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Speaker 1: you toned in it with this one again on the

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Speaker 1: sheet this morning. The first thing I see is that

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Speaker 1: you're annoyed when you go to I want to know

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Speaker 1: how this came up, But you're annoyed when you go

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Speaker 1: to a restaurant and what happened?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like it when I go to restaurants

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Speaker 3: ask them what's good here?

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Speaker 1: Or like what do you like? What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: I love you deeply, but like what what is wrong

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Speaker 1: with you? Like? What is the problem with asking people

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Speaker 1: who work at the place what they're known for? Or

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Speaker 1: what's the best thing? You? No like knocking off? Just

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Speaker 1: like what do you want to eat?

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Speaker 3: Because I can recommend like beef to you, Kaylin, and

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Speaker 3: you're gonna look at me and be like, okay, but

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Speaker 3: I don't eat beef.

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Speaker 2: But I tell the server like here's what I'm into,

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Speaker 2: Like what are your highlights on the menu?

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Speaker 1: What do you work there? That's true? What do you like?

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Speaker 3: A taste for anything very specific? And I'm over here

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Speaker 3: telling you like about you.

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Speaker 1: If I have a taste for something very specific, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna order that thing. But if I don't know that,

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Speaker 1: I want. Then I might ask the person and I

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Speaker 1: tell me stuff and none of that really sounds good

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Speaker 1: to me, so I don't order any of it, and

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Speaker 1: I usually joke about it, like all right, well thanks

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Speaker 1: for that, but I'm ordering this instead, ha ha whatever.

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Speaker 1: But like, what, what is? What is the problem these

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Speaker 1: people see all day? Lord, they've eaten most of the

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Speaker 1: food there, Yes, damn, you have to assume. And if

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Speaker 1: they're lying to you, then they're liars. But whatever that,

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Speaker 1: they can deal with that, you know, the next time

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Speaker 1: the rapture comes around, they can deal with that. But

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Speaker 1: what is I do that all the time. I'll be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I go to a pleasure never gone, and I'll be like,

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Speaker 1: what what what do you like on the menu? What's good?

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Speaker 3: I am you so annoyed if I was your waitress

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Speaker 3: and you asked me that, because I'd be like, yes,

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Speaker 3: because you are.

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Speaker 1: You also annoyed? If you're the waitress and I ask

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Speaker 1: to you as well?

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Speaker 3: That is universal. We all need to live, like we

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Speaker 3: needed to drink your water. I'm more concerned.

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Speaker 1: About if you don't like scallops.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to give you a presentation about it

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Speaker 3: and like, waste your time, And like you said, what

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Speaker 3: if I turn around and go, actually, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: try the other thing that I thought of first.

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Speaker 1: Your reputation, they're not.

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Speaker 2: Still paying customer and everything's okay.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. I do it all the time.

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Speaker 1: Even worse.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll give them two options and ask them to

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Speaker 2: choose for me. Now, how triggered would you be for that?

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Speaker 3: I like that because I'm not putting a lot of

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Speaker 3: work into that. You're like, hey, what's a better the

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Speaker 3: beef barley or the whatever? Write the other soup? Put

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Speaker 3: a tomato basil. Then I'll say, I like tomato basil.

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Speaker 1: But see, my taste buds are very different other people's right, we're.

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Speaker 2: When I'm going into the question, so I take that

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Speaker 2: into conscracy than you.

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't ask that question, but other people who have

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Speaker 1: a less particular taste could very easily ask that question.

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Speaker 1: And then you might say that the best thing on

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Speaker 1: the menu is something that I wasn't even looking at

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Speaker 1: or wouldn't normally order. But if it's like no, no, this

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Speaker 1: is what we're known for. You know, then I might

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Speaker 1: try it because you suggest it. I also might not

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Speaker 1: because he's not a contract because I didn't agree to

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Speaker 1: a contract with the waitress. We didn't sign anything. Okay,

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Speaker 1: yes with her, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I am the person. I will do this probably in

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Speaker 4: the so let me just be honest there. I do

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Speaker 4: this all the time. But you know I hate a

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Speaker 4: skit at dinner, like, let's get this over with. You know,

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Speaker 4: I looked at the menu before we got here. You

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Speaker 4: looked at the menu before we got here.

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't we know what we want, so I

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Speaker 1: didn't be just done. I didn't look at them guessing

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Speaker 1: on what you want. Yes, I am. I went to

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Speaker 1: the restaurant. I looked at it at you for the

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Speaker 1: first time, and I'm going to I'm going to assess

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Speaker 1: my mood at the time because what I want right

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Speaker 1: now might be different than what I want at six

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Speaker 1: you that you don't do that.

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Speaker 4: About myself the waits or waiter You're like, bro, I

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Speaker 4: don't want to do this, Like I don't want to

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Speaker 4: play this game.

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Speaker 1: With you, but this is there a different I know

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Speaker 1: you don't like the presentation. Yes, like the meat presentation.

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Speaker 1: You don't like that, Like when we go to a

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Speaker 1: steakhouse or something with the suits and then they come

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Speaker 1: out and they show you like, you know, the whole

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Speaker 1: you know the cat. I know you don't like that. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't don't need that. Fine, But that's different. I

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Speaker 1: think that's very different than me going like, well, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, what's no.

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Speaker 4: But I feel Paulina on the waitress side, Like if

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Speaker 4: I'm the waiter, bro, I have seven other tables I

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Speaker 4: gotta work on. I don't have time to play this

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Speaker 4: game with you. What do you want off this menu?

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Speaker 4: You want to ask me all these questions?

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Speaker 1: What do I think? You don't care what I for?

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Speaker 1: They work in the service industry, like they work there,

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Speaker 1: they're ambassadors of the police.

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Speaker 3: But if I recommend this whole like lamb, you know

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Speaker 3: whatever port chops to you and you get something completely different,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to.

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Speaker 1: Be so bothered. You are bothered. I ask you what's

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Speaker 1: the best thing is and if it's not, if it's

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Speaker 1: not what I want, then I'm not going to order

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Speaker 1: an end of story, we move on. But maybe you'll

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Speaker 1: inspire me to order something no.

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Speaker 5: Time.

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Speaker 4: What Okay, stop the Shenanigans. Pick something off this paper.

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Speaker 4: I just gave you a paper with seven options.

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Speaker 1: Pick one.

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Speaker 2: Some of us go out to dinner to like relax

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Speaker 2: and enjoy, have a glass of wine, like enjoy your company.

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Speaker 2: You want to get something you like, You want to

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Speaker 2: chat like why why are we going.

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Speaker 1: Out to the there with such anger?

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Speaker 5: People make?

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Speaker 1: And then like sometimes if I'm choosing between two things,

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, what about these? And then sometimes if

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Speaker 1: the person like is really nice and honest, that the

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Speaker 1: server will be like, yeah, I definitely would go with

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Speaker 1: the other thing because they've had it and they don't

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Speaker 1: like the thing, right book. I mean, if you're an

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Speaker 1: honest server, not everything on the on every menu is

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Speaker 1: going to be like you know, Michelin Star. Not everything

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Speaker 1: is the best thing. You know, there are things that

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Speaker 1: are better. Hey, a lot of people like this, right okay? Good? Well,

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Speaker 1: then I might order that because if you sell a

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Speaker 1: lot of them, then they must be pretty good. I mean,

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Speaker 1: but how would I would I know that I don't

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Speaker 1: get their P and L. They don't little POS system

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Speaker 1: doesn't print out for me and send to my email

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Speaker 1: before I arrive, you know the most popular things at

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Speaker 1: the restaurant. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've been betrayed by waiters and waitresses because they gave

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Speaker 3: me what their recommendation is and I like it, so

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Speaker 3: like that's why I don't.

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Speaker 1: Like, why are we doing this for trusting them? Is

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Speaker 1: you already know what you're wanting room? So I don't

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Speaker 1: want to give my trust to Mike.

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Speaker 3: You do that, but other people, Okay, what I'm waitressing

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Speaker 3: on the weekend, I won't do it, No.

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like, you don't ask someone who knows

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Speaker 2: what you want. You don't ask the waiter. But like

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Speaker 2: other people might not know wild.

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Speaker 1: For this, Like why would I not ask the person

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Speaker 1: who's there all the time if I'm not sure about something,

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Speaker 1: the waitress, I ask the questions. All they do all

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Speaker 1: day is right and then and then you also have

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Speaker 1: to again you have to assume they've tried a lot

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Speaker 1: of this stuff. And some people will be like, I

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Speaker 1: have never heard that. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: On the flip side, I love when the win a

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Speaker 2: waiter will be like, don't get that.

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Speaker 1: That's not good. That's what they do. That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: just that's what I just said, Yeah, exactly the same thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like, well, these you think, oh no, not that yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or when they don't pick the most expensive thing, like

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Speaker 2: they're honest about sparkling.

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Speaker 4: I don't have to I ask the questions. I'm the waitress. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: is not a fun restaurant?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with these people? Like? What is wrong? I

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Speaker 1: guess I'm supposed to go to the restaurant. I'm supposed

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Speaker 3: You're also doing video content, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And out right. This is what I'm talking about. So apparently, Bridget,

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Speaker 1: as opposed to what you ordered. Yes, I'll have the

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Speaker 1: fish tacos with chicken. It's like, well, okay, but it's

433
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Speaker 1: a totally different preparation. Oh yeah, well then I want

434
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Speaker 1: the chicken talco. Ah damn.

435
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Speaker 4: Now that that is a real thing, Like in places

436
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Speaker 4: like raisin canes, it's so hard, like you can't get

437
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Speaker 4: fancy there, and that bothers me because I want to say,

438
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Speaker 4: give me extra this and no salt or this, Like

439
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Speaker 4: I want to make some type of modification. But it's

440
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Speaker 4: like it's either chicken strips or not. Like you're gonna

441
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Speaker 4: have the strips or you're not. There's no other way

442
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Speaker 4: to mix this up.

443
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Speaker 1: It's just like, yeah, look, if you don't want mayo,

444
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Speaker 1: if you don't want like, if there's a single ingredient

445
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Speaker 1: that you don't like, I don't like onion. A lot

446
00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:21,960
Speaker 1: of people don't like onions. I'll eat them, but a

447
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:23,640
Speaker 1: lot of people don't like onions. A lot of people

448
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Speaker 1: don't like mayo. A lot of people, you know, they

449
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Speaker 1: can't eat cheese or whatever. So it's like, hey, or

450
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Speaker 1: if it's an allergy, that's different. But then again, if

451
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Speaker 1: if you have an allergy, then you know, when you're

452
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Speaker 1: ordering that item, maybe that's not the item for you know,

453
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Speaker 1: all I'm saying is just wright down the rules because

454
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Speaker 1: it's a lot going on. Yeah, there was another one.

455
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Speaker 1: I don't like, Oh oh, when people are like obsessed

456
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Speaker 1: with where the food was was sourced. No, that's a

457
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Speaker 1: new one. Now, Look, if you if you're going if

458
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Speaker 1: you have a serious dietary restriction, right, you really are

459
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Speaker 1: very concerned about this out or the other thing. And

460
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Speaker 1: I think that's something where maybe you'd like jump online

461
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Speaker 1: or you know, like if you're worried about seed oils

462
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Speaker 1: or something like that, like health related. But it's like, yes,

463
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Speaker 1: where is this cod sourced from? I don't know, the

464
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Speaker 1: back of a truck because you're in Chili's and it

465
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Speaker 1: was deep fried or my favorite of the people who

466
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Speaker 1: are so persnickety about well I don't eat meat or

467
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Speaker 1: I don't do this, or I don't do that, and

468
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Speaker 1: then they'll they'll just snarf down if that's the word,

469
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Speaker 1: some potbellies chili that shits meat, meat on meat on meat,

470
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Speaker 1: just ground beef all in it. You know. My thing

471
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Speaker 1: is like, but I thought we just did a whole

472
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Speaker 1: hour about how you can't eat meat, but then you

473
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Speaker 1: eat it, then you'll then you eat it right and

474
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Speaker 1: fo like you know what I mean. Like sometimes I

475
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Speaker 1: just think I think these kind of activities can be

476
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Speaker 1: attention seeking sometimes where it's like, oh, I couldn't possibly

477
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Speaker 1: eat that it has meat in it. The next day

478
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Speaker 1: that you talk about going to McDonald's having a big mac, yeah,

479
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Speaker 1: or you know, oh I don't, I don't. I only

480
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Speaker 1: eat some I only eat organic this and that, and

481
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Speaker 1: then you know, but but you'll eat a taco bell

482
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Speaker 1: double deckerd taco from the White two came in you, Oh, well,

483
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Speaker 1: that's certainly not organic. It's delicious and you should eat it.

484
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Speaker 1: You should eat it, but it's but why do we

485
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Speaker 1: just have this whole debate about how oh my gosh,

486
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Speaker 1: I my body can tell the difference between you know,

487
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Speaker 1: a farm raised and wild caught. Who are you eating?

488
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Speaker 1: We all know people who they make a big scene

489
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Speaker 1: out of things, but then it turns out they don't

490
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Speaker 1: really they don't really have to do that. Mark your

491
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Speaker 1: wife does this, does the ingredients thing?

