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Speaker 2: Hey your body thanks listening we heard a brand new episode.

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Speaker 2: It's me Joe Gatto with my friend Steve Byrne, and

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Speaker 2: we're excited to get started on our Thanksgiving episode.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it man.

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Speaker 4: You always get happy Thanksgiving everything Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving

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Speaker 4: Thanksgiving time. What's the first thing you think about when

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Speaker 4: you think Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: My parents are dead and I can't say happy Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: What do I say? No Thanksgiving? It's definitely the big meal.

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Speaker 4: It's the food's and it's what's your favorite dish?

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Speaker 1: Scoopsky patatoes? Of course, I love me a good mashed potato.

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Speaker 1: You know, a sweet potato mash came on later in life.

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Speaker 4: I came hot. I can't too much. I don't like

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Speaker 4: a marshmallow, classic classic, Why why why mess with it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like putting pineapple on a people. Why you

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Speaker 1: don't give me mashed potatoes? And I'm going to order them.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna order I must. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I'm more of a side than the main dish. I

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Speaker 2: love a good side. I love I love the you know,

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Speaker 2: I love a fresh cranberry. I don't like to end

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Speaker 2: the jaw right. I like a good cranberry mix up.

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Speaker 2: I like a good mashed potato.

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Speaker 1: I'm a big biscuit dude. I love a good biscuit.

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Speaker 4: Uh for three right now?

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Speaker 1: Really don't give me the one. Come on, you do

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Speaker 1: a green bean casserole? No? But you like turkey? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sure turkey? What gravy? Stuffing? Soughing? For sure? Stuffing stuffing

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Speaker 1: is the best. It's my I agree.

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Speaker 4: I like a little crisp on it.

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Speaker 2: Do you do a baked on you on the onions?

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Speaker 2: What Ilse called the fried onions? Do you do a

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Speaker 2: fright on your on top? People do that sometimes I

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Speaker 2: throw that.

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Speaker 1: At a salad. Do you do a stovetop? Are a

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Speaker 1: classic stove top? Yeah? Classic stuff? Gut r you look

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Speaker 1: like stove top guy? You look you know you got

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Speaker 1: it that's the only it's a different stuffing. I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: thank you for giving. I don't want any of that.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, I don't want it. I don't want your

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Speaker 4: grocery brand. Yeah stuffing. Give me the classic.

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Speaker 1: Spend. Spend the dollars. It's worth it. Spend. Come on,

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Speaker 1: it's stove, yeah, yeah, do it for sure.

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Speaker 4: I don't buy stove top for anything else. Is it

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Speaker 4: just stuffing that?

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Speaker 2: I don't think they do other things on the stove.

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Speaker 2: Do you think stove sounds like amps? It's stovetop stuffing?

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Speaker 1: So what a stove? What else do they make on

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Speaker 1: top of the stove? Do you cook the stove tup?

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Speaker 4: In the story, I always put in the turkey.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't.

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Speaker 4: You put you you put this stuffing in the It's

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Speaker 4: called stuffing.

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Speaker 1: You don't. You don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't fill up the turkey with the stovetop. You

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Speaker 2: cook the stove top by itself on the stove. Maybe

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Speaker 2: when you're done, you stuff it up in there if

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Speaker 2: you want, no, hold, you.

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Speaker 1: Bake it up in there.

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Speaker 4: You cook, right, I mean you put the stuffing in

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Speaker 4: the turkey, right.

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Speaker 5: I've done it both ways. Yeah, but I think putting

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Speaker 1: Is now the turkey's got the bag in it.

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Speaker 4: You take the bag out.

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Speaker 1: No, it's got the lemon. You're supposed to cook it

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Speaker 2: You cook it with the lemons and the spices, and

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Speaker 2: then you pull the bag out and you drop in

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Speaker 1: That's how I that's the that's how the Americans do it. Imports.

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Speaker 1: You can do it either way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, in North Korea in the prison camps.

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Speaker 1: What's that? Where were you born? Freehold, New Jersey? Sounds

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Speaker 1: like it. No, I've never I've never done it. I've

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Speaker 1: don't need turkey anymore.

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Speaker 5: So I will say that when you do put the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 5: You don't like that as my favorite method, I would

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Speaker 1: You know what came in on like fire now is

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Speaker 1: people deep frying the whole turkey. You get that.

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Speaker 4: I love the outside dangers and their house catches fire.

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Speaker 1: Outside that the outside the fryer. My cousin Mike loves it.

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Speaker 2: Deep fries puts puts a puts on a beanie cap

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Speaker 2: out there and he's in the cold, he's in the elements.

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Speaker 1: He's excited about it. But isn't it cooked like super quick? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: super as chrispy. Yeah. I like smelling it. I like

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Speaker 4: My dad makes the best gravy from the turkey based.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. He he'll whip up a gravy from that and

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Speaker 4: always loves that. He Uh. He puts like strips of

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Speaker 4: bacon on the turkey, really and I never heard it

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Speaker 4: so long with it. And then by the time the

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Speaker 1: Then I'm like, where's the bacon.

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Speaker 4: He's like, all right, ate it.

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Speaker 1: He puts the times every strip every time he goes in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a little tree for you. Never did a

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Speaker 1: Not bacon on turkey.

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Speaker 2: Now we've done the turkey's stuff with the bag, and

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Speaker 2: then we take the bag out. If we had stuffing,

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Speaker 2: we never really stuffed it in there, And now that

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Speaker 2: you're thinking about it, we never really did. We always

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Speaker 2: had the stuffing in a bowl separately. I never really

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Speaker 2: did it inside the turkey.

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Speaker 4: My wife did the thing where you where you put

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Speaker 4: the turkey in the bag and it traps all the moisture. Yep,

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Speaker 4: that was a game changer.

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Speaker 1: Because it makes it everything. You don't get that dry turkey. Yes, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: But also then somebody told me about brining the turkey,

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Speaker 4: like you soak it in salt, salt water for I

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Speaker 4: think a good day, and then you put in the

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Speaker 4: bag and it's super moist We tried that one year.

