Okop show. 41 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 2: Let's go. 42 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: Uh, if you want your story run on the show 43 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: like this, go to our slash Okop show. 44 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: Submit your stories then so we can. 45 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: Read them, or you can call four four zero five 46 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: is a way six five sixty seven. We take your voicemails, 47 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: we read them, we call you, we chat with you. 48 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: We have a great time when we hang out. Y'all 49 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,639 Speaker 1: send in your stories, even though those are our favorite 50 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: and we love you, we love you someone. 51 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: So that's how further doo. 52 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: Let's get into this one from the okay fam uh 53 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: potterhead without an e shout out to you, says I, 54 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: twenty seven female, have been friends with Victoria twenty seven 55 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: female since we were sophomores in high school. She moved 56 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: to my school in seventh grade and has a history 57 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: of lying. We weren't super close for a few years 58 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: until we shared a couple of classes together. I could 59 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: talk to her about literally anything, But little did I 60 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: know that she was keeping many secrets from me. This 61 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: was especially evident when she changed her Facebook bio to 62 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: state you don't know me. 63 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: You only know what I allow you to know about me. 64 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: So that is very mysterious. 65 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 1: When Victoria and I were seniors, I started dating Alan 66 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: and she started seeing Brian, a twenty seven year old 67 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: man who was about to get divorced. Wait wait wait, 68 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: waitla la la. When Victoria and I were seniors and 69 00:02:55,360 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: because you read that right, bro, she was in high school, 70 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: a senior in high school dating a twenty seven year 71 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 1: old that's getting divorced. That that's insane, That is insane. 72 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 3: Wow, that's grooming that's a little. 73 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 2: Bit, bro he yiked. 74 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: Brandon had two kids with his wife, but it turns out, 75 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: after doing a paternity test that his one year old 76 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: son was not his. 77 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: Oh that's a whole hot mess right there. Oh my, 78 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 2: and you're a senior getting that. 79 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 3: Oh now, it's like you having two kids and a 80 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 3: wife and you're like, oh, this high schooler, I think 81 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: she's really feeling me. 82 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 2: Isn't that horrible? 83 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: That is awful. Now, this is where some lies start 84 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: to surface a little bit. Victoria changes when she started 85 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: to see Brandon. Sometimes she will state they started dating 86 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: in October, while other times it changed to February. This 87 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: is very minor in relation to everything, you know. It's 88 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: something that's not minor in relation to everything we're talking about. 89 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 2: Nose Riley. 90 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: Riley has been trying to organ this into the podcast 91 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: of all the of all the possible moments, Riley, of 92 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: all the possible moments, number one worst moment, Oh my god, 93 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: that but you will you know what, Riley, I'm about 94 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: to real question you. You know what, you know what 95 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: the real question is? She said, Oh, it's minor. It's 96 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: a few months different. Excuse me, you are a high 97 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: school senior, When was your eighteenth birthday? Because that is 98 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: a few months difference, that matters. That is a lot 99 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: very that is that is a big, big, big, big 100 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: make detail. 101 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 4: Now. 102 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 1: Some red flags appeared during this time. In my opinion, 103 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: Victoria was upset with Brandon for looking at corn. You 104 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, So in an effort to 105 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: stop him, she allowed him to save pictures and videos 106 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: of her. 107 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 3: Oh oh god, not an eighteen maybe eighteen year old 108 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 3: confronting a twenty seven man about his corn addiction and 109 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 3: solving it. 110 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: With like this, this is getting bad. This is horrible. 111 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: She let Brandon buy her an iPhone, and she started 112 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: spending a ton of time at his rental with his roommates. 113 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: During this time, she told Alan she was selling drugs 114 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: to make money and that her mom had no idea 115 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: but sometimes questioned where it came from. Oh this is 116 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: going really downhill, really fast. Then one day Victoria told 117 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: me about how she put holes in Brandon's roommates condoms 118 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: because he was being a jerk. I mean, okay, yeah, 119 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: that is wow. What I'm getting here is, yeah, maybe 120 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: someone with a possibly again we're totally assuming here, but 121 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: I am guessing a very troubled you know, upbringing high 122 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: school senior here right, very troubled upbringing is like leaning 123 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 1: into this like much older guy is lashing out in 124 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: these ways. It's like, you know, these guys are being 125 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: jerks to me. Boom, I'm poking holes in their kind 126 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 1: like I think, I think this girl deserves some some therapy. 127 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, a little bit of Jesus too. 128 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: That's a little bit of Jesus, man, some dude, somebody's 129 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: got to take She got at least the minimum. 130 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 2: Go to Bali for six months and hang out in 131 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 2: the get. 132 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: It in the system, hop over to hula hula watsu, 133 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: and you know, go to the crazy the crazy club 134 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: with no ceilings. 135 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, go do yoga a lot of yoga. That's 136 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: not I'm in a lot of yoga, he said. I was. 137 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 2: I was referring to her going to oh like the 138 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: spirit the actual legitimate spiritual journey. 