WEBVTT - "Hometown Pride" w/ Skyler Higley

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, podcast starts. Now, what is up everyone around the globe.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Stradia Lab and I have a story

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<v Speaker 1>to tell. Georgia. Are you prepared for my story?

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<v Speaker 2>I am so prepared. You have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I have been sitting on the story in such

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<v Speaker 1>an insane way. You know. We went to San Francisco,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said.

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<v Speaker 2>We have talked multiple times in multiple cities, both virtually

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<v Speaker 2>and in person, and you keep being like, I went

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<v Speaker 2>to Palm Springs and I'm like, how was it? And

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, nu, huh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like, I'll tell you when the cameras are on. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, Palm Springs kind of sucks. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>start there? So I went to one of those like

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<v Speaker 1>nude gay resorts. It was called Indulge, which is obviously

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<v Speaker 1>so embarrassing whenever you say it. I didn't choose the place.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just start. I didn't choose it.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question, is this a p is it

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<v Speaker 2>called in an Indulge?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm glad you could hear me pronounce it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, of course, what I would have done taken

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<v Speaker 2>it once the further in bulge.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, you know, I think you're right. But the problem is,

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<v Speaker 1>I think with it being clothing optional, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>bulges an't always there because they're always wearing painting suits.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe in balls.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>So everyone there is elderly. It's sort of a world

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<v Speaker 1>for grandparents, grandpa's in particular, to go to uh. And

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't. I was. I'm rarely in a space where

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<v Speaker 1>I am the youngest by two generations, and this was

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<v Speaker 1>the case here. So first of all, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>you're sitting around the pool and you're naked, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>only hearing conversations about taxes and credit card points and

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<v Speaker 1>condo renovations, and like to hear this guy being well,

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<v Speaker 1>we sold our condo in Saint Louis and then we

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<v Speaker 1>bought a condo in Florida, but the taxes were horrible

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<v Speaker 1>in Saint Louis. So but if we do the return right,

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<v Speaker 1>and he can go on for hours about this fucking

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<v Speaker 1>condo in these taxes, and it was driving me insane

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<v Speaker 1>in a way where I was like, please, like be lecherous,

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<v Speaker 1>like why aren't you like trying to have sex with someone?

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<v Speaker 1>It was disgusting. But then the real thing that was

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<v Speaker 1>funny to me is like, so we were there with

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<v Speaker 1>a friend and we went out that night and we

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<v Speaker 1>came back and we're all like going in the pool

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<v Speaker 1>and we were sort of drunk and being crazy and

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<v Speaker 1>we were like taking turns carrying each other like babies.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, were you with a big group?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like this particular night, there's just one person

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<v Speaker 1>I'm friends with from New York, okay, and we were

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<v Speaker 1>all carrying each other like baby is ha ha ha

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<v Speaker 1>ha ha. And then there was this one like fifty

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<v Speaker 1>five year old, like sort of stiff businessman who uh

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, just kind of talked like this. And

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, oh, let's bring him into the fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went up to this man and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to be baby? And he was like yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So that I carried this random fifty five year old

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<v Speaker 1>man naked around the pool as if he was baby,

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<v Speaker 1>and I literally think he's like never had so much

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<v Speaker 1>fun in his life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Wait, so then did he sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like loosen up?

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<v Speaker 1>I think he loosened up. He was like having fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think to swim. I was swimming him around

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<v Speaker 1>the pool, like, baby, it was where?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it sexual?

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<v Speaker 1>Non sexually?

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<v Speaker 2>Was he there with a partner?

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<v Speaker 1>No, he was there. I mean he might have wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to have sex, to be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>But wow, so you are fully teasing this poor introverted,

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<v Speaker 2>single bachelor businessman who is there. He's like, all I

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<v Speaker 2>want is like some hot young guy with a mustache

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<v Speaker 2>to like, come and be my you know, be my

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<v Speaker 2>one final my one final swing before I finally die

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<v Speaker 2>of old age. And then you come up to him,

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<v Speaker 2>you say, oh, do you want to be baby? He

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<v Speaker 2>he he here my balls. And then he's like, finally

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<v Speaker 2>my dreams are coming true. You take him up, you

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<v Speaker 2>humiliate him in front of everyone. You're literally doing like

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<v Speaker 2>a humiliation ritual, even in front of your drunk New York,

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<v Speaker 2>cool New York friends, and you put him down and

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<v Speaker 2>say that's enough, grandpa, and then you go to your room.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think he had the time of his life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I really made me be like damn, it was

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing feeling of like gay guys are so crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>like the fact that I'm essentially picking up my dad

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<v Speaker 1>like like this is so weird, and and like to

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<v Speaker 1>hold a naked man in the water is so like

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<v Speaker 1>what are we doing? Like it's literally like, what is this?

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<v Speaker 1>I was blown away by the whole experience and the

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<v Speaker 1>old The next day I woke up and I was

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<v Speaker 1>like half then to see him again and just be

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<v Speaker 1>like hi, like and he was like hi. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really really more intimate than if we had hooked up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes I would. I would say picking someone up,

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<v Speaker 2>swimming around with him and then putting him back down

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<v Speaker 2>is one hundred percent more intimate than hooking up.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, anybody out there, if you're ever out

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<v Speaker 1>of pool and really want to shake things up, start

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<v Speaker 1>carrying people like baby.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you'll have a last It's very sweet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I want to go on vacation. You deserve it,

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<v Speaker 2>but don't I literally deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, we need to talk. The pr around

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<v Speaker 1>Palm Springs is too good, Like this place is flop.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always sort of suspected that it's so weird and

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<v Speaker 1>people are like, oh, it's just like West Coast Fire Island.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? Do you hear yourself? It

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<v Speaker 1>makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 2>It has always rereaked of desperation to me. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>To say, yeah, it's just not right. And it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're in a pool, like there also have all

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<v Speaker 1>these rules about being really quiet, Like so all the

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<v Speaker 1>music is really quiet everywhere you go, and everyone's like

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're in a house, they'll call the police

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<v Speaker 1>on you if your music is like audible from the

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<v Speaker 1>other houses. It's like, what is this.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's what I think about Palm Springs. I sort of

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<v Speaker 2>think pomp Springs. It's like, what if Debaucher's gay men

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<v Speaker 2>became wasps in Connecticut. Like it's like the ethos is

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<v Speaker 2>very uh, sort of nimby, but then you are, but

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<v Speaker 2>then you are in a gay destination with palm trees,

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<v Speaker 2>which makes it worse because I'm like, well, if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be wasp nimbi, uh, you know, woman named Carol

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<v Speaker 2>and her mother Muffy, Like, at least let's be in Connecticut.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's have like a dry steak, you know, let's go

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<v Speaker 2>all the way. But if you're gonna, you know, tease

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<v Speaker 2>me with the promise of sexual debauchery and the pool

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<v Speaker 2>and picking people up, then at least, like, let's go there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was genuinely surprised at how unsexual the whole place

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<v Speaker 1>was I've never been in a place like catered to

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<v Speaker 1>gay men. That was this unsexual, Like I'm actually kind

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<v Speaker 1>of blown away by it, and something's in the air there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, did you ultimately have a good time?

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<v Speaker 1>It was fine. Ultimately it was fine. I read my book,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I learned a lot about taxes.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you still reading? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Still? I mean it was a damn week ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you're reading uh didion? Or no?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, no, I'm reading our dear friend Dan

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<v Speaker 1>dea Dario's book.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh that's right, then, I take back the still

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<v Speaker 2>did you finish it?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my goal.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a job, George, I have a job. Speaking

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<v Speaker 1>of job, oh job, let's being our guest. We have

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<v Speaker 1>the same job, but not right now, but not right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, is such a good introw.

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<v Speaker 1>Please him to the podcast. Kyler Higgley.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, great transition, guys. That was really seamless. That was

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<v Speaker 4>one of the most beautiful stories I've ever heard. Thank

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<v Speaker 4>you also as your coworker, It's so funny, dude, know

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<v Speaker 4>that you were just sort of babying a man.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw the harassing a coworker. The story of you,

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<v Speaker 2>of what you.

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<v Speaker 1>God we're not coworkers currently right this moment, right because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm allowed to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, now we can say whatever we want. Yeah, it's no,

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's inspiring, I would say. And I I also

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<v Speaker 4>feel like every time I see you outside of work,

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<v Speaker 4>I see a whole different side of you. You're a

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<v Speaker 4>different guy. Yeah, in and out of work.

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<v Speaker 1>It's definitely severing spot.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to I need to know what Sam is

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<v Speaker 2>like at an office job. It has always been because

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<v Speaker 2>I get peaks of it, you know, because obviously Sam

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<v Speaker 2>and I will be in that contract negotiation room, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>be talking to we'll be talking to bookers, we'll be

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<v Speaker 2>on on calls together, and I get a peak of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to know what it's like at the

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<v Speaker 2>water coool.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's very much like I feel like Sam will

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<v Speaker 4>never fully tell you exactly what you like. Really feel

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<v Speaker 4>like there's there's a certain wall that's up that I

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<v Speaker 4>can tell that you're in a little bit of a

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<v Speaker 4>business mode, where like, I know you're going to now

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<v Speaker 4>go home and you know, carry around a fifty year

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<v Speaker 4>old man in the water like baby, But if you're

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<v Speaker 4>at work, you're not like this guy likes doing baby

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<v Speaker 4>with people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, that's true. I don't even think about the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's definitely it is. It's there.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel it, probably because I sit next to you

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<v Speaker 4>or sat next to you and I felt the wall.

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<v Speaker 4>And we have a lot of fun and we riff

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<v Speaker 4>and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But like you do have a yeah, you also have

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't mind me saying, sometimes Sam will get

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<v Speaker 2>panic in his eyes. Yeah, okay, do you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Skyler.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, there's a No, I've seen the panic. We've like

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<v Speaker 4>sometime through things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like if and I actually I also have

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<v Speaker 2>a very bad poker face. So this is in no

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<v Speaker 2>way I'm not criticizing it. But sometimes if it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a social situation that is a little bit awkward or

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<v Speaker 2>it's unclear what the next step in an interaction is,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll look at Sam and he'll will truly look like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Daniel Khalulia and get out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah this is my Sam dismount for any conversation that's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know that's true. I've adopted Selave.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pretty awesome. Yeah. Do you think you have

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<v Speaker 1>a wall at work? No?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I have too little of a wall at work.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I'm too much of just like whatever

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<v Speaker 4>I think I get. So I think I could be

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit more profound. I feel like I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>like amped up in like whatever, and I don't care

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<v Speaker 4>what I say to whoever, and then I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>that will get me in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's good, though it loosens everybody else.

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<v Speaker 4>Up right, But that's the That's the other thing is

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<v Speaker 4>because I know that everybody is sort of projecting this like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>we're in a work environment thing. Oh and there's famous

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<v Speaker 4>people around, so I have to like try to be cool.

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<v Speaker 4>And I feel just generally this whole like apparatus that

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<v Speaker 4>we're in, be it Hollywood or industry or whatever, it

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<v Speaker 4>like forces you to sort of just be fake in

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<v Speaker 4>certain ways. And I just want to be like, hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 4>like we're you know, we're chilling. I'll say things in

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<v Speaker 4>meetings that people are like, I can't believe you said

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<v Speaker 4>that in the meeting, and I'm like, well, what like

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<v Speaker 4>we were thinking it. We don't care. I don't what's

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<v Speaker 4>the problem we are. I'm a comedy writer, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what you hired me for.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always like doing math of like should I speak up,

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<v Speaker 1>Like is it like worth it to speak up about

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<v Speaker 1>this thing I disagree with? And then usually I'm like, no.

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<v Speaker 4>You're right. I mean, yeah, I don't have that calculus,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just kind of say whatever, and I should

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<v Speaker 4>be a lot better about just, you know, guarding myself

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<v Speaker 4>because you never know who really hates you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but M say lovey.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a sort of currentcy like when I'm at a

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<v Speaker 2>non When I have a non comedy job, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>an office job, the best thing you can be is

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<v Speaker 2>like the funny one, the class clown named that office.

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<v Speaker 2>But when you have a comedy job, it's almost like

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<v Speaker 2>the way to say yourself apart as being the professional one.

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<v Speaker 2>And everyone's like wow, he's like really like put together

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<v Speaker 2>in this like sea of clowns.

