WEBVTT - London Fletcher

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<v Speaker 1>This is cut to it with Steve Smith Senior at

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<v Speaker 1>production of The Black Effect and I Heart Radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Smith Senior and I'm John and this is cut

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Good do, good do. Let's getting down to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Good do it. We asked the questions you

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<v Speaker 1>always want to know, but no one ever asked. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>cut to it. You ain't heard them about it? Then

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to let you know. It's all all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were straight crook, all right, all right, cut

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<v Speaker 1>to it, crewe what's going on? What's going on? Smith?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing? I got a question for you. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you already laughing? This is a whole podcast like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to have questions. I'll tell you why because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the microphone. You've been coming to regular now coming,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not backstage anymore. A lot of things happen, man, right,

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<v Speaker 1>question for you. Have you ever had any weird fan interactions?

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<v Speaker 1>And and do any any any recent ones? Walk me through,

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<v Speaker 1>walk us through. I don't think it was. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what it was. Okay, weird super It was

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<v Speaker 1>at the gas station the other day. You were with men,

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<v Speaker 1>the three of us were in quar together, went inside

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<v Speaker 1>because the um the pump said please wait, never stick

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<v Speaker 1>your card inn where it says please wait where fortune cookie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, I'm going inside. So on the side

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<v Speaker 1>you some money filled up. I thought it was pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. Pulled up. Hey, let me put such

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<v Speaker 1>and such on eight h come outside finish because my guess,

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<v Speaker 1>no guess thank hopping the car from turn on my

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<v Speaker 1>car and there's a gentleman pulls up in a car.

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<v Speaker 1>He had his homeboy in the back seat, which was

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<v Speaker 1>a dog d o g roof dog. Now he doggie dog,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, animal his companion and h. I pulled

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<v Speaker 1>up and said, hey, I got a question. I said yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he goes, oh I figured it out, and

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much after that I was lost. Mind you, we

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea what this question. We didn't ask him

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<v Speaker 1>a question, so he didn't ask me a question. It

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<v Speaker 1>was he pulled out. But I thought it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, bro, let's not play the lost like other dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't ask other dudes, Hey, you lost? You know? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know where? No? I don't. That's my goal

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<v Speaker 1>to you can ask. I can be I can be

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<v Speaker 1>in front of an ice cream shop and you say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what the ice cream shopping is? Like, Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>not from around here. That's my So he rolls up.

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<v Speaker 1>He says he figured it out, and says he figured

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<v Speaker 1>it out. And then so now of course I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the back seat, You're riding shotgun and we look over

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<v Speaker 1>and that we're kind of interested, like because it was

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<v Speaker 1>a showdown. This guy is quiet. Steve's just sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>because we don't know what's going on, ueless, and so

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<v Speaker 1>like there's this five second pause where it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a showdown. And so then he looks it and

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<v Speaker 1>goes looks at Steven goes, you're good. Right now, that

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<v Speaker 1>ain't the answer when you ask me, am I goodlet's

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<v Speaker 1>fighting words, thank you? It implies you're not, or that

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<v Speaker 1>we have an issue. Yes you kids call it. So

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<v Speaker 1>he says, you're good. I said you're good. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Now when you say generally, when you say no, that's

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<v Speaker 1>where the problems started. So for the most part, when

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<v Speaker 1>someone says you good, it's it's not a greeting for you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is you? What is you? What is your disposition

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<v Speaker 1>on you good? Because I've heard other people go to someone, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Y know, what's up? Man? You're good? Is it is

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<v Speaker 1>it the way that someone says it or is it

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<v Speaker 1>just the words you're good with a question mark behind it?

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<v Speaker 1>That generally is a we got problems? Do you understand that?

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<v Speaker 1>And my answer is yes, and so be I know

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<v Speaker 1>we got problems. So if I depth you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Maybe you're good? You're taking that we are

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<v Speaker 1>we good? Because we're friends. Yeah, but if it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that help. So Now if I'm a stranger and

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<v Speaker 1>I say you're good, if you're a stranger, you roll

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<v Speaker 1>up in your car and I don't know you don't

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<v Speaker 1>you don't on me? And you say, now that's a

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<v Speaker 1>that's a whole different context. And you say, hey, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you good man? You got what do you got this?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you got? Shot gun? Right? My response right

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<v Speaker 1>right is not gonna be yes, It's gonna be you good.

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<v Speaker 1>So you said you asking me, am I good? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking? I didn't ask her? Did I? I asked you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you good? Now? What comes out of your mouth

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<v Speaker 1>after that? That's when they say this fireworkship that sets

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<v Speaker 1>the table for next step bringing this thing full circle

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<v Speaker 1>to this individual with you good that we didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>you pulled up, and so he goes, you're good, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, you good? Yeah? Man, And his response after

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<v Speaker 1>I said you good, this is where because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what his narrative is when he pulled off,

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<v Speaker 1>because this man's response after Steve said are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Was yeah, and what are you? What do you use to? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>He here's what happens again? Gerard and I we're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're out with Steve a lot, so we run across

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<v Speaker 1>situation like this all the time. The most awkward and

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<v Speaker 1>silly ass individuals for lack of better word, people have

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<v Speaker 1>a scenario plate out in their mind when they walk

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<v Speaker 1>up to say Steve. In their mind, they're gonna say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing. I'm good? How are you? Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>get a picture, we have a few minutes conversation, we

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<v Speaker 1>walk off. This dude had that in his mind. But

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<v Speaker 1>when the conversation didn't go with hey, how's it going

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<v Speaker 1>and went with you good, it was an awkward way

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of conversation. Like he was shook. Because

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<v Speaker 1>usually Steve is the one that says, yeah, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it all the time, and you know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>cordial nice and its company. It depends on how you

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<v Speaker 1>come up to me. Have you come up to me

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<v Speaker 1>expecting I owe you something? Are you gonna get some

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<v Speaker 1>old on? Where does this rank amongst you're awkward, fan

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<v Speaker 1>or just individual? Well, this one right ranks in the

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<v Speaker 1>category of this is why stay in the house a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm used to that, and and because what it generally

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<v Speaker 1>happened is and I think I've done a better job.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are times here in Charlotte I'm known for

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<v Speaker 1>not being very approachable. And a lot of it is

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<v Speaker 1>because I've you know, I want to say, been burned,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have been approached at times where it's really

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<v Speaker 1>just taken away from what I'm currently doing. Right, And

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<v Speaker 1>my oldest boy, Peyton, remember we were I broke my

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<v Speaker 1>leg and Mars like, you need to go do something.