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Speaker 4: It was fantastic.

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Speaker 1: But who's coming to dinner? Who's coming to Thanksgiving dinner?

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Speaker 1: For you? Who does that?

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Speaker 4: Like my parents, your parents, not her side. We usually

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Speaker 4: see them Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Do you do a mixing? You don't do a mix

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Speaker 1: and match. You never have a super event, No they do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there have been it Just like her sisters are

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Speaker 4: all over the place, so her folks are visiting them

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Speaker 4: and with me, it's just me and my brother. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and my folks come to see us all the time

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Speaker 4: because we have the kids. My brother doesn't have a kid.

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Speaker 2: So Thanksgiving is her holiday in my house and Christmas

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Speaker 2: is my holiday. So I don't have my parents, but

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Speaker 2: my sisters, like we all get together every Christmas, So

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Speaker 2: I said, you know what, Thanksgiving, we give that the gaddos,

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Speaker 2: like the in laws could have that. So all of

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Speaker 2: us all with our in laws on Thanksgiving. So I've

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Speaker 2: never really had a super event. My sisters, even my

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Speaker 2: sister had to do it because my mom was alive.

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Speaker 2: One of my father passed away is my mom, so

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Speaker 2: my mom had to be with us, and then she

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Speaker 2: would have the in laws together. But my in law's

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Speaker 2: actually never even met, but my mother and my in

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Speaker 2: law's never met, but they had that like weird dynamic

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Speaker 2: where you had all the in laws, everybody, a lot

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Speaker 1: That feels like that's a big.

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Speaker 4: You're such a good food guy, like I would love

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Speaker 4: to see the spread you put on.

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Speaker 2: We put a good spread out, even because we're not

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Speaker 2: meat eaters, but we do the whole thing. We do

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Speaker 2: the turkey everybody's because my in laws eat the turkey.

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Speaker 1: The desserts are a big thing for Christmas.

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Speaker 2: It's always when we It's funny because when people host

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Speaker 2: different we passed it around.

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Speaker 1: So we had Christmas last year.

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Speaker 2: This year is at my sister genius house, who always

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Speaker 2: puts out a whole thing too. My sister Gena called

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Speaker 2: the Great Cooks. They put out the whole thing, and

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Speaker 2: when I do it, it's like, okay, I to think about it,

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Speaker 2: and then I'll bring Vinnie in to do the steaks

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Speaker 2: because I do like n you gotta cut the flav Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I I outsauce a little bit, but uh, I love

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Speaker 2: I love a good spread.

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Speaker 1: I love a good meal. Table all day, eating.

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Speaker 4: All day, throw planes, trains on automobiles on, put it on.

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Speaker 1: Watching the big game? You watching the Detroit Lions. Do anything?

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Speaker 1: You're watching the Lions. I know you are.

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Speaker 2: You are fan duel. You got to see what the

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Speaker 2: secondary is up to. No, I don't watch it, guessie.

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Speaker 2: Make sure the whole line is bringing me.

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Speaker 1: Do you watch it?

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Speaker 4: Will you watch the game?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely?

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Speaker 4: I watch a game.

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Speaker 1: Watch a game in the background. It's on you.

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Speaker 2: I don't say stop and watch it. We don't really

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Speaker 2: have the TV on. We'll have music on. We'll play games,

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Speaker 2: big games thing, yeah, board games, board games, and we

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Speaker 2: do these stupid things that you'll see like on tiktop.

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Speaker 2: Like last year we did the scoop the cotton balls

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Speaker 2: blindfolded into this bachelor.

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Speaker 1: You see that one? What? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So you get a bunch of cotton balls and you

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Speaker 2: put them on the table and you blindfold somebody and

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Speaker 2: then they have a frying pan empty, you know, and

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Speaker 2: then you have a spatter when you try to get

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Speaker 2: the most that.

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Speaker 1: You can put chopput one hundred dollars bill on the table.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, whoever gets the most cotton balls thirty seconds

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Speaker 2: gets it.

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Speaker 4: It gets mayhem, so fun, so fun, and you just

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Speaker 4: sit there high up on your perch, which I love it,

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Speaker 4: look at these.

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Speaker 2: I love making. I love making a ruckus for things

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Speaker 2: for people to go after. You know, it's fun like

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Speaker 2: that way, Like I'll just I'll do crazy stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: My my nephews will know because like when it gets quiet,

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Speaker 2: they'll just like look at me and it'll be like, what's.

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Speaker 1: It going to do right now?

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Speaker 2: Like all right, I'm taking a deck of cards.

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Speaker 1: I'll smack him down and go hire low and I'm

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Speaker 1: talking like it's twiny. I'm like hire loan no, and

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Speaker 1: they get it wrong. You know, it'll be fun with that,

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Speaker 1: like stuff like that, silly stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: What's that dice game where you roll it the fright.

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Speaker 1: Center is awesome? The best get anybody the best.

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Speaker 4: You get a bunch of singles, get some kids together,

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Speaker 1: You asked for it, you sent the link. Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: You're I'll tell you. I never brought this up, but

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Speaker 2: It's the it's the one you got me that has

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Speaker 2: of Two Cool Moms and you didn't mention it.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Where to god?

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Speaker 4: The little thing we're out the window.

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Speaker 2: Now, but it's not even expensive. It's gifting a watch

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Speaker 4: I didn't think it through.

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Speaker 4: But I now I feel bad that I didn't recognize it.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no. But then the one you

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Speaker 1: Or saw that one, I thought of you. I bought

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no no no.

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Speaker 1: I got it fixed.

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Speaker 4: I got to fix four times because I thought it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the thing would rip. People don't wear a watches,

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Speaker 1: don't do knapsack ons. Gotta go first. I watch on

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Speaker 4: It's the way gifting a watch is tough, very difficult

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Speaker 4: Well, I got you that case, which I thought was loved.