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<v Speaker 4>It's true.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually I feel like I'm I every writing job

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<v Speaker 2>that I've had, it's sort of like I'm actually much

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<v Speaker 2>more rewarded when I act normal because people are like

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<v Speaker 2>grateful that someone is being the adult in the room,

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<v Speaker 2>whereas when I have a non comedy job, everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 2>George is crazy. He changed the slack avatar to Amelia Perez.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you know, those slack bits really hit with you know,

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<v Speaker 4>office talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About a straight topic. Actually, this is something I need

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<v Speaker 2>to really like go along on. Yeah, but slack bits

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<v Speaker 2>like when someone says one mildly thing on a slack,

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<v Speaker 2>mildly funny thing on a slack and then it is

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<v Speaker 2>a full forty five minutes of people just posting cry

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<v Speaker 2>laughing emoji and then like one like tiny yes, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like someone will be like, ugh, lunch ran long today,

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<v Speaker 2>and then someone will be like what is this Italy

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<v Speaker 2>And then someone's like, oh my god, Mama Mia, and

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<v Speaker 2>then someone is like missus signor, and then everyone is

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<v Speaker 2>just like commenting with like Italian flags and like crying

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<v Speaker 2>laughing emoji. And then everyone at the end of the

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<v Speaker 2>week has a meeting where they're like, what were the

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<v Speaker 2>best things that happened this week? And someone's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>when George said that thing about Italy, that was so

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<v Speaker 2>great for morale, and everyone's like, you know, we should

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<v Speaker 2>maybe do an Italy themed birthday for Marcia, whose birthday

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<v Speaker 2>is next week. And everyone's like, oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 2>such a good IDEA Italian fla, Italian fla crying emojic

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<v Speaker 2>crying emoji.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I when I worked in the Onion, we had

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<v Speaker 4>slack and I did this thing where I changed my

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<v Speaker 4>avatar to the CEO who we all hated, Jim Spamfeller.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll say it publicly, we all hated him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, the worst.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a really bad guy. I changed my profile picture

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<v Speaker 4>to him, and like my name to his, and I

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<v Speaker 4>would just like start dming people that they were fired

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<v Speaker 4>and even would check in my freak. I'm just like

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<v Speaker 4>and people are like, you can't be cause they you know,

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<v Speaker 4>your boss is for everybody out there who uses slack,

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<v Speaker 4>your bosses can see it. People probably know that, and

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<v Speaker 4>they're like, you could get in trouble for this, And

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<v Speaker 4>then I'm like, yeah, but there's no way anybody really

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<v Speaker 4>cares that much. And also if I do whatever, I

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<v Speaker 4>kind of have that feel because it's like my aspiration

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<v Speaker 4>is to not ever have a job, even though I

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<v Speaker 4>always want money, but like, oh yeah, freedom sounds so awful.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the secret is consistency. I think if you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>if your sort of thing is that you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>like doing like trollish slack bits and everything, people like

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<v Speaker 2>get used to that and then they're like, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 2>classic Skyler. The issue is if Sam or I one

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<v Speaker 2>day wake up and do that right without having set

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<v Speaker 2>the expectations that like that's our vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>It would simply not go. Well, I'm not I cannot

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<v Speaker 1>do a prank in any way, shape or form. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>which is weird. There's almost a part of me now

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm like, I do see.

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<v Speaker 4>The jo it's fun. It's fun if you don't, if

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<v Speaker 4>you're not like genuinely Also, people have to know that

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<v Speaker 4>you have a good heart about it and it comes

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<v Speaker 4>from a good place and you're not like really gonna

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<v Speaker 4>hurt anybody's feelings. So there's a lot like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>consider myself a prank guy, quote unquote, but I do

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<v Speaker 4>like introducing chaos to what could otherwise be monotony.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I get that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you also want to project a little bit of

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<v Speaker 4>fear around you, a little bit, just so people aren't

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<v Speaker 4>entirely sure what you're gonna do or say you.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard it here first, folks.

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<v Speaker 4>Project that's my advice anybody who's trying to break into

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<v Speaker 4>the industry.

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<v Speaker 1>Make people fear you fear. I do think.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my version of that is like in a

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<v Speaker 2>social setting, I will suddenly say something incredibly like biting

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<v Speaker 2>about a mutual friend, just like I'll just be like,

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<v Speaker 2>we love that she's always struck me as pretty stupid,

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<v Speaker 2>and then everyone will be like really taken.

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<v Speaker 1>Aback, Yeah, yeah, it's tough. I'm actually not thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>the wall again, and I'm like, I'm surprised because like

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm in a like non comedy job, the wall

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<v Speaker 1>is crazy. Like I almost go into those and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I like literally not let them know a

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<v Speaker 1>single thing about me? Like almost like a challenge.

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<v Speaker 4>It's true. No, it's true. I mean at a non

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<v Speaker 4>comedy job, I will do minimal work and not care

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<v Speaker 4>about anything, and I don't care if you like me

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<v Speaker 4>or not, Like it's I'm not enjoying my time. And

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<v Speaker 4>so I like will be like, well, whatever, I'm a

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a bad employee here because this means absolutely nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>I worked this shipping job where they were like it

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<v Speaker 4>was all just numbers and I was data refining like severance,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, oh, I don't I have I

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<v Speaker 4>don't care at all. How could you make me care

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<v Speaker 4>about this? This is just a waste of everybody's time.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had two jobs where I was closeted at because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, what if they just don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to know.

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<v Speaker 2>When when you say closeted, you are you actively talking

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<v Speaker 2>about like having a girl friend or just not mentioned not.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about anything about it. Yeah, and like so one

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<v Speaker 1>of them was like the moving job. I was at

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<v Speaker 1>this moving company that a lot of comedians in New

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<v Speaker 1>York work at, and like but like comedians that don't

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<v Speaker 1>know me, like you know what I mean, right, and so,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like either comedians or like psychopaths, and

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<v Speaker 1>they were all like real horny, straight guys like like

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<v Speaker 1>and like always being like nice, like wait, not just.

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<v Speaker 4>About what like if they're moving.

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<v Speaker 1>Like an ass walking by, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It'll be like look at that fucking ass. It's so

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<v Speaker 4>crazy actually, because yeah, I am there. I just don't

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<v Speaker 4>get why we need to sure you notice an ass.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't get why it needs to be communicated about

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<v Speaker 4>in such a way as is sort of absurd to me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, the moving vibe, it was obviously it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>little it's very homo erotic because they're all getting each

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<v Speaker 1>other horny and being like I was fucking this girl

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<v Speaker 1>last night, and it was like fucking awesome, and like

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<v Speaker 1>this is like.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to expand this character.

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<v Speaker 4>There's like the Glitterists and the Labia Majora and the Manora.

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<v Speaker 4>We all the parts, every part was working everything of

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<v Speaker 4>a straight guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh the Labia Minora. Yeah, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>But they would literally do it all the time because

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the only way to pass the day.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, I guess we could make each other

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<v Speaker 1>horny by like, well.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the other thing, though, is that actually, among a

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<v Speaker 2>group of straight movers, I think talking about women is

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<v Speaker 2>actually one of the few things that can connect everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>because what are you gonna do, Like, you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to bring up politics, you don't want to bring up

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<v Speaker 2>like what you're doing outside of work, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>bring up your family life. So I think it's actually

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like the equivalent of gay guys talking about

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<v Speaker 2>top forty music or.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, drag race or something, or yes, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually drag race is too close to politics. Even I

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<v Speaker 2>would say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, it did feel like Okay, I'm like in

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<v Speaker 1>their space and I don't want to be like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually gay, right, so I'd just be like yeah, look

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<v Speaker 1>at that, be like yeah, was.

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<v Speaker 4>There any ever, Was there ever any like hint of

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<v Speaker 4>anybody being like, hey, you don't seem to call out

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<v Speaker 4>the asses like we do.

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<v Speaker 1>There was never a call out like that because I

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<v Speaker 1>also was like very quiet and weird. Because I was

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<v Speaker 1>also a bad mover, Like it's not something I'm good at,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not in my skill set. I was always like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't lift really heavy things. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can run. I'll run the stairs, like there's cardio. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that help? And then so I was like doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>I would bring the boxes up the stairs. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>my my deal. But like they I treat I was

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<v Speaker 1>like very much like the dumb, weird boy. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was okay that I was quiet.

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<v Speaker 4>They were like, I don't know what's going on with him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that guy does stairs and he doesn't like.

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<v Speaker 2>Ass essentially, and then it was always kind of hind

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<v Speaker 2>is Actually being quiet is one of the biggest kept secrets.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I used to think that being quiet would make

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<v Speaker 2>people think I was weird or something. When you just

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<v Speaker 2>get used to someone being quiet, you're like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 2>the quiet one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's kind of awesome to be the quiet.

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<v Speaker 2>One and you can go unnoticed so easily, Like it's

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<v Speaker 2>so much better than trying to fit in.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, when you're quiet, because my partner's very quiet in

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<v Speaker 4>social situations or can be, everybody gets to like project

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<v Speaker 4>their own thing onto you and will be like, oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, that's sounds such a nice guy. He's just

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<v Speaker 4>so twiet and he you know, he likes birds and

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<v Speaker 4>you know he he grew up in Maine. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>like they'll just make up shit about you. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like I haven't said any of this. You

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<v Speaker 4>just like filled what you assumed I was for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I used to think my default used to be like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh someone's being quiet, they must be boring or have

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<v Speaker 2>nothing to say. I don't know, especially being in spaces

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<v Speaker 2>where in New York or whatever, where people are also

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<v Speaker 2>like dressed well and look cool. Like if someone like

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<v Speaker 2>that is being quiet, then I'm immediately like, oh, they

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm stupid, Like they they actually are so cool

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<v Speaker 2>and sophisticated that they have nothing to say to me

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm such loser. So if you just like go

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<v Speaker 2>in quiet and smoldering, maybe with a nice jacket, you're set.

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<v Speaker 4>I always have to say, try to do that, and

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it doesn't track like I'm Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 4>try to go like, oh, if I'm in a situation

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<v Speaker 4>where I feel uncomfortable or whatever, I try to go like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll just be quiet and then I'll seem cool, and

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's not working and everybody can just

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<v Speaker 4>tell I'm like uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going.

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<v Speaker 4>Enough, you know what I mean, Like I haven't crossed

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<v Speaker 4>the threshold where I'm like, oh, people are just gonna

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<v Speaker 4>think I'm cool if I'm just not talking. But I

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<v Speaker 4>think everybody's detecting that I'm feeling social anxiety.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you know. One thing that I was

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<v Speaker 1>surprised with about you is I feel like you're in

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<v Speaker 1>like life and and at work you're very You're like

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking a lot, you're big, And then I actually

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<v Speaker 1>think on stage you get like you do kind of

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<v Speaker 1>do like the cool quiet Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Interesting, I feel like I'm I honestly it changes night tonight.

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<v Speaker 4>But well because on stage sometimes I'm like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just like really tired because it will be the end

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<v Speaker 4>of the day. But like, yeah, I can play big

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<v Speaker 4>and small on stag. It just depends on the stage.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess because I was in Chicago over the weekend

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<v Speaker 4>a laugh actory, I was screaming, you know really yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so it helps it's a big room.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, there is nothing better than than going

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<v Speaker 2>big on, like if it's not your default, like sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, oh, this is my night. I'm really going

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<v Speaker 2>to become like you know Rory Scovell, right, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just going to start screaming.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like, George, I love when you go into

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<v Speaker 1>accents or something like, I'm like, yeah, I love it

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<v Speaker 1>a character George.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, when I oh my god, yeah, I think Also, Sam,

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<v Speaker 2>what you're I think the time that you saw me

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<v Speaker 2>to a said it was literally two people in the audience.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that the only time I feel like in person,

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<v Speaker 2>I believe. I think it was just a two persons

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<v Speaker 2>the only time and we were and I was just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I have nothing for.

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<v Speaker 1>These Well that was a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I think that's what it was. I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really have I think that I'm always like

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<v Speaker 4>exactly what the energy of the crowd is. So if

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<v Speaker 4>they're well, you're a mirror, I'm a mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>I that we did a show where there were only

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<v Speaker 1>two people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's fun really like actually two people.

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<v Speaker 1>Like actually two people. And it was actually one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things where I was like fuck this, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>was so mad and it was like a Sunday night.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you think they were maybe going to cant because

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<v Speaker 2>I get so angry when people don't cancel show.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so I was like, clearly this is canceled, this,

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<v Speaker 1>canceled this, and they were like, let's start whoo And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what year is it? What? How how

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<v Speaker 1>far we've come? And yet this is still happening sort.

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<v Speaker 4>Of sort of back down to earth in a it's

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<v Speaker 4>such a humbling city.

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<v Speaker 1>La, such a humbling city, Like I'm not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what though, that what you realize is

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<v Speaker 2>like that never ends. Like I have been on shows

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<v Speaker 2>with literal celebrities, you know that are like dropping in

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<v Speaker 2>or something, and they will perform in front of seven people.

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<v Speaker 2>It's and that actually is liberating to be like this

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<v Speaker 2>is not This doesn't mean I'm a loser. It just

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<v Speaker 2>means I'm part I'm in community with you know, Jenny Garoppolo.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, It means that the whole this whole community and

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<v Speaker 4>everything that we do is for loser.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, yes, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I even I mean even our show. Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>see people come on that I'm like, you're like very successful, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and now we're making you do this yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, And it's just like yeah, crawl on the

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<v Speaker 4>floor and bark like a dog and eat this like

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<v Speaker 4>slop from the ground. You know, fucking whoever is the

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<v Speaker 4>most famous person?

