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Speaker 1: What app it's lip service. I mean, like, ye, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Jordie jor I'm Jazzmine Brand.

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Speaker 3: The keen ones Kaiser Kaiser a ka Kai for the

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Speaker 3: rest of this episode. That's why do you prefer Kai

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Speaker 3: over Kaiser over Kaiser Ganjas You pronounced.

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Speaker 2: It right, Okay, it's just easier. I mean everyone is

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Speaker 2: just yeah, So we did.

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Speaker 4: We did hear some of four different appreciations of it

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Speaker 4: throughout the let's looking to see make sure we said it.

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize that Ray was her, that it was

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Speaker 1: Kaiser Ray. I thought that. But it's a beautiful name.

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Speaker 4: Though.

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Speaker 3: What I will say is very googleable. You don't have

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Speaker 3: to worry about somebody else, like a different Kaiser.

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Speaker 2: I will say, I've googled myself like a couple of times.

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Speaker 2: I just typing like k y us and then like

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Speaker 2: the that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, there's a lot of Angela Yees out there, Yes,

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Speaker 3: but you probably first do I. Okay, I'm gonna be honestly.

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Speaker 3: I think there's like some boxer or something named Angela Yee,

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Speaker 3: and then there was too, and then there was a

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Speaker 3: doctor Angela Yee because I think he's like a super

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Speaker 3: popular Chinese name.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was just thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: I can feel what is just a dude who's in jail?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's not you.

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Speaker 5: First is I'm a comedian, Like, there you go, so

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Speaker 5: I go first.

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Speaker 6: There's a rapper named Jordany Manuel.

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Speaker 5: Oh really really is he good?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I haven't listened, but sometimes i'll get his Google alerts. Well,

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Speaker 3: this is the only Kaiser gon Jasic right here, so

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Speaker 3: right only, and.

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Speaker 1: We love that for you.

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Speaker 3: But what we also love and you're on this count

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Speaker 3: with with our girl Jordie Jour, is that you are currently.

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Speaker 1: In Playboy magazine as a playmate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The first, the first w.

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Speaker 3: N B A and now you're playing for AU right,

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Speaker 3: but the first active professional women's basketball player and Playboy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited about it.

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Speaker 1: So is everyone.

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Speaker 2: They When they asked me to do it, I was

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Speaker 2: But you know the famous words of Kim Kardashian, it's iconic,

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Speaker 2: and I love to do iconic shipkay. I had to.

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Speaker 2: Honestly though, I had to to do my research to

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Speaker 2: see who all had shot before, you know, also to

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, okay, I looked all the way back

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Speaker 5: Bad she did it.

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Speaker 2: And I looked up. I looked up like athletes that shot.

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Speaker 2: I think there was like one Olympian, but like no

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, when it's all said and done, my

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Speaker 3: And yeah, and this was announced a while ago, but

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Speaker 3: now the magazine is finally out.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen it yet, so maybe like it's different.

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Speaker 7: Images though, right, uh yeah, okay, look amazing.

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Speaker 2: I am the the images that the two that they

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Speaker 2: of Playmate are not the ones that are in the magazine. Okay, baby, Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 4: A did you get final say on like what type

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's editorial, the way editorial works you show up,

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Speaker 2: you do your job.

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Speaker 2: But because you know, it is a kind of monumental

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Speaker 6: Did you go full nude? Full frontal? Because we couldn't

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Speaker 2: Guess you have to see.

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Speaker 6: It was good.

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Speaker 3: It was good, you know, Like you said, it's one

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Speaker 3: coming back from not being nude to then going back nude.

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Speaker 6: So I had to be like.

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Speaker 5: So did you do what?

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Speaker 2: Did I never saw?

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Speaker 1: So did you join? That's really good? Yeah, everyone's but

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Speaker 1: did you do everything?

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Speaker 6: Except no crotch?

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Speaker 1: That was my rule.

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Speaker 3: I don't want any crotch boobs. It's fine, but.

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Speaker 1: What is it about crotch that bad? As you?

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Speaker 3: I just wanted something to be sacred just to me,

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Speaker 3: and I feel like that's my whole birth canal.

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Speaker 6: You don't need to see that when.

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Speaker 3: You sit whole that we're going to say.

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Speaker 2: Second, I didn't. I didn't show either. Yeah did it

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Speaker 6: Full bush and everything.

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Speaker 2: I was happy, Like one thing like about mine the

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Speaker 2: photographer that shot me the same as stuff like that's.

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Speaker 1: What shot mine?

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, you weren't you know? You were

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Speaker 2: actually the now no wonder why you look familiar? You

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he was like they did the aesthetic. They're like,

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Speaker 2: you have a very like nineties aesthetic, and so all

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Speaker 2: of my images are very like yellow old image type

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely gave a vintage.

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Speaker 7: Were you afraid to act to tell anyone in your

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Speaker 2: So I did ask my mom for permission. It's the

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Speaker 7: What your mom say?

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Speaker 2: She said, girl, if you don't turn around and shoot

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Speaker 1: What was your dms looking like?