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Speaker 1: The other one was all right, yeah, I was ugg

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Speaker 1: about But I'm thankful for you. I'm thankful for you, Stevie.

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Speaker 1: I'm thankful for you. Name the top three people you're

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Speaker 4: Mom, dad, Jess Nice.

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Speaker 1: So the kids don't mean shit. I told you that.

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Speaker 4: That's why I wouldn't have the kids without Jess Nice.

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Speaker 4: I got it. But I've never loved I love my wife,

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Speaker 4: So it's more of a practicality, calorie responsibility.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe not me.

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Speaker 4: I mean, so.

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Speaker 1: Molana was too. But I but live.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You never said that? H Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I think I think that's I think that stuff if

442
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Speaker 1: you had to.

443
00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:49,480
Speaker 4: I mean, my kids do listen at times?

444
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Speaker 1: Do you think about No? No, not now.

445
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Speaker 4: If you look, Oh my god, no, I I adore them.

446
00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:05,280
Speaker 1: I absolutely adore them. Some babies are on yeah, and

447
00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,920
Speaker 1: nobody thinks that's they is, but that's somebody's.

448
00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:08,440
Speaker 4: A friend of mine.

449
00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,960
Speaker 1: Uh, I don't say that. Don't stop right now.

450
00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:12,760
Speaker 4: I'm a child.

451
00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,119
Speaker 1: And it's like I was like, oh, you gotta send me,

452
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Speaker 1: and he sent me a pick.

453
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Speaker 4: I was like, ooh, I hope he grows into who

454
00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:22,840
Speaker 4: goes into that place? It's just like whoa.

455
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Speaker 1: It looked like the end of Beetle Juice when they

456
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Speaker 1: shrink that. Yeah. I think I think it's important to

457
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,280
Speaker 1: rank who you love. Excuse me, I think it's important

458
00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:36,000
Speaker 1: to rank who you love.

459
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Speaker 4: What are your top three?

460
00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:37,560
Speaker 1: Then?

461
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Speaker 2: My top three? Yeah that I love? Yeah, my wife,

462
00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,240
Speaker 2: my sister Carla, and Piscatti. Those are my top two.

463
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Speaker 4: Wait a dog for sure, So your other sister is

464
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Speaker 4: gonna go Joseph.

465
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Speaker 1: No, the thing I'm making a joke there.

466
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Speaker 2: I think it's important and that's why I'll say to

467
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Speaker 2: not rank, but I think it's important to check in

468
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Speaker 2: because I used to do this thing at the year end,

469
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Speaker 2: where I would you a, who do I need to

470
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Speaker 2: work on my relationship to bring it to the level

471
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Speaker 2: where I think it should be at.

472
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Speaker 1: So for a while, like I would feel like.

473
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Speaker 2: I didn't spend enough time one of my sisters, or

474
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Speaker 2: I did't spend enough time one of my friends, or

475
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:16,359
Speaker 2: you know, dadding, I was like, Okay, I need to

476
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Speaker 2: spend like that, And I think it's really important every

477
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Speaker 2: year I would like check in and be like, okay,

478
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 2: is every relationship where I think it should be right.

479
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,480
Speaker 1: I think it's important to know because when.

480
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Speaker 2: You have a list and when you're forced to listen,

481
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,040
Speaker 2: I don't mean them out loud, I mean or even

482
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Speaker 2: list in just a sentence. When everybody, somebody says who's

483
00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,280
Speaker 2: your favorite, like a favorite pops In doesn't mean it's

484
00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 2: your favorite. What's your favorite movie? I say, Young Frankistin,

485
00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 2: It's probably not my favorite movie. It's just one of

486
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,280
Speaker 2: my favorites that pops in my head. If I sat

487
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:41,600
Speaker 2: down and thought about it, I probably.

488
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,080
Speaker 1: Could outrank it and think of something else, you know.

489
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 2: So I think when you use the word favorite, it's

490
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Speaker 2: very important to see who doesn't make the list as

491
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,440
Speaker 2: important as who makes the list, because then you work

492
00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 2: on it and you yeah, and then easily like why

493
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Speaker 2: why isn't why isn't that one on the list?

494
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Speaker 1: You know, right, so you.

495
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Speaker 4: Know it's it's I think to tie it all together

496
00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 4: with friends, ship, family, Thanksgiving and what you're thankful for Thanksgiving, Christmas.

497
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,360
Speaker 4: It's nice to get the obligatory text message, but there's

498
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Speaker 4: a handful of.

499
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Speaker 1: People the phone got to get a phone call, the

500
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Speaker 1: tier ones. Yeah, the tier.

501
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:15,719
Speaker 2: Ones get the phone call. Yeah, I think, And that's important.

502
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 2: And I think the end of the year is interesting

503
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 2: because people are nostalgic. And then when you see that

504
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 2: phone call ring, and this is the second or third

505
00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 2: time you talk to this person, that's weird, you know.

506
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, every Arbor day you always.

507
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Speaker 1: Call me, dude. There's nobody I think of a plane tree, Yeah, Joe.

508
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,120
Speaker 1: When I think a stiff would.

509
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Speaker 4: Steve, let's get it.

510
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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving. Everybody let's get our Thanksgiving queries.

511
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Speaker 4: Happy things.

512
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Speaker 1: Mark, We're also thankful for you, buddy.

513
00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,199
Speaker 4: Thank I'm here.

514
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 1: We wouldn't be able to we.

515
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 2: Wouldn't be able to do this without yet, literally because

516
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Speaker 2: we don't know what they what the questions are.

517
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Speaker 5: All right, we'll dive into our Thanksgiving questions. First one

518
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,239
Speaker 5: comes from Celia. Uh, my parents are divorced and I

519
00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 5: genuinely dislike them.

520
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 4: Jesus Christ.

521
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Speaker 5: They are constantly trying to separate me and my siblings

522
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 5: during the holidays. How can I navigate Thanksgiving and going

523
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 5: home with this in mind?