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<v Speaker 2>And I like say, I feel that way about literally

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<v Speaker 2>actors doing press, Like you're you're telling me Meryl Streep

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<v Speaker 2>still has to do a round table.

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<v Speaker 4>This is actually something that I've been thinking about a

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<v Speaker 4>lot lately, the idea that now if you if you

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<v Speaker 4>used to want to be famous, you'd have to go

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<v Speaker 4>on a show with a guy who was on cocaine

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<v Speaker 4>and he'd be a big band there and blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 4>and you talk about your thing and you maybe do

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit or whatever. And now it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you want your movie to have press, you better eat

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<v Speaker 4>hot wings with the like you have to. It's all

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<v Speaker 4>this like crazy bullshit that nobody care. You're like, are

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<v Speaker 4>you gonna talk about the role at all? How did

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<v Speaker 4>you prepare? How do you get into character? It's like no,

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm gonna throw hot wings at you and you

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<v Speaker 4>have to eat. It's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I actually think it's one of the ways that

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<v Speaker 2>like comedy has one, but in a bad way. Every

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<v Speaker 2>single thing now is like retweet retweet, like everything is comedy.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything is like a sketch or a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>And even on top of that, alt comedy has one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, old comedy has one, because you know, guess what's

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<v Speaker 2>completely all comedy making Viola Davis eat hot wings like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it the idea that she that that anyone has

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<v Speaker 2>to do that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's it's of a larger, greater issue where every

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<v Speaker 4>like even you know, not to get too serious, but

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<v Speaker 4>like culture itself are pology takes itself, all of it

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<v Speaker 4>like nothing's taking itself seriously anymore. This whole country is

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<v Speaker 4>just like, yeah, we're just a big joke, doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 4>Who cares said that doesn't matter. It's like, well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you can't be you can't be comedy. We can be comedy.

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<v Speaker 4>We can't have everything be comedy because then nothing matters

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<v Speaker 4>at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's everything's irony pilled I, Georgia, are you watching the

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<v Speaker 1>season of drag Race? Yes, I want to explain so

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<v Speaker 1>There's this queen right now named Joella and she is

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<v Speaker 1>like really really not doing well, and but she is

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<v Speaker 1>so so confident and she keeps to literally tell other

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<v Speaker 1>girls of their face like I hope you're not lipsticking

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<v Speaker 1>against me because I'm gonna fucking beat your ass and like,

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<v Speaker 1>but meanwhile, she's like can barely like dance or turn

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Like she told girls their talent was bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but she did like the most basic like I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>queen I snatched the crown song you've ever heard, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I've like she makes me feel a rage that

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<v Speaker 1>is like unhealthy. And but I've been like going to

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<v Speaker 1>Reddit to be like, Okay, let's see, let's see what

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:09.000
<v Speaker 1>other people are saying, can't do that, And people are like,

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<v Speaker 1>finally TV is back. What finally reality shows are reality

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<v Speaker 1>ing again? And I'm like, not everything's a bit oh right.

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<v Speaker 4>They're just like, oh, well, it's bad and it's good

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<v Speaker 4>and I like that it's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's bad and it's crazy and it's good TV.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, it's not good TV, Like I mean

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<v Speaker 1>in the sense it's like comedic, but it's like these

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<v Speaker 1>girls work their whole fucking lives to get here. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like their big moment. I don't know. It bums

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<v Speaker 1>me out in a weird way. I don't know. They

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<v Speaker 1>have that distance, like they're not real housewives. They're like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do something.

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<v Speaker 2>They're trying to do. Wonder if it's like, is our

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<v Speaker 2>only form of resistance to be the most humorless version

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<v Speaker 2>of ourselves. It's like, if everything is a joke, then

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<v Speaker 2>is the most radical thing you can do to like

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<v Speaker 2>wear a black turtleneck and a scarf and walk into

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<v Speaker 2>a room and be like, well, I thought that was absolute,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I thought that production of the Seagull was

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<v Speaker 2>middle brow direk.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like, then you'll be Jeremy Strong and yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, because Jeremy Strong, it becomes a meme.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it, Jeremy that you can't you can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, it like goes into the comedy machine and

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<v Speaker 2>you're just spat out and you're a joke again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, either either you're in control of the joke or

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<v Speaker 4>you're not. Like it's yeah, it's really it's it's fucked up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really impossible.

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<v Speaker 4>Because it's like because the way even like the literal

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<v Speaker 4>like evil people that we have seen in the news lately,

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<v Speaker 4>we're like, are still just like, well, haha, it's ironic.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I don't know. I was being random.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, what is that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, And and it's one thing to make those jokes

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<v Speaker 2>in public and to be like, okay, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, trying to get my reposts for the day,

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<v Speaker 2>but it actually has now I've internalized that mode so

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<v Speaker 2>much that I can't watch the inauguration without being like

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<v Speaker 2>Millennia slaying with that hat.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like I'm thinking, oh god, everything is so depressing,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I make it funny? And then I like

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<v Speaker 2>spit out some joke. It's like my default mode is

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<v Speaker 2>chicken chop date.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, It's like I'm not even internalizing anything emotionally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>But then it's also then you feel then I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like a deep emptiness inside of me. And then and

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<v Speaker 4>then it's like, well, what am I then going to like,

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<v Speaker 4>as you said, be serious, because that nobody likes that.

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:33.440
<v Speaker 4>Everybody's like that's so annoying. And then everybody will be like, well,

0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:37.120
<v Speaker 4>that person thinks they're so self important and pretentious, and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want that either, and I'm just trying to live.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, this is okay, this is exactly I'm realized. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being the quiet kid on social media. Like I'm literally

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like being quiet, yeah, because I'm like, this is

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>this is too much like like everyone being super ironic

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>and like gay guy about like serious things and everyone

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>being like really sincere about serious things. I'm like, both

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<v Speaker 1>are wrong? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>How do you do both?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll be quiet.

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna start. I'm gonna take a video of myself

0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 2>rolling my eyes and then saying shut up and just

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 2>posted whenever I see anything on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you, George. I know we can't necessarily get into it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you had a screed this week that was so juicy.

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<v Speaker 2>What was my screed?

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<v Speaker 1>When you posted about like everyone sharing misinformation.

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<v Speaker 2>And oh god, moment of weakness.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so good. Actually, I was glad.

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<v Speaker 2>I want everyone to know I am on the verge

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<v Speaker 2>of posting a screen every moment of my life.

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 1>I am.

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:39.240
<v Speaker 2>I am in manifesto mode and everyone is lucky that

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<v Speaker 2>I have some level of self control and I only

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<v Speaker 2>do it once a year.

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<v Speaker 4>George, I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>You so much, man, everything No, Like it's crazy how

0:30:46.840 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a like you know, like a guy

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 3>and like the basement watching everyone and be like a

0:30:54.800 --> 0:30:57.080
<v Speaker 3>voiceover of American Cycle or something and just being.

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<v Speaker 2>Like these people walking around me like don't know anything.

0:31:00.800 --> 0:31:02.000
<v Speaker 2>Like that's how I feel every day.

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<v Speaker 4>You always have to be like, let me ask you,

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<v Speaker 4>do you feel unknowable to your fellow man?

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and guess what they are unknoble to me?

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 3>Mmm.

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:17.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm literally like how you see you interact with someone

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:19.840
<v Speaker 2>in real life and you're like we're friends, I've known

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 2>you forever, blah blah, and then it's like, wait a minute,

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 2>you fel for you know, like what the essentially what

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 2>is the equivalent of like a viral post. That's like

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<v Speaker 2>if I post this, I don't grant Mark Zuckerberg so

0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 2>to my face, and this is happening just like on

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 2>a daily basis, and I just have to like scroll

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<v Speaker 2>past that and be like, hey, like want to get

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:42.000
<v Speaker 2>a drink later. Meanwhile, I know that this person is

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<v Speaker 2>a complete moron.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, oh god, But then just stay engaged with it

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:49.240
<v Speaker 4>because I have, you know, we have internet job, and

0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 4>I also am just addicted to Twitter and stuff. To

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 4>stay engaged with it. You go, well, this is bad

0:31:54.120 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 4>for me, so I should be off of it. And

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:58.959
<v Speaker 4>then also you go, yeah, it's bad whatever on an

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:02.320
<v Speaker 4>individual level, but this is what is happening with everybody.

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 4>So what am I supposed to do? Just be like, oh,

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 4>well I don't engage with that. I don't care whatever.

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 4>It's like, Well, it doesn't matter whether you do or don't.

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:14.000
<v Speaker 4>Culture is still like devolving anyway, and you can just

0:32:14.040 --> 0:32:17.040
<v Speaker 4>be not aware of it and you're still going down

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 4>that toilet train. Man, I am so fun to hang

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 4>out with, such a fun conversation.

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:25.120
<v Speaker 1>It's awesome, George. I just have to say the sentence

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<v Speaker 1>where you were like, you're in your thirties, like you

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>are not young enough to like be stupid and you're

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<v Speaker 1>not old enough to be stupid about the Internet, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I did say sorry, I do stand by this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, if you're in your if you're like

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<v Speaker 2>let's say twenty seven through forty, okay, you are like

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<v Speaker 2>at this point you should know how the media ecosystem works,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you are not eighteen who like you know, is

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<v Speaker 2>like grew up with it, you know, grew up with

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<v Speaker 2>it and doesn't know any different and can't remember newspapers

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<v Speaker 2>and you're also not like a boomer who is confused

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<v Speaker 2>by it all because it's so new, Like, how how

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.520
<v Speaker 2>have you not developed media literacy? How do you literally see?

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean like a post that is and a not

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<v Speaker 2>the one that I sent you Sam, that's like about

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<v Speaker 2>the air quality in LA And it's a post that

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<v Speaker 2>is an anonymous text message where someone is saying lung

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<v Speaker 2>doctors I know are saying you should do this, like

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<v Speaker 2>lung doctors. You are someone with a bachelor's degree.

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<v Speaker 1>Lung doctors, you know. And the way that this image

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<v Speaker 1>like deteriorated as it got screenshotted in share and it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, what are we doing? Yeah, that was fucking crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>One time my friend shared a post the same thing

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<v Speaker 4>that was one of these you know, that sort of

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 4>holistic to alt right pipeline that's like, oh, we're so

0:33:42.320 --> 0:33:44.840
<v Speaker 4>the rfk's of he's the king of these people.

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>My friends one time shared a post that, uh was

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<v Speaker 4>like things that they that hurt your body that they

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<v Speaker 4>like don't want you to know about, and it was

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<v Speaker 4>just like, you know, uh, prescription medications, Uh, you know,

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 4>fast food is like a long list of actual stuff

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<v Speaker 4>and then in like sort of close to the bottom

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<v Speaker 4>of the list. One of them was legitimately feminism was

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<v Speaker 4>one of the things, and this is this was a

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<v Speaker 4>feminist person that like it, believes like just shared it

0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:20.680
<v Speaker 4>and I replied being like feminism WT Like what the fuck?

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:24.399
<v Speaker 4>She was like, Oh, I didn't read the whole thing.

0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh my god, and I love I.

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:31.359
<v Speaker 4>Love her very much, but I'm also like, what are you?

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>What is going on?

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 4>We gotta do better.

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<v Speaker 2>This is cut. Well, here's the Okay, we do need

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<v Speaker 2>to I want to do our first segment. I want

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 2>to get into your topic. But yeah, one last thing

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 2>I want to say. I was talking to Sam about this, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of this boils down to people

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<v Speaker 2>thinking everything needs to be done publicly. It's like you

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<v Speaker 2>can read something and then not also tell everyone you

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<v Speaker 2>read it. We read things all the time. I consume

0:34:56.880 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 2>things all the time. I consume TV shows, books, articles, whatever.

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.359
<v Speaker 2>Just because you read something doesn't mean you then have

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<v Speaker 2>to repost it, right, Yeah, if you're a little unsure

0:35:06.239 --> 0:35:07.520
<v Speaker 2>about it, just take a beat.

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Take a beat.

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 2>There is this idea that like something is more legitimate

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<v Speaker 2>or real if it's done in public, whether it's reading, learning,

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 2>having a conversation like shouting at a friend. It's just

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 2>like it's fine to not ever to not have everything be.

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<v Speaker 4>In public, right, I mean, and obviously like it makes

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 4>it less legitimate, right because it's like, yes, well you're

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:28.360
<v Speaker 4>also performing it.

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well we took down culture. Wow, that was easy.

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:34.839
<v Speaker 4>We fixed it.

0:35:35.280 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 2>That was awesome.

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 4>That's what we do.

0:35:36.719 --> 0:35:37.879
<v Speaker 2>See you in twenty twenty eight.

0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's sar our first segment, Scyla. Our first segment

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>is called Straight Shooters, and in this segment, we're going

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:50.719
<v Speaker 1>to ask you a serious of rapid fire questions to

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 1>gage your familiarity with and complicity in straight culture. It's

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:55.719
<v Speaker 1>baically this thing or this other thing. And the only

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:57.840
<v Speaker 1>rule is you can't ask a single follow up question

0:35:58.320 --> 0:35:59.880
<v Speaker 1>or we will post about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I agree to your terms.