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Speaker 5: Always watch?

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Speaker 1: They were always wild?

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Speaker 2: No, I believe people think so, but like no, people

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Speaker 5: That's interesting.

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Speaker 1: No, No, just because I know men.

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Speaker 2: Will I will say what I what I have heard

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Speaker 5: Sports more so that might be I didn't think about that. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I will say though, that the high profile relationships that

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Speaker 3: it kind of felt like, Okay, he stepped it up,

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Speaker 1: That was the view that we had, you know, when

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Speaker 2: I always like to increase. Yeah, but also to for myself.

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Speaker 2: You know, I take a lot of pride in not

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Speaker 1: And I don't improved your life you know so much too, Like, yes,

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Speaker 1: are you single? Now?

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Speaker 2: Are you dating? Which I'm very single?

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Speaker 6: Do you want to be if you want to be

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Speaker 2: I mean who doesn't want to date. But at the

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Speaker 2: I just turned you know, twenty eight a few months ago,

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Speaker 5: Do you regret having them public or do you think

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Speaker 2: I mean, when you look back at your life, you

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Speaker 2: learn to accept what your journey has been. Where would

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Speaker 2: I have done some things differently, Absolutely, But at the

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Speaker 3: You know, period, What do you think you learned if

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've I've learned about me more than anything than

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Speaker 2: about men, I would say, knowing who Kaiser is and

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Speaker 2: But I think in the relationships that I have had,

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Speaker 2: I am a professional. You know, I've been accustomed to

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want to marry a you know,

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Speaker 2: I want to be a professional basketball player. I have

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Speaker 2: my own dreams, and that's why no matter what life

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Speaker 3: And so yeah, you know, you do come from a

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Speaker 1: What type of pressure is that for you? Was that

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Speaker 3: Because I have to imagine that growing up in that household,

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Speaker 3: from a young age, you put a lot of pressure

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Speaker 2: It was fun for me. I'm a leo okay something

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Speaker 2: But I feel like everybody played that. Everyone, Yeah, this

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Speaker 6: You were giving looks you still do.

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Speaker 3: I love you and Colins that you put together. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Know it's I think that and like I said, I

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Speaker 6: But I hear you though, because I did a show.

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Speaker 3: I did a reality show, and I felt like summer

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Speaker 3: With only fans, because I do know, like I had

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Speaker 3: She's also very voluptuous, like she might have on like,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, girl'll get your money.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I mean, but she's like I said again,

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Speaker 2: there's a lot, but you know, it's.

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Speaker 2: What I mean, But it's it's never it's never enough.

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Speaker 2: It's never enough. A woman's confidence only highlights everyone else's

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Speaker 3: And like you said earlier, and I know you tested

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Speaker 1: So what has that healing process been like for you?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Beautiful, ugly every emotion, but worth it honestly. Like I said,

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Speaker 2: like my undivided attention to re get back to my

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Speaker 3: I said, your family was ready to roll out too, like,

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Speaker 3: because something like that ends up.

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Speaker 1: Being public, whether or not you wanted to.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes we feel bad about somebody doing something to us,

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Speaker 3: physically to me, But somehow you become like the bad person.

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00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 9: Yeah.

444
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 2: Well, I mean one thing I will say is, and

445
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:35,919
Speaker 2: I'm still learning. I've taken pride in becoming someone's like

446
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: safe haven because I know who I serve is gonna

447
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 2: bless and give his favor on me regardless, Right, So

448
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: I don't need to defame someone else's character in order

449
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 2: to make myself look better. I know who I am,

450
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 2: you know, and at the end of the day, even

451
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,479
Speaker 2: though I am a public figure and I have been

452
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: in public relationships. You guys know who I date, but

453
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 2: y'all don't know my business. And there's a beauty in

454
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: that mystery. You know, a lot of people open themselves

455
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: up too much where they make people a part of

456
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 2: their relationship and it only takes two to tango, but

457
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: everybody's dancing with you, and you mad because you gave

458
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 2: the invite. I don't do that. So, yeah, have I

459
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 2: been in situations where I'm like, why did that have

460
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 2: to be seen? But at the same time, I'm like, Okay, God,

461
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 2: you're using me because you're making my trauma become a testimony,

462
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: and that's why I needed to happen. And also at

463
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: the same time like the fact that he was able

464
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: to carve out and multiply the things that I wanted

465
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: and the desires of my heart on top of that.

466
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 2: That's why I'm grateful in a sense. I know everyone

467
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 2: would probably look at me like, and I love my women, right, Like,

468
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 2: I never want to portray the wrong message. But at

469
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: the same time, I do respect any decision we as women,

470
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: we feel like we need to make to protect ourselves.

471
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 2: And like I said, you know earlier, I've worked too

472
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,719
Speaker 2: hard on my craft to become someone to let it

473
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 2: be robbed in a moment, and so I had to,

474
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 2: you know, always think about my future, the next move,

475
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 2: and and that's what I'm going to continue to do.

