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Speaker 1: Thank you for You're coming back. Part two is underway.

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Speaker 1: Fifty reported that little Meach had to go to rehab.

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Speaker 2: See there you go. See hey he brought that up.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't you like see God don't like ugly.

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Speaker 1: See sometimes you don't like pretty.

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Speaker 3: But you know, but but listen, I will say, fifty,

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Speaker 3: ass is patty. I'm gonna let you know he is.

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Speaker 3: He's so patty. But that's one thing about it. You know,

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Speaker 3: when he's hurt, he is hurt. He is a cancer,

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Speaker 3: and he is very emotional emotional ass gangster.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, cancer to.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's why. Okay, yeah, I see it. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: there we go saying all right, but I don't I

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Speaker 3: get you now.

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Speaker 2: But I don't bother nobody, No, not.

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Speaker 3: Into somebody bother. Yeah yeah, but then yell, but then

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Speaker 3: you don't know how to let it go after that.

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Speaker 3: And that's that's you. That's fifty that said, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think I think Charlotmagne may be the only cancer

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Speaker 3: that doesn't. That's not like that.

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Speaker 2: But he always starting stuff.

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Speaker 3: He is yeah, yeah, that he's opposite. He starts it, yes,

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Speaker 3: and didn't want to hide his hand. Yes, yeah, yees yeah,

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Speaker 3: I told him, I said, your little ninja turtle looking

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Speaker 3: ask somebody gonna get you one day?

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Speaker 1: Well they got him at one time. You remember that

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Speaker 1: they put they rolled up on him. But they did,

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Speaker 1: that's it. But when and when Baby rolled up on him,

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Speaker 1: he got real quiet when baby rolled up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, certain certain Charlemagne pick his battles like he

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Speaker 3: picks them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he talked. He thought, dog he give people don't

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Speaker 1: get to day. He should have gave baby.

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Speaker 3: Don't get a dent? And who is that one guy

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Speaker 3: that the state property dede? Oh my god. Beanie Sigull.

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Speaker 3: He was quiet with Beanie Sigull too, Yeah, he was quiet.

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Speaker 3: Beanie said, look, yo, don't be thuning mad. He said, okay,

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Speaker 3: he said yeah, ccause you don't. You don't lit this.

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Speaker 3: You don't know what to say. Is Seany said yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're right.

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Speaker 2: That's right, But it's somebody else. He keep going back.

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Speaker 3: Oh he won't let it go, he will. He don't

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Speaker 3: play with me neither though, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah what he thought on the fifty and Big Meach.

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Speaker 3: So listen, fifty and fifty in Big Meach. I feel

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Speaker 3: like it was business right, So I understand what fifty

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Speaker 3: did for his family. Yes, you put money in his

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Speaker 3: family's bocket. But if Rick Ross is Big Meach's friend,

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Speaker 3: like if they were friends, like they like Rick Ross

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Speaker 3: like allegedly took care of this nigga while he was

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Speaker 3: in jail, take care of this man while he was

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Speaker 3: in jail, you know, and and before like they they've

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Speaker 3: been acquaint acquainted.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like Big Meach and fifty they weren't friends.

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Speaker 3: This is a business thing. Yeah, So how can you

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Speaker 3: get upset with little Meach for something that Big Meach did, right?

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Yes, that Little Meach really

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Speaker 3: wasn't even a part of Now. No, I'm not too

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Speaker 3: crazy about Little meachs, but I actually did feel bad

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Speaker 3: for him.

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Speaker 2: Spot.

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Speaker 3: He really did get put in the bad spot and

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Speaker 3: I and honestly and the whole sending him to rehab thing,

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Speaker 3: I just think that was that was a lot then

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Speaker 3: that could have been left out, you know, because we

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Speaker 3: don't know what he was dealing with, why he was

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Speaker 3: you know, drugging the way he was or whatever, you know,

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Speaker 3: and whether it was for fun or not. You know,

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Speaker 3: you didn't put it out, you didn't choose to put

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Speaker 3: it out. Then you know, you put it out now

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Speaker 3: when his dad is doing the thing that you don't like,

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Speaker 3: you know, so yeah, I do kind of feel bad

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Speaker 3: for the brother in.

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Speaker 1: Two Minutes of Fame, Kiki Parmercat Williams, DC, Young Pless

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Speaker 1: and bad Dion Cole, Carlos Miller, Earthquake, and Ray Grant,

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Speaker 1: What was that experience like for you being on set

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Speaker 1: with all those guys.

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Speaker 3: I actually didn't get to see a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: I only got to be on set with ron Rico

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Speaker 3: League and Jay Ferrell. Okay, funny personalities them both. Now.

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Speaker 3: I love ron Rico Leef from Sister Sister, like that

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Speaker 3: man still look good to this duke, you know. So

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Speaker 3: I was looking. I was like, okay, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: just it's just great. The nostalgia of actually like knowing

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Speaker 3: who he is and it's like, oh my god, y'all.

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Speaker 3: And then Jay Farrell, who's a funny, funny d Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, yeah, yeah, he's That was nice. That was good.

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Speaker 3: I actually didn't even get to meet Kat on that set.

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Speaker 3: I met Kat at Tycoon Weekend for fifty cent a

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Speaker 3: couple years ago. But yeah, that was a good It

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Speaker 3: was good. It was a good movie too.

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Speaker 1: I got the hook up to master P, John Witherspoon,

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Speaker 1: Cash Doll, Sir Underwood, I mean another one Young DC

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Speaker 1: GZ Webby Romeo, Michael Blacks and b Somemone April Jones.

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Speaker 2: What was that?

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Speaker 3: Like all the Blacks? That movie was like a long skit.

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Speaker 3: That's why I said, I said, why would you even touch?

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Speaker 3: I got the hook up to why would you touch?

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Speaker 3: The first one? Yo? It was it was nostalgic. It

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Speaker 3: was great. You could have just did like a skip movie,

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Speaker 3: you know, but it was good being on set. But

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you one thing. Hold on, let me

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Speaker 3: take a step. We'll be right back after this guy. Now,

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Speaker 3: the thing was master P. There was no there was

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Speaker 3: no script. I got there right God on set he said, yes,

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Speaker 3: do what you did? Said, what the hell is that? Like?

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Speaker 3: What do you want me to do?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? He said, no, No, I got

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Speaker 3: you being a cop like you do what you do?

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Speaker 3: I said, Yo, what is the movie about? I don't know, Like,

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Speaker 3: you know what am I doing? Give me some type

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Speaker 3: of lead way. He just wanted us to do what

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Speaker 3: we do. Now, some people may take that direction and

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Speaker 3: be like, okay, great, yeah cool, I'll do what I do,

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Speaker 3: not me, because it's like you, I need to know.

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Speaker 3: I'm an actress. I need to know it. Like you

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Speaker 3: don't just throw It's not wilding out, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean. I know what to do, Yes, I know

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Speaker 3: what to do, and I yes, I can improv, but

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Speaker 3: I need a basis, like I need a founder. There

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Speaker 3: was no foundation to the movie. There was no foundation

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Speaker 3: to the project.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: And while I love what master P stands for, no

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Speaker 3: shade to that. It's just it was unorganized and it

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Speaker 3: just was an unprofessional set.

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Speaker 2: You know, allegedly you didn't get paid. Did you get

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Speaker 2: your money?

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Speaker 3: I didn't get paid for both scenes.

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Speaker 2: I did not, so how much how much were you promised?

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Speaker 3: So fifteen thousand per scene? Right? They used one scene,

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Speaker 3: but I shot both, so I should have got thirty

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Speaker 3: thousand dollars. It's not about what airs, I mean, you

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Speaker 3: know what premieres. It's about what I charged for that scene,

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Speaker 3: you know, back in those times. And I didn't get

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Speaker 3: compensated for that, and I.

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Speaker 2: Kept Have you talked to him?

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Speaker 3: No, And every time you come up to breakfast a

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Speaker 3: little I ain't there.

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Speaker 2: You need to make it, make it sure you're there.

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Speaker 3: No, no, Well, need to make sure the money is

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Speaker 3: dad ain't. No, damn, I need to make sure I'm

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Speaker 1: So in these acting scenes, have any actings? Because I

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Speaker 1: remember we had Terry crews on. He said to she

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Speaker 1: and the owner he had a problem remembering his lines,

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Speaker 1: and she said, Terry, you like to sing, just sing

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Speaker 1: was curious that when you're on set, has anybody giving

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Speaker 1: you advice to help you if there was something they

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Speaker 1: were struggling with.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I honestly have never struggled with anything on set. Now.

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Speaker 3: I take my scripts very serious. I take every job

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Speaker 3: I do very serious.

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Speaker 2: So what about Love and Hip Hop? You say you

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Speaker 2: was on Love and Hip Hop Hollywood? Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for one episode that's it. Yeah, hell y'all, I

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Speaker 3: wasn't about to be a part of that whole franchise

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Speaker 2: You make money, though they don't. They pay good.

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Speaker 3: Depending on who you are. Yeah, you're that one day,

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Speaker 3: You're damn right, that's why I only got one day.

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Speaker 3: And they said, look, Wayne Wing got it. I mean

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Speaker 3: not Wayne got it? WA ain't giving it for all?

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Speaker 3: It come on with justin No but I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 3: well what this one conversation, But that was very situational.

