WEBVTT - RHOA’s Drew Sidora Exclusive One On One 0:00:01.440 --> 0:00:05.200 Welcome to Reality with the King. It's me Carlos Kings, 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:08.000 the King of Reality TV and one of the most 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:12.639 sought after executive producers in reality television with over ten 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:16.759 years of production experience. Twice a week on Reality with 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.239 the King, we'll sit down with my friends across the 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:24.079 entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows and revisit un 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:31.920 forget about moments that we are still talking and tweeting about. 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:34.480 Also as. 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:38.600 What you're doing. 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.360 Taking care of myself okay, yes, putting me first, that's 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.160 the name of the game. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:46.360 I want to be able to lie because listen is 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:47.400 Reality with the King. 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:47.840 Yes. 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:50.599 And the beauty of Reality with the King is I'm 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.000 stepping into your reality. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:52.639 I love that. 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.560 So I'm here, Yes, we are here, and I want 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:56.240 to get in the booth. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:01:02.800 Oh my god. Yes, the song the mic is on. Okay, okay, 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.440 I like it. Tour, have you on my stage? 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:07.280 We're going on tour. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:08.319 We're going on tour. 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:10.080 Before we get on. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:16.360 Tour, I okay, okay, we gotta spill the tea, all right, 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:24.520 all right, because you know, music is like your baby, 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:27.200 you know what I mean, So it really matters out 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:28.680 of all the work that I've done in my life. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.280 It really matters the most what people feel and and 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:35.520 vibe and and think of my music and me as 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:36.440 a musical artist. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:40.000 You know, this, by far was my scariest bike. You 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:45.480 know venture I can say thus far in my whole career. 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:48.120 Believe it or not, I've heard nothing you said because 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:49.280 I'm distracted by your beauty. 0:01:49.360 --> 0:02:00.880 Oh yeah, listen that lefore we did, We did that phase. 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:02.880 You know what it is? 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:07.000 I think I met you before, but your energy and 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:10.720 your vibe is giving like not not that you weren't 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.880 confident when I met you, but it's giving a certain 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.359 level of. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.600 Calmness, serenity, happiness. 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:23.160 You know what it is. It's giving freedom. I feel 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:27.680 like you're free, you know what I'm saying. And and honey, 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.000 you are beat to the gods. 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.919 You are listening for you, I had to from head 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:34.600 to toe. 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:37.960 I called him the best glam okay that I know 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:38.880 in all of Atlanta. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.040 So did you pay them? Because they said, are we 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:42.880 starting off? 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:45.760 Listen? Nobody? 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:48.720 I don't don't know. 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:49.960 No, No, let's talk about it. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:50.880 Do you want to? 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.080 Yes, let's talk about it. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:52.440 Okay. 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:56.440 Somebody said, what are your former Okay? Uh huh, said 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:58.959 that you did not pay him, and he's waiting for him. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.840 That one to be my face today, the one that 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:04.120 be my face today, said. 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.440 That is he? 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.679 Yeah, he was here, they saw him. Yeah, he'd be 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.000 my face today. He was here for he bay for 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:11.560 his job back. 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:16.320 Oh yes, are you hello, freedom on the beat? Yes? 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:17.720 What's freedom on the beat today? 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:19.600 Guys? 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.280 And he did it for my assistants there, he did 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.639 it for Oh. Oh okay, let's talk about it because 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:28.880 what they say is a lot of things. But I 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:31.600 am here with you to clear up the lies. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:39.240 It takes a lots of gag Carlos, no lies so ever. 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:41.760 Actually, so the check cleared. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:42.840 The check always. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.040 Clears, honey, because my bland can tell you, my people. 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:49.040 I really pride myself because I've been in businesses two 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:49.600 thousand and five. 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:52.240 I've been working since I was eight years old. 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:57.800 In Hollywood twenty years. 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:01.760 Yes, yes, we're gonna thank you, thank you, thank you. 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.880 My mom was my business manager growing up, and you know, 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.560 she taught me and instilled in me like good work, 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:13.360 habits and integrity, you know, and so paying people with 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:14.920 my little business, you know, the. 