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:12.399
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Skyler a novella or a Nobella Peace Prize, Nobella Pie.

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:18.479
<v Speaker 2>Guitar Hero or Inbox zero Guitar Hero.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, y'all you guys, folks or comrades.

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:28.280
<v Speaker 2>Comrades, the US open or the UPS is closed.

0:36:28.840 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 1>UPS is closed. Luca Guadanino or San Pellegrino.

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:35.759
<v Speaker 4>San pellogrino, because I don't know what the first one was.

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, let's return to we're returning to this. Yeah,

0:36:39.600 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 1>circle back.

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:44.080
<v Speaker 2>French kiss or the stench of piss French kiss?

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:48.919
<v Speaker 1>Wow, Okay, sipping lacroix, or kissing a boy, kissing a boy?

0:36:49.000 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>My book is out in paperback. Or my tooth is

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:53.800
<v Speaker 2>full of dental plaque.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, my tooth is full of dental plaque.

0:36:59.160 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we rate our guests on a skill of one

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 1>to one thousand doves. And I think there was a

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 1>real confidence. And it's your first time on the podcast,

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:12.280
<v Speaker 1>and and yet you were considering, you weren't just guessing blindly.

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go nine hundred and twelve duves.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Nice. Almost nine to eleven.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn.

0:37:17.760 --> 0:37:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I know you would have really.

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<v Speaker 4>Liked I really would have loved it. It was nine

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 4>to eleven. But that's okay. No, it's like one more.

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:22.759
<v Speaker 4>It's like the day after.

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<v Speaker 1>So he loves nine to eleven, Georgia. I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this like to say more?

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:31.799
<v Speaker 4>I love nine eleven? I was you know, I was

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<v Speaker 4>in the tower.

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 1>He was in the towers.

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:34.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's fun.

0:37:34.560 --> 0:37:37.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he loves it. It's oh, let's spread that that

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:39.279
<v Speaker 4>I was in the tower. Yeah, yeah, I could. I

0:37:39.320 --> 0:37:40.360
<v Speaker 4>could probably tour off that.

0:37:40.480 --> 0:37:43.480
<v Speaker 1>Who was that one guy who's the comedian Steve Steve?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, I don't know why he said. I would

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:48.800
<v Speaker 4>have just kept at that point.

0:37:49.120 --> 0:37:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh keep it up. No one's back checking.

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 4>I mean he's he's eating away at and whatever I

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:56.400
<v Speaker 4>have a question about.

0:37:57.200 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't.

0:37:57.680 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 4>I can't ask questions about the game.

0:37:59.320 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, well, I feel like I got like blade runnered,

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<v Speaker 4>like where I got intake form? Was this uh psychological

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 4>yes test?

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's exactly what it is. It's sort of a test.

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:17.319
<v Speaker 2>It's a test. It's sort of like only we know

0:38:18.120 --> 0:38:20.359
<v Speaker 2>what your answers say about you. We would never make

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 2>that public. That would be against hippa. Okay, but it's

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's sort of uh, you can't if you

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 2>think too hard about it, then you can't trust the

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:33.360
<v Speaker 2>results anymore. It's like hitting your knee with that little

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 2>thing that the doctor has and then testing your reflexes.

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:39.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So if I feel like it was like a yeah,

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:41.880
<v Speaker 4>a deep peek into my subconscious, but will never truly

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 4>know what it means because it can't be translated into

0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 4>note words that humans understand.

0:38:45.920 --> 0:38:48.560
<v Speaker 1>No correct, but people, people will see, people will see

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>something in you.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys are doing big work here.

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:54.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll say that, thank you. Should we get into.

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<v Speaker 2>The topic, George, I would, I would adore that.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Skyler, you texted me this morning two topics, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know which one you've landed on or if

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.439
<v Speaker 1>there's a secret third one that you've changed your mind

0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:06.520
<v Speaker 1>had gone to. But I would love to hear what

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:07.359
<v Speaker 1>your topic is.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, here's a secret third one that it's speaking to me.

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<v Speaker 4>The most hometown pride.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, I love that hometown pride and what speaks to

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:18.680
<v Speaker 1>you as straight about that?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that the idea of a great feeling about

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:27.879
<v Speaker 4>your hometown or like a strong hometown pride, it feels

0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:31.319
<v Speaker 4>so for lack of a better term, normy pilled where

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:35.680
<v Speaker 4>you don't have anything else to build your pride or

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:38.320
<v Speaker 4>identity off of, or if it's like a big portion

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:41.200
<v Speaker 4>of your identity that's not from one of these cities

0:39:41.200 --> 0:39:43.320
<v Speaker 4>that already have a big amount of pride, the Chicago,

0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:46.920
<v Speaker 4>New York whatever I'm talking like anywhere else, it feels

0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:51.800
<v Speaker 4>like very like a lot of people I think myself

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:55.959
<v Speaker 4>included have certain traumas directly associated with where they're from,

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 4>because it can be some like whatever place, and I

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:03.479
<v Speaker 4>feel hometown pride is just this like thing that sort

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<v Speaker 4>of means nothing and also feels a little like jingoistic

0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:11.840
<v Speaker 4>a little, and so it just feels very straight. It

0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:15.239
<v Speaker 4>just feels very like I have not actually made that

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:17.760
<v Speaker 4>much analysis of why I feel the way I feel,

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 4>and I just am gonna be into fucking you know wherever.

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:24.879
<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm from Boston, Okay.

0:40:25.280 --> 0:40:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, there is something where it like very quickly

0:40:29.360 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 1>turns to anger or something that really defensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeaheah, you're not. I mean, obviously, people in big cities

0:40:37.560 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 2>also have pride. I'm not saying if you're in New

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 2>York or you don't say, like, I'm from New York.

0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 2>But but there's something about the hometown pride of smaller

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:48.840
<v Speaker 2>places that is like you are ready to fight.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Yeah, George, where are you from? Where'd you grow up?

0:40:51.840 --> 0:40:55.520
<v Speaker 2>So I mostly it's I mostly grew up in Greece,

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:58.120
<v Speaker 2>but then I spent seven years or like six and

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:00.400
<v Speaker 2>a half years in America in New Jersey and a

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:04.400
<v Speaker 2>very sort of like middle of the road suburbia in

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:08.000
<v Speaker 2>New Jersey, and so hometop ride was always very interesting

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 2>to me because in my mind, I was like, Okay, well,

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 2>the years I spent in New Jersey, that could have

0:41:11.920 --> 0:41:15.279
<v Speaker 2>literally been anywhere, like it had no defining elements. And

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 2>then when we moved back to Greece when I was

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:20.120
<v Speaker 2>in high school, and that was genuinely such a big

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:22.160
<v Speaker 2>difference in my life, and I was speaking a different language,

0:41:22.200 --> 0:41:26.240
<v Speaker 2>and I was so aware of like my Greek heritage everywhere,

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:28.160
<v Speaker 2>and it's drilled into you that we came from the

0:41:28.200 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 2>ancient Greeks and like modern democracy was invented in Greece

0:41:31.239 --> 0:41:33.920
<v Speaker 2>and blah blah blah. And so it was so shocking

0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 2>to me when I moved back to America to see

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:40.440
<v Speaker 2>people be proud of Wisconsin. No offense, but I was

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 2>just like, wait, But to me, I would never think

0:41:43.080 --> 0:41:45.880
<v Speaker 2>of if my two hometowns are Greece and New Jersey,

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Like New Jersey was just sort of like a waiting room, right,

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:51.799
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean?

0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:55.080
<v Speaker 4>No, exactly, It's well, and that's also you know, there's

0:41:55.840 --> 0:41:59.919
<v Speaker 4>ethnic identity and ancient history involved in that and all of.

0:41:59.840 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 2>This and by the way, being proud of being from

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 2>Greece is also reactionary and also quasi racist if done

0:42:05.160 --> 0:42:07.520
<v Speaker 2>the wrong way. Like I'm not saying sure, like literally

0:42:07.520 --> 0:42:10.920
<v Speaker 2>being proud of like Greek statues and like the Adonis

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 2>is you know, it's it's skip hopping a way to

0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 2>being all right, Like right, I get that. But there's

0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:20.919
<v Speaker 2>something about like, Okay, let's think of this one thing

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:24.280
<v Speaker 2>that I that is a completely random fact about myself

0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.279
<v Speaker 2>that it just so happened that this is where my

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 2>parents gave birth to me and have that be the

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:32.280
<v Speaker 2>number one thing about myself. That's almost like it's almost

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.080
<v Speaker 2>like giving up before you can even make an effort

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 2>to do something right.

0:42:35.440 --> 0:42:39.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you're Sam, You're from Misser. I moved around

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:43.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot, Okay, Michigan, like Virginia, Michigan, Indiana, Ohio.

0:42:43.680 --> 0:42:45.600
<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, so just Midwest generally.

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm mid West generally with a little bit of Southern.

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 4>Do you feel pride?

0:42:51.040 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Never? Because I moved so much that it was always

0:42:56.200 --> 0:42:58.960
<v Speaker 1>like everywhere I went, people would be like, well, this

0:42:59.040 --> 0:43:02.239
<v Speaker 1>is how we do things, and I was like not everywhere,

0:43:02.520 --> 0:43:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Like I like had too much, you know for a

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 1>small town in Indiana, I had too much global knowledge

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:10.960
<v Speaker 1>right where I was like, well, I've seen a place

0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:14.719
<v Speaker 1>with a mall in Virginia, and actually they like there

0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:16.520
<v Speaker 1>are whole new stories you haven't even heard of.

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 4>Right, everybody who lives in a place, they do think

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:24.440
<v Speaker 4>that that place is that They're like it's the best mall,

0:43:24.480 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 4>like oh, we have the local joint, like, uh, Freddie's.

0:43:29.120 --> 0:43:31.799
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, the food at Freddie's the best to

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:35.640
<v Speaker 4>sauce you've ever tasted. You go, there's a million Freddy's

0:43:35.760 --> 0:43:37.160
<v Speaker 4>and you don't even know.

0:43:37.960 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I think also the moving Skyler is like part of

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the wall where I like would go and be like

0:43:43.600 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 1>because I was sort of taught like when you move,

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.319
<v Speaker 1>you are wrong, like they are right, because you'll be

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>like that's not really how things work, and it's like no, no, no,

0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:55.520
<v Speaker 1>they are right. You are joining their town. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would be like sh like be quiet until you figure

0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:02.319
<v Speaker 1>what's going on, and then just sort of be like, yes,

0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:05.600
<v Speaker 1>I also love to go to that coffee shop right

0:44:06.000 --> 0:44:08.799
<v Speaker 1>like after school or whatever. Like there was something about

0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>like they are always in the right, the customer is

0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 1>always right.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think it's like I know that people who

0:44:15.400 --> 0:44:19.719
<v Speaker 2>you know move somewhere as adults and then pretend they're

0:44:19.760 --> 0:44:21.480
<v Speaker 2>from there get a bad rap, like it would be

0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:24.160
<v Speaker 2>like me pretending I'm like a New Yorker and wearing

0:44:24.239 --> 0:44:30.400
<v Speaker 2>and being like so hometown pride on nine to eleven. Yeah, obviously, However,

0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I actually think there's something too having hometown pride for

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.520
<v Speaker 2>a place you actively chose to live in, because it

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:41.400
<v Speaker 2>says more about your personality. Like I remember, after moving

0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:43.680
<v Speaker 2>around as a kid, the first place I as an

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:46.360
<v Speaker 2>adult was the Bay Area, which I have no like

0:44:46.760 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 2>personal connection to, but I did feel like it was

0:44:51.160 --> 0:44:54.600
<v Speaker 2>where I made my first like sort of chosen community

0:44:54.680 --> 0:44:57.880
<v Speaker 2>is where I had my first like I really felt

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:01.759
<v Speaker 2>kind of like an ownership over the neighborhood. I lived

0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 2>in the places that I frequent in, the people that

0:45:03.719 --> 0:45:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I knew, and so I felt like I was If

0:45:07.680 --> 0:45:09.440
<v Speaker 2>I would ever were ever to, like, let's say, root

0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:11.880
<v Speaker 2>for a sports team or something, I would much I

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:14.719
<v Speaker 2>would be much more likely to root for like a

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 2>San Francisco based team than like a New Jersey based one,

0:45:17.560 --> 0:45:19.359
<v Speaker 2>because that was just where my parents happened to live

0:45:19.400 --> 0:45:22.840
<v Speaker 2>at the time. I was like happy to live in

0:45:22.840 --> 0:45:25.440
<v Speaker 2>San Francisco. I chose it, and I liked it, so

0:45:25.520 --> 0:45:27.319
<v Speaker 2>obviously I'm like more happy.

0:45:27.120 --> 0:45:29.560
<v Speaker 1>You're saying biological family versus chosen family.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, biological city and chosen city. I feel the same

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:35.479
<v Speaker 4>way about Chicago. I grew up in Salt Lake City.