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Speaker 3: Though I ended up on there because of something that

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Speaker 3: that there wasn't I was never going to be a

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Speaker 3: part of loving hip hop Hollywood. That ain't even none

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Speaker 3: of my friends fall out. It wasn't really a fall

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Speaker 3: ended up me and me and April were friends, right,

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Speaker 3: and then she we just stopped, like she stopped communicating

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Speaker 3: talking about, Well, one can talk periodically. Hell no, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: But this what you ain't gonna do. You ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: And so what I did, which I shouldn't have done,

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Speaker 3: it was bad. But we all do well not we all,

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Speaker 3: but you know, sometimes it happens. I was actually cool

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Speaker 3: I was cool with her first before prior to meeting April.

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Speaker 3: And you know April was dating Fizz with oh Marion's

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Speaker 3: like that. Hell no, no, I can't do that. Not

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Speaker 3: from being my brother to hu, how are we gonna

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Speaker 3: do that? So you uncle stepdad? I don't know. That

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Speaker 3: was crazy, And that was the thing. I didn't know

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Speaker 3: should be able to date friends to see with that.

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Speaker 3: You know, how you date somebody to see if you

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Speaker 3: like them and you want to make them your significant other.

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Speaker 3: I think you should have a dating period for people

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Speaker 3: to be your friend too, because I want to see

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Speaker 3: what you come with, because you'll becomes my bulls. And

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Speaker 3: now people.

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Speaker 2: Gonna think you already knew You knew that.

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Speaker 3: No I did not. Yeah yeah they Oh, you just

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Speaker 3: co signed it. You think that's cool. You ain't telling

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Speaker 3: her that she shouldn't be dating her her kid's uncle.

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Speaker 3: You didn't tell her that. I'm like, listen, everybody is

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Speaker 3: telling her that, and she don't care. Right, That's just

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Speaker 3: what it is. First he started off as a best friend,

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Speaker 3: and then it became something else, and then it was

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Speaker 3: you know, but that's what happened. I ended up talking

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Speaker 1: It because you know what you date publicly. Got to

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Speaker 3: Or they will continue to attach you to name yep.

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Speaker 1: When they keep asking you about somebody you're not attached to,

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Speaker 3: No, to be honest with you, Chris, his name is

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Speaker 2: Cardi being offset going at it on.

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Speaker 1: Would you ever be in a situation where you would

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Speaker 3: I would never do that now. I never did that. No,

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Speaker 3: deal with you. You know now, That's the thing I

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Speaker 3: just knew that he had her. He knew she would

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Speaker 2: Back by two by three.

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Speaker 3: He might be good for like a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: But then when she started moving on, Oh that baby

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Speaker 3: couldn't take that. H Now, he'd be upset. He'd be

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Speaker 2: Even him up.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, he'd be upset when when certain people take Cardi's side,

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Speaker 3: because I think he feels like it's besides y'all not

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Speaker 3: saying y'all ain't saying this'n't saying nah, but we're saying

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Speaker 3: be up here. She tell us everything. Anyway, you know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying, everything you know, like and we see

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Speaker 3: she loved you through a lot of things that you

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Speaker 2: Can social media ruin a relationship?

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Speaker 3: Hell yeah, yes it can, because then you you don't

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Speaker 3: live for the other person, where you start living for

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Speaker 3: the validation of others, you know what I mean. You

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Speaker 3: don't even know what they got going on, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like you're trying to please too many people,

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Speaker 3: many people. That's why I will say this, and I

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Speaker 3: don't care who get Marid of me. I love Kirk

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Speaker 3: and Rashida from Loving Hip Hop Atlanta. Okay, that is

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Speaker 3: a perfect example of a marriage. Going through everything in

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Speaker 3: that's work.

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Speaker 1: How long in the relationship before we stop saying that

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Speaker 1: I represented about hmmm? That is it is six months

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Speaker 3: Right, Look, what you see is what you getting now?

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Speaker 3: Earlier on, Look, I used to talk different when I

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Speaker 3: used to like, I used to be like, yeah, like, so, like,

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: I've always I've always listened to that song like and

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Speaker 3: I'm never to say that.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yo? And then but by the time the thirty

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Speaker 3: but that's right. That's why I had to stop doing that.

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Speaker 3: That's why I had to stop doing that. That that

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Speaker 3: you see is what you get. They're gonna they're gonna

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Speaker 1: I had sure work underwood on a couple of weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: and she said, the man, no matter how much he

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Speaker 2: Where are you on that?

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Speaker 3: She said?

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Speaker 1: The man, the man, whether or not he makes the

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Speaker 1: When y'all ain't y'all ain't buying that, y'all? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see, I see.

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Speaker 1: You tried to come up with a way that you

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Speaker 1: but you you ain't there yet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, now listen, Well, now I'm gonna set it straight. Wow.

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Speaker 3: I love to be led. Love a man that leads,

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Speaker 3: you know. And I love a man with a purpose,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean, a man that I can

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Speaker 3: I make decisions. He makes decisions, you know what I mean, Fance,

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Speaker 3: he makes decisions. I make decisions. It's not it's not

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Speaker 3: him alone by himself, you know. And that's fine. You know,

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Speaker 3: he has his own company, and he has he makes

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Speaker 3: his own money and everything. But still you s yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: and that's what it is now. How old is Cheryl?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I understand though in that era of her

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Speaker 1: But see just the problem that I got with you

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Speaker 1: Y'all want to be flowers, and y'all want this type

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Speaker 1: But y'all won't do none of that. Y'all ain't cooking.

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Speaker 1: Y'all ain't cooking, y'all ain't she's what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I want to say to my grandmain't have no say

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Speaker 3: Now, now I get what you said. See see, my

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Speaker 3: gonna be that's shot him and his butt? Don't play

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Speaker 3: with it? All right, So it's different over here it

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Speaker 3: is right now. Now, I cook, I clean, I take

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Speaker 3: care of my children. Okay, so does he. He cooks,

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Speaker 3: he cleans, he works, He takes care of our children.

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Speaker 3: He treats my son like that's his son. And of

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Speaker 3: course yes, he does, and I take care of him

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Speaker 3: right back. Okay, you know I scratched his back, scratched mine.

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm getting on my knees. He I'm sitting on

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Speaker 3: his face, all of that, all of that. And please,

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Speaker 3: that's right. We both cleaning. We both don't. That's why

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Speaker 3: I said, is we are both leading our house right now.

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Speaker 3: He's leading me in other ways, but in the household

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Speaker 3: it's both.

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Speaker 2: So so you got to say he got sacked.

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Speaker 3: That's right. Oh, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 2: Uh, how did you know Chris was the guy?

434
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 3: Man, I'm going to be very honest with you. When

435
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 3: I first, ma'am, I was like, look, it's just gonna

436
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 3: be a nice little smash buddy, you know what I

437
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 3: mean when I met him, But it led to it

438
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 3: led to this where I am right now. Man. I

439
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 3: met him February twenty third, twenty twenty three. I was

440
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 3: just finishing up a co hosting day at Breakfast Club

441
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 3: this a year before I got the position. And I

442
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 3: met him and he he's the truck driver, so he

443
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 3: was on the stop and I went into a restaurant

444
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,440
Speaker 3: and I'm flirting with him and everything, and he wasn't

445
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 3: really paying me no mind.

446
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: So I'm like, did you know who you are? Yeah?

447
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 3: He did, but he thought that like he was like,

448
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 3: I don't want to be a part of a roast battle,

449
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 3: Like I don't even That's the thing. People are intimidated.

450
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 3: Guys are intimidated, yeah, by me because they felt like

451
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 3: I you know, that's right. And so he just was like,

452
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: oh god, this girl. Nah. So I asked him did

453
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 3: he want to drink? And He's like, nah, I don't drink.

454
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you want an edible. I was

455
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 3: feeling good. I was passing out, you know, And he

456
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 3: was like, nah, I don't do any of that, you know.

457
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 3: And I'm like, okay, cool.

458
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 2: So you're like, Ninja, what you doing? Yeah?

459
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 3: What do you do? You know? He was like, I

460
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 3: drink wine with dinner. But I'm just haying, like, so,

461
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 3: why are you at the bar?

462
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 2: Then?

463
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 3: Why are you at the bar if you're not drinking?

464
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 3: He said, because I'm grown. I was like, all right,

465
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 3: don't do too much, you know, all right, don't get

466
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 3: a little don't get sassy on me, you know. So

467
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 3: I'm drinking and everything and then we talking. I'm still

468
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 3: picking with him I made him laugh and that's when

469
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,120
Speaker 3: that's when he cracked and then he started engaging more.

470
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 3: And I didn't realize how drunk I was until I

471
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 3: got up and went to the bathroom. I was like, damn,

472
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 3: I'm drunk. I got get out of here. So on

473
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: my way back to the seat, he was like, hey,

474
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 3: before I leave, I wanted to know if I could

475
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 3: take you out? Would you let me take you out?

476
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, now you want to know,

477
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 3: and I'm all drunk, and I'm like, now you want

478
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 3: to not buy I would have been, and so I'm

479
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 3: falling all around and he was like he helped me

480
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 3: and everything, and he was like, I'm gonna just put

481
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 3: my number in your phone because you probably ain't gonna

482
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: be able to do it. And then he took a

483
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 3: couple of days, waited a few days. Then he hit

484
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 3: me up and he asked me could he take me out?

485
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 3: And the first day we went to I mean the

486
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 3: first day we went on, I never left him since then,

487
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 3: we never ever, Like I swear, I was like, I'm

488
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 3: gonna just sleep with him and he gonna be somebody for.

489
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 2: The first time.

490
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I met him, one of the cracket take

491
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 3: him down? Do I wanted to jump on that climb

492
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 3: that tree?

493
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: ESZ.

494
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 3: What's up?

495
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 2: I mean I thought, I thought like I came.

496
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: Up in the era where you know you had to

497
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: wait a month, two month, three month, four months.

