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Speaker 1: Here it is Drawberry Letter. Subject I found his ring

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Speaker 1: in his sock. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married too

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Speaker 1: long to be dealing with the cheating husband at my age.

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Speaker 1: I'm in my mid fifties and I've been married for

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Speaker 1: eighteen years. My husband is almost sixty years old, and

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Speaker 1: I think he's up to no good because I've found

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Speaker 1: his ring wrapped up in a sock and stuffed in

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Speaker 1: his work boot. Let me give you all of the backstory.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have two homes that we used

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Speaker 1: to live in before where we bought our dream home.

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Speaker 1: I am the property manager of the houses and my

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Speaker 1: husband does the minor repairs. One Saturday, about two weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: my husband said he would be at one of our

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Speaker 1: houses pressure washing the sighting and carport. He left the

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Speaker 1: house dressed like he was going to do heavy labor,

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Speaker 1: and I went to the movies with my nieces. When

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Speaker 1: I got home, he was on the couch asleep in

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Speaker 1: a robe. His clothes were thrown all over the room,

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Speaker 1: so I picked them up, took his wallet and his

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Speaker 1: inhaler out of the pockets and put them in the hamper.

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Speaker 1: The next day we had it out to church and

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Speaker 1: he didn't have his wedding band on. I asked about it,

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Speaker 1: and he said it must have fallen off the day

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Speaker 1: before as he was using the pressure washer. He said

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Speaker 1: it would get he would get it later when he

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Speaker 1: went to pick up the pressure washer. He left for

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Speaker 1: about three hours and he came home saying he couldn't

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Speaker 1: find his ring. I already had found the ring when

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Speaker 1: I decided to wash clothes while he was gone. I

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Speaker 1: was gathering his socks and underwear from everywhere, and that's

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Speaker 1: how I found his wedding band. How it got there

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Speaker 1: is still a mystery, and he's playing dumb. I think

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Speaker 1: he lied about where he was, and he took his

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Speaker 1: ring off and forgot he put it in his sock.

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Speaker 1: How else would it get in his shoe? Is my

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Speaker 1: husband a cheater or what? Well? Come on, yeah, come on,

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Speaker 1: get your lives together, Get your lives together, get your

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Speaker 1: get your lives together. I'm counting on as gonna be. Please,

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Speaker 1: don't worry. I want to let you down, baby, I

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Speaker 1: won't let you down. Nope. Uh, this doesn't look good

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Speaker 1: for your hobby at all. It does not taking your

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Speaker 1: uh huh, taking your ring off, wrapping it up in

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Speaker 1: a sock, then stuffing it in your boot. That was

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Speaker 1: very intentional. It just was he was trying to hide

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Speaker 1: the evidence that he was married, not to let whoever

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Speaker 1: he was with see that ring. And he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to lose the ring. Of course, he didn't want to

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Speaker 1: lose it because he knew he had to come back

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Speaker 1: home to you. The problem is, like you said, he forgot. See,

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Speaker 1: he forgot that he hid the ring in his sock

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Speaker 1: and in his shoe, and he couldn't think of a

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Speaker 1: good lie fast enough to throw you off that he

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Speaker 1: was cheating. Okay, he couldn't throw you off. He didn't.

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Speaker 1: He couldn't think of anything quick enough, so you busted him,

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Speaker 1: and that's why he's playing dumb. Now, Okay, that's why

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Speaker 1: he told you to lie about. He must have left

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Speaker 1: it somewhere. He didn't really know where it was. He

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Speaker 1: was as confused as ever. You definitely asked the right

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Speaker 1: question and the answer looks like lying and cheating on

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Speaker 1: his part. Absolutely, you were right, Steve. Well, am I surprised,

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Speaker 1: not at all at all. Well, well, I have a

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Speaker 1: twist to this because c is some things in this

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Speaker 1: letter that I found to be a little bit telling Shirley. Okay, Steve,

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Speaker 1: my husband almost sixty years old. I think he's up

