WEBVTT - What is "Western Chic"?? 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.240 Help We Suck At Being Newlywed? 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:05.600 With Dean Aungler, Haylen Miller, keys Ma, Jared Haven an 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:06.880 iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:10.840 What is going on? Everybody? Welcome to an all new 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:15.320 episode of Help We Suck At Being at Newlyweds? It's 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:21.040 yours truly Dean Michael Babies, joined by Kaylen Miller Babies 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:26.600 and Jared Jared What is Jared's middle name? Jared Babies 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:30.840 joining us from Rhode Island. Yeah, Judge, Jared Haven Babies. 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:34.879 I'll go about, Hey, Babies, what is your middle name? Actually? 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:36.720 While we're on the subject. 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.479 Matthew, So, anytime my mom was mad at me, it 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:39.560 was always Jared Matthew. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.240 Mat That's how I knew I did something wrong. You 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:43.360 want to know what makes us such great co hosts? 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:46.280 All three of us, we all have m middle names. 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.440 Marie Michael Matthew. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:50.199 We sure do. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:53.080 Marie Michael Matthew. That sounds like a Dave Matthew. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:53.880 That's a great name. 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:56.680 It sounds like a religious name or something. Marie Michael Matthew. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:59.360 I don't know, maybe not. Anyways, we got a great 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.279 episode for you guy, yes today. And why is that? 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:04.520 You might ask? Because it's just us talking, just talking 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:08.000 about our lives and Kaylin and I, well, I guess 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:09.680 we're going to record an episode next week. 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:11.640 But I keep thinking, this is episode where we can 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:13.759 talk about the whole wedding, because this is the last one. 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:15.920 But next week we can talk about it. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.080 No, no, no, not all the details and stuff. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:20.039 This is so much better. I got to make eye 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:23.200 contact with you. I really appreciate this setup, more so 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.800 for the listeners. I brought my own computer this time, 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:27.959 and I'm sitting at the same table as Kaylan, but 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.640 just on the opposite side of it, and I like 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:32.600 to be able to look at you. 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:37.399 It's good too, because technically speaking, Dean is super loud 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.160 and he bleeds into my mic. So it's great. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.559 Yes, and my eyes I'm not good at eye contact, 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.319 they wander, but I can make eye contact with you. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:45.200 Oh so this is good for me. 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:45.679 It's great. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:46.039 Yeah. 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.960 Anyways, It's like the difference between sitting on the same 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.040 side of the booth and sitting across from each other 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:51.480 at the booth. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.760 Yes, we're not same side boothers? Are you guys? 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:57.840 No? Who the hell is psychopaths are? I've done it? 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.280 He does it to switch it up and try to 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:00.280 be weird do it. 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:03.800 Sometimes I'll do it, like okay with Kayla and I 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:05.880 both like the booth and we hate the chairs. And 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.960 so if I really want the booth, but she really 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:10.000 wants the booth, theimmable sit in the booth. That's happened 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:10.520 a few times. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:11.600 Yeah, very rightly. 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:15.680 Sometimes like you need the booth, but the TV is 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:17.560 you can only watch the TV from sitting in the booth. 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.160 And there's a football game on and I have to 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:20.919 sit in the booth and watch the football game. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:24.280 So yeah, one time we walked into a restaurant and 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:27.440 every single person in this restaurant, it was the weirdest thing, 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.440 was sitting same booth and there were tape, there were 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:31.680 chairs on the opposite side. I'm like, what kind of 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:35.360 esther's kitchen in Vegas? Every single person I don't remember 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:36.120 that the weirdest thing. 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:38.880 That is strange. I got some wedding stuff. I got 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:41.840 my shirt, my belt buckles, it's something to get my 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:46.600 cowboy hat. Sabi need to do that. Nas. But next week, Jared, 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:48.760 are you are you coming to the wedding? 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:51.880 No, obviously not. We will not be there. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.920 Okay, okay, we. 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:58.400 Are svped, Yes, and we're all booked, we're ready to go. 0:02:58.520 --> 0:02:59.360 We have our. 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:03.680 I won't say what type of room it is because 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:05.120 I feel like that gives away a little bit of 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:05.640 the location. 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.280 Do you guys have your cowboy hats and cowboy boots ready? 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:09.440 No? 