492
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Speaker 10: Yeah, she does it every time we go on we

493
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Speaker 10: go out and she's like, no, I don't want no

494
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Speaker 10: true time.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's it just the c I mean, if she

496
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Speaker 1: doesn't want crew times, I'm not offended by oh oh yeah,

497
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Speaker 1: I think you cut out so she'll order the salad

498
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Speaker 1: without any salad.

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Speaker 10: Exactly and with fork and.

500
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Speaker 1: Yeah right, And we could have saved ourself a lot

501
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Speaker 1: of time if you just said, give me a bowl

502
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Speaker 1: and a fork exactly.

503
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Speaker 10: The album going this time the weekend and she was like,

504
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Speaker 10: I don't want those long green things. I was like,

505
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Speaker 10: oh my gosh, you're being peppers. And she's like, I

506
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Speaker 10: don't want the black things. And then I don't want

507
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Speaker 10: fish and I don't want that, and I was just like,

508
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Speaker 10: oh my gosh, she's like, no cheese. I was like, oh,

509
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Speaker 10: I couldn't get I could get home.

510
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Speaker 1: I mean I could have said we could have brought

511
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Speaker 1: you a head of lettuce and then said a lot

512
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Speaker 1: of money and time. We don't even have to be here, right, Yeah, thanks,

513
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Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Man. What you called Christina?

514
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Speaker 1: You do the sourcings thing? I you know what.

515
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Speaker 7: So I'm the type of person I would totally admit

516
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Speaker 7: like mao or pickles or cheese because I don't like

517
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Speaker 7: like creamy, creamy things very much. But if I go

518
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Speaker 7: to a restaurant or something like that and they've got

519
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Speaker 7: fish on the menu. Like my husband and I we

520
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Speaker 7: were at a restaurant this weekend and I was like,

521
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Speaker 7: you know, where is the salmon source?

522
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Speaker 5: Is it caught or is it firmed? And she and

523
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Speaker 5: she's like, let me go check. And she went and

524
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Speaker 5: checked and she said it is wild caught, and it's

525
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Speaker 5: like it has a different flavor and taste and it's

526
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Speaker 5: just it's it's not the same. And I wouldn't have

527
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Speaker 5: ordered it. I wouldn't have ordered salmon if it happened.

528
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Look, I get it's fitched fifty bucks on the

529
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Speaker 1: menu or whatever. So you want what you want. But

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Speaker 1: I guess what I'm saying is were you at you know,

531
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Speaker 1: were you at Applebee's or were you at you know La?

532
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like I mean, because like

533
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Speaker 1: let's let's let's meet our expectations, Like let's meet the

534
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Speaker 1: restaurant where they are, you know, Like if I'm at Portillo's,

535
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Speaker 1: I'm not you know, is this angus beef? I don't know,

536
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Speaker 1: I have no id. No it's not. It's off the

537
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Speaker 1: back of a drug. It was frozen, you know. So

538
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Speaker 1: I mean I don't want you to not get what

539
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Speaker 1: you want. I just think sometimes it's like, Okay, here

540
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Speaker 1: we go, is this organic lettuce? But is it organic

541
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Speaker 1: hydro planic? Was it was it? Where's the greenhouse located?

542
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Speaker 1: What kind of soil do you think was it? It's like,

543
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. It's

544
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Speaker 1: let it's lettuce, Steve. Why are you here? Christina? I

545
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: love you, have a good day. I love you.

546
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Speaker 7: But can I one thing?

547
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Speaker 1: Of course you can.

548
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Speaker 10: Awesome.

549
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Speaker 7: So the thing is so like this was definitely like

550
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Speaker 7: it wasn't like a one like, it wasn't an Applebee's

551
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Speaker 7: or McDonald's or something like this. This was like a

552
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Speaker 7: local business on the outer banks. So you'd assume that, yes,

553
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Speaker 7: they have fresh seasons.

554
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Speaker 1: I think that's fair though, Like here we are, we're

555
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Speaker 1: near water, Like did you get what I'm eating out

556
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Speaker 1: of that water or some other kind of water or

557
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 1: no water at all? Like was it grown in space

558
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Speaker 1: or something like? I think I think that's fair. That's

559
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Speaker 1: a fair question to ask. But again, like if we're

560
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Speaker 1: in you know, Kansas City, and you're asking me where

561
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Speaker 1: the where the tuna came from? And and if it's

562
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Speaker 1: been frozen, and how many times? And and you know

563
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Speaker 1: what what was the fish's name? You know, and like

564
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Speaker 1: was it nice? Was it was? You know, did you

565
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Speaker 1: talk to it nice before you killed it? You know,

566
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Speaker 1: like I don't know. They can have any questions you want.

567
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Speaker 1: You can ask everything. Thank you, Christina, to have a

568
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Speaker 1: good day. Thanks Againting, I mean and now and now

569
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Speaker 1: we all sound like pricks, but no, no, I.

570
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Speaker 4: Need to look up the menu. You want to know

571
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 4: where the fish came from. Get on Google, you know,

572
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 4: on TikTok uh. Yeah, I just are you guys some fun?

573
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Speaker 4: I think, you know, let's read the room, guys.

574
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Speaker 1: A sixty nine year old truck driver identified as a

575
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Speaker 1: gun in Perry he ended up stabbing former NFL quarterback

576
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Speaker 1: Mark Sanchez. He sued Sanchez and Fox Corporation in civil court.

577
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Speaker 1: I think they're both still in the hospital, so they

578
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Speaker 1: didn't waste any time in this. In the lawsuit, he

579
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Speaker 1: claims that Sanchez instigated an altercation while appearing intoxicated. He

580
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Speaker 1: says he suffered significant injuries to his head, jawn, neck,

581
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Speaker 1: and was left permanently disfigured. He's seeking compensatory impunitive damages,

582
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Speaker 1: money for what he lost, and extra to penalize Sanchez,

583
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Speaker 1: plus legal costs. And I know he's I mentioned this,

584
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Speaker 1: He's doing Sanchez himself, and Fox I did mention that. Yeah.

585
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Speaker 1: Travelers across the US are feeling the effects of the

586
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Speaker 1: government shutdown as a shortage of air traffic controllers causes

587
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Speaker 1: delays at major airports. Controllers are considered as workers, so

588
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Speaker 1: they have to work during the shutdown, but they're not

589
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Speaker 1: being paid. Consequently, more controllers are calling out sick. One

590
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Speaker 1: of the most severe disruptions happened yesterday at California's Burbank Airport,

591
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Speaker 1: where the control tower was shut down completely in the

592
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Speaker 1: middle of the day, resulting in hours long delays. The

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Speaker 1: towers at Burbank, Phoenix, and Denver all had staffing triggers,

594
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Speaker 1: which were reported in the public FAA Operations plan on

595
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Speaker 1: The facilities that handle air traffic around airports in Newark,

596
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Speaker 1: New Jersey, Jacksonville, Florida, Chicago, and DC. Also Indianapolis were

597
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Speaker 1: also short staffed. So think about that the controllers are

598
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Speaker 1: many of them are working still and yet they're not

599
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Speaker 1: being paid or don't know when they're going to get

600
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Speaker 1: paid until the shutdown's over, so and these guys are

601
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Speaker 1: the backbone of all the business and personal travel that

602
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Speaker 1: you're doing. So we're grateful to all of them. The

603
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Speaker 1: oldest operating casino in Las Vegas, the l Cortes Hotel

604
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Speaker 1: and Casino, has launched a Halloween season contest. They're going

605
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Speaker 1: to pay five grand to one lucky person willing to

606
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: spend a weekend exploring its most haunted areas. Oh my goodness,

607
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: I was just there. I didn't realize it was so

608
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: haunted At the El Cortes Old Vegas five thousand dollars.

609
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: The winner will use ghost hunting tools like EMF meters

610
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: and thermal sensors to investigate reported paranormal activity in places

611
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: like the casino floor and creepy hallways. The contest runs

612
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Speaker 1: through October, with the ghost hunt scheduled for early December.

613
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Speaker 1: Applicants must document evidence of their findings, and rumors even

614
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Speaker 1: suggest the basement holds the remains of former employees, adding

615
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Speaker 1: to the eerie atmosphere. Wow, would you do this? Do

616
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Speaker 1: you mess with this stuff?

617
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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 1: There's the Congress Hotel in Chicago on Michigan Avenue, which

619
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Speaker 1: is notoriously haunted, and I guess you can stay in

620
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Speaker 1: rooms where people have been killed, or ghosts still linger

621
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Speaker 1: or whatever. I mean, are we messing with this stuff?

622
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Speaker 1: I think a lot of it is probably meant, probably

623
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Speaker 1: all mental. We're being real, Like I don't know that

624
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 1: ghosts are like really like you know, I matter, don't

625
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: poking you when you sleep, and like, hey, if I'm

626
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: a ghost, I'm busy. Like I'm a ghost now, like

627
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Speaker 1: I can float around and I can look at way

628
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: more exciting stuff than you sleep in your hairnet or whatever,

629
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Speaker 1: Like I could be doing all kinds of cool stuff.

630
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Speaker 1: I'm dead, So why am I messing with you? You know?

631
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Speaker 1: But will you do it? Like if I said, hey,

632
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Speaker 1: I'll give you, you know, X amount of dollars to

633
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Speaker 1: stay in a hotel room where somebody was murdered for

634
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,479
Speaker 1: the night, would you do it? Well, I'm not like

635
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: sleeping there, I don't know.

636
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Speaker 2: We toured an old like mental health hospital in northern

637
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 2: Michigan and there were absolutely like a door slammed behind me.

638
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: I felt stuff.

639
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 2: My grandpa saw someone waving in a window and there

640
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 2: was no one there.

641
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: Like it's real. I still contend though, that if I

642
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: tell you this place is really haunted and it's the

643
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Speaker 1: middle of the night, and it's very scary. It's haunted.

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Speaker 1: Your your your brain is your condition. Now you're going

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Speaker 1: or you know whatever.

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Speaker 2: Well, I grew up in a house that was haunted,

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Speaker 2: and no one told me that, like until the ghost

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Speaker 2: mess with me.

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Speaker 3: It shows Fred, you'd never go to grown up with

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Speaker 3: the ghost.

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Speaker 1: They're real to share our space. Well, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know that. I haven't grown up with a ghost.

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Speaker 1: No one's messed with me. No, No, I haven't seen it.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen the ghost I have Okay, it's creepy, okay.

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Speaker 1: And there's no possibility that there's no possibility that you

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Speaker 1: made that up in your head. No I was a child.

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Speaker 1: No possibility that you that you just sort of created that.

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Speaker 3: My mom is just like me, and when we believe,

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Speaker 3: we stick together. She's had priests in my house, in

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Speaker 3: my new house, every house, every we went like always

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Speaker 3: blessing it because I we don't mess with that.

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Speaker 1: Because I do believe in spirits and reincarnation. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of things I believe in but I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't necessarily think that they're coming back to mess with us.

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Speaker 1: I don't. That doesn't make any sense to me. Like

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Speaker 1: if I die, I'm in heaven now, I don't got

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Speaker 1: time for you.

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Speaker 2: I don't think happy ghosts are messing with us. But

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Speaker 2: I think if something tragic happened, sometimes, well I.

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Speaker 1: Would hope they're in a better place if something tragic happens.

673
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Speaker 1: But anyway, young people, teens and folks in their twenties

674
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Speaker 1: are are falling in love with old tech again. So

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Speaker 1: now young people they want flip phones, digital cameras like

676
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Speaker 1: physical cameras and CDs. Why because many feel overwhelmed by

677
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Speaker 1: smartphones in constant screen time. They want simple devices that

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Speaker 1: don't invent their attention. Retro or dumb devices often come

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Speaker 1: with just the basics calls, text, maybe a camera, no

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Speaker 1: NonStop aps to social medium. So it's not a nostalgic

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Speaker 1: trip necessarily, it's reaction to feeling controlled by tech, trying

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Speaker 1: to take back agency over attention and focus. I would

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Speaker 1: love to try that to run here, I'm not even

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Speaker 1: sure if my brain could allow it anymore. To the

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Speaker 1: final point there about how we're all being controlled by

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Speaker 1: tech and the expectations. Because if I went to the

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Speaker 1: people here and say, hey, guys, guess what, I'm getting

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Speaker 1: a flip phone and there's no email on that thing,

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Speaker 1: so sorry. But if you email me and ask me

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Speaker 1: for something at three pm, sorry, not gonna be able

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Speaker 1: to get to it. I don't have it on my

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Speaker 1: phone anymore. Oh and by the way, if you text me,

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Speaker 1: I probably won't respond because I may not get it.

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Speaker 1: But it'll also take me four hours to write a

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Speaker 1: sentence because I have to push the same button three

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Speaker 1: times to get the letter that I want. So sorry, guys.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you hit me between business hours, I'll

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Speaker 1: be happy to get to it. But I'm overwhelmed by tech,

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Speaker 1: so I'm not going to do any of that. How

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Speaker 1: would that go over? Really? I guess you people getting

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Speaker 1: fired for this because the expectation is that you're reachable

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Speaker 1: everywhere and you can do anything anywhere you go. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you have the Internet, you have an app, you have

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Speaker 1: an iPad, you have a laptop, so I can you know,

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Speaker 1: Oh you can handle that right now, can't you. Yeah?

