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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Noah, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you, good morning.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing well, I'm doing well.

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Speaker 2: Are well?

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Speaker 1: I mean you say you're doing well, but you're reaching

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Speaker 1: out to and they all say they're doing well. But

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Speaker 1: then we get into this story, like, I mean, you

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Speaker 1: think you're being ghosted, so not that well. This woman Kelsey,

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Speaker 1: who you met on Hinge, Why don't you tell us

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Speaker 1: kind of about, you know, the setup, how you guys

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Speaker 1: met or what kind of conversation you had, and then

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Speaker 1: about the date and then where things are now.

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Speaker 3: I met Kelsey on on the apps. I was on Hinge.

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Speaker 4: And I saw her and she was really hot, so

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Speaker 4: I just shot my shot and I got her number.

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Speaker 4: We were flirting for a bit and then finally I

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Speaker 4: asked her out to drinks and I was really I

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Speaker 4: was honestly, I was really excited about it, and I

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Speaker 2: We really could have had something.

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Speaker 3: But I felt like the date went well and then

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Speaker 3: she goes to me after the date.

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Speaker 2: So okay, all right, so you were at your kid

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Speaker 2: morning show.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah you were. You felt like something was going on.

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Speaker 1: You thought the conversation was good, and so there was

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Speaker 1: really no doubt in your mind as you left this

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Speaker 1: date that you'd be calling her, reaching out and she

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Speaker 1: would accept another date. Like there was just you just thinking, okay,

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Speaker 1: there were this is maybe going somewhere, but.

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Speaker 2: No for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So let's see if we can get this

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Speaker 1: woman Kelsey on the phone and uh and we'll ask

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Speaker 1: some questions. We'll see, you know, what's what's going on.

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Speaker 1: It's possible she's been busy, not feeling well. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of variables here, but our hope is that we

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Speaker 1: can straighten things out and then set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that would be great.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the bottom of this. We're gonna find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. Parts you of waiting by the

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Speaker 1: phone after rama back in two minutes. It's the French Show.

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Speaker 1: We're commercial free and we're glad you're here. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: It's the French Show. We're commercial free. Good morning, thanks

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Speaker 1: for waking up with us. Hey noah, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Kelsey. You guys met on Hinge.

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Speaker 1: You flirted on the app a little bit. Your email says,

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Speaker 1: and then you met for drinks. You thought she was hot,

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Speaker 1: You thought the day went great, you felt a connection,

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Speaker 1: you thought it was going to go someplace. Except you've

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Speaker 1: reached out for another date and she is not responding

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Speaker 1: at all, and you want.

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Speaker 2: To know why.

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Speaker 3: Correct?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Noah, thank you?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Kelsey? Hi Kelsey, Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio program,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can reach out for just

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Speaker 1: a second on the show, would you mind?

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Speaker 5: I think sure, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy who says he

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Speaker 1: met you on a hinge and his name is Noah.

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Speaker 1: I guess you guys went out recently. Do you remember him?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember him?

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Speaker 2: You remember him? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Because he told us that he liked you, thought that

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Speaker 1: you were hot, thought the day when grade felt the connection,

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Speaker 1: what I mean, what's going on? What's your side of

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Speaker 6: Well, the date did not go great. It was it

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Speaker 1: It was awful, because that's not he thought it was great.

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Speaker 1: So you're saying it was awful.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I would never I would prefer to never see

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Speaker 6: this guy.

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Speaker 2: Why.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean we went to this bar, we were

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Speaker 6: hanging out drinking. But the entire night, all he was

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Speaker 6: crying about is his.

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Speaker 3: Ex wife being a lesbian.

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Speaker 1: Like he just came, whoa, you just skimmed over that.

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Speaker 1: He was crying about.

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Speaker 5: It, crying like he and I it was just kind

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Speaker 5: crying about his ex wife.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you guys are talking about I don't know,

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Speaker 1: past relationships or whatever, and this dude's like, yeah, my

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Speaker 1: my ex wife's a lesbian.

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Speaker 6: The whole night he was making just comments that really

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Speaker 6: didn't make a lot of sense. So, you know, naturally

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Speaker 6: just kind of asking questions because I'm curious who this

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Speaker 6: lesbian ex wife is, Like, who would it be curious

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Speaker 6: about that? Right, and just it just progressively.