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:11.520 So, like it's not like a thing. Are we gonna 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:16.800 be wearing? Like because the attire rundown that we got 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:22.240 from your wedding planner, I would imagine. I did say 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:26.480 it was encouraged yep, not necessary mandatory, okay, because I 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:29.200 don't own anything like that now. I have boots, obviously, 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:30.760 cowboy boots I don't have. Do you know are you 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.079 gonna be wearing cowboy boots? 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:32.320 Is this? 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:33.520 Are you actually doing this? 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:35.960 I'm not a cowboy boot guy. I am going to 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:39.440 be wearing a hat that will resemble the cowboy aesthetic. 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.280 I'll be wearing a bolo tie and a belt buckle. 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:42.440 Yep. 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.360 The thing Jared is, you guys should really lean into this. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.600 It's a great opportunity. It's not. I don't want to 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.800 say it's like Halloween because that's degrading it a little bit, 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.119 but like it is an excuse to dress maybe out 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.280 of your comfort zone a little bit, get a little 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:59.000 creative with your outfits. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.360 Yeah, like the Yellowstone esthetic. 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:05.800 What about the wedding day, wedding day. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.160 If you want to. We went to a Colorado redding 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:10.920 wedding and a lot of people were wearing boots and hats. 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.360 If you want to, anything goes really, anything but jeans, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:15.840 anything but denim. We're good. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.159 Yeah. My friends called my friends from Colorado like, we're 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:23.480 asking for outfit advice because they live in the mountains, 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:25.839 and they're like, we know what mountain cheek is, but 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:28.000 mountain cheek to them is way different than mountain cheks 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:28.200 for you. 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:30.240 Yeah. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:33.040 I mean I'm kind of on their side because I agree. 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:35.200 But at the same time, I think the word cheek 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:38.320 alone indicates that it's a little more high brow than 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:40.200 than denim. Yeah. 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:45.560 So what do you wear with cowboy boots other than jeans? Oh? 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:48.120 You wear like, you know, your normal suit with cowboy 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:52.320 boots and a hat to make it more Colorado. Like 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:56.360 picture Yellowstone. How they dress up in Yellowstone is what 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:57.080 we're going for. 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.960 Kill them loves yellow Stone or having a Yellowstone themed wedding. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.600 Accept Beth's wedding, because Best's wedding was a little uh 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:04.840 like Vegas, that Beth, that Beth. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.200 Well, we got to get Costner at this wedding. I 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:11.039 don't watch Yellowstone, so I don't know how they dress up. 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:13.600 I guess I'm trying to think of, Like, honestly, the 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.760 first thing that came to my mind, yeah, was Back 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.920 to the Future three mm. And I'm like trying to 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:21.599 think about how they dressed it because that's when they 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.680 go to the Old West, Like, how the hell did 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:24.640 they dress up nicely? 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.240 Oh? Yeah, that's a good call. You could watch like 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.800 a couple episodes of West World. They they wear suits 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:30.040 in that. 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.240 Well, that's like eighteen hundreds, isn't it. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:35.120 It's the West. It's mountain cheek. I guess we're right. 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:36.640 Is it so an old Western wedding? Or is it 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:37.599 a mountain sheep wedding? 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:38.679 Not old Western? 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:39.440 Okay? Gotcha? 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.880 Kevin Costner and Yellowstone, he looks very handsome dressed up 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.080 in his suits. Most of the time they're wearing Dunham 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.880 on the farm or whatever you would call it. But 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:51.480 when they ranch, thank you. But when they're dressed up, 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:53.599 they've got the hats, they've got the boots, and they've 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:54.720 got the suits at all. 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:56.599 That's that's the boots in the suits. 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:01.200 So yeah, that's the aesthetic we're going. We'll see how 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:03.840 people show up. Are you looking it up right now? Oh? 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:05.800 I'm one hundred percent looking up. So they only they 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:09.359 have Costner. I see him in a cowboy hat and 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:12.520 a soup, but it's not a full body, which sucks. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.440 It's from the waist up, and I need to know 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:17.920 what he looks like from the waist down. Maybe I 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:20.760 should just google Kevin Costner Yellowstone waist down. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:21.960 See what comes up. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:25.080 I just started googling mountain chic and it auto correct 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.000 it's the mountain chicken. And the first thing that came 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.239 up was a frog. So that was so weird. 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:32.800 Mountain chickens are actually frogs. 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.360 Yeah, you heard it here first, Jared, you could borrow 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.080 a belt buckle if you if you'd like, I've got 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:41.919 a I've got an extra, so feel free to jump 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.760 on on the belt buckle bandwagon if you want. 