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<v Speaker 1>So I started coming to his lunch and he was

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<v Speaker 1>in I think the second grade. The Peyton is twenty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old. So I was going to lunch and

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there at lunch and one of these keys I

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<v Speaker 1>knew who I was, So we had like my rookie

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<v Speaker 1>or checking year car checking year in the league. You

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<v Speaker 1>out of the car, he says, Hey, Mr Smith, can

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<v Speaker 1>you sign a car for me? I was like sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and Peyton had this such defeated look. Peyton was in

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<v Speaker 1>the second grade, second grade. He looks at me says, Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you here to sign autographs? Are you here to

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<v Speaker 1>have lunch with me? Think about that, Think about how

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<v Speaker 1>a seven year old connects that, And what it really

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<v Speaker 1>told me is He's like, I don't care how many

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<v Speaker 1>damn passes you catch, Bob, I just want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be my dad. And from there, I've tried to balance that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go to events for your kids. I go

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<v Speaker 1>for my kids. And I'm not trying to be rude,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've been at taking my kids and out of

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<v Speaker 1>the family and bowling, and people have been upset because

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<v Speaker 1>I won't stop bowling my family and go over to

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<v Speaker 1>their lane to be part of their birthday party because

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<v Speaker 1>that will make their kids today. But I I mean, ultimately,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand the responsibility. But ultimately God is gonna judge

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<v Speaker 1>me on how I tend to my flock before I

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<v Speaker 1>start going to other mother flocks, how I handle my

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<v Speaker 1>my kids and my present for and my present for

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<v Speaker 1>my family. I can't be this great superstar football player

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<v Speaker 1>for all these other people and be a dirt bag

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<v Speaker 1>at the house. And so a lot of times when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out with my family, I don't have time off.

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<v Speaker 1>You turned off, I'm off. I'm like the bank. And

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<v Speaker 1>there are some people who respect it, some people who

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<v Speaker 1>get it. And I've had people who because me out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have the responsibility to be always being on

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody. You know why. And here's my philosophy. If

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<v Speaker 1>the bank ain't open, neither are you. But you know what, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm used to it. Yes, he is who we got

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<v Speaker 1>coming up on the Cut to a podcast. We've got

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<v Speaker 1>London Fletcher's sixteen year NFL VET. He's a four time

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<v Speaker 1>pro bowler. He's an NFL All Pro and he's currently

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<v Speaker 1>an NFL analyst for CBS Sports. London Fletcher on the

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<v Speaker 1>Cut to a Podcast, appreciate you all having appreciate you,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you being on. So our first segment is called

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<v Speaker 1>get iced up. You know Smitty well, so I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what he has up his sleeve. So Smitty

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and give him the first one. You ready,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, I'm ready, right, I'm ready. So what

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<v Speaker 1>was your first concert you went to back in the day.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a it was a rap concert. Uh no,

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<v Speaker 1>actually it was like it was a mixture of rapping

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<v Speaker 1>and uh like old school like U t FO. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you remember those. You might be a

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<v Speaker 1>little too young to remember. Yeah yeah, yeah, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>look too. And West coast. Oh yeah that's true too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like see people on the East Coast they know about UTFO. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>but what is u tm? Oh yeah yeah, fairy tale

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<v Speaker 1>lover see yeah yeah, see you know on the West

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<v Speaker 1>coast see oh man, Yeah, you gotta have to google that,

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<v Speaker 1>Google the man you TFO. So basically your first concert

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<v Speaker 1>was Brian Me Night. Is that what you're just telling? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did go to a private that concert. Um

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy thing when I went up that now Roxane

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<v Speaker 1>Roxanne Now yeah yeah yeah, see you google that, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't? Yeah, I know it, but it's but I

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<v Speaker 1>did do too. But that's that fast forward. Hey, my

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<v Speaker 1>mother and my mother took me to the concert. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how christ who's your first concert? Smitty who? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see? Uh he forty language? I know. My first

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<v Speaker 1>concert was until I was adult, so it was probably

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<v Speaker 1>it was a West coast concert. Mom was rough Riders Casher.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I was, I was fifteen years old. Where

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<v Speaker 1>were here in Charlotte? The old the old councy were

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in the very top. So I'm like, what smell

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<v Speaker 1>funny up here? Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Man, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll tell you what. The best concept I ever

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<v Speaker 1>went to was Prens in Cleveland and the UH Cavaliers Arena. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>this was Prince Prince put on the show. Heck of

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<v Speaker 1>a show. We gotta he got about a ten minute

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<v Speaker 1>standing ovation after he left, and and he had coming

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<v Speaker 1>back out of doing an hardcore performance. He was, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about a concert, Yeah, that was a bad concert.

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<v Speaker 1>Another really good concert I went to that. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just amazed at what he was able to do. Um Stevie,

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<v Speaker 1>wonder what that brother can do blind? I can't do

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<v Speaker 1>with tense. And you know they say, Steven really conceive

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<v Speaker 1>now with that hairline walking around hairline? So Jack, he

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be blind somebody, somebody. His praise is at damn

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<v Speaker 1>near the back of his hand. He got dug. You

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<v Speaker 1>know he blind because his head he go fuehead skeeball

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<v Speaker 1>hair man. You know what that might be? You got

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<v Speaker 1>a good point that that right there as the story Stevie,

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<v Speaker 1>he's blind. Yeah, and this is how you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>blind because and he was if he could really see,

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<v Speaker 1>he put on you know, Oakley got some nice glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>That brother be wearing blue blockers. So no, so anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>blue blockers received. Um. So, what's your favorite item of clothing? Oh? Man, um,

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<v Speaker 1>golf shirts? Yeah, because I'm I'm always uh, you know, golf,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say golf clothing. Okay, okay, I know this one,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had to ask, and I was cheesing the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time I was typing this up. Do you prefer

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<v Speaker 1>swimming in the pool or ocean? Pool? Why are you chuckling?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't tell me why pool man? Scan ocean? Man? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he will mess it. I'm I'm the same way though. No,

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<v Speaker 1>London is a ferocious linebacker. Man, get his ass that water,

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<v Speaker 1>that ocean. You don't You don't go further than probably

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<v Speaker 1>your knees, right man. I I go a little bit fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but I ain't that a little bit. You can't go

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<v Speaker 1>further than what you can see. No, me and my so,

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter, my oldest, she just like me because the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the family they want to take cruise. Her

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<v Speaker 1>and I were like, listen, y'all go do y'all thank

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<v Speaker 1>or and I were good, we'll stay back. We'll y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time. We we we are not with that.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want to be in a cruise. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be out there on that water like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You got taught that that the same way with my family.

