Speaker 1: Any two point five rooking jubils second date update. Today's
Speaker 1: second date update is brought to you by peer pressure.
Speaker 1: That's right, when you don't even want to go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody, but your friends really want
Speaker 1: to know why and they pressure you into doing a
Speaker 1: second date update, that's a little bit of peer pressure.
Speaker 1: Kate is on the phone with us. Her email actually
Speaker 1: said this, Hey, guys, I went on on a date
Speaker 1: with a guy named Chris. I'm not that interested in
Speaker 1: getting a date with him, but my friends met him
Speaker 1: and they want me to do a second date update
Speaker 1: with you. So can I do one? The answer is,
Speaker 1: of course. It's a lot different than most of the
Speaker 1: second date updates we do. But Kate, how are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you? Oh my god, I just see
Speaker 1: you telling your friends. Fine, I'll do it pretty much. Okay,
Speaker 1: So tell us about the guy that you don't really
Speaker 1: care about calling today but your friends do. His name
Speaker 1: is Chris, and I mean he was really nice. There's
Speaker 1: nothing you know, terrible about him. We just really did
Speaker 1: not click whatsoever. Okay, So why do your friends want
Speaker 1: to do a second date update so bad? Here's the
Speaker 1: story about how our date went. We met online, but
Speaker 1: we met up at a bar and my friends were
Speaker 1: there for support, as they do. And I don't want
Speaker 1: to be mean, but he's really super nerdy and I
Speaker 1: am not. We had nothing in common he wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about, like sci fi TV shows he watches, and
Speaker 1: like weird books he read in college. It's just like
Speaker 1: nothing that I was interested in you. When he walked
Speaker 1: in the door and he saw him for the first time,
Speaker 1: did you immediately think this is not going to work
Speaker 1: The first time I laid eyes on him, actually was
Speaker 1: hoping it wasn't him, because I never saw his picture online,
Speaker 1: so I didn't know what to expect. And it sounds
Speaker 1: like you hate this guy. Yeah, oh, I don't hate him.
Speaker 1: It just wasn't a good match for us. Why would
Speaker 1: your friends ever think that you should pursue this? Then
Speaker 1: if you are not attracted to this guy whatsoever? Joe,
Speaker 1: like I said, they were at the bar with me,
Speaker 1: and they even were going on about how on the
Speaker 1: date he was so into me. He was buying me
Speaker 1: all the drinks and trying to, you know, touch my
Speaker 1: arm and being really flirty with me. And then their
Speaker 1: curiosity is you know, going crazy right now because it's
Speaker 1: you know, it's been a week and he hasn't reached
Speaker 1: out to me at all. So it's actually the kind
Speaker 1: of curious too. So it's more of, Hey, this nerdy
Speaker 1: guy was super into you, and now he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back. Who does he think he is? I don't
Speaker 1: like you, not the other way around. Is that what
Speaker 1: this is about? That's pretty much it. Oh so if
Speaker 1: we call him and we find out he's just been
Speaker 1: busy or something and he actually does want to go
Speaker 1: out with you, are you gonna want to go out
Speaker 1: with him? No? I absolutely don't want to go on
Speaker 1: another date with him. Oh my gosh. I just want
Speaker 1: to know why he didn't call me back. So it's
Speaker 1: just confusing to you. Why a guy who would be
Speaker 1: well confusing to you and your friends. I guess I
Speaker 1: should say, why a guy who seems to be totally
Speaker 1: into you is blowing you off? Yeah, that's exactly it.
Speaker 1: Have you tried to get a hold of him at all? No?
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, Now why would you? Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: feel like you should leave this person alone. You're like
Speaker 1: picking on him at this point. You feel bad for him.
Speaker 1: Don't feel bad for him? You want not calling me back.
Speaker 1: Who does that? Do you? Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: When you meet up with dudes and you go out
Speaker 1: on dates, do they always get back to you? I mean,
Speaker 1: yeah they do. I mean I'm a good catch. Okay,
Speaker 1: but maybe I mean, what if this guy's just not
Speaker 1: an idiot and it was very clear that you were
Speaker 1: interested in him, so he's not wasting his time on you.