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Speaker 1: My favorite of the people who need stuff right now.

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Speaker 1: I had this happen last weekend there's a person who's

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Speaker 1: notorious for constantly needing what they need right this second,

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Speaker 1: no matter when it is. And then I asked a

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Speaker 1: question and it was respectfully, you can contact me during

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Speaker 1: business hours. Oh can I?

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Speaker 10: WHOA?

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Speaker 1: Oh can I? Oh that some can you? And scene

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Speaker 1: and also this is the last story is for you.

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Speaker 1: I have two, I have two and then we're moving

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Speaker 1: on from from headlines. This is for you. Kikip TikTok

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Speaker 1: may play a role in why some women are sexually

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Speaker 1: attracted to criminals. Huh yeah. Researchers analyzed dozens of TikTok

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Speaker 1: videos and comments that romanticized offenders, clips where users joked, flirted,

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Speaker 1: or said they could fix criminals. They found recurring themes

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Speaker 1: like glorifying their looks, imagining themselves as victims, or confusing

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Speaker 1: actors who play criminals with the real thing. They then

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Speaker 1: serve a ninety five young women who use TikTok and

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Speaker 1: those who actively liked or watched this kind of content

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Speaker 1: score to hire on a new scale, which is a

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Speaker 1: term for attraction to criminals hybrisk to philia. I hope

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Speaker 1: I said that right personality traits like manipulativeness and lack

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Speaker 1: of remorse were also linked to this attraction. The study

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Speaker 1: is small, but suggest that TikTok doesn't just reflect these fantasies,

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Speaker 1: it may help fuel them. Oh wow, there's a whole

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Speaker 1: culture on the internet about this, about inmates that have

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Speaker 1: dating profiles on a website. You can send them money,

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Speaker 1: you can connect with them. Would you ever have any

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Speaker 1: interest in a criminal a convict? No, not current, but

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Speaker 1: criminals need love to Yeah. Do you ever? Are you

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Speaker 1: on that side of TikTok where you see videos made

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Speaker 1: by people in prison?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 1: I were jail. What's before? I was there?

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Speaker 4: And I was very curious on how they got the

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Speaker 4: devices and then much.

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Speaker 1: Better WiFi than I do. How's that possible? Yeah? Try?

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Speaker 1: Someone is lighting? Where'd you get the lighting?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You have a Botchi grills. Sometimes I feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's very wild in there. It's like, man, you got

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Speaker 1: a full setup in there.

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 1: They stream a lot. Where where'd you get the little

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Speaker 1: pel mic from?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? And Arby's, because you know I love

753
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Speaker 1: a food story. Arby's has rolled out what it says

754
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Speaker 1: is the first of its kind product. It's steak nuggets.

755
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Speaker 1: I'm good. Does this hit the same way a chicken

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Speaker 1: nugget does. In a news release, the company described the

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Speaker 1: offering as a premium protein product and a whole new

758
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Speaker 1: way to nugget. The nuggets, which were offered a select

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Speaker 1: locations earlier this year, will be available across the country

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Speaker 1: for a limited time starting Monday. RB says the juicy, handcut,

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Speaker 1: bite sized pieces of steak will be offered in servings

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Speaker 1: of five or nine pieces with hickory barbecue sauce for

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Speaker 1: dipping sandwiches or on top of mac and cheese in

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Speaker 1: the steak nugget bowl. Now, I know you don't eat meat.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't eat cows, Caitlin, But like you know,

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Speaker 1: they're trying to develop a new category here. So we

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Speaker 1: all we all have this look on our face like eh,

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Speaker 1: but is it because we don't want it or because

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Speaker 1: it's just new, it's a new concept, Like, well, we've

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Speaker 1: never tried that before, never tried to steak nugget before.

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Speaker 2: You know, if you guys want to eat a steak nugget,

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Speaker 2: I'm happy for you.

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Speaker 1: I just I doesn't hit the same way for me,

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Speaker 1: because you know, the chicken nuggets have the breading on it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think these are bread, and I think these

776
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Speaker 1: are just chunks of meat, so I think you'd have

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Speaker 1: to have a fork. So the finger food, you know,

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Speaker 1: component is lost. Yeah, no, not for your It's national

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Speaker 1: entertainer reports on The Fresh Show, Robin.

782
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Speaker 2: Williams daughter Zelda is slamming people for using AI to

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Speaker 2: bring her dad back in videos. She called the clips gross,

784
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Speaker 2: said they disrespect who he really was. Even worse, Zelda

785
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Speaker 2: says that fans keep sending her these AI videos of

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Speaker 2: her late dad, which is understandably very upsetting. She compared

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Speaker 2: the fake videos to overprocessed hot.

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Speaker 1: Dogs, something that looks like him but just isn't real.

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Speaker 2: She's spoken out before about how wrong it is to

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Speaker 2: digitally recreate actors who can't give permission, including her dad,

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Speaker 2: and I one hundred percent agree. Just days after she

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Speaker 2: said their divorce was the best thing that ever happened

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Speaker 2: Kiss of the Spider Woman premiere in New York, even

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Speaker 2: had to be there.

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Speaker 1: But on the red carpet they did greet each other

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Speaker 2: They looked happy to see each other, and Jlo thanked Ben,

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Speaker 2: saying the movie wouldn't have been made without him. He

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Speaker 2: to play. So that is some good exes, if I

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Speaker 1: By the way, remember that fair fair. These are professional performers, fair,

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Speaker 1: you know a lot of people. I think they're more

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Speaker 1: well suited to pull this off in most people. Yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of divorce, Just days after filing from Keith Urban

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Speaker 1: The film being begins next year.

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Speaker 1: tickets sell out every single year the last ten years

860
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: they have sold out, so they will this time too,

861
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: So grab yours before they do, and free tickets on

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00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: the show each morning at seven fifty five. Yesterday we

863
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: had Bobby Brown on the show during this time, so

864
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: I wasn't able to say thank you to all the

865
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: people in Crete who came out to Smokey Joe's for

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00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: stop number one in the Thank You thirteen tour. We

867
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Speaker 1: did get a key to the city. Jason has yet

868
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: to produce the key. I think he is an honest

869
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: Mantle at his house right now, he made a chain.

870
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: I think he's just right. I think he's decided it

871
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: is for him. It was very heavy, so I'm worried

872
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 1: about his You know, already his knees messed up. Now

873
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: his neck is going to be messed up. But thank

874
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: you to everyone who came out. Thank you to the

875
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: village of Crete and the mayor, Mayor Mark and the

876
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: trustees and everybody who made us feel really welcome. We're

877
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Speaker 1: moving on, Yes, we're moving on week two of the

878
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: Thank You thirteen tour. This time it's Riverwoods, Illinois Brunch

879
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: Factory on North Milwaukee Avenue. We'll have sold out to

880
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: sate McCrae tickets. We'll have all kinds of other stuff too,

881
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: with the first one hundred people and avocado Theory Naperville.

882
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: After that we take a week off, and then on

883
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 1: Halloween morning, it's del Rooster in Chicago, in Westown. But Riverwoods.

884
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: I've yet to look on a map and see exactly

885
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: where you are Riverwoods, multiple Woods, but we'll find it

886
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: in the dark on Friday morning. It's amazing because all

887
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Speaker 1: these stops are places that I have not been for

888
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: the most part, and then we drive there in the dark.

889
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: A lot of them are like in amidst Cornon Field,

890
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 1: amidst corn Fields, and then like I walk out and

891
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: it's like a whole new day. It's like I spent

892
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: the night at some lady's house and I don't know

893
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: where I was. I was drinking night before, and then

894
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: I walk out It's like, oh, wow, look it's a

895
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: whole new world and I can like see everything like

896
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: it really is because I pull up in these we

897
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: all pull up in these places. It's pitch black, and

898
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: then we leave. It's like, oh, there's there's Look, it's

899
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: a city here. We are, so hang out with us,

900
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: please In Riverwoods if you're from there or surrounding. At

901
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: Brunch Factory Friday Morning Stop. Two of the Thank You

902
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Speaker 1: thirteen s were on the Frend show.

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Speaker 4: Hey Wake Up, you plich you.

904
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Speaker 1: On that toilest in a hotel room. It is. And

905
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Speaker 1: if we're in a situation where I'm in public and

906
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Speaker 1: I'm having to do that, you know, I try and

907
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: avoid that at all costs, you know, if there's any

908
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 1: chance of that happening. I canceled my plans spreads show

909
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: is odd and I had to use a porta potty

910
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: this weekend. And for number one not it wasn't that situation.

911
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: That is just an awful thing. It's just truly traumatic.

912
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,280
Speaker 1: I almost would have rather had some kind of infection

913
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 1: gone to the hospital. I think it would have been

914
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: cleaner there. Yes, I agree it was bad, and I

915
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: had timed out. I was at it. I went to

916
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: Southern Illinois University the Salukis. I went to the football

917
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: game and there was a tail game. Shout out to

918
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: all those people out there, man, and I just planned

919
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: out to all the beer drinking, because that's what you

920
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: got to do with these things at drink beer and

921
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: which I'm not a beer drink. I can't drink enough beer.

922
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: It's just a lot of I've floated away from this place.

923
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: I didn't even have to fly home. I just floated home.

924
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I had to plan out

925
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 1: the drinking, and there was a strategy to the whole day.

926
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: You know. It was a hydrate and then p at

927
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: the hotel and then go to this thing, so that

928
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: I was trying to minimize to one use of the

929
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Speaker 1: porter potty because then we were going into the stadium

930
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Speaker 1: at least I could use that one. So I planned

931
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Speaker 1: the whole day because we would have started one the

932
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Speaker 1: game was at six and then so I planned it

933
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Speaker 1: all out, so it was like one to maybe three

934
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Speaker 1: thirty four, and then I had to do it, you know,

935
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Speaker 1: but I had a little buzz going, so I was like, ooh, Jesus,

936
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Speaker 1: take the wheel and then I had another two hour

937
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: allowance of drinking then, because you know, it was good

938
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Speaker 1: until we got inside the stadium. Then we relieved ourselves

939
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: there and then we were able to move on and

940
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Speaker 1: I didn't have to use it again. Really just an

941
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: awful thing though, It's just awful. What was the state

942
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Speaker 1: of the porter potty on a scale of one to

943
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Speaker 1: I did effected it's just all right there, you know.

944
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna get into it as breakfast time,

945
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: but it's just not a yeah, no blogs, audio journals

946
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Speaker 1: in just a second. It was just what you said

947
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: to me reminded me of like it's just sometimes you

948
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: just there's just no control. It is what it is.

949
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: It was scary new.

950
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Speaker 4: I always think I'm gonna get pushed over for some reason.

951
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 4: I think it's gonna tip over and then I'm trapped.

952
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: I would almost have read I considered a public like

953
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Speaker 1: exposure indecency charge to go find a tree somewhere. I

954
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: thought about it. Yeah, but I didn't think that'd be

955
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: good for my career. No, so I didn't do blogging

956
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: just a second stair good debates in relationship Drama one

957
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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks for Show by Shelley and The

958
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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report This Hour, What's in There?

959
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: A fan learned the hard way when they tried to

960
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 2: grab Dua Lipa's butt.

961
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Speaker 1: Oh so you can't do that. No you're not, You're

962
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: not supposed to. Yeah, they talk better than they tell

963
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 1: me about. These are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show,

964
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Speaker 1: like running in our diaries, except we stayed it a loud.

965
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: We call the blogs Kiki's Got One Go.

966
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Speaker 4: Dear blog shout out to all of the parents, because

967
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 4: I don't know how you guys do this whole thing,

968
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 4: Like right, Pete, I don't know.

969
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 5: Man.

970
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 4: I think about you often because you're you're on a

971
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Speaker 4: real journey, my girl, like you know every day. No

972
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 4: turn it back, because I've helped raise my nephew Sean,

973
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 4: and he really broke my heart the other day but

974
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 4: I couldn't. He doesn't know this, but it really did.

975
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 4: He texts the family group and he said, I want

976
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 4: a job, and I'm like, and hell.

977
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: Does he sixteen? He's sixteen? Yes, okay, good for him? No, no, no,

978
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: I don't Why do you need a job?

979
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 5: Like?

980
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 4: I don't know if parents feel this or have felt this,

981
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 4: You go through like I went through a stage of

982
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 4: like grief. I went through like why does he want

983
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 4: a job? What are we not providing for you? Is

984
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 4: there something that we that you want that we haven't

985
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 4: gotten you?

986
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: Like? Is it something you feel like you're lacking? Why

987
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: do you want a job?

988
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 4: Then I go through like what I remember at sixteen

989
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 4: going to a job and the people I met at

990
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 4: that job, right, you know, it's all sometimes.

991
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: You'll grow up fast. And I'm I'm not judging anyone whatsoever.

992
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: You know, there is a judgment free zone. But you

993
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: got this the job that's really for sixteen year olds,

994
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 1: but it's like a thirty year old working there still.

995
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: You know what It's like, that's the one who's buying

996
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: them booze and teaching them things they don't need to know.

997
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, this is this job is for

998
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,760
Speaker 1: high school kids, but you're still here. And that's fine.