524
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Speaker 4: Thanks moms?

525
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 1: Wow?

526
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I think the first thing about any of

527
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,119
Speaker 2: that a child in divorce, there becomes a point, especially

528
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 2: when they're all I'm assuming Celia is older. When they're older,

529
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 2: I think the point of it is that you have

530
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 2: to start putting yourself first and start forgetting about what's

531
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Speaker 2: important to your parents, Like you can't be going to

532
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 2: spend time with somebody at a guilt. You go to

533
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 2: spend time with the people that have earned the time

534
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 2: with love and support throughout the year. So that's the

535
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Speaker 2: first thing I would lens, I would look at of it.

536
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Speaker 2: And then also, you only you don't have to go

537
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Speaker 2: where you don't want to go. Yeah, you don't feel

538
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: like you don't have to go where you don't want

539
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 2: to go. That was a that's a big thing. I

540
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Speaker 2: think you go where you feel like. Because here's the thing.

541
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Speaker 2: The first year is the hardest, right, The first year

542
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 2: is the hardest. Like, I'm not gonna you know, I'm

543
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 2: not gonna split my time. I'm just gonna go to

544
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Speaker 2: one or the other or whatever. And then maybe next

545
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 2: year I'll go to the other one or whatever. You

546
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 2: figure it out. The first year is the hardest to

547
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Speaker 2: do that, spending the time in the car, trying to

548
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,679
Speaker 2: spend because they you're not spending your time in a

549
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Speaker 2: good way. You're not spending your time. I'm you're not

550
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: being present. You're looking at the clock. Shit, I gotta

551
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 2: get to fucking Southampton orherever the hell you're going, you know,

552
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 2: So I think you're taking away. Nobody comes out of

553
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: winter in that situation. You know, go to somebody's house

554
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 2: on Black Friday, bring them a TV from Best Buy,

555
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 2: solving the blow, you know what I mean. Go the

556
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Speaker 2: next day.

557
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Speaker 1: I got this toaster from guys. It's crazy.

558
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Speaker 4: I agree with you. When you're spreading yourself too thin,

559
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 4: you aren't present. But if you just invest in one,

560
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 4: then next year you go to the other one. But

561
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Speaker 4: it sounds like the parents are actively trying to divide

562
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Speaker 4: the siblings. Yes, which to me, it sounds like again,

563
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Speaker 4: these sentences are just you know, just giving the information

564
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Speaker 4: we have. It sounds like she wants to hang out

565
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Speaker 4: with her siblings, So make that the priority. Hang out

566
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Speaker 4: with your siblings and the parents if they want to come,

567
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 4: the more they're welcome to to have, you know, extend

568
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Speaker 4: the invite. But it's like, if that's the priority for

569
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Speaker 4: you to make, yeah.

570
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think all subbings have to be on the

571
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Speaker 1: same page with that. But that'd be great.

572
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 2: My my mom ended up doing that later in life

573
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Speaker 2: with Christmas Day. They would they'd spend Christmas Eve. She

574
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: had three brothers and sisters. There was a four of them.

575
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Speaker 2: Christmas Day, she started inviting them all over the house

576
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 2: and if you want to see your parents, that's where

577
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 2: they would be a Christmas Day, right, which is interesting.

578
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Speaker 2: So although all of them would have like breakfast with

579
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 2: their kids or whatever, and then they would go spend

580
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Speaker 2: the day with them, and it ended up being such

581
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Speaker 2: an awesome tradition that even after my mother passed for

582
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Speaker 2: a long time, my aunts and uncles because we would

583
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Speaker 2: all be with my mom still, they came wherever the

584
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 2: Ghattos were, which was really cool.

585
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Speaker 1: We'd have all of them.

586
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Speaker 2: So we had like ten to fifteen Christmases after my

587
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: mom had passed, ten Christmas, maybe of them after my

588
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 2: dad passed. Rather that where they would just come and

589
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Speaker 2: be where my mom was and we would all be

590
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Speaker 2: together my aunt and uncles, which was cool.

591
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Speaker 1: But to put the siblings as.

592
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Speaker 2: A priority is it's good because here's the other thing too,

593
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Speaker 2: The parents aren't going to be here Forever's.

594
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Speaker 1: Going to be longer. So you want to you want

595
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Speaker 1: to get your tradition and your timing together with them. Absolutely,

596
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 1: I think that helps helped. Well.

597
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Speaker 4: Good luck to you, Cecilia, Celia.

598
00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,640
Speaker 1: Clia, good luck.

599
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 5: Kevin hits us up with the Thanksgiving really a question.

600
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Speaker 5: It's my first Thanksgiving with my in laws.

601
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: Tough one.

602
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 4: Thanksgiving with my in laws.

603
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: This comes in from Mark.

604
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Speaker 5: I've also never been to their home and we'll be

605
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Speaker 5: staying there for three nights. What can I do to

606
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 5: best prepare for this situation and come out looking like

607
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 5: a hero.

608
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 4: Well, that's a good attitude.

609
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: The attitude's on cares. He cares.

610
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 4: So it sounds like he has.

611
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 2: A good relationship with ish because he wants to come

612
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,360
Speaker 2: out like a Hary has a relationship with the in laws,

613
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 2: which is very good.

614
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,479
Speaker 4: The attitude out of the gates is exactly the mindset

615
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 4: you want. I think you want to go into it

616
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 4: and make make the effort right. Sometimes people feel inhibited,

617
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 4: you know, you hope they're going to be great hosts, right, yeah,

618
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 4: but take the time to you know, sit down with them.

619
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Speaker 4: You know, when they're at coffee. It's easy to sit

620
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 4: on the couch and pull out your phone, but to

621
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Speaker 4: like literally put your phone down, walk over and sit

622
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 4: down and just try to have a conversation. Or if

623
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 4: they're hey, can I help you with the groceries? Can

624
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 4: I help you? You know, I think the the minuscule

625
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 4: little chores. Can I take out the garbage.

