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Speaker 1: Any two point five rooking jubils second date update. Today's

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Speaker 1: second date update is brought to you by peer pressure.

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Speaker 1: That's right, when you don't even want to go out

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Speaker 1: on a date with somebody, but your friends really want

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Speaker 1: to know why and they pressure you into doing a

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Speaker 1: second date update, that's a little bit of peer pressure.

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Speaker 1: Kate is on the phone with us. Her email actually

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Speaker 1: said this, Hey, guys, I went on on a date

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Speaker 1: with a guy named Chris. I'm not that interested in

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Speaker 1: getting a date with him, but my friends met him

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Speaker 1: and they want me to do a second date update

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Speaker 1: with you. So can I do one? The answer is,

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Speaker 1: of course. It's a lot different than most of the

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Speaker 1: second date updates we do. But Kate, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you? Oh my god, I just see

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Speaker 1: you telling your friends. Fine, I'll do it pretty much. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So tell us about the guy that you don't really

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Speaker 1: care about calling today but your friends do. His name

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Speaker 1: is Chris, and I mean he was really nice. There's

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Speaker 1: nothing you know, terrible about him. We just really did

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Speaker 1: not click whatsoever. Okay, So why do your friends want

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Speaker 1: to do a second date update so bad? Here's the

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Speaker 1: story about how our date went. We met online, but

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Speaker 1: we met up at a bar and my friends were

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Speaker 1: there for support, as they do. And I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be mean, but he's really super nerdy and I

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Speaker 1: am not. We had nothing in common he wanted to

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Speaker 1: nothing that I was interested in you. When he walked

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Speaker 1: did you immediately think this is not going to work

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Speaker 1: The first time I laid eyes on him, actually was

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Speaker 1: hoping it wasn't him, because I never saw his picture online,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't know what to expect. And it sounds

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Speaker 1: like you hate this guy. Yeah, oh, I don't hate him.

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Speaker 1: It just wasn't a good match for us. Why would

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Speaker 1: your friends ever think that you should pursue this? Then

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Speaker 1: if you are not attracted to this guy whatsoever? Joe,

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Speaker 1: like I said, they were at the bar with me,

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Speaker 1: and they even were going on about how on the

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Speaker 1: date he was so into me. He was buying me

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Speaker 1: all the drinks and trying to, you know, touch my

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Speaker 1: arm and being really flirty with me. And then their

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Speaker 1: curiosity is you know, going crazy right now because it's

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Speaker 1: you know, it's been a week and he hasn't reached

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Speaker 1: out to me at all. So it's actually the kind

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Speaker 1: of curious too. So it's more of, Hey, this nerdy

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Speaker 1: guy was super into you, and now he's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back. Who does he think he is? I don't

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Speaker 1: like you, not the other way around. Is that what

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Speaker 1: this is about? That's pretty much it. Oh so if

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Speaker 1: we call him and we find out he's just been

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Speaker 1: with him? No? I absolutely don't want to go on

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Speaker 1: another date with him. Oh my gosh. I just want

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Speaker 1: to know why he didn't call me back. So it's

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Speaker 1: just confusing to you. Why a guy who would be

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Speaker 1: well confusing to you and your friends. I guess I

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Speaker 1: Have you tried to get a hold of him at all? No?

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, Now why would you? Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: feel like you should leave this person alone. You're like

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Speaker 1: picking on him at this point. You feel bad for him.

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Speaker 1: Don't feel bad for him? You want not calling me back.

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Speaker 1: Who does that? Do you? Let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: When you meet up with dudes and you go out

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Speaker 1: yeah they do. I mean I'm a good catch. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but maybe I mean, what if this guy's just not

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Speaker 1: That's not an excuse. He should have taken the chance. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, get this guy

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Speaker 1: on rooking jubil in the morning. The best way I

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Speaker 1: can describe the second date update today is this. Imagine

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Speaker 1: That's ridiculous. I should be the one that go no,

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Speaker 1: a better, higher paying job. Well that's what happened to Kate.

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Speaker 1: She met a guy. She didn't really like him very much,

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Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, she didn't even want to

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Speaker 1: way to describe it, Kate, That's exactly it. I'm kind

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Speaker 1: Right now, we're not picking on him. We just want

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Speaker 1: to know what's his deal? Why is he not calling

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Speaker 1: me back? I'm so confused too, you know, after talking

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Speaker 1: you for a date. You know, so without the phone

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Speaker 1: him on the phone. Okay, all right, thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, looking for Chrish. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is him? Hey, Chris, how are you. This is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh what this

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi, Hi, I'm sorry. Why

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Speaker 1: are you calling me? I'm calling you because we recently

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Speaker 1: someone email you about me? Because I guess you're a

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Speaker 1: out on a date and then you didn't call her

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Speaker 1: after the date. So she's wondering why, Like, if she

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Speaker 1: did something wrong, I'd be the only date I've been

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Speaker 1: on in the like the past month was with this

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Speaker 1: girl named Kate. Is that what you're talking about? Maybe? Well?

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Speaker 1: you serious? I am one hundred percent serious. Kate emailed us,

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Speaker 1: you guys met up. That's awesome, okay, awesome in a

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Speaker 1: that was I gotta tell your, hands down, that was

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Speaker 1: definitely the best dat I've ever had. Really what? Oh? No? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you mean the best date you've ever had? But

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Speaker 1: I'd send her a message on on okay Cupid? Oh

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Speaker 1: you did on the dating website? Yeah, okay, she had

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Speaker 1: want me to tell her? Then you're busy with work

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Speaker 1: few more days. I'm not sure. I mean, I would

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Speaker 1: demanding or something? No, it's not. I just think that

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Speaker 1: I want to finish something. You know. That's a really

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Speaker 1: nice gesture before I reach out to her. A nice gesture.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean like some picks like a photo

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Speaker 1: this is going to sound corny. I've been writing a

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Speaker 1: short story about our date. You've been what? Wait, what

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Speaker 1: really feel. What's is it a book or no? It's

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Speaker 1: a short story. You know, it might be a short film,

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Speaker 1: What's it about? It's about our first date? What was

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Speaker 1: to write a story? Well, if you don't mind, I

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Speaker 1: like the rundown of the plot? Sure, yeah, okay, So

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Speaker 1: So you're saying that you are a very successful, smart

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Speaker 1: Dirty girl? And this is and this is the romantic

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Speaker 1: gesture that you've been planning on giving her. Yes, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Calling it dirty girl is going to be a good thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't say pretty woman. You guys said pretty woman,

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Speaker 1: And she's not a prostitute. She's a girl that's lost

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Speaker 1: I've been listening the whole time. What what kid? Is that? Really? You? Hey?

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