498
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 2: It wasn't no first night.

499
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 3: Not if you know what you want, you ain't gotta wait.

500
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 3: That's what the old folks say. That's what I'm saying,

501
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 3: jump right in bed and all of that.

502
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I had John Legend, uh and John Legend say, hey,

503
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: you met Chrissy.

504
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 2: You know they went out boom. It's like that.

505
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 3: It's like that women do that, women do that. I'm

506
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: a woman that didn't, and I know a few of

507
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 3: that doing Listen, I just knew what the.

508
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: Hell got at he ain't even guy it women.

509
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 1: I'm the guy that want to settle down with so

510
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: they would have settled down with me. So they need

511
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: they need a year. M Yeah, that's when I said.

512
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 3: Everybody got a different purpose though, How.

513
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 2: You dude got it in the back seat of the car.

514
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 2: You want me to wear a year?

515
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 3: I feel you, I feel you.

516
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: Why they do me like that?

517
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 3: I don't know why they do you like that?

518
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: Sha don't I don't look like a guy that want

519
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: to have fun. I woant to have fun too.

520
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 3: We heard you, have heard you having all the fun

521
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 3: you was having. Lord, all right, how long did you

522
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: make How long it was till you cracked that?

523
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: Lord? Yeah?

524
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,199
Speaker 3: And you talking through it too, I said, I know

525
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: that's right. That's different, Sla.

526
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 2: Ask your question.

527
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 3: I bet.

528
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: You go to his house or he come to your house,

529
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: or it's a neutral site hotel.

530
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 3: See, I don't go to people's houses.

531
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,679
Speaker 2: They come to you.

532
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 3: Never been a person to go to nobody house.

533
00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: He come to you.

534
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I will. Oh no, man got to come.

535
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you got to be a neutral site,

536
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: neutral site, because hey, women sometimes are not as forthcoming

537
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,239
Speaker 1: as they need to be. And so oh no, I

538
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: know I left him two twenty minutes ago. And I've

539
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: been in situations and you know it's not comfortable. And

540
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: so no, I have not closed my eyes at the

541
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: woman's house in thirty thirty three.

542
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: Years and ain't gone.

543
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 3: I got you. But that means something happened that you

544
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 3: ain't get over. Yeah, oh yeah, I understand it. I

545
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: understand it now. See Chris did not make it to

546
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 3: my house until like our third date. Right, because all right,

547
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: so the first the first date he planned at a

548
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 3: nice really really nice restaurant, right, and he had like

549
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 3: rented the room. It was, so he had rented like

550
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 3: a private room. Yes, some of those like five stars

551
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 3: have privatecy know, people like me coming there have parties

552
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 3: and stuff like that, and we don't want to be

553
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 3: with you know the other dona. So yes, so he

554
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 3: rented that and he it was just us and this

555
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 3: whole big room in this nice hotel downtown Baltimore.

556
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 2: Right.

557
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 3: So then he says, uh, the conversation that this man

558
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 3: had with me on the first date, he could have

559
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: a conversation. That's what got me. You asked me, how

560
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 3: did you know he was the one? He could have

561
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 3: a damn conversation, And he did not ask me about

562
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: jess hilarious one time he wanted to know who Jessica

563
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 3: Robbin Moore was until this day, that is who he is.

564
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: Got you, you know what I mean? Like I love

565
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 3: that because you gotta be careful when you are a celebrity,

566
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 3: you know, and you're trying to date people. You gotta know, like, yo,

567
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 3: what's your motive? Who you are? You just dating me

568
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 3: because of who I am and what I can do

569
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 3: for you? Yes, and I've done so much. I've taken

570
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 3: care of some men. Yeah, how well, I've taken calves

571
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 3: some men.

572
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: But a man will let a woman take care of him.

573
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 3: Your damn right these days, and then beginning to go

574
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 3: on a podcast talking about y'all are all angry. That's

575
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,959
Speaker 3: because we're taking cave. Your ass should be picking up

576
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,719
Speaker 3: where your mom left off. What's up with you?

577
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: You know?

578
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 3: So let me calm down because I'm reformed, all right,

579
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 3: you know. But yes, he was able to have a

580
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 3: conversation with me, Shannon, like he was he got to

581
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 3: know me. He was talking about family values. He was

582
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 3: talking about how he had came up and I was

583
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 3: so busy trying to get in this man drawers. I'm

584
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 3: d I would and it was fine. And people say,

585
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 3: you look like Brittany Grinder, but he a man, and

586
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 3: Brittany is very attractive to her, I will say that,

587
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 3: but he's a man. So he was fine. And I

588
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 3: didn't want the night to end. And how about the

589
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 3: rest of't how about how about the restaurant was in

590
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: the hotel and so I was like, I'll be back.

591
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I gotta go to the bathroom, went and

592
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 3: got it room real quick. Came back. This man was

593
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: acting like he ain't want to go. I got something

594
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 3: to do in the morning. I got know he had

595
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 3: to work in them. I got work in the morning.

596
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 3: All right, Well you gonna leave from here? And that's

597
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 3: what he did. And yep, and I had to fly.

598
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 3: I had a flight should I had to work in

599
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 3: the morning too. I had to fly Atlanta.

600
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: You did all that jet? That man had no idea

601
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: that he was gonna be able to meet somebody back there.

602
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 3: No, I he sure didn't. He sure didn't. He ran out,

603
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 3: go get the con and see right, and he was like,

604
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 3: I gotta go to the store. I said, listen, I

605
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 3: keeps those What are we doing already? And every when you

606
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: asked me, can you take me? I already knew you.

607
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 3: Damn jazz, that's right. Why we gotta act? Why do

608
00:29:56,320 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 3: women gotta act like damn be wanting it? And that why? Why?

609
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 3: What that means you are? That means you a hold

610
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: of something. That's what you mean if you do it

611
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 3: on Thursday, not a two years later, I'm popping a

612
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 3: baby out and I'm and I'm here. You don't propose,

613
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 3: excuse me doing it right? No, other times it didn't work.

614
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie.

615
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: Hey, you ain't back the thousand. Hey a baseball player,

616
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: you hit three hundred, you can make.

617
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: It.

618
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 3: Don't work all the time, but when it worked, it worked,

619
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 3: and it did work this time.

620
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, how long should a woman

621
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 2: wait to be flown out?

622
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 3: Well, now that's called traffic and shanning.

623
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 4: So i'll I didn't realize.

624
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 3: That's why I said, hold on. I was trafficked before,

625
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 3: and I didn't know that. When they were saying what

626
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: the meaning was, I was, oh my god, I'm a

627
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 3: victim of trafficking. But I think you don't wait. It's

628
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 3: all on the man. If the man will fly you out, yeah,

629
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 3: fly there. Just make sure you can get your back

630
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 3: just in case he.

631
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: Don't fuck round. You gotta be a round trip ticket,

632
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: that's right. But and it got to be a hotel. Okay,

633
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: you're not gonna go. You're not going to his place

634
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: off the rip, right, No, So he got to be

635
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: a hotel. You gotta have your own space, you know,

636
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: you want to freshen up when you get that.

637
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'm getting off of a flight. I want to

638
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 3: go and be able to prepare to.

639
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,479
Speaker 1: See does he need to pick you up? Or does

640
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: he never have a car service to take you where

641
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: you need to go? Does he need to pick you

642
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: up or you need a service?

643
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 2: Or does it matter?

644
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: No? No, no, no, no, It depends. It depends on who

645
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 3: it is. Okay, It honestly depends on who it is

646
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 3: and how bad you want to see this person because.

647
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: You don't want him in the airport though, if he

648
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: gonna be somebody.

649
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: No, you can send a car, Okay, send me a car,

650
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 3: you know. No, I don't expect for you to do it.

651
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 3: You send me a car, have me to have me

652
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: at a place, you know, having me pull up some

653
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 3: of my place, my hotel that you got, you know

654
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 3: what I mean. But I being flud out is kind

655
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: of tricky because you gotta understand, ladies, these men are

656
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 3: not obligated to do this. This is just something that

657
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 3: they're doing and you're gonna pay for it too, whether

658
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: you're paying for it with your body or anything else,

659
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: but you're paying for it, and you must know that.

660
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 3: So always still at least have your funds right so

661
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: you don't be stranded. Because I know I know a

662
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: lot of people that got flood out and didn't want

663
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 3: to sleep with somebody, and for that they didn't get

664
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: flood back.

665
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: Hold on, you came out on the one way.

666
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 3: Not me. I know somebody that y'all know a lot

667
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 3: of people you know, y'all know them too. But it's

668
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 3: some people that didn't that I know that that didn't

669
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 3: happen to you. I said, why would you let him

670
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 3: fly you out? And didn't? But you already knew what

671
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 3: he wanted when you got down and you thought you

672
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 3: was different.

673
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: Y'all wasn't going to see world in the brook?

674
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 3: Damn Well, he woun't take you to Universal Studio. Yeah,

675
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 3: come on, now, that's it, But it is what it is.

676
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: What's the craziest deal you ever received? Do you do? You?

677
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: Do you read your deal? Are you probably not?

678
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: Now? Not?

679
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 3: Now? I used to?

680
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: Yes, it was crazy. Yeah you ever met it with

681
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 2: somebody in your d and from your deal?

682
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 3: No? No, I've never. I've always been too scared to

683
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 3: do something like that. I ain't gonna lie. No if

684
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 3: it was a celebrity, yeah, celebrity slid and you and

685
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 3: you like na. No, anything that that I feel like

686
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 3: can be used back can be used later against me

687
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 3: or whatever. I don't even indulge, Like, don't play with

688
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 3: me and you can be my celebrity crush and I

689
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 3: still won't even indulge.