999
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: But that's the one you got to watch out for.

1000
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: Because when I was at Blockbuster, there was like a

1001
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: bunch of high school kids and then there was like

1002
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: the grown adult that worked the same shift that we did.

1003
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: No judgment, but it was that was the one that

1004
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: we relied on you for everything to teach you all

1005
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: the bad.

1006
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 4: So I met, I'm like, oh lord, oh my goodness.

1007
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 4: I don't know who he's going to encounter. So he

1008
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: had an interview. He went on his first interview and

1009
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,720
Speaker 4: I'm just boohorn, like at home, but I'm like texting

1010
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 4: him like you got this, but I'm really crying.

1011
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: He went to Taco Bell.

1012
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 4: Okay, that's his first interview, and then he also applied

1013
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 4: at Chick fil A. And I I don't know why

1014
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 4: I feel.

1015
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: Safer with him at Chick fil A.

1016
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 4: It's probably just as bad, but it's just like I

1017
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 4: don't I don't want him to have a job.

1018
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: Good for him. No, I think it's great. And so

1019
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,479
Speaker 1: he didn't ask anybody about this. He just just said

1020
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: he's taking the initiative. He wants he wants some extra money,

1021
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: yes and so, and he wants some independence. So he's

1022
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: gonna go get a job. And he didn't ask anybody.

1023
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 1: He just did it. I love it.

1024
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 4: And I did the same thing at sixteen, literally did

1025
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 4: the same thing. And I just think about it, like

1026
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 4: it really matured me. I feel like a live was

1027
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 4: a manager at sixteen, you know, like, why would why

1028
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 4: do you want to put this stress on your life

1029
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 4: when you can literally just live for free and ride

1030
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 4: this thing out, Like and I.

1031
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 1: Really wish he would do that. But you should be

1032
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: happy that he wants to do this. You should be

1033
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: happy that he has the ambition. Yeah, I know this

1034
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 1: is really about the fact that he's needing you less

1035
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: and less, oh for sure. And I'm like it in

1036
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: your mind, which is not true. He still needs you

1037
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: a lot, but this is what this is about, is

1038
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: that you are he no longer has to come to

1039
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: you now because he's figuring out ways to do things

1040
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:27,479
Speaker 1: for himself, which is what you want.

1041
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 4: It's what you want, but it's also what I don't want,

1042
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 4: because like in my mind, I'm like, who taught your

1043
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 4: social Security number? Like how did you figure that out

1044
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 4: to even put that on application? Like why do you

1045
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 4: why do you need taxes? I don't need you to

1046
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 4: need taxes right now. I need you to just want

1047
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 4: to go to school, want to play a video game.

1048
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 3: And I feel like, yeah, I feel you on that

1049
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 3: sad thing about like Gigi right, and my husband Hobby

1050
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 3: and I talk about this sometimes we're like, well, when

1051
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 3: she's old enough to get a job, are we gonna

1052
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: let her go push carts at Jewel like I did?

1053
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,280
Speaker 3: Or do I want her to just focus on school,

1054
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 3: being a kid doing sports I didn't, Like I did volleyball,

1055
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: by wasn't involved in sports like that. I would love

1056
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 3: for her to like really just kind of be a

1057
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 3: kid and grow, you know, grow.

1058
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: Slowly sacrificing something to do this, like, is it is

1059
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: it that he can't like he has an interest in this,

1060
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: but he's not going to be able to do that

1061
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: because he's too consumed with getting a job.

1062
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 4: No, but that's how it always starts. Because even for me,

1063
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 4: like I got everything I do, I try to do

1064
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 4: to the best of my ability. So when I got

1065
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 4: a job, I took get very serious. So I was like, Oh,

1066
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 4: I'm not hanging out with my friends anymore. I'm going

1067
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 4: to work, I'm clocking in, I'm you know, I.

1068
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: Got a schedule to run. You know, it's like you

1069
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 1: just hurw up so quick.

1070
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 4: You know, I want him. I want him to slow

1071
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 4: it down. You don't need the job, what do you want?

1072
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: Just text me? Because I would say, like, if he

1073
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: wants to play football, he wants to play basketball or baseball, whatever,

1074
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: and and but he feels like he has to get

1075
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: a job because he needs extra money, and he's he's

1076
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: putting that above right, you know other things. Then I

1077
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: would say, if you have the luxury of not of

1078
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 1: being able to supplement him so that he can do that,

1079
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: and maybe you weren't able to, that's one thing. But

1080
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 1: if he's not sacrificing anything he's just he's just branching out. Then,

1081
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: I think you've got to reward this. This is good.

1082
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: They get to monitor it, right, And who am I?

1083
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm not a parent. I don't know what I'm talking about,

1084
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: but you gotta. I think this is good.

1085
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 4: I'm going to talk all bail every day. If he

1086
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 4: gets a job, meets your girl, look it up right.

1087
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 1: Counter what it's stay or go. Okay, Whitney, good morning.

1088
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: How you doing, Whitney? Hi? There she is, Hi, Whitney. Wow,

1089
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: welcome to the program. What's going on with this guy?

1090
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 1: You've been dating him for two months? I act like

1091
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 1: I don't know. I read the whole email, but let's

1092
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: pretend like I don't know. Yeah, so you've been dating

1093
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: this guy for two months. You have yet to dt R,

1094
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: which I'm not sure if that's de termined, that people

1095
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: still use anymore, that the youth still moving use anymore.

1096
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: But you've yet to determine the relationship, define the relationship

1097
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: after two months. But where's the issue.

1098
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 8: Well, so, first of all, there's no red flags and

1099
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 8: he's really good at communicating. Okay, I do appreciate that. However,

1100
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 8: he did tell me this week that he's going to

1101
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 8: be you know, quote unquote going dark for two weeks

1102
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 8: because he's going on a trip to Europe with a sister,

1103
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 8: and you know, he's had this trip planned for like

1104
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 8: months before we even met, okay, and you know they're

1105
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 8: thing in hostels and you know, obviously he doesn't know

1106
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 8: if or when I have service, And I get that.

1107
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: And he really, where is he going? Is he going

1108
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: to like war torn Russia? Like, where where is he going?

1109
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 8: No, they're going, I think they're going.

1110
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, you just want to like Paris, and you know,

1111
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: progue then My understanding is that there's Wi Fi and

1112
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: the and and the interwebs and phone and you know,

1113
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 1: cellular service. So I don't know. Okay, I'm sorry. Continue. So,

1114
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: so he's going on a trip with his sister for

1115
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: two weeks and he's telling you ahead of time, I'm

1116
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: not going to be in communication with you.

1117
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean he wants to go off the grid

1118
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 8: and like really enjoy it and decompressed, which, honestly, like

1119
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 8: I really appreciate.

1120
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: Him telling me that way.

1121
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 8: I'm not like, oh no, did I do something wrong?

1122
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: Where'd he go?

1123
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,240
Speaker 8: You know, like I'd much rather have you met his sister.

1124
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,800
Speaker 1: Now is this legit? Is he definitely going with his sister.

1125
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 8: I haven't met her yet, but you know, they facetimed.

1126
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 8: They talk about this trip all the time, So like,

1127
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 8: I know that I believe that part, okay, and honestly,

1128
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 8: like I believe the whole thing until you know. I

1129
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 8: talked to my friends about it, and they think it's

1130
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 8: kind of bs and they don't really buy the story.

1131
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 8: They're like, we don't buy it.

1132
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: I could see this two ways. I mean, if he's

1133
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: if he's taken some other woman on this trip to

1134
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: wherever he's going. I mean, trust me, people who are

1135
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: people who are very much in relationships have managed to

1136
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: pull off a whole lot more in the same city,

1137
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: in the same country, in the same zip code. So

1138
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't know why he would be unable to text

1139
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: with you or communicate with you if this was some

1140
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: sort of you know, the trip he was going on

1141
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: with they had some sinister issued, some sinister layer to it,

1142
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: Like if he was going with an ex or another

1143
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: woman or something, he would very easily be able to

1144
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: text you or keep something going, like he wouldn't have

1145
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: to call his shot in this way. You know what,

1146
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 1: I mean like, hey, I'm not gonna be able to

1147
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: talk to you for two weeks because I'm, you know,

1148
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 1: off doing something with someone else. You know what I mean?

1149
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: Like that that's too obvious. It's too obvious to me,

1150
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: is what, Like, how many people do you know? The

1151
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: cheap married people do this? Married people have full on

1152
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 1: relationship with other people using the very same phone and

1153
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: the very same hands that they they do things with

1154
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: their husband with or wife, you know what I mean? So,

1155
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: like what I'm saying is you stuff happens right under

1156
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: people's nose. He doesn't have to go out of the

1157
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: country and say he's unavailable, so it's very possible. And

1158
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: you know me, I'm not I'm a skeptic. I'm a pessimist.

1159
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 1: I tended to go to the plate the worst place

1160
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: that he's up to something. But I mean this be

1161
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: But I also don't know why in twenty twenty five,

1162
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 1: we're not just like shooting someone that we care about

1163
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 1: a text every now and again to say hey, I'm okay,

1164
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 1: I'm here having a good time. You know what about

1165
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: social media? Is he active on social media? Usually?

1166
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 8: No, He's not a big coaster, really not.

1167
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: So I think this is your little friends meddling. I

1168
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: think this is your little friends during this up because

1169
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: it's very possible that this guy wants to be present

1170
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 1: on his trip as sister. I mean hello, like it.

1171
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 1: I don't know if my sister when I was younger,

1172
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: if my sister had been not in a relationship and

1173
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: didn't have kids, I don't know. I could see it

1174
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: where we would travel.

1175
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 2: Yes, but you could also talk to other people like

1176
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 2: why do you need to like go off the grid

1177
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 2: with your sister?

1178
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you guys communicate regularly? Like is

1179
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: it are you always in communication with me? With this guy?

1180
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 8: I mean it's not every day.

1181
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: Oh it's not no coffee bless you, whatever that was.

1182
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. It would be one thing if it

1183
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: were like you guys were constantly communicating all day every day,

1184
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: and this guy's going like, hey, look, just a head's up,

1185
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna be on planes and I'm gonna be,

1186
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: you know, less reachable. So we're not going to have,

1187
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, hourly communication in a way that we typically do.

1188
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: And just just know that that's because we're doing stuff.

1189
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 1: Because if I'm on vacation and I am just ripping

1190
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: out text messages to someone else, I'll and that's not

1191
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: I'm not present. I'm not enjoying what I'm doing, you

1192
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: know what I mean the way that I might if

1193
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: id me just in everyday life, doing the same routine

1194
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: every day, but I want to know from everyone else.

1195
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five nine one one oh three five.

1196
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: You know, just what do you think when you hear

1197
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: Whitney talking about this guy two months no red flags,

1198
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: he's going out of town with his sister, and he's

1199
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: basically saying he's going to go dark for two weeks.

1200
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: I think if he were cheating, he could still pull

1201
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: off communication. What I don't think? You're just staring at me,

1202
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: But I don't what does that mean?

1203
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 4: I don't feel like being called insecure today. So I

1204
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 4: was actually just gonna let the people speak. But I'm,

1205
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 4: you know, well no where for two weeks, they me,

1206
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 4: and I can't talk to you unless you're going to

1207
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 4: say the country is your name military Mike?

1208
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: If not? Yeah, that's true. I mean Shelley's husband does

1209
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: this all the time. Now. Granted this because he's like

1210
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: it has top secret clearances and we're not supposed to

1211
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: know where he is. I guess I just don't know

1212
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: that this is the second day in a row. We're

1213
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: automatically going to the worst possible outcome, and I don't

1214
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: I think it's a little weird, but I think that,

1215
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: you know, twenty years ago or fifteen years ago, this

1216
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: would have been the norm. You know, you wouldn't have

1217
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: necessarily had communication in your pocket twenty four to seven,

1218
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: and you would have had to use a phone or

1219
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: a payot would have been expensive like we used the

1220
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: horses too. We've evolved to a new standard where you're

1221
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: supposed to be in constant communication with everyone whenever they want.

1222
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: And I don't necessarily think it's unfair to say, hey,

1223
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: I'm stepping back for a minute because I'm I'm going

1224
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: on this trip and it's it's a special thing and

1225
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: I want to be present for it. None of you

1226
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: are no, no, none of you. Two weeks you cannot

1227
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: speak to me. Did he say that? Did he say

1228
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: you will not hear from me for two weeks, or

1229
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: did he say that it's going to be just a

1230
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 1: whole lot less.

1231
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 8: No, he just wanted to, like, definitely let me know

1232
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 8: that's gonna be a lot less.

1233
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: He's gone, You don't even talk every day? What does

1234
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 1: that mean? But you don't even talk every day and

1235
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship for two months? I mean again, Like, so,

1236
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know why it's a big deal

1237
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: if it's a few more days. Yeah, but I mean

1238
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: like two weeks.

1239
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,760
Speaker 8: Okay, we talk like almost every day and we always

1240
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 8: text good night to each other.

1241
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 7: Okay, so yes, there is some kind.

1242
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 8: Of communication every day. I guess it's just not constant.