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.920 Little engine that could. I really am happy to be 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.080 able to pay my invoices. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:20.360 I'm gonna say that. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.360 I'm like, I didn't even he yet, you know what 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.720 I mean, So it's okay. 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:27.760 Also need to love about net thirty. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:30.159 I don't even do net thirty, don't. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.039 I just learned about net thirty and I'm like, well, 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:35.680 hold on because my people like same day service, the 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:38.400 zell and the wires and so now we've done like 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.159 a three to five business days. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.320 Guys, that's good. I want a few. 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:45.800 Voices on Christmas Eve and I'm like, I wasn't my kids, 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.000 but I still send it because you know, I know 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:49.960 how important it is for the house. So like, I 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:54.080 really treat my people well. Like I have chefs. Everybody 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:54.799 knows my chef. 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:56.400 I've had her on my chef. 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:59.240 I keep a chef, and I love to throw those 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:03.960 appreciations in employee engagement, dinner's, lunches, pool parties, Like I 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:07.039 really appreciate the people because I understand it takes a 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:09.800 lot to show up, you know it does. It takes 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.279 a team, and it's not just me operating it. So 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.760 all those things you hear, I'm here to tell you 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:16.120 don't believe it. 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:19.440 Well no, but that's amazing. Why I am here. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:22.480 This has been two years in the making. I wanted 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:23.000 to talk to you. 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:28.520 Last season things can't work out logistically, and this year 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.520 we get a chance to sit down and clear the air. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:32.559 You know what I'm saying. 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:34.760 I know that you know that. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:36.680 And it's funny because when I met you for the 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:41.360 first time at Si Bashery fashion show and he was like, you. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:45.000 Don't like me? What do you mean, Drew. I'm not 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:46.480 saying anything bad about you. 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.240 You don't like me, I said, Drew, I actually like 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:48.760 you a lot. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:52.080 But what I will say this season on the Real 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:58.440 Housewives of Atlanta Season sixteen, it's an amazing season and 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.680 we are being Drew Sidora. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.280 Oh thank you. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:07.359 Feel the difference with the audience reception of you this 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:08.760 season than past seasons. 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:13.200 You know, I try not to get caught up in 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:16.680 that because I kind of just since I've come on 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:19.839 the show, it's like I just let the cameras catch 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:22.599 me where I am. I live my reality and I 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.359 kind of leave it there, you know what I mean. 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:26.960 So you know, I hear things. 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:29.560 Obviously, people keep me in tune with what's going on, 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.680 but I really don't know what the fans want, you know, 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.760 I hear things. Of course I see a few things, 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.119 but I really just try to stay in my truth 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.800 and in my integrity, and I just feel like, for 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:46.119 whatever reason, I've gotten some labels that just are not real, 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:46.839 you know. 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.000 And I wanted to. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.080 Sit down with you because you know, you may talk 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:51.920 to people here and there and do your little interviews, 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.039 but I felt like with you, what I appreciate is 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.840 that you are able to humanize things, and I felt like, 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.160 from the first time we talked, like you actually care, 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.400 you know, And I just wanted to be able to 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.480 have this moment to sit down to just clear up 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:10.200 a lot of the misconceptions about me and just really 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:14.720 give an opportunity unfiltered to talk about, you know, everything anything. 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:16.200 I'm an open book, always have been. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:18.800 But sometimes what you see in the matter of a 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.920 couple of minutes doesn't tell the full story. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:24.920 No, And as a producer, I know that I know them, 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.280 know that. And listen, when you came on the show, 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:30.280 we were all excited. We know you from the game 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:33.920 you play Iconic t on T Boss Watkins and the 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:35.840 TLC biopic on VH one. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:37.640 You had a long career. 