Speaker 1: That's not an excuse. He should have taken the chance. Okay,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, get this guy
Speaker 1: on the phone, and find out why in the world
Speaker 1: he wouldn't be calling you back. Thanks guys, Okay, hang
Speaker 1: on rooking jubil in the morning. The best way I
Speaker 1: can describe the second date update today is this. Imagine
Speaker 1: you go for a job interview and you're really super qualified,
Speaker 1: like overqualified for the job, like you shouldn't even really
Speaker 1: be interviewing for it, like there'd be a fool not
Speaker 1: to hire you, And then they don't call you back
Speaker 1: for a second interview, and you're like, how could I
Speaker 1: possibly not get a call back? This is ridiculous. And
Speaker 1: then you're like, what did I do wrong? I have
Speaker 1: all the qualifications? Why it is that job blowing me off.
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous. I should be the one that go no,
Speaker 1: thank you. I don't want to work there. I got
Speaker 1: a better, higher paying job. Well that's what happened to Kate.
Speaker 1: She met a guy. She didn't really like him very much,
Speaker 1: but now he's not calling her back, so she just
Speaker 1: wants to get him on the phone and find out why.
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, she didn't even want to
Speaker 1: get him on the phone, her friends pressured her into
Speaker 1: doing a second date update. Is that a pretty accurate
Speaker 1: way to describe it, Kate, That's exactly it. I'm kind
Speaker 1: of curious, but my friends are really curious, do you
Speaker 1: feel I mean, you guys kind of sound like the
Speaker 1: cool girls club picking on the dorky kid in high school.
Speaker 1: Right now, we're not picking on him. We just want
Speaker 1: to know what's his deal? Why is he not calling
Speaker 1: me back? I'm so confused too, you know, after talking
Speaker 1: to you for a few seconds, I wanted to call
Speaker 1: you for a date. You know, so without the phone
Speaker 1: of her right now and see if we can get
Speaker 1: him on the phone. Okay, all right, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, looking for Chrish. Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is him? Hey, Chris, how are you. This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh what this
Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi, Hi, I'm sorry. Why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? I'm calling you because we recently
Speaker 1: got an email from one of our listeners. They asked
Speaker 1: if we could get a hold of you, why would
Speaker 1: someone email you about me? Because I guess you're a
Speaker 1: pretty fabulous dude and they'd love to see you again.
Speaker 1: Are you guys messing with me? What is this? No?
Speaker 1: One of our listeners send us an email and asked
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you because you guys went
Speaker 1: out on a date and then you didn't call her
Speaker 1: after the date. So she's wondering why, Like, if she
Speaker 1: did something wrong, I'd be the only date I've been
Speaker 1: on in the like the past month was with this
Speaker 1: girl named Kate. Is that what you're talking about? Maybe? Well?
Speaker 1: Is it? Or isn't it? It is? Actually, yeah, Kate
Speaker 1: wanted us to get a hold of you. Wait are
Speaker 1: you serious? I am one hundred percent serious. Kate emailed us,
Speaker 1: and it is wondering why you haven't called her after
Speaker 1: you guys met up. That's awesome, okay, awesome in a
Speaker 1: good way or awesome in like that's awesome way. Okay, No,
Speaker 1: that was I gotta tell your, hands down, that was
Speaker 1: definitely the best dat I've ever had. Really what? Oh? No? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you mean the best date you've ever had? But
Speaker 1: you haven't called her? So usually I follow that up
Speaker 1: by calling the person or texting them and asking them
Speaker 1: out again, Why haven't you done that? No? I did.
Speaker 1: I'd send her a message on on okay Cupid? Oh
Speaker 1: you did on the dating website? Yeah, okay, she had
Speaker 1: just opened the email. She'd know that I was working
Speaker 1: on something, you know. Okay, So is that what you
Speaker 1: want me to tell her? Then you're busy with work
Speaker 1: and you'll get back to her when well, as soon
Speaker 1: as I'm finished. I think it's going to take a
Speaker 1: few more days. I'm not sure. I mean, I would
Speaker 1: rather talk to her myself. But so you just like
Speaker 1: you're working all night long because your job is that
Speaker 1: demanding or something? No, it's not. I just think that
Speaker 1: I want to finish something. You know. That's a really
Speaker 1: nice gesture before I reach out to her. A nice gesture.