476
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: But it's it's a it's a learning lesson. Yeah, you

477
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: pay attention to the red flags before you get there.

478
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 2: And even my own, right, what are your red flags?

479
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: If you had to say, we had to we were

480
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 3: critiquing ourselves, Yeah, what would.

481
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: You say are archives red flags?

482
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 2: I would I would say for me in terms if

483
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: we're talking about relationships, I would, Uh, I'll take ownership.

484
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 2: I sometimes I get a little selfish, not for the

485
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 2: wrong reasons, it's interpreted the wrong way. I see you,

486
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: and I see your success, and I see the heights

487
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 2: that you are in your career. There's that test sat

488
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 2: surround that comes out of me. It's like, okay, I

489
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: need mine to so. But it's a healthy competition and

490
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: that I've heard that like I feel like I'm competing

491
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: against my woman. I'm like, no, you're looking at it

492
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: the wrong way. You're inspiring me to go harder because

493
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be someone that's gonna just sit on

494
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,719
Speaker 2: the couch and wait until you provide me a surface

495
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 2: level lifestyle. The cost of me waking up every day

496
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 2: and not living in my purpose is way more expensive

497
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 2: than that. So I would say that's been a red

498
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 2: flag for me. But it's also not a downfall either.

499
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 2: It's it's made me learn to operate more in my

500
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: femininity and you know, and to not portray this dominant

501
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 2: masculine energy. I can still be soft and still be graceful,

502
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 2: but still set my boundaries with Hey, I appreciate you.

503
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: But again, like I said, that's why I want that partnership.

504
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: I think a lot of men in society today, especially

505
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 2: like I can only say athletes, right, and I've said

506
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 2: it in my relationship. I'm like, you want to pett

507
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 2: Yeah you don't. It's uncomfortable for you to be challenged

508
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: because you don't have a lot of people around you

509
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: that challenge you because you've amounted yes.

510
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: You're even dating, I'm sure like a lot of times guys,

511
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: you know, they'll date women who are more like available cateren.

512
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: And that's also a ref like mine as well, like

513
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: I'm not as available. I'm available for you emotionally, spiritually

514
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 2: and all those things, but no, I will not be

515
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: at every outing, every setting of yours. I mean, and

516
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: I can be, you know, I own that. I'm like,

517
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 2: you want me to come to your your games, I

518
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 2: want you to come to my games. I want to

519
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 2: have something to offer, right, you know. And so I

520
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: guess that is the Leo side of me, that is competitive.

521
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: That's the side that people don't see because they only

522
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:53,479
Speaker 2: see the arm candy side of it. But behind closed doors,

523
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 2: you get to see the depths of people's insecurities and

524
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 2: the images they put up and the things that from

525
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 2: the outside looking in you won't you wouldn't know because

526
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: they've amounted to a certain amount of success that somewhere

527
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: they've you know, misconstruted and to start categorizing their personal

528
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 2: lives based off of what they what they do, and

529
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 2: it's completely different. Who I am performing my craft is

530
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: completely different from who I am in my personal life,

531
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: and sometimes that gets overshadowed because that identity becomes one

532
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 2: I don't know if that makes sense.

533
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: I was talking with this couple yesterday about just like

534
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 3: how their family dynamic played into their relationships later in life. Yeah,

535
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 3: and thinking about like how you were raised and how

536
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 3: your relationship with like your parents, your brother, your sister,

537
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 3: all of that plays into who you are in a relationship.

538
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, how would you say, like your household.

539
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 3: Contributes to who you are on a personal level with

540
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: a significant other.

541
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 2: I mean, well, me coming from a dominant basketball lineage.

542
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: My mother she won a national champion and ship. You know,

543
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 2: my dad was a professional athlete, so there was a

544
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 2: happy medium, you know. But I've also watched my mom

545
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 2: raise us and make sure we went to school and

546
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 2: we got our degrees, and you know, none of us

547
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: had to pay for college, and my dad took care

548
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: of the basketball aspect, and I didn't think that how

549
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 2: important it was the young woman, it was being the athlete,

550
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: until I've gotten older and I'm like, wow, my mom,

551
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: she put in some serious work, you know, behind closed doors,

552
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 2: you know, because you only look at the surface. And

553
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 2: so I've had the best of both worlds. I feel like,

554
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: in a sense, my dad he's, you know, Caucasian Polish,

555
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 2: but my mom's side, you know, dominant black woman, you know.

556
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: And so how did they get together?

557
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: She it's funny she's saying the national anthem at his

558
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,239
Speaker 2: game because she came walking out in a catsuit and

559
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 2: she said he was She was like, every shot that

560
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: he shot that game, he was looking at her. She

561
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: said that was the swaggiest confident white man. And she

562
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: was like, and that was her first white guy she

563
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: ever dated. And less it stops here. I don't have

564
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: a preference, but I want some nice, little mixed, colorful

565
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: baby never gated away guys, I haven't, but I'm gonna

566
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: be honest with you. I'm open to anything at this point,

567
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,719
Speaker 2: you know, because I realized I'm not physically as attracted

568
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 2: to men anymore. Like I want my mind to be simulated,

569
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 2: and that doesn't come with race.