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<v Speaker 1>And I could swim up, but I just do. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, would you like ranch your blue cheese? Nita?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't? And I when I was typing it up,

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<v Speaker 1>I was smiling, laugh like area know this answer, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna ask anyway. So what was your favorite team

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<v Speaker 1>growing up? Any sports? Oh? Man? The Browns? Yeah, Cleveland Browns.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the Browns growing up back when they had

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<v Speaker 1>Bernie Cole's are Webster slaughter Um shoot Man, the mac

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<v Speaker 1>Ernest Byner, Kevin Mack. When they were going to ANFC

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<v Speaker 1>championship games. They went to three championship hip games, lost

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<v Speaker 1>to the Broncos and all three. I I hate John Elway,

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<v Speaker 1>still don't like him to to this day. That's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's de grooted right there. I love the brown so much, man.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you know how you got You always have

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<v Speaker 1>that one friend who wants to go against the grain regard,

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<v Speaker 1>like if everybody likes blue, he's gonna be the one

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<v Speaker 1>that like red. Yeah. So he was the one guy

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<v Speaker 1>who all of us like the Browns, but he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to out of all the players, he his favorite players,

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<v Speaker 1>John Elway. So we we're going to school one morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in middle school. It's cold in Cleveland, like January.

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<v Speaker 1>It walking to school, he gets to talking um and

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<v Speaker 1>he likes to talk a lot. So you're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>John l He's like, yeah, wait wait, I said, listen, man,

0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.960
<v Speaker 1>he said, l wait one more time, hitting you and

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth you say, wait one more time? He say,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he he didn't get the way out. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I hit him right this moth mad dude. Nobody want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear No John Elway, you can't be You couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be a John that Way fan in Cleveland. Now, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's how much I love the Browns back there.

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<v Speaker 1>So then who was? Who is your favorite athlete that

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<v Speaker 1>you admired growing up as acute? Uh, I really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have just one guy used to love Eric Dickerson is

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<v Speaker 1>running back used like a lot more and more a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the Browns, but I didn't have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Dickerson was probably my favorite guy. Other than that, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just more like players. Me and you are neighbors.

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<v Speaker 1>We played off together, are you know you We've come

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<v Speaker 1>over each other's house, our kids have played together. But

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<v Speaker 1>one of the interesting things about um this sit down

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<v Speaker 1>and cut to it is the London Fletcher that I've

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<v Speaker 1>played against on the football field and the London Fletcher

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<v Speaker 1>I played golf with. You know, we walk well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we rolled together, played a lot of sports, played, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our kids have played together. But the London Fletcher that

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<v Speaker 1>I've got an opportunity to do the research of, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I'm learning a lot. And so one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things I kind of wanted to say to you,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've short changed our relationship man, that

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<v Speaker 1>really I've learned so much about you that I I

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<v Speaker 1>think a little bit because I I admire you and

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<v Speaker 1>see you as a mentor our our our listeners get

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity and learn about the London Fletcher and how you

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in Cleveland, Ohio. But also for me, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I get to learn about you. So I'm just honored

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to do this, but also again say

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<v Speaker 1>that the perspective I've gained about you, man, is the

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<v Speaker 1>next time we play golf, bro, I'm just gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>staring at you because it's like, gosh, you know, so,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll just get into it. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>said it. You grew up in and the place you're from,

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<v Speaker 1>your hoteln is Cleveland, Ohio. But how the Cleveland, Ohio

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<v Speaker 1>shape your perspective of how you see the world today. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's should It's shaped my perspective. I mean everything the

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<v Speaker 1>way I see the world is was shaped you know

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<v Speaker 1>during my time in Cleveland from the you know, from

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<v Speaker 1>my early childhood up until when I finally left Cleveland

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<v Speaker 1>for good. And shoot, I've moved out of Cleveland finally

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<v Speaker 1>at around two thousand six, I want to say two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand seven. But you know, just growing up in the

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<v Speaker 1>inner city, like like a lot of people in the

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<v Speaker 1>city Cleveland, you have your different challenges that you face,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have to, um, Cleveland kind of hard hardened you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a it's a blue collar time, but it's also

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's uh just a rough city. Um. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to be mentally and physically tough to five when

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<v Speaker 1>you walk out of the out of your house. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I leave my door and crack people selling crack right

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<v Speaker 1>on right on the corner right you know, next door over. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of drugs, gang violence. Um, I mean I've seen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of shootings, just all all the

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<v Speaker 1>things that that you shouldn't have to see as a

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<v Speaker 1>young kid and have to navigate when you as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as you leave your house. Um, you know, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was tough. So you had to definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be mentally tough and physically tough because you'd be challenged, Um,

0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:56.040
<v Speaker 1>you know physically a lot of fighting things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely tests your metal. So I man, when you

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<v Speaker 1>think about that as especially as a young kid being um,

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<v Speaker 1>having to deal with that on a daily basis, it um,

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely, um makes you stronger. We have to take

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<v Speaker 1>a break and the morning thing, we gotta pay some bill.

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<v Speaker 1>answers questions. Um, yeah, I got all my questions answered.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm here for, a brother cut to a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast as that come. I mean, you had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of big events impact you, just like, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>overcome that? Because you know, just as a dad, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't look at my kids. When I look at my

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<v Speaker 1>kids and I see who they are, I cringe at

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<v Speaker 1>imagining what I've been through, you know, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>what it's done to me. So I know what it's

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<v Speaker 1>done me. I'm like, man, I wouldn't I wouldn't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if I had the choice. Obviously this is

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<v Speaker 1>all hypothetical, but I had the choice, Like I really

0:22:30.920 --> 0:22:33.800
<v Speaker 1>put myself in that position. I go, man, it is

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<v Speaker 1>it has impacted me. How did you get through it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Thinking about my kids and and them I

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<v Speaker 1>was growing up on a country club, and and how

0:22:46.400 --> 0:22:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I grew up where man, we barely could um. There

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<v Speaker 1>was times where you know, we didn't have much to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Just the contrast and just how how naive they are

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<v Speaker 1>too to just the challenge is that that people facing

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<v Speaker 1>in this world. I mean, I man, my from the

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<v Speaker 1>time I was in UM college, we had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of a lot of dash that happened to my family. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of suicides, uh you know with my aunts

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<v Speaker 1>to two months committed suicide. UM, all within the span

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<v Speaker 1>of of shoot probably about a year each other. Then

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<v Speaker 1>my UM when I was in college, my freshmanyor in college,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to get um when you get it off

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<v Speaker 1>campus rings, you knew it was like to get the

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<v Speaker 1>double ring, and UM, I used to always kind of

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<v Speaker 1>worry about the double rings that you would get off campus. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take you back even further than that because

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<v Speaker 1>my older sister, So I'm one of five kids. My

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<v Speaker 1>mom she had a five kids. I was the middle

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<v Speaker 1>child to have a have an older brother who's um

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<v Speaker 1>nine years older than me, had an older sister who

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<v Speaker 1>was six years older than me. I'm the middle child.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a younger sister's five years younger than me, and

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<v Speaker 1>then a sister that seven years younger than me. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I was eleven years old, my sister who who

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<v Speaker 1>was not six years older than me. She was murdered

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<v Speaker 1>at eighteen years so she was right and left dead

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<v Speaker 1>by some railroad tracks at the age of eighteen years old. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was eleven years old, and that that had a

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<v Speaker 1>tremendous impact on on me, my mom, just our family

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<v Speaker 1>in general. Where you have you know here she is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, should be graduating high school and going off

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<v Speaker 1>to college wood and she was murdered and and uh

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<v Speaker 1>she was she was into the street life at a

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<v Speaker 1>at her early age, probably around the time she was

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen years old. She was you know, uh, hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>doing things that she shouldn't have been doing. Um, using drugs,

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<v Speaker 1>just just something that you wouldn't think of a thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>year old should be doing. UM. My older brother he

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<v Speaker 1>was selling drugs in and out of jail, um, incarcerated.