Speaker 1: What do you mean like some picks like a photo
Speaker 1: shoot or something. Multiple days you get one of those, right,
Speaker 1: What kind of gesture are you talking about? I'm talking
Speaker 1: this is going to sound corny. I've been writing a
Speaker 1: short story about our date. You've been what? Wait, what
Speaker 1: did you say? I've been writing a short story about
Speaker 1: our date, A short story that you're going to have
Speaker 1: a read or you're gonna try to publish. No, I
Speaker 1: just really want to, you know, like get it out
Speaker 1: of my heart, you know, and show her what I
Speaker 1: really feel. What's is it a book or no? It's
Speaker 1: a short story. You know, it might be a short film,
Speaker 1: you know, I might write it into a screenplay one day.
Speaker 1: What's it about? It's about our first date? What was
Speaker 1: so great about your first date that it inspired you
Speaker 1: to write a story? Well, if you don't mind, I
Speaker 1: can just tell you a little bit about it right now,
Speaker 1: like the rundown of the plot? Sure, yeah, okay, So
Speaker 1: you know it's about like obviously, boy meets girl against
Speaker 1: all odds sort of love story. You know. On one side,
Speaker 1: you've got like the guy. You know, he's a college
Speaker 1: educated driven you know, it's funny people like him, you know,
Speaker 1: it's charismatic, and that's and that's the U character. Obviously,
Speaker 1: obviously that's me. Okay, all right. And on the other side,
Speaker 1: you know, you have the girl, you know, this beautiful,
Speaker 1: beautiful mess. You know, that's a beautiful mess. She just
Speaker 1: kind of looks like, if I'm gonna be honest, like
Speaker 1: she's been around the block. Okay, I mean, how does
Speaker 1: a woman look like that? It's against all odds, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like two sides of a truss, two opposite phases
Speaker 1: of a coin. How much more different can someone be?
Speaker 1: So you're saying that you are a very successful, smart
Speaker 1: man and she's just a mess who's been around. She
Speaker 1: sounds like a hooker from the way you're describing her,
Speaker 1: a beautiful like it's pretty woman all over again. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess it does have, you know, like shades of
Speaker 1: pretty woman, you know, but like the good parts only.
Speaker 1: But you know, I mean, I oh, I do have
Speaker 1: a title, a working title. Really what is it? Dirty girl?
Speaker 1: Dirty girl? And this is and this is the romantic
Speaker 1: gesture that you've been planning on giving her. Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 1: do you think that calling her basically like just a
Speaker 1: wreck and comparing her to a prostitute like a pretty woman?
Speaker 1: Calling it dirty girl is going to be a good thing. Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't say pretty woman. You guys said pretty woman,
Speaker 1: all right, I said shades a pretty woman got it,
Speaker 1: And she's not a prostitute. She's a girl that's lost
Speaker 1: her way. You know, a guy comes into her life
Speaker 1: that you know, he saves her. And I'm really glad
Speaker 1: you guys reached out to me, because you know, I
Speaker 1: wasn't sure if she was going to get back to
Speaker 1: me or if I should reach out to her. Well,
Speaker 1: you actually kind of have reached out to her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been listening the whole time. What what kid? Is that? Really? You? Hey?
Speaker 1: Are you delusional? Were we even on the same date?
Speaker 1: What's the matter? What do you really not understand what
Speaker 1: the problem is? Were you? Were you not listening to
Speaker 1: what you were saying out loud? Of course I was.
Speaker 1: You didn't like it? Oh my god? You really thought
Speaker 1: that I would like what you wrote? Yeah? Has anyone
Speaker 1: ever written a romantic novel for you before? Not one
Speaker 1: where I end up being a prostitute, a dumb prostitute
Speaker 1: and the guy is some college I never said that abstitute.
Speaker 1: I never said dumb prostitute. That is true. We made
Speaker 1: the prostitute comparison with pretty woman. But that's what it
Speaker 1: kind of sounded like to us than I am this
Speaker 1: shocked that this is happening. I am so out of
Speaker 1: your league, by the way. I hope you understand that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course you are. That's where the story's beautiful. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, And I'm sure you've been with plenty of men,
Speaker 1: and you know what, I don't care with that. I'm
Speaker 1: totally cool with that. You're not helping your case. Chris,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can't you You've got to see at
Speaker 1: some point. I mean, he is a romantic at heart.