690
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 2: Nah, what if? What if?

691
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: He what? Instead of sliding your dear me see you?

692
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: I say, you know, I got something for you.

693
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 3: No, that's different. Back then that would have been something

694
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: I probably would partaken. But no, h.

695
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: Cheating Is that some much a partner cheats? Is that

696
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: automatically that's the end of this relationship?

697
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, because cheating is intentional. You know it's intentional, especially

698
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 3: now listen, I don't I don't care about the past.

699
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 3: It's if it's in the beginning now right now. Say

700
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 3: you're get in a relationship with somebody and later on

701
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 3: they admit to you that they were still involved with

702
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 3: somebody when y'all became official, but they did cut it

703
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 3: off shortly after y'all became a that's different, all right, cool,

704
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 3: I get it.

705
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 2: Butship and you know, no, no, no, none of that. But

706
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: it gets harder though, Jess, when you got a kid,

707
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:37,919
Speaker 2: it does.

708
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 3: But no, that that goes a part of knowing what

709
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 3: you want. Why are you in a relationship. If you cheat,

710
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 3: you know, you gotta know what you want. Even if

711
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 3: you did feel like, even if you did step out,

712
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 3: you tested the waters and that because sometimes people cheat

713
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 3: and they get caught and that scares them straight. I

714
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 3: get it. But even that's tricky, y'all because if you

715
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 3: had the to do it, you know what I mean

716
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 3: it again, you know what I mean? And then I

717
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 3: took you back. And sometimes your kindness can be taken

718
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 3: for weakness, and you just I don't know.

719
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 2: Is it true? A fan sent you a video of

720
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: somebody that you were dating cheating.

721
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: Yes, m m, this was Did you think that that

722
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 3: might be all the relationships ago? Huh yeah? Yeah, uh

723
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 3: huh yeah, mm hm that was probably it was that

724
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 3: the girl family cookout. What it's our family cookout? I know,

725
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 3: I see, I seen a T shirt. It was a

726
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 3: family reunion cookout. I said, damn, this saint his family. Yeah.

727
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 3: And and this ain't just somebody you cheating with. You're

728
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 3: mighty comfortable with. You should be going to her family function.

729
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 3: It's a family. That means you introducing yourself. She's introducing you.

730
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: That'll be it's crazy. So nah, I'm done with that now.

731
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: You were done. Wow?

732
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about friends? Where are you with friends into

733
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: the relationship? How much do you tell your friends about

734
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: your relationship.

735
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 3: I don't tell my friends anything about my relationship now.

736
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 2: But you used to?

737
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, yep, I did. But you know what,

738
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 3: what you know, you gotta be careful with doing that

739
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 3: because say, if you you know when there's static in

740
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 3: your relationship, you go tell them that too. And now

741
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 3: they're looking at him like, huh, when y'all get back

742
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 3: on good terms, now you got to go tell them, No,

743
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 3: we're back on good terms. Nah, it's too much back

744
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 3: and forth. So no, I keep my love life very

745
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: separate from my friends. I do. I tell them what

746
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 3: they what they need to know. While I'm why I'm smiling.

747
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 3: They know why I'm smiling. They know what's up?

748
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 2: Man? Where are you going with this? Neo? Neil got

749
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 2: like three four girlfriends.

750
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 3: He do he do? Listen if it makes sense for them,

751
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 3: it makes sense for them. I know. I put them

752
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 3: in jes with the mess the other day and I

753
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: called three of the girls a clown call. I was like,

754
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 3: share clown, share clown that because it was funny, you know,

755
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: but you know, I wasn't funny to them, you know.

756
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 3: It was a couple of their friends was in the comments,

757
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 3: like why they gotta be clowns? If they like it,

758
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 3: then they like, do you like it for your friend?

759
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

760
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 3: You know, and and listen, if you're taking care of

761
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 3: all three and four of them, it ain't no strain

762
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: on that man's make account. And and they like it, right, cools.

763
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: It takes a special type of person, It certainly does.

764
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 3: Everybody could and it take a special type of woman.

765
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 3: Got the hell you gonna walk up and kiss me?

766
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 3: And then you kiss this person? And then can I

767
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 3: thought that only had it gonna flavor up, like I

768
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 3: didn't know like that that's like a real thing. But

769
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 3: polyamory is a real thing.

770
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 2: Who came over with that.

771
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 3: Term somebody who got hurt by one person and was like,

772
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just deal with all y'all. You know, that's it.

773
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 3: I honestly feel like that's where polyamory came from, somebody

774
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 3: that got hurt. Like I think all of these things

775
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 3: are man made things. I don't think these are Like,

776
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 3: this wasn't a term, you know what I'm saying. This

777
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 3: wasn't since the beginning of time, right, you know this

778
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 3: is just something that this is a result of someone

779
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 3: being hurt somewhere.

780
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, do you want more kids?

781
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 3: I do?

782
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 2: I did you want to?

783
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: I want it. I always wanted a big family. I'm

784
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 3: not gonna lie. I always wanted to have at least

785
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 3: like and listen, I wanted to have like six boys.

786
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: But you know, you don't get to pick, you know,

787
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 3: the gender of your kids. I mean they're trying to

788
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 3: do that, but you don't get to do that, you know. Period.

789
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 3: So but now it changed. When I met Chris, I

790
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 3: was like, I could see myself with a girl, like

791
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 3: I want to have a little girl and be it. No,

792
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 3: I actually want about two more kids. But I'm thirty three, right,

793
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 3: you know, and I and I'm still in my career

794
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 3: and I'm hitting my peak and I got work to do.

795
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 2: So you're gonna put the push the kid down the

796
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 2: road a little bit.

797
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep. I think I have my next kid thirty five.

798
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 3: If it don't work out like that, maybe thirty six.

799
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 3: But I know I having no more at the forty.

800
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,479
Speaker 2: What about married? You ready to get married?

801
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely? Christopher proposed to me on Christmas.

802
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 2: Yes, he did you cry?

803
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 3: Hell, yeah, I cried. I'm a big cry baby. I'm

804
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 3: an aquarius, so we're very were No, we're not we air.

805
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 3: Yeah you thought aquarious because because aquarium is water. Yeah,

806
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,479
Speaker 3: but no air we are. I don't know why we

807
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 3: we are either. I thought I thought I was I ain't.

808
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 3: I thought I was water a couple of years ago

809
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 3: to you. But obviously so yeah, y'all need me to live.

810
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 2: Let me make you this. The first child, you weren't.

811
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: This just hilarious. The second child, You're a star. You

812
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: got money, money's coming in. How different is it raising

813
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: the second child as opposed to raising the first child

814
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: with no money, as opposed to having the money.

815
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 3: Man, See, I only didn't. I didn't only not have money.

816
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 3: I was living in the hood. I was like lights

817
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: was off. It was a lot of things I had

818
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 3: to endure while raising my first child, My baby boy,

819
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 3: he's seen me through a lot of things. But with Marley,

820
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: my six month old, she is different. It's different. You know,

821
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 3: I have money to move the way I want to move,

822
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 3: to buy the things I want her to have. You know,

823
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 3: her dad has the money to buy things. You know

824
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 3: what I mean. We have a nanny. You know, which

825
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 3: we are totally blessed with because it's my fiance's mother.

826
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 3: She moved home from Kuwait to help out with this baby.

827
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 3: She knew that both of our careers demanded a lot

828
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 3: of our time, and she came over to She came

829
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: home to help with that, you know. So we take

830
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 3: care of her too, you know. And although it is different,

831
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 3: and yes, money, we got money and everything. You need

832
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 3: a lot of patience, yes, to deal with children. And

833
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 3: it may look like money is all you need to

834
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: have stability in raising children, but you need you need

835
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 3: to be mentally saying you need to have it. You

836
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 3: don't need to have it all together, but you need

837
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 3: self care, self love. You need to be straight before

838
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 3: you can care for somebody else, you know what I mean.

839
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: And with me having businesses, and I'm not just just hilarious,

840
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 3: I'm not just just with the mess. I got a

841
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 3: lot going on, right, you know. I am absolutely grateful

842
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 3: for my fiance and his mother, you know what I mean.

843
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 3: For the village. It definitely takes a village. I ain't

844
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 3: gonna lie. It was a little easy of being broke,

845
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 3: that's easy. It was a little easy of being broke,

846
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:45,760
Speaker 3: But I wouldn't change anything.

847
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 2: You think You think your son notices the difference between

848
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 2: Dan and now.

849
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because he's twelve. You know, he's twelve now,

850
00:41:54,920 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 3: and he's he he remembers our lights laying off, you know,

851
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:07,240
Speaker 3: he remembers having to spend all these days on the porch,

852
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 3: you know, playing with his cars until everybody else went

853
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 3: in the house. And then we had to go in

854
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: the house. You know, we went in the house. I

855
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 3: was I was determined to not let nobody see me

856
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 3: and my son going into a dark house. So we

857
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 3: waited to everybody on the buck went in their house,

858
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 3: and then we went in the house. We let out candles.

859
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 3: I went to steal all of them cams from the

860
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 3: dollar tree.

861
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 2: Yup, yup.

862
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 3: That was the perfect time to be a thief, you know,

863
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 3: And I lit candles and we would play games and

864
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 3: stuff like that. But yeah, he remembers all that. He

865
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: knows that, and that's why he has the best of

866
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 3: both worlds. He grew up like that, and then now

867
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 3: he gets to be he gets to stream, he gets

868
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 3: to have the latest this and the latest that. And

869
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 3: while I still make him earn it, because that's how

870
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 3: my parents did. I don't just give him everything. He's

871
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 3: not an entitled kid. You know. He still lives a

872
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,760
Speaker 3: great life, a great life, and he knows the best

873
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 3: of both worlds.