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:41.360 I love going on Twitter and seeing old movie clips 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.080 of you. I know, right, you know what I'm saying 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:45.600 because a lot of us are reminded that Juice Door 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.640 has always been that girl. So when you got on 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:51.600 the show, there was this, and we talked about this 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:55.000 off camera a couple of years ago. There was this 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:59.560 perception that, Okay, it's giving Tyler Perry movies. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.720 You know, is Drew acting? 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:07.080 Is she not able to sit in the moment? And 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.840 I remember talking to you about that, just us Chatty, 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:12.560 and I want the world to know this. When I 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:17.240 said that to you to your face, you did not 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:21.520 understand it, and you were so caught off guard. You said, Carlos, 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:24.600 do you really think I'm not being real? And I 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:27.240 was like, it comes across a little acting, and you 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:27.640 were so. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:31.480 Not upset by that's the wrong word, but you were 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:34.080 perplexed by that comment. I want to talk to you 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:36.719 about that because I said it on my podcast before, like. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:38.000 Is it acting? 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:42.200 And your reaction to me was so real. So I 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:46.360 want to talk about that. Why were you shocked by 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.560 that response that I gave you? 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:52.760 Honestly, I was shocked because, like I said, I never 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.200 really get caught up in what the fans say, or 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:58.680 I'm an actress, you know, if people didn't like me 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:01.240 from this role or that's that role or the game, 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:03.360 and it's like, okay, that's my work, and I kind 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.480 of just leave it there and move on to the next. 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.720 So with this, I'm like I chose to come on 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:11.480 reality because it was not something I ever saw myself doing, 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.599 but because I felt like people have seen me in 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:16.280 these various roles but never seen me as like the 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:18.560 human being that I am and seeing the good, the bad, 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:19.240 the ugly. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:19.640 The struggle. 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:23.000 And I felt like after COVID, you know, I was 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.880 going through like a rupture to Achilles, and I was like, 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:27.800 I want to just be more vulnerable, you know. I 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:32.040 want to have an opportunity to connect with my family 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:34.720 and just show me as more of like the mother, 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:38.440 the wife, the sister, you know, all of the things 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:41.439 that I am. So I was taking a bags. I'm like, 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.080 all I did was show my true self. I came 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:47.640 on the show in an Achilles rupture, boot I didn't 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:50.679 come on the show in alul Baton. I was literally 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.760 at my lowest and so I really just let go 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:56.839 of all of what people would expect me to appear. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:58.480 And was my most rawish self. 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:02.720 So yeah, and everything that I've shown has been my 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.440 real life. So when you said it to me, I 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:09.000 was like, wait what because there was never any thought 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.199 that it wasn't, you know what I mean, real, because 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:13.280 I was living and sitting in my truth to the 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.360 point where I came on. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.240 The show really to show like black love, you know. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:22.319 Ralph and I talked about showing black love family believers. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:25.280 We showed my church, my mom had, you know. That 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.040 was what we wanted, and where we ended up was 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:30.800 completely opposite. It was the toxicity of our marriage and 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.120 that's not what I wanted. So that was actually my 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.959 worst nightmare, you know what I mean. But when people 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.040 thought it was fake, I'm like, I wish it was us, 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.480 you know, because this is not the reality I ever wanted. 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:41.959 To show the world. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.520 And we are seeing that reality this season because what 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:50.680 we did learn this past episode was you guys, you 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:56.880 and Ralph met and then y'all were together within three months, Yeah, 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.560 engaged within or married in five months. 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:04.280 You were pregnant with the eight months. Now, rap is fine, 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:05.719 and I'm gonna give you that. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.360 Yeah, definitely, cornbreads bad. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.040 He looks like a big snickers, like you. 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:13.200 Know, York's out in the gym. 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:17.400 I mean, so I understand the acceleration. 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:20.920 Okay, yep, period, I. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:23.040 Get it, I get it, I get I get it. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:27.880 But in hindsight, knowing what you're going through now and 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:33.880 we'll get to that, do you feel like Ralph gas. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.240 Lit you the moment y'all met. 