570
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, so what kind of man do you have

571
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 7: in mind?

572
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: Would you need to be a woman too?

573
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, could be a woman.

574
00:29:52,880 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 8: No, I think women are beautiful, now me too, cruise together. Yeah,

575
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 8: I mean I think women are very beautiful, but one

576
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 8: one obviously underneath the direction of God. This is most

577
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 8: important for me. But I do believe that men are

578
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 8: supposed to be leaders. But at the same time, I

579
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 8: have to trust to be led properly.

580
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's hard.

581
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and don't leave me off, no cliff there. Even

582
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: you know, even though I've been around successful men, I

583
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 2: haven't been led properly. I've been led in some wrong directions.

584
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 5: Are you on like the apps and stuff? Or you

585
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 5: just like that?

586
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

587
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 5: Not that.

588
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 2: It would be nice to organically meet someone like I,

589
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: But where do you do that? It's funny that I

590
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 2: say that because the moment, like if I go sit

591
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: at a bar and someone like tries, I'm like young,

592
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: but I'm like but it goes to show like that's

593
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 2: we've lost that we don't know how to like socialize

594
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 2: anymore because we're so used to like being like my

595
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: picture or he's sent a DM like we don't know

596
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 2: how to interact organically.

597
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 3: And every look at a km's phone, somebody's popping up

598
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 3: on the app.

599
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 5: Have a lot of apps.

600
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you have your notifications.

601
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 5: Somebody radio. I couldn't be organic people. But I'm out

602
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 5: and about in the spaces.

603
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 3: Remember he's not going to parties and he has how

604
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 3: many shows all the time?

605
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: These people, yes, but straight people in the audience.

606
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 7: Okay, gay people do.

607
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 5: But I don't like hooking up with fans.

608
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I feel about that.

609
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 3: What if somebody comes to like a game and they're like,

610
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 3: you know, that's how I look, that's how your parents

611
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 3: mett But they were both working though. But I want

612
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: to say, like, when you think about fans and people

613
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: like knowing who you are already is.

614
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 2: That No, it doesn't. It doesn't bother me. It doesn't,

615
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: you know, as long as that is not the intentionality

616
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 2: behind trying to interact with me, you know, I'm not

617
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: I would I would sit here and fabricated if I

618
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 2: were to say that if I were to ever, you know,

619
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 2: date another public figure, I would have no idea who

620
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 2: they are. But that doesn't matter to me. I don't

621
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: place the importance off on that. So as long as

622
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,959
Speaker 2: someone will look at me the same way, I'm open

623
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: to it. I just I just want a good man,

624
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: like what would be somebody I feel like, if I

625
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: have to tell you, then you don't need to you

626
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 2: don't need to come over here.

627
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: You know, what's the time that somebody has impressed you?

628
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 2: I can't think of too many times. No, it's do

629
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 2: people approach you a lot?

630
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 4: I feel like, because like you said earlier about you

631
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 4: kind of being into.

632
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: No they I mean I take I take responsibility in

633
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: that too, because I've I've learned the difference between less

634
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: and love. So if like off rip I, because I've

635
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: been able to identify it, I shut it down. I

636
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: know there's you know a lot of men that are

637
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: maybe fond of me, but they just want to be

638
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: able to have the experience to say I've had access

639
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: to her, and so I shut that down, you know,

640
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: through body language, through you know their verbiage. You know

641
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: I've learned, and so to sit here and say what

642
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: has impressed me, it's it's kind of weird to answer

643
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: that in the space that I am now, because what

644
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: used to impress me is like the bare minimum.

645
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 6: Now they got it.

646
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can think about like small things.

647
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 2: You know, sometimes it's a little well that is, that

648
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: is one of the things I will say, like someone

649
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 2: who pays attention and finds joy and paying attention to

650
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 2: the details of me. Right, So like prime example, if

651
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 2: I'm just and this is very small, if I'm just

652
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 2: sitting at dinner and you send over a drink, don't

653
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 2: send over a drink or send over a shot. If

654
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 2: you see me drinking a martini, send me in the martini.

655
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 3: That I don't send it just to you either, whoever

656
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 3: you're with, the whole table gets around, Please and thank you.

657
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: Bill was taken care of already.

658
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 7: That's so attractive.

659
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: It is, it is, you know. But nowadays that's too

660
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: much to ask for.

661
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people lack social skills

662
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 3: now too, just because because everybody's meeting each other and

663
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 3: dating in different ways and not necessarily like you said

664
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 3: in person.

665
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, one thing I will say that I'm

666
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: learning and to not take it so personal is like

667
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: if a guy approaches me in a certain way, that's

668
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: all he knows because he's doing it to other women

669
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 2: and so for some somehow, for him it's been accepted.

670
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: And now because it's not working on me. Oh she

671
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 2: suck up.

672
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 5: People still cack off. It has to work somebody something to.

