WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Coffee and Exes 

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<v Speaker 1>email into the show that said if I had to

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<v Speaker 1>describe my date in one word, it would be awkward. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this is right up our alley. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to read anymore. After that, I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired of hearing about gushy, romantic dates from people.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call this train wreck. Give us a real challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the story of how Aaron got on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us today. Aaron, thanks for being with us,

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<v Speaker 1>you little dumpster fire. You guys. Okay, Aaron, I never

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<v Speaker 1>understand if your date is described as awkward, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call this person? I like me like

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<v Speaker 1>a restart, you know, like a read. Oh, it is

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<v Speaker 1>your fault. I hear what you're saying. It was awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what all the train wrecks say. I wish we

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<v Speaker 1>could just do this over again. To be honest, it

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<v Speaker 1>really wasn't like my fault, her fault. Like this was

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<v Speaker 1>a really really bad situation. Now I'm dying to know. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us a little bit about what happened. First,

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<v Speaker 1>start with the girl. What's her name? Okay, so her

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<v Speaker 1>name's Monica? Okay, where do you meet her? I just

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<v Speaker 1>met her off the dating app? Okay, okay, what'd you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do? Yeah, it was just like a normal, like

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<v Speaker 1>coffee date, and like, to be honest, it just really

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<v Speaker 1>ended up to be like messed up. It sucks. Coffee

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<v Speaker 1>dates are like the safest dates you can have. They're

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<v Speaker 1>not very long. But if they get your drink wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I'm sorry, two pumps of vanilla instead of four,

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<v Speaker 1>you can add a little something extra to that coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>pour a little something in, making a little extra fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking about. I don't know. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what you're saying? Okay, I thought that was It

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<v Speaker 1>is what happened, guys, This is what happened. I had

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<v Speaker 1>no control over this at all. Most awkward thing ever

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<v Speaker 1>to happen to me in my life. On the date, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't here taking girls the coffee shop thinking safe, coffee

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<v Speaker 1>date whatever. Right, end up getting there, do the window,

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<v Speaker 1>and who do I see? My ex girlfriend works at

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee shop. You honestly had no idea, dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know anything about this. Trust me, my heart drops butterflies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what the hell is going on? You know

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<v Speaker 1>this is insane, this is really happening. Anyways, I try

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<v Speaker 1>to play it off, Okay, I really just try to

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<v Speaker 1>keep it cool. I pay for our drinks, we sit down,

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<v Speaker 1>we wait for our drinks, right, She's kind of looking

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<v Speaker 1>at us, and then I'm kind of like looking But

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm like trying to participate in this date. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally distracted by this other situation not just a rose.

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<v Speaker 1>So hold on, did you tell your date about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that your ex is working as a No, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you I'm just eating this person for pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>the first time ever. If I do that, be like

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<v Speaker 1>red flags that's I never ever see this well, and

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<v Speaker 1>your ex is pissed. Your ex is also mad at

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<v Speaker 1>you at this point. Yeah, I'm a little frustrated myself

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm caught in this limbo. But look, I try

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<v Speaker 1>to play cool whatever. Anyway, she comes and brings the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee to up, did not notice you. I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the situation I was at work. I would have like

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<v Speaker 1>my coworker, heck, I'm in a situation. She just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>the extra tip for good service. She goes off not

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<v Speaker 1>only to do this, but then starts letting me know

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<v Speaker 1>about where she's at in life, why she took on

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<v Speaker 1>this job, and just starts like going off, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time that like, my ex is just ranting.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, I'm looking at Monica, Monica is looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me. I'm like looking at a everyone's kind of looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I mean. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>Monica knows that this is your ex. Right, is Monica pisted?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she was understanding, but it was just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Did she believe you that you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that the X work there? I hope I wouldn't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't either, because if I was you, Aaron, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had seen my X in the coffee shop, I

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<v Speaker 1>would have been like, oh, hey, by the way, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we should go across the street to the other coffee

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<v Speaker 1>shop instead of sitting down right I said it just

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<v Speaker 1>totally left or just like, hey, my stomach, herts, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>wan coffee. Let's go for a walk like anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, you know, after the situation had happened

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<v Speaker 1>where she dropped off the drinks and I explained the

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<v Speaker 1>situation Demonica. I asked her if she felt comfortable and

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to leave, and she said, no, it's okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>can stay. So so how much longer were you there