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:40.800 Coming right out with it right. 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:45.199 That? 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:54.679 Hu? That has been my most recent Yeah. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:12:03.120 Tis shoot, I'm sorry. 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:03.960 I'm sorry. 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:10.880 I'm sorry. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:11.680 Child. 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:25.839 We are just getting started. This is reality with the 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:29.760 King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.600 This is why, you know, it did take me a 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:38.959 while to have this sit down because back then when 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:43.280 you asked me, I knew I couldn't even get through 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:46.600 a sentence really, you know at that time to talk 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:53.000 through like my feelings. I am in a much better space, 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:56.320 but there are still. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:02.239 Wounds, you know, that need to be healed. And I think. 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:08.400 Because we are on this show and I'm watching things 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:12.840 in real time with everyone and I'm seeing his actions 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:16.679 and his behavior, it is having me to ponder what 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.400 you just asked, which is like was it ever real? 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:20.280 You know? 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:28.120 Everything I thought is having me to consider, like, but 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.920 was it ever loved you know? Did he ever respect 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:35.480 Because someone that would go and have dinner with your 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:40.240 ops right and sit there and bash you, And let's 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.200 be honest, like, I'm still the mother of his kids. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:46.520 We have kids together, we were married for now ten years, 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:52.000 so I'm like, someone that loves you and that respects 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.160 you as even just the mother of your kids wouldn't 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.720 behave this way. So then I just said to someone, 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:00.319 I said, unless they never really loved you and they 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:04.760 never really respected you, And that's where my training thought 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:10.480 has been. Because for me, I've never set out to 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.720 bash Ralph. You know, I have done nothing but tried 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.520 to protect him for his actions and tried to gain 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:22.920 understanding for his actions. And I mean, as you see 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:25.480 this season, I'm not sitting around talking about Ralph talking 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:29.360 about my healing. And it was very, very hurtful to 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:33.000 see that scene with him, Porsha and Shamiyah. 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:39.520 When you saw Shami and Porsha, yeah, me with your 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:42.160 strange husband. 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:47.640 What was your knee jerk reaction to that knowledge? 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:51.360 Like did you find out before the episode aired on 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:55.520 the trailer? Even yeah, or even if you did, was 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:58.560 it a gut punched to you to watch it and 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:01.920 to hear what he's what he said, like, walk me 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.680 through that moment, because listen, I love Porschasia, and I 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:07.640 said this on my podcast. I said, look, I gotta 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.080 be honest. I didn't like I didn't like it. I 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:11.760 didn't like I didn't like the scene. And I give 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:12.440 my reasons why. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:16.160 I'm like here to regurgitate that I'm not married to 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:17.920 Rap and I don't have kids by him. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.080 So I am curious to. 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:23.440 Know what were you feeling the moment you watching me 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:27.480 and Porsche meet with Ralph. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:33.480 So during filming, I heard that they filmed together, but 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:35.720 it was like variations, Like it almost sounded like they 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:38.880 ran into each other at a restaurant, and so it 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:40.440 was kind of like, oh, yeah, they had some words 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:41.680 and that was it. I didn't know it was like 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:47.080 a plan to sit down situation. So when I watched it, 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:48.920 I'm like, wait a minute, this is giving like a 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:52.720 full scene. You know, this is like everyone new and 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:55.960 they are here together and they're happy to see each other, 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:59.800 and I'm like wow, and I like what they did. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.520 Trying to cover it in a meeting of a podcast. 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.960 Oh I see what you try to do there, Okay, 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:12.040 but it landed flat because as we see today, there 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:16.200 is no King and Queen's podcast. You know, we don't, 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:19.920 we don't. We're not seeing the manifestation of that. I mean, 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.760 I haven't seen it and nothing, and the. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:25.680 Album is on a music in iTunes. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:29.160 I know Ralph in the Basement is on his YouTube, 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:31.880 but this other podcast was SHEMI. 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.520 I haven't seen any remnants of that. 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:41.800 But they had this meeting and so let's say respectfully, 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:44.880 it's a business meeting, all right, all right, but it 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:49.840 went into discussion of Drew and that's where I felt disrespected. 