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Speaker 2: Got worseh Oh, Yeah, I have a lot of questions.

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Speaker 2: But you know, what.

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Speaker 1: I'm just the guy here to answer him. Noah, Noah's here. Noah, Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that very I'm very forgetful about that. Hey, No,

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Speaker 1: I when you told us today went great and you

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Speaker 1: were crying about your lesbian ex wife.

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Speaker 2: How did you leave that part out?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't remember that part.

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Speaker 2: Hmm, I don't remember that part.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. You don't want about word.

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Speaker 6: You don't remember telling me that you're her ex wife

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Speaker 6: left you for a woman and just crying at a

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Speaker 6: public place on a date.

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Speaker 2: No, it's done really well at all.

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Speaker 4: No, honestly, I mean it is true, but like, I

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Speaker 4: don't remember sharing all of that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, how would she know if you didn't talk

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Speaker 1: about it? So she knows, and I guess the crying

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Speaker 1: part you. I mean, I'm sure it was very painful.

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Speaker 1: So tell me a little more, uh, Noah about your

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Speaker 1: lesbian next way? So you what does she just come

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it was kind of a gradual thing

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Speaker 4: Like she's pretty cute, And at first I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: And then she I don't know, I would catch a

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Speaker 4: Like swimsuit model, and I was maybe she's like it.

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Speaker 3: But and then eventually, you know.

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Speaker 4: It's just the relationships just starts going south, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

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Speaker 4: I meanly kind of like this date, I don't know

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Speaker 4: what I'm doing wrong, and things are just going south.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, yeah, after after a couple of years, like

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Speaker 4: I was like, what is going on? And we separated

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Speaker 4: and come to find out later she all of a sudden.

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Speaker 3: She has a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, well it's just like it really.

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Speaker 3: Rocked my world. I was like, what, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean not lesbian, Like I mean, it's typically not

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Speaker 1: great to cry about your X on a date. In

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Speaker 4: I mean I am over it, Like that's why I'm

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Speaker 4: trying to go out and dating. But I don't know,

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Speaker 4: maybe I was maybe we're out of bar, you're drinking.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I think I just don't remember, like being drunk

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Speaker 2: Wow, every time you see a swimsuit model, you think

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Speaker 5: Am I lesbian tools?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, big swimsuit model.

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Speaker 1: Okay, look, so, Kelsey, I guess you like this guy

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Speaker 1: enough up until the point where he was crying about

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Speaker 1: his lesbian ex girlfriend, which is just a weird sentence

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Speaker 1: to say. But you were, you were fine with it

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Speaker 1: all the way up until that point. Can we give

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Speaker 1: this guy another chance? You know, maybe he would. It

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Speaker 1: was a weak moment. You know, it's obviously his ex

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Speaker 1: it's over. That's a traumatic experience. You know, maybe we

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Speaker 1: give him one more shot, and maybe he doesn't cry

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Speaker 6: Noah, you're a super nice guy, and I I'm sorry

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Speaker 6: you're going through that, but you're still obviously working on it.

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Speaker 6: And I'm just I'm not interested in taking care of

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Speaker 2: Okay, he needs to heal, Yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 3: Need some healing work.

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Speaker 2: Maybe yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hey, no, man, like, I'm sorry that happened to you,

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Speaker 1: but Kelsey's not going to be interested. And I may

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Speaker 1: maybe work it out a little bit, because who knows.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're crying on every date that you

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Speaker 1: go on, then you're you're going to miss good opportunities.

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Speaker 1: So maybe just make sure you're ready, you know, make

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Speaker 1: sure you're over, make sure there aren't any triggers. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't go to like Hooters or anything, you know, or.

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Speaker 4: We're at the prone to throne to get drunk and

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Speaker 4: then still my life stories.

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Speaker 2: There's a restaurant, yeah, I think there's a therapist maybe

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Speaker 2: as well. Right, yeah, no, I think so too. I

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Speaker 2: don't need to cry in the restaurant either. Homies, no, no,

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Speaker 2: we don't.

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Speaker 1: No swimsuit model that twin Peaks place is out, I

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Speaker 1: mean wherever they're you know, scantily clad, I would not

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Speaker 1: go there. Just as a reminder of anyway, I wish

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Speaker 1: you the best of luck, Kelsey. Thank you for your

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Speaker 1: time as well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you