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After that, I was like, yes, 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm tired of hearing about gushy, romantic dates from people. 11 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: Let's just call this train wreck. Give us a real challenge. 12 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: And that's the story of how Aaron got on the 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: phone with us today. Aaron, thanks for being with us, 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: you little dumpster fire. You guys. Okay, Aaron, I never 15 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: understand if your date is described as awkward, why do 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: you want to call this person? I like me like 17 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: a restart, you know, like a read. Oh, it is 18 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: your fault. I hear what you're saying. It was awkward. 19 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: That's what all the train wrecks say. I wish we 20 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: could just do this over again. To be honest, it 21 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: really wasn't like my fault, her fault. Like this was 22 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: a really really bad situation. Now I'm dying to know. Yes, 23 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about what happened. First, 24 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: start with the girl. What's her name? Okay, so her 25 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: name's Monica? Okay, where do you meet her? I just 26 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: met her off the dating app? Okay, okay, what'd you 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: guys do? Yeah, it was just like a normal, like 28 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: coffee date, and like, to be honest, it just really 29 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: ended up to be like messed up. It sucks. Coffee 30 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: dates are like the safest dates you can have. They're 31 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: not very long. But if they get your drink wrong, 32 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: oh I'm sorry, two pumps of vanilla instead of four, 33 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: you can add a little something extra to that coffee, 34 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: pour a little something in, making a little extra fun. 35 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I don't know. Is 36 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: that what you're saying? Okay, I thought that was It 37 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: is what happened, guys, This is what happened. I had 38 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: no control over this at all. Most awkward thing ever 39 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: to happen to me in my life. On the date, Okay, 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: wasn't here taking girls the coffee shop thinking safe, coffee 41 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: date whatever. Right, end up getting there, do the window, 42 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: and who do I see? My ex girlfriend works at 43 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: the coffee shop. You honestly had no idea, dude, I 44 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: didn't know anything about this. Trust me, my heart drops butterflies. 45 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, what the hell is going on? You know 46 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: this is insane, this is really happening. Anyways, I try 47 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: to play it off, Okay, I really just try to 48 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: keep it cool. I pay for our drinks, we sit down, 49 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: we wait for our drinks, right, She's kind of looking 50 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: at us, and then I'm kind of like looking But 51 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 1: then I'm like trying to participate in this date. But 52 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: I'm totally distracted by this other situation not just a rose. 53 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: So hold on, did you tell your date about the 54 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: fact that your ex is working as a No, what 55 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: do you I'm just eating this person for pretty much 56 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: the first time ever. If I do that, be like 57 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: red flags that's I never ever see this well, and 58 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: your ex is pissed. Your ex is also mad at 59 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: you at this point. Yeah, I'm a little frustrated myself 60 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: because I'm caught in this limbo. But look, I try 61 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: to play cool whatever. Anyway, she comes and brings the 62 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: coffee to up, did not notice you. I was in 63 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: the situation I was at work. I would have like 64 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: my coworker, heck, I'm in a situation. She just wanted 65 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: the extra tip for good service. She goes off not 66 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: only to do this, but then starts letting me know 67 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: about where she's at in life, why she took on 68 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: this job, and just starts like going off, and then 69 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: the whole time that like, my ex is just ranting. 70 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm looking at Monica, Monica is looking 71 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: at me. I'm like looking at a everyone's kind of looking. 72 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: I don't even know what I mean. At this point, 73 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: Monica knows that this is your ex. Right, is Monica pisted? 74 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: I mean she was understanding, but it was just weird. 75 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: You know. Did she believe you that you didn't know 76 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: that the X work there? I hope I wouldn't believe. 77 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: I wouldn't either, because if I was you, Aaron, and 78 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: I had seen my X in the coffee shop, I 79 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: would have been like, oh, hey, by the way, maybe 80 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: we should go across the street to the other coffee 81 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: shop instead of sitting down right I said it just 82 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: totally left or just like, hey, my stomach, herts, didn't 83 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: wan coffee. Let's go for a walk like anything. Yeah, 84 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: I mean, like, you know, after the situation had happened 85 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: where she dropped off the drinks and I explained the 86 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: situation Demonica. I asked her if she felt comfortable and 87 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: wanted to leave, and she said, no, it's okay, we 88 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: can stay. So so how much longer were you there 89 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: with Monica? We were there for probably like twenty thirty 90 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: minutes to be honest, and like you know, we moved 91 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: to outside to give some personal space, you know from 92 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: my ex. But I could just see her, like I 93 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: could feel her energy. I can see her looking at me. 94 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: It's like the neighborhood Watch, you know. Oh my god, 95 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: you cannot blame her for this one. I would. I 96 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: would totally do that. This is such a bad time, 97 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: And Aaron, I have something else that I need to 98 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: tell you. Your X is actually in the room with 99 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 1: us right now. She