139 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah yeah, I mean, look, hey, pick pick 140 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: your flavor people. People to go to balid lots of 141 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: both of those things, my goodness. And then to add 142 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: to that, Opie says, I never heard the outcome of this. 143 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: So basically, if the poked tole condoms resulted and. 144 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: Made more children appear. 145 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: So in May we graduated and Victoria immediately moved into 146 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: Brandon's new house his parents purchased for him. 147 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: Ah oh, it just gets. 148 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: He surprised her by inviting her family over and proposing. Dude, honestly, 149 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: all right, real, real quick, Riley, get ready for this. 150 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: You you have beautiful child. I brought this kid into 151 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: the world. You're like, I love this kid more than 152 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: anything on planet Earth. Your see your sweet baby girl, full. 153 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 2: Girl, dad. You know what I mean. 154 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: You're you're you're doing that, You're doing the tea sets, 155 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: You're you know, sitting down giving her that fatherly advice 156 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: and and being going to the ballerina supporting her right 157 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: through thickened thing. She becomes a senior in high school. 158 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: We're gonna pro and just say eighteen and if you 159 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: answer eighteen, birthday starts dating this twenty seven year old 160 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: guy that's in the midst of a divorce with his 161 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: two kids. 162 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: And then that. 163 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: Guy goes to the house that his parents bought for him, 164 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: that he did not work for, and then says to 165 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: your eighteen year old daughter in front of everyone, I 166 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: want to marry you, what do you do you're in 167 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: his house? 168 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 3: I am, I will probably be violent. Wait what state 169 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 3: are we in? 170 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: Oh? Stayed your ground? States? Okay, right, but I think 171 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 2: you know what's gonna happen. Now we know what time 172 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, now you know what time is. 173 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 3: Baby, I'm gonna if we're out here in California, how 174 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 3: do think it changes my answer? 175 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, Riley's bringing a whole new meeting to 176 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: shotgun wedding. Yeah, I'm gonna be like, come come out side, buddy. Yeah, 177 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: let's have a talk, let's have a chat. Let's let's 178 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: let's go man a man on this one. Yeah. 179 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 3: No, but I don't really could be assuming, but I 180 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: don't think she had a great bother figure in her life. Yeah, 181 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 3: that's because what we've seen with with like younger women 182 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 3: going forwarder guys, they don't their father. 183 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 2: They could be looking for that father figure. Yeah. 184 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so so like uh so sad to see. Well, 185 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 3: I can't believe she said yes, But I mean she. 186 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: Did say yes. 187 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: She did say yes, but she told Alan two years 188 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: later about how she regretted her marriage and felt pressured 189 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: to saying yes, which like honestly a lot of the 190 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: public proposals, especially bringing family and like, I could totally 191 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: see like, on one hand, it's like so many women's 192 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: dream to be like give me the fairy tale proposal 193 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: setting with all the people I love around me to 194 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: celebrate me amazing. Also could totally be used to like 195 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: you don't want to say no, like like it's so 196 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: hard to embarrass. 197 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: Someone in front of like everybody. 198 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: So anyways, a slight side tangent, I should also mention 199 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: that prior to this engagement, she was engaged at least. 200 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: At least two other times while we were in school. 201 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: WHA school senior. 202 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: Gaged, what, Well, okay, wait, okay, so let's let's hold on, Riley. 203 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna back We're gonna backtrack a little 204 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: bit here, a little bit here. 205 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: Okay. 206 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 1: So so the story starts off the very first sentence, 207 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: I twenty seven female, have been friends with Victoria twenty 208 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: seven female since we were sophomores in high school. So 209 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: they start the scene in high school and then I'm 210 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,559 Speaker 1: looking so seventh grade, she had a history of lying. 211 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: We weren't super close for years. For shared classes. I 212 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: could talk to about little anything, but little I know 213 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 2: she kept a lot of secrets. 214 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: And then when Victoria and I were senior, so in 215 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: the beginning of the story, she she mentions, you know. 216 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 2: High school sophomores. 217 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she says when we were seniors, now 218 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: we didn't get an explicit high school or university. 219 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, So it look it is. 220 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: It is possible that it is university, but op didn't 221 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: spell like they basically set the frame in high school 222 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: and they I feel like they would have been specific 223 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 1: or like, honestly, if it is university, I think they forgot. 224 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, to put that down, I legit think that they forgot. 225 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 3: So it's a question of did she have three engagements 226 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 3: within the span of high school years or three years 227 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: if you count sophomore't three years or the span of 228 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 3: seven years? 229 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I like, again, we're kind of assuming it's 230 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: like the US or. 231 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 3: What engagement a year? That that makes sense in my head. 232 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 2: Like I get, I mean people do. 233 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: Technically, I don't know what it is, like maybe we 234 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: could look it up to look at it later, but 235 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: it's like emancipated, what is a marriage when you're under 236 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: under eighteen in the US? 237 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: Like how do people get what? Oh you could have. 238 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 3: Got met You should wow my younger eighteen year old 239 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,599 Speaker 3: Steff when you could have told me I could have 240 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 3: got married before I was eighteen. 