0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:38.880
<v Speaker 4>I moved to Chicago. I have way way more pride

0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:42.880
<v Speaker 4>for Chicago than I would of Salt Lake City because that,

0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:46.960
<v Speaker 4>I mean cultural differences aside. I still I chose here,

0:45:47.280 --> 0:45:49.759
<v Speaker 4>and I moved here at twenty and I became a

0:45:49.760 --> 0:45:53.359
<v Speaker 4>person in this city, and it feels like a much

0:45:53.400 --> 0:45:57.040
<v Speaker 4>more real city where people are sort of intended to

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:00.560
<v Speaker 4>live and try to be their own person, where like

0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:03.400
<v Speaker 4>where I grew up is just like this is what

0:46:03.520 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 4>is So it's the most this is what we do

0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:08.320
<v Speaker 4>here city of anywhere in the United States.

0:46:08.320 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 2>I would say, yeah, you're also pointing to an important thing,

0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:13.560
<v Speaker 2>which is like the idea of having hometown pride is

0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 2>almost like saying that was the real me there, and

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:20.520
<v Speaker 2>so like that's it's like that those are my roots,

0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:22.920
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm proud of. Whereas I'm like, no, this

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:25.640
<v Speaker 2>is the real me. I've worked very hard to pass

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:28.480
<v Speaker 2>as like normal in New York, Like you know what,

0:46:28.719 --> 0:46:28.960
<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>What I think it is too. I think it's also

0:46:31.040 --> 0:46:33.480
<v Speaker 4>like the same thing of being like, well, I'm a

0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:36.719
<v Speaker 4>Saveris and I'm a Taggart, like just like being all

0:46:36.760 --> 0:46:41.239
<v Speaker 4>about like lineage, which is like, yeah, but you are

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:44.839
<v Speaker 4>as an individual and now I'm thinking about it individualism

0:46:44.920 --> 0:46:46.880
<v Speaker 4>versus collectivism and changing my tune a little bit, but

0:46:47.080 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 4>you as an individual, you as an individual, that doesn't

0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:54.200
<v Speaker 4>mean anything like being like what, this is what we've done,

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:56.000
<v Speaker 4>this is who we are, this is what I'm It's

0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:58.520
<v Speaker 4>like that is true on a certain level, but on

0:46:58.600 --> 0:47:02.759
<v Speaker 4>another level, it's just like you you are not a

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:04.360
<v Speaker 4>part of any of that that had nothing to do

0:47:04.440 --> 0:47:06.440
<v Speaker 4>with you. You're a result of it, and you can

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 4>acknowledge that, but it just you know, But I also

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:11.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't care about family. I'm adopted, so I don't

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.880
<v Speaker 4>have any sort of I don't have any like specific

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:18.080
<v Speaker 4>like oh my name, my family name, my blood whatever.

0:47:18.440 --> 0:47:20.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't give a fuck about any of that.

0:47:21.320 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm like, I think the weirdest something happens also

0:47:25.320 --> 0:47:29.279
<v Speaker 1>as you age that I've noticed among peers where it's

0:47:29.280 --> 0:47:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like even the people that were like I fucking hate

0:47:31.000 --> 0:47:34.560
<v Speaker 1>my hometown, like you give them like eight years and

0:47:34.560 --> 0:47:38.680
<v Speaker 1>they're like I actually love this town in Michigan, and

0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:40.640
<v Speaker 1>they're like, actually, it's like a really nice place to

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:43.480
<v Speaker 1>raise children, and it like becomes this thing where like,

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:45.520
<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong, like where my parents live in

0:47:45.560 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Michigan now is very nice because it's like on the

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:49.680
<v Speaker 1>water and blah blah blah that you're like, oh, this

0:47:49.719 --> 0:47:52.200
<v Speaker 1>is cute and I see it now, but I still

0:47:52.239 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 1>would never live there, Like I couldn't, Like what would

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I do?

0:47:56.360 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 4>Right, There's I mean, there's more to life we chased.

0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:03.719
<v Speaker 4>I think we're also I don't know, from being ostracized

0:48:03.760 --> 0:48:05.839
<v Speaker 4>in one way or another, moving around or whatever. We're

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:09.520
<v Speaker 4>like chasing a certain high that you just cannot get

0:48:09.600 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 4>in Michigan on the lake unless you like jet ski

0:48:12.120 --> 0:48:12.960
<v Speaker 4>a lot or something.

0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's tough. I don't know, George, how do you

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:18.359
<v Speaker 1>feel about that?

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:22.719
<v Speaker 2>No, it's I'm I was struck by what Skyler said

0:48:22.719 --> 0:48:27.200
<v Speaker 2>about like individualism versus collectivism, because I do agree that

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:30.520
<v Speaker 2>that that sort of complicates the argument that we're making,

0:48:30.719 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 2>right that it's like, well, yes, we can't completely leave

0:48:35.200 --> 0:48:38.880
<v Speaker 2>behind who we are and only be this like you

0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:44.279
<v Speaker 2>know the architect in the fountain Head, Like, yes, we

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:46.560
<v Speaker 2>are all part of the community we came from. We

0:48:46.600 --> 0:48:49.600
<v Speaker 2>are all part of our family in some way. Everywhere

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:55.480
<v Speaker 2>we've lived like stays with us. So what So, okay,

0:48:55.520 --> 0:48:58.960
<v Speaker 2>what is the right amount to respect your past? That question?

0:49:00.080 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 4>It's like my main struggle in life.

0:49:04.280 --> 0:49:05.960
<v Speaker 2>I was about to be like, it's what makes you you,

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:10.279
<v Speaker 2>but it's not. That's it's not, but it is. I

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:12.800
<v Speaker 2>think like how happy you are at any given time

0:49:13.400 --> 0:49:17.799
<v Speaker 2>has to do largely with how you have chosen to

0:49:17.840 --> 0:49:21.200
<v Speaker 2>incorporate your past with your present, because you can get

0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:24.200
<v Speaker 2>way caught up in like nostalgia of what has come before,

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:29.400
<v Speaker 2>or you can ignore it so much that you that

0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 2>it's almost like a trauma that you've severed, and then

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:36.200
<v Speaker 2>you're being this like dead eyed, like forward looking person.

0:49:36.520 --> 0:49:38.840
<v Speaker 4>Well, I have a lot of thoughts about this because

0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 4>I also think that this is sort of I think

0:49:42.040 --> 0:49:45.600
<v Speaker 4>the whole past present thing is is is sort of

0:49:45.640 --> 0:49:51.480
<v Speaker 4>the definition of like what I have been creatively or whatever,

0:49:51.680 --> 0:49:53.880
<v Speaker 4>because like you know, all my stand up is about

0:49:54.200 --> 0:49:57.759
<v Speaker 4>mormonn adoption whatever, all that bullshit. So all of that

0:49:58.080 --> 0:50:01.200
<v Speaker 4>I have very complicated feelings about and trauma around, and

0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:05.279
<v Speaker 4>so you want to sort of like decry that and go,

0:50:05.560 --> 0:50:08.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm not I'm not these things or whatever. I'm not

0:50:08.760 --> 0:50:11.719
<v Speaker 4>fully defined by them. And at the same time, it's like, well,

0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:16.800
<v Speaker 4>if everything that I have done is either a reaction

0:50:17.000 --> 0:50:19.880
<v Speaker 4>to this or not, either it is a reaction to this,

0:50:20.360 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 4>So you have to respect the things that have defined you.

0:50:25.400 --> 0:50:28.720
<v Speaker 4>But I also don't know if you get so bogged

0:50:28.719 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 4>down in them where it's just like I don't know.

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:32.399
<v Speaker 4>You can only be who you are, and you can

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:35.279
<v Speaker 4>only be where you're from, and you can acknowledge that

0:50:35.280 --> 0:50:37.320
<v Speaker 4>you didn't have a choice in that and then take agency,

0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:40.640
<v Speaker 4>But then also can't just be like fuck it, like

0:50:41.239 --> 0:50:43.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't give a shit about any of this.

0:50:43.120 --> 0:50:46.319
<v Speaker 1>This is so like something about this is carry Bradshaw to.

0:50:46.360 --> 0:50:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Me, there's something like really something about it is like

0:50:49.000 --> 0:50:51.120
<v Speaker 2>we'll talk about someone who doesn't have a past, literally

0:50:51.200 --> 0:50:51.879
<v Speaker 2>where is she from?

0:50:52.200 --> 0:50:53.279
<v Speaker 4>Meanwhile across town?

0:50:53.320 --> 0:50:55.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's sort of like is it possible to have

0:50:55.480 --> 0:50:59.719
<v Speaker 1>a future without a past? Like something so like is

0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:02.040
<v Speaker 1>it possible to look at where you've been from and

0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:04.960
<v Speaker 1>felt and feel nothing about it? Like can I ever

0:51:05.000 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 1>forgive big?

0:51:07.200 --> 0:51:07.759
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:51:07.800 --> 0:51:10.120
<v Speaker 2>Well this is interesting though, like the idea of that

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:12.840
<v Speaker 2>there is being defined by your past in a hometown prideway.

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.719
<v Speaker 2>And there's being defined by your past in a UH

0:51:16.560 --> 0:51:19.799
<v Speaker 2>resentment way, Yes, there are. It's you can also be

0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 2>so driven by your grievances about your past that that

0:51:24.280 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 2>also defines you. And so is that.

0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:28.680
<v Speaker 1>Like?

0:51:29.520 --> 0:51:34.240
<v Speaker 2>Is that straight or gay? Also? And is being neutral

0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:36.680
<v Speaker 2>about your path like like basically a rank from gata

0:51:36.719 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 2>strait being attached to your past in a hometown prideway,

0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:42.279
<v Speaker 2>being attached to your past in a resentment way, and

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:44.959
<v Speaker 2>having completely neutral feelings about your past in a Carrie

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Bradshaw way.

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, obviously it's straight to care about like to love

0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:51.839
<v Speaker 1>your past. Yes, it's gay to.

0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 2>Hate your past, to hate your past. And then neutral

0:51:54.760 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 2>is by I've never met a by person who's neutral.

0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if anyone is neutral.

0:52:07.440 --> 0:52:09.840
<v Speaker 2>I guess neutral is the wrong word. I think I

0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 2>mean more like acceptand no, it's no, it's the opposite

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:16.719
<v Speaker 2>of acceptance. It's like having a block, you know what

0:52:16.719 --> 0:52:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean. I think that traumato.

0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:22.360
<v Speaker 4>I also think that is defined by like how much

0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:26.520
<v Speaker 4>did you, for lack of a better term, hate your past?

0:52:26.600 --> 0:52:29.279
<v Speaker 4>Which a lot of people I think go through this

0:52:29.320 --> 0:52:33.759
<v Speaker 4>life experiencing UH and they don't have any sort of

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:36.279
<v Speaker 4>resentment of where they're I've just been like saying on

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:39.040
<v Speaker 4>stage recently, like how is everybody's childhood good?

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Bad?

0:52:39.239 --> 0:52:41.160
<v Speaker 4>Or neutral? And a lot of people will just be

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:45.440
<v Speaker 4>like good. It's like, oh, yeah, so there's not when

0:52:45.480 --> 0:52:50.400
<v Speaker 4>there's not something to repel against in your hometown, Freddy's

0:52:50.440 --> 0:52:52.600
<v Speaker 4>is the best place and you don't really need anything else.

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:55.440
<v Speaker 4>I think that it comes from a lack inside of

0:52:55.480 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 4>myself that I felt like I wanted to issue where

0:52:58.120 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 4>I was at and get too. Not that that lack

0:53:01.800 --> 0:53:04.360
<v Speaker 4>was bad, but I did need to fulfill something.

0:53:05.480 --> 0:53:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's it could have been tight to love the hometown.

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:12.799
<v Speaker 4>Could have been awesome. I think if we were, if

0:53:12.840 --> 0:53:15.200
<v Speaker 4>we were all in our hometowns not talking about this

0:53:15.320 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 4>at all, I bet there is and you know we're

0:53:18.719 --> 0:53:21.000
<v Speaker 4>probably all you know in cells or whatever, but sure,

0:53:21.080 --> 0:53:24.040
<v Speaker 4>I think maybe we're all a lot happier because we're

0:53:24.080 --> 0:53:25.720
<v Speaker 4>like a little dumber.

0:53:25.640 --> 0:53:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Little dumber, probably maybe got a little house. Yeah, who knows.

0:53:28.920 --> 0:53:30.759
<v Speaker 4>Not that you're dumb to love your hometown, but I

0:53:30.760 --> 0:53:32.239
<v Speaker 4>think a lot of the people who do love their

0:53:32.280 --> 0:53:35.399
<v Speaker 4>hometown are pretty dumb. There is a correlation, right, They

0:53:35.480 --> 0:53:36.880
<v Speaker 4>like have an American flag up.

0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:42.560
<v Speaker 2>I just want to say I actually I know that

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:45.080
<v Speaker 2>we're generally talking about like smaller towns, smaller cities, but

0:53:45.120 --> 0:53:47.440
<v Speaker 2>I actually would extend that to people that are from

0:53:47.960 --> 0:53:49.959
<v Speaker 2>i don't know, in New York or Los Angeles orch Icago.