874
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 2: You know, you had your first child at twenty, this

875
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 2: one's at two.

876
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 3: Yes, that's a big, big gap. I don't know who

877
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 3: hell I thought I was starting over for real? Like that?

878
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: How different are you as a mom twenty to the

879
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: thirty two year old man?

880
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 3: Very very different. My mom helped me raise my son

881
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 3: between me and his dad. We were young, you know,

882
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 3: and when I took off as just hilarious, I had

883
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 3: had to do a lot of traveling. I wasn't able

884
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 3: to take Ashton everywhere with me. So my mom played

885
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 3: a big role in raising my son with me, like

886
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 3: helping me, you know. She she bared that, you know,

887
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 3: and now it is it is different. She was my

888
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 3: son was living with my mother. And then fast forward

889
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 3: now to me having a baby. I'm like, look, I

890
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 3: want both of my you with me. It ain't gonna

891
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 3: make sense, and it's not fair for me to have

892
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 3: a new baby and my first son ain't even living

893
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 3: with me. Because I'm doing this and I'm doing that,

894
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 3: and I'm doing no I want my children with me.

895
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 3: You know, so my son is homeschooled right now when

896
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 3: we live in Jersey because I do breakfast club in

897
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: New York and I got both to my kids.

898
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: How did your mom take that though?

899
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 3: Because he did not like it, because that's how.

900
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: We were born.

901
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: I was raised by my grandparent and then when my

902
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: grandfather died, my mom and my grandma said no, they're

903
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: not going.

904
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh man, right, so you was your grandmother's baby,

905
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 3: and that's exactly how my son was. My mom was like, no,

906
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 3: he I don't think you should take him up to Jersey.

907
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, well mine, it's not for me to

908
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 3: be both, to be a mom to both of my kids.

909
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 3: I want to be with children. Yeah, I don't want

910
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: just my baby.

911
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 2: Hold On, he.

912
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 1: Might look and said, hold on, why did he get

913
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: to go live with you? And I didn't did that

914
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: thought ever cross your mind?

915
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 3: Hell? Yeah, And it's so many nights. I am guilt.

916
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 3: I still feel guilty about it, like you know, and

917
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 3: and I didn't even I feel guilty about it. And

918
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 3: it didn't even happen where I made him stay with

919
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 3: my mom. And then I'm raising Marley like no, I

920
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: didn't want that to happen. And my son. There has

921
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 3: been times where Ashton wanted to be with me and

922
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 3: he couldn't. He wanted to travel with me and he couldn't.

923
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 3: He wanted to be on a roll with me and

924
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 3: he couldn't, you know, and it's like, no, it's for

925
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 3: my baby to be with me. Both of them, I want.

926
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 3: I want to wake up every day and be able

927
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 3: to meet them breakfast when I can. You know, sometimes

928
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 3: it's me, sometimes it's Chris, sometimes it's the nanny, you know,

929
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 3: sometimes it's my daughter's grandmother. But inclusive, I need that

930
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 3: that family household that I grew up in. I want that.

931
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: The I think it's true your your pregnancy, you got

932
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 1: an epidor but it wasn't a doctor that delivered that

933
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: gave you the EPI door.

934
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 2: It was a student. Correct.

935
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 3: When I had my sons, yep, they let a student

936
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 3: do it, and then it messed me up and messed

937
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 3: my backup. I was having back problems up until like

938
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 3: five years my son was five. And no, I did

939
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: not I didn't know. I didn't have any education on it.

940
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 3: I wasn't informed. I wasn't you know. I just knew

941
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 3: I was in pain. I was in pain, and I

942
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: was like, give me the drugs, give me the epidoro.

943
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 3: When they came and they had a student performance, and

944
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 3: the girl was nervous. You can tell. I saw her

945
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 3: hand shaking even before she went around me to do it,

946
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god. And is some

947
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 3: of the most excruciating pain you can never expect. Yes,

948
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,479
Speaker 3: So I didn't do epodoor. I had Marley natural yep,

949
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 3: slid her right on out. These muscles get there, yep.

950
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 2: Right now.

951
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: Is it true that your your child's father, I mean,

952
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: the second child father is Hispanic.

953
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: Yes, he is black and Hispanic yeap. He is Mexican

954
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 3: black and probably some other stuff too, because I'm telling

955
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: you I see more than Mexican and black.

956
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: Over there, right.

957
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: But let me so obviously the ministration has this, you know,

958
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,479
Speaker 1: deportation and things going on right back.

959
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 2: So how does he feel about that?

960
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 3: Well, his mom is Mexican. Okay, it's hell okay, So

961
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 3: you know, I you know, you make jokes, don't Yeah, yeah,

962
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 3: you know. Every day I come home, I knock on

963
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 3: the door like, hey it's she don't laugh, you know, Yeah,

964
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 3: it's just just to break the comic relief. I just

965
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 3: always want to be on our toes just in case

966
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 3: they come past and it's really them.

967
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: Know. Yeah, But the work life balance now, like you said,

968
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: you got a lot of projects, not just the breakfast club,

969
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: not just your stand up. You got a lot of

970
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: other things going on. Yes, and your mom and your fiance.

971
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: How's this work life balance? Mom, fiance, businesswoman? How does

972
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: just juggle all that.

973
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 3: I'm still trying to share this. I would I would

974
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 3: be lying if I tried to if I try to

975
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 3: make up something I don't. I don't have it all

976
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 3: figured out. It's still a balance with me. I'm still

977
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 3: trying to figure out what that formula is. So everybody

978
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,959
Speaker 3: can get the full time, you know, so my kids

979
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 3: can get full time mommy, so my work can get

980
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 3: full time, just larious, so breakfast club can get full time.

981
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 3: Just to comore, you know, just hilarious, just with the

982
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: mess whatever. You know. I'm still trying to do that.

983
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 3: I got to get up at three thirty three forty

984
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,359
Speaker 3: five every morning, do make up. You know, what time

985
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 3: you get to what time you get to the set,

986
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 3: five thirty five forty five, because you're going to going

987
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: at six and we're done at nine, and then interviews after.

988
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,720
Speaker 1: That when the Breakfast Club, when Angela lead Angela left

989
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: and they had all these other people coming in and

990
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: they invited you to come in. Did you want the job?

991
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: Did you think you were going to get the job? Yes,

992
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: you wanted the job.

993
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 3: I did want it, and I I knew I was

994
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 3: gonna get it. I never even thought that I didn't

995
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:08,240
Speaker 3: have it. I always knew. And and it wasn't because

996
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 3: of Charlemagne. It wasn't because that I was so cool

997
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 3: with Envy. It wasn't because you know, it was the people.

998
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 3: It was the way that I marketed Breakfast Club that

999
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 3: whole year. I already I had already treated it like

1000
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 3: it was my seat, the third seat, like I had

1001
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 3: already treated it like it was mine. Even times where

1002
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 3: I knew they didn't have a host for that week,

1003
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 3: it was just gonna beat them too. I'm like, yo,

1004
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 3: can I come up like anybody up there? Even at

1005
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,799
Speaker 3: times when it was like other people up there, I'm like, yo,

1006
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 3: Like what y'all think of I did if I come

1007
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 3: up there too? Like I don't want to step on

1008
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 3: anybody's house, but like this could be good, Like le

1009
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 3: let's go up to me and Claudia Jordan. We hosted together,

1010
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 3: you know, me and Kendra, she's also on radio. We

1011
00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 3: did that together. Kendrick g Media we also hosted to

1012
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 3: you know. So I treated it very much like my

1013
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 3: seat before it even became it was officiated.

1014
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 2: You co hosted The Real? How did that help? Did

1015
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 2: that help you in the role that you got with?

1016
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:14,479
Speaker 3: Yes, I actually loved doing The Real. I loved all

1017
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 3: those ladies. I loved them, you know what I mean.

1018
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 3: That was a really good That was my first time

1019
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 3: ever doing daytime talk, you know, and I was like, oh,

1020
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 3: this is great, this is something that I really could

1021
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 3: see myself doing, you know. And yeah, so that was good.

1022
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 3: That was a good segue into.

1023
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: It when you got the job. It was announced that

1024
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: you got the job. O Joe and Ole Nightcap was

1025
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: talking about it and I said some comments and it

1026
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: went viral and I said that, you know, hey, O Joe,

1027
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,959
Speaker 1: she nice. She nice, and I think Charlemagne and Envy

1028
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: they really tried to play it up. So if I

1029
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: offended you, I want to take the time out to

1030
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: say I apologized. That was not my intent, but I

1031
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, she's a nice looking woman, she

1032
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: has a nice figure. Oh so forth and song and

1033
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: oh he fifty seven years old. I mean he was

1034
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: this and that and you know that. You know they

1035
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: tried to play it up.

1036
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 3: And so if I like, I'm not in my thirties

1037
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 3: thrown as woman.

1038
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 2: And the thing is a lot of times people.

1039
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: Being uncomfortable only happens when the person that's saying something

1040
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: the other person not attracted to him, or they feel

1041
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: some type of because so that's what.

1042
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 2: And I didn't. I don't want to. I don't.

1043
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: I didn't and I don't ever want someone to feel

1044
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with my comments. Now, So that's why I wanted

1045
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: to take the time to say, yes, I apologize for

1046
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: what I said.