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.960 Well, now I kind of want to buy a belt buckle. 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.640 It's a fun time to dress up, embrace your mountain. 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.120 Yeah. So, because I think it's different obviously for girls, 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:56.520 because Ashley can wear cowboy boots with a dress. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.159 Yeah, that's a that's a good look. 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:04.000 So I'm I'm, i'm we should be dressing up for 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.080 the wedding day, not just the wedding weekend, but like 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:09.400 the day of I'm showing up in a suit and 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.480 cowboy boots and Ashley's in a dressing cowboy boots. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.960 Is this accurate? Yeah? That sounds good to me. I'm 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.240 thinking like a nice I mean, obviously you're not gonna 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:19.640 go out and buy a whole new wardrobe for this, 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.880 but I'm thinking like a nice earth toned suit with 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:25.280 a white shirt, probably a bolo tie, but I don't 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:27.280 want too many bullet ties because I'm gonna be wearing 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:27.880 bolow ties. 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.680 I don't think I'm gonna wear a bolo tipe. 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.640 I've I've got extras if you want to borrow one, 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.200 but much appreciated. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:38.239 But like you guys are so you wearing cowboy boots 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:40.080 down the aisle bro No. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.480 No, no, no, I told you I can't wear cowboy boots. 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.000 My feet don't fit in cowboy boots. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:44.520 They make figs. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.240 No, no, nope. I got a weird bend in my 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:51.400 foot that onions or something bendings in my foot. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:53.080 I'm just trying to figure out what I should be 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:56.920 wearing for the wedding itself, because I might, like, you know, obviously, 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.280 I don't really venture out my comfort zone, so usually 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:03.760 I'll just be wearing, you know, suit, nice shoes. But 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.160 I guess I could try to wear cowboy boots, but 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:09.160 also I don't want to show up in cowboy boots. 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.720 And then everybody else is not wearing any cowboy boots 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:14.480 for the wedding, and I'm the jackass. 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.280 It's like legally Blonde, where she shows up to the 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:20.680 Halloween party dressed up and she's the only one. I was. 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:25.240 What was on yesterday? Mean Girls was on the other day, 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.880 and it was the scene where she dresses up to 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:32.840 the Halloween party and she's the like bride, you know, 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.440 vampire tracting his wife or whatever the hell she is, 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.400 and everybody else is just dressed like a slut. 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:40.960 There's two two types of girls on Halloween. I don't 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.000 remember what she says after that. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:43.480 Yeah, Mean Girls a great movie. 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:44.840 Yeah, what's new with you? 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:48.440 Jared? Ashley's very into the summer. I turned pretty. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.640 She's just getting into it for the first time. Oh, 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:54.400 she's obsessed oh my god, me too. I can't get 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:57.480 into TV shows. Because we've talked about this before. I 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:59.240 have a hard time watching more than like one or 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:01.480 two episodes because I just I'm like, Okay, yeah that 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:04.600 was good, and I can never watch it again. But 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.880 because I just can't invest that type of time. But 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:14.800 Ashley watched like the first i'm not joking four episodes, 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.600 so you're talking about, you know, almost four hours of 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:21.240 your life. She's like, this show sucks. I don't like 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.679 this show at all. Yeah, She's like, I'm going to 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:27.079 give up on it. I don't underststand why people like it. 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:28.560 It's just it's not my thing. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:29.280 I don't like it. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.040 I was like, all right, I'm sorry to hear that. 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:33.280 She's like, but I'm gonna so many people like it, 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.199 I'm going to keep trying. I'm like, this is why 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:38.000 I don't like TV shows, because you have to invest 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:42.080 so much time. And then, of course, episodes five or six, 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.400 whatever the hell it turned around for she was she 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:48.079 was like, Okay, got a lot better. And now she's 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:50.839 at the point where she's like, Jared, i can't tell 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.960 you how much I love this show. It's changing me 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.520 as a person, and I'm so glad I didn't give 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.080 up on it, and I was like, wow, that's a 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:58.760 big that's a big one to eighty right there. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:00.480 I don't know if it's changed me as a person, 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.200 but it is such a good show. And she has 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.280 to read the books after and then if she still 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:09.840 needs more, they have audio books read by the characters 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.719 from the show, so you just get like a different perspective. 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:13.480 If you already read the book. 