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Speaker 1: Let's play a game with Elvis dran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Are you likable?

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Speaker 2: I think?

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Speaker 1: Are you likable?

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Speaker 2: I think it depends who you ask? Honestly?

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Speaker 3: Are we?

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Speaker 1: Are we likable people? I mean it's easy for us

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Speaker 1: to say we're likable? Scary, Yes, we are likable. We're lovable.

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Speaker 1: Are you likable? Straightening? Oh? Extremely kidding me? Okay, there

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Speaker 1: you go? What about you, producer Sam? Are you a

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Speaker 1: likable person?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm either likable or it's a day

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Speaker 2: where everyone will hate me.

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Speaker 4: I swing real hard one way or the other.

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Speaker 1: So we were stumbling around online, h gandhi me. We

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Speaker 1: found this list the seven social micro habits that demolish

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Speaker 1: your likability? Dare we lock into this? I'm afraid? Do

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Speaker 1: we have music for this? Scary? Yes, there's gotta be

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Speaker 1: an Are you likable?

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Speaker 5: Bed? Of course?

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Speaker 1: But think about it? Are you a likable person? Of

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Speaker 1: course you're gonna say yes. Who's gonna say no? I'm

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Speaker 1: not very likable?

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Speaker 4: You never know? Somebody head?

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Speaker 1: I mean sometimes I know I'm not. All right. It's

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Speaker 1: now time for are you liking?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you likable? Where'd you get this? Is it from?

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Speaker 4: Where?

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure which one you're looking at. One is

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Speaker 2: from Medium and one is from Forbes.

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Speaker 1: Which one do you like better? One?

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Speaker 2: I think Forbes one is actually better. Let me go

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Speaker 2: to that one because I think that might make all

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Speaker 2: of us think.

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Speaker 6: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, okay, nine things? Oh my god, it used

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Speaker 1: to be seven things. Now this one's nine things. I

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Speaker 1: love all these articles coming up to prove that we're

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Speaker 1: all unlikable. Yeah, okay from Forbes. Number one, humble bragging. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk about it.

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Speaker 2: So it's stuff like, you know, oh, I'm so skinny,

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Speaker 2: these pants are just falling off me. I can't take it.

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Speaker 4: It's so hard.

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Speaker 1: That makes you unlikable?

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, you know the humble brag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's terrible. God, you know what, We're trying to

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Speaker 1: go to the Cape this weekend to play touch football

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Speaker 1: with the Kennedy's and uh, that's stupid, Cessna. I can't

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Speaker 5: So hard I find a big enough place to park

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Speaker 5: our yacht, so we're not going to be able to

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Speaker 5: do That makes you unlikable.

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Speaker 1: Humble bragging Number two being too serious.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I mean, especially if you are one of those people

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Speaker 2: who makes fun of other people and you joke around

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Speaker 2: and then the joke comes back to you and you

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Speaker 2: can't take it.

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Speaker 1: That's the and people who just don't laugh or don't

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Speaker 1: enjoy things just too serious.

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Speaker 2: I had a friend once tell me I just don't

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Speaker 2: understand how people don't enjoy laughing. But I guess there's

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Speaker 2: you know, a whole bunch out there.

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Speaker 1: Uh. Not asking enough questions makes you unlikable, So that

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Speaker 1: guess that means you know all the answers, so you

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Speaker 2: You spend a lot of time talking about yourself.

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Speaker 1: Right, is there one someone I think I want to here?

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Speaker 1: Is so far pretty likable? Okay, yeah, it's good except

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Speaker 1: for Nate a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Well, Nate does do the humble rag. It's so hard

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Speaker 4: being this hot, ripping through my sleep.

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Speaker 1: You do that on my appearance, not my accomplish. Emotional

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Speaker 1: hijackings makes you unlikable, right.