241 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, there is. Yeah, let's let's let's think 242 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: a peek and see what it is. 243 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: But like, like and also, okay, so here's what I 244 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: was gonna Here's what I was going to say. They 245 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: are in high school right now or there they were 246 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: in high school. 247 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 3: Uh oh, the parents got to sign off. You can't 248 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 3: get married under eighteen in California. 249 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: You just the parents sign off. Yeah yeah, yeah, so 250 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: yeah in California. Yeah, you your parents do have to 251 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: do have to sign off. But it's possible if the 252 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: parents sign off. 253 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: Still, so. 254 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: Given it looks like, you know, Victoria is you know, 255 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: has probably a lot happened in her life. 256 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: She's kind of all over the place. What if she 257 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:29,079 Speaker 2: literally was. 258 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I'm getting engaged you like three times in 259 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: a few months in her senior year. We did we 260 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: didn't the first guy that she was dating. Maybe he 261 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: was one of them, because she remembered she like, oh, 262 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: she fudged the timeline of when they when the previous 263 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: person donor darting, I don't know. 264 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: It's tough. It's tough. 265 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: It's tough, it's tough. Let's let's let's get back into 266 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: it and see where we're at. So Victoria and I 267 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: both worked at our local Walmart. Honestly, I might I 268 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: might be. I'm going to make an assumption this might 269 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: be some fellow Floridians right here, all my Floridians. 270 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 2: You know what time it is already, you already know. 271 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 2: You already know what time it is. We're from Florida. 272 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: That's all. 273 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: That's all the contacts you need, that's all you And 274 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 1: not even one month after graduation, Victoria came into work 275 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 1: Distratt walked into the office, sat and waited for a manager. 276 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: She then told my manager that she could not mentally 277 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: handle working that day and left. She quit soon after. 278 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: She also went up to me, also, I have a 279 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: I have a slight okay storytime after this speaking of 280 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: like quitting jobs like Walmart, and I want your I want. 281 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 2: Your your take, Riley, I'm very curious, Okay. 282 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: She also went up to me and told me about 283 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: having Brandon's five year old in the car with her, 284 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:45,479 Speaker 1: about how she wanted to drive into oncoming traffic remembered 285 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: him and then stopped prior to coming into work that day. 286 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: This is when it became evident that she had mental 287 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: issues as well as a few years later, she wrecked 288 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: her car and her husband bought out of anger with 289 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 1: a partner. Fast forward, a few months after her marriage, 290 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: she meets Daniel at Walmart, who basically moved into her basement. 291 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 1: Rumors immediately started to circulate about them. And I'm guessing 292 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: right now we're talking about former people she got engaged with. 293 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: Potentially do we know yet? I guess we'll read and 294 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 1: find out. 295 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:18,719 Speaker 2: I probably yeah. 296 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: Stuff like they were spotted holding hands through the store, 297 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: and they were seen in the parking lot kissing, et cetera. 298 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: I questioned her about the rumors and she denied him. 299 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: Victoria and Daniel both looked me in the eyes at Walmart, 300 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: you kind of love that Walmart while talking to the 301 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: door reader that they sat Brandon down to explain about 302 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 1: the rumors and how they weren't true. Daniel was also 303 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: from Kansas City, which is evidently where Victoria's dad lives, 304 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: so they traveled there alone and shared a hotel room, 305 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: and she came back with hickeys all over her chest, 306 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: and she told me that there were bruises from Cas 307 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: launching off her chest. 308 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 3: Okay, does your cat leave? Bruss got off your chest. 309 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: Although, in defense and in slight fairness, my cat really 310 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: can't do nothing. She's a tiny little run We had 311 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: to we had to save her. She she's gone. She's 312 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: seen some things, Ladies and Gentlemen. But yeah, this is 313 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: absolute cap, absolute, absolute cap. 314 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 2: Then Victoria found out she was pregnant. Whoa not Daniel shooting? 315 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: Straight shooters, bro, my guy's shooting wet. 316 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: Literally talk about a splash, bro, my boy splashing, My 317 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: boy splashing. 318 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 2: Here we go. 319 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: This is a Johnny Riley episode, Ladies and Gentlemen. 320 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 2: Okay, oh man, her and her husband. 321 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: Victoria and her husband had been trying, but rumors immediately 322 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: circulated about this baby being Daniels. 323 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: The baby was. 324 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: Born in For the first two weeks, Victoria stayed at 325 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: her mom's house with the baby. She's stated that Brandon 326 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: needed to sleep due to work, so she was going 327 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: to adjust to motherhood on her own. 328 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: She go ahead and get used to it. Brandon figures 329 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 2: it out. Oh. This was a huge. 330 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: Red flag in my opinion, because he helped make the 331 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: baby so shouldn't they be caring for the baby together? 332 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 2: Right? 333 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: She also had a mental break because Daniel left and 334 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: cut contact with her. I mean, and I feel like, 335 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: you know again why he's the dad and doesn't be 336 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: roped in. 337 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: At some point, oh. 338 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: My god, like Victoria was sitting on her porch screaming 339 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: and crying and the neighbors called the cost to check 340 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: on her. 341 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: Oh. 342 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 1: I honestly, I really feel for Victoria. I really feel 343 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: that she went through some really tough stuff. And again 344 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: she's seen in high school like she's still a kid. 345 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and she's like in that weird stage where 346 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: you're like getting to Pross says some of these things, 347 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: but just in this like you know, still hard to 348 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: wrap your head around. 