0:53:50.040 --> 0:53:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:53:50.239 --> 0:53:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, like, I actually think it's equally annoying, if not

0:53:53.719 --> 0:53:56.239
<v Speaker 2>more so, when someone you know grew up in the

0:53:56.280 --> 0:53:58.719
<v Speaker 2>Upper West Side and is obsessed with being from New York.

0:53:58.920 --> 0:54:03.000
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm like genuinely so jealous of those people in

0:54:03.040 --> 0:54:06.160
<v Speaker 1>a way that is like kind of unhealthy, Like it's

0:54:06.160 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 1>almost being jealous of someone with like really rich parents.

0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, yeah, I'm so jealous that you got

0:54:11.120 --> 0:54:14.960
<v Speaker 1>to like start fulfilled, like you get to love your

0:54:14.960 --> 0:54:17.239
<v Speaker 1>hometown and you get to be in New York City. Right,

0:54:17.440 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like that's not fair.

0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:22.680
<v Speaker 2>But then a lot of those people, it's so difficult

0:54:22.680 --> 0:54:25.719
<v Speaker 2>to satisfy them. Like I know so many people that

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:28.719
<v Speaker 2>like I remember like going to college and being like

0:54:28.880 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 2>so enamored with being on a big campus and all

0:54:31.360 --> 0:54:32.640
<v Speaker 2>this stuff. And then I would meet people that are

0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:35.120
<v Speaker 2>from Manhattan and they're like, oh, this is just like

0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:37.239
<v Speaker 2>my high school. Like wait, you know, like.

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:41.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's too much stimulus out the gate. But yeah,

0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:46.760
<v Speaker 4>feel similar resentments. I just feel I'm so resentful sometimes

0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:49.680
<v Speaker 4>of anybody who's not where I'm from, Like from where

0:54:49.719 --> 0:54:51.799
<v Speaker 4>I'm from, where I go, like, you don't know what

0:54:51.840 --> 0:54:55.319
<v Speaker 4>it was like, it's like so weird. That is indescribable

0:54:55.360 --> 0:54:57.839
<v Speaker 4>until you go there and then go just like man,

0:54:58.000 --> 0:55:01.239
<v Speaker 4>just being from like oh from I'm from Chicago and

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:04.960
<v Speaker 4>everybody like goes there and loves it's just oh, sounds awesome.

0:55:05.320 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 4>So much culture, you know, so many things, you're worldly

0:55:08.600 --> 0:55:11.719
<v Speaker 4>without ever really trying. It's harder for people to be

0:55:11.880 --> 0:55:15.440
<v Speaker 4>like ignorant about the existence of other people. It's ultimately

0:55:15.480 --> 0:55:17.600
<v Speaker 4>good to be exposed to a lot of people, and

0:55:17.640 --> 0:55:20.160
<v Speaker 4>if you're not, it's very like what so that pride

0:55:20.239 --> 0:55:23.200
<v Speaker 4>is at least warranted. But then it then it feels

0:55:23.239 --> 0:55:26.319
<v Speaker 4>like if you're prideful of those places, it kind of

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:28.440
<v Speaker 4>feels like you're sort of flashing all the money that

0:55:28.480 --> 0:55:31.640
<v Speaker 4>you have in my face. It's like, oh, yeah, I'm

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:33.279
<v Speaker 4>from a great place and I love that.

0:55:34.000 --> 0:55:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I'm cool and smart. Yeah yeah, It's like.

0:55:38.160 --> 0:55:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, right, I mean, hometown pride only works if you're

0:55:40.440 --> 0:55:42.319
<v Speaker 2>at least the underdog.

0:55:42.120 --> 0:55:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, I mean when people stay they're from LA.

0:55:45.640 --> 0:55:49.240
<v Speaker 1>Don't even get me started the way that I'm just like, okay,

0:55:49.280 --> 0:55:52.560
<v Speaker 1>so you have it all. Like like when especially when

0:55:52.560 --> 0:55:54.160
<v Speaker 1>people are from LA and then go live in New

0:55:54.239 --> 0:55:55.640
<v Speaker 1>York and they're like, god, I love New York And

0:55:55.680 --> 0:55:58.000
<v Speaker 1>it's like, so you just like grew up sort of

0:55:58.040 --> 0:56:01.839
<v Speaker 1>like knowing about everything, having access to everything. Yeah, and

0:56:01.880 --> 0:56:04.560
<v Speaker 1>now you still have access to Like I'm like, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Have it all. Yeah, I don't know the people. I

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:10.200
<v Speaker 4>haven't even met that many people who are from LA.

0:56:10.360 --> 0:56:13.879
<v Speaker 4>It seems very because everybody we know is from not here.

0:56:14.160 --> 0:56:18.319
<v Speaker 4>It seems like a lot of those people then are like, yeah,

0:56:18.360 --> 0:56:19.960
<v Speaker 4>I mean I didn't need to leave LA. This is

0:56:19.960 --> 0:56:23.080
<v Speaker 4>where everybody ends up eventually, so we can all be

0:56:23.200 --> 0:56:27.319
<v Speaker 4>set on fire. But like those people seem to like

0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:29.880
<v Speaker 4>have want for nothing as much or just be like

0:56:30.640 --> 0:56:34.399
<v Speaker 4>I'm also thinking of like probably just rich people. That's

0:56:34.520 --> 0:56:38.200
<v Speaker 4>everybody that I've met that is from LA was pretty rich.

0:56:38.520 --> 0:56:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Sure. Oh that's so interesting.

0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I've been surprised many times meeting people from especially when

0:56:44.480 --> 0:56:46.239
<v Speaker 2>I was younger, because I met a bunch of people

0:56:46.239 --> 0:56:47.480
<v Speaker 2>from LA when I was in college because I went

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:51.000
<v Speaker 2>to college in California and I initially would think, like, wait,

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:53.120
<v Speaker 2>why are you not like hiding Montag like, because in

0:56:53.160 --> 0:56:55.720
<v Speaker 2>my mind, everyone that's from LA is on the hills.

0:56:56.040 --> 0:56:59.280
<v Speaker 2>And then you realize that, of course, as many viral

0:56:59.360 --> 0:57:02.200
<v Speaker 2>Instagram posts have reminded us during the Wild Players, not

0:57:02.360 --> 0:57:05.200
<v Speaker 2>everyone in LA is Heidi Montag. And I know so

0:57:05.320 --> 0:57:08.919
<v Speaker 2>many people that are exceedingly normal slash middle class slash

0:57:09.000 --> 0:57:12.279
<v Speaker 2>whatever that are from LA And it's actually jarring to

0:57:12.320 --> 0:57:14.479
<v Speaker 2>you because then you actually meet someone who's rich from

0:57:14.840 --> 0:57:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Dallas and they are so much more weird. Oh one

0:57:17.880 --> 0:57:19.320
<v Speaker 2>of them who's like middle class from LA.

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 1>No, that is true.

0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 2>They don't know how to act a genuinely Yeah, damn.

0:57:28.040 --> 0:57:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Me, I can't believe you.

0:57:28.800 --> 0:57:33.680
<v Speaker 4>Brought up Dallas. It's not real. Shots fire. Now I

0:57:33.720 --> 0:57:36.080
<v Speaker 4>feel like I also wasn't trying to claim that everybody

0:57:36.080 --> 0:57:38.360
<v Speaker 4>from LA is rich, obviously, I just feel like the

0:57:38.400 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 4>pieces you were. No, I'm saying that everybody from LA

0:57:42.720 --> 0:57:44.880
<v Speaker 4>is poor and they should get more rich.

0:57:45.160 --> 0:57:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Everybody from LA is perfect.

0:57:48.280 --> 0:57:50.720
<v Speaker 2>That's literally true. Everybody from LA is perfect.

0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:52.840
<v Speaker 4>No, let's be real, though, Let's be real. It's well

0:57:52.840 --> 0:57:55.320
<v Speaker 4>like whatever, rich, poor, perfect, whatever, But everyone who is

0:57:55.360 --> 0:57:58.160
<v Speaker 4>from LA is going to hell and we know now

0:57:58.520 --> 0:57:59.880
<v Speaker 4>and we know that there.

0:58:00.000 --> 0:58:01.880
<v Speaker 2>Everyone from New York is going to heaven.

0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:10.320
<v Speaker 1>Wow, I love that. Huh ah.

0:58:11.440 --> 0:58:14.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean sorry to bring up more serious things,

0:58:14.080 --> 0:58:15.400
<v Speaker 2>but there is you know.

0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:16.800
<v Speaker 1>I know this is such a serious day.

0:58:16.920 --> 0:58:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Hometown pride. I just want to say, like hometown pride

0:58:20.000 --> 0:58:23.560
<v Speaker 2>taken to its extremes, white supremacy basics literally well literally,

0:58:23.680 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 2>it's like that's where like you know, debates about the

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Confederate flag come from. It's the people being like, well

0:58:29.640 --> 0:58:33.960
<v Speaker 2>we think it's racist. No, we think it's just hometown pride.

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Well and even just like get out of my town, person,

0:58:36.880 --> 0:58:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, yeah exactly. It's very uh yeah.

0:58:40.880 --> 0:58:45.080
<v Speaker 4>It's I mean, it's identity built around like externalities that

0:58:45.440 --> 0:58:48.360
<v Speaker 4>are then taken to the extreme where you don't consider

0:58:48.400 --> 0:58:51.240
<v Speaker 4>that because you can be like, oh I am this,

0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:55.160
<v Speaker 4>and then when you push everything else away and being

0:58:55.240 --> 0:58:57.560
<v Speaker 4>like I am so, I am so that, I'm so

0:58:57.680 --> 0:59:01.520
<v Speaker 4>happy to be that. Then it's like again like going

0:59:01.560 --> 0:59:03.800
<v Speaker 4>back to like not the individual thing where you're like,

0:59:04.120 --> 0:59:07.440
<v Speaker 4>so you think you're this larger thing, but then you

0:59:07.480 --> 0:59:13.240
<v Speaker 4>think everybody else outside of your collective isn't a part

0:59:13.240 --> 0:59:16.320
<v Speaker 4>of the collective. So It's like individuality in this way

0:59:16.680 --> 0:59:19.200
<v Speaker 4>is good because then you can think of everybody as

0:59:19.240 --> 0:59:23.960
<v Speaker 4>individuals instead of just your collective being the one individual

0:59:23.960 --> 0:59:27.840
<v Speaker 4>and everybody else part of an outgroup. It's tribal, makes sense. Yeah,

0:59:28.360 --> 0:59:30.200
<v Speaker 4>it was a convoluted way to say tribal, isn't it.

0:59:30.320 --> 0:59:32.960
<v Speaker 2>And also, I mean, obviously sports fandom is part of

0:59:33.000 --> 0:59:36.680
<v Speaker 2>this whatever. But then also being proud of famous people

0:59:37.400 --> 0:59:39.960
<v Speaker 2>that are from where you are from. Yeah, I mean

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:42.160
<v Speaker 2>obviously when I was in New Jersey, like Bruce Springston

0:59:42.280 --> 0:59:44.200
<v Speaker 2>was a huge presidence. So like, if you're from Minnesota,

0:59:44.280 --> 0:59:46.440
<v Speaker 2>you think you have like a relationship with Prince. It's

0:59:46.480 --> 0:59:48.360
<v Speaker 2>like not really. He probably would have found you like

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:48.959
<v Speaker 2>pretty boring.

0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:50.520
<v Speaker 1>But at the same time you do.

0:59:53.120 --> 0:59:55.400
<v Speaker 4>He's like, Prince could have walked where I walked. You

0:59:55.480 --> 0:59:58.360
<v Speaker 4>don't understand, and that means something for some reason.

0:59:58.680 --> 1:00:01.760
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like it's almost like mass hysteria. Like everyone

1:00:01.880 --> 1:00:05.400
<v Speaker 1>in Minnesota is like Prince's ours. So princes like played

1:00:05.520 --> 1:00:08.520
<v Speaker 1>more and princes like posted more, and Prince is like

1:00:08.680 --> 1:00:10.680
<v Speaker 1>just in the culture more. So you're like, I guess

1:00:10.760 --> 1:00:12.880
<v Speaker 1>I love Prince more, and you kind of do.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're also you're also being like because he's from

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<v Speaker 4>that same place. We're talking about that collective like identity thing.

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<v Speaker 4>You go, well, that makes me part Prince, you know,

1:00:23.600 --> 1:00:25.800
<v Speaker 4>if he's from the same place as me, Prince's part me.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a tiny bit of me and Prince and a

1:00:27.800 --> 1:00:29.720
<v Speaker 4>tiny little bit of Prince in me, and that makes

1:00:29.800 --> 1:00:32.640
<v Speaker 4>me feel like I can somehow believe in myself more.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the way that will go as a hold

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<v Speaker 1>on Chicago, my needs to be Like when I lived

1:00:39.040 --> 1:00:41.520
<v Speaker 1>in Chicago, I loved will Go more than I've loved

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<v Speaker 1>anything in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and in a way that was like I look

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<v Speaker 4>back on that and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, who was I Like, Don't get me wrong,

1:00:47.880 --> 1:00:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I still like it, but like I'm not like fucking

1:00:50.240 --> 1:00:53.200
<v Speaker 1>crazy about it, right, Like I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>run me over with.