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.600 Yeah, and you can read it again. You can't get enough. 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:17.400 I don't know why I can't get enough of it, 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:20.440 but it's so good and it's so precious and wholesome. 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:21.880 What is it called again? 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:23.200 The Summer I Turned pretty? 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:25.280 Wasn't that a movie that you watched? 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:26.760 It was the show that I watched. 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.440 There was like a movie. Oh maybe I'm thinking of 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.200 the boys I kissed before. Yeah. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.800 Yeah, it's the same author. So she wrote those books 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:36.280 and directed those movies, Jenny hann She. 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:40.280 Just made do a TikTok with some trending sound about 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:41.080 this is your. 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.800 Best this is your best look, Connie baby. 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:44.600 Yeah, this is your best look, Connie baby. 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.360 No, it's this is your look, Connie baby. Oh god, 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:48.559 it's such a good show. 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:50.520 Okay, well, if you're listening to this and you haven't 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.240 seen the Summer I Turn Pretty, what are you doing? 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:56.120 Finished this episode first, obviously, and then go watch BINJ. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:57.359 It'll take you. 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.240 You need to watch six episodes before it gets good. 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:03.440 I loved it immediately. I think it's cheesy. You guys 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:06.160 would hate it, but it is so freaking good. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.520 I was really glad that you could find a show 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:11.840 that you could appreciate that much. It's great, she says. 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:12.840 It makes her feel young. 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:16.520 Yes, that's it. It reminds you of falling in love 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.439 for the first time, having your first crush. I know, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:19.520 I'm passionate about this. 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.199 Media. It's good to see you do it. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.120 It just yeah, it reminds you of being young, being 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:29.800 fifteen and having your first crush, and then like growing 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:32.120 into a woman slowly, and you know, it's the summer 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.040 she turned pretty. So it's a summer like boys started 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:37.400 noticing her and the guy she loved forever started to 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:38.400 like her back. 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:39.880 Do you remember the summer you Turn Pretty? 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:40.600 No? 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:57.240 Maybe eighteen, Jerry, Do you remember the summer you Turn pretty? 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.320 I'm trying to think of like the first time where 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:03.959 I was like I feel confident about hitting on girls. 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:08.200 I don't think it was still college in high school. Yeah, 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.160 it was probably you know what, it was probably the 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:15.520 summer that I started dating my first girlfriend. So that 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:19.360 was when I was nineteen. I was feeling confident about myself. 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:19.920 Bloom. 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:23.040 My friend group like was working out. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:24.120 You know. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.320 I wasn't in high school anymore, so I still the 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:32.720 same friends, but I just felt more mature, I guess. 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:34.679 I guess it's just the as you grow older, you 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.400 start becoming more comfortable with yourself. And that was the 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:41.040 first summer I remember feeling good, feeling good about me 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:42.280 with the opposite sex. 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:47.000 What the hell? Yeah, so this is two thousand and. 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:51.000 Nine. I think the summer of two thousand and nine 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.920 is the summer that I turned pretty. I think that 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.720 was it, right there, Dean, What about you? 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:59.800 Mine? I think came into two stages. I think the 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.719 summer I started feeling pretty. I remember I got back 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.720 from I think it was between freshman and sophomo year 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.240 of high school. I got back to school and I 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:08.599 had hit a growth spurt and I was always a 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.440 little chunky when I was under like a toddler, Not 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.240 a toddler, but like you know, up until I was thirteen, 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.800 I hit a growth spurt, gain like four inches over summer, 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:19.880 so my my body fat just spread out amongst the height, 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:22.080 which was good. And I remember this girl that I 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:23.880 was good friends with told me I looked really skinny, 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:25.480 and I was like, wow, I've never been told I 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.480 looked skinny before. So that was like the first step. 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:31.200 And then the second step was when I went to college. 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:36.640 And in high school, everyone knew about my my testicular mutilation. 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:41.200 And everyone in high school remember, yeah. 