WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: “Dirty Girl”

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<v Speaker 1>Any two point five rooking jubils second date update. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update is brought to you by peer pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, when you don't even want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody, but your friends really want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why and they pressure you into doing a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, that's a little bit of peer pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Kate is on the phone with us. Her email actually

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<v Speaker 1>said this, Hey, guys, I went on on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy named Chris. I'm not that interested in

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<v Speaker 1>getting a date with him, but my friends met him

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<v Speaker 1>and they want me to do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>with you. So can I do one? The answer is,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. It's a lot different than most of the

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<v Speaker 1>second date updates we do. But Kate, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? Thank you? Oh my god, I just see

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<v Speaker 1>you telling your friends. Fine, I'll do it pretty much. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the guy that you don't really

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<v Speaker 1>care about calling today but your friends do. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Chris, and I mean he was really nice. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing you know, terrible about him. We just really did

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<v Speaker 1>not click whatsoever. Okay, So why do your friends want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update so bad? Here's the

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<v Speaker 1>story about how our date went. We met online, but

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<v Speaker 1>we met up at a bar and my friends were

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<v Speaker 1>there for support, as they do. And I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be mean, but he's really super nerdy and I

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<v Speaker 1>am not. We had nothing in common he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about, like sci fi TV shows he watches, and

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<v Speaker 1>like weird books he read in college. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>nothing that I was interested in you. When he walked

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<v Speaker 1>in the door and he saw him for the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>did you immediately think this is not going to work

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<v Speaker 1>The first time I laid eyes on him, actually was

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<v Speaker 1>hoping it wasn't him, because I never saw his picture online,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't know what to expect. And it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you hate this guy. Yeah, oh, I don't hate him.

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<v Speaker 1>It just wasn't a good match for us. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>your friends ever think that you should pursue this? Then

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<v Speaker 1>if you are not attracted to this guy whatsoever? Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, they were at the bar with me,

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<v Speaker 1>and they even were going on about how on the

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<v Speaker 1>date he was so into me. He was buying me

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<v Speaker 1>all the drinks and trying to, you know, touch my

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<v Speaker 1>arm and being really flirty with me. And then their

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<v Speaker 1>curiosity is you know, going crazy right now because it's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's been a week and he hasn't reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to me at all. So it's actually the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of curious too. So it's more of, Hey, this nerdy

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<v Speaker 1>guy was super into you, and now he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Who does he think he is? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like you, not the other way around. Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>this is about? That's pretty much it. Oh so if

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<v Speaker 1>we call him and we find out he's just been

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<v Speaker 1>busy or something and he actually does want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you, are you gonna want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him? No? I absolutely don't want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date with him. Oh my gosh. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why he didn't call me back. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just confusing to you. Why a guy who would be

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<v Speaker 1>well confusing to you and your friends. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>should say, why a guy who seems to be totally

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<v Speaker 1>into you is blowing you off? Yeah, that's exactly it.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried to get a hold of him at all? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, Now why would you? Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you should leave this person alone. You're like

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<v Speaker 1>picking on him at this point. You feel bad for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't feel bad for him? You want not calling me back.

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<v Speaker 1>Who does that? Do you? Let me ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>When you meet up with dudes and you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on dates, do they always get back to you? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah they do. I mean I'm a good catch. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe I mean, what if this guy's just not

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot and it was very clear that you were

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<v Speaker 1>interested in him, so he's not wasting his time on you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not an excuse. He should have taken the chance. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, get this guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, and find out why in the world

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't be calling you back. Thanks guys, Okay, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on rooking jubil in the morning. The best way I

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<v Speaker 1>can describe the second date update today is this. Imagine

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<v Speaker 1>you go for a job interview and you're really super qualified,

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<v Speaker 1>like overqualified for the job, like you shouldn't even really

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<v Speaker 1>be interviewing for it, like there'd be a fool not

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<v Speaker 1>to hire you, And then they don't call you back

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<v Speaker 1>for a second interview, and you're like, how could I

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<v Speaker 1>possibly not get a call back? This is ridiculous. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you're like, what did I do wrong? I have

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<v Speaker 1>all the qualifications? Why it is that job blowing me off.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ridiculous. I should be the one that go no,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I don't want to work there. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a better, higher paying job. Well that's what happened to Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>She met a guy. She didn't really like him very much,

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<v Speaker 1>but now he's not calling her back, so she just

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<v Speaker 1>wants to get him on the phone and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>As a matter of fact, she didn't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone, her friends pressured her into

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<v Speaker 1>doing a second date update. Is that a pretty accurate

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<v Speaker 1>way to describe it, Kate, That's exactly it. I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of curious, but my friends are really curious, do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel I mean, you guys kind of sound like the

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<v Speaker 1>cool girls club picking on the dorky kid in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, we're not picking on him. We just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what's his deal? Why is he not calling

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<v Speaker 1>me back? I'm so confused too, you know, after talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you for a few seconds, I wanted to call

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<v Speaker 1>you for a date. You know, so without the phone

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<v Speaker 1>of her right now and see if we can get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone. Okay, all right, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, looking for Chrish. Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is him? Hey, Chris, how are you. This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh what this

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi, Hi, I'm sorry. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? I'm calling you because we recently

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<v Speaker 1>got an email from one of our listeners. They asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get a hold of you, why would

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<v Speaker 1>someone email you about me? Because I guess you're a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty fabulous dude and they'd love to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys messing with me? What is this? No?