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Speaker 2: So, emotional hijacking is if there's a situation that might

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Speaker 2: not be very likable to you and you immediately lose

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Speaker 2: your cool. You start crying, you start screaming, you're throwing things,

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Speaker 1: I think I'll take that one. That's me.

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Speaker 4: You're an emotional hijacking.

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Speaker 2: I'm an emotional I have seen you throw a microwave.

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Speaker 1: Oh, another thing makes you unlikable, Danielle. Whipping out your.

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Speaker 6: Phone, Danielle, let me whip that out.

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Speaker 1: You had already pre whipped before I read that. That

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Speaker 1: one I did. Yeah, whipping out your phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think sometimes we're all a little guilty of Ye.

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Speaker 1: Like the other day I was having a dinner with

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Speaker 2: You have scary over here who if you're ever eating

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Speaker 4: The phone eats first, and he has to take pictures.

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Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah, I've never experienced this. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, I don't want you to put a fork

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Speaker 3: in anything, because it's going to ruin the aesthetics of

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Speaker 1: You're not taking pictures of my food? Yes, no, that's no,

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Speaker 1: that's mine. You line all the dishes up in the

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Speaker 1: what year in your life are you gonna do something

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Speaker 1: with all these photos of lasagna? I mean, what are

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Speaker 3: No that I post it and I document what the

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Speaker 3: dish was, and people like, oh that looks good.

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Speaker 4: He gets free food, is what he does.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't know.

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Speaker 3: He never results in free ever.

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Speaker 1: Have you guy seen him do this?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely? But sometimes I get free food because he he's buying.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, if you start reaching with a fork,

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Speaker 1: I never, Oh god, scary. Very unlikable. Another thing that

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Speaker 1: makes you unlikable name dropping.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we know these people.

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Speaker 1: Well, we all know people, so sometimes, you know, I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes we might be those people, not even intentionally,

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Speaker 1: but if you're talking to people about what your day

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Speaker 2: Or you know, there's a relatable story someone's saying, like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, you know I love Enrique Glicias. I'm

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Speaker 1: But it's not like you drop his name all the time.

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Speaker 1: But a friend of mine was like, oh, I just

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Speaker 1: bought they Knew whatever truck. I said, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: my friend Charlie Poos just bought one of those, and

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Speaker 1: as who's coming out of my mouth? I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: I just call him charge.

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Speaker 2: I think if we dropped the last names.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Another thing that makes you unlikable gossiping. I gotta come

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Speaker 1: back on that one. I love it when someone goes, hey,

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Speaker 1: I don't find that unlikable, unlikable.

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Speaker 2: I love hearing the gossip, but whenever somebody is gossiping

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Speaker 2: to me, it makes me take a step back and think, hmm,

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Speaker 2: I wonder if the things I told you are going

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Speaker 2: to other people?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, absolutely no. My friends who gossip, I

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Speaker 1: do not tell them top secrets. Guaranteed. If you're you're

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Speaker 1: getting information from a gossiper, anything you say to that

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Speaker 1: gossipers gossip true exactly. So gossiping can be unlikable trait

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Speaker 1: for some The next one having a closed mind.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I refuse to accept that one.

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Speaker 1: You know that. It kind of drives me nuts when

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Speaker 1: you go to dinner with someone and you offer them

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Speaker 1: I like that. I'm like, well, have you ever had it? No?

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Speaker 4: And I don't want it. You in my mind and

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Speaker 1: If you've never had it, you know you don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I just do. Okay. Maybe you can be closed minded

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Speaker 1: about many things in addition to food. But if someone's

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Speaker 1: with another way of looking at something, come on, it's

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Speaker 2: Even just the way you pitch it. It could be different,

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Speaker 2: all do, don't get me wrong, maybe could just be like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm allergic that's my thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm allergic to fish.

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Speaker 1: But you're not.

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Speaker 2: Everything from the sea, Daniel.

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Speaker 1: You're not allergic to it, though. It's a different thing.

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Speaker 4: Breakout knives.