1243
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: I mean, is there any I don't know how to

1244
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: do this and people are texting about I don't know

1245
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: how to do this without looking paranoid or like you

1246
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: don't trust him? But is there a way to meet

1247
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: his sister before he goes, like just so that you

1248
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: can verify it and casually, not like an interrogation.

1249
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 8: Local And I've like said hi on FaceTime, like what,

1250
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 8: I'm over his house girl?

1251
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 1: He going on vacation. Would another woman? No, he's not.

1252
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: Just you go get you another man, girl, and then

1253
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: y'all link up when you get back. He's not doing that.

1254
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 1: Like again, I know because because cheaters cheaters, I mean,

1255
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: it's people have had multiple concurrent relationships right under people's nose.

1256
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 2: You're better at it. I've seen really dumb, obvious crimes

1257
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 2: from sure.

1258
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: But what I mean is he doesn't have to go, Hey,

1259
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 1: heads up, I'm going on a trip with my sister

1260
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: and you can't meet her, nor can you communicate with me?

1261
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: Fortune right, I don't. I don't think I would go

1262
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: that far. I think I would just say, have one

1263
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: on a trip, and then if you got mad at

1264
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: me because I wasn't as responsive because I'm doing some

1265
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: other girl, then I would be like, well, I don't know, sorry,

1266
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: I didn't have Wi Fi, like I'm in the middle

1267
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: of nowhere. Yeah, I mean, I just I think there's

1268
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: a way to do this without calling your shot. Well.

1269
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,800
Speaker 3: They also don't really talk a lot, it sounds like,

1270
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 3: which is another red flag.

1271
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: She says, we know him. Can we almost talk every day?

1272
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 3: The man that you lie with, you almost talk every

1273
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 3: day for two months?

1274
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: And maybe by the way, Whitney, have you had any

1275
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: issue with the fact, I mean, are you upset about

1276
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 1: the fact that your communication patterns? Is it not enough

1277
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: for you? See?

1278
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 8: So she's it's the perfect We've been like growing like

1279
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 8: a healthy, wonderful pace. I'm if this trick didn't what

1280
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 8: wasn't like in existence, I would feel great.

1281
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 6: About where we were.

1282
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: Okay, well, let me take some phone calls on this,

1283
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: because you've heard our perspectives. But let me let me

1284
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: see what people at home have to say. I wish

1285
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: you the best, Whitty. I don't This doesn't jump out

1286
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: at me as necessarily a break up able offense. And

1287
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 1: I think you'll know pretty quickly when he gets back

1288
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: by the way, I think you'll read it on his

1289
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 1: face if he was up to something, or if he's

1290
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: guilty about something, or something developed while you were away

1291
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: from each other, then I think I feel like you'll

1292
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: sense that. But I don't think we're we're breaking up

1293
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 1: with someone now, break up that would just date? Oh God,

1294
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: do you say hello? All right, thank you, Whitney, have a.

1295
00:57:55,440 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 2: Good day when your.

1296
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: Advice is all over the place. Is it not a

1297
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: red flag that they don't talk every day though I do. Yeah?

1298
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,959
Speaker 1: But see, you could say that except I just asked

1299
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: her if she's okay with them. She says yes, because

1300
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: she's just covering her feelings. No, you have to, so

1301
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: let's not take people their face value because you don't

1302
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: agree the person.

1303
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 3: You're dating, like boyfriend, girlfriend, not like casual like hookups,

1304
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 3: not casual dinners. I'm talking about dating boyfriend girlfriend you

1305
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 3: don't talk to many days just to say hey, what's up.

1306
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: But again, that's what you need. I just asked her,

1307
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: are you okay with it? And she said yes, And

1308
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: then your response is, well, she's lying to us. Maybe

1309
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: she's maybe she's not, Maybe maybe that's not what she requires. Okay,

1310
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: Hey Jessica, Hi, Jessica, there go.

1311
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 9: Oh, definitely go. I feel like she's in the stage

1312
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 9: where ignorance is bliss and she wants so desperately. The

1313
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 9: whole one day is actually what you say is that

1314
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 9: he is even though she knows it's not. I feel

1315
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 9: like she's the other woman.

1316
00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: I will say, Jessica. The part of this that we

1317
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 1: and someone texted this just now, the part of this

1318
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 1: that we didn't really hone in on, is that they

1319
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: have not defined the relationship after two months now. For

1320
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 1: some people that would be normal, but I mean, technically

1321
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: they are not in a relationship, so he could be

1322
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: going with someone else and getting with her, So I

1323
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: guess I don't know what the purpose of lying is.

1324
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: He could be omitting because he doesn't want he doesn't

1325
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: want her to go anywhere but two months and they

1326
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: are not technically in a relationship, which means that technically

1327
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: he wouldn't be cheating on her. He has every right

1328
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: to do what he wants. He's on vacation with his

1329
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 1: wife and kids.

1330
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:34,439
Speaker 9: Oh god, that means he's definitely going with another woman.

1331
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 9: I kind of went through a situation like say, people

1332
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 9: go through things, but you don't have to.

1333
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: You know, he is going with another woman, his sister. Yeah, Jessica,

1334
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: you have a good day. I love you, guys. I do,

1335
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't know. I Amber high,

1336
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: I don't amber a stair go.

1337
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 7: Awesting why it's only two weeks. If it's really a.

1338
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: Big issue, they could both get what'sapp.

1339
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 7: And communicate through there. But I don't think it's that

1340
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 7: big of an issue, especially if he's only going with

1341
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 7: his sister.

1342
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: I do think. I do think it's interesting that the

1343
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: whole not defined the relationship thing. But I mean, what

1344
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: is the appropriates? I mean, they don't talk every day,

1345
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 1: so is it I mean, is this is it a

1346
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: slow burn? Is this? I mean, I don't know what

1347
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: it is strange, But then again, he wouldn't have to

1348
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: lie to her. You know, he wouldn't have to say anything.

1349
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: They're not together. Me and lots today sad chicks all

1350
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: the time. You don't let you, You don't let you,

1351
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: Sachig know she is sad. Cheek Okay, Amber, thank you,

1352
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: you're right, have a good day. Two weeks. It's a

1353
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: little strange, but I'm not jumping to immediate. You know

1354
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 1: this other stuff you're.

1355
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 2: Courting me, like write letters, get what's app send a

1356
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 2: carrier pigeon, let me know you miss me.

1357
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's fair and it's too he would and Fred.

1358
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 3: Honestly, if you were dating a girl and she told

1359
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:08,479
Speaker 3: you I'm going to Europe with my brother for two weeks,

1360
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 3: you probably won't hear from me.

1361
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 1: You would be okay with that. I wouldn't love it,

1362
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 1: but I guess I'm not necessarily going to all of

1363
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 1: this these other things. Hey, Crystal, good morning, So I

1364
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 1: gotta wake up now, you say, okay, Mom, I'm a wait,

1365
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: so go right ahead tell them this morning.

1366
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 7: Do you congress on your engagement?

1367
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: Thank you very hard.

1368
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 7: You can play this too way, Honey.

1369
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 12: You need to find out for him if something happens

1370
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 12: on the trip, who.

1371
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 10: Does he contact.

1372
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you mean his mom? I don't know.

1373
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: You mean, who's the emergency contact. They're not in a relationship, Crystal.

1374
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 7: She said they've been dating too much, but they haven't.

1375
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: Then she did say that, but they have not defined

1376
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 1: the relationship, which I think if any of this is suspect,

1377
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: it's that part of it. I guess. I wonder what's

1378
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: up with that? Yeah, friend, once you get the good

1379
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: of this.

1380
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,439
Speaker 3: So no, no, no, two weeks.

1381
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: So what would you expect every day he needs to

1382
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: contact you every day? He's gone.

1383
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 7: No, he doesn't need to every day.

1384
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: I know.

1385
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 9: I get your own vacation, have fun on your vacation,

1386
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 9: but you're not going to see him.

1387
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 10: You're going dark.

1388
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:13,959
Speaker 7: Two weeks.

1389
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Krystal. Hey, I hear you

1390
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: have a good day. No day. You asked me if

1391
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: I would like it, I wouldn't like it. But I again,

1392
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 1: how do we know, based on what little information we have,

1393
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: that he's absolutely lying and he's cheating and all these things. This,

1394
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 1: this is how this happens. Is we're the little friends

1395
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: here and we're in we have no idea what we're

1396
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: talking about, and we're injecting all of our own insecurities

1397
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 1: into this polo week. No, we're saving her. Listen, we

1398
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: live in twenty twenty five.

1399
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 3: Like we said, what's app this that there's wine down

1400
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 3: time when you're on vacation, you're in your room, you're

1401
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 3: on the toilet, you're doing your own thing, like you

1402
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 3: can call it.

1403
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: It would be easy enough to drop a text every

1404
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: now and again. I agree, I agree. I do you agree?

1405
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: Meaning Tower Pieza, you know they're right leaning in the yes. Absolutely,

1406
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm praying for you with my mistress. Yeah, Carolina, Hi, Hi, Hi,

1407
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 1: good morning. Just to recap here, this woman's been danting

1408
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: a guy for a couple of months. They haven't to

1409
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: define the relationship she has. Uh, she indicated on her own,

1410
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: no red flags about this guy. But he's going on

1411
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: a trip for two weeks with his sister, he says,

1412
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: and let her know that he wouldn't really be communicative

1413
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: during that time. What are your thoughts?

1414
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 7: Definitely stay.

1415
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 12: I think that unless she sees other red flags, no

1416
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 12: reason to be alarmed. Went through something similar many years ago,

1417
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 12: three week, three trip for three weeks for someone I

1418
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 12: was just talking to here and there, getting to know

1419
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 12: and we're married now, and it was all fine. He

1420
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 12: actually did reach out throughout the trip here and there,

1421
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 12: not as often as you typically spoke to each other,

1422
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 12: but you know, knew where he was at here and

1423
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 12: there every few days and gotten nice souvenirs. Ended up

1424
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 12: picking him up from the airport. So I think that

1425
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 12: might be something she can try, kicking him and the

1426
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 12: sister up from the airport, getting to know her after

1427
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 12: the trip, maybe trust a little bit.

1428
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, or booking you a flight and imagine, you know,

1429
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 4: ended up at the same resort.

1430
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 7: I've only been dating for two months.

1431
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 12: I would say that's also a little I don't want

1432
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 12: to go on a trip with someone I've just stated

1433
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 12: for two months and their sister.

1434
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, why get that too a wife? Yeah, Carolina, thank you,

1435
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah. There are definitely holes in

1436
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: this and it definitely is a little strange. But I

1437
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: guess I don't know.

1438
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,800
Speaker 4: I mean, why is he You're a good person and

1439
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 4: you give the benefit of the doubt, not always although

1440
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: you would.

1441
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 1: Not go for this, I wouldn't like it. No, I

1442
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't like it, But I mean, I get after two months,

1443
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: it's like, well, Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Bread Show.

1444
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 2: Family and friends of Celeste Revas, the team found in

1445
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 2: a tesla registered to singer David gathered yesterday in California.

1446
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: To finally lay her to rest.

1447
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 2: Remember, her decomposed body was discovered last month in the

1448
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 2: trunk of the car that was abandoned near your house

1449
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 2: David was renting in the Hollywood Hills. It was eventually impounded,

1450
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 2: and then days later, maybe even weeks, cops found her

1451
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 2: things to a smell. It's just a horrific story. Cops

1452
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 2: believed that Celeste, who friends in David's circle reportedly thought

1453
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 2: was nineteen years old, had been dead for a little while.

1454
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 1: She was reported missing early in twenty twenty four.

1455
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 2: In that time since her body was discovered, David's been

1456
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 2: pretty much radio silent, pulling the plug on his tour,

1457
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 2: shelving his deluxe album rollout for Withered, and apparently moving

1458
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 2: out of the Hollywood Hills rental home where he was staying,

1459
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 2: where the lapd have executed a search warrant. He has

1460
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 2: not been spotted in public ever since she was just

1461
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 2: fourteen years old. So rest in peace, just so upsetting,

1462
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,680
Speaker 2: and of course the Internet is you know, everyone's trying

1463
01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:59,760
Speaker 2: to figure out what happened, moving on to do a

1464
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 2: lee as new video shows her killing it at the

1465
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 2: Kia Forum in La over the weekend, posing for photos

1466
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 2: in the crowd with fans when one dude got a

1467
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 2: little too familiar with her, sliding his hand or trying

1468
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 2: to slide his hand right near her booty before security

1469
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 2: stepped in. So the whole crowd saw it go down.

1470
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 2: They couldn't help but laugh out loud because security literally

1471
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: he almost touched her butt and they smacked the hell

1472
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 2: out of his hand away. People were cracking up. Dua

1473
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 2: was two in the zone to even notice the butt

1474
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:30,959
Speaker 2: grab or the almost butt grab. But the clip, of course,

1475
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 2: is going viral really fast, and honestly shout out to

1476
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 2: her security because they saved her on that one. People

1477
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 2: online are horrified, let's not grab people's butts. That you

1478
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 2: can't grab their butt please, you know I'm supposed to

1479
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 2: do that. Lisa didn't do that when I met do

1480
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 2: at least? Yeah, No, I'm glad you didn't. I didn't

1481
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 2: do anything like that.