349 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 2: You haven't had a lot of time. I don't know. Yeah, 350 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 2: I do feel for Victoria. 351 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: I feel like she's she's got some some serious trauma. Eventually, 352 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: Victoria told her husband that she was polyamorous. But polyamorous 353 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: is like, yo, we're going to see other people if 354 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: you're like yo, the other yo, I'm gonna And I 355 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: just told you, like there's another word for that. Yeah, 356 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: And it's cheating, and it's cheating dude that she would 357 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: never be happy unless he let her see other people, 358 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: so he obliged. I mean, I'm like, I already was 359 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 1: not liking this relationship at all because like, remember this 360 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: is uh Brandon is his name? You know that the 361 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: husband is twenty seven maybe coming up on twenty eight, 362 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 1: divorced with two freaking kids. Like this was already a 363 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: bad and like, honestly we didn't say it explicitly, but 364 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: really clearly praying it seems on someone who has all 365 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: of these issues. Yeah, like this guy, we did, we 366 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: did say we did stay at the top. Yeah, that's right. 367 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: The grooming, Oh yeah, you get Oh god, why why? 368 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 1: Okayop do you do this to us? But she started 369 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: telling me about seeing people and keep it quiet because 370 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: she didn't want Brandon to know yet. She even accidentally 371 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: texted her in laws and tried to cover it up. Bro, 372 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 1: she was literally trying to hit her sneaky link and 373 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: accidentally hit the family group chat. 374 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 2: Wow. 375 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: All this to say that one day she got upset 376 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: at her husband and one of her partners. 377 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 2: She packed up and. 378 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: Left the house with her son while she thought everyone 379 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: was asleep. She decided while she was gone to divorce, 380 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: and finally I broke the silence I had been holding 381 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: for so long. So literally, Victoria was like, I'm divorcing you. 382 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: Were like left abandoned. I'm divorcing you. I contacted her husband, 383 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 1: I sent screenshots. I told him what I could remember. 384 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: I suggested he get a paternity test done because her 385 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 1: kid looks a lot like Daniel and his daughter. So 386 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: Daniel already has a kid, and that kid looks just 387 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: like Daniel's kid and Daniel. 388 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 389 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: Brandon listened and did one in secret. The results came 390 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: back and he sent them to me. Zero percent chance 391 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:46,719 Speaker 1: that he is the father. Oh something about having zero 392 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: percent evidence just sinks the knife, like honestly, honestly, like 393 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: you almost want to just have the person tell you 394 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: versus see zero percent on the paper. 395 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 2: It just adds like an extra sting to it. 396 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 1: So people, Brandon broke the news to her, and she 397 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: figured out quickly that I convinced him. We had slowly 398 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: grown apart and hardly talked. She trusted me with too 399 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: many terrible secrets to say that again. 400 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 2: She was angry with me. She said, I broke her 401 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 2: son's heart. 402 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 3: Oh no, not her, blaming her for her own. 403 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: Actionode that Brandon just didn't want to pay a child 404 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: support for another kid. 405 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 2: Come on. 406 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: Man then told her sister, who told me that I 407 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: had allegedly slept with Brandon and that's why they were divorcing. 408 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: Now she's throwing O P under the bus and making 409 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 1: Ope escape. The crabs, Man, crabs cives in a bucket. 410 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: I was like, Rightley, there's two kinds of crabs here. 411 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: There's crabs in a bucket and then there's crabs. 412 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 3: Talk about crabs and bucket, John, Okay, we talked about crabs. Yeah, 413 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 3: that's what I will be referring to, or the crabs 414 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 3: in the bucket. 415 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: Okay, there we go say in the bucket to the 416 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: to let me know, okay, okay, even ending it with 417 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 1: why would my mam a lie? 418 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I just had to. That was good. 419 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: Victoria also stated that I am a bad person. 420 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 2: What do you think for addits? 421 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 3: Is she a bad person? For Telen Brandon? Hey, kid 422 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 3: might not be yours? 423 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: I mean, so, like here's the thing too, so like 424 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: we what did we say? 425 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 1: Also out the story, it really seems like Victoria probably 426 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: had a very rough life, could have could have We're 427 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: assuming had a very rough life, a lot of traumas, 428 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 1: a lot of different things resulting in how you know, 429 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: how she's behaving today and whatnot. That can't excuse you, 430 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 1: you know, throwing people like going around and lying and 431 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: saying like oh no, you cheated with my husband, and 432 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: you know, throwing that person under the bus. Now, we can't, 433 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: we can't, we can't do that. So it was a 434 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: big question. The real question that OPI is asking is 435 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: are they the a hole for revealing this. 436 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 2: To the husband? What do we think? 437 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 3: No, there's there's too many kids involved, too many younger 438 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 3: lives involved. 439 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you got it, got yeah, think about the context, right, 440 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 1: Like you're pointing out, like op now, at this point, right, sorry, 441 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 1: the relationship is over. Yeah, right, So it's not like 442 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 1: OPI's going in like, hey, I'm destroying what is a 443 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 1: maybe very strange, potentially. 