1047
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 3: Oh no, it's okay. And that means you got some

1048
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 3: good eyes on you. That's just all that mean. You know,

1049
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 3: I ain't nothing with it?

1050
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 2: What is this about? Sexy Red says she don't fool

1051
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 2: with you?

1052
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 3: Sexy Red?

1053
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 2: Why you're getting on everybody bad side?

1054
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 3: Because I'm just with the mess.

1055
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 2: Why you stay in the mess? Won't you clean up?

1056
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 3: Why you Why does I say the same thing? You

1057
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 3: stay up in the mess?

1058
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: I ain't nobody I don't bother nobody, you know, I

1059
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:57,760
Speaker 1: don't bother nobody.

1060
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 3: Well, look, the thing was sexy bread, right. She she

1061
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 3: was pregnant at the time. She was very hormonal when

1062
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 3: she came in. There already seen like the standoffishness that

1063
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 3: she was giving out or whatever. She said, Jess, I

1064
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 3: don't deal with you, just I don't deal with you.

1065
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: Why you don't deal with you?

1066
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 3: And I asked, I said, wow, I was trying to

1067
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 3: figure out for the first eight minutes of the damn interview,

1068
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 3: what what the hell? What what you know? Cause I'll

1069
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 3: say things about people and I forget, you know, because

1070
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 3: I've said so much, you know, I forget. So she

1071
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 3: couldn't even remember it, you know. And I'm gonna put

1072
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 3: that on her pregnancy because I when I had pregnancy brain,

1073
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,279
Speaker 3: I couldn't remember any thing. So I'm like, all right,

1074
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: I get it now. Later on, if people watch the

1075
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 3: actual first fifteen minutes or ten minutes, not even you know,

1076
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 3: into the interview, we made up. We were cool. I

1077
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 3: said some things about her. She didn't like it, and

1078
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 3: the reason why she didn't like it is because she did,

1079
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 3: like Jess with the mess she was like and I

1080
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,479
Speaker 3: like your videos too, I'd laugh at you. Everybody cool

1081
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 3: with just with the mess until they end up in it,

1082
00:52:56,120 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 3: you know. And that's and and that's no shot to

1083
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 3: her because she was pregnant and she was hormonal, and

1084
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: just think about it. Every day you wake up, you

1085
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 3: see some negativity about you online and you pregnant, you

1086
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 3: know what I mean. And it's like, and I've only

1087
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 3: talked about things that she put out there. Her brand

1088
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 3: is not it's not classy, you know, it's it's the

1089
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 3: total opposite. And I don't agree with everything that she does.

1090
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 3: And I told her that there as well. I'm not

1091
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 3: gonna agree with everything you do sexy, you know what

1092
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 3: I mean. But I have a right to an opinion

1093
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 3: like everybody else, right, you know what I mean. And

1094
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 3: that's just what it is, you know. So that's what

1095
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 3: it was. And she was cool. She ended up inviting

1096
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 3: me to the baby shower and everything, and she was

1097
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 3: cool after that. But yeah, that's what it was.

1098
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 2: You know.

1099
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: The breakfat club checks hit different. What you did with

1100
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: what's your first thing you bought with that money?

1101
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 3: That money is still in my account. That money is

1102
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,959
Speaker 3: still that's an account I don't touch damn.

1103
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 4: That.

1104
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 3: They wasn't even trying to give me the money they

1105
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 3: gave me, but they they had to come on around.

1106
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 3: So I'm like, come on like this, try up under

1107
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 3: y'all butt you ate?

1108
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: What about the purchase you ain't You ain't purchased, not

1109
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm gonna get me a Burken bag or

1110
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:06,720
Speaker 1: I want to get this whip.

1111
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 3: I have six Burkins already, and that was before Breakfast

1112
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 3: Club six.

1113
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1114
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 3: Those are investment bags, snake skin, Hello, play play. Yeah,

1115
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 3: I'm seventy thousand dollar bags and eighty thousand dollar bags. Yeah,

1116
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: that get them bags I plan to sell just in case.

1117
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:28,720
Speaker 3: You know, she ain't off aware.

1118
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: What's the best gift you've ever received? I know somebody

1119
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 1: bought you something.

1120
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: My engagement ring is the best best gift today ever.

1121
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 2: You got a ring? Somebody gave you that, and you

1122
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 2: what that big one and.

1123
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 3: The one that I'm not wearing. Yeah, uh huh yeah,

1124
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 3: why did you give it back? Why the hell would

1125
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 3: I give it back?

1126
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody give you a ring, It's it's like

1127
00:54:55,960 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 1: an agreement that where something's gonna gonna consummate.

1128
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 3: Something was just somebody just splurging and I said, okay,

1129
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 3: got you yep, and you can't unsplurge.

1130
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 2: That's okay. What about the house.

1131
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 3: Though, Oh no, no, no, somebody else lives in the house.

1132
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 2: Now I know you rinted it out.

1133
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 3: I'm a landlord. Thank you. That's another check.

1134
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 2: He did that for you.

1135
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 3: He sure did, He sure did.

1136
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 2: He got mystical powers, Jeff.

1137
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 3: Hello, That's what I'm trying to tell you. That's what

1138
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell you.

1139
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 2: Chris.

1140
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 4: You ain't even know you thought you got over. She

1141
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 4: got you, Chris, I sure did. I put it on

1142
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 4: him and I ain't leave him over, says Look, Chris,

1143
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 4: be like shit, I got hurt. She thought she was

1144
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,959
Speaker 4: just gonna keep me as a smash buddy. That's about

1145
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 4: to be my wife.

1146
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 3: Now.

1147
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 2: I love that.

1148
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:42,560
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Speaker 3: Man, It comes and it goes, and don't kill yourself

1177
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 3: trying to get it. Please don't, because listen, I just

1178
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:13,959
Speaker 3: had a crazy health scare. Right. So I was eating

1179
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 3: lunch at a restaurant. I go home. Hour later, I

1180
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 3: am like wretching, throwing up, and then I had to

1181
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 3: I start pulling, real bad, coming out of both ends,

1182
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 3: real bad. This was happening it for like two hours straight.

1183
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 3: Chris like, no, we're going to the emergency room now.

1184
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 3: I can't stay in hospital. So I'm like, yoah, I

1185
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 3: think it's good. It's a stomach bug. He's like, yo,

1186
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 3: there's nothing else on your stomach. You're dehydrated, like, and

1187
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 3: your body is forcing something out. We need to go

1188
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: and see what it is. We go to the emergency room.

1189
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 3: They put Ivy and me. They tell me they run tests,

1190
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 3: an MRI, sonogram, everything. I have gallstones or whatever. Right,

1191
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 3: and so they're like, we're gonna remove your gall bladder. Now.

1192
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 3: They tell you that that's a minor surgery, but it

1193
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 3: feels very major. Yeah you wake up. Yeah, That's what

1194
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 3: I'm like. So, look, this is how little I know

1195
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 3: about gallbladders. I was like, all right, if y'all take

1196
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 3: this one, the other one's gonna be good. Right, you

1197
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 3: only got one damn gallbladder, I said, Oh lord, dang.

1198
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: So The thing is you can function without it.

1199
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 3: You can function with that. That's the thing why you're

1200
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 3: born with it. Stupid And I'm like, damn, but you

1201
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 3: gotta change your diet and everything with that. So but

1202
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 3: I'm saying all this to say, I had shows that

1203
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 3: I had to do and I had to cancel five shows.

1204
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 3: I had to cancel, yeah, six six shows altogether. And

1205
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 3: I'm sitting there worrying and wondering, and I'm hitting my

1206
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 3: manager and I'm hitting I'm talking to Chris about I'm like, yo,

1207
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 3: I'm losing money in it. And Chris is like, yo,

1208
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 3: that is everything that you can get back. You're sitting

1209
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 3: here complaining about everything that you can get back. Look

1210
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: at your account, you're good. Look at my account. We're good.

1211
00:58:57,160 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 3: Like yo, you got your family, we have children, and

1212
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 3: we you're good. You're still gonna be just alared to

1213
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 3: say after this, that's how you know this is you're

1214
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 3: You're just one person. Yeah, and sometimes you need to

1215
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 3: sit you down to So just take this as a

1216
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 3: sign like you need to slow down because I was

1217
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 3: doing a lot and it is what it is. But

1218
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 3: I'm back good. Now.

1219
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: You mentioned that the Breakfast Club is that they wanted

1220
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 1: to pay you X and you wanted Y.

1221
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 2: And see what have you learned about negotiating? You're worth.

1222
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 3: That if you stand ten toes down, you will get it.

1223
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 3: And if even if you don't.

1224
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 4: Even if it's not from them, even if you don't

1225
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 4: get it, you will get it.

1226
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 3: You will because that's the point some people. If you

1227
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 3: let somebody pay you X, that's all you're gonna be

1228
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 3: worth to them in their eyes. And then where it travels, well,

1229
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 3: if he got a X and I can get a fud, yes,

1230
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 3: and then now you're X. You know what I mean.

1231
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 3: That's it. But if you from the jump, from the

1232
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 3: from the very beginning, demand what you're worth, that sets

1233
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 3: the tone for you, you know, and then that gives

1234
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 3: people the choice to say whether.

1235
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 2: I want to I want to pay for that or.

1236
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, if I want to invest this in her or not? Fine, cool, yeah,

1237
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 3: because you gonna see her return.

1238
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 2: So what about when you do do you share your salary?

1239
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 2: Do you share?

1240
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying direct numbers, but like with other women

1241
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: in the industry, when they like do stand up and

1242
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: you're like, hey.