673
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 7: Some man that will make adjustments. If you'd be like, no,

674
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 7: I'm not really with that. You got to do exizing,

675
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 7: but oh okay, Like yeah, no, I.

676
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: Don't want to train someone. I just want to just

677
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 2: be ready.

678
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 7: I feel you.

679
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 3: But everybody's different for everyone, right, because like you do

680
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 3: have to learn someone and learn like when one person

681
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 3: loves you may.

682
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 2: Not Yeah, like how I say I want a partnership,

683
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: I'm not naive to know that doesn't happen. Off rip,

684
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 2: that's something that's built, you know. But I'm not going

685
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 2: to continue to repeat myself about the details. You have

686
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 2: to be receptive, just like you want, you know, your

687
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 2: your woman to be receptive. You don't want to come

688
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: home and keep reminder, make up the bed, do the dishes,

689
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 2: do this, like like I don't want to remind you

690
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: take out the damn trash. There's nuts in the house.

691
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 5: You know, somebody.

692
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 2: I take out my own trust, you know?

693
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 4: Would you date someone to just this public? Would you

694
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 4: date someone that's like I don't want to say making

695
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 4: less than you, but like not not not like like

696
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 4: living on the streets, but just like a regular like

697
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 4: nine to five shift lead.

698
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 2: Type in trouble?

699
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 5: What exactly like Africa? I don't know, I thought.

700
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 3: Sorry everybody, I want to ask you this because we

701
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 3: know about two public relationships, But what don't we know

702
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 3: about as far as like people you've dated? Because those

703
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 3: are what we know because we've seen that that's the

704
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 3: only two relationships you've been.

705
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 2: In if you want to count my high school sweetheart,

706
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: But like anything before COVID doesn't count.

707
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: Wow, do you think that?

708
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 5: Like?

709
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: Would you date another NBA player another?

710
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: I wasn't supposed to date another one after the first one,

711
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: but it just happened.

712
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: But why would you say no to that?

713
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 9: Like?

714
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: Why would you say that? Because it's the same type

715
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: of feels?

716
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 2: I just I want something different. I just want something different.

717
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 2: If I want to expand my range and expreid my

718
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 2: you know, emotional intelligence and my wisdom, I have to

719
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 2: embark upon and experience something different.

720
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 3: Well, how did he approach you that made you give

721
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 3: it a chance? Then, since that wasn't what you were

722
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 3: looking for?

723
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: Timing God's timing.

724
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 9: I guys, you know I got caught.

725
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: You think you've been in love, not a healthy form

726
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: of it. Okay, yeah, not in a healthy way. But yeah,

727
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: I mean no, not yet.

728
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: Honestly, No, she's Jalo is older.

729
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: She said she ain't never been right.

730
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 2: I will say, I will say that someone has made

731
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: my heart soft after the relationship was over, because the

732
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: fact that I didn't hold resentment in my heart and

733
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: I still wanted you to still have a you know,

734
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 2: a great lifestyle, even if that is without me, and

735
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: I didn't want to take be the one to take

736
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 2: away your dreams and your gifts. I think that that's

737
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 2: probably the thing that I'm most proud of next when

738
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 2: I give my heart to someone, because we live in

739
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: a society where there's so many people whose hearts are

740
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: so hard, and we have all these rules about how

741
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 2: we should socialize. If someone doesn't text you first on

742
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 2: text background, if I want to talk to you, I'm

743
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 2: going to reach out. I'm going to give you a call.

744
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 2: You don't respond, It's okay. I'm not going to take

745
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 2: a person you're probably you're you know, you're probably busy.

746
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: I'm not going to start driving myself and saying with

747
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 2: the narrative in my head just because social media says,

748
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: this is what they're doing.

749
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 3: You do sometimes, Yeah, call you, you don't call me

750
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 3: back for I feel like if I'm somebody's like because

751
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 3: we had a conversation about this, but if somebody is

752
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 3: like really into me.

753
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: I think it shouldn't be more than a day of you.

754
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: Not absolutely, I mean I think I think that's the

755
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 2: beauty though, Like you were allowed to make up your

756
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 2: own rules. I think the problem is that we're so

757
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 2: many people are following everyone else's rules and you're not

758
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 2: dating them, you know, And so when you're first interacting

759
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 2: with someone, you can't place roles and responsibilities off someone

760
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 2: off rip. That's how you set yourself up for disappointment.

761
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 2: You know. You gotta allow things to just take its course.

762
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 3: I've always loved this saying you can never do the

763
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 3: wrong thing for the right person.

764
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:48,959
Speaker 1: Yeah.

765
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 3: So if you're aligned with something and it works for you,

766
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 3: then it might not work for anybody else.

767
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean personally, I don't want to talk to

768
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 2: someone all day every day. I got stuff I'm doing,

769
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: you know, two minutes just hearing your voice, Okay, Like

770
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 2: I don't want to be your first priority or your

771
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: second wow or your third. God should be one. What

772
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: you're choosing and chasing. Your dream should be second, your

773
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 2: family third, and then if you put me in the picture,

774
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: absolutely because.

