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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second d d Remember do you want a

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Speaker 1: second date update? All you have to do is email

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Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.

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Speaker 1: Got Mandy on the phone with us right now. She

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Speaker 1: emailed us about a date that she went on. In

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Speaker 1: your email, it said you met a guy at a

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Speaker 1: pool party drank the night away. Sounds fun, Mandy, Why

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Speaker 1: wasn't I invited? Oh? Next time, you promise? Oh okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to ask if she promised if I

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Speaker 1: could go to the party. How are you, Mandy? I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, well sort of. I've got to give props

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Speaker 1: to any woman who can pick up on a dude

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Speaker 1: in a bikini and feel confident enough doing it. Also,

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Speaker 1: in Seattle, where it's twelve degrees outside, it's been nicely.

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Speaker 1: How did you start talking with this guy at the party? Well?

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Speaker 1: I had to go out to him because he was gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: He had the most beautiful eyes and it's cue but

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Speaker 1: and I just had to say, Hi, I can't result

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Speaker 1: in love with this personnelity. You guys rip on dudes

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Speaker 1: all the time, but women are just as bad. So

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Speaker 1: you went up and talked to him. His name is Jason, right, yes,

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Speaker 1: and he was just as nice. It was cute, you know,

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Speaker 1: he really was actually really cool. I just felt like

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Speaker 1: I knew him for forever. I mean, it wasn't like

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Speaker 1: was a connection for sure. Now, when people call in

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Speaker 1: with dates like this, where they meet someone at a

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Speaker 1: party and they drink all night, you do realize it

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Speaker 1: wasn't like a real date, right, Well, he did ask

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Speaker 1: me out. We did. Yeah, while we're at a party,

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Speaker 1: he asked me to meet him at a bar that

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Speaker 1: was around the corner from where we were. Oh, so

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Speaker 1: did you go from the party to the bar to

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Speaker 1: hang out with him? Yes? Oh, okay, that kind of cast.

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Speaker 1: So how drunk were you by the way, Well, I

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Speaker 1: was definitely buzzed and feeling good. What happened when you

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Speaker 1: guys went to the bar? Did the conversation continue? Did

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Speaker 1: you kiss? What happened? Well? I actually we kissed in

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Speaker 1: the pool. He knew of it. He was a good kissers. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, we I mean we got to the bar

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Speaker 1: and we just have more fun. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 1: remember every single detail that we talked about, but you know,

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Speaker 1: I suggested, you know, maybe we got back to my

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Speaker 1: place and we hopped in a cab, and we did

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Speaker 1: because it's human night was so young. So again, this

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Speaker 1: But did you do it when you got back to

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Speaker 1: your place? That's the thing I told him, I do

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Speaker 1: not do that on the first date. So not to

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Speaker 1: expect it, not to anticipate it, don't even think about it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you said that before you guys left. Yes, I did.

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Speaker 1: I made that very clear. But did you do it?

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Speaker 1: Because because a lot of women will say that and

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Speaker 1: then it'll still it up like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: can't believe I did that the only time? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: of sort of okay, just sort of yeah it happened, yeah,

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Speaker 1: kind of kind of being like kind of pregnant. You know,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't really work. So so you ended up hooking up.

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Speaker 1: It's fine. And then what happened the next day, Um,

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Speaker 1: I didn't really care from him. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's because he doesn't reflect me because I've put out

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Speaker 1: on the first date, or if this is embarrassing my

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Speaker 1: friends as told me that I snore. So that's why

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Speaker 1: I need you guys. He didn't leave you a note

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Speaker 1: or any indication of seeing you now, nothing. But what

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Speaker 1: would you think if you're at a pool, some girl

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Speaker 1: Would it be the snoring that turns in No, i'd

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Speaker 1: be in love, I'd be thinking marriage. No, But I

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Speaker 1: mean I would think it was awesome. So have you

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Speaker 1: tried to get a hold of him? Well, I thought

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Speaker 1: about Colleen and I hung up. I didn't go through

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Speaker 1: you hung up? No? Okay, No, I just want to

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Speaker 1: I know that sounds so cliche, but I felt really

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Speaker 1: thanks Brook in jubil in the morning, second d Brook

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Speaker 1: keeps saying that what Mandy has wasn't a first date.

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Speaker 1: It was Brooke. It's an instant date. That's what it's

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Speaker 1: called when you do what Mandy did. I have had

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Speaker 1: a lot of one night instant dates, then instant date

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Speaker 1: if you were listening. Just a few minutes ago, we

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Speaker 1: talked to Mandy, who emailed us about a guy named Jason.