1243
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 3: I no, no, I don't. I don't share because what

1244
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,680
Speaker 3: I get I earn that I'm worth that. That may

1245
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 3: not be somebody else's word, you know what I mean,

1246
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 3: They may not be or somebody may go back and

1247
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 3: be like, well, just got this, so I'm supposed to

1248
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 3: be no, but see you not yess right. So that's

1249
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 3: that's how that happens.

1250
01:00:57,400 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 2: Twice in Atlanta.

1251
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 3: Absolutely, they robbed you high.

1252
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 2: They pulled up on you.

1253
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:06,439
Speaker 3: My car, yes, And the guy knew me from wilding out.

1254
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 3: He said, oh you just I know you got it? Yo,

1255
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 3: come on, yo, you got it? And I said, all right,

1256
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 3: well it's yours now. I said, just let me get

1257
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 3: my purse outside because they wanted to take my car.

1258
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 3: It was an expedition like a Ford expedition, the big

1259
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 3: black truck right, and I'm like, all right, cool, I said, yo, uh,

1260
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 3: just let me get my purse out. He's like all yeah,

1261
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 3: you got that, and he drove off with the car.

1262
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 3: Did they find it, Yes, it was actually enterprises. Car

1263
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 3: wasn't mine, but they got it the second place stripped,

1264
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 3: but they had it because that's what they do. They

1265
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 3: will steal the car and they'll strip it. They will

1266
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 3: sell aparts real quick. But they they found what was

1267
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 3: left of it. You know. So what happened the second

1268
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 3: time it was I was I was at a I

1269
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 3: was at a restaurant right with somebody and I and

1270
01:01:56,360 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 3: they broke into his car and to my purse. I

1271
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 3: should know. Yeah, sorry to get everything back. Mm hmm.

1272
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 3: That was the first time. The second time was my

1273
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 3: rental card that they took crazy. I had to get

1274
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 3: the hell out.

1275
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 2: You had a friend to steal from you too.

1276
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 3: Though I had a few people stole from me.

1277
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: But but you gave a hundred bands within the guy

1278
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: or girl that stole the money from that stole from you,

1279
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: that you ended up giving money to a girl.

1280
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 3: Mm hm.

1281
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 2: That was a girl, y'all?

1282
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 3: Was cool? How man, I've been knowing these people so

1283
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 3: damn long. I've been knowing uh never say her name,

1284
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 3: but I knew her since I was nine or ten. What, Yeah, y'all,

1285
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 3: That's why I'm telling you.

1286
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 2: So, y'all came up and to struggle together, and she did.

1287
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 3: That when I was scamming, I was piecing break it

1288
01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 3: off all her money, you know what I mean? And

1289
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 3: you know I.

1290
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ain't put no paper on him.

1291
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 3: No, I put some nelse on I ain't no papers, Yeah, man,

1292
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 3: don't play with me like that. Man, not what I'm

1293
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 3: already doing for you. Man, you and you start playing

1294
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 3: around my money like that?

1295
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 2: Nah, how do you determine? How did Jess determine her circle?

1296
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 3: Hmm?

1297
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 2: Can anybody else get in jest? Circle?

1298
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 3: I ain't even got a circle. I got a triangle.

1299
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 3: Goddamn triangle. I didnet got rid of so many people

1300
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 3: in the last sixty days, last fifty days. Yes, because

1301
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 3: my problem is, Shannon, I like to put people on right,

1302
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 3: and that's not even supposed to be a problem. But

1303
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 3: it is a problem because you can't put everybody on it,

1304
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 3: because everybody ain't got the mindset to take off. Yo.

1305
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 3: I can give you the wings, but I can't fly

1306
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 3: you like you gotta fly. You gotta do that, you

1307
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:01,959
Speaker 3: know what I mean? Like I I try so hard

1308
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 3: to put all my people on and that is the problem,

1309
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 3: and that's why it is no longer a circle. It

1310
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 3: is a triangle.

1311
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: Do people look at your pocket? Do people count your pockets?

1312
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: Because they see you, Man, you got you in the club,

1313
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: you doing all this? Yes, I know you got it.

1314
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 3: Come on now they try to Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I

1315
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 3: know you got it. I know you got it. Yeah,

1316
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 3: and I want to continue to have it.

1317
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm gonna keep it too.

1318
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, I won't have it if I keep on

1319
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 3: giving it away. So you know, yeah, girls trip?

1320
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 2: You do? Girl trips? Are you used to?

1321
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 3: I used to? Till I was the one paying for

1322
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 3: a lot of it. I'm like, God, damn, that's why

1323
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 3: I got a triangle.

1324
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 2: What's the max number of girls that should go on

1325
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 2: a girl's trip?

1326
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 3: Is it?

1327
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 2: Two? Three?

1328
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:46,919
Speaker 3: Four?

1329
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: Five?

1330
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 2: Yo?

1331
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 3: To be honest with you, it should be that should

1332
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 3: be very small. That should be a fire or less. Lord,

1333
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 3: and I still too much, that's still to see. Too

1334
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 3: many personalities, and everybody want to do different things. Three yeah,

1335
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 3: I would say three. Yep, I would say three. Everybody

1336
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 3: got different everybody got different personalities. You got the broke friend,

1337
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 3: you know, you know, and my brother has a joke

1338
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 3: about this. But the broke friend who you gotta pay

1339
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 3: for so she they own a scholarship, you know what

1340
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 3: I'm saying. But then she start acting like she paid

1341
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 3: her own way. Like hold up now, cause you gotta

1342
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 3: eat to night, and you will be hungry if you

1343
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 3: play with me, you know what I'm saying. And then

1344
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:30,919
Speaker 3: you know, you got the other friend who just come

1345
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 3: now and she wanted to beat the boss and everything

1346
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 3: all we gotta wake up at this and we got

1347
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 3: the time, share me in and we got it, you know.

1348
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 3: And then you know, you got the high friend you

1349
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 3: know that always wanted to smoke, you know, you gotta

1350
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 3: smoke all the time where you get there, And then

1351
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 3: you got the whole friend, yes, who had a friend

1352
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 3: of my brother. Always say like, you got how do

1353
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 3: you got a friend of Belize? You know, you know,

1354
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 3: so it's just.

1355
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: Like you got the one that's that's not aesthetically pleasing yep.

1356
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 2: And then why nobody want to talk to me?

1357
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 3: Yeah? And then she always want to be in the

1358
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 3: front of the pictures, get in the bag talking about

1359
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 3: you don't even have a vacation wig on, and you're just,

1360
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 3: oh my god, this is your work wig Why did

1361
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 3: you wear this to Belize?

1362
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, if you could go on a girl trip

1363
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 1: with four celebrities, who would you go with?

1364
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god, four celebrities? Hmmm, that is so crazy?

1365
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 2: Oprah, Beyonce?

1366
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 3: No, who are you going with? Beyonce? Too private? Oprah?

1367
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 3: Too rich? And just no, too mighty. No, we got

1368
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 3: to let our hair down. Hell, Oprah, I might go

1369
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 3: with Gail Gael. Seems like she had more friends, more

1370
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 3: fundan Oprah. I don't know. Hmm four celebrities, Yo, you

1371
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 3: go with nobody else? No, I will say Will Ferrell okay, funny, Yeah,

1372
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 3: so yeah, you gotta keep the lady got got.

1373
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 2: Okay, that's my girl.

1374
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,560
Speaker 3: That's my girl. And I just felt like we could

1375
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 3: show them together. Yeah, okay, that's it. And I know

1376
01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 3: that is not ideal and people and people will be like,

1377
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 3: what will Farrell? Lady got Got? Yeah, I don't really

1378
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 3: want to hang out with you.

1379
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 2: Many people here, y'all gonna be doing yep. Let me

1380
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 2: ask you a question.

1381
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: What about the Hollywood parties they've been The Halloween parties

1382
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: have been a lot of the news lately, and everybody

1383
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 1: seemed to know. There are a lot of people that

1384
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: talk about that they've been there, But man, that ain't go.

1385
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 2: Home when I was there.

1386
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 1: Maybe that was in another room, maybe that was in

1387
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: the house at the back, but I don't know nothing

1388
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: about it.

1389
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 3: Oh, that was the party from eight to twelve, and

1390
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 3: then when y'all left them, from twelve to five, it

1391
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 3: was another party. You know that happens really. Yeah, it

1392
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 3: be all types of the parties, and you got the

1393
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 3: early party for the regulars, yeah, and then the late

1394
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:08,960
Speaker 3: party for the freaking niggi's.

1395
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 2: Well, how do they know who the freaking niggis are? Oh?

1396
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 3: You know? Oh they the people that's pulling up when

1397
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 3: you pulling off? You know what I mean? That's how

1398
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 3: you Oh, you're all here for the after.

1399
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 2: But okay, yep, do you have a worry about getting canceled?

1400
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 3: No? Not now? At first? Yeah, when when cancel culture

1401
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 3: was first like developed or whatever. When at first? But no,

1402
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 3: not now, because what I find is when you get canceled,

1403
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 3: that's more attention on you. You know, they talk about

1404
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 3: you more, you stay in the blogs or whatever. You know,

1405
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 3: so and then that's the opportunity to push whatever you

1406
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 3: got going on. Right, So, no, I don't care about that.

1407
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:50,879
Speaker 3: I think I was the first person to be canceled, honestly,

1408
01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:55,759
Speaker 3: and I know sodier boys, shut up, but I really

1409
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,520
Speaker 3: feel like, yeah, I think I was the first influencer

1410
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 3: to ever be canceled for something.

1411
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 2: Is there a joke you won't tell.

1412
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 3: Online? There as many jokes I won't tell on the stage. Yeah,

1413
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 3: you know who you paid to see. So you can

1414
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 3: get the defenders sitting in my damn show.