1482
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: No, you didn't grab anybody. No, No, I never have. Listen,

1483
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: I tried that when I met you, but Jason blocked

1484
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: my hand. No, no, actually his hand was already on it.

1485
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: That's how he boughted it. That wasn't a block, that

1486
01:06:58,400 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: was him already.

1487
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:00,720
Speaker 5: Right.

1488
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 1: There was no room left for her hands. What did

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Speaker 1: you do wrong in this situation? I didn't stop him though.

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Speaker 1: That was the weird part. He's just so lovable he

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Speaker 1: gets away with it.

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Speaker 2: Charlie Sheen went on Dak Shepherd's Armchair Expert podcast and

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Speaker 2: apologized for being super rude to him twenty years ago,

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Speaker 2: which I mean, that's nice, better late than ever. Charlie

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Speaker 2: said that he was in a really bad mood because

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Speaker 2: he was dealing with parenting very young kids on Halloween.

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Speaker 2: He said, try effing with kids, dude. He called himself

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Speaker 2: an a whole five thousand for how he acted, said

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Speaker 2: he carried guilt over this for years. Dak said he

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Speaker 2: didn't even remember the event, but he accepted the apology.

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Speaker 2: Charlie said that making aments is very important and that

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Speaker 2: he didn't want to live with regret over misdeeds that

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Speaker 2: he did years ago.

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Speaker 1: So that's like one example of you carry this guilt

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Speaker 1: for years.

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Speaker 2: I've apologized for something and people like I didn't even

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Speaker 2: remember that but still nice that he did that. And

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Speaker 2: of course he's going on a huge press store over

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Speaker 2: his Netflix documentary aka Charlie Sheen and it's really really

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Speaker 2: good if you have not watched it. And speaking of watching,

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Speaker 2: if you want, I guess in the answer your listening experience.

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Speaker 2: We are live throughout the show on YouTube Fred Show

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Speaker 2: Radio as well as typing The Fred Show on demand

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Speaker 2: if you want to catch up on anything you missed

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Speaker 2: on the free I Heart radio app.

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Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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Speaker 1: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, Shelley, Good morning, Jocelyn, Hi, Joscely,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 10: How you doing.

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Speaker 3: Doing?

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Speaker 1: How are you guys doing doing? Great? Fun facts about

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Speaker 1: you would be a fun fact about me would be

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Speaker 1: that I am an Irish twin. My sister and I

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01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 1: are only ten months apart. Oh damn, parents wasted no time?

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Speaker 1: No tell what's her name? My sister's name is Monica?

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Speaker 6: Watching?

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Speaker 1: There you go, Hi to Monica. If she's watching, she's

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01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: really dedicated on YouTube or not watching.

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Speaker 9: I'm SOA's right now.

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Speaker 1: We got a little low bunch of TV show going.

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01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: It's fine. One hundred and fifty bucks is the price.

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01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:07,679
Speaker 1: Shelley has won one straight and over one thousand wins,

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Speaker 1: only seventy four losses. Five pop culture questions, Let's go,

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Speaker 1: good luck guys, all right, good luck, all right, Shelly,

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Speaker 1: we'll do expect you got to get the heck out

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01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,080
Speaker 1: off to the sound boof poof, She can not hear

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01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:21,759
Speaker 1: the questions. Joscely Number one Southern Charm star Catherine Dennis

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01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 1: began serving a thirty day sentence for a dui arrest

1539
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: last May, which network airs Southern Charm three two. I

1540
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: don't know Who's surprised fans during her Austin City Limits

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01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:42,720
Speaker 1: set by bringing out Shania Twain to sing that don't impress.

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01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:45,639
Speaker 7: Me much, Oh my girl, Sabrina Carpenter.

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Speaker 1: It says, sign that would be impressive if Shania Twain

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Speaker 1: could sign that don't impress me much as well, speaking

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01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: of that music festival. Role Model also surprise fans by

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01:09:55,960 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: bringing out this singer and Lizzie McGuire star namer Oh

1547
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:05,719
Speaker 1: three Madison Bira spot A kissing her quarterback boyfriend before

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01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 1: his game over the weekend. Which NFL star is she dating? Oh?

1549
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 13: He's from the La Charters three two Remember you got

1550
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 13: the team, right, And which British talent manager and former

1551
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:21,879
Speaker 13: American Idol judge turned sixty six.

1552
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 1: A day, Siming cow That's a three all right, not bad,

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01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: not bad. Shelley will get her back from the boof

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01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 1: poof within, enter within, how to carry her in again? Yeah?

1555
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: Again on her thing thing, the bad thing.

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01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 5: Huh?

1557
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 1: She got a three? Three? Okay, she got a three?

1558
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: Question number one. Southern Charm star Catherine Dennis began serving

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01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,519
Speaker 1: a thirty day sentence for a dui arrest last May.

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01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: Which network airs Southern Charm? Bravo? Ye? Who's the price

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01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 1: fans during her Austin City limits set by brigand Ashania

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Speaker 1: Twain to saying that don't impressed me much. Sabria carp Yeah,

1563
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: speaking of that music festival role model also surprise fans

1564
01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: by bringing out this singer and Lizzie Maguire's star namer

1565
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: Hilary d Yeah. Madison Bier spotted kissing her quarterback boyfriend

1566
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 1: before his game over the weekend. Which NFL star is

1567
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 1: she dating? Justin Herbert? That's right? And which British talent

1568
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 1: manager and former American Idol judge turned sixty six today,

1569
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Speaker 1: Simon Cowell that's a five. That's a whim, Jocelyn, not

1570
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: bad at all, but you're gonna have to say, my

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01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 1: name is Jocelyn. I got showed up on the showdown,

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01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: and you can't hang with the gorilla.

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Speaker 11: Go.

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01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 13: My name is Jocelyn.

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01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the show VU Showdown, and

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01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 1: I can't hang with the garrilla Jocelyn sister de Monica

1577
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 1: can't hang with the gorilla. Cat. Get cat cat. Shout

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Speaker 1: out to all the Irish twins, Hey, bo, Cat's a

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Speaker 1: good one. Okay, I'm good. I'm good. No, I'm good,

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Speaker 1: dove everally am No, I'm good. I just I just

1581
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: need ocugen quickly. Johnce, hang on a second, have a

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01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: great day. Thanks for listening. Thank you as well. All

1583
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: I say right there. Nice job, Shelly, so to straight

1584
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Speaker 1: two hundred bucks tomorrow win number one thousand and sixty six.

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Speaker 1: So good job and we'll see you tomorrow. All right,

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Speaker 1: sounds good? Okay, goodbye? Waiting by the phone. Why does

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01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: somebody get ghost? We'll do that next. Got the entertainer

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01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: up for it. Headlines and fun fact all coming up.

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Speaker 1: Up week. Did Kiki have to do Pauline's promise for

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Speaker 1: the ring?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 11: I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's why it tooks alone. Fred's Show is on.

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, October seventh. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Hi, Kaylyn,

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Speaker 1: the same number anytime on YouTube, It's The Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: up anytime, search for tell them guys that friend here

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Speaker 1: you waiting by the phone. Is next? Why did someone

1612
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 1: get ghosted? Will investigate headlines, the biggest stories of the day,

1613
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Speaker 1: the fun facts. About a Lady, It's about a lady,

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Speaker 1: Lady a Lady, and the entertainer report This hour too,

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Speaker 1: What are you working on? K Diddy's latest request?

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Speaker 2: Jack Osborne remembers his dad in a really special moment,

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01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 2: and Taylor Swift slams an offensive fan theory.

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01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 1: Fred Show. Tim How you doing?

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01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:25,600
Speaker 6: I'm doing well about you?

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01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 1: We are great waiting by the phone. Let's learn about

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01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 1: this date. I'm going through your email here. You went

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01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 1: out with Roxy, you met on Tinder, and then what happened?

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01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 6: We talked for a bit, We actually went out twice,

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01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 6: and I don't, you know, mean to get too much

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01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,640
Speaker 6: into things. But after the second date we hooked up,

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01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:43,799
Speaker 6: which I took.

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01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:44,599
Speaker 1: As a pretty good sign.

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01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:46,880
Speaker 6: I thought she was into it. But you know, she

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01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 6: started ghost to me after that, and I'm here to

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01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 6: find out why.

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01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,679
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I see what, Yeah, I don't. I don't

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01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: hear you bragging about hooking up on the second date.

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01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 1: I think sometimes on a second date that's a good

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01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:00,519
Speaker 1: sign right. I mean, especially if you get a second

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01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 1: date then you hook up. It's like this is going

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01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 1: in the right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's

1638
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:08,680
Speaker 1: driving you crazy. Yeah, all right, we'll call her. We'll

1639
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:10,560
Speaker 1: see if we can figure out what's going on and

1640
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 1: put this to rest, and hopefully we can straighten out

1641
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 1: whatever the issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's

1642
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: just been busy, or who knows, And if that's the case,

1643
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: we'll set you up on another date and we'll pay

1644
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: for that. Okay.

1645
01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 6: I really appreciate that.

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01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:26,639
Speaker 1: Part two of waiting by the phone. Tim. We doing okay, doing.

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01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 6: Good, well, anxious to figure out what's going on here?

1648
01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 1: Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna

1649
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 1: call Roxy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys

1650
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:35,600
Speaker 1: went in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.

1651
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 1: Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.

1652
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:38,600
Speaker 3: You got it?

1653
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 1: Okay, good luck? Hello?

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01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 5: Hi?

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01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: Is this Roxy?

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01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 5: Yeah?

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01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:52,560
Speaker 1: Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show. I have to

1658
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:54,280
Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

1659
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: and I need your permission to continue with the call.

1660
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:57,599
Speaker 1: Is it okay if we keep talking?

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01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, Yes, that's okay.

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01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 1: It's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah, I know,

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01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 1: I know, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf

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01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 1: of this dude named Tim who I guess you met

1665
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 1: you on Timder and you went on two dates. Do

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01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:11,120
Speaker 1: you recall this guy?

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01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:11,719
Speaker 11: Yeah?

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01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:13,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, sound excited.

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01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 5: We know that.

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01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've heard it before. So what would happened with

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01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: this guy? Because he described a couple of really good dates,

1672
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,160
Speaker 1: he liked you a lot, was hoping to take you

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01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 1: on a third date, says that you're ghosting. Can we

1674
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 1: sort of get to the bottom of why. It's like,

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01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 1: I feel called out, but.

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01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:33,759
Speaker 14: I was just trying to be discreet.

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01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, Tim is I mean he was like a cool

1678
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 7: like honestly, we actually got along really well. He was

1679
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 7: a really nice guy.

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01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 14: If we had gone on a couple of dates and

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01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 14: we had kind of polled around and stuff, and after

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01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 14: one of the hook up, this is like weird to

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01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 14: even talk about with public.

1684
01:16:52,479 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 1: I told my closest friends, but he asked.

1685
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 7: To keep my underwear.

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01:16:57,439 --> 01:16:59,559
Speaker 1: Did you call them panties? We got a lot of problems.

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01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 1: I hate that word. Second yeah, same, the same these

1688
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 1: so he what like he wanted them as some kind

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01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 1: of a souvenir.

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01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 14: I don't know what.

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01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: He's gonna do with him.

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01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 7: I was, but I was like, no, absolutely not. Yeah,

1693
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:20,040
Speaker 7: and so I mean that is just kind of how

1694
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 7: I felt about the whole situation.

1695
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 1: So you're kind of spooked, You're like, I'm not doing

1696
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 1: this spook.

1697
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:28,719
Speaker 7: I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't

1698
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 7: consider myself.

1699
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 1: Like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into.

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01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 14: I didn't know what the hell he was gonna do

1701
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 14: with it.

1702
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was just like, no, I'm going to go

1703
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 7: ahead and keep the clothing that I Yeah.

1704
01:17:40,240 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: Let me expensive ponties. Were they nice ones? I mean

1705
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 1: you know what was going to go down? Would you

1706
01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:51,600
Speaker 1: leave some behind if the guy asked you?

1707
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:54,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, he would, Yeah, little things to make people happy.

1708
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:57,720
Speaker 1: You know, well what if they were expensive ones? Yeah?

1709
01:17:57,760 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 9: Why not?

1710
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:00,599
Speaker 1: Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair

1711
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 1: of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy like expensive,

1712
01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 1: like yeah, like the expensive ones I have are like

1713
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 1: in a set, you know, like pinky or something like

1714
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here. I always

1715
01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: leave that part out. Tim has been listening to all this, Tim,

1716
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:21,680
Speaker 1: what what do you? I mean, Look, you're entitled to

1717
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: your own freaky.

1718
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 6: But I just like keeping them as a bit of

1719
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:25,799
Speaker 6: a souvenir.

1720
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: So you have a box full of them somewhere, like

1721
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 1: that's disgusting. Oh yeah, if I'm not special, it's nothing

1722
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 1: like that.

1723
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,240
Speaker 6: Like what if I hook up with somebody and like

1724
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:35,800
Speaker 6: they give me their painting, let me keep it. But

1725
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 6: if I'm seeing somebody.

1726
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:39,240
Speaker 1: Else, I throw the old ones away. That's creepy.

1727
01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 6: If I had a collection, that.

1728
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 1: Would be that would be creepy. Yeah, no question.