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<v Speaker 1>Things like that. My mom when my with my sister's death,

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<v Speaker 1>that had an impact on us. We're all parents or

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<v Speaker 1>can you imagine if you that we lost the child,

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<v Speaker 1>what that would do to us and what type of

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<v Speaker 1>impact that would have on her. So at UM, a

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<v Speaker 1>few years after my my sister was murdered, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>you know, didn't know how to cope with that. She

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<v Speaker 1>turned to a using drugs and I found out about

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<v Speaker 1>that she started smoking crack at it. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>was like I found out, I was like fourteen years

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<v Speaker 1>old when when I found out my mom my mom

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<v Speaker 1>by my mom and her situation, and that just man,

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<v Speaker 1>that shook me to the core I was and that hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what just to um, you know that your mom

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<v Speaker 1>is using drugs and and the uh, the way that

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:05.159
<v Speaker 1>that drug what it did to the families would have

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:08.800
<v Speaker 1>did to people, how I destroyed, destroyed family. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a lot of challenges and difficult time to

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<v Speaker 1>that you start to deal with them that I was

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with from the time I was eleven years old

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<v Speaker 1>and um through uh you know, through college. Really just

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<v Speaker 1>like man, you know, somebody shouldn't have to deal with

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:30.520
<v Speaker 1>with these types of situations. And um, freshman year in

0:26:30.600 --> 0:26:33.399
<v Speaker 1>college had freshman year to my sophomore year in college,

0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>we had you know, four relatives who who died. One

0:26:38.080 --> 0:26:41.919
<v Speaker 1>was my younger cousin was murdered undied of a heart attack,

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<v Speaker 1>and two other unstyed of suicide. So it's just like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>just so much stuff that it can overwhelm you would,

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<v Speaker 1>um have you question all kinds of things. UM, just

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<v Speaker 1>some difficult situations that myself and my family we had

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<v Speaker 1>to go through over over period of time. How do

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>you carry all of that as black men? You know,

0:27:07.680 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 1>they don't want you to. You gotta kind of be tough,

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:17.400
<v Speaker 1>not really um, show your true emotions. I went through

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:24.240
<v Speaker 1>some in college. I used to like have anger issues

0:27:24.280 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>that they actually said be in consolate for for uh

0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:30.400
<v Speaker 1>because some anger issues because you know, I would uh

0:27:31.320 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 1>who was playing basketball football. I would definitely had some

0:27:34.560 --> 0:27:37.920
<v Speaker 1>moments where I I let my frustrations out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on somebody in practice or on the on the court,

0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 1>on the practice field or whatever, because you know, you've

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:46.880
<v Speaker 1>just been carrying that burden around for so long. Um

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<v Speaker 1>in high school, you know, maybe it's a lot of

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>fights I would get into. It was it was just

0:27:53.400 --> 0:27:55.320
<v Speaker 1>dealing with those That was my way of kind of

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:58.240
<v Speaker 1>dealing with those things, coping with it. UM. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I didn't cry, um it just like I would

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:07.119
<v Speaker 1>just let out my frustrations through fights or things like that.

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Being where I'm at now, um, at forty or five

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<v Speaker 1>years old, I understand how if you let things faster

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 1>and manifest, how how something's really small could you know,

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:21.119
<v Speaker 1>blow up to something bigger? But it was it's not,

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 1>it's more of a black product of something else. Um.

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 1>But not having you know, not how to not knowing

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 1>how to deal with those things and and really being

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 1>able to talk to somebody about the I've heard I

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:37.440
<v Speaker 1>was dealing with or you know what, especially when you

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, you're fourteen years old and your mom is

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 1>not the mom that you knew for so many years.

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>She was there physically, but you know, motionally, and and

0:28:49.360 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 1>being that supportive person that you needed, that I needed

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>in my life. That that has an impact on you.

0:28:56.240 --> 0:28:59.120
<v Speaker 1>You were part of a really unique mentoring program. There

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>was a couple, uh, Charlotte Kramer and Leonard Schwartz. What

0:29:03.200 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>what was what was that mentoring program? Like? Yeah, so, um,

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Charlotte Kramer, Mrs Kramer, she she adopted our sixth grade

0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>graduating class in this program called the I Averag Dream Program.

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 1>It was started by a gentleman named Eugene Lane in

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 1>New York and he did it did a similar deal

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>in New York City with some kids graduating now from

0:29:28.160 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 1>elementary And what she did, she she promised us this

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>is back in nine seven. Um. It was like a

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>quarter of a million dollars that she donated or she

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 1>set aside for us. I don't know how much that

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>would be in today's money, but it was geared towards

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:46.920
<v Speaker 1>M Yeah. Yeah, we talked. Yeah, So it was a

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of money that was geared towards Hey, this is

0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:52.360
<v Speaker 1>money for you all to go to utilize for your

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 1>college tuition or secondary education, UM, once you graduate high school.

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 1>This was uh, a white Jewish lady who wanted to

0:30:04.360 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 1>give back. She had done very well. Her husband was

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 1>his name was Mr Mr Schwartz. UM. During that time,

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 1>they didn't just they they didn't just say, hey, here's

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:18.440
<v Speaker 1>this money, we'll see you when you graduate. But they

0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 1>also provided each one of us. It was like seventy

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 1>think about seventy two kids, so they got each one

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:30.200
<v Speaker 1>of us a mentor. And I was kind of Mr

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>Schwartz meant men team because out of default, because I

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:38.080
<v Speaker 1>was so bad and like you know, we we we

0:30:38.160 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 1>gotta we gotta give a special kid. It was specially once.

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 1>So I was I was the crazy thing, Like I

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 1>was like a straight age student aids and bees. But

0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>again I had a lot of angerous side of me.

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 1>So I was you know, I was a child, I

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 1>was a challenging kid. So he was my mentor UM

0:30:54.800 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>and they providers with mentors throughout throughout that um that

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 1>time frame to help us navigate everything we're going through.

0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Out of those seventy two kids, probably only about fifteen

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:12.560
<v Speaker 1>truly took advantage of of the opportunity that was there. Um.

0:31:13.120 --> 0:31:15.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, a lot of the girls dropped out of

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 1>high school, had or junior high or whatever, had babies. Um.