775
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: Money.

776
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to check in. You gotta make sure

777
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: I'm good, like you know. But yeah, but you check it.

778
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 2: You check it with God on a daily basis.

779
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: You check it.

780
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 2: You check in with your job, you check in with

781
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: your family, and then you check in with you know.

782
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: I just think that especially for you, you understand that

783
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 3: because of your career and how that is to you.

784
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: Everybody's not like that.

785
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you make up your own rules.

786
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 9: You know.

787
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 2: I've had an experience where you know, someone is crashed

788
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 2: out because they're like you're chasing your dreams and their insecurities.

789
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 2: They're like, you're forgotten about me. No, I'm just trying

790
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: to build an empire for us. You know. It's not

791
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: one sided here, and so those type of things I

792
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: used to go over my head. I check in now

793
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 2: with myself, like, okay, let me take a step back,

794
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 2: let me acknowledge that I see you, check in with you,

795
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: and then go about my business. But I think too,

796
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 2: like that's why I said in my womanhood, because of

797
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 2: my trauma, I've become very emotional, you know, intelligent being

798
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 2: in a partnership, I would say, or even just a

799
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: very healthy relationship comes with the level of emotional discipline,

800
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 2: emotional wisdom. There's not a lot of people that have that.

801
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 2: You realize how just immature some people's minds are, and

802
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 2: that's okay. You just have to find your fit and

803
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 2: so to each just the own. Don't listen to me.

804
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: I don't know talking about crazy sign. I'm a sage.

805
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: You're a fire sign. That's understandable.

806
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: We're Cameracorn's over here.

807
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, scorpio. Well, I mean the fixed signs. We're

808
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: fixed signs.

809
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 5: What does that mean?

810
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: Very stubborn independent?

811
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, facts were cardinal.

812
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen.

813
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 3: So this new season, Athletes Unlimited, tell us about that,

814
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 3: because that's in February, the new season starts, So talk

815
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: to us about this.

816
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited. It's a it's a league where pretty

817
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: much it gives opportunity for all the w n b

818
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: A players to play in before the actual like w

819
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 2: season because of playing overseas and those type of things.

820
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 2: In the situations that have occurred over there. You look

821
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: at some of the stories that have you know, been present,

822
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 2: you know, Britty Grinder and those type of things, and

823
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: so we've been you know, using our voice to find

824
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 2: platforms that we can have here where we can still

825
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,280
Speaker 2: be able to work on our craft and the off season,

826
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 2: but still get paid to do so. And so I'm

827
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,959
Speaker 2: excited to do it. I mean everyone has always said

828
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 2: if I wanted to take Basketball Series into the next level,

829
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 2: that I needed to play in the off season instead

830
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 2: of just training. So I'm happy to just kind of

831
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 2: be back around the girls again, the basketball community. And

832
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 2: they just announced that they signed a partnership with ESPN,

833
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 2: so like all of our games will be on ESPN.

834
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 2: I love that. So I'm really excited.

835
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 1: You're the name.

836
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 3: I feel like that's like kind of driving it.

837
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: I mean, all of us are, you know. I'm happy

838
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: that they gave me the opportunity. I'm humble, truly, like

839
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 2: I am. I've been I've been working my ass off

840
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 2: behind closed doors, so I'll be ready when the time comes.

841
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: And aside from all of these, like, what else are

842
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 3: your passions? I know, basketball modeling, fashion, which you've been

843
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 3: killing it in. Have you ever diated somebody that didn't

844
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 3: like what you had on and was like, I think

845
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:12,760
Speaker 3: that's too absolutely risque. What's the balance there and taking

846
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 3: into consideration.

847
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: I would never say someone told me if I had something,

848
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 2: I'm risky, but they definitely corrected me. Like you can

849
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:27,399
Speaker 2: do better well a fly enough to each just to own.

850
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: Do you appreciate that or do you feel like, no, okay, there's.

851
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 2: A way to do it. But no, not in not

852
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 2: in my past experience.

853
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 8: No.

854
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 4: As someone who is a model but also an athlete,

855
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 4: do you feel a pressure to be more, like, more

856
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 4: dressed up when you're out in public, even if you're.

857
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: Going to like, No, not at all. I think it's

858
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: funny because when I first started miling, it was hard

859
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,479
Speaker 2: for me to tap into different characters. I just wanted

860
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: to be myself. But as you know, I've gotten a

861
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 2: little bit, you know, more comfortable with it. People are

862
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 2: forgetting that I don't look like that all the time.

863
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 2: So what you see on a red carpet, what you

864
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 2: see in a magazine, Like, I don't dress like that

865
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: all the time. I'm still in my Olivia Pope bag

866
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: every day. But it's just like you guys don't get

867
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 2: to see that fast. You just see what you pick up.

868
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 2: So I enjoy more being just my authentic self as

869
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 2: much as I can away from all that. But I

870
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 2: definitely will say fashion has taught me the depths of

871
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 2: the level of comfort and being a woman that basketball

872
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 2: probably would have never taught me. You know, there is

873
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 2: a difference.