1729
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1730
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:45,600
Speaker 6: And also I don't see what the big deal is.

1731
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:47,240
Speaker 6: You know, a lot of people are into this sort

1732
01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 6: of thing. She told me no, and I was totally

1733
01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 6: cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything like that.

1734
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 6: And also, aren't you supposed to not kink?

1735
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 1: Shame?

1736
01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 6: But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,

1737
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 6: and that's not very cool, not the whole one A second.

1738
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that we're judging you so much.

1739
01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:04,519
Speaker 1: She's allowed to judge you because she doesn't have to

1740
01:19:04,640 --> 01:19:05,719
Speaker 1: do what you asked.

1741
01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 4: Me to do.

1742
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 9: I'm not into it.

1743
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 6: Oh yeahs and that like no, and I respected you

1744
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 6: saying no. I didn't push the batter. I just said, hey,

1745
01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 6: by the way, I'm into this. Would you mind if

1746
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:20,240
Speaker 6: I kept it? You said no. I said, that's cool, okay.

1747
01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:22,559
Speaker 6: At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,

1748
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 6: that really freaked me out. I didn't want to see

1749
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 6: you again.

1750
01:19:25,240 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 1: That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that

1751
01:19:28,120 --> 01:19:31,320
Speaker 1: I didn't really well it, so you can't let it go.

1752
01:19:31,720 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 6: I did want to chat about it, and you didn't

1753
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 6: want to chat that, but this was my only recourse.

1754
01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:38,240
Speaker 6: But I thought we had something now. I wanted to

1755
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:39,040
Speaker 6: know what was going on.

1756
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: I thought maybe you were you guys, You guys, we

1757
01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: talk about this all the time, right, I mean, you

1758
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,880
Speaker 1: guys have only been out twice. There's no equity. I

1759
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: used to wear equity all the time. Like, she doesn't

1760
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 1: she liked you, but she doesn't really, really really like

1761
01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:56,280
Speaker 1: you to the point where you can bust out something

1762
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or uncomfortable with,

1763
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 1: and that she's just gonna get over it. Like I

1764
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying, which is I asked you for something,

1765
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 1: she said no, and you were cool about it, and

1766
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:08,840
Speaker 1: you can communicate, but like you're not. I don't think

1767
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 1: you're there yet you're still getting to know each other.

1768
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:12,559
Speaker 1: She can't get that out of her mind. She doesn't

1769
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 1: known anything else about you, she said, wandering a bunch

1770
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:17,120
Speaker 1: of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for six months

1771
01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:19,719
Speaker 1: and they asked me to do something weird that's different

1772
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 1: than two times, thank weird, and I found and that

1773
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 1: was that. With my luck, I would ask for that

1774
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 1: and get kinky. I'd forget I had them, and then

1775
01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 1: I would meet the woman of my dreams and she'd

1776
01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:33,720
Speaker 1: come over and be like, what are these? And then

1777
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm in trouble. I got this is kind of weird. Rock.

1778
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 1: See any chance you would forgive this guy and give

1779
01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 1: another shot? It's just not my thing. I think we

1780
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 1: both be better off.

1781
01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 7: We found people that that are mold a little bit better.

1782
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,519
Speaker 1: There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, good luck

1783
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 1: to you. Tim. Okay, Sorry, than A's entertainment report. He's

1784
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: on the Freas Show.

1785
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 2: Did He is asking to serve his fifty month sentence

1786
01:20:57,240 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 2: at Federal Correctional Institute in New Jersey.

1787
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:04,759
Speaker 1: It's called Fort Dix, which kind of sorry, I'm twelve

1788
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:12,639
Speaker 1: d i X. His lawyers argue, I'm sorry. He wants

1789
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:13,559
Speaker 1: to be moved to Fort Dicks.

1790
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 2: His lawyers argue that the low security facility, which makes

1791
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 2: me a little nervous, near his hometown, offers a top

1792
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 2: drug treatment program, the Residential Drug Abuse Program, that could

1793
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 2: help him remain sober and rehabilitate. They also say that

1794
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 2: its proximity to New York would make family visits easier.

1795
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:33,679
Speaker 2: Did he has already served about a year in custody

1796
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:36,760
Speaker 2: and could be released in roughly three years. A judge

1797
01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 2: will now consider that request. But the final placement, I

1798
01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 2: guess is on the Federal Bureau of Prisons. By the way,

1799
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 2: President Trump did confirm that. Did he asked him for

1800
01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:49,200
Speaker 2: a pardon? Obviously he said no. But Trump says he

1801
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 2: calls him puff Daddy, which was my favorite part. He's like,

1802
01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 2: I call him puff Daddy, And he did ask me

1803
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:54,160
Speaker 2: for a.

1804
01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 1: Lot of versions of it. Good you subscribe to right

1805
01:21:58,600 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 1: still back in the day.

1806
01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,560
Speaker 2: Apparently because he is no longer puff Daddy, but he

1807
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 2: has been brother love.

1808
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 1: He's rocks shaw he did he shan yeah, right, So

1809
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:11,240
Speaker 1: I thank you for clarifying. That's the one thous which

1810
01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:12,639
Speaker 1: area you're in? Yes, yeah.

1811
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 2: Jack Osborne tearfully recalled watching his dad's final concert on

1812
01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 2: July sixth, just seventeen days before his death, calling it

1813
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 2: a living wake. In a new interview, he said he

1814
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 2: hugged Ozzie backstage before the show, later cried with his

1815
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 2: brother in the audience, realizing that it was his dad's

1816
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 2: last performance. Jack said Ozzie got to say goodbye to

1817
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 2: everyone that night, which is really special. As for his

1818
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,559
Speaker 2: mom Sharon and how she's doing, he says he always

1819
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 2: answers by saying she's okay, but not okay, but that

1820
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 2: the whole family absolutely feels the outpouring of love from

1821
01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:45,759
Speaker 2: fans and everybody who has, you know, said nice things

1822
01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 2: and done the memorials and all that. So she is,

1823
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:54,320
Speaker 2: She's hanging in there. And Swifties in a Jacksonville. Jacksonville

1824
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 2: feeder probably were pretty surprised when they went to see

1825
01:22:57,400 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 2: one of her movie screenings and they saw her, her

1826
01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,719
Speaker 2: fiance and his family in the audience. I was lose

1827
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 2: my ever loving mind. It is very sweet, like couldn't

1828
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:06,760
Speaker 2: you guys get it on you know, Blu ray or

1829
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 2: DVD or something new. Photos show Travis all smiles with

1830
01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,559
Speaker 2: his arms around his mom Donna, along with his uncle

1831
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 2: and aunt on his birthday of all days. That's how

1832
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 2: he spent it at a Florida movie theater, which made

1833
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,640
Speaker 2: sense since he and the Chiefs played the Jags last night.

1834
01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 2: Travis and Donna even had little props, including orange feather fans,

1835
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:25,760
Speaker 2: to go with the new album thing it.

1836
01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 1: It's a very cute photo.

1837
01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 2: I would have lost my mind if I look over

1838
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 2: and see him in his red wood sitting right there

1839
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,639
Speaker 2: while we're talking about the couple. Though, Taylor did shut

1840
01:23:33,720 --> 01:23:37,200
Speaker 2: down the popular fan theory suggesting that she would retire

1841
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 2: from music once she gets married. She said it's actually

1842
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 2: pretty offensive and rooted in outdated stereotypes that women give

1843
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 2: up their careers after their marriage. She says her love

1844
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 2: life does not dictate her creative work, and she plans

1845
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 2: to keep making music for as long as it inspires her.

1846
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if you.

1847
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 2: Guys heard this theory, but a lot of people thought

1848
01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:55,080
Speaker 2: we were getting the life of the showgirl and then

1849
01:23:55,160 --> 01:23:56,639
Speaker 2: like the Death of a Showgirl and it was gonna

1850
01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:59,200
Speaker 2: be her last album. But she's not slowing down. She's like,

1851
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 2: he's really passed about his career, and he supports that.

1852
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,960
Speaker 2: I'm passionate about mine, so swifties can relax. And I

1853
01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:07,040
Speaker 2: did not talk about her for any of the other

1854
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:08,680
Speaker 2: reports today, so I don't want to hear it.

1855
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 1: I'll know. There was one complaint on the text, too

1856
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 1: much tailor talk. It's not like anything's going on with

1857
01:24:13,960 --> 01:24:16,680
Speaker 1: her right now, so it's not like, you know, she

1858
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 1: had a new.

1859
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,719
Speaker 2: Album and right you know she is in the news,

1860
01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 2: and that's kind of my job. But I do try

1861
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:25,680
Speaker 2: to please one off texters. It's a problem that I have.

1862
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:29,720
Speaker 2: I know, same same So for the one texture, I

1863
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,680
Speaker 2: did not talk about her that much today, Not that much.

1864
01:24:32,840 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 1: No, not that much at all. And no, there's so

1865
01:24:34,560 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 1: much stuff that I should be talking. Good job, no,

1866
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 1: thank you.

1867
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:40,160
Speaker 2: The one person should be very happy trying to keep

1868
01:24:40,160 --> 01:24:43,120
Speaker 2: it fair at trying to keep it even I'm a journalist. Also,

1869
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 2: if you want to catch up on any of those

1870
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:47,240
Speaker 2: other reports or anything else from the show, type the

1871
01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:49,160
Speaker 2: French one demand and if you could while you're there,

1872
01:24:49,200 --> 01:24:50,679
Speaker 2: set as a preset it helps.

1873
01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:53,360
Speaker 1: Please on the free iHeart radio app. Have you guys

1874
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:56,280
Speaker 1: heard about the Taco Bell Ultra Marathon. It's not sponsored

1875
01:24:56,320 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 1: by Taco Bell.

1876
01:24:57,439 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 6: No.

1877
01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: Now, at first I would say, okay, I'm in except

1878
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not in it at all. As you know.

1879
01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm on your two season two of trying to be

1880
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:09,680
Speaker 1: a runner, which means which means a more of a

1881
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 1: frow out. My run is a fast is a high

1882
01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:17,280
Speaker 1: exertion fast walk for some people. I'm really out here,

1883
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:21,040
Speaker 1: you know. And then we got personal trainer at the

1884
01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:24,160
Speaker 1: Stars except for me, Gideon, you know who this guy.

1885
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 1: Yesterday we're running and I was like, hey, and he's

1886
01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 1: about to run the Chicago Marathon, and I'm like, give

1887
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: me to start running right now at your marathon pace,

1888
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:34,680
Speaker 1: and I want to see how far I can keep

1889
01:25:34,760 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 1: up with it. And I would say about three hundred

1890
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:37,639
Speaker 1: feet later, I was done.

1891
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:38,000
Speaker 5: Wow.

1892
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 1: And yet he would have had to do that, And

1893
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:43,280
Speaker 1: we'll do that this weekend for another twenty six miles,

1894
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,680
Speaker 1: So there's that wow. Proud of you though, But yeah, no,

1895
01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:50,519
Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's something this, however, I think

1896
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 1: would be difficult for a lot of people. It's a

1897
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 1: fifty k. Okay, it's a fifty k, which I don't

1898
01:25:55,800 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 1: know how to do the math on that. I think

1899
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: it's eleven. What is it? What a fifty k is?

1900
01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:05,200
Speaker 1: Someone looked at him. Please party one noise. Be right, Well,

1901
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:08,759
Speaker 1: five k is three times? So is that fifteen miles?

1902
01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: How about thirty one? Thirty one miles? Thanks? Okay, so

1903
01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:16,160
Speaker 1: you were right. The New York Coast reports that Denver

1904
01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,600
Speaker 1: is preparing for an especially brute what must be if

1905
01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 1: is an ultra and especially brutal endurance race. The Taco

1906
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 1: Bell fifty K is not sponsored by fifty K. It's

1907
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:28,559
Speaker 1: a demanding test of not only cardiovascular fitness but also

1908
01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 1: intestinal fortitude. You're required to stop at at least nine

1909
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:36,040
Speaker 1: of the ten Taco bells along the route and consume food.

1910
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:40,559
Speaker 1: This is the eighth such competition, and the rules make

1911
01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:44,360
Speaker 1: this race the ultimate test of athleticism. So here are

1912
01:26:44,400 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: the rules if you want to do it. First of all,

1913
01:26:46,120 --> 01:26:49,560
Speaker 1: thirty miles we just learned is what a fifty K is.