wants to talk with you. I'm 100 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: just kidding. We're gonna play cool because I just kind 101 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: of want to move forward in my life, not go back. Well, 102 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: let's do that. We'll play a song, we'll come back, 103 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: and we'll call your date Monica for you, and we'll 104 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: try and get you your second date update. All right, 105 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: all right, cool? Thanks. If you're just tuning in for 106 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: the second date update, we've got a guy named Aaron 107 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: on the phone, and I gotta say I am so 108 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: proud of us. Really, we haven't done anything yet. No, 109 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: we did. We made it through a whole part one 110 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,359 Speaker 1: about a coffee date and didn't make a single coffee 111 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: puny would that's just what we do? I feel like, Okay, 112 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,799 Speaker 1: do you know how many puns we could have made 113 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: in that first part? I mean it's not Yeah, a 114 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: whole latte, a whole lot of puns. But okay, we've 115 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: ruined it now. Oh yeah, we all try to say 116 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: one at the same time. Yeah, we're not very good 117 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: at our jobs. We're not, so maybe we should just 118 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: talk to Aaron's Okay, it's officially the worst second date ever. 119 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Aaron. That's your fault. Jeffrey all want you 120 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: taking life for that, and I want you to apologize 121 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: to everyone. I do. But if you're just tuning in 122 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: and you missed the first part, Aaron took out a 123 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: girl named Monica to a coffee date, and the really 124 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: awkward thing about it was that Aaron's ex girlfriend worked 125 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: as a barista there. He claims he didn't know that beforehand, 126 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: but she even delivered them their food and their drinks 127 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: told them about why she was working as a barista. 128 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: There got really awkward really quick. Aaron, what do you 129 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: think your biggest mistake was here? To be honest, I 130 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: don't know where I where to start. I don't know 131 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: what I did. Ball too many things, I would say 132 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: walking through the door when you saw your ex was inside. Yeah, 133 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: I got this Tamon narrative where I like, people think 134 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm a player or something. No, no one thinks that. 135 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: They just think I was just trying to live alive 136 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: and go on a nice, healthy day. That's it. I 137 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: feel you. All right, play, Let's let's call this girl 138 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: for you and see if we can get you a 139 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: second date. Okay, sounds good? Yeah, buddy, all right, let's 140 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: die the number right now here we go? Hello, Hi, 141 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: can I speak to Monica? Please? Isn't her? Hi, Monica, 142 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and 143 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm sorry you're what I'm a 144 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: radio host, Yeah, and I host the radio show Brooke 145 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. He's also a sassy pants. Yeah, okay, 146 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: are you sure you meant to call me? I don't know. 147 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: I'm at work. You don't us into our show? Yea yeah, 148 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second date update. That's where 149 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and afterwards, if the 150 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: person isn't calling you back, you can email our show 151 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: and we'll reach out to them for you to try 152 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: and figure out the reason why. Okay, and so somebody 153 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: emailed us about you recently. His name's Aaron. Oh okay, yeah, 154 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: how could you forget Aaron? So Aaron told us that 155 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: he took you out on a date recently. He admits 156 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: didn't go quite the way that he saw it going, 157 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: but he really had a good time with you and 158 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: is hoping to see you again. Yeah. I don't know 159 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: about that. It was was kind of an interesting situation. Yeah, 160 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: I mean, what he really wants is a redo of 161 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: the date, because he said that when he went there, 162 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: his ex happened to be working as a barista, something 163 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: that he didn't know going into this. Do you believe 164 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: him that he didn't know that his X was working there? Oh? Man? 165 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 1: Um I mean, I don't think he intentionally took me there, 166 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 1: but he got there before me, so like there's no 167 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: possible way that he could have not seen her. And 168 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: like I don't understand why we stayed there, you know 169 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like we could have gone anywhere else. Yeah, totally, 170 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: but she was wearing like a different outfit, so maybe 171 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: it like blended into the background where he didn't notice. 172 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: I just think that he made it. No. I agree. 173 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: You don't walk into a coffee shop and look at 174 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: every single employee and you just see green apron, green apron, 175 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: green apron. It's like a beacon. Okay, It's like you're 176 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: and then the X is the light, and you go, 177 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: no matter what the first thing you see, no matter what. 178 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: I think that's some like notional issues. Let's bring it 179 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: back to the date. So, Monica, are you telling us 180 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: that was the problem for your date, that you were 181 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: turned off because his X was there? Awkward doesn't even 182 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,439 Speaker 1: begin to describe how weird it was. Right, it was 183 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 1: like she made the point to come over. She you know, 184 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: brought us our drinks, and she kind of just like 185 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: leaned it like really hard into him and kind of 186 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: just like went off The thing is, Aaron told us 187 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 1: all that he's aware that all that happened, and he's 188 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: really remorseful, wish that it never happened. That that part's true. 