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<v Speaker 1>with Monica? We were there for probably like twenty thirty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes to be honest, and like you know, we moved

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<v Speaker 1>to outside to give some personal space, you know from

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<v Speaker 1>my ex. But I could just see her, like I

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<v Speaker 1>could feel her energy. I can see her looking at me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the neighborhood Watch, you know. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you cannot blame her for this one. I would. I

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<v Speaker 1>would totally do that. This is such a bad time,

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<v Speaker 1>And Aaron, I have something else that I need to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you. Your X is actually in the room with

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<v Speaker 1>us right now. She wants to talk with you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding. We're gonna play cool because I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want to move forward in my life, not go back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do that. We'll play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll call your date Monica for you, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>try and get you your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, cool? Thanks. If you're just tuning in for

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update, we've got a guy named Aaron

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, and I gotta say I am so

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<v Speaker 1>proud of us. Really, we haven't done anything yet. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we did. We made it through a whole part one

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<v Speaker 1>about a coffee date and didn't make a single coffee

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<v Speaker 1>puny would that's just what we do? I feel like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how many puns we could have made

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<v Speaker 1>in that first part? I mean it's not Yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>whole latte, a whole lot of puns. But okay, we've

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<v Speaker 1>ruined it now. Oh yeah, we all try to say

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<v Speaker 1>one at the same time. Yeah, we're not very good

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<v Speaker 1>at our jobs. We're not, so maybe we should just

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Aaron's Okay, it's officially the worst second date ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Aaron. That's your fault. Jeffrey all want you

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<v Speaker 1>taking life for that, and I want you to apologize

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone. I do. But if you're just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>and you missed the first part, Aaron took out a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Monica to a coffee date, and the really

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<v Speaker 1>awkward thing about it was that Aaron's ex girlfriend worked

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<v Speaker 1>as a barista there. He claims he didn't know that beforehand,

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<v Speaker 1>but she even delivered them their food and their drinks

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<v Speaker 1>told them about why she was working as a barista.

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<v Speaker 1>There got really awkward really quick. Aaron, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think your biggest mistake was here? To be honest, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where I where to start. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I did. Ball too many things, I would say

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<v Speaker 1>walking through the door when you saw your ex was inside. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got this Tamon narrative where I like, people think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a player or something. No, no one thinks that.

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<v Speaker 1>They just think I was just trying to live alive

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<v Speaker 1>and go on a nice, healthy day. That's it. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel you. All right, play, Let's let's call this girl

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<v Speaker 1>for you and see if we can get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Okay, sounds good? Yeah, buddy, all right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>die the number right now here we go? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Monica? Please? Isn't her? Hi, Monica,

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm sorry you're what I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>radio host, Yeah, and I host the radio show Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. He's also a sassy pants. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure you meant to call me? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at work. You don't us into our show? Yea yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something called a second date update. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out with someone and afterwards, if the

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<v Speaker 1>person isn't calling you back, you can email our show

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll reach out to them for you to try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out the reason why. Okay, and so somebody

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us about you recently. His name's Aaron. Oh okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how could you forget Aaron? So Aaron told us that

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<v Speaker 1>he took you out on a date recently. He admits

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go quite the way that he saw it going,

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<v Speaker 1>but he really had a good time with you and

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<v Speaker 1>is hoping to see you again. Yeah. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about that. It was was kind of an interesting situation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what he really wants is a redo of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, because he said that when he went there,

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<v Speaker 1>his ex happened to be working as a barista, something

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<v Speaker 1>that he didn't know going into this. Do you believe

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<v Speaker 1>him that he didn't know that his X was working there? Oh? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Um I mean, I don't think he intentionally took me there,

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<v Speaker 1>but he got there before me, so like there's no

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<v Speaker 1>possible way that he could have not seen her. And

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't understand why we stayed there, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, Like we could have gone anywhere else. Yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was wearing like a different outfit, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it like blended into the background where he didn't notice.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that he made it. No. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't walk into a coffee shop and look at

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<v Speaker 1>every single employee and you just see green apron, green apron,

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<v Speaker 1>green apron. It's like a beacon. Okay, It's like you're

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<v Speaker 1>and then the X is the light, and you go,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what the first thing you see, no matter what.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's some like notional issues. Let's bring it

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<v Speaker 1>back to the date. So, Monica, are you telling us

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<v Speaker 1>that was the problem for your date, that you were

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<v Speaker 1>turned off because his X was there? Awkward doesn't even