444 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 2: Terrible, but happy. No, this wasn't. This is the Victoria left. 445 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: Victoria was the one that left, right, and so Brandon 446 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: was left well, you know, holding the bag, and op 447 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: was like, you know what at this point, like and 448 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: and Victoria could have tried to get child support. 449 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, And look, ultimately the two people who 450 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 2: have the kids. 451 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 1: You you did that specific act, that result it is 452 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: what it is, you know. But the husband was not 453 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: the father, right, Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure they had 454 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 1: sex together, but like that didn't result in the kid 455 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: that was there, Daniel, it seems we presume is the 456 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: father of the kid. Right, So it is not Brandon's 457 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 1: respons responsibility if he doesn't want to take that responsibility. 458 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 1: So I think I think OPI did the right thing. 459 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: And like, you know, imagine paying child support for a 460 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: kid for eighteen years and then eighteen years eighteen years 461 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: you got your kid got eighteen years, like, so yeah, 462 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: like Opie didn't really destroy anything that wasn't already destroyed, 463 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 1: and potentially helped the husband a lot, yeah, right, by 464 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 1: at least having clarity that like, Okay, you know what, 465 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: this isn't my kid, I won't be paying for them 466 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: for eighteen years. Which also, like I kind of also 467 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: suspect that the husband is like is like kind of 468 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: a couch potato deadbeat and but is funded by his parents. 469 00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 1: So it's like not only would it be his money, 470 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,119 Speaker 1: but like taking money for his whole family, on and 471 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: on and on and on. 472 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:08,199 Speaker 2: So not the a whole, not the ahole, not the 473 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: a whole, not the ahle. 474 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean maybe listen, maybe y'all have y'all you know 475 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:14,719 Speaker 1: we love you all and you have your powers. 476 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 2: Crazy. This person's crazy. 477 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 1: Op man shedding, yeah, shedding light on this situation? 478 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: Can you shed light on this? 479 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 2: Okay? Time? Uh? I can? 480 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 1: I do want to hear? Oh yeah, I want to hear. 481 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: If you guys agree with us, is op the ahole 482 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: or not? You do your you know what to do? 483 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: Go in the comments. We love seeing it, we love 484 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 1: reading it. But Riley, yeah, we got an okay storytime? 485 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 1: Why jobs you? Oh yes, that's right. So, uh, Victoria 486 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: came in. Now let me let me preface this completely 487 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 1: different scenarios. Here's my scenarios, right. I I first worked 488 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: at or I worked a dunkin Donuts, and then I 489 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 1: got a babysitting gig. Dude eight dollars an hour, right, 490 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: no taxes out you you because you come from a 491 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 1: low any any state in the South, low minimum wage. 492 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: So I was already I was making like seven and 493 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: change at Dunckle Donuts with taxes takeout. I was making 494 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: a clean eight no government know nothing. And the first 495 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: day babysat twelve hours straight, bro, I made like one 496 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: hundred What is that? 497 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 3: I made sixty bucks? 498 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: Wait, I think it was thirteen I think it was 499 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: thirteen hours, thirteen hours times eight. 500 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: I think it was thirteen hours. I meane one hundred 501 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 2: four bucks. Oh, I says sixty. 502 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 3: I was so bad day you made one hundred bucks. 503 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 2: Let's go. I was balling, right, dude. 504 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 3: I've never met a person that sorry, all right, I've 505 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 3: never met anyone that's a guy in babysat. 506 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: That's a third day to this day, five star wating 507 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: with care do conbroo my babysat. 508 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: I was a babysitter. I literally that's an. 509 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 3: Honestly, if I had to pick, if I had to 510 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 3: pick who babysit my kids, I'd pick you. 511 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 2: Dude, Sam, I was the best. I was the best, dude. 512 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 2: I I was five stars. 513 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 1: I literally not not one blotch on my record, flawless record, wow, 514 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,360 Speaker 1: cleanest record in the game in the game. I dare 515 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 1: any nanny to come on with my record. You can't 516 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 1: even touch it. You don't even try. Don't even try. 517 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: But anyways, so then I called Duncan Donuts. I was like, hey, like, 518 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: I got another opportunity, I gotta leave, and he's like, 519 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: don't even bother coming in, just don't don't even do it. 520 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 2: And then that was it. That was it. 521 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: And then and then another time I had come back 522 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: home from California. I'd come back home in defeat no 523 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:35,479 Speaker 1: money again, and I was like, I'm going to go 524 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: to the local community college and I'm gonna work as 525 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,199 Speaker 1: a server at a fancy I'm going to find a 526 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: fancy restaurant and become a server there because that's where 527 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: you can make the most frickin' bread, most money. And 528 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: so I got this whole job. I had gone through 529 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: the whole training. They were like, we need someone who 530 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: can stay and I'm like, that's me. I'm your guy. 531 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: I decided to lock in. Then I got I was 532 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: in the like local entrepreneurship scene, and then someone just 533 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 1: out of the blue offered me like a marketing job, 534 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: and I was like, I have to take this. So 535 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 1: I tried calling them. They didn't answer. I just left 536 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 1: a voicemail and I was like, yeah, I can't do this. 537 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 2: In I a hole? Did I quit the wrong way? 538 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 3: You pursue your dreams shown that it's a doggy dog 539 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 3: world out there in the corporate world. 