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Speaker 1: to no good keywords, think, no proof, no evidence, no nothing.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna throw away eighteen years because you found

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Speaker 1: his ring in a sock. Well, let's talk about that

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Speaker 1: stuffed in his boot. Don't forget that stuffed in his

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Speaker 1: boot for his safe keeping. Right, Well, doll got some houses,

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Speaker 1: property houses. You the property manager. He doesn't minor work

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Speaker 1: on it. Two weeks ago said he was gonna go

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Speaker 1: to one of the the house and do some pressure washing

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Speaker 1: of the siding and the cardboard. So when he left

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Speaker 1: do heavy duty labor. You went somewhere else, you came home,

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Speaker 1: he was on the couch asleep in a robe, clothes

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Speaker 1: thrown all over the room. Now, pressure washing is hard

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Speaker 1: working and you're gonna be tired. How pressure washed a

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Speaker 1: lot of stuff driveways at the pressure wash out driveway

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Speaker 1: because we didn't have a pressure wash out. I had

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Speaker 1: to use my thumb on top of that hole make

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Speaker 1: the word to come out. Yeah, I know what you're

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Speaker 1: talking about. Huh yeah. Until one day we got a

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Speaker 1: pressure washing and I was so skinny I cut the

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Speaker 1: pressure wash on. It didn't knock my ass up against

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Speaker 1: the wall. So yeah, I know about pressure washing, but

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Speaker 1: it is hard work. And your man was tied. So

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Speaker 1: he came home and he took his clothes off because

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Speaker 1: they're nasty, and he was in the robes on the

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Speaker 1: couch sleep So so no problem. Now the problem was

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Speaker 1: you hook out his wallet and his in halo, So

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Speaker 1: now we got some more things. He had his wallet

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Speaker 1: and he left the house with his in halo breathe.

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Speaker 1: If you want to know if he was cheating, you

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Speaker 1: should have checked that in halo to see if he

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Speaker 1: was out of gash, because when you are now putting

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Speaker 1: in that work you think he putting in, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to go to your pump several times. No oh, no,

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Speaker 1: see you was checking for the wrong ever din everdence

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Speaker 1: was in that empty ass in Halo. But if he

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Speaker 1: still had gassing in Halo, whatever he was doing wasn't

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Speaker 1: worth a damn. I got more when we come back.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve, Part two of your responses

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes apter today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Subject I found his ring in his sock. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is I found his ring in

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Speaker 1: his sock. Yeah, well, so what it? Eighteen years of man?

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Speaker 1: She ready to throw it out the window, and Shirley's

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Speaker 1: here to help her. Because the sixty year old man

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Speaker 1: was doing labor on one of the houses that they owned,

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Speaker 1: power washing the side of the house and the car poord.

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Speaker 1: He left the house dressed in heavy duty work clothes.

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Speaker 1: When she came home, he was asleep on the couch

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Speaker 1: in a robe and clothes strode all over the plate.

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Speaker 1: Pressure washing is hard work. We agreed with that. That's

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Speaker 1: why the man was at the house sleep. She picked up,

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Speaker 1: took his wallet and in halo out of his pockets

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Speaker 1: and put him in a hamper. Now, let's think about this.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to tell you why she's suspicious. But the

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Speaker 1: real way to find out, if you was a real,

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Speaker 1: real investigative reporter and forensic science like most women are,

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Speaker 1: you would have checked his in halo. If he was

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Speaker 1: out screwed around, the in halo would have been out

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Speaker 1: of gas. But you did not check the in halo.

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Speaker 1: The next morning, y'all head out the church. Y'all a

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Speaker 1: good couple. So he head out the church and he

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Speaker 1: didn't have his wedding band on. I asked about it,

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Speaker 1: and he said it must have fallen off the day

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Speaker 1: before as he was using the pressure washing. Yes, when

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Speaker 1: he was pressure washing, the pressure washer blew the ring

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Speaker 1: off his hand. Pressure washing can do that. Pressure washing

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Speaker 1: can do that, Shirley, you ain't never pressure washing. You

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Speaker 1: don't have And so that this one would have been

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Speaker 1: all right, But I tell you where he blew it.