874
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's a great time for that too.

875
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just want to say, like, I love to

876
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 3: see where women's basketball has been, just the way that

877
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 3: it's been thriving, growing, And also I think NIA has

878
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 3: played a huge part in that too, knowing that these

879
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 3: people that make more money from those deals and even

880
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 3: their salaries.

881
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 2: You know. And I think the narrative that comes with

882
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 2: that is like, well, you know, women sexualize themselves because

883
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 2: sex cells like no if my aesthetic, my aura, my attire,

884
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 2: you know cells that's strictly solely off of the consumer

885
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 2: base that happens.

886
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 3: I want to say, with men, they'll do like underwear deals,

887
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 3: and to be honest, like, for for you and for

888
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 3: a lot of women, part of the job is working

889
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 3: out all the time, and your God is a large

890
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 3: part of Yeah.

891
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: I mean, but if you if you think about what

892
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: the illusion has been for a female athlete, and then

893
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 2: especially just for a basketball player when you see them

894
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 2: outside of shorts in a jersey, it's.

895
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: Like whoa, yea.

896
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: And I think people are still adjusting to that. I

897
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 2: think we're still adjusting, you know.

898
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 3: I remember there was that conversation. What I want to say,

899
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 3: was it Gilbert and Rainus? Who was it that was saying, well.

900
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 2: I want to see girls like playing thongs.

901
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: And that's how I was like, first.

902
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 5: Because they don't care about the sport.

903
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 4: Then because if if that's what you want to see,

904
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 4: you don't care about the sport, you just want to

905
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:09,919
Speaker 4: You just want naked women on the round.

906
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

907
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 3: I mean he was saying that's how you'll get people

908
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 3: to watch, or something like that like that.

909
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: That was basically do you think.

910
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 6: So people do?

911
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: Just be said they really do. But you know, I

912
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:22,760
Speaker 1: think that.

913
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 4: Sometimes if you want me to watch male basketball, put

914
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 4: them in a little shorts to that.

915
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: Watch watch it, then watch.

916
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 9: The ball.

917
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 4: If we want to make me watch sports, I want

918
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 4: skins and I'm only watching the skins.

919
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

920
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 3: Well on that note, but okay, so playboy, I love

921
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 3: that both you guys.

922
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: We wanted to make sure Jordan was here because I

923
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: know you're traveling, but I just know that moment.

924
00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 3: For me, I wore my Playboy pants. Well, her face

925
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 3: is on the pants.

926
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 6: Yes, there's.

927
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 3: What happens and what happens like once you do Playboy

928
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 3: And we were talking about this with Jordan, but like

929
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 3: what comes from that, Like what do you get after that?

930
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 3: Because I know there's financial and there's also appearances.

931
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 2: You know, ideally it would be nice to to turn

932
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 2: around and become Playmate of the Year. There I might

933
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: know someone, you know, there's that I don't. I don't

934
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 2: really know though, I'm still learning as this thing goes on,

935
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: you know, so we'll see.

936
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: I think you need like just like have her pictures

937
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,800
Speaker 1: on her jeans, you needed some merch. Yeah, that to

938
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: be amazing.

939
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the pictures that we've seen, you know the Yeah,

940
00:48:59,000 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 3: I think I could see that on.

941
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 6: Calendar.

942
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 2: You guys seen the picture, not all of you just

943
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 2: what was.

944
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: Released We didn't see. Whoam kidding? We see sire like,

945
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,919
Speaker 1: but these are safe for merch s.

946
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: Not all of them are not safe for mar Well, yeah,

947
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 2: that one's great.

948
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 6: This one's not safe.

949
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I think this one is beautiful.

950
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: I think this would be amazing on like you.

951
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 2: Know, it's it'll it'll be funny to see what people

952
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: if they bring the magazine like to the games.

953
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 3: We're definitely gonna get for signatures from everywhere.

954
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,399
Speaker 5: Hopefully, hopefully you have a signature. Is terrible, but hopefully.

955
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 3: It's got to be the T shirt. I can see

956
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 3: this is like, would be a great T shirt anybody,

957
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 3: This would be a great Yeah, and why wouldn't you?

958
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I'm like, yeah, even a tank top like

959
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 5: that would be.

960
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 1: Yes, that will work on it.

961
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 2: Maybe it will be one of my tone of looks

962
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: coming into the game.

963
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: You know that immediately talking about.

964
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:12,399
Speaker 6: Got to get the point.

965
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 3: So listen, so right now, like you said, if if

966
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 3: when Jordan first asked you, or I don't know if

967
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 3: it was Jazmine Jordan, if you wanted to be in

968
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 3: a relationship and you said, who wouldn't Is there anybody

969
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 3: that is like you're looking at that's especial that nobody

970
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 3: even you know, nobody's even stepped up.

971
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: No, I'm not. I'm not looking. I'm I'm letting it

972
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:36,240
Speaker 2: come and find me. You know, I'm operating like God's speed.