540 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: It's a doggie dog and bro, this was not corporate 541 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: at all. This was a restaurant and dunkin Donuts. So like, 542 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: are you dog world still? Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 543 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, is like they don't they don't. 544 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: Like they're literally paying me seven dollars in whatever an hour. 545 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: So it's like, dude, you don't get to dictate, you 546 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 547 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 2: So anyways, I just wanted to get your take. Let 548 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 2: me know your toe. Yeah, we can quit the jobs. 549 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: We can quit the job. We can quit the jobs. 550 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 2: You know where you. 551 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 3: Get more of these? I've stolen all of these. 552 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 2: His room. You guys want to come in Samsury with us, 553 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 2: I can bring it in. 554 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,959 Speaker 1: And find his caffeine mins or if you play cards right, 555 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 1: you can go to sam'son Dude, don't don't even tempt them. 556 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 1: Don't even tempt them because that will get them going. 557 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 1: So will get them going. That's a wrap. Well, if 558 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 1: you love us, make sure to subscribe, and we love 559 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 1: you and see you tomorrow. 560 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time 561 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 2: for okop Relam I got a. 562 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 4: Paternity test because my kid looks strangely familiar. 563 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 2: Hey, Bobby, it's kind of funny how you my best. 564 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 4: Friend at all, but also my kid. Look, I'm imagining 565 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 4: Bobby is Op's friend. Like, like, Bobby, you know, we've 566 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 4: been friends for a while, but something's real weird. 567 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 2: My kid over there, it kind of looks like you. 568 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: How strange is that? 569 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 1: What? 570 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 4: And I've been like, you know, like Bobby, you You 571 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 4: and my wife has been hanging out a lot. 572 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, sir, Yeah off her. 573 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 4: I thirty seven male, got a paternity test, and now 574 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 4: my wife might divorce me over it. Help Hell yeah, 575 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 4: My wife, thirty five female, and I, thirty seven male, 576 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 4: have been married for twelve years. We have three kids, 577 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 4: and I always had this nagging feeling that our middle 578 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 4: child wasn't mine. Our oldest and youngest looked just like me, 579 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 4: but that middle child does not yites. My wife has 580 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 4: shown me a picture of her grandfather, and he does 581 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 4: look a lot like him, but he just doesn't have 582 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 4: any of my family features. He looks so different than 583 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 4: anyone else in the family. I decided I wanted a 584 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 4: paternity test to put my mind at ease. 585 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: Once you're at that point, that's when that's that's when 586 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 2: it's bad. 587 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 4: My wife got pretty upset when I brought it up, 588 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 4: because cheating has always been a deal breaker for her. 589 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 4: But I just saw that as all the more reason 590 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 4: to get one done. 591 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 2: True. 592 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 4: I told her that if she had nothing to hide, 593 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 4: she'd have no problem getting one done. Come on, mommy, 594 00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 4: And so I test my son and it turns out 595 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 4: he's mine. I thought everything was fine, I had my 596 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 4: peace of mind. I was chilling. Oh, except she told 597 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 4: me she was going to take the kids to go 598 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 4: to her parents for a while. 599 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 2: Oh. 600 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 4: When I asked why, what could be going on? She 601 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 4: exploded and told me that she was seriously considering divorcing 602 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 4: me over this stunt. Oh, that she was furious with 603 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 4: me for doubting her loyalty to me, knowing how she 604 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 4: felt about cheating, and that she would never forgive me 605 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 4: for what I put our son through, making him question 606 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,959 Speaker 4: his place in the family. But it gets crazier, dude, 607 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 4: what I know, I know, and this man is screwing 608 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 4: up his whole life. 609 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I ope. 610 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 1: He should have just done some background research with public 611 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: data check to see if his worries were legit or not. 612 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, and like you can instantly look people up and 613 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 4: see their real name, like their date of birth, where 614 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 4: they're from. And he could have gone through everything in 615 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 4: the book to say, okay, like, you know, has she 616 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 4: been associating with any crazies totally or any or any 617 00:30:59,360 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 4: or any. 618 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 2: Mister what's a mister? What's the mistress version of is it? 619 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 4: Mister mistress? 620 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: Mistress is Yeah, if you have some family that you 621 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 1: want to look up or anyone for that matter, check 622 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: out VIRALINGK to child Public Data Check. 623 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 4: Or go to public data check dot com. But anyway, 624 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 4: we're going back to this guy that's epping up his 625 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 4: whole life. So I tried to get her to see 626 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 4: my side that I just wanted to be sure and 627 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 4: that she surely could see why I'd questioned why he 628 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 4: looks nothing like me. She told me, I'm just feeling 629 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 4: bad for this kid too. Yeah, yikes, the kids like 630 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 4: Doddy do love me. It's like, no, you look like shit. 631 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: You disgust meg me. 632 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 4: I only want my children to look like the spitting 633 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 4: image of me, the most important man in the universe. 634 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 4: I can't understand why my wife is not happy with me. 635 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 4: I don't know how this guy even got married in 636 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 4: the first place, and I had three kids. I tried 637 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 4: to get her to see my side, that I just 638 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 4: wanted to be sure and that surely she could see 639 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 4: why i'd question it when he looks nothing like me. 640 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 4: She told me she would never forgive me for this, 641 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,719 Speaker 4: and that I hope my foolish pride was worth the 642 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 4: cost of my family. 