626
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: For you guys?

627
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 4: You know it looks just all those little things.

628
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: I'm literally going to just say take out the garbage

629
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: because that's the least favorite thing and any home, and

630
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: it's the easiest thing that you could do. Because you

631
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 2: want to be careful, like, okay, help you put the

632
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: grocer's way. A lot people, there's my kitchen, I got,

633
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: you know, like that, but nobody's like, it's my garbage,

634
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. You know everybody hates that, right,

635
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: It's that the two most mundane ones. People hate the

636
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: garbage and then empty and the dishwasher. If you're in

637
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 2: charge of those two things, you're a hero. They'll love

638
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: you forever. I would say do that. I would just say,

639
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 2: also take the cues of the home. There are people

640
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 2: that become want to be helpful house guests and then

641
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: get annoying and get in the way of the flow

642
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 2: of it right right, you know, can I help you

643
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 2: cook now and I'm cooking, get out of the kitchen,

644
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 2: you know, then sit on the other side of the

645
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 2: island and talk to them like that, you know. Take

646
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: the cues of the house is a big thing, you know. Uh,

647
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 2: make the bed, you know what I mean.

648
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 4: By the way, if you're there for three days, hey, guys,

649
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 4: I was thinking, you know, after the first day, you know, uh,

650
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 4: could I take you guys out to lunch? Could I

651
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 4: take you guys out to dinner? Do one of those?

652
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 4: Obviously you're going to have the big the big meal, right, right,

653
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 4: but I think one of those. Just make an effort

654
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 4: and go. I'd love to take you guys out for

655
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 4: a lunch or dinner.

656
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: Hey, why don't we Why don't we order it tonight?

657
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: Can I order orders in dinner so we can hang out,

658
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: you know kind of thing. We don't have to spend

659
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 2: time preparing the food. Things like that. I think that's great.

660
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: Also, don't come empty hand it to a house. That's

661
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: the scratsiat. Never come in that's yours. Yeah, never come

662
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: in to hand it. Bring yourself a bottle, find out.

663
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,479
Speaker 2: It's easy to find out what their favorite snacks, bottle

664
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: or something or whatever to come in with. Get get

665
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 2: a bag of bagels for breakfast in the morning, whatever.

666
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 4: Come flowers for.

667
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: The mom, flowers for the month, then and then.

668
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 2: But you don't want to get the dad jels and

669
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 2: think that you're trying to bang his wife. Take cards

670
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: for baseball closet. Again, you don't want to get the

671
00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: mom jealous thinking you're trying to bang the dad.

672
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 4: Right, That's why I would also suggest d batteries and

673
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 4: say I know what, I know what's in your nightstand?

674
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So everybody's banging everybody, And don't try to have

675
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 2: quiet sex in the house.

676
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: You never go three days without it.

677
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 4: You're a bully in the bedroom. Let him know, be

678
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 4: proud of.

679
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: What you're doing up in there. Yeah, one of the other.

680
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: Don't try. My god, this is your daughter, I would say. Yeah,

681
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: definitely reserve yourself to masturbating.

682
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 4: In the show, I'm inside your house, inside your daughter.

683
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: It's so weird.

684
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 4: It's okay.

685
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 5: I brought bagel, hope your flower. That's funny to piggyback

686
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 5: on that. Do you think that it's uh? Do you

687
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 5: think it's the right thing to do to offer to

688
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 5: cook for Thanksgiving? Like this guy, Kevin, he goes over

689
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 5: to the house. Do you think it's the thing to

690
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 5: do to stay out of it?

691
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 4: I feel really good.

692
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta have confidence.

693
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 5: That's gotta be some best pressure.

694
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 4: Hi.

695
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: I make a great stuff, mushroom. I could stand behind

696
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: it no matter what.

697
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 2: The first time I went to my in laws, first

698
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: time I met my in laws was Thanksgiving. They weren't

699
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 2: even my inlaws that we were dating. I went over there.

700
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,719
Speaker 2: I'm in California and I'm sleeping on the couch and

701
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: I say, uh, and the mom says everything she's making.

702
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: I said, oh, I said, can I always have stuff mushrooms?

703
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,719
Speaker 2: I say, can I can I make stuff mushrooms and

704
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: she goes, okay, yeah, and so I may make the

705
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 2: stuff mushrooms. And everybody loved them and it was good.

706
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: But I was confident in them. They're not hard, they're easy,

707
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 2: and I've been making them for years, and that was

708
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: part of my tradition I wanted to bring to it.

709
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 2: And now we all have stuff mushrooms and my in

710
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: laws now we all cook together Thanksgiving. Like She's like,

711
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 2: you're gonna make the mushrooms like that kind of thing.

712
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: So I do agree. If you're gonna make one dish,

713
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: also make it simple, don't I'm gonna bake.

714
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make a Julianne pie and you're fucking with

715
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: the flower to them, everybody make something.

716
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: Simple and easy, a bean salad, a mushroom, things like that.

717
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: Super easy.

718
00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

719
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't make a stake up this before he guys

720
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: like peaking duck.

721
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 5: Or using too using too many pots and pans and

722
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 5: making making a mess. Making a mess is like a

723
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 5: good I think a big.

724
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 2: Thing is the worst thing you could do hands down,

725
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: let's talk about worst things you could do. Get in

726
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: the way in the kitchen is number one for it

727
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 2: when they're cooking. If you're in the way in the kitchen,

728
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: that's gonna be like, I hate this guy.

729
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: Couldn't get out of the kitchen, you know.

730
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 2: The other thing was like, don't shut up while you're

731
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 2: like while you're talking, like if people are talking, give

732
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 2: everybody a chance to talk and share doing a Thanksgiving table,

733
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: don't monopolize the conversation. I think those two things become

734
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: the most annoying things you could do ye as a guest.

735
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 5: And I've actually been told sometimes that I was too quiet.