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Speaker 1: Unlikable if you share too much too early. Yes, hey,

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Speaker 1: how many times have you seen those self help memes

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Speaker 1: that roll by? And a lot of them are stop

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Speaker 4: Our friends Charlie Pooth.

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Speaker 6: He has a song out about that, saying, Charlie, be quiet,

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Speaker 6: like that, he gives you too much information, tells you

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Speaker 4: You know, our friend Charlie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Charlie poo Yeah. Scariest that he wants to

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Speaker 5: What do you want?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what you'd call it, but if

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Speaker 3: you're announcing that you did something great or whatever it is,

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Speaker 3: and then somebody jumps in to play top that and

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Speaker 1: I love to play top that. They up your experience

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Speaker 1: and don't that's for me.

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Speaker 4: I'm sitting here telling something.

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Speaker 3: Then you jump in like and you just kind of

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Speaker 1: I hate that. Yeah, well, I live. I live for that.

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Speaker 3: You do not.

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Speaker 1: I do see a lot of times and I and

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Speaker 1: I'm guilty of this. I'm sure some of us are.

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Speaker 1: If someone says, oh my God, we had the best

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Speaker 1: meal last night at this restaurant. Blah blah blah. You

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Speaker 1: thinking I'm sounding really Oh my god, we had a

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Speaker 6: I feel like I do that too, because I think,

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Speaker 6: oh my god, that's maybe you don't mean it that way,

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Speaker 6: but sometimes I think it might come across that way,

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Speaker 6: but you may.

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Speaker 5: I think that's relatable.

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Speaker 1: That's not one now, Nate.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure Nate's had this medical one upping somebody. You know,

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Speaker 5: I had a stroke. Oh, I had three.

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Speaker 4: That's what I don't want to one up.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like you're allowed to want

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Speaker 1: I have cancer.

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Speaker 2: Right, But if you had a tumor in your ankle

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Speaker 1: Cancer, that's how I can like one up cancer, Okay,

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Speaker 3: You should never be minimalized, raised by whatever the next

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Speaker 1: Well, I know, but if someone has cancer, I will

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Speaker 2: Wait, so Nate, we know Danielle has bad migraines. Yeah

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Speaker 4: Do you in your head things?

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Speaker 1: Shut up? Daniel I had two strokes, I will say, cancer,

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Speaker 1: But that doesn't less like rubbing your face in it.

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Speaker 5: It's also the equivalent of you know, there's people who

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Speaker 4: Do a lot.

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Speaker 2: You'll be telling him something and he just looks at

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Speaker 2: He wants you to have a peg leg because saying

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Speaker 1: This ties back to remember when you had the you

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Speaker 4: Don't get the correlation.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Annie, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. So you say this conversation we're having where

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Speaker 6: What on a Monday morning?

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Speaker 2: This is so rough on my drive into work.

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Speaker 1: So halfway to work, you left the house feeling good.

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Speaker 1: Now you're about to get to work. Now you feel unlikable?

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Speaker 2: I'm a teacher.

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Speaker 6: I'm a fifth grade teacher, and I feel like I

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Speaker 6: oh you have a bad day.

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Speaker 4: You have to hear with twenty one of my kids.

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to you.

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Speaker 5: I'm not trying to want you. You're not You're not

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Speaker 6: You're right, thank you, And I'm listening to this and

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Speaker 6: I'm going, yeah, I do this, and then I heard

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Speaker 2: That that is emotionally hijacking our conversation.

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Speaker 6: What you did everything on the list.

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Speaker 1: I was having a great day. To you emotionally hijacked

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Speaker 1: our conversation, and I have a beautiful day. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for being a teacher. We love you, Thank you, love

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Speaker 1: you too. Sorry trigger. Oh well, uh so in closing, uh,

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Speaker 1: don't be a jerk.

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Speaker 4: Mildly unlikable like all my friends.

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Speaker 1: The Jonahs brothers usually tell me stop being a jerk.