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<v Speaker 4>A truck, will go, like please, it's I mean anything

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<v Speaker 4>like and especially because so much has come there, come

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<v Speaker 4>from there, anything from there, people are gonna feel that

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<v Speaker 4>way about the fact that Michael Jordan, like the the

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<v Speaker 4>one city with the most pride got to have Michael Jordan.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, come on, It's like giving a person that

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<v Speaker 4>already has ADHD like a bunch of cocaine.

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<v Speaker 2>You also can't help yourself, Like, for example, I had,

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<v Speaker 2>I came up, I started comedy in Boston. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>interesting why I was there. I just happen to be

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<v Speaker 2>living there and I started comedy there.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds it's not interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I was Thered School.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, Sam, and I have no special I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know hometown pride for Boston, but when I hear

1:01:39.800 --> 1:01:43.160
<v Speaker 2>another comedian started in Boston, I go wild. I'm like, oh,

1:01:43.280 --> 1:01:45.240
<v Speaker 2>we are part of this. And that's actually a way

1:01:45.280 --> 1:01:49.160
<v Speaker 2>in which hometown pride. Yes, it's biological family, but it

1:01:49.240 --> 1:01:51.920
<v Speaker 2>also is chosen family because you think you're family members

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<v Speaker 2>with Prince, Like, it's actually chosen family in this way

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<v Speaker 2>where you're all in a commune together raising your children together.

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<v Speaker 2>M Yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there's also that comedian thing too, of like, yeah,

1:02:04.000 --> 1:02:05.920
<v Speaker 4>we chose to do the same thing in the same place,

1:02:06.320 --> 1:02:09.360
<v Speaker 4>so we probably had And this is the good part

1:02:09.400 --> 1:02:13.760
<v Speaker 4>about any group similar struggles. We can relate over this.

1:02:14.320 --> 1:02:17.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm probably traumatized by the similar things, and so you

1:02:17.960 --> 1:02:22.000
<v Speaker 4>can understand uniquely the contours of what my feelings are

1:02:22.480 --> 1:02:26.120
<v Speaker 4>because you had that experience, and that is what everything

1:02:26.240 --> 1:02:29.400
<v Speaker 4>creative we do writing or whatever is trying to get

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<v Speaker 4>to with other people. And then when somebody has that

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<v Speaker 4>experience where it's like, well, if you have the same

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<v Speaker 4>experience as me, I don't need to write a joke

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<v Speaker 4>explaining what that experience is for you. You just are

1:02:42.680 --> 1:02:44.880
<v Speaker 4>there with me. So like we don't even need that.

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<v Speaker 4>So the connection that we are trying to make across

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<v Speaker 4>humans and try to be less unknowable to our fellow

1:02:52.960 --> 1:02:55.520
<v Speaker 4>man is like already there. So you can be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>same place, same people. So I might be coming around

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<v Speaker 4>on hometown pride, but I am straight.

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<v Speaker 1>So whatever. Yeah, No, there's well, and it's like our

1:03:04.040 --> 1:03:06.800
<v Speaker 1>hometown pride is gay, like where we're like.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just pride.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we've invented gay pride literally.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's like where I'm not gonna be proud of

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm from, I guess I would have gay pride.

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<v Speaker 2>Well okay, but literally what you're saying, it's true. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like any kind of cultural pride, like if we have

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<v Speaker 2>pride in the fact that like like our Bruce Springsteen

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<v Speaker 2>is Judy Garland, like it's just because like she has

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<v Speaker 2>been chosen as the saint literally the community and that's literally.

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<v Speaker 1>Why like Stan culture fights so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah wow, stand culture is just hometown pride for

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<v Speaker 2>people who are not from anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, right, But I also think that pride without borders.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wow wow, No, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it is like this. I mean, the stand

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<v Speaker 4>culture thing does speak to this natural craziness of defending

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<v Speaker 4>something that is outside yourself, that's not you. You're building

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<v Speaker 4>your identity around, and it feels like we can do

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<v Speaker 4>that for anything. Where it's like the way the way

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<v Speaker 4>I see people go so hard for Nicki, like so hard,

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<v Speaker 4>the most awful for Nicki Minach, who is not even

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<v Speaker 4>for Nicki who had good hits for like a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of time a while ago. And I mean, bleep

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<v Speaker 4>it out if the nicky stands are gonna come for

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<v Speaker 4>me bar because I can't do but it's like insane

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<v Speaker 4>to me that level. But like people will do that

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<v Speaker 4>for that or like some town in Idaho. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>at least that's land. At least that's like property that

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<v Speaker 4>you can own. That's different. That's different, but it's like primordial.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just weird like this, like this like self preservation

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<v Speaker 4>has then inside like what we need to do has

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<v Speaker 4>then turned into like I'm gonna get online and bully

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<v Speaker 4>somebody for a K pop band.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, this is why we need to make homes

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<v Speaker 1>more affordable, because people just buy a home. They would

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<v Speaker 1>defend that, and they wouldn't need to defend the humanas true.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, it's almost like you're onto something. We take

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<v Speaker 4>all the housing market back, and then stand culture goes away.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we all have the need to defend. Unfortunately, humans

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<v Speaker 1>have a military.

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<v Speaker 2>No, yeah, it's a militaristic mindset. It's also an ego

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<v Speaker 2>based mindset because I think every single thing you are

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<v Speaker 2>quote proud of, it's almost like you are bringing it

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<v Speaker 2>in and now this is part of me, and now

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<v Speaker 2>this is part of me, and now this is part

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<v Speaker 2>of me, and you're making yourself like bigger and it's

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<v Speaker 2>all feeding into your ego, which then makes you feel

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<v Speaker 2>more invincible and also more offended when someone you know

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<v Speaker 2>attacks some part of you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so crazy the way I will get I don't

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<v Speaker 4>do it anymore because I'm like kind of aware of it,

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<v Speaker 4>but I feel when somebody really doesn't like something that

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<v Speaker 4>I like and goes hard at it, and then I

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<v Speaker 4>start being like, oh I guess I don't like that person.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, whoa wait a second, Like that's that's not

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<v Speaker 4>a part of me. I just like it, and they

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<v Speaker 4>hate it, and I go, well, I guess I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like you. You hate Tyler the Creator.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate you. I mean, I think it's a good

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<v Speaker 1>way to sort of weed people out something.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's true, and it does work, but it

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<v Speaker 4>is strange because it's like, well, that's also a third

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<v Speaker 4>party that has nothing to do with us, really, so

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<v Speaker 4>what are we attaching to?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's hard to tell. This sucks because I actually

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<v Speaker 1>had a point and I lost it. And don't you

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<v Speaker 1>hate that when you're podcasting and you forget what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I don't have a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn. It really sucks because it was probably the smartest

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<v Speaker 1>best point yet.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, and I knew that. I knew you were

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<v Speaker 4>going to cap it off with like the smartest best point,

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<v Speaker 4>because you always do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you wait till the end for the best point.

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<v Speaker 4>And then it sort of culminates.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, you're like, I gotta we knew that was

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<v Speaker 2>happening too, Scott. Scott. We were sort of being like

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<v Speaker 2>hype meant we were like, all right, let's like keep

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<v Speaker 2>this going and make no b Rade points back and forth,

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<v Speaker 2>back and forth, and Sam is gonna come with the

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<v Speaker 2>final home run.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that's what's really complicated about it pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>is because because it was going to be out of

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<v Speaker 1>the park too.

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<v Speaker 4>What would you say you have the most pride in?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it just gay?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it gay?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm I'm genuinely asking you know about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have the point go. This was part of

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what was weird when the fires were happening

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone was like, I fucking love this is my

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<v Speaker 1>fucking city, because I was like, I actually don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a connection to lay and yet I'm living here. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's confusing as like because I can't be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like we love you because I was like, well, I've

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<v Speaker 1>spent the last year shit talking to La. It would

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<v Speaker 1>be so insane for me now to be like I stand.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's also like don't burn down. Yeah I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to burn down, and I don't yeah, yeah not,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like I can't talk shit even though I have

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<v Speaker 4>been like now that's over, I'm not gonna If I'm

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<v Speaker 4>being honest, I still don't love it, but I appreciate

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<v Speaker 4>that people who do love it, and everybody should still

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<v Speaker 4>have their houses. But it's still just kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I'll just like sit back and then sort

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<v Speaker 4>of just kind of post go fundmes or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really like, oh wow, eggs on my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the person that you've like shit talked for the

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<v Speaker 1>last year get to hit by a car and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh damn, my bad. Did not intend for that to happen.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's just like I didn't. I didn't hate you

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<v Speaker 4>like that, and I didn't think anything bad should happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I just didn't, you know, like want to hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like that i'd want you to die.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't feel that way about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But to answer your question, I think I feel it's

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere between maybe a mixture of gay and New York.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, George, Yeah, I would say I mean I do

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<v Speaker 2>think ultimately, almost in a sort of jokey ironic way,

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<v Speaker 2>I do think it is I love talking about being Greek,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like a fun thing to talk about, and

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<v Speaker 2>it sets and it like it's fun to almost in

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<v Speaker 2>the way that I feel like this would also be

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<v Speaker 2>the case if I was like a Talian or something like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, I am fully just like a white American person,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's funny to pretend that I'm for.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you gotta like attach yourself to something like even

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<v Speaker 4>if it's irony pilled you still, I mean, and to

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<v Speaker 4>be fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I do feel I mean, that is where I

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<v Speaker 2>go home, that is where my family lives. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>go there. It's like I do feel connected to it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I certainly am not like or like I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>an immigrant or like a foreign person in the way

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<v Speaker 2>that like my parents were when they first moved here.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously it passes American, right, it almost feels like a

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<v Speaker 2>betrayal to use very like American humor to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>how different I am and how Greek I am.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, I feel that way. I feel like, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 4>sort of resisting the.

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<v Speaker 1>Cause.

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<v Speaker 4>To me, that sounds like you're heading off criticism that

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<v Speaker 4>like nobody's making in your face. But you're thinking that like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>but Greek people would see it like this, And yet

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<v Speaker 4>I know who I'm speaking to when I talk about

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<v Speaker 4>this stuff, and I yeah, I feel the same way

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<v Speaker 4>about being black obviously, just because it's like a yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I am black and I was raised with that, but

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<v Speaker 4>also like I was adopted and raised by white people,

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<v Speaker 4>so it was always like an in like an all

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<v Speaker 4>white place, so it was always a very outsider thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't as much of like, I'm black in a

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<v Speaker 4>community of black people and all this stuff. It was

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<v Speaker 4>very like this is sort of for the most of

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<v Speaker 4>the time of problem. And I think I reacted to

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<v Speaker 4>that as a kid and as a young adult, trying

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<v Speaker 4>to sort of downplayed as much as possible or be

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<v Speaker 4>tokenizer all this whatever, and then sort of realizing that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I don't want to have that just be

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<v Speaker 4>an accessory in this way, and having realized that and

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<v Speaker 4>understood and respected my past have been like yes, I

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<v Speaker 4>am different or whatever to a lot of different people.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like my pride sort of centers around like

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<v Speaker 4>understanding who I am with regards to race and culture,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, yeah, I'm this and I have to

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<v Speaker 4>be this way. And I think that I understand all

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<v Speaker 4>the reactions to me from all these different kinds of people,

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<v Speaker 4>and yet I still am myself. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 4>have pride in my own blackness and the way I've

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<v Speaker 4>understood it, and I feel the same way because it's like, well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not exactly like whatever, but like you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>aware of that and I accept that about myself, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's good. I think it's okay to be

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<v Speaker 4>prideful about stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's also it's interesting, like, obviously my experience is

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<v Speaker 2>in no way directly related, but being proud of a

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<v Speaker 2>marker of difference rather than something that you are in community,

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<v Speaker 2>rather than something that connects you to community is sort

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<v Speaker 2>of an interesting point because I remember, like when we

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<v Speaker 2>lived in the States, I felt different because like my

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<v Speaker 2>parents had accents, like they we didn't know a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of things about American culture that everyone else around me

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<v Speaker 2>and you or whatever. And then I thought that I

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<v Speaker 2>would when we move back to Greece, that I would

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<v Speaker 2>immediately feel an innate part of that community because so

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<v Speaker 2>far I had felt different. But in fact, then when

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<v Speaker 2>we move back to Greece, I felt more American because

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<v Speaker 2>all my references were American blah blah. So all of

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<v Speaker 2>that is to say, to your point, the thing that,

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<v Speaker 2>if anything is connected to any kind of natural pride

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<v Speaker 2>was always like a marker of difference rather than a

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<v Speaker 2>marker of like solidarity.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, and you can still be in solidarity with people,

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<v Speaker 4>but you also understand how much different you are in

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<v Speaker 4>no matter where you go. And it can feel really

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<v Speaker 4>bad sometimes. But I think because it is something that

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<v Speaker 4>feels bad is something you have to accept about yourself

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<v Speaker 4>and be prideful in. Otherwise I think that really sort

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<v Speaker 4>of will ruin you emotionally.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so amen, Amen, Well, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>We should we do such a heavy episode. I know

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<v Speaker 4>I'm silly, man. I want people to know that Stradio

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<v Speaker 4>Lab listeners. I like jokes and I'm not always bringing

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<v Speaker 4>it down by talking about the differences between ourselves in

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<v Speaker 4>the past and currently.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I think this was serious but not

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<v Speaker 1>too serious.