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Speaker 1: Mandy met him at a pool party. They made out

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Speaker 1: she did something she doesn't normally do, right, Mandy, that's track. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: nobody's judging you, Mandy, just own it. She hasn't heard

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Speaker 1: from the guy since. What's the worst thing that he

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Speaker 1: could say? Do you think? Um? Do you think from

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Speaker 1: the complete what and I snore? Which one would be worse? Yeah? Like,

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Speaker 1: well actually the slat thing whatever? Just don't make fun

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Speaker 1: of my snoring, please? Yeah, all right, Mandy, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call him right now. Okay, okay, Oh Mandy, Hello guy,

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Speaker 1: I speak to Jason. Please, that's me Jason. How are

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Speaker 1: you man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Uh okay,

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Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. How are you? I'm good? How

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Speaker 1: are you good? Um? You got a few minutes? Uh

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Speaker 1: what what do you want? I want to call you

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Speaker 1: to talk about a friend of ours. Okay, her name

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Speaker 1: is Mandy. Okay, you know what I'm talking about. I

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Speaker 1: that you guys had a little hookup, met at a

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Speaker 1: her back, like she kind of wants to see you again.

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Speaker 1: Oh what did she tell you? That's pretty much it.

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Speaker 1: She said that you guys had had a bit to

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Speaker 1: drink at this pool party, you made out in the pool,

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Speaker 1: and then went to a bar, and then she did

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Speaker 1: something she normally doesn't do with you. All right, Not

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Speaker 1: every dude gets the golden ticket on the first night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty much. But why haven't you called her or anything?

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason? She also said that she snored.

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Speaker 1: Did she snore in that kind of like turn you off? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she did snore. I didn't sleep. But that night, why

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Speaker 1: She was pretty nutty. She was really drunk too. We

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Speaker 1: you said she was nutty? What do you mean by that? Exactly?

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Speaker 1: Like we hooked up, you know, and afterwards she started

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Speaker 1: crying right there in bed with you. Yeah, like falling. She's,

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Speaker 1: gross and excuse me. I don't completely remember everything from

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Speaker 1: that night, but I didn't go on and on like

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Speaker 1: he's saying, Jason, Mandy is on the phone with us

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Speaker 1: right now. She should have told you that. I'm sorry. Hello, Hello, huh, Mandy?

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Speaker 1: Do you remember crying after and talking about your ex.

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Speaker 1: Not really, I know. It wasn't as that as he's saying.

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Speaker 1: It was you were really crying and we had just met.

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Speaker 1: You know, I could see how that would be a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a shock. Flattered, huld be flattered? Flattered?

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Speaker 1: Why should he be flattered? Because I felt comfortable enough

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Speaker 1: with you to open up and share my interviewing, you

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Speaker 1: might not want to do that right after. At one

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Speaker 1: point she was she was like, curled up in the

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Speaker 1: fetal position. I know, you're just making stuff up. That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I know I didn't already that you should do it

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Speaker 1: you guys said, He's said, that's a very good point. Though,

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like a turn on. It's sexy talking

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Speaker 1: them later, yeah, later, it's just weird. Yeah, you guys, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: you came across as like this really confident woman at

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Speaker 1: the beginning of this call. Was that maybe not truly

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Speaker 1: where you are. I mean, I listen, we've been drinking

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Speaker 1: a lot. You know that affects you, That makes you

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Speaker 1: a little more emotional. Are you over your ex boyfriend? Well?

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Speaker 1: He's my exes I am see personally, I think it's

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Speaker 1: okay to cry after you do it. I usually do that,

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Speaker 1: and it's usually following me crying and saying thank you,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Not many people do this for me,

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Speaker 1: So I don't think you should find it so awkward, Jason,

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Speaker 1: I don't if you're making me sound crazy and I'm

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Speaker 1: not crazy. I I was maybe a little emotional. You

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Speaker 1: were drunk, Mandy. Sometimes, Mandy, you were drunk, like honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't judge you one bit for that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I made him feeling how trouble, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't my intention at all. Maybe you know I

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Speaker 1: But I did like him. I do like him, and

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Speaker 1: you know that it's not my normal behavior. Jason. Would

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Speaker 1: you be interested in going out with Mandy again? We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for you guys to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: You're paid for it. Yes, she would real nice and

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Speaker 1: I don't mean seething bad or better. But I don't

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Speaker 1: think so just scared you too much. Huh. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was weird. Well, you know it's clearly your last chaper

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Speaker 1: so whatever, Hey, Mandy, if you're looking for someone to

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Speaker 1: we can both have a good cry together after I

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Speaker 1: laughed because I don't think he's lying in the morning,

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Speaker 1: same bad, but it feels just a little bit bigger

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Speaker 1: now