643 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, him saying like, uh, oh, you could totally understand. 644 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 1: Why not the thing to. 645 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 4: Say, she hasn't spoken to me since. I need advice 646 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 4: on how to get her to talk to me and 647 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 4: get her to see my side of the story, that 648 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 4: I that it wasn't some attack on her character like 649 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 4: she seems to think it was. 650 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 2: I don't want a divorce. 651 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 4: You shouldn't have gotten the paternity test, boyo. Yeah, No, 652 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 4: there's enough day, y'all. So it's been a couple months 653 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 4: now and I thought i'd update. My wife finally agreed 654 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 4: to sit down with me after a couple of weeks, 655 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 4: and as some of you said, she does not want 656 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 4: to stay with me. We talked and basically it boiled 657 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 4: down to she wants a divorce because I don't trust 658 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,239 Speaker 4: her and think so poorly of her character that I 659 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 4: thought she'd pass another man's child off his mind. 660 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: Well still be I mean, like, you. 661 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 4: Know, that's pretty rough, you know, like you know how 662 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 4: like we've read stories where a partner will go through 663 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 4: the phone it'd be like, yo, like are you texting 664 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 4: anyone else? 665 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? This is like that taken to like the degree. 666 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I gotta see this kid because I'm like, 667 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: you know how, like like the kid. 668 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 2: Do you do that? I mean, it has to be 669 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 2: just drastic. 670 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just imagining like the parents are white and 671 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 4: the kids something. He's like, this kid does not look 672 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 4: like yeah, like honey, shut up. See that would be 673 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 4: the only case otherwise, like kid, kids look weird. Sometimes 674 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 4: different babies are ugly. John hates babies. Newborns are ugly, 675 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 4: she said. She then said she'll never forgive me for 676 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 4: treating my son so importantly that he asked why. 677 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 2: I Yo. 678 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 4: I didn't realize I treated him so differently, but apparently 679 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 4: it was obvious. 680 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 2: Bayh yikes. 681 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 4: I tried to defend myself, but she asked what I 682 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,919 Speaker 4: meant then, because no matter how I tried to dress 683 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 4: it up, I accused her of cheating and treated her 684 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 4: son like trash because he wasn't my spitting image. 685 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 2: Dude, Opie sounds like a freaking dick bag. 686 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,360 Speaker 4: She then brought up she that she wondered if I 687 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 4: was projecting because only one of us had infidelity in 688 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:33,800 Speaker 4: their background and it wasn't her. All that stung because 689 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 4: while yes, I had cheated in two past relationships, I've 690 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 4: never cheated on her. Yes yet, yeah, I said that, 691 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 4: but she said she'd never cheated at all. But that 692 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 4: didn't stop me from accusing her of it, did it? 693 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 4: So now my kids won't talk to me, and my 694 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 4: wife wants to divorce me, all over a silly little 695 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 4: paternity test. 696 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,719 Speaker 1: Bro this wife, he came back guns Blaze. Help, but 697 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 1: there's another update. No, no, this is the title of 698 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 1: this one. Wife won't come with kids for Christmas. 699 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 2: Help. 700 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 4: My wife is divorcing me. If you need all the details, 701 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 4: you can check my profile. I guess, But the short 702 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 4: of it is, it's over getting me. It's over me 703 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,800 Speaker 4: getting a paternity test anyway. I want to spend Christmas together, 704 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 4: but my wife won't spend it with me. She said 705 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 4: she'd split the day so I can see two of 706 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 4: my kids, not the third one that doesn't look like 707 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 4: Kevin oh Man. I want her and the third child 708 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 4: to come too. She refuses to do this. I asked 709 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 4: my son if he wanted to come see me, and 710 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,800 Speaker 4: he said no, he'd stay with my wife. 711 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 1: Oh. 712 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 4: I said that she shouldn't continuously be punishing me for 713 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 4: getting a paternity test and that the kids deserve to 714 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 4: spend time with the full family unit. She said, our 715 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,919 Speaker 4: son deserves to spend time around someone who doesn't act 716 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 4: in a way that makes him feel like I hate him, yoints. 717 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 4: I tried to argue being a full family unit again 718 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 4: would be good for everyone. Babe, Let's just get back together. 719 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 4: Forget about thet forget about me hating on our third child. Like, 720 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 4: just open some presents. Jolly, it's Christmas after I just 721 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 4: gotta test, just gotta test, you know. 722 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 2: When you get mad at me for acing my s 723 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 2: A T S. Yeah? Uh no? How dare you guess 724 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 2: like me? 725 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 4: I said we could try to reconcile, since I still 726 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,919 Speaker 4: don't want a divorce, and I think she should give 727 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,919 Speaker 4: me another chance. Oh do you, buddy? She said no, 728 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,839 Speaker 4: and offer to split the day again and that was it. 729 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 4: How can I convince her to come spend the day 730 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 4: with me. 731 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 2: My man is the king of asking all the wrong questions. 732 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 4: Yo, he sounds like such a simp. I don't know why. 733 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 4: I just get major simp vibes. You get that, he 734 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 4: just gets like bad simps. 735 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of like a cartoon character or 736 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: something that like always like who's the guy that always 737 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 1: messes up? 738 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 2: You know? 739 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm thinking like ere like, yeah, he's like sad, but 740 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 1: he like no matter how hard he tries, like he 741 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: always does wrongs. 