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Speaker 1: He didn't use that one, he said. And then when y'all.

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Speaker 1: He said he would go get it later, when to

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Speaker 1: when he went to pick up the pressure washing. He

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Speaker 1: couldn't find this ring. He telling the truth. He didn't

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Speaker 1: find it. I already had found the ring when I

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Speaker 1: decided to wash the clothes while he was gone. I

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Speaker 1: was gathering his socks and underwear from everywhere, And that's

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Speaker 1: how I found his wedding band. How it got there

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Speaker 1: is still a mystery, and he's playing dumb. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: so you're saying, so I think he lied about where

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Speaker 1: he was and he took his ring off and forgot

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Speaker 1: he put it in his sock. How else could it

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Speaker 1: get in his shoe? It's my husband a cheetah all.

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Speaker 1: What see, lady here the part let me help him

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Speaker 1: on some things about us. First of all, he should

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Speaker 1: have said the pressure washer blew his ring off. He

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Speaker 1: ain't used that one. But that's good he didn't use

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Speaker 1: that because he didn't know. When you was at the house,

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Speaker 1: in his shoe. But now listen to this, though he

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Speaker 1: didn't know where the ring was. That don't mean he

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Speaker 1: hot and bothered from all that pressure washing, he took

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Speaker 1: and it fell in his sock. Don't let me down,

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Speaker 1: Steve Ry. I took my ring off to take a shower,

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Speaker 1: and I was holding it and I was fitting to

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Speaker 1: roll up my socks, and I must have dropped it

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Speaker 1: in the sock. That's where my damn ring is. It's

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Speaker 1: in my socks, Thank you, baby. It dropped in his sock.

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Speaker 1: How did it drop inside of his work boot? Because

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Speaker 1: when men take their socks off, they oftentimes put it

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Speaker 1: in their shoe. Hello, yes, hello Tommy. Have you not

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Speaker 1: him off? I definitely have put them right back to

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Speaker 1: do it all the damn time, Junior, Have you ever

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Speaker 1: did it? Yes, sir, Hello, it's a guy thing. So

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna throw out eighteen years of marriage because

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Speaker 1: you have no evidence of cheating or whatsoever. You just

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Speaker 1: have everdence that he took his wedding ring off. And

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Speaker 1: he didn't know where it was. And the reason he

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Speaker 1: didn't know where it was because when he took it

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Speaker 1: off to take the shower, it dropped in the shoe.

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Speaker 1: He thinking, man, did it come off while I was

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Speaker 1: pressure washing? You said it dropped in the sock? At

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Speaker 1: first it dropped in the sock, and he puts a

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Speaker 1: sock in the shoe. So was the son perfectly standing

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Speaker 1: up in the boot. I'm trying. I'm trying to understand

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Speaker 1: the position of the sock. When you take your ring

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Speaker 1: you can drop your wedding ring in that sock. I thought, dresser,

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Speaker 1: No what nobody said nothing about no dressing. You're nothing

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Speaker 1: Know your lies now, Yeah, I never said nothing about

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Speaker 1: no dresser. So what what's wrong with that girl? Damn?

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Speaker 1: And you found it? Thank you? What that guy do

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Speaker 1: with cheating? Leave? Leave your comments on today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: I'll be dripping eighteen years down the drain. You got

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Speaker 1: no ain't no limpstick, ain't no phone number, ain't no

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Speaker 1: calling them rappers, Ain't that man shot. You can't just

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Speaker 1: break these people. Family. We're gonna stop man. Man. It's

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Speaker 1: ring D dropped in the sock and the arm, Steve,

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Speaker 1: that's where you got any other proof that I was cheating?

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Speaker 1: Any coming coming up next, Sports Talk with Junior. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show