736
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 5: That's another thing too, coming into an in law, like

737
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 5: not being too shy. Really, I think you have to

738
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 5: have no balance too, because if you're going over for

739
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 5: the first time, you want to make sure that like

740
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 5: I have to pimp.

741
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 2: Between being too loud obnoxious of being too quiet and shy.

742
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: I will take the quiet and shy person absolutely so. Yeah,

743
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: but most of all, guys, be you well.

744
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: Good luck Kevin, Kevin, Kevin, good luck Kevin.

745
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 5: Uh. Sarah hits this up on the Instagram. Sarah says,

746
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 5: I'm a terrible cook. So I guess we're on the

747
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 5: other end of the spectrum. I'm a terrible cook, but

748
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 5: want to host my family for Thanksgiving, more importantly, impress them.

749
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 5: This would be my first time hosting after leaving home,

750
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 5: getting my first big girl job, and buying a home.

751
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 5: Any advice to calm my anxiety.

752
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 4: I got it ready. You do the whole food like

753
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 4: Whole Foods or your local grocery store. They have like

754
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,239
Speaker 4: everything pre made, so you just have to bake it

755
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 4: for like fifteen or twenty minutes, like those pre made

756
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,719
Speaker 4: meals that are already situated so you don't have to

757
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 4: overextend yourself. Or or there's always a restaurant that serves

758
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 4: Thanksgiving meals, So I would suggest one of those two routes.

759
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you're famously known for not being a

760
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: good cook. Yeah, if you're gonna throw a hat in

761
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: the arena for the event that is known for its meal,

762
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: it's the holiday known for its meal.

763
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, come to that, you know, with your hands cuffed.

764
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta, you gotta admit it and own

765
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: it and be like, look, I don't cook, but I'd

766
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 2: love to have you guys over. I'm gonna get bring

767
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: the food in blah blah blah. But then you're gonna

768
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: get a lot of this. You're gonna get like, oh,

769
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: but that's not like Mom's turkey.

770
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 8: Oh that's you're not gonna have Grandmama's potatoes. Oh what

771
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 8: about Uncle Philipe based mushrooms? Like you're gonna hear all

772
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 8: that stuff, and that's gonna be annoying. Yeah, that's gonna

773
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 8: be really annoying.

774
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 4: But I think that there's some merit to the fact

775
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 4: that she just got her first job, she's young, she's

776
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 4: kind of extending herself and saying I think family wise,

777
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 4: you think I think the parents.

778
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: Will be into it more than the siblings. The parents

779
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: are like, oh, the good for Julie, She's gonna do it.

780
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 2: But then like the parents that, oh, we gotta go

781
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 2: there and have a male You.

782
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 4: Kind of get a list. Is there anything you'd want?

783
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 1: What about? Yeah? What if people bring the food? Bring

784
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: bring something you enjoy.

785
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: You could also invite people just to cook in your kitchen.

786
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: I'm a bigger fan of that. I'm a bigger fan

787
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 2: of Hey, I want to Thanksgiving. I'm not a good cook.

788
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 4: Mom.

789
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: If you want to come over I'll buy everything and

790
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: we just cook together in my kitchen. That might be fun,

791
00:31:59,120 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: or you.

792
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 4: Run it's like Whole Foods has like one hundred and

793
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 4: fifty dollars package where I love like six baked potatoes

794
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 4: and all that stuff. So there's that. But I like

795
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 4: the idea of would you mind helping me out?

796
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

797
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: You know, And because everybody's going to be game for

798
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 2: that plan, I think yeah, I think everybody's gonna be like, yeah,

799
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: it's the same thing, you know, going there, unless the

800
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 2: mom might be like, oh, you only have one of them.

801
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: We don't have a double oven. Am I supposed to

802
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: take these potatoes? And I've been smoking for eats?

803
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 4: Get me my bull burrows?

804
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: You know.

805
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

806
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of solutions there. It's either

807
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: get also talk about it openly with everybody. Don't be

808
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: like be like, you know, here's the thing. But at

809
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: the end of the day, it's your house, you know,

810
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: so you're like, Hey, this is what I want to do,

811
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: this is what I'm doing.

812
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: Everybody cool with it? Okay? If not, and then hey,

813
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: can I what about the potato? Bring them? Bring them,

814
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: make them at home and bring them.

815
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: I'm invested in this one. Can you please follow up,

816
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,959
Speaker 4: follow up, take some pictures and let us know how

817
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 4: it went, because I am here.

818
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: And I hope it goes well for it.

819
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 4: I hope it goes well for it.

820
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: Maybe the first oneing you hosted, you and Jess hosted together.

821
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 4: There's a handful. I remember, yeah, in Chicago. We had

822
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 4: just moved into our our like I don't know, new place,

823
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 4: and we had her parents and my parents, and we

824
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 4: had a Thanksgiving together for the first time, and and

825
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 4: Jess knocked out of them.

826
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: That's great.

827
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 4: She did. She was so nervous, but she cared so

828
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 4: much and she's a warrior and she she she nailed it.

829
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 4: So it was great. That was one of my favorite

830
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 4: Thanksgivings because, uh, we we had all we're all just

831
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 4: kind of getting to know each other, you know.

832
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: That's great.

833
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 4: And we had just gotten engaged, I think, prior to that.

834
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: So there's a lot of good feelings good, Yeah, a

835
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: lot of good movie wedding wedding.

836
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: Stuff in the air I did. I hosted.

837
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 2: Me and Bessie were dating and we were in on

838
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 2: Wall Street in our studio apartment, and my sister Gina's

839
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: in laws were in. I think Texas or something with

840
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: the with the other parts of the family whatever, and

841
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: she was available for Thanksgiving, so I was like, come over.

842
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: So her and my nephews and my knee came over

843
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: and we had thanks kids in the in our apartment

844
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 2: and it was so cool. It was so fun. That

845
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: food was terrible, but it didn't matter, like we made

846
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 2: fun of it.