973
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 2: There's a lot of us out here that are operating

974
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:42,919
Speaker 2: at the pace of our ego. So I'm not rushing that.

975
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 2: I don't even have the capacity to be honest right now.

976
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 2: To try to work that into my lifestyle, it would

977
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 2: take someone very understanding and you know, emotionally mature.

978
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: You think you're closed off though.

979
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 2: No, okay, I'm not. It feels like you are.

980
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: Just that you said you.

981
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 5: Might just be close off to the to the interview,

982
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 5: to the public of like.

983
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 3: Because even like thinking about people in real life, she's

984
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 3: not gonna go on no apps, but if you approach

985
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 3: in real life, she's not.

986
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I am, I am open. I'm open.

987
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: Maybe references from friends.

988
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 3: I think that's always great because somebody trying to set

989
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 3: you up on a date.

990
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 2: Like it's it's it's happened.

991
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 3: But you know, if you have to describe the qualities

992
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 3: of somebody that you would even consider, you know, what

993
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 3: would those qualities be?

994
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: God fearing number one? Again, the emotional intelligence piece is

995
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: big for me, Like I want to be mentally stimulated.

996
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 2: I want to have like a mental orgasm and.

997
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 10: Then followed by but I want someone that is very

998
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:13,760
Speaker 10: secure in themselves and knows like who they are, uh,

999
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 10: takes accountability, but is open to growing.

1000
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to, you know, date some

1001
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: a man that thinks that he has maxed out of

1002
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: his lessons because of his masculinity. I want you to

1003
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 2: be able to still learn and teach me as well.

1004
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 3: So yeah, and esthetically you're you're just open short king.

1005
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 2: It would be it would be kind of harding, it

1006
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: would be kind of hard. I'm five to nine, Okay, Yeah,

1007
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 2: that's right.

1008
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 5: That's yeah, Okay, I'm five to seven.

1009
00:52:52,360 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: But it don't come up, well, you're not the one, yeah.

1010
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but we'll we'll see. I'm not in

1011
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 2: a rush.

1012
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 1: I definitely shouldn't be.

1013
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I wouldn't say I'm as guarded. Again, it's

1014
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 2: just when you get to a place in your life

1015
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: and you know what you want, like what you want,

1016
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 2: it's hard to be manipulated. And I'm running into that

1017
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 2: a lot that It's like, I don't even want to

1018
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 2: take the chance on her because she'll mess up, you know,

1019
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 2: and how I feel or you know, she not even

1020
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: on that type of time. I take that as a

1021
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 2: compliment though.

1022
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's good that you learn your lessons early and

1023
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 3: get them out the way too. I want to say that, yeah,

1024
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 3: because you don't want to learn them later in life

1025
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 3: and it's more disastrous like that.

1026
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it would be nice to attract someone older.

1027
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: I will say that, Okay, I will say that, Like

1028
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: my ideal dream date is like just going out to dinner,

1029
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 2: having a glass of wine and just having meaningful, in

1030
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 2: depth conversation. You know.

1031
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 5: That's what's your what do you older?

1032
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 8: Like?

1033
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 5: What rings do you think?

1034
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 4: Because you're twenty eight, so a lot of people everyone's so,

1035
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,760
Speaker 4: what's your what's like your peak age?

1036
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 7: Like no, no, no, you're no older than what?

1037
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 5: Older than than this?

1038
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: Sixty?

1039
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: I would say, like forty forty five.

1040
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 6: Okay, that's a good range.

1041
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, not older than your mom. Basically, like you do

1042
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: not be older than my basics.

1043
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: I still, even though I'm very attracted to the mind,

1044
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: I still want to be able to share moments with someone,

1045
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,839
Speaker 2: and so I don't want you to be turned around

1046
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 2: fall asleep.

1047
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, well, thank you so much Kaifa joining us today,

1048
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 3: and congratulations on everything.

1049
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you guys for having me.

1050
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 1: They wanted to pop this cheap bottom. We're not going

1051
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: to do that.

1052
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 3: We're not going to do that.

1053
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 6: But I want my addition signed.

1054
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I definite don't want that. We got to

1055
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: pop out on you.

1056
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I'm like, you know, like thank you connect

1057
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 2: with Shelle Young and you know if you're like, I'm nervous.

1058
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 1: Myself not all. Yeah, I mean I play. We're not

1059
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: gonna put out no bullshit either, Like they're.

1060
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 2: Not gonna I'm very confident. I'm very confident. I don't

1061
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,839
Speaker 2: I'm not nervous about what people are gonna say, like good,

1062
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 2: better and different.

1063
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: That's about to go crazy.

1064
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 5: They they're very well done.

1065
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: It's gonna goaz.

1066
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1067
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 3: Good concerning about like them forty fifty year olds is

1068
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 3: gonna come knock you.

1069
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 2: They shot back in my head, you know, hilarious.

1070
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. I appreciate you.

1071
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. It's kind of like you gotta

1072
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 2: put me on all the things.

1073
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 6: Yeah,