0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, the same thing with a lot of the boys,

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 1>drug chelling, someone uh had early deaths, you know, dropped

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 1>out of high school or school. Just a lot of

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:34.160
<v Speaker 1>different challenges that took place between the time she made

0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 1>that commitment and when it was time to graduate high school.

0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:40.720
<v Speaker 1>So not only only a small percentage actually took advantage

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 1>of of what she had there, but she they did

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>so much for me because they not only help me

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:51.000
<v Speaker 1>with my colleague, they also helped me. You know, they

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:52.800
<v Speaker 1>paid for me to go to a private high school

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 1>to be able to utilize my athletic ability. Is like, hey,

0:31:56.360 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're gonna help you with some high school

0:32:00.000 --> 0:32:02.959
<v Speaker 1>your high school tuition to go to this uh Catholic

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 1>high school, which that really changed the course of my

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:10.680
<v Speaker 1>my life. And and and you know, played an integral party.

0:32:10.680 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 1>And while I'm here where I'm at right now, that

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>had to be a little challenging. It's different, uh for

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 1>what's the word for a knuckle head? Oh yeah, yeah,

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 1>it was. It was definitely a culture shock because I

0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:31.440
<v Speaker 1>transferred to the school and the middle my tenth grade year,

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 1>so I I didn't I actually transferred in the middle

0:32:35.640 --> 0:32:40.520
<v Speaker 1>between semesters um and I go from a Cleveland public

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:47.960
<v Speaker 1>school to a Catholic high school and just the disciplined,

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:50.440
<v Speaker 1>the you know, I couldn't get away with what I

0:32:50.560 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>was getting away with it at the clean public school,

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:54.280
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't, you know, if I didn't show up in

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>class and clean public school, it wasn't any different. If

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I you know, didn't, nobody cared. It wasn't called home.

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 1>If I cut school that day, whatever, nobody called home. Man.

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:05.880
<v Speaker 1>If I missed, if I was five minutes late to

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>a class, it was an issue, um at the at

0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 1>that kind of Catholic high school. Um. Not only that

0:33:13.640 --> 0:33:15.959
<v Speaker 1>I had to take you know, depending I take two

0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 1>buses to school, So I went from walking to school too.

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Now having to have the discipline to get up early.

0:33:22.760 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't know those take those two buses to school.

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 1>The just the rigger and the discipline. It was difficult

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>that first, uh first semester, major adjustment, just the the

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 1>type of kids that were there. Most of them had

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:44.160
<v Speaker 1>been in Catholic private school for the time, never elementary,

0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 1>so they have been you know, used to this where

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:51.320
<v Speaker 1>it's posted where coming in there. From From my background,

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, I was I was rough to say

0:33:54.800 --> 0:33:57.959
<v Speaker 1>the least I was. I was a challenger. They definitely

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, had their work kind out with me. Man.

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:09.400
<v Speaker 1>It really helped me because you're dealing with I go

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 1>from dealing with the people who are in the same

0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:14.799
<v Speaker 1>situation as me, having the same challenges. Um. Just one

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 1>perspective on the world too. You go to uh So

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:22.240
<v Speaker 1>there where you is multi ethnic, um, you know, different

0:34:22.920 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>socio economic backgrounds. You had you know, some of the wealth,

0:34:26.040 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 1>some wealthy kids there and you have to ask them

0:34:28.480 --> 0:34:31.920
<v Speaker 1>some kids who were poor who needed a financial assistance.

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:35.920
<v Speaker 1>So you had a range, um from from an economic standpoint.

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:40.920
<v Speaker 1>But just the it just help me be able to

0:34:41.000 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 1>deal with more people, um and understand that you know,

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>the life is just life is not black and white.

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 1>But how important was sports growing up in terms of

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 1>collegiate opportunity for you to you know, for you to

0:34:56.200 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 1>go off to college. How important was sports for you? Man?

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:03.440
<v Speaker 1>That it was ship, It was everything. Even though I knew, hey,

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>you had to go to college in order to play pro,

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you had to do this. You had to And I

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 1>was very familiar with like PROP forty and all that

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:12.520
<v Speaker 1>type of stuff, so all the different things that that

0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:14.360
<v Speaker 1>was going to be required for me in order to,

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, get a college scholarship. I wanted to play

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>college of college sports, college basketball in particular, So I

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 1>learned very quickly once I got to that school. Hey,

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I gotta I gotta do right in the classroom. You know.

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I saw athletics as my way out. I saw college.

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:33.839
<v Speaker 1>I didn't see academics, which is sad. It was, Hey,

0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:36.160
<v Speaker 1>sports is gonna be my way out of this situation.

0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 1>You say it's sad. Why is that sad? Because we

0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>don't emphasize the amount of money that's available to you

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:52.600
<v Speaker 1>from a merrit based scholarships or or or academic scholarship.

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:56.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not even it's so much more. Athletic money is

0:35:56.520 --> 0:36:00.280
<v Speaker 1>only like a fraction of what is available to compare

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:03.200
<v Speaker 1>to the academic money. That's a bab you you much,

0:36:03.320 --> 0:36:06.440
<v Speaker 1>you much used far easier to get up your school

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 1>paid for academically than it is athletically. You said you

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:15.440
<v Speaker 1>had dreams of playing college basketball. Yes, he did football

0:36:15.560 --> 0:36:19.320
<v Speaker 1>and basketball in high school. You aspired to play collegiately?

0:36:19.480 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Which one was your first love? Basketball? Many a London.

0:36:27.200 --> 0:36:33.000
<v Speaker 1>He has the film of himself playing basketball. He transferred

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>from a VHS cause I got my stuff. I gotta squint.

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Now here's the best part, though, let me give you

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:50.520
<v Speaker 1>a visual as people London Fletcher London's, I give you

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:56.800
<v Speaker 1>five ten London's five ten, two hundred and forty pounds.

0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Not the boy. I wasn't gonna two hundred forty pounds

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 1>wearing the same exact shorts that John fer and when

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:16.279
<v Speaker 1>they were call Jazz, when they were delivering the mail.

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 1>When when you start that video, though, he was a

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:25.439
<v Speaker 1>little bit surprised by skills though you you you thought

0:37:25.480 --> 0:37:28.359
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna be just a brute out there. Here's

0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:31.040
<v Speaker 1>what I like to say. He when he was over

0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:34.960
<v Speaker 1>in the house and he showed me, I was surprised

0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and like, wow, look at London, but I couldn't give

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>them because me and London are really good friends, but

0:37:45.360 --> 0:37:50.640
<v Speaker 1>we were competitive. Now like if we playing golf, give

0:37:50.680 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 1>me a stroke, now giving you no stroke? Come on me,

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you should have caught that pass over the middle. Me

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:59.239
<v Speaker 1>and London still talk if they show a highlight of me.