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners send us an email and asked

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you because you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date and then you didn't call her

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<v Speaker 1>after the date. So she's wondering why, Like, if she

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<v Speaker 1>did something wrong, I'd be the only date I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on in the like the past month was with this

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Kate. Is that what you're talking about? Maybe? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Or isn't it? It is? Actually, yeah, Kate

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<v Speaker 1>wanted us to get a hold of you. Wait are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? I am one hundred percent serious. Kate emailed us,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is wondering why you haven't called her after

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met up. That's awesome, okay, awesome in a

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<v Speaker 1>good way or awesome in like that's awesome way. Okay, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that was I gotta tell your, hands down, that was

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<v Speaker 1>definitely the best dat I've ever had. Really what? Oh? No? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean the best date you've ever had? But

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't called her? So usually I follow that up

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<v Speaker 1>by calling the person or texting them and asking them

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<v Speaker 1>out again, Why haven't you done that? No? I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd send her a message on on okay Cupid? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you did on the dating website? Yeah, okay, she had

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<v Speaker 1>just opened the email. She'd know that I was working

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<v Speaker 1>on something, you know. Okay, So is that what you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to tell her? Then you're busy with work

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll get back to her when well, as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm finished. I think it's going to take a

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<v Speaker 1>few more days. I'm not sure. I mean, I would

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<v Speaker 1>rather talk to her myself. But so you just like

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<v Speaker 1>you're working all night long because your job is that

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<v Speaker 1>demanding or something? No, it's not. I just think that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to finish something. You know. That's a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice gesture before I reach out to her. A nice gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean like some picks like a photo

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<v Speaker 1>shoot or something. Multiple days you get one of those, right,

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of gesture are you talking about? I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to sound corny. I've been writing a

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<v Speaker 1>short story about our date. You've been what? Wait, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you say? I've been writing a short story about

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<v Speaker 1>our date, A short story that you're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>a read or you're gonna try to publish. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>just really want to, you know, like get it out

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<v Speaker 1>of my heart, you know, and show her what I

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<v Speaker 1>really feel. What's is it a book or no? It's

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<v Speaker 1>a short story. You know, it might be a short film,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I might write it into a screenplay one day.

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<v Speaker 1>What's it about? It's about our first date? What was

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<v Speaker 1>so great about your first date that it inspired you

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<v Speaker 1>to write a story? Well, if you don't mind, I

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<v Speaker 1>can just tell you a little bit about it right now,

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<v Speaker 1>like the rundown of the plot? Sure, yeah, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's about like obviously, boy meets girl against

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<v Speaker 1>all odds sort of love story. You know. On one side,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got like the guy. You know, he's a college

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<v Speaker 1>educated driven you know, it's funny people like him, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's charismatic, and that's and that's the U character. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously that's me. Okay, all right. And on the other side,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you have the girl, you know, this beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful mess. You know, that's a beautiful mess. She just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of looks like, if I'm gonna be honest, like

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<v Speaker 1>she's been around the block. Okay, I mean, how does

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<v Speaker 1>a woman look like that? It's against all odds, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like two sides of a truss, two opposite phases

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<v Speaker 1>of a coin. How much more different can someone be?

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying that you are a very successful, smart

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<v Speaker 1>man and she's just a mess who's been around. She

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a hooker from the way you're describing her,

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful like it's pretty woman all over again. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it does have, you know, like shades of

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<v Speaker 1>pretty woman, you know, but like the good parts only.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I mean, I oh, I do have

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<v Speaker 1>a title, a working title. Really what is it? Dirty girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Dirty girl? And this is and this is the romantic

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<v Speaker 1>gesture that you've been planning on giving her. Yes, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that calling her basically like just a

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<v Speaker 1>wreck and comparing her to a prostitute like a pretty woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Calling it dirty girl is going to be a good thing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say pretty woman. You guys said pretty woman,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I said shades a pretty woman got it,

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<v Speaker 1>And she's not a prostitute. She's a girl that's lost

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<v Speaker 1>her way. You know, a guy comes into her life

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, he saves her. And I'm really glad

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<v Speaker 1>you guys reached out to me, because you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't sure if she was going to get back to

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<v Speaker 1>me or if I should reach out to her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you actually kind of have reached out to her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been listening the whole time. What what kid? Is that? Really? You? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you delusional? Were we even on the same date?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the matter? What do you really not understand what

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<v Speaker 1>the problem is? Were you? Were you not listening to

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<v Speaker 1>what you were saying out loud? Of course I was.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't like it? Oh my god? You really thought

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<v Speaker 1>that I would like what you wrote? Yeah? Has anyone

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<v Speaker 1>ever written a romantic novel for you before? Not one

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<v Speaker 1>where I end up being a prostitute, a dumb prostitute

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy is some college I never said that abstitute.