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<v Speaker 1>begin to describe how weird it was. Right, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like she made the point to come over. She you know,

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<v Speaker 1>brought us our drinks, and she kind of just like

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<v Speaker 1>leaned it like really hard into him and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just like went off The thing is, Aaron told us

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<v Speaker 1>all that he's aware that all that happened, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>really remorseful, wish that it never happened. That that part's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he wanted to crawl under the table, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>and just curl up in a ball. Could you give

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<v Speaker 1>him the benefit of the doubt there? I mean, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. After this all happened, I felt like it

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<v Speaker 1>was really weird and that there was something kind of

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<v Speaker 1>missing or I don't know, I just I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I had to kind of go back and I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up talking to his ex. Oh wait, wait, something missing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she forgot to put sugar into the coffee. You

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<v Speaker 1>went back to the coffee shop and talk to the ex. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it was so weird because she was you

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<v Speaker 1>could tell that, like she wasn't over him, and that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like just and I but why would you

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<v Speaker 1>even put energy into that? Why? I mean, what possibly

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<v Speaker 1>could you talk to her about? I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kind of hear her side of everything, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if I was reading it wrong, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I wanted to make sure because if I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to go out with him again, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get in the way of something. If there's the

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<v Speaker 1>potential that they might get back together, are you playing

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<v Speaker 1>like relationship counselor to them? Like, what did you say

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<v Speaker 1>to her? I mean, you know, we just we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up talking and she just you know, she really really

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<v Speaker 1>misses him, and it just you know, she was telling

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<v Speaker 1>me about all this, like all these like really romantic

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<v Speaker 1>interactions that they had together, and it was just it

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot. And he's going on, that's crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a hold on, hold on, like my girl. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>why she's like, hold on, hold on, Monica. I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you that Aaron's been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and he heard everything that you said. Aaron, you're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to wait till we call you in. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an organized thing. Yeah, I'm sorry. That has to be

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<v Speaker 1>the most think that happened to me in my life

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm the crazy one. What do you mean that

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<v Speaker 1>you are about? You are out of your mind? Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's wait, Aaron, you think she's crazy for going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to the X at the coffee shop where you

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<v Speaker 1>had your first date. I would never do that to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never do that. No, wait, she likes you,

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<v Speaker 1>so she really likes you. She has an opportunity. Cool guy, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one that introduced her to your ex by accident?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what do you mean introduce? She just ended up

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<v Speaker 1>being at the coffee shop. I didn't introduce one. Monica,

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<v Speaker 1>What are you feeling right now? Yeah? Okay. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the fact that he's calling me crazy when

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<v Speaker 1>the full and entire scenario was devolved is ridiculous. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm being crazy because I think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a goal code thing, like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get it in the middle of two people

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, have the village of getting back together.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, girl code? I'm not with her anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hanging out with you, like dude, her work. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you want me to say? Like you are to her?

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<v Speaker 1>And then we still continue to have a day. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't want to go out on a day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't ever. All right, So wait, Monica, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still talking to Aaron's X? Oh god, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking well right now, but obviously, like we've been texting,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's are you well, what are you guys talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>We're just talking about Aaron and like how amazing and

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful their relationship was together, and how it could still

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<v Speaker 1>be amazing if they decided to me the words like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's really my hert goes out to her,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's no, she's obviously not over him. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think Erin is interested anymore. I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gaslighting or giving her hope where they're No.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just listening, you know, I'm being a

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<v Speaker 1>founding board for her, and she's just kind of talking

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<v Speaker 1>through stuff with me, and that's fine with me. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have anything in my love life here. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean this sounds cooky. You're not allowed to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Array talk about your love life now, so quiet. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you you're both soon a little cuckoo, but times

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<v Speaker 1>that works out. So Aaron, I mean, do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any lasting feelings for your ex? No? And now knowing this,

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<v Speaker 1>this girl sounds like I think you guys should hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great idea. Actually, you know what Aaron I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to offer you and Monica and your ex

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on another day. We'll pay for it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know a great coffee shop there we

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<v Speaker 1>go Monica's on board, you know, taking you to that

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop, knowing that you went back to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>my ex. Now being on the radio, this has to

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<v Speaker 1>be a, by far now the worst thing that's ever

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<v Speaker 1>happened to me in my life. Glad we could do

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<v Speaker 1>that for you. Wow, Arian, you really do make bad decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving ninety two point five