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:03.359
<v Speaker 1>When I knew it was with Washington on my football life,

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>there's a player, I'm going across the middle. London hit me,

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:08.800
<v Speaker 1>but London actually hit me so hard he knocked himself

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>off of credit, knocked it down. That's if I group

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 1>text those group of men and like six in the

0:38:19.280 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 1>morning when I saw it because I was running. It's

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:24.480
<v Speaker 1>like came it was on and I was watching. I

0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:29.040
<v Speaker 1>was watching work and then doing work. Sometimes the ads

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 1>come on and it was my football life like and

0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I saw that set the group text like, yeah, look

0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:38.359
<v Speaker 1>at this man. I don't want to. I don't want

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>to find I didn't want to. I didn't want to

0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:42.320
<v Speaker 1>catch a fine. I also know his wife. You know.

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:45.919
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm gonna take it easy. I would

0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:47.440
<v Speaker 1>he think when he was trying to knock the snot

0:38:47.440 --> 0:38:50.680
<v Speaker 1>out of me. I don't want to. I just want

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:54.720
<v Speaker 1>to want to lock a Ribblers, but I was really

0:38:55.040 --> 0:39:00.879
<v Speaker 1>surprised how athletic because he was still a line I'm backer. Yeah,

0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 1>he was a big boned dude. Charlie Ward Robinson, you

0:39:08.040 --> 0:39:10.160
<v Speaker 1>know who you remind me of if you go back

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:14.400
<v Speaker 1>and watch Charles Barkley games when he was younger. Bro,

0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:19.320
<v Speaker 1>he could move London, but he just it was surprised

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:22.840
<v Speaker 1>he was moving. That boy had him hiding Nick in

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:26.360
<v Speaker 1>the in the short shorts. But I was pretty I

0:39:26.440 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 1>would say, now on here it's own recording for a

0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>middle linebacker, and I believe one of the best ones

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 1>in the game, who's who has the same amount and

0:39:39.000 --> 0:39:44.719
<v Speaker 1>slightly better than the former raving London can move And

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 1>that that was the part that I was really shocked on.

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:51.239
<v Speaker 1>The biggest shocker that London has film of himself playing basketball.

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:56.120
<v Speaker 1>That that was the biggest that this dude walking around

0:39:56.160 --> 0:40:01.200
<v Speaker 1>with this footage. Look look, look. But because of the

0:40:01.520 --> 0:40:04.319
<v Speaker 1>position London play, I get and I understand it right.

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:07.840
<v Speaker 1>And also to the competitiveness of the type of the

0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 1>type of folks we are, Um, we're always going at

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:16.719
<v Speaker 1>we I mean, bro, we will play golf and bet

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 1>who who can finish this whole? Can you not getting right.

0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:28.520
<v Speaker 1>It's just just to spend someone else's quarter. We will bet,

0:40:29.360 --> 0:40:33.560
<v Speaker 1>we will bet around of golf and the person has

0:40:33.600 --> 0:40:35.400
<v Speaker 1>to buy the wings, like, oh, we're in the clubhouse.

0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 1>Who's buying. Oh I'm not buying in London. I'm not

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>buying because I want. Yeah, but it's a great, healthy relationship.

0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:47.480
<v Speaker 1>It pushes says. I mean, we were sure when I

0:40:47.560 --> 0:40:50.600
<v Speaker 1>was first, first retired man. We used to put, we

0:40:50.719 --> 0:40:54.439
<v Speaker 1>used to walk. Yeah, you know, Steve, you started working

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.279
<v Speaker 1>too much, man, you stopped golfing. I think I think

0:40:57.280 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 1>he's running from me. I think you're actually running from me.

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 1>That's what it is. It more than anything. Yeah, you're

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:05.200
<v Speaker 1>always talking about you. You're working, you're busy. Now I

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:08.399
<v Speaker 1>think you're running. I am running. When the spring come,

0:41:09.000 --> 0:41:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna run up on your ass on the golf course.

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:14.200
<v Speaker 1>How about that? Wherever you want to play. I'm always

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 1>game for some golf cool. I think it's about that time.

0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:23.399
<v Speaker 1>Just so take a no breathing, good God, getting down

0:41:23.480 --> 0:41:27.920
<v Speaker 1>to do it. Hey, Gerard, why did you get that

0:41:28.040 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 1>T shirt? You mean this thing? Oh yes, I got

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:32.640
<v Speaker 1>it from cut to a podcast dot com, where we

0:41:32.760 --> 0:41:35.799
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0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:37.839
<v Speaker 1>or four shot. But yeah, you can go on, buy

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.239
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0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:46.320
<v Speaker 1>to podcasts. We know London Fletcher, the Super Bowl winning St. Louis,

0:41:46.400 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Washington Redskins, Buffalo Bills. But you on tour the Visual

0:41:51.080 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>One School, Catholic School and basketball scholarship. Good take us. Yeah. So, um,

0:41:57.360 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 1>as I mentioned, my my first love was basketball. I um,

0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I didn't play football until my senior year in high school.

0:42:05.320 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>Had did well, had some has some Division once scholarship

0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:14.759
<v Speaker 1>offers for football and basketball, but I was my heart

0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:17.319
<v Speaker 1>was set on playing basketball at that point in time.

0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 1>So I ended up taking the taking the basketball scholarship

0:42:21.239 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to St. Francis in Pennsylvania. Um, and I get up there,

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I was. I was after that year high school football.

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I really just did that too, so I wouldn't have

0:42:32.040 --> 0:42:34.880
<v Speaker 1>any regrets when I got older. You know what I

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:37.000
<v Speaker 1>should have could have like, I should have did this

0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:41.840
<v Speaker 1>and all that. So I got to I got to

0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:44.839
<v Speaker 1>college my freshman year and I'm watching, Uh, I went

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>to a football game at St. Francis and I'm watching

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:52.760
<v Speaker 1>these these guys out there playing. Man, I need you playing.

