WEBVTT - HIGHLIGHT- Dating a Mama's Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Billie Eilish there one or two point seven kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys in the mood to sing right now? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you in the mood to play game game

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<v Speaker 1>or or or or or are you in the mood

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<v Speaker 1>to give relationship advice? Oh? Okay, how are we okay?

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<v Speaker 1>You picked Morris Well? I was seeing it all up, Cassie, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>I s Cassie, we're here for relationship advice or we

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<v Speaker 1>can sing for you. I wasn't in the mood for

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<v Speaker 1>a game, okay, because you never know what you're gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>So your boyfriend is too much of a mama's boy

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<v Speaker 1>and that's causing a problem in your relationship. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to know more. Yes, yes, So we've been together for

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<v Speaker 1>a year and he's such a great guy, like I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly think he could be the one. But he's way

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<v Speaker 1>too much of my mama's play. He's plenty eight years

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<v Speaker 1>old and he still lives with her, which is fine, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's no judgment, but you need to explain more. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to understand why. So it's just she just has

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<v Speaker 1>control over him. For example, he still has a curfew

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<v Speaker 1>um and has to be home by ten but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it is like I just feel like I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>a teenager um, and we have to have like all

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<v Speaker 1>the doors open. If I go over and hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll like come and constantly check on how old I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I've changed my opinion three times now. It could be culture.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he a different culture? No, he's not, um, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>and again I'm biased. Every woman should want a mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree the ten o'clock curfews might be a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 1>That then I was like, except for that much of

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<v Speaker 1>one I know. And he's an account and so he

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<v Speaker 1>could totally afford to move out on his own, which

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<v Speaker 1>I always tell him, like, why don't you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Just's saving because he's an accountant and he sees all

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<v Speaker 1>the dollars and exactly and she I think he uses

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<v Speaker 1>that like the money over his head. But why does

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<v Speaker 1>it he like rent a room every other stay with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think his mom lets him guys, And we

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<v Speaker 1>even went I went away with his family and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to share a room and a bed with his grandmother.

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<v Speaker 1>A room and a bed with his grandmother. Yeah, instead

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<v Speaker 1>of him pushing too hard, she blew it okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>vacation and not being able to sleep in the same room.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand Michael and I could not sleep in the

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<v Speaker 1>same grandmother. Look, Michael and I could never sleep in

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<v Speaker 1>the same room until we were I think married, and

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<v Speaker 1>even when we were engaged. But no, Michael's parents didn't care.

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<v Speaker 1>It was my side of the family that cared. When

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<v Speaker 1>they would get to the house, my dad was the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing he would say is like, Michael, I have

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<v Speaker 1>your room in the bonus room. And it was like

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<v Speaker 1>the nasty pull out couch that's just uncomfortable, And that's

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<v Speaker 1>where Michael slept for every time. Yeah, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's these things that make everybody married too young

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's what happens when you get divorced because

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<v Speaker 1>you got married too young because you couldn't sleep in

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<v Speaker 1>the same room. And Cassie, have you addressed this with

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<v Speaker 1>him to say, I love you and you're great, and

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship with your mother is of great value, But

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it a little too much? It's certainly like imposing

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit on our freedom. Yeah. No, I've talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him about it, but he still hasn't like changed

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<v Speaker 1>anything or even talked to his mom, so that he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to make a choice. M hmm. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wanting about. I just think you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>say it. Look bro and choose your own words. But

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest with you. This is now impacting

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<v Speaker 1>us and us in not a way that's productive. So

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<v Speaker 1>we need to make a choice here. How are we

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<v Speaker 1>going to live our lives together or not? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have your own place? I do? Yeah? And does he

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<v Speaker 1>come and spend time with you at your place? Often?

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<v Speaker 1>He does, but like I said, he usually leaves by ken.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to turn it up. You need to wear

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<v Speaker 1>the launderie. You need to really know. But he needs

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<v Speaker 1>to make him not want to leave. Look what you're missing.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he'll talk to his mom. Yeah. If he leaves

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<v Speaker 1>after that, then well that's what I'm saying. He closed. Well, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you I think you know. You kind of

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<v Speaker 1>have to say, look, be clear, this is a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Either it's got to get better or this is not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work out. That's the net net net net net

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<v Speaker 1>mm hmm. I'm bummed because I love a mama's boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Do too, because I want my son to be a

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<v Speaker 1>mama's boy. But I won't be this intense. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I mean, look my mom, wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>my mom? Like eventually she just gave up. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you want to hang that long, all right, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck with this. Oh Willow, what is Willow playing?

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<v Speaker 1>She's playing the Novo Halloween Night, competing against Harry Ween.

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<v Speaker 1>Tickets her next