847
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know.

848
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 2: It was like I was like, I don't really know

849
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: what I'm doing here, you know, I didn't. I think

850
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 2: I cooked in that apartment seven times.

851
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: That was one of the time I lived a year.

852
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 2: You know, you always order food in the city of

853
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: your grand food, you know, so that was a Bessie

854
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: doesn't cook. So I was just like, you know, threw

855
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 2: something together, but do you have.

856
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 4: A dish you make me personally for Thanksgiving or just

857
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 4: in general? No, for Thanksgiving, No, not really, I've never

858
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,240
Speaker 4: I've always kind of stayed out of it. But what

859
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 4: what we did last year was we we'd always cooked turkey,

860
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 4: and then the kids hated it. There was like I

861
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 4: don't like turkey, and I was like, all right, what

862
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 4: do you guys want to do? So we made pizzas.

863
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 4: So we got a pizza uh strike slab. Yeah, and

864
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 4: we got five dos and we just had a pizza night.

865
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 4: And then for Christmas, same thing. It was like the

866
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 4: kids didn't want ham. I was like, well, what do

867
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 4: you guys want to do? So my mom made cream

868
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 4: barbecue and we just had we had. My mom's crean

869
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 4: barbecue is phenomenal, and she makes a lemon chicken that's

870
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 4: like off off the charts, so we we had her

871
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 4: just pull out all the stops with the she catered,

872
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 4: she catera and she rocked it. So is there a

873
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 4: dish you do?

874
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: I do my dad's bean salad, my dad's bean salad,

875
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: my mom's stuff version of my dad's bean salad.

876
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: I do.

877
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 2: It's kind of monotonous to make it. My sisters don't

878
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 2: like making it, but they love eating it. So the

879
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: I was like, gonna make the bean salad and bring

880
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 2: it's I always bring it with me, But yeah, I

881
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 2: love that. My dad had a bean salad at a

882
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 2: restaurant and he loved the way it tasted.

883
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: And he just he took some home and and dissected it.

884
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 4: And re created it everywhere, and.

885
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 2: He couldn't figure out He couldn't figure out the one

886
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 2: thing that was messing. So he went to the chef.

887
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: That was the place he went to in his Italian place.

888
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 2: It was just like it was like a little side

889
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: thing he loved and he said, what is was that?

890
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: And it was it was red wine vinegar. They put

891
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 2: a splash of red wine vinegar. That's it, and that

892
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 2: was that and he put it in goes, that's it.

893
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: He was so excited, so excited that, Yeah, so that's

894
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: my thing.

895
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: I make that and my kids make it with me

896
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: now and now my kids know to make it. It's

897
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 1: so cute. Yeah, my daughter's like to make dad's bean

898
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: salad and Bessie I was like, all right, because she

899
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: doesn't really eat it all right. I mean it takes

900
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: a while and everything, but it's fun. Yeah, the bean

901
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 1: south your.

902
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 4: Dad's being sold my dad's gravy.

903
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: There you go, man, Bean salads and gravies.

904
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 2: That could be a new podcast that we do, cooking

905
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: podcast Bean Soalds and Gravies.

906
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: We'll get time for more one more and more.

907
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 4: Uh.

908
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,479
Speaker 5: This one comes from bread. My parents love my current job.

909
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 5: I recently left the job though, and have a new

910
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 5: one that I'm excited about. I'm nervous they won't agree

911
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 5: with my new direction. Should I bring it up in

912
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 5: person when I'm home for Thanksgiving or wait until after

913
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 5: the holidays?

914
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 4: Thank you mommy?

915
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 1: Oh sure I ruined the holidays. Get in there and

916
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: just ruin the holiday with a controversial topic. Come in

917
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: hot and be like you're future.

918
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,439
Speaker 4: That's like, that doesn't work, and it's like, and I'm gay.

919
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: Job thing I'm bunking now, doesn't Grandpa? I know what

920
00:36:58,160 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna I think I know what you're saying.

921
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: I always bring it up right there. We're gonna sit

922
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: on that. You know, talk about it in person's always.

923
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 4: Great, But but to you the minute, he says, I'm

924
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 4: just thinking your own happiness is gonna matter more than anything.

925
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 4: And I think if you're, if you're truly genuinely happy

926
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 4: in your new job, your parents are gonna be over

927
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 4: the moved.

928
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, Yeah for sure. I parents know best

929
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: is kind of tough.

930
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 2: I see that a lot, and it's like they don't

931
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 2: really all the time. And that's always something I think

932
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: about too as my kids get older, Like you want

933
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: them to make their own move, their own mistakes, you know,

934
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 2: think about where we ended up, Like this is, you know,

935
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: my dad. I always think about that too. If my

936
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: dad was alive, he probably would have disagreed with so

937
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 2: many risks and moves I took when it came to

938
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 2: my career. Yeah, and my family, you know, and you know,

939
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 2: not getting married while I was thirty four, and you

940
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 2: know all that stuff, Like I think he would have

941
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 2: been like a lot of it. It would have been like,

942
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 2: that's not what I would have done. But I ended

943
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 2: up in a place I know he's proud of. So

944
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 2: it's kind of it's weird, like your parents know best

945
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 2: to a point, and then when it comes to especially

946
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: like your future, that you're gonna be in charge of

947
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 2: your job too, is so much of your life, so

948
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 2: you like it. You know, they're not going to the

949
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: cubicle and sitting there and colating papers.

950
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: What would you say, correlate in the papers? Is that

951
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: a word colated?

952
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 5: C colid is definitely word.

953
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 4: I honestly don't know.

954
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 1: What it means. It means putting papers in order, collating. Okay,

955
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 1: you never heard the word colate. You're you're well read.

956
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 4: No, I tell jokes for a living. I've never collated papers.

957
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: Well, you better collate your sense of humor and something.