0:42:53.640 --> 0:42:58.239
<v Speaker 1>I started missing football. I wanted to play, UM, and

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.560
<v Speaker 1>I actually was like man and me playing football, but

0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. UM. I didn't think about playing that same

0:43:04.680 --> 0:43:07.759
<v Speaker 1>fast because the head coach of the football team was

0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 1>also the athletic director or that I did not did

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:13.239
<v Speaker 1>not care for him and he was just not a

0:43:13.920 --> 0:43:17.680
<v Speaker 1>not somebody. I I liked it all. I didn't want

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>to play for him, so go through, uh stay there

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:25.200
<v Speaker 1>my freshman year. I decided to transfer the middle of

0:43:25.239 --> 0:43:27.960
<v Speaker 1>my sophomore years. I was like, if I wanted to

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:30.480
<v Speaker 1>play football, so if you go from a Division one

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:33.800
<v Speaker 1>to a Division two three two or three school, you

0:43:33.880 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have to sit out. But yeah, I could play immediately,

0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:40.759
<v Speaker 1>So I went. I Treedferre to John Carroll. And part

0:43:40.800 --> 0:43:43.439
<v Speaker 1>of the reason why I chose John Carroll was close

0:43:43.520 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to home. It was only like twenty minutes from where

0:43:46.560 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I grew up. My mom's situation was getting a lot

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:51.840
<v Speaker 1>of worse. UM. I wanted to be there for my

0:43:52.000 --> 0:43:56.640
<v Speaker 1>younger sisters. I just needed to be home. UM. So

0:43:56.800 --> 0:44:01.400
<v Speaker 1>it was like everything was kind of lining up. My

0:44:02.960 --> 0:44:06.880
<v Speaker 1>my high school football coach was the defensive coordinator at

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:11.759
<v Speaker 1>John Carroll. My high school basketball coach had had become

0:44:11.800 --> 0:44:14.359
<v Speaker 1>the head basketball coach of John Carroll. So things were

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:17.759
<v Speaker 1>just lining up to where it made sense for me

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:20.560
<v Speaker 1>to transfer to John Carroll. Um I did that. I

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 1>was able to play. Let's just play right away. John

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Carroll requires you to average a g p A of

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:32.120
<v Speaker 1>three point five five three point five five in high school.

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:39.120
<v Speaker 1>The average S A T score high is up to

0:44:39.239 --> 0:44:46.799
<v Speaker 1>twelve eighty. That's only right, checks that Big Steve, here's

0:44:46.800 --> 0:44:49.360
<v Speaker 1>the kicker out of high school. I wouldn't crawl up

0:44:49.440 --> 0:44:55.080
<v Speaker 1>qualified for Carroll. Yeah, first, fresh out of high school,

0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't. I didn't. I wouldn't. My g p A

0:44:57.600 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 1>would not have been would have needed B OR or

0:45:00.960 --> 0:45:04.960
<v Speaker 1>s A T not because it's just hey, I wouldn't qualify.

0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:09.040
<v Speaker 1>But once I got to college at St. Francis, I

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:14.319
<v Speaker 1>was for some reason, college was easier, you know, academically

0:45:14.400 --> 0:45:17.279
<v Speaker 1>for me. I made the honor road days, lift list

0:45:17.360 --> 0:45:20.640
<v Speaker 1>and everything at St. Francis. So they looked at my

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>collegiate grades. It was like, oh, he's you know, he

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.120
<v Speaker 1>can have the work. So I transferred. They they allowed

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:34.520
<v Speaker 1>me to transfer based off my college grades, not not

0:45:34.760 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>my high school transcript. I want to give contact to

0:45:38.680 --> 0:45:42.560
<v Speaker 1>this to your college something. The notable alumni the late

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 1>grade Don Shula. Now he's not looking like the great

0:45:46.360 --> 0:45:49.359
<v Speaker 1>offense coordinator right now with the New England Patriots. But John,

0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>but Josh McDaniels. And then you got this guy who

0:45:54.680 --> 0:45:59.279
<v Speaker 1>just the founder of cable, Chuck Dome. How do you?

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:01.760
<v Speaker 1>How do you? How do you become the founder of cable?

0:46:01.840 --> 0:46:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but here a billionaire, not even because

0:46:05.600 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 1>a billionaire. It's not like, oh, you know, let's do

0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>this cable right so that that's the college that you

0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:17.200
<v Speaker 1>transferred to to play football, and we know they're not

0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:21.600
<v Speaker 1>known for football, but they're a pretty good job. When

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:26.800
<v Speaker 1>I went there, playing football professionally wasn't even that wasn't

0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:28.960
<v Speaker 1>on my radar at that point in time. I was like,

0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:34.600
<v Speaker 1>let me John Carroll and great academic school. I was

0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 1>focused on getting my education, graduating college, and being able

0:46:40.800 --> 0:46:45.240
<v Speaker 1>to have a better life. That was that was my mindset.

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:48.239
<v Speaker 1>I wanted, Yeah, I wanted to play sports, but you

0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:50.480
<v Speaker 1>don't go to Carroll thinking you're about to go to

0:46:50.520 --> 0:46:52.840
<v Speaker 1>the NFL or NBA or whatever the case may be.

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:55.400
<v Speaker 1>It was like, hey, I get to get my degree

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:58.200
<v Speaker 1>from Carol out, I'll be set up pretty good. And

0:46:58.440 --> 0:47:02.800
<v Speaker 1>um ohio because you know, just I knew that, I

0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:06.839
<v Speaker 1>knew the connections I would have with the degree from

0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:09.879
<v Speaker 1>John Carroll. So you know that the other stuff, as

0:47:09.920 --> 0:47:12.759
<v Speaker 1>far as excelling and making it to the NFL, that

0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:15.680
<v Speaker 1>was that was icing, man, That was I said, all

0:47:15.719 --> 0:47:19.440
<v Speaker 1>the stuff I had survived from. You know, man, I

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I've had a double barrel shotgun pointed in my face

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:26.840
<v Speaker 1>at point blank range, you know, gud put on me.

0:47:27.280 --> 0:47:31.560
<v Speaker 1>So by the time I got through you know, college, man,

0:47:31.960 --> 0:47:34.520
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff is just extra now you know the

0:47:34.640 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>NFL that's gravy house money. Yeah, And if I'm playing

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 1>with house money means I'm not supposed to be here.

0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:45.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to be dead. I'm supposed to be in jail.

0:47:45.320 --> 0:47:48.040
<v Speaker 1>So if I'm not supposed to be it, really I

0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:50.680
<v Speaker 1>ain't got nothing to lose, right and and and also

0:47:50.840 --> 0:47:53.719
<v Speaker 1>not even not having anything to lose. You just look

0:47:53.760 --> 0:47:56.680
<v Speaker 1>at the You look at the situation totally different way

0:47:57.360 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 1>where somebody else that situation she may overwhelm them. A

0:48:02.680 --> 0:48:06.640
<v Speaker 1>challenge that you may face, a situation that you may face. Um,

0:48:07.920 --> 0:48:10.719
<v Speaker 1>you just you're You're It doesn't affect you the same way,

0:48:10.840 --> 0:48:14.319
<v Speaker 1>and you take the situation serious, but you're not going

0:48:14.440 --> 0:48:17.920
<v Speaker 1>to show the same type of emotions or reactions or

0:48:18.000 --> 0:48:20.960
<v Speaker 1>the panic that somebody else who may not have had

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.759
<v Speaker 1>the same type of challenges growing up. So, you know

0:48:24.800 --> 0:48:29.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot of times people like even my wife's uh,

0:48:30.520 --> 0:48:32.960
<v Speaker 1>you know family that man, you're a demeanor is so

0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:36.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, like your demeanor you're just so even killed

0:48:36.480 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 1>and common about certain situations. In my mind, I'm saying, man,

0:48:40.640 --> 0:48:43.120
<v Speaker 1>this all right, this is the problem. You got it.