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:55.000 I felt, you know, from from Ralph being still technically 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:55.760 legally married. 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.280 I'm like, you know, you're. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:05.879 Volunteering information that was between you and I. You know, 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:11.119 you're sitting here entertaining text messages that aren't real because 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:14.520 we haven't seen them. You know, you're entertaining basically a 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:18.240 try of a takedown of me, a destruction of me 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.879 and my character and really everything I've built since the 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:24.840 age of eight. You know, it's like, on top of 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:29.800 what I've built for myself as an actress, as a mother, 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:34.040 and then as a wife, you're trying to destroy that, 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:37.320 and I just didn't think it was necessary. I didn't 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:38.840 think it was necessary. And then he never told me, 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:42.160 he never divulged anything to me. I literally found everything 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:46.520 out on the show, and I just felt like, regardless 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:50.280 of if our relationship and our marriage is not working out, 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:54.040 there's still just a level of respect that you should 0:17:54.080 --> 0:17:56.400 have for the mother of your kids. 0:17:56.600 --> 0:18:01.960 I felt so sorry for you when and you allowed 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:07.600 us the viewers to follow you go to court and 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:09.840 the judge at the end of the day did not 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:13.000 do something that you wanted, which is I believe was 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:20.639 the sealing, the unsealing, and he was gloating, and you 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:22.440 were so frustrated you cried. 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:26.720 And I remember that in that moment, I said, and 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:28.800 I like Ralph. I met Ralph. He's a cool guy. 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:31.479 Again, I'm watching the show, so I'm only basing off 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:34.439 the show. I said to myself, Oh, Ralph don't like you. 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.360 Okay, he don't Wow, he don't. 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:41.520 Like you, and he's determined to expose you. I got 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.120 that instantly that that was maybe a few episodes ago. 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:47.199 So when I watched the scene and he brought up 0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:52.560 tie and he's alleging that in the words of Lisa 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:56.480 the cole Cloud that you and Tie are in a 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:57.920 lesbian a relationship. 0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:00.360 Is that true? 0:19:02.160 --> 0:19:06.280 Well, what I can say is at the time when 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:09.880 all of this came out right, because to be honest, 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:11.840 I'm tired of hearing about it. It is like a 0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:17.119 year old of information. It just wasn't the right time 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:22.239 to talk about it. Honestly, I think now today I 0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:26.440 sit here and I say, like, what I went through 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:30.920 with Ralph over the ten years of marriage, no one 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:35.320 got to really see that pain and really see every 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:39.320 detail of what he did to me. And I can 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:42.239 promise you this, if a cardboard box would have came 0:19:42.280 --> 0:19:45.120 and showed me some attention, I would have given it. 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:45.840 Right. 0:19:46.440 --> 0:19:49.120 Ty was someone at that time that gave me attention 0:19:49.760 --> 0:19:52.160 that I wasn't getting from my husband, And I said 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:54.800 it on the show. She was a really great friend 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:57.960 to me that like as simple as put left on 0:19:58.040 --> 0:20:04.000 my jokes, understood, listen to me. And so to have 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:07.199 someone as your husband that's supposed to be your best friend, 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:10.320 that you feel like you can talk to until anything too, 0:20:11.160 --> 0:20:15.280 I didn't have that before I ever met Ty. There 0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:18.840 was so much that happened that at that point Ralph 0:20:18.920 --> 0:20:21.520 had moved out of the bedroom. I was speaking with 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:25.760 a divorce attorney. He was asking for a divorce. We 0:20:25.760 --> 0:20:29.439 were in conversations with a separation and yeah, Ty was 0:20:29.480 --> 0:20:30.040 there and. 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:31.880 A great friend flirting. 0:20:32.119 --> 0:20:34.960 Yeah, but like at the end of the day, we 0:20:35.080 --> 0:20:37.320 both have said it was a great friendship. And I'll 0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:39.400 still say to this day, we're friends. We're not enemies. 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:43.159 But relationships come and go. Friendships come and go, and 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:46.200 it wasn't what he was making out to be as 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:48.840 far as he wanted this divorce. 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:50.520 I was fed up. 0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:54.280 There was infidelity, there was pain, there was hurt, and 0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:56.800 I feel like he waited for a reason. 0:20:58.800 --> 0:20:59.200 I've wait. 0:20:59.359 --> 0:21:03.280 He waited for reason, and I feel like that friendship 0:21:03.640 --> 0:21:06.240 was that reason he hung on to and he's still 0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:10.840 hanging on to. Because I had an open conversation with 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:13.199 him about time being a friend, he felt like it 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:17.359 was inappropriate, so we didn't talk anymore. You know, I 0:21:17.440 --> 0:21:19.760 thought we were in a position to reconcile. 0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:22.760 And again I have been. 0:21:22.640 --> 0:21:26.720 Met with him wanting an open relationship, him wanting to 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:27.679