Speaker 1: He's a little naive and doesn't exactly know how to
Speaker 1: talk to women, but it's a little sweet. I am
Speaker 1: just so offended right now. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: No one has ever talked to me like that before.
Speaker 1: No one has ever said those things to me before.
Speaker 1: I think what you have to do is go out
Speaker 1: on another date with him. Chris, would you like a
Speaker 1: second date with Kate? We will pay for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolutely no. No, no second date. But Kate, you're the
Speaker 1: one that wanted us to call him in the first place,
Speaker 1: so this could be a successful second date for you.
Speaker 1: I don't want to give him any more material for
Speaker 1: his novel about me being a dumb prostitute. So no,
Speaker 1: no way, listen. I just need you to read the story, Okay.
Speaker 1: I think if you read it, every thing will be
Speaker 1: explained and you'll understand everything. Chris, I'm sorry, man, I
Speaker 1: don't think Kate is going to see her point of
Speaker 1: view on this one. Kate, I want you to know that,
Speaker 1: no matter what happens today, you will always be my
Speaker 1: dirty girl. Lovelier words have never been spoken, have they? Kake?
Speaker 1: The text in at seven eight five nine two says
Speaker 1: that guy is definitely a weirdo, but that girl is
Speaker 1: not much better. It's Brook and Jewel in the morning
Speaker 1: talking about today's second date. Update. This girl Kate wanted
Speaker 1: to call a guy named Chris. They went out on
Speaker 1: a date and she was just amazed that he wasn't
Speaker 1: calling her back. They actually kind of met at a
Speaker 1: bar and everything else, and they hung out and she's like, dude,
Speaker 1: I'm way out of his league. Why is he not
Speaker 1: calling me? She didn't even really care that much if
Speaker 1: she got a date. It was more that her friends
Speaker 1: put her up to it and said, you have to
Speaker 1: do a second day update to find out why this
Speaker 1: guy would not call you back because you're the bee's knees.
Speaker 1: So suddenly there in the nineteen Yeah, we got him
Speaker 1: on the phone and it was kind of weird because
Speaker 1: he said, no, I want to call her back, but
Speaker 1: I'm writing a short story about her, and I wanted
Speaker 1: to present it to her when we went out on
Speaker 1: our date. It was such karma, though, you know, like
Speaker 1: she was so stuck up about herself. Yeah, And the
Speaker 1: story he said was about how a smart, like well
Speaker 1: educated dude meets a beautiful mess of a woman who
Speaker 1: has been around the block. Yeah. Yeah, and it was
Speaker 1: called something like dirty girl. He had, that was the
Speaker 1: working title. She was offended by that. Obviously, a lot
Speaker 1: of texts in at seven eighty five to nine two
Speaker 1: that says, I'll go out with him. I'm a romantic
Speaker 1: like that, So apparently that wouldn't creep that person out
Speaker 1: that the dude was writing a short story about her.
Speaker 1: Another text that says, whatever girl hopes for before Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: you'll always be my dirty girl. Yeah, And we're also
Speaker 1: getting lots of texts in earlier in the show, at
Speaker 1: about seven to ten, we did a survey of a
Speaker 1: Americans that talked about how the little things that piss
Speaker 1: people off, you know, and one of those was some
Speaker 1: people use pet names when they don't know you, like
Speaker 1: sweetheart or buddy or things like that. And Brooke made
Speaker 1: a comment like it's so condescending when people say sweetheart,
Speaker 1: and jose and I were like, dude, you do that
Speaker 1: all the time. I realize, yeah, you really do where
Speaker 1: you don't realize you're doing it. And then now I
Speaker 1: can't stop hearing it in everything. And we're getting a
Speaker 1: lot of text in at seven eight, five nine two
Speaker 1: from the second day update because Brooke called the guy
Speaker 1: sweetheart while oh sweetheart, I felt like we were connected.
Speaker 1: You know what I did, I had it wasn't meant
Speaker 1: to me. That worked out at the heart for him, Man,
Speaker 1: that worked out perfectly. I guess proof that you do that.
Speaker 1: I remember, if you want a second day update, I
Speaker 1: have to do this email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety
Speaker 1: two point five