742 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: And Tom and Jerry True, I got tr True. 743 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,880 Speaker 4: But there's a comment where it's like he's like, how 744 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 4: can I get Vincent this to come and spend the 745 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 4: day with me? And here's the top comment that I 746 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 4: think explains what most people think. 747 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 2: How you can't you don't. 748 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 4: You don't seem to understand that what you did was 749 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 4: absolutely an assault on your wife's character, and a monumental 750 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,759 Speaker 4: one at that, and a pretty significant rejection of your 751 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 4: middle son, even though the test came out that in 752 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 4: fact he was yours. The thought was in your head 753 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 4: as if you didn't want to claim him without absolute proof, 754 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 4: proof you didn't require for your other two sons for 755 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,799 Speaker 4: some reason. I don't blame her for never forgiving you 756 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 4: for it. You had zero evidence of cheating. You were 757 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 4: just so ignorant of genetics you felt that not having 758 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 4: a matching trio of mini me's meant that one might 759 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 4: not be yours. She wants you to suffer for this, 760 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 4: and that's what you're going to do. You can have 761 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 4: Christmas with the two kids you never doubted, and without 762 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 4: the wife and the son you did. 763 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 2: My goodness. Yeah, but the socket continues. 764 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: Dude, No, no, I need advice on how to get 765 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,400 Speaker 1: my wife to talk to me. 766 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 2: No, please, My wife and I are. 767 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 4: My wife and I are divorcing against my will, which 768 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 4: sounds like in cel like involuntary c whatever over me 769 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,880 Speaker 4: getting a paternity test. She wouldn't spend Christmas with me 770 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 4: or make our middle child see me, though she did 771 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,760 Speaker 4: offer to send the other two sounds like a peace offering. 772 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 4: And she refused to have dinner with me on my 773 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 4: birthday despite me asking several times to do so. 774 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,800 Speaker 2: But several times we hang out with be my birthday. Pree. 775 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah it was kyd of like sorc worse. 776 00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, he looks so bad, bro, He's like does he 777 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 4: realize he's making himself look terrible. 778 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 1: Clearly he does not oh my every everything he every 779 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 1: time he opens his mouth, it just gets worse. 780 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 4: I just I'm just like damn, I can't believe he 781 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 4: was Mary. I finally got frustrated when she refused to 782 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,239 Speaker 4: see me this weekend and told her she needed to 783 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,760 Speaker 4: start working with me so we can work this out, 784 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,359 Speaker 4: and she needs to stop coddling our child and make 785 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,839 Speaker 4: him see me too. My wife refuses to work with 786 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 4: me at all, and she refuses to send my son, 787 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 4: who I, in her words, treated like shit, to see 788 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 4: me against his will. I really think if I could 789 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 4: just get her to see me, I could convince her 790 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 4: to talk this out with me. I don't want to 791 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 4: be the first person in my family to end up divorced. 792 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 2: That doesn't matter at all. 793 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, maybe it's a completely test bro God. My 794 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 4: mom says to give her space because she thinks I 795 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 4: messed up by doing what I did those shit and 796 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 4: any chance of reconciliation needs to be on her terms, 797 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 4: not mine. 798 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 2: Which is great advice. Mm hmm. 799 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 4: But my dad is actually mad at me because he 800 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,320 Speaker 4: thinks I act like a piece of crap and ruined 801 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:55,320 Speaker 4: my relationship and has taken my wife and child's side completely. 802 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 4: I don't want to let this keep festering, so I 803 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,799 Speaker 4: actually need good advice to get her to agree to 804 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 4: talk things out with me. 805 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 2: Oh man. 806 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: Just keeps I love, I love how like he keeps 807 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: clinging to this idea. 808 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, that he's going to get back together with this 809 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 4: They like the wife is like moved on all. 810 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 2: It's just sittered down. Yeah, it got me real hard 811 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 2: to my birthday. Please, it's like me, happy birthday right now? 812 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 2: You best at do it? 813 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, this guy, this guy is a I feel bad 814 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 4: for him in a lot of ways. 815 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 2: He seems like totally clueless. Yeah, he just done. He's 816 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:34,800 Speaker 2: just so ignorant. 817 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, just like, how do you not realize that getting 818 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 4: a paternity test is like a huge dude, It's just 819 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 4: it's such a huge sign of of your distrust of 820 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 4: your partner. Yeah, Like like they're like, you have to 821 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 4: have trust in every relation. I don't know what what 822 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 4: would you guys do if your partner got a paternity 823 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 4: test or at it? And what's the male equivalent or 824 00:40:56,600 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 4: the female I think it's both ways, right, I guess, 825 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 4: But like if you if you're getting a paternity test 826 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 4: as a girl, then you were the one who was 827 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 4: probably unfaithful, right, Yes, but they're both paternity tests. Yeah, 828 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,400 Speaker 4: but it's like, but I feel like it's not like that. 829 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 4: I guess like it because like then the cheating would 830 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,320 Speaker 4: be definitely from her. It's like, it's like a paternity 831 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 4: test only shows cheating in one direction. 832 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, exactly. 833 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 4: So it's like I'm like, is there like a paternity 834 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 4: test equivalent for men where it's like one direction of 835 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,319 Speaker 4: cheating I don't know will be the same thing, right, 836 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,280 Speaker 4: Like getting a patternity test would be getting the paternity 837 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 4: test of someone you think he cheated with and getting 838 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,399 Speaker 4: their paternity test and then anyway doesn't matter. 839 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 2: This guy's life is ft. Yes it is.