1415
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 2: And anyone check you for talking about them on jest

1416
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 2: with the mess.

1417
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 3: No, Mick Mail got very upset with me. I roasted

1418
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,719
Speaker 3: his real bad back when he couldn't dress. He probably

1419
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 3: still can't, but he's a he's a reformed guy. Yeah,

1420
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:35,439
Speaker 3: and I am reformed to But no, I've never had

1421
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 3: any I had people on follow me and nobody, now,

1422
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 3: anybody ever checked me. The closest that anybody has ever

1423
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 3: gotten to checking me is sexy Rick. That's when she

1424
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 3: came in and she just was like, I don't have

1425
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 3: I don't I don't rock with you like that, just

1426
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:53,760
Speaker 3: like yeah, that that was the closest. And and that

1427
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 3: didn't that wasn't even checking me. But that's the closest

1428
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 3: somebody has ever done.

1429
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: Was that sexy you would make you would make taking shut.

1430
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: I see each other on So for media, y'all cool

1431
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: you good?

1432
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 2: Now?

1433
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1434
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: Cool?

1435
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen him while on. Gilly had an an

1436
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 3: event last year. It was like a festival. This was

1437
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 3: right after a chi Yeah, I got shot and they

1438
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 3: had an event and Gilly Fest that's what it was

1439
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 3: it was Gilly Fest and I ran into meet there

1440
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 3: and his braids, you know, they were old, and you

1441
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 3: know I did tell him that. I said, now, come on, now,

1442
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 3: you got a lot more money than you had when

1443
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 3: the braids were old back then, right, you know. He

1444
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 3: just laughed and we you know, we laughed about it.

1445
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, we made it over fun. I still joke

1446
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 3: about him though. He's very bulliable. Yeah, you know, he's

1447
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:44,879
Speaker 3: very bellieable.

1448
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, five years from now, ten

1449
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: years from now, you sit back in that chair and

1450
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 1: we have this conversation.

1451
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 2: Where's just hilarious.

1452
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 3: What is she doing m ten years from now? Because

1453
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 3: just coming up in the next serious a lot. But

1454
01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:08,840
Speaker 3: what I want is my own network. I do want

1455
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 3: my own network, or if it's not a network, it

1456
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:16,799
Speaker 3: needs to be a channel, you know, where I can

1457
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 3: where content lives like funny content, trauma like you know,

1458
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 3: just your own channel.

1459
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 2: You know.

1460
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 3: I want to give people a chance that that are

1461
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 3: victims of gitkey thing. You know, I want to give

1462
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 3: other people like me a chance. You know, it's a

1463
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 3: lot of talent out there. It's a lot of people

1464
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 3: who don't have platforms that are thriving and flourishing. And

1465
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 3: I see these people all the time, and I'm like, yo,

1466
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 3: you will be good in a sitcom, you will be

1467
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 3: good in a movie. You would be good, you know,

1468
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 3: having your own show, you know. So that's what I

1469
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 3: want to do. But you know, I want to be

1470
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 3: a household name as an author ten years, five to ten,

1471
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 3: you know from now, because I plan. I'm working on

1472
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 3: the book now, so I plan to write more, know,

1473
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 3: and I just I just really want to make change

1474
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 3: in that in that regard giving people a chance who

1475
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 3: are victims of gatekeeping, Yeah, because it's a lot of them.

1476
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 2: Anything you want to promote, absolutely.

1477
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 3: So I'm about to launch Messy Pause. It's a doggy

1478
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 3: clothe the airline. It's going to include toys, harnesses, leashes,

1479
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 3: doggy treats, and clothes, you know, for your dogs. I

1480
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 3: have a frenchie. His name is Baine. He's four years old.

1481
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 3: And I'm a dog person anyway, so I love dogs.

1482
01:12:37,479 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 3: And that's where I actually thought of the idea. That

1483
01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 3: the idea actually came to me in the pandemic, but

1484
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 3: it was so many other things that I was doing

1485
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 3: in the pandemic, I never got to launch it. So

1486
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 3: Messy Pause will be available very very soon. And then

1487
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,720
Speaker 3: I am rebranding my Messy Vision line. I have an

1488
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 3: eyewear line, and I see you need some glasses because

1489
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 3: I'm getting tired of you wear them saying one Shanna.

1490
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna get I got like six bear Oh

1491
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 3: you need ten, you need four pair Massy Visions. So

1492
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 3: we're gonna drop the men's line soon. And you know,

1493
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 3: I got some and you're gonna have to weigh in

1494
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 3: full episode or two. You have met. You had me

1495
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:13,639
Speaker 3: taste the shade, yeah, you know, and it was smooth,

1496
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 3: you know, and you're gonna like these glasses, you know.

1497
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 3: So I'm doing the rebrand and I'm actually looking to

1498
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 3: collaborate with some influencers to push the brand because glasses

1499
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 3: are not only you know, for prescription, you know, for

1500
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 3: people to see. They're stylish and everything. And my glasses

1501
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 3: are blue light. They have the blue light feature because

1502
01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 3: everybody be in their phones and a lot of people

1503
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 3: are messing up their eyes these days. So my glasses

1504
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 3: they have the blue light. And then also shades are

1505
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 3: coming now, so all we have shades, but we have

1506
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 3: more styles that we are dropping soon, you know, more styles,

1507
01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 3: more colors and everything like that. Also doctor Who my

1508
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 3: fitness apparel line, which I also launched in the pandemic

1509
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 3: when everybody couldn't afford the bbls, we had to go

1510
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 3: to the old faithful waist trainers, you know, and it's

1511
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 3: it's just fitness apparel, you know, compression and everything like that,

1512
01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 3: and people actually buy them and wear them as regular

1513
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 3: outfits because they're stylish and yet they insinuate your curves

1514
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:13,799
Speaker 3: and everything like that. So I have that, the fitness apparel.

1515
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 3: And then also yes, I'm really really happy about my book.

1516
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 3: So it's it's a co parenting.

1517
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 2: But what is the book coming out?

1518
01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 3: It will be out twenty twenty folks, Oh yeah, so

1519
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:29,880
Speaker 3: because I was raised a four. Yeah, it's coming out

1520
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Yes, yes, it is, ok, yep it is.

1521
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:36,559
Speaker 3: But we end the beginning Shanning. Stay with me. We're

1522
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 3: going the book is going to drop at the end

1523
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 3: of the year, and it's a book about co parenting therapy.

1524
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 3: A lot of people want to know how me and

1525
01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 3: my son's dad got to the place that we are now,

1526
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:54,719
Speaker 3: and it's been a stigma on baby Daddy's and hebby

1527
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 3: mama's or whatever. Right, especially in our community, right, it's

1528
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 3: fair unusual to see a baby mom and a baby

1529
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 3: daddy get along and it's like, nah, like it can

1530
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 3: be a healthy environment, you know, because it's it's about

1531
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 3: the kids, right, and you just it's just about showing

1532
01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 3: up being the best versions of yourself, the best version

1533
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 3: of yourself for your child. So it's it's it's in

1534
01:15:17,400 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 3: story form. I tell the story from the beginning of

1535
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 3: May and room to how we ended up where we

1536
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 3: are now and raising our son, so that that's really

1537
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 3: really good. That's that's gonna be a really good thing

1538
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 3: because we need it definitely in our culture. We definitely

1539
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 3: need this book. And it's the white people that can

1540
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 3: that can throw from the too, because I you know,

1541
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 3: I'm from Baltimore City. The the the white people just

1542
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 3: like the black people down south Baltimore. Child, they be

1543
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 3: beefing with the baby daddy's and stuff. You haven't been

1544
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 3: to Baltimore.

1545
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 2: I used to play for the Ravens.

1546
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 3: No, have you been to Baltimore? I am sad no not.

1547
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:52,560
Speaker 3: I did I know? You used to play for the

1548
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 3: damn Ravens. But playing for the Ravens ain't like being

1549
01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:58,519
Speaker 3: in bald. Yeah absolutely, but I know that because my

1550
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 3: dad is a fan of yours. I know. So, but

1551
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 3: you ain't been the South Border or down Marrow Street

1552
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 3: where all the crab spots at and all that.

1553
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 1: Well, I mean we used to walk to the stadium. Okay,

1554
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 1: that's about it, on the pier where.

1555
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:13,800
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yeah yeah, yeah, all right, yeah, so no

1556
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 3: you haven't been the book, so that's what that is.

1557
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 3: But yes, so that's that's what I got going on.

1558
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 3: I'm very very happy. And then I'm also dropping my

1559
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 3: new podcast, Reckless Discussions. It's also it's a continuation of

1560
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:31,280
Speaker 3: my talk show that I used to have, Reckless Discussions.

1561
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 3: It's or it still lives on YouTube on my my channel,

1562
01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 3: and it just basically hits on uncomfortable conversations basically like

1563
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:41,439
Speaker 3: things that people don't talk about but they want to.

1564
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 3: And so we're gonna be we're gonna be relaunching that

1565
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:47,839
Speaker 3: as well. But that's gonna be a podcast, okay. Yeah,

1566
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 3: So I'm actually excited about it.

1567
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:51,560
Speaker 2: Funny, just hilarious.

1568
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:55,240
Speaker 3: Thank you appreciate y'all.

1569
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1570
01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:59,360
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1575
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Speaker 4: Wanta slice got to brow the dice all my life.

1576
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1577
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Speaker 3: All my life, grinding all my life, sacrifice, hustle, pay price,

1578
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Speaker 3: one slice got to brow the dice. Sad all my life.

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