958
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean I agree with you as a

959
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 4: It's one thing to hear it from his perspective, right,

960
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 4: and you want to your point, he's not He's the

961
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 4: one in the cubicle all day, right, advancing and if

962
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 4: you're inspired again, you're happy. But also from a parent's perspective,

963
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 4: like you want the best for your care So like

964
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 4: my daughter when she's out there in the world, I'm

965
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 4: going to say, you know, you want you to find

966
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 4: a great companion. I want you to be with whomever

967
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 4: you choose to be. I don't care if this is

968
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 4: an individual that doesn't make money, as long as that

969
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 4: individual is doing something that makes him happy. And if

970
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 4: you derive happiness, then that makes for a great partnership.

971
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 4: And I want you to be happy ultimately with whoever

972
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 4: you choose, as long as it's the same race.

973
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: For sure, And that's all Daddy wants. Give me my Scotch.

974
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: I think that I think that there's a big setup.

975
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: I think I was like I was sitting here and

976
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 2: so nice, and then I waited a little too long.

977
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: I was like, gonna do something here.

978
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: I think that it's interesting because I say that and

979
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 2: as you were saying that, I was thinking, like, you know,

980
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: parents don't always know no best, And I wonder when

981
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: the point in my life is when I'm going to

982
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: realize that. Because my daughter is like, hey, Dad, I'm

983
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 2: going to go cross country on the motorcycle and find

984
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: myself like.

985
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: That kind of thing. And I'm like, don't you want

986
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: to go? You know like that, that's that's gonna be

987
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: a tough moment as a parent.

988
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I mean, look, yeah, what's what's the

989
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 4: kid's eighteen?

990
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 2: It's like, well, I don't even think it's a number,

991
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: Like you know, some eighteen year olds they don't know

992
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,919
Speaker 2: what the fuck they're doing of course, right, So.

993
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: Like you can't, I can't just put a number on.

994
00:39:59,560 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: I mean I might.

995
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 2: I trust my daughter's instincts at sixteen, you know what

996
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 2: I mean, But like I think it's.

997
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 4: I think I trust your son's instincts now that kid

998
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 4: is so much.

999
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: Sure for sure?

1000
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, the kids, you could just tell that kid's gonna

1001
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,439
Speaker 4: be You're like, oh, he's gonna be fine.

1002
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 2: It's interesting because but if I look at my two kids, right,

1003
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 2: they both have two different sides of my personality, Like

1004
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: one's the risk taker and one is the slow and

1005
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 2: steady ones and raise guy right, you know, Like, so,

1006
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 2: I just wonder what you're gonna when you're gonna be

1007
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 2: this That moment comes to every parent when you just

1008
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 2: gotta be like, oh, all right, well go ahead, go

1009
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: for a good luck to you and like you just

1010
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: it's either send it in to college or them saying

1011
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 2: they're not going to go to college or you know

1012
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 2: where it is, and you don't have to be like,

1013
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: you know, that's gonna be a interesting point for both

1014
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 2: of us. You guys are gonna come first, so let.

1015
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: Me know how it goes. You've only got by a

1016
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: couple of years, but finish crusted.

1017
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but I think I think you just hope

1018
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 4: to God you late enough of a good foundation. And

1019
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 4: I always tell my kids it's like, I'm not going

1020
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 4: to be there to make decisions for you when you're

1021
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 4: with your when you're with your friend.

1022
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: The long day, I can only give you dead long time.

1023
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: They'll be looking up to the eavans and be like, Dad,

1024
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 2: what do you think we wished you so much?

1025
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 3: Why didn't you stay home for New Yearsy? It's New

1026
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 3: Year's Eve every day now, But Dorian's laughing. It's Cincinnati.

1027
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: I love it so stupid. Okay, well I think we

1028
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: did it. We did it. Happy Thanksgiving, Seevie. Stevie, I

1029
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: don't know how I would live my life without you.

1030
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: I love you.

1031
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: You're one of my best friends, and I thank you

1032
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: so much for being in my life and always doing

1033
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 2: what you do.

1034
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: Steve, not just.

1035
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 4: For me but for the people's Well, thank you and

1036
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 4: reciprocal right back at you.

1037
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: I love you.

1038
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 4: My life is better for having become friends with you

1039
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 4: over the last few years. I know we've always just

1040
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 4: kind of bounced around, but getting to do this podcast

1041
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 4: and getting to spend time with you, and it's been

1042
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 4: it's been a lot of fun. Mark. I was looking

1043
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 4: at you, but I loved get and obviously spend so

1044
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 4: much time with you. Guys. Really am thankful for this experience.

1045
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 4: Thankful for iHeart.

1046
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. Thank you for the fans that to.

1047
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 4: Our our fellow co workers here that have been with

1048
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 4: us from the jump, So thank you guys as well.

1049
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: Thankful let people have messed up lives and need help because.

1050
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 4: We got to figure it out.

1051
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got home figured out. So Happy Thanksgiving, everybody,

1052
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: enjoy your time with your family, eat well, and uh

1053
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: we'll see you next time. On to gool Moms and

1054
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: tour dates. At did we put on the beginning? So

1055
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: we did. Okay, we're gonna put on the beginning, but

1056
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 1: we can tell them now.

1057
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: Hey, you know the holidays coming up, we gonna need gifts, right,

1058
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 2: why not come out and see us live. You're gonna

1059
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 2: get tickets from me at Joe gattoofficial dot com or

1060
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 2: Steve burn.

1061
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: Right, it's punch Up dot live slash Steven b y

1062
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Speaker 3: r an E.

1063
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: Sier. Reason to find it.

1064
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 4: By the way, I want to see the pictures from

1065
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:58,760
Speaker 4: the girls, is it Sarah?

1066
00:42:59,040 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: Sarah?

1067
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 4: I want to see Sarah? Is I want to see

1068
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 4: how well?

1069
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 1: Thanks Sarah, make sure you said.

1070
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 4: It, please Sarah, And good luck to everybody.

1071
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 1: Good luck everybody,