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<v Speaker 1>I never said dumb prostitute. That is true. We made

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<v Speaker 1>the prostitute comparison with pretty woman. But that's what it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sounded like to us than I am this

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<v Speaker 1>shocked that this is happening. I am so out of

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<v Speaker 1>your league, by the way. I hope you understand that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you are. That's where the story's beautiful. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, And I'm sure you've been with plenty of men,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what, I don't care with that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>totally cool with that. You're not helping your case. Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, can't you You've got to see at

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<v Speaker 1>some point. I mean, he is a romantic at heart.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a little naive and doesn't exactly know how to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to women, but it's a little sweet. I am

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<v Speaker 1>just so offended right now. I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>No one has ever talked to me like that before.

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<v Speaker 1>No one has ever said those things to me before.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what you have to do is go out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with him. Chris, would you like a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Kate? We will pay for it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely no. No, no second date. But Kate, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one that wanted us to call him in the first place,

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<v Speaker 1>so this could be a successful second date for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to give him any more material for

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<v Speaker 1>his novel about me being a dumb prostitute. So no,

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<v Speaker 1>no way, listen. I just need you to read the story, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you read it, every thing will be

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<v Speaker 1>explained and you'll understand everything. Chris, I'm sorry, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think Kate is going to see her point of

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<v Speaker 1>view on this one. Kate, I want you to know that,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what happens today, you will always be my

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<v Speaker 1>dirty girl. Lovelier words have never been spoken, have they? Kake?

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<v Speaker 1>The text in at seven eight five nine two says

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<v Speaker 1>that guy is definitely a weirdo, but that girl is

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<v Speaker 1>not much better. It's Brook and Jewel in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>talking about today's second date. Update. This girl Kate wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a guy named Chris. They went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and she was just amazed that he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. They actually kind of met at a

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<v Speaker 1>bar and everything else, and they hung out and she's like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm way out of his league. Why is he not

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<v Speaker 1>calling me? She didn't even really care that much if

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<v Speaker 1>she got a date. It was more that her friends

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<v Speaker 1>put her up to it and said, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second day update to find out why this

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<v Speaker 1>guy would not call you back because you're the bee's knees.

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<v Speaker 1>So suddenly there in the nineteen Yeah, we got him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and it was kind of weird because

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<v Speaker 1>he said, no, I want to call her back, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm writing a short story about her, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to present it to her when we went out on

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<v Speaker 1>our date. It was such karma, though, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>she was so stuck up about herself. Yeah, And the

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<v Speaker 1>story he said was about how a smart, like well

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<v Speaker 1>educated dude meets a beautiful mess of a woman who

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<v Speaker 1>has been around the block. Yeah. Yeah, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>called something like dirty girl. He had, that was the

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<v Speaker 1>working title. She was offended by that. Obviously, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of texts in at seven eighty five to nine two

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<v Speaker 1>that says, I'll go out with him. I'm a romantic

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<v Speaker 1>like that, So apparently that wouldn't creep that person out

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<v Speaker 1>that the dude was writing a short story about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Another text that says, whatever girl hopes for before Valentine's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll always be my dirty girl. Yeah, And we're also

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<v Speaker 1>getting lots of texts in earlier in the show, at

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<v Speaker 1>about seven to ten, we did a survey of a

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<v Speaker 1>Americans that talked about how the little things that piss

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<v Speaker 1>people off, you know, and one of those was some

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<v Speaker 1>people use pet names when they don't know you, like

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<v Speaker 1>sweetheart or buddy or things like that. And Brooke made

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<v Speaker 1>a comment like it's so condescending when people say sweetheart,

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<v Speaker 1>and jose and I were like, dude, you do that

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I realize, yeah, you really do where

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<v Speaker 1>you don't realize you're doing it. And then now I

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<v Speaker 1>can't stop hearing it in everything. And we're getting a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of text in at seven eight, five nine two

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<v Speaker 1>from the second day update because Brooke called the guy

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<v Speaker 1>sweetheart while oh sweetheart, I felt like we were connected.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I did, I had it wasn't meant

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<v Speaker 1>to me. That worked out at the heart for him, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>that worked out perfectly. I guess proof that you do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, if you want a second day update, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to do this email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five