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.240 Well not remembered, but it's like a small town. Everyone 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:47.600 you know, shares stories. I was too scared to stand 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.439 up for myself and be like, no, it's normal down 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:52.400 there problem, and so like they would just talk about it, 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:53.880 I'd be like I would just get clam up and 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:55.400 get all the nervous. But when I went to college, 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.240 it was like a whole new place because no one 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:00.559 knew any of that backstory. Not that I affected me 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:01.880 in any way, but there was like that you know, 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:02.760 dark cloud. 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:06.040 Kind of over or maybe nobody remembered or thought about it, 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:07.920 but you just thought everyone was thinking right, and. 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:09.760 You're probably so right, like it probably was a bigger 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.280 deal to me than it was to anyone else. But 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.600 I do think that was like a barrier because some 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:17.640 girls were probably like, oh, that guy, he got stitches 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:21.520 on his testicles one time, I'm nice going anywhere near him. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.080 And so when I went to college, no one knew 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:24.680 that story, and so it was like a whole new man. 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.800 So that was the first summer was two thousand and six, 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:31.120 and the second summer was twenty ten. Wow. Yeah, I 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:31.440 love that. 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:32.280 You guys remember that. 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.760 Yeah. I guess it's maybe more of a turning point 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.120 for men, because it's just we can feel it a 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:39.840 little bit more because as a girl you're probably getting 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:41.760 attention from anyone anyways, but as a guy, it's like 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.440 you really have to either be more confident in your 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:47.920 approach or just look good enough. And guys or maybe 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:49.160 our later bloomers for that. 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:53.480 No, I think. I remember I had this crush for 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:55.720 so long and he never gave me the time of day, 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:59.000 like ever, never cared about me. And then it wasn't 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:02.280 until I got off the batch that we met up 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:04.800 for coffee or something, and that was the first time 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.240 he was like, oh, like, I'll finally give you attention, 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:10.000 And I was like honestly, I'm not interested, Like you're 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:10.640 kind of a loser. 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:12.960 Yeah, screw him. He said that I'll finally give you attention. 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.280 No, but you could see he finally asked me out 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:17.400 on a date, and I was like, you're stuck in 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:20.040 the hometown. You never left, Like, I'm good, you want 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:20.160 to know. 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:21.520 Twenty I was just talking to my buddy because I 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:24.160 was back in my hometown last week climbing mountains and 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:27.360 I was talking to about it, and because he lives 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:28.920 in the town that we grew up in, still small 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:33.480 town obviously in Colorado, and I always when I moved 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.480 to Denver and then moved to Los Angeles, I always 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:38.040 like looked at the people that lived in the town 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.360 and I was like, you never got away, Like that 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.880 stinks for you. You're missing out on so much of 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:45.160 this world. But now that I'm thirty two, all I 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.760 could possibly want is to move back to my small hometown. 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:49.520 And I was telling him that I was like, from 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:52.400 twenty two to twenty eight, I was like happy to 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:53.960 have gotten out, But now at thirty two, all I 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:54.800 want to do is get back. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:55.120 Yeah. 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:55.920 Kind of interesting. 0:15:56.000 --> 0:15:57.960 We'll get back there one day, but not my hometown. 0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:58.720 My hometowns. 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:04.440 We'll stay far away from Richmond, Frederick, I was going 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.800 to say Frankfurt. I knew that wasn't right, and so 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:10.320 I just I just I went. I went into panic mode, 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:14.160 and I said, I said Frederickson. No, I said Richmond, Alexandria, 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:17.600 somewhere in Virginia. But yeah, one of these days we'll 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:19.640 move back. But yeah, but. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.840 Anyways, I don't think I turned pretty until college. Is 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:23.560 my long story. 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:24.880 I saw a picture of you as a as a 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:25.560 cute little kid. 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:27.440 Yeah, I was cute as a kid, and then middle 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:29.320 school rough, high school rough. 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.240 Yeah, but I bet you like everyone is rough in 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:32.920 middle school. 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:33.080 No. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:34.760 You know why it was rough is because in middle 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:39.000 school or freshman year of high school, I overpucked. I 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:43.080 was in one of those like magnified mirrors, started plucking 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.440 my eyebrows and then I plucked, so my eyebrow didn't 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.720 start until where my pupil is. So I just had 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:50.000 a little sliver all throughout high school. 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:51.680 Yeah, but I met you like that was the style 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:52.760 and everyone else was. 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.440