1914
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 1: By the four stopped, all entrance must have consumed at

1915
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Speaker 1: least one Chiluupa Supreme or one crunch Trap Supreme. Dietary

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Speaker 1: restrictions will be allowed with reason. By the eighth stop,

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Speaker 1: all entrance must have consumed at least one Burrito Supreme

1918
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Speaker 1: or one Nacho's Bel Grande. You have to finish in

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Speaker 1: under eleven hours. Drinks don't count as food unless you're

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Speaker 1: trying to get clever, you know, and like, oh, I'll

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Speaker 1: get a I'll get a Mountain dew, you know, Baja

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Speaker 1: blast and Nope, that doesn't count. Entrance must keep receipts

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Speaker 1: and wrappers for confirmation of stupidity. At the end of

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Speaker 1: the rum, no en course, pepto alka, seltzer, pepsid ac,

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Speaker 1: or my Lanta will be allowed, and additional rules could

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Speaker 1: be added, amended, or change to promote the intent of

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Speaker 1: the run, which is to do something completely stupid apparently.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you think, like, okay, I could do like

1929
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Speaker 1: a maybe a five a taco bell five K. Now

1930
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Speaker 1: the taco bell part, like, I don't know how long

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Speaker 1: I could the five K part. I could manage in

1932
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Speaker 1: a diaper maybe though, maybe n pants or something like that,

1933
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Speaker 1: because I mean, you know, usually it's like if I'm

1934
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Speaker 1: gonna have Taco Bell, then we got to sort of

1935
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Speaker 1: plan out the rest of the day, Yes you do,

1936
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Speaker 1: you know, same with white Castle, like we gotta we

1937
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Speaker 1: gotta sort of Okay, I'm gonna do this, so cancel

1938
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Speaker 1: the rest of my plans, like I need to be

1939
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Speaker 1: at home. I'm not going on. That's it's just not

1940
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Speaker 1: something to play with, Like we're not just out here

1941
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Speaker 1: Willy Neely just having taco bell, you know, and then

1942
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Speaker 1: just going about our day. Some people can do that.

1943
01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:17,040
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people. But there are a

1944
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Speaker 1: lot of layers here. Thirty miles of running in eleven hours,

1945
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Speaker 1: and then you have to do all of them. I

1946
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Speaker 1: think it's pretty wide.

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Speaker 15: I could do a five k eleven hours I need to.

1948
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Speaker 15: I mean, that's that is my five K time. Actually,

1949
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Speaker 15: I'm actually yeah, I'm actually still running a five k

1950
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Speaker 15: from yesterday as we speak right now. I know it

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Speaker 15: doesn't sound like I'm breathing heavy, but that's because I'm

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Speaker 15: on hour ten.

1953
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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. Yeah, Fread's Fun Fact, Fred's

1954
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Speaker 1: Fun Learn so much? Did you know? Saint Lucia is

1955
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Speaker 1: the only country that is named after a woman. Saint

1956
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Speaker 1: Lucia is the only country that is named after a woman.

1957
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Speaker 1: And after these fun facts, the ones, I think I

1958
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Speaker 1: really got you. I can see you all look up

1959
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Speaker 1: to your brain. I see your eyes look up your brain,

1960
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: which means you're thinking. Sure, because when you look at

1961
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Speaker 1: your brain then you can see more. The French name

1962
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Speaker 1: this country after Saint Lucy of Syracuse, who was a

1963
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Speaker 1: Christian martyr who died during a time of persecution. Wow,

1964
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Speaker 1: Saint Lucia, we need to go the only country that

1965
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Speaker 1: is named after a woman apparently just one guy. Look

1966
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Speaker 1: what a fun fag? What the machine says? The fun

1967
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Speaker 1: fag machine says this, and that's what it's for. More

1968
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Speaker 1: Fred Show next right here, This is the Fread Show.

1969
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Speaker 1: Each time. Celebrate the holiday season with Mariah Carey's Christmas

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Speaker 1: two Night's Day at Park MGM December twelfth through the

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Speaker 1: fourteenth and round trip. Text together to five seven, seven

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Speaker 1: three nine right now for a chance to win. A

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Speaker 1: confirmation text will be sent standard message and data rates

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Speaker 1: may apply. It's all thanks to Live Nation. Yeah, they

1978
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Speaker 1: talk better than they say. Tell me about These are

1979
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Speaker 1: the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. You saw what

1980
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Speaker 1: happened when the guy allegedly did that to Taylor Swift

1981
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Speaker 1: and he's I don't you know? Not not great? The

1982
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Speaker 1: career aspirations after that, No you shouldn't grab people that

1983
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Speaker 1: don't want to be grabbed. You're not supposed to know. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: don't do it. That's the more you know, moment of

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Speaker 1: the day, like writing in our diaryis, except we say

1986
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Speaker 1: them aloud. We call them blogs. Caitlin, go deer blog.

1987
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Speaker 2: So I have to ask you, guys, if it is

1988
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Speaker 2: ever okay for me to call out a friend's partner

1989
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Speaker 2: husband in this case. Okay, So I was eating with

1990
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Speaker 2: both of them recently and he said a comment that

1991
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Speaker 2: made me want to jump across the table and smack him,

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Speaker 2: but I did not. I did not choose violence that day.

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Speaker 2: So we were eating and we sat down and he goes, Babe,

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Speaker 2: i'm starving. We didn't eat lunch today, and you never

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Speaker 2: miss a meal.

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Speaker 1: Excuse?

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Speaker 5: Oh no.

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Speaker 2: So there's a couple issues that I have with this comment.

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Speaker 2: First of all, seeing their fridge. They have a ton

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Speaker 2: of food in their fridge, so if he was hungry,

2001
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Speaker 2: he could have made himself some lunch.

2002
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Speaker 1: He doesn't need her to do that. Second of all,

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Speaker 1: I don't need anyone tell me I never miss a meal.

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Speaker 2: I don't miss meals, but I don't need someone reminding

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Speaker 2: me of that, and third of all, we both smirked

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Speaker 2: at each other, my friend and I because what he

2007
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Speaker 2: didn't know is we snuck.

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Speaker 1: Through the Taco Bell drive through, so we were not starving.

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Speaker 1: We did not get him. I'm offended. Did she look

2010
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Speaker 1: sad by it? Yeah? Yeah, wow, Well I do feel

2011
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Speaker 1: like it's probably for them to work out. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know that you need to step in.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I understand that the natural desire to want

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Speaker 1: to defend your friend, but I also think it's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and when you know, probably when you left,

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Speaker 1: he got an earful about it, so I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She actually asked me why I didn't say anything. Really, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's your job. I don't think so either,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't want to get involved, but I was

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Speaker 1: like girl, and she was like, yeah, you should have

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Speaker 1: said that, And I was like, oh, really okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know the rules, yeah, because I don't know, Like

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, if it were something like really hurtful,

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Speaker 1: I mean, which could that could be interpreted really hurtful,

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Speaker 1: but like a physical or something else, like yeah, of

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Speaker 1: course you intervene, but I don't know. I don't necessarily

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Speaker 1: want to get involved in people's no sense of humor

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Speaker 1: or passive aggressiveness or whatever it is because I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and then I stand to alienate myself

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Speaker 1: from that group inadvertently if I'm overreacting. So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe later I would check with my friend and make

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Speaker 1: sure that she was okay. But no, I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's fair for people to expect you to jump in

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Speaker 1: on their relationship sort of squabbles. Yeah, no, she wasn't

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Speaker 1: like upset with me or anything. But like when we

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Speaker 1: talked about it later, I was like, girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what to I would just say one

2038
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Speaker 3: thing okay, and I'm not gonna go to the floor

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Speaker 3: with it, but I will say, let's normalize one thing,

2040
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Speaker 3: and that's making people uncomfortable when they want to make

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Speaker 3: someone else uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel what I'm saying. I'm big on that.

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Speaker 3: So like if Hobby ever said that, if he would never,

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Speaker 3: but if he did, I give you guys permission to

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Speaker 3: make him uncomfortable, like call him out on something, and

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Speaker 3: I will be right there hagging you on. I will

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Speaker 3: cheer you on because I feel like we give people

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Speaker 3: too much permission to, like just I don't know, disrespect

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Speaker 3: other people or say things slick stuff, you know, and

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Speaker 3: if I don't stick up for myself in that moment,

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Speaker 3: I give you guys permission too.

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Speaker 1: But we don't have any perspective now Pauline, Like we

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Speaker 1: know now that she was upset and wishes that that

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Speaker 1: Camelin had come to her defense. But in the moment,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's not just some silly little

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Speaker 1: game that the two of them play, and then we

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01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:48,320
Speaker 1: could be silly together and I'm not being funny. I

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Speaker 1: think it's for me to again, short of something that's

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Speaker 1: like dire, I don't think or dangerous. I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I think it's for me to inject myself and other

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Speaker 1: people's relationships because I got to think, if you're saying

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Speaker 1: it in front of me, in front of me, then

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Speaker 1: you don't mean to You're more than I would like

2064
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Speaker 1: to believe if I know all parties involved, that you're

2065
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Speaker 1: not actually trying to be hurtful, that you're being silly.

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Speaker 1: Even if you are being hurtful, but then that's for

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Speaker 1: the other that's for you to straighten out with your husband,

2068
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Speaker 1: not me. But I give you permission to be just

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Speaker 1: a silly back.

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Speaker 3: And I'm only saying this because again, like we give

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Speaker 3: people too much permission and room and leeway to.

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Speaker 1: Do these kind of things. Just be silly back, be like,

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Speaker 1: oh how about you can't get up and make a

2074
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Speaker 1: sandwich yourself? Yes I can't. That's extremely combative what you do.

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Speaker 1: I'm but that's how I hate to say this, but

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Speaker 1: that's how you get yourself like not liked by the partner,

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Speaker 1: and then that's how it causes problems. And you can

2078
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Speaker 1: sit here and say like, yeah, well, well that's their problem,

2079
01:34:45,240 --> 01:34:48,280
Speaker 1: but then you're unfortunately, as we've all seen, their problem

2080
01:34:48,360 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 1: becomes your problem. And I hear what you're saying, but like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I'm in your home. It's for

2082
01:34:53,760 --> 01:34:56,000
Speaker 1: me to be passive aggressive with you on your comment

2083
01:34:56,080 --> 01:34:57,400
Speaker 1: when I don't have all the context.

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Speaker 2: True, I don't blame yeah, yeah, we had just started

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Speaker 2: in the night and like we were going to be

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Speaker 2: together all night, the three of us, and actually for

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Speaker 2: once I held my tongue, which I've never done it

2088
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Speaker 2: because you.

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Speaker 1: Could have made the evening very uncomfortable. I understand both

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Speaker 1: sides of this, but it's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like with in certain situations and with certain

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01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:18,000
Speaker 2: people and certain friends partners, maybe I feel that I can.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what was going on, and honestly, the

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01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:23,559
Speaker 2: comment stunned me so much that I was silent because

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01:35:23,600 --> 01:35:25,840
Speaker 2: I was like, what, you can't say that, especially to

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Speaker 2: a woman, like don't say that.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could test it by doing by responding

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Speaker 1: self in a self diffacating way about yourself. I guess

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Speaker 1: you could be like, oh, I know, I'm kind of hungry,

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Speaker 1: or I don't know something. You could say something like

2101
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Speaker 1: but I think if you're like, well, I can't believe

2102
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Speaker 1: you just said that, you know, in defense of your friend,

2103
01:35:43,040 --> 01:35:45,280
Speaker 1: it's like, oh whoa, because then all of a sudden,

2104
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Speaker 1: making guess like you would make you look like you're overreacting,

2105
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:49,400
Speaker 1: and then before long you're right. The rest of the

2106
01:35:49,479 --> 01:35:52,920
Speaker 1: evening sucks because because you had to open your mouth. Yeah,

2107
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Speaker 1: I just I was like, oh my goodness, but I

2108
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Speaker 1: sometimes I have to tell myself, and I'm not very

2109
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Speaker 1: good at this, and to your point, sometimes I have

2110
01:35:59,840 --> 01:36:02,280
Speaker 1: to mind myself. I don't have to have a comment

2111
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Speaker 1: about everything. I don't have to contribute to every conversation.

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Speaker 1: My voice doesn't always need to be heard because I

2113
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Speaker 1: like to have something to say about everything. I'm learning. Oh,

2114
01:36:13,880 --> 01:36:16,280
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, I'm learning. This is me. I'm

2115
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Speaker 1: talking about me. This is not this is not me,

2116
01:36:18,520 --> 01:36:21,920
Speaker 1: like you know, no that projecting onto you. It's like,

2117
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Speaker 1: sometimes I want to have a comment about everything, and

2118
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Speaker 1: sometimes it's like I need to say, okay, I was

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Speaker 1: I was very proud of myself because you could have

2120
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Speaker 1: made the rest of your night really bad.

2121
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Speaker 2: I resisted an urge and I had an urge, But yeah,

2122
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Speaker 2: it's it depends on the friend, the husband and the situation.

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Speaker 1: And I actually, for once in my life, held my

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Speaker 1: tongue and I'm proud.

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Speaker 2: But I was just wondering what you guys thought about

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Speaker 2: calling out someone else's partner, because just word of wisdom

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Speaker 2: for men or anyone really don't remind someone that they

2128
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Speaker 2: don't miss any meals.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's the level of comfort, like if

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Speaker 1: you knew, like there are people, there are couples. I

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Speaker 1: know them both well enough that I could say something.

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Speaker 1: There are some that I don't know the sense of humor,

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Speaker 1: or the sensibilities or or the context. And then I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say anything. But I think you have to be

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Speaker 1: self aware enough to know, in my opinion, now again

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Speaker 1: if it's if it's hurtful or abusive or someone but

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna punch on his face, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: For all I know, right before I walked in, she

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Speaker 1: made a fat joke to him. And it's never like

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Speaker 1: those jokes are usually not funny. But like again, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what happened earlier in the day or yesterday,

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Speaker 1: or like what their little stupid jokes, you know what,

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Speaker 1: they're still little humor is