0:48:43.200 --> 0:48:46.600
<v Speaker 1>It has to be solved. Regardless I've gone through something

0:48:46.640 --> 0:48:50.040
<v Speaker 1>like this is not something to panic over. Under our

0:48:50.160 --> 0:48:53.440
<v Speaker 1>last segments called the Deep three, there are three questions

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:56.200
<v Speaker 1>that just take us beyond who you are as a

0:48:56.239 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 1>football player to get it a deeper level. So Smithie,

0:48:58.520 --> 0:49:01.160
<v Speaker 1>go ahead and ask from the first one, if you

0:49:01.239 --> 0:49:05.400
<v Speaker 1>can tell any young kid in Cleveland right now who

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:09.600
<v Speaker 1>dreams are playing in NFL but doesn't feel like he

0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 1>has a shot, what would you say? I would say,

0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:22.680
<v Speaker 1>always believe in yourself. Don't let someone else's uh, you know,

0:49:22.920 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 1>doubt or whatever negativity creep into your mind. But you

0:49:26.520 --> 0:49:32.520
<v Speaker 1>have to have confidence in yourself. Um, you never know,

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:36.600
<v Speaker 1>there's too many examples of guys making it in pro

0:49:36.760 --> 0:49:40.439
<v Speaker 1>sports regardless of where they comes from. Everybody's not coming

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:43.719
<v Speaker 1>from the power of fire confidence anymore. You've had, you know,

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:47.640
<v Speaker 1>examples of guys coming from Division three schools like myself

0:49:47.800 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 1>or in AI or There's so many different um routs

0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:55.640
<v Speaker 1>that you can take to be um, to be noticed.

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:59.040
<v Speaker 1>So just just continue to believe in yourself prepared, and

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:02.200
<v Speaker 1>when you get that opportunity, be ready to show your

0:50:03.040 --> 0:50:05.759
<v Speaker 1>to show your skills. But you know, never never, never

0:50:05.960 --> 0:50:09.400
<v Speaker 1>think you're not gonna get an opportunity. You have a

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:12.200
<v Speaker 1>legacy on the field, London, what is the legacy that

0:50:12.320 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 1>you are creating? Now? My legacy is with my children.

0:50:17.080 --> 0:50:21.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's the That's the thing that when we're

0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:23.719
<v Speaker 1>when I'm done, when I'm gone, that's the thing that

0:50:23.840 --> 0:50:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, I have to be most concerned

0:50:28.480 --> 0:50:32.360
<v Speaker 1>with this my children, my three children, UM, my two girls,

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Page and Brooke and then my son. Still, what are

0:50:35.520 --> 0:50:38.879
<v Speaker 1>they gonna How will they be as adults? How will

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:43.480
<v Speaker 1>they be as um parents? You know what kind of

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:45.879
<v Speaker 1>things I can steal with them and steal in them

0:50:46.640 --> 0:50:50.319
<v Speaker 1>two um to hope that they're better people that they're

0:50:50.760 --> 0:50:54.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, doing the things that that I would be

0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:56.720
<v Speaker 1>proud of them. You know. That's that's really the legacy

0:50:56.760 --> 0:51:01.319
<v Speaker 1>that I think about most. You can write a letter

0:51:03.680 --> 0:51:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Charlotte Kramer and and the Swords. What would what would

0:51:07.000 --> 0:51:11.719
<v Speaker 1>you What would it contain? Well, at first, it would

0:51:11.719 --> 0:51:18.160
<v Speaker 1>contain just a gratitude, tremendous amount of gratitude and appreciation

0:51:18.280 --> 0:51:24.320
<v Speaker 1>for them carrying enough to to give back because it

0:51:24.440 --> 0:51:27.239
<v Speaker 1>wasn't something that they they had to do. It was

0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:32.160
<v Speaker 1>something that they wanted to do and for Mrs Kramer

0:51:32.239 --> 0:51:36.600
<v Speaker 1>too feel the the need to give back and say,

0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I want to be able to make

0:51:40.680 --> 0:51:44.200
<v Speaker 1>these kids lives better or help make these kids lives better,

0:51:45.040 --> 0:51:47.040
<v Speaker 1>just so it would be a tremendous amount of gratitude

0:51:47.080 --> 0:51:50.279
<v Speaker 1>and appreciation for it for though, because they didn't have

0:51:50.360 --> 0:51:52.360
<v Speaker 1>to do it, and and she chose to do it,

0:51:52.400 --> 0:51:53.920
<v Speaker 1>and they chose to do it, So it would just

0:51:54.000 --> 0:52:05.640
<v Speaker 1>be a tremendous amount of appreciation. London never missed a game. Now,

0:52:05.680 --> 0:52:08.240
<v Speaker 1>I know you missed some games, but were there times

0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:10.640
<v Speaker 1>where you just didn't feel it for whatever reason and

0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:14.040
<v Speaker 1>you played through it? Oh? Yeah, you feel it all

0:52:14.080 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the time. I wouldn't say necessarily because the injuries is

0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:20.200
<v Speaker 1>like it may be because of the way the season

0:52:20.320 --> 0:52:24.360
<v Speaker 1>is going. Shoot, sometimes you don't feel it. You start

0:52:24.400 --> 0:52:26.200
<v Speaker 1>playing and all of a sudden, the game gets out

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:31.279
<v Speaker 1>of here really quickly. You're like, gracious, you look up. Yeah,

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:33.880
<v Speaker 1>it's still the first quarter. So do you have to do?

0:52:33.960 --> 0:52:37.040
<v Speaker 1>You have to fake it till you feel it almost can't.

0:52:37.480 --> 0:52:40.560
<v Speaker 1>You can't go across the middle faking it, right, That's

0:52:40.560 --> 0:52:43.640
<v Speaker 1>how you get out, and that's how you get your reaction.

0:52:43.760 --> 0:52:46.239
<v Speaker 1>Now you you don't, you don't do that. It's just

0:52:46.320 --> 0:52:48.440
<v Speaker 1>one of those things, just like any other job. Right,

0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:52.600
<v Speaker 1>It's it's tough, and you got a white Knucklet you

0:52:52.680 --> 0:52:55.840
<v Speaker 1>gotta figure it out and you gotta problem solve and

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:59.319
<v Speaker 1>go about your day. Um, there are factors on why

0:52:59.440 --> 0:53:02.960
<v Speaker 1>and how. There's nothing you can do about it. You

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:08.400
<v Speaker 1>are a unique person, you are well worth it, you

0:53:08.480 --> 0:53:13.239
<v Speaker 1>are competent and most of all, your lovable. I'm Steve

0:53:13.320 --> 0:53:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Smith Singer, I'm Gerard Little John and this is cut

0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:19.719
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