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<v Speaker 2>I completely agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this was a good level of serious.

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<v Speaker 4>I should have gone with Parkour.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I do want to know what your other two

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<v Speaker 2>were parkour and what.

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<v Speaker 1>Else it was gonna be?

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<v Speaker 4>Parkour cults.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's good, it is good parkour.

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<v Speaker 2>Parkour is really good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really juicy. Parker's juicy.

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't have a lot to say about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You just feels it it.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have a lot to say about it, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I fully because you're a stairs guy, so you were

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<v Speaker 1>always right, I'm doing the stairs. I'm doing all types

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<v Speaker 1>of shit on those stairs. No. When I was in college,

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<v Speaker 1>I took a documentary making class and like they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to make a documentary about something. I chose

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<v Speaker 1>the Parkour Club. Wow. And I literally like followed the

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<v Speaker 1>parkourp Club And it was so funny because they were

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<v Speaker 1>like not real like but they were like, we're actually

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<v Speaker 1>going to like this other college for like a parkour

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<v Speaker 1>jam jam. And there were like multiple park Corps clubs

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<v Speaker 1>from multiple colleges, and I was like, this is like

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<v Speaker 1>one of the weirdest groups of people I've ever been around.

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<v Speaker 4>They gotta be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, I made this documentary that was like obviously

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<v Speaker 1>so embarrassing and I would love to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>find it again. But the documentary teacher I saw him

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<v Speaker 1>like a year later, and he was like, hey, like

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<v Speaker 1>I actually love your park coor documentary. My two sons

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<v Speaker 1>watch it all the time, and it's like right because

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<v Speaker 1>they're like eight year old boys who just want to

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<v Speaker 1>see a guy do a flip.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's so embarrassing. How cool I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like such a thing because you're like, is guys

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<v Speaker 4>moving so cool? You're amazing, you can be.

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<v Speaker 1>I've talked about the things. George and I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the siren song of men's wear and how it like

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<v Speaker 1>calls to us even though we know it's unethical and

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<v Speaker 1>we think of it sort of like how an evangelical

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<v Speaker 1>thinks about porn. And that's kind of how the siren

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<v Speaker 1>song of Parkour also does call. Like sometimes when the

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<v Speaker 1>algorithm takes over, I will start getting a couple more

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<v Speaker 1>Parkour clips in there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, I feel like it's bad. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>it was gone and I you know, I watch as

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<v Speaker 4>a kid, and now I see Parkour videos sometimes and

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<v Speaker 4>I go, well, this is bad. That's actually kind of

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<v Speaker 4>how I knew Trump was gonna win because park park

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<v Speaker 4>four is back.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what it is. I would rather watch Parkour videos

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<v Speaker 2>than like most content that served of.

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<v Speaker 1>Course at least amazing point.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's literally all I get is like, get drag

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<v Speaker 2>QUI sorry, no offense to wow to talk about right

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<v Speaker 2>wing I literally give me Parkour.

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<v Speaker 4>Not okay, but drag Parkour.

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<v Speaker 2>No, there we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the Parkour Queen of Pittsburgh.

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<v Speaker 2>We are like two seasons away from that happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, everyone's desperate to find anything that makes them unique.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good one, Parkour, Queen of Pittsburgh. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>should we do our first our final segments? Sam, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's our final segment, so Skyler. A final segment is

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<v Speaker 1>called shout Outs, and in this segment we pay homage

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<v Speaker 1>to the grand straight tradition of the radio shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to anything that you are enjoying, people, places, things, ideas.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine two thousand and one, you're at TRL shouting out

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<v Speaker 1>to your squad back home, but about anything that you like.

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<v Speaker 1>George and I will go first, George, do you have one?

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<v Speaker 2>I can think of one. I'm not gonna lie. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have one right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you I have one? Okay, I will locked and

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<v Speaker 1>loaded today.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, go go go.

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<v Speaker 4>Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I actually have two, but I'm not sure which

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to land on. Okay, okay, whatever. This will

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<v Speaker 1>not be topical by the time this comes out, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. What's up freaks, losers and perverts around the globe.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to give a huge shout out to FKA Twigs.

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<v Speaker 1>You sexual the album it came out just last night

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<v Speaker 1>and I sat up and I listened to it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, damn, this is fucking good start to finish.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's doing something very interesting where her look

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<v Speaker 1>has never been weirder and her music has never been

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<v Speaker 1>more accessible to me. It's actually very gaga to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>look how weird I look, but look how normal I sound.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's a fun thing for her. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of stuff in there that George specifically,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you would like. There's a lot of sort

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<v Speaker 1>of ray of light vibes, a lot of like interesting

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<v Speaker 1>niche pop references that I'm like, oh, now, this is interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>When a cool girl does cool pop music, you really

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<v Speaker 1>do notice a difference. And I am so happy and

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, every year of my life, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just sort of I'm like, is this the

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<v Speaker 1>year that I have nothing to find joy over? And

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<v Speaker 1>then boom something else comes and I say, look at me,

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<v Speaker 1>go I have reason to live. Thank you FK Twigs.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. Xoxo, Sam.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, that was great. I got a lot to say

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<v Speaker 4>about FK Twigs.

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<v Speaker 1>I was very blown away.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I'm I'm really excited to listen. I sort of

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<v Speaker 2>think she might be the only person that can save us,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, and not to.

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<v Speaker 1>Pit women against each other, but sort of hearing it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, was the Brat thing like a psychosis?

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<v Speaker 4>Like it wasn't mass well, you know, it's I listened

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<v Speaker 4>to it now, honestly just started actually listening to it now,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, it's good, but it felt like so

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<v Speaker 4>like it was again like with the culture and everything.

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<v Speaker 4>It was so like this is what we are into.

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<v Speaker 4>And there was where I started listening to it back

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<v Speaker 4>then and I was just like okay, but like you

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<v Speaker 4>with moving, I was like, I guess I'm just not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna say anything because if I do, I'll be torn

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<v Speaker 4>to shreds and then people will be like, well then

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<v Speaker 4>what bullshit do you listen to? And I'll be like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I'm all over the place, and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I still don't get me wrong, I

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<v Speaker 1>still love Brat, but there's something about this when I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like it's matures. There's something really something to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So George, yeah, what do you think? No, I.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think unfortunately, even though we all I think

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<v Speaker 2>we all earnestly did like Bratt, and I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on record, I still isn't to it. Whatever. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>it got so big that when people do look back

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<v Speaker 2>on it, they will look back on it with embarrassment

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<v Speaker 2>in the way that we look back on like sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>but like the Women's March, that's so truly I went

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<v Speaker 2>to it, and I of course everyone needed to march,

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<v Speaker 2>and like, I don't regret being part of it, but

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<v Speaker 2>you can't not look back on it and be embarrassed

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<v Speaker 2>like it just that is how it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're one hundred percent right, because that is

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it. But then I'm seeing tiktoks that are

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<v Speaker 1>trying me crazy. They're like, quote unquote analyzing the songs

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you are the dumbest person I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, I don't like it. I don't like all

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<v Speaker 1>like that. There were two people dressed up as Apple's

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<v Speaker 1>next to me at the fucking Sweat Tour. Good lord,

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<v Speaker 1>I was furious.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how I feel about Kendrick and Drake's whole beef.

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<v Speaker 4>Now is I still get posts of people like talking

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<v Speaker 4>about it in the terms of like, oh the battle

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, that was Can we put it down?

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<v Speaker 4>That was last year? You're still talking about Oh Drake's

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<v Speaker 4>goof Yeah still, and I don't care anymore. That was

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<v Speaker 4>fun for them. I don't care now. It's insane how

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<v Speaker 4>much content I'm still getting about. Oh, you know the

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<v Speaker 4>true hip hop heads.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not a true hip hop head and I liked

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<v Speaker 4>it at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Enough of that, Damn. It's tough. Okay, George, whenever you're ready, Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I will go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's up, vientophiles and wine drinkers. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>give a shout out to Lambrusco. First of all, let

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<v Speaker 2>me just say I think Lambrusko is absolutely disgusting. But

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<v Speaker 2>what I want to give a shout out to is

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<v Speaker 2>the confidence with which it presents itself. And even though

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<v Speaker 2>I know that every time I have tasted it, I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't liked it. You know you hear you say, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes I want to read wine. Sometimes I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be cold, maybe a little maybe a little fizz. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds kind of nice. Maybe I will get a

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<v Speaker 2>glass Lambersco each time you want to send it back,

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<v Speaker 2>And so I sort of I want to become the

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<v Speaker 2>Lambrusco of you know, writer performers, where even if people

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<v Speaker 2>do not like what I'm offering, they say, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>wonder what that George has to say. And even if

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<v Speaker 2>each time they keep coming back and keeping like that

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<v Speaker 2>was honestly kind of a flop, they keep buying tickets.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think we only need to adopt the Lambrusco mentality.

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<v Speaker 2>It is much more about a about marketing than it

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<v Speaker 2>is about the essence of it. I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>Lambrusco is the defining drink of the of the Biden

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<v Speaker 2>and second Trump era. We all need to channel our

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<v Speaker 2>inner Lambrusko if we want to be famous in this

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<v Speaker 2>crazy connected world. You guys, shout out to Lambrusco.

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<v Speaker 1>Huge shout out.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay Skyler, whenever you are ready, Okay, all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>have yeah, I have one.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out to those really big trucks, the Fords, the

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<v Speaker 4>f four, fifties, one fifties, whatever is the huge trucks

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<v Speaker 4>that the white guys with the Oakley's drive. Shout out

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<v Speaker 4>to those, they're so big. I hope you finally feel

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<v Speaker 4>secure in your masculinity from driving those. I hope that

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<v Speaker 4>you find some sort of meaning in driving a truck

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<v Speaker 4>where you're above everybody, can see everybody, And I hope

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<v Speaker 4>it makes you feel safe. I hope you feel hugged

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<v Speaker 4>and safe inside those huge, huge trucks because they guzzle

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<v Speaker 4>so much gas and it's got to be so expensive

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<v Speaker 4>for you. But what price is too much to feel

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<v Speaker 4>like a real man? And I hope you enjoy driving

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<v Speaker 4>that around and trying to park, and I hope it's

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<v Speaker 4>all worth it, even though I know you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>shit to haul. Shout out to those big old trucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoo whoo damn, those trucks really are fucking big, so

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<v Speaker 1>big talk about I mean, I hate to always be

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<v Speaker 1>this person, but I'm like, when will the government step in?

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<v Speaker 1>Never ban these fucking drugs.

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<v Speaker 4>The trucks is like that's second underguns for like those people.

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<v Speaker 4>They want them in those amendments.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I love those like little old trucks. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>how cute. Yeah, But those big ones, I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is fucking huge.

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<v Speaker 4>It's again hometown stuff. When I every time I visit,

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<v Speaker 4>I will see because you don't really see them out

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<v Speaker 4>you'll see them more out here. You don't see them

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<v Speaker 4>in New York or Chicago or whatever. I go back

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<v Speaker 4>to Salt Lake. They're huge. People are driving them around

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<v Speaker 4>and they look almost like monster trucks, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 4>why do you need to drive that? What is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I do the impression I get of Salt

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<v Speaker 2>Lake City and I have never been there. Is there

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<v Speaker 2>is just so much space that people are like, what

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<v Speaker 2>if we feel it? Like, it's just it's crazy. And

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<v Speaker 2>this is mostly from watching the Real Housewives.

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<v Speaker 4>It's true, it's just it's it's really like weirdly like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, obviously cultish, but like also like way more

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<v Speaker 4>white trash than people think very much, because it's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the American West shot out.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to there too well S Tyler, thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>doing the pod. This has been a real treat.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks for having me. Hope to see you guys again soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to pluge anything? We're bad at that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I'm doing a show at Union Hall on March.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, now our listeners know where that is.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all know where that is, so if you want to

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<v Speaker 4>come and see me make jokes instead of really like

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<v Speaker 4>getting into it about our deep feelings about who we

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<v Speaker 4>are in the world. Then come to that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's all I'm doing, PERF and watch after midnight.

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<v Speaker 5>Why not watch after midnight on CBS and check out

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<v Speaker 5>the Oscars. Check out the Oscars on ABC. They're gonna

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<v Speaker 5>be so mad.

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