189 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: I mean he wanted to crawl under the table, I think, 190 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: and just curl up in a ball. Could you give 191 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: him the benefit of the doubt there? I mean, here's 192 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: the thing. After this all happened, I felt like it 193 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,599 Speaker 1: was really weird and that there was something kind of 194 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: missing or I don't know, I just I felt like 195 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: I had to kind of go back and I ended 196 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 1: up talking to his ex. Oh wait, wait, something missing, 197 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: Like she forgot to put sugar into the coffee. You 198 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: went back to the coffee shop and talk to the ex. Well, 199 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: it's just it was so weird because she was you 200 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: could tell that, like she wasn't over him, and that, 201 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: you know, like just and I but why would you 202 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: even put energy into that? Why? I mean, what possibly 203 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: could you talk to her about? I mean, I just 204 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: wanted to kind of hear her side of everything, and 205 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know if I was reading it wrong, and 206 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: so I wanted to make sure because if I was 207 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: going to go out with him again, I didn't want 208 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: to get in the way of something. If there's the 209 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: potential that they might get back together, are you playing 210 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: like relationship counselor to them? Like, what did you say 211 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: to her? I mean, you know, we just we ended 212 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: up talking and she just you know, she really really 213 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: misses him, and it just you know, she was telling 214 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: me about all this, like all these like really romantic 215 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: interactions that they had together, and it was just it 216 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 1: was a lot. And he's going on, that's crazy. Yeah, 217 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: a hold on, hold on, like my girl. But that's 218 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 1: why she's like, hold on, hold on, Monica. I needed 219 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: to tell you that Aaron's been on the other line 220 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: listening and he heard everything that you said. Aaron, you're 221 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: supposed to wait till we call you in. Yeah, it's 222 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: an organized thing. Yeah, I'm sorry. That has to be 223 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: the most think that happened to me in my life 224 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 1: that I'm the crazy one. What do you mean that 225 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 1: you are about? You are out of your mind? Girl. 226 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: Let's wait, Aaron, you think she's crazy for going to 227 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: talk to the X at the coffee shop where you 228 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: had your first date. I would never do that to somebody. 229 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: I would never do that. No, wait, she likes you, 230 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: so she really likes you. She has an opportunity. Cool guy, Aaron, 231 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: you're the one that introduced her to your ex by accident? 232 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: Oh what do you mean introduce? She just ended up 233 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: being at the coffee shop. I didn't introduce one. Monica, 234 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: What are you feeling right now? Yeah? Okay. First of all, 235 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: I think the fact that he's calling me crazy when 236 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: the full and entire scenario was devolved is ridiculous. And 237 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: I don't think I'm being crazy because I think that 238 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: it's kind of a goal code thing, like I'm not 239 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: going to get it in the middle of two people 240 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: that you know, have the village of getting back together. 241 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: What do you mean, girl code? I'm not with her anymore. 242 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: I'm hanging out with you, like dude, her work. What 243 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: do you want me to say? Like you are to her? 244 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:19,599 Speaker 1: And then we still continue to have a day. I 245 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: don't I don't want to go out on a day. 246 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: I don't ever. All right, So wait, Monica, are you 247 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 1: still talking to Aaron's X? Oh god, no, I'm not 248 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: talking well right now, but obviously, like we've been texting, 249 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: like it's are you well, what are you guys talking about? 250 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: We're just talking about Aaron and like how amazing and 251 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 1: beautiful their relationship was together, and how it could still 252 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: be amazing if they decided to me the words like, 253 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: you know, it's really my hert goes out to her, 254 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: it's it's no, she's obviously not over him. Yeah, I 255 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: don't think Erin is interested anymore. I feel like you're 256 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 1: kind of gaslighting or giving her hope where they're No. 257 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just listening, you know, I'm being a 258 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: founding board for her, and she's just kind of talking 259 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: through stuff with me, and that's fine with me. And 260 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: I don't have anything in my love life here. I 261 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: mean this sounds cooky. You're not allowed to do that. 262 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: Array talk about your love life now, so quiet. I 263 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: mean you you're both soon a little cuckoo, but times 264 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: that works out. So Aaron, I mean, do you have 265 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: any lasting feelings for your ex? No? And now knowing this, 266 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: this girl sounds like I think you guys should hang out. 267 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: That's a great idea. Actually, you know what Aaron I 268 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: would like to offer you and Monica and your ex 269 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: to go out on another day. We'll pay for it. Yeah, 270 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I know a great coffee shop there we 271 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: go Monica's on board, you know, taking you to that 272 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: coffee shop, knowing that you went back to talk to 273 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: my ex. Now being on the radio, this has to 274 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: be a, by far now the worst thing that's ever 275 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: happened to me in my life. Glad we could do 276 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: that for you. Wow, Arian, you really do make bad decisions. 277 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: Moving ninety two point five